CH really likes the Jerkboy Charisma Game series, so expect to see more of it. Hope you’re copacetic!
Commenter Wrecked ‘Em {space reserved for a rectum joke} writes,
Yesterday, I watched my professional asshole friend run this by a hot girl he barely knew:
Him: you seem sexually frustrated
Her: what?
Him: I think you need your ass tickled
Her: what?!?!? (laughing)
Him: Put your number into my phone
Her: (puts her number into his phone)
Recall Poon Commandment XIII:
Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than too little.
Also recall CH Maxim #30:
When in doubt, ask yourself “WWJD?” What Would a Jerkboy Do? Then do that.
When all else fails, or you’re at a loss for what to do next with a girl, or all you have at your disposal is feeble beta game, then be an asshole. Asshole Game should be your default seduction when you can’t think of more ethical options. You may not like it, but there’s no arguing with results.
lzozozozolz, speaking of WWJD, da CHurciansz are now trying to steal Game from da great HEartrsistse!
Dalrock, feeling the Jealousy of Cain, disobeys God, Moses, and Jesus Christ, and tries to steal Game from the Great HEartistes!!! but he will fail:
http://greatbooksformen.wordpress.com/2014/02/02/dalrock-feeling-the-jealousy-of-cain-disobeys-god-moses-and-jesus-christ-and-tries-to-steal-game-from-the-great-heartistes/
lzozozo
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the cuckoldry ad was repulsive
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GBFM, big fan here, as you know. Why the fuck don’t you respond to serious comments on your own blog? Do you get a notice of a new comment coming in? I left some good shit on ur blog, serious questions. Want to see your response. I have one comment in moderation. No reason you wouldn’t approve it; I think you have not seen it.
My opinion is that THE LAW OF THE LAND matters. The law of the land is no fault divorce, worship of women, and women having all the power BACKED UP BY LAW. From false rape accusations, to screaming “harassment” because a guy says “hi” on the subway, to no fault divorce (the big one).
You are talking about Genesis and the Gospels and how real Christians must control their women. But men are not supported by THE LAW OF THE LAND or even in the feminized church, let alone mass media, TV, culture, movies, etc.
A man can stand up to his wife, and the result is DIVORCE THEFT.
(CH and others will say it was not enough game, too beta. Some cases perhaps. But even CH sometimes would agree with just putting one’s foot down the old fashioned way….woman will cry then go to divorce lawyer, many times.)
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Hello Grim!
Yes! As Dalrock steals from Heartiste and I, soon he will post a blog about exalting the LAw of the Land, similar to mine:
http://greatbooksformen.wordpress.com/2014/01/02/the-higher-form-of-game-exalting-the-spirit-of-genesis-moses-and-jesus-the-great-books-for-men-in-our-schools-homes-universities-churches-and-culture/
The Higher Form of Game: Exalting The Spirit of Genesis, Moses, and Jesus–The Great Books For Men–in Our Schools, Homes, Universities, Churches, and Culture
The Higher Form of Game: Exalting The Spirit of Genesis, Moses, and Jesus–The Great Books For Men–in Our Schools, Homes, Universities, Churches, and Culture
Yes, ’tis a sad state of affairs with modern American/Western women and the decline of the family–liberty’s foundational building block.
We would all like to change it, so we must ask. “How did this come to be?”
Why did women come to disregard Genesis, the Law of Moses, and the Divine Wisdom of Jesus Christ?
Follow the money, and one soon sees that the less time a woman devotes to her family, the more time she can devote to the corporation. The less time a woman spends cooking meals, the more time she can spend cooking the books in a sub-prime loan office.
‘Tis a short-term and destructive strategy–to encourage women to abort and pursue the material over the spiritual. But some do profit off of feminism–those who grow the State.
I hope that in 2014 Good Men realize that the higher form of game is returning Genesis, the Law of Moses, and the wisdom of Jesus not just to the choir, but to our courts, schools, universities, and churches, and then, perhaps, we may again begin to see it in our homes.
Best in 2014!
Dalrock will soon post this under a title like, “Why Christains own Game and the Law of the Land,” and then command his frankfurtian flock not to discuss Law and Game, nor Moses, nor Jesus, nor Heartiste, nor da GBFM as “it derails the conversation.”
Anything other than praising Dalrock and exalting him above and beyond Jesus and Heartiste and Moses, “derails the conversation.”
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I used to feel relieved about the case of Argentina’s fáilure, i thought they weren’t too White after all, but i did ask some Argetinians how White they aré, one reply said they aré mostly White, other that they aré unfair people, if that is true then i dont get it, i am aware that not all Whites aré bright (like from Romania, Ukraine or Albania) ,but Argentinians aré supossed to come from Italy-Spain, countries already in developed status, a true mystery, i did ask that in this anime blog in Spanish
http://crystal-energy-kai.blogspot.mx/2014/02/mahou-sensou-04-el-oniichan.html
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I met some Argentinial expats in the USA around the time that was happening, and they were cool people. They were debating it among themselves, and I remember those conversations as being especially fun to participate in.
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guerrer0
,but Argentinians aré supossed to come from Italy-Spain, countries already in developed status,
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Italy Spain are the two European countries with the most eggplant blood pumping through their hearts. The Moors invaded and laid miles of black pipe in all your women for 800 years.
Your are tainted. You are contaminated by color. You and your people are forever ruined.
There is no hope for you.
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I wonder what their theories and excuses were.
Thwack why you keep bullying me and my country? If i would bully you back, i could even make you cry like a little girl, a thing you haven’t accomplished with me, i have read many books of psychology so i am good at this, i am almost a true psychologist since i know well the emotions of people.
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Guerrero
i have read many books of psychology so i am good at this, i am almost a true psychologist since i know well the emotions of people.
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You are not a white person, you are a can of Spam because nobody is sure what you are made of; including yourself. Rotten egg yolks, eggplant blood… you are the pressed wood product/particle board of the white race.
You won the mud fight but lost the race war. Im doing my best to help you but you don’t want to hear the truth because of all the confusion coursing thru your veins.
Why don’t you help your own people instead of trying to infect a better one?
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OK THWACK I WAS ABOUT TO MAKE YOU CRY LIKE A LITTLE GIRL, but today I won’t do it, because I am in a good mood, since today was my 22 birthday 😉 happy birthday to me!
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OK THWACK I WAS ABOUT TO MAKE YOU CRY LIKE A LITTLE GIRL, but today was my 22 birthday, so I am happy , happy birthday to me : )
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Feminists have a point, if men Will become extinct , women need to learn to do many things themselves, Who Will work in the distant future if there Will be only women.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2302865/Is-end-men-Expert-predicts-males-extinct–says-process-started.html
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Dalrock, feeling the Jealousy of Cain, disobeys God, Moses, and Jesus Christ, and tries to steal Game from the Great HEartistes!!! but he will fail, as we go lzolzozozozozozolzlzozsillychruchcinazlzlzolzlzoz
We all knew this would happen. Eventually his massive Churchian jealousy would get the better of Dalrock, stuck in a supposedly “happy marriage” which relies far more on gamey butt and gina tingzzlzlzlzolozoz than faith, and he would try to steal credit for Game. This is a testament to how much Dalrock foundationally hates Jesus and Moses, as Moses teaches “Thou shalt not steal,” and Christ teaches, “Those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exlated.”
It was not enough for the Churchiznansz to re-crucify Jesus and exile Moses and Genesis from their hearts, blogs, and churches, but now they must steal the noble, Manly actions and words and thoughts of Heartistes as tehir own, in the same way that the cowardly King Agamemnon seized the prize of the Noble Achilles who earned it by fighting on the front lines.
While the Noble HEartistes takes all the arrows on the front lines of Noble Battle, the cowardly, entitled Dalrock hangs back, perched high up on his gamey, short, stunted Chucrchian Pulpit grasping his sceptre which might have once been a crucifix, but is now shaped like a sphinceterzlzozolzlzo which has batteries to make it tingzlzozozozo every time Dalrock speaksz words other than Jesus’s (so it never stops tinglzlzlzinglzlzlzozzingzlzlzoloz and the batteries must be replaced every ten minutes zlzozol), sending all his anti-Christ, anti-Moses Churchian disciples to not only seize the work of da Mighty Heartiste as their own, but to replace the teachings of Jesus Christ with it, in their anti-Genesis, anti-Moses, anti-Jesus, butt-and-gina-tinglezlozoz-centered Churchian Churches.
