Via Leopard of the Blogosphere, a Salon article written by a woman about all the six figure techie beta male nerds moving to Seattle to work for Amazon and how this massive influx of single, well-off, and available men is doing nothing to spice up the dating market for women.
Why were they so awful? What was it about guys who work in tech that made them worse than lawyers or other white-collar industries?
In a way they exhibit some of the same qualities of those professions—ego, arrogance, and unlimited amounts of cash. In San Francisco, said Violet, “There were a lot of men to date with disposable income who wanted to take women out. It’s just, it was so boring,” she said. “My dating life went from dating artists and writers and going on cheap but exciting dates, to men who thought the ability to buy someone an expensive meal made them interesting.”
Violet is like many young, prime nubility women — a cheap date with a man who has that ineffable alpha attitude is far more intoxicating to them than is an expensive date with a beta male who plays by the traditional courtship rules.
The choice is simple: You can pay $150 for a nice dinner for two in a pricey SWPL enclave and pull her chair out like a gentleman while flashing your Amazon employee card, or you can meet at a dive club and pound $3 PBRs while asking her if she ever pervily listened in on a roommate having sex. Option one guarantees gloomy late night batin’. Option two gets you laid.
Beta males bring two things to the table that enable them, in however limited a capacity, to compete with alpha males: Their provisions and their dependability. But as we are seeing, modern women have begun to value both of those things far less than they used to. A beta male who thinks that making beaucoup bucks and showing a lady a fine time on his dime will arouse her to sexual receptivity simply has no concept of female sexual nature. His money won’t save him. He needs an attitude adjustment, and a better idea of the sorts of conversations and activities that women love.
The beta male torrent is so bad in Seattle that the local women are going to gay bars to avoid them and get their fun drama fix.
The problem has become pervasive enough in Seattle that when I went with a few girlfriends to Pony, one of the last true gay bars on Capitol Hill, I was shocked when I found out that the adorable pair of 25-year-old boys talking to us were heterosexual. They were there because—as one of them told us—”It was the only place on the Hill on the weekends where there are no bros.”
Beta males are so unattractive to women that they are not only being outcompeted by alpha males, but also by gay males who have no interest in sex with women. Women would rather do away with the prospect of sex in exchange for a fun time with a gay man who “gets it”, than endure a single boring date with a rich beta male who can give them a life of ease and luxury.
I’m sure the gays love all those middle aged women ruining their scene. As Bill Simmons says “Women ruin everything”
LOZOZOZOZOZ HEY HEATIETTZESZ!!!
HERIETIZTESZZ!!!
Da GBFM playz a game in tech bars in DC, SF, and NYC!!
It is just like Rock, Paper, Scissorsz, but it is called Money, MBA, Lotsas Cockaz.
On da count of threez you whip one out.
It goes like this:
1
2
3
Da douchebagsz whipsz out his MBA.
Da GBFM whips out his lostas cockasz
Da GBFM winsz
1
2
3
Da douchebagsz whipsz out his moneyz checkbookz creidt cards cash.
Da GBFM whips out his lostas cockasz
Da GBFM winsz
by dis time a croud has gatheredz, and da GBFM puts his occkas in da hottest girlz mouthz as a fight breakz out between da chicks who wantz to touch da GBFM dickz zlzllzolzoz
It’s interesting all this shaming of our brightest and best all because some entitled chick is a twat. that is all.
And this is why so many techies go Asian…
If white women would prefer becoming destitute single mothers rather than comfortable upper middle class wives and mothers, let’s leave them to it.
Nerdy white beta males can get Asian chicks who would prefer not to live in poverty. They also don’t shit test incessantly like white women do.
but that will mean less white people in the world; do you really wanna live in a yellow and brown soup?
“but that will mean less white people in the world; do you really wanna live in a yellow and brown soup?” – the market will inevitably right itself, though I’d prefer this happened the easy way rather than the hard way.
“My gay cousin is extremely annoyed by the phenomenon.” – then they should work on acting beta towards women.
My gay cousin is extremely annoyed by the phenomenon.
Imagine reversing the genders, too. Straight guys hanging out in lesbian bars to avoid attention-seeking straight female barflies would get pilloried.
Girls going to gay bars isn’t a new strategy. They did that in the late 80’s/early 90’s, because gay bars had the best dance music and the girls felt ‘safe’ there. Which led to many of us straight guys also going to gay bars, ’cause that’s where the hot girls were. Plus, gay bars weren’t quite as militant in those days, not sure if I would go to gay bars today, even if the entire Miss Universe pageant were there. A trip to mall stores like Buckle, PacSun or Hollister usually fills my ‘gay’ quota for the year, thank you very much.
Actually the Seattle scene its more like Women RUN everything. I made the mistake of hooking up with a high powered Amazonian in the six figure bracket. Didn’t work out well:)
To edit for clarity I am a man. It was the woman earning the high income.
[…] Money Won’t Save Beta Males […]
Oh boo hoo, it’s so booooring having all this money spent on me. Stories like these ought to be tattooed on the eyelids of every poor chump who’s still thinking of marrying.
In defense of Red State chicks, Salon only ever writes about hard core Blue State witches with The Darkness firmly embedded in their hearts.
My position would be that there are still nice girls out there, from good families, who could make outstanding wives and mothers if only you were to Alpha Up and seize them for yourself and make them your own.
But lotsa luck navigating your way through The Darkness if you’re in Deep Blue territory like Seattle.
Lotsa luck wit dat.
true dat, these kinds of Salon articles are just chicken soup for whatever bitter ember substitutes for a soul in the cavity of the husk of these hard core Blue State Witches.
Definitely agree with this. Lots of marriage material where I’m from.
Girls like that take a different type of game, it seems. Alpha provider game.
Maybe CH can elaborate.
> “Maybe CH can elaborate.”
I always felt like CH had been writing from Washington DC all these years.
Deeply embedded undercover in the Heart of Darkness.
On the other hand, CH has written about how he attended band camp as a kid, so we know that he comes from good peeps.
“But lotsa luck navigating your way through The Darkness if you’re in Deep Blue territory like Seattle.”
I’m really interested in some sort of ranking regarding the bluest of the blue.
Boston, NYC, LA, SF, Seattle, DC, Chicago…which one is the worst/bluest of these shitholes?
Add Portland to the list of blue shitholes. Plenty of fat, pale, bitter feminists there. Every one of them is covered in tattoos and horrific piercings. They either dress like slobs or like they are about to work out or go hiking or camping even though the only exercise they get is walking from their cars to the nearest starbucks.
They won’t put out any effort for you but they expect you to cater to their vegan or gluten free diets and buy them expensive organic food from trendy stores and restaurants because they are too good for anything else. Snobby entitled bitches that have no right to be.
And the pride is deep. The city motto is “Keep Portland Weird”
You go girls.
Programmers generally don’t get to live in red state areas. The thing to do is to accumulate some money and then get the hell out.
I have had programming jobs. It is a shitty job. You really are expected to be a social misfit or else you don’t fit in at work. The work is very hard, and the girls are not interested. I am so familiar with the description of work expectations in that article. I never want to work another job like that again.
The “brogrammers” can have it. No matter how cool they think they are, they aren’t able to get a proper work environment.
Doctors work hard too, but not harder, and the girls are all wet for them.
Most of the young women I see here in the Heart of Dixie don’t seem slutty at all. They are generally well groomed, polite, and considerate, at least the ones who come from decent families. I see a lot of marriage material here.
“Doctors work hard too, but not harder, and the girls are all wet for them.”
I doubt this. Sure they’re good providers but wet? There are lot’s of professions more moisture inducing than physician (even though you’re right that Doctor gets em a little wetter than programmer, lol)
“Most of the young women I see here in the Heart of Dixie don’t seem slutty at all. They are generally well groomed, polite, and considerate, at least the ones who come from decent families. I see a lot of marriage material here.”
Dude!!!
Repeat after me: “BUNS. OVENS. BUNS! OVENS! BUNS!!! OVENS!!!”
@FamilyMan, the social awkwardness of programmers is why I chose not to become a programmer despite having a talent for it and programming being relatively well paid here. I couldn’t stand being in an office filled with nerds staring in a screen all day.
@Pijama Wearing Ninja bro you can’t code. You would have some bitch SEO job or a CRUD developer working on the next social tech startup bs. Honestly, These guys are nerds. But fuck its work? You living in Portland or Seattle you are going to work with Nerds and Feminist. Get over your excuses for not having a good job.
i got intervied for job in 40k person company and my job was gonna be i make my own hours come in when i want live in a nice place and plenty of ho’s just do what i do
so learn to program
and that was basic programming shit and they thought i might be god
get attached to a big company solving there problems write your own ticket
or o dodn’t go to school for it i taught myself
school might of helped a little but then i wouldn’t of started out as a mechanic
so sometimes you can start as mechanic in big company and end up at area 51
or yea get the degree it will help start out in laundry or some shit
and in your off time get on a company computer and be making some shit to benefit company they will be watching
I have an Oracle mySQL certification. I got it at 18. I also knew C++ well. It’s simply that working with completely anti-social people or having them as classmates in college is depressing. Maybe American nerds are more fun to be around than the ones here, but I’d rather enjoy my life than spend most of my time surrounded by boring people. I do have nerdy friends and I’m nerdy myself, but in the intellectual sense, not in the socially impaired sense. The kids at computer science universities are the socially impaired kind.
course i did more productive shit in my offtime than a whole section of nerds so nerds might be overated on production
i bet they spell correctly though lolzolzozlozlzolzolz
yea nija though you can be a ninja it don’t matter ya don’t have to be around nerds you can do your own supernerd shit lol
just get your own section
be the troubleshooter make sure the ceo can get the reports he needs facilitate the smooth working of a 40k person network by yourself
be the shit that is the key element its where diversity talk takes a sideroad
oh yea and i can admit i’m jealous of you dude cause i want to make a mil a year before i die and getting degrees would of helped a bit
maybe i still will
just had a setback got to learn all about another side of life i never would of known about though so there are positives
i used to be in computer programming but it looks like indians have taken that sector over..
yea that is kid of funny ain’t it get the white supervisors to hire Indians fire white then the Indians sure not gonna hire whites
unless your me ain’t nobody can replace me lol
why I had to almost die
You got that right. The family courts are a nightmare in Seattle and the atmosphere is pure man hate. If you found one worth marrying I would relocate and change residency to a friendlier jurisdiction before doing anything too official there.
Boston, NYC, LA, SF, Seattle, DC, Chicago…which one is the worst/bluest of these shitholes?
My ranking w/ explanation
1) DC- The worst. You have all the attitude of NYC / LA – 75% of the hotness. It is a town full of overeducated aggressive women. There is a good reason that 2 of the largest “manosphere” websites were birthed in this vat of politicos, lawyers, corporate climbers, etc. Everything about the women here just screams ‘femininity’.
2) NYC- Like DC, but at least it is a mix of the uber ladder climbing careerist along with the “want to make it in fashion, art, music, etc” types. So you can see 8, 9, or 10s walking down the street. If your game is sufficiently Jedi Masterish in nature, you will be fucking a dime by sunset.
3) LA- They have the hottest women by far, but they know they are the hottest women by far. Bitch shields dialed up to 10 at all times. You ain’t rolling a Beamer or Benz, you got nothin… again, learning the game for this city (yes, it varies from city to city) is what can counter this. The upside is, there are lots of 7s and 8s in a town full of 9s and 10s so they realize their true SMV.
4) Chicago- No reputation for anything as a city. DCish women but w/o the super aggression levels and not as hard charging on the career. It is like “DC Lite” if you will.
5) Boston- Well rounded city. You have some working class areas still with women that haven’t consumed the poison pill yet. They are cute and approachable, the closer you get to the business district, the less this exists.
6) Seattle- There is a laid back vibe here. Yes, it is a severely left-leaning city but then… most cities are. Lots of starving artist types and some cute girls to be had if you look around. Lots of fatty mc fat fats too though. But the general hostility is nowhere near as high as the first few places in the list.
