Check out this video.
Bottom line: Ovulating women in loving relationships are the most likely to show a lot of skin and flirt with other men.
Every time I have a brief moment of weakness when I think God is possible and there is love for everyone in the world, studies like this one jolt me back to reality. Yep, those precious, perfect, beautiful women crave strange cock when they’re most likely to get pregnant. And they crave it the hardest — and do what is necessary to get it — when they are secure in loving relationships with chumps such as yourself.
This is yet more evidence on top of existing evidence for the Chateau prescription to instill dread in your relationship or marriage. Women who get too comfortable with their partners, get cocky. They take their beta boyfriends or husbands for granted and start to heed the call of their uncaged ids deep in their hindbrains, where even the hamster dares not tread. An emboldening sense of invulnerability overwhelms them, and they follow an age-old evolutionary script leading them to sample genetic pee pee platters when there is low risk it will cost them with their current beaus.
The solution for men to reign victorious over this female Darwinian impulse is simple, and one this blog has been writing about for some time: Never…
never
let her feel entitled to your love.
By this I mean you need to keep your girlfriend (or wife!) on her toes, always in a state of suspended certainty. She has to be thinking, at least some of the time, “Does he really love me?” “Does he love me as much as I do him?” “Is he completely committed to me?” “Is he seeing other women?” “What’s he thinking?”
And my personal favorite:
“Why does he leave after sex?”
And, trust me, she will love you more for making her feel this way, despite her inability to ever admit as much.
So, men, if you want to minimize the odds your lover is an infidelity risk, keep tabs on her cycle and monitor the level of comfort and security you are offering her in your LTR. If she is approaching her ovulatory phase, and you have been smothering her with affection and compliments…
back the fuck off.
Turn off your phone for a day. Decline a scheduled date with her. Call her from a noisy bar where girls can be overheard laughing in the background. If you live with her, show up very late from work a couple of nights in a week. Notice some trivial flaw about her looks. Grunt more than usual. Be laconic. Ignore her.
Naturally, the hotter she is, the more you will have to back off. Options = instability.
In this new year, let’s all make a resolution to improve the quality of our sex and love lives. Let’s make her work for it.
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Two words- Discete Infidelity
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Wouldn’t this mean that women on the pill are less likely to cheat?
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You an also use this knowledge to test how a girl perceives you on the lover/provider scale. If she is horny and agreeable throughout the peak of her ovulatory cycle, you’re in good shape. If she becomes temporarily withdrawn and frigid, watch out… she sees you as a capital-P provider, and her id is lusting to cheat if the opportunity presents itself.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fertility_awareness
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upon reading this blog, one question I have is how to take advantage of this roving? Some readers have said that they’re able to scavenge their beta-herb friend’s girl’s cheating hearts. I mean, how does that happen? Or is this all girl’s night out cheating?
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Timely post. Getting hot and cold signals from girl I’ve been gaming.
After major make out session getting the back off, then the come on, then the back off.
Spider sense is tingling. Not sure what this is, but reaction now after understanding game…back the fuck off. Disappear. Reappear, chat, appear normal. Then disappear.
Not sure what is going on in that brain of hers.
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Ovulation.
The single most important reason
why women should never run anything
larger than a kitchen
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Always get a paternity test. Let the girl know that you always will and this will be another fear in the back of her mind.
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@ElectricAngel
Women on the pill are in a permanent hormonal state of faux-pregnancy. Logically, they should be in full-on provider-seeking, pair-bonding mode.
Obviously this is not the case, but it’s possible that widespread Pill use makes women a bit less hypergamous than they would be if they were all using, say, IUDs.
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Let them cheat. The cost to a woman of losing a steady relationship is far greater than it is for a man. Any guilt-free reason to move on is a gift.
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Regarding the feral kids attacking passengers on the Metro, just remember, diversity is America’s greatest asset, more important than your safety, wealth, health, career, friends or families.
As for the pill, I have a theory that relationships go to shit when the girl goes off the Pill. It changes what they find attractive. I’ve heard the opposite, Frost, that they go for more masculine types while on the pill then for betas when off it.
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I’m pretty sure this place now (it used to be different) only exists to prey off of mens cuckold fetishes. Thats all this post was about.
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Over the last couple of weeks, I’ve succeeded for the first time in instilling dread in a girlfriend. The change in her attitude is remarkable. It’s weird.
The challenge now is to maintain it.
But here’s a point that I had missed for a long, long time, and which you don’t explicitly mention, probably because it’s too damn obvious to you:
Like they say about writing, “show, don’t tell”. To me, the “obvious” approach was to tell my girlfriend that there was a problem with her attitude, and that I was getting fed up with it. Her response to that was amused contempt, and things only got worse. If you don’t have hand, she’ll see an ultimatum as an act of desperation — a proof of weakness. Say you’re thinking about leaving, and she’ll assume it’s an empty threat. Merely act like you’re thinking about leaving, without saying a word about it, and she will believe it in her bones. Talk is cheap.
Actually, there’s another point: I let things get so bad that my disinterest is mostly sincere. If you actually want to salvage the relationship, act disinterested while it’s still an act.
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Even if the the studies are true, that would only validate the teachings of Original Sin and the Devil. Of course, not everyone has to act on their temptations.
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man I ve monitored on an off my fuckfriend’s cycle with good success (add 2 weeks after the first day of her period and it is in that -2 +2 day range or interval that she is the most fertile)
Question is, what happens when the girl is on the pill?
my current FWB is on the pill and apparently she told me it pushes her cycle ?
any idea what happens when women are on the pill? she’s taking her pill to clear up her skin and control her hormones
(apparently when she is under stress her horomnes go whack and she could go for months without having a period).
Best
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could this be a function of fact only in modern world do people get in long-term relationships without often getting pregnant? so if a girl in a long-term relationship doesn’t get knocked up after months of fucking, her biology assumes the partner is shooting blanks and searches for someone who isn’t.
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This post is 100% true. In a relationship, a man loses hand when he fears the loss of his girl. Once that happens she’s moving on. Always be willing to leave, it will show in your attitude and actions that you are not a kept man. You don’t need to verbalize it all, she will know if you are one foot out the door.
It’s only sad when you first realize this, after that it’s just how it is.
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NYT tries to devalue Babes
http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/01/06/last-call-at-the-bunny-roundup/?hp
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God exists. This proves that the Laws of Moses were not too harsh. It also proves the introduction of Roman matriarchal attitudes are the corruption of modern Christianity.
There are signs that fundamental evangelicalism is getting the message and returning to alpha male family structure. I pray that it isn’t too late.
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There are always multiple ways to keep women off-balance. It’s crucial that men do this.
Despite what they say, women love the drama and the push-pull and the insecurity.
When women act insecure and need to “talk”, men often assume there’s something wrong and they have to fix it.
Mistake.
Women are fundamentally drama-queens this way. You need to prevent it from flinging off into the nether distance, but it’s like a flywheel or wheel on an axle that’s spinning round and round, but it always slightly unbalanced. It’s the thrumming and in-out-maybe-maybenot-ishe?-Ishenot? that keeps the attraction going.
The trick is to keep it unbalanced without flying apart.
Women won’t admit it. Don’t listen to them.
They all love this. Anyway, they stick more readily to a man who produces this reaction in them.
Feminists and other women may deny it, but it’s absolutely true.
A weakness of the species.
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I can attest to this.
I’ve been seeing this girl who has a boyfriend for a while now (close to a year) who says that she gets seriously super horny on the 3rd day of her period. Without fail, when it’s that time of the month my phone blows up with texts and call from her.
Well, I shouldn’t say I’m seeing her because we just get together and fuck when she’s not on her period and when she is I get the ancillary benefits.
Women are definitely mercenaries.
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Subjects for the study appear to consist of women who frequent nightclubs. The study concludes that ovulating women in relationships are the most likely to shake their booty in nightclubs, for the purpose of “double mating.”
However, the subjects are probably not representative of the general population since most women in serious relationships do not frequent nightclubs.
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Gotta love science. Thanks for the enlightenment. One more reason for men to avoid marriage or cohabitation.
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Birth control changes the genetic makeup that women find attractive. Off the pill women will seek men that have dissimilar genes and therefore give offspring the most robust immune system possible. On the pill women seek men with a similar genetic makeup. This is why there are more kids with illnesses, glasses etc. today and also why divorce is so high. All of this preference is done with pheromones and I remember one of the articles I read about this phenomenon was how one of the biggest complaints from women who were getting divorces was that they could not stand the smell of there husband anymore when they are into the marriage and no longer on birth control.
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Re: the truth
you only need to avoid it if you’re incapable of kering her on edge. If you aren’t you should stay away from ltr and marriage.
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Women will still seek the most alpha of the different genetic makeup though.
The reason for this switch in women was not to attract to more beta men, but for the women to be drawn to her nurturing relatives (same genetic makeup).
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@Roanoke
Here’s a link to the article I think you may be talking about:
http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2006/06/11/does-the-pill-affect-a-womans-taste-in-men/#more-3671
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Put them back in the kitchen. Not kidding. I don’t “hate” them. You just gotta give them a little bit of direction…
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Donlak you can do a lot but her behaviour is not entirely under your control. If you get married, have fun getting raped in the divorce courts.
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@ Gorbachev
“Women are fundamentally drama-queens this way. You need to prevent it from flinging off into the nether distance, but it’s like a flywheel or wheel on an axle that’s spinning round and round, but it always slightly unbalanced. It’s the thrumming and in-out-maybe-maybenot-ishe?-Ishenot? that keeps the attraction going.
The trick is to keep it unbalanced without flying apart.”
How is this possible in a marriage…after a year, 2 years…how much can one keep someone else off balance? I know it may be possible…but I just don’t see an easy way to do it.
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Awesome advice. Can’t tell you how many times I’ve fucked women who are with guys that back away and keep them guessing.
Girls who are involved with men that do this are the easiest to pick off. Their guys are so busy being bad asses that they’d jump at anyone showing them even the smallest hint of affection.
Keep it up.
[Editor: Riiight. And in your unicorn land, do the unicorns violate each other with their horns?]
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Simpleman there is no easy way to do it. Bottom line is that western, feminut cultures are fucked.
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Not so fast, compadre.
The article points out ONLY Hefner’s scurrilous practices – NOT the practices of the dim golddiggers mining his wrinkled ass.
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@The Truth
I believe it’s more than just feminist western culture. It’s also part of a woman’s basic makeup that she will thrive on this, and love the man even more.
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Hence, keeping her off balance and unsure of your love (if you’re delivering in all other aspects — game, good sex, etc) is the way to go to maintain a relationship long term. But when you think of it in terms of years…christ that gets kind of intimidating.
