Met online? Check.
Beta herbling? Check.
Chubby American woman on the wrong side of 30? Check.
Pretentious SWPL photo? Check.
Rode the cock carousel until age limit was reached? Check.
Two people settling for each other when options have run out? Check.
From this article, a treasure trove of dating tawdriness and romantic bleakness confirming many CH maxims.
I was 30 years old, just out of a long-term relationship and no longer interested in playing the field. It was time to settle down with the right man, get married and start a family. At the urging of several friends (and my worried mother), a strategy was settled upon: I joined Match.com and JDate, a website for Jewish singles.
What followed was a series of bad dates worthy of a romantic comedy: stupid sexual remarks, too much alcohol consumed (by them). A surprising number of men high-fived me, for reasons that remain unclear.
You can read the rest at the link, if you have the stomach for it. Warning: it’s bad. Here’s a taste:
I quickly realized that the popular women seemed to know something I didn’t; they were clearly attracting the sort of smart, attractive professionals who had been ignoring my profile. Being hypercompetitive, I wasn’t about to let some bubblegum-popping blonde steal the neurotic Jewish doctor of my mother’s dreams.
Here’s some advice, ladies, straight from the lords of the Chateau, and you don’t even have to reverse engineer online dating by making dummy JDate profiles and Excel spreadsheets to benefit from this advice:
1. Don’t get fat.
2. Don’t be ugly.
3. Don’t act like a man or a bitter feminist.
3. Don’t wait until you’re over 30, rode hard and tossed away wet, to start looking for a serious partner worthy of marrying.
See how simple that is? 1,2,3,4. Voila, love! But I suppose the simplicity is the problem for you girls. There’s no way to hamsterize the advice into something palatable to your egos.
PS As a bonus, here’s some CH advice for the men:
1. Don’t be a beta.
2. Don’t act like a woman or a manboob.
3. Learn game, bust a move and date the women you really desire before you’re forced to settle for the above.
Yours in Yahweh,
CH
And the sad part is that picture totally suggests that he’s more into her than she is in to him. Just look at how she’s positioned with her back to his torso.
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da GBFM poem poetries captures the POETIC JSTICE of the univrse in its last two lines:
“da professional womenz ((who is now on match.com (stretchedbuttholesnatch.com )) ode”
alpha fucks and beta bucks
dat is how we roll
da butthexting cockass we fucks and sucks
and in our anuthes it doth deosul
alpha fucks and beta bucks
it is da way of da fed
to transfer assetss to dose who butthext
cuckold dose who pay for our bread
beta bucks and alpha fucks
it’s what day teach us we;’re entitled too
da assetts from betas we plucks
after da alphas desol us through our hole for poo
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cuckold da betas cockhold da alphas
datsz what day taught us in mba grad school
as da feiisnsits see no truth nor justice in their laws
and say da great books for menz was all fools.
yes, yes, i did very good on my gmats
dey bernenakifed my soul away, left me with cats
zlzlzzozozozo
emerson stated ralph waldo emeerson stated that “the universee is moral” and da GBFM agreeezz! zlozlzozzozo
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lzozozozozo
Women’s Plus Size Scoop Neck T-Shirt
http://www.cafepress.com/greatbooksformen.582539775
zlozozozlzolz
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lol
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Two for you …
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2263518/I-left-love-life-I-thought-I-better-Now-Im-childless-42.html
and the sad end of a Fifties icon :
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/obituaries/sport-obituaries/9812127/Gussie-Moran.html
“Evicted in 1986, she moved into a one-room apartment furnished with a thin mattress, an old vinyl chair and a television, where she lived in near penury with five cats, her social life reduced to “going to the market for groceries”.
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when you’re on a match.com or snatch.com or smellybungholesnatchedupsnatch.com date know taht the girl is working for the federal reserve & during destert that is ben bernanke or tucker max she is texting… or maybe me lzozllzllzlz
last chcik i hooked up with shared this rap with me:
i gots my fiat cash from ben bernake,
gettin’ my dinner from the herb beta,
texting GBFM for a midnight spank me,
i don’t butthex, but i’m no playa hata
lzozllzllzlzlzl
when you’re on a date know taht the girl is working for the federal reserve as she is trying 2 get you to pay for gaining access to the pussy she gave away for free lots in college when she was younger hotter tighter during all the mandatory pre-cats-spinsterhood prima noctae deosuling sessions, in teh same way the fed gets you to bail out the banks who just gambled your pensions savings away when they were younger hooter tighter… or somethihnng… you get my drift .. unless you are a betadipshit lzozlzlzl
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from an early age womenz are deosuled by over sexulization of briteny spears mileyly cyrus bratz dolls lozlzlzlzlzlzlz as ocmmanded by the fed which must desoul women to make them less loyal t2 god husband family lzozlzl and more loyal 2 the fed lzozllzl and the almighty fiat dollar (which is basless debt zlzozlzlzlz). a fiat system inverts all of entirety exalting secretive tapoers of butthex to the pinnacles of publsihing, while deconstructing teh great books anbd classics lzozllzlzlzl
so when you are out with a womenz buying her dinner chances are
0) she is working for the fed lzozlzl what do you think law shcool business school trains womenz 2 do? to serve teh almighty fiat dollar above all else lzozllzzl and use buzzwords and short skirts to convert fiat debt into physical welath and property as teh fiat debt trickles on down and the phsyical wleath ghushes on up lzozlzlllzlzl ever wonder why goldman sax rhymes with tucker max & gets richer and richer as poeple get poorer and poorer and teh national debt grows and grows? someone must be spenidng the money that is augmenting the debt for everyone else lzozllzz and that would be goldman sachs and the warfare and welfare states it funds, alongside fmeinism, which denies a women her greater chance for glorya nd story and uses her temptress wiles to help the fiat masters convert fiat debt into property lzozlzlzl. poor ladies they end up butter and alone and soulless with cats as teh fed goes lzozlzlzlzlllzllzlzlzlzl women’s right to choose!!
1) someone had her hotter younger tighter for free and you are now buying her dinner
2) she was deosuled in secrteive tpaings of assoccking sessions taped without her conthent which the neocns are fond of lzozlzll
3) when she texts during dinner she is setting up plans for a midnight assocking sessiomn with an alpha who creates welath from thin air someone like the head of the fed who wires it to goldman sax which rhymes witgh tucker max lozlzllzlzl who gets book deals from women-riun publishing houses like simon ans shcuster lzolzlzl because tehy dleight in his debt-creating debuachery-creating art succeth of losing ten million on a twelve million film as well as his asscocking sessions and secretiev tapings of butthex iwthout their girlsths contehnt which he publishes for both neocon pleaseure and profit lzozlzllz
4) if you do get married 2 her there is a fifty percent chance it will end in divroce. lolzlzl would you get on airplane if it crashed 50% of the time? lzozlzllzlzlo hell no!! and what if, after it crashed bevcause your wife was fucking some biker drummer mba in teh cockpit (as he put his cock in her cock pit lzozlzl), what if after she cuased it to crash, you had to give her half your assets and begin paying for past use of her pussy? lzozllzllzlzl plus by going down once the plane will have gone down more times than your wife once she is married–dats a joke! lzozlzllzllz
5) 2/3 to 3/4 of womenz initiate divorce as it transfers a mans assett s to teh fed/divorce regime as womenz are trianed to do in school with promises of her ex husband having to pay alimonies for past use of a pussy and fund and reward her further asscocking sessions tthat hshe hand’t had since college but whcih she missed dearly lzozlzlzloz (once back never back! lzozlzl or once in the back door, nver back! or you make your own joke here lzozllzlzzl i hate puns) she will get full rights 2 the kids and take them with her for her array of step boyfirends/fathers 2 abuse as abuse skyrockets in fmailies where the real dad is absent lzozlzlzlzlzllz, which is why the fiat neooncs detest fatherhood and the heoric spriit zlozllzlzl and love womenz who “tame men” lzozlzlzl and keep them from accessing tehir Natural Rights lzozlzl
6) rising womenz generlaly make more than men these days as they are paid in fiat dollars which really only create debt and so it is that womenz excel at creating debt and they call this wokr lzolzllzlzlzl so let them buy some fiat dinners and drinks with their fiat dollarz lzozlzll
seriously do u guys still date?
i mean i love the laides but they look down on guys who ask them out. lzozllzlzlzlzl
last chcik i hooked up with shared this rap with me:
i gots my fiat cash from ben bernake,
gettin’ my dinner from the herb beta,
texting GBFM for a midnight spank me,
i don’t butthex, but i’m no playa hata
lzozllzllzlzlzl
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womenz are deosuled by over sexulization of briteny spears mileyly cyrus bratz dolls
Don’t forget that Miley Cyrus was photographed with her father, Billy Ray, in all those incestuously suggestive poses, by none other than Susan Sontag’s old gal pal, Annie Liebovitz.
Seriously, if there’s someone who needs to spend a few months locked in the stocks, out in the elements, on the public square, it’s that creepy-naive beta loser, Billy Ray.
With dads like him, who needs enemies?!?
PS: The big news this morning is that Putin is moving aggressively to ban sodomy in Russia.
I’m thinking about emigrating.
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In other news:
RickyRaw calling out the Chateau
http://nexxtlevelup.com/everything-else/the-truth-behind-the-hbd-cult-prt-1
My response, followed by Krauser weighing in:
http://krauserpua.com/2013/01/16/i-bang-my-first-24-year-old-chilean-tourist/#comment-14658
In case you didn’t notice, certain Manosphere bloggers are putting in their own “Politically Correct Manosphere Speech Code”.
You see, you can talk about Men’s Issues and HBD – but if you are in favor of ALL groups having their own self-interest – you are a “racist”!
In the meantime, these guys want to demoralize you and your kind –
To get a flavor of what is going on, – take a look at this whack job blogger and tell me whether he has an axe to grind:
http://nexxtlevelup.com/everything-else/your-grandmothers-anus
Yes – tough guy Virgie Kent wants you to know that White Men have no right to defend themselves (this is a “Manosphere” blog” remember – ) the headline is “Your Grandmother’s Anus” – with the picture of an elderly White Woman
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Well, yes, but he does appear to be feeling her up, though she also appears to be grabbing his hand to stop him.
But the thing that stands out for me is her hair. I mean, he’s bald, nothing he can do about that. But she had her hair done like that on purpose. For a professional photo.
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At the end of the article she mentions she found a really attractive Jewish man. No my dear, you just found the only one making more money than you that your parents won’t disown you for marrying a goyim. Looks like he has the testosterone level of a flea.
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She’s an aikido black belt. What happened next?
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She tried to throw him, overestimated her grrrrlpower fighting ability, tore her rotator cuff, and then realized she still had ugly hair.
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she just wants it from behind
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You speak so clearly. If only they will listen. But you forgot number 5. Turn off your cell phone and make eye contact.
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You could make TWO Russian chicks out of all that feminine mass… or possibly even THREE Ukrainian chicks.
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or possibly even THREE Ukrainian chicks
Yeah, them Ukrainian chicks did get pretty skinny after the Yahweh crowd starved them all to death in the Holodomor.
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Not to end the hate parade, but she does seem to have a pretty face.
That said I’m 37 and my new GF is 25 and used to be a fitness model. That’s how it’s done boys.
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Pretty face… That’s funny.
Pride comes before a fall, dude. Btw, lots of women USED TO work out.
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She has a manjaw and a very prominent chin. Wouldn’t touch it with some other guy’s dick.
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buuuuuurn
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He is a balding beta shmuck. His dick is no doubt as dry as the Sahara.
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The correct put-down is, “I wouldn’t fuck her with a stolen dick.”
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Fuck her? I wouldn’t let her touch my cock AT ALL. Or with a stolen dick. With a manjaw like that, she obviously goes ass-to-mouth.
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Ass-to-mouth put-down: “I fed her Ants On A Log for dessert last night. The broad’s fucking vile.”
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No, you’d use your own.
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Replied like a true troll.
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She looks like a Jewish Jeannine Garafolo.
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A girl I dated recently was the Christian version. I stayed long enough to get the bland lay. Hard to take a girl like this seriously when she tells you “I don’t want another notch on my belt”. How many notches do you have?
What got me in this post was the high-fiving. During a pickup it works to add kino and energy but during a date it seems contrived. One thing that girl I was with said was that the dates were horrible.
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“A surprising number of men high-fived me”
lol I apologize on behalf of the old-school PUAs for making this a thing people do now. We thought it was a brilliant compliance test that also provided kino, but fuck has everyone taken it and run with it and now random dudes and even girls will hold up their hand for me to high-five them and I’m like “…seriously?”
We created a monster and can’t destroy it. 😦
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The fist bump is the new high five. Way cooler.
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Is this a LensCrafters ad?
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lol was it the neutral colored background or the square black frames that tipped you off? judging by their ads, that must be all they sell.
http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/189/lenscraftersmodel.jpg/
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I can’t find the study, but I read one a while ago concluded that marriages of people who meet through online dating sites last longer than marriages of people who meet naturally. Thoughts?
Here are a couple of other gems from the article:
Women: Don’t mention work, especially if your job is difficult to explain. You may have the most amazing career on the planet, but it can inadvertently intimidate someone looking at your profile. I realize this sounds horribly regressive, but during my experiment I found that women were attracted to men with high-profile careers, while the majority of men were turned off by powerful women.
Men turned off by powerful women? Shocking. (sarcasm).
The portrayal of Thevinen is almost robotic:
Among them was a response from a profile called Thevenin, an attractive, Jewish man who seemed smart and funny. His real name was Brian, and he was my last first date.
‘my last first date,’…I almost feel a twinge of regret in that sentence. Oh well good luck Brian!
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Men aren’t turned off by poweful women, they’re just indfferent. It’s the women that can’t get over men less poweful than they are.
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She was supposed to learn these simple truths from her father at age 11. I think weve fallen off the giants’ shoulders
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steps: 1 2 3 3 heheheh
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he he he
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Cartoon balloon coming out of the man’s mouth: “Your online profile said you’d been Bernankified….what does that mean, exactly?”
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Cue GBFM
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http://www.cafepress.com/greatbooksformen
Front of GBFM Thong:
“Where have all the good menz gone?”
Back of GBFM THong:
“And why is my bernankified buttholez sore? lzozlzzlzo”
lzozozolzllzlo
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Looks like a great gift for a slutty ex.
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yes y’all can buy it for my slutty x’s now dat u are all datingz themz
zlzolzllzlzzllzolzlzolzlzlzolzlozozlzlolzolzolzozlzozzloozozoz
buying dinnerz to get turned down
for what da gbfm got for free
when it was younger hotterz tighterz
and fifty pounds ligehterz zlzlzlzloz
omg lzlzozozozozozo
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I guffawed.
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LOL!!!!
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another idea for a ms paint cartoon for da new yorkerrr !!!!
have a women in a bussiness suit
all tiered and haggard
tired and haggard in a business suit with a sore anuth
with lotsa cocka cum all over her
and fiat dollzrz stcking out of her pockets zlozlzolzlz and an mba and ivy league degrees lzozlzlz and student loan debt certiicate slzozlzlz
and losta cats behind her
and then have her looking at
a owmen cradling a baby and with three small chicldren
and a husband just coming home
and a white picket fence lzozlzlz
and have the women in the business suit saying, “boy am i glad i’m not just someone’s property.”
lzozozlzlzlzlz!
when bill bennett & kay hymowitz say “man up,” what they reallys meanz is “lube up.” “Bend over–you and your future wife–and take it ike a man form our neoocn heroic tucker max rhymes with godmans sax assocking mahcinesz zzlooxozlzllz”
http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2012/07/07/feminist-dream-vs-feminist-nightmare/
AN OPEN LETTER to BILL BENNET & NEBEN BERNENKE BEN BERNANKE
Dear sirs of estimabel repute,
I have erecenly been doing a lot of htinking and on behlaf of me and bmy bortherssz i was wondering if u could please hold back on the assocking of our future wives in secretey tapped sessions during college and stop wiring fiat dollarz to assockers for ther assocking feats, and laos please stop laoading epic unprecedednt asscocking debt on our future wifves wihile senidng forth neoconalphas to asscokc them in the buttocks and thsly deosul them zlzolzzlz. Mr. Bernanke and Mr. BEennett–dear sirs with all due repsects–you are really old like thomas jeffersons era s so your wives probably were no deosuled and assocked in college and taught in their feminist literature courses how to intinaiteate doivi divorce and transfeer a mans assetts to bernnake and his neoocn divorce regime zlzzlzllz. See, pardon my englisshsh but when a omwan is assockced in college, even if just th tipppy tip of a cock goes in da anuth, a piece of her soul is deousled and shaved off, and thus she is far more likeley to be loyal to fait dolalrs and work for the fed instad of honorainig her husband family schildren. and as broken homes are the leading cause of fucked up childrens, by assocking womenz in colle,e by da eonoens and even when it is not secretly taped teh womene ez is still deosuled, which adversley aeffects the future of our country, and as mr. bennets said with his moral compass, america is out last , best hope zlzolzzllz
sincerly,
da GB4M
p.s. pleasee support the heartistse gb4m presidential ticket in 2010, with heartiste being the predsidental candiidtae bring forth his humor, love, compaassion leader, insights, and me backing it up with my cheneyesque gravitas lzozlzlz ytahanks in advancnened!!!
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Celebrate MLK day! Sign the petition!
https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/stop-white-genocide-halt-massive-third-world-immigration-and-forced-assimilation-white-countries/WVyzm59F
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Hah. Nice.
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The MLK day (Robert E. Lee day?) connection makes it that much clearer a show defiance. Well played.
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Cartoon balloon coming out of her mouth: “How did you come up with ‘King A’ for a username?”
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lol, but i doubt he looks like that. more like this: http://i.huffpost.com/gen/718134/thumbs/o-WADE-MICHAEL-PAGE-WISCONSIN-SHOOTING-570.jpg?6
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King A’s back is broad enough to take the Tertullian barb… but yours is just plain stupid.
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interestingly, the bottom part of the photo i linked to (but cut out) was you sucking cock. i like your enthusiasm, slugger!
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What make s you think your fapping material is of interest here, flea?
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lol you are such a fucking dork
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Oooooh, that bolt pierced the armor.
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power of positive thinking, bro!
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Let us know when the thinking part arrives… bro.
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“What make s you think your fapping material is of interest here, flea?”
Everything is of interest when it’s slandering the master fucked up race.
Double standard much, Eliot?
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You sound angry, darling… was it somewhere I tread?
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I’m never angry when I’m around my honey Nazzi. That honey tastes delish..
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Heh, heh… in the case of SillyLily, it’s Braun before brains.
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LOL! Eliot’s instincts kicked in on damage control. Oh, no! We shouldn’t see his kin for their true ugliness and their real stench.
Dorian Gray much, Eliot?
Oh, no, and how dare we slander the master fucked up race, but it’s OK if we slander J.
Double standard much, Eliot?
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What the hell are you on about now? You think Matt King is a skinhead dork?
FWIW, the WN community has long said that cartoon Nah-zees such as this fellow in the picture would be the first to be thrown into a KZ, back in the day.
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I thought YOUR fucked up race was the Master?? Begone pig!
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Of course I don’t think he is. But that’s not why you are upset by this picture. You’re upset because it shows your kin in their true light. LOL!
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You’re nuts… I was defending a man I respect in Matt King… and the concept of a good and fair jest.
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Well, Matt deserves to be defended. BUT, there is a very strong secondary reason to your indignation.
Is the subconscious overworking?
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Like I’ve said before, you’re a veritably project machine.
