Why did this dude move out of the way and let his girlfriend get hit by a homerun ball? Mincing beta? Yes. Better answer: his girlfriend is chubby. Men don’t feel inspired to gallantly sacrifice for low value fat chicks.
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A 2009 metastudy of human rape (apparently rape occurs in chimps, too), authored by a woman, found that
Among college-aged women,approximately 40% of rape victims report continuing to date their attackers (Wilson and Durrenberger 1982; Koss 1989).Women’s positive expectations for a relationship correlated to self-blame and reduced anger in response to coercion (Macy et al.2006).
Brutally ugly. Brutally anti-feminist. Amanda Marcuntte’s forested dickclit just shot a venomous dart at the heart of the world. Now why would peak nubility chicks dig rapist jerks so much so that nearly half of them find ways to rationalize their continued relationships with these ur-assholes? The study offers an intriguing explanation that is in line with Chateau teachings:
A morally troubling prediction of Smuts and Smuts’s [ed: heh] hypothesis is that use of sexual aggression may be effective in continuing a male’s sexual access to a female.
Science comes around to vindicating not just the milder Chateau truths, but the uglier, darker, beastlier Chateau truths as well.
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Ex-leftoid admits what guests of Le Chateau knew all along: Leftoid whites hate their own culture and are engaged in a long-running, simmering status whoring war with struggling, non-SWPL whites. Prediction: the leftoids will not like the fruits of their cultural victory.
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The Obama Administration has deleted a Bureau of Justice Statistics webpage that detailed some uncomfortable truths about race and homicide. You thought 1984 was hyperbole. You thought wrong. No, really. You thought wrong.
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Via Jason Malloy, an unpublished study, titled “Blindness, Deprivation, and IQ: A Meta-Analysis”, opens with this bombshell:
… The present study performed a meta-analysis of studies of the IQ of visually impaired children and adults. The results of our analysis demonstrated that visual deprivation showed no effect on the average IQ scores of a severely handicapped group, and therefore it disconfirmed the cumulative deficit hypothesis … Further, the fact that the severely deprived environment of visually impaired has no impact on their average IQ score makes it less likely that the arguably less deprived environment of, for instance, Blacks in the U.S. or immigrant groups in Europe is the cause of their lower mean IQs. Our meta-analytically based study makes environmental causes of group differences in IQ less plausible and therefore genetic causes less implausible.
Homo economicus is a phantom. Gated communities are not.
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White privilege is a term that’s been thrown around a lot lately, mostly by manboobed, scalzied whites with sexual dimorphism issues. But what is white privilege, really? Here’s an answer that’s logical, reasonable, truthful, and admirably restrained.
(As long as the status jockeying, anti-white ruling class continues in their propaganda campaigns, CH will continue to keep its cruel shiv unsheathed, aimed at their black hearts.)
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Ross Douthat, mild-mannered, powerfully-browed Cathedral infiltrator and pilferer of original Chateau ideas (sniffed with the utmost butthurtness), has a good post on the intersection between culture, class, growing gay marriage support, and the declining rate of marriage.
Liberal doubts about the past existence of a procreative grounding for marriage notwithstanding, there’s a general understanding that the combination of the sexual revolution, economic change, and shifting gender norms have altered the way Americans conceptualize marriage, what they expect out of the institution, and how it shapes their romantic and reproductive choices. […]
So we have this convergence, which is mostly middle America drifting toward upper middle class norms and ideas about marriage, and drifting away from the (mostly religious) institutions that preach a stronger connection between sex, procreation and wedlock. And here’s what’s striking: As middle Americanideas about marriage have converged with upper class ideas, their outcomeshave converged with the destabilized lower class. Middle American divorce rates and out-of-wedlock birth rates tracked with the college-educated until the 1980s; they’ve been converging with high school dropouts ever since. A generation ago, it seemed at least plausible that 21st century America would have two (relatively) stable marriage cultures — one upper middle class and more socially liberal, one lower middle class and more socially conservative. But in the current generation, the upper class’s values have triumphed, and the lower-middle marriage culture has gone into steeper decline.
Well worth reading in full. But would it kill Douthat and others of his ilk to mention who precisely was the source of these and similar ideas now percolating through the betastream media organs? Yes, I suppose it would kill him. Or at least kill his job security.
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Segueing from Douthat’s column, here’s Vox riffing on an interview with actor Jeremy Irons, who said that “same sex marriage could lead to fathers marrying their own sons to avoid inheritance tax.”
I’d always assumed that the primary problem was that once it is decided that marriage could not longer be limited by sex, obviously it could not justly be limited by quantity either. But, as Irons has correctly perceived, merely removing the sex limit is sufficient to produce a truly perverse set of incentives.
Polyamory’s Box is open. Per Douthat above, the redefining of marriage from a procreative institution to a soulmate/”capstone”/love ideal (one reason for the upper class trend of egregiously expensive proposals and weddings) will inexorably redirect marriage down the path of the logic of love. If you love it, the state will let you marry it.
Love two women, and two women love you? Married! What’s that? You’re not a fan of polygamy? Equal rights!
Love your daughter in that special way? Married! What’s that? You’re not a fan of incest? Anti-love bigot!
Love your cat? Married! What’s that? Bestiality not your cup of tea? Regressive moral throwback. Don’t you know only fairness and harm are legitimate grounds for a state-sanctioned morality?
You laugh, but the logic is inescapable, and immune to legalistic legerdemain. As one anonymous wag put it, “This isn’t the slippery slope. This is Splash Mountain.”
Now personally, I don’t care about same sex marriage. Its allowance or banning has no effect on the eddies of my life, because I have always been aware that love doesn’t require signing on the dotted line. But as anti-marriage as CH has been, we must respect the Dark Enlightenment argument that the redefining of marriage as a secular social status sacrament certifying Pure Love and Flush Stock Portfolios will have far-reaching negative consequences. Marriage as an equalist wet dream means, in reality, single moms and bastard spawn as far as the eye can see. Plus, perhaps, dads marrying sons for the tax break.
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What is the “Cathedral”? It’s high time Le Chateau gave credit where it’s due, to a one Mr. M. Moldbug. In shortened form, the Cathedral is the sum total of the American entertainment, media, academic and government industrial complexes, staffed, led, and filled out to brimming by hordes upon hordes of self-annihilating, snarky leftoids propagandizing their infinite lies to their masters in the belching hells.
Cathedral, meet the Chateau. Le Chateau proprietors, escort the Cathedral to the Hall of Endless Wounding and introduce its degenerate apparatchiks your guest of honor to The Shiv. Beautiful Shiv, sparkle for your Lord. Plunge deep, and carve the mewling id from your foes.

In the future, everyone will be faggried or dykried to their grandparents for 15 minutes.
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Well worth reading in full. But would it kill Douthat and others of his ilk to mention who precisely was the source of these and similar ideas now percolating through the betastream media organs? Yes, I suppose it would kill him. Or at least kill his job security.
In fairness, Charles Murray was also there, with his Belmont/Fishtown dichotomy, published a little more than a year ago.
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BTW, Murray was looking at this from the point of view of IQ, and how low-IQ folk are so desperately ill-equipped to handle the utter nihilism of modernity, and especially ill-equipped to see through the relentless prodding towards the most grotesque of misbehaviors, which bombards them 24×365 [on television and in the movies and via online social media], courtesy of the Frankfurt School.
On the other hand, one faint sliver of hope coming out of the 2012 election disaster was that Romney won college-educated whites IN A MASSIVE LANDSLIDE.
So this idea that the DEMs are the party of the smart and that the GOP is the party of the stoopid is coming to a screeching halt.
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“The Obama Administration has deleted a Bureau of Justice Statistics webpage that detailed some uncomfortable truths about race and homicide.”
It’s funny how everyone involved in the gun control debate sidesteps the fact that blacks are the ones shooting people most of the time.
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Not in Afghanistan.
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Sorry thwack, your response has absolutely nothing to do with the current conversation. Try again …
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Given a choice between stuck in Afghanistan or in inner-city Chicago, those with a functioning sense of self preservation choose the former.
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What country you from?
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That’s why thwack never enlisted…
“Ain’t no raghead ever called me a nigger!”
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Well some call the ragheads sandniggers…
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naa its the college educated that are ill equipped to handle the modernity cause they get brainwashed in school
low iq people really don’t care about it they live their lives
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Except that that’s not true: McCain won college-educated whites by just one point, and then Romney widened that win to EIGHTEEN POINTS [58-40].
Among smart whites, the GOP and the conservative message is actually ACCELERATING AWAY from the DEMs and their fruitcake, nutso-whacko, tribalistic agenda of overtly obvious insanity.
You just don’t realize this yet because the Frankfurt School is bombarding you 24×365 with the intentionally manufactured disinformation which holds that all the cool, hip, with-it kids are DEMs.
When, in point of fact, they aren’t: Increasingly [and acceleratingly], the cool, hip, with-it kids are all GOP.
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“Among smart whites, the GOP and the conservative message is actually ACCELERATING AWAY from the DEMs and their fruitcake, nutso-whacko, tribalistic agenda of overtly obvious insanity.”
This is very good news indeed. Problem is the left can counter this with amnesty and allowing more minorities into the country and making them citizens. Isn’t Obama trying to do just that?
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i have yet to meet a feminist where I live the bitches all empowered though
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except of course the ones in free housing which is a shitload
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“except of course the ones in free housing which is a shitload”
There is a metric shit-ton of femcunt SWPL hipster-ettes out in Oregon bumming off of food stamps and other forms of welfare.
[I actually know one of them.]
It’s so bad that it’s skewing the entire state to look as though it’s populated by Orangutans and Armadillos:
http://danieljmitchell.wordpress.com/2013/03/19/mirror-mirror-on-the-wall-which-state-has-the-highest-food-stamp-usage-of-all/
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Nah, not smart, just subsidizing duh red states at 50 billion a year.
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That’s a misnomer, I’m sorry to say. You blue states make more money because it costs twice as much to live in blue states, but its not going in your pockets, its going into Democrat politicians’ and their union accolytes’ pockets. Red states have most of the military assets and the retirees because its cheaper to live in red states. As far as welfare leaches are concerned, reds tates can’t even begin to compete with blue states. Keep whistling past the grave yard. You need us far more than we need you. I’m at the point where I tell yankees to just turn around and go back home, they’re not really welcome here. You’ve soiled your own nests, don’t come and soil ours too.
