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		<title>By: WalMart Whale Fetishist</title>
		<link>http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/11/30/mixing-signals-to-dazzle-women/#comment-399682</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[WalMart Whale Fetishist]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Dec 2012 22:16:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The charm school-- all in the name of &quot;destroying pretty lies&quot;--continues! 
How _strong_ a man seems when he is insulting and brutal-- especially for no reason, from the safety of his jet-black &quot;gaming&quot; keyboard, built for high-velocity FPS. Creo, you are THAT manly man!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The charm school&#8211; all in the name of &#8220;destroying pretty lies&#8221;&#8211;continues!<br />
How _strong_ a man seems when he is insulting and brutal&#8211; especially for no reason, from the safety of his jet-black &#8220;gaming&#8221; keyboard, built for high-velocity FPS. Creo, you are THAT manly man!!!</p>
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		<title>By: The Pittsford Perennialist</title>
		<link>http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/11/30/mixing-signals-to-dazzle-women/#comment-392155</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[The Pittsford Perennialist]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Dec 2012 02:53:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tried this at work today with the young office hottie to great effect. [I&#039;m married, and not really interested in closing; of course this only heightens her attraction.] 

We had some private time together, and as it was ending I said slowly and seriously, &quot;There&#039;s something I&#039;ve been meaning to ask you for some time now.... When are you going to finish that story about your trip to _____ that you started telling me.&quot; She wouldn&#039;t leave my side even though she was late,  yapping on with her silly story while I pretending to listen and grunted a few times.

This stuff is fun. Wish I had known about it when I was single.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tried this at work today with the young office hottie to great effect. [I'm married, and not really interested in closing; of course this only heightens her attraction.] </p>
<p>We had some private time together, and as it was ending I said slowly and seriously, &#8220;There&#8217;s something I&#8217;ve been meaning to ask you for some time now&#8230;. When are you going to finish that story about your trip to _____ that you started telling me.&#8221; She wouldn&#8217;t leave my side even though she was late,  yapping on with her silly story while I pretending to listen and grunted a few times.</p>
<p>This stuff is fun. Wish I had known about it when I was single.</p>
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		<title>By: Alexander</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alexander]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2012 22:41:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We can go in circles like that all you want, no proof, just theories.
Maybe thin girl is more sexy than the fat girl of the same rating(would be same rating if the fat would have been thin), because the subconsciousness thinks like:This girl doesn&#039;t even has to be fat to feel secure about survival, she has other mechanisms(strong father, brother or so) which brings us to  good genes that she possesses, especially if her face is beautiful and body nice looking(the absence of the disease), so she&#039;s secure, slim and not threatened. Seems to me like a success.

Your story about gays; maybe that is a form of a practical partnership.
Note that in these &quot;relationships&quot; you always have muscular partner, and feminine partner. In some pairs it may not be so obvious, but i suspect it to be so anyway. Which would mean that they are not gays actually. They just live an illusion of relations with other sex.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We can go in circles like that all you want, no proof, just theories.<br />
Maybe thin girl is more sexy than the fat girl of the same rating(would be same rating if the fat would have been thin), because the subconsciousness thinks like:This girl doesn&#8217;t even has to be fat to feel secure about survival, she has other mechanisms(strong father, brother or so) which brings us to  good genes that she possesses, especially if her face is beautiful and body nice looking(the absence of the disease), so she&#8217;s secure, slim and not threatened. Seems to me like a success.</p>
<p>Your story about gays; maybe that is a form of a practical partnership.<br />
Note that in these &#8220;relationships&#8221; you always have muscular partner, and feminine partner. In some pairs it may not be so obvious, but i suspect it to be so anyway. Which would mean that they are not gays actually. They just live an illusion of relations with other sex.</p>
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		<title>By: Alexander</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alexander]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2012 22:08:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The upper class does, but why don&#039;t they profit the same way from the Asians when they immigrate?
You can get out from these clutches, no you actually must.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The upper class does, but why don&#8217;t they profit the same way from the Asians when they immigrate?<br />
You can get out from these clutches, no you actually must.</p>
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		<title>By: thwack</title>
		<link>http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/11/30/mixing-signals-to-dazzle-women/#comment-391961</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[thwack]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2012 20:35:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alex, you didn&#039;t answer the question (the jew force is strong in this one)