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Hell, projection machine.
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also, tell me more about king a’s back!
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I’d say “gay”, but even the gays point to you and laugh.
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not true! my paralegal is gay and i would fire him if he did such a thing. tell me about the gays you hang out with, greg. maybe they’re different.
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Don’t be silly. This is KingA: http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-JoVacA-FBds/ToElezxu7vI/AAAAAAAAA8M/BUaUkYGHtOY/s1600/Liam-McIntyre-el-nuevo-Spartacus-212×300.jpg
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Oh come on….King A makes a few cameos in this video: at :17….:33….and :58. I think I see Kate here too….you have blonde hair right?
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Oops wrong vid clip….HERE we go:
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He was glad he ate her, indeed.
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lol Why do the blonde girls lose? This is more my style.
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Hmm good question….the producers were female and they hate blondes?
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Maybe they got tired of the brawls and the noise of the crowd and decided to slip away to a quite cafe.
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Hmm Kate…..you could be right…..though the brawls were pretty damn good….
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Uhm aside from seeing their ass up in the air,WHY are girls wrestling? The dark hair(asian?)is breally hot. The blonde is a manjaw.
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that was a nice front headlock to passby. bs caution on the bow and arrow…. bloody nose is probably the first time the woman has bled in years… nice attempted kelly roll but well defended. then red defended the high double to bodylock well. blue didnt goto her base fast enough and got pinned.
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Wow! Lot’s of nice Nazzis floating ‘round committing crimes. Is there any surprise we’re being cursed?
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“Wow! LOL! Nazi’s!”
That’s you in a nutshell.
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Suck Hitlers turgid dick and swallow his Nazi semen! I know you’d love that,lozzlolozzol! (Really,begone pig!)
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I really tires hard no to call you a fruitcakce with your first retarded post but now I will, friutcake. From what insane asylum did you escape again?
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Take it easy, kid… his/her kind of cogdis demands a subtler form of sardonic barb… wrap that iron fist in a velvet glove.
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And shove it…where?
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lol’ed
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No farce on this site is complete till the nerd-turned-coolguy adds his insecure “lol.”
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oooo I got an extra attention ration. I feel special. You’re totally going to get in my pants at this rate!
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You get an entry all your own, precious snowflake. Now go make me a sandwich.
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And… wash your hands first…
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Hi, poodles.
There’s your attention ration for the week. Feast on it, you dudes who constantly think about other dudes.
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Serious question: Are you this guy?
http://tinyurl.com/3suwms2
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You know, I’m going to assume most American Jews are not like this, but the most prominent ones seem to be.
It’s like they have this big chip on their shoulder and they have to stress that they are different. They also have this big Holocaust complex, but by far the vast majority of American Jews have ancestry WELL before the 1930s.
The US did not allow Jewish immigration from Europe during the 1930s-40s.
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I love you man, but you’re being a little harsh on this one.
They seem good for each other, and she seems to have a sense of humor about herself.
Your cynicism is best employed against those who really do deserve it.
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Did you read the article, bro?
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Yes. Twice. It’s just basic online dating tips for average girls. She seems in no way like a bitch and doesn’t really deserve the thrashing CH gave her.
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I was surprised he went as easy as he did. This article is almost a paint-by-numbers cliche.
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It’s not “online dating tips for average girls”, as much as it is “a hail mary tactic to manipulate rich guys that I ignored in my 20’s while getting pumped and dumped by hot guys”
Unfortunately for her you can’t pull the wool over men’s eyes your whole life (especially once you’re over 30), since the “bubblegum-popping blonde[s]” in their prime dating age have no problem understanding these concepts:
1. Don’t get fat.
2. Don’t be ugly.
3. Don’t act like a man or a bitter feminist.
4. Don’t wait until you’re over 30, rode hard and tossed away wet, to start looking for a serious partner worthy of marrying.
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It’s not “online dating tips for average girls”, as much as it is “a hail mary tactic to manipulate rich guys that I ignored in my 20′s while getting pumped and dumped by hot guys”
Don’t you mean “hawt guys?”
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Bravo.
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@casaanova
“1. Don’t get fat.
2. Don’t be ugly.
3. Don’t act like a man or a bitter feminist.
4. Don’t wait until you’re over 30, rode hard and tossed away wet, to start looking for a serious partner worthy of marrying.”
That’s sound advice from CH. However, in today’s day and age many women ride the carousel because feminism told them so, or because men just don’t want to settle down. Look at Petite Olive, she is now seeing a 19-year old guy she knows has no potential for the long haul after her older lover broke it off. What is she to do? If she has half a brain she would be looking for a serious guy with marriage potential not a boy for games. But alas, many women are not wise. In contrast, I think this girl is wise.
She is 30, and she realized she needed to be creative and improvise. At least she did something to help herself.
@milam command
I agree, why is he bashing them? They seem to be good for each other and many people marry in their 30s nowadays so they are not out of the ordinary. Of course, I agree with him that women should get married much earlier than 30, but many can’t for many reasons, so why scoff at them? At least she isn’t 40 and rising cats. I say let her be and stop criticizing them. If anything, others should be taking notes. Too many people like to laugh at matrimony here.
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Add Tom Leykis’ 8 simple words for how to make the relationship LAST:
Long Hair
Stay Thin
Sex Anytime
SHUT UP!
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Even bigger bravo.
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Hot young girlfriend has a perfect ass, runs marathons and loves sex in cars. You can break free of Herbdom and Despair if you try.
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The way she talks about finding him is robotic:
Among them was a response from a profile called Thevenin, an attractive, Jewish man who seemed smart and funny. His real name was Brian, and he was my last first date.
I almost feel like she is voicing a twinge of regret at not being able to ride the carousel any more
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More precisely, Brian was her first last first date.
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1) Don’t get fat 2) Don’t get ugly and 3) Be feminine…Noted.
And Lest we ignore the fact that she created 10 fake profiles, wasted the time of some of these “popular” women by posing as some imaginary sucessful bachelor and emailing them back and forth and then hijacked the email/profile interactive styles of these popular women to serve her own self interests. Desperation, deception and self-entitlement….nice.
And if a guy did the same thing, i.e. create fake female attractive profiles with a motive of learning how attractive successful males gamed these women via email exchanges/interactions in order to score more female attractive tail, he would be called all kinds of names.
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This.
It’s okay for women to lie cheat and steal to land a man, but if a guy learns pickup? Burn him at the stake.
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You sound a little too bitter… were you one of those “popular” women?
This is true. A guy would probably be criticized much more for doing the same thing. You have to admit that she was very clever about it though. I figure a lot of this type of stuff goes on in dating websites- have you ever seen the movie Catfish? It’s eye-opening. It’s amazing how far people are willing to take these fake personas. All’s fair in love and war, I guess.
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Arizona, I am far from bitter and online is not my cup of latte. I am aware most people to some extent put on various facades and project whatever attributes they think will win over the object of their desire, even outside the online dating market.. I ain’t mad at that. I take issue at going to the extent of creating false identities and engaging some unsuspecting guy or girl for one’s own self interest/betterment, not only not being called out on it, but being heralded as smart and analytical for so doing…. Ehhh…I dunno…whatevs
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You’re right. What she did was unethical and that is the objection. She got what she wanted at the expense of others and some people don’t take kindly to deception and having their time wasted.
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I take issue at going to the extent of creating false identities and engaging some unsuspecting guy or girl for one’s own self interest/betterment, not only not being called out on it, but being heralded as smart and analytical for so doing…
Well, it was in the Life And Culture section of the WSJ… and I can think of no better example of what happens when the Life and Culture of a nation is dominated by… eh… Mormons? Canadians? Help me out here.
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Jesus, you’re a caricature of yourself. Here’s a challenge: Try to avoid using or implying the J word for at least one day in your life.
Where there’s smoke, there’s fire. That’s all I’m sayin’.
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Wipe that cum of your chin, boy.
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Where there’s smoke, there’s fire.
You and your cohort say that quite a bit… yet keep trying to shame me when I dare mention all the smoke that seems to invariably appear.
Well? Is there a fire or is it just that certain conflagrations deserve their fodder because they’re shrewder, and the smaller fires are just jealous?
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Jason, the fire has been burning for a long time. I gave you examples in another thread but I don’t know if you saw. His Hisler worshiping was stumped only because some of us didn’t support his about-to-be- unleashed rants. So when he encountered opposition he toned it down.
The man is obsessed with the J. He tries to tie everything to the J one way or another. Obviously, it’s not mentally healthy. I wonder what he teaches his 4 kids. I shudder at the thought. If he teaches them this kind of hate they’ll be handicapped for life and I wouldn’t be surprised if one of them takes him seriously and goes out and does something like some of the recent crazies.
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His Hisler worshiping was stumped only because some of us didn’t support his about-to-be- unleashed rants. So when he encountered opposition he toned it down.
Lawdy, lawdy… the delusions grow larger each time told, like a fisherman’s story.
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“Lawdy, lawdy… the delusions grow larger each time told, like a fisherman’s story.”
Trying to deflect? It will not help. You were stopped cold in your tracks because you encountered resistance. Did you forget?
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If you think they are dominating everything, why not move to Germany and begin the 4th Reich with your 4 racist children and your cunty withering away wife? You’re in pain here because you feel have no power and you don’t matter, which is why you’re obsessing over the ones you feel have.
Face it, the WSJ is a conservative publication with many J contributors. If they weren’t good and if people didn’t like reading their pieces, they wouldn’t be writing for that paper. You’re just simply Jealous it’s not you writing your hate-filled articles. You’re simply jealous that no one values you as a viable alternative to decent thinking. But who do you write for, pray tell? Neo-Nazzi publications? Do you write conspiracy-filled mambo jumbo about J for these joke of publications?
Do they love Wagner over there? LOL! I’m sure. They love everything below par.
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Consider the wrath of NiteLily,
Her screeds spewing forth, willy-nilly,
She’s talking the talk,
And stalking the stalk,
But just ends up looking quite silly.
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Wagner, below par?!?
Not likely. I’m not an opera buff, but he produced some fantastic music. He is frowned upon by the Tribe though.
You did previously mention your love of Britney Spears. To each their own. I guess for some high culture and pop culture are interchangeable.
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If you like Operas, no on does it better than the Italians. Germans do symphonies better than anyone, though. Wagner wasn’t good ant anything, and Eliot likes him only because of his anti-S, which is why I like to mention him in a degrading way. You are obviously not a classical music connoisseur.
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Can we please ban the Scots-Irish like MacJason and MacNiteLily and MacWhiskey from the Chateau?
Seriously, Heartiste, if you let them engage in the standard Scots-Irish techniques of shouting down all the honest conversation around here, then you’re gonna lose your brand, dude.
They’re poisoning the well at the Chateau.
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No one compares to Mahler and Schoenberg, right NiteLily? Maybe you prefer that other musical and cultural genius Kurt Weil? LOL.
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@ Starets
I don’t like those you mentioned either. Mediocre at best. And guess what they are German- J and I still don’t like them, just in case you think I care only that someone is J. Good Music is good music; it has no religion, color, or ethnicity. I really think Wagner is awful. You guys, on the other hand, like him only because he was an anti-S. That’s not a good enough reason to promote someone, unless you have an obsession with the J, which most of you seem to have. It’s like Blacks voting for Obama only because he’s black.Again, not a good reason to vote for someone.
I was referring to greats like Beethoven, Mozart, Mendelssohn, and von Weber. How about Bach and Handel – I love Baroque. How about Hans Zimmer? He is more contemporary. He has composed music for over 100 films, like Gladiator, if you remember that gorgeous music form that film.
People like dear Eliot are so obsessed by ethnicity, religion, color, and race, but mostly with the J. It seem they consume most of his thoughts, lol. You don’t seem far off either. Most of you Neo-Nazzis have lots of issues.
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I’d have to agree with NiteLily on classical composers. Schoenberg and twelve-tone is indeed utter garbage, but Wagner is way overrated. 1700-1850 was the high point of classical music.
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Corvinus: I made that same point to Greg Eliot a few weeks ago. There’s nothing better than Bach. Wagner was a century and a half late to that particular party.
But that doesn’t conform to his *special* worldview. And we all know exactly what that is, though he’s too shrewd to confess to it.
NiteLily, you’re doin’ good work here. Hate, in all its forms, is wrong — and I speak as a member of a family that lost ALL its European relatives (Polish Catholics) in the Holocaust.
So, in sum — up yours, Greg.
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Jason, thanks for remembering your family. The H0locaust claimed anywhere between 50 to 70 million people – J, non-J, Catholics and clergy (cuz Hisler hated religious people of all backgrounds), American soldiers, Canadian soldiers, British soldiers, all kinds of people who were caught up in that murderous regime like your family in Poland. None of these people deserved to die at that hands of that mad man, Eliot and the others revere.
Have you noticed the wave of H0locaust deniers sweeping this place recently? Is there anything more shameful? These people have no morality, and don’t believe Eliot is a moral man. He’s anything but. His morality is based on his own choosing and picking. It has nothing to do with classical Judeo-Christian values, on which the West was predicated. Naazzis and Neo-Naazzis = Immorality.
But notice how he’s free to spew his hate here, while we the decent posters get shut up. Behold!
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As usual, both Jason and SillyLily are out of sorts… note how I mentioned I liked Wagner, and they come up with the most idiot reasons for such.
Note too that I’m a big admirer of Bach, Mozart, and Beethoven as well, among others… but I guess the Big Two Schmoes will have to come up with some other ulterior motive of mine to explain that. lloozzozozlzlzlzlz
On the subject of Wagner, like I said before… it’s one thing if he doesn’t happen to be your particular cup of tea… nothing wrong with that, tastes vary, and not everyone has the sitzfleisch for long musical drama.
But to call him mediocre or overrated, well… that reflects more on the caller’s lack of musical knowledge and intellectual integrity than on the talents of the composer.
His titanic creations fill opera houses the world over to this day, and the likes of which were revolutionary in his time (indeed, an entirely new house had to be built to stage the works adequately)… and wherein Bayreuth remains a near-religious pilgrimage for fans of the art, with years-long waiting lists… name me another composer than commands that sort of festival and then we’ll talk.
In the meanwhile, try not to make your tiny minds appear any more miniscule than they already are.
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Corvinus: I made that same point to Greg Eliot a few weeks ago.
And you got your head handed to you then… your short-term memory is not all it could be, alphie.
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What a loser, you didn’t hand anyone his head. How much can you spin? Not only that, but even Corvinus agrees with us and he definitely is no Schmoe. Overlooking and pretending he didn’t also tell you Wagner is over rated?
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“On the subject of Wagner, like I said before… it’s one thing if he doesn’t happen to be your particular cup of tea… nothing wrong with that, tastes vary, and not everyone has the sitzfleisch for long musical drama. But to call him mediocre or overrated, well… that reflects more on the caller’s lack of musical knowledge and intellectual integrity than on the talents of the composer.”
Again, you show your highly biased nature, which is the reason you shouldn’t be taken seriously. That’s why you’re a joke. What do you think that someone is not your cup of tea means? It means he is mediocre for some and shit for others. For me he is cow manure, like all of your biased comments. Deal with it idiot.
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Sure, how dare some people here counteract your anti-S rants and your slander? It’s like how dare someone defend themselves from a home invasion before they shoot them and kidnap their wife and kid? How dare they stop such activity, right Zombie? Your name fits you, idiot.
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Sure, how dare some people here counteract your anti-S rants and your slander? It’s like how dare someone defend themselves from a home invasion before they get shot and their wife and kids raped and kidnapped? How dare they stop such activity, right Zombie? Your name fits you, idiot.
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“You have to admit she was clever” Yeah, and Bernie Madoff was clever about bilking investors. It’s not the intelligence that matters, it’s the willingness to deceive others for one’s own benefit that’s slimy.
In fact an intelligent slime can do more damage than a dumb one sometimes, so there’s nothing to admire. As well as they are smart enough to know better, if they took the effort to learn how a society works. So they’re lazy as well as slimy.
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Don’t you think it’s a bit too much to compare her to Madoff? Over reacting much?
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And Lest we ignore the fact that she created 10 fake profiles, wasted the time of some of these “popular” women by posing as some imaginary sucessful bachelor and emailing them back and forth and then hijacked the email/profile interactive styles of these popular women to serve her own self interests. Desperation, deception and self-entitlement….nice.
Excellent point… and lest we forget, mainstream media publication… in the WSJ, of all things! lloozozozlzlzlzlz
Here’s the profile of our little bubbeleh:
http://www.webbmediagroup.com/team-amy
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she is just like the fed and goldman sax rhyes with tucker mzax zlzlzl, cretaiing fake thingz and selling them as if dey had true valuez
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Oh no, let me guess…Eliot hijacking this idiotic rant and turning it into one of his hate fests. How typical. Eliot, Jealousy R Us?
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She describes herself as “a professional disruptor”. Lolzl.
That is a YKW specialty if ever there was one.
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@ PetiteOlive
Don’t be ridiculous. She didn’t do anything wrong trying to glean some ideas from other profiles. All of life is competition.
“And if a guy did the same thing, i.e. create fake female attractive profiles with a motive of learning how attractive successful males gamed these women via email exchanges/interactions in order to score more female attractive tail, he would be called all kinds of names.”
LOL! Do you think the men don’t create fake profiles? Do you think no one here created fake profiles to catch pussy? You’re either naïve or not thinking right. Life is about competition. Arizona says it best: “All’s fair in love and war.”
@ Arizona
“I figure a lot of this type of stuff goes on in dating websites”
It does, there are lots of shenanigans, more than you even imagine. My cousin is on one of these sites and she met a guy who lied about his age by 10 years. Didn’t bother to tell her. She found out inadvertently. Everyone plays games in these sites. The name of the game is to be careful and use your common sense. Don’t rely on them to be forthcoming or assume they are telling you the truth about themselves. This is what personal responsibility is all about.
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Even if men were to do the same thing, they wouldn’t be celebrated nor get an article published in a major MSM outlet. That’s the point. It’s what’s especially galling about the dominant idiot mindset of our feminist elites.
Reminds me of that coed who put out Powerpoints on her hookups and was celebrated by other femtards, who would undoubtedly have come down hard on men who published work rating their pickups.
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exactly
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Leave it to SillyLily to defend the indefensible.
My tribe, right or wrong, eh?
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Nothing to do with the tribe, and she is not my tribe. I like a woman who takes the bull by the horns and gets married. I thought you were pro-marriage? Or is it more important to you to use this non-story as a chance to show how obsessed you are with the tribe?
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A philosophy of “the end justifies the means” is a one-way ticket to perdition.
You should know this.
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Depends, not always. Sometimes we all have to take radical action to help ourselves. In this case no one got hurt, and everyone who is looking for mates knows how hard it is. Kate being one. Look at her story. It hasn’t been easy. So far, she is kissing lots of frogs and no prince in sight.
I think a religious family man like you should show a little bit more compassion to single people looking to find their way, than to use this to make yet more obsessive observations about your make-believe non-issues.
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“So far, she is kissing lots of frogs and no prince in sight.”
Lol Slander! I hardly kiss anybody. And there have been princes, just no fairy tales.
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There’s a difference between being “pro-marriage” and being in favor of the “right kind of marriage”. And the reality is that fairy tales are the leading contributor to feminism and divorce… “What? No happily ever after? DIVORCE!” It’s garbage like that plus the entitlement of government-sponsored, ignorance-indoctrinated women that’s destroyed marriage in the first place.
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I agree; but let’s analyze why men are treated differently.
