Reader “St” asks:
What is the One Truth of Game?
Here is the answer to that question —
Impress me.
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Yey! First
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Huh
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Short. Powerful.
Well done.
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Apparently quite a quintessence.
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Hmmm, makes sense but is that really THE one truth to game? Not sure if that really says it all…
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How about:
Do you have good genes?
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Here is the one truth of game that I saw recently: Sasha Grey, the lovely porn star, was getting fucked by a guy when she screamed out,
“COME ON, DON’T FUCK ME LIKE FAGGOT…”
I have never heard a better description of what women really want. Women want to be fucked, fucked well, and fucked by someone who is real man. They love masculine strength, even violence. It turns them on. And most guys in the Anglosphere today are indeed little faggots when it comes to women.
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hahaha yes race x
every women is like sasha greay lzozlllzzl!!
what is worng with you looozozozoozozoozers?
do your moms and sisters say, “COME ON, DON’T FUCK ME LIKE FAGGOT…”
is that what your daughters say?
lzlzozozlzlz!
don’t get me wrong, i agree that the fiat masters want girls to say “COME ON, DON’T FUCK ME LIKE FAGGOT…”
but most of them still have souls out there…
maybe…
i hope…
lzozozlzlz!
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barbbabbs,
Shut the fuck up.
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the first rule of game is that
there is no game!!
anyone who needs game to get laid by definition has no game
anyone who needs a toupe to have hair by definition has no hair
lzozlzl!
[editor: when you bed a woman, you run game on her.
whether you realize it
or not.]
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Rule #1: NEVER SETTLE FOR GOOD ENOUGH
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I’m pretty sure Roissy was challenging us to impress him, so you first couple that didnt get it come up with something good. If I’ve learned one thing I’d say “works too much”.
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Will you ban this lolllzzz faggot already??
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You can either say “there is no game” or “everything is game”, they mean the same thing.
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[editor: when you bed a woman, you run game on her.
whether you realize it
or not.]
So whenever you seduce a woman you are using Game? If this is the case, why do we need the word Game? isn’t it redundant? It is like saying whenever you seduce a woman, you seduce a woman.
[editor: there is method to seducing women. game is a codified system for explaining and applying that method. those “natural alpha males” you believe don’t run game because they don’t need it are in fact using game by leveraging whatever positive male attractiveness traits they bring to the mating market. for example, an old school john wayne may have scoffed at the idea of game, but he would have leveraged his fame, looks, masculine forthrightness, and grace under pressure to attract women. except for looks, these attractiveness measures are all things taught by game. preselection = fame. refusing to play by a woman’s frame = masculine forthrightness. passing women’s shit tests = grace under pressure. even looks to a degree are a function of game. peacocking can raise a man at least two points on the looks scale in the eyes of women, because women are more attuned to style and fashion than are men.]
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Meaning that the woman has to impress the man – flipping the standard script. True ‘nuf, but is this the One Truth to rule them all? Seems a little too generic or something. Not necessarily about attraction or dominance or any of the other principles basic to seduction.
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Game is getting your intellect and your emotions to not interfere with each other.
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I thought the same thing initially before reading those comments. Then you realise how ‘impress me’ is as good a truth of Game as any.
‘Impress me’ means you have options and self-esteem — higher value — and the frame you have is whether a woman is of good material and meets the standards for whatever purpose you have: from being a good girl or living up to the promise implicit in the casual scene e.g. the three date rule. You recognise that you have to be selective and that women aren’t perfect: in a world filled with STDs, grrrl power and sexual amorality… you have to be careful and allow herself to prove herself — qualify herself — to you as worthy of attention despite her complicity in a landscape of deranged gender relations rife with lack of exclusivity and merciless materialism. No matter what her looks are right up to HB10, she needs to impress you despite her flaws. You neg her because you’re not overawed by her. You expect certain behaviours from her and won’t hesitate to walk out if she crosses the line. After all, there’re always other women available to you as their attention to you confirms: preselection is always in your favour. You don’t apologise for who you are, you love who you are:a unique peacock with glorious feathers.
In other worlds, a male Shania Twain is the essence of game. Ha.
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Alpha male gets the girl
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Once guys realize how much power they have when they control the frame, they stop looking for “the one” because they know there is no such creature.
Thank God. Variety is the spice of life.