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Tah-rone-I see, like other ungrateful welfare recipients, it’s “different” with you because you “deserve” our blue-state money via SS transfer and military spending. It’s OK! We libruls don’t mind….It’s the modern, smart, Christian way to be!
Oh, and Ayn Rand would cream about California coming up with WAY more patents than other states. Actual stuff that gets built! Heroic Howard Roarks in action!
SMARTER, cave-dweller. Ou don’t have to accept it, just ’cause it’s true….
I know I’m bad for being proud…
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On the other hand, one faint sliver of hope coming out of the 2012 election disaster was that Romney won college-educated whites IN A MASSIVE LANDSLIDE
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Hold on here, aren’t college educated whites running the media which is engaged in “relentless prodding towards the most grotesque of misbehaviors, which bombards them 24×365 [on television and in the movies and via online social media]? If these whites have such high IQs, why are they engaging in these destructive behaviors?
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If these whites have such high IQs, why are they engaging in these destructive behaviors?
Because the Frankfurt School isn’t run by whites – it’s run by JEWS.
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Zombie Shane
BTW, Murray was looking at this from the point of view of IQ, and how low-IQ folk are so desperately ill-equipped to handle the utter nihilism of modernity,
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True; but the best thing about this book is because it is focused on white people, the mechanics and dynamics of niggerization are clearly revealed because without black people in the mix, the “genetics” excuse is lost. BTW, has Murry ever “named the weJ?”
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Like onjy Nixon could go to China, only a sexually active fag like me can state the following:-
marriage is an institution designed for monogamy between one man and one woman.
Depart from that / end in sight.
There. I said it.
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The most anti-gay marriage people I’ve met are gay. In the words of Ed, my wife’s gay friend: “Most fags aren’t mature enough to come to work sober, let alone get married.”
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Interesting! This only proves my suspicions that gay marriage has a sexual and political agenda, which is to create more gays, as there is safety in numbers.
I know some of you believe the hogwash that gays are born that way because that’s what you were lead to believe by the leftist culture, but I tell you homosexuality is a choice or a learned behavior. Shame the behavior and you will have fewer and fewer gays. Glorify it, make it equal to heterosexual sex, take away the sinful and the filthy aspects of it, allow gays to adopt children and play family, give gays free reign around young children or younger adults as in coaching, teaching, mentoring, playing professional sports, joining the military etc., in other words give it the imprimatur it craves, and you’ll practically ensure 50% of the population becoming gay within 50 years. And if you think 50 years is a long time and we can worry about crossing that bridge when we get there, think from 1963 to now only 50 years passed and look what has happened to society within such a short span. It’s like night and day. If we continue on this path, hell will break loose within 50 years. If gay marriage is legalized by the Supreme Court, it’s the end of everything moral and civilized. Wait, either our civilization will destroy itself like the Greco-Roman world for which homosexuality was a contributing factor in its destruction, or God will destroy our civilization like he did so many others for the practice of homosexuality, as sanctioned homosexuality cannot co-exist with a moral and civilized society. Even with the best intentions, homosexuality has a destroying effect on a culture. The negative effects should trump all other consideration such as civil rights and the like.
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Do you actually believe all that? I think at least some people who make such outlandishly wild speculations know that they’re probably full of shit, but they like the ripple effect it causes.
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She’s absolutely correct in this assessment. The whole point of this exercise is to bisexualize society and allow for free molestation of children to provide that needed “significant erotic event” that will trigger the desire for more homosexual acts. I think one of the biggest reasons gays get so loud and mouthy is because they are seeking to convince themselves that what they know to be wrong is actually right.
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No. The point of this exercise is to take men with nothing to lose- free men- unattached men- and turn them into willing participants of a feminine culture.
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They’re two sides of the same coin.
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@ yeahokcool
I’m 100% right. Homosexuality is a choice. The only way homosexuals received the cultural acceptance they have so far, was to lie to their loved ones that they have no choice in being erotically attracted to the same sex. Let’s face it, until they started to claim they have no choice because they were born that way, they receive no sympathy for their self-induced predicament. So please, don’t let them dupe you. Once they started to claim they were born that way, their friends and family did the petitioning for them, because they were sympathetic to their “plight” and wanted to help them come out of the closet. Now that they have acceptance, their well-organized activists are going all the way – to obliterate marriage and to destroy all gender differences between male and female. This will ensure the percentage of homosexuals grows so that their lifestyle is never again called into question. And the only way a homosexual is born is at puberty when a young male is beginning to develop his sexuality. A young male is a new slate at this crucial time in his development, and gays like to exploit that tender phase in a boy’s life. That’s why they have always been interested in boys and young teenagers since time immemorial, just ask the Greeks; they all had young male lovers. After thousands of years of cultural evolution, homosexuals can now taste victory over society. This is a historic epic battle, and it’s too bad some people can’t see it for what it is – the destruction of our culture. A culture often destroys itself from within, way before any foreign power enters the picture, just ask the Roman Empire. We are witnessing it before our very eyes in the West. When our culture assumed radical leftism, it opened the door to Islam.
Wait and see if I am right before you say I’m full of shit. You might not even have to wait 50 years. If homosexuality is sanctioned, within 2 years you’ll see how it enters the public schools. Once it’s part of the public schools, kids will not be classified as male and female (they’re already asked to classify which sex they identify with), mother/father is classified as parent (2 fathers, 2 parents), discussing homosexuality becomes mandatory in school books as happened last years in California, you have male homecoming queens and female homecoming kings (which is already happening in some public schools), you can’t ask a guy what kind of woman he would like to marry (it’s hate speech, maybe he wants to marry a man), as a result TV programs will be free to show homosexual relationships (a dream come true for the liberals who already toy with it on certain shows and who mask their agenda as equality and anti-discrimination) and the list goes on and on, until all gender and true marriage are obliterated and the population becomes at least 50% homosexuals, or bisexuals who sleep with everyone, as gender doesn’t matter any longer, same as there are no differences between humans and animals in the minds of some already. So you want to sleep with your dog too, why not? Once we obliterate gender and cross the homosexual sanctioning threshold, the Left will free itself to take up additional immoral causes such as bestiality, incest, you name it. After all, it’s all about love and what makes us feel good, not what’s right and proper and moral.
If you can’t see what’s coming, you are truly blind and thoughtless.
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lily, you seem very confident about your positions. that’s fine, but i, personally, have never read any research or suggestion otherwise that it is even remotely possible for 50% of any population to “become” homosexual – within 50 years or however long. i am not your enemy, in any event. incidentally, i completely agree with flavia’s point above, but i do not think that point is the same as the one you and tryone are making. perhaps this is also because i do not believe god smites or smotes people for their choices. hopefully, we can agree to disagree on that particular point…
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@ yeahokcool
I know it’s hard to believe that homosexuality is a choice and not a predisposition. The culture has brainwashed all of us, so I am not surprised it’s hard for you to accept it. My suggestion is just pay attention to new developments, and don’t close your eyes and ears when you see the signs of gay advocates and their sympathizers injecting it into the society. It might not be that apparent yet for most people, but eventually you will see everything I outlined coming to pass. They already set the stage in motion so that within a few short years you will see homosexuality being injected into the public schools, as well as into our very private everyday lives. So I’m not telling you that you must agree with me, just that you should pay attention and not refuse to see the evidence when things are more exposed and wide-open – after the gay movement secures it’s imprimatur from the government. All I ask is wait and see and pay attention.
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Related:
– Ouest-France: The passing of the civil union pact (Pacs) in 1999 was not enough?
– Christiane Taubira: There’s no point in remaking history. The Pacs was a step forward that the Right, at the time, violently opposed. Already back then some wanted to go further. Our society is evolving. It’s a reform of society and one could even call it a reform of civilization. We don’t intend to act as if we were merely touching up three or four commas in the Civil Code.
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Military sci fi novel that shows this exact scenario: Forever War by Joe Haldeman. The protagonist is shocked to come home to Earth after a short subjective time (time dilation is a major plot point) and find that everyone is homosexual and he is considered a freak now.
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Homosexuality in men is fairly genetic, but not so with females, so it could be the case, although I disagree.
The MO is to make male homosexuality more docile and feminine. Men with nothing to lose (i.e. wives and children) are the most free of all men, and therefore the most dangerous. That’s why they want to turn them into mincing sissies who get married and adopt Ugandan orphans. Gay men are as much victims of this pussification of society as straight men, even more. It is a trap. They are selling them slavery in the form of “liberation.”
Gay marriage is mostly the cause celebre of feminists and dykes. Gay dudes are too busy finding fuck buddies on apps to really give a shit, but in the end, if they buy into this farce, it will be very bad for them.
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We really need to start ridiculing queers like we did prior to c. 1996…that’s about when the United Way Foundation pulled their sponsorship of the Boy Scouts of America for both not allowing openly gay scouts as well as gay leaders….there is also a requirement in the BSA to believe in God. While that wasn’t the true beginning of the end since things have been boiling below the surface since before then, that was the very beginning of when we had to accept gays in all facets of life. Kids who grew up in the 50s didn’t even know someone could be gay until they reached about 12-13 years old…now 4-5 year olds are being indoctrinated to accept being gay as a legitimate sexual preference. I don’t think most of us actually care that much if two guys want to shag each other…we just don’t want to be forced to accept and celebrate their behavior.
I believe that much like the CRA which required privately owned businesses AKA “public accommodations” to hire and serve blacks, which was extended to actually mandate affirmative action, I feel at some point this will enter the fray of private relationships. At the rate things go, it wouldn’t surprise me if someone proposed that whites much make every third person they date to be a minority or someone of the same sex, and that we had to submit dating reports of all our sexual actions and dates. The premise will be that the most privileged of all people, white men, are giving 95% of their sexual access exclusively to white women and gays and minorities are missing out on all the benefits and status of dating a white man. Likewise, since 90% of minorities are missing out on the most desired pussy in the world: young and white, white women will have to devote a certain percentage of their sexual attention to them. Problem is, there isn’t enough white dick and white pussy to go around the entire Third World, and spreading it too thin will further reduce the available amount of white sexual access.