If a man did this exact thing, he wouldn’t be celebrated because it’s implied by humans (whether it’s true or not) that men are not after loftier holier endeavors like getting married. It’s implied that man would trick girls to get pussy, not to find a wife. Because this girl was speaking about finding a husband, she immediately became elevated to a somewhat “righteous” woman.
If a man wanted to do the same thing – finding a wife – and he indeed found a wife pulling this trick, he would have gotten the same mention. It’s just obvious that men are not doing this to find a wife but to meet girls for casual dating and sex.
And let’s be honest while we’re at it: If a guy did this for the purpose for finding a wife, you would all call him a beta. This is simply something that men don’t do. That’s why your complaining holds no water, as there is no viable compassion here. It’s very rare a man would do something like this for the purpose of marriage.
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“And Lest we ignore the fact that she created 10 fake profiles, wasted the time of some of these “popular” women by posing as some imaginary sucessful bachelor and emailing them back and forth and then hijacked the email/profile interactive styles of these popular women to serve her own self interests. Desperation, deception and self-entitlement”
Well, she is smarter than you, that’s for sure.
She had tenacity and fortitude to do it and she got rewarded for it. I’m sure if you had ½ brain and came up with such a scheme, wild horse wouldn’t stop you.
So I find your fake “outrage,” well, fake. Or maybe just meant to ingratiate yourself with the men here so they think you are bashing women.
Let me tell you, women have a lot to bashed for, just not in this case. It’s highly misplaced on your part. If anyone expected complete honesty on an online dating site, then they are crazy and stupid. PROCEED WITH CAUTION, should be the policy.
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Sorry, Olive… I try to deflect all her projection and outhouse psychiatry… but it seems the supply is inexhaustible.
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Iolzlolzzzzz @ outrage…again, here you go….substituting/projecting your irrational emotional outbursts/reactions on me. Calling out the hipocrisy of it its all sweetie ;)….*passes you some e-valium and/or xanax* here ya go love, you clearly need it….but continue entertaining me……I am at work (and bored) xo
P.s.”and she got rewarded for it”***??? lolololozzzzzzzz sure, if a balding short beta manboob J is the “reward”, I’ll pass…gross
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It doesn’t matter how he looks, dummy? If he makes her happy and they got married, who are you to scoff being the slut-type everyone makes fun off here?
Haven’t you noticed you fall right into the description of a carousel riding whore? LOL! You just admitted you are seeing a 19-year old boy because your man dumped you, right? If I were you I wouldn’t point the finger at a woman who got married and is not whoring herself like you. Look at yourself, babe.
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Hypocrite much Eliot? I see birds of a feather stick together.
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I guess you missed the part of me being in 2 LTRS spanning more than 3 years each and being proposed to on the last one and the last 7m LTR….but lets focus on my current 19y beauty afterall who needs rationality when ya got nitelilly!
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You’re missing the point. You said this site made you realize feminists are wrong, Yet, you make the same mistakes again. Fine, I’m not trying to put you down for that, if you like this type of lifestyle. But what irks me is that you come here and you piss on this girl for ending her cock carouselling while you just admitted you got into yet another round with someone who doesn’t even have potential?
LOL! Can you see the hypocrisy here? At least keep your mouth shot.
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@Nitelily, do you ever make any coherent logical arguments…like..ever?
“You said this site made you realize feminists are wrong”
***After going through scientific and sociological data that CH has posted/presented….one would be daft to think otherwise
“Yet, you make the same mistakes again”
***And how exactly? What makes you so disturbed by the fact that I chose to casually date someone that I am intensely attracted to who is 19….after i have been in 21/2 LTRs my entire teenage and adult life (25)
should I break it down further for you? okay….I was in one relationship from 16-20, another from 21-24 and then my last one 24/25. Should I be on your kind of “husband hunt” , WEEKS after my last LTR ended with a man I deeply loved/was crazy about? I don’t think so.
“if you like this type of lifestyle”
Sure….finding myself in new first-time situation that I find exciting is suddenly defined as a “lifestyle”…..a very rational conclusion NiteLilly
“what irks me is that you come here and you piss on this girl for ending her cock carouselling”
That’s exactly what my opening post was about…being “outraged” because some fat feminist j princess finally found her “prince-charming”. It couldn’t be that I was commenting on the fact that I found her ways of achieving it desperate, deceptive and self entitling.
“Can you see the hypocrisy here?”
Again, with your projections….
So once again I ask…..do you ever make any coherent logical arguments?
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*yawns* after that diatribe….I am bored. I should do something with the 10 minutes I have left at work….the floor is yours Nitelilly….:D
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@ PetiteOlive
Look who’s talking about coherence. You’re trying to justify your hypocrisy.
There is no sugar coating it: By CH standards you’re a slut, get it? End of subject. Don’t try to justify it, or try to project it on someone else. You’re a slut, so it doesn’t matter that you find this 19-year old extremely attractive or that you needed someone for the rebound. You’re still a slut riding the carousel. Read some of the archives if you have an issue with this. You’re hamster needs neutralizing, quick.
And if you admit you had a BF at 16 then you are a bigger slut than first thought.
In addition, you’re no better than this woman in the deception arena. Didn’t you say that you need this 19-year old to get over your ex? So you too are using someone else to some degree. Therefore, Arizona was right: “All’s fair in love and war.”
And finally, why do you sound so angry and pissed off? Arizona picked on it too? You sound like one spitting bullets. Why, because someone criticized you? You can’t take criticism, can you? Did you have lots of heated arguments with your ex? Were you never able to accept his steering you in the right direction? Was that why he broke it off for greener pastures? Now I am getting a better picture as to your personality. Even yesterday when I was being friendly to you, you perceived it as me being angry. LOL That means you’re not used to being told you’re doing something wrong or criticized. That’s why you always go on the defensive.
Truth be told, I wouldn’t have said anything to you about your ex, but you bashing this woman for being creative and using ingenuity to find a husband is hypocritical when you are still riding the cock carousel. Now that is a coherent argument. Everything you have said so far, isn’t.
Now you tell me who is rational? You? NO! Your hamster needs to run out of batteries.
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@ Nitelily, How did that feel? getting all that “sluts” out of your system, lmao @ your attempt at degradation….abaaaaaahahaha lozzzzzlolol I gotta give it to you though, you are funny.
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LOL! Can you see the hypocrisy here? At least keep your mouth shot.’
dam nl look at that freud slip ya don’t have to shoot her he he he
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lol…love you too sweets 😉
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Looks like I know know who the two women were in the second video clip I posted: PetiteOlive and Nitelily.
PetiteOlive, I hope you have dark hair….
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“You just admitted you are seeing a 19-year old boy because your man dumped you, right?”
Sure…..that’s exaaaaactly what I said/”admitted”. lol smh…..you are like a hamster on steroids. *still extends hand with valium*
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Didn’t you say he transferred and he didn’t want to continue seeing you? It might be a little bit too hard for you to accept, but it means he could live without you just fine, so you weren’t that important to him. It’s your hamster that’s trying to rationalize it.
Again, your life means nothing to any of us, but at least step being a hypocrite and act holier than thou, namely don’t criticize this girl for getting off the carousel, while you’re still riding it with a new cock every couple of years or months. That’s was my whole point of bashing you, your hypocrisy.
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Keep writing ebonics like “smh” and “I ain’t”. And Whorefinder will eventually find you.
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And what is he going to say her?
Rape! Hahahaha…
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lolz @ Anon
@ Nitelilly, you do like bashing people for their hypocrisy don’t you? your self-awareness is…..
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again with your astute ability to make rational coherent arguments and draw logical conclusions
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“Nitelilly, you do like bashing people for their hypocrisy don’t you?”
Very much so. Sorry you can’t spot your hypocrisy in yourself.
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All we need is a vat of jello.
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Pick either of the video clips I posted earlier….
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we give chicks less credit than they deserve they actually tough as hell i pound my 106 pound chick as hard as i want with my 240 pound self and she never complains she might walk funny but no complaints he he he
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ShitLily–Yeah, everybody’s a liar, and therefore it’s OK to be a liar and it’s YOUR responsibility to tiptoe through the shit society that follows. You remind me of the hundreds of minimizing criminals I’ve talked to. What a wonderful life.
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Desperation, deception and self-entitlement….nice.”
The bread & butter of Rules Girls, ‘women game’ and feminism. Making you believe the sky is red and 2+2=5 since 1960.
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Are you kidding? I would totally pull that stunt as a dude. I’ve thought about it in the past but was like “W/e I could install NetBSD on my toaster and have way more fun!”
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re nitelily:
>not mentally healthy
>shudder at the thought
>handicapped for life
>goes out and does something like some of the recent crazies
Why the fuck do you even post here again?
At lest try to express your thoughts without resorting to shame language…oh wait that’s right, you can’t because you’re a woman.
Back to Jizaabel with you.
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I’m afraid I have to side with Lily on this. Those hot chicks have no sympathy for us normal or ugly girls. We shouldn’t have any sympathy for people who have no sympathy for us. If I had to harm one of them to get the man I want, I would do so with as much consideration for her feelings as she’d have for mine, which is none.
This particular kind of deception, I don’t have the patience or level of desperation for. I don’t even really applaud the woman. In this dog eat dog world though, I can’t say what she’s done is worse than the undoubted backstabbing and cock blocking and deception she’s likely been subjected to by hotter chicks.
Payback is a bitch. It’s not about right or wrong. It’s just the way the world works. Ideals are great, but reality is greater.
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Their “careers” will easily afford them the $10,000 in fertility treatment.
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More like $30,000.
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I was going the write something, but then I looked at the TV, saw the abomination happening in Washington right now and got too depressed to comment anything about the post.
To look at BHO’s innauguration is something like looking the the goths breaking the gates of Rome.
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That’s re-inauguration. It’s more like the quiet abandonment of the Western Empire by Romulus Augustulus. Not with a bang but a whimper.
Why did you watch? I’ve seen every inauguration since I was six years old. I wasn’t even tempted this time. That clipped voice of his alone makes me want to go down to Tun Tavern and draw up plans of treason and revolution. ΜΟΛΩΝ ΛΑΒΕ, mulatto.
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Women in pic: I’ve been on so many cocks…
Guy in pic: Im so glad I finally have a second women I’ve had sex with…
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“Women in pic: I’ve been on so many cocks…
Guy in pic: Im so glad I finally have A womAn I’ve had sex with…”
FIX’D.
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looks like he’s going for the awkward nice guy boob grab and she’s prying his hand away
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Actually, it looks like she took both hands and planted it there…
She ain’t letting this live one go!
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Exhibit A:
I wasn’t about to let some bubblegum-popping blonde steal the neurotic Jewish doctor of my mother’s dreams.
Geez, and we WN’s get accused of stereotyping. This comedy writes itself.
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Exactly!
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It’s some kind of demonic combination of hover-hand and awkward pass. Relax the shoulder, you slack-jawed, gawking herb.
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Modern [anything] market in a picture, indeed.
Has anyone mentioned the YKW angle yet?
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Another healthy tip…..
Goes in her…..
unwillingly…..
RAPE!
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Jewish ladies, if you’re having problems finding a beta, nerdling Jew husband—you have serious problems.
Their mommas are screaming at them to marry a Jewess. If they aren’t, they’re one of three things: prolish Jews, mentally unstable (i.e. in show business), or else never going to marry.
All the others would marry Roseanne Barr if she was of age and willing to go to temple for the high holidays.
So if you can’t find one…something’s seriously wrong with you. Like feminist-wrong. Seriously, Irish and Jewish women are the two worst feminist offenders around.
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I may hate myself for this, but I have to agree. If a Jewish woman can’t find a husband when Jewish guys will throw away a hot Russian with home skills willing to go against the whole world for him, just because she’s not Jewish, and then go marry a butt ugly mean Jewish woman, then she is some manner of screwed up beyond all hope.
She has to be more than ugly and more than mean. Something has to be wrong with her like her stuff smells like days old dead bodies from three meters away. It has to be really REALLY bad.
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I’m fully convinced you can assess what a woman truly thinks of her value by the guy she marries.
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Isn’t there a saying about water finding its level.
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Or shit.
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Hey PetiteOlive!
Just a friendly (pre-wall) girl in her early 20’s hoping to give you some advice.
I notice that you are open and enthusiastic about the stuff you read here on CH.
Earlier in this thread, NiteLilly called you a slut for going from ltr to ltr.
I recognize that you truly think LTR to LTR means good-girl status, I was of the same mind until recently. I’ve spent countless hours reading through manosphere posts. I am here to tell you that we are/were both wrong. LTR to LTR is not a good way to go. I am completely convinced of this and have stopped being open to LTRs. I am currently single and trying to improve myself so that I can one day be a good wife to someone like YaReally.
you should read these posts:
http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2011/05/26/a-ltr-is-not-a-mini-marriage/
http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2011/12/30/marriage-lite-mistaking-no-sex-before-monogamy-for-a-moral-statement/
There are others. Maybe this is not what you’d like (marriage) , but I just wanted to give you the links. I wish someone had given them to me, but I have to stay up every night searching for Red-Pill enlightenment on my own.
Not calling you a slut or anything I just thought you should know that LTRs are no good. I admit to not having all the answers, but I am pretty sure this is true.
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“I’ve spent countless hours reading through manosphere posts”
“I can one day be a good wife to someone like YaReally.”
Thank you for shutting up the haters who think that players are not marriage material and that studs and sluts are equally disgusting.
Thank you also for proving that women can swim through an ocean of knowledge, and still manage to come out dry, not that further evidence was required.
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@anon below
it was a joke 😦
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Anon, those women are going to find themselves on day in their 40s, alone and lonely. That’s a guarantee. This PetiteOlive girl is 25 and still making the same mistakes – looking for LTRs and short fucks, instead of searching for a real life mate. She is 25, for goodness sake, what is she waiting for? Everything you said to me in the last thread was right. The two anonymousness were right too. I gave a slut the benefit of the doubt and I was wrong. I guess I don’t have much experience with understanding women, as you guys have. So I stand corrected.
PetiteOlive thinks she successfully swallowed the red pill. LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!
Her pill ain’t red. It ain’t even a watered-down shed of pink. No, no, her pill is ash – as far away from red as possible. She is still a feminist. Just an unaware one, and those are the worst ones. She’ll go back to her old habits as soon as she meets her next cock.
She says she had just 3 cocks, bullshit. What about the cocks between the cocks? Don’t they count too?
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On another note, many of the idiots unaware self-centered men like Eliot say I shame men. Disagreeing with men is not shaming them. Who said human beings have to agree just to agree? What kind of lefty nonsense this is?
As you can see form my exchanges with PetiteOlive , I shame women too. I turned it against a stupid ash-pilled wannabe non-feminist. So I am an equal opportunity shamer, especially when I encounter hypocrisy. I don’t mind people disagreeing or have different opinions, but hypocrisy is the most disgusting immoral thing when it comes to human communication and shouldn’t be tolerated. Get it Eliot?
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It’s alright. I understand the appeal of Yareally. I even think he’s kinda cute.
Although I would prefer marriage with King A if I had a pussy.
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NL, the only person you shame is yourself.
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You, don’t get it. I don’t shame anyone, but I am perceived like I’m shaming when I disagree with others here. Since when is it a rule that we all must agree? Some of you can’t stand dissent, that’s obvious, which makes you weak, not alpha. Strong people handle dissent in a mature way; they don’t freak out or call for people they disagree with to be banned. The left does the same thing. What makes you different from lefties?
As for PetiteOlive, indeed she is the first person I shamed here, but it’s not my way, usually. I disagree with a lot of the anti-S here, but it’s not the same as shaming. If you think disagreeing with you regarding anti-S is shaming, then you really are weak minded.
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Stick to Anti-S like in Anti-Slut.
We could use another soldier against whorish confessions. But the anti-sem debates lead to a lot of useless drivel.
We already got your point. You’re free to remind us once in a while, but like most of those who had heated debates on this blog, you gotta learn to move on.
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I’ll meet you at the City Hall in Boston. Wear white, and a single gold brooch with interlocking ♂♂. I will be the one with the rose
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Anon, I usually don’t mention anti-S unless an idiot like Greg Eliot or someone like him tries to tie everything to the J in an obsessive way. Didn’t you have enough of that too? What does it have to do with male-female relations or game in general? The man is obviously obsessed with them, but not bothered by Gentile lefties who are just as toxic. The issue is not the J, it’s the left. The left is comprised of many religions and ethnicities, including white Christians, which he conveniently overlooks. If all 6 million Jews were to leave the USA today, would that solve the lefty situation? No. There will still be a democratic party, as about ½ of the 330 million population is on the left in this country. In addition, learn to read trends. Every country in Europe is much further on the left than our country is, and there aren’t many J living there. That should tell you leftism is not a J problem. It’s a manifestation of the West, which by its very nature is liberal, not conservative.
As for shaming sluts, I usually leave them alone, unless they are hypocritical about swallowing the red pill when they like swallowing nothing but cum. That’s something I can’t stand. I’ll try to oblige you though.
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Shit flows downhill.
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Damn. Thats a comment to ponder for a bit.
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I don’t really get the criticism. Haven’t things worked out really well for her? She has married within The Tribe to someone pulling in top 1% income.
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If she can take being drier than the Sahara for the rest of her life.
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Nothing wrong with that, as you point out.
But do we have to read about her antics and gloating… and in the Wall Street Journal? Were the markets that slow?
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Exactly. Now all she has to do is pop out a kid and then she’s free to take the poor dude to the cleaners in a no-fault divorce and continue to ride the carousel for a few years. If he had found the Chateau while surfing for pussy…he could have been saved. Very sad.
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It’s a story of tribal triumph over shiksas, so I’d say there is a very good chance you are going to have to hear about it, read about it, or see it somewhere in the mass media.
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Touche’
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The WSJ is now a lifestyle, female-oriented rag that kowtows to Dems to serve Rupert Murdoch’s crony capitalist empire.
The words you are looking for are: women, group-think, money.
Pretty much all media is between the View on the soft end to Anderson Cooper on the more “newsy” end but all cater to the prejudices and “lifestyle” interests of a narrow group of women on the Upper East Side and Georgetown. What Murray calls the Narrow Elite. Its made worse by group-think with the goal to be making money but generally losing it — the NY Beta Times had to sell its HQ building and get bailed out three times by Carlos Slim; Murdoch needs money from Prince Talaweel; Fox News used to pay for his entire debt service but its down since he’s crony-capitalist toadied to Obama.
Rule of thumb, nearly everything in the media is devoted to pretty lies to pump up the feelings of a few upper class White women.
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Fair enough, but you’re giving your own ox a wide berth.
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I dont know what that means…
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That’s OK, most people don’t understand his jabbering, except you can pretty much bet your bottom dollar it has something to do with the J.
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follow da moneyz
everyting is contructedz to transfer welath and assetts
from menz
to the lying, hyping womenz selling subprime loans in short skirtz
whome the bankers asscocked ins sectrely taped butthetxing sessions
seoculing womenz and converting them from potential wives and motehrz
into soulless vehicles of wealth transfer
from good men
to da bankesterz
as tucker max rheyems iwth goldman sax
secterilly taped his assocking session
beforme senidng
da desouled women on her way to seiaize a manz asstes
and transfer them to the bernanek atststea state
dey seize a woman’s ass and shove their fiat cockas in it
desoul her
and tell her to go seize good man’z assets
as reveenrggz zllzlzzlozl
hypergamy is big business
da womenz’ natural enttlement mindset
“here is my vagina put money in it”
is capitalized on by the central bankerz
who cretaed a legal system
supporting women’z immoral inclcinationz
to ransfer welath from men to the bankerz
thusly destroying the Wealth of Nationz
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No. Back around 10-20 years ago, if you were passed over in the dating market, that was reason to hang your head in shame. Now she gloats over gaming the system.