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“fallafel
I’m pretty sure Roissy was challenging us to impress him, so you first couple that didnt get it come up with something good.”
hahah if we are here to impress Roissy with our game then this is the wrong kind of site here. I am pretty sure he meant it from a girl’s perspective.
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you guys are so scared to impress someone you cant even get on the topic
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what is the One Blood of Game?
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I think you guys have it the wrong way round.
It seems more like he means we should be projecting the attitude of “Impress me” around women we’re wanting to seduce, rather than trying to impress them.
Seriously, think back to Mystery Method. What do you do to your target in a set? You ignore her, you challenge her to come up with reasons why she should be worthy of your attention.
So trying to impress Roissy is pointless.
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The one rule of Game is the following one : act like a High Testosterone guy !
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Mystery is a douchebag
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Women are like bankers, they give more pussy to those who already have it.
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Game is impressing her without looking like you are trying to impress her. That is what makes it so difficult.
[editor: right. this is why it’s important for a man to think with the frame of mind that women are there to impress him. it provides the necessary cover and instills the proper attitude. behaving as if women must earn his approval will impress them.]
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lolzlzlzlz guy is entretaining, which is more that I can say of the righeous moralists that come here. Aka males with nothing else to do and women rationalizating their wetness.
“Impress me”. That’s the frame that you need to mantain to ALL women. If you are so desperate to get laid, get a hooker, I mean an “escort”.
If you want to be happy with the women in your life, learn Game.
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lozlzlzlzl!
roissy writes:
[editor: there is method to seducing women. game is a codified system for explaining and applying that method. those “natural alpha males” you believe don’t run game because they don’t need it are in fact using game by leveraging whatever positive male attractiveness traits they bring to the mating market. for example, an old school john wayne may have scoffed at the idea of game, but he would have leveraged his fame, looks, masculine forthrightness, and grace under pressure to attract women. except for looks, these attractiveness measures are all things taught by game. preselection = fame. refusing to play by a woman’s frame = masculine forthrightness. passing women’s shit tests = grace under pressure. even looks to a degree are a function of game. peacocking can raise a man at least two points on the looks scale in the eyes of women, because women are more attuned to style and fashion than are men.]
basically he is saying that men with hair don’t need toupes. lzozlzl!
[editor: no. what i’m saying is clear. women find certain universal male traits attractive, and game is a system for emphasizing those traits. men who don’t consciously run game are seducing women using the same suite of male attractiveness traits as men who are consciously aware of the seduction process. the difference is that game allows men to maximize their success with women. and the lolz make you sound like a headcase.]
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@yohami Indeed he is, as is Roissy. But you can’t argue against their results or the consistent effectiveness of their methods.
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i saw this dude out last night that was just leaning on a wall, observing the dancefloor, completely disinterested in the girl grinding in front of him.
she was literally presenting like a mandrill.
he was bored out of his mind.
[editor: zeets likes to present the tuft of silver on his back.]
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Roissy,
I await your review of “She’s Out of My League,” which had enough going on for a good gamer to comment on for a post or two (including a musician claiming the rules of social value don’t, as an artist, apply to him.)
I did see this hogwash in a review of the film:
“The last true story-telling genre in Hollywood is the romantic comedy, if only because the conventions are so well known that in order to really tell a good story one has to do it well.”
Sure. It’s the last “story-telling” genre because legions of American women will line up and pay for fantasy films telling them their romantic life doesn’t have to be grounded in any sort of reality. Romcoms are Disney for adults, without the animation.
Then there’s this:
“It’s refreshing to see a female character in a romantic comedy given some depth.”
That’s practically a neg addressed to the typical young American woman.
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i hear zeets has the body of a rugged ploughman
[editor: and he gives good juice!]
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Roissy, when are you writing your book? I need to sit down and read it to get all my old beta instincts out of my head. I need to reprogram my thinking. I saw “Say Anything” way too many times as a teenage boy, and listened to way too much Peter Cetera. Ugh.
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payton kane said it best:
” when you want them badly then don’t want you, when you don’t want them badly, they want you!”
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A friend of mine’s status update on facebook: ‘Jane is cold.’
Her boyfriend’s reply: ‘dress warmer then’
Her mother’s reply: ‘try giving her a cuddle’
[editor: moms: the game-killer.]
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Reader “St” asks:
What is the One Truth of Game?
Here is the answer to that question –
Impress me.
Yeah, or prove to me why I should select you over some other girl.
Prove yourself to me, earn my approval.