7) SanFran- This is last because of two reasons. First, a large percentage of men here love the cock, just adore it really. That automatically cuts some of your competition out. Second, there are plenty of hippy dippy bitches here too. They aren’t model hot but I’ve seen some -very- cute hippy chicks. Just run the “EcoFriendly Tree Hugger” game and you are good. They are all down to fuck because that whole “free love” vibe never totally died since the late 60s.
*Masculinity. You’ll find femininity in the south Red states. Appalachia especially with the narrow minded hollers with strict hard working fathers (great for raising girls). The other southern belles are a close second but are a little more dainty and proper with regard to the tough household chores “I do declare” débutante. Would choose 1 of these 1000x before a city gal.
Mountain girls..they can do anything, sew, garden, scrub house, crafts, you name it
NYC should be #7..they have a handful of Republicans…
Re: the doctor thing…I think we have ER, Grey’s Anatomy, General Hospital or any other really exaggerated hollywood Dr. fantasy to thank. The mythical Alpha-Provider. Especially popular with housewives or suburb women. The stable career doctor who rakes in 200+K with a soft spot and an alpha smirk…chick pr0n.
Just suggests how impressionable the typical american female is…and how delusional. Probably 1 in 10,000 doctors is a alpha player. Usually herbs with parents who insisted they pursue that career…not to take away from them.
A red pill med PHD would SLAY
A relevant classic:
http://www.theonion.com/articles/european-men-are-so-much-more-romantic-than-americ,11552/
Pope’s blood chianti…..classic
great article. the onion is chock-full of truth.
That particular article was good. Some writers invited to post on their website are good.
However:
I have The Onion subscribed in YouTube, and it is full of leftist propaganda. All “humor” of course. They got a new boss a year or two ago, and the propaganda has been thicker since then. During the last presidential election, they would target Mitt Romney and Ron Paul with shit, never Obama. Their only “joke” about Obama is that he sounds too much like an intelligent, educated professor for the dumb, racist White Americans to understand. A typical “joke” is how Obama is exasperated by trying to explain a complex foreign situation, while the dumb (White, conservative) public is screaming for blood.
Aside from praising Obama, they will target whatever “racist” or “gun nut” they can find. Of course making it a stab at Whites, even if the racist/gun nut in question – Zimmerman, Sterling, Rodger – is not White, which is never mentioned.
But it’s all “jokes” of course. No. It’s so blatant, you can’t say they are even trying to hide what they are doing.
Fair enough. There is an agenda, but I still think there is a lot of good stuff to glean.
The Onion’s been worse ever since they moved to NYC. There was this whole flyover-country-man-on-the-corner sensibility that’s gradually drained out of it. You can’t help being affected by your surroundings, but I think that’s part of it.
great. more ideological (and comedic) homogeneity as the country rapidly de-homogenizes along all other metrics. The worst of every world. unless you like irony.
And a relevant video on how playing up the beta Provider role often actually fucks you over because women put you in a box and shame/scold you for trying to climb out of it…if you don’t let yourself get put in that box, you can get away with anything:
I always joke that if I suddenly became a famous millionaire, I would use a fake name at the bar and tell girls I work at McDonald’s. …but I’m not really joking lol A LOT of what I get away with is because I don’t let girls put me in that restrictive box to begin with.
On a Day2, a girl will meet up with me at the shit-hole pub down the street where I make her pay for her own drinks and come home with me to fuck me after a couple rounds. When she wants a nice steak dinner she’ll call up one of the guys in this article who’s been txting her all night while we bang, begging for a chance to take her out to dinner.
The guys in this article, that same girl will be looking at a free $100 steak dinner and expensive wine in front of her and then complain because the wine isn’t her favorite type, and then she’ll disqualify the guy as fuckable or make him “do better” next time and make him wait 3 or 4 dates before she kisses him let alone fucks him.
It’s not that that the girl is malicious or evil, it’s just that she’s responding to what the guy is presenting to her. If those guys changed their approach, they would get a different result. Women ping off their environment to decide how to feel.
Is he commando under that dinner jacket? lol
“It’s not that that the girl is malicious or evil, it’s just that she’s responding to what the guy is presenting to her.”
Oh, I feel so much better about women mismanaging themselves as an essential resource, the pool of which is depreciating by the day. It’s not morality per se? Civilization requires morality (cooperation), but then I pine for old school when you could just put a broad in her place rather than play her games. Game is an incomplete version of masculinity if men tacitly accept the sociopolitical equality of women as something normal to deal with.
It is the way it is now, but seduction is not the full measure of masculinity, only a beginning. Male bonding with political and cultural repercussions, and sexual efficiencies of political power is missing. I’d like to see some interest in putting women in their place down the road, the young ones fresh off the line that is. Hardened brats aren’t even good for sex that is not completely casual, as in 9:00 pm without delay and not 4:00pm after hours of bullshit. What I’m saying is her fucking feeeeelings or lack thereof are irrelevant. She is what she is, both for pumping and for dumping, and leaving on the scrap heap of history for a fresh start one day. Evil is as evil does, and that’s enough to go on, not that I believe in religious evil.
Hey YaReally, would you mind sharing how you personally avoid being boxed into one role or another? It happens to me more often than I care to admit, but not sure exactly how to get out. I assume going sexual early, drinks not dinner, making her pay for herself, etc are part of the equation.
As for being sexual, I try, but often find it uncomfortable to go there early in an interaction, and not sure how to segue into it. When you were learning, how did you go about becoming more comfortable?
Thanks for your help Ya, I appreciate it.
@RJD2
1) Dress edgier
2) Be raunchy
3) If asked how long your longest relationship was, say 1 year (max) and own to the fact that you’re not boyfriend material
4) Be raunchy
5) Be shameless (http://youtu.be/H3RHrclmyC8)
6) Display social savy. You don’t have much competition, although RSD and redpill is helping chodes catch up.
7) throw some bling on. Black titanium ring, dog tags, camo jacket. You get the idea…
@Reality Doug, sure, women are a resource when it comes to civilizations, but free sexual selection by women never was conducive to civilized behavior or civilizations.
> “throw some bling on. Black titanium ring, dog tags, camo jacket. You get the idea…”
Whoa, there horsey.
Let’s don’t go overboard.
You can score plenty of fine-assed trim wearing a flannel shirt and jeans and workboots with mud all over them.
And still retain your pride in doing so.
> “dog tags, camo jacket”
Actually, I may have spoken too soon there.
The word “bling” set off my alarms.
You could definitely go USMC Devil Dog on some of these libtarded psycho blue state evil chicks, as a form of reverse psychology.
Get their hamsters revving furiously as they keep axing themselves, “Why do I get the gina tinglez for this stupid fucking jarhead grunt? What’s wrong with me? This is a betrayal of everything I believe in. I hate myself! But I want him between my legs so badly!!!”
Be this guy
Check out other scenes. Movie is obscure but dude’s performance is Incredible. I think Billy Badd would make The dark knight joker piss his pants
“and then complain because the wine isn’t her favorite type”
vast majority of women can’t taste for shit. all the best winemakers are men. all the best sommeliers are men. all the best chefs are men.
you could blind pour her a vin de pays and tell her it’s a young closed cote de nuits grand cru and she’ll believe you. after she happily swallows that lie then she’ll swallow everything else you give her.
just make sure it’s already open and decanting, like you were going to drink it by yourself (or with some other chick). then make her buy dinner to make things close to even. total cost to you, less than 10 bucks.
Ahhh. I nawalt this so hard. Good for me too. I’m glad there is less competition for the attribute I am so dearly fond of.
money?
I’m truly attracted to men with money. As in directly sexually attracted to it. Gives gina tingles.
Sure, but it can be overcome by extreme dorkiness.
Yeah. It’s not enough as a standalone attribute. But I used to reject guys all the time because they didn’t have high paying careers.
Alright.
FX, first off, thanks for your honesty here.
But now I gotta ax the question which you just know I gotta ax: In your innermost heart of hearts, in your most fervent and intense fantasies, in your very favorite daydreams, in your most cherished hopes and dreams and aspirations – is there any role to be played whatsoever by the idea of mothering children?
> “mothering children”
Do you expect your sales pitch to work here or are you just trolling for the LULZ?.
I’ve heard that money is an aphrodisiac. No question that guys with money and sufficient “Alpha” are formidable gina tinglers. Problem with tech guys is that they’re blue pill to the core of their Linux kernel (I know, I work in the field).
A Don Draper type will ultimately beat out the rogue vagabond artist-cad for long term mating potential, as he will have the self-worth to dismiss the ho for the slightest offenses. Dread game is his most powerful too, no ho wants to lose out on a high-value male with wealth and security.
The catch is that women ultimately aren’t worth long term investment. I’d rather provision for myself as best as I can and play the cad with women.
“The catch is that women ultimately aren’t worth long term investment.”
Unless you want children. I kind of regret sort of wanting to have children later in life because they cost so much money, not only themselves, but the relationship with their mother too. Or learn game so good that you get yourself a rich girl. The couple of guys I know who had children at my age did it with girls with money.
Or go earn some money yourself.
There ain’t a dime’s worth of difference between being a PUA in the nightlife and being a highly successful greasy scumbag douchebag jerk salesman of the year in the daytime world of mercantilism.
You’re 31.
“But the bigger reason 31-34 year olds are harder to game than any other age group of women has to do with the wicked nexus of entitlement and self-preservation that occurs at this age in women. When you combine a disproportionate sense of entitlement fueled by years of feminism, steady paychecks and promotions, and cheerleading gay boyfriends with suspicions of every man’s motives and a terrible anxiety of being used for a sexual fling sans marriage proposal, you get a venom-spitting malevolent demoness on guard against anything she might perceive as less than total subjugation to her craving for incessant flattery and princess pedestaling.”
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
You in a nutshell
I liked money even more when I was younger.
Little spoon = big nose?
Gr8YT, she’s a thicky thicky Hindu, as the late Matthew King used to say.
What happened to that guy?
He morphed into ZS
I’d wager that you’re attracted to the behavior money affords -heh- a man. A guy who has a ton of money and just has an entourage of employees has just artificially created an environment where he is the top dog alpha male. That’s an extreme example, but it illustrates the point.
I doubt women are getting wet at the idea of just money itself sitting in some guy’s 401k account.
Even the fancy toys money allows a guy to buy are just allowing him to display a type of dominance.
I do like money as an indication of dominance, but I am also just plain attracted to money. So yes, even if it is just sitting in the bank, the guy who owns it looks pretty good to me.
most probably you are not sexually aroused by the sight of large denomination bills lying around unattended. excited for the windfall, yes, but not sexually aroused. what you are attracted to is the attitude and carriage of a man who is capable of earning scads of cash.
“most probably you are not sexually aroused by the sight of large denomination bills lying around unattended. excited for the windfall, yes, but not sexually aroused. what you are attracted to is the attitude and carriage of a man who is capable of earning scads of cash.”
I like them more if they can earn it, but I like them just about as much if they inherit it. It’s the image of it- denotes status, power over other men, genteel image.
In romance novels, there are different kinds of guys- half breed native americans, cowboys, various bad boys, and then there are many who are denoted as attractive because they are rich like princes, counts, guys with mansions etc. I like the rich ones only.
[CH: men who inherit wealth often possess the same chick-bait attitude as men who earn it. reason? genetics + lifestyle grooming. after all, a scion had a father (or grandfather) who earned it the hard way, and passed that jerkboy ambition down his lineage.]
It’s not about them having money, it’s about them spending it.
“after all, a scion had a father (or grandfather) who earned it the hard way, and passed that jerkboy ambition down his lineage.]”
Thinking about this makes me horny.
Saying you’re attracted to money makes no sense. It’s an inanimate object. If you like a guy because he has on a nice suit, it’s the fact that he’s wearing a suit that’s nicer than everyone else’s — aka a type of social dominance — that turns you on.
If a guy tells you ‘I have a bunch of money in the bank,’ it’s not the money that’s getting you wet — it’s your own imagining of him spending the money on you and you ‘living the life,’ that’s doing it.
