…is keeping her away from her fat friends.
I’ve seen it happen too many times, the slender girlfriend of the happy man — attending an endless procession of house parties with an expanding (heh) circle of girl friends slowly but surely piling on the pounds month by month, year by year — suddenly wakes up one morning to notice her muffin top has rolled over and her boyfriend’s eyes have glazed over.
You have one duty ladies… ONE. Stay thin and sexy. And yet so many of you can’t seem to manage that simple fucking thing. We lenient gentlemen of the jury aren’t asking for much. We don’t care if you drive a sports car. We don’t expect you to climb the soul-killing corporate ladder. We don’t give a flying fig if you went to grad school. We don’t inexplicably lose our interest if you happen to get overly affectionate. We don’t burden you with demands for more commitment or drill you for opinions about how our butts look in these jeans. We instead ask for simple things from you, such as a refusal to turn into this:
Men, you can help your lover stay thin by keeping her the hell away from her fat and feminist girl friends. Her fat friends will infect her with their fat disease, through some poorly understood mechanism of orca osmosis, and like fatty fat fatass pockmarked dominoes one after another thin girl will get knocked down, until not a single height-weight proportionate babe is left standing. You think I’m joking? Nope, ♥SCIENCE♥ has found that obesity is socially contagious.
Her feminist friends will infect her with the mind diseases of nonjudgmentalism, beauty equalism and loathing of male desire, all of which are the psy-ops trifecta for brainwashing a girl against her man and turning her into a ham-shaped self-entitlement cartoon.
Relationship management takes work. But men don’t need to make it harder than it needs to be. An easy intervention that will improve relationship health and harmony is staring men in the face. Give your girl the gift of lithe. Cast her BBBFFers to the icy wastelands.
Is there more than one contributor to this Heartiste – is it just me that thinks this article is written differently (and not necessarily worse) than the recent others?
I know, it sounds like Heartiste dropped his female beauty standards.
[CH: Not at all. A pretty face is necessary but not sufficient. Fat kills cute dead.]
Or he simply got emotionally worn down by all the fatness around him.
[I am a herald of hope. My message is pain, in service to pleasure.]
I have one really big friend. She always has something negative to say. She goes on and on about slut walks, rape and how much men suck. I always try my best to help her see things positively, but shes so set in her ways. She’s really big and claims that she’s big cuz it keeps her safe. It keeps men away and therefore she doesn’t get hurt. Anyway, even though she’s big and a feminist, I’m still super slim and not going to be lured to the big side anytime soon.
> ” She’s really big and claims that she’s big cuz it keeps her safe. It keeps men away and therefore she doesn’t get hurt.”
I hadn’t really paid much attention to the Hipster/SWPL pit-bull phenomenon until Heartiste wrote about it last winter:
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/02/10/pasty-spotted-ass-chipmunk-cheeked-herbling-swpls-and-pitbulls/
But then I started seeing those little killing machines everywhere I looked.
And suddenly it dawned on me: All those Hipster/SWPL types are using the pit bulls for SELF-DEFENSE in lieu of actually exercising their 2nd Amendment rights.
So the pit bulls are a win-win for the Hipster/SWPLs: They can parade around in public, peacocking the fig-leaf of gangsta-chic, but because they don’t actually own guns, they can continue to piss all over the 2nd Amendment.
“And suddenly it dawned on me: All those Hipster/SWPL types are using the pit bulls for SELF-DEFENSE in lieu of actually exercising their 2nd Amendment rights.
So the pit bulls are a win-win for the Hipster/SWPLs: They can parade around in public, peacocking the fig-leaf of gangsta-chic, but because they don’t actually own guns, they can continue to piss all over the 2nd Amendment.”
Well-spotted, ZS. The problem is that, despite SWPL/liberal fears to the contrary, guns don’t go off on their own and kill or maim their owners. Pits actually *do.*
What is it about the liberal mindset that destroys the ability to make rational risk assessments? It’s right up there with the SWPLs who refuse to vaccinate their children out of the woo-tastic and utterly discredited theory that vaccinations can cause autism. They’re perfectly willing to risk their kids coming down with whooping cough, measles and rubella (and spreading those illnesses to the immuno-compromised), all of which have serious risks.
Sorry, I’m pissy because one of my friends, whose immune system is shot due to chemotherapy, was recently exposed to measles due to an outbreak in the crunchy-hippie private-school circuit where we live. Grr.
You obviously don’t know many homeschoolers. I’d wager we’re more likely to be anti-vaccination than the SWPLs.
How crazy is that, being fat makes every aspect of life harder except if a person wants to do nothing. Getting hurt by a failed relationship, or getting used is for the most part temporary. Not to belittle that fact, but women get over relationships a lot easier then guys do. I remember reading that it takes guys 4x longer to recover emotionally from a relationship then women.
Being somewhat fat and muscular will last you longer during the hard, starving times. It’s like prepping, but it can’t be looted.
Well, that’s good to know. Don’t let them get you down, lol
> “An easy intervention that will improve relationship health and harmony is staring men in the face.”
I’m wondering whether this was supposed to have been, “staring WOmen in the face”.
Because if it really is supposed to have been “staring men in the face”, then it doesn’t fit [tidily] into the ambient discussion.
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Agreed, tho I am confused why he included a picture of David Futrelle in the post?
Interestingly, I sort of “feel ya” on this too… but I don’t think it is a diff. writer, my perception is that CH probably saw some bad ass HB 7,8,9 he use to know and was utterly horrified at seeing her again recently after being ‘blobfished’. This is a fairly common DC occurrence sadly. I use to know some hotties and straight up DIMES around DC and seeing them again after some years; holy fucking hell…
At least Bloomberg and Michelle Obama are apparently opposing the fat acceptance trend in their political party. Meanwhile I’ve seen a lot of fat conservative women trying to pass anti-john laws.
This observation doesn’t make me a liberal. It’s just an observation.
It’s a logical progression in the nanny-state agenda of the liberals. Your weight is yet another thing that they should be in control of. Michelle isn’t telling you to lose weight because it’s good for you, she’s telling you to lose weight because it gives her control (not to mention a smug sense of moral superiority) over you.
+1 cynthia…
See exhibit A. Hater. If she were mangy Ethan or some other white woman doing the same, you’d be foaming at the crevices if your mouth with praise. So transparent. I just wish done of you HATERS would be bold and get some gonads and simply admit you HATE Michelle Obama no matter how many good deeds she does.
Wth? Who is mangy Ethan for crissakess you stupid iPhone!
Uhm that name should have read NANCY REGAN.
Lol
Nancy Reagan looked anorexic. It would not have been a good cause for her to take up.
[CH: Nancy Reagan was old. She had old lady “anorexia”, which is very different than young woman anorexia and rightly inspires disgust in people.]
LOL!!!
Lara I can always count on you to bring the funnies even when you are dead serious and not trying to be funny.
“Mangy Ethan” was much, much better.
LMAO. You are so wrong fir that Matt! I actually liked ole Nancy. Seemed like a sweet lady.
I’m white. I hate Michelle Obama…
…because she uses the military as props, because she takes multi-million dollar vacations on the tax-payers’ dime, because of the way the press fawns over her entirely average looks, because she wants to tell me to eat veggies when she spurlges on 1500 calorie hamburgers in DC, because she’s used her husband’s position to create $400K/year jobs for herself, because she uses oppression theory like a shield against any legitimate criticism, because she is graceless and rude, because she hates America and yet still uses the White House to act like a queen…
…but not because she’s black.
I could give two shits if she might make a few kids skinnier by sticking her fingers into cafeterias at high schools across the country. She’s a wretched human being, and even good deeds done by wretched people (and liberals) are best viewed with suspicion. Because they are always, and without exception, suspicious.
That cafeteria stuff got rejected at a few schools by the students refusing to eat them.
Exactly. If she was really inspiring any kind of meaningful change, that wouldn’t be going on; kids would be at least willing to try to eat her version of “healthy”. And if this wasn’t about some kind of bureaucratic power grab, you would see the government pulling back on all of it (I’ve heard some of that’s happening, to be fair).
But the reports I’ve seen about home-packed lunches getting take away from kids gives me pause.
She advices to eat veggies to fight obesity, but why shouldn’t she eat 1500cal. hamburgers, she isn’t obese as far as I know.
So only fat people have to eat healthy in Progressive America? Like, if I stay under a 21 BMI, I can do what I want, but the second I tip 25, goddamn, here come the regulations? And we consider that fair why?
Eating healthy isn’t a punition for fat people, it´s a necessity. It has nothing to do with fairness. You would not treat people for cancer if they dońt have it, would you?
Why on earth would we loath the woman that said she was proud of her country for the first time when her husband was elected president? What’s not to like?
I freely admit to hating Moochelle, but I can’t possibly think of any “good” she has done.
Mostly what she’s done is take advantage of all the freebies handed to her – Ivy League schooling she in no way deserved, high paid, pointless sinecures, a career of doing mostly nothing – and, now that she is the “First Lady,” take lots of extremely expensive trips and create awkward moments for real dignitaries.
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Charm school award! Hey anonymous, how can we watch your garage if you are anonymous?
She seems like a perfectly nice lady to me Neecy. But I’m a librul left-ard pinko bleeding heart. I’m not set on Auto-Hate.
“I just wish done of you HATERS would be bold and get some gonads and simply admit you HATE Michelle Obama no matter how many good deeds she does”
It’s natural to hate ugly viragos. It’s even more natural to hate ugly viragos who do stupid and destructive things.
