Fresh off the forum.swole reservation, here are some screen captures of Tinder chats that brilliantly demonstrate aloof alpha attitude, push/pull, and disqualification game.
(For those of you in the blessed dark, Tinder is a hook-up application that works by tracking girls near you and giving you the chance to “like” them. If a girl matches your like, Tinder will automatically start a conversation between the two of you.)
The man behind these chats is a self-professed “average” looking dude.
Note the evasive framing. “Next time I visit my friends”. She’s an afterthought to him, and she loves it.
“fun sized”. 😆 He qualified her, and now she’s in the psychological space of the chaser, rather than the chasee. Girls love to chase, because the experience is so foreign to them. (And because they perceive a man they are chasing to be an alpha male. If he wasn’t alpha, they wouldn’t be chasing him, naturally!)
He disqualifies her with the firmness. She immediately backpedals.
Sarcastic use of conventional courtship tropes is like a mini value booster. It’s saying, “I know the score, this isn’t my first rodeo, so I’m gonna fuck with social expectations for laughs.” When she throws some beta bait at him, (“dinner and drinks”), he swats it away with the dog park idea.
“#” is the new “…”.
More beta bait, which he evades with a cocky self-disqualification. This fries her hamster circuit, leaving an opening to follow-up with a direct command.
Modern flirting. She’s trying to entrap him into blubbering like a lovesick beta so she can escape the spiral of her increasing horny level. Instead, he sidesteps her hoop with a raunchy joke.
Calculated vulnerability game. Shine like an alpha diamond to draw the women in, then surprise them with a little velvety soft beta plush toy hiding behind your back.
This was a clinic in how to bag the modern woman. Godspeed players, and may your hunt turn this world into a tinder, gentler place.
I liked life better when I had to carry around a pen to get girl’s phone numbers.
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Or two cans and a string to reach the girl next door. Hey, wanna come with to old man Joe’s appletree? I throw them down, you catch. How many apples can you carry if you hold up your skirt with both hands?
But really, this kind of game warms the ol’ heart. And of course, the guy has to be goodlooking and lift weights or the girl wouldn’t bite. That’s macro and micro game working hand in hand. How nice to see that Heartiste also peruses bodybuilding.com, the font of much wisdom. If you look in the right places. I just now finished a 90-minute routine that I got from there, strengthening the whole body with dumbbells only. Gym fees are for chumps.
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if you are on campus or heavy traffic sidewalks you can easily grab a randoms phone out of their hands as you walk by and spike it on the sidewalk keep walking and get away with it. i call it micro-terrorism
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The police call it a felony.
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dont get caught. stop discouraging this, I want to see microterrorism and cell phone spiking become a trend
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You’re fucked up
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Even Bill O’Reilly at Fox News is commentating on how the modern smart phone is completely ruining young USA women.
I believe that he cited a study this week which found that girls now are spending, on average, TWELVE FRIGGING HOURS A DAY glued to the damned things.
They are completely addicted to their phones.
And it is destroying them.
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Maybe so. But I understand the impulse.
Saw an eight-year-old boy walking along with his oblivious mom the other day, neck scrunching his iPhone 5 against his ear, while he was playing Minecraft on his iPad. I love Apple products, but I really wanted to swat those gadgets out of his entitled grubby little hands and force him to go muck a stable.
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its just good old fashioned American mayhem
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Cell phone spiking would be a great trend.
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What’s that supposed to be, the white version of knockout game?
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> “http://replygif.net/163”
BOO-YAH!
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Me too…
although I wasn’t alive back then, I remember writing down a girl’s number in a piece of paper up to when I was 12 – although I never called them, I liked my male buddies more back then – because I didn’t have a mobile phone.
God that was hot and that wasn’t dispiriting at all.
But maybe it was because I enjoyed the company of my male buddies and a football more than I enjoyed girls.
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This was poetry. Win!
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Your avatar looks like a space shuttle
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your avatar looks like a gal i made love to
better than tinder is talking about tinder when girls are using it. so you explain it to a bystander while your girl friend is swiping away. “yeah it’s a hook-up app so you can just say yeah you would and then go have sex with a stranger.” of course she’ll pretest and say how it’s fun and just for fun and it’s funny or whatever, but it’s more fun and funny to bust them for being sluts.
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> “so you explain it to a bystander while your girl friend is swiping away”
I was walking through a big box store the other day – a very Red State kinduva place – and I walked past a dude with his wife/fiancee/girlfriend; at the customer service desk, and there was a shopping cart between them, and he was up front doing some shit with the customer service people, and she was standing behind the shopping cart, playing on her cell phone.
And as I walked past her, I could see that she was scrolling through what looked like naked pictures of fat chicks, one after the other.
The chicks on her screen were very obviously naked, in staged poses, and the pictures filled up almost all of the cell phone screen – they weren’t little tiny icons like Spoon or Amy or Kate would post – they were great big pictures which were obviously naked females to a bystander like me.
At the time, I had some other people with me – which would have made for a little bit of an awkward situation if I had pressed the matter – so I couldn’t just walk up to her and say, “What the FUCK are you looking at?” [and risk getting punched in the nose by her boyfriend/fiancee/husband], but I’ll be damned if I wasn’t left wondering just what the hell is happening to our society?
Her flipping through all those naked pictures on the phone, in a big box store in 2014, would be the equivalent of me, back circa 1990, strolling through a MacDonald’s, filled with children, and reading a Hustler magazine, opened to the centerfold, with her tits and her pink labia exposed for all the world to see.
I mean – WHAT THE FUCK IS HAPPENING TO OUR CIVILIZATION ?!?!?!
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That is one creepy story. Why would she do something like that? And in public? In defense of our civilization though, few would display stupidity on that level.
On another note: the red state and blue state thing is not old, it comes from an NBC studio commentary in the 2000 presidential election, where states won by Bush were painted red and the other states blue. Different colors had been used for years, but in 2000 NBC started talking about “what defines a red state and a blue state?” after they had made that map.
Completely turning the colors around. Red is supposed to be the Left and blue the Right. So now that we have gotten used to it for a while and seen both colors for both sides, which side got the worst of it in this change? I’d say the colors work best for the Right and worst for the Left. Red became a symbol for “Red-blooded American” and blue became a symbol for cold-as-ice liberal elites.
Before that, in European politics blue and white were the colors of nobility and red the color of revolution. (How telling that the only color left in European politics now is the totally lame green. There is a reason it was rarely included in traditional symbolism – far less than e.g. red, blue, black, white or even yellow.)
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take it right out of her hands, spike it on the ground, and skeedaddle….
srs
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Society gives her a pass ‘cuz she has a vaj.
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It can’t go on like this, man.
If we can’t save our young women from this shit, then we’re talking about the collapse of civilization and the onset of a new Dark Age.
And no, I am not being melodramatic.
