Another assembly-line lib tart crudely trying to impersonate a frat bro crossed with a flaming gay man wrote an article titled “Fashion mistakes women despise about men“. The definitiveness of the sartorial errors aside, “despise” strikes one as an unusually strong word to describe how women feel when they see a man with an undershirt poking out of the top of his button-down. Women despise supplicating beta males; they joke amongst their friends about poor fashion taste.
But in the spirit of the day — Be All The Cunt You Can Be — here’s the CH version:
Fashion Mistakes Men Despise About Women
it’s not a curtsy, it’s a girthsy
Fat.
Brilliant in it’s simplicity
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I know it is an old internet meme but
Slow Golf Clap
I am currently in a 100 pound weight loss program even I know how to dress
I have lost seventy and it is still loose clothing until I hit my target weight.
How can someone think this would do anything but send my custard chucker into reverse mode. She has to be American or Canadian.
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Good to hear that you are losing that much weight and sticking to the plan. I always respect an effort to improve, no matter what the starting point. Self-improvement raises the total amount of quality in the world.
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“Self-improvement raises the total amount of quality in the world.”
It also waters down the present quality, because it becomes less scarce/unique. Guys hate on “betas” on here, and it’s quite puzzling, because they NEED betas to be there in order for their game tactics to work. Without he betas their alphadom would even out.
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Women don’t understand game. They need to STHU. If all men were alphas, a lot more men would get laid.
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Frankly, it’s not possible for “all men” to be “alphas” – which itself isn’t mutually exclusive from “beta” anyway. Women need both types of behavior, obviously.
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Quality doesn’t water down quality by making it less unique, Jackye. Only if the world was full of athletic gods with James Bond’s pickup skills would it become uninteresting.
As for picking on betas, it does look stupid. Especially since 90 percent of those using “beta” as an insult are betas themselves, or omegas. Many scoff at betas in posts as a way to show others how very alpha they are – this is simply online roleplaying by keyboard jockeys. By contrast, note how no “pickup gurus” ever scoff at betas.
This is one reason why I minimize my use of terminology. Most of the time you can say what you want to say about behaviors without using “alpha” and “beta” as a crutch. And you can say e.g. “I met a very attractive woman” without proclaiming her to be “a 7.5” or “an 8”. Too often, terminology is just used to show off, to show that you are in the know. Not just here but elsewhere too.
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I don’t think I’m an Alpha. But it doesn’t matter. Women make the mistake of thinking I am. Win!
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I’d hunch that girl.
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Yep great effort. See problem, take action. That’s what makes men, men and women….well you know.
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Let’s add to it. Feel free to add more to physical and fashion mistakes. Being fat is the most common and has been for a long time. Others such as what I will list below are more recent and becoming more common. I will leave personality and character flaws for a later time. Here’s my list of fashion and physical mistakes.
1) Fat. Note fat happens slowly and rarely with deliberate conscious thought.
These always happen with deliberate conscious thought.
2) Maiming or mutilating self. One example of many—filing teeth to have shark
smile look.
3) Tattoos
4) Short Hair
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Any girl in any outfit who is:
5. unfeminine
6. thinks a degree or other status display is more important than/or equal to her looks/femininity
7. doesnt exercise and eat well all life…for her man not health
8. cant cook
9. doesnt strongly try to control her urges to swear or be a bitch.
10. has decadent values unfit for motherhood
11. a mudshark
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Agree with all examples.
When did any man look at a woman with tattoos and say, “Lucky she has tattoos, she would be less attractive without them”? Women get tattoos only to feel the security that comes with being part of the herd. If you are part of the leftist “counter-culture” by whatever name it goes by for the moment you are with the in-crowd, and that’s all that matters to them.
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Men say they hate tattoos, but…
Why do so many women have them, then? When there’s a category of porn called “girls without tattoos” I will believe that men really hate tattoos, and maybe girls will stop getting them.
I have no dog in the race here BTW, I don’t have any.
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“Amy
“Men say they hate tattoos, but…
“Why do so many women have them, then?”
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1. Poor impulse control / inability to think ahead, plus;
2. Hamstering about “expressing my individuality” through conformity (firstly by doing exactly the same as their friends, secondly by picking a common design out of a tattooist’s book — just another kind of uniform).
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Amy, there’s BBW porn too. Men generally categorize sexually, so they more often fetishize specific things.
There are a set of questions one should ask though, when deciding whether or not a sexual preference or sexualization of some object, behavior, trait, or type is a good thing. One of the most important of those is whether or not anyone is harmed by it.
Tattoos, just like elective plastic surgery, can be an enhancement or a style of self injury. When it is at a level of self injury/defacement of the body or addiction, this is not a positive thing to sexualize. It is relative though. A circus performer or someone from a culture wherein tattooing carries some truly deep meaning can have 70% or more of their body covered without it necessarily being self injury or defacement. A 20-something getting one stupid tramp stamp that has no meaning except, “I want to be liked,” is already over the line.
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hot tinder girls updated daily!
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nice to see h&m embracing swpl bitch wear
eg: slutty ex currently plowing rocks a snoop dawg sweatshirt. ugly as a bitch. asked her wear she got it “h&m.”
told her shes quite the charmer
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Just another set of examples why I don’t care about women’s opinions on what they claim they like and don’t like.
You know what clothing women really like? Anything worn by a man behaving like an Alpha.
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“You know what clothing women really like? Anything worn by a man behaving like an Alpha.”
Fuckin’ A right, skippy. When you catch her putting on your discarded to the laundry button up shirt, she’s basically declaring that she’s hooked on you in the worst way.
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Burninator knows what’s goin on
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The ‘wearing your dirty button up shirt’ is Hollywood cliche, hence my aversion to it’s use at Le Chateau. It’s when a chic openly sniffs your pits that you know she’s past the point of no return. But I get what you’re saying.
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mine says mine smell like hoagies and make her hungry lolzolzolzolzolzolzzz
he he he
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Cliches are built on stereotypes, stereotypes are usually built on a rather solid foundation of truth. If you’ve not caught your girl(s) wearing your clothes, well, what can I say. I’m older than you I suspect and back before the late 1990’s you’d not find a chick, anywhere, “sniffing your pits”, as there was still some level of femininity that hadn’t been eviscerated out of the female psyche at the time. Instead, they’d wear your clothes.
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its not feminine when they sniff you say what
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Again, I was stating my aversion to sterotypes that come from the script-by-commitee movie mills. The same ‘writers’ that produce scenes where the romatic leads loudly discuss their relationship while standing in the middle of a restaurant or in the confines of a plane, seem to be writing based on other hollywood fiction. Whereas my pit example is real and not depicted in any flick I’ve seen, and is far more intimate and honest. I’d rather discuss reality than hollywood. Cheers.
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To add..girl I was seeing went nuts over diesel/gear oil/garage smells on my skin and clothes and would literally shudder and moan from whiffing race fuel at the track.. She also loved post workout scent…not like sitting in filth 3 day showerless BO. There’s a difference. Obviously the test release in pheromones post workout works best…it’s natural. Fellas that’s your musk, girls love it!
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You know what clothing women really like? Anything worn by a man behaving like an Alpha.
The only fashion accessory that really matters for men is being alpha. Otherwise, alphas who are homeless bums dressed like total slobs would have no luck with women.
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“You know what clothing women really like? Anything worn by a man behaving like an Alpha.”
Maybe. If anyone finds an alpha who can pull off crocs, let me know. Lol
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Any clothing/style that helps you behave like an alpha. Really, you can only learn how to dress until after you go out and hit on a bunch of chicks and get into a lot of different situations with people. Some people will naturally fall into a Clooney-esque ‘nice suit/nice clothes’ alpha style and others will go better with the rocker look and so on and so on.
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“You know what clothing women really like? Anything worn by a man behaving like an Alpha.”