And it’s natural to feel sorry for haters, who lack the insight to see how often they have done the exact same things they excoriate their hatees for.
“Get the plank out of your eye, before you worry about the splinter in mine.” It takes a long time to accept how fucked up we all sometimes are, without discounting your value as a person .
Took me until 40 or 45. Until then you’re busy building up the Alpha Armor “I am big heroic man. Solid steel. Me big heroic man.” Which I guess is needed to survive until you have the frivolous luxury of wisdom.
How the hell does Fatty McFatterson’s losing weight have ANYTHING to do with the nanny state? If anything, it’s the nanny state that’s subsidizing the white refined flours that Fatty’s been shoving down our gullets. This is an act of resistance.
Can you not give credit where credit is due? The First Lady’s out in front on this.
Cynthia’s got a case of ODS. I’ll let everybody figure out that acronym.
Subsidized refined white flour, and subsidized high-fructose corn syrup. Any other fat-making poisons?
Lets see:
O is for — OBNOXIOUS
D – DUMB
S – SHIT
OBNOXIOUS DUMB SHIT. :lol:
You’re the one who came out with the “you hate her because SHE’S BLACK” from nowhere. I said nothing about her color, nor the Obamas in general. What’s your problem, really?
I get very emotional when people put Michelle Obama down. Everyone has that person we go to battle for, for whatever reason. And Michelle o is that person for me.
@Neecy
She’s not a family member. She’s not a classmate. She’s neither a friend nor acquaintance of yours, correct? Therefore, you have ZERO connection with her in real life, other than the nebulous linkage of race. If you’re being this defensive on the behalf of somebody you don’t know on that alone, then you probably need to reexamine your priorities a bit.
She has accomplished NOTHING either by being in the White House. Or getting there. Her being First Lady means jack shit. She shouldn’t be some kind of hero for being married to the dude who won the last two elections. She shouldn’t be lionized (lioness-ized?) for telling kids to eat healthy just because she’s black. Obesity’s a problem in the black community? So is teenage pregnancy, an out of wedlock birthrate of 70%, an abortion rate of 51%, gang activity, the murder of children in places like her home town of Chicago, and illiteracy.
She picked a fashionable, uncontroversial issue and isn’t just advocating for it, but forcing national policy changes in our schools. Using power, I might add, that’s entirely her husband’s in origin and not legally hers to wield.
Seriously. Show me this woman standing up – without cutesy magazine covers of her gardening in pretty clothes most normal women can’t afford – and speaking out against the murder of even ONE black child in Chicago. Attributing it not to the WHITES in that city, or the cops, but the fatherless homes and thug culture it engenders. Show me her understanding that not everybody can afford to buy healthy food, and then show me her doing something to help inner city blacks pull themselves out of poverty. Show me her inspiring us to be BETTER, not ordering it by fiat. And not relying on racial politics to get it done. That would be courage. Until then, I submit that she’s happily playing princess and you are contributing to her delusions of grandeur by getting this worked up on her behalf.
I love Michelle Obama like white people love Marilyn Monroe.
Understand now? I figured you would. ;)
[CH: Tribes rule, diversity drools.]
No. I mean, in theory, maybe, but having a girl-crush on alleged “strong women” is childish and pointless. We might as well be having an argument over Black Widow from The Avengers and you defending her utter pointlessness in the movie with “omg, but she totally busted Loki’s balls, isn’t she awesome, how can you not love her.”
(And if that argument makes no sense to you, you can see how little I care for yours. Michelle Obama is more than fair game for criticism, whether you like it or not)
Neecy,
Most people would agree Marilyn Monroe was pretty, but that’s about it. I once asked my mom if she cried when Monroe died, and she said, “No, why would I?”.
Lara I’m sure some Whites weren’t all that moved by Marilyn, but I’d say they’re the minority.
It’s just sometimes some public figures for right or wrong, we love them. I was trying to get Cynthia to u d’état and that no matter how long her laundry list of Michelle O is “da debil” I really like her for my own reasons that she obviously can’t grasp. It would be the same if I were putting down Marilyn Monroe. No matter what I said some people are just gonna love and defend her for their own reasons.
Neecy, I get what you’re saying. But not all white women love Marilyn (what a stupid thing to say) and we’re not obligated to love Marilyn just because she’s white. What I was saying is that Michelle Obama, as a political figure, is ABOVE such feeble adoration, and honestly, reacting to her in this way is why men around here think women shouldn’t be allowed to vote.
“we’re not obligated to love Marilyn just because she’s white. ”
This. It’s not a race issue. No white person I know cares about MM.
But minority leaders make EVERYTHING a race issue. Why? Because that’s they get power/money/influence.
Can you imagine the standing of Al Sharpton et al if they didn’t have their race drum to bang? They would be nothing. They have a powerful interest in perpetuating — nay, creating — peceived victimhood and oppression of blacks. We have a black President for God’s sake. Rest assured they will always find issues to whip up and make about race.
You can understand all this stuff — everything, really — quite simply through the lens of incentives. Just ask yourself — “How does this person profit by pushing this narrative?” The answer will always cut to the core of why that person is doing X.
@Neecy… Stockholm syndrome much? That woman had a no show 300k/yr job that when she left then never even bothered to replace her. Nobody hates Michele Obama, her policies are dangerous, and what her and her husbands policies are doing to a whole race of people should disgust everyone. They dont take any heat for any of their policies they impose on people because they actively campaign against it. I do know this for sure, if you judge Michele Obama by her actions, she hates everyone.
Obama Derangement Syndrome? Sure, I don’t like the Obamas. I don’t like their politics and I don’t like the way Michelle Obama behaves. And sure, American kids are chubby little chubsters, and they could all stand to lose weight.
But this crap is an another extension of political control over the lives of average people. And even if it was the most well-intentioned thing in the world, it is still an overreach of the kind nobody should have to endure. (And yes, I’d be opposed to it even if it was a Republican First Lady pushing it)
They’re doin’ it for teh kids1!!11!1 And ‘cuz the sheeple are too stupid.
Always great excuses for Totalitarians
My mom sent me a quote about this today that sums up my feelings more succinctly than I can:
“The urge to save humanity is almost always a false front for the urge to rule.”
H.L. Mencken
Mencken is full of such wisdom
And even when the intentions are the “best”, the results – not so much so. See the War on Poverty, for example. Giving fish is almost always a very bad idea.
Cynthia, we fail to see how promoting good health = nanny state control.
The government subsidizes bad health. Promoting good health resists nanny state.
You can cry and complain, but ODS is strong within you.
Michelle’s right — and she’s been very public about this.
And she ain’t the only one. Rachel Ray and Bill Clinton have teamed up on revamping school lunch menus nationwide. They created a whole foods menu that has been adopted, last I saw, in 15,000 school districts.
You’re angry about this? Really? In what bizarre world does this equate loss of freedom?
I am not saying that PROMOTING good eating habits is wrong. FORCING people to adopt YOUR idea of what is healthy through increased government regulation is. The NYC soda ban? Government overreach. The First Lady’s vegetable garden? Sure, why not? Do you see the difference here? If she’d just stuck to that, I wouldn’t care.
Deep within every Leftie/Progressive beats the black and flabby heart of a tyrant.
They lust to command you to live according to their edicts, all in the name of “your own good” and the “good of society” of which they alone are the arbiters. Because they and only they are on the side of the angels. All who oppose them are evil, illegitimate and must be destroyed.
This is why lefties are pretty much unable to have a calm political discussion with anyone who has a different viewpoint. They quickly rise to anger and begin shouting.
Lefties don’t care what you do, as long as it’s compulsory. USA!
Apparently the anti-fat movement among lefties does not apply to Michelle’s ass. Seriously…go Google the pic that shows Michelle standing next to the first ladies of Spain and France. It’s a from behind shot and her butt looks at least as big as the other two women’s combined.
Michelle will never get credit for doing anything good. I think it’s amazing that a BLACK WOMAN is trying to encourage children to be healthy. Yet her haters would rather year her down than support her to get our children healthy. She’s damned is she does and damned if she doesn’t.
>>>>I think it’s amazing that a BLACK WOMAN is trying to encourage children to be healthy.
you have pretty low expectations for black women. you’re probably right. I see it as typical FLOTUS stuff like say no to drugs, literacy, or dragging $100 bills through trailer parks.
Ok so why is she getting hate for doing what EV-ERRR-rryyyyy First Lady has done? Picking a subject and driving a positive campaign behind it. If she didn’t do anything you all would be talking crap. She does something (which is par for the course of First Ladies) and people still talk crap. Like I said people just need to get some damn balls and own up to the TRANSPARENT FACT they hate Michelle b/c she is not some Lilly white woman. PERIOD!
And I don’t have low expectations if black women. But since black American women are tipping the obesity scales at alarming rates, I was saying its refreshing to see a black American woman like Michelle Obama saying that being obese is not ok or healthy and it starts with teaching children.
Neecy, you know Michelle’s accomplished something when the teeth-gritted, paranoid CH cult come out with smoke coming out of their ears, proudly proclaiming undying hatred for another rich woman with connections. It has nothing to do with her being black. Sure it doesn’t.
If she cooked up a 400k job for herself, true that’s a lot of dough. Nothing compared to what Bullseye Cheney and Bush boy threw away in ONE DUFFLE BAG of cash sent to Iraq. One of many, many duffle bags.
Yee-haww!!! Hate hate hate, cowboys!!
You’re just like the plebes in 1984!!! Quick, quick, you’ve only got two minutes and you have to go back to room 208.
