Vignettes of Game is a new series featuring brief real-life episodes of what most skilled allurement artisans would consider tight game. This is not an alpha male assessment series; it is instead a snapshot in time and space of game being flawlessly executed. The purpose is to educate readers about the power of game using practical examples rather than abstruse theory as a guide.
Our first vignette of game comes from reader “M.L.”:
Small anecdote – inane game vindicated.
walking with girl #1 into our building (we work together). it’s a cold morning. as we walk in she remarks “i don’t know how you don’t freeze in the winter, the tips of my ears are frozen and your hair is so short.”
response: “i knew you’re self-absorbed, but it’s unnecessary to demean my ears for attention”
her : (laughs) “i think you’ve got incredible ears…(eyes light up)…no part of you isn’t incredible”
response: (laughs) (shoves her away from the door as we approach.)
her: (laughs) (grabs me and jumps up to kiss me) “i’ll see you later?”
response: smirk and walk away.
texts come in an hour later…etc. any feedback appreciated, but i thought this was properly executed.
Start with a tease (unpredictability), follow with a playful physicality (kino), end with a deft handling of beta bait (signal of non-neediness). This game is solid, tight, unimpeachable. Would pick-up again.
I like it!
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Jesus H. Christ:
Tavon White of Black Guerilla Family prison gang “fathered five children with four of the corrections officers”
Dear God Almighty, please oh please oh PLEASE don’t let any of those pregnant female prison guards be white.
PLEASE.
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Jennifer Owens, 31, of Randallstown
Katera Stevenson, 24, of Baltimore
Chania Brooks, 27, of Baltimore
Tiffany Linder, 27, of Baltimore
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Alpha as fuck.
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Huh. He had this bitch reigned in from previous engagements it sounded like. Still good, of course. I think the way you’re able to say the first line he uses would make a serious difference.
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yer welcome.
http://dannyfrom504.wordpress.com/2013/04/22/self-deprecation-game/
but here’s the gist of it-
“i LOVE self deprecating humor. you know who else eats that shit up?
wimminz.
yup. i ALWAYS use self deprecating humor while running game. some guys would advise against it. hogwash sayeth Danny. to me self deprication show’s a woman outcome independence, self confidence (tingle crack), and that you don’t take yourself too seriously. thusly….she’ll warm up to you more quickly. we’ve seen the pictures of me, there’s NOTHING exceptional about my looks. NOTHING. and fuck you if you nodded when you read that.
i was at the local the other night flirting with the waitress’s. one’s new. when i left the table to go grab a beer (the girls were rolling silverware), the new one said, “wow, i didn’t realize you were that short.” i nodded said yeah and then, “but it’s cool cuz i have a HUGE hog.” she laughed a little and asked, “seriously?” and got a slightly wide eyed. i started to nod then shook my head no slowly and grimaced. “no. no, absolutely not. it’s fucking pathetic.” the girls started laughing and i said, “seriously, could fuck a cheerio without breaking it.” they laughed harder.
one of the waitress’s commented, “that’s my Danny.” i winked at new girl and walked to get my beer. when i came back they were still talking about it and new girl said to me, “great, now everytime i see you i’m going to be thinking ‘big cock guy’.” lulz. i told her, “thanks, unfortunately my mule wreaks of disappointment and lube.”
if i’m seeing a woman that taller than me, and well…that’s MOST of the time. at some point some will ask if it bothers me dating a woman taller than i am. i always reply, “no, the way i see it it’s my only chance to have normal sized kids.” lulzrcoastr.
THIS is why i say run game on women you see daily. eventually you’ll run into a woman you’re actually interested in and you game will come naturally. thusly, you’ll be confident and more gooder in her eyes. so-
game everyone.”
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I agree that self deprecation can be useful to show that you don’t care that much, and to equalize things when you’ve made your value too high in comparison to the girl’s through DHVs/negs.
However, you gotta be careful. If overdone, you will come across as a entertainer/joker. Know where to draw the line.
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“If overdone, you will come across as a entertainer/joker.”
agree. but i know what i’m doing. trust me, i’m surgical. lol.
stay up.
