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	<title>Comments on: Why Don&#8217;t Fathers Teach Their Sons Well?</title>
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		<title>By: Thor</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Thor]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2012 00:41:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some of us were born to fathers who lived in that different world, where
productive &quot;betas&quot; were respected and desired by women (including our mothers) and who were therefore naturally and innocently clueless about the vag/badboy revolution. This apples to dads born in the 20ies. Dads born after WWII onwards had a CHANCE to figure this out but most did not. Those are the true provider betas - not quite innocently clueless. 

Thor]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some of us were born to fathers who lived in that different world, where<br />
productive &#8220;betas&#8221; were respected and desired by women (including our mothers) and who were therefore naturally and innocently clueless about the vag/badboy revolution. This apples to dads born in the 20ies. Dads born after WWII onwards had a CHANCE to figure this out but most did not. Those are the true provider betas &#8211; not quite innocently clueless. </p>
<p>Thor</p>
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		<title>By: sandman</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[sandman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Dec 2012 19:45:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have learned the hard way - had an alpha mom and beta dad. My 11 year old son, though, has now been taught well and he will be scoring like no others in this sad beta male driven society. The 16 commandments of poon have been hardwired - this drives his mother nuts, btw ,but in order to retain the balance of power this need be done. I watch him with anticipation as his puberty awakens. Man, I wish my dad had taught me this! For those interested, I am still married to his mother - the molding is not yet complete but the process and direction are enjoyable and promising. Its amazing how they stay when you don&#039;t give a hoot if they come or go, or threaten, or whine, etc,etc,etc.!

Peace and stay the course....]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have learned the hard way &#8211; had an alpha mom and beta dad. My 11 year old son, though, has now been taught well and he will be scoring like no others in this sad beta male driven society. The 16 commandments of poon have been hardwired &#8211; this drives his mother nuts, btw ,but in order to retain the balance of power this need be done. I watch him with anticipation as his puberty awakens. Man, I wish my dad had taught me this! For those interested, I am still married to his mother &#8211; the molding is not yet complete but the process and direction are enjoyable and promising. Its amazing how they stay when you don&#8217;t give a hoot if they come or go, or threaten, or whine, etc,etc,etc.!</p>
<p>Peace and stay the course&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: immoralgables</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[immoralgables]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2012 00:16:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In my above comment I meant to say that this was my reaction after reading:

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my above comment I meant to say that this was my reaction after reading:</p>
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		<title>By: immoralgables</title>
		<link>http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/12/12/why-dont-fathers-teach-their-sons-well/#comment-397281</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[immoralgables]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2012 00:06:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nice Walawala.  These were my my thoughts &lt;/a&gt; after reading the end of your post.

What would you say are the main differences, if any, between Asian (Chinese?) women and the ones in the US?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice Walawala.  These were my my thoughts  after reading the end of your post.</p>
<p>What would you say are the main differences, if any, between Asian (Chinese?) women and the ones in the US?</p>
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		<title>By: Glengarry</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Glengarry]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Dec 2012 23:03:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[About those status reports: Did you notice that the growth and jobs numbers are announced with some fanfare, then quietly adjusted down a month later? Again and again. What a racket.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>About those status reports: Did you notice that the growth and jobs numbers are announced with some fanfare, then quietly adjusted down a month later? Again and again. What a racket.</p>
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		<title>By: trainwreck</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[trainwreck]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Dec 2012 02:29:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My dad actually taught me a lot of things. 

