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January 14, 2011 by CH

When her head nestles in my neck
and her fingers graze my ear
and her sleepy breath whispers hymns
my worldly worries disappear.

Posted in Escape | 142 Comments

142 Responses

on January 14, 2011 at 12:56 pm askjoe

gay

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:00 pm MACHO CAMACHO

Women were designed to be a man’s companion and helper.

If they go beyond that, catastrophe ensues.

See USSA, circa 2011.

I liken women to fire in a fireplace. Control it, and you have a beautiful, warm home. Let it out of control, and your house is in ashes.

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:01 pm greatbooksformen GBFM

When her head nestles in my lozzollzlzlollzlzlzloollz
and her fingers graze my lolzolzloz omg my lzozlzozzlozllz
and her sleepy breath whispers lzozlzlzlo yes! lozlzlzlozlzlzlzozozzl
my worldly worries go lzozlzzzlzlzozozlzllzlz z omgz lzozgizz gizz gizz lzozlzlz

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:01 pm Matt

First!

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:03 pm MACHO CAMACHO

@Matt

1. Uh, that would be fourth.

2. Get a life.

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:04 pm greatbooksformen GBFM

^^^ lolzlz yah first after da gbfm! gotta count for somet8n1!! lzozlz

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:05 pm Gorbachev

Aaaaawwwwwwww.

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:05 pm Dat_Truth_Hurts

Fag

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:12 pm maurice

Lovely. Despite all the faux-alpha posturing that this nice little poem is likely to draw forth, there’s nothing wrong with enjoying the little moments like this that life and love provide.

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:21 pm Pushkin

I’m surprised that GreatBooksForMen isn’t Jared Lee Loughtner. Very, very surprised.

Glad to see you back!

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:23 pm Firepower

I lurv me some
post-coitus
paeans

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:24 pm shaft

he’s a complicated man.
and no one understands him
but his woman

John Shaft

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:25 pm Roki

Are you buying now the romantic crap of the media?

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:30 pm Moshe

‘Man shall be trained for war, and woman for the recreation of the warrior: all else is folly. (…)
‘A plaything let woman be, pure and fine like the precious stone, illumined with the virtues of a world not yet come.’

Nietzsche

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:31 pm TrailTyme

Clearly, someone hacked the site and posted this homosexual prose.

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:34 pm PA

You are a better playwrightthan poet.

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:36 pm MACHO CAMACHO

Amazing how the entire site is dedicated to understanding and getting a good woman (not just a belt notch), yet boy, do the faux Alphas come out of the woodwork with a little poetry.

Posers.

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:38 pm That Guy

Sometimes you mystify me Roissy.

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:40 pm Tinderbox

And I begin to think
How long do I have to lay here
Before she’s asleep deeply enough
For me to make my getaway.

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:48 pm Sarcasticus

What is this horseshit?

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:55 pm Me

Eeww you like girls

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on January 14, 2011 at 1:59 pm Caligula

Chaps, don’t tell me that you’re so concerned with alpha posturing that you can’t kick back and enjoy the sublime pleasure that a beautiful woman’s love can bring.

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on January 14, 2011 at 2:01 pm jim

you know this is all part of game. He stokes the fires of his female readers by showing his sensitive side so he can bang the blog groupies. He’s just a tortured man searching for love. Well played.

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on January 14, 2011 at 2:09 pm Obstinance Works

Nice.

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on January 14, 2011 at 2:10 pm Ludwig

Will the REAL Roissy please return?

Here’s some inspiration for a quality post:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1347109/Ruby-Rubacuori-Silvio-Berlusconi-faces-extortion-underage-prostitution-probe.html?ITO=1490

Long live Silvio!

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on January 14, 2011 at 2:16 pm Rant Casey - BR

He is shit-testing all of you, betastards!

***

No, really.

If theres something I like about this blog, is that the autor actually allows himself to rise above the level of animals.

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on January 14, 2011 at 2:17 pm theforest

Does she complete you?! Just like two peas in a pod I bet !!!!

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on January 14, 2011 at 2:48 pm Evan

A data point on a culturally dysgenic trend line.

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on January 14, 2011 at 2:57 pm Lovekraft

There once was a hermit named Dave,
who kept a dead whore in his cave.

I have to admit, he was rather a shit.
But look at all the money he saved.

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:06 pm Marellus

All ye mockers … Is game a method to fight a war then ? Or is game a way to end it …

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:10 pm Firepower

Wont’ got to Harlem
In ermine, and pearls

Won’t dish the dirt
With the rest
of the girls

That’s why the lady, is a tramp.

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:12 pm gorbachev

At my bank. What happens, do you think, when you re surrounded by attractive women, and the urge to flirt is nearly overpowering, and the sheer quantity and quality of the female bank employees is so high, but you re effectively taken? As in, not supposed to be hunting? You adore your girlfriend and love being with her, but you also like the attention of women generally? My bank is a dangerous place. Its filled with slim, exotic and attractive women.

What s a reforming cad to do?

The loins are so wonderfully dangerous. It s great to be a guy, but the moral quandaries.

And its especially awful. My gf has both tolerated and arranged occasional threesomes. I almost have a second lover. So for the first time in a decade, i feel truly guilty when i evenlook at another woman.