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this actually surprises people? it’s functionally similar to the estrous cycles of females of most other mammalian species.
monogamy is not natural. not for humans, not for the overwhelming majority of mammals. in fact, even in those few species that are believed to be monogamous, there is evidence to indicate that the monogamy is not absolute. there was a scientific study done fairly recently on a ‘monogamous’ species where they did genetic testing on offspring and discovered a non-negligible percentage of the offspring in the litters had paternal dna that did not come from the supposed father. in other words, the female got some cock on the side, got knocked up, and the male, none the wiser, was raising another male’s offspring! talk about being beta, lol!
is ‘most of the time’ monogamy still monogamy?
you and me baby ain’t nothing but mammals….
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Simpleman uh that’s what I said. LTRs in western feminut cultures are too much work. Either go south for an LTR or stay single and pump n dump.
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@Simpleman,
There is no easy way.
It’s all hard.
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That same principle will apply in a LTR eventually, wherever you go.
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Truth, I don’t advocate marriage, I’m simply pointing out that once a woman feels she owns you and you are locked in, that’s when she jumps cock. A girl that is seeking your approval isn’t going anywhere, unless you give her nothing.
This is the long game, it’s not easy, that’s y it fails so often.
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Which explains why the earliest cultures were matriarchal. The females would mate with whichever males took their fancy at the time. i.e. lots of different children with different fathers.
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CH, have you ever read the Lucifer Principle by Howard Bloom? I think you would love it.
So much suffering stems from the belief that humans are “nobler” than animals. The more I read this blog, learn about biology and observe the world the more it becomes clear that we are still in the jungle.
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GunWitch Gunwitch
GunWitch Gunwitch
GunWitch Gunwitch
GunWitch Gunwitch
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Oh Chateau, you are in LOVE!
“Yep, those precious, perfect, beautiful women crave strange cock when they’re most likely to get pregnant.”
I have also heard of a theory in psychology, women are more attracted to crazy men because they make women feel more “needed” in relationships (because crazy people are more “needy”). So follow this theory, human being will evolutes to be mentally more unstable over time, strange huh? I don’t know what the “reason” is behind this theory, apparently there are some evolutionary benefit to this.
Don’t mean to scare you, but I can reason from your article that it is written in women’s biological code to get pregnant with a alpha male, while letting the beta man to help raise it, sounds like the story of Cuckoo. Women are totally monsters, back off, guys!
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The only reasons other cultures women and women of past generation are easier to be married to is due to fear of shaming. You move her here and she’ll get indoctorined in feminist ways – you must learn long game if you want long term. No way around it unless you want to live in a hut with your wife.
Being alpha is actually the easiest laziest method anyways, this isn’t work, it’s just putting yourself first, and the odd time being affectionate and loving.
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CH, what would you advise a man to do if his girl is on birth control?
My #1 got on birth control despite my reassurance that the pullout method always works for me. I do everything you say to do here, and she’s completely hooked, but I wonder if the pill is going to make her yearn for the effeminate hipster I can never be.
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@askjoe
Where did you hear that? I’m just making an educated guess (aka talking out of my ass) so I’m open to evidence.
I just conducted a small natural experiment, i.e. asked a girl who recently traded the pill for an IUD because of migraines, and she doesn’t remember any change in her sex drive or tastes.
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In a future post, can you give a commentary on how this Gunwitch fellow buggered up ? It seems that Game has its pitfalls as well.
http://jezebel.com/5726841/noted-pick+up-artist-allegedly-shoots-a-woman-in-the-face
As for ovulation I thought I might contribute this :
“I am normally quite a rational woman.
No really, I am.
But for a few days each month, I transform into someone I hardly recognise.
I become irrational, cannot think straight and interact with the world in an entirely strange way.
Men try to understand what it is like to be a woman experiencing menstruation, they attempt to be sympathetic and supportive and unjudgmental (and I love them for trying).
But they do not truly understand why or how the transformation that happens in the woman they know, or love, takes place.
Let me try to explain what it is like.
7 days before my period: I become crazily horny. Not just your normal, “ooh I really fancy a hard cock inside me fucking me hard” kind of horny. No. Nothing like that at all. You know when you are so craven for sex that you look through your phone book, see the name of an ex you haven’t spoken to for 5 years, who wasn’t even that good in bed, and you consider calling them to ask for a quick shag for ‘old times sake’? Well times that by 100.
I’m talking so fucking horny that you do call them. And try to go over there to get some sex. And if/when you do get a shag, you are so craven that you leave marks on their body.
I’m talking so fucking horny that when you’ve just finished climaxing from one frig, your clit starts throbbing and you’re already halfway into the next frig.
I’m talking so fucking horny that you run out of AA batteries. Three times.
I’m talking so fucking horny that your vibrator breaks from too frequent use.
I’m talking so fucking horny that there’s no point wearing underwear, since it ends up permanently wet.
I’m talking so fucking horny that everything you do, think or say has a connection to sex: chopping up a courgette for dinner warrants a quick wank; listening to a good song on your ipod warrants a nifty frig; seeing a cute man walk down the street warrants a speedy fiddle. Everything seems connected to sex.”
It is from this blog and written in March 2005 :
http://girlwithaonetrackmind.blogspot.com/2005_03_01_archive.html
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Re: The Twitter post about the SWPL guy getting beat down by an 11 year old kid and a teenage girl.
That video made me sick to my stomach. I never knew it was possible to go through life being such a nutless bitch. How did that guy ever survive high school? Man, let some little punk kid try to sucker punch me. They’re bout to have to call out the amba-lamps.
If that’s what you guys are working with out there in DC, I can see why you’d think America is about to collapse. Let’s hope the terrorists never get a hold of that tape. It will do more to embolden them than anything Osama Bin Laden could ever say.
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Simpleman–
Dave from Hawaii teaches how, very credibly. He was in a ten year or so marriage drifting notably down hill, with his wife getting more and more bitchy and irritable. Then he studied up on game, modified a little for marriage, and had remarkable turnout results.
Do a google site search her using is name and “Relationship Game Week”. Read the comments. He and some others add a lot more there too, though there are weeds to get through.
Other posts in that week were good too.
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*turnaround
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I think the lesson here is that when a woman is ovulating, it’s really important to throw a hard fuck or two into her. Keep her appetite for alpha sex relatively sated and she won’t look for it elsewhere.
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simpleman
The financial hold she has on you in marriage, particularly if have kids and especially if you’ve made a lot more, makes a big, big difference in relationship dynamics after awhile – given America’s current feminist created divorce laws and family law courts.
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C’mon man, you’re a Black Fella, you already KNOW from experience that slappin’ a ho only gets your parole extended 4 months.
I hope the swipple relishes his humiliation on YouTube. I bet his bitch ass voted for Obama. Serves him right. Bitches shoulda kilt him, knowhatimsayin?
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You keep her off balance by wearing the pants in the family. She is constantly trying to wear the pants herself, but as a man, it is your duty to keep her in her place.
Is she perfect? Of course not! So make sure to scold her whenever she fails to meet your high expectations. A wife must submit to her husband. If she fails to obey a direct order, get physical. Slap her rear end or, if you have gained enough hand, use your belt or grab a wooden spoon from the kitchen to tan her hide. She may get angry for an hour or a day, but if you maintain state the implications or your exercising power will sink in and she will get very turned on.
Simulated rape is a way to keep sex interesting over the years with the same woman. Feminists claim that rape is about power. I agree. Sex after disciplining her is fun way to maintain your dominance.
Your LTR will be well secured once you gain enough hand to physically enforce your orders. Spanking your woman might look bad in divorce court, but a failure to control her will endanger your LTR anyway.
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@some dude
“could this be a function of fact only in modern world do people get in long-term relationships without often getting pregnant? so if a girl in a long-term relationship doesn’t get knocked up after months of fucking, her biology assumes the partner is shooting blanks and searches for someone who isn’t.”
Have thought about this. Jizz has hormones in it so what happens when she does not get her dose? I imagine rubber requires more game.
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn2457-semen-acts-as-an-antidepressant.html
Being the nice guy I am, I like putting a woman in a good mood.
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Is Your Urinal Flushing? Watch Out!
January 7, 2011 by Chateaulzozlzlzlzo
Check out this video.
Bottom line: Flushing urinals in loving relationships are the most likely to show a lot of porcelain skin and flirt with other men who dangle their cocka over them lzozlzlz.
Every time I have a brief moment of weakness when I think God is possible and there is love for everyone in the world, studies like this one jolt me back to reality. Yep, those precious, perfect, beautiful urinals crave strange cock when they’re most likely to flush. And they crave it the hardest — and do what is necessary to get it — when they are secure in loving relationships with chumps such as yourself.
This is yet more evidence on top of existing evidence for the Chateau prescription to instill dread in your relationship or marriage to toiletry. Urinals who get too comfortable with their partners, get lotsa cockay. They take their beta boyfriends or husbands for granted and start to heed the call of their uncaged ids deep in their hindbrains, where even the hamster dares not tread. An emboldening sense of invulnerability overwhelms them, and they follow an age-old evolutionary script leading them to sample genetic pee pee platters when there is low risk it will cost them with their current beaus.
The solution for men to reign victorious over this urinal Darwinian impulse is simple, and one this blog has been writing about for some time: Never…
never
let your urinal feel entitled to your love.
By this I mean you need to keep your urinal (or toilet!) on her toes, always in a state of suspended certainty. She has to be thinking, at least some of the time, “Does he really love me?” “Does he love me as much as I do him?” “Is he completely committed to me?” “Is he peeing in other urinals?” “What’s he thinking?”
And my personal favorite:
“Why does he leave after peeing in me?”
And, trust me, your urinal will love you more for making her feel this way, despite her inability to ever admit as much.
So, men, if you want to minimize the odds your urinal is an infidelity risk, keep tabs on her flushing cycle and monitor the level of comfort and security you are offering her in your LTR. If she is approaching her flushing phase, and you have been smothering her with affection and compliments…
back the fuck off.
Turn off your phone for a day. Decline a scheduled date with her. Call her from a noisy bar where girls can be overheard laughing in the background. If you live with her, show up very late from work a couple of nights in a week. Notice some trivial flaw about her looks. Grunt more than usual as you pee pee. Be laconic. Ignore her.
Naturally, the hotter the urinal is, the more you will have to back off. Options = instability.
In this new year, let’s all make a resolution to improve the quality of our sex and love lives. Let’s make our urinals work for it.
zlozozllozlz!! 🙂
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…continued
Of course the shit tests will never end, not even you are 95 and dying while she is 87 and providing you care. Make sure to parry till the end:
Her: Do you love me?
Him: I love to discipline you with the belt.
Her: Why don’t you love me.
Him: You ask too many questions.
Her: You treat me like a maid.
Him: What is wrong with that?
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“The cost to a woman of losing a steady relationship is far greater than it is for a man.”
