Commenter “The Burninator” muses about what an Amish Facebook page would look like.
I can’t imagine an Amish girl’s FB page.
Her:
“Today I churned butter with mama.”
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Amish father:
“Get back to work, girl!”
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You have to hand it to the Amish. They have the preternatural ability to avoid corruption by the pozzed American dysculture while living in the belly of the beast. Part of the reason is the “boiling off” selection effect that results from their rite of passage known as Rumspringa, which assures that the Amish left in the community evolve the personality traits to successfully deter outside influence.
Another reason has to be hard work. Toiling in the fields or the farmhouse tires a body and mind so thoroughly that social media distractions become less tempting. The Amish are preoccupied with survival and community. The non-Amish are preoccupied with white privilege and gay weddings.
“he non-Amish are preoccupied with white privilege and gay weddings.”
I tell you whut, those fuckers better get married and make it last based on all the shit they’re handing out about it.
None of this gay male open marriage stuff or lesbian insta-divorce either. I’m talking old school biblical stuff. That includes forced adoption. I mean, why bother marrying unless you plan on having kids, unless you just wanted a precious princess party day.
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i have news for you. if even half of what i’ve heard gay men confess in my company is true, orgiastically open gay marriages will be the norm, not the exception.
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I can’t wait to pay for their HIV medication!
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” … I can’t wait to pay for their HIV medication!… ”
I can’t wait for HIV to become resistant to all medications.
We are in dire need of a thinning of the gay herd
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I feel lucky in that I work with and associate with absolutely zero queers.
When I have met them, I’ve never gotten along with them.
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Homophobia: derived from Phobos; Greek for fear. The only homosexuals I am afraid of are the predatory type, as portrayed in Deliverance or Shawshank Redemption.
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homophobia is of course a made-up slur intended to demonize the left’s enemies. the more accurate term would be homoaverse.
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> “The only homosexuals I am afraid of are the predatory type, as portrayed in Deliverance or Shawshank Redemption.”
From what I’m hearing – now that word has come down from the White House and the Pentagon, that it’s open season on the heteros – the sodomites are going nuts in anally raping their fellow soldiers.
They say there’s an epidemic of it.
Probably also pretty bad for the smaller lady soldiers at the hands of the larger bulldykes.
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Related,
and notice how they put the emphasis on pedophile but avoid the word homosexual
that guy was a monster yet no one seemed to care enough to stop him, and I would think it is because homosexuals have become a sort of super protected species,
http://news.yahoo.com/pedophile-teacher-abused-dozens-clues-missed-040024754.html
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Make a troll account at Grindr if you want a glimpse at the Poz in all of its depraved glory. These faggots actually admit to being HIV positive before gleefully assembling at playgrounds to suck the shit from each other’s asses.
They’re just like you and me!
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nah, bro. Same love.
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used to be classified as a mental illness. now it’s a protected class. the wonders of progress.
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Such homophobia, learn from Japanese culture
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You want us to learn from a culture that gave us octopus porn and has vast swaths of men who have given up entirely on ever finding a mate?
Um, no thanks.
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Homophobia?
A phobia is usually an unreasonable fear of something harmless
Over 80% of people with HIV/AIDS are gay men.
You die, I repeat – YOU DIE- from HIV/AIDS after suffering for years, it is not unreasonable to fear that.
Most gay men occasionally fuck a woman and this is how straight men contract it; gays are a threat to heterosexual men. That is not an unreasonable fear it is based on facts.
on top of that the gays have become very powerful and they are destroying the careers and reputations of those who do not “tolerate” them, they are a threat to regular people.
They are a threat to us in more than one way ( a threat to free speech to name one ), and this makes us worry, that is not unreasonable thus it is not a phobia.
gays are a threat to heterosexual men and to Western civilization. It is normal and perfectly sane to be worried about that , just as it is sane and normal to worry that making sparks in a gun powder manufacture could get you killed.
sane and normal reactions to clear and present dangers are not phobias.
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guys leemin is a troll
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Do you honestly think any of your comments will change my mind? my answer is a big nooo, so I won this
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Last thing we need is faggots and dykes raising their degenerate little non-gender children.