The bank is my danger zone. Oh, sweet albanian lady. Hot indian woman. Vaguely hispanic hottie with the cartoon figure, sultry part black temptress, short but charming blonde, bootylicious nyc transplant black babe with the hot tide and brooklyn accent, british girl with bedroom eyes, …

I actually feel guilty just thinking about it. How do youdeal with that? It s been so long since i tasted guilt over women. Must mean i like the girl. Right?

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:14 pm gig

beta

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:22 pm Firepower

Marellus

All ye mockers … Is game a method to fight a war then ? Or is game a way to end it …

Game ENDS habitual masturbation for mediocre Latinate poseurs.

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:22 pm anonymouses anonymous

I kicked her out of the Great Hall
When her looks hit the wall.

Her gentle demeanor become bitching
When to a more attractive woman I was switching.

Any advice you do read
Pay no heed

Else to your betaness it will lead.

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:24 pm gorbachev

But whyis it, … all the servile and managerial positions are staffed by females?

Women love desk jobs. Still, the only account manager who could solve the technical problem with my account was a man.

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:24 pm Firepower

gorbachev

And its especially awful. My gf has both tolerated and arranged occasional threesomes.

Then leave the two of them alone, she’ll like it better without you.

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:26 pm anonymouses anonymous

That’s what I get for doing prose on a bberry.

“Any advice you do read”

Should read

“Any womanly advice you do read”

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:26 pm Anonymous

Never forget the basic nature of woman:

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:30 pm Firepower

nah, that’s just AZN females with that mercenary sexual stance

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:32 pm Firepower

dude, you make the most inexplicable, inappropriate movie references ever. your like a movie critic for Tourette’s kidz

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:45 pm gl0wskull

Who can say roissy is a misogynist with a post like that?

Here is my perspective though…

“To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentation of their women.”

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:54 pm slumlord

Sex is very good. Love is even better.

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on January 14, 2011 at 3:57 pm Science

FIRST!!!123

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on January 14, 2011 at 4:21 pm Anonymous

I like this better than your Glenn Beck lapses.

Next time you feel like assaulting the elite communist-conservative conspiracy, just produce some poetry instead.

It will be more nourishing for there to be more attempts at beauty in the world than typical blogosphere soapboxery.

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on January 14, 2011 at 4:22 pm narciso

gorby!

gf has both tolerated and arranged occasional threesomes.
good for you. on the other hand, i’m not keen on your juxtaposition of these verbs.
“tolerate” indicates that there is something for her to… well, tolerate, and reluctantly at that. so, unless this is just a slapdash post in which you are being cavalier with diction (unlikely, i think, given its brevity and polished quality in comparison to most of your oeuvre), this wording betrays the fact that your woman is not naturally a bisexual freak.

in this light, the other verb (“arranged”), while impressive, also takes on a sinister bearing. if she’s engineering mff encounters about which she is reluctant, especially if she has been at all ambivalent or insecure about the other f’s, then this may be her all-in gambit. like other all-in gambits, if that’s what it is, it’s ultimately aimed at one thing: checkmate.

at this point, you may have to deploy some pretty powerful weapons to distinguish between indulgence and entrapment.

also important here is not just figure (these actions) but ground (the context of your relationship). you’ve copped to “beta relapse” in the past; while a certain critical mass of beta is a good thing, it’s unlikely that you’ve been completely breaking the bitch. this matters.

you have my contact info; get in touch.

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on January 14, 2011 at 4:32 pm narciso

also, how immersed in bisexuality has she become, in these encounters?

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on January 14, 2011 at 4:41 pm (r)Evolutionary

Poetry is alpha, if you’re alpha enough to get away with it. If you are, she’ll swoon and panties will drop.

That is all.

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on January 14, 2011 at 5:03 pm Tyrone

@Gorbachev:

I actually feel guilty just thinking about it. How do youdeal with that? It s been so long since i tasted guilt over women. Must mean i like the girl. Right?

Judging from your recent Spearhead article, you are in love and considering marriage. I have done threesomes, but I could never love a woman I’ve had them with. Love is a whole different ball of wax. You want to respect the mother of your children in a much different way than your girlfriend.

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on January 14, 2011 at 5:14 pm narciso

I have done threesomes, but I could never love a woman I’ve had them with.

tyrone, you, as well as all of the other i-solemnly-swear-to-have-only-boring-sex-with-my-wife types, need to come to grips with the notion that madonnas and unicorns are one and the same.

does your lovely ukrainian bride look the other way while you dirty your hands and your mind with others who, in your false dichotomy, are whores? or, have you resigned yourself to a drastic curtailment of your sexual repertoire, in order that you might believe that your puerile notion of “purity” is anything other than a mirage?

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on January 14, 2011 at 5:52 pm knepper

Gorb,
Unless you’re planning to make another deposit, it might be best to bank online for a while!

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on January 14, 2011 at 6:30 pm West Coast Life

Totally off topic, and from an unlikely source:

http://jezebel.com/5733891/the-secret-to-a-happy-marriage-be-thinner-than-your-husband

No surprise. Golden.

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on January 14, 2011 at 7:18 pm Stud Dynamite

always thought I’m more of a true-love romantic guy at heart that most, but this is teh ghey. hope u trolling, dood.