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The results of a european-wide study have just been released, and it turns out that 1 in 3 women have suffered sexual abuse, violence, etc, blablabla, by the age of 15. Of course they cast the net as wide as possible when asking the loaded questions as to what constitutes violence, sexual abuse, etc, blablabla. Apparently, unwanted messages on the internet counts, or implied hostility from anyone constitutes violence. It goes without saying that as soon as these ‘findings’ were released, various ‘charitable’ organisations were demanding or seeking to retain funding for women’s support groups. I’ll probably cop some flak from the playazz for being a bitter, misogyinistic MRA, but I’ve coined the term “shock and awww” to describe these commonly seen feminist tactics. I really think it can go toe-to-toe with “frivorce” and other such manosphere gems.
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Why are some men so beta that they won’t even aggressively flirt on… tinder. How scared can you possibly be?
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There are guys who have approach anxiety online and won’t even send a “hi” message. Welcome to 2014.
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Because if she finds him too aggressive, she’ll scream “Creep!” to all her Facebook friends.
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True that.
It can happen. It is not good.
I talk by experience.
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DHV on fb, my man if she screams, “Creep!” Agree and amplify. “I’m too much man for some women and might seem creepy to some women who might be too prudish.”
In person, you can DHV by locking gazes while smiling until the head bitch looks away, then do it to her wingmen. Look for the ones in the back smiling at you. Smile at them and turn and walk away. Sometimes one of them will chase you. Been there, done that.
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It’s not really scared, its more the salience that if you are not attractive to your tinder match – from either her accidentally “liking” you (happens a lot) or because her other tinder prospects are significantly more attractive – you will get reprimanded, blocked, or worse reported and having your Tinder/Facebook profile banned on the app.
It’s happened to me before. Even when the girl sets the precedent (ie she brings up having sex very early or speaks dirty), I’ve been blocked.
Thing is, I just can’t get tinder to work for me. Fortunately I know how to approach and charm women in real life, so its water under the bridge.
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Pretty good example of solid txt game. I wonder if this guy studied game or if he’s just some buff dude saying w/e comes to mind.
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He’s very deft at passing shit tests. Smart money says he’s studied game.
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This is good, although in a Lair I was involved in I saw guys do similar shit. Sho’ enuff, the girls were 6s at best and a lot of it was validation-seeking behavior when they shared the screen shots.
Either way, nice work.
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As someone, who is over being passed over or ignored by women, seeing this stuff is really useful. Its hard to find tactics and tricks to dealing with women on the internet that goes into so much detail.
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How did you get over it? How long did it take?
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Still learning to an extent, but was more a case of getting fed up with women mainly using me as an emotional tampon. So I started ignoring them and doing less for them and instead focused more on myself.
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“As someone, who is over being passed over or ignored by women, seeing this stuff is really useful.”
Keep in mind these are just slats looking to get stuffed with sausage, so it’s tough to assess the excellence of the men’s texts.
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If you are actually familiar with the Tinder on BodyBuilding forum, you’d know this is the case.
Variables as simple as geographic location will vastly determine your success – some areas in the South girls have major reservations dating online, but go out west, to the midwest, or northeast, and suddenly the girls are actually willing to meet their tinder matches.
There are different techniques to doing tinder as well – many people on that forum swear by “Swipe Right” where you swipe right on every girl and the rest falls into place. There are also so many examples of decent game on those threads that its very hard for you NOT to know what to say – most of these tinder interactions I find are very dehumanized/automated – and to that extent, as long as you don’t look desperate and *have a look a tinder girl is actually desiring* (this one is important) you will go far off limited game.
Me, I could never swipe right because A) my prospects in real life are a full 1.5 points higher in looks and B) if I wanted to see naked pictures of girls online for validation I’d go to a chatroom or omegle charm one
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We need some demonstration of Tinder openers. Text flirting I can handle, but cold opening via text is still odd.
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There are 3 tinder threads on the bodybuilding forum.
There are some examples of full length convos linked on the first page of the 2nd thread.
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“jewterus” == jewess + uterus ???
WTF???
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Yeah, none of these convos show how they got started. Still useful for those of us who want to learn better texting banter.
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Really corvinus your opener doesn’t really matter, and you must not have been reading the same threads as me, almost every page of each thread contains openers.
Most people just go by “sup tinderella” ……. showing the (lack of) efficacy of orchestrating an opener in the first place.
Seriously though. Here’s more important factors for attracting vapid tinder women:
1) Is she just looking for attention and your messages don’t mater regardless?
2) does she have “better” (heh) prospects she’s currently talking to?
3) is she even looking? (see #1)
4) Are you attractive, or if not, do you have attractive pictures?
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It’s not difficult.
Open with something quirky, but not some canned pickup line, just like in real life.
I use, “Ah… Tuesday afternoon, class out of the way, and a Malcolm in the middle marathon on the couch. What’s up punk?”
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For some guys it can also be tough getting matches to begin with.
I’m good looking, but with something like Tinder, girls have the privilege of just swiping right on guys who could be male models.
Like any online profile, profile building is key here. There’s a space for an “about me” and about 7 pictures, I think. Use the “about me” to your advantage, and only post funny pics. Duh. I use a picture of myself holding a cat for a gun and 8 and 9s who might normally pass me up go for the match.
Hooked up with this sexy, sexy Romanian tennis instructor girl the other day, and then some Obama worshipper the next. The Obama worshipper lived with two lesbians and a gay guy who was watching ‘Girls’ on the couch while I boned his friend. Obama posters and stickers literally all over the place. It was almost creepy. It was funny, too. I walked over to this bookshelf in their place when I first got there and saw ‘1984’ on the shelf.
“Ah, 1984. I just finished this one. What did you think of it?
“Oh I mostly just keep books for decoration. Haven’t read any of them.”
That’s when it turned into a hatefuck for me.
On the other hand, I don’t think Tinder’s been too good for my real game. If I can get lays on Tinder pretty easily, I don’t push myself enough at places like school or wherever else I may be.
Use it wisely.
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The profile is overrated. A picture is worth a thousand words. If you’re not good looking, you have to throw in a couple of pics of you doing interesting stuff.
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A picture is worth a thousand words as a guy. For women, especially selective ones, the bio is the extra push. I realize you’re supposed to watch what a woman does, and not listen to what she says, but I’ve had some serious babes tell me that my about me “won them over.”
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I agree, a strong bio is better than no bio. Everything counts, especially with high end girls. But if you ran an experiment on a strong bio with lame pics vs. intruiging pics with no bio, my money’s on the latter.
The point I’m really getting at is that you should be living a cool life in the first place, and then you’ll have the pics to back it up. This has to be doubly true for non-lookers.
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Not once has a single woman commended on my bio, which, is only 20 words long anyways (I find them useless).
In fact, some will ask me dumb questions that could have been answered by reading it.
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They haven’t commented on your bio because it’s 20 words long.
I use the whole space. Tell a story. Make yourself seem interesting.
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“Make yourelf seem interesting.” You know,LIE!
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My bio says “Go to work naked” and I look bored in every picture.
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“That’s when it turned into a hatefuck for me.”
That’s when I lol’d
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> “Hooked up with this sexy, sexy Romanian tennis instructor girl the other day, and then some Obama worshipper the next.”
So you just meet these chicks right out of nowhere, you fuck their brains out, and then you never see them again?
How the hell is this supposed to help save Western Civilization from extinction?
I guess the idea is that all of these bitchez are on chemical abortifacients, and that none of them will ever get pregnant?