Can’t we all just agree to hate all politicians?
She has done nothing special @Neecy.
THIS, what you are doing, is called the soft bigotry of low expectations. Every first lady talked about nutrition, healthy foods, etc. yet when a BLACK WOMAN does it all of a sudden it is something great.
You are too much of an Obamabot to see she is doing nothing great or special.
Now, if she were to DIRECTLY take on the fat acceptance industry and call it for a shame it is, now we are talking.
Until then, another first lady passing the time and living the life while beta-male Barack Obama smiles and apologizes for American failure after failure.
Maybe b/c obesity is a MAJIR epidemic these days in America and especially with children , compared to previous times when it was not such s&m epidemic.
I think her timing and choice of campaign is impeccable considering the state thus country and American children are in when it comes to obesity.
Of course since she is the flotus her voice is going to be a lot stronger.
Just give the roman credit fir something!
Man this iPhone is putting in typo work. Ugh!
Ok so “s&m” should be “an” lol what can I say my iPhone has a dirty little computer chip mind
“Roman” should be “woman”
“Fir” should be “for”
I’m down with an S & M epidemic
your phone rules
Lol!!
maybe Michelle should start an s&m epidemic – maybe that’s what she needs to do to get some love? Haha!!
This is SPARTA!!!!!!
Right, so give her credit for doing something every other First Lady has done without fanfare because the problem is so widespread.
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She HATES Obama!! After he won the 1st big ewection,Michelle said,”Ok boys,thanks,I’ll just be heading back to my home in Chi-town wit da kids,if you’ll excuse me…” Rahm went ballistic. (Zero sexual chenmistry between those two. Zero.)She hates Obama cuz he…is…you know…hee hee…but she puts up with it,and they plant stories like she’s jealous of the chick from Scandal,lol…
Michelle isn’t an elected official. She has no right to tell anyone what to do. The First Lady has no prerogative whatsoever to impose or even suggest any kind of mandates on the general populace.
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“Has it been proven over and over again that these hoodie boys rape, rob, and maim? … So why to you blame George Zimmerman?
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—Pastor James David Manning, a skin accredited black man.
http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2013/07/18/lightning-rod-nyc-pastors-stunningly-confrontational-sermon-on-trayvon-martin-you-see-the-world-through-your-black-eyes/
“D.C. was the first chocolate city that ever came on the map…ahh…Newark, DETROIT, New Orleans. So for me, the venacular of saying chocolate city was not a big deal. I have used that in speeches for three and a half years now. And I’ve even used it on Capital Hill, so I didn’t think it was a really big deal.”
—Mayor Ray Nagin
Leave the politics to the people (= subset of men) of civilized culture (happens to be a white culture) that actually makes and does not tear down civilization, allows your privileges—or else allow succession. Let Detroit be a chocolate city at the end of the day, and go down the toilet to 100% sustainable tribal riches. I WILL NOT WILLINGLY BAIL YOU OUT!!!
Better to conquer than to be conquered. Just having a nation (i.e. elevated freedom above the animals) is a violent statement:
“Populations are not fungible.” (13:13 mark)
“To state any sort of reactionary, any sort of republican principle, any sort of nationalist principle is a declaration of war upon these universal Marxists. To say that India should be Indian and that Canada should be Canadian is a declaration of violence upon these people [Marxists].” (20:45 mark)
—Aurini, video: “The Question Libertarians Can’t Answer (a response to Stefan Molyneux), 9 June 2013
What’s true for Marxists, is true for all uncivilized people, who by definition want more at the expense of the civilized, and even if they didn’t, they are in the way of natural progress by claiming control over limited resources and stalling evolution. Might makes right. Sorry fraidy cat, the ideas of these words are mighty and cannot be killed like I can be. If you are not George Zimmerman in defense of civilized property rights, you are Detroit, and good riddance to you in due time. Why should all die as civilized beings, why should most die and a few live short and successful but mean lives, when some of us have abilities to live above animal trials and animal tribulations? Animals don’t make the rules, no matter what civilized faction wins. If it’s the Nu Wurld Odor, you will find a harsher master than anything I would have been.
Corrections:
(1) Replace ‘succession’ with ‘secession’, I hope obviously.
(2) Aurini’s blog is at http://staresattheworld.com. (I’m guessing a song inspired URL, but won’t give it away here.) This is the post with the aforementioned video (first one shown):
http://www.staresattheworld.com/2013/06/the-question-libertarians-cant-answer-a-response-to-stefan-molyneux/
All I’m saying is that I used to be “Ironman” on the Tucker Max board, and I don’t read comic books.
Ah yes, the race card. Advance to Go, collect $200.
If anyone criticizes a black person, well, it simply MUST BE because of race. No further discussion allowed.
For the record, I totally support MO’s anti-fat crusade. Using the bully pulpit of FLOTUS to communicate that being fat is not ok is a breath of fresh air in our musty clime.
The right way to do it is through persuasion and example, not fiat. Taking away choice in un-American.
That said I am no fan of the Obamas. Closing the White House to tours for schoolkids ostensibly because “the sequester made me do it” while taking multi-million $ vacations and trips to Africa at best displays utterly inept management and, at worst, soul-less political cynicism. The American people deserve better.
Motherhood and aging are the only valid reasons for women to gain weight.
[CH: No they aren’t. I’ve met plenty of mothers and older women who stayed thin. Are you a saboteur in hire for the femcunt brigade?]
I grew up in a Catholic community and all of my friend’s moms had three or more children (many had six or more).
These great mothers – the Ma Joad (country) or June Cleaver (suburban) housewife archetype leftoids kicked out of the home and into corporate “careers” (though whom these same feminists secretly yearn to be when they close their eyes at night) – they did indeed get more rotund as they had large, healthy families. I would argue that this sort of aging mother’s fatty figure of yore was way more feminine and natural than today’s revolting American “women”. Most mothers got heftier….but back then healthy women stored fat in the tits and hips. Conversely, modern repulsive Jabbettes, with their infertility, binge drinking, and vegetarianism, store their fats all over their torso like men, without even the saving grace of bulbous, baby-nourishing titties on their larval bodies.
(Of course, these dried up, white Sahara Snatches Jabettes don’t – and can’t – create babies, anyway, so they don’t even have that excuse for their rotundity.)
I’m saying that if a woman brings beautiful white babies into the world, raises them well, and is a loving and supportive wife….yeah, it’s cool if she gradually gets fatter
[CH: No, it’s not cool if she gets fatter, even if the babies are white darlings of hope.]
(again, provided her body stores its fat where women’s bodies ought to. American women increasingly have gross and unnatural fat distribution, from what I see.)
It is acceptable and tolerable, provided she meets the aforementioned criteria.
[Give a quarter to women, they will take the whole pie.]
I’m all for fat shaming and mocking of repulsive American white women – the infertile, shrill, useless ones. But we oughtn’t be mocking the good mothers and ladies among us for the totally natural tendency to gain some feminine fat as they have babies.
[Gaining weight during pregnancy is of course natural and expected. But there is no scientific evidence that durable fat gain is an unavoidable consequence of motherhood. This is bullshit. Plenty of thin women pop out kids and return to their fine pre-sprog form within months of giving birth.]
Mock the single, childless fatties. Mock the skinny fat Sahara Snatch white women. Don’t mock the good mothers for their figures. There are so few of them around, nowadays, my heart aches on the rare occasion I see this dying breed.
[If motherhood becomes an excuse to bloat up and stay bloated, men, especially white men, won’t want to knock them up in the first place. It’s sexual biomechanics all the way down.]
Simply, David, you can’t tell the “wonderful” wives to just lose the weight?
There’s a natural way for mothers to lose their baby fat. It’s called breastfeeding, and there’s no specific age when it has to stop. Even if she has another baby, there’s usually some left for the older kid. It’s like getting liposuction every day.
Right. A nursing mother has less than no excuse for staying fat. Of course, she should not have gotten fat while pregnant in the first place.
You’re wrong. Women who have had several kids actually seem to be thinner than those who go into postmenopausal life with one or none. Fatassery doesn’t just hit those broads who had kids, kid.
I was about 5 pounds heavier after pregnancy. It’s not a huge amount, but still noticeable. My waist-hip ratio was actually better after than before though. Before/after pregnancy my waist increased by 2 inches but my hips increased by MORE than that so I actually look MORE voluptuous ;):D:P And not in a bad/fat way, my BMI is 22.
I thought motherhood was “the toughest job”?
In my experience, the harder you have to work, the easier it is to stay thin.
“Men, you can help your lover stay thin by keeping her the hell away from her fat and feminist girl friends.”
I’m afraid that won’t be enough any longer.
The world’s first modeling agency for “girls of all sizes”: http://fashionista.com/2013/07/first-modeling-agency-devoted-to-girls-of-all-sizes-sets-up-shop-in-nyc/
It is every young hamster’s dream to be a model, and now that the barrier of entry is being removed for fatties…well, game over.
Game over? Not really. Plus-size models exist only for a very niche market.
The mere fact of their existence and increasing exposure is enough hamster fuel to keep fatties glorifying their obesity.
They can glorify all they want, but fat won’t sell products. The deepest recesses of the fat-rationalizers’ psyches know the reality of fat repulsion.
One question: How much do plus-sized models get paid, as opposed to thin models? I’d be willing to bet only 1/10 to 1/100 as much.
I saw one the other day carrying a placard:
Will work for lunch.
