small tigs? check
narrow hips? check
lineman width? check
lantern chin? check
digit ratio for the manly win? check
Behold the modern American woman. All sass, all crass, no lass nor hourglass.
The woman above is a “pop singer” [SNORT] who, it will surprise no one, is a former Marine. She is standing in the classic pose that women with narrow, prepubescent boy hips stand in to accentuate what little curve they have (or to conceal unflattering straight lines). Like Madonna of yore, she’s built for sex work, piston-shaped and shredded for hours of androgynous pile driving. She does not have the appeal of a woman a man would want to invest his time and money into, or take home to mom. She has the appeal of a woman a man would blow out in a bathroom stall at 2AM.
What the hell is happening to American women? Is it something in the water? Too many splashy facials hardening them in soul and body? High fructose corn syrup? Man-shaped “alpha” women being preferentially genetically selected by plush herbschlingen? Epigenetic morphology alterations in response to environmental cues? The taut and tawny fruit of feminism?
Whatever it is, it doesn’t bode well for America. When women become like men, and men like women, the end days of a culture are nigh.
“She” looks like a damn trannie
Damn, I can’t even say rape to that picture.
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I’ll say it…… MAN RAPE!
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This looks like a job for thwack and Sweetheart Jason!
Go get ’em, closet-cases!
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Oh for God’s sake – after 4 or 5 cocktails, you’d fuck every orifice in her body.
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Well, I guess that certain of the orifices would be for Satan’s sake.
Trying not to be too blasphemous here.
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After four or five cocktails, I might also lose my phone or crash my car.
And I’d regret waking up to those fuckups too.
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Win!
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I thought it was a tranny too…
Actually, I’ve seen trannies that look more feminine than this chick =(
Sad panda ~
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Well what’s in the water is what is turning men into women.
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Probably hormones in the meat or milk- the agribusiness companies have been adding growth and other hormones to increase productivity. That also explains why girls hit puberty much earlier than they used to- as young as 10 these days. Of course there are hormones and hormones, and it would have to be T to produce this effect, or something that the body converts readily to T.
There’s also the feminized/androgynized education system, in which women are discouraged from formerly feminine pursuits like homemaking and encouraged to play sports (Title IX, etc.) and otherwise behave like boys. Over childhood and early adulthood, this might have more than a marginal effect on female bodies– but lots on the ‘tude.
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Hormones and antibiotics in meat are not good for us, and perhaps they are making women more masculine. Perhaps.
It is more likely that what is doing this to us is the amount of pheno-estrogens and xeno-estrogens in our diet now, which we never had in America 100 years ago.
What you are looking at in that photo is a white woman with an Asian woman’s body. This is probably due to her massive intake of soy lattes and the like.
Stop eating all soy products (pheno-) and avoid plastic containers for food (xeno-). This applies to both women and men.
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Duh. I got distracted by the reference to epigenetics and wrote “pheno” when I meant “phyto”.
I guess I need another soy latte.
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Wouldn’t estrogen and estrogen-derivatives have the opposite effect, though? Soy and plastic containers definitely add to that, which might explain the feminized herb phenomenon, but not the masculinized woman. I concede I don’t know enough about the actual hormones added to food- it was just a conjecture. Maybe the cocktail of hormones and additives we all get through food and elsewhere in the environment have a leveling effect- masculinzing women and feminizing men. Taking the edge and concentration off- lessening the role and proper level of the respective sex hormones. Again just a guess.
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The body has a negative feedback loop. Which means, when female body has enough “estrogen” floating around in the bloodstream, the metabolic pathways that make estrogens are downregulated, and the raw materials are used to make other hormones, testosterone being the main one. I’ll have to find a link on that, but think about what happens when male bodybuilders take too much testosterone–same thing happens in reverse, the body begins to make excess estrogens, and then they end up with “bitch titties”, or gynecomastia. The bodybuilding community has found ways around that, but it was a common steroid side effect 20 years ago.
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This.
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Right. The details are important but the negative feedback loop is what I was getting at. The question is why this has changed so much in recent decades- perhaps the growth hormones in all our food bias the “raw materials” available in the bloodstream for the production of those different hormones. But without hard data this is just conjecture. A link would be cool if you’ve seen some good info on this.
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Because now we have plastic, and we eat unfermented soy.
Soy:
http://www.westonaprice.org/soy-alert/myths-and-truths-about-soy
http://www.westonaprice.org/soy-alert/studies-showing-adverse-effects-of-isoflavones
Plastic.
http://www.westonaprice.org/environmental-toxins/timeline-of-endocrine-disruption-and-man-made-chemicals
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Maurice, I answered you, but it went into moderation limbo.
Go look for your answers on the Weston A. Price Foundation site, or if you think that source is not reliable, simply Google these things.
Soy, or more precisely unfermented soy, is poison. It acts on the body like estrogen, and causes digestive disruption, etc. The effects of certain petrochemicals on humans can be estrogen-like (hence “xeno-” estrogen), and the Price Foundation has a good timeline of studies of this.
I recommend to you and all that you go Primal/Paleo. It has helped me a lot.
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@RL: You sir win a cigar!
And, Shoulder-Wolves:
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… What you are looking at in that photo is a white woman with an Asian woman’s body….
Yet Asian women on average look more feminine than the woman above
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Because they don’t have that nose, and often have larger eyes, or rounder faces. In other words, Asian girls are “cute” because they look like children.
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So I am a pedophile because of my attraction to Asian women.
Who knew.
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Nope, didn’t say that.
Women all over the world look more like children than men, because this incites a “tending” effect in a male – ALL MALES.
It happens that Asians tend to have more of this in their adult females.
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Bioavailability of testosterone when administered orally (as with food) is very low. It may work with Testosterone Undecanoate in high doses, but I doubt this is what happens.
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Low doses, taken consistently through altered food through a girl’s entire childhood and adolescence, might have that effect.
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See: McDonald’s.
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That also explains why girls hit puberty much earlier than they used to- as young as 10 these days.
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No it doesn’t. The reason is because more children are nonwhite than ever before. Please stop with the white mental masturbation and over thinking.
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Do you know whether the effects of hormones in diet early in life can be reversed with proper eating during adulthood?
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It can, I am living proof.
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Haha, good on your for mentioning epigenetics. Most scientists don’t even know of the term.
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I looked it up while I was reading. I had first looked up herbschlingen, which is a great herb word construction for the purpose of the post, but actually a city in Germany. Then I looked up epigenetic, and found he used it correctly.
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I think he was looking for a derivative: “herb-schlongen” or: bastardized herb dick.
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Hm when i think about manly women – I have other pictures in my mind than her.
She is wearing a feminine dress, not a suit + tie.
She got heels not flip-flops nor combat boots.
She got her nails done and is using make-up.
So all in all I would give her 60%+ feminine at least.
Compare with this marine: http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2012/nov/25/few-female-marines-step-forward-for-infantry/?page=all
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A woman doesn’t get like that without lifting weights. Not attractive. Why don’t women just do cardio/aerobics instead of hanging out on the boys side of the gym…just nothing alluring/feminine there. What’s next…will the girls be seeing if they can pee farther than the guys?!
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Nonsense. You’re new here.
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Lifting weights is all good for women as long as they don’t do heavy weight low reps, and don’t juice up.
It takes years of heavy training to build muscles the natural way, especially for women. Light training sessions, with low/medium weights high reps is ideal for women who wanna stay tight and firm without bulking up.
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Exactly!
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Wrong. You have it backwards. How do you think most pro bodybuilders train? High reps (8-12+) with medium weight.
You want to be strong – lift heavy weight for low reps.
You want to be big and jacked – lift medium weight for high reps.
Now that doesn’t mean that if you’re training for size you can’t or shouldn’t utilize both but if you have to pick only one, and size is your primary goal, high reps and low-medium weight.
It is no different for women than men.
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There are different schools of thought, and endless debates on the bb forum.
Low rep (5-6) medium/high weight worked fine for me. When it comes to size, nothing matters more than increasing weight slowly over time.
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No, you have it wrong.
You do both. To be big and jacked you lift progressively more weight at low reps..even down to just one rep/most weight. Then in the same muscle group you lift medium weight/ high reps to flow blood into the muscles..breakdown and pump up.
I think a little bit of muscle on a woman is sexy. its not easy to build muscle. however the woman above looks like she is a bodybuilder…and with that masculine face shes fucked herself up..i would’ve bet money she was a man.
lady look like a dude.
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Bullshit on all of you!
You get jacked by shooting ‘roids and eating whole chickens.
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bullshit
nobody ever got “firmer” without lifting high weight low reps.
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Don’t look at the accessories, dress, nails , shoes etc
look at what is underneath
she looks like a man
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I object to calling these females marines. A man can be a marine. A woman, at best, is a marine-ess.
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Geez, what a whingefest! Gee, just as the minority of men are Alphas so too are the minority of women Alphas. It could be argued beautiful women are a minority because voluptuous women were much more likely to be seized and stolen by invading marauders whereas the ugly women were safe and sound.
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I dunno, she doesn’t look so bad. She gets points for long hair, high heels and shapely legs. The nose that could cut steak is not so good though.
Btw, I’ve been paying attention to digit ratios lately. Wow there really is a correlation. A young woman off-duty cop at sat next to me at the DMV. She had classic “softball girl” body — short, a bit thick, short hair, big boobs but cute face. We started talking. A minute after she told me she just got engaged she said “You are a very handsome man.” I snatched a glance at her ring finger and, behold, it was far longer than her index finger.
In a masculine profession? Short hair? Forward? Ring finger longer than index finger? Check, check, check and check.
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“I dunno, she doesn’t look so bad. She gets points for long hair, high heels and shapely legs. “
No, she is awful. She is trying to look feminine with props, but really, she is very masculine underneath. She really looks like a transvestite.
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OK, but I’m inclined to not be too mean, given the fact that she’s trying to do her best with what she has. The biggest sin is these tatoo-ed up land whales that were actually born pretty.
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I agree with that.
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The vulnerability behind the picture is actually making me weepy. I have to leave this thread…
lol estrogen
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lol Here’s a tissue, little oven 🙂
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I think Le Château has a fainting couch somewhere.
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I think it looks like this:
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“The biggest sin is these tattoo-ed up land whales that were actually born pretty.”
Church.
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I’m not trying to be mean either, but “if it looks like a duck, quack like a duck, and walks like a duck it must be a duck. “
I don’t know if indeed she wasn’t born pretty. She might have been more feminine in her heyday, but her lifestyle made this happen. This is the effects of aggressive weight training not suitable for women. I’m almost sure she wasn’t born this way.
In my gym there are a few broads looking like that. Very masculine and they train other women. There is a Russian chick there with tatts, piercings, streaks of red hair, and exact body type to this one in the picture; very masculine. She constantly eyes the hot men and tries to hit on them. These women are usually very aggressive. They aren’t feminists in the classic sense of feminism; they’re just aggressive.
Do men like aggressive women? What if she were hot, or is it irrelevant? I assume weak men like to be approached, so they don’t have to deal with rejection. But alphas or men sure of their sexual worth want to do the approaching and the getting, not to mention the choosing. It seems the more masculine a woman is, the more aggressive she is.
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“Do men like aggressive women?” It depends on what I’m looking for.
If I want a quick lay with an enthusiastic woman, absolutely. If for a long term relationship and/or the mother of my children, absolutely not.
For long term relationships I strongly prefer soft, feminine women who naturally slip into a pink sundress like Audrey Hepburn. In fact, I married one (was like finding a needle in a haystack).
Side note: Why does American culture value “you go grrrrrl!!” over the Audrey Hepburns of the world? It didn’t used to be this way.
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“For long term relationships I strongly prefer soft, feminine women who naturally slip into a pink sundress like Audrey Hepburn.”
That’s what I think most masculine males like – a feminine woman.
“Side note: Why does American culture value “you go grrrrrl!!” over the Audrey Hepburns of the world? It didn’t used to be this way.”
Very true. Audrey Hepburn is practically the days of yore. When was the last time we saw a woman as classy as Audrey Hepburn? 30-40 years ago? The “you go grrrrrl” is the new woman. Add the snarky and snort attitude, the tatts and sluttiness, and you have the newish woman which actually resembles a foul-mouthed drunken sailor.
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Yeah, well, it ain’t her body that’s so troublesome so much as the packaging. Just from what she’s wearing, D’Manti seems to be lacking(including but not limited to) some of the following;
Class
Style
Grace
Carriage
Presence
Upbringing
That dress is the tell-tale sign of a woman with low-self esteem and lack of personal development. You see, the more a woman advertizes her sexuality, she reveals that she has less to offer in other areas-intelligence, character, etc. In essence D’Manti’s dress declares to the world she’s overcompensating for lacking in every other area. That she’s showing off her body reveals that she’s spent way too much time working on her body while neglecting other areas-education, intelligence, personal development, virtue, etc. In essence, she’s the female version of a dumb jock. That might be fine for shyte’s & giggles in high school but once that period of life is past, well, you’re going to have to rely on other things to get by.
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As someone who served in the military years ago she losses a point for having served in the military. The double standard for women is a huge detriment to the readiness and effectiveness of the military, even when they were restricted too non-combat and shore duty. Ever have to train next to someone who got to do pushups on their knees and hang from a bar instead of do chin ups? I never met a woman in the military that I would have trusted to have my back when shtf. They were all of the category that if there was a combat situation they were an immediate handicap.
