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January 30, 2011 by CH

Emails from readers praising this blog for making their lives better are a daily occurrence nowadays, but these two notes of thanks — one an email and the other a comment — struck a chord.

I found your blog about 1 1/2 years ago. I check it out just about everyday. I love reading your stories, about game, women, and just your day to day thoughts. During my year long deployment to Afghanistan it really helped me get through the week. Just wanted to say thanks for everything you do, and I hope you keep on posting.

Thanks

Nicholas

And this comment from a man in India who calls himself “kc”:

Dear Chateau members,
I was introduced to your blog in 2010 via Bernard Chapin. Ever since I have been an avid reader. I write from India. You have an Indian fan. As someone who is on the verge of getting married, let me tell you your advice works. I have tried it and it works. Man have to lead. There is no alternative. While I am looking for marriage and not STRs/LTRs, reading Game and Athol Kay etc etc has made a difference to my life. In the Indian context, I would certainly say that elements of Game work. Since we have not reached that level of feminism like in the US so far and in the comparative absence of a welfare state, while hard core gaming is not necessary, elements can be applied for the good. The knife of game can be used for life saving surgeries. I don’t have any illusions about women any more but enjoying the love of one is certainly good. Some day I would write a guest post for the Chateau, giving my experiences. Regards.

Would it be uncouth to preen? Of course it would. *PREEN*

Reader thank yous like the ones above are reminders that the subversive works of the Chateau have broadened into an enterprise more meaningful than the fun, downtime hobby which was, and will continue to be, its true purpose. What happens at the Chateau, no longer stays at the Chateau.

And, kc, you are welcome to write a guest post about your experience with game in India.

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  1. on January 30, 2011 at 12:16 pm j

    This blog changed the way I view nearly everything; I sensed that things were not the way I was brought up and socialized to believe.

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  2. on January 30, 2011 at 12:32 pm Workshy Joe

    I’d like to add my own testimonial here.

    Athough I have been vaugely aware of the existence of the “seduction community” and PUAs for years, I never thought it had any relevance for me since I didn’t approach 18 to 25 year old women in bars or clubs.

    Only after a series of horrible relationship train wrecks did I ask myself honestly, “WTF am I doing wrong here?”

    The effort I put into my relationships seemed to be inversely proportional to my results.

    That in itself should have been a clue!

    Back in the 1990s, I had read popular evolutionary psychology texts suggesting that male status and money was all important to attraction.

    Although I could see a correlation there, I was unable to explain instances where physically unattractive males with little or no money had women fighting for their attention.

    I discovered Game and was absolutely mortified by it. Its taken me months to mentally come to terms with reality and understand my life experiences through a new lens.

    I am now ready to accept women as they really are. Not as I want them to be.

    Thank you Roissy!

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  3. on January 30, 2011 at 12:40 pm Anonymous

    Roissy,

    I think most gamer boys are losers. I think they overanalyse, have almost-OCD levels of need for structure, and view the world in a bunch of “if-then-else” statements and structures.

    To me, most gamerboys lose what it is to be human, practicing their approaches, kino, IOUs and whatever else they worry about.

    You, it is evident, see the system and use it to your benefit, but do not lose what it is to be human. To love. To be a person.

    I really enjoy your writing, and your philosophies you share. I do not agree with all, I do agree with many. Keep up the great work.

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  4. on January 30, 2011 at 12:47 pm Grendel

    As a natural it showed me why it all just works.

    Also had a woman ask me for game the other day. They know now.

    More politics please for the approaching erection season.

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  5. on January 30, 2011 at 12:53 pm Unamused

    To be honest, every time one of my relationships has gone disastrously wrong, it was (very obviously) because I broke one of your rules/guidelines/theories/etc. A 100% success rate, there. Now I didn’t always yet know the rule/whatever I was failing to heed, but I feel pretty stupid about the ones I did know about!

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  6. on January 30, 2011 at 12:57 pm J.K

    Roissy.i wouldn’t consider it as ‘your work’ as some readers put it.your merely a vessel that is guiding the lost to the light.you share your experiences and we learn from them.readers should understand that they all have what it takes.how you do what you do is what makes the difference.Regards J.K

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  7. on January 30, 2011 at 1:03 pm Anonymous

    Roissy speaks the truth about women… if you got wealth/status/etc., they’re available.

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  8. on January 30, 2011 at 1:04 pm Rant Casey - BR

    Its an unique blog.

    An experience in style, insightfulness and vice.

    The evil in me comes back to enjoy it everytime.

    I commend you, Monsieur Chateau!

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  9. on January 30, 2011 at 1:29 pm bob

    this blog changed my perspective, women are no longer some mystery that can not be solved but, when you think about whats driving them and what they want alpha cock, everything makes sense

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  10. on January 30, 2011 at 1:30 pm Woman from Finland

    I would also like to add my thanks to Roissy. This blog has succeeded to motivate me in something, I have tried in vain for many, many years, ever since I was a teenager. In just three months I have lost nearly 25 lbs! How? Simply by reading this blog whenever I felt like eating some junk food or skipping exercise. I still have another 20 lbs to go, before I reach my goal BMI (20), but that’s gonna be a piece of cake 😉

    Thank you so much! Especially for every “Hungry hungry hippos” -post, they have been my endless source of thinspiration.

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  11. on January 30, 2011 at 1:33 pm A

    Yes thank you- Take a look at Avril Lavigne’s awful video- she treats a guy like crap and he takes it http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tQmEd_UeeIk

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  12. on January 30, 2011 at 1:47 pm Gendeau

    Same story as those above, pretty much.

    The ironic thing is that I got here via some UK blogger-ette who referred to Roissy as “He Who Cannot Be Named”

    I was searching for sites that might explain what the hell was up with women (who here cannot say the same?)

    FWIW its worth, her blog was quite entertaining. One gets a kind of perverse glea that she hates this site soooo much, most particularly because it works (I suspect)

    She has my eternal gratitude for ‘pointing’ me here.

    An example:
    http://thenewadventuresofjuliette.blogspot.com/2009/08/why-modern-women-cant-win-with-modern.html

    Monday, August 17, 2009
    The Haters of Roissy 3 : Bad Obsession

    Goddamn my inability to resist the sexual Bermuda Triangle that is Roissy DC.

    I’ve searched my soul for the whys and wherefores behind this sick addiction, and I’ve drawn a blank every time. As another reader has commented, it is the crack cocaine of blogs – and as a quick search told me, other folks seem to think so too.

    Every time I glance at it (hating myself for doing so, I might add), I find something that is, quite simply the worst and most darkly fascinating thing in the entire world, multiplied by ten. I mean, please. Just check this out. This is what happened when some random woman left him a few critical comments. Now, tell me that’s not fucking disturbing.

    If, at this point, anyone wants to use the ‘talented writer keeping it real’ defence, there’s clearly some mix-up between the concepts of ‘talented writer keeping it real’ and ‘woman-hating psychopath with a terrifyingly distorted sense of perspective, launching into an utterly chilling vendetta against a complete stranger for the flimsiest of reasons imaginable.’

    This is like someone who’d batter his wife to death because she left the mayo out of his sandwich.

    Did I launch into an attack like this when I got (significantly worse and more venomous) hate mail?

    No. I just told the guy to fuck off, and enabled comments moderation. Job done.

    And all of this because the lady in question accused him of being an ‘asshole and woman hater’.

    So what better way of proving her wrong than sticking her personal Myspace pics all over his site, libellously accusing her of being a porn star, and calling her an ugly old slack-fannied man in drag (although, even in the worst pics he could dig up, I’m quite sure she’s a damn sight foxier than he ever will be. Calling her a 6 is fucking hilarious, when you look at some of the nondescript randoms he’s bigged up as 8s and 9s just because he’s pulled them.)

    Why, why, why do I keep reading this horrible thing?

    Is it repressed lust?

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  13. on January 30, 2011 at 1:53 pm Gendeau

    And I just found the ultimate irony, her blog seems to have petered out with this last entry:

    (‘Josh’ might have a reputation as a mangina…for some, unimaginable, reason)

    http://thenewadventuresofjuliette.blogspot.com/

    Tuesday, December 21, 2010
    Geek Of The Week

    Christ alive.

    Come back, Roissy. All is forgiven.

    My favourite quote of the article?

    ‘It is hypocritical to build consensus around an ideal of positive masculinity without seeking to challenge those aspects of masculinity which remain deeply and negatively entrenched.’

    Well, fuckin’ A, Josh Hadley.

    And I bet you make a mean organic lentil and tofu bake, and all.

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  14. on January 30, 2011 at 1:57 pm Ari Hinkelberger

    While this blog has increased my cynicism towards my fellow man ten fold, I can’t think of anything that has come across my mind that has made such an enormous difference in my everyday actions with women.

    From your famous post entitled “women want you to cheat” to your “be a skittles man” – I honestly can’t thank you enough for the insight and thoughtfulness you provide each and every day.

    When things are rocky in my sex life and shit aint going right, I simply refer back to this website and search and preen for the answer.

    Thanks from the bottom of my heart.

    Ari

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  15. on January 30, 2011 at 2:28 pm Mr. Happy's Conscious

    I get a lot out of this blog, but I always wished I got more.

    “Where pretty lies perish” really is the key here. All of the esmasulating influences of feminism are laid bare. Maybe not everyone can be a greater-Alpha, but we can all up our game to a level well beyond what we ever thought was possible.

    Game matters, and everytime we are in front of a woman we are being weighed, measured, and graded. Without a roadmap and play-book, we would never really know why.