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on January 14, 2011 at 7:23 pm Stud Dynamite

“her sleepy breath whispers hymns”

hehe

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on January 14, 2011 at 8:37 pm Anonymous

ghey

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on January 14, 2011 at 8:49 pm Anonymous

Off topic, but check this…

“Official: Ariz. Suspect Posed in G-string with Gun,” by AP, 14 Jan 2010
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20110115/ap_on_re_us/us_congresswoman_shot_timeline

Apparently, the Uncle Fester shooter in AZ “posed for photos with a gun, dressed only in a bright red G-string, and had the film developed on the eve of the rampage” according to this lastest news.

He’s just full-blown batsh*t crazy.

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on January 14, 2011 at 9:00 pm Stud Dynamite

West Coast Life – the hilarity is in the comments:

This week, my ex-boyfriend made it extremely clear that he really, really wants to sleep with me and my current boyfriend sent flowers to help see me through my tough academic stretch.

I outweigh each of these guys by at least a hundred pounds, so I guess if I lost some weight, my relationship(s) would be SO GOOD I’D EXPLODE or something.

lollz lolllz trolololoololllz. And very telling – not a single comment on a first page from someone not fat.

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on January 14, 2011 at 9:08 pm CrossOfLorraine

Look out Morrissey. There’s a new angsty man in town.

Seriously brahs, if a woman is just a piece of meat to stick your dick in you can just put a colored hanky in your back pocket and fuck dudes all day. Or get a night security job at the zoo.

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on January 14, 2011 at 9:10 pm me me me

This was so cute! Me liked it very much! 🙂

*sigh*

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on January 14, 2011 at 9:17 pm Legion

Throwing a curveball eh? Throw off our expectations.

But anyway:

This is the handicap principle at work. An alpha who delivers this is super attractive, a beta is not.

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on January 14, 2011 at 9:22 pm itsme

harry enfield ftw

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on January 14, 2011 at 9:29 pm itsme

oops, would’ve been better under the ‘why you shouldn’t support your gf’s goals’ topic.

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on January 15, 2011 at 1:17 am Lissa

Ha! Ha! The males of the womanhatersclub are mad. Their hero–Roissy–just shows he’s completely p-ssywhipped by his girlfriend, regardless of the nonsense he spews on this site about women.

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on January 15, 2011 at 1:59 am Rum

A nice little poemlet. But I could not help notice-ing that it referred to “worldly” cares. Which implies, rather force-fully, that the definition of “worldly” is sustained by the existance of its opposite –, ie ” un-worldly” cares.. Without unworldly cares the concept of worldly cares would be a useless, redundant, meaningless, jejune fragment of language/thought.
Maybe that is all there is to this story. Or maybe not… in which case we readers deserve to hear the Rest of the Story. Like, that Roissy has all along been a Cistercian Monk of the Severe Order with a graphic imagination and good computer access.
There is nothing bad or shameful about this. I tried it myself for a while.

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on January 15, 2011 at 2:15 am Chris from Dublin

Jesus!

WHO’S turned omega?!??!!

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on January 15, 2011 at 2:30 am ossiejoe

roissy you are so whipped

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on January 15, 2011 at 5:31 am Paladin

Like.

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on January 15, 2011 at 6:29 am almost 40 yov

The things you “alphas” utter after lots of Dopamin and just a little bit of Oxytocin floods that brain tissue.

Hilarious.

Good to see though there´s something human left under those manipulative mannerisms.

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on January 15, 2011 at 7:04 am xsplat

Its sad to see men overcompensate and therefore impoverish their lives.

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on January 15, 2011 at 7:26 am Jerry

When her head nestles in my neck
and her fingers graze my ear
and her sleepy breath whispers hymns
my worldly worries disappear.

My main g/f did that to me last night as we finished our turkey dinner and got ready to watch “Tangled” on my laptop. Suddenly she said “Oh by the way, my parents just sold their apartment (where she’s been living with them the past 2 years down the block from me) and will be moving in two weeks to a single bed apartment for themselves”.

When I didn’t say anything she started crying hard.

She said she’d had a nightmare of being all alone in an apartment of her own.

The pressure is going to be INTENSE to let her move in.

I could do that and get another apartment as well (not a problem financially), but I’m suddenly under serious pressure to do what I would rather not do.

If Rule #1 is to always be opening new women, Rule #2 is “never let a woman move in”. 😦

This is not cool.

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on January 15, 2011 at 8:16 am xsplat

“Rule #2 is “never let a woman move in”. :(”

I have a sort of live in. She’ll stay 10 days and go for 5, or some such. But I regularly leave her in my room for short dates, and tonight our plan is to sleep together with my ping pong buddy.

Sometimes a live in can be cool.

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on January 15, 2011 at 8:50 am bringthemovies

Is this a shit-test?

I’m having a convo with a chick (on skype, phone, etc.) and she interrupts me with some random shit comment. Is this a shit-test? How do I handle this if it is a shit-test? Usually I would just ignore the dumbass comment and continue on with the conversation.

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on January 15, 2011 at 10:17 am greatbooksformen GBFM

roses are lozozozlzzlo
violets are lzozlzozlzlzlz
lotsa cockas 4 da ladies in my bed
is what da gbfm does do zlzoz

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on January 15, 2011 at 11:26 am chi-town

Many responses fight the war, but cannot keep the peace. Preadolescence drowning in pimple puss cannot appreciate an artfully expressed repose; I see the lion, with a belly full of wildebeest, sleeping under the acacia tree.