My lesbo cousin has a son. That kid is so screwed
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If your lesbo cousin were to have an “accident” [like Clay Aiken’s opponent down in North Carolina], then is there any chance that you could get custody of the boy after her funeral?
Serious question…
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Nope, it would go to her sister who married a black dude (who is still around). The Vietnam war really screwed up my uncle. Absent fathers are really bad for daughters.
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Wow, that poor boy really is fucked.
Do you suppose that there could be multiple “accidents” on that side of the family?
I guess the logistics would be pretty difficult to pull off…
Man, I’ll try to say a little prayer for that kid.
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Strangers on a Blog
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EVERYTHING IS GOING TO HELL. BUT NOTCHOO BECAUSE YER A SOLID GUY. SOLID GUY. IF ONLY THE LIBRUL FRANKFURTERS WOULD SHOVE THEMSELVES UP THE GAY ASSES. ONLY IF EVERYONE WAS LIKE ME. THINGS WOULD BE SOLID.
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And yet we’ll see.
You don’t know how he is gonna turn out. Time changes things.
Right now, for instance, i could drink the rest of these bottles or go split wood. (That is the wrong example, or the right example!)
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Jokes aside, if the genes, and the conditions change … then bam pow. But yeah as long as they are mollycoddled, forget about it.
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Fags didn’t want marriage for “the precious princess party day” (although – toddler-like attention whores that they are they won’t turn it down) – they wanted to be able to get married so they could force everyone to think they’re normal and not the sick freaks that they know themselves to be.
They hear that voice in the back of their minds constantly “the life you’re living is disgusting… you’re worthless and everyone who really knows you despises you” and, being totally unreflective, think “hey – I feel bad therefore it’s everyone else’s fault!” – hence “if I force them to pretend that I’m normal that voice in my head will shut up”.
It won’t.
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this psychological process is similar to the one used by every societal reject to self-medicate.
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Oh yeah that’s why people despise Ellen DeGeneres or Tom Daley thinks his boyfriend is disgusting, this lack of wisdom seriously speaks bad for you
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“Daley also clarified that he now identifies as gay instead of bisexual, as he’d initially stated.”
shocking.
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JUst like bug chaser, I’m sure butter churner will now have another meaning:
http://www.vice.com/read/director-paul-morris-believes-hiv-should-be-part-of-gay-porn
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If ‘red pill’ is the term for being au fait with uncomfortable bitter truths, what’s the term for seeing this debauchery that lurks behind the “gays make better parents than straights” façade? These poor debauched souls
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@haunted, it’s called the brown pill.
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Gay needs re-norming.
These terms need clarity: gay, homo, and fag (otherwise known as gay, homosex, and faggot).
Gay is good. The original meaning. Clothes, hair, good looks, that is gay. The quote from some first-half-20th-century British soldier Bunny: Now that i killed enough Nazis, Daddy has to get me that sable coat.
Homo is … well … sorry for this explicitness but – is man love. Repulsive to me but so is a woman’s ass (and here ass means anal cavity). No one here has ever masturbated outside their home, been to a strip joint, or cum in their pants.
Fag is bad. Fag is a guy going homo.
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Say what you will, but: a woman’s anal cavity versus a man’s, what is the difference?
And on the meta. This is an internet character. And “no homo”.
And to get all serious; who thinks those are not fair statements?
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The larger problem is a closeted view of male sexuality. There is a dick that needs attention, for about 65 years. And these days? who has the personality for porn and pick-up. The good girls in Amishland want their father and most guys don’t measure up. (And that theme by Homer and the Lord of the Rings, how did Theoden say, I am the lesser son greater Sires.
Ugly people do copulate but maybe there should be a law.
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I’d guess the careful planning, hard work and sense of urgency required to survive in a physically harsh environment does a pretty good job of keeping you from getting distracted.
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The amount of curbing from MPC is getting out of hand. Stawp stealing, moran.
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I wouldn’t make fun of the Amish.
They foresaw the nihilism of modernity before modernity had even arrived.
The rest of us failed to foresee it.
Traditionally, this would require men of honor to issue a something akin to a Mea Culpa.
Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth.
http://www.bartleby.com/108/40/5.html#S12
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I have nothing but respect for the old order Amish. They have their own set of problems, but they’re miniscule compared to what our culture is vomiting out these days.