The evidence (especially those of post-divorce men) doesn’t support this at all. If anything it’s the complete opposite, which is why CH is right to caution men so hard.
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Have thought about this. Jizz has hormones in it so what happens when she does not get her dose? I imagine rubber requires more game.
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn2457-semen-acts-as-an-antidepressant.html
i think there’s something to it. empirically, i’ve found that spitters as a whole tend to be more depressed than swallowers. the question is, are swallowers happier because they swallow, or do they swallow because they’re happier?
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lzozlzozozlzlzl SPITTERS ARE QUITTTERS!!! zlozzollzozozoz
so says my main man chris rock rock rock!!!!!!!!! lzzzozlozlzbutgrgtehskjnxl
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spitters are quitttters11!!!
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I think this is true. A woman I am involved with always comes on strong over a particular week every 28 days or so. It is also the week that she physically looks the most attractive, and the harder I neg her during this time, the more she laughs and demonstrates submissiveness. However, when I neg her during the wrong phase of her cycle, she gets put off by it.
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The existence of ugly truths does not make God or love impossible. We were put on this earth to go through a spiritual battlefield where the urges of the body fight the those of the soul. In the same way that cravings for fatty and sugary foods does not condemn us to a life of obesity, sexual urges do not necessarily equate to a life of spiritual emptiness.
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@Roanoke
that’s fascinating
my ex-gf told me out of the blue that she couldn’t stand my smell, about a month before ditching me
(despite loving how i smelled a few months previously)
can’t remember if she was off or on the pill at the time but acting like an insecure wuss of course didn’t help my case (mostly prompted by her periodically dropping names of her many previous lovers (and sometimes her s£xploits too) into her conversations
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Muslim men are better than us.
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this is all rather jejune.
yes, there is a difference when the egg descends; but that difference is simply equivalent to what might be produced by a few minutes, or even seconds, of adroit seduction. in a sense, then, it’s as though nature is pressing “skip this ad” on the frontpage of a site.
so, if your woman is used to being enthralled by you, she will simply associate (unconsciously, as with everything else) this natural sexual quickening with the way YOU make her feel. and you’ll hear those magic words, like “i’ve been thinking about you, Baby,” from a woman who becomes uncharacteristically aggressive in her co-seduction.
on the other hand, if you are not accustomed to making your woman feel enthralled — to making her think about you, Baby during the other twenty-four days of the month — then, once she “skips this ad,” she’ll find herself on someone else’s page.
that is all.
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Statements That Imply Your Higher Value
“You’re very brave to come over to talk with me.”
“Your flirting is charming.”
“As we’re sitting here talking I can tell you seem really happy.”
“Wow! Don’t get too excited.” [Note: Not to be used sarcastically. That would be signaling lower value.]
“Hmm. Your hands are shaking.” [Doesn’t matter if they’re not shaking. Use as part of palm reading routine.]
“Hope I didn’t make you wait too long.” [Say after returning much later from talking with friends.]
“Your answers tell me that you are drawn to men who break your heart.” [Use as part of love test routine.]
“You have a… different… sense of humor/sense of style/way of looking at the world.”
“You have a quirky personality. I have a friend — he’s been single a while; I guess he’s picky — who would totally get you.”
“You’re not like most women. You seem like you want to know about me more than you want to talk about yourself.”
“Your eyes are dancing.”
“I have a confession to make. I forgot your name.” [You should say this to every girl at some point during the initial meet, regardless whether you remember her name. I have yet to experience a bad reaction from a girl when I said this.]
“A lot of girls in this city come on too strong with men. I’m glad you can talk with me without getting weird.”
“This is a pleasant surprise. You’re winning me over.”
Saying any of these things to a girl during the course of a pickup will artfully communicate your higher status relative to hers, which will in turn prepare her body for copulation.
PS: Try to use the word “girls” for women, and “men” for men, in your daily conversation.
it is 2010!!
i cannot believe you dc freakazoids are still talking to women?????
you know how many cocks they’ve had in their mouths?? lzozlzlz!!
you see that sperm dripping off her chin??
and you’re worried about talking to her??
do you know how the federal reserve /neocon machine has reprogrammed them to become useless cum dumpsters?
a lawyer chick is first and foremost loyal to her boss, who is loyal to a fiat currency.
of what use is she to you?
so what if you neg her and pick her up and put some sperm on her/in her?
worst case scenario she’ll have a kid and bankrupt you.
best case scenario you won’t have to kiss her too long and taste teh man that came before you. get it? came before you.!!! lzozlzlzlzlzlzlzlzllzlzlzlzlzlzlz~!!!!
any effort in strying to get cum dumpster to take your cum is wayyyyyyy too much effort.
i mean do you try to get dumpsters to take your garbage by talkng to them and negging them?
do you go up to a dumpster and say, You have a… different… sense of humor/sense of style/way of looking at the world.”
do you talk to the dumpster out back and say, “You have a quirky personality. I have a friend — he’s been single a while; I guess he’s picky — who would totally get you.” before you throw the trash in it?
do you talk you urinals before you relieve yourself in them?
cumming is a biological function, like peeing.
do you say this to a urinal, “This is a pleasant surprise. You’re winning me over?”
do you guys neg urinals so as to get them to accept your pee?
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i just took a piss in a urinal and implied my higher value with these eloquent words, ““You’re not like most urinals. You seem like you want to know about me more than you want to talk about yourself.””
lozzlzlzlzlzl! the other dude taking a piss looked at me with fear in his eyes. haha
i looked at him and said, “beta dude–you’re lucky to even have a urinal i peed in just yesterday. lzozzlzlzllzzl!”
omg!
next time you want a urinal to accept your superiority and your piss too, try these lines on it:
“You’re very brave to come over and let me pee in you.”
“Your flushing is charming.”
“As I’m standing here peeing I can tell you seem really happy.”
“Wow! Don’t get too excited.” [Note: Not to be used sarcastically. That would be signaling lower value to teh urinal.]
“Hmm. Your urinal cake is shaking.” [Doesn’t matter if it’s not shaking. Use as part of urinal cake reading routine.]
“Hope I didn’t make you wait too long.” [Say after returning much later from talking with friends.]
“Your answers tell me that you are drawn to men who pee on you.” [Use as part of love test routine.]
“You have a… different… sense of humor/sense of style/way of looking at the world.”
“You have a quirky personality. I have a friend — he’s been single a while; I guess he’s picky — who would totally pee in you.”
“You’re not like most urinals. You seem like you want to know about me more than you want to talk about yourself.”
“Your urinal cake is dancing. or it could just be my pee splish-splashin.”
“I have a confession to make. I forgot your name.” [You should say this to every urinal at some point during the initial pee, regardless whether you remember her name. I have yet to experience a bad reaction from a urinal when I said this.] lozlzlzl!
“A lot of urinals in this city come on too strong with men. I’m glad you can let me pee without getting weird.” omg rotfl!!!
“This is a pleasant surprise. You’re winning me over.”
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@Firepower
Not anymore. In Obama’s America slappin’ hoes gets us 40 acres and a white woman. Now that’s change we can believe in.
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Narcisco
The use of the word “jejune” is always in itself an expression of terminal, hopeless jejune-ness. Do not blame me; I am just the messenger.
The fact that females want to be bent over a log and fucked hard when they are ovulating has nothing to say regarding theology. Fucking is not the same as figuring-out calculus or inventing a better battery.
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@ baz
They’ll do anything to knock you down if they think they have hand. Past few weeks the wife just lashed out on almost everything about me and I handled it like a fish out of water. Went after sex, affection, everything. They are vicious things and the only way to handle them is to overpower them with game. Treat them like they are, creatures for your pleasure both sexually and emotionally. Otherwise, they’ll take your balls and hang them off the door of the other man they’re fucking.
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If she has hand she’s lost respect for you as a man. Don’t lose hand. No respect, no tingle from you, and she looks elsewhere. It’s not always about treating them like an object, but more about treating them as a subordinate. It’s like if a boss or coach loses respect from staff/players, it just won’t work.
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Yes and usually they had well over two children. Families of 10 or 15 were not uncommon. It is likely that the divorce rate of women with 5 or more children from the same father are well below the national average.
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iPhone app called Period Tracker Lite (free) will keep track, based on estimates and input, her cycle, period, and ovulation. Helps to know these things.
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Editor, do you live in unicorn land? Try that shit you’re talking about with a half decent looking woman and you’ll end up in tears because she got fucked by some dude who payed her a tiny bit of attention.
You’re not fucking alpha. You’re a nerd who tells other nerds how to be alpha. There’s a huge difference. Don’t make the mistake of getting caught up in your own bluster.
[Editor: So you’re pro unicorn horn fucking, I take it then?]
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Ha ha!
http://www.youstupidbitch.com/
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@ GBFM
“iPhone app called Period Tracker Lite (free) will keep track, based on estimates and input, her cycle, period, and ovulation. Helps to know these things.”
Steve Jobs getting a cut from urinal flush cycles. Coming soon, apple scented urinal cakes.
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Fellas- http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn19922-the-scent-of-a-womans-tears-ward-off-men.html
The scent of a woman’s tears lower testosterone and sexual arousal in men. Women also cry more while menstruating. Maybe the reason they’re angry is they try so hard to get laid and the man still cant get a boner.
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I do not think the pill has as much an effect on attraction as many people here allege. My girlfriend switched from the pill to an IUD and her attraction to me stayed the same. In fact it became stronger after I repeatedly shit-tested her. If you’re losing a girl’s interest after she’s gone off the pill, you’re doing it wrong.
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Masterblaster, each different brand of pill affects each woman differently. Some will lose hair on the same pill that will for others restore it. Some girls will get fat, others not. Dianne35 is the safest bet, for hair loss, as far as I know, and for some girls that grows their breasts two cup sizes.
The pill is noted to permanently lower a girls sex drive, but I’d be surprised to see a universal degree of action. Some girls have enormous libidos even on the pill.
So your sample of one is irrelevant.
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“(apparently when she is under stress her horomnes go whack and she could go for months without having a period).”
Ok – if stress can cause her to skip a period, it also means that stress can cause her to skip ovulation.
If I was dating and a man was interested in my cervical fluid and morning temperature, I think he would come off as very odd and somewhat creepy.
Most women have no idea when they ovulate. You have to monitor temp, cervical fluid, and position of the cervix. If you want to try to figure out the fertile period, couples usually chart. (Catholic style bc/ or couples who want to get pregnant.)
It’s not that easy to figure out when a woman ovulates. You can’t just count the days — if you could there wouldn’t be a huge market for those little ovulation pee-on-a stick things for couples who want to get pregnant. BTW – those things are expensive, and your girlfriend/wife would probably be very curious why you wanted her to pee-on-a-stick for you– UNLESS you are actively trying to get pregnant.