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The day I see a 130lb woman pull a slumped over 230lb Marine wearing his 90lb ruck and plate carrier out of a field of fire, I will be the first to say that I am wrong and that women should fight on the ground in combat. I won’t be holding my breath for that.
But it’s actually a worse state of affairs than that. If we posit that, of all of the volunteers that join the military, we have a certain percentage of those volunteers that can really fight and that the rest of them are best utilized as support personnel, and we then add a special class of volunteer (female) that can only be used for support roles, we crowd out the male volunteers for the non-combatant support roles and we potentially wind up with more soldiers on the ground as combatants that shouldn’t be actually doing the hand-to-hand, resulting in an overall reduction in our effectiveness/lethality.
It’s “Affirmative Action”, but this time with bullets flying. To say nothing of the “White Knighting” that some of these soliders would do for their female counterparts, which will get them killed.
We are literally playing politics with the lives of our brave. Which means we will over time have fewer brave, or fewer brave who are willing to join the military.
What could go wrong?
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“It’s “Affirmative Action”, but this time with bullets flying. To say nothing of the “White Knighting” that some of these soliders would do for their female counterparts, which will get them killed.”
I hope none of our soldiers risks his life to help save those women who shouldn’t have been there to being with. Let them get killed or get raped by the enemy. Serves them right. Once a few of them die horrifically or get gang raped, maybe fewer of them would get the itch to try out more affirmative action on the battle field. Sometimes, only tough love works for this nation.
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As someone who is currently serving in the military (but getting out, because I’d rather have a boyfriend than six cats and a collection of vibrators, like a lot of female officers I know), I couldn’t agree more, actually. I’ve met some tough military women, but then again, I know most of us can’t hack combat. The only way to make a woman functional in the military is to cut away everything in her that makes her female. It’s sad.
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I did a tour in Afghanistan. Was sent to support a small unit (as a satcom signal soldier) in Kabul and ended up driving up-armored SUVs. Essentially I was a gloried limo driver for Lt. Cols and embassy visitors.
Why? Because the dumb ass woman didn’t want to be there and got pregnant at the staging area in Kuwait by some goofball joe looking to bust a nut.
I never once met a woman in my 6 years in the Army that was worth a shit. Think its bad that they want to put them in combat? Try explaining satcom, networking and windows active directory to a girl who barely finished high school. God forbid you expect her to help lift the 75lb cases.
The military will be nothing but single mothers, felons and queers in a few years.
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The Chinese government reads this blog, and agrees.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2282249/The-leftover-women-China-defines-official-age-females-left-shelf-27.html
CH, you are now influencing the fate of nations.
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lolz
the chinese gubmint spreading truth. spot the irony in that one…
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China does what’s value. I’ll take that over any other nations line any day.
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Her problem is all the ab work has made her torso wider than her hips. A no-no for women. Ironically, by doing all those work-outs, she accomplished what she could have done by over eating. She just has a terrible ass to waist ratio, and that’s what’s giving her the tranny look, far more so than the muscle tone and angular jaw.
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That and the man feet. Sorry, that’s a guy!
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She doesn’t have the figure to pull off that dress. She should have chosen something else.
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Also, American women are on average more muscular and broader than women from other countries. I think it’s because of compulsory physical gym classes to be “equal to men” (retch) ;D
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Gym class has all but disappeared over the last few decades.
Most American women (and many men) are fat.
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But didn’t Michelle 0bama fix that?
“Let’s Move!”
If she had been talking about moving her out of the White House, I would have been there on Saturday with my overalls.
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Hormones in water, milk, meat, and plastics are partially responsible. Feminist culture is responsible for the rest. The irony is, athleic masculinized women like the one in the picture can fuck like animals. It’s often insane, athletic sex. One must wonder about the evolutionary implications of vigorous copulation, though the bulk (heh) of the population is too corpulent for the athletic population to have much of an effect on the gene pool.
Speaking of corpulence, your tweet linking to Guyenet’s article on paleo diet and carb levels. Guyenet mentions the Kitavans. The paleo diet is “carb agnostic” meaning that it can come with any level of carbs. See the Kitavans, an island culture who eats a high carb paleo diet. Their bodies are a little fluffy, especially the womenfolk, but they’re healthier by far than Americans.
The paleo diet works, not because it’s low glycemic (that can be helpful for some people some of the time), but its true beauty is that it’s low in substances that fuck up the leptin pathways. It’s all about the gut, and creating healthier GI tissue and flora.
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Look what I just found:
http://toy4her.wordpress.com/2011/04/09/why-i-cuckold-my-husband-a-testimony/
Jesus Christ.
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Stuff like this is why I will never ever again feel shame from a woman. In fact I don’t even know if I could feel anything ever again from the majority of them. With women, I’d just go full nihilist.
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And this is only going to get worse. Imagine what things are going to be like in ten years or so.
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Holy shit, read all the Beta boys in the comments (Or they’re feminists in disguise). Sickening.
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They are shells of masculinity.
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Cuckholdry is a weird sexual preference of some men. She wrote the article to get attention from those guys.
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Property or ownership is something that doesn’t exist in sluts or betas.
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I almost ripped this site off the internet. Pathetic, disgraceful woman.
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That woman is a monster. The fourth paragraph of her essay, in which she introduced the theme of humiliating her sexually frustrated husband with her own adultery, was so vile that I had to force myself to read the rest. It was the most cringe-inducing thing I’ve read in months.
The author apparently considers her adulterous sexual fulfillment a fringe benefit of degrading her husband. This twisted motivation is the opposite of what I always took to be the usual motivation for cheating. In every case I can think of involving people I know, the cheating partner stepped out because she yearned for a taste of strange, tried to keep her spurned lover out of the loop, and didn’t even discuss her cheating with him unless the shit hit the fan. I’ve seen this with women cheating on men, and vice versa. This woman isn’t a slut; she’s a depraved bitch on a power trip. Rarely does a common slut come close to rivaling her depravity.
However, as the vileness of her writing sinks in, I realize that it isn’t all that different from the wretched things that I’ve seen possessive acquaintances do to their lovers. The main difference is that the assholes I know try to act sub rosa, instead of laying it all out on the table like this cuckoldry fiend did. Their subtlety is arguably worse, since it makes it harder for their victims to articulate exactly what’s wrong. There’s no sanitizing the wrongness of a woman who brags about dehumanizing her pitiful supplicant of a husband; the electronic trail is damning.
In a way, I’d rather deal with an asshat like the author, who is evil but aboveboard, than with my ex-drinking buddy Junior Bear, a dark triad asshole who throws roadblock after roadblock after red herring in the path of anyone who challenges him. He can be a devious and petulant little shit, and that’s one of the reasons that I don’t have much to do with him these days. A few years ago, he and his parents flipped out at his then-girlfriend for cheating on him, yelling at her about how they’d shown her so much hospitality and even bought her a laptop. This girlfriend was the one who stuck by Junior Bear through his love triangles involving no fewer than three other women. She showed him (and his parents) a lot of constancy for someone who was being treated like an ex post facto downmarket whore.
I’d take a common slut, like Junior Bear’s ex-girlfriend was for a time, over an overbearing, entitled asshat.
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“Another belief was that the ancient Gods and Goddesses were androgynous, possessing the sex organs of both sexes, thus able to reproduce themselves. There are countless carvings, engravings, paintings, and statues depicting the ancient deities as hermaphroditic. Such figures have been discovered dating from the neolithic age in Spain, Yugoslavia, and elsewhere. A clay hermaphroditic idol was found in Yugoslavia and dated from the Bronze Age. The word itself is derived from Greek mythology: Hermaphroditus was a son of Hermes and Aphrodite, who while bathing became joined in one body with a nymph. There are many imaged of “bearded ladies,” including the Goddesses Diana and Isis as two examples. The Goddess Neith with a fully erect male organ, as was the Nordic Venus, Friga (Freya); Venus, Aphrodite, Baal, Mithras, Zeus, Adonis, Dionysus, and countless other deities were described and portrayed as androgynous.
In my book Black Magic, Satanism, and Voodoo, I wrote, “In the oldest records of India, China, Babylon, Egypt and Greece the first gods are represented as bisexual. The Greeks often depicted Apollo as both male and female. Bacchus was similarly described. Prochus commenting on the Timaeus of Plato says: ‘Jupiter (Zeus) is a man, Jupiter is an immortal maid.’ Citing further Orphic verse it mentions that all things are contained ‘in the womb of Jupiter.’
“In Cyprus, Venus, depicted as Aphrodite, sometimes had a beard! Diana or Artemis had characteristics of both sexes. Orpheus taught that since the gods possessed the generative powers to create all things, they were, of necessity, both male and female. Babylonian tradition described the first men as having one body and two heads. one male and one female. A Hindu scholar drew a figure of Brahma, during the act of creation, making him bisexual. The Babylonian God Tammuz was consecrated a Qedesha (Kedesha) which is a sacred prostitute (I Kings 19:24). Jahveh, the Hebrew God, is made up of Jah masculine and the second syllable from havvah, feminine. It comes from Yaw or Yah, the name of a prehistoric male-female moon-god venerated by South Arabian Semitic tribes. The Jews tagged on the feminine root making it Yahweh or Jahwah. The Christian Bible spells it as Jehovah because of an error in translation. The Books of Job and Isiah depict Jahwah as having the characteristics of both sexes.”
Also- what’s easier to control: “men” who have had the independence and spirit chemically neutered, or “women” who are aggressive in their obsession with materialism, sex, and submission to alphas and repression of betas?
The one will not resist domination and tryanny, while the other will actively support it.
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I would even go so far as to say:
The one will not resist domination and tryanny, while the other will actively support and enforce it.
Herbert rightly called this out in his Dune series, with the Bene Gesserit and the Honored Matres.
It is also, I believe, why most bureaucrats are fat minorities of all stripes, and “feminist” white womyn. They are excellent stock for doing the bidding of The Combine.
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“Jahveh, the Hebrew God, is made up of Jah masculine and the second syllable from havvah, feminine. It comes from Yaw or Yah, the name of a prehistoric male-female moon-god venerated by South Arabian Semitic tribes. The Jews tagged on the feminine root making it Yahweh or Jahwah. The Christian Bible spells it as Jehovah because of an error in translation. The Books of Job and Isiah depict Jahwah as having the characteristics of both sexes.”
Androgyny is indeed found in paganism, but not in Monotheism. The name of God in the Old Testament, Yahweh or Jehovah, is a translation for a word in Hebrew that can’t be pronounced because it’s an acronym of the three Hebrew words: past, present, and future, as in God is endless, infinite, and constrained by neither time nor space. It’s not a word that’s made of masculine and feminine sounds.
Furthermore, the Hebrews say God is pure energy, and he has no form, no likeness, and no sex, BUT he has masculine qualities with a little bit of feminine qualities, which is why he is often likened to a warier when he is saving his people, or a judge when he is punishing them, and then to a merciful mother when he forgives them. The idea being, that just as God can have both qualities in him and as such he is complete, man being in the image of God must embody both aspects as well. Therefore, even if a man is highly alpha, he can at times be tender and sweet to his children for instance. Showing some female qualities sometimes when appropriate makes a man a complete human being. And really, there is no such thing as totally alpha or totally beta. Most men have a mix of the two.
Another idea of this is that in order to be as complete as God is, we must marry so that we can express both aspects of the masculine and feminine through the joining with our partner in marriage. The union of male and female is tantamount to a God-like manifestation.
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An interesting discussion of this idea that the God in monotheism is really a masculine God with the right balance of male and female qualities, and He should be the standard for male masculinity:
http://articles.latimes.com/2005/jun/19/opinion/op-faith19
“Father’s Day provides a fine opportunity to talk about our Father in Heaven. Why do Judeo-Christian religions insist on God being a father and not a mother? Is it still important to use masculine images and vocabulary to describe God? Or is that all a vestige of sexist religion?
That is the charge of “progressives” within Christianity and Judaism. Because men and women are equal, their argument goes, describing God, the highest being, in male terms is pure sexism. It simply discriminates against women and places men in a superior position. These arguments have great appeal in an age that confuses equality with sameness. So it is worth briefly sketching some of the arguments for preserving male depictions of God.
To begin with, let us make it clear that nowhere in biblical thought is God a man in the sense of being a larger-than-life male with testes. The Bible that introduced this God to humanity depicts God as sexually neuter. In fact, the God of the Bible is the first god in history entirely devoid of sexual characteristics or sexual behavior. But the neuter pronoun, “it,” cannot be used to describe the intensely personal God of the Bible. Here then are some of the reasons God was, and must continue to be, depicted in male rather than in female, or in male and female, terms.
First, God is the source of moral rules. As the feminist thinker Carole Gilligan argued years ago, men think more in terms of rules, and women think more in terms of feelings/compassion/ intuition. There is a great human need for both. But, first and foremost, the Judeo-Christian God is a moral ruler (giver of moral rules and moral judge of humanity), and neither men nor women want to be given rules or ruled by a woman. For both men and women, the masculine image carries an authority that the feminine one does not. Almost any mother can testify to the declining moral authority she has over her children as they get older and how much more authority a male has.