I made something close to QOTD! Woot! heh
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They definitely identified [or at least “sensed”] what the problems were going to be – a century or more before anyone else did – and they moved aggressively to erect defenses to [at least attempt to] protect their people from all of this nihilism.
God bless their souls.
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I’m on a self-sufficiency kick. I suggest all do the same. Just try planting enough food to last you to the next season and you’ll quickly realize you don’t have time for any of that other shit. Then imagine doing that without electricity the whole time like the Amish. My hats off to them. This past winter my power went out for a week and I had to rely on my fireplace to cook food. That fireplace needs wood, so throughout the year that means splitting wood to add to the other choirs. This past few years I’ve stopped watching almost all television except for the occasional show here and there, and I don’t miss what I previously thought I couldn’t do without.
This past week I had a to-do list of shit I had to do outside (yeah, grass included). I finished 16 items on the list and still had 6 to do. You’re never done when you try to provide for your own, and it’s the best tired you’ll ever know. Water tastes so incredible when you’ve earned it with a few hours in the garden. That home grown food tastes so good knowing it’s organic and you planted it.
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Woot!
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OK they let their sons and daughters test life in the outside world among the “English” … do they have any kind of reverse program to allow outsiders to test the hard Amish world to become potential new members of their community?
I’m almost ready.
I even speak German…
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Amish should open their borders to outsiders to improve gene flow, but I guess they prefer their defective eyesight and slow cognition…
http://www.ibtimes.co.uk/amish-gene-mutation-mental-retardation-developmental-delay-445578
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What population group on Earth has this going for them: high TFR via K-selection, property and wealth, geographic diversity with genetic and cultural integrity, alpha men that nobody hates, and pretty women that no other group poaches?
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> “no other group poaches”
Somebody on here used to tell a story of being in a room with a young Amish girl, and the sexual attraction between him and her was so fierce that her older sister realized what was about to happen and quickly whisked her out of the room to safety.
I once had a similar sort of experience with a young Hasidic girl on an airplane.
Bitch wanted it so badly that she practically fornicated me with her eyes.
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As close as I live to Lancaster, PA, I need to spend more time around the Amish. They might be willing to enlist me to help with their in-breeding problem.
A month or two ago I had a very strange driving experience driving south of out of Lancaster late on a Sunday night. There were tons of Amish out on the road at 11:30pm. I must have passed 3-4 dozen buggies on one road. I have no idea why they were out so late. Maybe some late-night Lent service.
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I was in far western New York a few years ago – for Labor Day weekend – and I ran into an Amish buggy heading out of town at about 9PM at night.
It’s really freaky when you’re not expecting it.
BTW, I travelled across the entire length of New York over about two days, and I saw precisely one family – JUST ONE – with children.
It was a mother and maybe two children getting out of a car in a parking lot at a “Dollar” store.
And I had been through motels and grocery stores and Labor Day fireworks celebrations and interstate highway rest stops – all sorts of places where I should have seen children.
The Left has simply given up on making babies.
When the Boomers finally die off, the Amish [or else George Soros, were he to live so long] will be able to purchase huge portions of this country for only pennies on the dollar.
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I once had a similar sort of experience with a young Hasidic girl on an airplane.
Ugly chicks are easier, news at 11.
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As I said here a couple months ago, there was a documentary on PBS about the Amish and when they showed footage of some event where there were many hundreds of Amish teenagers standing around in a field, there was no fat girl in sight
not one was fat, they were all slender.
an unusual thing these days.
Although I could never live like an Amish my respect for them went up a couple notches.
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It must be hard for Hasidic girls because Jewesses are natural born whores. I went out with a Jewess last week. Within one hour she admitted the following:
-she doesn’t believe in God
-she doesn’t want kids
-she believes in the gender wage gap
-she thinks Americans should pay more in taxes
-she’s on Xanax
-she does coke
-she watches porn and masturbates every night
Jews are like living, breathing stereotypes. Evil flows in their bloodlines. They are natural enemies of all that is good, beautiful, and true.
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> “Jews are like living, breathing stereotypes.”
Isn’t it shocking, once you take off the rose-colored glasses, and you start looking at the world as it actually exists?
And then suddenly EVERYTHING starts to make sense?