Whoever promulgates the idea that diversity is good and white people are bad is doing the world a huge disservice. White people do best and prosper most when they are allowed to be exclusive and take advantage of their environment, and fare worst when forced to integrate and follow rules that handicap them in favor of others. We should encourage and applaud white people to exclusively date other whites the same white interracial relationships are cheered in the MSM. I remember an episode of Maury Povich or some other show where people revealed their long held crush…a black women had a huge crush on the white man who was the quarterback of his high school football team. When she revealed it, he didn’t want to go on a date and they pressed him as to why not, and he simply said he preferred the company of white women. The crowed jeered and snickered at him, with of course black women in the crowd being interviewed calling him prejudiced and bigoted.
I wish we could have the same show, except when the man states his preference for white women, the crowd politely applauds and the interviewed people are white women who say that it’s good to have your preference and stick to it.
Either way, as someone said earlier, gay acceptance, feminism, the pussification of white men, the Federal Reserve, and dieversity are all different heads of the Cultural Marxist Hydra hell bent on the diminishment of white people.
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Homosexuality is a “learned” behavior?? You mean conceivably–no pun–CH could learn to love the feel, the smell,yea the very taste of the pimply hairy ass of,say,Hugo Schwyzer?? I dont see that happening!!!!
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Correct.
I’ve tried the “being with woman” thing. My dick stays flaccid.
Go onto gay websites and read what turns us on.
It’s not learned, trust me!
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“I’ve tried the “being with woman” thing. My dick stays flaccid.”
Oh yeah, only the shit-full asshole of a guy turns you on, right? And you want me to believe that somehow along the way you didn’t acquire a taste for it? Or, that you were born lusting after an asshole full of shit? Or that your cock thrills at getting dipped in all that shit? Please! Homosexuality is a choice – a learned behavior in late childhood, early adolescence.
I have evidence. You can think right? If so, then how do you explain that the majority of the ancient Greeks practiced homosexuality? Were they all born homosexuals? If you have half a brain, you know it’s not possible. It was part of the culture for older men to have boy lovers. In fact, in ancient Greece men were introduced into sex by first being the receptive boy lovers of an older male. When they reached the age of 18, they were expected to find a wife. When a male’s first sexual experience is being penetrated by an older man, male sex becomes an acquired taste that you perpetually lust for and you stop bedding women. Eventually, the marriage rate and procreation declined and that contributed greatly to the fall of the Greek civilization.
The Greek civilization was replaced by the Roman civilization, which also practiced homosexuality to some degree. It certainly didn’t frown upon it, and had the same attitude to it as we have today in liberal circles. The Roman Empire was replaced with Christendom, which regarded homosexuality a grave sin, as does Judaism from which the prohibition against homosexuality originates.
The Old Testament forbids sexual intercourse between males:
“You shall not lie with a man, as with a woman: it is abomination” (Leviticus Ch. 18)
It’s interesting to note that the same chapter (Leviticus 18), which contains laws given to Moses by God, deals with other sexual activities considered unclean or abominable, such as various incestuous relationships and bestiality. From this, we learn God is warning us that all of these sexual activities are indeed related, and that sanctioning one can lead to a slippery slope.
The matter is so serious, there is a second stronger prohibition in Leviticus:
“If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.” (20:130)
Jewish oral law, written over 1,500 years ago, also makes references to same-sex marriage, which means the idea isn’t new. It teaches that the generation of the flood (Noah’s generation) was wiped out because they wrote sexual hymns and marriage documents for the union of a man to a man or to an animal.
Christian theologian Dr. James Dobson, a man who has researched homosexuality says that he rejects the idea that “homosexuality results from irresistible genetic/biological influences, as some have suggested. In fact, there is no valid scientific evidence to indicate that homosexuality is inherited, despite repeated efforts to find a so-called “gay gene” or other indicators of genetic transmission…..If homosexuality were the result of inherited characteristics, it would be “constant” across time. Instead, there have been people groups throughout the ages, such as Sodom and Gomorrah and the ancient Greek and Roman empires, where homosexuality reached epidemic proportions. These cultures and many others gradually tumbled into depravity (as the apostle Paul describes in Romans 1), resulting in sexual perversions of all varieties. Dr. Dobson notes that this ebb and flow within the life cycle of societies runs counter to the predictable way in which biologically inherited characteristics are expressed within the human family.
Dr. Dobson believes there is a much more verifiable explanation than genetics for the causation of same-sex attraction. It is his view that homosexuality is a disorder that results most commonly from early developmental problems. He feels this is the case despite the denials of professional organizations such as the American Psychiatric Association and their attempts to declare homosexuality as “normal.” He is also careful to clarify that homosexual attractions are not typically “chosen.” A variety of environmental factors play a role in some individuals, including one or more of the following:
1. serious family dysfunction that wounds and damages the child
2. early sexual abuse
3. the influence of and/or sexual exploitation by an older homosexual during a critical period of adolescence
4. homosexual experimentation, such as mutual masturbatory activity in boys in early adolescence
5. peer rejection or labeling.
Dr. Dobson elaborates on the early developmental causes of male homosexuality in Bringing Up Boys by providing the credible, researched perspectives of Dr. Nicolosi. It’s Dr. Nicolosi’s firm belief that “mothers make boys [but] fathers make men.” In other words – unlike a girl – a boy must accomplish the extra developmental task of disidentifying from his primary caregiver of infancy (mother) and identifying with his father in an effort to formulate a masculine identity. As early as eighteen months of age and most usually by the third year of life, a boy will begin this process known as “disconnection and differentiation.” The child begins to observe gender differences and decides, albeit subconsciously, which gender he is going to be. In the vast majority of incidences, the young boy starts to see his father (or perhaps other significant males in his life) as a model of masculinity and sameness. However, as Dr. Nicolosi points out, this natural and healthy progression of gender identification can go awry – especially if the father is absent, rejecting, or abusive and there is no sufficient male substitute in the boy’s life. A boy who is turned off by his dad’s (or other men’s) representation of maleness can gravitate back to his mother and take on more of her characteristics. Such gender confusion and feelings of alienation may be exacerbated when a child is ridiculed and rejected by same gender peers who perceive that he is “different.”
In light of these dynamics, it’s not difficult to understand why homosexuality appears to be on the rise. Given the high incidence of broken families and marriages, as well as the prevalence of pro-gay teaching in the public schools that urges boys and girls to “think gay” and experiment with role-reversal, Dr. Dobson feels that we are laying a foundation for an increase in homosexual behavior in our society.”
Anyway, it’s worth reading his entire article on the Roots of Homosexuality:
http://drjamesdobson.org/Solid-Answers/Answers?a=4f397b0d-326a-4dc3-8d0c-598a5a88e05c
basically, he says much of what I believe.
I also came across a strong view against homosexuality in modern Orthodox Judaism. Rabbi Moshe Feinstein states that Human drives are necessary (although they must be controlled). Since there is no purpose for the homosexual drive, it must not be a true drive. He agrees; homosexuality is a choice.
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So your argument boils down to that if you first sexual experience is a with a man that’s what turns you gay? The opposite point could be just as easily made, you are born gay therefore your first sexual experience is with a man.
I’m not entirely convinced of either.
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Lily
Interesting! This only proves my suspicions that gay marriage has a sexual and political agenda, which is to create more gays, as there is safety in numbers.
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No Lily; its to distract you from and sanatize the truly repulsive nature of REAL homosexuality; which never has and never will have anything to do with marriage.
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christianmorris, isn’t gay sex easier for you to get? How much sex could you have if you had to get it from girls? I have no malice towards gay men, but they are NOT equivalent to straight men. Homosexuality is kind of a cop out, its the easy path. Especially for for black males who are trying to make themselves as non threatening as possible to the white power structure. How many black males are really gay, and how many are just trying to make white people comfortable by adopting a feminine posture?
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Thwackie,how do black guys feel about Magic Johnsons son?
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Thwackie,how do black guys feel about Magic Johnsons son?
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I don’t know about black people, but That’s the example I use to describe the perverse incentives driving homosexuality when people find the race issue too annoying/upsetting….
For example: suppose you are Magic Johnson’s son. Ever since the age of 5 people have been impressed with you because you are MJs son. They assume you are gonna be a bad ass on the B-ball court because you are MJs son. This is how everybody treats you… Now, think about the pressure this puts on the young boy? What if you are not as good as Magic Johnson when EVERYBODY thinks you should be?
Faggotry is the PERFECT escape hatch for a child under that kind of pressure because NOW, its no longer the child fault he didn’t “measure up” because, wait for it—
“I WAS BORN THIS WAY”
This is especially true if he is an only son.
Think about it?
People would have been more disappointed if the son had become an insurance agent, or some “regular guy” type… coming out gay actually gives him more protection from judgment and disappointment.
Why?
Because “I was born this way”.
I suspect the same is true for Cher’s daughter.
PS— You do realize that Magic Johnson may have never had HIV and was “hired” to be the leading diplomat/promoter of the toxic aids drugs sold by the major pharmaceutical corporations?
AZT and the other DNA chain terminators are basically chemotherapy agents; did you know that?
HIV may be just another hsiweJ swindle.
I know, I know, “I’ll never work again in this town”
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So…that whole Bathhouse Barry thing must be quite disconcerting for you.
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Absolute bullshit. I was born gay. It was not a choice. That dangerous and outmoded crap expired twenty years ago. Shaming homosexuality was why so many closetters joined the priesthood and expressed their suppressed sexuality through pederasty and paedophilia. Homosexuality dates back to the start of human society.
That said, the gay life is not family oriented and I’m not willing to lie that it is.
Marriage was intended to provide a structure for property inheritance and the preservation of lineage so, by its nature, marriage should be one man and one woman.
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When was your first sexual experience, and with whom?
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http://www.literotica.com will satisfy your need for 50 shades of SWPL better than this man’s experience, I think. If it’s masturbation material you want, I point you to my last 500 snapchat videos.
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LOL! I have no need for 50 shades material. I want to know specifically about this man’s homosexual experiences so I can understand him better.
