April 4, 2014 by CH
How will you know you have an abundance mentality with women? When you screw around on a girlfriend, or think about leaving her, and all your buddies tell you how crazy you are for messing up a great thing with such a cutie.
Despite their uniform dissent, you still do it.
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I suppose if there’s always a link up top, might as well add some interesting ones
http://nypost.com/2014/04/02/meet-the-older-men-looking-to-score-during-spring-break/
http://theweek.com/article/index/259366/speedreads-yes-older-dudes-are-going-on-spring-break-to-pick-up-college-girls
fun to read the women’s takes on it. and i can say definitively, even in mediocre shape at 38, no one asks you why you’re there.
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> “all your buddies tell you how crazy you are for messing up a great thing”
Or maybe – just maybe – your buddies are right, and it’s high time for you to settle down with that chick and make a family with her.
If the nice girls from the good families get ditched too many times by all y’all PUAs, then don’t act surprised if they have a bad tendency to become cynical broken-souled femcunt witches who are all too eager to swallow the poison which the Frankfurt School is peddling.
There’s a time and a place in your life for chasing poontang recklessly.
And a time and a place for putting buns in ovens.
Don’t let the gal who should have been the mother of your children become the one that got away…
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‘Every hand’s a winner, and every hand’s a loser, and the best that you can hope for is to die in your sleep.’
Really great song.
HOWEVER…
settling down sounds like a complete crapshit.
Your buddies are never right. Fuck ’em. It’s right when you feel it’s right. C’mon…
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Look at Scray exploring his inner cracka.
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I’d actually say ‘The Gambler’ is about a cracka exploring his inner nigga but hey….
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zlozozzozozo
whenz more bernakifed pussy gets thrownz at da gbfmz lostas cockas at a faster rate than janet yellenz quanitititeavely easing da debtz, den dat will be an abundance of puzuzuyzsszyzyzuyzyzyuzyzuzyzu lzolzlzlzloz
yellenfiedz yelleneized girls are better dan bernankified girlz!!!
lzozozozololzo
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lzozozoozol http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Bernankified
1.
Bernankified
Weighed down with a soul-crushing amount of federally-guaranteed student-loan debt.
The name is obviously derived from Fed Chief Ben Bernanke.
I met a cute chick, but she was so bernankified that I couldn’t see a future, so I dropped her.
2. Bernankfied: Previously weighed down by student debt, but by doing porn and getting berankified in da biunghozlzoz, now fiscally solvent.
The name is obviously derived from Fed Chief Ben Bernanke.
I met a cute chick, but she was so bernankified that I couldn’t see a future, so I dropped her.
lzozozozololzolzo
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Time to nuke it from orbit.
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It is great that Bernankified is now a term in the Urban Dictionary. Sadly Tucker Max whose name rhymes with Goldman Sachs is also in the Urban Dictionary.
GBFM you should trademark the term.
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“I do think the questions were posed in a bit of a judgmental tone,” 18-year-old Knox told HuffPost Live’s Ricky Camilleri in an interview on Tuesday.
Perfect summary of the modern feminist-brainwashed cathedral mind. As if people are not allowed to be “judgmental.” Of course we are. Society is entitled to judge. In the past, social mores provided that sluts and women who were unmarried after age 27 were to feel shame. This was for the good of families and civilization as a whole. Legal and social pressure constrained female hypergamy and childishness.
Now, as CH has pointed out, the Puffed Ho crowd says we can’t judge women for *anything*. No decision a woman makes–being a porn star, being obese, having 53 tats, etc–can be judged.
But normal healthy white beta males just trying to be good people and find a decent non-obese woman to make them fathers are judged and made fun of for everything, such as the biologically correct feeling, for example, that this YKW porn star is fuckable.
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“She adopted the traditionally German/Jewish surname Goldberg as a stage name because her mother felt that Johnson was not “Jewish enough” to make her a star.”
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Whoopie_Goldberg#Early_life
Just like Jonah the Whale.
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Did it work?
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DC faggotry. lzozlzolzozol
http://money.cnn.com/2014/04/04/smallbusiness/bow-ties-accoutre/index.html?hpt=hp_t3
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Eh. Bowties and seersucker suits used to be perfectly fine back when DC was a Southern city of no great import.
Now it’s all tasteless hicks from flyover “living in the big city” and sharp-elbowed hebes from NY, all suckling at the gubmint test.
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CH, re: this — heartiste @heartiste 1h
An obese black woman sitting in front of me is sporting a scalp part so tight and depilating it looks like her skull was cleaved with an ax.