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“THIS is why i say run game on women you see daily.”
This ^.
How the hell you young’uns run a good Game within the confines of a club where the DJ is blasting the gangsta rap at 110dB is almost beyond my ability to comprehend.
Out in the real world you can have an actual conversation with the girl – be human – size her up for who she is.
Maybe even enjoy yourself.
But dimly-lit smoke-filled-room meat-market Game at 110dB?
Good luck with that.
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The drawback to doing it on people you see daily is that — at least if you’re me — you FUCK UP a lot (I’m still in the beginning). So, y’know, you’re always on guard to not become known as a ‘creep’ in your social circle.
You have such anonymity in a club. You can get blown the fuck out — HARD — and people two feet away, because of the high level of activity, won’t even notice. So, it’s just a good place to run experiments, do new shit, and up your game….because you the anonymity is pretty much a ‘reset’ button.
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You must talk to some vapid-fucking women if that shit works on them.
While some might conceptualize game as fucking as many women as possible, a higher version of it is fucking and managing several (or many) higher quality women–women that don’t annoy you and can hold an actual conversation with you if you have to drive with them.
A largely unnoticed trial of game and alpha-frame is *keeping* your stable in order. Girls that respond to the stuff I’ve seen you post about are not the kind of girls I want in my stable. Maybe a quick bang if they’re cute enough, obviously, but not the girl I’m texting on Friday night.
Part of your alpha frame should be having enough self-respect to select quality women. Don’t forget that.
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i consider myself a failure if i can’t give a reader advice that can’t be applied IMMEDIATELY to thier game.
failure.
and i AIN’T some good looking dude, NOR am i tall. i’m the opposite of “tall, dark, and handsome.” but i STILL clean up.
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Haha! I’m stealin’ that doorway shove.
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dude that’s like kino 101
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You take kino classes?
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3 minute number close-
make eye contact, if sge smiles, stick out your tounge. if she smiles AGAIN point to youe, then, heart, then her. she’ll laugh. is she repeats it back to you follow up with the same but hold your arms out wide indicating “i love you this much”. she’ll laugh. appraoch and ask her name. find out if she’s single. if she is neg her about her out fit but then she she’s still cute despite it. tell her you’re in a hurry, hand her your phone an tell her you 2 need to kick it some time. 90% of the time, you’ll get the number. if not tell her, “yer loss” and bounce.
i do this ALL.THE.TIME. it goes down in 3-4 minutes.
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Well played, as they say at the country club….
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It really is this easy if you have the attitude down. Remember, whether she comes, stays, lays, or PRAYS.
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Danny, I hate to break it to you, but it’s not just your game, it’s also your VOICE. You could weaken a girl’s knees by calling her up and caressing her ears with the NASDAQ Composite.
Seriously, have you had voice training?
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lol. shut up. my voice has the sex appeal of stomach cancer.
c whut i did thur?
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The “Gospel of Game” …
http://therationalmale.com/2013/04/23/the-tribes-of-game/
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A joke always requires someone to be the butt of it. Humor is nothing more than a group of people making someone NOT part of their group.
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Then – us – white people should not be allowed to make jokes.
it would make us racisssss
I’m sure the United nations is working on that as we speak.
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One day I was walking along The Strand, opposite The Law Courts having just purchased a Banana, when I bumped into a woman who worked for my Instructing Solicitors. ‘Do you think’ I enquired, (showing her the bulge in my trousers) that I have a Banana in my pocket or am I just pleased to see you?’ She roared with laughter.
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Comment on a Heartiste tweet.
Vanishingly few women look better at 40 than they did at 20, unless they were obese and lost weight. Cell senescence is a bitch.
I’m not as harsh as a lot of guys here on this, but there are NO women who look better at 40 than they did at 20 unless they were obese and lost weight. It’s categorical.
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although the 20 year old fattie may still be tighter than the 40 yr old lol depends how you look at it
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Maybe not 40 versus 20.
But there are tons of chicks who look better at 32 than at 22.
And some even manage to look better at 35 than at 25.
Example: Jessica Alba more than a decade ago.
Versus: Jessica Alba just three days ago.
