If you notice a girl checks her fingernails by curling her fingers inward toward her palm, like a man would, you can bet she loves sex and will put out on the first date. She has also cheated on past boyfriends.
If she checks it with fingers outstretched, back of hand facing upward, she is going to be a drama queen with a heavy repertoire of shit tests. The more diva she looks when checking them in this fashion, the likelier she will make you wait more than a few dates for sex. A full ten seconds checking, turning her hand this way and that with nails glistening in the club lights, means she will flake on you.
A girl who doesn’t check her fingernails except for the most cursory glance, and despite your prompting, is a keeper.
You can get a girl to check her fingernails by mentioning something about her nail polish color, or the unusual way her fingernails grow and what that says about her. (Just make some shit up. For instance, “Oh, flat fingernails means you are very grounded.” Or, “Curved fingernails means you are hard to please.”) Watch for how she proceeds to look at her fingernails, and remember what this blog told you. Then sing silent hosannas to the knowledge dropped here.
I do both. Does that mean I’m a drama queen who loves sex? (Yes.)
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it could mean that you love drama sex 😉
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Wait, WTF is this? I really can’t believe that this blog and whoever is writing it now has started pulling theories out of it’s ass. This blog and its message is a god of sorts to me, but I gotta admit, this post is disappointingly abysmal.
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Hush, man, these are good tips.
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you write like a woman…
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This is an IMPORTANT lesson?!
You just made it up.
(or it might be based on your experience + lots of imagination)
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I second that
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come on… if you have nothing to say just wait until you have something worth writing about. hahaha “an important lesson”. at least you made me laugh.
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…and if a guy checks his nails by outstretching his hand, palm away, rest assured he loves the cocka.
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Dear other commenters:
For those unable to read between the lines, you’re missing the possibilities for a “routine” in this. Women are obsessed with their nails, and they’re obsessed with trivial unsubstantiated pop psychology i.e., “chick crack”. Every woman has nails.
This is a fun and playful piece you can immediately try out tonight. Go forth and return with field reports.
Yours,
Skeletor
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Absolutely. The whole first paragraph is a sample of that “pop psychology”.
Heartiste threw you a bone for conversation (holy shit! This might be related to his newest post!), and you missed it.
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two questions:
1. is there any resource for transitioning from LJBF to fucking? the girl is pretty alpha so it might require more game than i have in my current incarnation. also she has a boyfriend, is from a foreign country and only here for a few more weeks. shit needs to happen pronto
2. some commenter had a suggestion for how to dance well by watching usher videos or some shit. anyone know where to find the original comment?
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Get her drunk and tongue-flick her clit ’til she’s cum screaming your name several times. Adios, FriendZone.
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1. Gengis Khan game: kiss her out of the blue and grab her ass. She will hate you. Ey, but at least you won’t be a stupid and harmless friend anymore. I’d rather be hated than LJBF’d.
2. Just watch the Usher videos and repeat the movements.
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Why would you want to bother with a girl who has already LJBF’d you? You’re in a state much worse than you would be with a random stranger. Just go get another girl or something.
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This sounds like something from Shape Magazine.
What happened to the old site? Can we still access posts from the distant past?
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What is with the name “Heartiste?” Definitely not an alpha name. Sounds like the name of some emo band from Canada.
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Hey now Canada has some good band names:
Abandon All Ships
Acid Test
The Acorn
Acoustically Inclined
Ad Vielle Que Pourra
Never mind…
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C’mon Aoefe, fly the flag will ya!
Mickey Christ
Rush
Guess Who
DOA,
Me Mom and Morgentaler,
And from your neck of the woods…SNFU
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Is this a high T woman vs low T woman thing?
The high T woman has less feminine mannerisms with a higher libido and the low T woman has more feminine mannerisms but a lower libido?
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High-T women… worth it if you get ’em to commit.
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That reminds me of that great scene where we saw Signorine in her underwear, albeit being one on the more tragic moments of Avatar.
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Fingernails! Yea! I always look, just to be ready for the amount of high maintenance drama a hang out will involve. A real life nine in high heels, night on the town, with nails that can survive a weekend camping trip … solid gold.
Any cute thing with fake nails, perfectly manicured nails, or matching nails and toes, immediately goes to my dive-bar-first-date category. Fun dates, reserved for the short-nail girls: http://two.cedonulli.com/2011/07/first-dates/
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Cosmo feelings.