On Alexa, Heartiste’s noble site ranks thusly:
http://www.alexa.com/siteinfo/heartiste.wordpress.com
Global rank icon28,781 7,154
Rank in United States
United States Flag10,494
dalrock, despite tapping into the massive churchian network whcih re-crucified christ and exiled moses from the mony-hungy, butt/gina-tingzlzlzo ruled dalrockian cockaiaiznz church, lags far, far behind
Global Rank
Global rank icon122,253 72,246
Rank in United States
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Even though Dalrock has the vast Churchian network behind him, Heartiste’s MANLY, TRUE LEADERSHIP dwarfs his churchain blog, in size, reach, notoriety, fame, and, above all else common sense and honesty, and even, in True Christianity. 🙂
Dalrock owes his fleeting popularity to promising churchian buttehetxersz salvation through stealing credit for Game from da GREAT HEARTISTE: “
How Christians can take credit for Game.
“
http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2014/02/01/how-christians-can-take-credit-for-game/
Jesus Christ Exalted the Law of Moses, not Dalrock / Vox Gamey Game. More Gamey Churchians Threaten to Ban and Censor the Words of Da GBGM for Quoting Jesus Christ and Honoring THE LAW OF MOSES Over Gamey Churchian Butt and Gina Tingalalozozzoozzo
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zloloozozzollllolol phail!
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zlozozoololz
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What’s this… Butthurt Game?
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yah!
when dalrock tried to steal game
by sliding it into jesus’s butt
he hurt jesus’s buttz
just a little bit though
no need 4u 2 get butthurt too
jesus heels
move along now nithhingz here
lzlzlzozoz
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I’ve been banned by those preachy, misguided purists too. Their skill is in division, in driving wedges between allies, not in unity. They have a preciously detailed ideology (like you do, in fact), and any deviation from it makes them paranoid and ban-happy — in diametrical comparison with our host here. Vox and Dalrock are going in perpetual circles.
Christ got in peoples’ faces and forced them to choose. In the strength of his leadership — and not incidentally, his righteousness — his followers found community. Those poseurs do all of the bickering with none of the strength or largess, a generosity which derives from the ability to elide trivial differences and concentrate on priority enemies.
One of the names of Satan is “scatterer.”
“Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.” Immediately they left their nets and followed him. (Matthew 4:19-20)
Matt
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I think Dalrock’s laying on the irony with a trowel :
“However, while Christians can’t claim credit for collating and codifying the information, we can take credit for creating the conditions required for such an activity to take place…As Christians we (collectively) can take credit for making all of this happen. Christians have provided the moral cover for both the sexual revolution and the divorce revolution. At the core of the Christian backing of the sexual/divorce revolution is the modern Christian rebellion against biblical headship.”
He’s saying IMHO that Christians, by their failure to support Biblical marriage, have facilitated the modern sexual marketplace of AF & BB, which is such a disastrous place for betas – but that this, by enabling female hypergamy, has enabled players to study the female in numbers in the wild, collating and codifying ancient wisdom (“treat ’em mean and keep ’em keen”) with modern science to produce the core Game conceptual framework.
I think he’s actually putting Christians down too much. Plenty of non-Christians involved in the disasters of the last 50 years.
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Yes, Dalrock oft seems extremely anti-Christian.
It’s hard to tell whom Dalrock detests the most–Heartiste, GBFM, Moses, Jesus, or just Christians in general.
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“Audaces fortuna iuvat.” — Virgil
“Boldness be my friend! / Arm me, audacity, from head to foot!” — Shakespeare
“The wicked run away when no one is chasing them, but the godly are as bold as lions.” — Proverbs 28:1
“L’audace, encore de l’audace, et toujours de l’audace.” — Napoleon apocryphal
“Ask, and it will be given you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.” — Matthew 7:7
“[Fortune] is, therefore, always, woman-like, a lover of young men, because they are less cautious, more violent, and with more audacity command her.” — Machiavelli
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The big problem for those of us with a conscience is that after you go “Hard Jerk” on a bitch, you will in all likelihood have “broken” her.
And as Colin Powell tried to warn poor Dubyah-43, back in the day: If you break it, you own it.
At least if you have a conscience*.
True Sociopaths excluded, obviously:
http://www.cassiopaea.com/cassiopaea/cleckley.pdf
*It sure woulda been a heckuva lot easier if we hadn’t given a shit about the Iraqis, and if we woulda just stood back and let the Sunnis and the Shia slaughter one another until there was literally none of them left to die.
Which is very likely to be exactly the point of view of a sociopath like Barry Soetoro “Man’s Country” Dunham or Hillary Rodham “What difference does it make?” Clinton.
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I’d focus on girls on the carousel, they’re already pretty broken anyway. Maybe it would still bother your conscience then, but probably not mine.
Comparing a gaming guy to the US foreign policy, and a carouselling girl to Iraq, gives too much credit to the US and the girl. A girl on the carousel is a consenting adult for game purposes. (In contrast, I have certain protective feelings about girls who try to be chaste and keep themselves for their husband.) Compared to the US military, Iraq is not, and we had been gaming them ever since April Glaspie.
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Well, you could always take your cue from the YKWs, since they’re natural sociopaths, and we know that they don’t give a shit [about either shiksas or muslims]:
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YKWs?
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I’m guessing this:
http://www.youknowwherenc.com/aboutykw.html
In which case, the question isn’t, will they sleep with someone, its whether they’ll sleep with you.
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You know who.
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Topical guess in that it’s a game blog, but the conversation is related to modern broken society. So who is it that’s driving this breakdown, or profiting from it? Who is YKW? Why does the mainstream media make propaganda movies belittling men, like this? http://uk.screen.yahoo.com/girl-boy-bathroom-203609497.html Follow the money, step back and take a look
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answer: Jews.
which is not edited out by software here, so just say it. Sheesh.
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Ah. Good grief, what a sissy approach. If a man’s going to be anti-Semitic, he should simply state it.
I’m unabashedly philo-Semitic, and also unbendingly opposed to statism. Taken together, a good recipe for disappointment.
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“Ah. Good grief, what a sissy approach. If a man’s going to be anti-Semitic, he should simply state it.”
Not if the man wants to get past the knee-jerk reflexes of hoi polloi, he shouldn’t. Hinting draws more flies than vinegar.
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Meh. Clarity beats conflict avoidance. Let that Jew-hating flag fly, Jew-haters. Roll the dice, baby.
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“Clarity beats conflict avoidance”
Except when it doesn’t.
If your goal is to open the eyes of a blue-pill beta, would you consider a low-key approach? If so, why not allow us the low-key approach to the JQ?
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I’m not in charge of allowing anything. Take whichever kind of approach you like. Low-key, aggressive, somewhere in between … as long as it’s clear, we’ve got something to discuss in good faith.
As for your reference “to the JQ,” I presume that stands for “Jewish Question.” That’s a telling choice of words. Are you trying to reach some kind of Endlösung then? If not, you might want to reconsider any references to a Judenfrage, since that term has had a well-accepted meaning since 1945.
Be clear, not cute.
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that is a sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet Tele he’s playing
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> The big problem for those of us with a conscience is that after you go “Hard Jerk” on a bitch, you will in all likelihood have “broken” her.
I think we all give women too much credit for how fragile and breakable they are. My wife is no beauty queen, but she’s about the nicest and most wholesome woman I’ve ever known, and she’s faithful and supportive. She doesn’t drink much, has never touched drugs, has only had sex with three men.
I had a two hour long discussion with my wife about sex trafficking last night.
“So you really don’t have any problem with the idea of exploiting women to generate revenue by putting them on their backs?”
“They’re adults with free choices aren’t they? Hell no, I don’t have any problem with it. They should do their jobs.”
“So what if someone manipulated and conned them into making the choice?”
“Well, they should have been smart enough to tell shit from shinola and stupid people get what they deserve. I have no ethical problem with that at all.”
“So you think you could handle being a madam and making the girls do your bidding to put money in your pocket?”
“Hell yes.”
And so on and so forth. You think you know somebody….
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Multiply three by ten and you’ll get close to your wife’s real number.
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Oh, right. Because AWALT. (eyeroll)
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But women hate other women. Women don’t protect each other, that’s not their nature. It’s men’s nature to protect people.