Bitch still hasn’t quite peaked.
Whew.
Smokin.
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These women pay more than you make in a year to have the best food and the best physical training. There are very few women in the real world who look better at 35 than they did at 25.
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“These women pay more than you make in a year to have the best food and the best physical training.”
Well I can’t argue with that point.
But there’s something to be said for a bitch shedding a little baby fat from her early 20s, and getting that serious “come hither and put a bun in my oven” M.I.L.F. look that she gets at about age 30.
Now to get back to Heartiste’s original point, though – age 40 is a frigging bear for most women.
You’ve gotta be a Jane Seymour to still be kicking at that point.
And Jane Seymour is maybe a 1-in-100-million beauty.
Maybe even 1-in-a-billion.
But I really do think that many, many women continue to become more beautiful into their early thirties, then plateau out, start to decline in their late 30s, and slam into the wall [like poor Dale Earnhardt] at around the age of 40.
From the point of view of Evo-Psych, it probably has something to do with their ovaries shutting down.
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you obviously don’t know how widespread plastic surgery is in Hollywood. The 20-somethings also need it, but the 30-somethings finally have the money for it.
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Categorically true. Also true is that all of them are asian.
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Man, the shittiest part of this whole phase are the transitions between ‘dancing monkey’ and ‘legit BAMF.’ I’m starting to hit brief instants of just pure, self-amused awesomeness (I -think- they’re awesome and that’s what matters, I mean)…only to descend in the next several dozen interactions into dancing monkey mode. FFS.
Like….
we had practice oral arguments, so I just got the cheapest most ridiculous suit I could find for them — neon blue bell-bottom/vest suit with matching shirt, tie, and aviators.
After all’s said and done, I run into Cute7 outside — she’s walking past, and she actually stops, as if in shock by my retro attire. I think I’m getting a little better at picking up on sub-com and trying to sub-communicate one thing with my tone/body language and saying another. It’s pretty awesome when I feel like I get it right.
Her: That’s a real nice suit. (subcom — u look ridiculous)(attempt to tool tonality)
Me: Do I look like I don’t know that? (subcom — you want mah dick)
Her: You look like you know a lot about men and mustaches (subcom — nuh uh, ur not my type at all and I have a boyfriend, don’t flatter yourself)
Me: M&M’s….they melt in my mouth -and- my hands.(sc — you want mah dick, stop lying) (Had my feet shoulder length apart, an easy smirk, hands on my hips)
Her: I bet they do (sc — ya right, in ur dreams)
Me: (I walk closer) Ya, I’m real glad I could come out of the closet to you. You’re so easy to talk to. (sc — our dreams)
Her: It’s an honor (sc — o watever, ill humor u i guess)
Me: Ya, so now we can have a girl’s night at your place…innocent cuddling and platonic pillow talk. (pause….she’s silent now; I smirk) Scout’s honor.
Her: (She stands there and she smiles — it’s one of THOSE smiles, like she’s on the verge of slowly shaking her head) Well….it’s a real funky suit. I like it. (Now it’s genuine, but I really think the sub-com is ‘ok I like you, right now’)
Me: Ya, that’s a real nice shirt you have on — too bad it’s orange. (And I walk away)
Her: …..what does that mean?
Me: (Turn and smirk, then keep walking)
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Quick question…as I gain popularity, the party persona/reputation has spread. So, this one girl who’s real conservative, straight-laced has a tendency to disqualify herself from me/talk mild shit.
For example — I’m just riffing with the group, get them laughing, share some party stories. She blurts out —
Her: Guys like you make me glad I’m single.
Me: Ooooooh roast-ed.
AFC: Ouch! (Inner laugh…fag)
Me: Ya, I’m gon cry, I think I’m gonna sit back and bask in the glow of that one. (I do so)
Her: Well, I’m sure neither of us would be the type to willingly date each other.
Me: Ya, I only date married women. (So much easier to say things like this in a cool way when you have the actual reference experience)
Other snippets when she jumps into the conversation —
Her: Ya, well HE has no morals…..blah blah blah
Keep in mind, I don’t see her around that much, she isn’t crawling all over me or anything, etc. etc.