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What was maggirl on the beach doing? If she curled them in like a man, chances are David has fucked her.
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LOL
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Thirteenth!
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Haha… somebody’s been getting relationship advice from “Gigli”…
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This is part of an old early 1960’s schoolyard game. Ask someone to check their nails, the fist clenched vs outstretched hand. Then look at their ankle- if they look down and twist their leg, they’re a girl, if they bring it up and hold it with the foot pointed down, they’re a boy… I think the third was making a fist- it depended on whether they tucked their thumb in or not ( I’m not sure about the last test). The result was given as to how much of a boy or girl you were, in thirds; i.e., one third girl, two thirds boy sort of thing. Don’t know if there’s much truth in it or not, though. Does anyone remember for certain what the third test was?
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I thought this was only in South America! We only had those first two though.
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In Spain we played this too, but only the two first tests: instead of the ankle, you were asked to look at the sole of your foot.
So, you could score 100% boy, 50%/50% or 100% girl, which -obviously- sucks.
I wonder who the hell invented this, maybe some funny conquistador, hehe
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When I’m wearing nailpolish (only during the summer) I tend to look at my pretty nails with my fingers outstretched while tilting my head this way and that…cuz my fingers look so pretty. The rest of the year, no nailpolish, but if someone told me to look at my nails I’d probably curl them in, like a man, only because I’d really want to know if my personality is directed related to the curvature of my fingernail.
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I heart Heartiste!
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This concludes another edition of the Obsidian Files. Now adjourn your asses…
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I had a terrible addiction to Citizen Renegade (it was the first thing in the morning and the last thing before going to bed). I spent almost all of my last month’s free time here. I was secretly very happy that it ‘was deleted’, but than couldn’t help spending one hour looking for it. I finally decided it’s better for me to have a real life from now on.
Thanks A LOT for helping me to forget Feminism and making me a happier person.
😥
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Excellent observation about the nails.
Chateau Heartiste is a richly cheesy label for such a vintage, but as long as it keeps flowing, we’ll get used to it.
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This blog is in no way vis-a-vis the original author. It is now coming out of New York. Working on uncovering exactly who is behind this… and why
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What about toe nails? hee! hee!
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Nothing. How’d you check your toe nails with your toes curled, unless… you are very very special.
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We were all once able to do that….when we were babies! see! We are all special! Me more cause I remember. hehe!! (curtsy with a smile)
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I still can and I’m 40
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From a business perspective, this site has to be one of the worst fuck ups in internet history. If Roissy had used Google Ads to monetize the site (he could have moved it over to blogger), he probably could have cashed out to the tune of $5 to $10 million. What does he do instead? Hands it over to an omega. Oh well…
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Maybe he’ll start giving us our horoscope while he’s at it.
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The Debt Ceiling, yo!
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Huh. I thought this kind of pseudopsych bullshit was aimed at chicks. You running a routine on us?
Less filler, more killer. This blog needs to return to its former glory, stat.
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This post is rubbish!
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So I’ve been to my first date with this girl who checked her nails more often than other girls bbm. The curled way.
However, fellow monks of the chateau, I want to ask you for your opinion.
She’s hot. 8 years older than me, in her mid-30s. I wouldn’t go that far to call her a 9-10, but perhaps on a great day, some of you would agree on her being a 9. I was out with her two nights ago, having cocktails after giving her my n° in a nightclub last weekend.
Apparently all her girlfriends are married and many have become mothers (this she tells me while I’m resting my hand on her leg). I changed the subject pretty fast, but the thought remained in my mind – what if she wants to use me in some twisted mating game, use my flesh and then let me go? Maybe I’m paranoid, but she’s this kind of 21st century independent woman who I’m sure believes that she would do a great job raising a kid by herself – she’s thick as thieves and wouldn’t have a problem providing for it.
Back at her apartment we were making out in her living room when she whispering I was her “new boyfriend”. I replied “maybe in 6 months” which caused her to promptly stop kissing me and sitting up saying “what? why would you take 6 months to acknowledge a girlfriend? what are you really looking for?”. I was quite frank and told her something about love growing out of mutual respect and friendship, nothing that you decide upon on a first date. Her reply had something to do about “I’m just kidding with you baby” – but I felt there was more that.