Racer X
Here is the one truth of game that I saw recently: Sasha Grey, the lovely porn star, was getting fucked by a guy when she screamed out,
“COME ON, DON’T FUCK ME LIKE FAGGOT…”
I have never heard a better description of what women really want. Women want to be fucked, fucked well, and fucked by someone who is real man.
Oh Christ, another Net Nerd in the house. So everything you’ve learned about women you learned from a bony assed porn girl who likes to guzzle the contents on enema bags.
And how do faggots like to fuck? Don’t a lot of those fags like to dress in leather and violently ass fuck each other.
Rule #1 with women – DON’T USE PORN WOMEN AS AN EXAMPLE OF HOW TO RELATE TO NORMAL WOMEN.
You nerds wacking off to porn are going to be in for a HUGE shock when you actually some day in the far off future get to have sex with a real woman.
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One truth about game?
It starts at birth.
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GAME, which can be used in every facet of LIFE, is like WAR. Re-watching the HBO miniseries Band of Brothers this past week, one line of dialogue in particular stuck with me…
As Lt. Ronald Speirs put it, when talking to a scared solder:
“The only hope you have is to accept the fact that you’re already dead. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you’ll be able to function as a soldier is supposed to function: without mercy, without compassion, without remorse.”
I think that speaks for itself. Have no fear.
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“Here is the answer to that question –
Impress me.
”
Impress me = assuming higher value, making the posters qualify themselves to you. And really- that is the answer.
The one truth of Game- Its hypergamy all the way down, game is just the methodology that a male employs to show superiority and generate attraction.
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As I once said a century ago, “The pure and simple truth is rarely pure and never simple.”
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Admiral H. Rickover, who played a large role in the history of the USN, used to begin interviews with would-be job holders by saying, “Impress me.” One guy said nothing but immediately swept his arm across Rickovers desk putting all his stuff on the floor.
Legend has it that the guy was hired on the spot.
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poor loser…
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Quit qualifying yourselves to Roissy. You all just proved game works.
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“i saw this dude out last night that was just leaning on a wall, observing the dancefloor, completely disinterested in the girl grinding in front of him. ”
Aaaaaaaaand….he went home pussyless. Indifference doesn’t win you the girl. Sorry. If it were that easy, everyone would be getting pussy.
The fact of the matter is that you PERFORM for her in the beginning. Your rap is your game for the first 10 to 15 minutes.
I’m tired of people posting nutso fantasy bullshit “truths”. finefantastic has never approached a girl in his life. Go fuck yourself asshole. You’re offending the guys who approach.
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Breeze, way to just repeat what several have said above. How about adding something new and insightful to the conversation?
Your comment reeks of “approval seeking” behavior so you just proved game works as well. Bitch.
Really, any reply to Roissy’s posts could somehow be construed as the person trying to qualify themselves.
What it comes down to is that there really isn’t one truth to game at all. Even the word “truth” is bullshit. “Impress me” is just as valid as many of the posts above.
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“this is why it’s important for a man to think with the frame of mind that women are there to impress him. it provides the necessary cover and instills the proper attitude. behaving as if women must earn his approval will impress them.”
Who the fuck goes out into an interaction thinking “this girl has to impress me!” Not to mention how ridiculous the notion of a woman impressing a man is. Women aren’t that impressive. It’s not something to be expected.
Fun + light + playful + pull away (neg, backturn, etc.)=fuck time
I only ask girls for their numbers to avoid insulting them.
Roissy: “caring about the girl without caring about the outcome.”
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Girls want dudes to impress them and yet men who stumble all over themselves to make an impression don’t. Men who feign disinterest believably do. Girls will then try to impress those men. Impressive.
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@aoefe
Alpha guys are impressive, even when they are not trying to. They get surrounded by many impressed girls which compete to gain the alphas attention.
Meta guys want some of the action so they try to impress, usually too hard
Game was designed for the beta mindset
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*Beta, not Meta… but I guess thats a rank too
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Impress me by being out on a Saturday either day or night gaming instead of fucking keyboard jockeying again.
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Agreed yohami it’s difficult to get in the right frame for men just learning Game – however I think it’s doable – as long as they ‘get’ it – not just practice it. Women are less complicated than we seem – Roissy has us nailed (or wants to). He’s crude about it and it hurts our feminine sensibilities – but he’s right much of the time. Sssshhh don’t tell Roissy either – it’ll go to his already swollen head. 😉
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@kj – “Impress me by being out on a Saturday either day or night gaming instead of fucking keyboard jockeying again.”