Second, every civilization must check and then channel the male propensity to violence. Men must be taught to embrace the values of compassion and love. By portraying the masculine God as loving and compassionate, love and compassion become masculine traits. Had these traits been identified with a female deity, men would not regard them as masculine.
Third, God must be completely desexualized. That can more easily be done to a male figure than a female one. For example, Christian depictions of Mary always refer to her as the Virgin Mary — not only to stress the miraculous birth of Jesus but to desexualize her. Because we would hardly call a female god “the Virgin God,” it would be almost impossible to desexualize a female god in the human consciousness. That is why goddess-based religions were also drenched in sacred sex.
Fourth, humans need to feel that God is their protector. Men instinctively want to protect women, not be protected by them. And women do not regard females as protectors.
Fifth, it is far more palatable for women to bow down to a male God than for men to bow down to a female god. Healthy men devote great psychic efforts to escape the female authority that accompanies their childhoods. Any image of God has to work for both sexes, and only a male image does that.
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As Jesus is male, I would argue that God is a masculine spirit.
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Exactly!
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She looks to be in great shape and I give her credit for that. She probably should have worn a style of dress that made it appear as if she has more of an hourglass figure. That dress might be better for a woman who is naturally more curvy, with a thin waist.
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Im with Lara, its a poor choice of dress. Every girl needs to know how to dress towards her strengths, or at least away from their weaknesses. For example, short Asian women know that capri pants make their legs look longer. Fat girls know not to wear white pants because it makes their ass look bigger…
This woman is an example of what gay male friends are for.
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i got the feeling that was a dude first look
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Wow, you all are some mean MOFO’s. I wonder if you look sexy and masculine to women? Do you have a good set of six pack abs? Are you appropriately handsome? This woman is slender, unlike the tons of overweight women in this country. She’s in good shape and attempting to look attractive and sexy in heels and a dress and makeup and her hair is long and feminine. There’s really not a lot she can do about the more masculine lines her body may have. Perhaps with her income she can get surgeries but not everyone wants to put their body through that either. Surgery for wider hips? Is there even anything for that? Sheesh. If she gains weight you’ll be all on her for being too fat. Women can’t win with all these critical men out there.
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got the feeling ch was fucking with us lol
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i’m not sexy at all i just fuck a lot
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got to be some privilige to being a man can’t just be all bullshit thank god huh or us men would be killing all you fucks eh
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I suppose you could kill us all then just fuck each other if that’s what you really wanted, lol. Ya might miss us a little though. I’m just amazed at all the nastiness I see towards women on here though. It makes me sad. I thought you all were trying to GET women. WIth that attitude you’ll need more than a lot of luck! I’m betting there are some guys on here that would be quite happy to have sex with her, despite all the mean remarks about her looks. Would you rather be with her or the fat girl that was talked about on this blog yesterday?
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Just because something is better than sh!t doesn’t mean it tastes good.
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All I can say is with that attitude you’ll be lucky if you can get even the ugliest, least self respecting women t have sex with you.
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Hey I’ll put here above 85% (at least) of American women! That’s not exactly a ringing endorsement, but whatever.
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I wonder if you look sexy and masculine to women?
Do you have a good set of six pack abs? Are you appropriately handsome?
—Women care much less than men. Ron Jeremy v. Jenna Jameson.
This woman is slender, unlike the tons of overweight women in this country.
–The opposite of unhealthy is not steroided-out freakdom
She’s in good shape and attempting to look attractive and sexy in heels and a dress and makeup and her hair is long and feminine
—If she were attempting to look attractive, she wouldn’t look like a tranny. She’d stop going to the gym and working out like a man.
There’s really not a lot she can do about the more masculine lines her body may have
—Yes, there is: Stop working out like a man.
Women can’t win with all these critical men out there.
—Yes, they can. Look feminine. Not fat, not like a muscled up teenage boy. Feminine.
Look it up, honey.
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The “women care less than men” theory really isn’t true. We do care about looks and Ron Jeremy is ugly as hell. I wouldn’t even fuck him if they paid me. It isn’t a matter of caring less its just that women are kinder and more forgiving. We see he’s bald or overweight or something and are like aww, but he makes up for it in personality or skill in bed or whatever and they kind of grow on us. Still, I do care about looks as a woman and have a tendency towards well built men. My ex husband was into bodybuilding and most of the guys I am with are in decent shape. I’ve never been with an overweight guy or one that was too skinny.
Yet, you won’t see me picking apart men because they are doing the best they can with what they were born with and making fun of their looks. Most women just aren’t cruel like that. What you guys don’t see is that your attitude is telling to ALL women, even the most attractive ones. We don’t like seeing nastiness towards a female due to looks because we are all pretty self critical and even model perfect (to you) women are going to worry that you will extend your criticisms to her.
She doesn’t look like she is on steroids at all. Just like a woman who was born with a petite figure and works out. Well, if she didn’t work out you’d be lamblasting her for being fat. I see she does workout videos so she probably takes good care of her health. She does salsa dancing, that’s not exactly masculine exercise.
I’m not sure there is a lot she could do to avoid “looking like a tranny”. She’s trying to look as feminine as she can from the looks of it and that is how you guys react. Meanies.
I feel very fortunate to have been blessed with an hourglass figure but not every woman is, just like not every man is naturally athletic.
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Most women just aren’t cruel like that.
epiz lolz!
I’m not sure there is a lot she could do to avoid “looking like a tranny”
she could get all of the surgeries, for starters.
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lol. I love it when dumb sluts try to think.
The “women care less than men” theory really isn’t true.
—-The sex lives of Dudley Moore, Hugh Hefner, Stylez, and Henry Kissinger prove you wrong.
I wouldn’t even fuck him if they paid me.
—Just everyone else…
It isn’t a matter of caring less its just that women are kinder and more forgiving.
—Spin, hamster, spin! Men and womyn are equal, but womyns be better!
We see he’s bald or overweight or something and are like aww, but he makes up for it in personality or skill in bed or whatever and they kind of grow on us.
—So personality and skills important to women and can take precedence over looks. Unlike with men—how many fat chicks with “great personalities” who give “awesome blowjobs” do you know, yet they never get a hot boyfriend?
Thank you for proving my point that women care less about looks than men, right after claiming the opposite.
Spin on, hamster bitch!
Still, I do care about looks as a woman and have a tendency towards well built men. My ex husband was into bodybuilding and most of the guys I am with are in decent shape. I’ve never been with an overweight guy or one that was too skinny.
—-Honey, you’re currently sleeping with four guys and going to sex clubs to be fingercuffed. If you’re dumb enough to take your preferences and actions as the norm amongst women and not as an outlier, you’re dumber than I thought.
Yet, you won’t see me picking apart men because they are doing the best they can with what they were born with and making fun of their looks. Most women just aren’t cruel like that.
—–Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.
Ask the divorce courts if that’s so.
Your hamster can’t defeat reality, honey.
What you guys don’t see is that your attitude is telling to ALL women, even the most attractive ones. We don’t like seeing nastiness towards a female due to looks because we are all pretty self critical and even model perfect (to you) women are going to worry that you will extend your criticisms to her.
—Good. They should. Every woman should worry about pleasing her man.
She doesn’t look like she is on steroids at all.
—Yes, s/he does.
Just like a woman who was born with a petite figure and works out.
—Like a dude. We don’t want to fuck dudes. Go to a fag blog for that shit.
Well, if she didn’t work out you’d be lamblasting her for being fat
—The opposite of muscular is not fat. If she merely watched what she at, she’d be more feminine (aka attrative). If she wanted to work out, traditional female sports/active activities—dancing, gymnastics, tennis—without the weight training would keep are as toned as we need or want her.
.I see she does workout videos so she probably takes good care of her health. She does salsa dancing, that’s not exactly masculine exercise.
—No, but when combined with tranny-making workouts…she became a tranny.
I’m not sure there is a lot she could do to avoid “looking like a tranny”.
—Lying won’t help you in here, sweetheart.
She’s trying to look as feminine as she can from the looks of it
—No, she is not.
Meanies.
—Skank
I feel very fortunate to have been blessed with an hourglass figure but not every woman is, just like not every man is naturally athletic.
—What’s longer.—your ring finger or your index (pointing) finger? Check both hands, please
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I just clicked on your blog, saw your repeated use of racist slurs and calling women whores and decided answering your questions probably isn’t worth my time. Clearly you aren’t getting enough sex. Poor thing.
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saw your repeated use of racist slurs
—Sounds like shaming language!
calling women whores
—Most are. Truth telling hurts your wittle ears, I know.
decided answering your questions probably isn’t worth my time.
—lol. Typical woman—too stupid to understand how to argue, to pinned in the corner from her illogical bullshit, she retreats and runs away, and pretends she’s taking the high road by refusing to confront reality.
Spin it, hamster!
Clearly you aren’t getting enough sex.
—Does your mom count?
Poor thing.
—Bless her heart. Poor dumb little woman. But I repeat myself.
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“I’m not sure there is a lot she could do to avoid “looking like a tranny”. She’s trying to look as feminine as she can from the looks of it and that is how you guys react. Meanies.”
The more I read of lifeofalovergirl’s posts and the entire topic of D’Manti, the more I’m reminded of what my father said the first time he learned of Madonna(the slutty entertainer);
“You can lead a whore to culture, but you can’t make her think…”
Lifeofalovergirl, seek psychiatric help, seriously.
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“If she were attempting to look attractive, she wouldn’t look like a tranny.”
LOL!
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“Wow, you all are some mean MOFO’s. I wonder if you look sexy and masculine to women?”
You’re missing the point. She isn’t attractive to these men because they like feminine bodies the feel good to hold, feel good to cuddle with, and feel good to be protective of. Her body elicits no masculine feelings toward her. In my book, they are normal men. Maybe egalitarian males would like her body type, but then who wants those kinds if men anyway. They don’t feel or act like men. You bought into the whole idea of egalitarianism, which is why you can’t discern between a feminine woman and a masculinized one. Time for femininity 101.
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No one is telling these men they aren’t allowed to enjoy the types of female bodies that they like. However, tearing someone apart because of attributes that are beyond her control is pretty nasty. She clearly wasn’t born with an hourglass figure. How is that her fault? She’s making do by dressing in feminine clothing that shows off what little curves she has, keeping her hair long, wearing makeup and high heels to accentuate her legs and keeping her body fit and healthy, which is more than a lot of women can say in this day and age.
If you want to pick on “masculine” women, how about the ones who cut their hair short, don’t shave their legs and dress like a guy? There are plenty of those out there. This woman doesn’t strike me as INTENTIONALLY masculine at all. Perhaps her body isn’t the feminine ideal but we can’t really place the blame on her. She is trying to stay skinny at least, which is what society (and these men) want her to do!
I’d wager a bet that most of these guys wouldn’t fit MY ideal of a masculine body. So who are they to talk?
As for egatalatarian ideals. I suppose in some ways I do believe in them but not necessarily as much as you may think. Heck I was a housewife for 13 years by choice. I love to do “feminine” things and dress and be all girly and have been blessed with a figure that most men are going to like, but that doesn’t mean I agree with bullying of women who are doing the best they can with what they’ve been given.
She salsa dances! How is that “masculine” excercise? She’s not bench pressing for god’s sake, lol.
Your little snide comment about me taking femininity 101 isn’t particularly feminine in and of itself because it lacks kindness and grace. 😉
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Your little snide comment about me taking femininity 101 isn’t particularly feminine in and of itself because it lacks kindness and grace.
—Sluts don’t get treated with kindness and grace until they admit that they’re sluts and that it is a bad thing.
And your claims about an hourglass figure are a riot. You’re a high-T girl, which means a thinner, non-voluptuousness frame.
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LOL You think I’m offended by you calling me a slut but I revel in sexual pleasure. I think shaming women for their sexuality is defeating the purpose of the men on here who want to have sex. No one wants to sleep with men who expect them to hide their sexual desires and pretend to be sexless madonnas. Good luck landing a girl like that though and call me back in 10 years when you are married and she won’t sleep with you and you find out she’s cheating.
Bragging about how you treat “sluts” badly will only put you in the category of men who don’t deserve to get any but keep on keeping on. I probably do have some high testosterone as far as sex drive but I wear a size 4, a 34D bra, and guys are constantly telling me they love my ass. It’s curvy. So much for “non voluptuous”.
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You think I’m offended by you calling me a slut but I revel in sexual pleasure.
–Reveling in sexual pleasure is not the same as being indiscriminate with partners.
Trying to lie about it won’t help, slut.
I think shaming women for their sexuality is defeating the purpose of the men on here who want to have sex.
—Most men here are here because they don’t like the situation you sluts have created, but, seeing that they can;t solve it, wish to exploit sluttiness for what we can get.
Do not confuse adaptation as endorsement.
. No one wants to sleep with men who expect them to hide their sexual desires and pretend to be sexless madonnas
–Again, liar, enjoying sex is not the same as having multiple partners.
Or, remember this : every man wants an untouched woman teeming with hormones ready to be both extremely faithful and extremely horny and kinky and subservient to her man at all times, all while she is at her peak looks-wise. In other words, what every man wants is 16-year-old girl.
Heartiste has posts where he points out that sexually inexperienced girls can often be the most wild in bed, whilst sluts (like yourself) are often the most boring—precisely because you’ve ridden the cock carousel so many times, all you want to do is have a man cuddle with you.