Let me ask you again:

Who benefits from the existence of niggers?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alex, you didn&#8217;t answer the question (the jew force is strong in this one)</p>
<p>Let me ask you again:</p>
<p>Who benefits from the existence of niggers?</p>
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		<title>By: Alexander</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alexander]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2012 19:01:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;That money wouldn&#039;t even exist without blacks.&quot; Not true. It would have been spent on something else, now we can speculate; would it be spent on preservation of whales in east China Sea, on unnecessary military/space programs, or something much more useful...

I think i get the problem of integration of blacks, but why don&#039;t you recapitulate them with your own words, so that we might &quot;get it right&quot;.
Is it that they don&#039;t want to give you jobs? Is it that they don&#039;t give you fine opportunities at education? 
Is it your subculture and cultural pressure from black community prevents you from doing anything useful in life? why don&#039;t you move from them? Isn&#039;t easy to do as it is to write, but if that&#039;s one of the main reasons...

You&#039;ve been slaves that shit is traumatic even long after it&#039;s been over, but you&#039;ve been in the States for 300 yrs and haven&#039;t managed to succeed, and adapt, how so? When Croats come to Germany, USA, Canada, Australia - which are alien to us starting from religion, to mentality(their is superior to ours), to values, and customs, we adapt within a generation, not even knowing a language of the land, do i need to mention our emigrants come to these lands with empty pockets? 

What&#039;s the deal? You could if you tried hard enough. 

What man must see though is a rise in private bussineses owned by blacks lately(90s and 2000s), is there finally a change taking place?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;That money wouldn&#8217;t even exist without blacks.&#8221; Not true. It would have been spent on something else, now we can speculate; would it be spent on preservation of whales in east China Sea, on unnecessary military/space programs, or something much more useful&#8230;</p>
<p>I think i get the problem of integration of blacks, but why don&#8217;t you recapitulate them with your own words, so that we might &#8220;get it right&#8221;.<br />
Is it that they don&#8217;t want to give you jobs? Is it that they don&#8217;t give you fine opportunities at education?<br />
Is it your subculture and cultural pressure from black community prevents you from doing anything useful in life? why don&#8217;t you move from them? Isn&#8217;t easy to do as it is to write, but if that&#8217;s one of the main reasons&#8230;</p>
<p>You&#8217;ve been slaves that shit is traumatic even long after it&#8217;s been over, but you&#8217;ve been in the States for 300 yrs and haven&#8217;t managed to succeed, and adapt, how so? When Croats come to Germany, USA, Canada, Australia &#8211; which are alien to us starting from religion, to mentality(their is superior to ours), to values, and customs, we adapt within a generation, not even knowing a language of the land, do i need to mention our emigrants come to these lands with empty pockets? </p>
<p>What&#8217;s the deal? You could if you tried hard enough. </p>
<p>What man must see though is a rise in private bussineses owned by blacks lately(90s and 2000s), is there finally a change taking place?</p>
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		<title>By: thwack</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2012 13:56:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yeah thats it, I described the &quot;bones&quot; and you put some flesh on it.

But the problem is, you still trying to blame niggers

I understand that white people like you can&#039;t help it; but thats exactly why the smartest most powerful white people use niggers to make money.

They know everybody is gonna focus on the black people as the SOURCE of all theft.

Its the perfect cloak.


&quot;you’re actually giving them their money back&quot;


Yeah, money that would not exist without niggers.


Ask yourself this question:

Who benefits from the existence of niggers?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah thats it, I described the &#8220;bones&#8221; and you put some flesh on it.</p>
<p>But the problem is, you still trying to blame niggers</p>
<p>I understand that white people like you can&#8217;t help it; but thats exactly why the smartest most powerful white people use niggers to make money.</p>
<p>They know everybody is gonna focus on the black people as the SOURCE of all theft.</p>
<p>Its the perfect cloak.</p>
<p>&#8220;you’re actually giving them their money back&#8221;</p>
<p>Yeah, money that would not exist without niggers.</p>
<p>Ask yourself this question:</p>
<p>Who benefits from the existence of niggers?</p>
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		<title>By: Nicole</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nicole]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2012 12:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Since it very seldom got to the point of impacting mobility or fertility, it&#039;s more like brainwashed by survival.