We’ve lost our sense of shame, or more specifically women have lost theirs because they’re not shamed for anything.
Had it been me alone at 30, I’d have been hanging my head. I was definitely no Alpha but had a line of women I either screwed or got serious with or both and by 26 I knew who I wanted to settle down with. It’s not so hard you should have to write a book — and if you do you should be embarrassed because it’s not them, it’s you.
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your married now?
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All that glitters isn’t gold.
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“I wasn’t about to let some bubblegum-popping blonde steal the neurotic Jewish doctor of my mother’s dreams.”
I guess the Wall Street Journal is happy to publish and promote antisemitism–when such antisemitism is directed against Christians, not Jews.
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The photo does capture her victory well. She won that exchange. He’s bald and doesn’t appear all that charismatic, but he’s successful, seems physically fit. She’s not hideous, but below what he could pull with reaonable game. The body language in the photo says it all: she won and he lost.
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Yours in Yahweh,
CH
Heh… I see what you did there.
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do another 1-10 scale contest as you did in 2009, that was fun… please.
ok see ya.
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Boy did she settle. Look at the guy. Scrawny, bald and wearing glasses. He’s quite a catch. Still you gotta love these modern day couples where the woman weighs more than the man.
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They’re both ugly, but hey if they are happy marrying each other, who are we to scoff? Why are people busy sticking their nose in someone else’s life? Maybe not much to keep them busy?
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Hahahahahahaha good one NL. We shouldn’t stick our noses in the life of someone who just wrote an article about how she met her husband in the WSJ. Hehehe oh my
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Why is she important, though? She got off the carousel. I say good for her and move on.
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I dont think she got off willingly, and in the end she will probably divorce the guy.
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Who knows? Is she that important to second guess? Besides, most women do want to get off the carousel. Do you really think normal women don’t want to find husbands? They all do, they just go about it all wrong – wasting time with losers. Anyway, if she wasn’t happy, I doubt she’d be writing about this.
What we could say though, is that he is probably a major beta, which means she will walk all over him eventually, and which means maybe a divorce in the future. Many women have a tendency to emasculate their somewhat-beta hubbies into complete doormats. I hope it doesn’t’ happen, but I fear it’s the case.
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What would you or anyone here estimate her weight as? I’m thinking 150 or so?
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Seems like she has a bigger frame, I’d place her at 170-185. Kinda hard to tell because we can’t see her bottom half but while she is fat, she is not shamu proportion fat.
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No way she only weighs 150, unless she and her husband are both really short. For many women, 150 is actually on the healthy portion of the BMI scale, not obese like this woman. I’d guess over 200.
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Okay, I just looked at her picture again. She’s not obese but still well in the overweight range. I’m gonna revise my guess to 180.
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If she were fit, we’d get the full body shot. That’s a baggy, complicated, please hide me sweater, and you can still see her rolls plumping out to say howdy and hello. Err on the side of lardbody, she’s pushing two hundo.
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Successful or not, does she really want her kids to look like that?
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According to the you guys, women don’t care for looks, forgot?
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I’ve seen uglier guys with smoking hot little things all over them.
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I know, me too. Which only validates what you said about him projecting himself differently and changing his body language. Also, if he got rid of the glasses and bulked up, he could look like a badass, indeed. It’s all attitude and projection.
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Give him an affliction t shirt replete with a tribal Star of David tattoo and he would fill out quite nicely.
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Most J don’t do tattoos.
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His genetic potential is not that bad. He might even appear like a badass if he gets rid of the glasses and bulks up.
A pertinent criticism would be more about his beta herb body language and the fact that he is getting legally hitched under the full arsenal of American divorce laws to a wall-hitting carousel-riding slut.
If he had a good posture, a better style and a hot young babe by his side, I wouldn’t wonder if she is concerned about how their kids would look like.
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I like your Name. Cheers. And no. No woman wants to birth a beth male if they can make an Aleph Male.
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Because no Mother truly wants to become a Mary; what sane woman wants to birth a Christ when they can abort one?
Hence Pomba Gira’s being what they are, and Magdalene’s being who they were.
Welcome to Now: where every smart man below age 30 in number – who is probably a firstborn – recognizes the mistake in mistranslating half of the books which spread the first seeds of wisdom. One reason why most articles online contain less value than the comments in comparison. And like you, Sir, even less value than the pseudonyms projection.
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Lot of women simply want to remain oblivious to this.
Wrote about it today. Lotsa women not happy.
Lotsa women on PoF still crying for a baby and an herb to settle down with to make it happen.. at age 38-40.
If you find a quite spot and close your eyes and listen… you can hear their wailing on the wind.
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Check out Jewish men online complaining about the ‘Jewish princess syndrome’ and their mass migration to shiksas and then you’ll realize why this was such a victory.
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Yup, half of all J marry out, and I would bet a majority of them are men.
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“Two people settling for each other when options have run out? Check.”
They fell in love with each other, they didn’t settle.
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Just like Tom Hanks fell in love with Wilson. Sports equipment is a many splendored thing.
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They are not perfect but both of them seem lovable to me.
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Matt-
Best comment you’ve written to date. Like the new style!
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How can you even begin to say that with a straight face?
She’s rode the cock carousel for years, he has been lucky if he’s even had 3 sex partners.
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How can you even begin to say that with a straight face?
because a) she’s a woman and b) she’s m@ya.
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Fred Reed has been warning against American women for some time, a recent post is http://fredoneverything.net/MarryAbroad.shtml
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Fred is a great read on…well everything. He was an old school Red Pill thinker before there was a Red Pill…or even an internet.
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2 Questions:
1. She writes that she has a black belt in aikido karate. [“I have a black belt in aikido.” (I actually do,…)”] Is there some rule or convention in that sport or practice where you might lose the black belt due to lack of practice, fatness, etc.? In other words, is she still allowed to speak of possessing a black belt in the present tense given her present spare fat belt? Shouldn’t it be, if only for the sake of clear writing, “I earned a black belt,” or “I used to hold a black belt”?
2. “I realize this sounds horribly regressive, but during my experiment I found that women were attracted to men with high-profile careers, while the majority of men were turned off by powerful women.” Yes. How horrible. I wonder if the Wall Street Journal might care to explore some of the socio-political-economic implications of that statement?
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“I have a black belt in aikido.”
See you have it wrong. Most guys don’t want a nice butt or high cheekbones. They want women with blackbelts. How could you have missed that?
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Once it’s earned, it’s yours for life, like a college degree.
There may be a few schools, of which I’m unaware, that may rescind their awarding of any belt, should the practitioner prove a disgrace for moral or criminal reasons.
But I’ve never heard of a black belt being “taken back” because the earner later became out of shape.
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“Once it’s earned, it’s yours for life, like a college degree.”
Or a circumcision.
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The Avenger doesn’t mind being bald.
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I haven’t been involved with martial arts in awhile, but doesn’t a “black belt” just mean you’ve finished all your training and are ready to enter tournaments(where the real accolades and prestige can be found)?
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The jew hatred of the goyim comes out again, even in some drivel like that article. Imagine the furor (heh… Fuhrer) groups like the splc would display if a white woman with blonde hair said “i’m not about to let some jew broad rapidly screeching towards the wall take a handsome white doctor from me”.
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+1
Yet even here at the chateau, they’d rather rail at our alleged hate… especially when we hold the spotlight on theirs.
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Wait a minute, a little google reveals another issue….
According to the Wik, she’s 38-39 (fascinating that they don’t have the exact date). That’s way north of 30. Like Tropic of Cancer north. so:
Just when did our blushing bride first sign up for these websites? How long was she on them until she conducted this experiment? How long after the experiment did she (to her credit I’ll say), drill down, face reality, revamp her profile and go live with it? How long after that ’til the first date?
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According to the Wik, she’s 38-39 (fascinating that they don’t have the exact date). That’s way north of 30. Like Tropic of Cancer north.
Nah, that would be for male SMV. For female SMV, it’s Arctic Circle north.
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lllozozozozlzlzll
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Nobody is returning alive from that expedition.
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lol:
http://www.rolereboot.org/culture-and-politics/details/2012-12-a-letter-to-the-guy-who-harrassed-me-outside-the-bar
“I hate to say it, but being fat can have the same dampening effect on unwanted male attention. Since I’ve gained weight, I’ve really enjoyed the ability to simply walk around outside without some creeper following me and making dreadful comments.
Not that it discourages all men, but honestly, it’s enough of a plus that I don’t feel as motivated to get back in shape.”
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lozzzzlozzzzxxxl
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What’s so funny about that? I think she has a very common problem. Many girls don’t want to look attractive because they are afraid of male attention.
[Heartiste: Right. This is why there exists a multi-billion dollar consumer beauty industry geared almost entirely to women. Do you ever take a moment to reflect on how idiotic you can sometimes sound?]
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So… she loathes male desire. She also apparently doesn’t realize that fat broads get more disgusting come-ons than thinner girls, because fat broads are seen as easy lays and are good only for hate-fucks.
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“So… she loathes male desire.”
Yes. Every woman loathes the desire of unwanted men.
[Heartiste: Deal with it. The world cannot be retrofitted to accommodate every woman’s last desire.]
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Corvinus … This I don’t get about some of you. Why do you want women to appreciate the desire of random males who aren’t their husbands? I’m not going to insult a man for his desire, but I’m not a slut so no I dont really want it directed at me in an intense way. It makes me uncomfortable, and I think it should.
You guys always laugh at feminism and how it encourages women to be sluts. I agree. Women shouldn’t be sluts. And there are biological reasons why female promiscuity is much more risky for the female than the male. You long for the old days, but women in the past understood this better. They understood the risk that men who would trick them into bed, posed.
Women in the past had a healthy respect AND fear for male desire and sexuality, like one might for a tornado or natural disaster. And they would do their best to stay away from it until they submitted to one man who vowed to protect them from the desires of the rest. I think it is delusional feminists who would embrace male sexuality with the most open arms because they are in denial that they are not the same as men. Sane women of the past and today have a degree of fear for it
So I understand if you think women need more respect, but I can’t understand it If you want us not to fear male sexuality
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The “loathes male desire” theme song is overplayed. And besides, who wants to talk about “male desire”? It sounds like the subtitle to a gay softcore soap opera. Let’s go with the word “wants” or “requirements” instead.
Also, it’s a whiny complaint, more characteristic of activism than manly activity. “I demand you respect me and my desire!” Women verbalize injustices. Men correct them without deliberation or consensus. There is a tendency for fora like these to turn into complaint boards, where men who got burned stamp their feet and register their consternation, theorizing rather than making a change in themselves or forcing it over their environs.
Your comparison of masculinity to a force of nature is spot on, and your observations about its mishandling in the modern West are correct. Little girls for several generations have been miseducated into underestimating/dismissing the power of the cock. This forced naïveté is why they fall so hard on the (her) back end for the player who unabashedly shoves it in her face.
The fear has to be reinstitutionalized and culturally disseminated. Because a little girl alone has no defense against a man with “male desire.” Encountering that dread one-on-one ensures a world of bewildered sluts.
Matt
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Did someone say hogging?
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If the woman doesn’t put out, then the guy’s little joke has kinda backfired.
I understand that the limits of many people’s experiences are with low people, and among them, well, whatever your weakness or difference, that’s going to be exploited by people who have nothing more important to do.
When you get to a class of people with more important things to do, looks do matter, but nobody has the time or motivation to go out of their way to make someone’s life miserable unless they’re getting paid for it.
If you find this kind of behavior a good thing then well, lying and deception and physically or psychologically harming people to get what I want should be okay with you too.
If it’s okay for you to mess with whoever you want and can get away with it, then don’t get butthurt when people more powerful than you screw you because they can.
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“I wasn’t about to let some bubblegum-popping blonde steal the neurotic Jewish doctor of my mother’s dreams.”
The eternal ethnic slandering from the crew.
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“3. Don’t wait until you’re over 30, rode hard and tossed away wet, to start looking for a serious partner worthy of marrying.”
Shut up. Shut up. Shut up. Shut up.
I am so anxiety wrought and bitter right now.
I met my boyfriend when I was 26. I moved in with him when I was 27.
He is tall, handsome, well to do, well connected, cultured, creative, a total genius, interesting to talk to, supportive and madly in love with me. Last year he took me to the hamptons, the outer cape, fire island, lake placid, palm springs, scotland, croatia, lake tahoe and miami. I wasn’t settling when I tried to settle down with this guy.
And now, I am nearing 31 and I realize that I really can’t stay in this relationship forever. And now I am going to be one more 30+ desperately single women in NYC competing with 24 yr old models.
Oh joy.
FUCK MY LIFE.
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Rage, rage against the dying of the light.
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You need a CH poll:
Which of these losers got the better deal? I vote that she did better than he did.
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You can break 100% of chick’s profile down to: I like vacations, eating and drinks with friends.
There are NO special snowflakes. Chicks are hot swappable.
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Don’t forget “walks on the beach, holding hands”…. llzozozozozozlzlzlzozozozlzlzlzl
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You missed
Cuddling on the sofa with a glass of wine.
trans: “I want to not feel alone so badly right now”
Mind you, if I had a dollar for every males’ profile that was looking for a girl to go camping with…oy…
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the beach thing always makes me laugh cause every time i am on the dam beach there aren’t many people there.
camping yea my girl actually camps tent no tent cold warm lolzzzzz
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Vacations and hanging out with friends? Well yeah most people like that
I don’t mention either in my profile tho. Also, I don’t drink (never have) and I hate eating. If I could just take vitamins every day of my life instead and never eat a bite, I’d do it.
What now?
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Photos.
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Disagree. Like most men 90-95% are swappable. 5-10% have unique personalities, talents or creativity that make me actually want to do something other than stick my dick in them. Out of all the past dates, hook-ups and girlfriends, three probably left impressions and I actually felt a pang of remorse when it ended, but all the rest were good riddance.
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This is also an option. Get 1,000,000 likes and your crush will sleep with you…
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/1m-facebook-users-norwegian-man-laid-article-1.1243578
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“As a bonus, here’s some CH advice for the men:
1. Don’t be a beta.
2. Don’t act like a woman or a manboob.
3. Learn game, bust a move and date the women you really desire before you’re forced to settle for the above.”
—————-
My short list for men:
1. Work out (Do you even lift?)
2. Work for yourself (i.e., money over bitches)
3. Speak up (Most people have no idea how important voice is. Take voice lessons if you have to.)
If that doesn’t get you laid regularly, then it’s time for desperate measures — learn to play the guitar.
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2. Work for yourself (i.e., money over bitches)
”””””
i’d say put the bitches to work
look at all of em workin at mcd’s
my girl’s dream is to run my almond machine
she has almost earned the priviledge of making me money
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Yes, but if you do that, a sugar daddy will be the one who is really footing your bill
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“3. Speak up (Most people have no idea how important voice is. Take voice lessons if you have to.)”
Truth. Plus this the easiest of all the three.
If you notice how most men talk in the educated class, it’s disgusting. Most talk in this whiny nasal voice. The worst of the bunch is the men that talk with arrogant vocal fry.
This is a pro-tip: Speak from your diaphragm. It’s from your stomach. This allows you to have a masculine tone. I believe the reason that it’s not used is because men have become so cowardly that they their tone and voice have adjusted so they don’t even subconciously challenge or offend anyone. It’s simply appalling.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Voice_projection
Hold your nose and speak and then speak without your nose held. If you are doing it correctly, the tone should sound pretty much the same.
All men that do not do this. Start right now.
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I rarely play the guitar…but when I do I exclusively play old school death metal and Beethoven medleys.
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Heartiste, you give some good advice for women but I do have one concern about it – you say don’t wait until you have been ridden hard to get serious with a man. Well, I agree! But what are we supposed to do about men assuming weve ridden the cock carousel when we haven’t? It seems like you’ve been fair and only assumed that about the lady up top, because of her own words. But what to do about men who aren’t as fair as you? Or are they just not worth our time?
I’ve read your slut list before, and I don’t get forward early or talk about sex or anything . In fact, I’m naturally pretty offended when people ask me explicit sexual questions. I’m old fashioned in that way. I dress really nice and feminine, but shop in mostly vintage shops for classy feminine shapes – meaning I’m not dressing very scandalously! I am 26, past my prime, but due to good genes, a naturally tiny hourglass figure, regular workouts and tasteful plastic surgery, I would honestly estimate myself in the top ten percent of women my age.
I get a lot of interest from guys but too many of them seem to assume I’m q slut and I don’t know why. I’m modest, and have only slept with one man in my life and have only kissed three. I don’t think that’s a lot by 26. So why do they assume the worst? Is it my age or because I care a lot about my looks? Do I need to do something different or just not bother with men who make that assumption without justification? It’s getting to the point where I’m ready to take a damn polygraph to prove I’m not a slut lol 😦 it doesn’t help matters that other women, no matter how loose they are in comparison to their target, love to toss that word around about women they hate! I think sometimes the biggest lie of feminism is the lie of the sisterhood…
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Post pics and….what’s yer number?
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“have only slept with one man in my life ”
Slut!
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It could be the tramp stamp. Or the two packs a day. Or the pierced nipples, Q Slut.
The men who assume you are a slut are engaged in a self-fulfilling prophesy: by assuming women are uncontrollably promiscuous they attract and are attracted to the uncontrollably promiscuous. Their inability for them or anyone to pry you open like a broken vending machine leads them to believe you cannot possibly be truthful or that you don’t actually exist. They refer to you as magical unicorns here and think themselves cool for laughing at men who are familiar with your type.
You need to hang out with a better class of people who don’t regularly audition for the Maury Povich show.
Come to my crib this weekend, babydoll. It’s a doublewide. I’ll show you what’s what.
Matt
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Dear women and anti-semites,
You are killing my buzz. Start a private forum for this or something.
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I’m fine with the anti-semites. Usually they keep quiet when women are not around.
I’m not specifically into the anti-J thing, but I like the long elaborate informative well-written dissertations about the subject. About any subject.
BTW, where’s Uh?
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He seems to disappear randomly for months at a time. I recall around 2011 he was posting pretty regularly and then up and vanished.
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Forum? For criticism of the J, I think there’s stormfront (somewhat higher-class) and vnnforum (low-class, basically all the bitter loonie tunes who got kicked off stormfront).
For women… heh, nevermind.
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agreed, comments here are truly garbage. every day, its a new conversation between Greg and Nite Lily, with a sprinkling of Queen A. no thanks.
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If enough of you heroes just told her to STFU, you wouldn’t have to put up with the second-hand bullshit.
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Stop hanging out under the urinal and you won’t catch my “sprinkle,” faggot.
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Well, if you heroes would pipe up and tell the fems to STFU, maybe you wouldn’t be so burdened.
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Kinda difficult to bitch-slap bitches if they’re not within arm’s reach, unfortunately.
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True… but then don’t go saying shit like Wagner is overrated, just because he isn’t your particular cup o’ joe… it not only feeds their already fat hamsters… it makes you look like a philistine.
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Because Wagner isn’t worth a spit. Face it.
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In another double backflip on the shitstorm that is the Modern American Dating Scene, it turns out that Kanye West may not be the father of Kim Kardashian’s baby.