Oh my – the irony! Don’t you just crack yourself up KJ?
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Yo Roissy, dig your blog.
I’m older than you guys (57), so I’ve been around the block a few times.
The pussy-gettingist dude I ever met was a country guy from Georgia who had seven older sisters. They were all blowing him, probably since he was an infant. Imagine how many of their friends he fucked growing up.
So he never thought that getting pussy was all that a big deal. It just kind of came to him, he never had to work for it, and never worried about it.
He was a natural, and didn’t care anything about game.
True story!
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him: impress me! (I am impressing you!)
her: pfff, of course not; I hate you! (press me on the wall!)
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Willard Libby,
If you were not a literal minded idiot you would realize that what Sasha Grey was saying was sarcastic and metaphorical. It may be porn, but even porn has its occasional moments of merit that reflect reality. But let me spell it out for you, since you are about as literal minded as a retarded monkey. What did she mean by that? No, she did not mean leather bound fags fucking each other in the ass. She meant don’t fuck me like a pussy, like a wuss, like some wimpy little she-male, such as Willard Libby must be. You of all people should know that “fag” equals “pussy and wimp” in common parlance, since you are obviously a fag yourself. But to get back to the subject at hand, that verbal exchange is close to the reality of what most women want and it is a reality I know from my own experiences with women in my life.
Romance novels are the female equivalent of most porn, and intense masculine passion is always the underlying force that drive those novels and it is so because women love reading that sort of stuff and fantasizing about in their own lives. The hero of a romance novel is never a wimp.
And to prove this, I challenge any woman reading this blog to say that she really likes to get fucked by a guy who is a whiny, weak and whimpy. Women like to be fucked, and fucked passionately. Prove me wrong.
So yeah, sometimes a “bony ass porn girl” (actually her ass is quite hot) can produce a line or two of worthwhile entertainment that goes beyond the mere voyeuristic pleasures of porn.
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My girl just got back into town. She was tired and not as enthusiastic to see me as she usually is. She asked me if I had missed her, and I said “kind of.” She asked me, “in what way?” I said “in a theoretical way.”
Squeals of laughter and snuggling ensued.
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I think Roissy is dead on with this. If you can impress him, you’ve got it. Don’t sit at home/work and be a keyboard jockey. We all know the theory, so now its time to do it.
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any other sick fucks who hang out on this site watching the charlie take on the nig nog right now? gooooooo team charlie!
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confidence is everything, but it’s probably not what you think it means.
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ooookkaay; porn chicks aren’t ticked off when a guy uses spit to lube up before doing them in the ass. Given that I don’t have a plethora of gay men to quiz, I’m going to say that they’re probably a lot like women who aren’t porn actresses and prefer astroglide, with the latter (women) inclined to say “Wrong hole!”… but that’s an entirely different topic altogether.
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“The game is always changing”
“The game is about doing what the other guy isn’t”
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i appreciate how pacman’s corner guys all wear karate kid headbands. a pleasant aesthetic.
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@Topher
I was thinking the same thing, after watching it this evening with a friend: “Man, i hope Roissy sees and reviews this.”
Despite the fact that the premise is a little ridiculous (total beta schlub manages to land a hot chick by being a total beta schlub), there are a few golden nuggets of truth in the film, especially the latter half’s emphasis on not putting women on a pedestal, and how any man can date above his station, so to speak.
Anyway, I hope Roissy reviews it.
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AWESOME BETAHUBBY SPOTTED IN THE WILD
http://yfrog.com/2oexpatbetahunterj
ROISSY have you seen this picture I took? I’m sure you will want to add it to your collection, it’s PERFECT. White chick lands cute fuzzy wuzzy beta-hubby in Asia.
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Another variation to ‘Impress me’ is ‘I am the prize’.
I am the man, I am the prize, I have options.
You are a woman, You are an inferior, overgrown child, You are expendable.
Once that innate confidence seeps through, women will try to impress you without any instruction required.
The opposite of this is pussy pedestalling, a favorite pastime of betas, manginas and ‘This is what a feminist looks like T-shirt’ white knights. We know how much pussy their kind gets, especially those married ones. ;p
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Rum,
The variant of that story that I’ve heard is that Rickover told the guy “piss me off, if you can”.
As you mentioned the guy responded by immediately sweeping everything off Rickover’s desk and got the job.