Fatness was (and to a degree, still is outside of highly industrialized areas) about class.  If you were carrying more weight than normal, it meant you came from a more successful family than normal.

The thing most fat women don&#039;t like to hear though, is that more fat means less vulnerability to the subconscious.  It&#039;s like you&#039;re walking around with a horde of microscopic bodyguards broadcasting, &quot;This person comes from a family that can afford lots of extra food and leisure time.&quot;  It means the same thing that politeness means in a man.

It is nobody&#039;s fault that these things are not generally sexually attractive to the masses when shopping for new mates, if left to make up their own minds.  When they said something that may be good about a person, what they were saying wasn&#039;t related to the sex.  So where sex and ego gratification are the most important things in dating, suitability signals that don&#039;t say that you&#039;ll be a good time fade in relevance.

So men have to be assholes to get laid, and women have to be skinny to be taken seriously in places where the game is about predator and prey.  A sort of saving grace for fat chicks is that some guys think that we&#039;re easier or maybe just less stuck up targets.

Love is something else.  I deign to use the word to describe practical attachment.  Men can be programmed or socially pressured to be practically attached to whatever they&#039;re told they should be regardless of natural, objective fitness, suitability, or beauty (or lack thereof).  The seemingly irrational spark though, will happen regardless of this.  Gay men throughout history are the most striking examples of this.  Their existence is proof that male sexuality and male love are not so easily chained or manipulated.

Trends may be whatever they are, and shift like the sands, but a man is pleased by whatever pleases him, and that&#039;s that.  You can bring a horse to water, and even force him to drink, but you can&#039;t make him want to.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since it very seldom got to the point of impacting mobility or fertility, it&#8217;s more like brainwashed by survival.</p>
<p>Fatness was (and to a degree, still is outside of highly industrialized areas) about class.  If you were carrying more weight than normal, it meant you came from a more successful family than normal.</p>
<p>The thing most fat women don&#8217;t like to hear though, is that more fat means less vulnerability to the subconscious.  It&#8217;s like you&#8217;re walking around with a horde of microscopic bodyguards broadcasting, &#8220;This person comes from a family that can afford lots of extra food and leisure time.&#8221;  It means the same thing that politeness means in a man.</p>
<p>It is nobody&#8217;s fault that these things are not generally sexually attractive to the masses when shopping for new mates, if left to make up their own minds.  When they said something that may be good about a person, what they were saying wasn&#8217;t related to the sex.  So where sex and ego gratification are the most important things in dating, suitability signals that don&#8217;t say that you&#8217;ll be a good time fade in relevance.</p>
<p>So men have to be assholes to get laid, and women have to be skinny to be taken seriously in places where the game is about predator and prey.  A sort of saving grace for fat chicks is that some guys think that we&#8217;re easier or maybe just less stuck up targets.</p>
<p>Love is something else.  I deign to use the word to describe practical attachment.  Men can be programmed or socially pressured to be practically attached to whatever they&#8217;re told they should be regardless of natural, objective fitness, suitability, or beauty (or lack thereof).  The seemingly irrational spark though, will happen regardless of this.  Gay men throughout history are the most striking examples of this.  Their existence is proof that male sexuality and male love are not so easily chained or manipulated.</p>
<p>Trends may be whatever they are, and shift like the sands, but a man is pleased by whatever pleases him, and that&#8217;s that.  You can bring a horse to water, and even force him to drink, but you can&#8217;t make him want to.</p>
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		<title>By: stevejabba</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2012 09:10:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Or you can just communicate whatever you are feeling in that moment...

Authenticity in and of itself has more value than any of this, to be honest.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Or you can just communicate whatever you are feeling in that moment&#8230;</p>
<p>Authenticity in and of itself has more value than any of this, to be honest.</p>
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		<title>By: Hugh G. Rection</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Hugh G. Rection]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2012 02:30:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#039;s good to be the King.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s good to be the King.</p>
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