Thank you for reading. This is where I reach my point:
Is it sometimes better to just let a hot girl go, as a preventive move – rather than think with your dick and fuck her? I’m not feeling too good about her, she’s not “casual” about us meeting at all, and it’s only been a 1st date. I’m cool about leaving her, maybe it’s just my paranoia that’s fucking with my mind?
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She’s looking for a boyfriend/husband and NOT casual sex. Come on, she’s in her mid-thirties! She’s really late already and she has to get pregnant very soon – at this age she already risks Down’s syndrome and pregnancy complications!
If you will just have sex with her and then leave her, she’ll feel even more desperate and sad. I can’t imagine being in her position. It’s really terrible. She should try to find an older man instead of losing her time with kids like you are. She’s a grown up woman, who wants to become a mum (it’s her last chance, almost), so I really don’t know why she behaves like she does.
If you don’t want to marry her and have her babies, go away.
The purpose of having sex is to make babies. It has always been.
Our (female) brain didn’t change and get used to contraception in the last 50 years!
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LOL the usual excuse for a tunnel that saw all the trucks of the country. When they are young go for the football team, when they age oh my my dont make them sad.
Sex is for babies? How come they always need thousands of experimentations and years to discover this?
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Geez. What a glaring display of a beta-esque question.
1) you should have playfully role played with her when she whispered the “new boyfriend” remark instead of replying as you did, which broke her state and killed momentum.
Beta.
2) if she truly was a 9 and you had her as you did in sexual state, back at her apartment- you fuck her. You have passionate hot sex, make her cum, twice, and again in the morning. Have her make u breakfast.
Alpha.
Maya go knit something.
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Couldn’t have said it better.
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Maybe I was not clear enough, but she was pretty determined about the baby thing – it was something which she needed in her life. Who says that to a guy who’s 27 anyways, on a first date.
Put the alpha/beta polarity down for a sec and realize the world isn’t black and white. Everything else about last night would be labeled alpha in accordance to your worldview. Yes, we lost some momentum but got back on track and ended up having sex. That triggered my paranoia. I actually pulled out mid-sex, checking if the the rubber was “in place”.
Out of personal experience, most FB relations (this might lead there) drop the rubber. It’s a balancing act, horniness and relying on her being a good girl and taking her pills vs. insisting on wearing a rubber at all times (a little psycho, nay?).
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The next time you are with her and it’s real, real quiet you might just be able to hear her biological clock ticking.
Oh, she stopped taking her birth control pills. Just thought I’d let you know.
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This is one of Style’s routines, yes?
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I saw on some TV programme once that if you ask men something about their nails they will curl them inwards to look and if you ask a woman most will hold it out with back of hand facing upwards.
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Has someone let the password slip again? This along with the Twitter updates on the sidebar suggest so.
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The Twitter widget on your blog is showing the feed of someone else.
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Re: Lymmel:
That lady sounds like she wants something more than a fuck buddy.
Like the one guy said, an alpha would just fuck her until he/she get tired of it, then move on.
That is probably pretty good advice.
A beta would do the right thing, but, that’s way they are betas. Women are merciless and amoral. Don’t feel bad. She might not even want any of the things her girlfriends have. She may just want to role play. Drama queen stuff.
You sound young and inexperienced, so, she might be a great learning experience. Just don’t get her pregnant. If she winds up pregnant, paternity testing is mandatory. In some states in the USA you can renounce parental rights and responsibilities even if the bastard is yours, but only early on. The states don’t like to publicize that. Maybe before you have unprotected sex with her you should check with an experienced lawyer.
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Many good points made.
Haha, I can’t really see myself having that conversation to my family’s lawyer.
It’s still a balancing act. There’s some unconformity in “being alpha” and “becoming a father to a bastard” since the right thing to do according with alpha codex is fucking the hot chick, despite spider sense alert. Sure, it might still be paranoia, but it was kind of awkward how she broached on about becoming a mom.
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Let’s get back to the roots and core purpose of this blog: game.
What women “say” is not congruent with what they “respond to.” Lymmel, indeed you sound young in your remarks. Pay attention to gold I’m about to bestow upon you:
What you need to work on here is how to not take seriously the “content” of what the woman is saying but focus on the non-verbal communication (tonality,inflection of voice, body language) within the context of the situation. Don’t take “what” they say seriously, ever.
