When you’re walking or standing in a large space with a group of men, say friends or work colleagues, and you’re talking to one or more of them, look straight ahead instead of at the person(s) you’re addressing. (If you feel it necessary, you may quickly eyeball your intended audience to lock their attention, then look away while talking.) To outside observers — and some of these outside observers will be pretty women subconsciously evaluating your mate quality — the “look straight ahead while walking and talking” pose appears more alpha. This is especially true if the person you are talking to is looking at you with rapt attention while walking or standing at your side. This social construction pings the leader-follower dynamic.
The worst pose is to be seen walking and looking at the person you are addressing, while that person is looking straight ahead. It doesn’t matter if he’s studiously listening to you, or if he thinks you’re The Man. You will appear like Igor obsequiously yapping at the side of his mad scientist boss.
The actual hierarchy of your group is irrelevant; a woman unfamiliar with you and your acquaintances will perceive your alphaness or lack thereof based on subtle body language and social interaction cues. So if you want to widen the pool of female mating prospects, it’s in your interest to get in the habit of projecting alphaness as often as you can, and there’s no excuse not to when the cost for doing so is low.
A kind of prisoner’s dilemma does arise in these situations. You have to bank on the expectation that your addressee will continue looking at you while you talk. If he turns away as well, some of the alphaglow that would accrue to you will be dimmed. If you look back at him to recapture his attention, he may look away, and you are left appearing beta Igor-ish. Nevertheless, as a general principle, the “look straight ahead while walking and talking” affectation will in most scenarios and most times redound to your benefit.
The one caveat is when you are sitting with your group, or standing in a small space (indoors, instead of outdoors). There it will strike those around you as strange and awkward if you can’t look people in the eye when talking to them.
Saw a perfect example of this yesterday while in line at Chipotle. Two alpha dudes talked to each other this way, occasionally looking at each other to laugh, clarify, or whatever, then look off again. The one had the added cross-armed lean back salesman vibe to boot. The other added the hands on the hips Powerpoint presentation pose. Through body language, each appeared to be highly pleased with themselves. I though of this blog and smirked.
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Heartiste: “If you feel it necessary, you may quickly eyeball your intended audience to lock their attention, then look away while talking.”
I’m assuming that y’all are pulling this shit on a bunch of beta-herbling douche-bag losers [whom you despise], because if y’all come out here in flyover country and start that shit, then you might just go him with a broken nose.
Or worse.
So just be sure that you keep the Blue State cowshit in the Blue States.
[CH: Betas aren’t despised. They’re pitied. And anyhow, you’d be surprised (or not) how subtle these alpha maneuvers are, and how effortlessly most men allow themselves to be outmaneuvered.]
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I live in flyover country and I don’t get what you mean. You saying if I don’t lock your eyes I”m gonna get decked?
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I’m saying that if you think you can come down here and treat a man as though he were your filthy stinking cunt, then you’re liable to be spending the rest of the night in the emergency room.
Or in the trauma surgery suites of the O.R.
Leave that shit in the Blue States.
Don’t bring it down here.
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Why wouldn’t you just look away and stop talking to him? Then you wouldn’t look beta. An overreaction, to a man subtlety trying to AMOG you, is going to make you look bad.
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I guess they don’t do the “agree and escalate” thing where Shane lives:
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Maybe Zombie Shane needs to get off the computer and maybe go outside and play a little bit with real people.
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Why the fuck would we go to flyover country? It’s for flying over.
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Yo – up there in First Class – do the stewards swallow?
Or do they excuse themselves afterwards, and spit it out in the men’s room sink?
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A complimentary tip: when doing this, don’t put your hands in your pockets or fold your arms. Have your hands and arms prepped for action. Covering or incapacitating them is a sign of “waiting” for approval for action.
You do what you want. You do not need permission.
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Yeah, don’t cross your arms in a way that makes you look like a Beta trying to protect his Iphone from oncoming alphas he’s too scared to look in the eye, but it’s cool to cross them in the manner I mentioned above as if you’re trying to show off his forearm muscles or tattoos as you lean back in aloof amusement. Big difference.
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Agreed. Good point.
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As a rule never cross any body part…arms, legs, fingers, eyes.
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Obama crosses his legs.
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W crosses his legs too.
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Your avatar has crossed arms.
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Hahaha
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There’s a great TED talk with Amy Cuddy about this and how sprawled out body language, taking up as much space as you can, not only makes you look more powerful, but makes you feel good as well. Definitely worth a watch.
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Wikipedia says the fe-males be trippin and dippin to the better man….