‘ It’s the image of it- denotes status, power over other men, genteel image.’
Right here you pretty much agree with what we say lol. You aren’t attracted to the money.
I believe that Sterling is in the process of finding new whore
Hurry but do not show up with ni66ars,Tokowitz does not like the idea
Strangely enough he is not against your fucking them
See, not just one attribute
Haven’t you been feeding us stories of your boring rich married boyfriend for a long time now? You didn’t tell us the problem is he’s not rich enough.
Money is most definitely an aphrodisiac. Used properly, and not foolishly, it is devastating.
The worst crime a man can commit is to be unremarkable.
COTW
“I treat a bitch like 7-up, never have, never will”.
think of what her tight pussy cost in high school when you had a job at the burger joint…
an order of fries.
she knows what she’s worth and will despise you if you overpay.
You just put all of what I was stringing together in my head into words. All hail the internet.
I wonder if betafication is natures defense mechanism to ward off aging sluts.
A bit like covering yourself in mud to fool the alien in Predator.
You have an excellent point. What are the odds she has at least one tattoo?
Good guess. She does:
busted. hag slut wonders where all the exciting men went? heh.
she is very unattractive
Gah! You should have posted a microaggression warning!!!!!!
Shall we go double or nothing with the tramp stamp?
> “she is very unattractive”
Yeah, but you could have some fun slapping around them big tits of hers.
And, of course, there’s always your very favorite homeboy who needs some satisfaction of his own from time to time – your old reliable trusty best friend, Mr. G. Shepherd.
“Woof woof! Woof woof!”
Canines need a little loving, too.
To argue otherwise would be speciesism.
Very interesting.
Very, very interesting…
cotw
Probably. There was an article on Salon around 2008 written by a White woman about how White men are charmless on dates with her, and how Black men are engaged and charming. CH in fact had a post back then on that article.
And then you saw the writer’s photo — a hideous, heavy-jawled, hard-aged yenta, and you understood why the men she met on dates were listless in her presence.
Nogs will plug into any hole. White men usually have at least some standards.
or low T
or low T
Nah, that’s Asians, dawg.
All that these guys need to do is wait until the girls are post wall, in their thirties and ready to settle. They can then play a game that was nicely described by Dalrock as a type of revenge of the nerds. When I am bored with the younger crowd I like to use, manipulate, false LTR and otherwise abuse this crowd. It is great fun and they usually pull all of the stops sexually to land guys like me.
This chick is 40.
no wonder she’s having trouble. serious crow’s feet. she hit it hard.
With a camel face.
“You’re 40? Bye.”
beggars cant be choosers
She may be 40.
But to a cat, she’s HUMAN WITH A CAN OPENER!
I find it hilarious when people are harmed by their own hubris so I will join in on this fun later in life. The irony of it all is so sweet.
This has got to be one of the strongest starts to comment thread ever seen on this site.
Her overall point is right, but a lot of what she writes is bs. The gay bar thing isn’t really a function of beta male density. Women go there to avoid being hit on by ANY guy, not just a beta guy. And 25 yr old hetero men deliberately hanging out in a gay bar? Yea ok. Lol.
it happens. sure, this is purely anecdotal, but i’ve hooked up multiple times (3x, actually) (with women lol) as a result of nights where i went with a group of friends to a gay club. as it turns out, in each instance, it was some of the easiest access to a same night lay i’ve had. sure, gays are overall complete degenerates and probably are ruining society, but i’ve been casually friends with several homosexual men and women over the years and, on an individual level, some of them are perfectly fine company.
Gay guys make excellent wingmen
> “Gay guys make excellent wingmen”
Right up until they slip you a roofie.
[Which is a point that I keep trying to warn YaReally about – sooner or later, one of these “Uber Alphas” that YaReally runs with is gonna slip YaReally a paralytic agent and then delve into what he really wants out of the relationship.
Beware of dudes who can’t keep it in their pants. Pussy bores them.]
I asked a gay friend of mine about that once – he laughed his head off and said “Why the fuck do you think I’d find you attractive?”
Daaaaaaaamn – shot down by a gay man!
@Zombie
Man, you gotta’ quit including me in your weird fantasies. Wife not putting out lately or something? You’re projecting your sexual curiosities all over the place lol
YR, those fuckers are evil.
I know them for who they are.
They’re just patiently biding their time until you let down your guard – then they’ll move in for the kill.
Always trust your instincts – God gave them to you for a Reason.
If your instincts start screaming, “Danger, Will Robinson”, then listen to them.
And don’t ever swallow something like Ecstasy or an SSRI which would pharmaceutically dampen your natural instinctive response to impending danger.
Cause when those motherfuckers sense weakness, they will pounce.
Hard.
@Zombie
Oh man, are you saying I should cancel the big Ecstasy party I was planning to throw for me and a bunch of gay dudes?? It’s cool man, they said they’ll pour my drinks for me!! They talked about sword-fighting but I’m sure they just meant they were going to teach me some fencing moves, right?
Trust your instincts, YR.
Those fuckers are subtle as hell.
And patient like you wouldn’t believe.
They will wait YEARS for the opportunity to be the very first to slide it into that beautiful tight pink little virgin backside of yours.
You start running with the kinky crowd, and you’re mixing with some serious hardcore Evil.
Always trust your instincts, my man.
@ZS
i have never worried, not even for a second, that some queer is going to “slide it into beautiful tight pink little virgin backside of [mine].” how on earth would that even happen unless you wanted it to? individual gays aren’t that powerful, ZS. most of them are just really insecure, self-hating folks who would rather be someone other than who they actually are.
furthermore, i’ve never understood that whole “pussy bores them” deal. the way i see it, you either like pussy, or you don’t. sure, there may be individuals that fuck lots of chicks in an effort to prove to themselves and others that they aren’t gay, but what’s their MOTIVATION? men who are actually motivated by pussy don’t magically grow tired of pussy at some point.
Why would a gay man try to drug a straight man for sex ZS? It’s not like the gay scene Is particularly prudish about getting laid.
> “Why would a gay man try to drug a straight man for sex ZS?”
For the very same reason that you lust after 15-year-old virgin jailbait.
Because it’s the sweetest tightest hottest most pure expression of poontang that exists on the planet.
And everyone knows it.
But furthermore, you can’t have it, BECAUSE IT’S FORBIDDEN TO YOU!!!
Which just makes you want it all that much more.
If you haven’t crossed paths with the predators in the kinky crowd, then the crowd you’re running with isn’t truly kinky.
Those motherfuckers have their eye on your tight hot pink little virgin anus, and they will stop at nothing but nothing in their quest to slide it in there.
TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS!!!
> “furthermore, i’ve never understood that whole “pussy bores them” deal”
Dude.
Can we here at the Chateau not all agree that once the lightbulb finally goes off in your head, and you realize how easy it is to score poontang, that you then get to the point where you can practically snap your fingers and the bitchez will get down on all fours and bare their backsides to you?
Now try to imagine that – instead of being a fundamentally Good Guy – you’re fundamentally Evil.
And imagine that the nihilistic thrill from getting a bitch to take off her clothes for you just doesn’t do it for you anymore.
Now put two and two together and ax yourself what might therefore rekindle the old nihilistic tingle up your leg.
If you were Evil.
And if the idea of mounting yet another brood mare made you nauseous.
I used to swing and have known a number of kinky and flat out weird people in my time, amongst them a number of gays.
Are you sure you’re not projecting? All this talk of making babies and hatred of gays makes me think you’re a closet homo.
@ZS. No, I can’t imagine it getting old. Good/evil has nothing to do with it. Different strokes…
I think it’s pretty safe to assume that Zombie has been raped by gay dudes in the past.
Zombie, man, it’s not your fault:
> “Are you sure you’re not projecting? All this talk of making babies and hatred of gays makes me think you’re a closet homo.”
NO.
I am NOT projecting.
I have been fighting off the faggots since I was a teenager.
Like flies on shit.
And I swear to God that if I had a nickel for every ostensibly “married” man who had made a pass at me over the years, then I’d be a frigging billionaire.
Many of them ostensibly conservative “Christian” GOP guys, no less.
This Evil is fucking everywhere.
Speaking of instincts, just in the last week or so, I’ve met a new married couple [WITH CHILDREN!!!] and I swear that they already have their eye on me now as a potential new “score” – as a new notch on their bedposts.
My instincts are just screaming, “DANGER, WILL ROBINSON!!!”
> “I think it’s pretty safe to assume that Zombie has been raped by gay dudes in the past.”
Dude.
You don’t realize what you are dealing with if you dismiss my concerns for your safety so cavalierly.
And no, I have NEVER been raped by a faggot. [Although I knew one in Graduate School who was so damned persistent that he might have tried to rape me if I hadn’t been stronger than he. And another one more recently – a really high brow high society extremely upper crust motherfucker – whom I wouldn’t put it past him to try for a rape if the circumstances were right.]
But these stories that you tell us, from time to time, about some of these “Uber Alphas” that you are running with, it justs make me shake my head.
YR, my man: WATCH YOUR BACK!!!
Anyway.
@Zombie
“I have been fighting off the faggots since I was a teenager.”
Maybe you just look really effeminate. Do you flail your hands when you talk? Do you have a bit of a lisp maybe? I always thought you were a big manly man with all your “I’d kill that guy if he looked at my daughter” talk, but the way you go on and on about gay guys wanting to fuck you, I mean, you must look like their type, right?
Is this you?:
You can admit it, we’re all here to help you heal! Open your heart to us.
YR, I look like a cross between Tom Cruise in Risky Business and Matt Dillon in The Flamingo Kid.
[Although I’ve got one older spinster now, who is head-over-heels in love with me, and she calls me “Josh Brolin”.]
If I were walking down a corridor in Washington DC, then I would get hit on by every flaming faggot from Rahm Emanuel at the one extreme to Mitch McConnell at the other.
I have been dealing with this curse my entire fucking life.
PS: TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS!
I love how ZS acts as if he’s the only straight guy ever to have been hit on by gays.
I have a good friend who is a natural alpha who used a particular gay bar to great advantage. A good dancer, he targeted the women ‘who just came to dance’, moving in on the dance floor, dirty dancing and putting his hands on them. By the time they realized he was straight, they were interested. He typically showed up there about 45 minutes before closing time and usually took someone home for SNL.
It does happen.
it sure does.
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/06/18/gay-bars-are-great-pick-up-joints/
“YR, I look like a cross between Tom Cruise in Risky Business and Matt Dillon in The Flamingo Kid.”
DON’T STOP I’M ALMOST THERE
God damn, was there a homo abuse story worked into Good Will Hunting too? (I must have stepped out for a beverage).
Mystic River, Prince Of Tides, etc., etc., etc…. gettin’ awful tired of these memes YKWood keeps working into the mix.
Is that shit REALLY so common? Damn, growing up back in the sixties, we never even heard of such things. The first “mainstream” movie I remember that even hinted at such stuff was Midnight Cowboy, and for the longest time, that flick was considered an anomaly.
So spill it, South Park Generation… has the whole homo rapes boy thing gotten so out of hand that a significant percentage of you now identify with such things so that it works its way into the media more often than not?
Or is it just another example of the agenda being pushed to make it seem much more common that in reality?
da zombie sorry to hear that
though I mean go to dif jobs document the advances make money on harassment lawsuits play to your strengths
sounds like something did happen though in childhood
I mean the comment you made before I didn’t understand how it could be possible for someone to think that
but apparently you a magnet for that shit
tell the dudes to hook you up with bitches he he he
I don’t think the coffee machine at home is broken. Often at least one of the girls has enough room for a sporty, team oriented pillow fight in her spacious, penthouse apartment. They can safely strip down to their underwear without fear of a single boy inspired innuendo all they like but they go out. Girl’s only gyms show a market and a specific privilege that single sex discrimination is still allowed so long as it benefits the now in charge, tyrannical majority.
There is something else to it. Perhaps its that the rule of empire often came from high society geldings and eunuchs. Eastern kings needed men near them, but who wouldn’t raid the goodies. Perhaps its also a counter culture and rebellious enclave. Not sure really but for whatever reason there is to be no socializing of men without female party crashing outside of salt mine or a ship yard. They clearly seek out gay men.