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strip club owners
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lol I’ve been spendin’ most my life livin’ in an Amish paradise.
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Please elaborate?
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Stick with me, Friend, and I’ll keep you informed on all the important references to American culture 🙂 This is the spoof of Gangsta’s Paradise by Coolio featured in the movie Dangerous Minds.
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Aww Kate, that is quite a song. Part of me finds it funny! 🙂 But part of me really admires how the American Amish live. It is similar to how many European villagers live. But to uphold such standards in America, really is so admirable.
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Yes, there is much to admire, but funny is funny. I’m not far from the Amish, but I consider myself a Puritan. I was particularly impressed as a youth by Benjamin Franklin’s quest to arrive at Moral Perfection. http://www.ushistory.org/franklin/autobiography/page38.htm
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Thank you Kate. I will read more about Benjamin Franklin, I have never read about him before. I just read his 13 virtues, and I like very much what I read so far. 🙂
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You’re welcome! I thought you might like it 🙂
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“I want to churn thy butter”– Amish pickup line
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Give it up. Is there a bun in your oven yet?
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LOL The Amish dancing to Lady Gaga: “I was baaaarn this way!”
I kid, but I like the Amish. They build my tool shed.
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That’s not funny, you god-damned barn-ridden lice-cow.
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Te Amish: World’s Squarest Teenagers <- idiotic title but good show
follows a group of 2 girls and 3 guys (family) during a trip to UK on their Rumspringa (pronounced the Deutsch way).
First family is bunch of black kids….they beat the black kids ass…whooped in some ball contest. Then say "these city kids are more worried about bugs cause they have life easy, we are used to being outside".
Fucking fascinating show. Much respect to Teh Amish mon! ting ting!
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Amish Girl asked about sexual temptation says :
“everyone is tempted with impure thoughts, but we have a sayin….its not your fault if a bird sits on your head, but you control if it makes a nest on your head”
Damn. Playas gonna have a hard time in this happy community.
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i’m a-gonna go all witness on dat amish ass.
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From the same blonde girl
“when i see girls wearing bikinis in front of boys i feel they dont realize what strong temptation they are creating for the boys”
basically saying: bitch if you act like a whore realize that Men gonna be Men and get horny
Also, music does something physically to their body, they think the rythm is devil music. So Music does turn chicks on ; )
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watchin it! dam… one of the british sluts said something sensible !
“i think without a belief system you think more about yourself”
yeah and when youre a dumbass thats a recipe for disaster or Anglo Culture.
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“Also, music does something physically to their body, they think the rythm is devil music. So Music does turn chicks on ; )”
A girl told me just that yesterday: when she listens to good music (if it “flows”, whatever that means), she feels exactly the same as when she sees a guy in a good suit. Tingles.
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Also, music does something physically to their body, they think the rythm is devil music.
The ancient Greeks believed the same… even to the extent, if memory serves, where rhythm in their theatrical music was outlawed.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Py9E-N98sFM sound quality isn’t fantastic
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Best line yet
Amish Girl
” i sometimes save a couple of hundred dollars just for the fun of being able to hand it over to my father” <- Strong femininity in this one
another example:
pretty brit rich girl " i am anti feminism"
ugly fat rich pig <- biggest feminist
3 eg:
horse hoofbeat makes Amish guy excited about gettin into action…
like well tuned powerful cars do to us
4rg
Amish Girl: I think the student and teachers' main goal is getting through the exam not learning <- exactly what i noticed in most Anglo countries. And thats why simple feats of maths seem like magic to the dumbed down masses here.
Amish Boy: after 1 day of public school, Im glad in Amish. xD
5 eg:
Amish Girl: If you touch or kiss your boyfriend it can take your mind away from if he has righ values and the means to provide.
Red Pill Realtalk: If i fuck a guy, he makes me forget he might be worthless.
6 eg
Amish Guy: "i dont like girls that flirt around and seek attention" <- saying what all of us want to say
one thing its teaching me chicks under a tight proper control (even 5s and 6s) CONTRIBUTE to society instead of imploding into the self-involved attention whores or destructive malcontents they are.
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Your epilogue: at last, some brightness amidst the red-pill cynicism. Of course it’s very situational/rare. A nice line might be: “how do you contribute to society?”