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Precisely. Whenever I encounter a somebody who is banging the gay marriage drum “so two men can love eachother,” I ask, “Do you honestly think Oscar Wilde would support gay marriage?”
Nope. No high-profile homosexual in the entire history of our world prior to the end of the 20th century would support gay marriage. From philosophers to satirists, they all found the very concept ridiculous….so ridiculous they had no name for it. This machination, along with forced multiculturalism, was foisted upon us by the most cunning and cruel minds.
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“I believe that modern society pushes everyone to be their most base, self-indulgent selves. Whereas the Mannerbund of past civilizations was someone that greatly contributed to society, dedicated himself to serious study and philosophical debate and the arts, our current “Mannerbunds” (if they can even be called that) have become entirely unserious. They have been duped into thinking they will be most happy knee deep in poppers and promiscuity or living a completely unnatural life as “husband and wife.”
http://revoltagainst.wordpress.com/2012/01/08/hello-world/
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What a GREAT quote 😀
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Indeed
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And the majority of people who are for it are straight white kids who think that supporting “marriage equality” will magically remove their bigot-by-proxy Caucasian guilt complex and make them less horrible people than their traditionally minded parents.
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Spot on! Anything to contradict traditions and old-fashioned values is their lot, as taught by their professors who at one point encouraged them to kill their parents and remove the shackles that bind them to traditions. Even Obama has been saying this subtly at different venues. Pay attention to what he really means, not what he says.
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Any statistics on CLOWN RAPE?
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10-20% of woman orgasm during regular rape. 100% do during clown rape.
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With confetti blowing out their hoo-has.
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What the hell is clown rape?
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Rape is NEVER funny.
Unless you’re raped by a clown
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A running joke that got started between whorefinder and me a few months ago. It seems to have taken on a popcorn-scented life of its own.
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The prevalence of rape, and the amount of women who stay with their rapist, makes sense. Testosterone isn’t so much the sex drive hormone as it is the social dominance hormone. Feminists have it half right; rape *is* about power… but so is all other PIV sex (and that’s why we have the term lesbian bed death… all is equal, thus no social dominance).
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Also because lesbians are ugly hairy monsters NO ONE wnats to go down on. (You wanna eat Rosie O’D’s pussy? )
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What the hell is lesbian bed death?
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It’s when the bed collapses under the lesbians’ combined weight and crashes into the basement, killing them both.
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It’s when sexual ennui sets in because the wimmens don’t truly want “it” as much as a man does, over the long (or even semi-long) haul… media claims notwithstanding.
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And because they cant get pretty girls,as they go for men,and must settle for hideous ugly cattle like themselves. A lesbian is basically a bitter beta/omega male stuck in a body that is more or less female. Not a recipe for happiness!
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It’s the phenomenon of lesbians being 1) unable or unwilling to initiate sex combined with 2) lack of sexual desire on the part of the two partners.
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Yep, you can tell most lesbos have no passion. How could they? Only men bring passion. Those women’s lives are as boring as two old farts sitting in the park gazing at the passersby.
Think, is Rosie O’Donnell really having sex?
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Ah, SEXUAL AGGRESSION, the key, the holy grail. The first time I made a move on my current gal (solid 9, alpha female by proposed standards) I extended my hand, led her to a quiet and secluded corner of the venue, shoved her up against a wall, pulled her hair, said “you’ve always wanted this”, and went in for the kill.
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this post is clearly pandering to whorefinder…
rape = love
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He must feel so cheap. Women only use him for his rape.
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its better to live and rape then to never have raped at all
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“Rape is patient,rape is kind,rape is not envious or arrogant or boastful or rude.It does not insist on its own way,it is not irritable or resentful. It does not rejoice in wrongdoing but rejoices in the truth.”
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Rape, rape will keep us together;
Think of me whore whenever
Some manboob comes along singing a feminist song —
Don’t mess around, you wanna be fucked hard,
So Stop, ’cause only I rape you,
Stop, you’ll be orgasming again —
Spread your legs and let rape keep us together.
Whore, you belong to me now,
Cock gonna set you free now;
When those betas start hanging around, talking me down,
Follow your tingle and you won’t hear a sound.
So stop, ’cause only I rape you; stop, you’ll be orgasming again —
Spread your legs and let rape keep us together, whatever.
Young and fuckable someday your looks will be gone;
Others turn you off who’ll be giving you tingles?
I will, I will, I will
I won’t rape then but for now;
Rape will keep us together.
Said it before and I’ll say it again, while others pretend,
You need rape now and you’ll need rape then.
So stop, ’cause only I rape you; stop, you’ll be orgasming again —
Spread your legs and let rape keep us together, oohh
Stop, ’cause only I rape you; stop, you’ll be orgasming again —
Spread your legs and let rape keep us together, whatever.
I will, I will, I will, I will. (rape)
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And his deceptively roomy car. Not to mention all the free pies.
OK, I’m at work and I don’t have time to scroll through that rape metastudy right now. My first question about that 40% figure is this: Are we talking about forcible rapes, rapes facilitated by drugging the woman into unconsciousness, or rapes facilitated by threats (“do this or I’ll kill your family”)?
Or are we talking about “rape”? Like, did she say “no” or attempt to resist in any way, or did she just kind of let it happen and after the fact decide it was rape?
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Rape is rape is rape.
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Maybe so, but then there is an awful lot of sexual activity that gets called rape when it is not.
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“If meat is murder, are eggs rape?”
–PJ ORourke
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(It’s funnier the second time)
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Big difference between being held down at knife-point or your father coming to your room when you’re twelve, and feeling regret for willingly fucking a guy when drunk. Calling everything rape is the most brilliantly insane thing the left has ever done.
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No, it isn’t. Having sex you regretted the next day isn’t rape, having sex that you kinda didn’t want but did nothing to stop isn’t rape, having sex when you and he were both buzzed isn’t rape, but it’s being called that by a lot of prominent feminists, who are spreading that lie like it’s HPV and they’ve got stock in Pfizer.
Actual rape is brutal and terrifying and painful and dehumanizing. Nothing short of an ongoing coercive threat would ever make a woman who had actually been raped spend any time with the rapist beyond pointing at him in a courtroom.
Ask me how I know.
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How do you know?
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RAPE!
Duh.
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shaved ape rape.
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The rape issue again? Where is Thwack?
I think the 40% is women who have experienced date rape or some other similar scenario where she got coerced into it by someone she knows, not getting raped by totally stranger men in dark alleys at knife point. Although, I once read a story of a woman who got gang raped for almost 24 hours by three men in a secluded hut somewhere. She said that she climaxed so many times and the orgasms were so strong that after a while she wanted it so much she willfully started taking turns sleeping with them one by one. She said she didn’t want it to end and was sad when they dropped her off one mile away from her home. Is it true? Who knows. Could be the musings of her fantasy, but these stories do make it seem like women love to be forced, even by strangers.
I also read an interview of rape victims (that was more legit) who admitted they still fantasize about getting raped even though they actually went through it in real life. Even girls that were molested admitted to fantasizing about being raped. Wow, was I shocked!
That said, I agree, rape is “brutal and terrifying and painful and dehumanizing.” Yet, there are women who actually dream about getting it this hard and this dehumanizing from a stranger. And before you tell me a fantasy isn’t like the real thing, consider that a fantasy is actually a secret wish. Maybe the person doesn’t really know what he/she is really wishing for and are in for a surprise when they actually get it. Nevertheless, naiveté is no excuse for what one really secretly wants deep down inside, and no one fantasizes over something they don’t really like in real life. No one. Are you going to fantasize about driving a Porsche, or driving a 1980 piece of shit car?(Ok, no 1980 piece of shit cars come to mind; it’s a bit before my time, but you get the point) People fantasize over things they wished they could experience however irrational they are.
So it sounds completely plausible that 40% of women end up dating their rapists, especially if they were date rapists. Once the shame of enjoying it wears off, women do the unthinkable and date those men. In the days of old, women used to marry their rapists. You sleep with her, you buy her type of a thing. It’s better for a woman than becoming a feminist anti-male witch.
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Oh, I have no problem believing that there are women who fantasize about being raped…I’m given to understand that this is the coded content of the majority of “romance” novels marketed to women (the English snob in me sneeringly refuses to check and find out for myself). Human sexuality is incredibly complex. If you’ve got the stomach to read Savage Love, you can read about men who fantasize about having their testicles crushed.
Although I strongly disagree with the idea that being forced to marry your rapist is better for a woman than becoming a feminist anti-male witch, mainly on the premise that it’s a false dichotomy: Those are not the only two choices. Many rape survivors are able to move on with their lives, learn to trust and form meaningful attachments with men.
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I think, when you said “1980’s piece of shit car” that you were thinking of this: http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/a/a3/1977_Ford_Pinto_Cruising_Wagon.jpg
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LOL! That looks like something the dinosaurs used to drive.
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The saddest part is that the kind of White people who will be getting into polygamy in America’s future Marriageland will be the exact kind of White people who ought not reproduce. Though, on second thought, they still probably won’t. They’ll either be in it for the LOOK AT ME or the rent.
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better to have the ho’s trying to rape you for real
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“Men don’t feel inspired to gallantly sacrifice for low value fat chicks.”
Spot on. If there’s a gun fight, I’d have no moral compunction about using her as a meat shield as I returned fire.
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Are you that nut G Manifesto?
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That “nut” has his own blog with a devoted following, which is also a featured link on the Chateau. Do you see a link to such a blog in my handle? Matter of fact, do you see a link to any blog in my handle? No, you do not. Why? Because I’m not the G, nor do I pretend to be.
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He doesn’t write at all like G Manifesto.
Witness the lack of weesh, dope, fly, or swoop.
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She wasn’t even chubby let alone fat.
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When was the last time you had your eyes checked?
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“mong college-aged women,approximately 40% of rape victims report continuing to date their attackers (Wilson and Durrenberger 1982; Koss 1989).Women’s positive expectations for a relationship correlated to self-blame and reduced anger in response to coercion (Macy et al.2006).”
That doesn’t mean that there is anything wrong with the women who do this, btw. I mean, if the guy was your boyfriend to begin with, you were probably ok with the kind of guy he was before that happened.