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i keep reading men compare men’s porn vs women’s romance novels. maybe i just go out with whores, but in my experience most women like porn. Ive never known any girl that read romance novels. who the fuck are these women? i once worked at a bookstore and the only women that bought romance novels were middle aged and fat. are there really hot 21 year old girls reading romance novels??? i have trouble believing it.
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My experience is that same as yours, Bock. All the girls loves them a good porn. Makes for good fucking ambiance too.
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game in roissyverse is just short term mating .. hence it just boils down to high T.
how to increase your T levels:
1) high intensity muscular activity, but not volume or repitition
2) Paleo diet
3) Biggest fish in your pond of choice
4) a well stocked harem
5) reduced intellectual activity
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I’m just waiting on The Sly, Slick and Wicked’s response…as always. C’mon Mike, I know you’ve got the true answer.
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First you impress a girl, escalate, then she tries to impress you.
Respond by impressing her again, escalating, and she will again try to impress you.
The cycle continues.
Game always goes in this cycle.
I think it is a great definition, although I may understand it differently than some. I see it as an idea that works two ways because each party involved is saying “Impress me”
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“barbbabbs
hahaha yes race x
every women is like sasha greay lzozlllzzl!!
what is worng with you looozozozoozozoozers?
do your moms and sisters say, “COME ON, DON’T FUCK ME LIKE FAGGOT…””
Barbbabbs FTW!
Actually, Barbbabbs FTW on the last 5 Roissy posts.
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@aoefe – “Oh my – the irony! Don’t you just crack yourself up KJ?”
Guess there must be only one time zone in the world? If you ever get out of your town you’ll be surprised to find English spoken elsewhere and Washingto DC websites still accessible too. Imagine that.
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Great post! Two other ways to say it are:
1. I’m qualifying you
2. I’m having a great time; do you fit in?
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The one truth of game:
Don’t be afraid to do or say anything.
It doesn’t matter in the end nothing else matters.
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The One Truth of Game?
To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentations of their women.
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shhh…no talking…watching patton.
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In 4 Sasha Grey pronz
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“1. I’m qualifying you
2. I’m having a great time; do you fit in?”
Reminds me of:
“Oh, hi, Debbie…. Isn’t this great?”
Cept not sure the Zep 4 line is longer relevant.
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practice makes perfect
chisel away at the unessential like a sculptor
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A lot of women will not date a man 2+ points out of 10 higher on the IQ/Education scale. A man with a higher degree has to be careful implying that a hairdresser needs to impress him, especially in a non-feminist society where she hasn’t been taught to be overconfident and doesn’t need the neg that an American hairdresser may or may not need. Women fear rejection more than men and will irrationally “reject first” if they feel the possibility coming on. This isn’t to say Roissy’s one truth is wrong, far from it, but a man wanting to bed women who know they are not intellectually impressive (know they are not interesting) but are already impressed with him…sometimes needs to build their confidence…especially where feminism hasn’t taught them the frame “men must impress me”. In that case, talking about her and finding something cool about her that nobody else found, builds her confidence and preserves the frame that you were the one needing impressing.
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Trends Cogn Sci. 2009 Mar;13(3):127-34. Epub 2009 Feb 13.
The eye contact effect: mechanisms and development.
Senju A, Johnson MH.
Centre for Brain and Cognitive Development, Birkbeck, University of London, Malet Street, London WC1E 7HX, UK. a.senju@bbk.ac.uk
The ‘eye contact effect’ is the phenomenon that perceived eye contact with another human face modulates certain aspects of the concurrent and/or immediately following cognitive processing. In addition, functional imaging studies in adults have revealed that eye contact can modulate activity in structures in the social brain network, and developmental studies show evidence for preferential orienting towards, and processing of, faces with direct gaze from early in life. We review different theories of the eye contact effect and advance a ‘fast-track modulator’ model. Specifically, we hypothesize that perceived eye contact is initially detected by a subcortical route, which then modulates the activation of the social brain as it processes the accompanying detailed sensory information.
science will soon validate eye contact as a proxy for theory-of-mind and eventually social intelligence (which is governed by circuitry largely unrelated to cognitive intelligence).
asperger’s kids have, on average, more fluid intelligence than controls… despite poorer social functioning (they look at mouths rather than eyes)
gina tingle reductionism.