    Prior to now, I never really understood why at various times in my life women would practically beg me to bang them and at other times I could almost smell their repulsion by me.

    Confidence is everything, and it matters more than almost any other factor short of any physical trait.

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  16. on January 30, 2011 at 2:29 pm Rob

    Enjoy the blog. That kid with the dog is retarded. Hopefully he is and will remain a virgin. We can’t have progeny of his loafing around.

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  17. on January 30, 2011 at 2:34 pm Props to the Award Winners « The Badger Hut

    […] Walsh’s Hooking Up Smart, Ferdinand Bardamu’s In Mala Fide, Dalrock and the inimitable Roissy (or “Citizen Renegade” for the Johnny Come Latelys) were all named to […]

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  18. on January 30, 2011 at 2:36 pm ElectricAngel

    I have no interest in pursuing women any more. This blog is more about keeping alive within oneself that life-giving animus that all men have been internally prevented from seeing. Like Samson, we were blinded to it by pedestalization, feminism, and just general Cultural Marxism run amok. You have helped many a man regrow his locks, sir, and the dust from the temples of idolatry and false gods that we will tear down will blot out the sky.

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  19. on January 30, 2011 at 2:40 pm ElectricAngel

    Mr Happy wrote:
    Confidence is everything, and it matters more than almost any other factor short of any physical trait.

    Sounds like the Dunning-Kruger Effect
    http://www.amerika.org/social-reality/the-dunning-kruger-effect/

    In a nutshell, people of little competence cannot judge others’ ability. The incompetent are overconfident in their abilities, and this overconfidence attracts others.

    That is a fascinating piece to mull.

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  20. on January 30, 2011 at 2:46 pm maurice

    hobby which (is), and will continue to be, its true purpose

    there’s something true to the blog theme and narrative in this- changing people’s lives for the better is OK, but self gratification, staving off personal boredom, is the *real* point. but I don’t really buy it. (there’s been more than a few “PREEN”s so far in the “reader mail” posts, for one thing.) really, who else has their own Sphere, ferchrissake? there’s got to be a great deal of satisfaction in being a thought leader in this corner of the web, a writer of recognized gifts, generating controversy but gaining hundreds of regular readers, having your name behind a coherent but recognized worldview. It’s exactly like having an impressive achievement in any other area of endeavor. So knock off the cynical misdirection, please, and just enjoy the praise! you have earned it. (Also props to the mini-me Chateau writers who have been keeping it going in the same style- some times it doesn’t work but most times it does.)

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  21. on January 30, 2011 at 2:47 pm Symphony

    I found this blog late in my time in college (~2 years ago) and since have read it just about daily. The timing coincided with shedding many things I’ve been taught and a feeling of renewal with an urge to seek what is true. This led to much more reading and thinking about many topics including evolution, life, women, philosophy and political/economic structures.

    You’ve pique my interest in many things and have served as a catalyst to my intellectual development. For that, I thank you.

    A few changes I’ve made in the last few years:
    – Gave away my Telescreen, I mean TV
    – Adopted a semi-Paleo diet
    – Subscribe exclusively to Austrian economics
    – Seeing women as hypergamous reproduction instruments, and nothing more
    – Applying evolutionary theory to my understanding of the world
    – Completely throwing out the idea of marriage (I live in the U.S.)

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  22. on January 30, 2011 at 2:51 pm Zammo

    As one of the older fellows who regularly read this blog, I am somewhat in awe of the collective wisdom of men that has been shared across the manosphere. I will be 49 in March.

    Before the Internet, men operated in small packs, sharing not wisdom, but ignorance. Worse, we drank of the feminist kool-aid deeply.

    When I first learned of Game, I was deeply skeptical. After all, how could women be so predictable, so shallow, so malleable to clever words and manipulations?

    But as a man, logic and reason won out. I embraced the knowledge and wisdom of Game and and have decided to practice it sparingly because it is quite powerful stuff. Those times I have elected to practice Game, the results have been stunning.

    I make a point to tell every man I know about Game and the manosphere and in particular, I tell them about Citizen Renegade.

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  23. on January 30, 2011 at 3:06 pm Mr. Happy's Conscious

    ElectricAngel wrote:

    In a nutshell, people of little competence cannot judge others’ ability. The incompetent are overconfident in their abilities, and this overconfidence attracts others.

    That is a fascinating piece to mull.

    True, but sticking to the narrower focus of women (and their whole process of attraction) the problem arises in the almost paradoxical issue of the more competent showing less confidence because they know their limitations and that hurts them in attracting women.

    Modesty and timidity kills “game” faster than a physical limitation ever will. Until you have a better level of game, everything else is second. Money, sense of humor, looks and power all matter, but they all matter less than game.

    The foundation of game is confidence, almost to the exclusion of how you acquire that confidence. If you are delusional or if you really are that awesome, they both look identical to a woman, and most of the rest of the population at first.

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  24. on January 30, 2011 at 3:16 pm lulu

    I’ve been reading for over a year. I’m a female approaching a critical time in terms of my ability to control and benefit from the sexual marketplace, and have found this blog and its comments delightfully informative. I think some men view women’s increasing familiarity with game as problematic, but honestly frank discussion of the evolved sexual dynamic can only help us all get what we want. Thanks kindly Roissy.

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  25. on January 30, 2011 at 3:20 pm greenlander

    Roissy, keep doing what you’re doing!

    A lot of your stuff I use all the time. “It’s complicated” works wonders. And that routine about red and white roses and stuff is chick crack. I’ve had girls tell me about routine that six months after I ran it on them telling me how interesting it was.

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  26. on January 30, 2011 at 3:27 pm mars

    I can’t say it enough. This blog has made me discover the right attitude to go with my moderately good looks for maximum effects. Thanks Roissy.

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  27. on January 30, 2011 at 3:36 pm Anton

    Important to remember too that women are women, whatever their age or station in life.

    Game helps nails 22 yr olds, but works every bit as well in dealing with women in the workplace or anywhere else, even if the objective is different.

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  28. on January 30, 2011 at 3:42 pm Anonymous

    I have read this blog for six months.
    Before I had one girlfriend.
    Now I have three.
    And like 5 other girls in and out of rotation. I now teach men game. This is magic

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  29. on January 30, 2011 at 3:48 pm Gorbachev

    It’s a public service.

    This is the ego you need for good game, people.

    Inflate that sucker as much as possible.

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  30. on January 30, 2011 at 3:49 pm justadude

    I’ve been reading this blog since 2008 (ironically found it from a link on Megan McCuntdle’s blog). I rarely comment. But just want to say that I read a shit ton of blogs, and without a question this is the best, most important blog for men on the web. The content is obviously superb, and the writing is second to none (plus, some of the posts are really fucking funny). Reading a new post is like opening a Christmas present.
    Seriously, this site has opened my eyes and changed my life for the better. Thanks.

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  31. on January 30, 2011 at 3:53 pm Bill

    Yeah, you helped put a lot of things in perspective for me, too. The honesty and insight offered on this blog were like nothing else I’d seen.

    I believe you are the contemporary incarnation of Giacomo Casanova.

    Thanks for all the work you’ve put in!

    -Bill Price

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  32. on January 30, 2011 at 4:06 pm Gmac

    Some of the guys above hit the nail on the head. Game isn’t just about picking up / playing women — it’s about psychology, mentality, and perception. You can apply game to practically any area of your life, whether you’re trying to have one nighters with college girls or just become a more alpha husband, whatever.

    It’s helped me follow my dad’s glorious footsteps and learn to juggle multiple women at once. I’ve gotten a lot out of reading the blogs in this small community and I’ve still got a ways to go. Hope to see you out in DC sometime Roissy, keep it up.

    Gmac

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  33. on January 30, 2011 at 4:12 pm desiderius

    Yeah, you’re good, but don’t let it go to your head. You’re far from the first. From Dead Souls (1842), Nickolai Gogol:

    “At this point I must reluctantly deviate to say that men of weight and high office are always a trifle ponderous when conversing with ladies. Young lieutenants–or, at all events, officers not above the rank of captain–are far more successful at the game. How they contrive to be
    so God only knows. Let them but make the most inane of remarks, and at once the maiden by their side will be rocking with laughter; whereas, should a State Councilor enter into conversation with a damsel, and remark that the Russian Empire is one of vast extent, or utter a compliment which he has elaborated not without a certain measure of intelligence (however strongly the said compliment may smack of a book), of a surety the thing will fall flat. Even a witticism from him will be laughed at far more by him himself than it will by the lady who may happen to be listening to his remarks.

    These comments I have interposed for the purpose of explaining to the reader why, as our hero conversed, the maiden began to yawn. Blind to this, however, he continued to relate to her sundry adventures which
    had befallen him in different parts of the world. Meanwhile (as need hardly be said) the rest of the ladies had taken umbrage at his behavior. One of them purposely stalked past him to intimate to him the fact, as well as to jostle the Governor’s daughter, and let the flying end of a scarf flick her face; while from a lady seated behind the pair came both a whiff of violets and a very venomous and
    sarcastic remark. Nevertheless, either he did not hear the remark or he pretended not to hear it. This was unwise of him, since it never does to disregard ladies’ opinions. Later-but too late–he was destined to learn this to his cost.

    In short, dissatisfaction began to display itself on every feminine face. No matter how high Chichikov might stand in society, and no matter how much he might be a millionaire and include in his expression of countenance an indefinable element of grandness and martial ardor, there are certain things which no lady will pardon, whosoever be the person concerned. Briefly, the prevailing dissatisfaction grew until a tacit edict of proscription had been issued against him.”

    Gogol makes Roissy look like Joel fucking Osteen.