I don’t wear it because it’s cool, it’s cool because I wear it.
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Unless it’s a Rush t-shirt. That’s never cool.
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Rush is good. W.O.W shirt is not.
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@YaReally yes…I’ve defined my own style as well and it stands out because it looks good on me and looks different from other guys in this city or my own social circle.
I recently went to a very good tailor and had all my shirts form fitted. Made total difference on a lean frame wearing tighter fitting clothing makes you look taller, more authoritative and hotter to girls.
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Rush Limbaugh? I have one of those and it’s hella cool. E.I.B.
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Rush as in the prog rock band.
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> “Anything worn by a man behaving like an Alpha.”
This.
Davy Crockett fringed deerskin jacket and coonskin cap – CHECK.
Flannel shirt and torn jeans and steel-tipped workboots with sewer shit all over them – CHECK.
Custom tailored shetland tweed 3-piece, heavily starched button down & striped tie, wingtips – CHECK.
Lose some weight, pump some iron, get in a little cardio, and HOLD FRAME.
Don’t matter WTF you’re wearing just HOLD FRAME.
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Yes, this.
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Must..hold…frame…dammit! Ha! Thanks for putting a name on that; I find it much easier to hold frame when im comfortable with what i’m wearing, however outlandish it may seem. Absolutely cannot hold frame feeling self-conscious.
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> “Absolutely cannot hold frame feeling self-conscious”
Make that the next huge developmental plateau on your journey to pussy nirvana.
Holding frame when you’re in a set of circumstances which makes you look like a complete fool.
And then the final plateau, the biggest hurdle of them all: Turning the tables on the circumstances and improvising and RE-FRAMING on the fly to get the pussy all hot and wet again.
Bonus Tip: Thinking on your feet is so much easier when you Do Not Give A Flying Fuck.
You get tongued tied because you care.
So quit caring.
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That’s when a woman cracks.
I rock around in short running shorts and tanktops all the time. The looks and giggles I’ve gotten are beyond count.
But when I turn to a girl and ask, “Is something funny?”
They melt.
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You know what clothing women really like? Anything worn by a man behaving like an Alpha.
Well, this can be said about anything. “A woman will like that if you’re an alpha”. It is a variant of, “If she has decided to sleep with you it won’t matter if you do X, and if she has decided not to sleep with you it doesn’t matter if you do it either.”
When a woman has already decided, sure, then it doesn’t matter. But all the advice is for cases that could go either way.
This is just like in sales and many other cases. If someone is already determined not to buy, it is almost impossible for you to make him change his mind. If he is already determined to buy, you don’t need all the sales advice. But the border cases are many.
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Your pits, gregi. It’s not something any woman prior to the mid 2000’s would have ever entertained doing in a serious way, fetishes aside.
Believe it or not, there used to be a time, let’s call it “all of human history prior to the last 15 years” when women didn’t overtly act like feral animals. True story.
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I figure it’s a given that any chic that’s with a man she ‘loves’ for any real length of time will wear his hamper-bound shirt. I was using my experience with chics and pits as an example beyond hollywood cliche. The writers I’ve known didn’t have much success with women until they were in their mid 20’s, evidenced by the ‘shirt’ cliche and others. Btw, the pit chics are the most ravenous, in MY experience. And usually under 20.
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CH, You may have spotted this on your own, but I sent this to you in a comment. I was going to say that actually her list (overlooking the mega-bitchy tone) is actually not as bad as some of the ridiculous “dating advice” lists from women (which basically tell men to be beta). She’s actually basically describing how to be a beta, style and clothing-wise (and saying NOT to do it). I actually agree with most of her style advice.
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Reading through the list, I am struck by the thought that she is remarkable in her shallow stupidity. The tone of that article shows just how vapid the mind of its author.
Fashion tip: If I have to backhand you because you are a cunt and I get blood on a shirt, that is a no-no.
The Shadowed Knight
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I remember a very fat girl who had nail extensions made, and who described where she had bought her outfit, and how hard it was to find. And all I could think was, “Who cares? You’re fat.” Meanwhile you could have a girl dressed in ordinary, much cheaper clothes, and as long as the clothes are not hideous she will always be vastly preferred by any guy in the pub.
This reminds me of that story you linked to in a Tweet, oh Heartiste:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2552110/Look-state-Youre-disgusting-Women-loses-10-stone-humiliated-man-threw-drink-night-size.html
Obese woman lost the equivalent weight of the Death Star after fat shaming at the pub. Comments below the Daily Mail story are vicious against the guy who had told her “Look at you, you’re disgusting” … but without that guy she would still be hurting her future, and the aesthetic sense of those around her.
“I would always be nervous when I went on a night out, but the night it happened I had made the effort with my hair and make up, and worn a dress. I felt really confident which is why it came as such a blow.”
Who cares? You’re fat. (But not anymore, thanks to that guy. And to this girl’s great credit, she does say in the story that she would like to thank him, because without his comment she would never have lost weight. Such insight is very unusual today.)
Let us acknowledge what others won’t: our aesthetic sense is extremely important for our well-being, and that is a factor in why people should look and act well in public. Think about it. Every single thing we manufacture is shaped and painted in a way that will be appealing to the aesthetic sense. This is not needed for practical use. And still we do it, and customers pay more money for this extra touch without complaints. Every single thing in your home has extra cost added to it, so that it will be appealing to your eyes. Clearly the aesthetic sense is deeply ingrained, a product of evolution, and if we don’t satisfy it we won’t feel well. We will function worse. In fact, we will see no need to function at all. That there is research confirming the loss in well-being and productivity when our surroundings are ugly and when we are met with bad manners, also a blow to our aesthetic sense, goes without saying.
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Alpha sartorial splendor: A sleeveless white undershirt top and poka dot boxer bottom FTW.
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http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=fashion
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Here’s the original photo spread:
http://fringhalles.blogspot.com/2010/11/cosmo-plus.html
And I believe that the photographress, Stéphanie Bruneau, calls herself “Psychosexy”:
https://www.facebook.com/pages/PsychoSexy/129419407130281
Look at how many times she’s been hired to shoot fingernail painting photographs.
Never misunderestimate the power of Fingernail Painting Game openers.
And the ne plus ultra, Toenail Painting Game openers.
Pure. Pussy.
Mark my words.
Toenail Painting Game openers = pure pussy.
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What about those infernal “Empower Bun” hairdos. Every woman a princess.
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That dress is mad cute though.
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…for a tent. ha haaw!
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LOL!!
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It’s a evolutionary reason: the more narcisistic you are make a higher percentage in comparison to average guys chance to have a dark triad son, and dark triad sons do better in the westerday nowadays.
Looks=narcisistic leverage= dark triad show off
An ungly man that know how to looks can neutralize his uglyness.
But a ugly man that dont know how to do it will overpower his problems.
Ian Somerhalder wearing a fedora it’s stylish, cool and beautiful but the fat fedora guy is strange, repulsive and ugly.
In the end of the day we know that we are selecting the dark triad features.
This is why we hate fats, they show that they dont have even the narcisist/maquiavelic skills to improve their sexual market value.
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Do you know what men love? Young, cheap, nubile, “dates”. Cry those delicious tears you MILFs who frequent this board. The new models just keep coming in with zero miles, and you just keep running your mouths as fast as your odometers.
Better invest in catfood stocks, they’re only gonna go up.
http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/manitoba/sugar-daddy-website-links-struggling-students-with-older-partners-1.2625194
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That entire article is a shit-test. If you listen to the article and panic and change your wardrobe accordingly, you’ve already lost.
My outfits consist only of Z-Cavaricci’s, Members Only Jackets, polyester underwear, and clown shoes. And I banged your moms last night, sons.
Rape!