For example in your situation where you were overcome by awkwardness (beta), the alpha response would be to embrace her words, mirror the tonality and roleplay the “hubby/wife” scenarnio whilst escalating heavy kino to seduction. Women love the hubby/wife roleplay, and roleplay in general. Again the “content” is only the vehicle for you to escalate further game to fuck close.
Another example of this (not taking women’s content seriosuly) is during opening game. Example, you open a target at a public location, generate interest, attraction and go for # close. She responds, “I have a boyfriend,” your face cringes, you frown and apologize or show a sign of discontent (beta.) She may or may not have a bf, and if read right she could be very attracted to you, but nervous. Alpha response (without hesitation): brief smile, chuckle “you are so adorable…” move closer, grab one hand gently and other hand on outside shoulder “…what are we going to do with you? I got it! He can make us breakfast!” She laughs if done alpha, squeeze hand and brush shoulder down arm (anchor laughter with touch) start new thread…
Lymmel, now go do work and fuck this chick. (And use a condom or pull out and cum in her mouth). Alpha.
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“(And use a condom or pull out and cum in her mouth). Alpha”
Fuck her in the ass & wipe it on the drapes. King.
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“In some states in the USA you can renounce parental rights and responsibilities even if the bastard is yours, but only early on.”
Since when babies are called bastards?
I’m a child of a father who didn’t care about me and left all the responsibilities of having a child to my mum. My mum didn’t trick him into having unprotected sex with her and she didn’t plan to be a single mum. It just happened that he didn’t like babies.
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While you won’t see the term as often as you used to, the child of unmarried parents is a bastard, in the original sense.
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Thanks for explanation. I checked the dictionary. I see you’re right 🙂
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As in “My parents got divorced, so now I’m officially a bastard for once.”
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Guys look at their nails that way because its easier to bite them.
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“If you notice a girl checks her fingernails by curling her fingers inward toward her palm, like a man would, you can bet she loves sex and will put out on the first date. She has also cheated on past boyfriends.”
Is there some explanation for why this is so?
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re Maya: Since when are babies called bastards?
Since the beginning of civilization and marriage. Bastard occurs frequently in Shakespeare.
By not using the word bastard we have not banished bastardy. It, and all its problems, are very much with us.
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Yeah, I know now. I’m sorry. English is not my first language.
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Alpha line of the day:
This very weeken, after a long and athletic pounding session, she crosses her legs and says coyly “Closed for business”.
Without missing a beat, firmly and gently open them again and say “and open for pleasure”. Proceed to a second session.
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“Without missing a beat, firmly and gently open them again and say “and open for pleasure”. Proceed to a second session”
Without missing a beat, firmly say, “many other shops are still open”.
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Good tip. It’s also fun to ask a buddy whats wrong with his nail and watch how he does it.
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It’s all about penetration!
If you penetrated her, IT’S ALL GOOD!
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You are *SUCH* a hoe! (but a smart one;)
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I have a question. If I have a threesome with two chicks that are 7s, does that mean I fucked a 14?
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Well, you can beat it by fucking four 4’s, if you hold that notion true. It also means that you may have a rationalization gerbil.
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Don’t end up like this guy… learn Game and keep your wife entertained!
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Thanks for that video. That’s not the lesson, however. The lesson is not to get married because your game is getting you multiple partners and, meanwhile, push the veterans angle regarding men’s rights so the “Anti-Feminist War Veterans” lobby will be seen by politicians as more powerful than the N.O.W.
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Hey, like Rambo said…
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Please delete this post and pretend u never made it. This website better not be turning into the male version of those gay women magazines
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I am astounded by how accurate this is.
I gave this blog a shout-out in my latest blog entry.
http://uncreditedsource.com
Keep up the awesome work.
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It’s a cold reading. Not accurate, just generally vague so that it could almost fit anybody. It would be the same as asking a girl if she checks out a man from the feet first, then towards his face… as compared to a man, who looks at face first, then down to her legs.