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  34. on January 30, 2011 at 4:23 pm walawala

    This blog has been the right prescription. After learning game exactly a year ago after a rather disastrous flame-out with a girl who was sending me major IOI’s then suddenly changed, flaked and then did some other stupid things I have a great zinger to drop here.

    I realized after learning game that with this girl–and probably many others, I was doing a lot of really beta shit. Giving gifts, dropping compliments, getting angry when stuff didn’t go right–basically being a wuss when it started going south.

    THis girl in many ways did me a favour because I was forced to get out of my funk and that’s how I discovered this forum.

    During the past year, I began addressing all the beta shit, working on inner game, gaming, understanding the Mystery Method and of course getting great advice here.

    I banged 6 hot girls last year, including a hot married woman.

    Then I landed a real prize, a girl who I’m now regularly going out with, banging the shit out of and who is completely devoted to me. She loves being gamed, loves that she never knows what I’m going to say next, that I’m constantly teasing her and then once in a while, I say something completely serious that is direct and she melts.

    If I’d never encountered this blog, 1) I’d never have landed this girl and 2) I never would have kept this girl 3) I never would have understood shit-tests, the beta-provider game, over-gaming etc.

    It’s always a process and never a destination. I’m constantly re-assessing. But the self-awareness means that I no longer automatically do beta-shit.

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  35. on January 30, 2011 at 4:36 pm lover of women

    great job – congrats of the highest order ..and you’re (we) having fun too ..what’s better

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  36. on January 30, 2011 at 4:57 pm jack

    Grendel –

    Are you a troll? 😉

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  37. on January 30, 2011 at 4:58 pm old guy

    @ElectricAngel

    Mr Happy wrote:
    Confidence is everything, and it matters more than almost any other factor short of any physical trait.

    Sounds like the Dunning-Kruger Effect
    http://www.amerika.org/social-reality/the-dunning-kruger-effect/

    In a nutshell, people of little competence cannot judge others’ ability. The incompetent are overconfident in their abilities, and this overconfidence attracts others.

    That is a fascinating piece to mull. ”

    Thanks for the link, interesting.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning–Kruger_effect

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  38. on January 30, 2011 at 5:04 pm Dave from Hawaii

    Would it be uncouth to preen? Of course it would. *PREEN*

    A certain segment of regular commenters here at the Chateau should preen in their own right.

    While Roissy is the rightfully esteemed ring master of this cyber-three ring circus, the unique community of perspectives and input from many of the readers here certainly contributes to the expansive volume of life-changing knowledge contained in the Chateau’s growing archives.

    What the chateau has done, is provide the meeting place for the harmonic convergence between the varying observations and perspectives of the MRA, PUA, HBD & Conspiracy Theory blogosphere.

    The Chateau is the primary red pill dispensary on the inter-webs.

    Keep ’em coming.

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  39. on January 30, 2011 at 5:20 pm ancalgon

    I guess I’m one of the few people who have seen the effects of game (or absence of it) in India, while liberally applying it (after reading the Chateau) in the US. I must say that slut shaming removes a lot of efficacy of standard game in India, but LTR/married man game is more relevant.

    Meanwhile, game is helping me towards pumping and dumping American women. Thanks go out to the Chateau proprietors. (along with a case of single malt Scotch emblazoned with the triskelion).

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  40. on January 30, 2011 at 5:38 pm Legion

    Some slut was bitching online about the “how to identify a slut” post. When I read her message I thought “Wow, this Roissy fuckhead sounds like a complete misogynistic tard!”

    And so I just clicked the link to check it out.

    And damn, epicness was delivered. The ho had distorted everything, typically.

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  41. on January 30, 2011 at 6:13 pm Matt

    Yours and Roosh V.’s blog are, I can honestly say, the only two that have changed my life. Before discovering either I was a supplicating beta of the absolute WORST kind. After seeing what was wrong with my “game” (I had none), I’ve been climbing the ladder to nascent alpha and banging more women than I ever thought possible.

    So thank you, good sir, for helping this man shed his virginity and remove the shackles of desiring marriage with a modern western women.

    Long live Chateau!

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  42. on January 30, 2011 at 6:15 pm Matt

    Also — some of the reader comments here have been invaluable. I’ve practically read every article available in this Chateu’s library, and with every article, the comments.

    Real gems at times.

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  43. on January 30, 2011 at 7:06 pm College Slacker

    I’ll continue the lovefest here. As a 21 year old, I can’t express how thankful I am that I chanced upon this site in October from the Weekly Standard article at my young age. I probably share a past with many of the readers here- I’m a good looking dude, but I had little game. I got a highish notch count from the easy sixes and sevens that required zero effort from me, but when I did have the stones to get going with an 8+ I always fucked up with beta behavior.

    When I discovered this site, I was in a floundering LTR that I did not really want to be in. I broke it off soon afterward and began putting into practice the principles I had been absorbing from Roissy (I had gone through the entire archives twice in a zealous furor). The results have been just as one would expect. Honestly, its still pleasantly surprising how well this stuff works. I’m still a ways off where I want to be, but I’ve been pulling more than a few 8’s that I would not have had the confidence to try for months ago.

    Real talk, this site has done so much to change the white knight pedestalizing behavior I exhibited the first 21.5 years of my life. It has clarified the way I see the world and women for the better. I’ve introduced this site to a few dudes I know that I felt were intellectually and morally ready for red pill, and it has worked just as well for them. I can’t give enough thanks, Roissy and Co., keep up the good work.

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  44. on January 30, 2011 at 7:24 pm old guy

    I just read it for the links.

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  45. on January 30, 2011 at 7:36 pm julian

    what keeps me coming back is two things.

    a) the psychological insights into male/female dynamics which are ironically “everywhere” yet are so subtly hidden if not viewed with the proper lens. once you calibrate the lens much like a photographer or film director does, the picture is so clear its quite literally mind shattering. the effect on one’s perception i can only liken to what it must have felt like when scientists first looked through a microscope.

    b) the writing. as a student of literature and philosophy words and the way are arranged, balanced, and given weight means a great deal to me. roissy continuously excels in this department.

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  46. on January 30, 2011 at 7:50 pm Mr. C

    I have gained more value , knowledge and understanding from reading the Citizen renegade blog and (some of) its comments contributors than ANY other Game or PUA related website.

    Keep up the great work Roissy and Co , and it would be great to see a book produced at some stage where the Maxims etc are outlined.

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  47. on January 30, 2011 at 8:03 pm Gramps

    Like many men, I was stunted by my upbringing in the area of women. Although I found this blog way to late to change my life’s trajectory with women, it has basically explained to me why I was such a zero with women all my life, despite being above average in looks, athletism, height, and intelligence. (Just being honest.) I was pure beta provider material. Being from a poor background, I thought I was winning when I achieved my life’s goal, being able to properly support a wife and children. In fact, I was really being taken advantage of. This knowledge makes me much happier, because now I know where the problem lay. It wasn’t me. It was them. It was one big lie.

    However, it is never too late to game women. My interactions with women have been much better since I found this blog. A lot better. It doesn’t take much.

    My main problems now are that women anywhere near my age are just not interesting sexually, and, who has time for chasing women when you are busy working all the time. In a way, I am looking forward to retirement.

    Just to buttress my beta provider credentials, I hit the tip jar today. It’s the least I could do for the guy who opened my eyes regarding women.

    You da’ man!!!

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  48. on January 30, 2011 at 8:07 pm Rake

    Roissy, as an avid reader (checking in from Australia), I have two things to say.

    Firstly, regardless of content, please please pleaseee never stop writing. You’re style and flair alone contribute to a large portion of my chateau addiction, and I can’t imagine a world without your insightful witticisms and penis graphs.

    Secondly, you have shaped my world beyond what I thought would or should be possible. From influencing my life goals to providing the tools necessary to understand social dynamics (and even improving my own writing style dramatically!), your posts -teachings- can only be summed up in one word: invaluable.

    Massive respect from Aussieland, and again, please never stop writing!

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  49. on January 30, 2011 at 8:18 pm Danny

    Most of the game here is an amalgamation of Tariq Nasheed, Tom Leykis, and a few others. However, I also give credit where it is due. That Sixteen Commandments was very concise and I probably have not heard 2 or 3 of them before. It was great advice. Over the long term, this blog and those before and after it will elevate the quality of men and hopefully the quality of women.

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  50. on January 30, 2011 at 8:36 pm Matt

    @ Danny … Tom Leykis doesn’t provide much in the way of game. I’ve listened to hundreds of hours of his show, including the venerable “Leykis 101” series, and the best advice he seems to have is (a.) get rich. His advice concerning being a dick, etc. is generic at best.

    Leykis rules for lifting the veil, but his knowledge of technique seems somewhat limited.

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  51. on January 30, 2011 at 8:59 pm Danny

    @Matt. I am aware of that. His target audience was minorities and his shows were more about the risks of marriage than game. It is why I said “an amalgamation of…”

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  52. on January 30, 2011 at 9:04 pm Ari Hinkelberger

    The top two posts in the history of Roissy are:

    1.) Bet a Skittles Man

    and

    2.) Women want you to cheat.

    —

    “Be a skittles man” is the best post ever written – hands down. Every man needs to read it. Should be put in every male’s hands by the age of six because it is so freakin true.

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  53. on January 30, 2011 at 9:07 pm Mr. C

    ” Tom Leykis doesn’t provide much in the way of game. ”

    Agreed , I think he has more comedy value than as an advisor for Game.