Bragging about how you treat “sluts” badly
—Whose bragging? Projection…..
I probably do have some high testosterone
—No shit, huh, sherlock? So tell us: on your hands, does the ring finger extend longer than the index (pointing) finger?
but I wear a size 4,
—-Straight men do not know sizes. Saying “size 4” just shows how deranged you are —you think that the way girls judge is the way guys do. Heartiste (PBUH) may know, but 90% of the straight guys around don’t know what a size 4 means.
Which means, of course, you’re probably a little chubby. A skinny girl would have just given her height and weight.
and guys are constantly telling me they love my ass. It’s curvy.
–So a bunch of guys who want to fuck you compliment your body. That’s not proof. That’s every guy who wants to sleep with you.
God, woman, how do you roll out of bed in the morning without baging your empty head? I mean, when you roll over the 3-4 guys who gang banged your pussy last night and forgot your name.
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No one wants to sleep with men who expect them to hide their sexual desires and pretend to be sexless madonnas. Good luck landing a girl like that though and call me back in 10 years when you are married
sluts are for fucking, not marrying.
and she won’t sleep with you and you find out she’s cheating.
so tell us, how long before your ex husband found out?
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He never did. And my affair lasted for two years at the end of the marriage.
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And my affair lasted for two years at the end of the marriage.
—“It’s ok I’m a worthless cheating whore on my husband! He never knew, And it was at the end of it all (the end which I caused, but, heck, don’t blame me). And it was clearly better for him for me to cheat rather than be unhappy. He would have wanted it that way! Anyway, that’s old news. Move on, I’m worthy of love and time and investment and care. I’m not damaged goods, I swear!”
Whew. This slut’s hamster must be on ‘roids..
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—”It’s ok I’m a worthless cheating whore on my husband! He never knew, And it was at the end of it all (the end which I caused, but, heck, don’t blame me). And it was clearly better for him for me to cheat rather than be unhappy. He would have wanted it that way! Anyway, that’s old news. Move on, I’m worthy of love and time and investment and care. I’m not damaged goods, I swear!”
Whew. This slut’s hamster must be on ‘roids..
“Damaged” to men like yourself, yes. Darn. I must be missing out not fucking all those men who have a problem with women liking sex, lol.
P.S. if you wanna read the juicy details of my “cheating whore” story read my blog post: Confessions of a Cheater (and try not to get too turned on)
http://lifeofalovergirl.wordpress.com/2012/10/16/confessions-of-a-cheater/
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“Damaged” to men like yourself, yes.
—-You mean men who think logically and have testosterone in their body, yes.
I must be missing out not fucking all those men who have a problem with women liking sex
—(Facepalm) You lie like a woman
Enjoying sex is not being a slut, liar. It is your indiscriminate choice of sexual partners—their sheer number—that makes you a slut.
There are plenty of non-frigid women who only had one partner. They and their husbands enjoyed years of fun, kinky sex. They never wrote about it because they never had cause to complain.
But keep that hamster going, liar! Perhaps it will save you from depression when you’re lying alone, unloved, in your nursing home later in life.
Meanwhile, all the men who banged you will have moved on to women worthy of being prized.
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But keep that hamster going, liar! Perhaps it will save you from depression when you’re lying alone, unloved, in your nursing home later in life.
Meanwhile, all the men who banged you will have moved on to women worthy of being prized.
Hilarious. When I’m in the nursing home all the guys I know will probably all be dead. You all don’t live as long. I’m not looking to a man to take care of me in my old age. I have kids for that! I’d rather enjoy myself now than worry about when I’m old and wrinkled and can’t feed myself let alone fuck anyone. But keep on prizing those sexless females. I’m sure it will be great in your old age to realize you wasted all those years when someone might have actually slept with you.
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“try not to get too turned on”
Who gets turned on by that shit?
You’re on the wrong forum, whore.
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When I’m in the nursing home all the guys I know will probably all be dead.
—Of the STDs you gave them, no doubt.
You all don’t live as long.
—We just die to get away from you broads.
I’m not looking to a man to take care of me in my old age.
—Just Big Daddy Gov’ment. Guess what, honey: because you have spent your votes shitting on whitey, that well will be as bone dry as our vagina will be.
I have kids for that
—Your kids will not be there. Children of sluts end up in jail, out of work, and/or on medication. They will be begging YOU for help when your little socialist nation can’t pay its bills.
I’d rather enjoy myself now than worry about when I’m old and wrinkled and can’t feed myself let alone fuck anyone.
—Gentlemen, a prime example of why women shouldn’t vote, and why laws should control their behavior harshly: they are too stupid to care about the long term effects of their acts.
Sharia law is looking more and more appealing.
But keep on prizing those sexless females.
–As expected, a slut lies. I enjoy females who enjoy sex. You are merely a slut. Spot the difference, liar?
I’m sure it will be great in your old age to realize you wasted all those years when someone might have actually slept with you.
–Honey, not only have I used women like you for a cheap and easy screw, I have laughed about you to more quality women I spend my time (and money and care)with. They think its hilarious that cheap bottom-feeding skanks like you think you’re worth something. They actually get a laugh at how easy you are, and yet you see no correlation between your ease and men’s lack of care.
True story: one girl I was seeing and I were out at bar, and for shits and giggles I texted a chubby fuck buddy like you. When she asked what I was doing, I told her. She laughed, and was amazed at how quickly I got the the little slut to send me a naked pic and explicit texts (this was after ignoring the slut for a few weeks). I passed the picture around the bar, along with the texts, letting a few guys pretend to be me to work the skank.
At one point, we all debated if we could get her to dress up in an outrageous outfit and come to the bar. But I decided (out of the pure goodness of my heart) to end it there.
This is what happens when you send naughty texts and dirty pictures around. We pass it around and laugh at you. Because sluts don’t get respect, honey. They get the boot in the ass.
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Who gets turned on by that shit?
You’re on the wrong forum, whore
You might be right! WTH did I stumble onto anyway? Men Against Sex and Scarlet Women? Racists for Christ?
Good luck Mr. “Whorefinder” on your quest to find that kinky virgin you can pedestal.
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You might be right! WTH did I stumble onto anyway?
—The Truth. In blog-form. Mind-blowing for you, skank, I know.
Men Against Sex
—lol. note the hamster-spinning-liar; now a blog devoted to making panties drop is anti-sex. Only a woman (or a nigger) could be that dumb!
and Scarlet Women?
—-Honey, you’re not Scarlet. You’re not anything romantic like that. You’re just a common American slut. No man will write poetry about you. No man will write songs of you. No many will think you’re anything but a wet, willing hole to stick it in when there aren’t any other options.
Racists for Christ?
—-Jesus loves you. Just not niggers.
Good luck Mr. “Whorefinder”
—It’s Sir Whorefinder Your Daddy Master, bitch. Don’t forget it.
on your quest to find that kinky virgin
—-lol. Gotta love a slut desperately clinging to the notion that her whorish “experience” makes her better than a virgin ready, willing, and able to be deflowered.
you can pedestal.
—No woman deserves to be pedestaled. You’re all just low-class beasts. But a faithful virgin bride is at least worth staying with and providing for and caring for in old age.
Unlike you.
Enjoy your cats and your empty bed at menopause, I suggest reading some Liz Jones for the harsh reality your future holds.
Or you could just keep coming here, learn about reality, and change your life. You’ve no chance of getting a high-quality man, but you might learn enough to garner a beta-provider you have some respect for. However, by the lack of intelligence in your writing, I can discern that even that miniscule hope is non-existent—you’re far too dumb to understand it.
So, to quote Capppy, enjoy the decline, slut!
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As Whorefinder tried to get across to you, our inclination is to fuck sluts and marry virgins. And in addition to fucking sluts, we despise them. Why is that so hard to understand?
Also, any white person who uses the term “r-r-RACIST!” as a putdown on other whites is a SWPL Obama voter lacking a functioning brain, as far as I’m concerned.
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As Whorefinder tried to get across to you, our inclination is to fuck sluts and marry virgins. And in addition to fucking sluts, we despise them. Why is that so hard to understand?
Also, any white person who uses the term “r-r-RACIST!” as a putdown on other whites is a SWPL Obama voter lacking a functioning brain, as far as I’m concerned.
Good luck getting anyone to fuck you with that mindset. This “slut” wouldn’t for sure and I know I’m not the only one who avoids judgemental men when it comes to sharing my sexuality.
My voting preferences are kind of irrelevant to the conversation but if you must know I voted for McCain the first time around and Obama this time. I’m an independent voter and as tempting as it was to make a race based vote just to see the first man of color in office, I wasn’t willing to make my political choices due to a person’s skin color.
I do find white people who are racist especially repulsive though. Its disgusting.
Oh, and Obama is kinda hot. I would totally do him if he weren’t all hung up with Michelle, lol. 😉
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PS…finding a virgin to marry in 2013 is going to be quite a challenge, even if you move to Arkansas and get her parents to sign her off when she’s 14 or so.
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Oh wait, you probably already live there….
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“Oh, and Obama is kinda hot.
[Heartiste: That’s just the alpha talking.]
I would totally do him if he weren’t all hung up with Michelle, lol.”
[Most women would do Obama because he is the supreme alpha, by station alone. His looks, or lack thereof, are largely irrelevant.]
Um…you do know Obama is on the downlow? cf Reggie Love, Larry Sinclair, etc. Even the blacks are calling it on Obama on this one; http://theblacksphere.net/2013/02/obama-reggie-love-beach/
ps, we don’t have to call you sluts to get you to put out, we just apply a little game and the sluts reveal themselves as sluts.
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PS…finding a virgin to marry in 2013 is going to be quite a challenge, even if you move to Arkansas and get her parents to sign her off when she’s 14 or so.
Oh wait, you probably already live there….
It’s so amusing how SWPLs consider suggesting that a poster is from Arkansas to be an insult. You’re cute.
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[Most women would do Obama because he is the supreme alpha, by station alone. His looks, or lack thereof, are largely irrelevant.]
I’m glad you said most and not all, cuz some of us don’t find him hot at all. I’m actually turned off by him. However, of course for a loose liberal woman, Obama is the crème de la crème of men.
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Whorefinder FTW.
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“However, tearing someone apart because of attributes that are beyond her control is pretty nasty. She clearly wasn’t born with an hourglass figure. How is that her fault?”
How do you know it’s beyond her control, pray tell? Everything leads to the assumption that she is an exercise freak. She was in the Marine Corps, she looks like a low level body builder, etc….I think that’s the issue here. Women physically and mentally are altering their looks to this, where 50 years ago these types were unseen. It’s definitely a trend, and guess what, I don’t like this trend one bit. I hate this transformation – the masculinization of the female, and the feminization of the male, until the twain shall meet in the middle and androgyny is formed and a sexless society emerges. Sorry, I like having two sexes, and I love the sexual polarity between the sexes because it’s sexy and exciting. Women that tend to look like that are one step closer to obliterating the differences between the sexes. It’s a dangerous trend in my book worthy of despondency. No, I’m sorry it shouldn’t be celebrated or accepted as something beyond her control. Traditional men usually are not attracted to women that look like this. Accept it and stop trying to make them feel bad about it. It’s still a free choice whom men or women are attracted to. The “Dear Leader” still can’t control that.
“She’s making do by dressing in feminine clothing that shows off what little curves she has, keeping her hair long, wearing makeup and high heels to accentuate her legs and keeping her body fit and healthy, which is more than a lot of women can say in this day and age.”
No, she is dressing in a feminine style because she is in entertainment or trying to make it big in entertainment, and she knows sex sells. That’s why she is dressed in such a revealing outfit. It’s not even feminine, just revealing. I’m all for sexy wear, but this is not that sexy, just revealing. Sexy should be alluring.
“If you want to pick on “masculine” women, how about the ones who cut their hair short, don’t shave their legs and dress like a guy?”
Those are butches, or nutjobs who bought into some liberal shit about women and men needing to remain natural. Same people advocating walking around in your birthday suit in San Fran Mentalisco.
“I’d wager a bet that most of these guys wouldn’t fit MY ideal of a masculine body. So who are they to talk?”
You’re probably right on this point. But women can be very attractive to a man who doesn’t look like Adonis, as long as he’s masculine, has some authority (of course, real power is even more of an aphrodisiac), projects himself confidently, sexually dominate, and can game a woman. So while many men aren’t right out of the cover of a romance novel, they can still have women crazy over them by virtue of their behavior alone. You might say a man can trick a woman’s eyes with these traits by appealing straight to her psyche. But I digress. Anyway, the way these men look isn’t the point. The point is that this kind of look for a woman isn’t desirable for men who still like their woman to be soft and feminine.
“but that doesn’t mean I agree with bullying of women who are doing the best they can with what they’ve been given.”
I agree; I hate bullying too – of both sexes. However, here I don’t think they are bullying, just expressing their likes and dislikes. But hey, there will always be the guy who is mean-spirited, who likes to trash and dump on females in general, just like there are women who can never see anything good in men. But pay attention to how CH put it. He was quite respectful to her. He just meant that she isn’t his cup of tea, and that it’s a dangerous trend to do the switcheroo and reverse the look of the sexes.
“Your little snide comment about me taking femininity 101 isn’t particularly feminine in and of itself because it lacks kindness and grace.”