Plus-size models exist to sell cute clothes to plus-sized girls. Plus-sized stores have their own sizing system, so a fat girl who should be a 22 is now a 4. And she gets tight-fitting clothes that make her feel sexy. This is what we call an incentive – it lets the obese little hamster panting on its wheel pretend that it isn’t obese.
I’d love to see the entire fashion industry agree to refuse to manufacture clothes above size 14, except for functional “manatee gray” shapeless shift tunics that covered like burqas. Don’t like wearing those ugly-ass clothes? Lose the weight. You wouldn’t see a fat woman under the age of forty within a couple of years.
“I’d love to see the entire fashion industry agree to refuse to manufacture clothes above size 14, except for functional “manatee gray” shapeless shift tunics that covered like burqas.”
As long as sewing machines and fabric are available for sale to the public, women of any size will be able to wear whatever they want.
Pfft, as if fat girls have the discipline and will power necessary to sew their own clothes.
“Sure I’m a model. I’m the Before girl.”
I agree with Sad_Clown.
Remember “Precious”? How many barn doors has she broken down for other fattie female actors?
They can push the envelope all they want; deep down people emulate the behaviors of those they look UP to.
Not those they pity. Precious and I suspect many of those fat-plus models are on the pitying end.
Or it could just quietly implode as too few want to hire fat models to make fiscal sense.
Heh, heh… plus-sized model superstar:
The Face That Lunched A Thousand Chips.
That picture. Made my day! LMFAO!
“nonjudgmentalism, beauty equalism and loathing of male desire,”
The hamster acrobatics are especially agile when it comes to this. Blast that furry faggot to pieces as soon as it pops its head above the threshold (of fatness).
If all a woman has to do is stay slim, then what does a man have to do?
[CH: More. Sperm is cheap.]
What are the “10 commandments” for a man to be (and stay) desirable?
[See: Poon Commandments at top of page.]
Actually, what is the ONE commandment that a man should attest to having/maintaining?
[Dominance.]
The 4 Commandments for men:
1) Grow to at least 6’2.
2) Have genes like her favorite soap stars.
3) Don’t age past 30.
4) Make 6 figures.
New here?
‘Game’ boi?
Nah man, he’s not new he’s just a defeatist and a dumb fuck. Wolfie I imagined you as the biggest fattest loser on earth. If that’s you in the picture, what the fuck is your problem?
The 4 Commandments for men:
1) Grow to at least 6’2.
False. Simply don’t be short and even then you can make up for it. You know what height does right? It is a signal for dominance. So if you can fake/become socially dominant, guess what? You make up for the height requirement.
2) Have genes like her favorite soap stars.
Again False. Don’t be deformed or obese. All looks really do is give you the interview. They in no way shape or form close the deal. Since you’re not good looking, you make up with this by cold approaching.
3) Don’t age past 30.
WHAT????? Men that are 30 – 40 are in their prime. Men in their 20s have to break up into the upper crust to even get noticed. If you haven’t massively fucked up by becoming an obese whale and you have some sort of career then things are looking up when you reach 30.
4) Make 6 figures.
Nope, don’t be poor. Money is signal for guess what? Social dominance. Because of the glorious age that we live in where even poor people live better than medieval kings, you don’t need loads of money to go out and game chicks.
There wolfie, I busted your lame excuses. Now you have to face yourself in mirror and own up to reality that your mentality is the issue. You wouldn’t keep coming here if you didn’t want to get better. I’m giving you the kick in the ass that you need.
You couldn’t be more wrong if you tried.
I suggest less internet and more reality.
Prime is 16-30, for pretty much everyone,
[CH: No, you are the one with a weak grasp of reality. Prime for men is 28-38, on average. Prime for women is 15-25. DO note that the definition of prime includes social factors that contribute to one’s overall SMV. IN that regard, men are nbot only physically prime later than women, they reach their SMV prime later as well.]
19-22 is the ultimate sweet spot.
[For women, the ultimate sweet spot can be as young 17.]
But, if you like self-delusion better, be my guest.
[This line of attack only works if you know what the fuck you’re talking about.]
“Prime is 16-30, for pretty much everyone”
No, in humanity’s natural state the peak for men is 27 – 33. It’s just that our environment is so toxic that most older people are shot. 30 year old alpha male wipes the floor with 21 year old alpha male at the basest level. The reason you are seeing things differently is that 21 year old alpha male has way more access to 18 – 22 minxes through his social circle in current society.
Look at Hollywood, a place that corresponds to people desires and wants. It’s ultimate mirror on human’s values on superficial terms. The women are in their early to mid twenties while the A list men are almost always at least late twenties with most being in their thirties. Why is that? Do you really think that Hollywood plays around with shit like that? They do what brings in the maximum cash and most appeal.
Look at following A list male celebrities in their prime movie making career: Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Matt Damon, Leo DiCaprio, Colin Farrell, Steve McQueen, Clint Eastwood, Humphrey Bogart. All older dudes that while had some success while young skyrocketed as they reached their thirties.
Female actresses simply don’t have the same clout. To tell you the truth most people don’t give a shit about them, they are interchangeable young asses that are react to apex alpha males. As art reflects natural choices you can see the hierarchy clearly at work alpha male >>>>>>>>>>>> alpha women > beta women > beta male > omega male/female. The lesson is that once you reach alpha male status and maintain your gold for a long time after 30. It’s just hard to reach that state. It’s the counter balance. While the majority of women trump the majority of men, the alpha trumps almost all women in a big way.
In humanity’s natural state, most would be dead by 35-40.
I do know what the fuck I’m talking about:Reality.
Versus cyber-fantasies based on Penthouse letter bs.
Look, guys, there’s a lot of truth on this blog, but at some point, it goes off the rails and becomes wishful thinking baloney.
Guess that’s the way the web rolls, like guys bullshitting each other at the bar, except it gets magnified x 1000 by keyboard bravado.
Case in point: Here we go with the celebrities/TV shows/movies. Guess what: They’re SCRIPTED and quit relating everything to a scene from a sitcom or the life of some rap star. It has ZERO to do with YOUR life.
Do young women want George Clooney? Sure. He’s famous, he’s rich and still looks ok for a grey goose.
Do they want you? No’ bloody loikely mite!
I can offer good perspective on this, being someone who is starting to see a modicum of success with game.
1)
Yeah that shit helps for sure. I’d say it’s probably worth about 2 points on the attractiveness scale for women/men (when you’re short like me….around 5’4. I’d say it’s just 1 point when you’re like 5’6-5’9). Like, a guy with 10/10 facial aesthetics becomes an 8 which means he can land 6’s without trying. The problem is that a lot of short guys are like…5’s in the face and short, which makes them 3’s (that said, I mean….I think this rule may hold less force when you start dealing with sub 4 women, who can’t afford to be that choosy).
But, I take note of what the short guys with hot women in the club have in common. Either they’re dressed to the 9’s (indicative of money/status) or they’re fucking jacked. We’re talking like 5’5 200 pounds lol. Like, ridic proportions. Ya ya ya, I kno women say they don’t like huge muscles and maybe aesthetically, they don’t — but they like strength. So, those seem to be non ‘game’ ways to make up for height. I’ve seen enough short dudes with hotter, model-esque women in the club to realize that there must be ways to make up for height (and ya, without game…because I don’t believe that all of these guys were using ‘game’).
2)
Yeah this helps, but even less so actually unless you literally are a male model top .1% of the male population. Most girls think that most guys are ugly lol. I think of it like this….you don’t have to be super good looking, you just have to cross the minimum looks threshold. And the minimum looks threshold is often a few points below their physical attractiveness. You can get away with even more if you’re just super hygienic.
Now, if you want your looks to do the work for you then ya, you need to be at least a point above her.
3)
Science says a male’s physical prime is around the age of 30. You hit your peak muscle mass in your mid 30’s. A man’s face — specifically features like jawline — doesn’t fully mature until the early 30’s. Add to that the fact that men, in their 30’s, typically have accrued more resources and built actual lives (of one type or another)….and it’s easy to see why a lot of men say that 30-40 is their golden age. (I’ve heard this from more than one person….beta/alpha blah blah…near unanimous agreement)
4)
Lol, well ya that’d be nice….but the actual money really doesn’t matter at all from everything I’ve seen. It’s only when you do cool shit with the money. Like, I’m not going to lie…there is a spell guys can cast over women when they can toss money around, buy tables, buy drinks, and effectively buy the club. They’ll linger — and ya, a lot of PUA’s will be like ‘psh no way they don’t really like him’ but I’ve seen that they do end up being attracted. It’s not because of the money tho. It’s because of the dominance the money allows them to display.
When you have more resources than everyone else, you can boss them around = gina tingles.
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Tight game can overcome all of these attributes, handily. But is it easy? Of course not.
I am 5’6″, and there is a huge difference between 5’6″ and 5’9″ when it comes to women. 5’9″ is merely unfortunate, 5’6″ is invisible.
One of my heroes is my ex-fiance’s father, who was maybe 5’2″, tops. A Sicilian who wore designed jeans, gold chains, and two rings on each of his pinky fingers, he was a barely litterate mechanic who went on to own shops and my a fortune. Sociable, fun, the life of the party, he projected confidence and charisma and everyone loved him.
Look at this guy: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/03/29/the-next-great-dismissive-alpha-male-line/ . 5’5″ and working in fast food, he still had women killing each other over him.