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  54. on January 30, 2011 at 9:10 pm yes

    Honestly, reading this blog and learning about game and evopsyche in general has killed my interest in women. It’s taken all the romance out of romance, so to speak; all that remains is the cynical manipulation of attraction triggers. As is so often the case in life, the truth is a bitter pill to swallow. But I’m glad to have taken it.

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  55. on January 30, 2011 at 9:49 pm Gorbachev

    Some game notes on the “trajectory” for normal guys who learn game:

    My marriage went into a tailspin. I spent 6-8 months in misery, single and more or less a troglodyte.

    The second woman I was with after my divorce (aside from a furtive ONS) was a black woman who thought I was a great guy (when she met me), but depressed after divorce and half-troglodyte. She was the first black woman I was really attracted to, and I had no idea how to manage it. She told me I was gameless – I needed some game. She taught me and we ended up in a relationship. Looking back, I realize – black men have more natural asshole game than white men. She gave me some spine. (nice girl, married now, good guy, I like him, I occasionally hang out with him when he’s in town, they live in Atlanta now, no hard feelings about me being the ex BF; I’m white so it’s irrelevant.)

    I has a string of 3-4 month relationships for about a year. I learned how to avoid my negative game, and managed to pick up non-ugly women (all white). Managing a relationship was very difficult; maintaining it caused me to lose interest and it was hard, still too beta.

    Then I went to Asia.

    I gained +2 points in attractive women immediately. My confidence shot through the roof. I lived in Korea for a few years, then moved to China, and spent various amounts of time in Japan. By the time I left Korea, I was dating very hot women regularly. The first period was adjustment, to the culture; then I started a literal collection. It was almost hard not to do. I started into married women, and I realized: Nothing was a barrier to acquiring experience. Not marriage, not jobs, not exposure, and when I learned Korean, not language. It was insane. I CANNOT overemphasize that it’s possible for foreign guys to clean up in NE Asia. It’s almost embarrassing. This I must continually say to men in this community: If you’re 25-35, get the hell out of the US and go to Asia. Don’t worry about cash, just have an interesting job and don’t be ugly and have some social skills.

    If you’re Asian, also do this. It’s still MUCH better for you.

    HOWEVER

    It got dull, very fast. At some point, the variety starts to bleed together. You crave attachment.

    Despite the loud talk and the bravado, you actually want female companionship that matters. So fell hard for one girl.

    My last 8 month there were spent with her, more or less. She was great, but too young (I thought) for a LTR. I got a job in Europe and left, the relationship tanked and she was devastated. She remained so until recently.

    In Europe, by this time, I was able to land very attractive women easily, which I did for the first few months, especially with an interesting job and being an unabashed pro-American foreigner, who tried to learn the local languages, but in 2 years, I managed 1 serious relationship and about 3-4 STRs of various interest. I chose the big serious relationship poorly: a married woman. But you can see the trend:

    The Crazies were basically gone.

    Korea wasn’t unique that way; it just happened to be where I was, and the confidence boost was incredible. It was almost stupidly easy to take women home. I’d tell stories, but it sounds like bragging.

    Any white guy who’s lived there and had any gumption will tell you. If anything CHINA WAS BETTER. I wasn’t in the right space to blaze a trail, but it was pretty damned good.

    Japan was fucking bizarre. Nothing makes sense there. Korea, China are their own deals, but Japan is just weird.

    Now, after having been back for a while, once again, the variety starts to pale, and I just want one great girl. Now the problem is *MANAGING* the relationship, which is difficult for several factors:

    – I’ve never done LTR game. It’s complex and needs finesse. You need more than attraction. You need to appeal to both natures: Beta and Alpha.
    – Tendency to look around. What can I say? You get used to it.
    – When you shoot as high as you can go, how the hell do you maintain attraction while not slipping into beta – because when you shoot too high, your “beta” slipping zone is much smaller, so don’t-fuck-up.

    I’ve internalized this, but there’s enough there in the reformed cad (I like to think) to make a pretty standard trajectory for normal guys who learn game–

    Guys who aren’t Roosh or Roissy or Mystery. Just your normal Joes who pay attention and have some ambitions.

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  56. on January 30, 2011 at 10:22 pm Vike

    The collective wisdom at this blog serves one of the primary roles that a father should fulfill for his son—teaching him the reality of the social world he inhabits— a job for which very few western fathers are qualified.

    To the younger men here, know that you are fortunate to have access to this wisdom, via the internet, at such a young age, and that, earnestly applied, it has the ability to fundamentally alter the fabric of your reality for the rest of your life, beyond just banging chicks.

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  57. on January 30, 2011 at 10:37 pm Carl Sagan

    I suggest a poll for voting for the best articles on this site.

    A sort of Hall of Fame.

    About time, being reading this blog for a long time.

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  58. on January 30, 2011 at 10:43 pm old guy

    @Vike

    The collective wisdom at this blog serves one of the primary roles that a father should fulfill for his son—teaching him the reality of the social world he inhabits— a job for which very few western fathers are qualified. ”

    AMEN !!!

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  59. on January 30, 2011 at 10:53 pm Guest

    Gorbachev:

    What if you are over 35 years old? What’s do you recommend then?

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  60. on January 30, 2011 at 10:55 pm Chris from Dublin

    When PC-dyke-fagrags like The Irish Times have articles headed:- “are all our men omega males?*” it shows the sublime level of your influence.

    (Answer: no. All YOUR men are omega-beta provider males, you arid-cunted shrikes.)

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  61. on January 30, 2011 at 11:04 pm Fade

    @ gorbachov…. can i have your email in some way? i’d like to ask you a few questions about asia if you have a minute.

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  62. on January 30, 2011 at 11:18 pm Mr. C

    In a documentary I saw in 2010 , “The Colossi of Love” , the “Kamakia” (Greek men that seduced female tourists on the Greek islands in the 70’s and 80’s) stated how they avoided the Irish women as the Irish women were by far the least likely to put out.

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  63. on January 30, 2011 at 11:51 pm Robber

    @vike
    Re the father’s influence thing. I’m a greater beta in a ltr of 16 years (married for 10). We have a two year old son.

    I stumbled across this blog a year ago and am hooked. My relationship with my wife is good but was getting dull. Thanks to relationship game I have got the lust and spice back, which was in a hole thanks to the baby.

    Anyway, this has given me a great reservoir of ugly truths with which I can innoculate my son as he grows up. It will be a massive advantage to him not just with girls but in life.

    So I feel this blog will help me raise a better son and be a better father.

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  64. on January 31, 2011 at 12:17 am Pterodactyl Guano

    This blog changed my perception of the world.

    It did not make me learn new things.

    It made me see familiar things clearly.

    It was like a familiar but blurry picture coming into focus.

    Lots of facts and observations and experiences fell into coherent place.

    You don’t say, “wow, I didn’t know that, that’s news to me.” You say, “right, right, of course, I have seen this all along, I just didn’t put it all together.”

    The reality of men and women and how they really are does not make me cynical, and this blog and its lessons don’t make me cynical.

    Seeing reality clearly is good.

    What you do with it is up to you.

    Ignorance is misery. Truth is (or at least can be) happiness.

    Plus, often, this blog is screamingly funny.

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  65. on January 31, 2011 at 12:30 am Tim

    I don’t want to sound melodramatic, but this 41 yr old from Vancouver was in desperate need of this blog when I found it, two years ago. I believe I stayed up late poring over all your posts. I was a beta provider, a dutiful mangina, wondering what the fuck was wrong with me. I won’t claim to be a boss player pussy slayer now, but my overall condition and frame has much improved. I used to shop for simple clothes: shirts, underwear and pants. Now I look for detail: contrast game, bracelets, necklaces and rings. I’m only interested in my own confidence and happiness. That comes first, and women will fall into line accordingly. Moreover, I throw out negs now without even knowing I’m negging. I figure it must come from reading this blog daily.

    A few weeks ago, late at night, a young woman walked by my apartment building alone, on a Friday night. She looked bored, she had a smoke in one hand and a beverage of some sort in the other. She smiled at me and implicit in her look was an understanding that at that hour of the evening, on a weekend night, either of us should have been somewhere partying. Now, don’t get me wrong. I had no intention of attempting a pick-up, not at that hour of the evening, it would have been too creepy. However, our eyes met and I smiled and said,

    “Pretty exciting Friday night you’ve got going on there.”

    Sure, it’s not much of a story. But if you knew me, you’d know that prior to reading this blog I would have said,

    “Hi, how’s it going?”

    Like I say, it ain’t much of a story. I mention it to demonstrate that negs flow out of me now pretty much unconsciously. I used to wear bargain basement clothes. Now I shop like a woman. My shoes cost close to $300. My hair isn’t combed -it’s tousled. I look at man jewelry now with a view to making a purchase. I dusted off an old Fender Stratocaster I used to play in college and am now playing again.

    Thanks, Roissy. It’s not about the ‘notches’ for me. I’m not trying to ‘win’ anything. At my age, it’s about the frame. Mastering the frame is its own reward; the ‘notches’ are but tangentially rewarding.