And that no one will ever get herpes or venereal warts or hepatitis or syphilis or antibiotic-resistant gonorrhea?
And that no one’s fallopian tubes will ever become permanently scarred shut by chlamydia, rendering them infertile?
And that no one’s teenaged sons will ever be scrolling through the future innert00bz of Dystopia and stumble upon old nekkid pics of their Momzes from back when dem Hozes been riding the carousel?
Again I ask: This is supposed to save Western Civilization from extinction precisely HOW?
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Platonic female friends have shown me some of their messages on Tinder. It’s astonishing how many guys are out there with no game at all. I empathize, but at the end of the day they’re the competition and it’s not my fault if their heads are up their asses.
This post was solid for mid-conversation text game. A post on Tinder openers would be good, though, as I’ve found that that’s one of the biggest sticking points. Light negs seem to work.
A pic of a girl golfing (and obviously terrible swing): “I’m guessing you’re not on the Lpga”
A pic of tough mudder or color wars: “I like your makeup in your Nth pic. Very sexy.”
If a girl looks genuinely nice: “I bet you’re only on Tinder because your friends kept talking about it”
If a girl looks smart and I can’t find a neg, I open with “Favorite book of all time?” and then make a joke about her choice/s. This has actually been my most successful, but my niche is girls on the smarter, introverted side.
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All that sounds gay as fuck, bruh
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Shy girls require more comfort. If your aim is shy, smart girls, you’re doing it right with the book thing. Introverted is not the same as shy. Some introverted girls aren’t shy at all.
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So he finally got her number after their cat and mouse game. Great.
Was it worth having some dumb bitch bust his balls about why he deserves her
“next 3 digits”?
How much genuine respect can you have for chicks if they make you jump through hoops like this?
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I agree with Patrice, and almost thought I was reading a different blog when the Lo conversation was espoused as good game.
Way too much pursuing happening there. It’s not the nature of his responses, it’s the quantity and the fact that it’s all on her terms. Wrong.
Twelve consecutive alpha texts is worse than one beta text if she is holding court with the conversation. If you reversed this conversation, it would actually be a better example of good game.
It also breaks one of CH’s very own poon commandments – “For every three calls or texts, give her two back.”
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I understand where you’re coming from but you’re both in the wrong headspace.
Sure there is that line with how much bullshit one can tolerate but the OP achieved the objective and kept it moving.
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Yes. This game is pretty tight. Nice examples.
With hot, social women hoops are a reality until you’ve banged the girl enough. If you don’t like that become a celebrity or go fuck hookers…or try celibacy.
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It worked, he got her number, and he’s probably going to sleep with her, but at what fucking cost?
Do these guys ever get revenge on these women through pumping and dumping them? In the back of their mind do these guys say alright bitch you made me go through your hoops, now watch as I fuck you and never call you back.
Are there any men that go through with this bullshit and come out actually liking or respecting women?
This is the part I can never understand, how can you respect women on any sort of level give how fucking retarded they are?
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You have to like women AS women before you can have real success with them. This is your basic problem. You are frustrated with women because you expect them to be like men.
When you find yourself enjoying their attempts at adult behavior the way you would enjoy watching a toddler’s dramatic jump from the very last stair onto the floor, then you’re in a better place.
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Don’t give these cunts the dignity of being referred to as “women”.
We need to be using the word “woman” to denote those rare females who might plausibly be capable of becoming the mothers of our children.
But these cunts are simply cunts.
Filthy fucking nymphomaniac whores who ought to be locked up in a sanitarium.
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Cue YaReally or whomever to say, “B-b-b-but all women are just filthy fucking nymphomaniac whores!”
Or, worse yet, “B-b-b-but look at it from her point of view blah blah blah blah blah…”
To which I say. “Fuck that shit. We need to hold our women to higher standards than that.”
Bitch, either reveal to me some basic human decency in your heart, or else learn to deal with the fact that you’re nothing more than a filthy fucking nymphomaniac whore.
A cunt, plain and simple.
Own it, bitch.
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> “Own it, bitch.”
The problem is that The Frankfurt School has poisoned so many minds that most of them would be “proud” to own it.
Grrrrrl Power!
My sluttery enablez me!
I am woman, hear me roar!
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“Bitch, either reveal to me some basic human decency in your heart, or else learn to deal with the fact that you’re nothing more than a filthy fucking nymphomaniac whore.” +1.
Their sluttery empowerrs them to have abortions. Even the most powerful of judges are very restricted when it comes to handing out a death sentence, so go wymmyn!
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Exactly. Dude’s hooking up with a chick thru tinder. What does his have to do with respect? If you wanna get laid thru tinder this is the right mindset.
If you wanna be successful in anything in life you have to push hard.
If you want to make money you have to develop a passion and push towards your goal. Does that make you ‘hate’ money? Learn to objectify women, being as that it is a worthwhile OBJECTIVE for a man.
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It depends on the situation. The poon commandments are a general rule of thumb and you should have her invest more than you, in general. This doesn’t mean that you have to act like an Aspie kid and count the texts or calls and make sure you’re respecting the rule.
He got the number, he will fuck her and then on the medium term, the number of texts should trend towards the poon commandment.
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Zero respect. All hatefucks. They’re lucky we don’t burn down their shitty apartments while they’re passed out.
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win
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the hoops aren’t that big a deal when you’ve got multiple convos going at once. options = much less butthurtness. who cares when you’ve got 5 other girls to play with while she makes her way to submission.
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This is the primary reason why I deleted the app. You are either jumping through hoops for the girls ego or you are jumping through hoops for the girls pussy. Many less hoops when a girl sees you in the flesh.
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Here little puppy, wag your tail and I’ll give you a treat! Good boy!
oh fuck off.
If some bitch told me to give her a reason why I deserve her number I’d laugh and tell her to fuck off.
[CH: You can blow her off or you can play her and get the lay. This isn’t a morality contest.]
Ya, the woman will rationalize the situation as me being a butt hurt loser instead of her being a retard but fuck it.
So what? I abandoned a perfectly diffusible bomb but at least I came out with my dignity intact.
Could he have made fun of the bitch and still got her number?
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it really is as much a game from our end as it is from theirs, i don’t think you lose your dignity having some laughs that lead up to sex. maybe it’s a trade off on some level but i think it’s more just a frame of mind to have fun or not
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I paged through some of that thread and many guys were coming from a place of Amused Mastery. -And making sure to have fun with it.
-Especially the SneakyNinjaPants guy.
Many of them were just using it as practice and an optimistic challenge.
I’m sure someone like YaReally could easily reframe anything out there into something funny and positive. -Even Haley’s BS.
A couple did, too like the guy who said, “I Donno now that you took sex off the table I don’t know if minigolf will be fun”, or
“Alright, if you’re gonna be sassy, ask your roommate if I can sleep with her in her bed instead.” or
“well i like hanging out with you, but if your asking if I have feelings for you honestly I can say that I do.
Shit that was suppose to be can’t”
The few other girls I saw, Lo and Megan, that were tough could either be AFOGs or hardass sluts who ST quite a bit.
But it’s all just practice+process and less about the actual lay anyway. That’s like just 1 first-down in the pre-season on the way to the Superbowl.