I had this happen to me when I was in school. I was 22 at the time. I had a class to go to and my then boyfriend was horny (as always). I told I really did not have time for it right then but he made me. Like total use of physical force. There was nothing in my behavior that indicated consent. That was a class where you could get pop quizzes and whatnot, so I wasn’t thrilled about having to miss it. I got to my class like 45 minutes late.
I continued to date the guy for like 6 months or something. To this day, I can’t understand why that interaction was supposed to be a good reason for ending the relationship. In general, he wasn’t mean to me. I did end the relationship eventually because he was so boring. He went to the same bar again and again and again. He went to see the same band with his friends in it every single Friday.
But lest anyone want to take this story as motivation to do stupid things- it’s only forgivable if she was already your girlfriend.
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Was there anything in your behavior that indicated an absence of consent? I think we are zeroing in on the definition of rape here…
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Oh Plenty. I recall that we discussed it afterward and I asked him how he felt about himself. He said he wasn’t sure if he could accept his behavior. He said he was sorry. I asked him if he felt like I was allowing him to have sex with me, and he said it didn’t seem like it.
Look, if you asked me “have you been raped?”, I would say no. But this study says that 40% of women who experienced rape continued to date their attackers. Then you have to ask, exactly what kind of rapist is offering to continue to date the woman he rapes anyway? The option of continuing to date is probably not an option offered in the first place to most of what normal people would call a rape victim.
This study is referring to the situations where this continuing to date thing is a common option, so I am going to guess that my situation is the type of “rape” they are referring to.
As for my level of resistance, I physically resisted him as much as I could, as I recall. However, this was my boyfriend, so it’s not like I would try to seriously hurt him like scratch his eyes out or something. It’s not like I was deathly afraid of him or anything, so I was not screaming at the top of my lungs. However, this was not some kind of hot sex or resistance that turns into forceful passionate lovemaking. This was me being like “seriously, I don’t have time for this. Get the fuck off me, idiot”. You would think that being snide, condescending and bitchy would be enough of a turnoff, but not that day.
I normally had great sex with this guy, but I remember that this instance was markedly worse than average and even somewhat gross for me. It did not make me more attracted to him. I recall that it made me think less of him because I felt like he was pathetic and desperate. However, it was hardly the fate worse than a thousand deaths. So, I did forgive him. I think I felt like he had acted stupidly, but I still liked him enough.
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Actually I thought about this some more. I recall that this guy was not acting out of just being horny. I had somehow slighted him. I get kinda bitchy and demanding when I am anxious. Like if I am late for something, I will start directing my boyfriend to find my stuff and help me do this and that. I don’t remember exactly what the issue was, but I remember that I was being dismissive and demanding to my boyfriend on this day when I was probably late for class.
Some guys are the sort where if you bruise their ego a little, they will respond with some sexual aggression if they think you are likely to respond affectionately. It’s their way of conveying that they need reassurance. With me, showing a little sexual aggression was probably what he did in general when I was bitchy to him and I would usually respond affectionately, and then he’d feel better. But on this day, I was late for class, so I only responded with more dismissiveness. Then, he needed reassurance even more and he was a bit too prideful to stop what he’d already started, so he finished. Seeing that level of need in him was what made me think less of him afterward.
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Maybe he was thinking about that azz of yours!!
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On an unrelated note, just read your blog. Dump the chump. It’s “hard” but his dick isn’t. Easy decision, and you’ll realize it in hindsight. You’ve got nice big bombshell tits and, without being able to see your face, high market value based on your body…30 or not. You’d pull someone alpha enough to replace him, i think
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There is a good reason she doesn’t have her face up anymore 😉
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Did you orgasm?
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I normally did in that relationship, but I think in this instance, I did not.
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Why do I not believe your story?
If this was really true and you dated a guy like him, I don’t think you’d stop seeing him because he was boring.
First, once a guy has sex with you in that capacity, he won’t stop “raping” you. Most guys who like dominate forceful sex don’t stop doing it.
Second, if you didn’t like it, you wouldn’t continue seeing him.
Third, if you continued seeing him because you liked it, you wouldn’t have cut him loose because he was boring. How could he be boring when the sex thrilled you?
Fourth, would you dump a guy that made you orgasm but stay with a guy that doesn’t make you orgasm and who doesn’t even turn you on like your current BF?
Why do I get the feeling you like to spin tales?
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Seriously? It’s difficult for you to conceive of how someone can be both boring as a person yet good in bed? It’s pretty simple. Conversation not interesting, day to day activities not interesting, but the guy sure knew how to throw me down and fuck the shit out of me. He was generally sexually dominant before and after this interaction. I generally did like that (I still do like that), but I did not like that one interaction. I do not like sex automatically just because the guy is being dominant.
Why would you break up with your boyfriend just because he made you angry on one particular day or you had bad sex on one day? In general, the sex in that relationship was good. In general, I liked the guy. I am still friends with him, and I think he’s a darling. Still, he’s not a guy I’d want to talk to every day.
“Fourth, would you dump a guy that made you orgasm but stay with a guy that doesn’t make you orgasm and who doesn’t even turn you on like your current BF? ”
Yeah, me maintaining a relationship with a guy who is interesting but not sexually fulfilling is consistent with me breaking up with a guy who was sexually fulfilling but not interesting. My boyfriend is totally the man I want to talk to every day. I want to have dinner with him, I want to go on vacation with him, I want to take a walk with him, watch movies with him. But I do not want to have sex with him. It’s hard for me to end something that is so fulfilling 99% of the time.
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sustanon
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Nonsense. Your stories are full of holes.
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Yeah. Duh. That’s how I roll.
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Lily
Nonsense. Your stories are full of holes.
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There is something about Fex that don’t add up. None of us are sure what it is, but its something inconsistent and we all feel it. The language, the stories, the pictures… I don’t know what it is, but I feel like this site is some kind of “theater” for her and she’s “making it up as she goes along”. Its probably harmless.
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Thwack, yeah, ITAWY. But let her have fun. Who cares? If it floats her boat, so be it. I just like to mention something when I notice it doesn’t add up or full of holes.
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” I just like to mention something when I notice it doesn’t add up or full of holes.”
Somehow you believe that something that doesn’t conform to some pre-existing trad con steryotype of hers is full of holes.
Why does it seem like something doesn’t add up about me? I mean, it’s not like Im telling you I am a 300 lb chick that has guys fawning over her left and right. It’s not like I’m telling you I get so turned on when a guy tells me he wants to rub my feet and feed me chocolate.
Yeah, I dumped a sexually dominant good in bed guy that wasn’t that interesting otherwise. And yeah, I now date some guy who I really like except that my sex life is unfulfilling. Nothing here is a remarkable or counter intuitive story.
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Why? Im not understaning what is hard to believe about this.
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feministx, they’re just flummoxed by your slavish adherence to female “logic”, to whit, “Yes, you can forcibly ram your cock in my cunt, BUT DON’T YOU DARE TAKE ME TO THE SAME BAR AGAIN AND AGAIN!!!”
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Replied to wrong place. Like I said above. Def how I roll.
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Now what if he’d forcibly rammed his cock into your cunt during a repeat bar visit?!!!
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If you continued to date him for six months it was not rape.
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This 1982 study has been so thoroughly dismembered that it really only lives on as something the manosphere can use to point out that feminists will really believe anything that confirms their biases. The problems with it are manifold, from what constitutes the physical aspect (copping a feel) to what constitutes consent (screwing when you’re tired), to the point that it’s NO WONDER the women stayed with their “attackers” since most of said were current boyfriends or guys that they were interested in who they let get to third base a little ahead of schedule because they were tipsy. I believe that this study is where the “25% of all women have been raped” figure came from as well — same criteria. Christina Hoff Summers has debunked all of these studies at one point or another, pointing out that by these standards (going ahead and having sex even when you’re not ragingly horny), nearly as many men have been “raped” as women.
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CHS’ real problem with the study was the fact that it conflated a truly violent act, fully deserving of a 20 year prison sentence, with giving your boyfriend a little sumpin-sumpin so that you can both get some sleep… and in the process both detracted from the seriousness of the charge of “rape” and furthered the stereotype that feminist scholars are raging, histrionic lunatics.
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Correct. Also, if she says “stop!” for ANY reason and you keep bangin away until you nut?
That also qualifies as rape. White people have completely worn out the use of “studies” as a valid proof of credibility.
(((shakin my head)))
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1. Stereotypes exist for a reason
2. Feminist “scholars” ARE raging, histrionic lunatics.
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Question about Jimmy Carter: was he really a bad president, or was he an honest though guileless man who saw the incipient NWO for what it was and in his own way tried to stop it?
No doubt that his post-presidency is a leftoid joke.
[CH: The ostensible “right” has become so degenerate — such a puppet of the left — that it’s now fair to revisit their age-old punching bags and see if perhaps they were wrong all along. So yes, I do wonder if in the clearness of time Carter was/is unfairly maligned by the neocon right.]
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Saint Jimmah did not try to stop the NWO. He facilitated it. The only resistance, albeit ineffective, was via his minion Brzezinski, who did not dislike the NWO so much as he hated the Soviets (sucking up to the Reds being a pillar of the NWO strategy at that point in time).
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Carter was a bad president because he was weak. When Iran held our people captive, we should have NUKED Qom. Hostages returned ASAP, unhurt. America not screwed with for thirty years. Osama wets himself.
Like Obama with North Korea, Carter thought the Ayatollah was his pal because he was going to set America on a “moral” standing and reject the idea of being feared for being loved. That’s … stupid.
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I don’t always rape…but when I do she falls in love.
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It’s allowance or banning
*Its
no need to publish this, just fix
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ramzpaul actually supports it.
in his video, he says that things like this can lead to recognizing that whites are, in fact, a race. it is because whites lack that starting point as an actual group that they cannot take part in any discussions concerning race, beyond being the villains.
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I like the concept of “Cathedral.” I’ll try to find a few sources for an elaboration when I have more time.
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From the Casey decision, (and they are deciding on gay rights cases): “At the heart of liberty is the right to define one’s own concept of existence, of meaning, of the universe, and of the mystery of human life”.
And apparently the right to define one’s own concept of marriage.
In earlier years Americans were pro-creation, but have apparently evolved.