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CH how can the left be SO stupid about everything? How is it possible??
Like the taking it for granted that’s it’s bad to be “racist” when the world knows that the average black IQ is 85 and just simply observing what’s around us shows us that 90% of them are animals who simply cannot function in modern human society.
Even when a black is given a job…they literally can’t make change.
liek that article from yesterday from the public defender….brain is not advanced enough to even handle basic language and reading in one languge.
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they smart enough to drug deal and give them drugs to young white bitches they pretty smart really
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plus stack up a hundred k stack of bills in there house have you done that?
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has anyone here actually saved up some loot and got rich other than me
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and they work 24 hours a fuckin day there is some shit you can learn from the blacks
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if ya think about it the work ethic of these drug dealers is fuckin amazing
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look how long I been livin where I live so far no nig has robbed me a white bitch has
go to club with 10k nnigs none of em fuck with me when there was a problem dude apologized
I went downtown with my bitch to all nig club they didn’t fuck with us
guess my only real prob with it is the kids comin out looking like fudge
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and they getting away with punkin the shit out the white mans rules lol
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thanks for helping to prove my point.
No, I don’t sell drugs. It’s against the law, and I don’t believe in hurting others either.
Do you even know that it’s “they ARE smart enough….”?
Yes of course white WOMEN will rob you; that’s what we discuss here daily.
I’m talking about civilized white men who built the world and continue to feed the vast majority of it (“minorities”) who cannot feed themselves.
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yea I don’t sell drugs either I stack my paper legally
im too smart to do it the stupid way
but
they do put in the work to stack the bills illegally so they smart enough to do that and stupid enough not to worry bout the consequences maybe it makes em smart to be able to do that
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if I was willin to look at doing time as part of my business strategy then yea I could stack some serious money pretty quick
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just saying for the dudes on here that don’t have loot at least be as smart as a nig and work your ass off and save some money up so you are not a simp
but yea it can be done legally
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“plus stack up a hundred k stack of bills in there house have you done that?”
I’ve done that with about 2 years worth of wages in my country and it just makes you feel like an idiotic try hard after your ‘omg, so much money’ grin goes away.
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yea its anticlimactic but only because its so fucking easy to get past the stage of life where you have to struggle
its sad that so few do it
people like to struggle I guess huh
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and yea congrats ninja
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Well Grim, we believe that human characteristics are often distributed on what’s called a BELL CURVE. So for every extra-smart guy like you, tapped by multinationals, the CIA, and clever tractor mechanics alike; there has to be a dumb librul somewhere, thinking about disgusting things like gay porn, undermining the family, and living off YOUR TAXES.
You should feel GOOD you’re on the RIGHT side of the curve bro!!!
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it aint’ that hard ok so maybe it ain’t that hard if ya let your woman do all the work and you laze back and chill
subsistence living without dreaming about all the extras is pretty cheap
how much you have to spend on a dog not much yet it lives and has a life
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Yes, I always wondered if a dog knows when it gets a bad haircut. Probably not right? And they run around naked! Who needs clothes. I want to be a dog.
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This is a FB-management question. So, up until now, my whole thing has been to just shutup and do whatever. Light, breezy…keep things sexual, don’t talk about her day, etc. This one in particular, I’ve followed the ‘don’t see more than once a week’ rule.
This situ represents what I’m starting to run into:
8 gets an invite or free ticket to something (pretty insane how they can live awesome lives for free), I can’t really afford it so I just say ‘nah, can’t go.’ Then, when I get more distant (because I’m busy trying to plan for someone else on that night), they poke and prod about why I’m distant.
My go-to has just been ‘ya just a little bummed at the situation.’ I notice I do shit like this (and I also guilt chicks about shit that I know would be a big deal to other guys, but isn’t really a big deal to me, but it allows me an excuse to be aloof and distant…so it’s push/pull without any neediness — I don’t really care that much and it gives her a small drama fix)…any thoughts on that? Probably healthier ways to push/pull.
Annnnyways, the problem is that I say I’m a little bummed about it. Then, suddenly she’s like ‘well I can not go if you want.’ And I’m quick to be like, ‘nah, I don’t want to control you or anything. Unfair for me to put my expectations on you.’ Then she gets annoyed and is like ‘well I don’t even know what your expectations are. You never say anything about anything. What do you want me to do?’