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*gasp* ALL of our moms? That reminds me of the time I was a teenager watching some pr0n with my friends when all of our moms walked in on us pitching tents.
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Fashion rape!
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Men should ignore women offering style advice.
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Men should ignore women offering advice.
Ftfy
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Men should ignore everything coming out of a woman’s mouf.
Especially her protestations to the contrary.
Rape!
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Men should ignore everything coming out of a woman’s mouf.
what is coming in her mouth matters much more…
hehe…
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thwack’s wank bank just got a whole lot bigger
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😀
I have met a man – and I use the word in its widest sense – who declared that he had a “fat fetich”. He had even gone to meeting with other “lovers of big women.” And after he said that, his gaze went hungrily to the fat woman in the company, sitting a bit farther away at the table. Sick. I hope she didn’t hear him, it would have been embarrassing for all involved.
Needless to say he was pathetic. “Fat lovers” are such only because they want easy prey with no competition. They make themselves think that fat women are attractive, and because they constantly think of those women, eventually their minds adapt. Most people are good at self-deception when it suits their selfish purposes.
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One old episode of the original “CSI” had a BBW convention at its center. Guys at the convention went around banging all the fat chicks but denying it later because they was embarrassed of it.
One of the guys was accidentally crushed to death when a fat girl at the convention rode him. She decided it was too embarrassing to admit it was an accident and instead claimed that she deliberately murdered him.
Reminds of some great insult I heard on the internet once:
“Being the best at X is like getting the most ass at a BBW convention. When you win, you lose.”
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“Fat lovers” are such only because they want easy prey with no competition.
Nah, I suspect fat fetishes are a paraphilia, just like homosexuality.
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My cousin is a good looking guy with options and he’s always been with fat women (and I mean really, really big). They’ve had pretty faces, but otherwise very fat. I don’t think for him it is a matter of ease of lay, but rather some hard-wiring or psychological issue.
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hahahaha, nice and simple, and true
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Summer is coming. Prepare to wear less clothing and let people see what they can’t have.
You don’t need money to get cut and ripped the fuck up.
You just need time.
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arm curls almost every day my brother…be a positive black man…
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Considering your pathetic subhuman bodies are all you got, darkie, you’d better obsess over it!
so that way when Jamal and Bruce bang you in the a$$ later, they at least don’t call you fatty.
AIDS rape!
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shut up fat boy before I throw a sunbeam at you.
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lmao. Oh poor wittle-dicked darkie; too angry about his buggery, too lustful for white dick.
Gay rape!
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g-rape?
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g-rape?
Grape!
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CH the NBA thing is a teachable, or at least small-battle-winnable, moment for the nation.
Some smart, hard working writer like you needs to find good examples of the anti-whitey racism that occurs daily among black people in sports.
Seeing the headline of Magic Johnson commenting on this situation gave me this idea. (I didn’t bother to read the article, as I don’t have time for such garbage.)
For example, Charles Barkley and Shaq. I’m talking big names. Warren Sapp. These former players on TV are continually saying anti-whitey things. They even basically slip and say it directly. I’m pretty sure Barkley (80 IQ; can’t speak English or any other language) flat out uses the word “cracker” to complain about white coaches, etc.
Can you do a HUGE expose pointing out the hypocrisy of what’s being done to the Clippers’ owner in this latest purge “whitey” game (even though he’s not white)?
And regular players. We all know that, just like in comedy, it’s perfectly find to make fun of white males (“white men can’t jump”) but a white wide receiver who says the N word one time is nearly driven out of the league.
Also, again, like with other topics, the left’s stupidity is SO stupid that it’s really unbelievable they think the sheeple, even the dumb sheeple, would buy it. In this instance, the man’s complaint was OBVIOUSLY not even racially focused; it was more like “don’t be a slut on instagram.” He was basically telling her she was embarrassing him by slutting around in instagram with other men, and yeah, a part of it is that she’s Miley Cyrusing on him while doing it.
It’s more like, “Bitch, I pay you $80,000 a month allowance and you humiliate me by showing up to games with 6 stud boyfriends and then put it on instagram.”
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Alright, could do with a tad advice here:
– Met up with a redhead had been speaking to online. Both mid 20s, English.
– Had previously enjoyed a bit of sexual banter (nothing too deep). Where I was teasing her about having a naughty side, and her asking whether I’d like to see that side of her, (tis what lead to meeting up).
– She asked when I was taking her out. I asked why when we could enjoy spending more time relaxing together instead, (I’m super busy with work stuff at the moment, and having to go in the early hours etc.). She agreed.
– Met up, chatted a bit, was about to head back to mine and she goes, “We’ve just met! :O” “Can we go somewhere else first?”.
– I should have been ready for this with a backup plan, have previously banged women straightaway (though I’m no Alpha. Typical Software Engineer who’s normally invisible to women unless I’m trying hard. Experimenting / observing game concepts, but not applying many techniques yet).
– Fortunately rather than stumbling for more than a millisecond, I mentioned fine, I was hungry (I was), let’s get some food. Managed to find somewhere and have meal (nothing too expensive, just a pub meal). Quipped I was expecting her to buy me a drink, but fortunately they were included with the meals.
– Chatted a bit about random stuff. Teased her a lil but nothing too heavy, no kino or any of that. Had an alright time at least. Walked back to the station but was clear she wasn’t going to come with me, she mentioned my train was there so I said “alright, bye”. We smiled and parted.
– Didn’t get really close to me all night, nor was she really sexual in any way, (except mentioning she used to be a cheerleader, and when I asked, yes she still has the outfit..), plus I was tired / grumpy anyways due to being up in the early hours all week. She was nice enough, and not an airhead, but I wasn’t mega hooked due to her complete lack of flirtyness that she showed before meeting, and seemed to me she seemed the same. Was going to write it off as missed opportunities and misplays.
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HOWEVER:
– About half an hour after leaving, I received a text: “So what did you think of me [name]?”
– Interesting.. I didn’t expect a message at all, never mind that fast. I felt like she’d handed control back to me here, so I went about my business and replied just over an hour later with: “hmm”, to delay things and maintain control.
– Received reply ONE minute later: “What do you mean? I’m shy when I first meet people :P” -(She didn’t seem mega shy, chatty enough at least.)
– This is why I’m posting here since I’d rather not fall into a trap of her fishing for compliments, and also if I do have some control, to keep it and possibly direct it from there. I THINK due to the fact I felt she wasn’t that interested, and being tired as shit, I may have portrayed some aloofness / coldness rather than the interest I showed before meeting.
– Thinking of going with: “Need more convincing” here. To keep her chasing (if interested). It’s also exactly what I said when she mentioned her “naughty side” previously, and what triggered us meeting. If she seems pliable, was thinking of going straight with “Cheerleader outfit, bring it” or something similar.
– Do you lot think that’s adequate, or is there a much better way? (Keep in mind I’m hardly Mr Super PUA so can’t be anything too full on). I get the feeling she’s a tad romantically starved (since I teased her about watching chick flicks in her pjs alone with icecream, which she didn’t deny) etc. So wary of falling into the “romance only” trap heh. Any advice on how to progress is appreciated.
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Half an hour later, another reply. “How rude! Hmm” (I’ve not sent anything back yet heh. Still debating the “Need more convincing” line. Strange she ‘seems’ interested as I didn’t think it went fantastically, specially as previously some girls have been all-over me, or at least affectionate if interested after meeting.
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ice queen. Probly heardit b4. Just sayin.
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Simple. Simple answer.
Invite her out to a two stepper. Somewhere in public first then somewhere private. That’s what she is waiting for. Make it soon too. Say very little when you ask.
Then escalate like a mofo.
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Send her “I think you’re looking for something more serious than I am.”