Well, I was right about you being egatalatarian-ly inclined, right? That’s why I said that. Not that you yourself are not feminine looking. Only that you bought into the obliteration of the difference between the sexes through egalitarianism. That said, if I was hurtful, I apologize. Don’t want to hurt your fillings, cuz I don’t think you deserve it. I think you mean well but you misunderstand the salient parts of the argument and simply focusing on why people aren’t nice. They’re critiquing and analyzing. Commenting can be harsh at time, that’s the nature of critique and analysis.
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You’re probably right on this point. But women can be very attractive to a man who doesn’t look like Adonis, as long as he’s masculine, has some authority (of course, real power is even more of an aphrodisiac), projects himself confidently, sexually dominate, and can game a woman. So while many men aren’t right out of the cover of a romance novel, they can still have women crazy over them by virtue of their behavior alone.
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Hmmm…. well, I personally prefer men with a nice body. 4 of the 5 of them that I have on tap would be considered an “Adonis” as far as being muscular and they all work out 1-2 hours a day. Huge arms and chest and a lot of muscle. The other one doesn’t work out but he is still athletic and in shape. My ex husband was into bodybuilding and does some personal training. So yeah, there might be women who are into out of shape guys but I’m not one of them. So listening to a bunch of flabby or overly skinny men blab on about how some female celebrity is less than perfect doesn’t appeal to me.
In any case you are dead wrong if you think I’m a person that insists the sexes are “equal” on everything. In a relationship with a man I tend to be very submissive, both in and out of the bedroom BUT that is only something I give to a man I’m involved with sexually and I draw the line at sexual expectations. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander as far as being allowed to express yourself sexually with more than one person.
All the criticism for this woman about how her jawline is unattractive…come on…what is she supposed to do about that? How could she get a more feminine JAWLINE for God’s sake? I mean, if you don’t like it fine, don’t date her but tearing her apart is just a bunch of men making asses of themselves. Highly unattractive.
I don’t have any questions about my own feminity. I really don’t have a lot of masculine traits other than my voracious sex drive but really I think more women have that than are willing to admit. We just hide it more due to slut shamers like y’all.
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,,,that doesn’t mean I agree with bullying of women who are doing the best they can with what they’ve been given.
Hon, take a deep breath. We are talking about a photograph. No one is in the room with us. No one is being “bullied”. Your hormones are causing you to feel the insults as thought they were directed at you. It’s ok, thought. We know you are engineered to feel things like that. You are a weepy, emotional woman. That’s the way we like them here. When you “feel someone else’s pain” and project all over them, it’s a nice girly thing. It just isn’t “real”.
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That pic made me thought of this for some odd reason. Unlike the lack of warning here, beware of clicking this link if your eating.
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would a .72 -.73 waist to hip ratio be considered masculine/narrow?
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Men have narrower hips & slightly more waist, so the number would be higher. Lower number means smaller waist, which is a feminine trait. Men should be 0.8-0.9 ish, lower if you actually lift heavy weights. e.g squat, which gives you more glutes, and thus more “hip” circumference.
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No way. I had a .7 (25″,36″) and I don’t think of myself as masculine or narrow.
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Nah but seriously, i ponder if we’re already witnessing the effect of a weakening Y chromosome and America is hastening its demise.
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/MensHealthNews/story?id=8104217&page=1
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I think more women are manjawed and masculine today because of increased testosterone levels while growing up, but I don’t think it is due to anything they ingest. T levels are raised when you experience competitive success, and lowered when you are a loser. That’s why it’s important to get your game face on. It raises T. If you are an older man going to get your T levels tested so you can get T replacement therapy, psych yourself out before taking the test. This will ensure you get a low score and receive treatment, rather than having a score that is low enough to make you feel like shit, but not low enough to get treatment. Psyching up raises T, and psyching out lowers T.
In the case of modern females, growing up as a grrrl with lots of moxie tends to raise testosterone. Consciously trying to be a grrrl raises their T levels the same as when a man gets his game face on. Doing this throughout childhood is enough to change a the appearance of a woman when she comes of age.
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But then why are men getting more feminized? It kind of freaks me out. Why the reversal?
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See above, wherein I and others discuss the feedback loops that are caused by phyto- and xeno-estrogens from modern extraneous sources. These act on men just as they act on women, tho’ the effect is different. Let’s just simplify and say that the two extremes (maleness and femaleness) are forced towards the mean. Which is not good.
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I agree, I’m far more concerned about that trend.
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All the ladies’ birth control in the water supply.
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It’s the Culture, not hormones or any other such crap in the water.
In essence American/Western Culture has been warped to cater to and celebrate anti-male, Grrl-power women. You see it in the TV shows now on TV(SATC & the Bitch in Apt 2b), the Movies(Sex & the City) being made, the books(50 shades), music(crap American Idol shyte), Sports(Pink NFL shyte), etc. A lot of it because govt assisted and empowered women now have more money and make economic decisions which ad agencies/marketing now cater to. Any type of maleness has been derided, mocked, and consigned to the fringes of Western societies.
Bottom line, we in the West live in ‘Chick-world’ with all the fem-baggage that goes with that.
As for why more men are more feminine?
Consider it a form of Stockholm Syndrome, only gender based. Since the dominant culture of the West is female friendly, more and more men identify with it. I think that’s why homosexuals, trannies, and metrosexuals walk in open society now. Men are now mentally identifying with women more than men because the dominant culture of the West caters to women.
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I knew a girl that kinda mixed the features of a high-T woman with a low-T woman.
Excessive facial and arm hair
Narrow hips
Excessively defined calves (she didn’t work out)
But, she had relatively large breasts and she was only 5’1″.
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so basically, a female gollum?
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In a sense. She actually wasn’t that bad looking, and she at least dressed feminine, she could squeeze out a 6 rating.
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But she still managed to lock down a relatively high quality dude, he just had massive Beta traits.
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I need some off-topic advice and I’ve noticed you can usually get some good opinions from these comment threads.
I’m a recent recruit to the whole idea of game, but it’s been working in my favor hard since I started really applying it. Last summer, I was banging or at least gaming a few girls a week without so much as a second thought and I was loving it.
Then, I met this girl when I started school. Pretty brunette, likes to party, into fitness, she’s pretty cool. It took some time to procure a number but I eventually did it, and fast forward a bit and we’re hooking up with some regularity, now I would definitely call her my girlfriend and I’m happy to do so. I’ve been hooking up with her and only her since I met her, but I’m actually completely satisfied. The sex is really, really good and we have a ton of it.
I feel no need to continue working on my game and I don’t know if that is a good or bad thing. This girl just does it for me. Plus, she’s so sure of herself she seems almost entirely unfazed by anything I try. I neg her, she playfully negs me right back (she’s witty as fuck), I flirt with other women in front of her, she smirks and shrugs it off.
Also I know she’s into me and I would be absolutely dumbstruck if she was cheating on me. We don’t use a condom when we have sex, never have. She treats me like a king, cooks for me, she’ll come over at 2am, she picks me up when I’m drunk and need a ride home. She’s just a solid girlfriend.
As I’ve been trying to develop the red pill mentality, I need to know where I go in a situation like this. Over the summer, I was doing such a good job but I can tell now that I’m actually developing feelings for this girl. How to proceed?
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very very carefully.
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Seems like oneitis to me.
Nothing wrong with oneitis, but after a few years of red pill, my oneitis has shifted from “wow this girl is amazing, I want to spend the rest of my life with her” to “wow, this bitch is hot, I wanna fuck that pussy everyday until I get tired of fucking it”. Seriously.
Nothing wrong with love and romance, but you seem like having the pedestalizing white knight form of oneitis. In Amurika 2013, you can’t afford that kind of mistakes.
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Seconded, but with an additional advisement to go darkside and isolate her a bit. It’s an “abuser” tactic, but damned if it doesn’t work. Keep her away from feminist friends and family. If there are likeminded people in your area, encourage her to hang out with them instead of clubbing with single or dissatisfied women.
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I would see how it goes. The first time you fall in love is intense and you can’t really recapture that. I wouldn’t walk away if you don’t really want to. You can always work on your game later.
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This is a sick thread. You guys are assholes.
Why not take the time it took you to write this post and go find a woman you are attracted to? Oh wait, the way you are complaining you are under the impression they aren’t any attractive American women around. Sorry to break it you dude, there are plenty out there. They just aren’t interested in meeting you or you mom…
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Why don’t you take the time to find people where your shame tactics will work?
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what’s sad is, he’s ‘entering the world of singledom after an almost 20 year marriage’…and now’s exactly the time when he could use some game.
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Indeed? He’s one to talk.
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You guys are assholes
you mirin’, brah?
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Jesus, her clit must look like a fire hydrant.
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That, and she reminds me of Tony Curtis in drag.
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I’m Spahtacus.
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I’m also puzzled that she’s being held up as an example of a “typical American”. Really? Typical Americans are nowhere near that skinny. Also, I’d never heard of her before but glancing at the Wikipedia article that was linked to, she goes by an Italian name and does salsa dancing and performs in movies with Spanish titles. She doesn’t fit my image of “typical American” in the least. And look at some of her pics online and see that she often dresses in sexy clothing. She’s at least trying.
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“and does salsa dancing”
If that’s all she did, she’d have hips and curves, and be hoot. Trouble is she probably lifts weights too, maybe is/was a runner too. That’s how you get this kind of body.
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Pssshhhh…. I used to run track and I have a curvy body, long legs and even proportions because that is what I was born with! You can’t make hips where there are none from excercise!!
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You might have long limbs, but it doesn’t mean they look feminine.
Marathon Running has very adverse effects on a woman’s body.
“You can’t make hips where there are none from excercise!!”
Please, women have hips, but if you have no meat on them what good are they?
Runners have very little body fat, which tends to age and change chemically a woman’s body. Time to read some scientific studies on that.
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I actually dig girls who are runners.
Yet they at least had curves. (Especially the one girl I know…)
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I added a comment on one of CH’s post a month or so ago theorizing about sugar consumption and high fructose corn syrup. Relatively little sugar was part of the American diet 100 years ago, but it really started to ramp up in the 1960’s and then HFCS, which is even worse, hit the scene in the early 1980s. A graph of sugar/HFCS consumption looks like a NASA space launch beginning about 50 years ago.
I’m not going to get into again except to say that this diet is leading to increasing PCOS in women (polycystic ovary syndrome = high free testosterone) and liver dysfunction in men (higher than normal estrogen).
If a pregnant women has higher levels of free testosterone (because of PCOS), then her female offspring is going to be masculinized … the male index-to-middle-finger ratio, the lantern jaw, wide shoulders, ugly tatts, aggressive behavior, etc. And when that girl grows up, she’ll be more likely fatter and more PCOSish than her mother so the masculinization gets worse with each new female generation.
Aside from masculinization, women are getting fatter. Nowadays it’s common to see chunky/thick/fat cheerleaders, where it was unheard of 30 years ago.
Increasing insulin resistance? I think so.
Aside from that, the obvious answer why we’re seeing more masculine women is that THEY ARE TAKING ANABOLIC STEROIDS. It might come as a surprise how many teenage and college girls take ‘roids in order to get a “hard body” or compete in sports (fuck you very much, Title IX).
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Sugar is bad. Very bad.
HFCS is much worse.
I was watching an old movie the other day (ca. 1950s), and everyone was so amazingly trim. This was the norm. One can see that we are diverging from historic norms by watching these old movies, or looking at Army recruit acceptance rates over time, etc. It’s all pointing in the same direction.
Our diet is literally killing us, but on its way to killing us, it’s making us ugly and sick and fat.
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Note to self: Never, ever send CH a pic of myself.
You know the low-digit-ratio thing happens to us in the womb. We’re literally born this way. It’s not something we choose. And this particular example of LDR womanhood is doing her best with the cards she’s been dealt–feminine dress, heels, long hair, makeup.
Of course, your preferences are what they are; I’m not saying that you’re supposed to extol her as an icon of feminine beauty. But the mockery is needlessly cruel.
[Heartiste: I wouldn’t call this mockery. More like observation. And the raw, uncut observation is necessary to wash this sick world of the stinking filth of lies which chokes it.]
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… and I will whisper… “NO”.
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There are still places where men act like men. Stay away from dance clubs and such. I never could find anyone I liked there.
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Yep. I suspect CH is teasing us with this one as the girl in the photo isn’t actually repulsive.
[Heartiste: Please fuck your fucking strawman. Never said she was “repulsive”. Only masculinized. Masculinized girls can still be fuckable as long as they are thin and facially decent. But they aren’t ideal for most men who aren’t needy manboobs.]
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What lies are she telling?
And what truths would stop LDR women from being born?
From looking at family photos, my bloodline has at least 1 LDR per generation going back to the Civil War. From listening to family stories, it goes back a lot further than that. This is not a modern phenomenon.
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It would not surprise me to find that LDR correlates strongly to overall health/lack of heritable disease/virility (aka “fitness”). Just as it wouldn’t surprise me to find that you would find the idea of having sex with your cousin quite nauseating. Your genes literally drive you to seek outsider genes to complement yours. I don’t think this is a bad thing for the species, per se, and it certainly isn’t a bad thing for the propagation of your mitochondria, per se, but it’s probably not the best thing for a life of monogamy for you.