“Do I want to screw this person” is a much different question than “Do I wish this person to be the parent of my child”. Which might explain why we are all screwed.
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I’m also redefining the concept of theft. Your car is now my car.
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Don’t forget redefining the concept of rape. Her pussy is now my…well, you get the point.
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Heh well, that’s kind of what they did with “marital rape” in reverse. His money still becomes “our money”, but her vagina stays her vagina.
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The probability of actually causing damage to a thin chick is lower than a fat chick. Sufficient fat, and even a good martial artist could not cause internal bleeding. We need a UFC where one of the combatants is a sumo wrestler.
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they have had those
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“… Among college-aged women,approximately 40% of rape victims report continuing to date their attackers (Wilson and Durrenberger 1982; Koss 1989)…”
this can only mean two things,
some of them enjoyed the rape enough that they want to keep seeing the man who did it.
and some of them simply lied; they were never raped.
There are no other possible explanations.
it either happened or it did not
if it happened she enjoyed it.
if it did not she is a lying piece of shit.
If anyone has another explanation please enlighten me but I doubt anyone can.
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A small minority may have been threatened/coerced into continuing to see their attacker (battered wives don’t return to abusive husbands because they’re happy, they do it because they’re psychologically unwell).
[CH: What makes you so sure? I don’t see these “psychologically unwell” women returning to their boring beta husbands they left. For some reason. women are perfectly able to leave those kinds of men without feeling a need to return for more special lessons in love.]
But your explanations probably cover most of it. Although I would add that the definition of rape is so broad these days that it could, on a survey, encompass things a woman finds enjoyable. The way they collected this data may have something to do with it.
[I think women need to come to grips with the fact that their sex has a peculiar craving for dominant, sometimes abusive, men.]
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(battered wives don’t return to abusive husbands because they’re happy, they do it because they’re psychologically unwell).””””””””
they do it cause they like to be able to abuse the dude too and they in love
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I’m sure there’s a gamut of reasons why women stay with abusive men. I’ve had roommates like this – one had serious daddy issues from her father leaving her as a little girl and was severely depressed, to the point where this guy was stealing so much of her paycheck she couldn’t eat. The other was so enamored of her alpha (Mexican – sleazy bastards, most of them, but admittedly alpha in the non-admirable sense) boyfriend that she was willing to lie to help him cover up the fact that he’d been fucking freshman girls behind his back.
The rest of us in the squadron tried to help them see the abuse, but they were incapable of looking at it that way. These girls didn’t love their boyfriends BECAUSE of the abuse, but DESPITE it. You don’t hear a girl in that position ever say something like “he beats me and I love it”, but more often, “it’s my fault he’s beating me and I need to love him more”. It gets to a point where it’s borderline pathological. It’s a hard thing to try to describe. There’s a difference between rape fantasies and letting a guy fuck you in the ass until you bleed.
I think it’s got something to do with that thing in our heads that allowed us to survive back in the days when losing a war meant your husband was killed and you were enslaved. It might be a normal reaction, but that doesn’t mean it’s healthy.
And can you really judge anything by what a woman gets turned on by? We fantasize about some really, really bizarre shit.
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And the nagging question I’ve had since I started reading this blog is this: where do you draw the line between gaming a girl and abusing/taking advantage of her? It’s not a question of gender differences or political philosophies, but there is definitely a point at which sexual interactions go from okay to not okay. Just curious. Because sometimes you make it sound like a man can do anything to a woman and that’s perfectly alright. At the very least, that kind of attitude can get a man in serious legal trouble if the woman decides to scream rape. Just curious.
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If you need to force yourself on your woman you are not really gaming her anymore.
I’m sure you don’t need CH to tell you how to feel about that. He just lays out the facts. If you find yourself hitting and raping women this blog isn’t going to change your mind any more than any Slutwalk.
It’s just more evidence that being the nice, respectful, submissive man is not going to get you laid. It should drive those incels crazy that a guy hitting a beautiful woman which he’d treat so much better will get to bang her while he has yet another date with Rosie Palms.
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All this but no link to my recent withering takedown of paleolithic writing instruments vis-a-vis the alpha/beta dichotomy :
http://www.the-spearhead.com/2013/03/30/price-drop-on-alphasmart-neo
Conrad’s manuscripts survived shipwreck on the Congo. You think he would have pecked The Heart of Darkness into an “iPad” or “FruitBerry”?
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While I, as with CH, have no firm opinions on gay marriage, some of the Chateau readers may have interest in the outcomes of children raised by gay and lesbian parents. I just wrote a post analyzing a study by Mark Regnerus last night. The post links to a pdf of the original study. I also break down and look at the statistics of how the stability of an intact biological family compares to an unstable family (divorce, step parents, single parents) as well as lesbian mothers and gay fathers.
The statistics are pretty damning.
http://stagedreality.wordpress.com/2013/04/04/gay-parents-on-the-horizon/
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So, kids raised by homos, especially dykes, are screwed up. Figures.
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No news there. Most of us with common sense already understood that. Will the left ever admit that such homes are bad for kids? For once, will they let the truth speak for itself, or will they try to mask it as with everything else in the interest of removing all negative judgment from people’s behavior?
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To put it simply, yes.
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Homosexuals seek to take children hostage into their situation to legitimise a biological impossibility. Of course the children are going fucked up.
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Society confers a certain benefit called “marriage” in order to promote that activity because it _benefits society_. It was never about true love or anybody’s happiness, it was about the fact that societies that promoted marriage outperformed and displaced those that didn’t. “Society” doesn’t get all that much out of gay marriage, although it is a bit easier to hear oneself think without all the self-satisfied clucking going on while the debate is in an “active” phase (and “whatever, do what you want” seems to be the most direct route away from 50% of what’s posted on fb and twitter being about the 10% of the 3% of the population that wants to marry another man). In fact, Society probably gets some benefit out of shaming gay men into acting straight, marrying women, and working to support any kids that might come of it. But we don’t do that anymore — Victorian Morals may have conquered the world, but they just weren’t FUN enough for today’s hipster[ette].
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Agreed.
As to why shaming may have evolved into societies, it’s probably a combination of out breeding other societies and out producing. If a society shames a gay man into acting straight, he will be much more likely to have kids and produce more wealth for the society. In addition, it seems fairly well proven that the more homosexuality is allowed and accepted, the more men and women will identify as such. Both within the same generation (as seen with people ‘coming out’) and with those they raise (as seen in this study).
As I said in my post at my site though, this study really is only conclusive in comparison of gay/lesbian families to unstable (divorced, step family, single parent) families due to the legal and social systems in place when the 18-39 year olds involved in the survey were raised.
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There must be such a great deal of congnitive dissonance. As the child, you know it’s odd, and you don’t like it, and you feel weird and isolated….yet society and media are telling you how lucky, and special, and wonderful it is. Of course you’d feel crazy!
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Would like to see a breakdown of how kids turn out on average in gay/lesbian adoptions vs single mom vs single dad vs no parents vs normal nuclear family, etc…
Am curious how gay/lesbian couples stack up against single moms and single dads in particular. I’m assuming kids who are adopted by gay/lesbian couples turn out better than kids with no parents to speak of.
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I’d be interested in that as well, but we’d have to wait 10+ years until we see how kids in such circumstances really turn out.
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The only randomized, large-scale study out there showed that kids from intact same-sex marriages did worse than kids from intact male-female families. I can’t find the link right now, but it’s out there. Also of note, the researchers struggled to find enough lesbian couples who’d been together longer than the 3 year baseline they were using.
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Interesting.
There was a comment thread a month or so back about how gay/lesbian couples are notoriously unstable. I also wander what their stability is compared to hetero-couples.
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Probably much worse. At least men and women have complimentary personalities and mannerisms that can balance each other out somewhat. Not the case in same-sex relationships. However, same-sex couples that break up are FAR more likely to remain friends afterward.
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I had a girl tell me when she was 17 another 17-year-old essentially raped her – and she continued to see him for a while.
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How many homosexuals really want to get married anyways? I don’t get why that’s such a big deal all the time.
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Let them take on marriage. They will be in a world of hurt.
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How many homosexuals really want to get married anyways? I don’t get why that’s such a big deal all the time.
Homosexuals have no interest whatsoever in “marriage”.
The Frankfurt School, however, which is the motivating force behind all of this nihilism, has a very strong, vested, 2000-year-old obsession with the absolute destruction and total annihilation of every last vestige [and fading memory] of [what had been] Western Civilization.
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Exactly. Read any of the Frankfurt School Leftists, especially Herbert Marcuse’s ‘Eros and Civilization’ and you’ll see how sinister the LGBQTXYZ-Queer Theory, Feminists, and Sex-Positive cadres are.
The Cold War didn’t really end with the fall of the Soviets, it merely entered into a new phase of the Cold War.
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legalized faggotry is not about love like they proclaim from high atop their phallic pedestals. its just the female version of bernakified. In gay relationships there is almost always one beta provider, and if they can get married they can get divorced. Divorce = alimony and child support(cringes). Alimony and child support is more money for the state. I want the credit however for calling this browndigging instead of golddigging heh
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Please dude, the Frankfurt school is so passé. It hardly even exists now. Yet, you use it as if it has so much power and the only thing that controls our society. There are much stronger sinister forces around than a bunch of old men relics of the cold war era that some of you obsess about.
And where did you get this 2,000 years from?
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His point is their ideas are still in full force.
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And her point was/is/remains…. DON’T YOU DARE NAME THE JOO!!!
LLOOZOZOZLZLZLZLZOZOZOZOZLZLZ
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only a big deal on the media
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I wish I could remember where I read that, but less than 3% of gays want to get married
not 3% of the total population but 3 % of gays
and gays are about 5% of the total population
3% of 5% is 0.15 % of the total population
It should not affect elections.
there is at least ten times more left handed people than there are gays who want to get married, yet no one loses an election because they refuse to change laws to accommodate left handed people.
Of all the unimportant issues of our time, gay marriage is the stupidest of all.
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The DOMA case before the SCOTUS – US v Windsor – is really about ESTATE TAX. A lesbian couple from the US got married in Canada, lived in NY, had the marriage license recorded in NY when the state made gay marriage legal, and then the richer woman died and left an estate to the other woman with a $300k estate tax bill. Were the marriage recognized at the Federal level (through repealing Section 2 of DOMA), then the estate wouldn’t have to pay *any* estate tax because it would pass tax-free to the widow in the lesbian marriage.