The whole point is maximum mutual satisfaction and taking the long view of female happiness which is purchased with our own.

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on January 15, 2011 at 11:35 am chi-town

@Lissa

With the earthen rampart of the entire world between the heavens and your boiling pot in hell, he is not even aware to possibly care, harridan beast that draws the carriage of a demon.

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on January 15, 2011 at 11:58 am chi-town

“@Legion

Throwing a curveball eh? Throw off our expectations.

But anyway:

This is the handicap principle at work. An alpha who delivers this is super attractive, a beta is not.”

Legion gets it.

The act is determined from the relative position.

Romance is from a prince to a peasant girl. As much as women seek better than themselves, the gap can be too great which is the dynamic of classic stories of romance. All love a god who humbles himself(Perseus,Christ and other god men who choose to be men more than gods). A beta simply humiliates himself further, and seems even more presumptuous. Think of romantic acts as acts of humility. How well will further humiliation work when you are already considered worthless scum?

Give out roses grown from your acquired domains, do not buy them to help you beg.

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on January 15, 2011 at 12:27 pm beer

Here’s an odd situation. That I need help on guys. Sorry about the thread jack.

I started dating this chick some months ago. Everything was awesome. Her folks love me and want her to marry me. I’m like whatever, I won’t rule the option out but won’t make a commitment, see how this relationship progresses. Well. After about 3 months she went on my vkontakte page and saw a shitload of posts that this one chick made, all cutesy romancey crap. She would stop calling and turned down my dates, I had no idea why she became this way and thought she found someone else, so I said that I want a pause in the relationship and that my interests have changed.

Fast forward a few weeks. I find out why she turned cold on me. I like this chick, but have limits on what I take from women. I want her back. She thought I was playing her, but that wasn’t it. Now, I gotta convince her family that I’m not just messing with their daughter, so that’s a factor. Any advice?

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on January 15, 2011 at 12:28 pm Science

@beer

stop thinking so much.

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on January 15, 2011 at 12:34 pm beer

@Science

Hahaha, yeah. But my biggest thing is trying to get in touch with her without looking like I’m crawling back to her.

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on January 15, 2011 at 1:09 pm 513420

@beer

Obviously you’ve forgotten an important Roissy maxim … if you’ve gotta think, plot and plan to win the girl, you’ve already lost her.

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on January 15, 2011 at 1:26 pm beer

@513420

Could link to where that maxim is written? I’ve never been in this situation, this is uncharted territory for me. Lol, silly question, how do I plot and plan to win her from now on?

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on January 15, 2011 at 2:58 pm Workshy Joe

Basking in the afterglow of a job well done. What’s wrong with that?

Roissy has no illusions about women so I wouldn’t read that prose as putting any woman on a pedestal.

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on January 15, 2011 at 3:04 pm Deutsch

????

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on January 15, 2011 at 3:19 pm BOSTON66

Amen.

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on January 15, 2011 at 3:24 pm Gorbachev

@Tyrone
@Gorbachev:
I actually feel guilty just thinking about it. How do youdeal with that? It s been so long since i tasted guilt over women. Must mean i like the girl. Right?

Judging from your recent Spearhead article, you are in love and considering marriage. I have done threesomes, but I could never love a woman I’ve had them with. Love is a whole different ball of wax. You want to respect the mother of your children in a much different way than your girlfriend.

The background is incredibly complex. But to summarize, it’s all due to her incredible vanity. She’s vain beyond all possible measure when it comes to some things, and I’ve refused to appeal to her vanity on any occasion. So an occasional threesome either abetted or arranged or suggested by her I’ve been able to paint as entirely her creation. In fact, though, I’m not as keen as I’d have been 5 years ago.

It’s not due to sluttiness, though – it’s more a paean to her own vanity and confidence. I never play to it, which quietly infuriates her – and makes her love me even more.

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on January 15, 2011 at 4:53 pm Mary

” sex is good, Love is better”
(great comment!)

And a Beautiful post.
It is nice to see at least a few men here get that.

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on January 15, 2011 at 5:33 pm julian

“I never play to it, which quietly infuriates her – and makes her love me even more.”

People of great vanity will quietly resent those who abjectly praise whatever it is they are vain about; especially women. There is a fine line though; if you insult or kick those people off the pedestal too much they may resent you even more and will find ways to look to your faults or distance themselves from you. It’s a tightrope act. The trick is to remain unaffected and maintain a devil-may-care attitude.

It’s when they are in a place of low self esteem that finely timed praise can make her fall in love with you even deeper. However, this is advance level game and must be calibrated perfectly.

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on January 15, 2011 at 5:39 pm julian

Btw Gorby the way you paint your gf does not make her seem too much like marriage material. I know you have mentioned before she is one of the highest quality chicks you have attained and that’s great; but a girl who arranges threesomes and is incredibly vain does not bode well for the future. You seem to consider her an awesome LTR prospect which is fine, but marriage ? Tread lightly.

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on January 15, 2011 at 5:43 pm Jeffrey of Troy

OT: Jerry, you have got to see this one

http://www.theoaklandpress.com/articles/2011/01/14/news/doc4d30202b4217d731034786.txt?viewmode=fullstory

He had affair with wife’s younger sister when she was 16, took pics, age of consent was 16 then, no fed law about “child” porn then (16 not a child in same sense as pre-pubescent, which is sick and wrong)… prosecutor ignores all that and gets him in prison.