O/T – Amanjaw Marcunt actually had a good column. Was totally shocked
http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/07/12/free_jahar_why_does_boston_bomber_dzhokhar_tsarnaev_have_so_many_female.html
[CH: That’s not a good column. It’s a shit column, as is to be expected from amanjaw. Her main assertion is that Tsarnaev has adoring female fans because he’s cute. But history shows plenty of ugly killers who had adoring women as well. She still refuses to acknowledge the ugly truth about female nature.]
Nope, she is still a dumbass. Here is her closing sentence:
I’m sure the implication here is that it’s the patriarchy’s fault that women love criminals and not their natural inclinations.
What’s good though is that articles like this will help her lose influence with the feminati, however.
The smarter women of the feminist circles know where articles like this lead…
Harder than it sounds. What’s the approach to wean her away from the human bowling balls without sounding like a control freak?
Taunting & disgust of her fat cow ‘friends'; reprobation that she would want to hang with such disgusting examples of humanity. Take her to fashion shows and gallery openings to where she’ll see how people who embrace beauty, health and maintaining their weight live better, more glamorous lives (and where you’ll go when she crosses the Rubuenesqicon.)
+1. Refer to her friends as “fat”, “cow”, “sow”, and so forth. This shouldn’t be too difficult if you’re an alpha male. If she brings up anti-fat-shaming propaganda, piss on it. State that fat shaming can’t be happening all that much if obesity is at record highs.
And don’t be afraid to say these things about her family members, where necessary.
The proper approach is the back of your hand.
Change the venue where fatties are unconformable. All sorts of ways to do that. “Lets all go on a hiking trip.” The land whale’s deficiencies will be apparent on the third switchback, if she doesn’t decline out right If you have not already imposed your will that athletic activity is required to keep up with you virile dynamism then you already have work to do.
I live overseas and go home twice a year. I’m 42. Last time I was home, one of my relatives told me, “wow, you’re that old and you’re not fat yet?” with an air of wonder.
Thus, I deduce that in America these days, it is simply expected that greater age = greater fat. Sad that that’s the new normal.
A trip back to North America for me these days feels like losing 50 lbs immediately.
“You have one duty ladies… ONE. Stay thin and sexy.”
YES, DRILL SERGEANT!!!
It would be remiss not to mention acts of patriotism and valor beyond the call are rewarded with sovereign endowment.
Obesity is the postmodern form of eugenics. People of low intelligence/morals/inhibition are pigging out on junk food, thereby becoming unattractive and in extreme cases unable to even engage in sex. It is a humane way of removing them from the gene pool.
Except like disease the effects are moving up the chain to the upper classes thanks to bleeding hearts.
Every time you are with her do an activity…like walking in the park or doing wind sprints. I can’t think of a more romantic place than the gym.
Follow that with a lovely dinner of veggies, meats, and fruits.
If she’s a good girl…I’d even let her have a bowl of ice cream.
Some girls, I think, just get fat from snacking. Srsly, my former supervisor was a skinny babe right out of grad school, but then she started to snack (high calorie stuff too) and by the end of my internship she gained a lot of fat. Slowing down metabolism doesnt help either.
I think it’s lack of knowledge about nutrition.
People think they are eating healthy when they are eating pasta salad.. and whole grains.. and low fat.
Their body craves more and more empty calories because they are not giving it the nutrition they need.
That… and there’s also the emotional eating aspect.
I eat very nutrient dense food.. Liver, fish, butter, cheese, greens, egg yolks etc. and I find I don’t battle with cravings as I used to. I also eat ice cream quite regularly, but I can stop at one serving.
We need to educate people what healthy eating really is and there will be much less obesity. You can’t even order a salad in some places without it coming drenched in dressing that’s full of sugars.
Totally agree embracing!!
I was wondering g too why I was not dropping weight more rapidly although I was eating better. But I finally realized no matter how many cpk cob salads I ate, the dressing was killing my stomach and I would have (TMI COMING) horrible diarreah afterwards. I was so confused b/c I was eating a healthy salad, but the stuff in the dressing like blue cheese and ranch was not good for me.
It’s truly trial and error. I have finally figured out my body can’t tolerate wheat, gluten, creams , and mist dairy (like milk products) and when i avoid these things I’ve noticed more weight shedding, less diarreah and ibs and feeling better overall.
Back to your point, mist people are simply unaware if what it is to truly eat healthy until they really start focusing in it and realizing half the shot we eat really isn’t good for us or providing any health benefits.
You eat “cok salads”????
they’re high in protein and essential vitamins and minerals
A big part of the problem is that eating healthy is expensive. Processed food is much cheaper than unprocessed and much easier, especially when you’re dealing with a post-modern America that’s forgotten how to cook for itself. You can educate all you want, but until the average price of raw vegetables falls below the average price of a box of mac’n’cheese, the problem is going to persist.
Labor intensive…I would say. The expense is exaggerated.
That could be. I’ve got celiacs, so any kind of starch (besides rice and potatoes) costs me about triple.
I get my gluten free starch, not that gluten is an issue, by putting my back into it. I leach acorn. If you have a yard, plant a chestnut. Then there is buckwheat which isn’t even a monocot let alone wheat. TV is expensive.
I like buckwheat! And GF oats. And teff. And squash. There are good options out there, but if you like pasta or want to do your own baking, it gets a little pricier.
Sadly, I don’t have a yard. I’m looking forward to having a house again someday, because I do enjoy gardening. It’s fun and everything tastes better.
TV is for idiots; far too expensive, an you end up subsidizing a lot of bullshit. Maybe when they have a la carte options, it’ll be worth paying for again.
I like buckwheat!
What’s not to like?
Amaranth is another option. It grows like a weed, has a number of ornamental varieties, and is, I’ve read, much easier to harvest than buckwheat.
Gimme a break.
It’s a total myth that eating healthy is somehow more expensive then eating poorly. Vegetables and fruit are cheap as hell at your local Giant. Check it out next time you’re there.
This myth is perpetuated by people who want to make excuses for not eating well and blame it on “the system.” Please.
Even if some healthy items are pricier than less healthy ones we’re not talking gold bars here. Somehow, the very people who claim it’s too expensive to eat better also tote around iphones and have big-screen TVs.
This is a matter of values and personal choices.
Nutritional and cooking education is a big part of it.
I’ve got additional bad news: Inflation. The Federal Reserve is ‘printing’ (putting in banks) trillions of dollars, driving the value of the US dollar down.
This is reflected in food, fuel and other prices -even thought the official inflation rate is gerrymandered.
The really bad food in the west is subsidized. One actually has to go out of his or her way to locate local farmers that can sell you quality grass finished meats (grass finished meats should be the cornerstone of all human diets).
Technology has also made our lived much easier, we are more sedentary. Finally, smoking used to be a check on weight and now that has been mostly marginalized.
It’s expensive now.. but surely it’s more cost effective in the long run. You can save money on doctors bills in the future.
If you eat a diet high in fat to get the largest part of your calories.. it’s cheaper. How much butter can you eat? It’s extremely calorie dense, a little butter doesn’t cost much. Neither does offal. Offal costs next to nothing here because a lot of people won’t eat it.
“How much butter can you eat?”
Not more than three sticks in one sitting.
It’s both a lack of knowledge about nutrition as well as exercise. For example, people (I am a man though) are often surprised to learn I’ve gained about 30lbs in the past 10 months. I have the same waist size as I did before and less body fat, yet due to lifting weights 6 times a week and eating a high-protein diet I have gained a lot of muscle, and now have a very high resting metabolic rate.
Women are often turned off to weight lifting, thinking of it as a ‘masculine’ form of exercise when in the long run it is the best form of exercise to gain better body composition (actual weight means next to nothing, I’ve met girls who are 5’7″ 145lbs and unpleasant to say the least as well as the same height/weight who are very hot). A pound of muscle burns 50 calories a day even when not exercising, so by gaining even 10 lbs of muscle you can burn 500 calories a day, NOT COUNTING the calories burned during exercise.
Most people, but especially women, don’t realize you can eat a high calorie diet so long as you are doing the proper exercise and you will still gain better body composition (less fat, more muscle).In addition, high calorie also means proper calories. Not all calories are the same, and macronutrient ratios are extremely important (high protein, high proper fat, moderate carbs is my personal approximate ratio).
I ordered a chicken salad some place a while back, I asked for the dressing on the side as I always do because I am not sure I will like the dressing. Well they brought it and the dressing was delicious but it tasted like it was 95% honey LOL
Yes. Dressing in the side is my new thing. And I also now stick to oil based dressing like balsamic and olive oil.
You are single handedly ruining this blog. I read the comments for reader insight into the topics and when you comment you blather on and on about yourself. It’s disgusting and I would pay real money to see Cynthia punch you in the face.
…in bikinis, covered in jello, right?
Arrrgh! I’m not bikini ready yet!!
I know there’s a joke in here somewhere about healthy eating and idol worship…hmm…
Behind closed doors you are, my little bowl of chocolate puddin’.
For once my mind wasn’t goin there, but +10 for the way you think
@neecy
There you go with the ‘I’s again
but I I I I I I (you see what I did there?)
Was an only child till 17! I I I I I I ( see what I did there) feel MY MY MY MY MY blog self center sneaks is duly justified!
@MEecy (see what I did there)
STFU
Neecy, don’t let the HATERAUTOMATONS stop your FUN. I am right with you, just like a gay guy!!! I am too broke now to buy salad dressing because my BernankeBux retirement check is too small!!!
So I bought a simply HUGE metal container– the design is SO RETRO!– of EXTRA VIRGIN olive oil; and put in on salad with a QUARTER SQUEEZED LEMON, and some Parmesan cheese. From the DOLLAR STORE!