“Cry in the dojo, laugh on the battlefield.”
Don’t give up before you even set off. Learn to laugh like those guys.
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Oh, I just got a number from a real hottie. C ya!
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Alpha bitch
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I get it. Game or suffer from dry cock, but is there any way to blow her off, keep dignity, and make her chase you? I’ve seen girls pull this shit test on guys and the guy immediately withdraws without acting hurt and the girl chases him.
And don’t women know on an innate level that we despise them for this shit? It’s like they purposely don’t want to be liked as a human being.
CH, I cannot for the life of me understand how you guys go through with this. How do you not despise these creatures?
Is liking woman even possible considering that they’re nothing but shit testing hypergamous whores?
I want a woman I can like, not someone I have to put up with just to get pussy.
Are there any genuinely likeable women out there? Am I even asking the right questions?
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“And don’t women know on an innate level that we despise them for this shit? ”
They have a hundred guys telling them how awesome and funny they are, so no.
“Are there any genuinely likeable women out there?”
Not that I know of. I’m looking for faithful and fertile and calling it a day. That’s rare enough.
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“Fertile” is gonna be kinda tough if her fallopian tubes have been seared shut from chronic chlamydia-induced scarring status post nearly infinitely many Tinder hookups with random scumbags from God-only-knows where.
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Dude, you gotta quit thinking so long term. Who cares if the native whites and asians are dying out in the U.S. as long as a chick gives you a bj. 😉 Yeah, check the statistics. In the U.S., whites have been below 2.0 births per woman for decades and asians for ten years or so. It’s even worse in Europe.
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Was this supposed to have been an attempt at sarcasm?
Please say, “Yes.”
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Maybe.
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Zombie Shane I don’t think you understand what it means to be poolside.
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I’m thinking about what happens to the pool when the chemical company which used to make the chlorine has to close up shop and go out of business because it can’t find any workers who can walk and chew gum at the same time.
When no one makes a proper grouting mortar anymore to repair the cracks in the tiles.
When the city water “treatment” facility starts pumping dysentery and cholera and typhoid down the potable water pipes.
When the grid goes down, and the pool lights go out, and you can’t heat the pool water, much less chill your champagne and caviar.
When mother nature moves back in, to reclaim what was hers.
Yet fear her, O thou minion of her pleasure!
She may detain, but not still keep, her treasure:
Her audit, though delay’d, answer’d must be,
And her quietus is to render thee.
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Girls Generation are pretty likeable, I am a huge fanboy of those Pop super stars.
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Wait, in my previous video you only saw 3 of the 9 likeable girls they are, in this you can see all the 9 members of the group, there are more.
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Come on, at least choose something sexy. I have seen a video called “Something” by that group. But really. Symphonic metal is the way. If you necessarily want Koreans, the German metal group Krypteria has a Korean singer who speaks fluent German and English. Look for e.g their songs with these names: For You I’ll Bring the Devil Down, Victoriam Speramus, Victoria, Get The Hell Out of My Way, Live to Fight Another Day, Why, God I Need Someone,
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Lol not enough sexy for u ? then u need this, I don’t have problem if they don’t sing in English because I study Korean, however while I appreciate K- Pop ,i don’t understand how K-pop have that many fans in Asia, unless Korean is the new lingua franca of Asia and most of them know Korean.
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Kids all over the world listen to English songs too before they understand the lyrics, and often when people would understand the lyrics in written form they have trouble understanding them when they hear them sung. Still, they just need to read the lyrics once or twice, then they know what the song is about. That is probably the case with Southeast Asians listening to Korean music. On tour the singers probably learn to sing the most popular songs in other languages.
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“And don’t women know on an innate level that we despise them for this shit?”
Do you despise children for telling transparent lies in an attempt to get what they want? If not, why not?
“Are there any genuinely likeable women out there? Am I even asking the right questions?”
All womenly women are likeable as women. But to like a woman, you must acutally like women. Which you don’t. Partly because you take them at man-value, which is like taking investment advice from a precocious eight year old. Just stop doing that.
Task: condition yourself to treat speech from women as a kind of neat party trick. You can’t help almost thinking she knows what she’s saying.
Task: learn to watch, while pretending to listen. If she’s at all pretty, this will be a pleasure rather than a chore. Don’t try to understand what you’re seeing; do not try to map it to any meaning yet. Just watch and enjoy. Assess the “what”, not the “why”.
Task: Probably the most important. Learn to recognize the physical signs of your own fear. Abdominal tightness, butt clenching, subtly protecting your balls. Hunching your shoulders. Different men have different habits. When you recognize that you are experiencing fear, acknowledge it. It is perfectly okay to experience emotions. This emotion is a signal, it’s coming from your sensory apparatus.
Having acknowledged the fear, get it behind you. The danger with emotions is that they can become feedback loops, where the signal is amplified until the feeling overwhelms. Notice that you are afraid. Decide whether to act on that fear by relieving it, or to move boldly past it. If you hit your thumb with a hammer, must you stop working?
Task: Treat all women in your life like precocious toddlers, and observe your emotions while doing so. This doesn’t mean rudeness or contempt. Enjoy how they toddle.
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> “Do you despise children for telling transparent lies”
Chronic mendacity is a huge red flag warning as to what kind of adults they could very well grow up to be.
And don’t quarrel with me about what “chronic” means.
You know damned well when you’ve got a problem child on your hands.
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I keep hearing this. But my instinct tells me I think toddlers are cute. So im supposed to tell girls how cute they are?
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Yes. I do this all the time. Girls hate being told that they’re cute. It’s a subtle means of disqualification. Tell them they’re cute and they’ll make it their life’s mission to show you that they’re actually sexy, not cute. A similar tactic that I like to use in response to entitled chicks is, “It’s adorable that you think you make the rules.”
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I have never seen those who are successful with women say they despise women for the necessity of game. The bitterness only comes from other people. The need for game is logical, a way for women to see who would be a good father for their offspring and also who would stick around to care for the children. Romance is a test of patience. To despise that would be the same as despising water on the ground for freezing in the winter. It will do that because of the laws of physics. Likewise, humans evolved to cope with an unforgiving nature shaped by the laws of physics. Women do what they do because they have to. Those who didn’t had worse offspring, less cared-for offspring, and so their genes didn’t produce winners and weren’t passed on. It is simply something to understand and accept.
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Exactly. Why are women difficult? Why is the sky blue.
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Modern American women are ultra difficult because of our behavior. Men are always responsible for everything because we built this world.
Conversion rate on Tinder/web is very low for all but the very “best”. Vast majoriy of guys using the webz for game would do better jerking off in the dark and trying to hit an open cunt as it passed by.
All “social” media is for women. Use the webz like a man (research, technical, history, alt news) and take your power back.
Stroking women’s egos on the off chance that she’s ovulating and your game is just good enough for a post hatefuck rape charge is a total waste of time. Totally wrong frame.
Leave them with their “smart” phones. They’ll quickly realize it’s no fun if they’re not surrounded by orbiters and have to go back to presenting their fat asses in public to get the attention they so desperately crave.