Its the same incredulity I have when women apply make up and sport the little black dress for “themselves”.
in that respect…tyranny is anti-male and we are all living it right now….
right you are on the gay bar…and that is why it’s a target-rich environment..if you must…
most of the conversations with females and gays are concerning the alpha-males she fucks…so it’s more in the down-time.
Amy, again, your insights into what women ‘reeeeally’ think act feel are irrelevant because… you’re a woman. The experience of men shows that you’re wrong… again. We pick up women at gay bars all the time. Put down the mirror.
They’re complaining about the fact that you don’t understand them. Which is false, because, of course, you do understand them.
girls go to gay bars because the men can and will dance; with there shirts off.
I don’t know about this. I grew up on the fringes of an old monied crowd in the Midwest and a guy’s economic prospects mattered a lot for what women he could get long-term. I didn’t see any hot upper class women hanging out with alpha working class guys, at least not in public, and not for very long. They were definitely looking for a guy who could support them and their children in an appropriate manner.
She’s complaining about Nerd Culture in Seattle. These women don’t want children. Seattle has one of the lowest birth rates; there are more dogs than kids. These bitches want to ride to carousel to eternity. As they get older, they have to broaden their options, aka date beta nerds, and this pisses them off. lulz.
Well, if she has no value as a possible mother of future children, I can’t see that she has much value at all to a man except as a P&D. It’s easier to get younger, prettier escorts or sugar babies off CL with less aggravation.
> “the fringes of an old monied crowd in the Midwest”
GOD DAMN, I MISS THE REAGAN YEARS.
GOD DAMN IT.
Dude, nobody knew that Cruise was a fag, back in the day.
Watching that Phil Collins clip almost brings a tear to my eye.
My brain gets flooded with the most furiously intense and overwhelming memories of 80s-era poontang.
You young ‘uns who were born during the Slick Willy Mal-Administration, you who grew up surrounded by nothing but chimpanzees and armadillos and gooks and cow-worshippers, you have no earthly idea what the poontang was like during the Reagan Years.
Everywhere you looked, it was frigging Manna From Heaven.
You have no earthly idea.
PS: God damn it, Rebecca de Mornay was a fine piece of tail, back before she balloned up and went Orca on us.
A fine, fine piece of tail.
Another example of “fat shaming” working:
http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/fat-girl-beauty-queen-south-texas-shares-story-amazing-100-pound-transformation-article-1.1807363
In all sincerity, good for her. And good for all of us.
But she still has Muppet face, no hips, and is an airplane blonde. So she’s barking up the wrong “beauty queen” tree.
And yet I’d still go home with her for a over night lay post weight loss. Definitly wouldn’t before.
Fat shaming saves civilisation.
“and is an airplane blonde”
Had to look that up… classic. Will use.
I work at a place where all the winter office plain janes are going through that transition into blossoming summer dress wearing flowers. All through winter they skulk among the high earning beta intellectuals who they share cubicle space with, but their desire for us uniformed thugs that protect them raises in conjunction with the rising temperature as is demonstrated by their increased social receptivity.
Haha. This hits home.
Went out with a girl this weekend. Some substitute teacher girl. Went full asshole. She drove 30 minutes to pick me up, Boinked in an empty apartment, then bought me dinner.
And you know what happened two days later? The exact same thing.
Some poor guys probably gonna try to wine and dine her. I don’t cater to women at all. I just turn on the charm, go aloof, and they do anything I want.
I need to channel this power for good. I feel like a bad guy.
Why would you feel like a bad guy? She’s responsible for her own actions.
Not if she regrets it the next day.
“I need to channel this power for good.”
don’t even think about it. you’re balancing out the universe for all the amazon beta guys. stopping could unravel the space-time continuum.
You’re right.
I just have to boink on!
eat more celery. i eat 5 stalks+ daily. your moneyshots will be legendary.
had a direct eye shot last night. snipe that sloot!
thwack– cut out the middle man. L-Arginine brah. It -is- the precursor amino acid for sperm production. Pick it up at any health food store, open container take a big whiff. Smells like… hrmm, something familiar. Jizz? Yup.
Take that shit for a week as a supplement and you will be shooting ropes like spiderman slinging web.
Not advised if you have a dirty dick with herpes, as it also is a primary molecule in the production of the viral sheath for the herp.
So proceed based on that.
Sorry thrust, not thwack, but I’m sure that octaroon could use the same advice. :-)
Not to worry Jay, I’ll even share my facial technique; Go for the tits and at the last minute elevate 30 degrees up bubble and blast away.
Afterwards apologize and pretend it was an accident.
@thrust
“snipe that sloot!”
Haha! I remember the first time I hit a broad’s eye with a shot of baby batter. It was a straight shot, with full contact. Her reaction was fuckin’ priceless! She squealed in pain as her right eye instinctively slammed shut, and she clumsily jammed her long nails into her eye in an attempt to rub away the cum, but to no avail. That actually made it worse, and she scrambled to the bathroom but slipped on the wet tiles near the entrance and clipped her left shoulder on the doorway, causing her to fall back on her ass. I was dying of laughter as she gingerly pulled herself back up using the edge of the sink and slammed the door, but not before screaming “you motherfucker!”. Ironically, she had a set of twins from another dude back at her apartment.
I will cherish that memory forever.
So… you eyefucked the sloot.
Cherish the memories.
Since then she’s kept an eye out for him.
> “I need to channel this power for good.”
HAHAHAHAHA
Ya……find a girl you actually like. Hard to be “full” asshole to someone you legitimately care about.
http://www.dangerandplay.com/2011/11/22/the-true-test-of-alpha/
Yeah but Salon women sure have a woodie for NEIL DEGRASSE TYSON!
No mention of Nicholas Wade though. Puzzling given their passion for science and NEIL DEGRASSE TYSON!
+1 ! ! !
I think the SPLOOSHing over that guy by the SWPL women in Austin produces more moisture than a month’s worth of rain.
It must rehydrate the lunar bleakness of Salon vaginas.
If he wasn’t black, they’d have never heard of his ass.
Same deal with 0bama.
This stupidity is why that a-hole is president, afterall.
The stone that the builders refused has become the cornerstone.
Get over it.
Says the cogdis spade whose icon of the Messiah is Samuel Jackson’s spiel in Pulp Fiction.
please change you diaper,; you’re stinkin up the entire thread
Dat be yo’ own breath backfirin’ on ya.
Beta provider game becomes less and less viable every day. Eventually, man in his natural savage state will be the only one getting laid. A Clockwork Orange.
whorefinder victorious.
DID SOMEBODY CALL MY NAME????!
Fill in the blank: Clown ___
> “A Clockwork Orange.”
You do know that Kubrick was YKW, right?
This is all unfolding exactly as The Frankfurt School wants it to unfold.
Precisely according to plan.
Yeah, he was a self-hating YKW.
“Hitler was right about everything.” – Stanley Kubrick
A Clockwork Orange was a cautionary tale, but I don’t expect you to pick up on things like that ZS.
> “cryo”
I think you left out a couple of letters in your name.
The letters “P” and “T”.
Immediately after the “y” and before the “o”.
You are wrong Shane
http://www.fpp.co.uk/online/99/06/Kubrick150699.html
See Eyes Wide Shut his testament based on Schnitzcler erotic novel but really about powerful elite NYC sect, YKW
A self-hating YKW is still a tribesman, when the revolution come… you pseudo-intellectuals would do well to remember it.
Hint: always look for the spit-in-the-eye of Western Civ… one example from Clockwork was his profane use of Beethoven’s Ninth in the eyes of the headcase protagonist.
“Hint: always look for the spit-in-the-eye of Western Civ… one example from Clockwork was his profane use of Beethoven’s Ninth in the eyes of the headcase protagonist.”
You don’t know what you’re talking about. Kubrick was a lifelong fan of classical music and the use of Beethoven’s Ninth is lifted directly from the novel written by a cranky conservative named Anthony Burgess. This information can be obtained in 30 seconds via the Innernette.
Stop embarrassing yourself.
Fool, we all know full well the movie was based upon Burgess’ novel…
But the WAY things get translated to the screen is the point… even the choice of WHAT gets translated to the screen and by WHOM.
Now slink away before I taunt you a second time.
lol you’re hopeless Greg
you’re much like a feminist, so wrapped up in your overwrought ideological posturing that you have to bend every little thing to fit your worldview
you keep taunting and I’ll keep laughing, say hi to your wife for me
I stopped reading after “lol”… just another inane little twerp with keyboard courage.
have you seen his wife?
I seen a better face on a iodine bottle.
The last time I saw a mouth like yours, it had a hook in it.
Without fail, every one of these women is on the margins of the dating world and writing crap out of their own lives. Their looks can be hidden in print and face it, most women are average looking and not beauties. In print, these women can talk as if they’re jaded 9.5s that soooo many men ask out and how few are worthy of them. It’s a big ego stroke. Notice how she has very little to offer but expects Clark Gable?
I live in this city, and I agree the offspring of this city will probably have the highest rates of aspergers in the country in the next generation…however the women here are pretty terrible too…90% of them are overweight, extremely entitled, and very clicky and cold….a Seattle 4 thinks she is a 10…not a joke, they have bad attitudes (at least at bars). however after leaving this city you are so battle hardened than when you travel anywhere else you clean up like a champ.
exiting men are beginning to say this same thing about every blue state SWPL city. it’s contagious.
exiting men are beginning to say this same thing about every blue state SWPL city. it’s contagious.
No doubt, but hey, can the blue state guys just, you know, not come out here at all to flyover country? Seriously, it was their whipped pussy attitudes that allowed these kinds of shrieking fat cow feminists to flourish in the first place. The last thing we need out here in the great red state outback is an influx of oily, submissive men ready to convert our women into the same monstrosities that they fled from.
You know, kind of like how leftists went to Colorado and destroyed what was once a proud, upright Western state? Yeah, that kind of thing.
There was an article in one of the local papers a few years ago about women who dated guys from MSFT. They all but admitted to overlooking the guys’ betaness in exchange for living the good life. I guess now that the recession is supposedly over it isn’t such a bargain anymore.
and did you look at the latest economic numbers…the economy is going back in the shitter…
I thought Seattle was easy to clean up in because your competition is beta as fuck?
sure it’s easy to clean up but why would you want those nasty skanks?
Seattle sounds a bit like a mini-Asia.
Fag hags use gays as faux beta orbiters, it’s an ego protection ploy.
If ordinary men won’t show any interest at least they can pretend to be within the vicinity of hawt men.
They’ll even go as far as playing pretend girlfriend to keep the imaginary hoards of schmucks at bay.
Nothing is as soul destroying for a woman than to be undesired.
“Nothing is as soul destroying for a woman than to be undesired.”
True dat. When a broad you’ve written off for flaky behavior sees you again with her girlfriends, she’ll stop to ask about you in an attempt to look good among her group. Drop some DHV markers (ie. “I just bought some new property, am expanding my investment portfolio, and I’m gonna do some traveling later this year.”) Her friends will smile and will ask what you do, to which you smirk and return a vague answer (ie. “That’s confidential.”). This will cause the flakester to chime in with a huge grin, “Well, I hope I see you around here again.” At that point, you turn your gaze back to her and flatly tell her, “No, you won’t see me again.” Her jaw will drop and one of her girlfriends will likely struggle to hold back a laugh. Give her the ol’ backturn, and walk away without looking back.
Dude, that’s some evil, evil shit you’re describing right there.
Just promise me that you won’t marry the witch who laughed.
And make sure that she isn’t ovulating when you tap it.
Actually, gay guys have game.
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/06/13/gay-men-have-game/
Exactly, in modernity this means that they don’t use it. Do you not know which website you’re on. Evidently, they don’t have to, a la Warren Buffet, but instead they adapt to what they existentially identify themselves with, namely friendship or the null hypothesis.
“Nothing is as soul destroying for a woman than to be undesired.”