I am SERIOUS and also so CHIC!!! And its delicious AND HEALTHY
CHEAP, CHIC, AND HEALTHY is the way!!!
It seems that most women gain weight after pregnancy. and they can’t cut the weight they were required to put on for it. Sometimes they bounce back well after one kid, but usually not two, unless they have it in their genes to be thin.
My sister has just had her 5th baby she’s got her weight back down. She told me it’s hard but it can be done. Breastfeeding also helps you shed the weight, many women have told me.
“unless they have it in their genes to be thin.”
Bullshit, if they were thin before they got kids they can be thin after, too.
Well, not always. Pregnancy sends the body through a number of changes that can take permanent effect on some women that don’t on others. Shifts in stress level, metabolism, thyroid, hormones, skin, and muscles in the midsection may or may not make it medically much harder for some women to completely regain their pre-pregnancy body. Many never do. They might lose a lot of the weight and still look good, but rarely do they return to looking exactly the way they did. True, a lot of moms put child care at the top of their priorities to looking hot, which is understandable. Still, I think physical fitness should be a top priority for the purpose of keeping in good shape in order to keep up with the little ones and live a long and healthy life. It’s hard for mom to find the time and energy but even if it’s 10 mins a day, it would greatly increase their bodies over time.
Carrying the baby around gives you biceps. Carrying the baby in the laundry basket with the laundry up the stairs works on your legs and butt. Breastfeed and you’ve just burned up to 300 calories. Most weight will come off in two weeks. Continue life as usual. Shower everyday. Look nice everyday. Its really not that hard. Its just a baby :)
I won’t deny that child care can come with some physical work out, but if it were “really not that hard” as you say, don’t you think more moms would be more physically fit?
I think they were probably heavy before the pregnancy or, if they were not, gained too much during it.
“Shifts in stress level”
A new job does this too but that doesnt stop me from working out.
“metabolism”
Eat less
“thyroid, hormones”
Can be fixed with pills.
“muscles in the midsection”
Can be fixed with surgery.
“Still, I think physical fitness should be a top priority for the purpose of keeping in good shape in order to keep up with the little ones and live a long and healthy life.”
are these really the only reasons? Im sure you can find atleast one more.
“It’s hard for mom to find the time and energy but even if it’s 10 mins a day”
Bullshit, people who work 80-hour weeks find time and so can moms.
Think about what you are saying. Your logic is extremely narrow.
“A new job does this too but that doesnt stop me from working out.”
Everyone is not you.
“Eat less”
Is that all? Why hasn’t anyone else thought of that?
[CH: They may have thought of it, but they obviously didn’t do anything about it.]
“Can be fixed with pills.”
Pills cause many other problems
“Can be fixed with surgery.”
You gonna pay for it?
[Then a life of loneliness and misery the fatty shall suffer.]
“are these really the only reasons? Im sure you can find atleast one more.”
Nope.
“Bullshit, people who work 80-hour weeks find time and so can moms.”
Not everyone’s lives are the same, you know.
Not to mention the attitude here is extremely ablest.
[CH: Oh, so you’re one of those fucking weirdos.]
Parents or not, not everyone in life can achieve a strong, healthy, good looking body no matter what they do.
[No, but that doesn’t mean the only alternatives are fupas and gunts.]
Lots of people have medical conditions, disorders, disables, illnesses, deformities, genetic obstacles that prevent them for looking perfect.
[Falling short of perfection does not mean becoming disgustingly fat.]
They can eat less and exercise all they want but not everyone is physically capable.
[All gut, no glory. Did you know a mere sixty years ago most Americans, including mothers, were physically capable of staying thin?]
These are the exceptions that prove the rule.
“Oh, so you’re one of those fucking weirdos”
Are you going to deny that insinuations that all a person has to do to look good is eat less and move more isn’t being unfair to those can’t move much at all or people with glandular and thyroid problems?
[CH: The percentage of people in the general population who have medically diagnosed “glandular” problems that make weight loss near impossible is so small that their cases are safely ignored when discussing advice that would work for the vast majority of people. In related news, fat shits still resorting to lame excuses for not having the willpower to push away from the table or move their asses off the couch.]
Actually, it’s perfectly healthy to consume 1400 calories a day, if you eat mostly lean protein, veggies and fruits. I’m not saying I never indulge myself, but mostly, I eat nutrient-dense, high-fat, low-carb foods. It’s pretty hard to eat 2000+ calories of lean meat and veggies unless you have a lot of muscle to feed. And sure, I’m not ashamed to say I eat in a way mindful of my figure. I don’t like to look in the mirror and feel ashamed of myself. More women should take pride in their appearances. Maybe then we wouldn’t be such a fat, sloppy nation.
CH, are you one of those people that believes that obesity is primarily caused by laziness and lack of willpower?
[CH: Ashley, are you one of those fatties who believes that obesity is primarily caused by exotic thyroid conditions unknown in the world before 1970 or so?]
Negative.
But it’s pretty common knowledge these days (since ’70) that there is a list of other contributing factors for obesity than just as you put it “fat shits still resorting to lame excuses for not having the willpower to push away from the table or move their asses off the couch.”
[CH: The wide-bottom line is that most fat shits are fat because they eat too much, they eat bad food, and they don’t move around enough. Own up to your deficiencies and you will find redemption in the embrace of truth and the release of attachment to your ego.]
This is ridiculous. The vast majority of fat people are fat because they eat too goddamn much, and eat badly. We all know this.
I guess case closed then. ;)
If you ever want to bother with looking it up sometimes, you’ll find the info. I swear, I’m not making this up.
What, that a small percentage of people have medical problems that make it difficult to lose weight? I don’t dispute it, don’t need to. It isn’t material.
Fact is, the vast majority could lose weight by changing eating habits and lifestyle. It’s not easy, I know. I had to work hard to lose 70 lbs.
Even those with slow metabolisms caused by gland or thyroid problems don’t HAVE to be fat. I know a girl who tests in the bottom 2% metabolic rate. She’s a fit size 0 (she’s about 5’2″). Health problems make it harder, yes, as do naturally slow metabolisms. If I eat more than 12-1400 calories a day I gain weight. So I eat less than most people so I don’t. It’s almost always a CHOICE even if it’s harder for some to stay thin than others.
I’d be careful of using phrases like “vast majority” unless you have proof that more than 50% could lose weight through simple changes than not.
Alexandrah, are you really advocating that some people should eat less than other based on how easily they can or will remain thin? Nevermind nutritional value, being thin is what matters? Come on now. You limit yourself based on what it takes for you to stay thin and for that I feel sorry for you. It’s not good to only consume 1400 calories a day.
“The wide-bottom line is that most fat shits are fat because they eat too much, they eat bad food, and they don’t move around enough. Own up to your deficiencies and you will find redemption in the embrace of truth and the release of attachment to your ego.”
The bottom line is that while there is some truth to what you just said, there’s also more hard evidence that other factors are also causes of obesity. Everyone knows this by now, unless you don’t keep up with the news or want to deny what’s been discovered and realized within the past 20 years then that’s your decision, whatever floats your boat.
Yes, there are other (probably relatively minor) _factors_, but those pesky laws of thermodynamics rule with an iron fist. You cannot gain weight without consuming more calories than you expend.
Actually, it’s perfectly healthy to consume 1400 calories a day, if you eat mostly lean protein, veggies and fruits. I’m not saying I never indulge myself, but mostly, I eat nutrient-dense, high-fat, low-carb foods. It’s pretty hard to eat 2000+ calories of lean meat and veggies unless you have a lot of muscle to feed. And sure, I’m not ashamed to say I eat in a way mindful of my figure. I don’t like to look in the mirror and feel ashamed of myself. More women should take pride in their appearances. Maybe then we wouldn’t be such a fat, sloppy nation.
Ps sorry for the double post, clicked reply to the wrong comment.
It sounds like you have a good diet and if watching your figure is what makes you happy then more power to you. I just think we as a society place too much value on a woman’s looks. It’s sad that it seems the most important think we act like women can be is attractive enough for her man to have the pleasure of viewing. There’s nothing wrong with being beautiful or wanting to look beautiful either. There’s also nothing wrong with men admiring a woman’s beauty. I just think we need to step back and realize that women are capable of so much more than just being thin and hot.
That’s like asking women to stop preferring tall men. Ain’t gonna happen.
Did I say that men should stop preferring attractive women? No.
Fair enough. Some of us men do try to look beneath the surface, for what little it’s worth. My ex-fiance was less physically attractive than any of my previous girlfriends, and a bit (just a bit) overweight, yet I esteemed her more than all the others put together. She was kind, giving, loving, humble, a friend to everyone, and she glowed with femininity and grace.
They have great weight loss programs in Africa
Keep yourself fit and she is likely to do the same. If you can do some exercise together, even better. She may not want to hit the weights or work at your pace, but you can find something you both like: hiking or urban trekking, organized soccer or ultimate, strenuous yoga, etc.
A man shouldn’t have to do hiking, trekking or yoga to keep his woman thin, don’t reject the fault on men, a woman is responsible of her body.
No, you shouldn’t HAVE to do them, but if you like to do them, you can do them with her. Being physically active with your woman is a real aphrodisiac. And being outside is a turn on for most women….the woods make them feel primal urges.
True, but that man will be a lot healthier and happier with what he sees in the mirror if he keeps/gets in shape himself. Completely regardless of what any woman might think.
I already keep myself in shape, but I’m not responsible of someone else’s body.