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A)I always have the same question about “feigning indifference” which is,if you’re a beta toad and you feign indifference,the broad will breathe a sigh of relief (not a sigh of sexual desire)that she isn’t being hassled by you and doesn’t have to pretend to be polite! B)A little OT,but I was curious if Fearless Leader or any of you guys have a comment on the two white woman “terroristas” in the news,’specially as its sooo obvious whats going on here. The first one,Colleen LaRose,was living rent free with some poor sap while trolling the Net. No doubt she was trying to impress some camel jockey. The 2nd was a white girl named “Rodriguez” (LOL!!).Tirng of spreading for mestizoes,she nabbed an Algerian monkey! Women =Idiots! I think THAT may be the ultimate distillation of Game!!
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Racer X spends more time memorizing dialogue from porno movies than he does practicing game. His blog is obsessed with pornography. If game worked for him, he would not have this fanaticism. I would stay away from this guy.
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john,
I agree with both your points.
If you are physically unimpressive, feigning indifference can still work on specific targets if it is something almost paradoxical, *directed indifference*. You can be energetic and engaging with other people than the one you want to intrigue. This should ideally include girls 2 points lower than the one you are actually interested in — an extra bonus is since they aren’t the actual object of your desires, the interest you demonstrate will be free of hints of beta desperation. (If you are really good you can make a girl jealous of attention given to a girl 3 points lower, but 2 is much easier because it is within the hotter girl’s margin of insecurity).
The Jihad Janes are pathetic but you are right about the media completely missing the point of their stories.
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@bock & xsplat
my girl is a big fan of both, actually (and is 22, blonde, and under 120). They both serve very different purposes in her mind, as well.
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Why so many comments? Jesus.
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He who cares the least, owns the relationship.
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Speaking of game, I don’t want to link to the story but it is an AP story, so it is easy to find in many newspapers.
Google :
Michael Murphy Prison
All about this guy who has gotten sex from a number of female prison guards as well as his female therapist. The best part is, he is always the victim, since prisoners cannot by definition give consent for sex with a prison guard. It sounds like he compromises them by getting them to do some small favors, then works up to sex.
Girls are such twits.
I think he should write a book.
Anyway, anybody who thinks nice girls are basically different from porn stars is welcome to show me his/her data.
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Learn.
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Learn continually and ignore small hits to your ego for greater rewards.
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1) The “Impress Me” frame only exists to the point at which you “let” her have sex with you.
2) The problem with girls who you get with this advice is that they tend to be somewhat lacking in the personality stakes.
Instead of trying to find the elusive silver bullet of seduction, it’s a lot more productive to try and strengthen your own frame so that it automatically filters out the chaff instead of seducing it.
AA
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AA said:
“2) The problem with girls who you get with this advice is that they tend to be somewhat lacking in the personality stakes.”
–Exactly. Be careful boys, or you get what you ask for. Over and over and over. If she seeks you for the image, then don’t bitch about lack of quality.
Nothing beats mutual impression/fascination with each other. That ride is the highest.
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Game should begin after you’re impressed. Impressed is assumed, other wise, why bother? Game is the prevention of failure.
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From the Michael Murphy story:
“And then he kissed me one day in my office and I just thought, ‘What the f— did I just do, what just happened?'” she said in a 2008 interview she was told would be confidential. “From that point on I just, I felt like I couldn’t do anything, I couldn’t say no to him, I couldn’t get myself out of it. It’s like he had that over me, and he continued to push.”
So quoth the prison guard victim. Another example of “it just happened” victimhood.
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ha at the conan quote
as someone mentioned earlier about impressing them… maybe rephrased as ‘the art of displaying without Displaying’
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@kj -“guess there must be only one time zone in the world? If you ever get out of your town you’ll be surprised to find English spoken elsewhere and Washingto DC websites still accessible too. Imagine that.”
Well ahl bee. There’s some such thing as time zones? Golly gee whizerkers – you done teached me good. 😉
On a semi-serious note (I hardly ever have those), why do you read here? You seem bothered by the host – are you hoping to take him down a peg or two? Or do you want to teach us wayward souls Real Game?
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Racer X: “(actually her ass is quite hot)”
Agree. Sasha Grey is da sh*t, actually. (Makes potty-mouthedness quite attractive, too.)
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Impress me?
Not impressed.
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What is the One Truth of Game?
You are only here for a relatively short time and will be dead for a very long time , so get out there and do something.
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You can either say “there is no game” or “everything is game”, they mean the same thing.