COTW
Okay i whole-heartedly agree with the message here but fear the rich dude with just an iota of game.
I have experienced the doe eye expressions girls have when i have been with a particularly rich friend once, not for me unfortunately but the friend. The rich dudes are still getting laid a lot more than broke-ass wanna-be alpha males, it takes a truly good game to score when you are against a rich dude.
Check this video out for example of Vitaly
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iyeUcFKRv4
‘Dude, you’re rich.’
Wealth is massive social proof on its own, despite the rsd fanboys naysayers.
Everyone buys your shit, so everyone validates YOU >>> Tingles.
But… you could still fuck it up by being a total beta.
“A medicinal cure for beta male one-itis is a possibility.”
That will be the final nail in civilization’s coffin.
“Plus-size models recreate the Sports Illustrated swimsuit cover”
This might be forgivable if it involves Robyn Lawley.
“Plus-size models recreate the Sports Illustrated swimsuit cover”
That’d be No Sports Illustrated.
I was going to write something, but this wins. Hands down. Well raped, sir.
Geez, even in this plus-sized sideshow, the white woman makes the others look like troglodytes.
Aye. Better to cure Alpha and Beta everyone if came to that.
well save your loot In the place you make good money then go to place with good pussy not rocket science he he he
One thing that annoys me: the assumption that money and game are somehow mutually exclusive. I make a ton of money, AND I’m a damn entertaining date. Let’s just call it alpha fucks and beta bucks, from the guy’s perspective.
yea seems to be an undercurrent of don’t try to succeed at both
a lot of times
In Singapore, an English-speaking Asian country, there is a massive exodus of beta males who have departed from the dating market and opt to “buy” impoverished village wives from Vietnam and other Third World nations. The exodus is so extensive that 1 in 4 marriages in Singapore is between a Singaporean man and foreign wife. Readers can watch a relevant video here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FScBxMqC9cI
So why hasn’t there been a similar large exodus of beta males in the United States marrying foreign women?
Proximity.
1 in 4 us marriages is to a foreigner.
that rate is same as in us
Actually, it’s only about 7.4%:
http://www.pewstates.org/projects/stateline/headlines/one-in-five-married-households-has-foreign-born-spouse-85899503022
Immigration trends have contributed to the growing number of foreign-born Americans, and the Census Bureau found 21 percent of married households in the U.S. in 2011 had at least one foreign-born spouse.”””””””’
from the article you posted 21 percent
ut I was talking currnt marriages in a year when I had to look up before
ut here it is total marriages its at 21 percent close enough I guess
interesting that in the article you use it says 21 percent of total marriage are with a foreign born spouse
so even worse I think than me
I was saying now it is one in 4 but it would seem that it is getting worse
4 comments cantt say your article says 21 lol
21% have “at least one foreign-born spouse”… most of those are, for example, two Mexicans, or two Chinese. Only 7.4% have one American and one foreign spouse.
American feminists got a federal law passed restricting foreign wives. Someone else can supply the law name and online reference, but that’s what happened.
“… the land of the free-eee-eeee-eee … and the ho-ome of the brave!” (fireworks, audience roars)
What?
The land of the free?
who ever told you that is your enemy.
it didt restrict the number of marriage visas
I’ll take all the 80 IQ and below white women.
*you’re welcome*
IMBRA.
Because white women are still the gold standard of desirability… and you can’t find ’em in the rice paddies and black holes of the Third World.
mines comin ith me to the rice paddy
Pretty much. Fascinatingly, they are also dumb herding animals so are complicit in insuring that they become more and more rare in the next few decades as the gleefully miscegenate with the darkies. By 2050 you will have EEs and Russians left basically as the West and Scandinavia will be irrevocably transformed into a mocha colored cesspool.
JayinDC:
You can’t leave the defense of the race up to the cows. We bulls are supposed to be the leaders and deciders.
if your paying 6 figures to wine and dine bitches I saw In dc you are doing it wrong
plus I bought my bitches life for 200 dollars
money is everything
I live in a major Asian city. Valentine’s Day is horrendous as local guys go and buy their girlfriend’s floral bouquets that end up covering their desks like funeral biers. I have never ever done this. Oddly enough even before I was game away I just never saw the point. The girls I went out with also thought it was awkward receiving these gifts.
More recently for my now ex gf’s , the one elaborate thing I ever did was to plan a rather elaborate birthday with several venues and a unique restaurant—this was in response to the elaborate birthday she arranged for me a few months before.
She never really appreciated it and I didn’t realize it at the time…she had been equivocating a break up. Stupid really. I wonder if it actually accelerated her weirdness and break-up.
“She never really appreciated it and I didn’t realize it at the time…she had been equivocating a break up. Stupid really. I wonder if it actually accelerated her weirdness and break-up.”
Remember: if you treat a bitch, then you don’t know how to treat a bitch.
“I’m wondering how interested @heartiste readers would be for a series of reviews of classic pickup books?”
I wouldnt be because I’m not the intended audience. But if CH self-published some kind of a compilation of best-of / classic Game posts in dead tree book form, I’d buy it for posterity.
+1
Same.
I, for one, would be greatly interested. To finally see what happened before alt.seduction.fast. How many of these pre-Internet “how to get girls” books were on the mark, and how many were wildly wrong? What were the gems of wisdom among all the drek?
CH isn’t really long-form reading. It’s best as a blog, and it should stay that way.
I wouldnt be because I’m not the intended audience.
–Mewling, squealing little liars never are.
PA rape!
Eat dick neocon monkey.
Once again I’m proven right. Women hate hate hate beta males. So don’t ever be beta. Ever.
“Women hate hate hate beta males” – Depends on what you mean with beta. I think a lot of the time, what people describe is actually “omega”, not “beta”.
I explained briefly to a friend what alpha and beta mean. He shrugged his shoulders and said, “Guess I’m beta then”. He has a girlfriend, they live together, have kids and things are fine. (They aren’t married because he thinks weddings are a waste of money. Maybe she’ll be able to talk him into a small ceremony some day.) He got her by going on a date some years back. I know he dated some other women too, but nothing like Casanova level.
They liked each other, they had a good time together, she moved in with him after six months. They both have good jobs and the future looks bright. He is honest to a fault and knew little about the dating scene dos and don’ts, so he should be categorized as beta – but he lives a much better life than a lot of guys you see online who beat their chests under the alpha banner. No matter how much you’d call him beta he wouldn’t care, it wouldn’t get to him. He’d just go have dinner in his backyard with his family.
Maybe we need to distinguish between upper beta and lower beta. Or simply call the “boring whimp” type of guy an omega, and have “beta” as the name for the average guy who is neither a loser nor what we’d call an alpha.
> “They aren’t married because he thinks weddings are a waste of money… No matter how much you’d call him beta he wouldn’t care, it wouldn’t get to him…”
Dude, that ain’t no beta.
Your homeboy is Alpha as hell.
And, from your description, he’s living the Good life.
“No matter how much you’d call him beta he wouldn’t care, it wouldn’t get to him. He’d just go have dinner in his backyard with his family.”
That doesn’t sound beta, it sounds like confident contentedness.
the problem arbiter is for 50 percent of those guys get divorced blind sided and lose 50 percent of what the have and all of what they are
If you’re having sex more than 15 times a month with various women you find physically attractive – Alpha
5-10 times a month – Beta
1-4 times, but you find some emotional value in your relationship and some physical attraction – lesser Beta. This is the last level where a man can probably feel happy, probably describes Arbiter’s friend.
You fuck fat chicks or you have a mail order wife from a 3rd world country – greater Gamma
You get condolence hand jobs from your shrew wife once every six months so you’ll stop whining – lesser Gamma
Below that are the Omega men.
> “They aren’t married because he thinks weddings are a waste of money… No matter how much you’d call him beta he wouldn’t care, it wouldn’t get to him…”
Dude, that ain’t no beta.
Your homeboy is Alpha as hell.
And, from your description, he’s living the Good life.
Yes, perhaps you’re right, ZS, MP. Now that I think of it the marriage thing is also that he doesn’t think he needs ceremonies. He is traditionalist, knowing that many people need symbolism, it’s just that he doesn’t.
He also gives his kids war toys (I contribute) because he thinks they need to toughen up from the start, despite the girlfriend’s protestations. The compromise is that the water guns clearly look like toys. He also won’t let the kids watch children’s shows on TV, “because of the messages”. He gives them puzzle games on the computer instead.
We also made home-made weapons as a project. His girlfriend didn’t like that either, but they are together anyway.
I guess I should keep in mind that alpha doesn’t have to mean going from one woman to another, not if you are lucky enough to meet a good one early on.
arbiter I mean my girl brought up today again if I would ever marry her she brought up she would do a prenump and would never ask me for child support and would not want alimony would not want anything she didn’t come with not cars not house
but yea I told her she wasn’t even marriage material yet if I could
she like what if I worked on being marriage material for years
I’m like maybe
speaking of really she just wants my last name so bad she can taste iit but
Once again I’m proven right. Women hate hate hate beta males. So don’t ever be beta. Ever.
YOU’RE proven right?
What chutzpah, even for you, WhisKeY.
What, you wanna take credit for gravity too, Captain Obvious?
“Women would rather do away with the prospect of sex in exchange for a fun time . . .”
Is this not what the fat lady said in that Louis CK episode that every man hates?
FR —
First night of the challenge. I roll out solo to a college bar. I decide I’ll take it easy for the first night back sarging. I also decide that I will sarge alone for this 30 days because I’ve become really used to going out in a group and doing whatever.
Pros of venue: young girls. Target rich. Familiar.
Cons of venue: group-heavy which means amog heavy.
There’s a section of the bar with tables for eating. Rails on either side separate this section from the pool area and the bar. There’s 3 girls sitting at a table and some fat dude sitting on the end. I lean on the rail facing perpendicular to a seated 7, smoking cigarette in hand, looking up at one of the TVs.
“….hey (to 7)….didn’t we go to high school together?”
7: (tilts his head) Ummm…I don’t….
“Yeah, yeah….you were…….the ‘free spirit.’ right?”
7: Free spirit….?
“Yeah……….you know……” (smirk)
7: Uh……ohmygod, no! (laughs)
“Are you sure….? You’re really dashing my expectations and hopes for the evening….”
7: I’m sorry to do that to you
“It’s cool, I think of you as a person, not a sexual object. We can be friends first….”
7: I’m so glad
In my mind I’m like, ‘is it really this easy? was i that much of a loser before?’
Enter AMOG — white dude, medium height, decent looking, buff….immediately puts an arm around 7
AMOG: what’s up……who’s this?
7: ….uh he’s…..I actually don’t know his name
Me: Hey, I’m Scray, nice to meet you…(to AMOG)
AMOG: (takes opportunity to look away while shaking my hand)…nice to meet you.
I know he’s gonna immediately start talking to the 7 and shut me out, so I just beat him to the punch and turn away from them.
So then I notice a 7 and a 6 sitting a few tables down laughing and whatnot. The 7 looks behind her at the bar, and I’m in her line of sight. My first reaction is an adventurous smile and double eyebrow raise. NOTHING in response. She just turned away after a second. I figure, ‘huh guess she was looking past me.’
Then, another dude from the AMOG’s original group….AMOG 2…leaves that group to talk to the 7 and the 6. I’m like ‘ugh, wow…maybe being alone is harder than I thought.’
So, I just retreat a bit to the bar. I figure I’ll take half an hour…put some songs on the jukebox, and jump back into it. I put on “Get Lucky,” and order a beer and start smoking my cigarettes. This 6 near me with her friends at the bar squeals when it comes on ‘ohmygod I LOVE this song…’
Me: Hey….Hey (getting their attention)………..you’re welcome.
6: You put that on?
Me: Ya.
6: You don’t look like a club rat…
Me: Wow. You’re already talking shit about me?
6: No no no, I’m just saying like….
Me: At least wait until I disappoint you first. Jesus.
6:…….you’re short, I can tell. That’s disappointing.