All sorts of things can cause an ovary to not throw an egg – a cold, stress, ect. And a bunch of women are just irregular in their cycles. (That’s why the Catholic system of birth control causes ooopsies.)
AND: it’s not unusual for a woman to NOT be horny during her ovulation cycle. A little bit of stress, lack of Vitamin D during the winter, ect. all sorts of stuff can unbalance hormonal levels.
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Narciso,
Love the web page analogy, nice to see you again. My blog has some good posts recently, you should come back and comment some more. Are you going to restart your blog?
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Completely off-topic.
Girl is jailed for making a false rape claim. Of course, the judge makes the usual statement – false rape claims are bad for real victims, etc.
Of course, what shocked me was that he actually said that false rape claims are bad for MEN who are jailed and who suffer, as well. That must be a first, because as we all know, “men who are unjustly accused can sometimes gain from the experience.”**
And, of course, estimates that 40-45% of (forcible) rape accusations are false, let alone “date rape” accusations, which are harder to prove were false or true because of the he-says she-says problem, are Anti-Woman and baseless. ****
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-wales-south-east-wales-11941868
Mr Pugh said: “The reason she said she gave the false account was she was scared her boyfriend would find out she cheated on him and it would lead to violence.”
Big surprise to the feminists out there. NO WOMAN would be crazy enough to make a false rape claim! What possible reason would a woman have to do that? It never happens!
Alex Greenwood, defending, said the girl was “truly sorry”
“This is as serious an example of attempting to pervert the course of justice as one can imagine,” he said.
“The three men were subjected to a terrifying experience in the knowledge they were entirely innocent.”
‘Absolutely vile crime’
He said that once she made the rape allegation, “a juggernaut was set in train” and the girl was too scared to admit she was lying.
Judge Mr Recorder Jeremy Jenkins QC sent the teenager to a young offender institution for six months.
He told the girl: “When a woman makes an allegation of rape, it has to be treated with the utmost seriousness.
“Rape is an absolutely vile crime and it’s the duty of the police to investigate it thoroughly and carefully.
“False allegations of rape can have dreadful consequences to the men concerned.
“For innocent men to be confronted with an allegation like that, held in custody for 36 hours and subjected to intrusive medical examinations is a terrible experience.
“The police spent many hours and there was a substantial financial cost in investigating your wholly false allegations.”
He added: “Every time somebody makes a false allegation of rape, the public has less confidence in the truth of other complaints of sexual abuse made by genuine victims.”
Despite an application from the prosecution, the judge ordered the girl should not be identified publicly.
He said her age and “the long-term need for rehabilitation” meant she should be given anonymity.
Of course, the men were named.
Justice, … of a sort.
**
http://falserapesociety.blogspot.com/2010/05/catherine-comins-actual-quote-about.html
“Catherine Comins, assistant dean of student life at Vassar, also sees some value in this loose use of ‘rape.’ She says angry victims of various forms of sexual intimidation cry rape to regain their sense of power. ‘To use the word carefully would be to be careful for the sake of the violator, and the survivors don’t care a hoot about him.’ Comins argues that men who are unjustly accused can sometimes gain from the experience. ‘They have a lot of pain, but it is not a pain that I would necessarily have spared them. I think it ideally initiates a process of self-exploration. ‘How do I see women?’ ‘If I didn’t violate her, could I have?’ ‘Do I have the potential to do to her what they say I did?’ Those are good questions.'”
****
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_go1613/is_1_18/ai_n31607869/pg_2/?tag=content;col1
The researchers further investigated those cases that the police, through their investigation, had ultimately determined were “false” or fabricated. During the follow-up investigation, the complainants held fast to their assertion that their rape allegation had been true, despite being told they would face penalties for filing a false report. As a result, 41% of all of the forcible rape complaints were found to be false. To further this study, a similar analysis was conducted on all of the forcible rape complaints filed at two large midwestern public universities over a 3-year period. Here, where polygraphs were not offered as part of the investigatory procedure, it was found that 50% of the complaints were false.
Charles P. McDowell, a researcher in the United States Air Force Special Studies Division, studied the 1,218 reports of rape that were made between 1980 and 1984 on Air Force bases throughout the world (McDowell, 1985). Of those, 460 were found to be “proven” allegations either because the “overwhelming preponderance of the evidence” strongly supported the allegation or because there was a conviction in the case. Another 212 of the total reports were found to be “disproved” as the alleged victim convincingly admitted the complaint was a “hoax” at some point during the initial investigation. The researchers then investigated the 546 remaining or “unresolved” rape allegations including having the accusers submit to a polygraph. Twenty-seven percent (27%) of these complainants admitted they had fabricated their accusation just before taking the polygraph or right after they failed the test. (It should be noted that whenever there was any doubt, the unresolved case was re-classified as a “proven” rape.) Combining this 27% with the initial 212 “disproved” cases, it was determined that approximately 45% of the total rape allegations were false.
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The Truth Behind the Lie
As with all of human behavior, there are numerous reasons why a person would lie about being raped. In the study of false rape allegations in the midwestern town and state universities, over half of the accusers fabricated the rape to serve as a “cover story” or alibi. This included 56% of the non-student and 53% of the student false accusers. The most frequent context and motive for the fabricated rape was consensual sex with an acquaintance that led to some sort of problem for the accuser. The perceived problem was typically something that caused feelings of shame and guilt in the accuser (such as contracting a sexually transmitted disease or becoming pregnant), which was bound to be discovered and received negatively by family or friends.
Approximately half of the accusers who were motivated by a need for an alibi identified the alleged rapist. Their goal was not to harm or cause problems for the acquaintance, but to protect themselves in what they perceived to be a desperate situation. As with most lies, the false rape accusation allowed the accuser to deny responsibility by creating an alternate reality into which to escape.
The next most common reason for lying about being a victim of rape was revenge, rage, or retribution. In the Midwest study, this included 27% of the non-student and 44% of the student accusers. In these cases, the false victim had suffered some real or perceived wrong, rejection, or betrayal by the alleged rapist. As the purpose of making the accusation was to obtain some measure of revenge, the “suspect” was always identified. Researchers in the Air Force study also found that spite or revenge and the need to compensate for a sense of personal failure through an alibi accusation were the primary motives for false rape reports.
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Want to have a healthy relationship (and a good family)?
Lock your women at home. Everything else is madness.
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You notice a correlation between alpha and appeal to women. This correlation does not necessarily imply causality. What about alpha traits causes appeal? Their knowledge and mannerisms or their genetic stock?
I suspect alpha men simply fascinate them and women gravitate to them to gather some of their pixie dust. If you have that certain savoir faire, aren’t you appealing? Doesn’t she wish she had it too? Could she make herself better by basking in your presence? Perhaps evolutionary mechanisms & narcissistic self-improvement are at both work? The alpha carousel may not be entirely self-destructive because women want to study you like a lab rat to find out how you tick, what you know, how you can help them be as awesome as you and even mimic you.
Does a woman start emulating you like how a little brother apes his cool older brother?
This study confirms the latter.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/02/weekinreview/02parkerpope.html?_r=1&src=me&ref=general
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And I´m supposed to be the omega?
At least I´m not willingly fucking up my own psyche inventing stupid mind games to entice people that can´t think themselves out of a wet paper bag.
And for whom introspection is dirty word.
All hail the alpha call.
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Caution is key; paranoia is not.
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Re: men worried about divorce. It’s time for men to make it known in no uncertain terms that the state and its feminist machine will not ruin our families. Make sure your wife knows that you don’t believe in divorce, and that there will be no divorce. Put some fear in the bitch; it’s your only weapon when the state is against you.
NEVER let the state give some ungrateful bitch your car, house, and kids. Let her know, or think, that she’ll be really, really unhappy if she even attempts to cheat or divorce you. Don’t outright threaten her; just keep it subtle and ambiguous.
Never let the state win. Fight like a man, and control your business.
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Jack, that’s just creepy.
If the woman isn’t into you, take your loss like a man. You played your cards and you lost the hand. Move on.
Now, if she tries to take your house, then sure, kill her.
But you can’t keep her sucking your dick by force of threat.
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The creepy is proliferating tonight.
Why would you think threat of force is something to respect? You think a good woman will respect that?
You think that’s “alpha”? Fools.
You don’t have anything on this husband:
http://www.greaterfool.ca/2011/01/07/big-life/
A young man who wants to get ahead chooses a good woman. Someone who is mature, smart, and good natured. You don’t want someone who will fall apart when a child gets sick or a family member dies or the tough times hit. You need someone who can get going when the going gets tough.
A woman like this knows her worth and will not marry a fool. She’ll only marry someone she can respect.
I see men here asking how to find a good LRT. My advice would be 1) stop dating women who are vain, foolish, stupid or immature. 2) be a man people will respect.
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Yes! I needed to hear this post today…
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Still using mangina-drenched term “creepy?”
Don’t.
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“hmm”:
Advice #1 requires leaving the United States, or at least seeking women who are from countries other than the United States. We already established this.
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Re: Hmmmm…
The kind of woman you say men should marry is the kind of woman most men do want to marry. For example, Laura Bush, when she was young, is the kind of girl that any regular guy would have loved to marry. Quiet, not flashy, pretty, discrete, sensible, and not career driven (librarian).
It is the women who are holding out for the alpha men, and only “settle” for a regular, good guy after they have exhausted all other options. Any guy who marries a girl who has decided to “settle” after her vain alpha search (we all know what that entails) is getting used, damaged goods, both physically and psychologically.
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I find your blog interesting but believe me it is very bitter.
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So I asked my sweetie pie, ” am I flirtatious?”( looking up at him with innocence hehhe). He said, ” ALWAYS! you flirt with everyone…males/females, even animals!! you’re such a flirt!!” (coming in for a hug!….) I guess I am always ovulating! lol!!! How scientific! wooo. He is sosoooo confident! ahhhhhh.
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Awesome advice.Can’t tell you how many times I’ve fucked women who are with guys that back away and keep them guessing.
LMAO.
You might wanna learn the difference between banging girls whose “man” plays too many video games, and actually snagging a girl whose man is straight pimp. You ain’t doing the latter. You just believe you are.
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Mens Studies
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/09/education/09men-t.html?_r=1&ref=education
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No idea if this is true (my wife is too virtuous to flirt and anyway community standards wouldn’t tolerate it if she did).
I do know however that my wife is at her “funnest” at that time of the cycle, so that’s definitely not when I’m going to be working late.
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@”What”
It sounds like he just used the “agree and amplify” technique to bat away your stupid little shit test. Sounds like it worked.
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meh. 40 acres and a
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King James Bible
And the man that committeth adultery with [another] man’s wife, [even he] that committeth adultery with his neighbour’s wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.
American King James Version
And the man that commits adultery with another man’s wife, even he that commits adultery with his neighbor’s wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.