That’s why some want to get married. If you’re the boy-toy of an older man then you want to make sure to keep as much of his cash as possible when it’s your turn as an old guy to start hitting on younger men.
This is probably the only situation in history where lib-er-als gave a fuck about tax “fairnesss.”
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The ultimate estate tax dodge would be to marry your child.
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It is a great lesson in how easily the media manipulates people. No one gave a rat’s ass about gay marriage not long ago. Now, from the way the media spins it, you would think gays are actively being hunted down in streets and we must act quickly to save them!
Like Canadian Friend said, the percentage of people who would actually get gay married is minuscule. Yet somehow, the media has inflated this issue to appear more important than impending economic meltdown, the shredding of the constitution, etc…
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I think on Sailers blog there’s something where he searched for books mentioning gay marriage and it only really started 1992.
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For black people, support only started when the black president supported it.
Actually, black people will support anything the black president supports. If Obama told me to hit myself in the head with a hammer…
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“If Obama told me to hit myself in the head with a hammer”
He already did…check the black jobless rate.
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follow to hell? they are already there…
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True; there is no escape from the blue eyed devil.
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Maybe if they spent more time in the browneye instead of worrying about blue eyes they would be better off… Maybe instead of worrying about blue eye they should worry about Planned Parenthood opening another clinic in the ghetto.
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“they should worry about Planned Parenthood opening another clinic in the ghetto.”
SHHH!!!! Don’t give the game away…
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The ghetto IS a “Planned Parenthood Clinic”
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Fuck YEAH!!!!
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“Id always assumed that the primary problem was that once it is decided that marriage could not longer be limited by sex, obviously it could not justly be limited by quantity either. But, as Irons has correctly perceived, merely removing the sex limit is sufficient to produce a truly perverse set of incentives.”
“Polyamory’s Box is open. Per Douthat above, the redefining of marriage from a procreative institution”
Not sure if he is talking about the act of sex, or by gender, your comment seems to suggest both. (Obviously limiting gender would limit procreation) Regardless, there never was a definition from the state of “procreative” institution of marriage. It’s a governmental contract. It should be treated as such. (I’m not sure how allowing gay marriage would inhibit procreation, it doesn’t stop opposite sex marriage or procreation outside of marriage). The notion of a slippery slope isn’t a logical argument, it’s typically, except in circumstances you can point to each link in the chain, a logical fallacy. The notion that same sex marriage could lead to bestiality or incest is such a stretch in logic I don’t think it merits discussion. The answer to where do we stop is with the legislators, it is inherently their duty when making laws to determine where everything stops. The notion that once a gate is open they cannot do their jobs, come on.
Opponents to gay marriage should stop the “where’s the limit” and “procreation” arguments and come out to say straight what their interest truly is, pure moral disapproval (typically religion based). No libertarian would sign up for government taking a role in dolling out civil contracts on the basis of people’s personal feelings of moral disapproval of a minority.
Damn this drifted away from talk about pussy.
Regrets,
Dslap
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So a bunch of atheist faggots want the church to accept them so much they can’t let it be called a civil union with the same benefits? The church still isn’t going to accept them and they’re still gonna burn or be turned to salt then burn.
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You have it exactly backwards Dslap. Once there is a legal right to “love whomever you want” then the bestiality and incest lovers will avail themselves of this “right.” And, as with all rights, once conferred, congress is powerless to stop the tide.
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You’re changing the question. The Supreme Court has already said marriage is an individual right. So if the government is going to deny a class of people what has been conferred a right, it needs a reason to do so. Saying sorry gay people, letting two consenting adults enter into a marriage contract because it may lead to marrying animals (not a person), incest (birth defects/abuse/etc) is not a reason. You can’t say we can’t deny you rights because absurd things may occur down the line. The only question before the court is same sex marriage. There really isn’t a non religious argument against it.
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What about the scope for abuse it would open up in terms of seeking government benefits or to avoid paying taxes?
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Compounded by the fact that these people can’t reproduce. It completely hollows out the definition of marriage for creation and sustainment of families and over emphasizes it as an economic vehicle. You will see an endless stream of abuse out of this as incest and polygamy are added to the soup.
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It is not often you see legislators actually stop or even reverse flawed policy. When was the last time we heard someone actually admit “This policy is wrong, let’s abolish it and think of something else”? Instead it’s always “we need to throw more money at it”.
I agree. Moral opposition is usually just a very weak argument, much like the lefty trope of “I’m offended”. I’m against all marriage.
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Agreed.
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This is frightening …
… so the Somali immigrants in Minnesota might be able to claim special immigration privileges for their goat lovers that they left behind in the Horn?
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Nigga pleeez! Those exotic savages are going to be chin deep in white pussy. I thought I was black, then I saw Manute Bol; niqqa look like somethin out of a sci-fi flick
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>>> Those exotic savages are going to be chin deep in white pussy.
You mean chin deep in fat chicks and ugly self-loathing cunts like Jihad Jane Colleen LaRose.
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Black women used to show that theyre “down” by saying re interracial sex,”only thing I need a white man for is to show me where the black man is!” (Try the local jail hee hee) Now maybe we should update that: “Only thing I need a black man for is to show me where the niggers are!!! And the only thing i need a nigger for is to show me where the Supaniggers are!!”
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The only way to resolve this in the absence of taking a moral or civilized stance against gay marriage is to get the government out of the business of marriage and divorce. Once the government is out, no one can claim sexual-orientation based biased. On the other hand, allowing the government to give gay marriage the same respect and acceptance of heterosexual marriage, is a cultural suicide.
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It’s telling, however you have to ask how many of those incidents were truly rape. There is a big difference between a girl actively resisting sex and a girl who at first doesn’t feel like it, then submits to the guy she’s seeing (which is sounds like what happened with the 40%),
Few months a go I spent the night at a girl’s house, we started out cuddling, I went in for a kiss, then she got on top, took her shirt off and rest was a wrap. A few weeks later she tells me she feels like I took advantage of her because she wasn’t in the mood for sex that day and I only showed up to get laid. It’s an absurd re-writing of history of course, brought on by the shame that her roommate and neighbor heard the hour long session and gave her shit about it.
Does she still talk to me; Yup.
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Rape-lite
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Be careful though bro because a girl like that might actually press charges on you some day. You never know.
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Don’t know how the data was collected but as with all self reported sex studies one must take into account the false realities of the female id.
Sex with Alpha Male (pump+dumb)
– Female reaction: “he raped me” -> no rape reported to police, will report rape on a non binding sex survey. (part of the 60%)
Sex with Alpha Male (friends with benefits)
– Female Reaction: “omg, sex is so amazing and perfect” -> no rape reported to police, no rape reported on a non binding sex survey. (part of the 40%)
Sex with Beta Male (pump+dumb)
– Female Reaction: “he raped me” -> Rape reported to police, rape reported on this survey. (part of the 60%)
Beta Male (long term relationship),
-“he raped me” mostly as wishful thinking that her partner was actually that strong. Unlikely reported to police, may be reported in this survey. (part of the 40%).
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Correction: second scenario won’t show up on the survey at all.
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/this blog
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Bombshell after bombshell on this one. Welcome to my bookmarks, post.
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Look. This country is f*ked. Bad demographics, bad economics, bad politics. This country has a dark future. Think Venezuela or Brazil or Mexico. Comparing this country to the USA of the 1950’s is sobering and saddening.
Look at it like this. We don’t have a country anymore, or a nation. We have a US passport. That ain’t all bad. But when they come around asking for a donation, of your time, money, or blood, you’ll know what to say.
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I would add that you can draw the line at consent. Which means the incestuous couple would need to both be over 18, and the marrying of inanimate objects or nonhumans could be blocked rationally.
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Consent can only be spoken of where there is rational mind and free will. Animals and inanimate objects have neither. That’s why you get to eat pork chops. And if you can eat pork chops, someone else can fuck a pig.
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Game is so powerful – even if you’re a tranny you can pick up hot chicks.
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“A morally troubling prediction of Smuts and Smuts’s [ed: heh] hypothesis is that use of sexual aggression may be effective in continuing a male’s sexual access to a female.”
I think there’s obviously some truth to this, but at the same time I suspect another obvious potential factor is that they weren’t really raped. They let the guys fuck them without giving explicit consent and then felt bad about it and slutty afterward so they ‘decided’ it was rape.
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In regards to gay marriage not being insidious, you haven’t seen a million fat ugly women buying swedish sperm and getting pregnant to ride the bennies train. YET. But rest assured it is coming. I suppose it will let us enjoy the collapse faster, but paying these folks to raise a generation of fucktards makes me really want to expatriate.
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Truth.
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So… can we all now agree that rape is merely a social construct?
/heh, heh… see what I did there?
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Pardon my off topic comment, it seems I have earned a scourge for being a good Christian blogger daring to feature and condone the works of CH on my blog. I wouldn’t want you or your ilk to be deprived of the fun: http://www.patheos.com/blogs/nolongerquivering/2013/04/beauty-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder
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Rather than a “good Christian blogger”, your writing seems like just another usual suspect screeching harpy feminist.
Get thee to a nunnery, woman… and unknit that knotted and unkind brow.
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I’d rather not comment there, I doubt even my moniker is appropriate for the delicate sensibilities of your readership. And I’m an atheist.
But anyways, doesn’t the bible tell you to submit to your husband, obey him and please him? Shouldn’t you at least try? He made a huge sacrifice by getting married, why make it any harder on him?
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My apologies gentlemen, the link I posted is to the feminist/moral relativist blog attacking my own. Of course the Bible tells me to submit to my husband, I’ve written extensively about that on my blog: http://sarahsdaughterblog.blogspot.com/
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Didn’t quite get that, but I was partaking in the devil’s water yesterday.
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@Greg and Hugh
Read the comments.
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You’re a spiritual abuser! I’m dismayed!
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If you want your hubby to fulfill his conjugal duties, packing on 200 lbs is not a good way to get him to do that.