Does this mean anything?
OR am I just getting so ingrained with ‘assume attraction’ that it’s like a case of ‘wow she looked over in my direction, CLEARLY she wants mah dick.’
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You try too hard. And that you remember your interactions and lines of dialogue so clearly so as to type them on the Internet affirms my previous sentence.
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For sure, that’s another sticking point — dancing monkey syndrome, etc. Although, I try to remember as best I can to get feedback and advice so that I can improve. It’s helped me a lot thus far.
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sounds like the “srsly tho, yur pussy rox” guy.
While wasting six figures going to law school, I do have to admire you going to moot court in a My Cousin Vinny costume.
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Hahaha, well any additional tips or advice appreciated.
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Her: …..what does that mean?
Me: It means what you think it means.
Give her a cocky smirk and hand her your phone. Easy number close.
The other broad was shit-testing you because she’s feelin’ your vibe but needs to be sure it ain’t all an act.
Her: Guys like you make me glad I’m single.
Me: Girls like you make me glad I’m not.
When she said:
Her: Well, I’m sure neither of us would be the type to willingly date each other.
You answered with the comment about married women, which is pretty good. I would have replied with:
Me: Who said I was willing to date you?
This sets the right frame, where you are the prize and she is the pursuer. Now, she is forced to qualify herself to you, if she wants to take the interaction any further.
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Ahhhh……devil’s in these details. Altho, I already have Cute7’s number (I never texted her or anything……yayayaya I know), but I see your point.
Seems like this is a sticking point, with me failing to fully -flip- the script. I’m always afraid of sounding tryhard/insecure/bragging with the ‘who said I was willing to date you?’ That said…if I would have been able to say ‘girls like you make me glad I’m not…’ man that would have been awesome.
Doesn’t matter, it’s not like these people are actively pursuing me beyond saying hi when we see one another….so I’m still not generating enough attraction.
Thanks a lot for the tips.
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Oral arguments? Are you in law school? If so, you’re trying way too hard. That’s fish in a barrel, dude.
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Ha, okay. Re: the suit, no offense to anyone but I don’t care — that, I know is good. Any tips on the actual interactions…?
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Vignettes of manboobed ANTI-GAME:
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Why is this only directed at men? How sexist! I’ve had my ass pinched, my shirt lifted, unsolicited hugs, and been shown bikini photos… and that was all this month. Smash the matriarchy!
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wonder how much these fags got paid…or how long their balls got fondled by the hipster filmmaker…fuck lol
any one of these guys could kill with the babes if they took their dicks out of their asses…cept for the fat white guy @ 0:18 he might not wont get laid either way
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Shit Samuel L Jackson says to men who say shit about men who say shit to women on the street:
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Another game lesson for y’all:
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you: guess what?…
her: what?
you: CUTE BUTT!! (smack her ass)
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A CH breakdown of some of the reactions here in this video?
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lol at the White Knights towards the end
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If you’ve got the balls to the unashamedly invade her personal space and give her a relaxing massage, you’ve just given her a hands on (heh) demonstration of your alphatude.
Once the immediate shock wears off, she’ll likely melt to your touch and begin to enjoy it. Cue the good vibes and the instant rapport you trigger from your fingers. Number close like a baws.
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Important video. It’s okay to touch girls and be alpha… something many guys don’t have clear.
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God, that skinny asian with the drink “You’ll have to tell me your name one more time”.. She sounds like a power trippy lawyer cunt, am I wrong? Something in her tone was really obnoxious. Check our her Jutting man chin lantern chizzel. heh
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Holy crap.
Femcunt stomps Beta of the Month candidate’s groin with the Stiletto of Shame.
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Femcunts use jack boots. Stilettos are patriarchal symbols of male domination. Do you think whorefinder could do us all a favor and rape her with a clown mask?
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It’s his dumb fault for asking her of all people.
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Shit, her blog is so bad I can’t even bring myself to take the effort to troll it.
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Tell the truth : from whom did you glean the word “vignettes”?
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Yeah. Push-Pull executed on verbal, mental and physical level. :] You’re getting my hopes up for this series of posts.
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