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C’mon guys “Bring da movies!”
seriously though, English Dude, I feel your pain. When you start out with a quasi-beta frame, its tough to break out the 8===D, because it’s incongruous. Play this one as well as you can, make some mistakes and learn from them. In the future though, if you are truly trying to be the asshole alpha, you have to keep in mind that only 20% of women respond to the asshole alpha, but if you want to get laid, that’s the frame to take, and to take from the beginning. Remember the CH maxim: abundance mentality!
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Ummm where did you meet her online, tinder? I wouldn’t go to your place first night either. Yea she should have been affectionate and touchy w you but maybe she is a little shy. If she texted you right after your meetup, she’s got some interest.
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> “About half an hour after leaving, I received a text: “So what did you think of me [name]?””
> “Thinking of going with: “Need more convincing”…”
BETA!
Go hard Alpha.
SHE: “So what did you think of me [name]?”
YOU: “I dunno. Ask me again after we’ve slept together.”
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SHE: “Oh well aren’t you just Mr Big Pickup Artist Jerkface. I hate your guts.”
YOU: “Me? You’re the one who promised the naughty, Little Miss Scaredy Cat.”
SHE: “I’m not scared.”
YOU: “Are too.”
SHE: “Am not.”
YOU: “Prove it.”
etc etc etc
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@Zombie
Plz. Just stop.
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@English Dude
Her: “So what do you think of me?”
Here’s where I always revert to Krauser’s great template:
Me: “you have that look my mom warned me about?”
Always…the girl says:
“Her: Huh? What did you mom say?
Me: You look like trouble…sweet and proper on the outside…sex-crazed maniac in private…if we ever meet up again, I’ll be on guard..
Take it from there.
The thing I’ve learned is that you cannot fall into a woman’s bullshit and drama.
I’ve posted some examples of my text game here.
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Her behavior resembles a few “good girls” I’ve known who want to experiment and have low-investment sex but get second thoughts when they actually find themselves in a position to do it. Ya Really’s suggestion requires her to reaffirm her interest in hooking up while establishing you as the opposite of DTF; this will elevate her comfort level. Let her continue to pretend to be a “good girl”, make her comfortable with her bad girl impulse, escalate without rubbing her nose in her licentious impulse. She’s either a tease, which I doubt, or she just wants to be able to say “It just happened!” If I am reading her right, a couple-three drinks will help her rationalize her walk on the wild side.
I will say it sounds like the date didn’t go so well and she freaked out a bit. I’d review the date and figure out what you did to cause her to pull back, if anything.
If you meet her again and she does another about-face, I’d be pleasant about it and cut the date short with a smile; never complain, never explain. She’ll come around later, or she won’t, but I wouldn’t invest any more time or dough in her if she wants to play teasing game. Given how you describe yourself, she’s probably saying to herself “he’s a good guy, I’m a good girl, this could be a safe experiment.”
Zombie’s approach will just freak her out. I don’t see the point.
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If you’re not the archetypal alpha cad, and yet she is still interested, keep going like you did. Not all girls need extra intensive high energy chitchat and dancing monkeys. If anything, she met you without expecting too much, and you surprised her in a pleasant way.
Give her more of what you gave her during that meeting. No cad, no funny line, keep it calm and cool, lead the convo, and you’ll get a solid date. Make out at least, maybe bang (maybe not, next time then).
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And make sure she qualifies herself HARD, that’s how you will get massive attraction and comfort as a “calm” guy.
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Dude’s just found the holy grail of texting one-liners AKA Texting Chick crack encyclopedia http://www.theattractionforums.com/phone-text-game/49967-big-list-text-messages-8.html
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Cheers guys, some useful opinions here (besides Shane’s heh).
Ya I might try something akin to that at some point, may let me jab a little at her shyness / seriousness.
Anyways I responded yesterday with how I planned, and received a “Do do you think I’m sexy?” back. *rollseyes. What sort of fucking question is that.. Specially when she wasn’t BEING sexy in any way all night. Besides a couple of comments, it was like having an evening out with my sister lol.
Fortunately I knew not to answer it heh, and just replied back later with something else. Not heard that much today so I’ll just wait and see how it goes. Will just move on if need be. It might be she’s shy but I’m not arsed if all she’s looking for is validation of herself.
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Look, do you wanna fuck the poor girl, or not?
She’s got some obvious mental health problems [from what little we know of her, she might have BPD], but dadgummit, man, you’re showing all the sex drive here of a mushroom or some lichens growing on an old tree stump.
If this interaction between the two of you is any indication of the state of relations between the sexes in the UK, then your sorry nation is gonna be extinct in about another 25 years, from the complete absence of live births [minus the muslims and the jamaicans, obviously, but they don’t count towards the human population of the island].
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@English
“Do you think I’m sexy?”
I’d have said something like “I think you’re capable of being sexy but you didn’t really bring it out the other night. I think you’ll do better next time.”
For whatever reason she wants your validation. Don’t give it away for cheap, it’s not hard to leverage it into another date that ends with a bang. I would do the same thing as you originally planned for the Day 3, meet and have a drink (get her back in a good state) then head to your place and escalate. If she gives any kind of resistance, freeze-out Mystery Method style even if it’s on the actual date and/or considering just getting up and walking out mid-date if she isn’t going to put out lol. Don’t get sucked into buying her another free dinner…but also expect to have to have at least a drink together somewhere public near your place before heading to your place. It sounds like you were surprised she didn’t immediately want to come over last time…gotta chill for a bit and loosen her up and re-attract her first.
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I’m actually lawling at the fact that Shane somehow found a way to make one of my fav lines – ‘prove it’ – into pussy-repellent.
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If she didn’t like you, she wouldn’t be texting you. Your job is to ascertain whether she is just seeking attention.
The best way to discover this is on a date when you are escalating, which is what you need to do again. Make sure —as Bob points out well–that you build comfort on the date.
Above all, stop answering her questions by text, and FFS ignore any advice that makes you think there is a magic bullet hidden inside ‘text game’. Just focus on getting the next date.
If you are concerned about her being a timewaster then dial down the potential expenditure on the dates. Take her for a walk in the park or something.
As for the date. She’s a tinder girl, so from your chat, you should have ascertained if she is one of these girls that serial dates, or not. If you think she is, then escalate hard and filter her out, if not then focus on building comfort and take it easy.
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Also for the record, not Tinder. That requires facebook which is a big FO for me. (Never bothered with it, never want to.)
Anyways I’ll give it a last go over the weekend and see. Just had so many “sweet” lasses do such dirty shit (and on first dates too) it kinda nullifies the mind to differences, and investing in any of them.
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for what it is worth,
(disclaimer; I’m no pick up artist but I’ve been around )
I have met a few women trough dating sites who were kind of like that.
in text messages they were alluding to having great sex and even bragging about how good they were in bed, but once we met in person they were shy little mouses and never said a word about sex
At first I was kind of confused but I eventually figured out that you need to pull them slowly out of that little shy mouse state, you must do the alluding to sex and the sex jokes – nothing too shocking, don’t push too hard but keep it coming, make it funny, tease her, keep it light and funny – until she relaxes, then she will play along kind of like she did trough text messages
to be honest that type of girl is more work, it may take more than 3 dates to bed them but some are well worth it.
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> “At first I was kind of confused but I eventually figured out that you need to pull them slowly out of that little shy mouse state, you must do the alluding to sex and the sex jokes – nothing too shocking, don’t push too hard but keep it coming, make it funny, tease her, keep it light and funny – until she relaxes, then she will play along kind of like she did trough text messages”
DING DING DING DING DING!
We have a winner.
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Canadian Friend, in case you missed it, I wrote a reply to you on “Comment of the Week: A woman’s love is free to those..” that might help clear up any misunderstandings
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can we ban zombie shame
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Jesus H Christ, I’m trying to teach you retarded simpleton faggots how to get your tiny little dicks between a girl’s legs and that’s the thanks I get?