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You know what’s funny. A quick glance at this blog shows a lot of interracial relationship between white women/black men hating. Yet one could make the “observation” that black men, as a whole, have retained their masculinity more so than the average white guy and you’ll see a lot more alpha types among black men than white, which is why some of us tend to lean in that direction.
I mean, a lot of American black men take the time to work out their bodies and LOOK more masculine. Yet at the same time they have a reputation for not being as critical of women’s bodies and look where the white girls are flocking (and that includes those of us that are in shape and have nice hourglass figures). Maybe you all should make more of an effort to get yourselves up to par with masculine looks as well as behavior and wash the world of this “filth” of feminized, beta white dudes. Or maybe white guys just need to eat more soul food, lol, maybe that’s the secret. 😉
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not seeing the alpha behavior though to me taking a bitch that shares herself with multiple dudes and then owning that bitch and she only for you while you can do what the fuck you want alpha
taking a bitch and sharing her with everyone else cause she ain’t satisfied with just you not alpha
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or if t takes you and 6 of your friends to impress the bitch then how tough is that he he he
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Send one to me and I’ll judge whether Heartiste (and crew) will rip into it.
Bikini and/or topless. Optional: schoolgirl, catsuit, naughty librarian/secretary. naughty garbage woman: kinky, but not yet.
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“Of course, your preferences are what they are; I’m not saying that you’re supposed to extol her as an icon of feminine beauty. But the mockery is needlessly cruel.”
Cruel: willfully causing pain or suffering in another.
It’s a photo, hon, not a person. Photons cannot feel pain. What you really mean is “I feel extremely uncomfortable around your ruthless male honesty and I so wish you would just be nice when I’m around,”
We will not “act nice” while the girls are around. Perhaps it would be better if you went somewhere else.
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So what can anyone do to prevent this from happening? Mandatory soy products to all women pregnant with girls? Seriously. That’s scary.
And isn’t this an extreme example? I feel bad for her. Obviously she wants to look feminine and is trying her best. She can’t help it : /
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Mandatory soy!?!! You misunderstand. It’s the soy that’s making your body confused – upsetting your cycle, causing head fuge and migraines and “PMS”, promoting manliness in your body, and probably causing cancer.
Stay AWAY from soy.
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Dude, I can’t look at the picture anymore. I imagine her getting all dressed up, and doing her make-up and looking in the mirror, and thinking…”yeah, I look really nice”-and picking out her dress- and smiling for this picture. It makes me want to cry… ; _ ;
The vulnerability and effort behind this picture is tearing out my heart. CH you are a big meanie.
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That is not a dress. May Joan Rivers have mercy on her soul.
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Kate:
We need a full frontal to see your lines.
Dammit!!!! I need perspective woman!!!!
Change that avatar.
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I just put a new one up on Sunday! Who am I, Cinderella? If you’d been paying attention, you could have a whole portfolio by now. I’m not a model, ya know 🙂
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You’ve posted enough damn pictures of herself over the past few months.
Your worse than some girls and their new profile picture on Facebook every other day.
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lol- What a grouse! A woman who wants to look good for men is showing she cares about them. Take the compliment, would ya? I do this for you guys; I don’t need pictures to remind me what I look like. I see myself everyday 🙂
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Kate is pretty, and her body is inspiring for us older women. I like seeing different pictures of her.
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Thank you, Lara. That is very sweet! One of my favorite compliments was from a man admiring my stomach who asked incredulously, “Did you really have a baby?” lol Work those abs! 🙂
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Darn these disappearing posts!
lol- What a grouse! A woman looking good for you means she cares. Just take the compliment, would ya? 😉 I put these pictures up for you guys; its not for me. I see myself every day.
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Thank you, Lara. That is very sweet. We do need inspiration. Having a guy admire your stomach and ask, “Did you really have a baby?” is a good one 🙂
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Ya’ll ruthless.
Am I honestly the only one who feels this way? I’m seeing a whole life story behind that picture man, and it’s messing me up…..pictures where unattractive people are “trying” have always made me emotional though. It’s the most intense type of vulnerability.
BTW I agree with Lara, Kate’s body is super good.
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Did you really mean “picture man” or “picture, man”? LOL You are cracking me up with your sentimentality. Yes, you are one of the few who feel this way. You are feeling pity, which I often do too, but the point of the post, I think, was to show that too much muscle does not make a woman attractive. She loses her womanish appeal and looks too hard/defined. Although it isn’t necessary to pile on about her look, it does make me feel better about some of my, er, plush places. I’m glad to know its okay to be a little soft here and there. Its the same thing as hearing men call other women sluts. You feel inclined to defend them, but, on the other hand, its a compliment to your virtue if you’re not included in that. Interestingly enough, Madonna once did an interview where she said that she thought women should have a little belly. Now, she is the exact opposite and she, honestly, looks horrible. She is more machine than human. I’d love to see the men post pictures of women whose look they love. That curvy girl at the beach comes to mind.
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Although it isn’t necessary to pile on about her look
yes it is.
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The look can be disconnected from the person.
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Curse my awful grammar.
I do agree that I like to see what men prefer, for example, Kate Upton- who, although gorgeous, does have a thick waist and flab. It makes me endlessly happy that men will put up with junk in the trunk if the face is pretty enough and she has other attributes (In Kate’s case monster titties. I also think it’s the fact that she actually smiles and looks fun to be around).
It is annoying though, when men rag on sluts and butterfaced skeletons and then sleep with them because they are an easy lay. It is the case that men tend to MARRY and LTR more virtuous girls, and also girls who have prettier faces. But tell that 19 year old girl who just wants attention…..
Touching upon what you said about sluts, the biggest “slut shamers” are women. Just recently, a bunch of HS guys in my area made a website compiling all the nude selfies and dicksucking pics girls had sent them PLUS THEIR FULL NAMES. Twitter was full of girls (but no guys) from the school making fun of the girls, shaming them, calling them whores….but not a peep about the vicious, cruel, little sociopaths that put these girls on blast (many of whom had sent ONE picture to ONE long term boyfriend, and voila are now porn stars).
I guess that’s what happens when unrestrained narcissism meets unrestrained sexual aggression.
This rambling piece touches upon my last paragraph….the guy is a genius imho http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2013/01/no_self-respecting_woman_would.html
BTW you don’t look like you have any plush. You look REALLY good. Do you even lift?
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That is a digital world nightmare. I’ve been on a regimen of stairmaster, weights for arms, and ab machine for a while. Its just about twenty-five minutes every few days. I’d like to work on my inner/outer thighs, but the machine to do so is a little less than modest. I like to take walks when the weather cooperates. Also my house has a lot of stairs 😉
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Naw she’s trying to look like that. You give her way to much credit. If she didn’t try at all she’d look more feminine. She needs to avoid work outs that bulk up her torso.
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….and for the sake of fairness. The feminized American male.
https://encrypted-tbn1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQsprtvztI9keICtA5ZIRouxshDYqUNPKjw1oDyJQ9Bj18v4L0B
Or if you’re a history buff….
https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcT0oB8hQTNxceHFI2CJduq6-8TiSw85dgEXeRN_Q1JslPZ8heg4Vg
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Who’s that second one? Looks like Trotsky, and since he lived in Paris and Russia and died in México and was a d¡ck … I have no idea why he is an example of a feminized American male.
The “dude” I posted yesterday is a much better example – Jack Antonoff.
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Yes! Trotsky. He looks like the first guy though right? To me the resemblance is uncanny,
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Ahh, OK, thought you were saying both of these guys were feminized American males.
Not sure I see the resemblance, but no big deal.
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“What the hell is happening to American women? Is it something in the water? Too many splashy facials hardening them in soul and body? High fructose corn syrup? Man-shaped “alpha” women being preferentially genetically selected by plush herbschlingen? Epigenetic morphology alterations in response to environmental cues? The taut and tawny fruit of feminism?”
both american men and women across ethnic groups have more of a latern chin than people elsewhere. i think it’s the steroid beef you guys are eating.
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“Whatever it is, it doesn’t bode well for America. When women become like men, and men like women, the end days of a culture are nigh.”
Don’t you know the left is seeking to do just that? They want to obliterate all signs of gender. And, that’s how it starts, by making women more masculinized, and men more effeminate.
You can choose which sex you want to be: male, female, other, none. The left wants eventually to get to the none. No gender – men and women looking and acting exactly the same. It’s already a trend in the public schools and colleges. As usual, the left ruins everything fun and good and normal about being human. But for some, this is dead serious; it’s a war they are conducting to destroy gender.
As always, the schools are the best place to wage such wars because it can act to indoctrinate the young. The young aren’t so sure about themselves yet and are easy prey for evil leftists to advance their evil positions.
In some schools, you can indicate what gender you feel at any given time and put it down on an application. You can live in school as the opposite gender and at home as your real gender. You can play on the opposite gender’s teams in school, even if at other times you feel like being in your own gender’s team. And, the icing on the cake, the school can’t report to your parents what gender you’re acting like at school. In other words, schools highly discourage students from choosing genders, and make it feel uncool. After all, it’s more cool to switch around and be what ever you want at any given day. Folks, this is perversion replacing normal sexual behavior.
Not only is it a perversion of sexuality, but talk about favoritism of the highest order. Yet again, another protected class getting more rights than normal, traditional, taxpaying people. School bending over backwards for perversion and making sure such students feel comfee, but if a student wants to invoke God in his/her valedictorian speech, then that’s ground to cancel such a speech. Hypocrites.
Now the war against gender.
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Here is one proof in case anyone thinks this is just fear mongering.
http://forums.xkcd.com/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=52986
“How do we destroy gender?
I am starting here with the assumption that the very concept of gender is a bad one. It attempts to classify all of human preference and inclination into two opposing archetypes, based largely on historical prejudice and bigotry. Even if we were to (incorrectly) assume that gender roles were inherently benign rather than oppressive, they certainly aren’t useful.
But first, we need to explain what exactly we mean by destroying gender. We do not, for example, need to eliminate all differences in clothing worn by male and female people. It is, after all, only reasonable that people should want to wear well-fitting clothing, and biological differences mean that male and female people will require different cuts. Furthermore, beyond mere necessity, it is entirely reasonable that people would want to wear clothing that complements their body shape—which can mean even more pronounced differences than mere fitting would require. None of this, I think, is necessarily bad. Just as clothing can be chosen to complement one’s height, girth, or skin tone, so can it be chosen to complement traits specific to one’s biological sex.
But what do we need to eliminate? Obviously, all forms of discrimination would fall onto this list. The same would go for the ideals of Manliness and womanliness, masculinity and femininity. These concepts are useless at best and oppressive at worst, and certainly need to go. If we are to have ideals of human behavior, there is absolutely no reason that they should vary by biological sex. As such, if our ideals manliness and womanliness differ, one or both cannot truly be the ideal of human behavior. So they must go. But those are the obvious things. What else? Gender in language, perhaps. All too often a person’s gender is irrelevant to the information in question, and yet we are forced to identify it as though it were. True, gendered pronouns can occasionally help reduce confusion when discussing multiple people of conveniently differing genders, but any number of other details would serve as well; age, height, favorite color. And yet we do not have separate pronouns for these attributes, because that would be silly. I posit that gender is every bit as irrelevant as age, and the concept of separating pronouns around it should be examined as incredulously. Pronouns are just one small part of the problem, but language reform is not the only focus of this post and so I will now move on.
But, having established what a world without gender would look like, we are faced with a much more daunting problem: how do we get there? This is the real problem, and the reason for this post—I simply do not know. I fully support the abolition of gender, but I am not sure how I, as an individual, can help achieve this goal.
How can an individual subvert the system? To what degree is one morally obliged to do so? I ask in all seriousness—what do you, the wisest forum on the internet, have to say?”
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All of this is necessary if you are to become a working part of The Combine.
War is Peace.
Freedom is Slavery.
Gender is a Mental Construct.
Won’t you embrace The Combine, and assist us in manufacturing our Soylent Green, for the Good of the People?
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Perhaps you and others will enjoy Bill Whittle’s interview of Evan Sayet, which helps to understand our Dadaists/Nihilists, which now call themselves “Liberals” and/or “Progressives” (they are, of course, neither). They are masters of NLP, dontchaknow, and can always be relied upon to use words as weapons and/or means of camouflage.
For our White Power “friends” here, be advised that Evan is a jooooooo!!!! Oh noes! Clutch the pearls…. avert thine eyes….
The companion piece is Sayet’s now famous speech at the Heritage Foundation:
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Egalitarianism makes life cheap, as there is no value to an individual.
@Lily You may like this post: http://www.counter-currents.com/2013/02/equalitythe-way-to-a-meaningless-life/
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This is intentional.
The Combine needs you to hold these views, so that you can participate in the running of The Combine.
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@Flavia
Yeah, that’s very accurate; they really think “equality is a moral good.” There is nothing of the sort in real life or nature. This is a man-made principle that can never be realistic unless the “Dear Leader” gets his way and starts controlling our minds too.
I read the government is investing in technologies that can see through solid walls, and technologies that can read minds making it one step closer for Big Brother, who is turning quick into the Dear Leader, to have total control over us until we become cattle in a Lefty Utopia. I have to find this article.
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For our White Power “friends” here, be advised that Evan is a jooooooo!!!! Oh noes! Clutch the pearls…. avert thine eyes….