If a woman is saying sex trafficking is wrong, it’s because she’s trying to betafy the men, not because she cares about those women.
Maybe any such protectiveness is a weakness, but on the other hand, why not consider that young virginal girl as your wife? Stop saying there are no unicorns if you just fucking found one!
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Newsflash: Women are designed to break. That is what liberated women do per the call of the wild. Ladyship is not a gift women can give to themselves: it is a gift wise, overbearing, compassionate patriarchs give by forcefully preserving the shelf life of female utility and opportunely transforming that utility into the riches of family so that it may retain its value into the future. If you don’t break her, someone else will have the honor.
If a ‘special woman’ were truly special (per your masculine conception), she would preserve herself, which she cannot do. If, out of some minor miracle, she accepts an alpha mission of preserving her civilized utililty per her daddy figure, that will not likely last. All daddys have abdicated soveriegnty to institutional solutions. A special woman is not innately special in socetal terms but only circumstantially special. A man can leave a women when she had adopted circumstances that have degraded that value, which they all do if they can in good conscious, which pretty much they can based on their innate nature and the rule of the hidden patriarchy. If can get a special women, she will not stay that way unless you are a special man who wins an ardous stalemate against his moneyed foe.
What you don’t understand is that you are innately special in the societal sense, or at least only men can possibly be. Nature makes female toys; patriarchs make them ladies. Why should the proto-patriarchs that would restore ladyship starve and loose? Pussy and government handouts are a resource. You are in a battle for supremacy against forces that use people like pawns. If you do not, you must lose, and all your value is gone. What value is there in a liberated women who knows not what she does? If by some bizarre accident, she can take care of herself properly, she can handle any lothorio’s superficial, insincere charm and just say no and mean it. Don’t put these female creatures on the pedestal. The social skills of a women are pre-societal, pre-cultural, and amorally self-interested in absolute expedience, because in the wild there is no time like now. You are in the wild. There is no time like now. Things will only get wilder before they might get better, if good men are preserved to do good things by sustaining themselves in the decline. Good luck, my brothers in male popular sovereignty.
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I think this means find a young girl (of age, but not much more) and marry her and make her a lady.
Otherwise it means put a bun in her oven and not marry her, but that seems less overbearing and less patriarchal — but maybe more practical if you want to do this with more than one, or if you cannot afford the family and cannot get the state to pay.
I think it does not mean putting a girl onto the carousel. That isn’t patriarchal. It’s just … pointless. Put another way, the girl should lose her cherry to the skin of a penis, not to the lubricated surface of a Trojan.
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very well said.
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The concept of niceness is born out of fear and weakness for most ordinary people. You are nice to somebody because you subconsciously if not consciously hope that the favour will be returned.
I try to look at nature to guide my moral compass. Nature is ruthless. Nature is sexist. Nature always wins.
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> “I try to look at nature to guide my moral compass. Nature is ruthless. Nature is sexist. Nature always wins.”
Well, dude, that’s certainly Darwinian Nihilism in a nutshell.
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True, but remember that most successful people get people to like them first. You only act evil when you’ve built up enough social capital to get away with it.
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Jesus Titty-Fucking Christ, so we’re idolizing the sociopaths now?
It’s a big topic of conversation, but I’ve tried to warn you guys that if you go to a place like where YaReally has been heading, then eventually all of that Darkness is gonna start rubbing off on you.
You are who you pretend to be:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mother_Night
And if you pretend to be a sociopath for too long, then you might just end up actually being one.
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you say that like its a bad thing.
survival is good.
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You know, I was thinking about Philip Seymour Hoffman, and his role in “The Talented Mr Ripley”, and I got to wondering about who had written the story.
And it turns out that the woman who wrote it, Mary Patricia Plangman Highsmith, was simply obsessed with sociopathy and homosexuality:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Patricia_Highsmith
I mean, Jesus H Christ, look at what Wikipedia has to say about the poor girl:
> “the couple divorced ten days before their daughter’s birth”
> “According to Highsmith, her mother once told her that she had tried to abort her by drinking turpentine”
> “At the age of eight, she discovered Karl Menninger’s The Human Mind and was fascinated by the case studies of patients afflicted with mental disorders such as pyromania and schizophrenia.”
> “She was a lifelong diarist, and developed her writing style as a child, writing entries in which she fantasized that her neighbors had psychological problems and murderous personalities behind their façades of normality, a theme she would explore extensively in her novels.”
> “Highsmith included homosexual undertones in many of her novels and addressed the theme directly in The Price of Salt and the posthumously published Small g: a Summer Idyll. The former novel is known for its happy ending, the first of its kind in lesbian fiction.”
> “Her recurring character Tom Ripley – an amoral, sexually ambiguous con artist and occasional murderer – was featured in a total of five novels, popularly known as the Ripliad, written between 1955 and 1991.”
Etc etc etc…
The ManoSphere and the Dark Enlightenment might need to start studying that chick and her infatuation with sociopathy.
She seems to be the anti-Flannery O’Connor.
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Yes there is a risk that this attitude will morph into full blown sociopathy. As Tilikum said it’s not necessarily bad.
But you are trying to be the good guy at every step of your journey. I am saying it’s okay to deviate from your principles as long as it pushes you closer to your goals and you don’t lose sight of who you want to become.
You want to travel in a straight line when random detours may actually help you reach your goals faster. It’s harder to travel the straight line. It usually takes longer to reach your goals that way because you waste so much energy not deviating from the line.
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Tough wire to balance on, no?
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When society is pathological …
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I was watching the beginning of American Psycho, and the guy is nuts, but he has awesome game skills as well.
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> “When society is pathological …”
Our society is pathological because almost 100% of our “culture” [really our anti-culture] is under control of The Frankfurt School.
It didn’t use to be like this.
Even within living memory, we were a much better people than this.
Don’t let The Frankfurt School’s Darkness rub off on you.
If you go Dark like them, then they win.
And Goodness loses.
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Niceness does not necessarily originate from fear or weakness. It is perfectly rational to be nice. If you do evil to your neighbor, you are doing evil to yourself. If you do good to your neighbor, you are doing good to yourself. Because your neighbor is just you. It makes no difference. If you scam, you will be scammed. If you comfort, you will be comforted.
As Ernest Hemingway puts it: “No man is an island, entire of itself; (…) any man’s death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.”
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Thank you for the nice words, Cesar …
Now one problem that we encounter is that women do not trust nice guys. They tend to think the niceness is a facade, even if it’s your natural way.
Another problem is that niceness does not tend to generate attraction in women. That’s important to this blog.
What do you think about those things, Cesar?
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I suppose women don’t trust some so-called nice-guys, because women can see through them and quickly understand it is just a lame tactic to get laid.
Game is a great strategy to highlight your best-selling assets and to properly comprehend the primal impulses of evolution. In essence, you are still the same old nice-guy, but game has taught you not to be naive, to grasp the basic behavior in dating and desire, and to sell yourself appropriately.
The correct use of game should lead to a win-win situation for those involved.
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Attraction is amoral. You can be nice, you can be a dick. Those things really don’t matter. It’s all about how solid you are internally.
Actually, I’d think that people who have abundance would be nicer, on average.
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Cesar you’re nibbling on the red pill, here let me give you another small chunk.
Men are natural alphas once they unlearn or learn to overcome beta / scared behavior the have been taught, probably in large part by school, the rules, the favorable treatment given to girls there, etc
The fact is that women are naturally attracted to men — lots of men, hell maybe all men — but those men need to display some manhood to allow the woman to feel this.
Once that happens, the man is really in charge, and the girl will trust his judgment. You’re driving the ship. You define what is win/win, because there really is only one “win” as the woman will see it.
Given that power, there are probably some men who would abuse it, but for the vast majority of men, it’s not in their nature to abuse it. Sure the woman is taking a risk, but that is her nature, it’s the rules of the game, and she expects to play it.
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John Donne, not Ernie Hemingshotgun.
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From Wikipedia:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Donne
“Despite his great education and poetic talents, Donne lived in poverty for several years, relying heavily on wealthy friends. He spent much of the money he inherited during and after his education on womanising, literature, pastimes, and travel. In 1601, Donne secretly married Anne More, with whom he had twelve children.[3] In 1615, he became an Anglican priest, although he did not want to take Anglican orders.”