(Her group snickers)
Me: (oldie but a goodie…) Well…..you guys can dress her up but you can’t take her out, can you?
6: I’M just kidding, Oh my god!
Me: No we’re enemies now.
6: Ugh fine then!
I decide not to re-initiate for the moment. I notice that the 7 and 6 from earlier have relocated to the bar near me. Before I can say anything or take the opportunity to re-open, I notice the AMOG from before at the bar…he starts talking to AMOG 2 and involving the 6 and her group. He keeps looking over at me….it’s hard to describe the look, but like….I felt that he did not enjoy my presence.
So he asks to bum a cigarette off me. I’m fine with it, and I let him have a cigarette.
The 7 from earlier suddenly gets my attention.
7: “Hey….why are you so lonely?”
Me: Oh do I look lonely?
7: Yeah….so what are you doing, why are you there….don’t be so sad.
Me: How do you know that I’m sad?
7: …well earlier you seemed happy when you smiled at me. (so she DID see me) Now you’re not smiling.
Me: I was smiling. Now I’m not smiling. Wow. You’re sooooo smart.
7: (she scrunches up her nose and laughs….I wait a second and laugh)
Me: I guess we’ve solved the mystery of why I’m here alone.
(I’m getting into slight tension-release-tension-release)
The 6 from earlier asks me to bum a cigarette, and I tell her no I only have a few left.
6: Wow. Cigarette hog over here.
Me: Mr. Cigarette hog.
I turn back and notice that AMOG 2 (not AMOG 1) has approached and re-opened 7 and 6. He asks them if they want to play pool.
7: I’m not really into games with sticks and balls.
I decide to have some fun
Me: Yeah. She’s more into games involving holes if you know what I mean.
7: Uhhhhh….
Me: Don’t be shy about it. You guys, it’s 2014. Your love is on display for the world to see. You two should kiss.
AMOG 2: Ha, it’s like you’ve never seen two girls out and about in public before man.
Me: Oh it is…? (he got me for a second, stunned)
AMOG 2: Yeah like you live under a rock.
Me: That’s true. Except it’s really my dick. Like, I live under my dick. Cause it’s so huge that I miss out on current events because my dick is just like….uggggh everywhere all the time. It’s pretty annoying. (the 7 and 6 are laughing at what I’m saying…..I decide to throw the guy a bone because they’re closed off to him and it just seems like luck of the draw that they are) …I’m sure you know all about that, bro.
AMOG 2: (still elects to try and be a dick) Yeah…uh, whatever. (so then I’m like well fuck you, I’m not going to help you out….I go silent. The girls go silent too. He’s just standing there)….well if you guys want to play just let me know (after an uncomfortably long bit of quiet…then he leaves)
So I resume chatting up the 7 and 6. About an hour in (total at the bar) I only have one mug of beer down (and that’s how it stays). When the 6 from earlier is walking by I flag her down…
Me: Hey….hey…a million apologies about earlier, m’lady (I hold my arm out and she just lets it settle on her hip and comes closer)
6: Oh it’s fine I was just teasing you.
Me: Okay. Give me a little kiss before you go. Just a peck though. I’m not a whore.
(She actually does it, and then I let her go — now I notice that her group and AMOG’s group seem to know each other, because she goes and talks to the original 7, and they both look at me…..not long after, the AMOG approaches)
AMOG: Hey man can I bum another cig?
Me: ….nah I’m good man, only have a few left.
AMOG: Oh hey don’t worry about it, man.
HERE IS THE PART I NEED ADVICE WITH THE MOST —
I go to the bathroom and leave my cigarettes at the bar (dumb). I come back and the remaining cigs are gone. So my first instinct is to go and ask them. I’m met by both AMOG and AMOG 2 at the head of their group
Me: Hey, did you take my last few cigarettes?
AMOG: What, nah. I mean, i had the one earlier you let me have but no nothing else.
Me: Oh, because when I left I had 3 cigs here and now there aren’t any.
AMOG 2: (agitated) why don’t you ask your girlfriend over there who took them?
Me: (is this real life? did I walk into a John Hughes movie right now? is that shit based on real things?) Uhhh……
AMOG 2: I mean, you think we took your cigarettes dude? (agitated)
Me: Hey it’s not a big deal either way, just cigarettes. Want to make sure I’m not going crazy. Have a good one.
I leave….inwardly enraged but unsure of what I could have done.
I successfully isolate the 7 by asking to talk to her for a second outside. We makeout, she seems primed and ready to go back to my place. I elect to get her number instead (I know, what a bitch…..but honestly, I just feel most comfortable doing it on a day 2).
Anyways…..
what the fuck was with those guys? and I’m not sure what I can do when they pull some nancy ass shit like that. Like, I can’t just bust in and fight their crew alone. As played, I guess I just need to let it go and not even confront them?
I understand not to leave my cigarettes unattended, but I’m just asking about the meta issue.
All in all really good night. I’m pretty sure they won’t all be so easy. I’ll put myself into a new venue soon.
Scray!
I just started my Challenge yesterday man! Look I don’t want to take away from your FR but mad fucking props and I look forward to going through with this with you man.
Goals: Sun-Wed 5 daygame approaches
Thur-Sun: Go out and actively night game and try do improve that aspect
*Morning/evening commute Mon-Fri: 1 Track of RSD Blueprint Decoded
*Got a RSD Hotseat in 2 weeks so that will help things out
So far so good. Shit ended with the Hb6.5/7 Asian cutie. She sniffed me out and good on her….I needed this 30 day.
Got a date with an Hb7.5 Latina I picked up off daygame today……
“Hey, you know it’s illegal to walk that fast on the sidewalk in New York….they’ll right you a ticket..”
“Oh yeah…”
“Yeah…shit let me catch my breath. You were walking so fast…”
“(Giggle)”
*Continues sarge”
Thanks Scray for the inspiration and shoutout to Hunter if you’re reading this. And Scray keep posting your FRs…such good shit the way you write them.
I’m in this! Hahaha I am bro
I’m starting mine too
@immoral pure gold. Have you read Krauser’s book? It’s got a great explanation of the entire structure and process.
damn man for the number of times you used the word ‘AMOG’ i thought your story would end in something dramatic or at least a semi-violent display of primate status posturing. instead i read about the ‘mystery of the missing cancer sticks.’ those AMOGs were actually BMOGs.
good work w/ the HBs though.
Scray. Good for you. That dick line was some funny shit too. Overall, you entered a tough situation and got a make-out. If you wouldn’t have left your cigs, you wouldn’t even be worried about how to handle two amogs. And any shit amogs give you is really just their dicks talking, as they are trying to find the same pussy as your dick is trying to find. Just part of the game.
Like I told you homeys many times before. Dictatorship is the answer. If this were a serious country with a serious socio-political order wives would be furnished for these smart guys in order to breed more smart guys. If the women chosen for the task don’t appreciate the lack of stimulation then the lash their blood-pumping just fine. Civilization trumps hedonism.
What’s the problem bro, PUAHate still down?
Sordid bitch alert…
http://ironicmom.com/2012/02/27/how-to-insult-your-spouse/
..liberals are ruining the internet…I was searching for “how to insult people and get away with it” and all I could find was crap about how we need to accept people for being general shitheads and bad at life…
Agreed. A ‘Niggers are ugly’ search results in ‘nigger is an ugly word.’ Maybe not exactly, but you get the idea.
i haven’t read the rest of her webpage, but she doesn’t seem so bad based on that article. as i read it, her husband regularly negs her and she loves it.
Once you realize that she is desperate for a hard cock, like in the old days, it all fits together like an Edsel.
Greg Eliot has entered the building
[…] Source: Heartiste […]
This incurably sick society can’t collapse quickly enough.
Let it burn.
That’s exactly what feminists want you to think. Good job on the hopelessness, it helps them accomplish their goals.
Red state type females take a hint, move to the blue state cities to find your mate, then scoot back to red state with provider when it’s time to have kids.
oh and PS blue state men, seek out the red state transplants in the blue states and immediately cut bait on the blue state feminists. and figure out who is who faster. come on, you can do it with that big old high IQ of yours.
my girl too good for this world too helped raise four chicks kids when the mom was all fucked up from 6 months to 3 years time
and now actually calling people for the chicks back in jail
I guess I can see how sometimes the cuckhold thing might happen when ya don’t have a kid with chick cause ya can’t and she goes and gets one
my girl she bout to steal a kid so we have one he he he
dam she had a lot of messages looked like a yearbook signing
she on phone telling another chicks mom her kid ain’t getting her prescription in jail
story of my life chick don’t have kid with me goes and gets one
how do ya compete my bitch used to make 6k a day dealin sometimes
so how do ya compete with that who knows
but most bitches ain’t making that
What is it you do again?
chill and fuck
told her she was my soumate couple days ago she brought it up today
said nobody ever told her she was their soulmate before
so there ya go
Ok guys who take a girl out to the most expensive restaurant in town or buy them drinks when they meet the girl are ignorant and rookies.
Define spending money on a girl though. B/C I think that if you are given really good seats to a pro sports game like hockey or nba or something and you invite her with your extra ticket…yeah you could frame that like you’re trying to impress her and pedestalizing her…b/c you simply are pedestalizing her. BUT at least it’s “going to the game” and a good experience–even could be kind of like her tagging along. Thoughts?
The more I think about it…the more it should be this: Don’t take the girl take one of your bros/homies and drink beer with a friend. Not the girl. Analyzing it I think is the best move but I still don’t think it is a bad thing to take your girl to stuff like that….
I think overanalyzing dude I took a ho up in airplane to be in plane when I had flight lesson I didn’t love her or no shit like that wasn’t planned I knew I could take someone so I invited her
she will remember that shit the rest of her life it was also her first time in plane
but she invited me over summer when I was down a bit to state fair and had place for us to stay and such
and she will prob be there for me to talk to the rest of my life
guys on here talk about being hard and shit cause we actually easy so have to counteract some of the easy by matraing that shit so a bitch doesn’t run over us like a steamroller
and start demanding once a week you take her up in plane
or she complains this time there was one less rose than was supposed to be there when it becomes an expection or what is taken for granted and not your god given right as a man to provide wealth displays when you feel it when your in the mood by your choise of where and when cause you feelin chick and that is what your feelin but don’t let it be expected
Obviously, you will end up spending some money on a girl, just like girls do spend some money on guys. The irony is that I don’t mind paying if my friends are low on money because I’d rather just have fun than worry about money, but I will never be able to do this with women because of how they interpret it. This being said, you are selling a narrative to her and she has to want to be part of it. If using your extra ticket is congruent with the narrative, it’s ok. Plus, you can tell her beforehand that she’ll have to make it up to you by buying you drinks after the game or whatever.
Shiv status: Too the Bone.
I love it when I hear this
When I read the original article… any Beta I had left died.
Totally unbelievable what an entitled hamster engine can do.
Recent topic -relevant email exchange after ‘nexting’ this plate over a month ago – I may have spent a bag of skittles at most…
Her:
It’s funny
I have a man chasing me ATM
He owns a restaurant on the northern beaches
He drives a Maserati
Has the body of a bloody action man..
And yet deep down it’s you , Stuttie who I want and wish I had in my arms , my bed , my life
Even though you tore me apart
And it has nothing to do with the fucking matrix
It’s because we fit .. We were great together …
xxxx
Me: – you’re right – it’s hilarious
Her:
Don’t believe me …
It’s true
But yes funny I would rather you
Me:
oh i believe you
wow…congrats….you’ll have heaps of dudes trying to get in yr pants…thats a given.
but none of these chumps will be me. u cant negotiate genuine desire…remember.
Her:
Make up your mind …. You wanted me to decide if I could see you while you see other women
Oh and he is far from a chump….