I dunno wtf this is. Isn’t trying to make rules for a chick beta? Is this a shit test?
I’d love to just tell her what to do, but I don’t really know what the right play is.
Because I recently let go of the other 8 and the 7….this girl’s the only reg I have, so I don’t really want to act out of scarcity, and right now I’m too busy with other shit in my life to go out and actively ‘recruit.’
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making rules for a chick beta lol wtf man
maybe it is but then again the actual street alphas I know I would not want to have there lives man
I deal with 0 bullshit when i’m with a bitch only after she is gone does all the shit come out lol and she hates me cause she ain’t with me
but these mutherfuckers deal with bullshit like that every fucking day
if alpha is truly not caring then yea these dudes win cause there bitch out with other dudes comin back to them every day but yet wtf kind of life is that
and yea fuck bitches get money
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they still have rules though like bring back money bitch what ya think they fight about lol
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She’s begging you to TELL her what to do. Take control. Alphas MAKE the fucking rules.
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You don’t think that sends an ‘I wanna be your bf’ message?
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Annnnyways, the problem is that I say I’m a little bummed about it. Then, suddenly she’s like ‘well I can not go if you want.’ And I’m quick to be like, ‘nah, I don’t want to control you or anything. Unfair for me to put my expectations on you.’ Then she gets annoyed and is like ‘well I don’t even know what your expectations are. You never say anything about anything. What do you want me to do?’
I see two ways of handling this:
Put your foot down and be a little more “controlling”. I mean, most girls want a leader and some times this means telling them they can’t do this and that.
Or, if you don’t give a fuck, just laugh her off. Remember women are basically children. Treat them accordingly, don’t take them seriously. I would just pull out some agree and amplify or cocky and funny type shit when she starts with the questions.
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Idk it seems like you should do this:
You should tell her to go and to start the dance parties. Then radio silence.
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Which is why ‘sorry, I’m casting the next Victoria’s Secret angels that night’ would have been a better answer. This is better than laughing her off because she can flirt her way into your plans if she wants, but it lets you manipulate her attire for the night(since it’s a casting and shit).
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@scray
what do you WANT? do you want hb8 to go…so you can get with someone else on that night? TELL her to go have fun b/c you’re busy…do you not want her to go…TELL her to not go…you’re more important to her than some stupid event, right? let her show you…don’t steal that opportunity from her…(i would ‘lol’ here if weren’t actually true…lol…)
“I dunno wtf this is. Isn’t trying to make rules for a chick beta? Is this a shit test?
I’d love to just tell her what to do, but I don’t really know what the right play is.”
lol…dude, CH had a whole post on this stuff just 2 days ago…it’s called appeasement…and girls HATE it…(and not just in LTRs either…)
“And I’m quick to be like, ‘nah, I don’t want to control you or anything. Unfair for me to put my expectations on you.’ Then she gets annoyed and is like ‘well I don’t even know what your expectations are. You never say anything about anything. What do you want me to do?’”
girls want to be lead/told what you want them to do…so they can work to please you…
regarding the ‘bf’ vibe (which you seem to be trying to avoid)…have you been following reco’s ‘adventures’…and YaReally’s advice to him on that? it’s solid advice on staying out of the bf zone…basic points are don’t let her cry on your shoulder (especially about other guys…) and don’t try to (or even look like you might entertain the idea of trying to) fix her problems…then throw in some playful sexual tension and you’re pretty much good to go…
also, throwing out ‘some’ bf vibes isn’t fatal to your FB status…if anything it just gives you an opportunity to set/maintain/hold firm on your FB boundary = alpha cred = tingles…
also, i just thought of this…i’m pretty sure you know this, but just b/c she only sees you (or wants to only see you), doesn’t mean YOU have to only see her, right?…
reading between the lines, i’d say you were starting down the path to Oneitisville…
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Update:
She bought me a ticket and brought some food I liked, which I thought was pretty sweet. So we went to the event and I hung out with her and two of her friends….had a great time.
‘wtf is this. Quit being a wishy-washy vagina. This is what girls do.’