Thanks for the head’s up… we couldn’t have discerned, otherwise. LLOZOZOZOZOZLZLZLZLZOZOZOZOZOZL
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Who cares if he is a jooo, he talks the truth. Did you ever express anything worthwhile your whole entire worthless life? Go back to reading the credits of shows and movie, and try not to let your eyes pop out in jealousy and envy that you don’t have a career. Professional credits reader is probably what you and your dried up wife do all day long. Loser! LLOZOZOZOZOZLZLZLZLZOZOZOZOZOZL
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That was part of the joke, Greg. Evan could never deny his membership card, and nobody would ever think he was anything other than a Joo. He probably Summered in the Catskills when he was a kid – classic New Yorker Jewish.
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@Anonymous ∞
Thanks for the clips. I loved watching it because it crystalizes this stuff. I like the idea of the “theory of everything.” Just like physicist try to devise a theory that explains the universe (or creation if you will), Evan Sayet is smart for trying to come up with a description that can fit all liberal thought and explains their psyche.
He says liberals encourage you not to think or believe in anything so that you can never be a bigot. “Ignorance is bliss” to them.
Haha….remember what he said in the Leftoid thread about how they follow a leader and worship at his altar very much like idolatry is? They need someone to believe in, because they have no beliefs. That’s why people who have no convictions, beliefs, or distinguish good from evil and right from wrong have no opinions and make no judgments against what’s not right.
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This is why I state our Leftists (our “Democrats” or “Liberals” or “Progressives” or whatever other camouflage name they decide to use this week) are our Dadaists/Nihilists.
We are the hollow men
We are the stuffed men
Leaning together
Headpiece filled with straw. Alas!
Our dried voices, when
We whisper together
Are quiet and meaningless
As wind in dry grass
Or rats’ feet over broken glass
In our dry cellar
Leftists are Death Eaters. It’s why the like Islam – they recognize fellow Death Eaters. Hey, it’s all the same Soylent Green in the end anyway, as far as they are concerned.
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Almost everyone who has mentioned weightlifting is oblivious to what actually causes hypertrophy.
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She doesnt have the best body or face, but really did do the best with what shes got. No need to give her shit.
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No, she is not doing her best. She’s the skinny equivalent of a fat girl in a bikini. Rather than play up her best features to soften her look, she dresses in a corner tranny hoe uniform, and expects people to celebrate her empoweredness.
Doing her best would be a rounder updo to downplay the jaw thing. It would also be wearing makeup that softened her look, and gave it some rosiness.
It would be wearing a dress that made her figure look rounder rather than just on display.
There’s a whole lot she could do to look less tranny-like…but she won’t because all the little sheeple are telling her “you go grrl…”
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In that picture she looks like a more masculine version of Giada (TV cook).
What are some examples of truly feminine looking women?
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There aren’t so many in Hollyweird, but there are some great examples of women who do a very good job of looking feminine despite being hard bodied.
Marilyn Monroe was a great example. Same bodyfat or maybe even lower than Twiggy, but dressed to play up her curves. Lena Horne in her relatively younger days also had a butch body, but dressed and ornamented incredibly sexy and feminine. If you do a Google image search, note the cut of most of her dresses, and how she wore those wonderful draping sleeves as she got older.
Every once in awhile, Angelina Jolie wears something that hits it. She at least knows what to do even if she doesn’t do it all the time.
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Jesus!!! Iv’e seen trannies with more feminine features than that cross dressing chris jericho look alike.
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Good point anon 1:59; I can see it now below the glitter.
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A few things to add to my previous post (above).
I was mistaken about the digit ratio thing (pressed for time. Sorry).
Yes, the digit ratio is determined in the womb by exposure to adrogens. In a male, the index finger is shorter than the third (ring) finger. In a normal, feminized girl/woman, the index and ring fingers are approximately the same length. For those of you who don’t know – not the omnipotent CH – studies on lesbians have found that they have the male digit ratio (that is, a lower index-to-ringer-finger ratio like a man). Surprise surprise. You ever notice how so many lesbos have that androgynous, 12-year-old boyish facial appearance?
Why female fetuses are exposed to higher than normal levels of androgens in the womb is open to debate. Diet? Fatass, insulin-resistant, PCOS mothers with low sex hormone binding globulin levels and thus high free testosterone causing masculinization in the female fetus and abnormalities in males such as increased rates of autism?
That’s just theory.
Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia (CAH) is the most commonly accepted way in medicine that female fetuses are exposed to high levels of androgens in the womb. Because of a partial or complete enzymatic block, the adrenal glands are unable to produce enough, or any, cortisol. The brain senses this and responds via the hypothalamus (CRH) to the pituitary (ACTH), which tells the adrenals produce more cortisol. It can’t because of a partial or complete enzymatic block so all the adrena glandsl can do in response is to release increasing amounts of adrenal androgens. Poof. Masculinized female fetus. If the CAH is severe, then the girl would be born with ambiguous genitalia. A huge, penis-like clit and fused labia like a scrotum.
I think this whole masculinization of women thing has multiple causes. In a cancerous culture that encourages young girls to be aggressive, competitive, play sports, and eschew femininity, then sure they probably do have higher levels of T than girls of 30 years ago who stayed inside and played with dolls and helped mommy in the kitchen.
Then you’ve got the diet factor. Because of feminism, women went to work and stopped making home cooked meals. We all started eating fast foods and processed foods laced with things (sugar, then later HFCS) that taste good and stimulate our appetites to consume even more of that garbage. Result in women: obesity, insulin resistance, PCOS, lower SHBG/higher Free T causing masculinization in the womb. Phytoestrogens, xenoestrogens. God knows what else.
Teenage and college age girls using anabolic steroids in a deranged attempt to compete in sports or develop a lean body.
It’s everything.
http://gutenberg.net.au/ebooks02/0200251h.html
If you have any intellectual curiousity at all, then get your asses off twitter and facebook for an hour and read the link above (Nutrition and Physical Degeneration by Weston A. Price). It’s an eye opener.
Finally, if a man is interested in having a traditional relationship with a feminine woman – especially if you want to get married and start a family – then get out of here. Renounce your U.S. citizenship and move to Europe, Asia, or South America. Get the hell out of here.
Even if you could manage to find a feminine American woman, this poisonous culture and shitty diet of fast foods and processed foods would turn your daughters into beastly, masculinized sluts and your sons would likely become pussy beta bitches.
But, if you’re just interested in pumping and dumping and short term relations only, then rock on. Until the United States falls apart with civil unrest and economic collapse, but that won’t happen until between 2017 – 2020. Europe and Japan go down the tubes first, then it’s our turn. Still time to party in the meantime, though.
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I have my copy of that book literally sitting here at arm’s reach. Excellent recommendation. Didn’t realize it had been added to the Gutenberg Project – very cool… and on to the tablets it goes….
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I didn’t know there was such an obvious link between labia and scrotum.
Fascinating!
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Holy boner-assassinating tranny, Batman.
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Threadwinner.
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http://www.thegloss.com/2010/11/15/fashion/fashion-disasters-dmanti/
She looks like Kid Rock. Anyone ever seen the two together?
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[…] it is, it doesn’t bode well for America. …read more Source: Chateau […]
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I remember when ugly women, knowing they hurt people’s eyes, covered up most of their ugliness when they came out.
It gave them charm and class. An ugly woman who didn’t assault you with porkiness/resemblance to Cujo and acted proper could be pleasant company for a man low on the totem pole.
Nowadays, however, ugly women are taught to “just go for it” and flaunt their ugliness. in dresses that are for pretty women. Most go overboard and wear outfits that only the top 1% of women should wear.
Fatties at the beach in bikinis is the new normal.
I cry merely to fill my eyes with tears to blot out the sight of so many Sisters of Warpig.
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Ugly women do one of the most horrible things on the planet.
Eye rape.
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Then cut your eyes out.
…or butch up because life does not owe you entertainment.
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Women owe men everything in civilized society.
It’s a wonder we don’t demand it more.
Sharia law looks very appealing with each passing day.
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Women may owe men, but life does not owe men or women anything.
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You owe men your eternal gratitude you’re not being eaten by wolves or murdered by your “noble savages.” You owe us obedience and loyalty. You owe us the ability to choose good betas and not sleep around with cads.
You give none of that. That is why societies crumble—because we, the men, who created it all, stop caring about your skanky asses, and treat you all like the sluts you are.
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No see whore, I owe *my* man obedience and loyalty. I owe you nothing.
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Let me spell this out for you more clearly.
My man values me despite my flaws. For this I am grateful.
My man is protective of me. For this I am grateful.
My man loves his culture, but is not so overly dependent on it that he will allow people to regulate who he is with. For this I am grateful.
My man treats me with a balance of a firm hand and awareness of my femininity. For this I am grateful.
You do not value me. You hate me. You are the enemy of me, my people, my man, and his people, who will, if he sticks around, become my people too in a way. So it is the same to me if you are alive or dead. I owe you nothing but the business end of a sword, so to speak.
It’s about relevance. If you don’t make yourself relevant, you won’t be relevant.
So stop riding the coattails of your betters and be someone relevant. Then maybe you’ll at least have my respect as a worthy enemy instead of an annoying pissant plaguing the comments section of a site where men are learning how not to be pissants.
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Yet you insult well dressed, loyal women who aren’t competing with the younglings for opportunities to get pumped and dumped.
You wouldn’t appreciate pleasant company, so this is why you don’t get much of it.
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Yet you insult well dressed, loyal women who aren’t competing with the younglings for opportunities to get pumped and dumped.
–Pray tell, whom are you talking about? This ugly “woman: is neither dressed well, nor have you presented any proof that she is loyal or competing for a pump-and-dump.
You wouldn’t appreciate pleasant company, so this is why you don’t get much of it.
—And you, warpig, could never offer it, which is why your husband is gone.
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Is he?
One sec…
Nope, he’s in his bed asleep.
See, how it works when you are loyal and pleasant and an asset to someone’s life is that even when someone gets too old to shag, they still want you in their life.
I have presented and have reams of proof in a few places on the net. You just don’t bother to read it or look at it. You think everybody is as mentally lazy as you, and that you can get away with lying.
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lol. Right, warpig. Your husband is with you, right now, after he dumped your ass in Israel.
Niggers: they lie and lie and lie.
You are about as pleasant as moldy turnip.
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So the blog, the photos, the Facebook in my actual name, etc. isn’t enough for you?
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Is this your idea of a clever ploy to get my phone number? 😉
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There’s something for you in my blog, whore. Are we happy now?
Not everybody is too screwed up to love and be loved.
People who look near perfect get screwed over every day.
Some people who do not even look close to perfect love and are loved so much that even when they no longer have what someone can exploit, someone still loves them.
Not everyone needs to be alpha to be loved. Not everyone needs to be beautiful to be loved.
That is the beauty of love…that it is a persistent madness that can’t even really be earned. Understanding that it’s not about deserve helped me to be more appreciative of a great many gifts.
One day, when you grow up, maybe you’ll understand that too, and find someone who loves you.
Though if I was to wager, I’d say you were the sort who had already sent someone who loved you away because you believed she didn’t deserve love because she wasn’t perfect because someone screwed your mind to think you don’t deserve to be loved because you’re not perfect.
So it’s tough love, but in a way it’s love, whore. I want to see you improve yourself. So I can’t show you any mercy until you show yourself some.
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LOL
http://ironwynch.com/scrolls/2013/02/excuse-me/
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Shhh, I’m pretending that I can have fun relationship sex for the rest of my life if I just stay in shape and dress well.
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Here’s an article about a chick named Christmas Abbott, a new pit crew member in NASCAR.
http://sports.yahoo.com/news/nascar–female-in-the-pits–christmas-abbott-is-set-to-enter-where-few-women-have-before-170207111.html
She’s a hard-core, tatted up Crossfitter grrrrlpower type, although in watching a vide of her she, amazingly, does come across as feminine.
A couple questions come to mind:
1. Do these women actually believe that the vast majority of desirable men find this badasschick look/attitude attractive?
2.Obviously such women are not going to be happy hooking up with or marrying a portly soft herb. Most likely they want a strong alpha male to trump their grrlpower and make them feel feminine. However strong alphas are primarily into (or have their pick of) young, uber-girly, feminine, voluptous women with skin free of ink and no attitude or masculine job.
So how do such grrlpower chicks ever find happiness?
Do they go all Jillian Michaels and date lesbian style?
Don’t these women realize they are severely limiting their target market of men when they adopt such masculine characteristics?
Personally, even a small tattoo and most definitely a tramp stamp is enough for me to immediately knock a girl down 2-3 notches and often out of contention. It is a reflection on the internal workings of her mind, her sexual history, level of T, judgement and lack of awareness in regards to male sexual triggers and what really turns men on.
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Most women in the U.S. are very ignorant as to what men want. It’s like it’s hovering somewhere in the subconscious, but the knowledge of how to manage their lives in a way that balances preservation of their femininity and survival is mostly lost.
In my own transition from hostile warpig to occasionally gentle sow, I had to dig deep and get all roots and stuff for clues to actually making it work.
There is nothing a woman can do about her genes or her childhood, but she can “strengthen the things that remain”. To do so however, takes such a grand leap of faith that I am not sure many who are currently butched out can do it. There are so many short term benefits to being aggressive, and so many possible dangers to not being so.