Granted, he tried to blackmail his ex-wife; however, “There’s nothing left. I’m down to no kids, no grandkids, no money.”

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on January 15, 2011 at 6:00 pm Gorbachev

@julian

Btw Gorby the way you paint your gf does not make her seem too much like marriage material. I know you have mentioned before she is one of the highest quality chicks you have attained and that’s great; but a girl who arranges threesomes and is incredibly vain does not bode well for the future. You seem to consider her an awesome LTR prospect which is fine, but marriage ? Tread lightly.

Thanks for the advice. For info, the threesome was originally arranged to compensate for my accidental cheating with an ex. She forgave me, but then became curious.

Except for the vanity, she’s great. Wonderful, in fact. But the vanity is off the scale.

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on January 15, 2011 at 6:18 pm jack

Anyone, no matter how alpha, that thinks that the physical presence of a desirable woman does not bring comfort and pleasure is nuts.

It is probably more gay to not agree with the post.

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on January 15, 2011 at 6:36 pm slumlord

It is nice to see at least a few men here get that.

Yeah, but a woman’s love is not worth any price. Some things are more important than women.

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on January 15, 2011 at 6:41 pm James

“Anyone, no matter how alpha, that thinks that the physical presence of a desirable woman does not bring comfort and pleasure is nuts.”

Yup, letting a woman control you is betahell.

Enjoying a woman makes you straight.

If women were not fun to be around, there would not be so many betas following them around with their tongues on the floor.

Being a strong man is the ability to enjoy women and NOT go weak at the knees.

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on January 15, 2011 at 7:38 pm Good Luck Chuck

Scientists are trying to say that there might be a biological link to racism.

http://healthland.time.com/2011/01/13/how-the-love-hormone-may-contribute-to-racism/?xid=aol-direct

Blasphemy!

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on January 15, 2011 at 9:20 pm Alpha Cat

Women love the uninhibited artist types!

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on January 15, 2011 at 9:43 pm Anonymous

Careful with their Rationalization Hamsters, get ’em too spun up and they can wreck:

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on January 15, 2011 at 11:52 pm n/a

Gorbachev,

Yes — watch it with that one. It’s a love affair; she’s a bad choice for marriage and kids.

How bitter it would be for you to make that mistake with your experience.

Extreme vanity points to an emptiness within that would balk at the rigors of marriage and especially motherhood.

FWIW. Strangers sometimes give excellent advice. They remind us of what we know already.

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on January 16, 2011 at 12:15 am Sha-WING-Batta

Roissy is smitten.

You idiots wagging your tails after him look like the fools you are.

Love conquers all.

Deal with it, lonely losers.

Roissy found love.

hahahhahahahaha

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on January 16, 2011 at 7:06 am donki

You got world worries? Improve your inner game!

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on January 16, 2011 at 8:10 am Perspective « Citizen Renegade « The LP 72980/The LP 999 Blog

[…] Perspective « Citizen Renegade. […]

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on January 16, 2011 at 8:53 am Yehaw Chuck

I pity the men that post on here. Living their lives, pigeon holing everything as either beta or alpha.

Look at this video – most of you who live life the way you do will probably end up as the crazy haired man sat alone, not really getting it.

[Editor: I take it you live your life like the gay couple in the video.]

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on January 16, 2011 at 11:48 am Silver Fox

American Prudishness….

No cheating in bed….We’re American

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/13/garden/13cheat.html?pagewanted=1&hpw

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on January 16, 2011 at 12:52 pm julian

For all the people crowing on here “Roissy is in love na na na na”; please shut up. Who gives a shit ? I could fall in love tomorrow and it still wouldn’t invalidate the principles on this blog. This site has never in my reading of it it ever stated that love doesn’t exist. Step up your reading comprehension.

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on January 16, 2011 at 1:05 pm Gorbachev

@n/a
Gorbachev,

Yes — watch it with that one. It’s a love affair; she’s a bad choice for marriage and kids.
How bitter it would be for you to make that mistake with your experience.
Extreme vanity points to an emptiness within that would balk at the rigors of marriage and especially motherhood.
FWIW. Strangers sometimes give excellent advice. They remind us of what we know already.

I’m with you on this. But I have a different perspective, not wholly stemming from my delusions as a result of having a penis.

Her vanity is the natural result of her life. Literally every male who she comes into contact with virtually worships her. At her age, she still gets admired by every living male in her life; she could literally have anyone she wanted at any time. Hence the need for tight game, now in a relationship mode.

Resisting vanity in these circumstances is virtually impossible. In specific, a very attractive ex and I were entangled, though honestly through no fault of my own, for an evening; it was an embarrassing situation I couldn’t escape, though arriving at it was my fault, though not a fault of intention. The result was forgiveness, and then curiosity. You see: Her vanity must believe that I will surrender at some point.

It took me some time, but I know now why she’s both encouraged and tolerated the very occasional threesome or my very occasional connection with my not-really-an-ex-GF.

You see, she must believe that she’s the most attractive, most powerful woman in the room. I’ve always been sparing with my attention to her beauty; in fact, I mock her vanity at every opportunity in a paternalistic way. I’ve even expressed doubts about a relationship with her because of her preening self-image.