Congrats to every alpha that smashes attention whore pussy but you could probably score hotter slit by denying the questionable 7’s that hide behind a screen and game the in the flesh 8+’s that like to play for real.
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I like this comment.
Every time I see text exchanges described in either the comments section or the chateau’s topic of the day, they just seem puerile and douche-chilling…
From BOTH parties…
Especially the inane banter that passes for wit nowadays…
(((shakin’ mah haid)))
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“The need for game is logical, a way for women to see who would be a good father for their offspring and also who would stick around to care for the children”
wtf? Sexy alphas are likely to be good fathers and stick around?
Do you even read this blog?
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Um, yes, I read this blog. The fallacy in your reply is obvious, so I don’t have the patience to straighten it out for you.
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OK, now I’m curious. I don’t see any fallacy.
Care to explain?
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When you say alphas above you are actually thinking of what we might call “cads”, to use an old-fashioned word. Or “players”. Men who are able to get women by giving off false signals of quality, or men who give off a “bad boy” vibe, but who wouldn’t actually make a good choice as a mate for a woman. But while there are cads who are alphas, not all alphas are cads. Alpha in “game” means only one thing: the ability to attract women. Other qualities or lack thereof, or intentions the man may or may not have, do not affect whether he is an alpha in the way we use the word. It is an association fallacy: some cads are alphas, therefore all alphas are cads.
Or if you will: cads pass the woman’s test, therefore all who pass the woman’s test are cads.
In fact, a woman’s game is meant to weed out cads. She drags out the time between meeting and sex. She demands certain things of him before the spreading of the legs. She wants dates to get to know each other, she wants to know about your income, your car, your living conditions, your social standing, where you are going. She wants to see that you take care of your body. She wants the bard under her window with a bouquet full of roses, singing love songs while playing the lute, but in a more modern version. Romance is meant to “raise the cost of sex” as one insightful writer put it. To see if he has the quality to live up to her standards, and if he is patient enough, and willing, to stick around after sex.
To live up to these standards for a partner is the “preparations”, the “macro”, the “foundation”, or however you call it. The micro game, or what we simply call game, is to take what we have and elevate it in the presentation. Aloofness, humor, a devil-may-care attitude are the signals that your macro is SO great that you don’t need this girl. Conversation and dates done in such a way that they excite her show that a life with you will be fun, which also shows that you have high value if you think about it – only the intelligent, experienced guy will know how to excite her. A bit of warmth thrown in at just the right time (“I really do, he is my best friend” in the Tinder example) completes the image, showing that a life with you will also include warmth and care – but not too much, as clinginess indicates desparation, which is a sign of low value.
So really, game is about showing that your value is high, whether it is or isn’t. It is an answer to the question “Why do women want all that romance?” What they want has been analyzed, and the response to her demands has been refined in order for us to give off the right signals and push the right buttons. Rather than do like the beta, present yourself with no further ado on a plate for her to choose from. With great macro it might be enough to let the macro speak for itself, but competition for the best women is fierce. Micro improves the presentation, but that doesn’t mean that what is behind the presentation necessarily is a false offer.
In short, game can be used by both the cad and the non-cad.
But wait, isn’t it possible for a girl to also want a fling sometimes, even if she knows the man isn’t long-term material? It is, but only because he fulfills certain standards that were originally created in order to find a high-quality partner.
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Arbiter was saying that game helps women distinguish BETWEEN the good genetic material, and those who will stick around. Alpha fucks, beta bucks.
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Patrice’s soul in the right place.
I don’t know how old he is, but he understands instinctively that Western Civilization simply cannot withstand this overwhelming tsunami of nihilism.
That if the young girls – who are to become the women from whose wombs our progeny are to emerge – have hearts which are already filled with so much sin, then why in the name of God Almighty would we ever want them to be the mothers of our children?
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> “but is there any way to blow her off, keep dignity, and make her chase you?”
Try out a line of attack like this:
“Hey, you’re almost kinda cute and all, but get back with me in a few weeks, right before you ovulate, when you’re in a better mood. In the meantime, go ahead and get off of the birth control pill, RIGHT NOW, so that you will be 100% drug-free and organic and natural for me when we hook up. I don’t dip it in bitches who are walking talking human pharmacies. Sincerely yours, Nature Boy.”
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‘I want a woman I can like,’ as a girlfriend
‘not someone I have to put up with just to get pussy.’
Those are your fuckbuddies, for the most part. The only reason this stuff bothers you so much is because you are still working in a ‘I give commitment’ model. When you don’t give them commitment and can do whatever you want, you really won’t resent them at all for being however they are. It’s not really your problem — you’re just there for the pussy.
And to answer your question — yes, there are genuinely likeable women out there. Lots.
I mean, c’mon man…it’s a game, you gotta play it a little.
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“I want a woman I can like, not someone I have to put up with just to get pussy”
LOLZOZLZL
protip: you’re not asking the right questions
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Patrice you should read Bonecrkr. Dude was a prophet before his time, and has been sitting poolside since the 90s.
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if I ever get laid i would callously ream her the fuck out.
“you made me go through this shit just to fuck you? you weren’t even that good now gtfo my house”.
how would a woman react to this? cry to police and falsely accuse? come back for more? think i’m crazy?
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Patrice, I think you already realize that you despise and fear women, and wish for bad things to happen to them. The caring, affection, and unconditional love you long for can only ever be given to a man by one woman: his mother. You are not unique in having a mother who failed to bond to you. But it’s done. Give up that entitlement to unconditional love from a woman, and you’re halfway out of your pit.
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Very Zen comments here, bro. Nice stuff!
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You said you are good looking, what you think of going gay ? eh?
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Miaoww! This cat’s got clawzzz!
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Maybe a trannie?
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Jesse Hung? Ya think?
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Try it and see what happens! I’m not gonna tell you to have self-control or to stop expecting unconditional love — tho, those are good points worth considering. At the same time, try it. Do what you have to to nail a chick, and then 180 on her after you nail her. When you emotionally crush her, you’ll understand what everyone here is talking about. Women instinctively guard their pussies. They are gatekeepers. Once they smash you, they know that that’s pretty much it (for a lot of them), and you have the upper hand.
I recommend you totally demolish a chick’s ego one time so that you can stop fearing and hating women and learn to love them.
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[Women instinctively guard their pussies. They are gatekeepers.]
They guard their WOMBS against genetically inferior (which to them means “non-sociopathic”) potential fathers.
They are the gatekeepers of childbearing, that is of assured paternity, not of their pussies or sex.
Alpha men are the gatekeepers of sex: many women who are only horny for alphas, few alphas.
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This reminds me of something from the Alpha Game Plan, what Vox in his suggested new hierarchy of definitions called Gammas:
http://alphagameplan.blogspot.se/2011/03/socio-sexual-hierarchy.html
Gamma: The introspective, the unusual, the unattractive, and all too often the bitter. Gammas are often intelligent, usually unsuccessful with women, and not uncommonly all but invisible to them, the gamma alternates between placing women on pedestals and hating the entire sex. This mostly depends upon whether an attractive woman happened to notice his existence or not that day. Too introspective for their own good, gammas are the men who obsess over individual women for extended periods of time and supply the ranks of stalkers, psycho-jealous ex-boyfriends, and the authors of excruciatingly romantic rhyming doggerel. In the unlikely event they are at the party, they are probably in the corner muttering darkly about the behavior of everyone else there… sometimes to themselves. Gammas tend to have have a worship/hate relationship with women, the current direction of which is directly tied to their present situation. However, they are sexual rejects, not social rejects.