“Human sexual behavior
The sexy son hypothesis has also been put forward as the origin of some aspects of human sexual behavior. In particular, it has been shown that human females are more attracted to men of higher physical attractiveness, and to men whose physical features are indicative of a higher exposure to testosterone during key developmental periods,[18] during the most fertile times of their menstrual cycles, and more attracted to relatively feminine men (“dads”) during the remainder of the cycle. However, the methodology of these claims is disputed.[19] These observations have led to the conclusion that infidelity is a natural occurrence in women, and evolutionarily advantageous, on the grounds that it will enable them to secure both the best genes and the best caregiver for their offspring.[20][21]”
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Immediately looking at anyone who beckons you is Beta. An Alpha will make a person wait, even if for just few seconds, before turning his head to look in their direction.
Calm and deliberate movements. Always.
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Dr. Frederick Frankenstein: You know, I’m a rather brilliant surgeon. Perhaps I can help you with that hump.
Igor: What hump?
[CH: Dr. Frederick Frankenstein: Your lovely leper hump.]
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LOL 🙂 “Damn your eyes!”
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Speaking of prisoner’s dilemmas:
http://dailycaller.com/2013/04/24/shocking-indictment-prison-gang-took-over-baltimore-prison-impregnated-corrupt-guards/
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“The corrections officers became beholden to the inmates, easily smuggling in contraband “in their underwear, hair, internally, and elsewhere,” according to the indictment.”
Corrections officers also carried on sexual relationships with the inmates, which “cemented the business ties and the association of the corrections officers with the enterprise.”
Those encounters sometimes led to pregnancies, with at least four officers impregnated — one of them twice — by the highest ranking gang member in the prison, Tavon White. At least two of those officers had White’s first name tattooed on their bodies.”
Read more: http://dailycaller.com/2013/04/24/shocking-indictment-prison-gang-took-over-baltimore-prison-impregnated-corrupt-guards/#ixzz2RPAos2n4
Female guards “taking care” of male inmates. Now, that’s a white liberal idea you can use!
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“at least four officers impregnated — one of them twice — by the highest ranking gang member in the prison, Tavon White. At least two of those officers had White’s first name tattooed on their bodies.”
This is straight up alpha chimp behavior.
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he he he
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Affirmative action….
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Why are there even female guards in a male prison? Morons.
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Much appreciated advice. Always had a bit of trouble managing my body language in an alpha way.
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I have this rule down solid, but it’s always nice to have a corroboration.
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Interviewing for hourly contract work. The principal is female attorney. Lets see if deduction skills help me get the gig. Goal is supplemental income as I’m starting my own company it’s so exciting the entire process where I get to make all the decisions is where it’s at. Goal is 7k net per month
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We all know what the ultimate alpha male body language is…
RAPE!
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PROTIP: If you have a clown mask on during the raping, it’s easy to avoid making eye contact. Also, be sure to leave your extra-large novelty shoes and mismatched socks on.Very alpha and also helps speed your retreat should a random paddy interrupt you.
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Now, now, you have to pay to flirt with me.
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Turn your shoulders and entire body to look at someone sometime. By only turning your neck , it can feel weak , jerky , and the positioning feels vulnerable . The motion has no strength tied to it. Just it a try in the mirror.
“You talkn to me?” With a Turkey neck twist towards mirror.
” you talkin to me?”. Shoulders turn with minimum neck motion.
The latter feels more smooth and calculating.. strong and had more presence.
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Caveat to the caveat:
Alpha sitting in a chair, sprawled like a boss, looking at what-the-fuck ever.
Blue-pill betas standing in a circle, looking expectantly at alpha and waiting on him to utter another piece of wisdom/nonsense/both.
Bitches dripping.
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I’m presuming you’ve seen this, but classic, Joe Rogan, owning this femcunt is always funny watching. She has the audacity to even say “look at me in the eyes when you’re talking to me”. This goes to note, feminists, don’t ever try to put an alpha in his place. ever.
as for the Chicago bombing event, I think there are a lot of lose ends in that story worth looking into. Call me crazy but I deem it as just another false flag operation at hand for whatever motives there may be.
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If you’re ever holed up in a hospital, or visiting — it’s a really good place to watch the alpha/beta body language relationship. There is a strict hierarchy with regards to MD’s, however inherent structural power can be overcome with body language.
Although I suppose this is easy considering most MD’s are total dweebs… sigh
But, this can also be observed amongst nurses and nursing aides too. It’s quite a dynamic, and I’ve learned invaluable lessons regarding social cues by participating.
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