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I have a fun exercise for you: as you stare at the thing in front of you, please sit and contemplate whether it is the same species as Avril Lavigne. I will help you by providing background materials:
https://www.google.com/search?q=avril+lavigne+hot&espv=210&es_sm=93&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=2xM_U5XoMfHesAT-0YDIDw&ved=0CAgQ_AUoAQ&biw=1440&bih=799#facrc=_&imgdii=_&imgrc=xfUqMvCJo3u9NM%253A%3BzJq0SXx3Hz8amM%3Bhttp%253A%252F%252F4.bp.blogspot.com%252F–Pbjks2i1VM%252FUUa6Vs1LPpI%252FAAAAAAAAHHY%252Fo_ElSfEx0qU%252Fs1600%252FAvril%252BLavigne-hot-00.jpg%3Bhttp%253A%252F%252Fsportwallpaperz.blogspot.com%252F2013%252F03%252Favril-lavigne-hot-sexy.html%3B1498%3B1028
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Reminds me of a time I was at a water park as a young kid.
I was wading into the lazy river, looking for an inner tube, when I spot a black woman in front of me wearing a plastic Wal-Mart bag on her head to prevent her weave from getting wet.
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The lazy river has never been lazier.
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maintaining an abundance mentality is one of the easiest and most effective ways to improve your results with women. everyone says “when it rains it pours” and “i’m in a dry spell” but those aren’t flukes, they’re clues to how women see you. force yourself to see the ocean full of fish and even a born and raised beta like myself can figure it out.
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easy and effective sure but it all depends on what you want. it’s true there are lot of fish out there, but there sure as hell aren’t a lot of good ones anymore. i got damn tired of juggling all those flakey, bitchy, entitled, subpar girls around just so i could keep them as backups or to feed my ego. i did that for a long time after i got burned by a girl that cheated on me but there’s no satisfaction in that. it doesn’t even compare to what it’s like to have a quality girl that really loves you. finding and keeping a quality girl is a lot better return on your investment if you ask me but i guess i’m just a quality over quantity kind of guy.
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> ” it doesn’t even compare to what it’s like to have a quality girl that really loves you.”
1) Make her your wife, and
2) Do not stop putting buns in her oven until she’s finished menopause and she biologically cannot have any more children.
A good woman and a bunch of children by her is worth all the strange poontang in the world and then some.
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” A good woman and a bunch of children by her is worth all the strange poontang in the world and then some.”
Not sure that’s true. I would posit that racking up up a triple digit notch count gives you the mentality that allows you to choose from the best potential mothers to provide you with offspring. That crucial experience teaches you how to test and judge women ( without the beta colored glasses ) as well as allowing you the outcome independence to do so. When you’re ready to settle you’ll know exactly what you’re settling for.
Friends and colleagues still often ask me how I landed my baby mama. I answer. ” I was dating 4 girls when we met. ” They look at me as if I’ve attempted to solve a mathematical equation with a line of poetry.
She had to work to earn me. She has to work to keep me.
Having a child/children is just another line item to cross of the bucket list. Like having threesome on New Years eve, or getting a BJ in a hot tub.
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I am a quality over quantity guy myself, but listen dear friend:
IT IS NOT A GOOD INVESTMENT:
Let’s imagine you buy a shitty Japanese car. You can go all around with it, it will be durable, will not consume much and whatever.
The Japanese car is a normal girl. It doesn’t cost too much to keep her around or to fuck her and she will not be able to break your heart because you don’t care about her that much.
But then imagine you spend all your money in a Ferrari.
But then it costs you too much to pay the taxes and to keep the car clean and with no defects. Besides, you are damned afraid to have a crash or to have your car robbed.
The Ferrari is a good quality girl. You are fucked now, she can destroy you, you are not sure if you can maintain her for longer.
Thus,
if you really are into exquisit quality girls (I don’t mean only hot, but it is also part of the equation, I mean sevens need not apply), keep in mind that it is an expensive and emotionally exhausting hobbie.
Yeah, it will be great. But that kind of girl is not to be seen as an asset. Like your loyal cheap Toyota you can use always and will always function.
Those quality girls are the Ferraris… and not everyone is able to keep a Ferrari or use it properly.
I’ve been (going after) with girls so high quality that I knew it was only a matter of time they would tell me to fuck off. . . But every “Let’s hang out!” text I got was a victory.
And every true and deep compliment that transpired a small amount of admiration gave a renewed sense to my life.
You can get addicted to that shit. You can feel those bare legs you are groping are not a path to sex… they are the things you hold on too while you discover your life force and give the first step to create a family, a nation, a fucking empire…
If you get really alpha, so alpha, that you can get all you want… you either become a cynical sellfish bastard or you go beta with all the gratefulness you feel towards the world around you. It’s fucked up.