Fuck you, Mr Axelrod.
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no
can we ban zombie shame
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No “we” can’t.
Banning is a vaginal fag move. Why don’t you check that mofo with some language that embarrasses him so much he changes his screen name?
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Fuck you for being English and having so many creamy white skinned pink nippled fair ladies from which to choose. Where I live, they are rare.
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Heh problem is, most are fat, tattooed and/or pierced in the most trashy ways possible. And that’s before you get to the mental issues and amount of previous blokes they’ve had for various reasons.
Would advise going elsewhere for that.
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I’d lure her into a bouncy castle with a box of yodels, spray her down with wesson oil and dive in naked …
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I wouldn’t have stopped there. The other major fashion faux pas women make is this:
I’d give this one a dishonorable mention too. She’s cute, but she will always have weird dimpled scars in what’s left of her face:
And finally, old women with extremely obvious fake tits, in bikinis:
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Make her qualify herself. Get her chasin u harder.
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That’s what I was thinking with the “need more convincing” quip heh.
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Shit test. Agree and amplify. “Rude? All over your body. heh”
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> “That’s what I was thinking with the “need more convincing” quip heh.”
Why are you bothering with “THINKING” about this?
PUT YOUR PENIS IN HER PUSSY.
It’s as if the only female you guys have ever interacted with is some damned mail-order blow-up doll robot which was shipped to you from a sex toys website in Japan.
Which you happened to stumble upon after an evening spent whacking off to hentai porn.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tentacle_rape
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I hate when chicks get that John and Kate Plus 8 haircut where it’s short in the back and long on the front and sides. No woman looks attractive with that haircut.
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I suppose it’s more symmetrical than a skrillex.
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Had to google that. lol You know I knew a chick in high school who had that haircut with a little pink mixed in for good measures and she actually looked pretty hot. We’re talking early 90’s here. I’ve yet to see a woman who looks good with the John and Kate cut though. The worst is when you see a single mom and her daughter both sporting matching cuts.
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Yeah, a skrillex is tolerable if it’s a one-off thing… mainly because most of the hair is still kept long.
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24, 100 pounds. Lovely face. Ah the tail end of April.
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[…] By CH […]
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Short hair, trouser suits, dungarees – ewwwwwwwwwww yukkkkkkkkkkkkkkka
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I notice that a lot of fat chicks think they can make up for being fat by putting a ton (heh) of effort into how they dress and getting a fancy hairdo. It’s got to be the most misguided strategy in the world. 1. Most guys can’t tell (don’t care) whether your outfit came from Bebe or Target, and 2. Most guys prefer long, straight, simple hair on a girl.
But on the other side of that coin, there are plenty of guys who hit the gym hard but kill their chances by dressing like a dufus or a nondescript beta.
I believe this is where the term “projection” comes in.
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Indeed. I have seen dirty backpackers who happen to be very hot and thin 19 year old girls dressed like shit. And I would do them.
I have seen fat female lawers with well over a grand of fine uiality clothing on them, and i would threw them to the dogs.
Women: be thin. Afterwards, dress well.
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The look I’m seeing a lot in public nowadays is the pajama bottoms and slippers. And where do I see this look most often ? At the freakin Airport ! These are always college-aged girls and most would be cute if they would do something about those split ends and , ya know , put on some clothes that were not made to sleep in.
Women get away with too much sh^t because thirsty betas.
At baggage claim one of the pajama girls approached and opened me with a lame ” So , do you come here often ? ” I made the mistake letting her think she had a chance. In the few minutes I had to stand there and wait on my luggage the conversation quickly turned to her cat. Really ? You approach a guy who is waaaay out of your league and you don’t have anything more interesting to talk about than your f*cking furry child substitute ? So I grab my luggage and she offers to share a cab.
” No thanks, I’ve heard enough about your cat. “
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Have you noticed the flight attendants?
Saw one the other day – that was so wide she had to crab walk down the aisle sideways – and was so short she couldn’t reach the luggage compartment …
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article in question doesn’t even understand style. keeps referring to button downs/dress shirts as v-necks.
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Must read.
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As a bit of a clothes horse, allow me to say the following: most women don’t know as much as they think they do about men’s clothing.
Some of the things on that list aren’t mistakes at all. Specifically:
“Not refreshing your wardrobe” / “Typecasting Yourself” – If you can nail down your personal style to a uniform, and fill your closet with a limited number of high quality basics that fit you well and flatter your body type, you’ll be well dressed. In fact, most men should aim for this before branching out. Do the exact opposite of what this woman advises.
“No Belts” – Buy pants that fit. You shouldn’t need a belt to keep them up. Use a belt when you want to add one of the few widely accepted accessories for men, but keep in mind the narrower a belt, the more formal, and that applies all the way down to not wearing a belt. This is why only braces (if needed) are worn with white and black tie and some high end suits are deliberately made without belt loops.
“Sneakers and Jeans” – There’s nothing wrong with sneakers and jeans in a casual setting.
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Belts are a must have for some of us, it’s difficult to keep an IWB holster in place solidly without a belt. Plus a well made belt adds to a “look” if you’re shooting for a specific style.
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Yeah,
and you can also use them to hang things.
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Like INXS lead singers? heh
I actually make leather items, normally holsters and belts. Not a big fan of the ornamental only type “pleather” people wear, but a good solid belt is a luxury few have experienced these days.
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You can beat people and other types of animals with them too.
Attach a few master locks to the end if you need lethality.
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And once again, whiny bitch, grow up. You’re pathetic, you weakling.
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The urinator
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i use(d) my belt to choke/spank girl during porking
thanks for reminding
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You forgot short hair
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Yeah, short hair’s a real boner-killer for me – unless you’re Audrey Hepburn..
.. and (let’s face it) — you’re probably not..
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Yeah right. I hate when guys try to do this crap. You can’t have it both ways — either her hotness predominates attraction or it doesn’t. You’d fuck a chick with short hair, no complaints, if she were a 7+. Probably wife her up, too.
Not saying short hair or whatever else doesn’t ding the ‘femininity’ part of the equation, but that part of the equation is fairly small.
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Off-topic:
Gonna try out Tinder. For people using Tinder, are you chatting for a bit and setting up a hang-out/”date” with the subtext that it’s going to turn into a bang, or are you aggressively saying something like “let’s have a party/drink at your place/dorm” or “let’s watch a movie at my place” after a bit of chat
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If they can’t handle a little sexual flirting on Tinder, they’re not DTF. Escalate until it comes time to arrange for the meetup, so they have plausible deniability and their ASD don’t go up.
Also, a solid, funny bio paired with good pics will get you hot ass. My hottest matches always open me by mentioning how much they liked my bio.
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CH, for the love of god weigh in on the Sterling shit.
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Too late, Pat Buchanan already did:
http://www.lewrockwell.com/2014/04/patrick-j-buchanan/the-wacko-states-of-america/
But here’s the thing. Blacks, twelve percent of the population, commit half of all murders in America. The media hide this information. When Blacks newly released from prison gangrape three White women and shoot them and three men, the Wichita Massacre, the media hide it. 90 percent of all interracial rape is Black men raping White women. The media hide it.
Blacks show their race loyalty openly, like Samuel L Jackson saying “I voted for Obama because he’s Black. ‘cuz that’s why other folks vote for other people, because they look like them.” The media hide his comment – you only hear of it briefly in a British newspaper. His career is not ended. He is not condemned.
But a White man – who employs a Black coach, pays millions to Black players, collaborates with the NAACP against Whites, and gives four expensive cars to a hired part-Black “girlfriend” – gets upset when the hired hooker humiliates him by bringing Earvin (“Magic”) Johnson to the games, flaunting her sleeping with Black men, and THEN the media attack. And they don’t attack him for cheating on his White wife of fifty years, which they definitely must have known about already. No, they attack him for his understandable comment in a private conversation. Talk about extreme hypocrisy. Talk about media tactic: allow Black media-created celebrities to attack Whites, allow Black organizations to blackmail and defame Whites, hide Black crimes against Whites and other races, and only denounce a comment about Blacks made by a White man.