A) “WOMANISING”
B) “12 CHILDREN”
Alpha Male Total Fertility Rate Game FTW.
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Nice job!
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“You may not like it, but there’s no arguing with results.”
that sums it up for me. i spend my time getting to the point of being able to take it out of high-gear-asshole back into the generally nice guy i really am, and then being reminded through any number of harsh realities that asshole is the only way to retain control of the situation.
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Exactly this. It comes quite easily for some.
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Scene : a bus stop, a wino, and a fine lady
he : Tickle your ass with a feather?
she : What!!??
he : I said “typical nasty weather”.
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LOL! Uncle Elmer is legit! Did you bang her bro? What shit tests did she give you before banging her?
Alpha fucks, beta bucks. 4life
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Your troll-fu is weak.
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Actually it’s an old joke. The wino observes a cad using that line with success, so after building up some courage with a few drinks, approaches a woman at the bus stop and yells “Stick a feather up your ass!”. She says “What!!??. He say “Looks like rain, don’t it?”
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Lol!
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Ran into a dumb 19 year old at the club last night
i ignored her… 10 mins later she tapped my shoulder
her: Can you take a picture of us?
me: 1 dollar
her: What?
me: 1 dollar
her: Fuck you…(Flicks me off)
me: Thats 2 dollars
(i go back to ignoring her)
2 hours later… she walks by me with a 5 dollar bill out.
me: I don’t carry change
her: (laughs)
(she follows me out)
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This is good – as a bouncer I am usually obligated to carry on with their request for a series of cuntbag pics.
As a patron, I would never do that without challenge or a flat out ‘nope’, yet I see so many squat-less wonders willfully take the task.
Do this.
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Well done. Knock her up. Better than a dumb 39 year old, in fact the perfect age.
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> “Well done. Knock her up. Better than a dumb 39 year old, in fact the perfect age.”
Thread Winner right there.
That’s some sage advice for the young ‘uns.
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Yikes, will you two chill with the pregnophilia? You need a better response to the report of a casual flirtation success than HAVE YOU FERTILIZED HER YET???
You can’t skip all the middle steps, and you are just going to spook every non-hypernatalist off. Either you are deliberately or unwittingly parodying yourselves.
I’m as pronatalist as you, but your salesmanship sux. You’re the Carrie Nations of the Inseminate Em All, Let God Sort Em Out movement, making 20 opponents for every one recruit.
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Either you are deliberately or unwittingly parodying yourselves.
Self-parody is a possibility, as with whorefinder’s RAPE meme.
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What are the middle steps? I musta missed em in my sex edumakashun.
PIV -> bun in oven fairly often when the woman is highly fertile.
All the rest truly is a social construct. Which parts of that social construct should we keep? Serious question.
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If the holes are attractive, I always pretend to be a dumbass who doesn’t know what end of the phone to talk into, and instead take a picture of myself “by accident”. If the flash goes off in my eyes, even better.
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I’ve decided to just tell 8 the next time I see her about everything. Just like, totally come clean. I might even tell her I’m an aspiring PUA and my journey. I’ve been putting putting off seeing her by kinda lying and saying that I’m busy with work — lies beget more lies, for real.
I’m thinkin like……this coming Friday I’ll tell her.
The only reason I feel like I can’t go through with this is just because I’m afraid of this minor one-itis getting out of control. Lying to her about working a lot is just a sign that I feel the need to explain myself, i.e. a bad sign.
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You’re putting her off because you are getting feeling for her?
Did she ask for commitment? If not, why impose it on yourself? It’s easy to forget that the girls want those tingles.
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Now THAT’S social suicide.
This is what a PUA is to 99% of the population, like the friends/social circles of hers she’ll tell about you:
http://jezebel.com/redditors-pua-kickstarter-project-recommends-sexual-as-514264056
http://www.xojane.com/issues/are-pickup-artists-contributing-rape-culture
http://www.buzzfeed.com/annanorth/do-pickup-artist-techniques-lead-to-sexual-assault
First two rules of Fight Club, yo.
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I think it’s much worse than that.
PUA = 300 pound fedora wearing neckbeard redditor which doesn’t even make sense since reddit has to the biggest concentration of liberal male feminist white knights that the world has ever seen.
Actually it does make sense since PUA is associated with low value men which does have some truth to it. You don’t go to the doctor unless you’re sick. However, the dirty secret is that the vast majority of men are low value, it’s just some are more delusional than others.
Basically, being predatory and caddish isn’t the concept to be afraid of since we all know that despite their protests their monkey hind brain loves this. No the ultimate sin is her finding out that you were once the lowest of the low, a beta male.
No reason to make that shit public to anyone. As far as any female is concerned you were a born alpha badass.
Think of it this way, suppose you are seeing a smoking hot skinny girl and then she tells you that she used to weight 200 pounds. Would you really invest long term with this chick if you had other options? I’ll answer for you, Fuck No.
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Hm.
….
Aight, I won’t be THAT honest. Good looks.
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In writing there is the concept of suspension of disbelief. I think this applies here as well. She doesn’t want to know that you weren’t naturally good at picking up chicks or she’ll feel cheated and deceived. Throw in the media coverage…
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Honest about what?
That you’re spinning more than one plate right now?
I mean, c’mon man, if you’ve really got all those feelings for the poor chick, then START PUTTING SOME BUNS IN HER OVEN.
That’s why God gave you feelings in the first place, you fucking retard.
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lol are you actively encouraging miscegenation, Zombie?
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Look man we’re trying to help you. You’re our brother from a darker mother.
We don’t love the miscegenation part of it, that’s for you to deal with. We can’t exactly bless it.
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Nah I appreciate having a place to talk about this stuff and get the opinions of a community, rather than the 2 guys I can talk to about this shit IRL.
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The feral male model, where the woman raises the children on state support, is typical of the black community, so I have the thought that you should know more about it than I do. Just an evil thought because I know personal relationships don’t always work that way.
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if you are gonna play by a women’s rules (lying) then play by them all the way.
no half measures allowed. thats what will fuck you up.
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Good for you. Lying is for weaklings. Truth + Frame = Alpha.
I don’t know who the “8” is supposed to be, I don’t follow your online taxicab confessions. But it’s comparable to how Seattle pasted Denver in the Super Bowl yesterday: they didn’t try any fancy new trickery, they presented the same defense as they had all year, executed perfectly, and dared the most prolific passer to stop them. He couldn’t.
When you have to present yourself as something other than you are, it is a sign you aren’t very much. The formerly omega PUA’s will counsel cowardice for newbies, project their loser selves at that stage into you, and assume truth is the worst possible policy.
But the best advice is to put your energy into improvement rather than increasing layers of deception, and to not be deterred by rough waters in the beginning. The well-adjusted woman will take a diamond in the rough and contribute to its refinement rather than clamor for smaller but shinier micro jewels.
Matt
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There’s a huge difference between lying and choosing not to bring something up. The fact that you’re an aspiring PUA is one of those things there’s simply no good reason to mention.
Recall whatever vague impression you had attached to the term “pickup artist” before you began regularly reading this material (chances are it includes a tophat and aviator goggles). THAT’S how a normal person sees PUA. Not favorable to your goals.
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Yes but most women are not well-adjusted by that standard, at least not the ones I would be attracted to. Mothering instinct is not the same as sexual attraction.
Have you field-tested this?
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@Matt
Mental masturbation as usual lol At least you’re consistent.
“The formerly omega PUA’s will counsel cowardice for newbies, project their loser selves at that stage into you, and assume truth is the worst possible policy.”
It’s not cowardice, we just understand human psychology. If he were to sit down and explain to her exactly what “PUA” is, the effect it’s had on his life, the benefits of it, and the misconceptions in the mainstream media and stereotypes, AND if she were open-minded enough to sit down and listen to him, with no preconceptions or biases/emotions involved and logically evaluate what PUA is, she would see it as a positive thing and love it.
But realistically what will happen is he’ll get the first few seconds of explaining it out, it’ll trigger a bunch of rape culture articles she’s read and a bunch of mental images of fuzzy hat stereotypes and a bunch of uncalibrated offensive/awkward pickup attempts her and her girlfriends have experienced in the past, and she’ll lump him in with that garbage and not bother giving him a chance to explain the reality.