Sure, he is the babydaddy (at least it is presumed so), but according to California Law, her ex, Kris Humphreys, is still presumed to be the natural father of the child since he and Kim are still legally married. The law states that a man is the father if the baby was born during the time they are married or 300 days after death, annulment, divorce or after a judgment of separation is entered by the court. (!!!)
So, do we have another case of the Alpha knocking up a woman, with the long-gone Beta being court-ordered to foot the bill?
http://articles.mamaslatinas.com/entertainment/109228/it_turns_out_kanye_west?utm_medium=sem2&utm_campaign=prism&utm_source=outbrain&utm_content=0&quick_picks=1
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is he supposted to only get one wife or is there a clause for multiple till he gets tired?
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or is it written in like bill gates and he gets 10 months of vacation time a year he gets to do whatever he wants
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Comment section is turning into a feminized joke. I used to get a kick out of the comment section but now after I scroll over all the female/feminist posts there is nothing of interest to read. That is what happens when women are given freedom, they slowly work their way on to the outside and start henpecking. Next thing you know common sense and logic is scorned and ridiculed and then ceases to exist. If you entertain what these trolls have to say it is to your detriment. Go play on facebook and twitter and enjoy your orbiter friends…
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Blame heartistes moderators. He lets through any vapid manhating that a girl cares to spew, but refuses to allow comments from smart girls that almost completely agree with him, but correct him logically on a tiny detail.
That’s when I realized he’s one of those men devoted to pretending ALL women are retards, so if a woman ever says something mildly smart, hell ignore it even if she agrees with him. So stupid. This site could make a man hate women. I know Im tempted to after reading the brainless bitches in the comment section, but I’m sure there are more non retarded girls like myself who have been censored over and over again until we post under male pseudonyms with the exact same view and then are magically let thru lol
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I just take a TL,DR attitude when women start getting verbose. It’s annoying skipping over crap, but it’s doable.
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(“crap” defined as “inane arguments and insults”. The way NiteLily and Greg flirt is quite entertaining, though.)
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Enjoy it while it lasted…
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Why is Anonymous always right?
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It’s a problem that takes care of itself. But now that you (and others) whined about it, the hamsters will settle in for a marathon.
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Nothing a well greased scroll wheel can’t solve. Just don’t engage them.
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Dudes are mad jelly of the King and his wordskills, notice all the chicks love King A. Don’t be jelly brahs.
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We like him because even if we disagree, his absence of self pity and his sincerity make it an actual debate and not a pissing match, even if we are being catty. He leads by example.
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That sexy mofo you see in the mirror? That’s not me, that’s you bro… but I’m right behind you, and I’m smiling: I’m proud of you, I’m proud of your aesthetics.
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Her article is notable for what it doesn’t say. No mention of what age she gave in her profile (or what age the competitors she cribbed from gave), and weight is quickly glossed over. Also, if her herbling were really such a catch I would expect a little more bragging about things that matter more to women – career, height, income, things like that. Attractive, smart, funny, Jewish – well, at least one of those isn’t just a matter of opinion.
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[…] I quickly realized that the popular women seemed to know something I didn’t; they were clearly attracting the sort of smart, attractive professionals who had been ignoring my profile. Being hypercompetitive, I wasn’t about to Source: Chateau Heartiste […]
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In the 2nd WW, Airborne troops falling out of DC 3s wearing parachutes to face certain death from Nazi machine guns did not yell, “Geronimo!!!” as they were gripped by the vicious prop-wash.
No.
They more typically yelled, “Well, fuk me!” or “Bloody ell,” or something that was as obscene as they could think of at the moment.
So, give this pair of doomed fellow human beings a small break…
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great post. i’ve told quite a few 30 yo’s outright, “i’m not looking for anything serious.” if she has 2 or more kids, i’ll NEVER commit to her.
sorry, but i’m not cleaning up after your mistakes.
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My father told me that growing up (since he did date a divorcee with kids before meeting my mom).
Only pay for your mistakes…not some other guy’s.
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For entertainment and education, you might enjoy Broken City. I made the mistake to go to it. I have sworn off Hollywood movies: Dumb and PC. This one had two good actors (Wahlberg and Crowe), so I went for it. A mistake. It was dumb and PC. It starts off strong, like a Bogart filme noir. Big city corruption, everybody is dirty. Police, politicians, wives and girlfriends. Even the main character is dirty. I was really enjoying it, good acting, and trying hard to figure out the plot. But halfway through it goes off the tracks into pure PC drivel and the behavior of the characters becomes completely illogical. Another ridiculous Hollywood film. Only the performance of Crowe remains to recommend the film. Zeta-Jones looked like a beautiful over the hill woman, but that may have been the desired make up effect. What a joke to portray a women like that as the femme fatale. Only for beta men.
HOWEVER, before the film goes South, this PC film inadvertently shows what happens to guys who go beta on their girl and just don’t see what is coming when their formerly lower class girl rises above her prior station in life and develops a wider and higher circle of friends. The wages of oneitis. Nice side plot. And, it shows what happens to a powerful man who marries with no need a beautiful but worthless woman, and who lets his wife plot against him instead of removing her from his life forthwith and with finality.
It is amazing how these lying Hollywood types inadvertently expose the truth. But, most betas will not get it. They never do. That’s why they are betas.
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Anti-semitism is a hard thing to sell to a person who is financially benefitting from the same family foundations as his many jooish relatives.
Texas Oil Money. It is not what you think.
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The only fully functional F1 track in N. America is locaked about 14 miles west of Austin, Texas. It was built right, absolutely to spec, at a cost of around 450 million USD>
Our Govenour R. Perry was major player in getting this done.
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hard ridden and put up wet is a phrase you need to utilize more often
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Do not even start on the King Ranch.. It was never really about being a ranch and their name was never even “King”.
Today, it is 825,000 acres of oil and gas production over-topped by bunches of extremely high dollar (10,000 USD per trophy deer) hunting leases.
God Be Praised.
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Let me attempt to explain the problem whites have with Jews.
http://www.jta.org/news/article/2010/10/18/2741341/rabbi-yosef-non-jews-exist-to-serve-jews
Bear in mind, that isn’t some jerkoff on a street corner. That piece of shit is the Chief Sephardic Rabbi in Israel.
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2010/11/03/916577/-An-Open-Letter-to-the-White-Right-On-the-Occasion-of-Your-Recent-Successful-Temper-Tantrum
This is a (small) sample.
You go down the line, over and over. What’s there? Jew after Jew doing everything in their power to attack us, doing everything they can to undermine our countries. Don’t even get started on the feminists: Abzug, Steinem, Allred, Friedan, Ginsburg, Wolf. The list is so goddamned long. Every type of leftist perversion, every type of mental sickness, what do you find? A leftist Jew working relentlessly against whites.
The Jew is not to be trampled on because his mother is Jewish or because he practices whatever dumb variety of Judaism he practices. He, like other leftist anti-American scum, is to be trampled upon because he is an enemy of this country. The unfortunate reality is that Jews belong disproportionately to this coterie of scum. Combined with their vast wealth and influence, a perfect storm of shit is created where white Americans are utterly deracinated and ultimately removed.
If the majority of Jews shared the views of Auster, Levin, or Savage, we would have no problem. The majority of Jews don’t share those views. Therein lies the problem.
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In before the NAJALT cogdis brigade.
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You fucking obsessive Nutzzi. This incident happened over a year ago and I myself as a Christian was perplexed by it. We were explained that the Chief Rabbi was speaking in respect to Muslims in Israel who are terrorizing the country and calling J and Christians pigs and Monkeys who should be killed. How come Muslim leaders calling J and Christians pigs and monkeys didn’t bother you enough to post their diatribes? Simply because you have a deep-seated hate and jealousy of J, and Greg fucking Eliot jumps on the bandwagon as always, like the hater he is.
I can tell how jealous you and Greg are of their vast wealth, just like the scum was in Germany. All of you white trash have your eye on the J and his wealth, which he worked hard for, while you losers eye him hungrily instead of going out there and making your own fortunes. But of course, the J is much smarter than you two neo-N, isn’t he?
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From the Muslims own mouth…
http://archive.redstate.com/stories/war/jews_are_apes_and_christians_are_pigs
“Jews are Apes and Christians are Pigs”
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191 responses and half seem to be from Nite silly Lilly is she some kind of paid troll or somthing. Isn’t this a mrm blob
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It’s possible that she is a paid propagandist.
However, I suspect that she is one of the Hasbara propagandists. My understanding is that doing Hasbara is an unpaid, voluntary activity; although supported and coordinated from Israel.
I suppose they would call it a mitzvah.
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The Beast never sleeps
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What a piece of shit NiteLily is.Ban it, whoever he/she/it is. Its only a matter of time.
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I’m not a propagandist. I just like the truth, unlike you haters. And look who is talking about being a propagandist, the biggest Nutzzi of them all. All you do is spread anti-J propaganda here at every chance you get. Defaming and slandering J at every opportunity, while you yourself do the things you accuse the J of doing. I call that projection. Evil people do evil things and then they project them onto others. Fuck off.
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Check out Tor Norretrander’s answer–and the sound CH reasoning behind it–to the 2013 Edge.org Question of the Year: “What Should We Be Worried About?”. His answer: “The Loss of Lust”. Very much apropos the the moribund world of online romance and everything else depicted in the article.
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how can you do anything but admire her efforts? It’s revealing how much of a turn off a ‘powerful’ or ‘career’ woman indicators are on profiles, even to successful men. That speaks volumes in itself. Finally, I would say it would be nice to have this info from a man’s persepctive – in other words, what’s the optimal profile posting and info for us? I personally adopt the “get ’em any way you can model” namely: online, in bars, in foreign countries and on their websites, in yoga class. Wherever one or more hot ones shall gather, there I shall try to be among them…
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“view college as akin to religious services; you go, you genuflect and recite, and you leave, faith fortified”
Or else….
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Is this a LensCrafters ad?
Good one!
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High five? 😉
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Nite lily’s efficacy as an agent provocateur is waning as most are conditioned to step over her countless piles of vomit.
Between her and nicole ive never seen such lengthy comments so completely devoid of any value. Pissing in the wind they are.
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They may well be the same person. I still read the posts but can’t even be bothered to read the comments section anymore. There used to be some insightful people commenting here, but now it’s just the same inane back-and-forth blather all day.
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I love it when people with no identity rag on people with identities and confirmable experiences.
The difference between some commenters here and others is that some of us will get called on it by our peers and mutual associates and friends who know us offline if we’re lying. Others can claim whatever they like, and you have no way of knowing whether it is true or of value or not.
If I was a dude, I would probably value posts from people who have pics and videos and whose lives and successes based on what they’ve learned here, can actually be observed. Just my opinion, which you are welcome to take or leave…but if you leave it in favor of someone’s who could be a 55 year old gaming addict who hasn’t been to a club since their teens, with mid life acne pretending to be hot shit, then the consequences of that are your fault.
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1. Don’t get fat.
2. Don’t be ugly.
3. Don’t act like a man or a bitter feminist.
3. Don’t wait until you’re over 30, rode hard and tossed away wet, to start looking for a serious partner worthy of marrying.
Amen Heartiste. This is so, so obvious to men. Most guys just want a nice, sweet girl to settle down with who takes care of herself and hasn’t slept around. Yet women keep going in the complete opposite direction, thinking it will somehow make them more attractive. Makes NO SENSE…
Then again a lot of guys think that by being NICE, women will like them. Makes no sense either…
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I would add #5 – Recognize your hypergamy and act accordingly.
Even today it’s really not hard for a women to get a decent man at all – that so many fail is a sign of widespread social retardation. The “don’t get fat” part seems to be the hardest, which I don’t even understand. Exercise is fun.
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I really dig all the commenters who honestly don’t see what’s wrong here. I believe them.
For anybody seriously thinking about this story, almost everything about it is just pure amusement and validation of all sorts of stereotypes.
More of this stuff and Heartiste/Sailer can stop blogging.
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One of the lads had an ol doll around to the house with her 1 year old.She was talking about telling her man she has a ‘lawyer’ (hilarious how their vocabulary all comes from Ally McBeal or The Hills. They’re unaware that they’re called solicitors in this country. Sure why would they need to know that? The man takes care of all the icky stuff like property deeds,etc) and she’s getting an annulment, leaving him, etc. I can see it all from her point of view perfectly: women don’t exactly have friends, so when they pump babies out their asses, they now have little balls of fun and friends for life that love them unconditionally. What’s the point in having a man, when there’s a 10 cylinder vibrator under the bed? Bobs rolling in from the government, and from the poor chump who’s beside himself with grief at the divorce, never getting so see the kids, while she’s having a great time getting all the sympathy and the ‘you go girl’s, with plenty of men queuing up to ride her.
They don’t need anything from a man. All that attention from their parents that started to dry up after they turned 25 is now back with a bang. Grandpaw’s forking over money hand over fist to pay for nappies (which mostly gets spent on g-strings and fags, of course). Put up a picture of their whelp on facebook and they get a million likes, and because it’s the first time in their lives they’ve thought about anyone else besides numero uno, they feel self-satisfied, generous and an unfamiliar ‘completeness’.
Who could blame them? By splitting from their man, they get all the money, love and attention from everyone they meet, without the inconvenience of having to thank the man for going out busting his hole to put dinner on the table. The ‘lawyer’ does all the collecting for them. Of course, it’s all grand for the first 7 years or so, but when the kids start moving further afield, and they’re single moms stuck with surly teenagers who hate them, even the child support doesn’t keep them happy then. Still, most people will go for short-term benefits over the arduous alternative.
It’s bordering on the comical, that any man would consider himself to be essential in a modern woman’s life. All he is is an ATM in trousers. There won’t be any ol doll ever getting an annulment from me. The closest thing she’ll get is an anal mint to freshen up her back passage after all the refugees awaiting deportation have shot their load up it.
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Great monicker, great post.
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I’ll tell you the same thing I tell women complaining about their bad boys:
Sux to be you.
If I was to list my complaints about the men in my life who didn’t work out, they would be “too attached to family/religion/ideals” or “too spergy” or “wife who left for stupid reasons returned when she found out he was dating an interesting, intelligent, Black woman”.
I have no fear whatsoever of getting with someone truly screwed up because I don’t go for that sort of men. They might be attractive on a movie screen, but in real life, rude guys make me want to pull out a knife, not a condom.
If you were not attracted to trash, you wouldn’t be as worried about getting trash drama. Now, I’m not saying NAWALT, but some of us do actually want companionship from men. Here’s a clue though, most of us who want that, have it in the form of real friends and loyal relatives who recognize our value and therefore protect us. Trash’s family and friends let them do whatever, and sometimes even encourage them to do dumb things. Valuable women’s friends and family steers them clear of danger to the best of their ability.
No, a “modern” woman doesn’t need you. She has the glow of her television telling her she’s perfect to keep her warm at night. Get yourself an old fashioned girl of the strong work ethic, not the gold digging flavor. It’s that simple.
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Great piece.
Sadly, these strange even creepy, “I met so and so on match.com or eharmoney” reflect obesity not…beauty. Of course, it is very sad to be unhealthy, overweight, etc., very sad, aging isn’t easy and of course illness is tragic….but making it normal and romanticizing ‘internet dating’ of all things is repulsive.
Internet dating is nothing more than a woman that needs money and a man who is dumb enough to give it to her***
Look at the Manti situation while not moving away from the critical societal decline in the dating culture.
The beauty, honor and properly created lust is GONE.
Gentlemen, these pictures you see online are all lies. Everything that is not Game based is a lie and everything from feminism is another lie created to exhort money, time and heartstrings from you while you slowly become enslaved into paying for someone else’s kid.
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Now that Jewish men have shown an increasing penchant for Asian women, Jewish broads are the new black. Their own men don’t even want them.
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Did any of you see what Rollo Tomassi said about Matthew/King A a couple of weeks ago? He said that whenever he reads King A, he imagines it’s Dr. Smith from “Lost In Space” talking — go to Youtube and search for “Dr. smith saying creature” — pretty funny
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I gave up on on-line long ago. Too easy for women. Women want to compete for a man, and he is their prize. If she doesn’t have to compete, then he has no value to her. Online is a losing proposition from the start. You’re much better off in real-life, where she is slave to here reptilian brain and wants what she sees. And if she sees you with a women that he sees as “hotter” or “sexier” or “better” than she sees herself, she will WANT you at all costs.
I have used that, as well as many other ways to improve my life. These days, I don’t know if I’ll be having sex on a given weekend or not since I just go with the flow and planning something limits my options. But I enjoy real-life. And many times the women I spend a weekend with, I didn’t know before I met them. Of course, women are always available – the key is to enjoy them at your leisure. Don’t place more value in them then what is there. They are a convenience to be enjoyed, not a burden to be tolerated…
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This may very well be a stupid question, but much is spoken of that a woman needs to respect a man in order to love him/be attracted to him long-term. What I’m wondering is, is it necessary for a man to respect a woman in order to love her. I would imagine this whole issue of “respect” vs. “attracted” is at the crux of a lot of problems. For example, as beings at a theoretical inferior stage, it isn’t necessary to respect the accomplishments of a child in order to adore one.
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Hey Kate,
in order to “love” a women in the sense of fuck her hard, it is most important how she looks. If you feel a certain sympathy on a personal level it is a nice extra. I wouldnt do it without, but many other men are not as selective as long as she looks hot enough.
When we talk about “love” in the sense of “she will be the mother of my children”, then it is imperative to have a deep inner respect for her.
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Thanks, Maldek!
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“Mother of my children” is nice. Respect is nice too.
But treating her sometimes like the dirty little whore she really is will help immensely.
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Right. Its a cocktail. Two parts nice, one part naught? Respectful disrespect is the golden mean.
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I prefer the way I said it.
Why do women tend to sanitize everything? “Cocktail” this and “golden” that…
No wonder we’re doomed.
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Would you prefer me to cuss like a sailor? I probably do need to start swearing more. Damn.
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Or better yet…
Shut the f…
lol
Naah, we’re cool.
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No. You are assuming men love the same as women. Men do not have hypergamy, which results in conditional love and the requirement for the woman to respect a man. Why do you think women initiate the majority of divorces? A man wishes to love a woman like he would his own children: unconditionally.
In an ideal world, a man would have the love of his life–his wife–and a mistress for his sexual desires. It’s rare for a cheating man to divorce his wife and abandon his children for a younger woman… because he loves them.
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I appreciate your response.
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Take a look at this daily mail article:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2263518/I-left-love-life-I-thought-I-better-Now-Im-childless-42.html#ixzz2Iki9KShq
“I still loved him, but I began to feel embarrassed by his blue-collar jobs, annoyed that, despite his intelligence, he didn’t have a career. Then he bought a lurid blue and pink VW Beetle.
Why couldn’t he drive a normal car? Things that now seem incredibly insignificant began to niggle.
I began to wish he was more sophisticated and earned more. I felt envious of friends with better-off partners, who were able to support them as they started their families.
I stopped seeing Matthew as my equal. I stopped seeing all the qualities that had made me fall in love with him – his fierce intelligence, our shared sense of humour, his determination not to follow the crowd. Instead, I saw someone who was holding me back.”
This is hypergamy in a nutshell . Even though she uses the word “equal”, you can bet that she really means “better”. In other words, nothing like this sort of rationalization would happen if you switched genders. Respect from a man’s point of view towards his woman would be more like “don’t get fat”.
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support them as they started their families. ”””
i guess she pissed she got to work and actually be equal
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I think Matthew is one lucky sonofabitch.
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Yeah, he dodged a bullet.