I don’t disagree, but it just seems like silent, low-key drama is working out better than the loud drama I was engaging in months ago. Liiiike, I’d much rather just look like a bit of a pussy for a few minutes than totally wreck a girl’s emotions over stupid shit.
‘What DO you want from her? Do you even know?’
Seems clear that I don’t. I mean, it’s like I just want her to do what I want her to do without having to tell her anything. I think ‘if she was really into me, wouldn’t -she- refuse to go without me?’ And then it just sends me down this mental spiral of ‘what am I doing wrong? What’s wrong with my game?’ Which puts me in a bad mood. Because the bad mood is visible, I just tend to say the type of shit above about it….way better than saying ‘I have no idea why my game is so weaksauce, babe.’
Plus, now I feel like I have something to live up to every time I’m going out with friends or a girl or whatever. Like get this slight reputation as being good with chicks, and it just seems like…people want you to prove it. Or like, you do some awesome game shit and you get a girl, and she has this image of you as an alpha and so you start thinking constantly of ways not to fuck with that image.
So I don’t really know what I want with her because I do like her, but at the same time, I dunno if I’m ready to be in a relationship with her because of where my internals are (or aren’t). So I don’t want to dump all that shit on another person.
‘As far as she can tell, you ARE. You don’t sound like you have anything exciting going on. ‘
I have other stuff I can do. I have a lot of hobbies these days. The only reason I’d feel a need to find someone else is because of the pressure I was describing above.
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‘reading between the lines, i’d say you were starting down the path to Oneitisville…’
Ya. I do like this girl. I just don’t think I’m good enough at this and overcoming my own inner bullshit to ‘leave them better than I found them,’ yet. My track record so far is pretty mixed.
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@scray
“Ya. I do like this girl. I just don’t think I’m good enough at this and overcoming my own inner bullshit to ‘leave them better than I found them,’ yet. My track record so far is pretty mixed.”
so you like her enough that you don’t want her to have a bad result if you screw up…but your not setting the frame IS going to lead her to a bad result b/c she won’t know what to expect…
so it comes back to what do you want? you said you had a great time…how is that bad?
your options on the spectrum (assuming sex is on the table…you could be just friends…lol) are ‘nothing’ (just walk away…) /ons/fb/fwb/gf/ltr/wife/ex…(i just threw that last one in for academic rigor…lol…) seriously, that’s pretty much it. and just because you start at one place doesn’t mean that’s all it will ever be…
“I mean, it’s like I just want her to do what I want her to do without having to tell her anything. ”
so you want her to ‘just get it’? lol…that’s not her job…you’re the man…also, having her do something by ‘just knowing’ also absolves you from any responsibility for the outcome…cuz you didn’t make the decision…
‘Plus, now I feel like I have something to live up to every time I’m going out with friends or a girl or whatever. Like get this slight reputation as being good with chicks, and it just seems like…people want you to prove it. Or like, you do some awesome game shit and you get a girl, and she has this image of you as an alpha and so you start thinking constantly of ways not to fuck with that image.’
sounds like ‘alpha fatigue’ (yea, i made that up…) but trying to be ‘all alpha all the time’ is stressful…it’s not like we really live in a constant state of danger where a saber tooth tiger is going to attack us at any minute…lol…take some time off and chill. you don’t need to be on all the time. learning (and internalizing) this stuff is stressful enough on its own, don’t make it worse by trying to live up to others’ expectations. run your own race…
“So I don’t really know what I want with her because I do like her, but at the same time, I dunno if I’m ready to be in a relationship with her because of where my internals are (or aren’t). ”
“I’m just trying to work on myself first before I pull someone else into my bullshit. Like, I do want a gf but when I feel like I can be healthy about it.”
so, if that’s what you want, then tell her that’s what you want and where you are…then she knows where she stands and can make a decision…
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‘sounds like ‘alpha fatigue’ (yea, i made that up…) but trying to be ‘all alpha all the time’ is stressful…it’s not like we really live in a constant state of danger where a saber tooth tiger is going to attack us at any minute…lol…’
Yeah you’re right. It’s probably just an ego thing. Ultimately, this boils down to fear. I’m afraid to take action because I’m afraid of losing what I have with her, and I’m trying to have my cake and eat it too.