It’s much the same way you, after years of being here rallying against PUA and it’s teachings, still don’t really understand what we teach because you revel in your ignorance and love to just make shit up to support your own points instead of doing any real learning.
I’d say I’m surprised that you need this all explained to you, but not understanding how social interactions work is kind of a byproduct of not socializing so here you go.
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ScrayMan,
You have a conscience, so do I. I have a young redhead my type and I’m steering clear because she’s too young and too sweet. I guess I’m stuck with sluts for wheelie work. I don’t have to care about them. I get off and they get off and it’s back to the hunt for another one. Every time there is a sweet one, ” I think great, I don’t want to add to the carousel problem”. But you know someone else will. I can hear zombie shane in the background “Bun in the oven you idiots!” This is no time for raising kids. We are in the winter of our season as a country. Schade…
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I’m not sure if it’s really a conscience actually. I just don’t want to get too attached in this frame of mind because it’ll just fuck me over in the end.
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Starrman, white reproduction in the USA is at least close to replacement, in Europe it is much worse. Stop all the doomish shit, it’s always doom around the corner. Meanwhile, babies will be raised somehow, but not if you don’t create them. What are YOU doing to avert longterm doom?
The movement you need is on your shoulder, well perhaps a bit lower than that.
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People had children through worse. It’s okay if you don’t want kids.
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Gloomy predictions are nothing more than a loser’s natural frame of mind projected into the future.
Quit sniffling and put an oar in, you delicate little fruit.
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I can grok this. Be bold, but calibrated, congruent, and know the concepts.
That past post, The Universality of Game, of Bob the accountant was a good example of failing this.
Something like this i guess:
Her: “Hey, why the pens in the pocket? Youre a bit of a nerd arent you?”
Bob: “Fuck you bitch..now put your number in my fucking phone!!”
Her: “No thanks”
Later outside the club:
CH: ” Hey how did it go with that chick and the other ones you approached?”
Bob: “Shes a bitch..they all are..screw this place”
CH: “Back to the masterbatorium?”
Bob: “lol..yeah right..got to pick up some cheesies first..”
CH: “Thats a good ‘agree and amplify’.”
Bob: “Agree and what?”
CH: “Nevermind.” (walking away with a 9)
Bob: “Hey CH, who does your taxes???”
Or alternate Ending:
CH: “Nevermind.”
Bob: “What did that chick say to you?”
CH: “She said ‘Your strange, but dont change’ And i let her”
Cue music outro” …dododododdo..Well hello mr. soul ive come by to pick up a reason.ddodoodooddodo
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What books should I buy to become an alpha male?
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The Bible
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I already read the bible, bro… I’m still a beta… please give me advice.
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Follow the advice Jesus gave in the Gospel. Build your foundation on rock. Game is just entertaining sand at best.
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God bless you. Every time I meet a young virgin (not common but I met a handful and befriended one the other day) I have these weird queesies in my heart and completely lose motivation to game for a few days.
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Come in unto women. (that’s how they say it in the KJV OT anyway.)
Did you ever hear the phrase “take a wife”? Not “propose” or “ask” or “beg” or “ask permission”. Take charge and make her a wife. That means to inseminate her.
The rest is an elaboration of that principle with a bit of howto.
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Thanks, I’ll approach the first woman and ask her to marry me
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I said “Not ask.” Reread what I wrote please, just above your comment.
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young alpha cad
I already read the bible, bro… I’m still a beta… please give me advice
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Try this one:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Nigger_Bible
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I don’t care. I’m the alabaster man.
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There is more than one Bible; have you read the Ni66er Bible?
(Not a joke, google it)
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In Praise of a Good Wife
10 A truly good wife
is the most precious treasure
a man can find!
11 Her husband depends on her,
and she never
lets him down.
12 She is good to him
every day of her life,
13 and with her own hands
she gladly makes clothes.
14 She is like a sailing ship
that brings food
from across the sea.
15 She gets up before daylight
to prepare food
for her family
and for her servants.[a]
16 She knows how to buy land
and how to plant a vineyard,
17 and she always works hard.
18 She knows when to buy or sell,
and she stays busy
until late at night.
19 She spins her own cloth,
20 and she helps the poor
and the needy.
21 Her family has warm clothing,
and so she doesn’t worry
when it snows.
22 She does her own sewing,
and everything she wears
is beautiful.
23 Her husband is a well-known
and respected leader
in the city.
24 She makes clothes to sell
to the shop owners.
25 She is strong and graceful,[b]
as well as cheerful
about the future.
26 Her words are sensible,
and her advice
is thoughtful.
27 She takes good care
of her family
and is never lazy.
28 Her children praise her,
and with great pride
her husband says,
29 “There are many good women,
but you are the best!”
30 Charm can be deceiving,
and beauty fades away,
but a woman
who honors the Lord
deserves to be praised.
31 Show her respect—
praise her in public
for what she has done.
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“How to Date Young Women for Men Over 35” Volumes I and II by R.Don Steele.
Written before the days of internet, cell phones, and “texting”. You gotta actually work on your attire and attitude, then carefully cultivate young women who are eager for the older man experience.
And don’t say “but I am young” because you will be old soon enough.
Though you can circumvent much of this arduous game study by learning ballroom dance.
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Bang, Day Bang, and Rational Male.
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Another what would unleash Sam Jackson game.
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LOL! You are so funny! Are you an alpha male?
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Nah…I’m an omega, bro.
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When was the last time you plowed the pink furrow?
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1987.
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My mother told me I had a big head as a baby.
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“CH flies the flag of secular Exclusionism. With a tip o’ the fedora to the cosmic god for his good sense”.(from CH’s twitter)
Prudent.
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“Exclusion” is defining oneself negatively against the dregs. A self-identifying name should not love or hate that which is beneath him; he should not acknowledge them at all. And the last thing he should do is incorporate them into his identity.
“Excellence” is the goal, no matter how many agents of mediocrity (or worse) populate the space around a man.
The aristos in “aristocracy” — or αἰὲν ἀριστεύειν or aièn aristeúein or “ever to excel” — means “the best” or “excellence.”
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The fact that a line like that works is proof the West needs a reckoning.
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Asshole Game is a scale just like anything else. Many years ago I went way too far with it, and I did get laid, but the process was very tedious and none of the women stuck around for very long.
So if you’re going after ONSs and not much else, Asshole Game works well, especially with women under 30. If you’re instead looking to develop several women on rotation, then on a 1 to 10 Asshole Scale, 1 being a complete hopeless pussy and 10 being an utter asshole, you want to be around a 7, not a 9 or 10.
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When I was in secondary school there was a wild kid in our form – the pedo form teacher hated him because a doughy old beta who’d groomed himself into a catholic school to be around teenage boys would always feel threatened by a natural high alpha like this kid.
However, this kid was attracting hot classy birds from the posh private girls’ school from the age of fourteen onwards. One day, in a chat, I asked him if he was a virgin and he said, no, that he’d lost it at 14. This I totally believed – he’d not boasted about it, had only told me when he’d been asked.
He was, as I wrote, wild and he has not, to my knowledge, ended up being rich or anything but he does have at least five children by as many women and lives wild and carefree somewhere on the fringes of Europe. Who’s the sucker?
I’ve mentioned him here before because he was, in hindsight, totally unsuited to an academic, posh boys’ school. So was I although at least I’m gay.
This kid was creative, artistic and funny. He should have been in a similar school. He was also highly popular.
I always, in any situation, ask myself how this kid would have responded. He remains my inspiration and, as you say, always plump for MORE boldness rather than less.
At the age of 16 he was more of a man than our holy-joe pedo form tutor ever was.
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I didn’t complete my point:
this kid would always have chatted girls up like a total total total jerk.
It worked.
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Why dont you write a story about him? Sound slike the makings of a pretty good teen movie.
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OK, let’s start the basic treatment, “I was hetero in a den of fags”.
Our film opens in 1987 with the main protagonist, then fifteen, fingering the sixteen year old daughter of Ireland’s Chief Justice behind the bins of a central Dublin hotel.
Meanwhile, in class, a young trainee priest ends up with an old Irish two pence piece (slightly smaller than a championship frisbee) being thrown at his head by this kid who replies, “sorry father, it just accidentally bounced off my foot”.
Anyone care to add to the storyboard … ???
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Aaaaa ha ha ha ha!