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My tinder game is one word…anyone care to guess it?
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Pizza and a F**k?
… wait, that’s 4.
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“What, you don’t like pizza?”
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Ridiculous. Nobody doesn’t like pizza!
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Pizza is five letters.
Whorefinder’s word is only four letters.
Why do you hate the environment so much?
Do you know how many trees had to be murdered in order to publish that fifth letter?
Your Mother Gaia hates you.
Wishes she would have aborted you in her womb.
Wishes your father hadn’t RAPED her to make you.
Except that that RAPE felt so damned good.
So damned good.
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Lolzololzol mad funny ZS.
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Cape.
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No, Rappaccinisdaughter
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The author of these messages also has another thread where he gives advice:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=155767843
lots of good stuff
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Here’s my Tinder opener:
“You look like trouble…”
It’s also my online and opener when I add a girl on Facebook.
If the girl is game-worthy, she’ll immediately ask why or start qualifying herself somehow.
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That comes close to how I would write to girls in online dating sites back when I did that. I would write to them as if it was an ad for a job as a bank robber, had a lot of success with that. (Plus that it was a lot easier than writing something personalized for each.) Even those who weren’t interested often took the time to write that it was the funniest they had seen on the site. Though there were a few who wrote “weirdo” or “you think I’m gonna rob a bank? Why should I?” or similar stupidity, which was a good way of weeding out those without a sense of humor.
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> “trouble”
Another good one is “high maintenance”.
It simultaneously both strokes their egos [since only “princesses” get to be high maintenance] but also digs in the shiv since you are already pointing out that she is a total bitch and who the fuck in their right minds would want that kinda shit in their lives?
So “high maintenance” really gets the hamster to spinning furiously: “Does he worship me or does he hate me?”
And if the bitch looks like she might have an IQ ever so slightly greater than a walnut, so that she might be vaguely familiar with just a little parlor German, then you could accuse her of being “uber high maintenance”.
“What’s below uber high maintenance?”
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@Zombie High-maintenance works in person depending on the tonality but does that that “negative” connotation which if not taken right could be an immediate turn off. In Tinder there is no context beyond a photo. “Trouble” is more playful.
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YOU: Remind me again, what’s just below uber high maintenance?
HER: High maintenance? Is this some kind of a test?
YOU: Nah, you’re not high maintenance. You’re uber high maintenance.
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Totally works in person. Text is a bit weird, if the tonality isn’t right some chicks just get turned off.
I know, someone will chime in with “who cares”….but if the goal is to get the number and meet up, you’re decreasing your chances needlessly being a dick.
I was just a complete dick to a girl I was gaming tonight at a party.
She said “You’re intense”. This has to be the biggest IOI I’ve had in a while.
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> ‘I was just a complete dick to a girl I was gaming tonight at a party. She said “You’re intense”.’
Isn’t it fucking amazing?
Like stealing candy from a baby.
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That gets you the chicks who are princesses. “You don’t want me, I’m trouble” gets you the chicks who will submit to your every desire. It weeds out the princesses.
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MEMO TO ASD DUDE:
THEY’RE ALL PRINCESSES NOW.
ALL OF THEM.
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The U.S. is a weak matriarchy, sure. That doesn’t mean that there aren’t women who will submit to you. While they submit, they aren’t princesses. Even hardcore alpha women like to fix a bad boy. 50 shades of grey
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Have you watched the poison that The Frankfurt School fills their minds with?
From the Sprout Channel to the Disney Channels to Twilight and the Hunger Games to the frigging Olympics on NBC?
It’s all princess, all the time.
By the way, a really good technique for this shit is to call it out directly to their faces.
When done right, chicks really dig the Truth.
She would infinitely rather be with a man who had the gonads to be honest with her than with some little manboob loser herbling who couldn’t summon the courage to call her out on it.
SHE: Pour me another glass of chardonnay.
YOU: Jesus Christ, you’re high maintenance.
But poor her the glass of chardonnay anyway, and keep making jokes about her being such a damned princess, straight to her face, and later that night, when it’s sexy time, you’re all, “Okay, it’s time now for the little Princess to lay down in bed and be ravaged by her Dark Knight.”
And then fuck her little Princess brains right out of her little Princess ears.
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w/ all due respect ZS, that is fail. the negs don’t mean shit in the grand scheme of things if you’re still acting like a dog and pony show
SHE: Pour me another glass of chardonnay.
YOU: No. / Shut up, cunt. / Do I look like a fucking sommalier? / So now you’re retarded AND crippled?
etc
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Okay, I have NEVER called a fuck buddy, “cunt”.
I don’t know that I’m quite sufficiently sadistically sociopathic to pull that one off.
For me, “cunt” would be about the last word she ever heard from me.
“Frankly, my cunt, I don’t give a damn.”
Actually, that’s pretty good line right there, at least if Potty Mouth Game is your thing.
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cunt is the universal female victimization / marginalization meme word, similar to nig and beaner and what have you for minorities. intrinsically its just a sound wave.
using it doesn’t make you a sociopath. its one word in one world language. it is a secession of your own personal agency to let your verbiage be dictated by the feels of the butthext social justice warriors.
its like how thwack would rather bitch about race relations in the US then return home to his “brothas”. similarly, females will become appalled at identifying them as gashes because it is a better “feels” to object to challenging the undeserved abstraction of the self rather than having the consciousness to examine the object for what it is.
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@Zombie Shane, that Gone With the Wind clip is an interesting example of Game that David D’Angelo used to show.
The dynamic is that Rhett games Scarlett throughout, then they marry and he becomes a doting husband ie beta provider.
She’s a complete cunt throughout the film and finally the whole relationship collapses under the weight of her Cluster B craziness.
Rhett grows a pair and walks out.
The line is powerful because it illustrates the resiliency of game and positive masculinity.
Rhett lets himself be tooled and then effectively takes the red pill realizing he’s been tooled.
This is how we remember him. It’s interesting in my experience that girls tend to remember their first impression and last impression/most recent impression.
I wrote extensively about my crazy ex gf. I gamed her, then she tooled me. Eventually she broke up and despite my game-savvy I was stuck in Oneitis and in a world of hurt. That pain only continues until you find that courage to pull a Rhett and walk away either emotionally or physically or both.
Finally I pulled a Rhett and told her never to contact me again and to fuck off. What matters is the impact of that outcome—fuck off or “Frankly dear I don’t give a damn” trumps all beta backsliding.
She comes out to our weekly parties and I avoid looking at her or making eye contact while I now have other girls hanging out with me. She has her rebound new guy. I can now honestly say I have no idea what she’s doing or thinking. But what matters for me is that I was able to reframe being tooled with “Fuck off”.