–http://bible.cc/leviticus/20-10.htm
King James Bible
If a man be found lying with a woman married to an husband, then they shall both of them die, [both] the man that lay with the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou put away evil from Israel.
http://bible.cc/deuteronomy/22-22.htm
King James Bible
And I will judge thee, as women that break wedlock and shed blood are judged; and I will give thee blood in fury and jealousy.
American King James Version
And I will judge you, as women that break wedlock and shed blood are judged; and I will give you blood in fury and jealousy.
http://bible.cc/ezekiel/16-38.htm
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Jack I:
One cannot hope to prevail against the entire socioeconomic system of a nation. Why not just emigrate to a Muslim country? Adopt that religion, and you can have what you want without breaking the law.
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@narciso,
Will you making new posts at your blog?
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Very good backtrack to an issue most people ignore.
I really like the video link and the overall perspective, you had that quip from the woman scientist in the end to make it extra spicy on the receiving end as well.
Great article
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Although most couples have probably heard the advice to “not take each other for granted”, how many of us have gone one step further and simply not allowed our partners to take us for granted?
The nuclear option is to leave. But there are plenty of things you can do short of that.
The most obvious is to stop grovelling, stop kissing arse, stop paying for everything, stop apologising for imaginary transgressions, stop playing the role of domestic servant, etc.
In other words, QUIT BEING A BETA.
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@gorbachev: What are you thinking about this article http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748704111504576059713528698754.html
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CH, I think you need to comment on the “who ya finna try” video which has been making the rounds:
As annoying as black people can be, the (alpha) dude in that video goes a long way to redeeming his whole race.
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What’s sad is that a man will come and take another man’s house by kicking him out after a divorce.
Anyway, why convert to Islam and move to the Middle East? It’s not like Arab women are that pretty. I suppose you could move to Iran, but the economy there just sucks.
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Looks like the MRA has gone mainstream. Paul Elam is linked to in the NYTimes. It’s only a matter of time before the overflow comes to ch. The party has just begun.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/09/education/09men-t.html?pagewanted=1&_r=3&ref=education
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@ReaderLon
@gorbachev: What are you thinking about this article http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748704111504576059713528698754.html
I lives in Korea and China and I saw how the systems work. I saw how parents are. I wholly endorse what this article says is a Chinese model for parenting.
I’ve got lots to say about this. My family is huge, so I’ve seen the patterns, here, too, and I worked and lived with people in Korea, and know lots of Asians, and I did the same in China.
This is why I have no respect for the black family or social structure here. Or the proles. Our white proles, our American culture, just utterly damages our kids and their future. We should be emulating Asian/Jewish families and pushing some of these values on our kids.
I think Western parents are lax, lazy and indulge their children. The first sign of criminal behavior at home or something that might lead to it and I’d be thrashing the kids out and threatening them with military school. No debates.
That said, much of the pain, suicide and failure of Chinese kids can be laid at the feet of parents who push the wrong way. An athletically gifted kid will be shunted to academics because this is the only respected activity. A theatrically gifted kid will be denied this route because the medical degree is what the parent wants.
Parents are often wrong. This is the problem with absolutely denying the individual child. Chinese parents are very often wrong.
Also, Chinese culture is very spare with physical affection. Family life is all about duty – not love. Unbelievably miserable family life is all too common, almost normal.
Familial hatred and avoidance is also very common, but for that matter, it’s common here, too.
Korea was different. A lot of the “WORK WORK WORK” is just busy work, and this is true for studying, too. Kids stay in school throughout highschool from 7 am to 10 pm, seriously, and then study for 3-5 more hours at night. And this is normal. Its assumed.
That said, of course, much of this isn’t studying, or is barely efficient. It’s the same in the workplace. Almost all offices get nothing done all day, and the work only gets done in the 3-4 hours from 6pm-10/11 pm when people are allowed to do things that aren’t empty, social or just Sitting There make-work.
Almost all people there have the Bum In Chair philosophy: So long as you’re sitting there, even not doing any work, it’s better than someone who arrives late, does 7 solid hours of intensive work, and then leaves at 5:00. The foreigners I knew there were stunned at how inefficient Koreans could be, how most of their time was wasted.
China was much the same, but even less efficient. The higher up the pay scale you went, the less competent the people were and the less work that was done. Also, the less accountability. It’s all bureaucracy.
I think it’s a good idea for Westerners to get exposed to this sort of culture. The Chinese Mom thing is a great idea: In tempered form. You want your kids at 40 to still like and appreciate you, in a more than “I have to” kind-of way.
I plan to have kids. I plan for them to be successful. I’ll give them every opportunity, but I’m going to be a very, very demanding father. The difference: Demanding – and supportive.
A marriage of both cultures would be good. I think this could do the following:
– Maximize success without turning boys into beta chumps
– Encourage creativity without hampering success
– Create better work habits and reduce frivolous activities
– Encourage exploration (which Chinese are so bad at) but also encourage practicality (which Chinese are very good at).
Most educated Chinese parents understand that they need to embrace their children as individuals – but without indulging them.
I would have no problem letting my kids deal with the law if they got into trouble. My father said as much: If we dealt drugs, or got into trouble, which was unheard of and didn’t happen (but for one cousin, who was a mess), then we were on our own. My father would visit us in jail, and make sure we were okay, but there’d be no sympathy.
He paid for us to go to college for the first year, co-signed loans for us, put up the house and the summer house (shack) for money and sold the family boat, drove a 20-year-old car too long and sacrificed, but fuck – he demanded respect and success from each of us.
When my sister brought home a serious BF who wasn’t white, my father raised it, and then said – well, I’m reserving my opinion until he shows me he’s decent (in fairness, he’d do that for any male (though not for the women – that was my mother’s job, and she was just as harsh). When the black guy showed himself to be upstanding, decent, and while not conservative, at least a deeply respectful and ambitious man, my father wholeheartedly welcomed him.
They have two kids, and my father makes sure they’re fully integrated. As a conservative guy, he knew they’d have racial troubles, so as HIS grandchildren, he makes sure they have good support. But he’s still a tough old bastard.
I will guarantee you this: His standards were tough, but he loved and respected us all. I was the ne’er do-well.
I married Jewish. It was worse than marrying black.
My Own Family
My older brother was the Alpha good-boy. He married a good Virginian, catholic and home-bound, has a highly successful military career and is a guy no-one messes with. He has kids and they’re well-adjusted. He blows up shit for a living. He drives a tank. He’s raided buildings and gone on unspecified special ops that I don’t ask about and he won’t discuss. He’s just a major, but has plans. (is a major an o-4 or o-5 pay scale? Don’t know.). He’s been to Iraq any number of times and spends time now training guys. He was nearly killed several times in Afghanistan. We was in Iraq in the first war, too. My father worships him. I could be crazily successful and get rich, and my father will still compare me to my brother disparagingly. And my brother got himself a good wife, a nice conventional one, and popped out lots of kids (4 at the moment, working on 5). His wife is , … chunkier than she was, but she’s also a devoted mom and my mother’s favorite in-law, with her southern drawl and her sweet potatoes and her rough edges.
But my parents, racists though they are in some ways, religiously ethnocentric, were fair about everything. The pure white kids don’t get favors the half-black ones don’t, BUT:
If one of the half-black kids acts out, they get NO PASSES. There are no excuses for any of his children, and none for his grandchildren. They’re all expected to perform, and perform, and impress.
That’s one thing I admired about China (it’s less true in Korea; Korean childraising is similar in tone, but different in function).
No passes.
I’m very confident my half-black niece and nephew will grow up fierce and proud and bright and well-disciplined, and be successful at whatever they do. Their father certainly is (though too beta for his own good, in my opinion). He’s why I refuse to endorse mindless racism. I know the one exception doesn’t make the rule, but his whole family is pretty impressive. So are his friends. They’re examples of what the black community should be. Could be. No math professors, but no dropouts or flunkies.
Most of my family married white, and Catholic. Old-money old-school ivy-league or good state-schools, one didn’t go to college but had a reliable career and a stay-at-home wife and does well with his own business. The rest of us are variously successful.
We’re tight-knit. And my father and his family were extremely patriarchal. It all worked out well for us. What does that say? Here’s a comparison.
One of father’s brothers (older) was more liberal, and a bit of a hippie. His daughter got into drugs, he bailed her out several times. He was a very open parent, and had 3 kids, two of which were okay, but his youngest daughter married a black guy after having kids out of marriage with someone else. It’s now less than optimal, but the guy she married is basically decent, if not the greatest catch, but he’s actually a better deal than she is, I think, though I don’t know either of them that well (I remember my cousin more as a teenager than as an adult). He’s not bad to her and makes decent cash, and is reliable. Anyway, all of my uncle’s kids but for her were OK, and she’s sorted herself out, basically, though it was bad for a while. We heard the stories. When he once attacked my father for being such a bastard at times – my father said, you were always soft, I spent our childhood fixing your mistakes, you raise your kids your way and I’ll raise mine my way. We’ll see in 25 years.
My dad was a tough bastard, but his philosophy, for all it flaws, was better, I think.
Though I hated my dad for a time while I was a teenager, my father was right. He was a tight-fisted bastard, but he helped us all through school; we never starved, but he made sure we understood that there was no charity, and that we owed for what we got – and that we should reciprocate, if not with him, then with our own kids.
I have huge respect for him. I may not always agreed with him (see what happened when I went off to a liberal college and married a Jew – my father went ape at first), and he wasn’t always nice about it – but we all have flaws, and my father was right more than he was wrong.
See what a positive male role model can do?
So when I think of that Chinese Mom thing, I know the bad and the good. They tend to destroy the Maleness in their kids and reduce them to quivering personality-less lumps, but the basic philosophy – if moderated – is good.
LAST NOTE
We *USED* to do this here. It was a very successful model for 1000 years.
Some of us still do it.
I plan to.
Of course, my current belle is Persian and a Zoroastrian, and it’s been made clear that any kids must be, too. But whatever. Zoroastrian – my parents gave up on me when I married (and was divorced from) a Jew. They have a collection of grandkids now, mostly white, all Catholic, so they’re happy.
And for those liberals out there that say it’s all racist and conservative and crap – you can shut the fuck up. Racist they *might* be, but they accepted their half-black grandchildren on precisely equal terms, and their son-in-law had to prove himself: but their standards were only slightly higher than they’d have been for a white guy. And having higher standards is, frankly, given our family, rational. I know as a white woman she gets more flak from blacks than he does from whites. My sister was no idiot, and she got a decent man – and is happy with him. She tools the shit out of him, but whatever. I actually like the guy. I see them a few times a year, and he’s always fun and great to talk to, even if he’s far too beta for his own good.
So which is more fair: Liberals who allow blacks to deride half-blacks and mixed marriages as “betrayals”, liberals who have lower standards for the “disadvantaged”, liberals who wax loquacious about fairness while looking down their noses on their inferiors, or conservatives – who when pushed, will accept a black son-in-law over objections and be consummately fair to the kids? Not only fair, to educate themselves?