Until I found a man really capable of handling me, who would value me despite my flaws, I had to manage to navigate through many “you go girls” and predatory types taking advantage of that. Then I had to have my heart broken by the few who valued me but were in bad situations (exes returning, drama, etc.) to land on one who was both willing and available.
It is rough out there. One can’t look to others for their happiness. One has to do the right thing, and be happy, and if someone else recognizes, that is nice but not something life owes you, and therefore not something one should bank on or lean on.
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It’s the Law of Pornstars, which that fag Bill Simmons has commented on before (one of his few correct assertions).
Basically, a year in porn is like 7 human years on a female pornstar’s looks. It’s because she’s been banged so many times, for so long, she begins to look haggard and beat up well-beyond her years. Even plastic surgery can’t save it—a porn star at 35 could pass for 50 on camera.
Same thing with sluts. Sluts look much more haggard and “road hard” and older (ha!) than non-sluts. Not caring about their bodies that much, they cover them with tatoos.
Since nowadays women have ore sexual partners, they begin to look like sluts of old—beat up worn out rag dolls. It’s why we see so man tatooed tough grrls now—because they are acting like the sluts of yore, who were the beat-up tough grrls of their day.
I shudder as to what lifeofalovergirl looks like IRL, not in the inevitable Photoshopped and cropped pictures she’ll pass around as “proof” as to how “hot” she is. Imagine what the fat, tattooed broad from Jane magazine looks like in normal lighting without a feminazi’ed Photoshopper and makeup artist to save her. Yikes!
Sad for us. Enjoy the decline!
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Yawn. I’ve never had a tatoo and I frequently get told I look young for my age. Keep trying though. I don’t really feel a need to get my looks validated by you all. I’m sure you would find all kinds of things to pick apart and nasty things to say, just like you do with any woman’s picture that gets posted on here. Not sure how that’s helping anyone get laid and I could argue that it goes a long way in preventing that very thing. A hateful attitude towards the female species just isn’t a turn on, any more than you all like “feminists”.
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I’ve never had a tatoo and I frequently get told I look young for my age.
—This reminds me of that famous John Cleese line: “The trouble with women is that they always think everyone is talking about them!”
And honey…the words of men to lure you into bed are not proof. Try harder.
I don’t really feel a need to get my looks validated by you all.
—lmao. ugly.
I’m sure you would find all kinds of things to pick apart and nasty things to say
–because they would be true, slut.
Not sure how that’s helping anyone get laid and I could argue that it goes a long way in preventing that very thing.
—How we treat cheap sluts like you, or internet photos of trannies is no indication of how we react to quality women offline.
A hateful attitude towards the female species just isn’t a turn on
—And yet you keep sleeping with men who regard you as gutter trash. Imagine that.
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Thankfully the guys I sleep with aren’t as close minded as you. They can enjoy me for both my sexual appetite and my company, imagine that! How you treat me and other women that you refer to as “sluts” very much affects how all women view you. No one wants to open up sexually with a man who has been known to shame women for their desires. You are very much putting yourself at risk to get lied to and cheated on by a woman who feels the need to present herself as a “madonna” before your critical anti-slut eyes. As for my looks. If you want to think of me as ugly that is up to you. Perhaps you would think so if you saw me in real life and maybe not. It doesn’t really matter since with your attitude I wouldn’t sleep with you anyway.
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Lovergirl, first of all, let me make it clear that I am not defending whore. I find him repulsive, but for different reasons.
That out of the way, I’m noticing that you seem to have this very thick and murky bubble around your head. It seems to be sustained by a lot of pep talk from people who are essentially exploiting your “free sexuality”.
Maybe some of the frank discussion threw you off a bit here, as does, likely, the rough, blunt way we address one another.
To get along here, you will need to set aside your persecution complex, and read what the men are actually saying. Step down off your pedestal and read the actual words, not what your feminist filters tell you to extrapolate from what men say.
Nobody is telling you that you shouldn’t have sex or that we don’t want you to discuss it. What we’re saying is that a woman bragging about having sex or having sex with a bunch of guys is like bragging about taking a pee. It is also unbecoming and not inspiring anyone to take you seriously as a long term partner, regardless of what they tell you to your face.
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Lovergirl, first of all, let me make it clear that I am not defending whore. I find him repulsive, but for different reasons.
That out of the way, I’m noticing that you seem to have this very thick and murky bubble around your head. It seems to be sustained by a lot of pep talk from people who are essentially exploiting your “free sexuality”.
Maybe some of the frank discussion threw you off a bit here, as does, likely, the rough, blunt way we address one another.
To get along here, you will need to set aside your persecution complex, and read what the men are actually saying. Step down off your pedestal and read the actual words, not what your feminist filters tell you to extrapolate from what men say.
Nobody is telling you that you shouldn’t have sex or that we don’t want you to discuss it. What we’re saying is that a woman bragging about having sex or having sex with a bunch of guys is like bragging about taking a pee. It is also unbecoming and not inspiring anyone to take you seriously as a long term partner, regardless of what they tell you to your face.
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Thanks for your concern. I’m not currently looking for a “long term” partner however. I had one of those. Was married to him for 13 years. It felt like a prison sentence. I was so happy to be set free and I am quite enjoying my sexual freedom these days. It’s a lot of fun and I’m fortunate to have some awesome guys that I am currently involved with. One of them has been taking me to swinger parties which is a fascinating new experience.
I’ve heard the nonsense about how women shouldn’t treat sex casually all my life, like most everyone else. Hell, I was married to a preacher. I’ve heard it ten times over. I just don’t believe it anymore.
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You are free to make whatever choices you like. What you’re not free from is the consequences of those choices.
As a bit of a freak myself, I’m feeling you. Letting go of the conventions that dragged you down is wonderful, especially when you have a worthy partner with you all the way.
Just understand that you have a rare and special gift, and that the privileges you enjoy from this are the exception, not the rule. Advising others based on your great luck is not a good idea. Applying your privileged view to the lives of others who didn’t have your luck is also not a good idea.
Be aware as well, that life can change in an instant. My wonderful Master aged out, and I found myself in the market again, in a different country, facing things my spoiled ass was not ready to deal with.
Being here helped me A LOT in navigating my way to a new man who was fit for me, and in not screwing that up. So you should pay attention. You don’t have to agree with everyone, but you should respect the value of their perspectives, and not be so quick to invalidate people.
It’ll open your eyes.
By the way, even if a man, in principle, is “free love”, he should at least be protective of you. Be really careful in the swinger’s scene because many women talk polyamory, but play take-your-man-ory. They’re there looking to trade up.
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Haha, swinger parties. I’m sure you’re “quite the catch”. In fact, I think Hermann Melville wrote a book about you.
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I couldn’t be fat if I tried, I don’t have the genetics for it.
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Being here helped me A LOT in navigating my way to a new man who was fit for me, and in not screwing that up. So you should pay attention. You don’t have to agree with everyone, but you should respect the value of their perspectives, and not be so quick to invalidate people.
I have no respect whatsoever for a white boy who hides behind the internet and calls people “niggers” every chance he gets. What a pathetic specimen of wanna- be manhood. I’d bet money that he’s not getting laid either.
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Lovergirl, I don’t respect him either, but I care enough about humanity to try to understand his perspective and want him to grow. That’s the thing…if you are just here to lob insults at people, you’re no better than him.
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Most american women aren’t worth hating.
Hell, they aren’t even worth the co-pay of their insurance subsidized birth control.
This whole convo made me laugh. Thanks fatties, for making me laugh. That’s at least worth the diesel fuel required to haul the tankcars filled with cornsyrup to your local post-coyote coitus morning after pie hole stuffing emporiums.
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Don’t let the door hit you…
Here we get to the point of all this talk about dudes banging fatties: when you’re stuck in the programming, even fat chicks feel they’re too good for you. So don’t ever let yourself put any woman, no matter how hot, on a pedestal. A hot chick can get fat in a couple of years, and they all get old.
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Old is more respectable than fat. Old happens. Fat is self induced.
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So is ignorant.
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This person has done some pretty exhaustive research into the phenomenon.
http://www.femininebeauty.info/feminine-vs-masculine
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I know a funny AFC that has a saying:
1. I will do fat and cute.
2. I will do ugly and skinny.
3. But i wont do ugly and fat.
I wonder what he would say about this chick? I guess something like:
1. I will do model-bodied and man-faced.
2. I will do model-faced and man-bodied.
3. But i wont do man-faced and man-bodied. lol.
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I’m not American, but I have to admit, your women are fuckin nasty, and not just to look at, but to talk to as well.
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I don’t like it when men use the word “nasty” to mean anything other than a bad temperament. It makes them sound gay.
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Nasty bitxh Lara. Oh girlfriend! Oooooh snap!!
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Here she is doing a striptease….somehow I doubt the guys were complaining…
http://salem-news.com/articles/december022011/dmanty-debut.php
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Nobody said she isn’t doable. I’d drop a few loads on her face and give her rough anal. Most men would.
But she is masculine and not a keeper.
[Heartiste: lifeofalovergirl appears to be a hamster of very small brain. Reading comprehension is not her strong suit.]
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[Heartiste: lifeofalovergirl appears to be a hamster of very small brain. Reading comprehension is not her strong suit.]
Haha…for a retarded, fat, ugly, masculine “hamster”
[Heartiste: You’re fat and ugly?]
I’m doing damn skippy for myself!
[If your above claim is true, then this claim is false.]
Maybe it’s because I’ve got more game in my pinky finger than all y’all combined. 😉
[Do you look like Sofia Vergara? That’s game for girls.]
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Of course I’m fat and ugly!! Haven’t these guys already told you? I’m a giant land whale warpig with the brain of a hamster. I’m no Sofia Vergara but I’ve managed to stuff my holes full of big black cock and am quite satisfied and happy ;).
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” I’m no Sofia Vergara but I’ve managed to stuff my holes full of big black cock and am quite satisfied and happy 😉 .”
A modern day fairy tale!!
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I know right? 😉
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I’m doing damn skippy for myself!
If that’s your cuppa tea… it would explain things.
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Looking oh so “masculine” at the Latin Grammy Awards…
http://www.exposay.com/dmanti-11th-annual-latin-grammy-awards—arrivals/p/42055/305/
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I don’t like the dress, but she actually looks decent there. She should wear her hair up more.
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The dress isn’t great but it does make her look like she has hips, which I’m sure is the point.
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When she isn’t trying so hard to be sexy, she’s actually sexier.
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Wow, you’re a butthurt one aren’t you.
You’ve been Bernankaefied!!!!
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How is it that even on a blog devoted to men, by men, about men’s issues the comments section is still 3/4s women spinning their furry rodents?
[Heartiste: We run an equal opportunity hamster wheel here.]
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Alphas attract women.
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Bet she can fuck like a turbocharged V12. That face… ugh, praise Allah for doggie.
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I’m just here to huff the alpha. Its the only thing keeping me alive 🙂
[Heartiste: Huff enuf gruff stuff your muff gets ruff and buff.]
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I’ve been rebuffed!
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Don’t worry, there are still plenty of developed 8 year old feminine looking girls for you out there that won’t be able to kick your ass.
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you are really creepy ashley and wierd and sick in the head
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Why do you keep posting? Do you not see that you are everything men hate about Western women?
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I was just trying to joke around.
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Women are crappy comedians. Ever notice that most comediennes are dykes?
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Ever notice how most of the people to insult comedians really just have shitty sense of humor?
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My sense of humor is just fine. Most people don’t find pedophilia jokes funny.
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I called this meme over in the Roosh Forum! I’d spotted a comment a guy made on CNN’s Web site under an article on obesity where he claimed that men that can’t appreciate “big women” are pedophiles and want “little girls.”
Even if Ashley was joking, we need to brace ourselves for this meme to take hold: if you don’t want an overweight, manjawed, tattooed harridan that you’re a child molester!!!
This is what America has come to.
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Uggo coping mechanisms.
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Selection bias, is what’s going on about American women. The only ones with enough competitive juices to lay off the twinkies, are the ones with male like androgen levels.
This is triply true for women who sharp-elbow their way into highly sought after positions like “pop singer.” Or judge. Or college entry into schools where they get to meet future US presidents. Or even fitness model or music video dancer. It takes hard work to get those jobs. Hard, ambitious, self centered work. Man’s work, in other words. These are the kind of women you’ll meet in SWPLtopian cities; while their less ambitious, less androgenic sisters stay home on the farm enjoying comfort food.
There are plenty of curvy, feminine, submissive women with petite chins out there. Hidden under layer upon layer of blubber.
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That jaw, oh my. Like the joker.
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Ah, CH.
An evolutionary-compulsive post reminding you why this blog exists.
Thanks man.
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The most recent version of this (in my mind) was Catherine Zeta Jones in last weekend’s Oscar ceremony. She was in costume as a cabaret performer (basically, lingerie with bare shoulders).
What got me first was her shoulders. I can’t fault her workout ethic – she had the shoulders of a linebacker. The second was her body thickness, visible from both the front and side views. Her torso was very heavy – no curves. My guess is that her trainers have her doing far too many exercises to build abdominal strength, and the result for women is embarrassing to view.
Putting a body like that into revealing feminine clothing is just revolting. Please make it stop.
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She got nothing on this: http://www.mybodygallery.com/img/5515/2.jpg
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