You are when you’re spilling seed and microbes into it.
Do you, then, believe a father should have the right to veto an abortion?
Heheheh…You said woman and responsible in the same sentence.
I’m not saying a vagina makes it impossible to be responsible, just that for some reason, it leads most to not have much training in it.
Better you ditch the feminist ideals before you find yourself in a world of hurt and confusion.
LOL Heartiste, you can be one funny SoB sometimes.
No brainer. They think they need to be thinner than the competition. Much more risk with American women who may justify and validate themselves by falstaffian standards in their midst.
How can this be? Blobfish is so freaking cute. Why come if I get like blobfish, I cannot also be very cute?
Yes, but would you want to make sweet tender love to blobfish?
I would make sweet tender cuddling to it’s floppy form.
Would you let him nestle betwixt your breasts? Would you, could you, there let him rest? Would you kiss his lips and doughy face? Would you, could you, make his heart race?
“Would you let him nestle betwixt your breasts?”
Happily.
“Would you, could you, there let him rest? Would you kiss his lips and doughy face? Would you, could you, make his heart race?”
yes, little kisses. maybe he would smile then.
I like men with some extra weight. in the belly.
There’s a reason fat women are considered shitty goods in a way fat men aren’t.
Nah, fat guys are just as bad.
[CH: Fat guys are no great shakes, but they’re not nearly as bad, as a function of SMV-lowering deformity, as fat women are.]
Sure, fat guys can get women if they have money/status,
[Or game.]
which is an avenue closed to females.
[True.]
Embracing would hate me.
[Being a truthseeker requires a grasp of reality.]
BBBFF = Big Beastly Best Fat Friend
The FAT-pocolypse, a nexus of many factors resulting in expanding waistlines:
1) Technology making our lives easier. The colonists that founded the united states ate nearly 10,000 calories a day. They worked hard manual labor from sun up to sun down. What they ate was mostly fat and protein, with some grains and lots of beer (beer safer to drink than much of the water).
The only people that come close to 10k calories worth of work are high- end athletes and body builders.
2) Kids growing up in houses with parent(s) that ether do not know how to cook, are too lazy or simply don’t have the time and/or knowledge to plan a nutritious meal.
3) Government interference in the market through subsidies of grains. Add in SNAP / Foodstamps and allowing welfare recipients to purchase unhealthy food. The kind of people are usually not intelligent to begin with. I’m against the nany-state, but the government should not be encouraging unhealthy living, either.
4) Government and nutritionist mafia pushing low fat diets full of sugars. No one should be shocked at the explosion of Type 2 Diabetes. Salt and fat are not bad for humans. The idea of humans evolving over millions of years by eating things bad for them is ludicrous.
5) Fiat money printing lowering the buying power of the dollar. Good food is growing out of reach for may families.
6) Social shaming is falling out of favor. In many other nations, like Hong Kong – people will tell you straight up you are fat. Overweight people should be ridiculed endlessly.
The United States was the first victim of the FAT-pocolypse, because we were the first to adopt many of the technological conveniences, as well as changing our to the diabetes causing low fat diet.
Other nations are catching up fast.
The main reasons why 2/3 of Americans are overweight/obese are portion size, types of food and lack of movement.
They probably have them now, but I don’t recall ever seeing and All-You-Can -Eat buffet in Europe in the 70’s & 80’s. No drink refills, you want another coffee, you buy another coffee. No Super-Triple-Extra-Mega Large Slurpees. No ‘family size’ boxes of, well, anything. Your average entrée at an American ‘family restaurant’ – such as Applebee’s, Denny’s, Chili’s, TGI Friday’s, etc. could indeed feed a Bangladeshi family of 7 for a week. And then there’s the chips&salsa and the breadsticks……not to mention the fact that a 12-oz. Coke contains the equivalent of 12 teaspoons of sugar.
Granted, some European cuisine isn’t exactly health food – dumplings, pasta , chocolate and cakes abound – but again, I don’t recall ever hearing anything about hydrogenated fats and corn syrup, which are 2 of the biggest culprits in America. In-between snacking is also not nearly as widespread as it is in the States. Bored women do not ‘reward’ themselves with pints of ice cream. Daily.
Also, Americans don’t walk. Anywhere. A few rare exceptions – NYC and Boston spring to mind – aside, the sidewalks of America are empty. Sure, there may be the odd fitness nut running, homeless guy shuffling along or kid on a skateboard, but the overwhelming majority of the population park their widening rear ends in car seats -after having spent the day sitting at the office, at the ‘puter or on the couch playing the latest shoot-em-up video game in which they get to portray a ripped, athletic patriotic hero – and drive to another seat at the movies or at a restaurant, where they refuel calories they didn’t burn in the first place. In chunks of 3,000.
Treadmill desks have got to go more mainstream. Best $1500 you’ll ever spend:
LifeSpan TR1200-DT5 Treadmill Desk
Wait. It gets worse.
Fat women make fat children, especially if they eat a lot of junk food when pregnant.
http://www.thehealthyhomeeconomist.com/new-study-junk-food-during-pregnancy-and-lactation-can-lead-to-junk-food-addicted-kids/
http://www.prweb.com/releases/2013/5/prweb10766358.htm
I know a cases where the girlfriend (24) of a friend (25) deliberately decided to make his guy fat, in order to prevent him from becoming attractive to other women. She also gained a lot of weight over three years of their relationship.
So that woman only got thin in order to attract a male, but once my beta friend got into her physological claws, she reverted to her feminist, controlling fat self.
Stay away from such women, my friends. I you dare to marry one of them, she will gorge herself into blue whalic proportions within less than two years, having social proof and personal assurance of his companion male before hitting the wall.
Instead, learn from heartiste and others. Let them fat females hit the wall and once they hit 32 (or less), use them as a last resort before looking xvideos on a friday night.
When it comes to attraction, women need their men to hit a 467 point checklist to be suitably attracted.
Men really only have 2.
1. Don’t be a bitch.*
2. Don’t be fat.
*can be circumvented only if number 2 is adhered to and you are HB9 or greater.
Very few women in the world are or are ever going to be 9+.
If you want women to be thinner/smaller, you’ve got to stop supporting the industries that contribute to it and thinking that women are going to change by some kind of miracle. If you support decadence, then you deserve decadence…and fat and/or ugly, bitchy women are just part of decadence.
I’m not hypocritical about this. I cook, forage, trade with others who farm and forage, and am healthier and considerably lighter for it. I also encourage my friends and associates to do the same.
You’re also going to have to be willing to stand up and take whatever knocks you’re going to take for speaking up, and also take care to be responsible and not get hatefully hysterical about it. When you do that, they win and make you a less appealing option than the comforting lies.
To get the kind of woman you need, you need to be the kind of man a woman needs. Start with yourself, and you will meet likeminded mates and recruit some who would just dismiss you if it was just all about want and not about willing to put some effort into.
I’ve taken my knocks and still do from my blue pill colleagues and friends. Sadly the truth will sound hateful to those who don’t want to hear the truth, especially those with no willingness to change and are solely looking for misery loves company chums. I’m not here to hold someone’s hand in an effort to better themselves. They need to want it for themselves.
I got the woman I want by being the like minded/like bodied masculine to her feminine frame.
And she introduced me to the phrase ” Put the fucking fork down!” While people watching obese women gorge and gluttonize on fatty foods and high calorie drinks at a Korean BBQ restaurant.
Shame isn’t nice, but its Great motivating force for change and not accepting abnormality for ‘the new “NEW”‘ just ask CH
I don’t shame people in public. Addicts and their dealers get hostile when you try to stop their business.
I just educate people when I have their ear. This also lets them know that I’m not just doing it to boost my ego at someone else’s expense.
That is how shame backfires. Badly timed, and it just comes off like you just love the smell of your own farts. That’s their weapon, and it’ll work as well on them as it does on you.
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I’ve got additional bad news: Inflation. The Federal Reserve is ‘printing’ (putting in banks) trillions of dollars, driving the value of the US dollar down.
Actually right now the FED is “tapering” with all that printing, driving the dollar stronger and all the Emerging Market currencies lower…
The FED is actually heading towards inflating all the EM space in stagflation…
CH hit the hamster with the subject. Anyone else noticed the ratio of women commenting in this post?
Naw. Neecy just thought she heard the racist dog whistle.
Being fat probably hurts women more than men aesthetically, granted….but I wonder if — on the whole — the effect on attractiveness is the same. When men are fat, they produce less T, which makes them lose their natural ‘edge,’ and makes them less attractive. When women are fat, they just….don’t look as good, which makes them less attractive.
Having gone from being nearly obese to like two pounds overweight and having put on several pounds of muscle mass….there’s just such a huge difference in how I feel, act, talk, walk, and look. So that’s why I was wondering. Seems like a reasonable hypothesis.
Also, women………..fat can be very tragic. I know a girl who could be an easy 7 if she just lost like 80 pounds (and managed to avoid the perils of loose skin. yccck). Every time I see her around, it’s very sad…and like, her ‘you go grrrl’ friends are just contributing to her decline.
also —> http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/06/110607121129.htm
and this —> http://thechart.blogs.cnn.com/2012/10/12/alarming-low-testosterone-levels-found-in-obese-teenage-boys/
‘Mean testosterone concentration was 50% lower in obese males. Mean free testosterone concentration was 46% lower.’
I’m sure there’s half/half cause effect to this. Like, being obese depresses T, but I bet lacking T also probably causes more obesity. Could just be a terrible, vicious cycle.