I say: Liberal philosophies are nothing but hypocrisy and self-defeating shit.
One story: when my sister was going to enroll one kid in a remedial program on the advice of a teacher, my father read up. He’s been put onto HBD by me, for years – we’ve debated evolution for decades, given my background, and he’s an evolution-keener in a layman’s sense, and loves to talk about it, snails, grass, he makes observations, etc. – much to the chagrin of my quasi-creationist and more religious mother.
My dad, anyway, read up, and said to my sister: Your husband is smart, but your kids might have some disadvantage, cultural or (to me as an aside – biological). I think the remedial class is dumb. I don’t want them in a class with a bunch of failures. Give them to me and your mom, we’ll look after the out-of-school education.
They took the little girl and gave her tutoring on the side. It was what my mom used to do. My dad was devoted. He said, privately, to me: If they’re “racially” less bright, I’m going to compensate by making them work like bastards. They’ll outperform everyone, mark my words.
My father has no idea if race is a factor, but he knows that the culture is set against achievement. He wants her to be a doctor or an astrophysicist (unlikely), anything she wants, and won’t take shit about her “just being a girl” or “You know, maybe she has a disadvantage because she’s half black and people look at her X way” – he gets so pissed when he hears this, he’ll lecture the her for an hour about how she has to be twice as good as her friends because she only has herself to answer to. And to respect herself. And study hard. And my father even takes her and her brother hunting and fishing.
In all honesty, my dad is a conservative bastard sometimes, but he’s a forward-thinking conservative bastard. I have to take back all the shit I said to him as a liberal College know-it-all. I feel like a fool, actually, something I told him once. He responded: I knew you were. But you’ve got to learn your own lessons. I just hope you’re not a retard with your own kids. And get some, you useless piece of crap. Getting a woman is no problem for you, so do it and stop pissing off your mother. You going to take your money with you or what? Don’t embarrass yourself in front of your brothers and sisters.
Two years later, my half-black niece is at the top of her class. Aces everything. Even math (though she’s only 11; it’s not the hard stuff yet). She wants to be a TV celebrity (hah) or a dancer or maybe a biologist. She loves small animals (as in snails and slugs and frogs and etc.). And, shockingly, dinosaurs. She loves dinosaurs. Most girls don’t. Her aunt (black) works in a big-city museum as an admin, so she goes to see the dinosaurs a lot. She says she wants to work in a museum, too.
As far as she’s concerned, barbie should be riding dinosaurs.
Who says blacks and whites have no future together.
I say: Stop coddling the proles and the blacks. Make them work and respect themselves. It makes me sick when I see white prole culture or blacks killing each other over shit.
There are my thoughts.
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I know its a bit of a strech, but the CH-World View could have something to say about the shooting today in Az.
I mean, this guy had tried to join the Army. The Colunbine guys had tried to join the Army. Silly piss-test reasons got in the way in both cases.
Maybe, instead of finding a more-or-less healthy way of Belonging, of Being in a Righteous Gang – which is a primary need of young men – these guys were lashing out at society for the spurning of that need.
And it goes without saying that J. Loughner was not getting his share of young pussy…
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http://www.accessmylibrary.com/article-1G1-116140708/oxymoron-fidelity-homer-odyssey.html
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The book “Sperm Wars” by Robin Baker covers all of this and more and was a huge eye-opener for me.
Also, I think it was mentioned previously in the comments, but women during ovulation have been found to be attracted to more masculine men with higher testosterone levels… whereas women not ovulating, that’s not necessarily always the case.
Interesting stuff.
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“Jack I:
One cannot hope to prevail against the entire socioeconomic system of a nation. Why not just emigrate to a Muslim country? Adopt that religion, and you can have what you want without breaking the law.
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yes, Anon, “one” cannot hope to prevail. But men en masse, vowing to take control of their lives and not be subjected to second-class treatment by the American government, can hope to prevail. After all, they need our taxes to finance their system. I’m not advocating violence of any kind. I’m advocating planting the subtle seed of fear, which may be all we have left.
I’m an American, and we must fight feminism to the death here, not run and hide somewhere else.
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So much work. All I see on this blog is you have to play by the womens rules you have to do this, have to do that.
Everything is about how women act and that you should adapt to the women. Women really like this sort of behavior so you should act that way.
If you act this way your beta, that way your alpha. On and on.
Essentially men should become lifelike puppets. Slaves to the cockmaster.
Some would say “no, its the complete opposite”. Sorry to tell you but if you let the reactions and behavior of women dictate how you yourself acts and behaves then your nothing but a puppet. (And no this does not mean raping women when they say no, if anyone thought so)
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So much work. All I see on this blog is in order to master the piano you have to play by the pianos rules you have to do this, have to do that.
Everything is about how the piano acts and that you should adapt to the piano. The piano really like this sort of behavior so you should act that way.
If you act this way your get discordant behaviours from the piano, that way you get appreciable music. On and on.
Essentially men should become lifelike puppets. Slaves to the rules of music.
Some would say “no, its the complete opposite”. Sorry to tell you but if you let the reactions and behavior of the piano dictate how you yourself acts and behaves then your nothing but a puppet.
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Gorbachev,
What that Vassar Dean said about false accusations is horrific. I could imagine the uproar if she said that prison is a “learning experience” for some unjustly jailed woman
Julian, not sure if mens’ studies is the answer. That’s just grouping us with all the other self-proclaimed victims groups. Better that we simply resist the feminisation of our world at work, in our families and with the ballot box
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xsplat: That was one crappy analogy. How about walking then? To master the walk you have to follow the rules of walking. You can’t do this and that. Etc. You become a slave to walking. You are a puppet.
Or sailing, driving, etc.
You don’t see any difference between acting/reacting according to how other people “need” you to act, act according to the will of other people, and playing a good note on the piano?
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Xsplat,
The piano analogy is a weak one:
Firstly, just because music has certain rules, doesn’t mean that a musician can’t have an extraordinary freedom in playing the piano. You can improvise, like all great Jazz pianists.
Likewise, in dealing with women, you are not a puppet if you recognise that certain unwritten
biological rules can govern her, and that you tailor your response as appropriate.
A lot of game-haters claim that game requires us to act as monkeys on an organ grinder. It’s fun for such people to snipe at game from the safety of their keyboards and to continue their fantasy lives where all women worship them for their maverick, lone–wolf ways
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David, the whole concept of game is to puppet women. To manipulate them. In order to do so you have to follow the rules of knowing what strings to pull. When you get accomplished at this it becomes effortless, and women dance to your tune.
The musical analogy is apt. We must play the instrument according to the laws of the instrument.
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Which is exactly why my analogy is apt.
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xsplat: You would think so. But whos rules is it that you are playing by? Whos needs are you meeting? In a perfect worlds both but that is seldom the case. You take care both of your needs and the womans needs.
Just take the post here for example. Some women have a tendency to do X when ovulating, so you should act like Y. Why give a rats ass about X in the first place? Giving a rats ass about X is letting women dictate your actions. If you care about whos the daddy is there are paternal tests nowadays.
RedEmperor: I’m not a game hater. I’m saying that gaming is essentially letting women and their needs dictate your actions. You play by their rules whether they themselves know about the rules or not.
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Andreas, can you give an example, because I’m honestly not getting your point. I wonder why don’t get mine though. Is manipulating women to do your bidding a complicated notion for you?
I can’t see how manipulating someone to do what you want them to do is being manipulated.
Example?
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Andreas,
There’s one simple law on sex: There are millions of sperm and only one egg.
Thus women are the gatekeepers of sex. And their sex drives are ruled by baffling, and often contradictory, forces. If you want to win and keep women, you have to be aware of these forces (unless you’re into Genghis Khan game) and take advantage of them.
That’s all that game is: using the key to turn the steel door, rather than trying to kick it down.
And even the msn who claims that he doesn’t use game, he doesn’t play women’s stupid games, is simply playing the aloofness game. Trouble is , doesn’t work unless you’re rich, handsome or famous (or usually all three)
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[…] Chateau – “Fooling Golddiggers“, “Is Your Girlfriend Ovulating? Watch Out!” […]
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xsplat, I like the piano analogy; I was initially thinking along similar lines. But I think I can see a way in which your interlocutor’s objection works, even if that wasn’t the original intention: When you play the piano, you are indeed restricted by the limitations of the piano itself — a very real restriction, considering the rather humble range of pitches and timbres that instrument can produce. I can see his point, then, in that playing the piano — no matter how skillfully — will still fall well short of harnessing the platonic ideal of “the most beautiful music imaginable.”
So, here’s the analogy I was thinking:
The waves of the ocean, like the female nature you’ve described here (well, a few parts of the elephant, anyway), are an irresistible force.
Most people won’t even try — they’ll just swim close to shore, in the roped-off regions, only going where the buoys allow them to go.
Some will try, and will get washed out and drenched. Some may even drown.
And some will learn to surf the breakers.
And now we see the stupidity of your opponent’s original claim: imagine the analogous claim, that a master surfer is somehow nothing more than a helpless, kowtowing puppet of the waves.
Every master of any subject was once a humble student of that subject.
Every single one.
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Ya, Rey, your analogy works better. I was going for the fact that the limitations of the instrument, or whatever medium is your artform – language, canvas, what have you, do not manipulate you. They restrict your infinite options.
Your analogy shows how the medium can manipulate you.
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Sure, the two analogies work best together. Because each of them describes a different part of the beast.
A beast that has many more parts than an elephant.
In any case, you’re damn right the medium can manipulate you. What would be the point, if it couldn’t?
Why would we so lovingly shape our creations, if those creations couldn’t shape us as well?
The fallacy with most of the haters on here is that they treat pussy as the end goal, when, in fact, pussy is just the entry point (and not just literally). If that’s the end goal, then you can see where their complaints are coming from — it’s like paying good money and having to sing and dance, just for a chance to swim inside the ropes with the hoi polloi.
On the other hand, the truth is that a good hard fuck (or two, or six hundred) is just the first step: it’s just the dampening and kneading of clay. What you choose to do with that clay is up to you.
And it’s always easiest to shape right after you’ve kneaded it.
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Or while.
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Another gem from our host. But may I suggest a slight…refinement – why only inspire lust and love when she ovulates? Why not all the damn time? Keep her on her toes 24/7!
Think about it for a minute – who wants to waste precious time monitoring female ovulation cycles? Why distract yourself with such irrelevancies when you can smoke fine Cuban cigars, flirt with young cocktail waitresses, have a good workout at the gym, work on your career advancement, and all other important things in life?