This is a propaganda campaign by the media owners. And it has tens of thousands of victims every year, as they allow crimes to proceed without exposure, and therefore without any real action from politicians. All these media owners have blood on their hands.
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Ironically enough, Sterling is a YKW.
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Sterling Tokowitz is an Apple Chew!
He doesn’t identify as white.
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Never wear any pants with pleats.
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My body shape looks damn good in pleats. It isn’t for everyone and some can’t pull it off. #1 rule. F the woman opinion, cuz u know what looks good.
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“Only if the world was full of athletic gods with James Bond’s pickup skills would it become uninteresting.”
Certainly too much of something makes it less appealing, so quality does water down quality.
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Like I said. There is a long, long way to go before teaching men self-improvement would “make it less appealing” by “watering down”. I really don’t understand your target here. Must be something behind this.
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https://www.tmz.com/2014/04/29/donald-sterling-ucla-gift-money-racist/
“UCLA is saying thanks but no thanks to Donald Sterling’s $3 million pledge … saying essentially its dirty money and they don’t want it.
Sterling gifted $3 mil to the school, with an initial check for $425,000. The money was earmarked for kidney research.
A UCLA spokesperson says, “Mr. Sterling’s divisive and hurtful comments demonstrate that he does not share UCLA’s core values as a public university that fosters diversity, inclusion and respect.
…
We just got off the phone with a rep for the L.A.’s Simon Wiesenthal Center’s Museum of Tolerance, who says they got $30K from Sterling over the last 3 years … and they’re keeping it — because the money’s already been spent on programs to help fight racism. But … they won’t accept any money in the future.”
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Old Bruin here. Keep the blacks off campus. They are rarely bright enough and generally speaking just rob or assault people.
Even Tokowitz-Sterling won’t say it.
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Liberalism really is a mental disorder. A religion that attacks the best parts of humanity (holding each other to high standards) while pushing for the worst aspects to become normalized (such as fags and fat acceptance).
The cyclical nature of human folly. Enjoy the decline my friends.
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Socialism (which hijacked the word liberalism in the U.S. after WWII, because the media kept reporting truthfully on how “socialism” was used by the Soviet Union, something that was usually hidden in Europe so as to not be inconvenient for “social democrat” parties), is a tactic for winning elections. It always promises money and privilege to the lowest, dumbest, laziest and worst in society. At first it exploited illiterate peasants coming to work in the factories, who couldn’t understand why the men with glasses and washed clothes got paid more for writing things on paper all day. Like Mein Kampf noted, the labor unions always raised their demands, even to absurd levels, as soon as business owners offered to compromise. This shows that the leftists didn’t want to improve working conditions, they wanted a conflict to exploit.
But most of the workers couldn’t be used to kill the leaders of their own people; only the more brutal workers in Russia could be used that way. So the socialist leaders have switched to other groups over the years: feminists, immigrants, perverts, drug users, anyone who wants more money. But the methods are the same. It is not a disease, it is a tactic. Among the socialist followers it is also a tactic, a tactic to get more money and privilege. Those who truly beleive in it have had their heads filled with propaganda every single day in school, year after year, coupled with propaganda on TV every day, year after year. Most people have a two-digit IQ and can’t withstand this. The ones with a higher IQ are only slightly better suited to think for themselves – you don’t need only intelligence, you also need courage and interest to search for the truth.
Not a disease, but a tactic. A disease can be cured. A tactic means the criminals know exactly what they are doing.
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I’m all for socialism as long as the vibrancy is minimized.
Scandinavia had a good run then the Multicult attacked them.
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Yeah, FAT.. There is no excuse. NONE!
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jeans and t-shirts at club its fucking ridiculous
costs more for jeans tshirt to look like you are going to go work in a mine or cut grass than it does a dress
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probably not a revolutionary thought, but you can tell all those ‘fat is fabulous’ types and lovers of bbw and so forth are full of shit, why is it the fatties try to emulate thinner people? like the girl in the picture’s a cow– why try to make it look like she has a waist at all? if being a fat woman is sexy, emphasize that waistline and try to look even fatter.
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Agreed. I will incorporate this message into my daily interactions. Subliminally if need be. Tactics of our enemy.
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five killed and 40 wounded this weekend by black violence in chic- THE OWNER OF THE CLIPPERS SAID WHAT???”””””””
it was weird this past weekend 20 and up black people outside club screaming at each other chicks runnin at each other and shit and two white dudes fake sparring with another dude still in club
me: the real thing going on out there
them: they go running out lol
get all up in the middle of it
then everyone gets kicked out club
interesting I guess
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bouncers did not go out he he he
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Be grateful for small mercies …. she could be wearing yoga pants.
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Had to look up “yoga pants” in Google Images. Oh yes, those things. Now why do some women wear those in public, the same women who dutifully decry “sexism”? But of course, lemmings will be lemmings. Why else would they be going to ineffectual “yoga” in the first place. Promoted by the media because it comes from India, as a way to fill their heads with loyalty to non-Western cultures.
Funny thing: India would never have been able to invent the machines that make those pants, or the electricity that powers them. And the worshipped “ancient mysterious Indian culture” would never have allowed women to gather in groups wearing those pants and wasting their time on yoga. Of course, the women will never consider that as they “look for their inner chakras” etc.
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Lol. You have obviously not seen a girl with a nice butt in good yoga pants.
Rail against the maxi dress. That’s what the men I know hate.. maxi dresses and wedge heels.
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Crcker be crackalacking. The gauss curve hs two tails.
Why da hating on bindis, cracker?
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“Maybe if I stretch out my hammies someone will want to bang me”. – bill burr
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Another pro-immigration tactic is to invade with food first. Notice the increase in mideast-type foods being advertised and sold now. I wonder how long until we see Curry Bell and Tikka Hut restaurants everywhere. Don’t forget the token mideast charcter in ads and shows. Am I alone here? Has this been discussed at Le Château?
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“Notice the increase in mideast-type foods being advertised and sold now. “
Um, no? Must not have reached here yet. We’ve always had gyros and hummus but we have always had a large Greek community downtown too, and I don’t think those are really what you’re talking about.
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Because looking sexy is something a woman does to “feel good about herself,” according to the feminists, whatever that means.
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Man driven to suicide by ex wife and divorce courts
Chris Mackney committed suicide on December 29, 2013 because his ex wife was using the divorce courts in America to torture him and kidnap his children from him. He wrote a 4 page suicide note before killing himself.
http://www.brainsyntax.com/Portal/Material/1/Lasttestamentofalovingfatherabusedbythefamilycourtsystem.pdf
LATEST UPDATE: The ex-wife is such a psychopath that is she trying to copyright her ex husband’s suicide note, in order to prevent it from being circulated on the internet. She is using her lawyers to threaten legal action against websites that published Chris’s suicide letter. She is trying to silence him, even in death.