    You’re a good man, Roissy. May the road rise to meet you and the wind be always at your back…

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  66. on January 31, 2011 at 1:13 am kc

    Dear Roissy,
    Thanks for putting up my mail. I am the guy from India. Game works and works well. Rakes have existed in all countries, at all times — including mine. I had some inkling, but your work– strategically magnificent, tactically sound. I tried it on my girl and it works. YOU ARE A TRUE GURU HELPING YOUR CHELAS (DISCIPLES). Its somewhat like a how to do manual.
    Obviously I am not picking her up, its more relationship game. I had a long conversation with her. The things woman tell you —
    1)Woman like bad boys with vulnerability. She told me she liked Sanjay Dutt, a Bollywood hero. He is a bad boy, but vulnerable. The kind that perhaps makes a woman want to tame him. Think young Marlon Brando and his characters.
    2)She says I am crazy, mad, then says I hope you will remain this way. I do have a bit of a wild streak (hiking and biking a bit, going to the mountains), but this time I am also trying to make myself a bit more “attractive” to her as a man.
    3)Escalation is good. Even if you don’t go all the way (India vis-a-vis the US), women secretly like it. Women will say no only to give you a kiss. Discussed seduction, she said woman allow themselves to be seduced. Its nearly impossible if a woman does not want to be seduced. She’s smart.
    4)Thanks for the advice on negs and teasing. Earlier, I would have taken everything a girl says as serious, but now I know that it is just being playful. (Neg, neg, neg, agree and amplify — depending on the cultural context).
    5)Shit tests — I throw the shit test back at her after reversing it. How good are you? My simple answer — first you tell me? Throw the ball in her court.
    6)The mainstream media is the same everywhere. The same lies, the same spin. The emasculation of men, men being evil, bad blah blah blah, the encouragement given to PRIMITIVISM in a modern context. Primitive lifestyle but with social welfare. NO DISCUSSION WHATSOEVER ON WHAT MEN AND WOMAN ACTUALLY WANT IN THE STATE OF NATURE, BUT ENCOURAGING A STATE OF NATURE. IF I WERE PRIME MINISTER, SEX EDUCATION WOULD BE COMPULSORY AND MEN NEED VARIETY AND WOMEN NEED HYPERGAMY WOULD BE TAUGHT. NOT MERE SEX BUT SEXUALITY EDUCATION. It would save a lot of broken hearts.
    7)Roissy, except for wise elders, most youngsters are unaware of the true nature of sexuality of women, neither the women tell us, nor does anyone else. There are hints even in my scriptures and folklore. (Women not being allowed freedom, her sexuality being repressed etc etc), but I guess the modern world has its own ways.
    8) The amount of gaming required depends on the cultural context and the relationship status.
    9)AS A MAN YOU HAVE OPENED MY EYES TO THE FACT THAT RELATIONSHIPS NEED WORK (OR RATHER MEN NEED TO HAVE ALPHA TRAITS). I MUST MAINTAIN MYSELF AND NOT LET MYSELF GO. ITS HARD BUT I GUESS ITS THE WAY IT IS. SECONDLY, WOMEN SHOULD BE LOVED FOR WHO AND WHAT THEY ARE — AS CREATURES OF FLESH AND BLOOD AND NOT ANGELS.
    10) Do I think my girl cannot cheat. Now — no. I must like her for what she is — as a woman, not as a specific woman — a unique creature. Try and adopt an attitude of amused mastery. But its great to have a woman respond.

    ROISSY, I HAVE READ A BIT ABOUT YOU. I THINK RATHER THAN WORK WHERE YOU ACTUALLY WORK, YOU SHOULD SERIOUSLY BECOME A MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLOR. I BELIEVE YOU COULD SAVE A LOT OF MARRIAGES AND MAKE MEN UNDERSTAND THAT RELATIONSHIPS NEED WORK — (NO BETAIZATION). I WILL WRITE THAT POST LATER. SERIOUSLY, KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK. YOU ARE HELPING A LOT OF GUYS. THANKS. KC

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  67. on January 31, 2011 at 1:34 am lulu

    @yes
    I really think you can reread a lot of what’s on here as romantic. Depends on the lens. Sure, maybe Taylor Swift isn’t really waiting by the phone with her v-card in hand, but I bet you can accept women as flawed and still feel some magic.

    @Carl Sagan
    My own favorites, plus one I can’t find– the glorious one where he describes how enjoyment of sex is directly correlated with hotness of woman.

    I’ve always loved the depiction of this guy’s wife– she’s got it made.
    http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/07/06/the-greatest-job-in-the-world-for-a-man/

    http://roissy.wordpress.com/2007/09/27/defining-the-alpha-female/

    Visceral depiction of female depreciation:
    http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/01/29/32-vs-21/

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  68. on January 31, 2011 at 1:46 am Bricona

    Your blog is amazing Roissy. The writing is impeccable and the content is entertaining, if not already valuable. I do hope you continue to write more of your personal adventures.

    To think you’ve reached India. We use to look up to our older brothers, our uncles, our family ties, and now, through the use of the Internet, people are able to find their own individual role models.

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  69. on January 31, 2011 at 2:21 am Danny

    Is there a blog post about how to decipher a female’s personality when a female talks about her prior boyfriends? (e.g. how accurate is it to use that as a proxy to judge her?)

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  70. on January 31, 2011 at 2:24 am The Real Vince

    Much as I hate to admit it, I’m better for reading this blog.

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  71. on January 31, 2011 at 2:25 am Exeter

    This Roissy post is a favorite of mine:

    http://roissy.wordpress.com/2009/07/07/role-reversal/

    It’s nothing particularly groundbreaking (for Roissy), but I enjoy how with amusing wordplay he skewers SWPLs, masculine women, and feminine men. A line that made me chuckle:

    “You could’ve heard an asparagus sprig drop.”

    And wow, it has 992 comments. Must have touched a nerve.

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  72. on January 31, 2011 at 2:43 am Q.S.

    The only problem with Roissy’s approach is that you can’t get there from here. In fact Roissy can’t get anywhere worth going because he is just way too stupid. Preening or not. What a joke.

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  73. on January 31, 2011 at 2:45 am Jet Tibet

    Gogol makes Roissy look like Joel fucking Osteen.

    Nice quotation there.

    Once you are tuned in to authentic gender dynamics you appreciate that these ideas appear in many other places (eg. Nietzsche, the Bible).

    You can also identify the songs, movies, and sex ed classes that messed up your perceptions in your formative years.

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  74. on January 31, 2011 at 2:54 am Rivelino

    i like the idea of all of us recommending our favorite roissy posts.

    here is one of mine:
    http://roissy.wordpress.com/2009/11/10/the-ultimate-shit-test-marriage/

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  75. on January 31, 2011 at 2:59 am Rivelino

    also great:

    game resources
    http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/03/23/game-resources/

    qualifying her
    http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/04/30/qualifying-her/

    both of these focus on the more technical side of game

    as far as inner game, i do agree that the “skittles” post is excellent, as is the “bring the movies” post. both of these show how important is to be aloof, independent, indifferent, and arrogant. girls love that. they need it. every girl needs to be with a real man. a man who does not need her. a man who does whatever he feels like doing.

    that is what girls mean when they say they want a man who is “confident.”

    it means that he does whatever the fuck he wants.

    power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

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  76. on January 31, 2011 at 3:13 am Gorbachev

    @Guest

    I’m there now. I’m not 40 yet, but I’m not 30.

    I’m still doing the same thing. The rule: Women are women. They always respond to game.

    It’s hard-wired. I’m not trying to bed 18-year olds, that said, but by GF is 10 years younger than me.

    So same old same old.

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  77. on January 31, 2011 at 3:40 am Gorbachev

    @Fade
    @ gorbachov…. can i have your email in some way? i’d like to ask you a few questions about asia if you have a minute.

    You let me know how I can contact you.

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  78. on January 31, 2011 at 3:57 am J DeVoy

    I started reading around the spring of 2008 when I could sense my LTR at the time was flagging. This blog’s advice breathed new life into it until running its natural course (we now live in different continents). Since then, the Chateau’s underpinning principles have helped me on an onward and upward trajectory, creating converts and apostles along the way.

    I also read Roosh, In Mala Fide, Chuck Ross and The Spearhead daily. But I found this blog first, at an important juncture in my life, and cannot imagine where I would be today if I hadn’t.

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  79. on January 31, 2011 at 6:14 am Sandy Cheeks

    Roissy,

    Any chance you can do a ‘PUA movie review’ type article?

    I suggest you look into Purple Rain, as some of Prince and Morris Day’s skills are definitely within the ‘game’ realm.

    Except the domestic abuse bit.

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  80. on January 31, 2011 at 8:50 am Lara

    You’ve done good work helping men learn how to gain respect in their dealings with women and your insight into the workings of the female mind is pretty amazing. I have yet to see you be wrong about how we think.

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  81. on January 31, 2011 at 8:57 am PA

    This knowledge makes me much happier, because now I know where the problem lay. It wasn’t me. It was them.

    Gramps drives home a huge point about Game. Similar to many, I endured tons of frustration in my twenties. Girls I felt mild contempt for were all over me, so at least I was getting laid. But I kept screwing up with the quality ones I wanted to invest in an LTR leading to marriage. Being young, you can’t help after a while but wonder if you have a girl-repelling quality or something.

    My eye-opening came at thirty-two. After I crashed and burned with a girl I really wanted, an alpha acquaintance introduced me to Doc Love. He’s got a slightly different approach and a completely different system of nomenclature than Mystery/PUAs but the essentials are the same.

    Learning Game worked for me, but with a caveat: I was ready and open to toss aside everything I thought I know about relationships. And some guys are not. They stubbornly cling to the falsehoods about men and women. Me too at first though. As I was reading through Doc’s archives that first night, I kept rebutting his points in my mind with “but- but-“. Thirty years of earwax had to be cleaned out for me to be able to listen and learn. And what got through to me eventually was Doc’s question to a stubborn reader: “do you wanna be right, or do you wanna be happy?”

    What he meant was, “have you considered the fact that what you’ve ‘known’ up to now has failed at making you happy because it was all wrong?”