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Yeah, she sounds like a raging narcissist even now that she’s broken and alone. She doesn’t care that she’s screwing up his life now, she just needs attention.
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The strength of the r vs K theory of liberalism and conservatism mentioned in your twitter feed on 17 Jan, lies not in it being scientifically true or accurate but in it being a compelling narrative that would dis-empower liberals of moral status and prestige. It is essentially a long-winded way of calling them pathetic disgusting cowardly little weasel parasites, albeit far more interesting and convincing.
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It could be the right-wing version of the various (agitprop) “Studies” departments at universities.
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“She has a manjaw and a very prominent chin. Wouldn’t touch it with some other guy’s dick”
Yes I can see the point.
If we consider HOW (yes i DID read the whole damn article) she set up her “man-grab” project she might as well have a dick between her legs. brrrr
@CH great post and all so true. Her hardest failure comes in point 3 (the first 3).
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Q: How long can non MOT philosems who use cathedral-speak terms like “anti-semitism” pretend there’s no ingroup-outgroup competition for resources in a finite environment?
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Right up until their masters send them to the Gulag.
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The ingroup-outgroup dynamic is certainly at play here. I don’t think you can make sense of the whole picture without in-group favoritism and other more abstract ethnocentrism, some of which indirectly manifests in the Cathedral.
But I still don’t enjoy wading through a pool of simple-minded drivel to find the few comments actually connected to the OP.
P.S. anti-semitism is not their term; they would probably be happier with something like “J hatred” or “Jophobia”.
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Fair enough reply – not reactionary, like I assumed it’d be.
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anti-S was a term coined by an anti-S in the 19th century as a code word for his J hatred. Now the Neo-N have the audacity to tell J they are not the only Semites around and have no right to use the term. Anti-S has always been a tem to refer to J hatred.
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It used to be a term for one who hated Js… now it’s a term for whom the Js hate.
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with the interwebs, waffly halftruths perish along with pretty lies, bro.
http://www.theoccidentalobserver.net/articles/MacDonald-Marr.html
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FR:
Nothing much this week, but I did get out there and made a point of talking to randoms.
Thursday:
Mark is like ‘oh this bar is going to be packed with college hotties, let’s go.’ I’m like ‘okay.’ We get there. Guess what isn’t packed? The bar. There’s like no one there. Soon enough, though, a group of people we knew arrived. It was like 9 guys and two girls. Mark tries to talk to one of the girls, she’s lukewarm on him (and she knows him). Then, my other friend arrives with a girl — not sure if he’s boning her. Anyway, spent most of the night hanging out with them instead. Kind of annoying, for sure.
Friday: So, got invited to a skiing/snowboarding trip with social circle. I’m like ‘sure.’ We go. It’s pretty fun. Friday is spent driving there, mostly.
Saturday: After snowboarding, we go to the only bar in the little ski town. I was going to be pissed again, because when we got there, we were the only ones there. But people started arriving soon enough. So, I’ll try to recreate my approaches, and for fun, I’ll try to just put a little ‘how much I had drank by that point’ by the set.
Set 1: (1 beer)
I approach them, there’s a middle-aged woman (does not even register on attractiveness scale to me), two young women, and an older guy. My first legit mixed set. I realize that the bar is going to have a mustache party later, so my opener is just ‘I don’t see any mustaches here — I don’t know if you know this, but I’m the party patrol. The bar hired me to check up on people like you…’
They like it. The middle aged woman really goes for it…blah blah blah. She starts asking me what race I am, compliments me on my eyes, whatever. She then introduces me to everyone at the table. The young woman on the left is like a 5.5, and the one on the right is like a 6.5. For now, I just spend time talking to the middle-aged woman and the guy.
Then, the bartender walks up — she’s got on a mustache — and she puts her hands on her hips. I’m like ‘what’s up, Luigi?’ She stares at me for a second, and is like ‘you’re cut off.’ I just kinda laugh. Long story short, she ends up drawing a mustache on my face. I figured that could be some sort of DHV in front of the set. However, lest I start falling into dancing monkey status, I leave (I decide to make the set a homebase).
Set 2: (2.5 beers)
A legit 7 (she’s like in her early-mid 30’s, so 10 years ago she was probably a 7.5) and her friend are at a table. I just use the same opener on them. They’re a little chillier to it, but friendly. The 7 seems warmer than her friend (chubby, in a pink shirt). I don’t do anything beyond the opener (I’m not going to force conversation). I leave on a good note, figuring maybe I’ll get at them later.
Return to Set 1 (3.5 beers):
Now, I take a seat next to the 6.5 and start talking to her. I’ve grown pretty fond of saying shit like ‘you’re my dreamgirl’ or ‘I think I just fell in love with you, so here’s what we’re going to do….’ with a kind of smirk. Her first reaction to me sitting next to her and saying ‘listen, it’s possible you could be my dream girl,’ was ‘what? you don’t even know me. I could be crazy.’ I look at her for a few seconds, ‘ohhh….you’re crazy? That sucks, I guess I was wrong.’ She laughs ‘no, I’m just saying.’ I nod slowly…’what -are- you saying, exactly? You’re starting to freak me out.’ I say it with a chuckle, and she laughs. So, blah blah blah…she drops the bomb that she has a daughter.
…
At this point it’s just like ‘who gives a shit’ in my mind. I lose interest. So I just kinda get her facebook and put my number in her phone. I don’t get her number.
I turn attention to the 5.5, who seems open to liking me, but I just think to myself about how much time I want to invest in a 5.5. So, again, I leave the table to circulate.
Return to Set 2:
I’m kind of hazy as to how I ended up on the dancefloor. But I know that I wasn’t dancing with the 7 at first, and I ended up dancing with her. And it was definitely grindy/sexy. She turned around to face me and put her hands on my shoulders, and then her chubby friend pulls her away. By now, Set 2 has grown to like 5 girls. I blink a few times…one of my friends tries to dance with the chubby girl, but she’s not having it. I’m wondering what the deal is. But who cares, I’m not going to linger on the dancefloor like a chode.
Set 3:
(5 beers in)
I approach this one girl, and instead of doing the party opener. I just go direct, like ‘hey, what’s going on over here?’ I must have totally telegraphed all intentions on the girl. She was like a 6.5, pretty cute. Anyway, she deployed full bitch shields. She said she was a lesbian, then she said she was there with one of the guys in her group. I actually turn and realize that there are three guys there with her. Inwardly I’m like ‘hahaha look at these white knight bitches.’ And so, anyway, one of the guys she says she’s there with (I totally don’t think it was true — however, I don’t know for sure lol). She gives me this icy stare, and I just kind of grin ‘man, that’s great…I just want to be friends. You seem so…..warm.’ Now, don’t get me wrong, she hated me right there…like, she was pissed. However, I feel like if I would have been able to say something, like a tension defuser, I would have completely won her and the table over. Alas, I was a mere mortal and had to eject shortly thereafter.
Return to Set 2 (still 5 beers in)
I see the 7 again, and I start talking to her. I’m like ‘hey, where’d you go on the dancefloor?’ Then little fat pink rushes in ‘SHE’S MARRIED.’ And I just blink, with a laugh ‘WHAT? I JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS. You know….’
I look at the 7 in the eye ‘…cuddle on the couch, and talk about feelings and shit.’ The 7 is like ‘yeah, you want to be friends, eh?’ I give a slight nod ‘the best of friends.’ Fat pepto bismol is quick to say that all of them are married. So I try to address the obstacles, but it’s kind of too late. I just say I want to be friends with them, blah blah blah blah.
My friend tries to help again with the obstacles. He talks to them for awhile, and they like him. However, during this time, I can’t find where the 7 is. Probably with some player. Mission failed.
Set 4:
(5.5 beers in)
A 6.5 and her little chubby friend are there by the bar. I stop them, using the party patrol opener. The 6.5 instantly seems to like me. She didn’t seem that drunk, but then again, I was already several beers in. So, I just decided to ignore her IOI’s because she could have been drunk. Positive interaction, I tease her, use the whole dreamgirl routine. Seems to go over well, then I focus on her friend for awhile. So, I got her number and everything…and then I just left. I probably talked to them for like 5 minutes. In retrospect, I don’t know why I didn’t stay. Needless to say, she flaked 😀
Set 5 (7 beers):
By now, I’m sloppy as shit. I only include this to be kind of funny. I walk over and talk to two girls. Opener is party patrol. They are…polite. Friend sits down, and we start talking to both. They’re like 6’s. They slowly start to warm — just a little. And then at this point, the other two girls in the Set appear. A 7 and a 5. The 7 is a raging bitch ‘you’re in my seat, get out of my seat NOW…we’re here together we don’t want you here.’ My friend leans back, stunned. Now, I realize that the 7 is an obstacle (didn’t know she existed, so now that’s what she is to me lol), so I try to address her. She ain’t havin’ it. The two original girls kind of shrug and are like ‘yeah maybe you guys should just go.’ So clearly whatever opening shit we did wasn’t effective/or they just weren’t having it. My friend ejects…and I move, allowing her to get into her seat. But I’m not done yet. It’s my full intention now to get blown out of this set. The 7 gets up out of her chair to talk to some chode, and I immediately sit down again. She turns around and I’m like ‘OH IS THIS YOUR SEAT…DAYUUUUUM!’ Twice, I’ve gotten a girl to just HATE me in a night. I’m not talking the apathetic ‘whatever dude.’ We’re talking ‘I want to kill you.’
Annnnnywayyyyys, I just ejected after that.
There was another set of Asian chicks who were into me, but I don’t count them because my friend said that they were like a 5 and a 4. And I was actually drunk by that point. So who cares.
Observations:
I definitely feel like I’m gaining status within the group. I mean, the equation just seems to be ‘do cool/bold/fun things…people like you more.’ I also don’t even care if someone says ‘that girl HATED you’ or whatever. Because in my mind I’m just like ‘yeah, who have you talked to cold…ever? You warm approaching pussy piece of shit.’ 😀
Speaking of that, a girl in my social circle that went on the trip did say that ‘yeah, it’s been cool getting to know you better. You’re actually a really cool guy, I mean, I’d date you.’ Now, in my mind I actually know that she knew me the exact same before now (we didn’t interact particularly much)…so, I mean…it just seems to be me starting to change.
I actually noticed that when a set is going well for me…for example, the 5.5 in the first set — I ran into her several times and had good times — I tend to just say ‘who cares, I want to challenge myself’ and immediately start looking for hotter/better girls.
I dunno what it is, but maybe it’s the combo of working out and adrenaline in the cold approaches, but it’s pretty cool. Like, I’m starting to build internal validation…taking more chances. Putting myself out there, so to speak. Mark and I know a natural who got into PUA to get even better, and what he said makes sense: “at first, people are going to hate on you for trying to improve yourself. But that’s good, because now it means you’re on their radar, and the reason you’re on your radar is because you -could- possibly surpass them or become cooler than them in some way. Even your best friends don’t tend to like this very much. So, expect lots of shit talking about game, and contradictory bullshit about what’s ‘organic’ and what’s ‘artificial.’ Then, people are going to grudgingly accept your success — maybe they’ll just attribute it to luck or whatever. But eventually, if you keep on with it, they’ll ask you for tips and accept it.’
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Good for you, Young Buck. You know of Game, you’re putting in mileage, and you’re going to the gym. Only a matter of time for you. (I’d suggest some MMA too. When you can choke most dudes out, it will show in your eyes and demeanor, then you won’t have to chase chicks as much since they will sense/smell your badassness)
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Is that possible? I mean, I’m 5’4. I have a hard time imagining MMA as this thing that allows a 5’4 man to learn how to choke the shit out of a 6’2 dude.
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Work on that!
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“Is that possible? I mean, I’m 5’4. I have a hard time imagining MMA as this thing that allows a 5’4 man to learn how to choke the shit out of a 6’2 dude.”
Ya lol It’s possible. I know some guys that if you met them you’d be like “this skinny little wirey guy knows how to fight? No way.” But they get in the ring and they’re like fucking spiders grappling. They can’t go blow for blow out-punching a bigger guy, but a lot of martial arts and fight training is based around strategy and body-mechanics, not strength.
Everyone knows Tyson’s knock-out power, but his defense was fucking solid and let him set up for those knock-out punches:
Taking MMA/boxing/martial arts/etc. up is cool, it helps build your confidence and give off an “I can handle myself” vibe, and it teaches you to be aware of signs of aggression etc. which helps you spot potentially dangerous situations in advance and avoid them or calm them down with social skills…
But it’s not something you NEED to do, because ideally you’re learning a skillset that makes you socially savvy enough to avoid fights entirely, to turn-around and befriend people who hate you (girls shit-testing you, guys who have a beef with you, etc.), and avoid or chill out situations that might get out of hand.
I’ve never had a guy actually take a swing at me, but I’ve been in potentially dangerous situations where the guy ALMOST takes a swing. It’s rare, but it happens by the nature of what I do (hitting on girls via cold-approach)…but the thing that’s saved me every time has been my social skill-set and understanding how to psychologically diffuse someone or socially intimidate them long enough to get away, not the McDojo Karate classes I took as a kid lol
But if it’s something that looks like fun and interesting to you, definitely check it out. It’s a good workout on top of confidence-building so it’d help your weight-loss goals too.
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What’s impressive about getting drunk, talking to stupid/ugly/boring people, and making women hate you? Boring and worthless as FUCK, every way you look at it– what a complete waste of flesh. Why bother wasting your life on cretins like this? What the fuck is the point? You would have been happier if you spent your money/time getting a massage or sexing up a hooker. Or, you know–God forbid–actually doing something interesting and productive like a real man would.
Yep. Hell IS other people.
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Lol, well if you don’t get it, then you don’t get it.
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Scray I think the biggest problem with everything is not your game but your height. Think about the way you write off chicks that are overweight- it’s the same for girls regarding your height.
My suggestion: Tighten up your appearance. Wear nicer clothes and if you can pull it off, rock a 5 o’clock shadow. Also invest in nice shoes- I wear expensive (not necessarily flashy) shoes and believe me, women notice.
Good shoes brands: Allen Edmonds, Tod’s, Ralph Lauren Purple Label, Church’s, etc.
Since you can’t DHV with your height- try it with your clothes AND your game.
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Scruff doesn’t look good on me. I’m constantly working on my fashion sense and trying to wear cooler clothes, so yeah…I’m with you, but you know, it’s a process just like going to the gym/losing weight/etc.
I don’t doubt that the biggest problem with everything is probably my height, but I can’t do anything about it lol. All I can do is try to make everything else as good as possible. So yeah, thx.
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“I don’t doubt that the biggest problem with everything is probably my height, but I can’t do anything about it lol. All I can do is try to make everything else as good as possible.”
Basically this lol The thing is you can overcome a lot of the drawbacks of your height when you understand how attraction really works and specifically WHY tall guys get attraction easier than short guys. When you can communicate the same things a tall guy does, your height will still probably shoot you down here and there, but you’ll be amazed at how little a difference it actually makes.
When PUAs get good, we start doing stuff like going out looking sloppy or wearing shitty clothes or basically sabotaging ourselves looks-wise or going for girls that most people would think wouldn’t be attracted to us and forcing ourselves to game like we normally would, so when we still end up getting good results, those reference experiences drill into our brain how little the superficial stuff matters.
That’s why I have the strong belief that looks are pretty much irrelevant. I have the experience to back it up first-hand, and I’ve met and seen enough different types of guys gaming in-field to have racked up tons of experience second and third-hand that they don’t really matter.
But the guys who don’t go out and don’t have those reference experiences will shout me down and call me brainwashed and all that shit. I know I can pretty much ignore those guys and write them off as Keyboard Jockeys because if you’re going out a lot and your game is solid and you meet and hang out with a variety of guys with game and see them running their game and even compete with them for fun, you come to the same conclusions I have and other PUAs have.
One of my favorite quotes from Tyler is that when he comes across cool guys with hot chicks, what’s the first thing he does? He tries to take the girls from him lol so he can see how the guy tools him and learn from it and learn to handle social pressure. That’s the mindset of someone who shatters limiting beliefs and learns first-hand “okay a skinny nasally-voiced pale 5’8″ balding ginger with ADD *CAN* take girls off these guys with solid game.” The Keyboard Jockeys would never have the balls to try that so they sit and circle-jerk about how important looks are lol
Do the best with what you’ve got, especially at the start, and sharpen your game from there.
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lol good attitude. You’ll meet a lot of guys like anon there. Sometimes they’ll even be friends or family members who try to talk you out of this because they just don’t get it.
You’re the only one who can look at yourself and go “you know what, I feel a lot better about myself than I did a couple months ago”. No one will ever be able to feel the progress you make the way you will. Trust your gut.
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What’s the point of that crusty old coccoon under the porch? It’s a necessarry stage for the butterly that comes forth.
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Noticeable gradual improvements in such a short time! Great work.
I’ll look forward to reading yareally’s comment on this but if I may say one thing; I think if you’re in this for the long run which seems like you are and that’s great fun, I’d say the alcohol will affect your health. You certainly don’t need it especially that you’re able to generate positive momentum from within yourself.
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For sure. I usually don’t drink when I’m out ‘to do this,’ but I was there with a lot of friends. If anything, over time, I think the alcohol gradually made me worse off.
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Alcohol “NEVER!!!!” “EVER!!!!” helps your game long-term. A single shot or a beer to “loosen your anxiety” is a slippery slope to drunkenly failing the close. Even if you have some extremely high tolerance for alcohol, girls aren’t turned on by watching you drink, so you’re better off working out that anxiety some other way.
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Here’s the breakdown, but I’m not going to go super in-depth into the actual interactions as the night goes on because you know you were just being “a drunk guy” at that point and not “a guy working on his game” lol Got some mindset advice for ya though.
From the start:
“Nothing much this week, but I did get out there and made a point of talking to randoms.”
Good stuff, that’s a victory, all this little shit counts. Even just putting on pants and leaving the house with the INTENTION to approach counts because it builds the habit of “putting on pants and leaving the house with the intention to approach”. It’s like going to the gym consistently. If you hurt your arm or something, you can still go, you just don’t work out those muscles or take it really easy on them…it’s more important that you went, even if you took it easy, than it is that you lifted the heaviest weight there.
When I was going out 4-6 nights a week, often 2 or 3 of the nights would be just opening a couple sets or even just wandering around chatting with a bartender or two or chat with some dude sitting on the stool beside me in a pub, or chatting up a store clerk at the mall. It wasn’t a crazy shit-show every night. Tyler goes out for like 20-60 min during the week, then has his big nights on the weekend. The reason that just going out and opening a set or two and going home counts is because aside from opening, you’re building all these other good habits of “getting used to going out so it’s not a big deal to do it” and “getting into the mindset of going out to approach people” and visualizing yourself approaching and forcing yourself through the initial approach anxiety of the day/night etc.
“Mark is like”
Just a heads-up, if you’re using real names switch ’em to fake names. You don’t want friends and family and girls in the future stumbling across your Field Reports. A few of us have had that happen and it doesn’t end pretty lol
“My first legit mixed set. I realize that the bar is going to have a mustache party later, so my opener is just ‘I don’t see any mustaches here — I don’t know if you know this, but I’m the party patrol. The bar hired me to check up on people like you…’ They like it.”
Congrats on your first mixed set, and that was a solid Opener. You’re good at coming up with situational stuff. Mix that in with the hairdresser etc. stuff you’ve got going and you’ll start dominating the Open.
“For now, I just spend time talking to the middle-aged woman and the guy.”