The website “A Voice for Men” also got a letter from her lawyers and wrote an article about it yesterday:
http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/family-courts/here-come-the-lawyers-to-avfm-yet-again/
Here’s a few more updates:
http://henrymakow.com/2014/04/Ex-Wife-Removes-Husbands-Suicide-Note-from-Internet.html
http://www.crimesagainstfathers.com/usa/Forums/tabid/362/forumid/261/threadid/9799/scope/posts/Default.aspx
http://www.techdirt.com/articles/20140425/11184127030/ex-wife-allegedly-using-copyright-to-take-down-husbands-suicide-note-where-he-blames-their-custody-battle.shtml
http://womenformen.org/2014/04/29/the-chris-mackney-story/
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It is absolutely shameful that the Fairfax County Court did nothing to intervene or understand the
ongoing conflict. Judge Randy Bellows also used the children as punishment, by withholding access
for failing to fax a receipt. The entire conflict centered around the denial of access to the children, it
was inconceivable to me that he would use children like this. This is exactly what my ex-wife was
doing and now Judge Bellows was doing it for her. To all my family, friends and the people that
supported me through this process, I am so sorry. I know my reactions and behavior throughout this
process did not always make sense. None of this made sense to me either. I had no help and the only
suggestion I got from my attorneys was to remain silent. At first, I did what I was told, remained
silent and listened to my attorneys. Then after I had given my ex-wife full custody to try and
appease her, I learned about Psychopathy and emailed Dr. Samenow about my concerns and asked
him for help. Of course, I was ignored.
As the conflict continued, I was forced to defend myself. When that didn’t work, I thought I could
get the help I needed by speaking out. There is no right or wrong way to defend yourself from
abuse. Naively, I thought that abuse was abuse and it would be recognized and something would be
done. I thought speaking out would end the abuse or at least get them to back off.
It didn’t. When no one did anything they were emboldened.
I took my own life because I had come to the conclusion that there was nothing I could do or say to
end the abuse. Every time I got up off my knees, I would get knocked back down. They were not
going to let me be the father I wanted to be to my children. People may think I am a coward for
giving up on my children, but I didn’t see how I was going to heal from this. I have no money for an
attorney, therapy or medication. I have lost 4 jobs because of this process. I was going to be at their
mercy for the rest of my life and they had shown me none. Being alienated, legally abused,
emotionally abused, isolated and financially ruined are all a recipe for suicide. I wish I were
stronger to keep going, but the emotional pain and fear of going to court and jail became
overwhelming. I became paralyzed with fear.
I couldn’t flee and I could not fight. I was never going to be allowed to heal or recover. I wish I
were better at articulating the psychological and emotional trauma I experienced. I could fill a book
with all the lies and mysterious rulings of the Court. Never have I experienced this kind of pain. I
asked for help, but good men did nothing and evil prevailed. All I wanted was a Guardian Ad Litem
for my children. Any third party would have been easily been able to confirm or refute all of my
allegations, which is why none was ever appointed to protect the children or reduce the conflict.
Abuse is about power and control. Stand up for the abused and speak out. If someone speaks out
about abuse, believe them. Please teach my children empathy and about emotional invalidation and
‘gas – lighting’ or they may end up like me. God have mercy on my soul.
”””””””””””””””””””
im sure if there is a god he will
but if you gonna go out like that take the enemy with you so they can’t do it to others shit bro
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OT,
This is where I send my liberal friends who opposed the death penalty:
http://www.tdcj.state.tx.us/death_row/dr_executed_offenders.html
Start at the top and just read the info on several of the offenders. I don’t know why but Texas produces a particularly foul brand of criminal.
Read some of the ridiculous crimes these idiots committed.
Once convicted and sentenced, It seems to take about 15 years to get this kind of trash taken out.
I admire Texas but that is WAY too long.
Once again Islam shows the way:
http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=ce2_1311328714
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I subscribe to the “Hedge Fund Gigolo” concept, which will take you from work, to dinner, to a club … to a fine early dawn walk through Tribeca to the diner for breakfast. Components: high quality shoes or boots, jeans that fit well, a good shirt and navy or black blazer. It can be dressed up slightly with french cuffs, an ascot, a decent watch. You can lose the jacket if the environment calls for it. You’ll be dressed well enough to be with a girl in a cocktail dress at a gallery, or casual enough to be with a girl in good jeans, Louboutins, and a sweater at a dive bar.
This is essentially the de rigeur uniform of the European aristocracy, though their shirts will be custom, as will be the jacket. In all cases the fabrics and shoes/boots must broadcast their high-quality. Another reason to buy quality is that it will last: your cost per use, on a $500 pair of shoes, is lower than on a $125 pair of shoes, because the good shoes will last 10-20 years if maintained and rebuilt periodically. I have 15 year-old Guccis and Peales that show no signs of obsolescence. (
Hedge fund gigolo concept:
http://bastiatblogger.blogspot.com/2013/10/reader-comments-on-hfg-insights-from.html
The only suggestion in the retarded article by the woman ‘advising’ men on dress that I would affirm is having your suit tailored. I always have a couple of black suits with plain-front slacks that I buy on sale at a discounter like JosBank (again, buy only examples with good wool, no plastic) which can then be tailored for $50 or $100 to fit perfectly. For really high-end evenings I keep a custom suits from Paul Stuart, again in black. But to be honest, for $300 one can buy an Italian wool suit that fits as well, and if you’re paranoid about being found out, just take the vendor labels out of the suit jacket.
I think it’s a big mistake to *not* have a personal style, which is the opposite of what the chick is saying. So I standardize on a few colors and fabrics by season (winter cotton and wool; summer cotton and linen). My colors are black, navy, and white, and usually go black, white, black/blue or the reverse. I standardize on black shoes/boots and so only buy black wool socks. (The summer HFG might skip the socks if wearing jeans.)
Obviously women always check out your shoes, but they also know the difference between good fabric and cheap. And they know if your jeans are flattering or not. Simplicity need not ever appear cheap.
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http://www.ajc.com/news/news/shooters-obscure-life-leaves-few-clues-in-attack/nfkrz/
This 19-year-old male shot six people yesterday at his work site before turning the gun on himself. The motive has yet to be released, but if you read the story you have a good idea what was wrong with this boy: he has unremarkable, average and invisible to those around him. (I surmise he was a sexually frustrated omega male – just look at that grin).
Blaze a path, men. Raise your sons to blaze paths. Don’t be a dull and spiritless male, lest you want an untimely ending with a bullet in your head.
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Yup.
Also, from the archives:
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/04/04/another-undersexed-omega-male-shooting-spree/
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I surmise he was on some sort of SSRI or any other antidepressant/antipsychotic due to how these drugs f your brain.
Just by the picture alone, I wish I knew him personally. Seems like a cool kid.
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What kind of district in Atlanta are we even talking about here? Thinking I already know…
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SSRIs being involved is my guess too. When the next wave of blockbuster psychotropic drugs is ready, expect the horror sob stories to hit the MSM, maybe with a blockbuster trial too (with megabillion payoff cut quietly in later court rulings).
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The parents divorced in 2012 after almost 21 years of marriage. Court records cite an “irretrievably broken” union but gave no details.”””””’
yea I can see how that could change his life
””””””’One of them, Liza Aiken, described Kramer, who loaded packages onto delivery trucks, as a good worker. He was quiet, Aiken said, although he sometimes joked with other employees.
But last Thursday, Aiken got annoyed with Kramer, who repeatedly shined the laser beam from a package scanning device into her eyes. When he wouldn’t stop, she reported his behavior to a manager.
“I don’t know if that had anything to do with anything,” Aiken said. “I don’t know if he was even in the right mental state
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yea that might of had something to do with it
maybe the bitch lied on him
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Is this the part where we make excuses for white criminals?
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12%
50%
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really thwack even you got to know white male criminals get nailed to the fucking wall
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You are a psychopath.
A stone cold psychopath. No one is going to come to his aide.
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what?
How come whenever a black criminal commits a crime its because of his “DNA”, but when a white CRIMINAL commits a crime you makes excuses like:
His parents were divorced
Must be the SSRIs
He was bullied
his dog died
it was raining
no one understood him….
a criminal is a criminal,
Don’t give him no statue, give him guts
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lol Meanwhile, somewhere in the sticks, a thug wearing gold teeth caps, a tracksuit and on welfare is giving anal plumbing to a posh fraternity broad.
Self-denial at it’s best.
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Fraternity?