I see that the version which I submitted to the Chateau fell foul of the censors!!
Probably just as well … I’m not sure if we wanted “Philomena” circa 1987!!
hahahahaha
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It’s better to be remembered as an asshole than to be forgotten as a pushover.
Only one sticks in a girl’s head.
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Attention all betas! Attention all betas! This is the article for you:
http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/the-science-behind-happily-ever-after/story-fnet09y4-1226816547147
Beta bux and Alpha…..
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Well it is a good research except Mr. Ty Tashiro is using rational judgment, something women do not possess. The article should be geared for women not betas since betas would settle for less they deserve.
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This is a gem, from the section about attractiveness: “The only significant association found was that the most physically attractive men were least satisfied with their marriages.”
Options = instability. A CH classic.
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Nestle’s Super Bowl ad uses a cuckold & whore wife to sell candy. Unreal
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Saw that as well. What bullshit.
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Are you really surprised?
When all of Rome is gathered together for bread and circuses, the politicians push their message that the empire is fine, when in reality it’s crumbling around them.
What better time to push full-blown cultural Marxism on millions of Americans than when they’re all gathered together around their TVs, willingly taking it all in?
Let’s think about what 100 million+ Americans were exposed to tonight.
-Cuckold fetishism (Butterfister)
-Melting pot cultural Marxism + gay marriage and adoption (Coca-Hola)
-Cheerios 2.0, no doubt meant to be a slap in the face to those who spoke out against the first ad. But hey, at least they’re good for the heart.
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The ads were infested with the miscegenating multikult ethos, wall-to-wall, there wasn’t a single commercial without some putrid subtext to it.
I was cheered. This state of affairs makes me hopeful. They are obviously just unloading what’s left of their stockpile because the rat in them can sense their time is nearing an end. It’s a panic attack, intuiting they aren’t much longer for this world. No sense dying with ammunition in the clip.
In moderates, the best those ham-handed propaganda clips could deliver was a groan or an eye roll; in some cases, open disgust. In realists, i.e., those of us who have retained their gag reflex, they continue to fuel the slow burning rage.
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I don’t see how the guy was being an asshole.
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Chinese women are more practical about things.
Rather than waste their best years riding the carousel, they bargain strategically. And it’s easy for them to do so, because there are excess males and a deficit of females there.
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This is the most honest portrayal of Chinese female attitudes I have yet seen and I’m in a position to know. Chinese chicks aren’t immune to the carousel and the lure of the alpha, but they are much more careful about it and, culturally, value the resource providing abilities of betas more than bad boy attitude. In the US it’s shown by the multitudes of white betas hooked up with sweet, petite Chinese women, who then make them miserable for the next 50 years. Chinese wives are incredible shrews. The sweet, submissive Asian flower is a facade confined solely to the courtship phase.
They’ll stay sexually loyal (if not sweet) as long as the money flows. Woe betide the beta that loses his job/ability to provide.
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Nice critique. Of course communism has run rampant through SE Asian countries, while it has cleverly insinuated itself in democratic countries. Their facade of sweetness compensates for their outright atheism, while our facade of Christianity is making way for uglier contemporary doctrines.
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Knock on wood, it’s not that bad. They have to try to get the guy to let them out of their vows, because they feel bound to them. Basically in my observation, they do follow the traditional ways, but they’re not pushovers.
Now this new generation raised under outright capitalism and the man glut from the one-child policy (daughters were aborted hoping for a son, when families could have only one child) — I don’t know, they sound really really tough.
But on the other hand, these are women, and their pussies may tell them to act in ways their conscious minds did not plan on, oxytocin has the same effect — just like any other women.
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what is this, ethical? whats unethical about being an asshole to people? bitches love it. if they dont, punch me in the mouth instead of laughing and having sex with me. the last time a girl punched me in the mouth, her boyfriend came and picked her up from my house, so I got pretty close even then
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Being an asshole isn’t unethical. This guy isn’t doing anything wrong.
Being a lying asshole is different.
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bitches also love it when you lie. do you really wanna know Im fucking other girls, that some (many) of my stories are exaggerated (or just made up)? no you dont. bitches want fantasy and delusion, not the real world. and Im good at it and never get caught.
but Im a man of modest ethical and moral education, of course.
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Lol of course.
I have no trouble believing your “bitches” don’t care whether you lie to them. I’m sure they often return the favor.
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hey, when I want to get serious with a girl, and I wanna show that Im more than a crazy party animal man whore hyper masculine animal, Ill be honest and say Im sitting around in my underwear getting drunk playing videogames. but its rare I wanna get serious with a girl. come on woman, your misbegotten race doesnt really want to know. you wanna believe Im just the coolest shit on the face of the earth. everybody likes being able to talk about that awesome motherfucker thats doing crazy shit all the time.
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Reading the Juggler Method (hat tip YaR) I learned that escalating is good because girls take it as an insult to all the effort they put into being beautiful sexual beings if you don’t escalate. So, where along the asshole scale you should place yourself if up for debate and calibration when escalating, but escalating (making your initial move too) is not debatable.
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read this:
http://jaymans.wordpress.com/2013/09/29/keeping-it-real/
they don’t pick us, we pick them. it’s the mans choice ALWAYS. they are dressing for you and their competition.
don’t fall for the idea that you are meeting their needs in a man, but that they are meeting yours.
women are perfect psychopathic predators, and they brilliantly have convinced the entire world that it’s the other way around to retain power.
take your power back.
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Re: homo-, xeno-, & islamophobes
I really more of an autocthonophile than a xenophobe.
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Jonah Goldberg of National Review finds the Cheerios ad adorable
I’m waiting for the Cheerios ad with the Catholic father, the Jew mother…
Wait – you’re telling me the Madison Avenue ad agencies won’t push this?
Race mixing is for Gentiles but not Jews?
You mean – the Goyim can dumb down their descendants, but not the Jews?
Jonah Goldberg – I want a column supporting race mixing TV commercials between Jews and Gentiles immediately.
This is really confusing me
The Yenta in the Mercedes SUV next door wants to Coexist – that’s what her bumper sticker says
I’m sure she has no problem at all with her children also procreating with the Goyim
Somebody get back to me on this. This is really hitting me out of left field
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I’m waiting for the Cheerios ad with the Catholic father, the Jew mother…
If you throw in Catholic kids too, you’ll be waiting a long time.
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Keep the faith, they’re circling the drain. Read the comment sections to those kind of posts, especially before they get moderated. The propagandists aren’t fooling anyone, certainly not with the alacrity they got away with pre-Obongo era.
Wake up, white man? The giant is rousing from his slumber, groggy to be sure, but irate for having been poked and pinched from every direction out of a pretty good dream. Imagine being woken from soporific bliss by a thousand crawling ants. Agitating, annoying, but not deadly. And easily if tediously eradicated.
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Saxon! Saxon! Saxon!
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So find yerself a woman (or women) to fit your tastes / preferences that’ll have you as husband/partner and go forth and multiply. 10, 15, 20 kids.
What you posted is crackalicious bullshit whining.
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Can’t get the link to work. Search for the video “Why Girls Like Assholes.”
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There are several of those with the exact title.
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The one by ‘The Wing Girls’ with the thumbnail showing the girl who looks like she’s about to be gang banged 4 4 guys.
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“@msccust @vnt123D You “race is a social construct” zealots are insane in the membrane. Do you pluck your eyes out when you go outside? 16 minutes ago”
lzozlzozlzolzozozzozoz
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Moral of the story Women love men that put them down and hate men that respect them. But why?
Well a beta boy idolizes her and she knows she is not like that so she rightly assumes he lacks intelligence and is not a suitable partner. Alpha knows she is a slut and she knows she is a slut=match made in heaven.
Not a way to build civilization, but hey what a heck one should enjoy the ride while it lasts.
Cheers gentlemen.
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For the record, he closed the deal.
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CH, on your weightlifting tweets. I’ve been lifting since I was 8. I had the Hulk Hogan workout tapes and poster that came with blue dumbbells. I wanted to be a professional baseball player. I’m a “hard gainer.” My natural weight when I’m ripped is like 140 or perhaps 155 now that I’m older. I’m 165 now and 10 pounds of it is belly fat. But of course you are right. There is no gene that will stop a man’s muscles from responding to resistance training. Of course no white man, not one in history, can never look like the average black man who lifts (an NFL wide receiver–the cut shoulders, waist, pecs etc) in the absence of steroids, but every body will respond positively and improve.