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She might wonder who this Mike Hunt is, and why you’re so obnoxious to him
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http://www.canberratimes.com.au/lifestyle/life/blogs/citykat/why-are-single-men-so-scared-of-love-20140306-348mj.html
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[…] Fresh off the forum.swole reservation, here are some screen captures of Tinder chats that brilliantly demonstrate aloof alpha attitude, push/pull, and disqualification game. […]
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No wonder you boys don’t put in work anymore. You don’t have to. Just take her to the park to look at trails of dogshite in various stages of evaporation and she’ll suck you off like a trusty Hoover.
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I didn’t even do that much work for a 9. We played like rabbits for almost a week during summer school. All I told her was “I want to make love to you.” She provided free room and board when I needed it, lol. I might have bought her a pack of Skittles or a candybar.
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> “Just take her to the park to look at trails of dogshite in various stages of evaporation”
Exactly.
BTW, if you were an actual human female [as opposed to, say, a trannie with lipstick and eyeshadow and blush and silicone breast implants], then that would be some “Comment of the Year” material right there.
Dog shit in various stages of evaporation.
Just about the perfect metaphor for the Obama years.
Dog shit in various stages of evaporation.
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Nah, more like dogshit in its freshly pungent glory.
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November 4th, 2008 just called.
It wants its symbolism back.
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Flash forward to 2014, and this is what that old bitch 2008 looks like now:
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“I am going to give the NSA the okay to spy on the cellphone of each and every one of you without a warrant, and read all your emails, and watch you through your webcams. I am also going to use the military’s missiles to kill an American citizen without a trial because I want him to stop criticizing my policies, and then kill his teenage son who comes looking for him, also without a trial and with a missile, that will also kill everyone in the café he is sitting in. I am going to make this the most secretive administration ever, more closed off to reporters than ever, and go after and prosecute whistleblowers more than any other president. I am going to triple the number of soldiers in Afghanistan, and multiply the drone attacks there and in Pakistan, never mind the high civilian casualties that I won’t comment on. I am going to sell weapons to Mexican drug syndicates to see where the weapons end up, regardless of whether some of them are used to kill American border guards.” I wonder how that would have sounded in his speech. How would the crowd have reacted? It would have been fun to see.
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> “How would the crowd have reacted? It would have been fun to see.”
Dude, this is the Manosphere corner of The Dark Enlightenment.
Consider the entire broad spectrum of possibilities here: What if it would NOT have been fun to see?
What if it would have been simply horrifying to see?
Bone-chilling even?
What if he had spoken precisely those words, back in 2008, and thereby had sent the crowd into an even more throbbing undulating [anti-]charismistic hysteria than when he had told them a few months earlier that he was going to stop the rise of the seas?
We just don’t have the reserves of societal largess remaining anymore to keep fooling ourselves about the potential for civilization-destroying iniquity and utterly nihilistic murderousness which festers in the hearts of the kinds of people who would go to the polls to vote – not just enthusiastically, but ecstatically – for a sociopath like Barry Soebarkah Dunham Marshall Davis Love.
I live in a universititty town, and every damned day I see them driving around in their Priuses which are plastered with those God-damned bumper stickers all over them – not just the 2008 stickers, but now the 2012 stickers, as well.
It’s a fucking religion for them – not metaphorically, but LITERALLY.
Hell, the raison d’etre for this very website is all about how you can get the filthy vile Blue State cunt whores to moisten-up between their legs once you learn how to approach them not as a gentleman but as a God-damned psychopath:
PS: The only thing that has changed in 2014, since even just 2012, is that all of the self-employed subchapter S form 1099 hipster SWPL doofusses are now suddenly having their insurance policies cancelled, and losing their doctors, and getting worthless insurance policies issued to them in return [if they can even get through to have the worthless policy issued to them].
Access to your doctor and to your medical plan and to the premiums and the deductibles which you had been accustomed to “talks”.
Bullshit walks.
Or dog shit evaporating on sidewalk.
Which, actually, doesn’t walk.
It just sits there evaporating.
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In 2008 I voted for The Oboe doing the bow chicka wow wow. Get it right, poontang hound guy cis scum dudebro
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7DpoavYXMK4
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HAHA! Fun stuff with Lo 🙂
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Nice exchange! I have a lone whigger friend who I enjoy ribbing. He texted me before I got off work last night:
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Whigger Friend: 4:18pm – Beers?
Me: 5:54pm – Are the footdraggers gonna be disfiguring the scenery tonight?
WF: 5:54pm – Hard to tell but it’s very possible
Me: 5:59pm – Prob not, I’m gonna be with X and I don’t want such piss poor samples of womanhood infecting her by example
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Me: 6:15pm – My bad. I know you have a crush on Shamu. I should be more sensitive
WF: 6:16pm – Get the fuck outta here I told you that’s Y’s girl
Me: 6:17pm – My apologies. I’m so embarrassed.
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This is a keeper.
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Hi m new 2 CH… Discovered it 1 month before..trying to change my way of thinking..clueless still trying..
Can some 1 help me with a girl i m trying to game. Ijust returned back 2 my country n met one of my cousins at a wedding. I had tried to woo her before when i didnt know anything about game n failed . Nw at the wedding i felt she was interested coz she was eyeing me a lot.. I messaged her after a few days n she responded but the convo was goin nowhere and her interest seemed low. Then she ignored my Text msg. This got to me n i replied fine and didnt contact her for 2 days .. Third day she messaged me back n asked me where i was … The texting went as follows
Her : where r u??
Me ( after 6 hrs) : hey .. Say
Her : jus wanted to know if u r still the city.
Me : yeah
Her : nothing just came in the neighbourhood
Me: k… Was nt at home.
Me: y
Her : okie… At friendz place
Me: nxt time tell me before hand
Her : sure 🙂
Me : we’ll meet… Dont worry
No reply after that…
Guys can any1 tell me if this was ok. What should b my next step. M nt desperate for her. but would like it to work out. and i wanna know where my game stands.
Apologies for postin this here as i dunno where to ask..
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Sidenote: anyone know how to change their tinder location for an iPhone? I’m looking for a solution that doesn’t involve me downloading the developer’s SDK.
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ironically, i found my way to CH indirectly via the BB forums. maybe its time to return to the land of bro.
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4chan asptards ruined that site irreparably as the deceased icon Zyzz was a frequent poster of both forums unintentionally bridging them together. I’d search for greener pastures if i were you.
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I’m kind of a rookie when it comes to doing kinky stuff in bed…I’ve had sex with a lot of attractive girls but never crossed the kinky line, only good sex with a lot of positions. Any first step kinky moves to make with a girl you’ve been on and off with?
Looking to hear from the more experienced ones who’ve seen more. This girl is a keeper but she’s too young for now.
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Depression Game
Guys, I’ve got to say, Ol’ Whorefinder’s been deep in the dumps as of late.
Ive noticed a lot of kneegro-fuckers.
A lot of slutty, trashy women have been way too open about their sluttiness.
A majority of the women I see just seem like so much trash.
And I’ve noticed a lot of cockblocking.
I’ve no desire to dress up and game.
Any solutions? Or pep talks?
Since it was Saturday night, I was hoping someone could pump me back into good-ol’whorefinder rape-the-moment mode.
I’ll cross-post on my blog.
Rape!