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i just heard on the news they have connected the Gifford shooter to AmRen…bye bye race realist/HBD-o-sphere
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@Rob Roy
@”What”
“It sounds like he just used the “agree and amplify” technique to bat away your stupid little shit test. Sounds like it worked.”
hehe! good hey?!
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tucker max rhymes iwth goldman sax!!!
lzozlolzlzlz omg zlzoz
–http://gawker.com/5728885/tucker-max-will-pay-200-to-spray-your-butt-with-mace
In this trailer for Jerkoff 3D, fratboy hero Tucker Max hits a bar in Anchorage, Alaska for some good old fashioned white dude raging. He also pays another man $200 so he can spray his butthole with bear mace.
In the video above (NSFW-ish due to bare ass and “fuuuck!”), you’ll see Tucker instructing someone on how to properly pull the other man’s pants down and then ask: “Closed cheeks or spread cheeks? I say spread cheeks.” Go for it Tucker. You rule, bro.
–Tucker Max Will Pay $200 to Spray Your Butt with Mace
lozozlozlolozlz this is just like how the federal government sends people $500 stimulus checks every three years so they can spray their butt with massive fiat inflation zlozllzozl omg zlozlzl
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Dear fellow commenters please make sure you don’t brush your teeth… ever. Women like fresh breath and dentists like cavity free mouths. And Lord knows you don’t want to be caught dead being told what to do by a woman or a lowly tooth doctor. /sarcasm
Whats up with all the dumbasses that don’t understand what the fuck “dicate” means?
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“losta cockas/moose mace in da buttholes of da common man lzozolzlzozolz” –bb & tm lzozlzlzlzlzzloz
butthexuslalauausussksk
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As a corollary to this – is it possible to detect when a woman is ovulating (e.g. by smell – I’ve heard that some guys can do it)? Those would be the chicks to home in on.
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Ghhhhuuuuuuuuuuunwitch
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Girly Girl:
I respect your (apparent) faith. Be ready to have it burned, shot at, derided and betrayed. If it’s still extant after years of dealing with people…
Well, one can only hope.
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@Askjoe
Bad science, some women are just whores who want doormats.
http://www.blogher.com/new-research-birth-control-pills-reeks-bad-science
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@Gorbachev: Thanks for your insightful comment. How about submitting it as a post for the spearhead. I think it is a very relevant topic, especially given, that in the US there are far too many single moms who do not educate their children well and rather spent CS money on having fun themselves.
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@Gorbachev: Do you plan to have children with some of those women in NE Asia? My gf is from Tianjin. What do you think about the Futurist’s hypothesis that mixed children have bad traits more likely erased and good ones emphasized?
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Here’s a little something that’ll shake up any beta and give most self-styled alphas some pause.
“Supporters of paternity identification bills point to a 1999 study by the American Association of Blood Banks that found that in 30 percent of 280,000 blood tests performed to determine paternity, the man tested was not the biological father.”
http://www.canadiancrc.com/Newspaper_Articles/ABC_Duped_Dads_02OCT02.aspx
Consider just what that means.
But wait…!
“Consider this question: What percent of our ancestors were women?
It’s not a trick question, and it’s not 50%. True, about half the people who ever lived were women, but that’s not the question. We’re asking about all the people who ever lived who have a descendant living today. Or, put another way, yes, every baby has both a mother and a father, but some of those parents had multiple children.
Recent research using DNA analysis answered this question about two years ago. Today’s human population is descended from twice as many women as men.
I think this difference is the single most underappreciated fact about gender. To get that kind of difference, you had to have something like, throughout the entire history of the human race, maybe 80% of women but only 40% of men reproduced.”
http://www.psy.fsu.edu/~baumeistertice/goodaboutmen.htm
*Any* man would have to be a fool to not paternity test.
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I just want to hop top and grind my wet wanton pussy on any dick over 5 inches right now.
Any takers?
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@Gramps, you spoke the truth
“Any guy who marries a girl who has decided to “settle” after her vain alpha search (we all know what that entails) is getting used, damaged goods, both physically and psychologically.”
The battle for alpha females to fight for alpha male is just as hard as the ones of alpha males to fight for alpha females. Unfortunately, most of the time, you see couples of different alphabetc together:
Alpha male- Omega female, possible senario: knocked her up, had to marry her;
Alpha male- Beta female, possible senario: drama beta played the game well, drama+BS really works on Alpha male;
Alpha female-Beta male, possible senario: alpha girl decided to “settle” after her vain alpha search
Alpha female-Omega male, possible senario: young virgin alpha female married the first guy she met due to pressure from her religion, parents, etc.
Alpha male-Alpha female, this match you rarely see in reality, even though both party claim to be in the search, both parties are too busy playing the field, too busy being surrounded by betas and omegas. It usually takes them too long to find each other, say if they don’t find each other before their 40s, they will probably settle for whatever they have at hand.
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Gorbachev,
How is Korean parenting different from Chinese one?
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You idiots espousing the glory of “Islam” and being a “Muslim” are morons.
Muslims basically treat all men as rapists by proxy of their women having to be fully cloaked. It goes wayyyyyy beyond ‘modesty’ into ‘every man will rape you territory’.
Are you fcktards that moronic?
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That’s because Muslims love rape.
Young males with twisted and compressed and pent up sexual energy are a danger to all. The muslim world has prostitutes too, thank goodness, but I hear in Iran the young fuck on the ski slopes, for lack of many other opportunities. You can’t suppress sex, you can only re-invent how it expresses itself. My favorite is how they do it in Thailand – everyone fucking every one else, all the time.
Some peoples favorite is how they do it in the Muslim world. Everyone pretending not to be fucking everyone else all the time.
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I’ve dated many a muslim girl. They have vaginas too. Nothing much different about em. You get the same percentage of sluts to girls for whom sex is a low priority as anywhere else. Same percentage of virgins in high school, even in the villages or big cities.
Muslims fuck. Muslims cheat. Even the Imams fuck and cheat. Religion barely has any effect, anywhere. What has an effect is opportunity. Nowadays, even Muslims have access to birth control, and Muslim females can work for their own money, and move out to go to University in another city.
Even my very strict Muslim girlfriend, who planned to wait until marriage before putting out, did not. Virginity before marriage is no longer common in Indonesia, a land where muslim prayers blast through your windows at 4am and several times per day.
No religion is going to stop young girls fucking. And men can not stop them from having the opportunity.
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@Michel
Gorbachev,
How is Korean parenting different from Chinese one?
Koreans are much, much, much more physically touchy-feely with their kids. Chinese guys are often physically distant, almost cold; Chinese moms are legendary for browbeating and crushing their kids and being unaffectionate.
Korean parents are notoriously affectionate. They love their kids and show it all the time.
I remember seeing white parents, living there with their kids, shocked when strangers came up and touched their kids – things like patting their heads or taking their hands. It’s not a culture obsessed with abusive strangers, refreshingly; it’s just a very affectionate culture with children. They love all kids.
China – not at all.
There are other big differences, too, but this is the biggest one. And for all the pressure, parents in Korea don’t have to pound on their kids to get them to do things; the social order (friends, school, work, etc.) does that enough. In China, you can be a lazy ass if you want. Nobody gives a shit if you live or die or drop out of school. The pressure comes from the family, and as such, families can be pressure-cookers. In Korea, the family doesn’t need to browbeat you as much, because society does it – so parents often have a better relationship with their kids, not necessarily just based on duty and respect. The family there is more of a release valve from the pressure cooker of society than a pressure cooker itself.
That said, Korean moms work hard to make sure their kids perform well. It’s similar, but not the same. There’s less odious nastiness. Because the social pressure is so intense, the Korean mom is often seen as more of an ally than a taskmaster, which is what a lot of Chinese kids feel about their parents.
Children are sacred in Korea. Parents will do absolutely anything for them. There’s no sacrifice too much or too high. This is no exaggeration, either. I’ve seen Korean parents do crazy things. Just crazy. One the kids are born, life becomes devoted to them. Not having kids is to be seen as a failure.
I wonder what the tragically low birth rate is doing there, these days. It’s among the lowest in the world.
Chinese parenting is more about demanding. Korean parenting is more about pushing and supporting. There’s a tactile difference in the approach.
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@xsplat
I’ve dated many a muslim girl. They have vaginas too. Nothing much different about em. You get the same percentage of sluts to girls for whom sex is a low priority as anywhere else. Same percentage of virgins in high school, even in the villages or big cities.
Muslims fuck. Muslims cheat. Even the Imams fuck and cheat. Religion barely has any effect, anywhere. What has an effect is opportunity. Nowadays, even Muslims have access to birth control, and Muslim females can work for their own money, and move out to go to University in another city.
Even my very strict Muslim girlfriend, who planned to wait until marriage before putting out, did not. Virginity before marriage is no longer common in Indonesia, a land where muslim prayers blast through your windows at 4am and several times per day.
No religion is going to stop young girls fucking. And men can not stop them from having the opportunity.
With all due respect, xsplat, you’re in Indonesia. Indonesian Islam, outside of Aceh, is unlike Islam in the Arab or Indian world. It’s always been more open, and more female-liberal. SE Asia always was, compared to the rest of Asia.
There’s no comparison to Islam in North Africa or the Middle East.
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quite the eclectic reading choice, mojo… Suzanne Reisman sounds like a dubious aggregator of science.
who do people like this exist?
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please leave the usa Are you fcktards that moronic?
no, they just want to get laid.
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I can’t comment on that, but I occasionally hear about a sexual revolution in Iran that is uncontainable.
I’m sure you’ve heard of the Bali bombings. There are plenty of extremist muslims here in Indonesia, and sometimes huge gangs of young boys will shut down the discos in Jakarta, and take over whole streets with demonstrations. They torrorize the place. There is plenty of serious and stern and strict and old fashioned down homey repressive Muslim sentiment here. A while back a girl could get in big trouble by being out at the disco in disco clothes. There was talk of enforcing muslim dress codes in Hindu Bali, and the Balinese were irate. Thankfully that nonsense died down.
Like anywhere, some people will say those are the “real” muslims. It’s like the concept of the good girl. Good girls don’t do that. Real muslims don’t do that.
But scratch the surface and you’ll just find a similar distribution of the same personality types that you’ll find in any country or culture. People naturally disposed to conservatism and controlling others group together. And in that same church a lot of the girls are fucking.
I mean come on – do Catholic girls fuck? Everyone knows they do. Do Muslims have a different type of pussy?
Religion is weak. Culture is weak. People follow opportunity.
What teenager is not at least a bit rebellious.
I can’t imagine that culture changes peoples temperament. If in a Catholic boarding school, the girls are sneaking out and getting laid, don’t expect it to be any different in a Muslim one. In both situation you’ll find an endless stream of boys trying as hard as they can to get inside those virginal pussies. And don’t imagine that a religion is going to stop temptation.