Here’s what sucks–now that I’m almost 39, I’m feeling the age limitations. I have NEVER gotten lazy, never taken more than a week off in 31 years of paying attention to fitness. I’m not one of those new years resolutionists who works out only in January. I have been able to do between 22 and 30 legit pullups (one set) from age 22 until…..the last 3 months. First time I did it I was 22 and did 24 pullups after my law school roommate bet me I could not do 20.
For the first time ever, I have some kind of weird soreness in my left biceps/forearm area. It is “guitar player’s elbow”, apparently, and it sucks. Been playing guitar for 4 years, but only lately I have this problem. Now I can’t do my beloved pullups, which I love to do. Was still going strong at 36. The aging between 36 and 39 is immense. Which is why it is amazing when a 36 year old is still in the NFL or even major league baseball, but it is SUUUUUPER AMAZING if a 39 year old is still playing. When I was 36 I still passed for 28. Only the last 3 years have the grey hairs and thinning hair come.
I’m totally clean. Never juiced. For the first time, I am feeling aches and pains. Had bad low back for long time, actually, but now the shoulder, biceps as mentioned, etc. First time ever I have not been able to lift hard and I’m doing more pushups and more of an “old man’s workout.” Can’t bench because of hurt shoulder.
Fatasses who never lifted or discovered it at age 28 as part of game are pathetic losers.
POint being, as I am not the real George Clooney, it sucks. I look good “for 39” but I absolutely am invisible to a 22 year old hottie in a bar. And if I make my self visible to her by intruding on her and her friends, I will be seen as a creeper old guy at the bar IRREGARDLESS of whatever I say.
YaReally cannot dispute this; he’s 31 and has not experienced being 39 yet.
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Oh, this’ll be fun. 🙂
@Grim
“Fatasses who never lifted or discovered it at age 28 as part of game are pathetic losers.”
lol I guess we are. But you won’t see us writing a whiny-ass comment like this. Quit being a bitch lol
I’ve had aches and pains since I hit 30 because I don’t exercise and drink too much and eat like shit. I’ve had girls fetch me a glass of water mid-bang because I got a cramp in my chest while we were fucking and had to take a break lol I just make them go on top if I’m too broken to fuck them hard. Actual txt I send: “k you can come over but you’re doing all the work. I’m tired as fuck.” 90% of a chick’s orgasm is mental anyway, you don’t have to be in wild stallion punish-her-cervix mode all the time, that’s just social conditioning telling you that you have to be able to thrust for half an hour to be a good lay.
“POint being, as I am not the real George Clooney, it sucks.”
The fact that this thought even enters your head is why 22yo hotties don’t want to fuck you. Your frame is weak as FUCK for a *39 YEAR OLD* man. You have 39 years of life experience, of being a badass boss who can do a million pull-ups every day, and you think some silly actor is more attractive than you? lol
You know WHY your frame is shit, too? And this is the part that will fuck with your head: your frame is only shit because you built your self-worth around external attributes (ie – your physical shape and ability to do pull-ups etc.). That was misguided because no matter how healthy you try to stay, age will ALWAYS sabotage your physical abilities sooner or later…so because you view your value based on your ability to do pull-ups, you put a time limit on how long you can feel “attractive”, because Mother Nature will inevitably remove your ability to do pull-ups.
The same thing happens with guys who value themselves based on their wealth and then lose their money in various circumstances…all their value has gone out the window because their self-worth was based on external shit that can be taken away.
This is why we stress building a strong mental core and proper internal thinking so no matter what your external situation is (how in shape you are, how much money you have, how much hair you have, etc.), you still legitimately believe you are high value and congruently mean it. Like to where the notion that losing your hair would mean you were less attractive is like suggesting Matt King has seen a vagina. Literally my thought process if I gain a few pounds is “aw yeah, look at that, now I’m like a big bear, no wonder chicks love me, they can cuddle up to me and I’m like a beefy man who can protect them from harm like a boss”, and if I lose weight my thought process is “aw yeah, look at that, getting ripped as shit, I’m like Bruce Lee, soon as a chick gets my shirt off she’s gonna’ be like god I want to fuck him”.
Because I base my self-worth internally, no matter what I do, to me I’m always awesome. And since women pick up on your sub-commmunications and ping off their environment to decide how they should feel, when I take a chick’s hand and rub it on my belly and tell her “that’s a MAN’s belly right there”, she loves it, because I love it.
In fact, I am going to be linking to your comment anytime I run across the “you gotta’ have money/looks/etc. to get laid” conversations, as a real life example of exactly what happens to someone who bases their worth externally when that external attribute is taken away (you could keep your wealth into old age if you’re smart, but looks and physicality will ALWAYS be taken away by Father Time and Mother Nature).
“I look good “for 39″ but I absolutely am invisible to a 22 year old hottie in a bar.”
You are invisible because you stand back passively expecting your looks to get them to approach you. You go to the bar and stand around with your buddies wondering why girls aren’t coming up to feel your muscles like they did in your 20s, and every minute that passes by puts you more and more inside your head as you think back to that depressing pull-up bar and how it thwarted you that morning and how you see your entire future slipping through your hands as you cry like a baby inside, which radiates through your sub-communications to all the 22yo hotties around you because they expect a 39yo man to be rock fucking solid in who he is and confident to the core regardless of whether he can do 3 pull-ups or 30, and whether he has grey thinning hair or a full head, and whether he has a million dollars in the bank or just enough to get by and pursue his hobbies.
You are basically the male equivalent of a chick hitting the wall, because you based your self-worth on your looks the way we base a woman’s self-worth on looks. You can change, but you have 39 years of hard-wiring thinking you’re better than all those pathetic losers who didn’t start lifting weights till they were 28 for pickup, so it would take a massive paradigm shift for you to ever consider that you’re more attractive than Clooney even if you can only do 3 pull-ups. You dug your own grave on this one and you’re too full of yourself to change.
“And if I make my self visible to her by intruding on her and her friends, I will be seen as a creeper old guy at the bar IRREGARDLESS of whatever I say.”
This is exactly WHY those 22yo hotties at the bar will see you as a creeper old guy irregardless of whatever you say…because YOU believe it. Because you don’t value yourself.
Like, re-read what you wrote dude. Really really listen to yourself. Do you sound like a guy who thinks he’s attractive? Do you sound like a guy with 39 years of life experience, rock solid like a thick oak tree to his core knowing his worth? No, you sound like a 39yo woman at the bar hoping no one can see her wrinkles. Why would a 22yo hottie who’s surrounded by cocky young dudes who think they’re the shit, have any interest in you? You don’t even consider the things you say to have value…you’re a 39 year old MAN. EVERYTHING you say has value to a 22yo, you’ve fucking LIVED. She lives at home and works at fucking Starbucks. Your pull-up count doesn’t mean shit, but your view of your worth sure as shit does.
“YaReally cannot dispute this; he’s 31 and has not experienced being 39 yet.”
I’ve met guys in their 40s who are getting those 22yo hotties. Guys who aren’t jacked ripped rich celebrities. The difference between them and you is that they believe they have value and only gain more value with every passing day, whereas you view yourself as losing your value because you’ve based it on something that is, by nature, going to deteriorate.
You are a warning, not an example. But thanks for sharing, because it’s good to see the internals of someone who’s actually gone down that wrong path to the end.
You can turn this around but you’ll have a long journey ahead of you to do it judging on the way you write and how much of your ego you’ve invested in this “the number of pull-ups I do directly correlates to how attractive I am to hot girls in the bar” identity/belief. Start here:
Time to evolve your game, internally and externally. Think of it as your next challenge, the same way you viewed doing 30 pull-ups a day as a challenge. Don’t give up and die an early death internally like a 39yo woman buying her 3rd cat…you’re a MAN. Adversity makes you harder.
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Real-talk, how did you manage to develop such a strong inner-frame even though you started at such a deficit? I read your history in regards to the kind of person you WERE starting out.
Even then, it’s unfathomable how one can get such internals. I’m not doubting you at all but just wondering how to get there.
Great post, btw.
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I went out a fuck-ton. When I started out I was out approaching 2-4 (sometimes more) nights/days a week. Even now it’s a regular part of my routine to go out every Fri/Sat night minimum.