‘so you want her to ‘just get it’? lol…that’s not her job…you’re the man’
‘so, if that’s what you want, then tell her that’s what you want and where you are…then she knows where she stands and can make a decision…’
I think I will just be up front with her. Like, I’m kind of in a confused headspace right now and a bit wishy washy. May as well just come clean about it.
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@Scray
“My go-to has just been ‘ya just a little bummed at the situation.’ I notice I do shit like this (and I also guilt chicks about shit that I know would be a big deal to other guys, but isn’t really a big deal to me, but it allows me an excuse to be aloof and distant…so it’s push/pull without any neediness — I don’t really care that much and it gives her a small drama fix)…any thoughts on that? Probably healthier ways to push/pull.”
wtf is this. Quit being a wishy-washy vagina. This is what girls do. “no…it’s okay, you go out bowling with your friends, I’ll just sit here at home, alone…no no, you don’t have to stay, it’s okay…SIGH……” You have a dick, yo, quit this emo shit.
“Then she gets annoyed and is like ‘well I don’t even know what your expectations are.”
She’s saying this because you’re being a wishy-washy vagina. If she’s just a fuckbuddy to you, you say “go have fun babe, watch out for drunk creepers lol” If she’s your girlfriend you say “don’t go if you’re not taking your man with you. wtf woman.”
You come off like you’re being a big emo drama queen to her so she’s getting frustrated lol
If you aren’t her boyfriend, you don’t get to make rules. If you want to lay down rules, she’ll want you to be her boyfriend. You don’t get to be her casual fuckbuddy and then guilt-trip her about what she’s up to.
I mean, you can TRY it, and it’ll work here and there, but it’ll inevitably result in this shit you’re having to deal with here where she’s confused and frustrated because she can’t tell what “the plan” is and now you have drama to deal with.
“this girl’s the only reg I have, so I don’t really want to act out of scarcity”
As far as she can tell, you ARE. You don’t sound like you have anything exciting going on. You sound like you’re just sitting at home bummed out moping and crying into your sleeve about not getting to come with her or her having fun without you. Make shit up, tell her “nah, can’t make it, I got work to do woman.” or “sorry already got plans tonight” like you’re doing SOMETHING besides sitting around being unattractive lol
What DO you want from her? Do you even know?
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oh oops, reply to ur post is up above for some reason
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Lol she obviously wants more than a FB situation with you.
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Probably. It’s hard to imagine any girl who sleeps with a guy who eventually won’t want that guy to be her bf. I mean, unless she was just really shitfaced or something lol.
I’m just trying to work on myself first before I pull someone else into my bullshit. Like, I do want a gf but when I feel like I can be healthy about it.
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but yea when I lived by the amish it was a pretty chill area
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gunslingergregi; do you ever shut your fucking mouth? Go take your meds, phaggot.
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lick the cuntcheese from my balls
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And the intellectual discourse suffers yet another setback.
Oh, sorry
LOLOLOLOLZ – COCKAS
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hhahahaha
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The gays want to “gay marry?”
Let’s give it to ’em good and hard.
…But not let them “gay divorce.”
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“No, I don’t sell drugs. It’s against the law”
Since when does this make it wrong?
“and I don’t believe in hurting others either.”
No shit, unless it’s The Village (TM) blessed non-hurtful hurting administered to non-victims.
Where you draw the line in do-gooderism, Lil’ goody 2shoes?
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Having your dick sucked off in public is against the law too, but it’s damn fun.
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You forgot to mention that the Amish (and other old-order Mennonites) are just about the ONLY identifiable groups in the U.S. who lead a true environmentally friendly lifestyle. All other are just pretenders.
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Huh, gay marriage is anal-sexuals way of assuring themselves they are the norm. It has nothing to do with wanting kids or wanting a precious princess party day.
And imo lesbians are usually the girls who have never experienced how it is to be with a true alpha male, as soon as they find one they oh so yearn for that dick again.
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Queer marriage is also their way of, when finding a partner the same size, instantly doubling their wardrobe.
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@Zombie
will be able to purchase huge portions of this country for only pennies on the dollar.
Unless it is occupied by illegal aliens by then. You can buy cheap land now but it’s in areas where no one wants to live.
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No. You cannot buy land. You can rent land, with lotsa strings attached.
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