On the other hand, she *is* genuinely shockingly hot, of the “I’m not likely to catch a fish like this again” variety, and every moment of my time with her is now programmed to reinforce *the opposite* of this notion.

The result: She clings to me as tightly as possible.

So a threesome was interesting because she wanted to see me react with a *less attractive woman*, or like worrying a sore, see me with someone she thought was equally attractive (this case: an Asian airline stewardess who happens to be a distant ex-lover). Like the jealousy urge, when you pick at that sore, you’re looking for the object (me) to reinforce that ego.

Everything is about reinforcing the ego. And I *NEVER* do it. I can love her, hold her, cherish her, but her ego gets NOTHING. Ever. It’s not about denying my attraction – she’s not stupid – or the fact that every man wants her, which is obvious, but more my denying that that’s why *I* want her.

In fact, I paint her ego as a major stumbling block in our relationship. I’m getting pretty good at it. And while a threesome might seem bizarre, just as with other activities or actions that seem to indicate X but are actually more complex, it’s once again just part of her endless Egofests, to try to get me to acknowledge her power and control.

So, even in these situations, I’ve managed to come out without doing that, and also to prevent her from manipulating the situation so that the other woman becomes a tool for her ego-stroking.

I get women now, to some degree. So long as I can manage it, this isn’t LTR-killing. The shit you have to deal with with all women is negative; the only way to avoid any of it is to be gay, in which case, you still can’t avoid it.

Or MGOTOW. Which isn’t what I’m interested in.

I’m getting good at maintaining hand. The relationship started out right – with me in the driver’s seat, despite my terror, and I’ve been able to keep it, so far.

Just one little issue to deal with, now. I’ll save that one.

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on January 16, 2011 at 1:06 pm Gorbachev

Narciso, I’ll get back to you shortly.

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on January 16, 2011 at 4:07 pm Captain Stubing

Roissy: In case you didn’t see this, Todd Seavey (the dude who went off on a tirade on C-SPAN that you wrote about awhile back) has posted a response to you and others who mocked him as a low-beta. It’s hilarious (in the “I’m laughing at him, not with him”) sense, and might merit your attention, if only for some laffs.

http://www.toddseavey.com/2011/01/seeing-like-stud.html

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on January 16, 2011 at 5:26 pm julian

@ Gorby.

Seems like u have the situation under control. Good on u. However, wouldn’t marrying this chick destroy your hand like a falling house of cards ? In fact, expressing doubts and fudging on the marriage issue for as long as humanly possible would seem to me the best way to maintain hand.

Also, you have enumerated all the reasons you have her under your control and thats great. However, you haven’t made a case for her to be of marriage material, besides the fact she is hot. Honestly, if you were to marry her I would guess you would want to start breeding right away, there really is no other reason to marry in this day and age. What would make her a good mother, an exceptional wife ? Since you don’t seem to speak on that as much I take it you are still doubtful as to her worth in that regard.

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on January 16, 2011 at 10:48 pm Racer X

Did you write that? if so, not bad.

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on January 17, 2011 at 6:13 am n/a

Gorbachev,

Usually when you write many words they amount to something. 😉 I’ve mentioned that I think highly of your posts, so forgive the following sharp remarks:

When the pussy is truly fine it’s impossible to think straight. Forget about “hand” and all the rest: she’s a young, beautiful piece of ass and whatever you may believe one doesn’t “control” such a thing.

Great that you got her; enjoy the hell out of fucking her; but never delude yourself there’s a picket-fence future.

Like all beauties she’s a woman no better than she should be.

Remember that next time your fantasia casts her as wife and mother.

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on January 17, 2011 at 7:01 am Citizen Gatorade

Shouldn’t we feel like that by ourselves to start with?

Anyway. Time for a new blog update by Roissy! I was hoping I’d find something new after not being here for a few days, and also just coming back from an RSD seminar.

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on January 17, 2011 at 8:38 am carter

and with your worldy fears, she to will disappear…

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on January 17, 2011 at 11:41 am Rivelino

“American Prudishness….

No cheating in bed….We’re American

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/13/garden/13cheat.html?pagewanted=1&hpw”

Silver Fox, that article is hilarious.

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on January 17, 2011 at 12:24 pm Paul

haha Carter nailed it. Women can smell one-itis a ways away. Dryness ensues.

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on January 17, 2011 at 1:27 pm julian

last night a woman in a social group that i frequent confessed to us that she had written out an apology to an ex bf for wronging him. when he wrote her back and his response was non committal, neutral and aloof she told the group, ” i couldnt believe he wasnt trying to have sex with me, i felt humiliated !”. boys this is how women think. all or most of their value is predicated on their perceived desirability to men. this can be used to our advantage. do not delude yourself that women are not like this.