    I concur with many others about the value of this blog, including applications of Game to other areas of life. The Jumbotron Test is a brilliant insight, for example. One of the unique things about Chateau is how it understands Game in a broader context. Hence the spirited sociological posts: politics are game writ large.

    Also, Dave form Hawaii is right about the quality of contribution from many commenter’s over time.

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  82. on January 31, 2011 at 9:00 am VG

    What can I add to what’s already been said above? This blog has helped me a lot in my relationships. The hardest part was getting rid of those socially reinforced ideals of womanhood. And like some guy said above, this blog can also help in dealing with women in general, such as at the workplace.

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  83. on January 31, 2011 at 9:04 am George

    Last year, I took a trip to Egypt. When I went, I was expecting to find a bunch of oppressed women that stay at home and get married young and a bunch of men who are in complete control of the household. Nothing could be further from the truth (at least in Cairo). Due to financial struggles and the inability to pay for weddings (men have to provide gold, etc. to women at marriage in Arab culture), the average marriage age in urban Egypt among the educated classes has risen to the late 20s. These educated men are the ones protesting on the streets of Cairo for regime change. Getting married in your late 20s in Egypt does not mean what getting married in your late 20s does in the United States. Although a lot more women in Egypt have sex before marriage than a lot of people would believe and honours killing are far less likely than portrayed by Fox News, it is my guess at least that it is still a considerable minority of women (any Arabs on here to comments on this?). Conservative Islamic and Christian principles frown upon sex before marriage and any sex before marriage is likely confined to top percentile alpha males. Therefore, that leads a huge number of Egyptian men to be without marriage and/or sex until they are in their mid to late 20s. No wonder they are revolting.

    http://bikyamasr.com/wordpress/?p=7388

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  84. on January 31, 2011 at 10:06 am beedy

    Discovered this blog at 31, over a year ago, after a cad nearly got my girl. I needed to know the dark truth. It hit me hard at first. I’ve worked soley on my inner game. I’ve developed new neuron pathways which just get stronger everyday.

    I know now what I want, I have zero illusions.

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  85. on January 31, 2011 at 10:18 am Corporal Hicks

    Man, once you get good at game, life becomes a circus.

    Yesterday, there was this bitchy 20-something Russian cashier at my usual supermarket. (Her name is Natalya – which I had noted previously at a prior visit, and given her grief for, of course.)

    Well, good ol’ Natty may have been BORN in Russia, but she now goes to University here in the U.S. – and we all know what THAT means: she’s become an uber-bitch with the typical American female perma-scowl.

    My remarks yesterday?

    “Man, don’t tell me I got the COMMUNIST for a cashier again….Geesh….”

    (frown, bitchy look at me)

    “OK, well, where’s the vodka?” (I’m peering behind her cashier stall, pretending to look for vodka…)

    (She starts to play along and says, “Oh, it’s right here…” pointing downwards where I was looking)

    I chuckle out loud and continue gathering my groceries. As she puts them into the cart, I turn and say,

    “Stay sober!”

    and then proceed to double over in laughter at my own joke, pushing my cart toward the exit and laughing all the way.

    Out of the corner of my eye, looking back, what do I see?

    An unmistakeable SMILE breaking out on her face.

    THAT’S IT, my friends. Think about it. If I had tried all the compliments in the WORLD…if I had made the fatal error of complimenting her, if I had in any way shown deference to her…all I would have gotten was DISDAIN.

    Now, I’m married. So what am I doing? The regulars here know the answer ALL TOO WELL: Honing GAME.

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  86. on January 31, 2011 at 10:25 am Science

    I’m still wondering why are you aren’t getting paid for this.

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  87. on January 31, 2011 at 10:27 am Zammo

    At the very bottom of my online dating profile I have added the sentence, “I’m a skittles man.”

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  88. on January 31, 2011 at 10:48 am Corporal Hicks

    @Science

    Excellent point, dude. But remember, guys are guys. The coolest thing about Roissy is that he has a true GUY soul.

    He readily helps other guys.

    Now if there’s a way we can ALL make money off this….hmmm…

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  89. on January 31, 2011 at 11:08 am anon

    http://www.aolnews.com/2011/01/30/airline-crews-looking-out-for-sex-traffickers-heading-to-super-b/

    Women unite against competition.

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  90. on January 31, 2011 at 11:52 am Corporal Hicks

    Women, deep down, WANT to respect men. They KNOW they’re inferior is just about everything.

    Therefore, REMIND them of such. Every day. In a humorous, but biting way.

    They will LOVE you for it.

    Because their hamster detects TESTOSTERONE. And goes crazy…..

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  91. on January 31, 2011 at 11:53 am Corporal Hicks

    e.g.

    Men build skyscapers after doing the hard math and calculus.

    Women bitch and drink coffee.

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  92. on January 31, 2011 at 12:30 pm Tinderbox

    *manly group hug while beating native American drums*

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  93. on January 31, 2011 at 12:50 pm Malcolm Tucker

    anonymous @ 12:40

    I think most gamer boys are losers. I think they overanalyse, have almost-OCD levels of need for structure, and view the world in a bunch of “if-then-else” statements and structures.

    I hear you, but you have to consider that different men have different starting points, experiences, and personalities that lend themselves to different styles of dealing with the reality of social life than you possess. And blogs like this help people like that. I know because I am one.

    Speaking to my experience, I’m not a “gamer boy” in any sense of the term but I’m definitely a geek. It’s a part of my whole being that I accepted and embraced a long time ago, I’ve just redirected it since learning game through exercising immense amounts of will and effort.

    When I was a youngster I was a full-blown fatass gamer geek who somehow did okay with women compared to my fatass gamer geek compatriots through ways I never understood. I’d later realized that I’d blown or totally missed many opportunities I’d had to get laid back in the bad old days before I learned how things really work, but the past is dead and of no use except as a learning tool and a spur to action today. C’est la vie.

    But the truth is that I needs me some mental structures and models to get by in the world. I’ve repeatedly tested INTJ on the Myers-Briggs personality test as administered by professionals and not the free half-assed online tests. You can google the term if you want more information regarding the test and the types if you are unfamiliar with the concept. It has its detractors but it works for me.

    Regarding the personality type, in this context it basically means I filter social reality through my head and build intellectual systems to deal with it instead of being more of a natural social creature like most people. It also means I’m naturally confident, cool, and collected in areas in which I am knowledgeable, I am inherently anti-authoritarian until competence is conclusively proven, and I tend not to give a shit about what other people think about me. All of these are double-edged swords which have their advantages and disadvantages, just like everything else.

    Prior to that testing I’d dismissed personality profiling as bullshit, but once I read up on INTJs and the other types and the entire model and process in general it answered a lot of questions I’d had regarding my past limited success with women and my general attitude towards life. In other words it worked as an explanatory mechanism, which is ultimately the only thing that concerns me.

    Anyways, as a side-effect I naturally don’t “get” social games like flirting, small talk, and shit like that, even though I’ve been doing all of them without realizing it but doing them haphazardly and therefore without direction. Hence the past limited success regarding pussy. But once I began actively studying social games, consciously working on them through researching game/evo psych/body language/etc., and incorporating what I’d learned into social “statements and structures” I’ve become a player, or at least I’ve taken gigantic strides towards becoming the kind of player that suits my social, economic and sexual needs.

    For instance when I first took the red pill I literally could not stand finishing “Sperm Wars” because it was too disturbing. The book’s truths violently clashed with the internalized social model which I’d spent a lifetime building. It was just too disturbing for me to deal with at the time.

    You see, the problem wasn’t with the book and its contents: the problem was with my model and like I said I need my models because of my personality. Others might not need them but I do because that is a part of who I am. Regardless, once I got my mind right through more learning, experimenting, watching and reflection, I realized that the book and its truths were spot fucking on about social life and women. The facts contained within that book became a part of my much more effective internalized social model.

    Through that resource and others like it, such as this blog, now I take it for granted that women are women and they’ll never change: I’d redefined “women” in my model to fit with reality.

    Now I KNOW what women are, just like I know that rocks are hard and water is wet. And I can exploit that knowledge regarding women to get what I want, just like I can split rocks to get gold and drink water to help cure my hangovers.

    And given my personality, knowing the truth about women makes me unconsciously radiate confidence around women because I am confident, never mind the additional confidence I’ve gained because of all I’ve sacrificed and done to get fit, dress better, use and read body language, etc. etc. . . .

    So now I know women. I have their number. They aren’t rocket science, mysterious objects to be supplicated or catered to, or individual precious little snowflakes. At their worst they’re barely tolerable sperm receptacles and at their best they’re a hell of a lot of fun who add serious value to my life. Until they don’t. Then they’re gone.

    And that’s the best part: they’re fungible. I know that there are always more. Always. And deep down they all know it. Every fucking one of them. And deep down they want their man to know it and act like it. And that’s the most exploitable part of all.

    Knowing women for a cold hard fucking fact rocks.

    So thanks Chateau. I don’t blow smoke up people’s asses, but you’re good work has helped me see and finally accept reality. Keep it up.

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  94. on January 31, 2011 at 1:05 pm Corporal Hicks

    @Tinderbox

    You are incapable of igniting any spark.

    You are either a woman or a faggot.

    I can only agree with the Orthodox Jew Lubavitchers:

    “THANK GOD I WAS NOT BORN A WOMAN”

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  95. on January 31, 2011 at 1:15 pm what

    I read,
    I laugh,
    I have clarity
    I laugh some more
    I get pissed
    I forgive
    I understand
    I laugh again
    I learn
    I’m amazed
    I look forward to
    I’m impressed
    I have hope

    MEN!