But Jesus I still would rather you …
WHY,,,,,FUCK !!!!!
nice he he he
That beautiful Stuttie. Funny how the new beta is now paying for your alpha fux
How do you think I ever got to drive cars that cost over 30,000 Euros? It happened a few times and usually it was the car of the new boyfriend of an ex of mine.
guess I really do flipt the script
my wife wanted to open a whorehouse to make me money my bitch wants to deal
wtf is wrong with me lol
why can’t i let the woman take that heat for once and put there freedom on the line for a dude for change
fuck this shit is really ingrained in my being
in my code can’t break it even for my pockets fuck
Most amusing is the girls who go on engineering or computing courses purely because they love the idea of being the only girl in an entire group of men
Then spend the entire time bitching that the guys are too busy with their studies to give them attention..
Like wtf do they expect? The blokes on such courses are hardly there to pick up chicks
> “The blokes on such courses are hardly there to pick up chicks”
Okay, there I gotta side with the poor bitch.
Dudes with even a fraction of the testosterone of a dead snake lying in the middle of the road should ALWAYS be hitting on the poontang.
Even if the poontang is only an HB6 and wears glasses and Mom jeans.
Confront the poontang.
Engage the poontang.
Seize the poontang.
Tap the poontang.
Put a great big smile on the poontang’s face and a rosy glow in her cheeks and leave her hair all tassled up in a rat’s nest.
Leave the poontang so that she’s walking bow-legged for a week afterwards.
Carpe Poontang… a motto to live by.
Well-done, Shane.
There’s a joke about this here. I study engineering and we have three girls in our class, the best looking being Matthew. Girls who study engineering are below average in looks, but some are neat.
Jesus wept. I thought all your articles about the decline and fall of western civilization were hyperbole, until I read about Seattle. What a bunch of stuck-up over-30 has-been entitled bitches. And yes, the guys are clueless and dickless. What a farce.
Let’s not forget though that we are trying to help our fellow man. Those nerds with their six-figure tech jobs are clueless but not stupid. They read the net, and some will come here, and some will master game, their life, and their boner. The women in that article, like the one with the Masters from Berkeley in Event Management, are beyond hope. And who cares anyway, they don’t give me a boner, and feminists can’t legislate that men have to get a woodie for Lena Dunham’s giant ass.
Berkeley bitches are the worst BTW. USB is a good 2nd tier school sure. #20 and top public university. But certainly a cut below the Ivy League and a few other select schools. Throw in a dose of lesbian feminism, and its an evil cocktail. Berkeley women think they’re all that, but I’ve known many and all they learned there was attitude, none of them have the real goods intellectually. They’re good at Event Planning though…
Dude I lived in and dated in Seattle. Its even worse than the article. Another part of the reason the dudes are so emasculated here is because they have to be. The family courts here are awful to men, the feminists will all gang up and attack you, and men will not take your back as there is no “bro code” or “honor” amongst any males in Seattle.
Its a fucking land mine that I unfortunately stepped on.
Think the upper earning men are bad, try the upper earning tech WOMEN. Cold, calculating, feminazi, sluts going to yoga class and trying to have a baby to impress their friends.
@ Scray
I can somewhat relate to this FR.
I sarge 90% of time solo. I actually think it’s better, especially if your wing/s are not unplugged or have no idea of PUA.
I’m 42 6’4″ 250 pounds and know how to handle myself. So when I’m sarging groups in a target rich environment I will almost always get approached by the AMOG, or, if I see a target group has an AMOG, I will always say hi to him first to gauge his vibe – even if negative, he instinctively knows why I’m there and knows what he’s up against.
Anyway, I think you handled the AMOG’s reasonably well. No point getting in a scrap over 3 ciggies when you are out solo, and, still in with a shot with the cute 7. It takes a bigger guy to walk away from a scrap that he knows he could win.
Personally, I would have gone for the SNL with the 7 because her ASD might kick in before day 2 and she’ll flake. Escalate, escalate escalate.
But, it sounds like you out-Gamed the AMOG – even if you did leave (but hey, it coulda been with the 7 if you pushed it).
The only advice from me would be to potentially introduce yourself to the AMOG first to gauge their vibe and get some social proof.
Is someone who understands technology and makes six figures a beta male by definition? I don’t see anything in the article to contradict that interpretation.
As for Salon.com, if one of their writers told me it was a Monday, I’d click the calendar widget on my laptop.
My brother works in the IT&C field and him and his friends are ok, but the field does attract throngs of social rejects. The IT&C college that is part of my alma mater is filled with guys who think going home after class to play FIFA online is the thing to do. lol. The hilarity is that my alma mater has more girls than boys in every single major except the computer science one so the numbers don’t help them either.
Not a fan of the terms “alpha” and “beta”.
“Alpha” implies superiority. At attracting women, yes. For other important tasks, no.
“Beta” is Aristides, whose virtue built the Athenian Empire, the only politician Socrates respected.
“Alpha” is Alcibiades, whose dark triad character destroyed the Athenian Empire, the only politician Socrates wanted to man-love.
Drag yourself away from the harem for a couple hours, read some Plutarch, and you’ll see what I mean.
Aristides was alpha, Alcibiades was beta, and Socrates thought that you should know yourself.
Alcibiades knocked up the queen of Sparta while cuckholding the king of Sparta. That’s pretty alpha.
“Alcibiades was beta”
By the Aryan definition, yes.
By Heartiste’s definition, no.
That is my disagreement with Heartiste.
So the ultimate price hen pecked betas paid for embracing the whole female equality, and let us vote, and give us affirmative action, and hire us first even though we can’t do the job, and allow us to set government policy so as to continually skim and sponge off you is this: “Now that we have your gold we don’t need you so f— off but do pay your tax in case I get pregnant and want WIC and keep your address up to date so I can choose someone out of the phone book whose a better provider schlub than the biker (or 6) who could actually be the father when I want to list a daddy for child support collections”.
The new world as it is. Oh well. I’m sure that such a society is infinitely sustainable and in the end the Maureen Dowd’s of the world will be proven right when they say the world doesn’t need working men…. hey… what’s wrong with my toilet? And my car won’t start… WAH!!!!
CH, I love most of the things you write about sexuality, but sometimes you really write huge bullshit. A shit ton of money can buy you all the hottest whores and escorts on earth and, if you aren’t a total bitch, you can have them do whatever the fuck you want (see mr. B.)
@anus nah. They will get burned in the end. Or the alpha friends that use the beta will get the pussy
read carefully. i didn’t say a shit ton of money couldn’t buy a man a platoon of whores and loveless golddiggers. i said a lot of money won’t help a man attract non-whore women if he has the personality of a beta dishrag.
WTF is with a dude who calls himself “anus”?
That’s some weird, weird shit right there.
Read what he wrote and get a look into his powers of logic… anus is the ONLY apt monicker for such a fellow.
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considering all the gay stuff you kept posting about near the top of this page, i’m not surprised you replied to the man who calls himself “anus.”
6 figure income does not equate to a shit ton of money, especially in those tech enclaves with their high cost of living.
Is direct game harder than indirect game? It must be, cuz for the past year, I’ve been sucking miserably at direct. I’m gonna give indirect a shot now.
My blood boiled when I read this. A bunch of women in their 30’s who feel entitled some to some handsome 6’3″ artist and parasailing instructor with piles of money like they saw in the movies. Completely ridiculous.
Jesus wept. I thought all your articles about the decline and fall of western civilization were hyperbole, until I read about Seattle. What a bunch of stuck-up over-30 has-been entitled bitches. And yes, the guys are clueless and dickless. What a farce.
Let’s not forget though that we are trying to help our fellow man. Those nerds with their six-figure tech jobs are clueless but not stupid. They read the net, and some will come here, and some will master game, their life, and their boner. The women in that article, like the one with the Masters from Berkeley in Event Management, are beyond hope. And who cares anyway, they don’t give me a boner, and feminists can’t legislate that men have to get a woodie for Lena Dunham’s giant ass.
Berkeley bitches are the worst BTW. USB is a good 2nd tier school sure. #20 and top public university. But certainly a cut below the Ivy League and a few other select schools. Throw in a dose of lesbian feminism, and its an evil cocktail. Berkeley women think they’re all that, but I’ve known many and all they learned there was attitude, none of them have the real goods intellectually. They’re good at Event Planning though…
Don’t miss the comments to the original article, where a guys says “hey I’m an artist, and I don’t want any part of your saggy old 30-something ass and ridiculous entitlement and attitude”. Another guy says he’s planning to sell cats in Seattle for all the future cat spinsters that will result.
> “saggy old 30-something ass… future cat spinsters…”
We’re doing the Lord’s work, my Man.
Doing the Lord’s work.
Keep spreading The Word, far and wide.
If we’re gonna win this War, then we’re gonna hafta win it from the ground up.
Keep spreading The Word.
Can you guess why this mass shooting isn’t in the news like Isla Vista?
http://my.chicagotribune.com/?utm_medium=referral&utm_source=pulsenews#section/544/article/p2p-80383252/
“Six people, including two teenagers, have been shot tonight at a coin laundry in the South Shore neighborhood, authorities said.
…
Earlier, five people were wounded during afternoon and evening attacks, including a 15-year-old boy, authorities said.
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Earlier, paramedics were called to the 8000 block of South Avalon Avenue at 4:18 p.m. for a separate shooting that wounded two people, fire officials said. A 15-year-old boy was taken in serious to critical condition to Advocate Christ Medical Center in Oak Lawn and a 21-year-old man was also taken to Christ, but was in good condition, according to Chicago Fire Department officials.
In two earlier shootings, a pair of men were wounded during separate attacks one minute apart and about five blocks away from each other this afternoon in the West Woodlawn neighborhood, police said.
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In a separate incident one minute later, someone shot a 22-year-old man in the buttocks in the 6400 block of South Eberhart Avenue, Pacheco said.”
> “Can you guess why this mass shooting isn’t in the news like Isla Vista?”
Because the shooters and the victims look like they could be sons of Obama?
Because the mayor of Chicago is an officer in the Mossad?
Gee, I dunno, I give up.
Why?
Because Dog Bites Man stories aren’t really news?
http://money.cnn.com/2014/06/02/news/economy/seattle-minimum-wage/index.html?hpt=hp_c2
“Seattle’s city council on Monday unanimously approved an increase in the city’s minimum wage to $15 an hour, making it the nation’s highest by far.”
I guess all those betas from Amazon will be happy to pay the increased prices for their boring dates. Once the latest economic bubble bursts, though, you won’t be able to give away retail space.
>$15 an hour
WHAT? How the hell are the least productive jobs ever going to have an output corresponding to that?
And with the U.S. having relatively low taxes this is a hell of a wage for sweeping floors and flipping burgers. Absurd. Far too much money going to people who shouldn’t have that much. But of course, they won’t. They will be fired when businesses can’t afford to pay them more than they bring in.
The bribes were probably paid by Amazon’s robotics division.
Here’s the thing CH. you love pointing out racial differences in everything except in cases like this where you are speaking mainly of WHITE WOMENS behavior and not all women’s behaviors. If you can make racial distinctions in almost every other topic on here, why not be REAL and make the racial distinction here instead of lumping all women together?
WHITE WOMEN suffer from these issues more than any other race of women because White males have been socialized to be more Beta than any other races of men. so you have many White women “bored” with what they are used to.
There are 3 things to this, and yes CH you fail to point out the racial angle.
1) White women have an abundance of beta well of white males to pick from. It’s like they are used to this and believe the grass is greener (exciting alpha male). Because they rarely deal with Alpha males as the majority of their pick of the litter, they look for what is uncommon to them, and view that as better than what is common to them.
OTOH, in Latin and Black races the abundance of men are more Alpha “exciting types” with nothing else to offer in terms of being grat husbands, fathers and providers so the quality women of these groups desire the beta male with a good job and good prospect at being a husband. Many quality women of Latin and Black have to look to other races to marry and date if they want to find a good man and beta type who will not walk out on their children, who has a JOB (a good one) and who will make great husbands and fathers. White women are used to those types and are bored with them (that is until they no longer have them).
This is definitely a White woman entitlement issue. Also it’s an issue of White women not appreciating what they have – until it’s gone.
Other races of women (except maybe Asian) tend to have the opposite problem. Too many alpha types with nothing to offer besides “excitement”, and many of these women would kill to have a slew of intelligent well of future husbands and stable fathers for their children.