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Why would you get to be a cynical selfish bastard, or a beta? That’s far too binary to be true. Sometimes if you can get all you want, you wish to strike a new path and help other men stand up again and relearn their roles as men. As Plato would call it, you could become today’s version of a philosopher-king.
Not everything we have today fits into the mold thrust upon us by the nihilist Left. Think outside of your propagandized training.
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and hey man, i’m not saying it isn’t a good idea to have an abundance mentality on some level. so you’re perceived as a higher value man, to keep your options open, etc. i get all that. even a guy like me whose a one woman man knows you never stop gaming. i’m just too damn tired to spend all my time maintaining relationships with girls that are only good enough to keep my dick wet. exhausting. it’s a lot easier to keep one good girl happy and she’s a great cook to boot. more than i could say for the rest of them 😉
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no argument here, the truly good ones are rare enough that i pretty much agree with zombie shane– when you find her, marry her, knock her up, do not look back. they are vanishingly rare around here though.
also yes re: exhaustion. glad you’ve got a good one though man. ladies, watch any old tv sitcom– be faithful, cook something hot for dinner, stay skinny, and don’t nag your man. you’re in the 99.9% already at that point.
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yeah, she’s a good one. almost missed out. she showed up when i wasn’t ready. i backed way off when she started saying she loved me. freaked me out. i told her i wasn’t ready for ANY kind of relationship from the start and i wasn’t. it was the last thing i wanted. didn’t want to be a dumbass with acute oneitis again, you know. but, as stupid as it sounds, she is different. or maybe i’m just different. i don’t know but i’ve lost a good one before and i’m not gonna blow it this time. i was lucky to get a second chance, not likely to get another. like you said, good ones are rare. i’m locking this one up.
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theres always a “good” one
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Sometimes I think it’s not even him.
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Yes, this. You do it because you can. You know there are others waiting behind her.
I like to combine the Abundance Mentality with the I Don’t Give A Fuck attitude.
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When I first started going through my personal transformation, everybody was telling me that about Shamu. “I’m not sure you can survive without her.” “You’re such a cute couple.” “You two seem so complete.” “You seem so happy together.”
Now the same people are saying, “You have to make yourself happy. Go for it.”
On some level I’m pretty disgusted at how everybody in this society has to be haaaaapppppy, haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaappppppppppppyyyy, and it has to be noooooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, because haaaaaaaaaapppy is the most bestestest thing evvvvvvvvvvurrrr. Even guys. What a bunch of whiny cunts we Americans have become.
On another level, since we’ve gone totally over to nihilism anyway, fuck it, I may as well join’em and get mine too. Nobody respects self-sacrifice, so what’s the point of taking one for the team?
My wife proves this most of all. It’s just such an incredibly stupid decision on her part not to address the list of easily fixable issues that have been driving me steadily away. But eating half my weight in sugar every day makes me hapaaapppppyappaypaappyypayyppppyyyyyyyyy….
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> “On another level, since we’ve gone totally over to nihilism anyway, fuck it, I may as well join’em and get mine too.”
If you do decide to leave Shamu, then don’t be a nihilist about it.
Find a young chick with a fertile womb and start putting buns in her oven.
Choose Life.
Not Death.
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I admire your dedication to the preservation and re-establishment of Western civilization. *fist bump*
Curious, are you married/bunning up a proper young chick (or did so in the past until she couldn’t any longer)?
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The point about “abundance mentality” is the “mentality” part. Here’s a personal example. I had a crushing several months after my ex gf left. It created a “hole” in my game and life….but that’s just bullshit. It was my own perception.
I met another girl a few months later, cute, banged her…she started getting clingy so I just kind of faded away….I started gaming other girls.
She’s now chasing me.
So? When I “feel” I don’t have anything to worry about, I do great.
When I’m so obsessed and have my head up my own ass about “the one”…I feel miserable.
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amen to that
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No, you have an abundance mentality when your friends don’t even bother dissenting anymore.
It’s just regular “you being you”
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true that
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Don’t give a fuck to get a fuck.
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@tspark156 This is a bit of an over-simplification. Not giving a fuck would mean you never engage in anything. The “abundance” mentality is approaching girls with that kind of amused mastery and saying things most guys wouldn’t: neg, push-pull etc. Also, it’s the ability to walk away in the interaction–whether that’s a pick up or a break up/soft-next.
You adopt the abundance mentality by approaching lots of girls and understanding the steps of a pick up and the elements of game.
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Fair point. Which would you say is better applied in the flesh world, over simplifying or over analysing.
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better to over-simplify…over-analyzing is co-dependent.
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The problem with over-analyzing is that it will hamper your ability to maintain your frame. The only times I seem to fail to maintain good frame control is when I start over-thinking things.
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“Act as If” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTFU9c9MrkE
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