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on January 17, 2011 at 3:35 pm greatbooksformen GBFM

lzoozzollzozozlzllzolzolzozozozozolzol i think that rosissy has found a wife!!!

lzozozl godod for him but stille he should read som greta books for men!! like hsisod! HESIOD!!!!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pandora

This woman goes unnamed in the Theogony, but is presumably Pandora, whose myth Hesiod revisited in Works and Days. When she first appears before gods and mortals, “wonder seized them” as they looked upon her. But she was “sheer guile, not to be withstood by men.” Hesiod elaborates (590–93):
From her is the race of women and female kind:
of her is the deadly race and tribe of women who
live amongst mortal men to their great trouble,
no helpmates in hateful poverty, but only in wealth.
Hesiod goes on to lament that men who try to avoid the evil of women by avoiding marriage will fare no better (604–7):
He reaches deadly old age without anyone to tend his years,
and though he at least has no lack of livelihood while he lives,
yet, when he is dead, his kinsfolk divide his possessions amongst them.
Hesiod concedes that occasionally a man finds a good wife, but still (609) “evil contends with good.”

zlozzllzolz

themore things change, the more things stay the same zlzolzlzlzlzlz butteheuxalalla

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on January 17, 2011 at 5:20 pm greatbooksformen GBFM

lzlzozolzlzlzozlzl my reach is inifnieteee 1!! lzozlz

http://perfidy.org/anywaz-so-the-fed-desouls-womenz-form-an-early-age-via-numerous-methods/

anywaz so the fed desouls womenz form an early age via numerous methods

Found this on Foseti. It’s like reading Joyce’s Ulysses, but without the comforting assurance of generations of fey English majors that what you are reading is indeed a classic of western literature, no matter how little sense it’s making to you as you read.

Start here, if anywhere. And here’s a sort of concordance/glossary that may help you understand what you are reading. Or may not. I don’t know if I do, but it’s fun trying to imagine that I do. There does seem to be something behind the mangled spelling and odd terminology. Whether that something is good, I don’t know. I hope he’s not typing this in software that has spell-checking, because otherwise the red squigglies would blind him.

From “i luvs you allls o ye of little faith”

to all the spinsters with cats
who teh fed tricked into spinsterhood/serving debt lxolllozlzl
to all the fanboys in ther single mom’s basements
whose dads they never knew because the fed tookawy fatehrhood lzozlzl
to all the broken familes
who were split up by the need to make two salaries to feed the kids
to all aging necon womenz celeberating secretive tapings of butthex without teh girlths conthent lzozllzlzozlzl they tircked you too
to all the spinster chix again i am sorry they sdesouled you
in asscokcing sessins drugged you up on prozac
told you to abort your kids no wonder your’re d[pressed and all fucjked up no lozlzlzlzling here
my heart goes out to you while tucker max & goldman sax laugh zlzolzlzl
too all the aborted fetushes we ask for forgiveness we deserve not and to all those tricked into aborting the gift of life lzozllzllzl we forgive u too and pray for teh fethuses, but not in school as prayer is illegal in school lozlzllzlz

[wik] One of GBFM’s favorite word is butthex. But it’s not pronounced butt-hex. You are asked to imagine that Barney Frank is saying it – something more like but-thex.

[alsø wik] Not really germane, but considering what I just linked, who the fuck cares? GBFM uses a the pure quill variant of the Hemingway Black WordPress theme that once powered perfidy before we cleaned house and moved to this new, Buckethead-designed theme.

[alsø alsø wik] I don’t think we’ve ever had a more appropriate use of the ‘deranged scribblings’ category here on perfidy.

[Wi nøt trei a høliday in Sweden this yër?] I just noticed that there is a post at GBFM entitled, ‘how the federal reserve system created the PUA community lzozlzlzloozlzllzll!! they DO NO wan t the men to read mises or hayek or jefferson or the us constitution lzozlzlzlz they want to keep the men in the fiat masters’ cave — the fiat butthex matrix — “gaming” and fighting over the table scraps of all the desoulaed, haggaard, std-ridden, vicious, gold-digging, cold, defeminized, prozac-addled womenz the fiat masters buttthexed and deosuled in college during teh primae nocate ceremeonies, instead of manning up and fighting for their dvine irght to something far greater — an honorable, virtuous wife. lzozllzllzllzozzlz’ – I believe I’ll save that one for lunch tomorrow.

–http://perfidy.org/anywaz-so-the-fed-desouls-womenz-form-an-early-age-via-numerous-methods/

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on January 17, 2011 at 8:38 pm scatmaster

Barf

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on January 17, 2011 at 8:46 pm Anonymous

HOLY BUTTHEX, BATMAN!

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on January 17, 2011 at 9:49 pm whorefinder

Roissy!!!!

http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2011/jan/16/year-zero-face-plastic-surgery

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on January 17, 2011 at 11:10 pm Rum

B. Obamas latest pictures/vs China reveal him to be a tall, confused, deeply homosexual sort-of-semi-black man who instinctively bows down to offer his well-used anus to whatever stronger national chief he encounters.
Millons of us are going to die as a result.

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on January 17, 2011 at 11:11 pm Viagra_Falls

Can we get another post please? 3 minutes of this crap is bad enough, let alone 3 days…lolz

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on January 17, 2011 at 11:12 pm Gorbachev

I have problems with Obama, but my biggest problem is that he doesn’t act the part of the President of the USA.

He’s the PRESIDENT.

He should act like one.

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on January 17, 2011 at 11:45 pm Underachiever

A new study shows that beauty and brains go together.

“It appears that those already physically blessed attract partners who are not just good looking but brainy too, according to research by the London School of Economics.
The children of these couples will tend to inherit both qualities, building a genetic link over successive generations between them.
…
In Britain, the study found that men who are physically attractive had IQs an average 13.6 points above the norm while women were about 11.4 points higher.”