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  96. on January 31, 2011 at 1:25 pm Sand

    I’ve had two major life changing experiences in my short 20 years. One was when a dirty hippie spiked my drink with acid at a party. The other was reading and applying the crimson arts garnered here and the dizzying pace that my love and social life (in the land of the gameless, the skittles man is king) has subsequently improved. Thank you.

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  97. on January 31, 2011 at 1:28 pm Corporal Hicks

    @Tim said:

    “Pretty exciting Friday night you’ve got going on there.”

    Sure, it’s not much of a story. But if you knew me, you’d know that prior to reading this blog I would have said,

    “Hi, how’s it going?”

    Dude, you’re a good man. We’ve all been there, i.e. the “nice guy.” And we’ve seen where it gets us. NOWHERE.

    Getting busting chops. Women love it best when it’s done in a “I-don’t-give-a-rat’s-ass-in-hell” kind of tone.

    The elephant in the living room is that men are FAR superior to women. The elaborate cultural-marxist-matrix has been designed to blind you to that fact. But women know.

    In fact, there’s an old saying, back in the days of stable marriage (think 1800s):

    “A man without a woman is zero, but a woman without a man is LESS than zero.”

    …meaning a man who doesn’t reproduce is a +/- wash, but a woman who doesn’t reproduce DIMINSHES the value of the culture.

    Always remember that. Women without men are LESS than zero.

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  98. on January 31, 2011 at 1:31 pm Corporal Hicks

    @what

    your post is quintessentially womanly…

    I…
    I…
    I…
    I…
    I…
    I…
    I…
    I…
    I…

    IT’S ALL ABOUT MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE…….!!!

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  99. on January 31, 2011 at 2:19 pm Southern Man

    Yeah, dittos all around. This blog has been an eye-opener and a life-changer. I apply “game” to everything now – my children, my ex (their mother), my job (especially my female supervisors, who now eat out of my hand), people I run into at the store – and it’s like I’m living a different world. For the first time, it’s MY world, not theirs. Life is good and getting better.

    Like Malcom Tucker (a couple of posts above this one), I’m also an INTJ (hard against the wall on the I and J) and it’s taken some work to fully understand who I am (quiet, reserved, monogamous, faithful, avoids conflict, caregiver, provider – in other words, beta), overcome my limited social skills and other weaknesses, and maximize my strengths. Unlike most who comment here, I’m in the second half of my allotted century; dating at “half my age plus seven” puts my youngest targets in their mid-thirties. I appreciate any post that helps us older gents use the assets and abilities earned by our age and station in life to game thirtysomethings.

    And “Sand” (right after Tucker) hit it on the head – among the gameless, anyone who reads Roissy and makes the slightest effort to overcome their inner beta can rule over all they survey. Hail to the king, baby.

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  100. on January 31, 2011 at 2:52 pm Jerry

    @Desiderius

    Coincidentally, I’m reading “Dead Souls” now.

    Just tonight I had a second date with some serious marriage material (I’ve only know one other example of that over the past four months). When “male-female psychology” was the topic, I was able to make a great comparison between the passage you highlighted earlier and the speech Prince Andrei gave to the young man in “War and Peace” warning him not to ever get married.

    It is cool when material from this blog (a post or comment) can be directly discussed (not just practiced in actual mating/gaming/courtship). She’s comfortable enough after the conversation to agree to help me cook dinner at my place in a day or two.

    So thanks for that “subject matter” (conversational material), and I mean that despite our complete disagreement on what to do with women who aren’t worth wining and dining (to each his own, if you want to just throw them back in the water and ignore them, go ahead).

    ———————–

    Serendipity is something this blog provides. Although it could be fatal to a relationship to direct a woman to this blog specifically, there are enough interesting ideas and references floating around here that a man can directly discuss a lot of the material on a date.

    Women want to hear men explicitly state a lot of the maxims the Chateau provides (or that one has made up on his own).

    Blog maxims are OK to repeat to women without mentioning what blog it is.

    Negs that worked:

    She: (I was difficult with you before giving this second date) because I was scared of Americans. I assumed that all you wanted was sex. Do you?

    Me: Most American men wouldn’t want a big girl like you, they consider “10s” to be skinny little concentration camp victims. You should be hoping that I’m different from most American men. (she looks down at herself with concern in her eyes. Ouch. Without this blog, I wouldn’t have been able to deliver that without going out of my way to tell her that she was beautiful to me)

    She: So your intentions are to sleep with me or do you want to become friends?

    Me: Both (this was the only compliment she got – we stared into each other’s eyes after I said this before I hit her with another neg…)

    Me: But by the way, if you’re planning on ever being the mother of my children, you are going to have to stop smoking fast.

    She: Oh no! I only took the cigarettes because I was nervous meeting you. I don’t ever normally smoke. I swear.

    Me: Good. I’ll be taste testing to monitor that promise (she blushes)

    20 minutes of positive conversation later (negs need to be sparsely distributed):

    Me: I can’t eat this low quality food. I’ve got much better at home in the fridge (pushed the meal away). Next time I’ll choose the restaurant (to which she vigorously nodded her head in agreement).

    Me: In fact, tomorrow you can help me cook dinner at my place (plans were then made)

    She: I guess I acted like an idiot with you last week.

    Me: Yes, you did act like an idiot. But we know that and you’re going to treat me like a rock star now right?

    She: Yes, OK. (blushes)

    Without this blog I might have said “Oh, it’s OK, you were scared of getting to know a stranger. I understand.”

    This blog correctly tells men to act more or less like a civilized Ghengis Khan.

    Without this blog I would have complimented the woman more and done my best not to insult her (her smoking or choice of restaurant, etc).

    Almost everything that we were formerly taught to do was wrong.

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  101. on January 31, 2011 at 3:20 pm Evil Alpha

    I come here to compare notes. Collectively there is a train load of experience and knowledge on here. I data mine the fuck out of it and use it for evil.

    The best part is that the utility extends beyond pussy. The other day I worked over these dumb bitches that were yapping about “blue valentine”. They walked by. I snickered. They bit the hook. And the rest is history.

    It made an otherwise mundane errand to pick up a book at least tolerable.

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  102. on January 31, 2011 at 3:27 pm Jet Tibet

    @ malcolmtucker

    ” I’ve become a player, or at least I’ve taken gigantic strides towards becoming the kind of player that suits my social, economic and sexual needs.

    That’s intriguing, as my observation (and experience) is that hardcore INT types can attain confidence, assertiveness, and other socially dominant traits, they always suck at chatting people up and are easily bored in social situations (especially clubs etc.). Do you do any of that? Do you approach girls who are beautiful and stupid?

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  103. on January 31, 2011 at 3:29 pm Firepower

    Dave from Hawaii

    A certain segment of regular commenters here at the Chateau should preen in their own right.

    I agree.
    NO man is an island. The host is a superb writer, as are many contributors.

    Better be a good bartender and buy a round for the regulars once in a while to show appreciation and forge loyalty.

    Or they’ll leave to start their own blogs.
    Many already have.

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  104. on January 31, 2011 at 4:14 pm Corporal Hicks

    The best (and only) way to understand game is to practice it, and watch the wondrous results.

    Be careful not to talk too much. Just neg, bust, laugh, mock (somewhat gently), and torpedo the poor shivering things intermittently, and then (indirectly) point out your mastery of the entire situation.

    Watch the smiles come out of the serious, scowling faces.

    Kudos to the many commentators who share their own experiences. Absolutely essential to give CONCRETE examples of game.

    My rule of thumb is that I will always, always, always, bust the chops of any female cashier I run across (and let’s face it, 95% of cashiers are women).

    It’s a great opportunity to hone FREQUENTLY. Busting on women is like shooting fish in a barrel. Really.

    “Calgon, ain’t gonna take you away, honey”
    (to a burnt-out 55 year-old gas station cashier – who smile knowingly, knowing I was right)

    “Do you sell shampoo? I was thinking of buying you a bottle for that hair…”
    (to a greaseball 32-year old beluga whale with multiple tattoos – boy, did I get an off-balance smile with that one)

    “Has the American diet been brutal to your face?”
    (to a foreign chick cashier with bad acne – frozen cold by the comment)

    “Please tell me, what’s your diet secret?”
    (to a typical 285 pound female Mcdono-monster – cold stare with a look of fear – did he just ask me that?)

    Take women down from their pedestals and bust them to pieces. They will LOVE you for it.

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  105. on January 31, 2011 at 4:18 pm what

    Corporal Hicks
    “@what
    “your post is quintessentially womanly…
    I…
    I…
    I…
    I…
    I…
    I…
    I…
    I…
    I…
    IT’S ALL ABOUT MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE…….!!!”
    Corporal Hicks,

    Whyyyy, you want me to write about YOU? hehe!!

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  106. on January 31, 2011 at 4:20 pm Corporal Hicks

    @what

    Your comments are jittery and nervous. Like a whore in church.

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  107. on January 31, 2011 at 4:27 pm Malcolm Tucker

    @ Jet Tibet

    I mostly approach or get approached at coffee shops and a few smaller good beer/hipsterish joints where I’m a regular, although I don’t like to shit too much where I drink so to say. Or where I work out for that matter. A good gym or laid back bar with good beer, staff, drinks, etc. is hard to find and worth more than a random chick to me. YMMV.