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I love this passage:
It’s the same response you see when some fatty goes out compliment fishing and all the women call her “gorgeous”. Easy for them to say, they don’t have to get it up for the ugly fatty.
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Tits or GTFO!
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can we stop with the rape shit
and call it the fake rape bullshit
it does go to show how fucked up and out of touch with reality the bitches are who think because they got drunk its rape and pretty sure its only the brainwashed crazy ones
because there really are woman who get like knocked the fuck out jaw broke and raped type shit and hit with tire irons and raped and burned alive and shit
that’s rape
the fuck all this other bs really does take away from the real shit
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all about trying to make it seem like white dudes in colleges fucking a drunk chick when they both drunk equal to the nigger that knocks a bitch the fuck out and really rapes her in a fucking alley and shit
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“Look. This country is f*ked. Bad demographics, bad economics, bad politics. This country has a dark future. Think Venezuela or Brazil or Mexico. Comparing this country to the USA of the 1950′s is sobering and saddening.
Look at it like this. We don’t have a country anymore, or a nation. We have a US passport. That ain’t all bad. But when they come around asking for a donation, of your time, money, or blood, you’ll know what to say.”
Reposting this comment from gramps so it doesn’t go unacknowledged. Once you realize how fucked everything is you can just stop caring. Then you will be truly free.
Its the same with women, just stop giving a fuck either way about them and you’ll be fine. Take advantage of whatever small victory you can claim against the system and just move on…
“Stop trying to control everything and just let go.”
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A story from my own experience is instructive. A number of years ago, back in my “situational-alpha with beta-backsliding” days, I received a call from a former LTR who I had broken up with six months prior due to her cheating on me (a hot but slutty high-T HB9 who at 22 was 13 years my junior). She was lonely and wanted me to come stay over. I said okay, but only if she understood that (1) we were not getting back together and (2) we were absolutely having sex. She said okay. I said this means that if you are drunk and passed out by the time I get there, we are still having sex. She said okay. I said this also means that if you change your mind before I get there and tell me “no,” we are still having sex. She said okay.
So I arrived and, as expected, she was in bed passed out. As I began pulling off her panties and fingering her, she resisted and told me no several times. Without saying anything, I turned her over and had my way with her before passing out myself.
The next day, she did two notable things: (1) woke me up with a blowjob followed by buttsex; and (2) told a (female) mutual friend that I had “raped” her. So yeah, you gotta take these “studies” with a grain of salt.
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Makes you think that “rape” doesn’t deserve the revulsion it usually gets. By the feminist definition everybody does it, it’s like jaywalking.
The working definition of a major crime must always restrict it to a minority of people. I’d say forcing yourself on a stranger in a dark alley with a weapon and violently beating the woman is quite different from her having one too many wine coolers and later regretting it…
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I got a little slammed on Dalrock for suggesting that same sex marriage would lead to women marrying each other merely to get economic benefits of it and women marrying women would dwarf the number of gay men marrying. And it will lead to economic repression and marginalization of beta men, meaning the vast majority of men.
I had this idea before reading the referenced essay, but this essay put into a concrete set of words what I was thinking. And I predict a squeeze on beta males because of this. If two women can form this economic union and not have the “horror” of beta dick involved, then they will surely flock to it.
What I see is this wholesale support on the side of women for same sex marriage. At first, on the surface, it would appear as two “victim” groups supporting each other. But there is a subconscious understanding on the part of women that involves a visceral repulsion to beta dick. They are wired to reject it, to keep stinky rotten beta sperm away from those precious eggs. They only reason women ever had anything to do with beta males was that economics forced them to do so. And now it doesn’t.
And this will create the feminist nirvana, a two woman household receiving all the economic, tax, insurance, inheritance benefits of marriage, raising children without men, free to chase alpha cock or alpha clit as they choose, and not a beta male in sight, all of those betas locked outside the gated community of “married” people.
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The term “gay marriage” is a bit misleading, because I doubt it’s mostly gay men who push for it.
Just thinking, let’s say two women are married and one has a child with a man, whose child is it? Is it the child of the two women or the child of one of the women and the man? If they are legally married any child resulting from that union would be the child of both the married partners, just as it would be in a straight couple no matter who gets pregnant, right?
They don’t really appreciate the concept of paternity anyways, it’s more important who’s footing the bill…
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This is already being arbitrated in the courts. First link I could find:
http://www.newser.com/story/162427/judge-oks-three-parent-birth-certificate.html
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Ah, progress. Now imagine if Faggy McSplugedonor is also married, the kid could have an additional dad. I’d love to see that custody battle, throw in second partners, stepmoms, stepdads.
The good thing, the court recognized that the father still has rights to the child.
The problem is, this opens up the possibility for endless double dipping. Cuckold the hubby, get two child supports payments. Dupe a guy into “donating” sperm, pick up your cash reward.
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If two women can form this economic union and not have the “horror” of beta dick involved, then they will surely flock to it.
What I see is this wholesale support on the side of women for same sex marriage.
Yeah, on my Facebook friends list, I saw about twice as many women putting up red equal signs as men.
Fag marriage: yet another collective shit test.
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Why did this dude move out of the way and let his girlfriend get hit by a homerun ball? Mincing beta? Yes. Better answer: his girlfriend is chubby. Men don’t feel inspired to gallantly sacrifice for low value fat chicks.
True, but he’s also a fucking pussy.
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The woman isn’t really his girlfriend: a violent but effective sh*t test.
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A Scots-Irish neo-con calling for the nuking of Iran.. Yep, the sky is still blue.
What you types fail to realize is that the Muslims are emboldened rathar than demoralized by “Western” acts of dominance. Nuking Muslims will not solve anything unless you kill ALL of them (surely a wet dream of yours). Stop projecting your cowardice onto a people with largely nothing to lose.
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That was meant for Whiskey. Need to quit posting from my phone.
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Yeah the problem is, most Muslims don’t really have a problem with getting killed, just think about all the suicide attacks. One of the reasons their faith is so strong is that their lives generally suck. So exchanging a life of misery for the promise 72 virgins doesn’t sound so bad for many of them.
One question I have, where does Allah get all those virgins? Does he kill 72 virgins at random for every martyr who dies?
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“Cowardice” can only be flung at those without something more important than personal honor to defend. I suppose it’s as cowardly to send only well-trained men to fight, instead of going over there yourself.
If you want to kill Jews for being evil internationalists who preach inclusion in foreign countries while preaching racism in their home countries, for tying up the US budget with unnecessary and corrupting foreign aid to countries not at all vital to our national interests, for putting on a happy face when powerless and a contemptuous face when in power, then there’s no particular need to not kill Muslims, who can easily and reliably teach that attitude even to people not of semitic descent or Ashkenazi IQ.
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As described by my university Asian Politics teacher (first generation Pakistani, Muslim, doctorate), the only effective way to deal with the murderous extremists of the Muslim world is to just kill all of them. The point is to destroy them. Not scare, not intimidate, destroy.
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Actually the Koran does not mention the virgins in paradise, but it does mention beautiful young boys and wine, both of which are forbiden to Moslems in this life.
I think the virgins thing comes from the Hadith, which I do not have, or oral tradition.
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Well that’s just weird. It’s like the Super Adventure Club.
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Just broke into Moldbug about a month ago for the first time and recognized the term. I was surprised I’d never seen him cited here, for having apparently been so influential.
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Though I think it’s worth noting, as Moldbug does extremely well and in detail that is almost unavailable to anyone else writing about it, that the Cathedral is not a coincidental aggregation of unrelated policy makers with similar opinions. It is a tightly-knit system of social and political influence that begins, as Lipmann alerted us, with the class who controls public opinion — and who universally come from a common culture. This culture started in the Bay Colony and grew into a transcontinental coastal elite. For the majority of Americans, all you need to know is that you’re not from that culture, and they hate you for it.
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I don’t think it’s because the girl was chubby. It’s because she’s masculine. Her reaction after getting hit with the ball was a dance, not tears.
Even I probably would have cried. I mean, it’s the face. The FACE!
Anyway, if she always behaved like she was a dude then she should have taken a cue from the dude next to her and moved out of the way or better, tried to catch the ball. As it is, she apparently wasn’t even paying attention to the game.
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Wicked links? Try this one:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2304128/Tunisian-girls-head-Syria-offer-Islamic-fighters-sexual-jihad.html
Apparently women don’t need to be suicide bombers to fight jihad, they can commit sexual jihad by servicing mujahideen. They can even remain halal by marrying the guy, then getting a divorce the next day. Some women (allegedly) do this voluntarily. Those fighters are just sooooo alpha!
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Since the Chateau linked only to the first part of a multipart Mencius Moldbug series—with no obvious way to find the subsequent installments, much less the voluminous Unqualified Reservations archives—it’s probably worth noting the excellent compilation site Moldbuggery. If you want to read the rest of Moldbug’s prodigious output, that’s probably the best place to start.
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Your language is dense with strong adjec and you write with one-sided conviction. It must be tough having this complex and radical a point of view. Ever found a woman enough to challenge those ideas? I wish you’d write about the women you admire and whose company you enjoyed.
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It’s not privilege if you earned it-individually or collectively.

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OK, so is the homosexualization of America a collective or individual white ACHIEVEMENT?
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I stand corrected. Everything good is privilege, everything bad is achievement. That makes sense.
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“so is the homosexualization of America a collective or individual white ACHIEVEMENT?”
Um, not as such…
http://hillbuzz.org/why-wont-the-agenda-driven-media-report-on-barack-obama-being-gay-dating-actor-kal-penn-and-frequenting-chicago-bathhouse-mans-country-you-know-the-way-they-leaped-to-trash-herman-cain-with-u
http://theblacksphere.net/2013/02/obama-reggie-love-beach/
http://hillbuzz.org/kal-penn-is-to-barack-obama-what-marilyn-monroe-was-to-john-f-kennedy-11025
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Did you forward this to the mayor of Duluth so he could write about it on someone’s face?
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[…] Heartiste links to Moldbug. Moldbug has linked to Heartiste in the past (I can’t […]
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[…] Five minutes of alpha gloriously illustrated. Related: CH with a few must read links. […]
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[…] leftoid SWPL freak is bitching about “white male privilege” and the unequaaaaal treatment disturbingly white American society supposedly accords white […]
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