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-1347651/Attractive-people-higher-IQs-Beauty-brains-DO-together.html

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on January 18, 2011 at 12:07 am greatbooksformen GBFM

wht if roissy’s new wife makes him take the blog down?

zl;zoozlzzlloz

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on January 18, 2011 at 1:58 am Tim

He’s the PRESIDENT.

He should act like one.

Now where have I heard that one before? The last time those words were uttered, the reign of King George unleashed a tide of discontent across the land.

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on January 18, 2011 at 2:55 am Die a gruesome death

Gorbachev is the most plain, no fun, stupid commenter ever. Please die or leave.

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on January 18, 2011 at 3:01 am Gorbachev

@Die a gruesome death
Gorbachev is the most plain, no fun, stupid commenter ever. Please die or leave.

I have insurance.
I’m covered by the NMP* field that surrounds me.

* NMP = Not My problem.

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on January 18, 2011 at 3:52 am eo

Here is a semi-realistic / still-deluded-about-female-sexuality piece to dissect if you have some time to kill:

http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2011/01/hard-core/8327/3/

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on January 18, 2011 at 11:08 am Stud Dynamite

eo, interesting…
I learned a lot but naturally it still kinda freaks me out – I never had any “desire to debase women”, dominate (submissiveness is nice, “total submission” I couldn’t give a shit about), even the whole “bringing out inner slut/bad girl/naughty girl” thing puzzles me (though it definitely works, hehe) – what exactly is “naughty” about fucking and sucking? Is it some kind of church/strict parents thing? Or am I such a nice guy beta? But on the other hand, before getting married and emasculated, I was getting laid pretty consistently, had some basic natural game and again never learned to “dominate” – if the girl wouldn’t suck or do anal, it’s just next..
Kinda late to the party here, but it really makes me think. I mean I could see how some people would be into whole sub/dom thing, but it seems like a basic sex thing for pretty much all women? WTF?

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on January 18, 2011 at 12:50 pm The Conjunction « Hidden Leaves

[…] January 18, 2011 by Ulysses Recently the Dark Lord posted a short poem. Predictably, the comments featured some charges of teh gheyness and betatude. Other commenters […]

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on January 18, 2011 at 1:18 pm Bricona

that’s pretty damn adorable roissy

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on January 18, 2011 at 1:20 pm greatbooksformen GBFM

lozozlzz omg what if roisyy never comes home?? zlolzlzlzlzl

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on January 18, 2011 at 2:40 pm Obstinance Works

I found a relevant text that Great Balls For Manginas might want to peruse.

Habakkuk 2

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on January 18, 2011 at 2:42 pm Obstinance Works

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Habakkuk%202&version=CEV

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on January 18, 2011 at 2:56 pm old guy

@Silver Fox

American Prudishness….

No cheating in bed….We’re American

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/13/garden/13cheat.html?pagewanted=1&hpw ”

Thanx, 2 funny.

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on January 18, 2011 at 3:31 pm aoefe

Nice! Love is in the air – everywhere you look around…

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on January 19, 2011 at 2:00 am Anonymous44

Genghis game. You guys keep getting it wrong. You know that quote? “To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentation of their women.”

That wasn’t from Genghis. Genghis asked his generals what is the sweetest thing in life. That was THEIR answer. Genghis told them “nah, you got it all wrong. The sweetest thing in life is to race across the prairie on your fastest horse, to look up at the northern lights, and feel the wind of freedom in your hair.”

I’m paraphrasing, but that was his view.

So, for Roissy to post this poem, I see it as Genghis Khan frame and game. Pure and simple. I have my own little secret dream; “Ten feet of fresh powder blocking out all sound, freshly waxed skis, and the whole mountain to myself.”

In other words ENJOY women. Don’t make your life ABOUT women. We should all learn this from Roissy.

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on January 19, 2011 at 2:01 am Anonymous44

How many of you guys have ever watched or read “The Story of O”? Just because you dominate a woman, doesn’t mean you don’t love her or give her sweet poems and perfumes. Just don’t do it in a way that makes it a DLV. 2/3’s rule.

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on January 19, 2011 at 10:06 am Obstinance Works

Put yur love in the air aoefe!!

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on January 19, 2011 at 12:07 pm Tinderbox

How many of you guys have ever watched or read “The Story of O”?

Have you? Where do you think the creator of this blog, “Chateau” aka “Roissy,” got his noms de plume?

Genghis game. You guys keep getting it wrong. You know that quote? “To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentation of their women.”

That wasn’t from Genghis.

No shit Sherlock, that’s because we’re quoting Arnold Schwarzenegger in “Conan.” At a banquet in that movie some other Mongol (perhaps the young Genghis) gave the sensitive “wind in the hair” answer and was deemed wrong by the warlord. Conan then gave the better answer.

But you’re right about enjoying women, not serving them.

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on January 19, 2011 at 12:48 pm Anonymous44

Got halfway through the story of O, and just got bored. Cuckold porn doesn’t do it for me.

As for your “no shit sherlock” comment, go do some Google searching. Finding the “wind in the hair” quote actually attributed to G.Khan is NOT easy. I spent a while trying to find it. I think I actually read it in a book before, not on the web. Everything on the web just keeps repeating the old crapola about G.Khan enjoying the sobbing of women, etc.

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on January 22, 2011 at 10:37 am Joe

Lame, cheesy.

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