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What does race have to do with it? A black man with a good head on his shoulders would be a much better partner for a woman than sociopathic internet trash that lives on seeking validation from women like yourself, chump.
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lmao. Black people aren’t human. And truth-telling is not sociopathic.
Rape!
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@Patrice
I’m a seriously fucked up misogynist specimen myself but you really need to get laid, man.
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happy international womens day people~!
itz sbout equalitzys pplesz lolzoz
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Minigolf is like my dating MO. lol. That’s when I’m feeling generous because I often just go for walks in parks. I like it because it’s not only free, but you can leave when you feel like it.
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As above, don’t step on the dog shit.
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Nah, I’ll make her step in it and then make qualify herself to make up for it.
OT: CH, I have a suggestion for beta male of the month.
http://cltampa.com/bedpost/archives/2014/03/06/bully-who-outed-duke-porn-star-has-his-porn-preferences-publicized#.UxqAj_mwJAZ
He is the owner of the company who has that site and he just violated his privacy policy and opened himself to a lawsuit because he couldn’t keep his mouth shut. Not only this, but it’s not hard for the guy, if he knows how to frame things to either:
1)start a campaign and drive business away from him
http://www.change.org/en-GB/petitions/us-legislators-and-congressmen-regarding-ethical-issues-the-federal-bureau-of-investigation-regarding-legal-issues-remove-the-website-http-www-facialabuse-com-from-the-internet-and-have-its-owners-brought-to-trial-in-a-court-of-law
There are a lot of leftists who mind this guy’s porn apparently and if his infringement of his privacy policy becomes well known, he will lose customers
2)agree and amplify. Say that you are willing to do porn for him if the actress is a female relative of his. Since he obviously thinks porn is ok and he has no problem to do this to the women from other families, he should have no problem with his female relatives doing porn with him. Tell him you’d pay him back $1000 for each time you cum on the face of his sister/daughter/mother and you will give him a $3000 discount for your services if you can bring friends along.
Or he can go for the three peat and do all of the above. Sue him, drive away his customers and publicly ridicule him. Or if he accepts, fuck his sister/mother/daughter.
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I don’t know if you guys are aware of this:
Many people believe that conservatives are attempting to erode women’s rights — that they’re engaged in a “war on women.” What should conservatives do to increase their share of the women’s vote?
“I doubt they can do much,” says John Derbyshire. ”Women are just like that. One thing we might try would be putting some alpha males up front, instead of mealy-mouthed cringing betas. Conservative strategists should all study the Chateau Heartiste blog, though without telling anyone they are doing so.”
Read more at http://www.commdiginews.com/politics-2/women-the-elusive-jewels-in-the-gop-brooch-11157/#UR3va2VRVsquROer.99
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This article should be of no surprise to people here.
http://www.theage.com.au/lifestyle/breaking-down-culture-of-desire-20140308-34e1o.html
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Would appreciate some feedback here on a reply to a girl I’m gaming.
Met her at one of my weekly social events, short, cute, sparked attraction, then negging, some push/pull on both our parts. She’s trying snatch the frame. Last night I sent her message on FB chat.
Her name starts with a T. In she introduced herself “I’m Tammy with a T.” I said “I’m walawala with a W”.
Somehow I thought her last name began with a Q but she was insisting it started with an X.
I open:
“oh. x”
her: uh huh……….
Me: That t stands for trouble. my mom warned me about girls like you
Her: Takes one to know one! But let’s not blow my cover 😉
Me: (12 hours later) or mine. I’m looking for someone to rob banks with. What’s your whatsapp?
Her: “I’m a work alone type of girl. Wouldn’t wanna have to share the spoils with u”
The banter is cool. But it’s a clear attempt to snatch frame and shit test me to ask for her number again.
Any thoughts on how to respond?
I was just going to reply with:
“-10”
am a bit stumped on where to take this without appearing like I give a shit, but ignoring this would be lame.
I could just leave it and let her wonder.
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Still oogling HK girls? I sympathize…
I’d cut the banter crap. It’s only cute if there is a clear mutual flirtation going on. She is intrigued IMO but is pretending to play reluctantly. Skip the Whatsapp crap. Whatsapp is very unreliable. Messages get lost; there are lots of bugs. In fact, forget numbers. Command her to meet you somewhere at a specific time. No questions. I’ve read your comments so you know the drill. Time for a compliance test…
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Is she a 9 or 10? Is she worth the trouble? Is she gf material? Will you see her regularly at your weekly social event?
If this was speed dating and not a 9 or 10, I’d next her. If she is a 9 or 10, hit her with a light neg soon. Sandwich the neg with a couple of light attractiveness validations. Maybe, “You look like you work on keeping yourself fit. You _almost_ make me want to be seen with you.”
Or, if not speed dating and an 8 and below: “You work alone? Like curled up in front of the fireplace reading 50 Shades of Grey with B.O.B.? (your Battery Operated Boyfriend) K, that’s cool. Later.” If she’s attracted to you, she will see you as aloof, non-needy, and flaking and should send you her phone no. If she tries to banter, just send “…” until she sends you her phone no.
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walawala is into her because he’s in a chase mode. She isn’t responding to his negs. Any neg or such variety will be seen as a try-hard.
“I don’t think your pimp would appreciate that. Wait, that’s me. Give me your number.”
If she doesn’t respond, move on.
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Practicing game on a hook-up app. How challenging.
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? do you also cream all over yourself in satisfaction after making such intelligent observations?
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Not being a smart ass. The ultimate challenge is to find someone you truly like and care about. What will a hook-up app do except link you to people who just want to play? This site is full of people who do want to hook up, and there are also people who look for more insight on how to make others more receptive to you, not just in the romance department.
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Hey CH, here is a target for your shiv:
http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1zy7qe/to_those_who_have_arrived_here_for_the_first_time/
http://www.nbc.com/saturday-night-live/video/jewelry-party/2755299
That nasty bitch Lena Dunham did a parody, if you can call it that, skit on SNL. Take a look y’all.
Lena seems to be a human symbol of all that is wrong with the west and especially western Gen Y women.
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To read the tweets on Tinderfessions is to be unnerved by realization and awareness. Unless it’s all a running gag that goes over my head, the marriage market is worse for men than we thought. Now I wonder when I watch TV which young news correspondents, readers, reporters, weather women are like this, or, if they’re now married, which ones were like this until recently. I’m afraid I must guess most of them. What an illusion.
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The girls on Tinder appear about a standard deviation hotter than girls on “ordinary” dating sites. Also there seems to be a weird age gap – a lot more women 40 compared to other types of social media. While a little of this is rigged, overall my impression is that it is not – hotter women participate in Tinder than in old-school online dating. This seems like it could be significant. What does it say about who they are and what they want? I have a vague suspicion that it might be a revealing indicator about female sexuality and desire…
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Her: “Tell me a joke and I’ll give you the other 4”
You: “Our kids would look so beautiful”.
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been in a relationship for 2 years with a solid 9 4 years younger than me. my secret is to only say ‘i love you’ when i need to fart.
her: i love you
me: i love you too…. *fart*
works erry time
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Note how the ‘#’ isn’t just doing the duty of ‘…’, it’s also a literal request—i.e., give me your number (#).
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