I&#039;ve heard words coming out of his mouth like 

&quot;They&#039;re all whores, except for your mom and your sister. Treat them like they deserve to be treated&quot; 

or 

&quot;It&#039;s not cheating until you&#039;re married&quot;

or

&quot;Men dont cry, go back and fight the bullies. I&#039;m not gonna do it for you.&quot;

I didn&#039;t really want to hear and oblige to these things until I was totally crushed by some chicks and their behaviour. Looking back, needless to say, he&#039;s totally alpha. He once told me about how he had multiple girlfriends (told me how he&#039;d drive mom home at midnight and then hang out with the ones that were allowed to stay out longer.. lol). Mom remembers every single detail, buys HIM roses and (feels weird to say that) was quite hot back in the day. Guy also knows pretty much everyone and is easy going with everyone. I seriously have female friends in her 20s that would totally bang him and friended him on Facebook, lol. he&#039;s quite fit, in his 50&#039;s.

When I caught a chick I was seeing cheating on me and commented it to him, his response was &quot;She was older than you anyway, you dodged a bullet.. now go out and have some fun.&quot;

So yeah, I guess you can be alpha and stay with your family... or how would you categorize this kind of guy?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My dad actually taught me a lot of things. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve heard words coming out of his mouth like </p>
<p>&#8220;They&#8217;re all whores, except for your mom and your sister. Treat them like they deserve to be treated&#8221; </p>
<p>or </p>
<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s not cheating until you&#8217;re married&#8221;</p>
<p>or</p>
<p>&#8220;Men dont cry, go back and fight the bullies. I&#8217;m not gonna do it for you.&#8221;</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t really want to hear and oblige to these things until I was totally crushed by some chicks and their behaviour. Looking back, needless to say, he&#8217;s totally alpha. He once told me about how he had multiple girlfriends (told me how he&#8217;d drive mom home at midnight and then hang out with the ones that were allowed to stay out longer.. lol). Mom remembers every single detail, buys HIM roses and (feels weird to say that) was quite hot back in the day. Guy also knows pretty much everyone and is easy going with everyone. I seriously have female friends in her 20s that would totally bang him and friended him on Facebook, lol. he&#8217;s quite fit, in his 50&#8242;s.</p>
<p>When I caught a chick I was seeing cheating on me and commented it to him, his response was &#8220;She was older than you anyway, you dodged a bullet.. now go out and have some fun.&#8221;</p>
<p>So yeah, I guess you can be alpha and stay with your family&#8230; or how would you categorize this kind of guy?</p>
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		<title>By: avd</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[avd]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2012 20:39:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;It is about protecting and providing.&quot;

More than that, brother, it&#039;s about teaching.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;It is about protecting and providing.&#8221;</p>
<p>More than that, brother, it&#8217;s about teaching.</p>
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		<title>By: avd</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[avd]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2012 20:34:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Southern Man,
You inspire. Keep up the good work.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Southern Man,<br />
You inspire. Keep up the good work.</p>
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		<title>By: whatsnew</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2012 17:38:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh no, they were similar in the past and not that much better, but they had very different incentives.

In the past they had to have many children to support them when they would be old, and there was a big risk of involuntary pregnancy when they had sex.

Both of these meant that they had to invest in men, as both husbands and sons, in order to get men to invest in them.

Not anymore: they can pump and dump men without obvious consequences, while still demanding that men invest in them.

I t is not a change in character, by and large it was almost wholly opportunistic in the past as it is now, just the opportunities were different.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh no, they were similar in the past and not that much better, but they had very different incentives.</p>
<p>In the past they had to have many children to support them when they would be old, and there was a big risk of involuntary pregnancy when they had sex.</p>
<p>Both of these meant that they had to invest in men, as both husbands and sons, in order to get men to invest in them.</p>
<p>Not anymore: they can pump and dump men without obvious consequences, while still demanding that men invest in them.</p>
<p>I t is not a change in character, by and large it was almost wholly opportunistic in the past as it is now, just the opportunities were different.</p>
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		<title>By: Dishonored</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dishonored]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2012 17:11:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Believe me, I know this. It&#039;s very hard to constantly be on the losing end, while trying to maintain a super confident frame.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Believe me, I know this. It&#8217;s very hard to constantly be on the losing end, while trying to maintain a super confident frame.</p>
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