Good, for a set like that where you’re not really trying to bone any of them and it’s early in the night and it’s a mixed set, just be chill and fun and friendly. Then you can use them as a base camp to return to later in the night. A lot of times, you’ll find that the unreceptiveness of some of the people in the group is because they figure being in a bar you have ulterior motives to talking to them because it’s such an unusual thing to happen (almost no one legit cold approaches people without a motive) so they’re trying to figure out what the trick is…so if you hold the frame that you’re just socializing and you like to make new friends and all that shit, your frame will eventually win and they’ll chill out and warm up to you.
“I’m like ‘what’s up, Luigi?’ She stares at me for a second, and is like ‘you’re cut off.’”
lol. I cut girls off all the time. It’s one of my go-to teases. If they say/do something strange I’ll put my hand over the rim of their glass or if we’re sitting I’ll blatantly slowly drag their glass away like “ooookay that’s enough alcohol for you.” and tell them they’re cut off. Works extra great when they’re sober.
“she ends up drawing a mustache on my face. I figured that could be some sort of DHV in front of the set.”
Yup, and to your buddies and future girls you open etc. when you come back with a moustache and it’s like “oh the waitress drew this on me.” Plus it’s fun and puts you in a good mood.
“However, lest I start falling into dancing monkey status, I leave (I decide to make the set a homebase).”
Good stuff, it’s early in the night, they’re a mixed set, you have friends there, and the set went decent, you don’t need to crash it all night. They’ll remember you the rest of the night and you can re-open.
So far all you’ve done is spread value and good vibes to people. You’re being a “value-giver” instead of a “value-taker” (which is what most guys are). A good PUA basically makes everyone around him feel good and glad they met him and pumps up their night with good vibes. I’ll chat up dudes on Death Row just to get them feeling more comfortable at the bar and introduce them to random girls that pass us etc…for me I’m just fucking around, for them it’s the best night of their lives and a great story to tell people later.
You’re actually sort of running Short-Set Method, which is basically early in the night, going group to group and dropping little comments and having little mini-interactions and moving on, with the intention of re-opening later on. This is a great way to build up social proof and shake off the cobwebs of socializing and get in the groove.
As a short guy, coming off like you know a lot of people is powerful for you, because it displays pre-selection and social dominance that girls assume a tall guy has by default just because he’s tall. People have no idea how deep social connections go, they always assume they’re really deep. So when you walk past a group you’ve only chatted with for a couple minutes, and cheers them and they remember you, to anyone watching they just assume you’ve known those people for years. It’s like when you see a guy and a girl together at a bar, you rarely think “oh they’ve just met”, it’s always “oh that must be her boyfriend” lol Other people do the same thing, and you can use that to your advantage.
On some nights I’ve had girls ask me if I’m the owner of the club because they see me talking to everyone and everyone SEEMS to know me…but what they don’t realize because they got there at 11pm is that I was chatting those people up at 9pm. 🙂
Here’s some old-school Tyler writing on Short-Set Method:
http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/cat/Start_PU/Approach/117.html
A lot of guys will be like “ohhh that’s just playing a numbers game” because they don’t go out and still have the James Bond fantasy of leaning against the bar all night only talking to the hottest woman in the bar and then taking her home and they view socializing as work and suffering instead of fun. Short-Set isn’t about trying to fuck all these people, it’s about building social momentum, getting around resistance from groups by being a generally social guy, and building social-proof and pre-selection so that when you DO see a girl you want, you’ve already laid a solid framework in the room that will help you when you approach and attempt to pickup “for real”.
“The 7 seems warmer than her friend (chubby, in a pink shirt).”
Like I say, you should be approaching really hot chicks. They’re going to be more receptive to you than the <6's because the <6's think "oh a short guy, obviously he thinks he can get me because he thinks I'm desperate enough to go for him and he has no other options" whereas a 7+ thinks "fuck, this short guy shouldn't be approaching me, that tall 6-packed James Bond over there won't approach me, why is he so ballsy?? He must have something going for him to be so confident!"
Also 9s and 10s are generally more socially savvy than lesser chicks, because they're used to high-value people interacting with eachother. The 5 is just bitter and angry at the world and she can be a piece of shit human being and she wallows in that identity…but a 9+ is like "Hey, I'm a social confident person, and so is this person approaching me, let's have a fun interaction." It's kind of a mind-fuck at first, but imagine the difference between a President or a celebrity VS some angry bitter nerd who lives in his computer room…the higher-value person has been groomed by circumstance to be a socially competant person.
"I don’t do anything beyond the opener (I’m not going to force conversation). I leave on a good note, figuring maybe I’ll get at them later."
All good, you're just putting yourself on the radar. With these lukewarm sets, sometimes they'll stay lukewarm and you won't ever talk to them again, but often later in the night, after a bunch of lame-ass guys have approached them, they'll be way more receptive to you because they'll remember you as the guy who came by, said something fun (offered value), then left them alone instead of hounding them like a desperate creeper (taking value)…so compared to the other guys they've run into all night, you seem like an awesome guy.
The key is that when you re-open them later in the night, re-open COMPLETELY OBLIVIOUS to the fact that they were lukewarm before. Like, in your mind that went amazing and of COURSE they'd be happy to talk to you again. VS going up thinking "oh man they didn't like me before…they probably still won't, so I have a lot of work to do". Like go in with that mindset of "Sure they were lukewarm before but man all these lame guys here make me look awesome and I'm going to be like an oasis in the fucking desert for them, saving them from that shit. :)"
"I’ve grown pretty fond of saying shit like ‘you’re my dreamgirl’ or ‘I think I just fell in love with you, so here’s what we’re going to do….’ with a kind of smirk."
This is solid stuff, especially if you like saying it (that's the main thing). All I would add to it is to qualify them when you do it so that they feel like ya, you're exaggerating and silly, but you're genuinely into them for a reason (vs no reason at all or just because they have tits).
So the "I think I just fell in love with you" would come after asking "Can you cook?" or "What do you think about Blah?" or even a statement/cold-read like "You're funny, most girls can't make me laugh, I'm impressed…I think I just fell in love with you."
Remember, pick something that isn't their physical appearance.
"‘what? you don’t even know me. I could be crazy.’"
Generally you'll get this response because she doesn't know why you're in love with her, like you haven't qualified her either at all, or enough to justify being into her in her mind. An ugly girl will take a ton of convincing to believe a cool guy is into her…it's like back in junior high or whatever when a girl says "you're cute" and you automatically think "she must just be fucking with me, whatever" and dismiss it. On the flip side a hot girl will take a ton of convincing to believe that a cool guy is into her for reasons besides her looks.
So try throwing some qualification in there. You could add it to your hairdresser routine…like "oh, you're not a hairdresser, I just assumed because your hair is all done up and you have a sexy style. I love girls with a good fashion sense, you could be my dream girl."
Come up with something that's congruent to you, and then qualify girls to see if they have it. …or lie. lol
"I look at her for a few seconds, ‘ohhh….you’re crazy? That sucks, I guess I was wrong.’ She laughs ‘no, I’m just saying.’"
Good save. You're doing push/pull, disqualifying her, which instinctively makes her say "no……I'm just saying." This is actually an Indicator of Interest. Subtle, right? A girl who wasn't attracted at all wouldn't qualify herself, she'd go "Ya, I'm crazy, you should leave." This one is actually qualifying herself because there's a little spark of attraction that you could fan up into a flame if you wanted to. This is how subtle this stuff can get sometimes…a lot of Naturals and good PUAs are just really adept at reading these signals in the moment and fanning the spark into a flame.
"I nod slowly…’what -are- you saying, exactly? You’re starting to freak me out.’ I say it with a chuckle, and she laughs."
Good stuff, you could theoretically fuck this chick. Like, logistics might not allow it and there are a thousand places you could fuck it up or the universe could fuck it up, BUT the potential is there.
"she drops the bomb that she has a daughter."
lol I fear for the next gen of guys. Finding women, even young ones in their prime, who DON'T have at least one kid is going to be like finding a needle in a haystack. It's pretty depressing. 😦 Personally it doesn't bother me much because I'm only looking to fuck, not start a relationship. It makes it more difficult to meet up with them (they have to schedule us hooking up aronud getting a babysitter etc.) and I'm more paranoid that they're looking for a baby daddy lol Also I never ever ever ever ever meet the kids.
"I lose interest. So I just kinda get her facebook and put my number in her phone. I don’t get her number."
Remember that just because you get a number or a Facebook doesn't mean you have to txt her or add her to Facebook. 🙂 I have a buddy who literally won't add ugly chicks to his FB, only smokin' hot ones lol The social proof on his Facebook page ALONE gets him laid.
Don't feel guilty or bad about it, girls do it ALLLLLL the fucking time. Give out their number and then don't answer, or give out fake numbers, etc. You're not hurting her feelings at all if you go for the number and then don't call/txt or add her to FB. Quite frankly, adding a chick you aren't into on your personal FB can be annoying because she can do stupid shit and fuck relationships up for you.
"I turn attention to the 5.5, who seems open to liking me, but I just think to myself about how much time I want to invest in a 5.5."
lol This is the difference between a guy working on his game and a Natural who just needs sex. A Natural will go for the easiest lay and stick to her like glue all night, convince himself she's hotter than she was, and leave with her and get the lay. A guy working on his game is like "ehhh, it's not even midnight, I can do better" and risk going home solo.
Neither option is "better" or "worse" so if you're jonesin', hey, go for it…but in terms of Game, you'll learn a lot more from opening a dozen hot girls in a night and getting blown out than you will be sitting in a corner with one average girl all night and getting laid.
When I started out I'd actually game girls and try to get them to leave the club with me, then as we got close to the door (so I knew I COULD take her out of there), I'd tell her I'd better not leave my friends and I'd ditch her and go find another girl and try to do the same thing with her. My Natural buddy with a super high sex drive will take an easy girl home before midnight and bang her, then show up back in the club before 1am looking for a hotter one lol
"I’m kind of hazy as to how I ended up on the dancefloor."
ahhh alcohol. 😀 Comments on drinking at the end of this, but don't worry I won't brow-beat you about it.
"and I ended up dancing with her."
This is actually the main problem with drinking and game. Everything becomes "I ended up on the dance floor" and "we ended up dancing" and "somehow we got back to my place"…when the important part, all those details of HOW you ended up doing those things, are lost to the blur of beer. You might perform absolute magic and take home a 10, but you won't remember how you did it and be able to duplicate it in the future. 🙂
"And it was definitely grindy/sexy. She turned around to face me and put her hands on my shoulders"
Like I say, sometimes those lukewarm sets become warm later in the night. 🙂
"and then her chubby friend pulls her away."
Understandable. She wasn't real receptive to you at the start, and you didn't stay in set long enough to "work the group" and get her to like you, so she cockblocks. This is just standard group theory playing out to it's logical conclusion. I'm sure I don't even have to tell you that if you had found a way to warm the pink shirt up, she would've let you dance with her friend. Game is logical that way.
"By now, Set 2 has grown to like 5 girls."
lol, I told you this happens. That's why it's fine to open up everyone and everything, even dudes and ugly girls…you never know which ones are going to suddenly have their girlfriends show up. I can't count the number of times I've passed up an easy open with an uggo or dude, where I know they would've been friendly to me if I had just said "hi" and shot the shit, and then 10 min later their smokin' hot turbo girlfriends show up and it turns out they're the ugly one of the group and I would have been in solid if I hadn't been anti-social and a value-taker ("I'm not going to talk to them, they're not good enough for me to spread good vibes and value to, wahhh wahhh"). lol
"I blink a few times…one of my friends tries to dance with the chubby girl, but she’s not having it. I’m wondering what the deal is."
She's just in a shit mood because no one's pumped her state and put her in a good mood. And her 7 friend is the one having fun dancing with a guy "AS USUAL", so anyone dancing with her is just "settling" in her mind…this actually comes back to qualifying, she knows that your buddy dancing with her is just him trying to get pussy…she hasn't done anything to "earn" his interest besides having tits like every other girl and seeming "easier" to him. So of course she's not havin' it.
If you had been able to warm her up earlier so she was receptive to you and letting you dance with her friend, and you accomplishment intro'ed your buddy, AND he had enough Game to spike her Buying Temperature and get her laughing and having fun and he qualified her so she thought he was into her because of her sense of humor or some shit…you guys probably could've taken the two of them home. Although the other 3 girls might've cockblocked lol (but sometimes they won't, older women will often be able to ditch their friends for a lay whereas younger ones will be over-protected). But like, if it had been just the two of them, that's how you would've wanted to play it out to both get laid. 🙂
"But who cares, I’m not going to linger on the dancefloor like a chode."
Good. Unless you can dance and LOVE dancing, don't dance by yourself on the dance floor, or with your buddy. I have dude-friends who LOVE dancing, like it's a hobby/passion of theirs and it's fun to them. They do it because they love it and not to get girls. THOSE guys can dance by themselves lol But if you're a normal dude who basically only dances with girls, bail on the dance floor if you're not with a girl.
Down the road when your frame is really strong, you'll find you can actually open on the dance floor as if it were a normal part of the bar, like not dancing at all just standing there and expecting the girl to talk to you, and she'll fall into your frame and stop dancing and start talking to you like you guys were standing in a corner instead of surrounded by people dancing. It's pretty funny. 🙂
"I feel like if I would have been able to say something, like a tension defuser, I would have completely won her and the table over."
You probably could have. Remember a bitch-shield really isn't a big deal. Look at it as an opportunity to demonstrate your value/personality. If you can handle her bitch-shield smoothly, you win her over, and often her whole group because they're like "ohhhh snap!! He owned our friend lol that's awesome" and they love you (the same way you tip your waitress more when she owns one of your buddies with a good zinger).
This'll come in time with experience.
"Then little fat pink rushes in ‘SHE’S MARRIED.’"
lol. This is PROBABLY true, but the 7 is into you enough that if you warm the pink one up, often they'll chalk it up to an "eat pray love" thing and the 7 can bang you and it "won't count". This is tough though, especially with 5 of them. With just 2 of them, it's easier, but with 5 even if the pink shirt would let it happen, that's 3 other "witnesses" to the crime that triggers their ASD.
If you could get the 7 alone (probably impossible at that point, Pink Shirt is watching her like a hawk I'm sure), you can use stuff like "No one will ever know, you'll never see me again." and go for the makeout and get it lol
My fav analogy from RSD on this goes like: Imagine your boss at work throws a party and it's full of supermodels. He says "if you don't have sex with any of these girls, I'll give you a million dollar bonus and a promotion to your dream job where you'll be paid more money than you can imagine for the rest of your life…all you have to do is not have sex with any of these girls." And then you go to the party and all the girls are throwing themselves at you, and they're all 100% your type of girl, gorgeous, fun, great personalities, etc. and they're all grabbing your cock as you walk by, cornering you, begging you to fuck them, rubbing their tits on your chest, begging for your dick…but you REALLY want that job, you can't do it, your boss is up on the balcony looking down watching you.
But then one of those girls pulls you behind a pillar where he can't see you and she says "He'll never know, trust me, he can't see you." and grabs your dick…at that point you're going to go "……fuck it, I'm in!!" and fuck her brains out lol
That's why isolation is important. 🙂
"And I just blink, with a laugh ‘WHAT? I JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS. You know….' I look at the 7 in the eye ‘…cuddle on the couch, and talk about feelings and shit.’ The 7 is like ‘yeah, you want to be friends, eh?’ I give a slight nod ‘the best of friends.’"
This is all SUPER solid. Again, you have great improvisational flirty shit when you're into it lol But this will all blow you out hardcore. You're basically dancing in front of the bank you want to rob going "I'mma roooooob youuuuu" while the cops are standing in front of the doors.
"Fat pepto bismol is quick to say that all of them are married."
Probably a lie, at least one of them is likely single or just has a boyfriend…but either way, it's completely irrelevant. Your thought process should be "Doesn't matter, I'm going to stick to the gameplan and act as if she's single" and her thought process is "I WILL SAY ANYTHING TO GET RID OF THIS GUY!!!" at this point.
"However, during this time, I can’t find where the 7 is. Probably with some player."
lol Pink Shirt was worked up into a shitty enough mood that she probably told her 7 friend "Let's go" and dragged her out of the bar. 7 friend can't say "no I want to stay to suck some dick" if she's married so she has to go along with it and just dream about you when she plays with herself that night lol
It's a dick move on my part, but often if I meet a girl I'm into but get cockblocked (by her friends or logistics etc.), I'll sabotage the set's mood SO bad and rile the cockblocks up SO hard that I know no other guy there is going to be able to get the girl I'm into that night, in hopes that I'll run into her in a few weeks elsewhere in the nightlife scene and get another chance. lol
"Mission failed."
Nah, you did decent working with what the universe threw at you. A 5 set with your target married and her BFF being a major cockblock hater is fucking tough. The key thing to take away from it is that you DID get the 7 interested in you and horny etc. Like you said you're just a mere mortal lol It's good that you tried that set, that's the kind of thing you learn a lot from…in the future when you run into a 2-set where the BFF is a little lukewarm and your target is single, you'll be like "pffft fuck, this is EASY compared to that other shit I did."
"In retrospect, I don’t know why I didn’t stay. Needless to say, she flaked :D"
lol You could've just stuck with her and introduced your buddy to her chubby friend and probably taken her home.
You have to remember your environment changes logistics though…like you're in a ski town full of people just there for the night probably. So logically those two girls probably have a hotel room together, which means you need a buddy for her friend VS in a normal city where they might both be locals and can go home separately so you can steal her away or send her friend home early. Also the girls partying on vacation are looking to get laid, not keep in touch via txt (unless you build a really deep connection and shit, I've done it but I hate keeping in touch with a girl I know I'm not going to see for like a year lol), so in that environment it's better to go for the escalation and pull instead of a phone number that will likely flake because, well, they want cock not a txt (they aren't thinking "well he can txt me at 2am and come over").
No comment on your last two sets there lol That was just drunk shit. 🙂
"I mean, the equation just seems to be ‘do cool/bold/fun things…people like you more.’"
Pretty much lol There are actually a bunch of psychological things behind this. Like when you do something cool/bold/fun, even if it goes bad and the girls hate you or whatever, you're setting the precedent of "tonight, it's okay for us to all do crazy shit, look I just made an ass out of myself, so now you have permission to make an ass out of yourself and do stuff you wouldn't normally do". It's like when someone brings a box of donuts to the office…as soon as one person takes one, everyone else feels like they have permission to.
That's often the role I play in my group, depending on the type of guys I'm out with. I'll say "Well, I'm going to go make an ass out of myself, brb" and go approach some chick and get shot down and come back and say "wow, she hated me, I said I wanted to do her in the bum and then never call her again. How did that NOT work? :D" and laugh it off and instantly the rest of my group is like "well we can't do worse than YaReally just did, okay let's have fun" and from there we all have a fun night.
If I DON'T do the intial approach and get the ball rolling, we'll stand there in our "chode crystal" (circle of dudes facing eachother pretending to talk to eachother but scanning the room for hot girls, often with our drinks up at our chest, looking like the least fun and most intimidated guys in the universe lol) for an hour+ until one of the other guys gets drunk enough to sloppily approach something.
EMBRACE this role. Look at it like "I am the only one with the balls and skills to get the ball rolling on our night, and even though these guys have NO IDEA that I'm the reason they're going to loosen up and have a fun night, maybe even the greatest night of their lives, I'm going to get the party started because I'm "THAT" guy."