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@ R.Sole
If you are in a relationship with a woman than you know when she has ovulation +/-a couple of days. If not than her fidelity is of no importance to you anyway.
For those who argue about religion – sure religious people can and will cheat and fuck around as much as everyone else. But people who have relationship with God won’t. However you must have this relationship too to be able to discern who else does. And you must know game.
God has put you on this earth among women to teach you game so you could understand how much trouble he has with us sinners.
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Muslims basically treat all men as rapists by proxy of their women having to be fully cloaked. It goes wayyyyyy beyond ‘modesty’ into ‘every man will rape you territory’.
Option B. Muslims think all their women are ugly.
Option C. Muslims think all their women are manipulative whores.
Just sayin…
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Long time lurker; first time poster.
I have a question mainly for the older guys on here.
Have you guys EVER seen a LTR (either dating or marriage) where, given enough time, the woman NEVER cheated?
I’m thinking that the “template” post is probably the best REAL-WORLD (ie not academic) explaination of this.
But what say you? do you REALLY think Game will stop this over a period of say 10 years or so?
Or do you have to fit the template? Or is it all just a big crap shoot, which is what my real-world experience is telling me.
LTBD
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@ReaderLon
@Gorbachev: Do you plan to have children with some of those women in NE Asia? My gf is from Tianjin. What do you think about the Futurist’s hypothesis that mixed children have bad traits more likely erased and good ones emphasized?
I plan to have children here. I’d do it with my current GF, if she turned out to be appropriate after enough time. My current GF is Persian – Euro/American raised (one of those Liberal Internationalists so despised, but so charming and irresistible, and well-educated). And not Muslim.
I would have happily have had children with a number of the women I dated in Asia – especially one Korean woman, who, in retrospect, was nearly ideal as a mate for me; also adored me. But China is still filled with decent women, no matter the entitlement or the feminism of the country. If you avoid (like the plague) the ones looking for money or passports, and there are a good number of those, then you can find wonderful women there.
Also, they tend to make better mothers than American women, without question. They’ll tell you this, too. You need to watch out for the slight coldness of some Chinese women, but without a Chinese man and oppressive extended family to reinforce that, you can avoid it fairly easily.
I can’t believe I just wrote that – Asian mothers are better than American mothers – but, on reflection, yeah, that’s true, on average. They sacrifice for their kids more, work dof rheir kids more, and believe in the necessity of the complete family unit almost as a matter of course.
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This is why I come to Le Chateau: New, groundbreaking information – such as an ethnic Korean righteously denigrating those horrid Chinese.
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Religion is weak. Culture is weak. People follow opportunity
Xsplat, culture has two things: the stick and the carrot. One other too: habit. Those things are not weak. Your commetns are excellent but they run toward the naturalistic extreme.
My current GF is Persian – Euro/American raised (one of those Liberal Internationalists so despised, but so charming and irresistible, and well-educated). And not Musilm.
That explains why Seeking Alpha hasn’t commented in a while: Gorb swooped his fiancee.
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It isn’t my mother that was great. It was my grandmother. Her loving, nurturing, accepting, caring, ways with me will forever be apart of me. She’s passed away for over 6 years and I miss her so very much. I could never say in general what people are like. I believe it all depends of their own upbringing. To tell whether someone will be a good mother/parent or not we have to know and understand how they were brought up. We can only care of others base on how we were cared for. Still is all probability. I wish everyday my grandma was still here.
I’m still ovulating!! hehe!!
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My mom is still alive…hehe…I put “was” haha!! oops!
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@Firepower
Yes, Firepower, I’m an ethnic Jew-Korean Nigger-lover with a penchant for China-hating. Your powers of observation never fail to astound.
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Firepower,
I am curious about your background. You make good comments.
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Actually, PA, culture is weak as compared to that other environmental influence, technology. Technology, such as birth control and transportation have created a culture in which there are greater sexual opportunities.
In the end culture is influenced and changes according to the opportunities given by technology. Look at how it changed do to agriculture, for instance. Culture is embedded in technology, and technology is now global.
Yes, culture has influence. But more influence than the the pill and travel and hormones? Maybe for no true Scotmen, but not if you measure the real world averages.
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And remember, the habits of the parent are never quite the same habits of the next generation, when the world changes. The young always adopt and adapt to the new technologies.
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Nah, what IS astounding is
I limited you
to two sentences
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@Firepower
Yes, Firepower, I’m an ethnic Jew-Korean Nigger-lover with a penchant for China-hating. Your powers of observation never fail to astound.
Nah, what IS astounding is
I limited you
to two sentences</I.
Touche, sir. Touche.
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Chateau – another piece of interesting work: Stanik & al. 2008 study on “rejection hurts […]” in Evolutionary Psychology. Not sure if you discussed it on the blog already. Too lazy to check.
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Well Gorbachev,
if you marry Jewish and your SISTER married black…
I guess there’s not much to emulate about your father, right?
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@Beta from Europe
Well Gorbachev,
if you marry Jewish and your SISTER married black…
I guess there’s not much to emulate about your father, right?
My Jewish wife divorced me, and I was the family outlier.
My sister caught a fantastic husband, everyone agrees, and is doing better than me, with 2 kids. His blackness goes as deep as his skin. It took some time, but my family came around. Frankly, he’s a better man than her whiter than white college boyfriends. But the guy did have to go through the hoops with my father, and there were a lot of hoops.
Both other siblings married small-town white catholic. 2 out of 4’s pretty good, overall, in this day and age.
We all hail the patriarch or we get boxed on the ear. I was going to say “metaphorically boxed on the ear”, but on the other hand, he might actually do it.
You should see him with the grandchildren.
In any case, I’m the failure.
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Gorbachev:
As you seem to be someone who thinks about things, I’d be interested to know why your wife divorced you.
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@Guest,
Gorbachev:
As you seem to be someone who thinks about things, I’d be interested to know why your wife divorced you.
I’ll give it to you in one sentence.
Loyal, supportive, decent, fair, housework-doing dutiful honest forthright massive beta chump. Wife got bored.
Say enough?
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Also PA, you should realize that religion is more of a male organizing principle than a female one. Males require hierarchical coordination in groups, for business and war, but women don’t and never did. Women pay lip service to rules, but the rules are always arbitrarily applied according to their needs. Women are inherently amoral. You can’t teach a fish to play the flute.
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Gorbachev,
I guess it does say enough but I really have a hard time believing it. Not that I doubt you are telling the truth but your comment and the other “lessons” on this blog, which are consistent with your comment, just seem to fly in the face of how I understood that male-female relationships work, what I believed that women were looking for, what they valued, etc. I’m keeping an open mind here so far, but really I’ve always thought that this–loyal, supportive, decent, fair, housework-doing dutiful honest forthright–would be cherished by women because it seems so hard to come buy. Thanks for your input and I will continue to read and assess my views. Just as a more general matter, it’s very hard for me to believe that women cheat or are tempted to cheat to the extent that is suggested on this blog and in the comments.
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@Guest
Gorbachev,
I guess it does say enough but I really have a hard time believing it. Not that I doubt you are telling the truth but your comment and the other “lessons” on this blog, which are consistent with your comment, just seem to fly in the face of how I understood that male-female relationships work, what I believed that women were looking for, what they valued, etc. I’m keeping an open mind here so far, but really I’ve always thought that this–loyal, supportive, decent, fair, housework-doing dutiful honest forthright–would be cherished by women because it seems so hard to come buy. Thanks for your input and I will continue to read and assess my views. Just as a more general matter, it’s very hard for me to believe that women cheat or are tempted to cheat to the extent that is suggested on this blog and in the comments.
Women don’t cheat just concurrently; they often do it temporally. They leave relationships more readily, more frivolously, and they may even expect more from men. They jump from one man to the next.
My ex got bored. She was frustrated and I didn’t understand. I understood much later. She became a real drama hound after our divorce, and got tooled by a few guys before she was left. Now she’s single and childless.
I don’t dislike her.
She said what she wanted was what I was: But what she really wanted was drama, excitement and she had no idea why she found me annoying.
All this shit is true. What attracts women (“I’m on love!”) has nothing to do with what women think they want (“He’s such a decent guy”).
If it were true, they’d hate bad boys and love the good men. Instead, they love the bad boys so much, a bad boy makes them tingle all over.
Don’t listen to the cognoscenti who claim to understand themselves. The feminists are the worst: They fuck bad boys but claim they want decent men. They’re the least aware of what actually attracts them to men.
If you want to be the beta, subordinate male to a woman while she pines for the latest bad boy, be my guest. But I was there; I played the part. Since then, I’ve slipped only a few times, but in all cases, bad boy has won out. No exception.
I like keeping my women attracted.
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I’m tempted to say “every situation (girl/relationship) is different” but I also know from experience with human affairs that there are significant commonalities. So I won’t be so quick to call your and CR’s perception as just as true, just different.
Here’s my perspective: women’s overriding desire is to have children and raise a family. I don’t see women pining for bad boys, perhaps because the family drive overrides it. Polyandry is just not even close to being worth the potential damage to an existing, solid relationship. I think it is the very rare woman who, if she has a man with the attributes you say you possessed, is willing to risk throwing that away and being left in the cold (as your ex-spouse has been).
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Gorbachev,
despite the fantastic-ness of your “brother-in-law” I don’t think he’s good.
Maybe I’m a racist prick but if one’s daughter marries black one has failed severely somewhere.
The thing is, I don’t doubt your sister’s husband is a good one (whatever that means) what I cannot accept is that to allow one’s own daughter to (sorry for the word) “degrade” her genetic profile that much would be a win situation.
Some shit can’t be bought. With money or otherwise.
Guest, are you 45 years old or what? Have you seen a women recently?
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Beta from Europe,
What does my age have to do with it?
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Question: In a LTR, why would you be in a committed relationship and treat a decent girl crudely? If she honestly loves you for you, she is going to “want your cock”, not randoms. I would think that the mentality of treating your girlfriend so bizzare would only draw a decent girl away from you and point her into a direction where she does want to find a more compatible partner.
Lets be real, why would someone even be in a LTR or have a girlfriend if they just want to treat them like garbage? They should be single and treating girls like that who also want to be single and aren’t looking for any real commitment.
I see guys like this: Guys who treat the women they love like garbage must stem from their own insecurity.
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ok i am a women on her ovilation time at this moment and i have to agree, i am horney as fuck all i want is a cock the bigger the better. i cant wait for my man to get home to fuck me like a dity bitch. i agree with this post %100 if i had a man that was not my husband here at the moment i would fuck him silly. i am hot and my husband treats me like gold. we have been married for a long time and i am hoplessly commented and love him with all my heart. just horney as fuck at the moment. oh and not on birth control. yes bc does dull down my need to fuck anything that moves. now where is my viborator. oh and my husband is amazing in bed so its not that its just he is not here at the moment and i need a cock.
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