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The woman in the photo is obese, but what’s really sad is that the *average* woman today aged 19-40 is only slightly slimmer. This is why I trademarked the term “justified one-itus” and it’s about god damned time someone added it to the urban dictionary. When a beta or even greater beta manages to land an HB7 or HB8 and date her for a while, when he loses her it rends his soul, because there are literally not enough HB7s to go around and he knows he’s facing a long dry spell. I don’t know the exact numbers, but just looking around (and I live in a city that supposedly has all the hot people), I’d say only 1 out of 10 women is even bangable. If only 5 out of 10 dudes are decent “bangable”/datable/marriageable from a woman’s perspective, that means for every 5 decent dudes, there is only one eligible woman. That is why pretty and thin women get away with everything we discuss here daily. As YaReally points out, the competition among MEN is fierce and the thin women has little competition, so she wakes up every day to 15 texts from her suitors.
Because society has abandoned the one-man-one-woman situation that used to be forced by law and social mores, we now have game and soft polygamy. Again not exact numbers, but the YaReallys and the top 10% of men get 50% of the sex (with attractive women), the next 30% of men get the other 50% of the sex, and 60% of men live sexless masterbatorium lives.
This is why fat women should be shamed, as CH has written many times. Taking things to the logical conclusion in the other direction — which could never actually happen, but just for illustration — if 100% of women were thin and pretty, then obviously the “buying price” (in either game or beta bux) would go way down and there would be less bitchiness and 80% of men instead of 40% of men could have a sex life of some sort with a thin, pretty woman.
If 90% of women are obese with large stupid disgusting tattoos on their boobs and shaved grrrrl power heads, that’s a problem. That is a GENERATION of women not doing their duty for their generation of men.
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What’s wrong with you! What a hot dress and lovin the red belt. I think she’s pretty. 😜
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you look crazy.
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Neecy, you do look kinda “wild” in that photo; are you alright?
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Alpha fashion story follows.
While getting a donut this a.m., a blonde who was also there and whom I don’t know keeps staring at me and drawing me into a convo. She taps me on the shoulder to make a point as we pass in front of the narrow counter–I was facing away. We talk with the clerk and she leans towards me as we all talk, but she is ten feet away.
I move past her towards the door and she leaves at the same time. When outside, she kind of hangs around, looking at me.
All I can figure is that she had a crush. Wedding ring and all.
What am I wearing? Crummy jeans (seconds with a messed up seam) which are too long, white tennis shoes, a blue plaid heavy cotton shirt over a dark blue tee, and a faded off-white canvas baseball cap. Clearly fashionable alpha gear.
Oh, the clerk gave me a free donut. He kept asking me questions until I could answer one to get the free donut, lol. Not sure what’s going on there.
Sometimes a donut lady gives me freebies, too.
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Yeah guys look real hot when they wear a long sleeve tee and a shirt over it with the sleeves hanging out. And the cap and shoes.myeah you looked hot, she was flirting.
I also love to see a bit of arm tattoo if there is no long sleeve t shirt.
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Thanks, Neecy. Maybe an unexpected crush, maybe she was looking for action right then, maybe exchange phone nos, maybe a realtor looking for clients. I wasn’t interested in that, just checking out what was going on–kind of unusual for mid-morning in a suburban donut shop. I didn’t see the usual IOI’s that are hard to hide. Tapping a stranger you haven’t even met on the shoulder is pretty forward, but quite easily a fake IOI.
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Off topic, but my post on the Washington Examiner got deleted. The article is about money spent vs performance in education. Everyone is dancing around the issue. Article here: http://washingtonexaminer.com/article/2547806
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Unions / no unions. Common Core. No Child Left Behind.
You can try all of these or none. You can try them in any combination.
The problem with education spending is that it does nothing to address the root cause of all failing schools: the quality of student.
We send free books to kids because smart people have books in their house.
We feed kids breakfast and dinner because smart people make sure their kids are well fed.
We try to do everything to emulate the behavior of stable families for these kids – and yet it does nothing. Billions and billions on head start, K-12, new education paradigms.
No improvement.
That is because those behaviors are the result of intelligence and stability – not the cause of it.
We get bent out of shape when we compare our children’s educational prowess against small, homogenous nations – like Finland. But if we compare small homogenous communities in the US, say, Massachusetts suburbs, against places like Finland – we see that our kids match up, if not beat them. So the problem isn’t our system – its the quality of student. And that is strongly tied to the quality of the parent.
People will say it is still a money issue, with these suburban kids being from wealthy families. Are the schools more or less dangerous because of money? Or because of behavior? Poverty doesn’t cause bad behavior, bad behavior causes poverty. Intelligence leads to wealth, wealth doesn’t lead to intelligence. You can give a stupid man a million dollars and he’d be broke in a year or two. Just do an online search for lottery horror stories.
The US needs to stop encouraging people with low amounts of disciple and personal responsibility from having children, and encourage intelligent people to have more kids.
Welfare should be neutered.
And instead of building air conditioned buildings in Afghanistan for people that hate us, we should be paying the intelligent people, the responsible married couples – to have more children.
It is no surprise that when the birth rate of intelligent people dropped and the birth rate of illegals and welfare recipients increased, that the quality of our public schools has sunk. Charter / private schools do better because of self selection bias. Those children are there because they have parents that care, and the private schools can kick out the bad apples.
But the public schools can not do that, and are run by incompetent teachers unions and politicians – so the effect is magnified by government’s inability to effectively run an organization that doesn’t involve fighter jets and tanks.
We fix things by:
Revoking welfare for people who do not work or do community service.
Put troublemaker kids from broken homes in military camp-schools, complete with barracks, run by veterans. Teach them morals, empathy and a good vocation. College should be reserved for the kids that show actual academic chops, not be pushed there to fulfill some crazy left wing idea of diversity.
Start paying stable, married couples to have children, with tax payer funded wage for one spouse to stay home with the children as long as they remain in good standing with the law. Much better than mass immigration for population replacement.
Have education money follow the student, and the parents can use that money to select any school, charter or private institution – as well as home school.
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You are assuming our problems are simply due to wrong headed thinking. They are designed to destroy us and will never be rescinded until we are indeed destroyed.
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Mainly black students.
Average them out and the US is comparable to Finland.
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Cosmooooo
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so many things for new topics for you CH
Amanda Knox. Laughable Italian “justice” system.
It has not crossed the pretty little mind of even one of our 30,000 “I love to travel!” American girls to think anything badly about greasy Italy.
Didn’t happen to “me me me!”” I don’t know anything about it, their pretty little heads thing.
The truth is, international travel is dangerous and pretty women should not go backpacking around or living in Italy etc for months at a time eat prey loving as they do.
We have plenty to see and do right here in the USA.
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Have we seen anything on Belle Knox yet, or Elizabeth Hawkenson (queue GBFM) , or items such as this on the increase of co-ed stripping?
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O/T: huge f-ing hamster in this author broad:
http://nypost.com/2014/04/29/an-open-letter-to-the-future-mrs-clooney-congrats-on-proving-princeton-mom-wrong/
I guess the term OUTLIER isn’t in her vocabulary.
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“check your privilege”
“thanks for the advice. don’t get fat”
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Monica! At which buffet have you been for the last decade?
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What’s with the 16 hour lag time on getting through moderation? I don’t see the point of posting. Recurring issue.
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When I was 26 in 12 months I put on 10kg (20lbs) 15% of my weight Drinking 10+ beers every night and having takeaway food till bursting for lunch and dinner.*
This “woman” is 35 – 45 kgs overweight. or 45 – 55% of total body weight over ideal. She would have to be FORCING herself to consume a STAGGERING amount of calories for at least 5 years in a row to get this big.
* I dropped the beers, fixed the diet and with moderate exercise was back at 85kgs in 12 weeks.
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