I've turned clubs, parties, etc. from low-key "everyone is socially nervous and pretentious and scared to embarrass themselves and interact with eachother so they stick to their social groups and the dance floor is empty" situations (like how a club is around 9-10pm) to epic parties with this mindset of just going up and forcing people to socialize and interact and dragging groups of girls to the dance floor and introducing random guys and girls etc. Once I start the ball rolling, everyone gets permission to have fun, and the vibe in the party suddenly changes.
Here's a great demonstration of it that I just remembered:
Note that if that guy hadn't had the balls to ignore social pressure and embarrass himself and risk social judgement, and that second guy hadn't decided "I'm going to support this dude and join him" (this is the role your chode-crystal friends will play after you get the ball rolling, or the role of girls you drag to the dance floor, etc.), that festival would have stayed a sit-down boring listening festival.
But because he put himself out there and gave everyone else permission to do the same…well, you can see the result. 🙂
You can BE that guy, and do it through the conscious socially savvy intentional execution of a proven social strategy. I know because I've been him myself. It's a rush to look around at a party and know "I made this happen." It's like this scene from Project X on the roof:
Where it's almost a moment of silence as you look around at the chaos and realize "*I* did this…wow."
This is why guys who look at pickup as just "you should be chill James Bond and lean against the bar and just wait for the hottest girl in the bar to see your custom-made suit and approach you and sneak off with her into the shadows" are limiting themselves. They don't see the potential social power this skillset gives you…they don't see the bigger picture and the wider scope of what being good at this stuff can allow you to do. You can live nights that other people can't even dream of…like you can't even tell them about your night because it's so outside of their reality that someone could have a night like that outside of a scripted Hollywood movie.
At that point you start to look around at the people around you and you can SEE how stifled they are and how trapped they are by their own insecurities and egos, and in a way you feel bad for them. From there you start to realize that when you approach a set, you ARE giving them value, whether it goes well or not, you're helping them escape from their social prison. You're unlocking the gate and saying "Hey, it's okay to be free tonight. Love me, hate me, just feel and express SOMETHING."
Sorry, that went into more "woo-woo" shit than I meant to lol It's an important topic to me.
"I also don’t even care if someone says ‘that girl HATED you’ or whatever. Because in my mind I’m just like ‘yeah, who have you talked to cold…ever? You warm approaching pussy piece of shit.’ :D"
lol keep that mindset. 🙂 Hell, it's funny when a girl hates you. Sometimes I'll try to get slapped just for fun. Nothing that happens in a bar should be taken seriously…that's why I don't get into fights, there's just nothing in a bar that's that epic and life-changing that I can get riled up about it. It's just a playground. Sometimes people take things too seriously, but I have the social skills to chill them out about it and my frame of "nahhh, this really isn't that big a deal" is strong enough that pretty much everyone caves to it. And if they don't, cool, I leave. No biggie, I can go to a bar up the street or I'll be out tomorrow night chatting up some more chicks and having more adventures so who cares?
For most guys rejection is devestating, because they only cold-approach ONE girl in like, MONTHS of going out. But when you foster the mindset of abundance and realize that you can cold-approach every girl in the room every single night out if you want, you just don't attach as much importance to rejections and you'll find yourself doing stuff like getting shot down and immediately turning to the girls beside that girl and going "wow that girl shot me down like crazy, I need a hug" and they'll love you lol I'll often use rejections and awkward moments that happened as openers or improvised routines/stories in set…"wow I'm glad you laughed at that, this other girl slapped me earlier! She was SO mad lol"
"‘yeah, it’s been cool getting to know you better. You’re actually a really cool guy, I mean, I’d date you.’ Now, in my mind I actually know that she knew me the exact same before now (we didn’t interact particularly much)…so, I mean…it just seems to be me starting to change."
Yup. 🙂 Tyler likes to tell the story, and it gels with my own experience, that especially in the initial few years of learning this stuff, if people in your social circle don't see you for a couple months, when they run into you again they're often like "wow, you're so different" or "you've changed so much" and they mean it as a compliment.
Note, again, that you haven't grown 2 feet taller. Physically you're the same dude you were when you felt like you were the tag-along guy of the group and 5s were sneering at you on the dance floor…all you've done since then is stopped holding back your personality and embraced expressing yourself, and consciously learned how to express your personality in an optimal way. And you will improve a thousand times more than you have so far…you can't even imagine what you'll be like in a few years.
A few YEARS. I mean, ya, all the nights out where not much happens or you get shot down suck, but man, imagine, if you spend a couple years of your life doing this (and it's not even torture, a lot of the time it's just fun and having little adventures and gaining stories and experiences), you could spend the entire rest of your life on a path that a couple years ago you probably thought was just for "other guys". It's like working out. Sure you aren't going to lose 50lbs and gain a bunch of muscles from a week of working out…but if you plug away at the gym, hitting it consistently and making little tiny improvements…over a couple of years you can transform your body into something you never imagined possible as a fatty-fat.
This is just working your social muscles. 🙂 I literally can't even relate to my old self, like the mindsets and outlooks I had and the vision I had for my life and future and potential and all that…it's like talking about some other person entirely. I'm actually thankful for the shit I went through with all the lonely nights in my teens/early-adulthood and the bad acne I had for most of my life etc., because as much as that shit sucked, it helped me hit rock-bottom enough to find pickup and start this journey to being way more socially adept than I ever would've been if I had had an easier life.
"I actually noticed that when a set is going well for me…for example, the 5.5 in the first set — I ran into her several times and had good times — I tend to just say ‘who cares, I want to challenge myself’ and immediately start looking for hotter/better girls."
You're probably a Thrill of the Hunt guy:
http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php?2541-Thrill-of-the-Hunt-men-vs-Pleasure-of-Sex-men
I'm the same way. I'll pass up an easy lay with an average girl to get shot down by a hotter girl. I'd rather go months without getting laid and then bang a 9-10 than get laid by 5s every night. This is part of why I tend to focus on fuckbuddy relationships…when I bang a girl, she's hot, fun, good in bed etc. because I've screened out and passed up the girls who weren't, so of course I want to keep her around as an ongoing lay.
If I fuck an average/shitty chick, I'll bust a nut and then be like "ughhh I regret this entirely" and be looking at the clock hoping she leaves soon and then go "ahh shit" when she txts me wanting to hook up again the next week lol Whereas my high sex drive Pleasure of Sex Natural buddy will bang her every night of the week and brag about getting laid all the time because he just loves sex, doesn't matter what she looks like (within reason, although some drunk nights…….lol).
"“at first, people are going to hate on you for trying to improve yourself. But that’s good, because now it means you’re on their radar, and the reason you’re on your radar is because you -could- possibly surpass them or become cooler than them in some way. Even your best friends don’t tend to like this very much. So, expect lots of shit talking about game, and contradictory bullshit about what’s ‘organic’ and what’s ‘artificial.’ Then, people are going to grudgingly accept your success — maybe they’ll just attribute it to luck or whatever. But eventually, if you keep on with it, they’ll ask you for tips and accept it.’"
This is DEAD-ON. That guy is speaking from experience. I went through the exact same thing. Crabs in a bucket and all that. I got hate on like crazy from some friends who wouldn't accept that I was breaking out of the social role they felt I should stay in…but eventually the strongest frame wins and they came to accept that this is who I am now.
When you change yourself, it forces other people to look at themselves and go "fuck, I need him to stop improving himself because if HE can do it, that means I could do it, but I'm not doing it so either I'm lazy or incompetant and his improving himself is forcing me to acknowledge that and that makes me feel bad so I need to sabotage him so I can feel better about choosing to be mediocre and live a mundane life." Fat girls who get in shape but have fat friends run into the same thing…their fat friends will shit on them and try to sabotage them and talk shit because their friend getting in shape means they could do the same but forces them to acknowledge that they don't have the willpower and determination that their friend has.
Like the Ghandi quote goes: "First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, and then you win."
Anyway, good stuff all around. On the subject of alcohol, here are two things to consider:
1) It's okay to drink, the same way it's okay to eat McDonald's. Just understand that, if you get drunk, you're going to hamper yourself at learning Game, the same way if you eat McDonald's and go over your calories for the day, you're going to hamper yourself at losing weight. You can make up for it, and having cheat days now and then won't revert you back to AFC or make you suddenly become 300lbs, but just handle it responsibly.
Your friends will want you to come out and party a bunch, and for THEM, partying means getting drunk, because that's how most people loosen up and and block out their fear of social judgement and pressure, by drinking enough to shut their brain down so they can access that part of their personality that you're learning to access sober. So now and then, like on a ski-trip, you're going to want to get drunk with them and have a drinking night, the same way if your friends went out for dinner at an unhealthy place and wanted you to come, you'd probably rather go instead of be like "oh I have to stay home and eat celery sorry". But when you go, you know eating that food means you're going to be slow and lethargic and probably too tired to hit the gym that night, and when you go get drunk you know that you can pretty much chalk that night off in terms of sharpening your Game skills.
Just make sure that the majority of the time, you're working on Gaming sober, the same way you'd make sure that the majority of the time, you're eating healthy…otherwise you'll fall off track on achieving your goals and it's hard to get the momentum going again.
Jackie Chan said something like "I can eat ice cream and donuts, it just means that the next day I have to do more stairmaster" lol Look at this the same way…if you go have a shit-faced night, promise yourself that you'll have a sober night where you open an extra few sets.
2) THE HOTTEST GIRLS IN THE BAR DON'T GET SHIT-FACED. This blew my mind when I realized it lol Pay attention when you're out and watch how much girls drink. You'll find two things about the 9s and 10s…1) they don't get shit-faced, and 2) they'll often only be there for a couple hours and leave long before 2am. Those girls are so turbo hot that they know everyone is watching them and for the sake of their reputations they can't afford to get hammered and throw up in the bathroom or have some sloppy makeout with an ugly dude on the dance floor and look like a slutty whore, because people will remember them and they're often building a reputation in the nightlife where they can get access to better social scenes and parties and higher-value social circles and men, so they basically just come in, make an appearance, have a couple drinks, dance and get their validation high, and then bail before they do anything stupid.
So if you've ever been sober while your buddy was shitfaced and seen how that looks first-hand, THAT'S what you look like approaching those girls drunk lol If you're drunk too, you can't really tell how drunk your buddy is…but when you're stone-cold sober (AND worried about causing a bad scene or being embarrassed because that's what 10s are worried about), your buddy even a little tipsy, has a big neon "I'M DRUNK AND OBNOXIOUS AND GOING TO EMBARRASS YOU" sign over his head.
The less hot girls will get shit-faced, and there's a certain subset of 9s who aren't quite 10s and are resentful of that and don't understand what makes a girl a 10 so they try to make up for it by being as drunk and slutty as possible (but usually these girls are massive insecurity-cases and drama etc.).
But the smokin hot turbos that turn every guy in the room's head, generally stay pretty sober. So when your buddy is trying to get you drunk, he's actually unknowingly sabotaging your chances with the hottest girls in the room. He has no idea because to him those girls are untouchable and he could never have a chance with them, so it doesn't matter if he's drunk because he will never approach them in a million years…but you're the guy learning the skills TO approach AND GET those girls. You're playing a completely different game than your drunk buddy is when you go to the bar. 🙂
Here's an energetic short speech by Julien about it:
In conclusion: Good on you for going out. Now do it again. 😉 Re-read my last FR analysis about introducing sexual stuff to your interactions and try applying it. Also add qualifying to your "I love you" stuff. See how that stuff changes your interactions this weekend! Have fun!
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Scray, you are one lucky Mofo to be getting that kind of detailed feedback. Run with it!
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@Heartiste: Could you do a post on the probable profile of women who comment on sites like this — sites meant to help dudes score, and defeat feminism? I’m wondering why I’m seeing some female commenters expending so much energy in the comment section. For example, who cares if a few dudes are against the Js. Why try to fix the internet one comment at a time – on a site for dudes – when you’re a female? I’m trying to understand this. No Fn way I’d be spending time at ANY site geared towards the betterment of females.
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She isn’t hot enough to pass around.
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Ive fucked worst she’d be kind of an improvement LULZ
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Top video of youtube at the moment the are you single pick up,warning do not try this on single moms lululz
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Dam it!! forgot the link.
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You know what fat yentas like in the pic prefer?
RAPE!!!!!!
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“Ms. Webb used math and analytics to narrow the field of the Internet dating game.”
He’s a fat bald beta rich jewish pushover = Divorce Rape Success
I should have become a mathematician.
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For the record, I don’t believe this woman’s story one bit. It’s full of shit. She didn’t meet her beta man because she learned some techniques form the popular girls. He looks like the kind of man that would have paid attention to her either way. Had she caught an alpha, I would have said, yes her technique worked. However, for the kind of man she caught, a girl doesn’t need to have any smooth moves, if you know what I mean. WSJ needed an excuse to write a piece about marriage, and she came up with this idea, which might have been what she did or didn’t do, but which wasn’t necessarily what caught her life fish. People here need to learn how to analyze info instead of coming up with demented anti-S conspiracy theories.
Who said he is even rich? Are all J rich? I know many that aren’t. If you call middle-class rich, maybe you live in a trailer?
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The easiest line to utter in a breakup jam.
HER: Where are you going!!!???
HIM:….
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I don’t usually comment here, but I absolutely had to refer you guys to this prime example of alpha maledom. Google “mcafee hot chicks” and click the first link that pops up. Its about software developer John Mcafee and his stable of hot Belize chicks. Also a good example of how guys with severe game avoid “high-status”, careerist women like the plague.
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You’re like 3 months late dude.
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Although Unstable, this can be an energy source
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I think that they are actually both pretty good for one another. They both are equally unattractive and are at about the sample place on the left side of the attractiveness bell curve (~3/10).
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Given the obesity epidemic and the widespread low-class trash behavior, I’d say they are legit 4.5s.
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Nope. As he ages, his baldness won’t matter as much and he’ll start looking classier and more dignified. She’ll continue to hit the wall.
He could have done better. Now it’s all over since if he leaves he’ll be paying her sums most of us can’t even imagine.
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Where the hail were you and this blog oh saaaay mmm 10 -15 years ago!???? 😡
Well here is one glimmer of hope – I’m still pretty darn cute! 😛
Woot WOot! I’m 2 for 3 😎
RUT ROH!!! 😮
LOL seriously more and more young women would benefit from this very real advice. Unfortunatley, I didn’t get it till it was a bit too late, and oh well…. shit happens.
Not the end of the world, although its always best to start early for A LOT of things. If I could do things over again, I do a lot of things over, but once you bypass certain stages in life where you may not have accomplished what you wanted, you just gotta keep moving and going and making the most of life the best way you can.
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You’re right neecy. It’s not the end of the world, and your past experences certainly make you a better and wholesome woman. Don’t listen to fools who argue otherwise. You just have to believe and keep moving. Because as long as there’s hope, there’s life.
Besides, someone’s gotta take care of them cats.
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ATTA BOY! You’re finally getting it. You have just moved .009643 inches up off of my hateamofometer!!
But the last part you missed. My kitty passed away 3 weeks ago. 😦
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awww, that’s sad.
But how’s your other kitty doing?
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HEHEHEEE!!! 😈
Uhm she’s doing juuust fine ! 😀 😳 😉
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you don’t have to stay fat. here’s an uncomfortable yet comforting truth: it takes almost no effort to lose weight. it requires effort to remain fat. stop efforting food into your piehole. stop believing lies about it being impossible to lose weight. matter cannot be created or destroyed, but it can be piled into a mound. choose wisely.
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I think your off on this one, they are in their levels. Think poker. This to me is no different then a 10 dude pairing off with a 8 girl. They are fit for each other. Biomechanics is a buck nasty god of ugly truth and I think its one your forgetting. Ugly people fuck. Ugly people mate. Goblin legions are out there eating hamburgers and promoting oprah. They are needed to make this hell machine run. Participation in that hell machine SHOULD BE enticing.
We WANT people to use PoF to find a mate for tepid sex and over emotionalized single event memories.
People are unaware of the opportunity costs of the realm you are inviting them into. Don’t get me wrong, I very much enjoy being Poolside(tm) but imagine beta herbly there. Can he really hack it against us? No.
You have to think long term. If you can’t frame what you like to do well, your going to be mismatched in life. And remember your goal is not _THE GOAL_ ™. This is the same style argument feminists are gunning people down in the streets with.
One of the funny things I am thankful for is you DON’T understand this dynamic or simply refuse to accept it because you are confident it is beneath you. You remind me of my dad when he used to beat cheaters in pool by playing straight anyways.
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“If you can’t frame what you like to do well, your going to be mismatched in life.”
If you have to frame you are best suited with ONS only because your true self will get in your way sooner or later.
Hope remains that even the framer will one day grow a little and actualy starts living his frame. At this point he may consider a LTR with a real woman, whos worth his time.
The only hope the beta-born has to improve. Way better than nothing or having to settle for something like the picture above, or even worse. In the right cloths she may still be a 5 after all.
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Here is something I said above that got caught in moderation:
Nope. As he ages, his baldness won’t matter as much and he’ll start looking classier and more dignified. She’ll continue to hit the wall.
He could have done better. Now it’s all over since if he leaves he’ll be paying her sums most of us can’t even imagine.
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Congrats to those ladies…you can ride the carousel, get fat, and then be “rewarded” in your 30s with your very own husband who couldn’t get a towel wet.
Too bad you’ll never experience the emotion of peace and happiness. I can tell you as a man, it’s a very good emotion.
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It took a couple for you to get to it but when I saw that picture I said out loud to myself what a chump.
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CH, this absolutely needs an extended treatment from the Chateau:
http://www.youtube.com/all_comments?v=wxWuREjuLAE
I’m talking of course about Owen of RSD’s latest youtube video, “Your Girlfriend Is A Raging Slut! How Does That Make You Feel?”
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Definitely needs its own critical analysis. Some gems contained within the 16minutes of chat, but holy fuck, some things even the best PUAs won’t agree with.
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Thanks for the blueprint and the pickup vids, Tyler.
And fuck you.
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@Holden and anon: EXACTLY why this needs to be discussed — long, hard, and deep. No seriously. What are the things that “even the best PUAs won’t agree with”? And anon, why “fuck you” to Owen? Spell it all out.
I just put a couple of comments on this vid over on Rooshv: Just see the comments for his recent post “It’s the Patriarchy’s Fault.” Roosh himself thinks Owen/Tyler is only joking. I’m not so sure.
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CH addressed the issue in “Why sluts make bad wives”. TD ignores the fact that the probability of divorce is only 25% or so when the woman is a virgin. And it shoots up to 50% when she had only one previous partner. And it’s downhill from there.
Anyway, a lot has been written on the subject in the manosphere, and there is some kind of a consensus. Last related piece I read is this one
http://dicipres.wordpress.com/2012/04/25/sluts-dont-deserve-to-be-loved/
Only the lefty new age cuckold fetishists over at RSD push guys to man up and marry or gf up a slut.
[Heartiste: Sluts are both a blessing and a curse. They are fast lays, and they are fast strays. Pick your poison.]
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She’s ugly and looks a lot older than 30
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Bill Burr on the epidemic of gold digging whores.
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Mazeltov!
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Women in their 30s will have no problem finding dates with the proper mates. Which are men in their 60s. Most women who complain about a lack of dates are looking for guys their own age. If they do find one their own age, it will be a simpering beta. And they’ll cuckhold them. Often with men in their 60s.
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Reading the match.com profiles of women aged 25 to 32 is part amusing and part horrifying. Pathetic drivel. free spirited, independent, like to have fun, like to travel blah blah. pathetic. any man who is intimidated by or afraid to talk to a woman is pathetic.
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