    And I don’t go clubbing. I’ve worked at clubs as a bouncer when I was younger so I know the score, and I don’t enjoy the atmosphere anymore. I’m also in my mid 30s so dealing with drunken jackasses isn’t something I want to do. That’s kid stuff IMO and I’ve been there and done that, with no offense meant to the younger men here. If I knew then what I know now . . . you lucky bastards. You’d best be taking notes from the experts around these parts (not me) or you’ll be kicking yourself later. Write it down.

    Generally I’ve been heavily focusing on my career and other aspects of my life for the last year or two, but I meet women mainly through friends, around town at random places, or at venues with a relaxed atmosphere like parties or the places I mentioned before.

    Personally I prefer women who are smart and more into the alternative look (with piercings, tattoos, short hair, etc.) or the academic look. They’re not necessarily 10s, 9s, 8s or even 7s sometimes, but they have the right attitude for me. Or they have an innocent look but probably have slutty sublimated leanings with a few subtle clues exposed. I love introducing “good” girls to the dark side of masculinity to expose their inner suppressed whore.

    Or doing the same for “lesbians” for that matter. I’ve had a few of those affairs too. Not that I am a Lothario, but I’ve learned a lot about attracting and sexually satisfying women from two lesbians in particular, one of whom is married to another women but still teaching me a thing or two about a thing or two. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not talking either bull dykes or really hot young lesbians like the type from porn flicks, but they were well worth the effort. For science!

    It may not be anyone here’s thing, but I’m also dipping my toes into the local BDSM scene as I am a dominant and that tends to narrow the selection down to the types who enjoy what I have to offer. Once a few current major projects get taken care of I intend to get more involved as it’s been fruitful so far, although there’s a bit of dross to wade through to find the gems. The naughty, young, dirty little gems who need a daddy with a firm hand to take control. But I digress.

    And regarding the social part, I’m still more reserved than the average person but I’m a hell of a lot better at small talk, flirting, and dealing with the yak yak through conscious effort than I used to be. It’s still my weak area though. It just takes work. I also make it a habit to use inviting and open body language, especially as I am a pretty muscular big guy and I can be unintentionally intimidating if I’m lost in my head or something.

    Really all it takes to start a conversation is a nod, sly grin, or smile, and saying “hello”, “hey”, “sup”, or whatever suits the environment. Then make a few observational comments about the surroundings, crowd, etc., ask a question or two based on the responses and go from there.

    Making an effort to get involved in mainstream hobbies that I used to look down on like football, soccer, and a few other things has helped immensely too. I’ve found that since I know a little about a few topics like current music, art, literature, movies and a couple of sports then I can make small talk with almost anyone.

    And with women who express interest via prolonged eye contact, body language, etc. it really is more how you say things then what you say, so long as you don’t screw up too badly. I’m no expert though and my expectations are probably different from most who read this blog, but I’m getting where I want to be and that’s what counts.

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  108. on January 31, 2011 at 4:43 pm Firepower

    Malcolm Tucker

    I don’t like to shit too much where I drink so to say… A good gym or laid back bar with good beer, staff, drinks, etc. is hard to find and worth more than a random chick to me.

    This caveat is hard to explain to Those Easily Lead by Dick. A foolish reputation must be avoided at all costs at a place one truly appreciates – even if the stacked blond Managerette has a crush. Nail a staffer – you’ll probably get one more for DHV’g. But your rep is now solidified as player. Every drunken bim who saw reruns of Cheers will try to force “sexual chemistry” by being an insufferable smartass bitch.

    I’m also in my mid 30s so dealing with drunken jackasses isn’t something I want to do. That’s kid stuff IMO and I’ve been there and done that, with no offense meant to the younger men here. If I knew then what I know now . . . you lucky bastards.

    This equals out, because the quality of women today is much inferior to the trim of even a decade ago. You may have got the last, good batch.

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  109. on January 31, 2011 at 5:02 pm Corporal Hicks

    @Firepower

    No doubt. It’s slim pickin’s nowadays as the culture (or lack thereof) lays waste to any residual trace of femininity.

    An interesting (and lamentable) trend I’ve noticed is violence in young females. The hamster can’t process the disintegration of the culture, and lacks a man’s innate ability to reason and assess the situation.

    All these kupcakes are left with then, is the fury of estrogen. They thus beat each other up (or their parents). We’ve all seen the YouTube videos.

    Women are truly on their own for the first time in history. And deep down they’re furious and scared. Expect more calls for bigger, badder Government to “protect” Kupcake from her bad decisions.

    And they wonder why England can’t find 2 million men. And they wonder why millions of American guys are looking longingly at the exits….

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  110. on January 31, 2011 at 5:53 pm luvsic

    +1

    No need for a wordy testimonial from me, but the writing here has been a life-game changer.

    It’s like eating from the tree of good and evil.

    I’m over-entertained/stimulated in many other ways but I have yet to become bored by this blog.

    I’m curious whether the author always wrote (pre-blog) and this was a natural extension of his interests and abilities, or if he only recently discovered he had such a great talent?

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  111. on January 31, 2011 at 6:11 pm luvsic

    @Sandy Cheeks

    *Especially* the domestic abuse bit.

    FYP

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  112. on January 31, 2011 at 7:12 pm Schmoe

    What Malcom said, only shorter and slightly wittier :). Knowing what I do now, I wonder how I ever managed to reproduce. And yes, no doubt he’s mine. The daughter, I wonder about sometimes. Whoever has to game her, I pity da foo.

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  113. on January 31, 2011 at 8:37 pm Feh

    Malcolm Tucker

    Well said.

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  114. on January 31, 2011 at 9:19 pm desiderius

    Jerry,

    “So thanks for that “subject matter” (conversational material)”

    You’re welcome. Russian lit in general is great for game (Pushkin’s Eugene Onegin is about nothing else), and certainly Tolstoy and Gogol are the best of the best.

    “and I mean that despite our complete disagreement on what to do with women who aren’t worth wining and dining (to each his own, if you want to just throw them back in the water and ignore them, go ahead).”

    I want to let another, lesser man have her so that she’ll make him and their offspring more alpha, lacking access to natural alphas as she would, so that my civilization and its armies will be strong enough to best our rivals, winning access to better genes for my offspring.

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  115. on January 31, 2011 at 9:21 pm Q.S.

    This is a woman hating/fearing blog. From this woman’s point of view, an enormous yawn.

    [Editor: Is that your pet name for your vagina?]

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  116. on January 31, 2011 at 10:14 pm Anonymous

    The Dunning-Kruger effect:
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning–Kruger_effect

    Stupid people can’t tell they’re stupid. Needed to be pointed-out. One of those little things that matters.

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  117. on February 1, 2011 at 12:00 am Zammo

    “This is a woman hating/fearing blog. From this woman’s point of view, an enormous yawn.”

    Alpha chaser.

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  118. on February 1, 2011 at 4:55 am Jerry

    This is a woman hating/fearing blog. From this woman’s point of view, an enormous yawn.

    Please at least try to hit the side of the barn with your shotgun.

    This is one of those rare blogs that doesn’t fear women and their potential reaction to evolutionary biological truths.

    In fact, one of the blog’s apparent missions is to get politicians to stop fearing women so much that they totally ignore the male vote (both US parties plus the libertarians now ignore men entirely).

    The most important piece of advice, regularly handed out here, is that men should dare (as in “not fear to”) approach women who are 20% or more better looking than themselves. Check out the “Just Say Something” post.

    It takes a ton of courage for a man to try to speak with the best looking women. Most men give up (at least as they get older) and rationalize why they won’t do so (an example would be a 50 year old who says the “half your age plus 7” rule gives him an excuse not to approach someone who looks like she’s in her 20s).

    Lack of fear is everything. It is worth more than $2 million in the bank. This blog teaches men not to fear women.

    The hate description is also inappropriate. How can men hate those they want to interact with?

    The best criticism would be that some commenters are “arrogant” and think men are inherently superior to women. While any given woman can debate what this even means, she would have to admit that even that attitude is better to experience in a man than the sniveling, spineless cowards she meets every day who suck up to her and her friends.

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  119. on February 1, 2011 at 9:20 am The LP 999

    No way toots, this is not a hateful/fearful blog. I say that as a lady.

    And surely is not like the mommyblog. That was a laughable silly insult that I recall from a few weeks ago. Some no-nothing said that.

    Dear Lord. Look, women with that opinion are lacking in logic. they simply do not have the capacity to understand Game/men or they would. Or, they are still growing which points to immaturity on the critics part.

    Liberal chicks will never understand Game b/c they of the feminist blinders they are wearing. They need to break their conditioning before they can begin to understand.

    Just saying…

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  120. on February 1, 2011 at 3:23 pm desiderius

    Science,

    “Alpha Shrugged”

    Ho, ho, grasshopper!

    Yes, that is it.

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  121. on February 2, 2011 at 11:46 am Tinderbox

    Corporal Hicks said:

    @Tinderbox

    You are incapable of igniting any spark.

    You are either a woman or a faggot.

    I can only agree with the Orthodox Jew Lubavitchers:

    “THANK GOD I WAS NOT BORN A WOMAN”

    For someone who laughs so hard at his own jokes, you sure don’t have much of a sense of humor. Chill out and don’t be so insecurely defensive. I’m on the same page as everyone else here.

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  122. on February 2, 2011 at 2:40 pm The LP 999

    The only post I did not care for was the EP post. I was surprised at your stance on the matter. Evol. Psych. is debatable & not set in stone.

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  123. on February 4, 2011 at 10:38 pm JohnMarshal@hushmail.com

    This bitch is getting taken down a notch

    http://www.sabinaciminerofat.webs.com

    Typical American skank trying to take her ex to the cleaners. Looks like she bit off more than she can chew. Good to see some resistance to this shit.

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