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Today was a good day. I spent most of it with my daughter at the pistol range. I have been teaching her these violent arts religiously since she was teenager but it was an especially sweet thing today to watch her shoot the centers out of paper targets regardless of what death-dealing implement I gave her to deploy: Ruger 89DC, Sig Sauer, my beloved .45 Vaquero et al. Targets die.
Thing is, she shoots better than me with all of these instruments. Fair enough, her eyes are better and her hands do not shake. Fair enough..
Nothing about this picture disturbs me. She a solid , righteously curved, 9.5 – 5ft10in natural blonde who now lives by herself in a gloriously diverse urban neighborhood in pursuit of an exotic and hyper-valuable bit of credentialing.
So, the only real question remaining in my mind was the choice of ammo which would be most appropriate for her to load in her gun(s) in her amazingly diverse ghetto.
In the end, I gave her boxes of both the new PDX rounds (what the FBI loves) and the Ultra hot Winchester load-outs so beloved by the Seals. (Ask OSBL)
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Cool guns you got ….but what is your point? Why did you not talk her out of living in the gloriously diverse neighborhood?
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Now THIS is game. Great post!
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to all the assholes trashing this, I was going through archive and actually LOLed at this one https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/07/10/first-porn-experience/
thanks for the good times, fuck these losers
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Dat is da sh*t! 🙂
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I’m a diva with a repitoire of shit tests? Interesting.
Oh and H, PLEEEASE tell me that’s not you doggying the girl on the steps (in the projects) with the bag over her head on the Twit pic sidebar? LOL
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You got this from Family Guy when they do the homo test (it’s the same thing for guys, fingers curled straight, fingers straight fag.
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“You got this from Family Guy when they do the homo test (it’s the same thing for guys, fingers curled straight, fingers straight fag.”
And who do they emulate? Oh, that’s right. Women.
And women? Fingers curled = one of the guys.
Fingers straight = drama queen.
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All the aspies talking down on this post are missing out on one of he core elements of game that rarely gets mentioned. Being able to read people and quickly size them up. It’s a skill that virtually all persuasive people posses (think top salesmen, politicians, con men). It’s the difference between the game robot who gives a hard core neg to a girl who doesn’t need one, and the guy who does it with the right girls while easing off on the ones who would get offended.
I personally think that more cold reading posts could do some of the readers here – the masters of the intricate social dance they all are – a lot of good.
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You right: LOTS of folks thought, from your posts, that you were a solid dope, but it didn’t take that much persuasion to convince the rest of us’n.
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The forever alone guy speaks his mind…
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and you do it SO well
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Skeptic
I’ll admit there are some very amazing things in game, but telling a girl’s personality from the way she looks at her nails? Seems like a huge generalization which is perhaps true only most of the time and only for the type of chicks the author has checked it (I hope he did) on.
Also, we seem to be getting a lot of these “rules of thumb” here lately. Perhaps the authors want to share their experiences and how they reached these conclusions instead of just posting a rule?
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Slores are the new fem-nazi’s dont be fooled!
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yah, but slores are hot – wear victorias secret. xsplat says feminazis are fat – wear his old boxers.
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2020505/AskMens-2011-Great-Male-Survey-Quarter-men-date-worker.html
More validation of evo-psych principles. Somewhere, Maureen Dowd is sobbing in her appletini.
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Maureen cannot spare the moisture to sob. Though I heard there is a break through in plastic surgery that may be able to create irrigation channels for perspiration by using wrinkles.
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I dont see people talking but the biggest red flag ever is when the parents are cool people and the girl has bad relation with then… whore alert to max
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I suspect that the more feminine the woman the more likely she is to outstretch her fingers to inspect her nails, only because that’s what she’s accustomed to doing at the manicurist and it’s become an automatic gesture.
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you shouldn’t hang around manicurists so much.
You can find better asian pussy at strip clubs
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Reading comprehension. Learn it. Know it. Live it.
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Your Fast Times At Ridgemont High
quotes will suffice
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I like parties, I like fun, I want to live in a hamburger bun.
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I can see you have already drawn the scorn of feminazis and beta backers ..haha good tips.
*Hint haters, some of this is tongue in cheek with a slight hint of truth to it.
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This site was hacked or what???
I can´t believe Im reading this…
“If she looks up and then left, it means she fcks like a rabbit”…. lol
“If she sits too fast, it means she cheats a lot”
noooooonsnese just like posted above.
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