If you say “there is no game” that means that you THINK you’ve internalized every good aspect you need to fuck. And you’re wrong.
“Everything is game” is a much more appropriate meme. And because the game is always changing, you can never say you’ve internalized it all.
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“I thought the same thing initially before reading those comments. Then you realise how ‘impress me’ is as good a truth of Game as any.
‘Impress me’ means you have options and self-esteem — higher value — and the frame you have is whether a woman is of good material and meets the standards for whatever purpose you have: from being a good girl or living up to the promise implicit in the casual scene e.g. the three date rule. You recognise that you have to be selective and that women aren’t perfect: in a world filled with STDs, grrrl power and sexual amorality… you have to be careful and allow herself to prove herself — qualify herself — to you as worthy of attention despite her complicity in a landscape of deranged gender relations rife with lack of exclusivity and merciless materialism. No matter what her looks are right up to HB10, she needs to impress you despite her flaws. You neg her because you’re not overawed by her. You expect certain behaviours from her and won’t hesitate to walk out if she crosses the line. After all, there’re always other women available to you as their attention to you confirms: preselection is always in your favour. You don’t apologise for who you are, you love who you are:a unique peacock with glorious feathers.”
+1
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@Topher
Your analysis is correct, but you don’t seem to understand that those things are all helpful.
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” when you want them badly then don’t want you, when you don’t want them badly, they want you!”
Na, when you want them badly, they love it. They just want to know they SHOULD want you too.
And that’s where you have to step up.
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“you guys are so scared to impress someone you cant even get on the topic”
This is outta you’re league. Shut up and listen.
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5) reduced intellectual activity
Then you’re going to limit yourself.
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“Impress me” is a subprinciple, filed under behavior, of communicating — through body language, look, status, social grace, and behavior — that you are chosen by a variety of attractive women for sex.
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Substitute “direct interaction” for “behavior” in above comment
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There is a step beyond “Impress me”. That is, “I am so satisfied with myself, that you cannot impress me.”
The moment a woman knows she impressed you, she knows in that aspect she has control, and will use that to control you to her full advantage. If nothing she does impresses you, she has no control over you.
For instance, if she knows her BJs are the best you have ever gotten, she will withhold them if she doesn’t get what she wants.
Instead, women should work to standout from the herd. While it doesn’t impress you, it does make her better than her competition.
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moms should teach their male progeny the habits of good game
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@Kant, why so scared?
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In the face of gross hypergamy as practiced by Western women, men must counter with psy-ops strategies designed to bypass her standard filtering mechanisms (which are set to preselect for famous, rich, or handsome).
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“Fuck Kant” is an awesome screen name. Although he (the real Kant) was spot on in much of what he wrote.
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Money Talks
[editor: beta walks]
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“Despite the fact that the premise is a little ridiculous (total beta schlub manages to land a hot chick by being a total beta schlub)”
I love the Judd Apatow-style bromances (hell, I have a taste for Rush), but they are extending the fairy tale to both sexes. Not only does a woman find her frog-prince, a schlubby guy lands a hot woman who decides she doesn’t want the alpha-male type. In a way they are positive because they treat men as men, not vessels for women’s programming, but there are lots of bad lessons if you aren’t watching carefully (including getting your chest waxed, never a good idea.)
On another note, Wedding Crashers was a guy film that turned into a chick flick halfway through. It also features a would-be beta (“Mom – the meatloaf!!”) who turns out to have serious game.
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“The problem with girls who you get with this advice is that they tend to be somewhat lacking in the personality stakes.”
And that is a problem, how?
Personality is irrelevant for lays. A broad only needs that lovehole. A good physique, properly arranged face, and nice body smell all help too but they’re nice-to-have extras, not the ESSENTIAL.
Also, I say that ignoring broads will let you get the most attention from them. Especially those 8s/9s/10s, because they’re so used to lavish praise and asskissing from all the people around her, so she’ll take note when you don’t follow the crowd.
The women with the lowest self esteem are those gorgeous ‘out of your league’ ones – exploit fully this simple truth. Tom Leykis knows what he’s talking about.
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mgtow – Professor Dad Leykis is great. I have been listening to clips of him on YouTube (there are TONS of them). It is pretty awesome to hear the magnitude of his talent.
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”””””””””Silver Fox
Money Talks
[editor: beta walks]”””””””’
Ahh that too.
If I had the time and lots of money could fuck every chick in the world.
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