You just have to want it and put in the hours. My frame was weak as balls when I started out. My frame isn’t solid because I’m brainwashing myself into it, or putting up a front of “gotta’ seem like I have a solid frame to impress these guys!!”…my frame is solid because it’s backed up by tons of hours in the field collecting tons of reference experiences.
Hell, I just moved to a new city and I have to start everything over from scratch: social circles, fuckbuddies, general status in the nightlife, I’m starting from scratch all over again, and I’m in my early 30s now. But am I sitting inside whining about how it’s haaaaard? Am I going out getting wasted with my buddies and doing an occasional shit-faced approach I can barely remember on some easy 6? No, I’m hitting the streets/bars 4 nights a week with a buddy, sober, immersing ourselves while we methodically attack the weak spots in our game and push eachother out of our comfort zones.
That’s why when some keyboard jockey rants about how “trust me, (insert insecurity) matters!” I can adamantly say no, it doesn’t, because I’ve got a fuck-ton of reference experiences first-hand, second-hand, etc. of it not mattering, so to me it’s not open for debate/theorizing because if they had put in the hours I’ve put in, they’d have seen/experienced the things I have and they would know “ya, that was a silly limiting belief I had”.
I can link videos of a 5 foot tall guy macking on girls, or an indian or asian guy macking on girls, or an ugly balding ginger with a nasally voice macking on girls, or a fat guy macking on girls, and guys who don’t go out will just rationalize it all away with “oh they paid those girls, they’re actresses” and “oh those girls were probably drunk” and “oh well that girl was just horny” etc. Anything to avoid accepting that if they put in the time/effort, they could get the same results, but the reason they haven’t gotten them is because they’re lazy and lack the drive to overcome their limiting beliefs.
Anyone can achieve strong internals…but you don’t get strong internals by reading or theorizing or watching videos. You get them by going out there and pushing your comfort zone and collecting reference experiences, good and bad. That’s why I don’t cut the armchair theorists any slack…they are literally unable to comprehend why their mental masturbation isn’t given the same credit as the reports from the guys going out.
Field experience is, and will always be, king.
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Thank you for taking the time to explain that, Ya.
You are having a positive impact on a lot of guys, more than you realize.
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No prob. Just payin’ it forward ’cause the PUA community helped me when I needed it. The old me could never have comprehended the lifestyle I currently live, and I don’t feel like I’ve even hit my peak yet lol
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Hell, I just moved to a new city and I have to start everything over from scratch: social circles, fuckbuddies, general status in the nightlife, I’m starting from scratch all over again
Shit, man! Document that in a pdf. Pay it forward to yourself a bit.
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Ya I like being healthy. I went out last night and feel terrible because I inhaled a bunch of second-hand smoke sent into the air by losers. Kids who should have known better than to ever smoke that first cigarette. We had a program in school way back in 1983 that showed what a cigarette does to a lung for christ’s sake. So now I will not go out again for a while, to atone for that second hand smoke and lack of sleep.
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@Grim
If you wanted it bad enough, you’d hold your breath.
I’m not saying you have to do that, maybe you have other priorities and that’s cool, but then you have to accept that your lack of 22yo hotties on your dick isn’t because your age is actually a factor, it’s because you are lazy and apathetic in this area of your life and you are actively choosing to half-ass it then make excuses and hide behind a victim mentality.
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@Grim/YaReally I’m late 40’s and banging hotties–including some in their late 20’s–something I never thought I could do without learning game.
I’m fit and have a good job and am financially sound etc.
But…that doesn’t mean squat to girls..especially girls in their 20’s.
The ones interested in a “mature” guy would be looking at me more for my confidence rather than my looks.
So, how I dress, the understanding of the Mystery Method, practicing all that got me good.
I don’t “Daygame” but I do approach women in my social circle, online, at events, through friends etc.
It’s all about attitude.
No one can see inside your head. Much of my approaches work when I know what I’m looking for, don’t really care about the outcome, respond to IOI’s with the right calibration. How I’m dressed and how I walk are kind of part of the overall package–the hardware. The software is getting it straight in your head what you want and how to get it.
My own worst enemy is my own imagination: worrying what I look like instead of just going out and having a good time in whatever it is I’m doing.
Also—find ways to meet women: bars aren’t great. Take classes that young girls would take.
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@walawala Classes, eh? Hmm, that ain’t half bad of an idea… I’m 23, and I’m just starting to branch out with venues. Went to an art show last weekend. Girls… weren’t great. Mostly older people… some working girls I should’ve approached tho…
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@Grim
If it’s any inspiration, I have no money. Literally have not had a bank account for over three years lol. I can’t take girls on dinner dates. I have no car. I own one pair of jeans. Literally am up there against AMOGs like Diddy and Beckham lol. Still get laid. Confidence and connection trump all.
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Thanks again. Yeah, actually I admit I don’t want pussy or a woman in my life bad enough to inhale second-hand smoke. I do put health and sleep first. Have to for my career. I do understand why I’m not fucking a 25 year old HB9. They want to go out and have fun partying–which they have every right to do–and I at this point should be married and home with my wife and kids. But no fault divorce cometh to us all (who get married).
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@Grim actually the HB9 isn’t always a bar girl. Take dance classes, take some type of language or photography or something. Fish where there’s fish.
Negative self-talk is what’s holding you back.
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oh man, major, major +1 for dancers. seriously, you really can’t rate a girl’s appearance until the clothes come off. dancers are the gold standard of the female form. real dancers have the tighest bodies.
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Dude, if this is really your mentality when you go out no wonder girls aren’t attracted to you. You could conversely thinking, wow I’m such a lucky guy since I’m in my late thirties and I get to go out and socialize with attractive young women and people who are enjoying life. I have bud whose father remarried to a woman in her twenties when he was in his sixties. His last hurrah lol. Yes he was wealthy as balls but I would see him enjoying himself at venues packed with young ppl. But seriously you are projecting your negativity. Have another bud who makes at least 300k yearly. Married with two kids. Hates life. It gets projected into everything he sees. He is so poisoned now that he argues that there is no good music getting made. Of course you can’t get 22 year olds. You can’t get anyone when you’re crabby.
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Awesome !!
Read it on the compendium of YaReally and had to say that. Enjoy your commentary. Krauser just came out with a new book – would like to see your comments on it. Lots of good ones so far but you strike me as well qualified to evaluate.
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I can’t quite relate to what you say, because there was not one day in my life that I had the look that everyone would pay attention when I sauntered into the bar.
If your self worth is based on all the lifting you did, well the definitions of Newtonian physics that say you did no work on those weights, you accomplished nothing other than working up a sweat and a “burn”. The weight went up, it went back down, it ended in the same place. If it weren’t weight lifting, would you evaluate your self worth by how many holes you had dug and then filled back in with the same dirt? Is this what we do with our short time windows on this vale of tears?
Why did you lift, to get pussy? I hope you got a lot, because that was one hell of a lot of work you did.
It is like hitting the wall. Like women, it sounds like you didn’t see it coming or make any plans for it. Unlike women, you’re luckier because you can find other self-worth. Maybe you have other accomplishments you made in between the pullup sessions. Maybe it’s just because of who you are. But women don’t care about your looks near as much as you care about theirs.
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For the first time you have soreness.
Indeed. Your body is sore, as you explain it…the physical manifestation of your sore attitude. Your post sounds sore as hell. And this isn’t a dis, this is an opening for you to change. Stop being so sore about life. I’m going to guess your shoulder pain will clear up once your sore attitude changes.
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OT: Fidel Castro had droit de seigneur over 35,000 women. He specialised in married women – like the kings and princes of old, who did not want any trouble from impregnating single women.
It gives a whole new meaning to “Come the revolution”.
http://www.vice.com/read/tropic-of-el-jefe-0000204-v21n1
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Cult leader game, atheist edition.
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Though 1 new woman per day for 87 years (thus including Fidel’s infancy) is not quite 32,000 women, so take the numbers with an appropriate grain of salt.
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If you want sons, get started early yourself, but most important impregnate a young woman.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-scientific-fundamentalist/201104/why-are-older-parents-more-likely-have-daughters
Didn’t work that way for me, but the plural of anecdote isn’t data …
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what would chris brown do?
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some domestic violence game… and rape!
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A photo of the broad:
Disgusting.
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