I think you may be on to something. Whatever way you slice it though, Game can still enable a fat bastard (or short, disabled, poor, etc) to punch above his weight. Fat women are doomed to a life of beta and omega suitors.
All I think ‘game’ is is conforming to the masculine gender role, in terms of behavior —> being dominant, displaying self-control and strength.
So, I think women can increase their attractiveness as well by conforming to more feminine gender roles. Like, zooming back in on Jenna Fischer (ya should be obvious I have kind of a thing for her)…it’s not her looks that make her so attractive to me, it’s that she’s so feminine.
Maybe women can’t change their attractiveness as much as men can because of the nature of what attracts each sex…but, I definitely know that I prefer one point lower + feminine to one point higher + non-feminine/bitchy.
I would like to pose that it’s not just the fat alone. It’s the ugly and refusal to cater to men’s visual and sexual needs overall, while demanding men somehow not be male. Fat is just one possible symptom of the uncaring, but it is seldom the only one, and for those who are just fat (usually chubby, sturdy, or softball dyke sized) but otherwise okay, it’s not impacting their choices that much.
Having had to fight external education for my daughter’s looks, I have some experience with this. Remember, I got accused by one of my daughter’s teachers of neglect because I won’t keep junk food in the home. I’ve also lost boyfriends at least partly because they weren’t supportive of my fitness efforts and couldn’t handle the psychological improvements that came with the physical.
You must be realistic if you are going to fight social uglification successfully. You must have your feet on the ground and make it clear that you understand someone is going to be shagging them, but that the situation is more crabs in a bucket or sheeple in clustered harems than truly respecting their womanhood.
As I told my daughter, a guy who wants to keep your options limited while his are better will never tell you to do anything to improve yourself nowadays. They really are that insecure. The beta bar is way down from times past.
When I lost 70 pounds I gained a lot of energy and libido.
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If y’all want us to be thin and pretty, make a place where it is safe for us to be so. We obviously suck at this, so you can either pick up your balls or continue to see us become more masculine because you’re becoming more feminine.
Quit being bitches or quit your bitching.
hmmm…..guess this post touched a nerve…..like it was supposed to.
It touched the nerve where most people aside of the OP and a few of the really dedicated red pill-ers who are living it, are bitching about what they want, while being unwilling to put any real effort into getting it.
Seen way too much “a man shouldn’t have to…” and “men are less impacted by…” in this thread.
If you are a lazy wanker who would rather be masturbating, and using the excuse that not enough women are hot enough for you to put any effort into actually getting laid, then you are part of the problem.
If you are a dude actually doing something for the situation other than bitching, who will somehow manage to find suitable women to actually shag and maybe even stick with in real life, then you are part of the solution.
Think about what kind of example you would be to a wife and kids, or even just a girlfriend who might pass through your life for a couple of weeks.
Is she going to learn something good from you that will keep her from blowing up by her own fault or by being one of the growing number of unlucky who just can’t take the poison in the food and the culture from both ends?
When I found out that I didn’t have to be as fat as I was, I was pissed off about it. Any woman would be. If I was still a skinny woman, I’d be pissed off that it didn’t have to be a struggle, or that I didn’t have to be sick every month like many woman I know get (until I convince them to change their diet).
There’s a few nerves in there getting struck.
Holy crap Nicole, your talking about something else besides ” how evil the white man is “. Never thought I’d see the day.
Evil? No more than anyone else. The problem is that western Europe and the Americas’ Europeans are so short of critical and independent thinkers that you keep evil people in power long enough that they get to do more widespread damage…and you praise yourselves for this.
I view “whites” the way most Americans view communists. It’s all good on paper, but most of your current way of thinking doesn’t pan out well in real life. What made you able to create mass markets and mega infrastructures can also be and is now being used to control you as well as assimilants.
If you’ve interpreted what I’m saying as hateful or anti “white”, it is only because you believe that criticism = hate, and that if someone sees you’re about to fall of a cliff and puts a hand out to stop you, it’s because they’re trying to limit your “freedom”.
Don’t know ’bout the rest o’ you crackas… but I, for one, rest evermore peacefully in my bed at night, knowing Nicole is looking out for us.
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All racial groups, throughout history, have had power structures where the few brutally subjugated the many with an iron fist. Name me one non-white society or civilization where that was not the case. The white race is the only one that actually tried to change that with direct democracy as in Greece, or a representational republic as in the United States. In fact, name me any non-white culture that was democratic and didn’t use slavery at the same time. I respect alot of your views on here Nicole, but you need to examine history with less of a bias. The world wasn’t a golden age of “kumbaya singing” before the white man showed up, and its not going to be one if he were to disappear.
I am only here to support the salvage of the strong.
It doesn’t bother you that when you address or respond to me, you are breaking your word, because it is not the honor of a real person that is at stake. It doesn’t bother you to throw others in the circle jerk under a bus to play the misunderstood non racist, because it is not a real person’s loyalty or integrity that would be in question.
When you become a real person who doesn’t eagerly castrate your fathers for the sake of belonging to a larger herd, then I will be looking out for you.
Until then…
(yawn)
Love that feigned indifference.
It feeds my soul when I can choke back the vomit.
1.) The food industry has become proficient at producing foods full of fat, sugar, and salt that light up the same part of the brain that cocain does. The more proficient they become at it, the more they sell and the more money they make. Thus they have become EXTREMELY proficient at producing these foods.
2.) We the people have to have education and control. Difficult when it’s like a cocain habit. Overwrought comparison you say? How many people die of cocain related causes? How many die from obesity ? Do you think the obese people had too much broccoli ?
3.) The government should tax processed food in the same way they tax tobacco and liquor. That way the people doing damage to themselves will have financed their own health care.
4.) We are a sedentary society so : Ladies get on the rotating stairs (not the simpy stairmaster) and sweat your ass off on there 4 days a week for an hour. Get a treadmill desk to walk on at home or work. My boss’s blood sugar took a dive and his diabetes became much more managable when he got one at my insistence (He got one for our office and then he started using it all the time so we had to get another). Or Dance your ass off – do not depend on running: it will wear down your muscles.
The obesity epidemic has done more to destroy religious belief than any heresy. I mean, how can a normal man continue to believe in the virtue and sanctity of sacrificial love if the only available recipients of such a kind of love are guaranteed to betray that sacrifice by … GETTING FUCKING FAT!!!!!
The big wars of the 20th century were fought and won by guys who thought they would get some trim, tight pussy as a reward. Take that prospect away, and ram-teach them the full horror of fat-acceptance… .
Time to expat . Stick a fork in it.
My grandmother used to exercise religiously every morning. I once complimented her on it. She chucked and said “Oh I’ve always done this ever since your grandfather said he’d divorce me if I ever got fat.”
Knowing my grandfather, he delivered that message cunningly as a half joke, half serious.
From my grandmother’s smile when she told me about it, it was clear that she respected my grandfather more for setting boundaries for her. And it kept her thin and attractive for her whole life after birthing 5 children.
I told my now-wife this story when we were dating. She got the message just like grandma did, God bless her.
I’ve written about this before which led to a lot of chicks on my Facebook profile literally shaming me and threatening to unfriend me once they seen the post link. What a man to do!
Excellent tip before heading out for daygame in 97degree weather today, Kenny. Thanks.
On the subject of weight – I’m pushing 50, just off an injury that left me not being able to do cardio. One thing I learned is that if you keep pushing that intense, interval cardio, your metabolism WILL kick back in. Not as quickly as when you’re 26, but it WILL kick back into gear after you’ve almost given up hope.
High intensity interval training ‘HIIT” is something that everyone can do, even on machines or up the stairs in the highrise they live in. Its benefits in terms of weight loss and heart/lung benefits FAR exceed that of continuous steady pace running or stair climbing. It’s for the lazy because there are such long, rather generous rest periods. This book will take you 3 hours to read:http://www.amazon.com/HIIT-Intensity-Interval-Training-Explained/dp/1477421599/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1374322772&sr=8-1&keywords=hiit
I have never loved a public figure like Neecy loves Michelle Obama. The closest I could get to it would be Ronald Reagan, and he was disappointing on several occasions.
BTW, Neecy, I like your looks, but I think you are wrong to invest so much care in Michelle Obama. I think you will be disappointed in the end.
And Married Friends
http://www.omgsoysauce.com/14746/marriage-before-and-after-10-pics/
And American Woman
Especially American Woman.
“The rent, motherfucker….”
lmao
If this is a double post my bad.
This girl I used to bang has been sending me nude pictures of herself. I have a gf so told her to use snapchat, so as to not get caught. She said she has a bf, so is in the same boat. In response to me saying he probably wouldn’t be too happy with her, she replied (word for word from a text just received): “I don’t really care what he thinks first he is wrapped around my fucking finger second … He’s wrapped around my fucking finger”
Furthermore, she sent a long diatribe about how she’s a siren, all she has to do is make him feel like she’s a vulnerable little lamb he can come save when he cowers from inattention, and that she loves who she is and the power she has over him.
This attitude is not a unique one, in my experience. I just thought the chateau would appreciate the quoted comment made by a 19 y/o HB9.
– M
Old joke.
How do you turn a Fox into a Hippo?
Marry her.
I am lucky, in our place even girls who are just a little bit “chubby” (in western standards) are called the local language equivalent of “pig” on a daliy basis even by family members – and even as a “pet name” by her close friends
What about keeping her away from her ugly, non-attractive friends ?
no need- if these friends aren’t divorced