I bet if they saw all those rich White beta dudes marrying and romancing Black, Asian and women of other races, those articles will be no more.
You need to stop lumping all women together in this aspect. This is CLEARLY a white woman issue because they are taking for granted what they have because it’s so common no easy for them to find a beta provider type of White guy as opposed to finding the opposite.
Any smart beta White guy who wants to marry and have a womn than appreciates him would do best looking to other races of attractive quality women who will appreciate him.
This is so screamingly false that I don’t even want to say much.
I know of so many non white dudes who are latched onto fat as fuck girls with tats. If that doesn’t scream beta idk hat does.
Beta is very largely concerned with ones attitude.
I was replying in response to the article where the women were complaining about rich beta “nerds” who work for Amazon.
On this site beta is an attitude YES. And that seem to be an attitude that many *WHITE* women see as negative because they are overly exposed to that and want something different and “exciting”.
That was my point.
Neecy, the only points of interest you possess are on the tips of your teats.
Now, continue to pontificate about the psychology of white women… it amuses me.
Neecy, the only points of interest you possess are on the tips of your teats.
lzozlozlzz
The problem is that most white men, at least the ones I talked to, aren’t very interested in having a long term relationship with black women. There are white men who fancy Asian girls, but the ones that have a thing for black women besides out of curiosity are rare.
White women suffer from this the most because they are probably the most desired kind of women on this planet and the most brainwashed(I talked to more open minded devout Muslim girls than open minded Swedish feminists), although I never understand why beached whales that just happen to be white act like they’re Grace Kelly. I don’t even think white men are that beta on average compared to the global average considering Latin American women, Asian women etc seem to like white guys and I don’t think they do it because they like wimpy men and social maladroitness. Also, Asian women seem to like Asian men, not black or Latin men, which is a problem for your hypothesis: if exposure to beta men makes women want sexual thrills with cads, than Asian women should be doing it the most.
Neecy is ABSOLUTELY right. Hot black girls are after money. Hot white girls have their own money; what they don’t have is that extra bone in their foot.
This is why as pro black as I am, I will never stop fucking white girls; white girls think camping is romantic, they love home made “gifts”, smooth rocks from the river bed…
” if exposure to beta men makes women want sexual thrills with cads, than Asian women should be doing it the most.”
They are actually. There is a pecking order between men and women and the races and it is fairly well documented at this point.
White women >> ALL. Everyone of every race knows this whether they choose to leap out of their cognitive dissonance and admit it or not. It is as real as gravity and well proven across the world.
Next Asian women and poor Africans are dead last.
Conversely, this paradigm shifts for women largely through about 50+ years of aggressive propaganda by “some peoples” and social engineering.
Prior to total control of media and academia by “some people” the strata was the same for men.
Now we have black men being elevated to the edgy desirable man even towards white women. Successful brothas are, of course, going to snag a trophy to bring his DNA 50,000 years forward in a single nut. Who wouldn’t?
White men are still the upper notch too for any woman that hasn’t drunk the Kool-Aid, but betas through the same propaganda engine are not desirable anymore.
Then poor Asian males are just seen as betas in the vast majority, even by their own women. They see white men as a great combination of looks and intellect. Not all Asian women are down w/ Yellow Fever of course, but a statistically significant percentage certainly are.
I don’t even think white men are that beta on average compared to the global average considering Latin American women, Asian women etc seem to like white guys and I don’t think they do it because they like wimpy men and social maladroitness.
They (we) aren’t. Latinas and Asians think of frat boys, not programmer nerds, when they think of white men.
Not all Asian women are down w/ Yellow Fever of course, but a statistically significant percentage certainly are.
I think you mean white plague.
Asian chicks like white guys almost as much as black dudes like white chicks.
You don’t like white women do you?
When did hubby run off with one?
You don’t lithe Bkack men do you?
Too many White women running off with them?
See how I can make the same assumptions about White men like you?
Difference us I don’t make HATEFULL comments against White women.
“HATEFULL”
It’s “hateful”. Being a Black you should know that, since “hate” is pretty much your only argument, as taught to you by the media bosses. Come on, get your act together.
“Many quality women of Latin and Black have to look to other races to marry and date if they want to find a good man and beta type who will not walk out on their children, who has a JOB (a good one) and who will make great husbands and fathers.”
this is why it’s pointless to discuss relationships with girls, their crazy hamster makes them say things that are obviously false but they pretend it’s true.
AWALT. minority girls love thugs & are turned off by white betas even more so than white girls.
@Neecy: You need to stop lumping all women together in this aspect
I’ve dated women of all ethnicity’s and in general – the ones that are most attractive, and in high demand, pretty much are operating from the same play book, regardless of race, color, or religion, because they can. If there is a large demand for them, they have every reason to behave in whatever way they can get away with. Such high-demand women can party, and then eventually marry some schmoe whom they can take for a ride, and take his money. So why wouldn’t they? There is no down side for them in this scenario. Of course, some of them over-play their hand and find their value dropped below where they can pull the type of men they are used to, you hear them all the time – usually after they have hit their 30’s.
So while there are exceptions to every rule, figure that most of the generalizations you see here apply to at the majority of attractive, high-demand, < 25 yo, women (black,white,red,yellow). Think of a group of women, like a group of particles if you like – I can predict how "most" women will behave in general, but I can't say how any one will behave specifically. (And by observing her, I change how she behaves anyway.) But that doesn't mean I throw up my hands and give up. I use what I know to achieve my overall objective from knowing how a "group" of them behave. After all, I don't want any one in particular – any will do for the evening as long as they meet my overall criteria of attractiveness.
So some things said may not apply to ALL women – AA or not, but if she isn't light skinned, and not classically attractive, their demand isn't as high, or their tastes differ. And to a certain extent an AA woman having a white guy is a status symbol. Just like it is among various Asian cultures – that's why you see the pasty white guy with the hot little Asian chick in China (not so much in the US) – it's because it's a status symbol for her to say, "Look at what I was able to get." People are people – you can love them, or hate them but in general – they are ALL the same, so you might as well enjoy the ride, since it's a one-time deal…
List of groups on feminists’ shit list:
Wealthy business executives
“Bros”
Jocks
PUAs
Diet coaches
Mainstream media
Entertainment industry
Tech industry
I’m sure I’m missing some. In the near future this list will likely be revised to “any white male who’s not a house husband.”
I know of 3 young AA women who moved to Seattle and is either married to or dating these “cast off” men that White women are so “tired of”.
Seattle is a great place for interracial relationships for attractive women of color looking to snatch up quality white beta guys (open to interracial dating) who WHite women spit on.
AND DO NOT COME TO ME WITH THAT WHITE NATIONALIST CRAP!!!
Thanks in advance! *MUAH*
I don’t even mind when other white men date non-white women. I don’t think most white men do, just like black men don’t mind when other black men date white women.
Robert Howard (he of the Conan stories fame, among others) had a pertinent observation in one of his tales, the exact one of which escapes me for the moment.
It went something along the lines of how men can fight and drink alongside men of other tribes, and even look favorably upon the strangers’ women… but when he sees the strange man look with lustful intent upon the women of his own tribe, the bloodlust is awakened and he sees a true enemy indeed.
Of course, his exact words were better reading… and I find it interesting I can not find a glimmer of that quote through google. The first time I saw it, I believe it was published as a sidebar in one of the Instauration magazines, back in the seventies.
> “THAT WHITE NATIONALIST CRAP”
EXCLUSIVE: ‘Oprah deliberately set out to destroy my life. She’s robbed me of my husband, and now my home.’ The moment sobbing stepmom Barbara Winfrey is forced out of her house by billionaire talk queen
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2643014/EXCLUSIVE-Oprah-deliberately-set-destroy-life-Shes-robbed-husband-home-The-moment-sobbing-stepmom-Barbara-Winfrey-forced-house-billionaire-talk-queen.html
Right on Neecy.
When I met my ex’s white boyfriend I was shocked at how beta he was. I said, “you were dating this guy?”
Really?
AND DO NOT COME TO ME WITH THAT WHITE NATIONALIST CRAP!!!K
Darlin’, y’all wouldn’t have to hear the WN side of things if’n ya didn’t continue to spew that One World Mongrelization Crap.
As they say Down Under:
“You cahn’t ‘ave it both ways, luv.”
Or, as you folk say in da hood:
“Doan start no sheet and they won’t be no sheet!”
Hey CH, I decided to write a “marriage” contract.
The Writers of this contract, “Writers”, with full knowledge of both parties, persuent to this contract, will recognize the union of said parties. Stipulations of said “Contract” are listed below.
A) The “Writers” cannot guarantee that the amount, frequency, intensity, or satisfaction acquired from sexual relations of both parties will remain at it’s current state.
B) The “Writers” cannot guarantee that the weight, size, or shape of the female party to this Contract will maintain current weight, size or shape.
C) The “Writers” cannot guarantee that the female party will maintain current employment.
D) The “Writers” cannot guarantee that the male party’s current workload will increase or decrease.
E) The “Writers” cannot guarantee that the male party’s home decorations will remain the same as they are current.
F) The “Writers” cannot guarantee the female party’s fidelity.
G) The “Writers” cannot guarantee that any children born from said union, were in fact created by the male party.
G) Subsection A: Persuent to stipulation “G”, the “Writers” cannot guarantee that the male party will be responsible for care for said children no matter if said children were not created by the male party.
H) The “Writers” cannot guarantee that upon dissolution of said “Contract” that the male party will or will not be forced, by applicable laws, and through the threat of incarceration, that the male party will have to pay, monthly, an undetermined sum of money for an undetermined amount of time.
This Contract is life-binding, and can only be dissolved in a Court of Law.
Written Name of the Male Party ________________________________
Signature of the Male Party ___________________________________
Written Name of the Female Party ______________________________
Signature of the Female Party _________________________________
@CH, I think you should do the reviews of game books, but you should review the ones you found best because we all read some of the classic books(e.g. The Game) and the widely read books don’t need more reviews.
By the way, here’s another article by a sturdy fellow, one Arthur Chu, starting out at a somewhat reasonable point and ending up … weeeeelll, let’s call it a fair way down the beta-sliding-to-omega funnel. (Spoiler: There’s something wrong with us nerds and that’s why women hate us!)
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/05/27/your-princess-is-in-another-castle-misogyny-entitlement-and-nerds.html
Kind of inadvertently funny if you read it red pill.
But as a immature nerd he might not have the proper picture of what growing up means. And he might not have liked it, either, as undoubtedly he had exposure to red pill. Better stick to puahate and other stupid ways of reinforcing loserdom.
But by the Grace of God, there go I.
White girls get stabby:
http://www.jsonline.com/news/crime/waukesha-police-2-12-year-old-girls-plotted-for-months-to-kill-friend-b99282655z1-261534171.html
Leave it to thwackie ol’ boy to come up with Man Bites Dog stories and think he’s making some sort of salient observation.
Avaunt, thou swarthy knave… thou penumbral thimble… thou sooty thread…
Thou fairy.
Well you hit three out of four:
“Avaunt”
“Thou”
“Fairy.”
You’re missing an “impious”….maybe in your next comment?
I gotta tell ya, Stilicho/Bel Rose/Whatever… your oft-voiced annoyance at something as simple as a few off-the-beaten-path words marks you as either homosexual or a woman… only those mentalities evince such petulance.
Now avaunt, you impertinent jackanapes.
(and note the redundant phrase comes straight from Dumas, lest you think to insinuate yet another of your inane neener-neeners)
Well you hit three out of four
Yawn. You think you are clever, but it just looks sad. Complaining about someone’s witty language when you can’t come up with something yourself.
Now avaunt, *thou impertinent jackanapes.
C’mon, Greg, you’re slipping.
Ahem, I reiterate:
note the redundant phrase comes straight from Dumas
spoken, if memory serves, by Porthos.
We can also credit the first use of “it was a dark and stormy night” to that amusing tome.
Quick quick run away from white chicks!
they can be dangerous for sure
What I find ironic about the article of this woman is that she complains about the entitlement men who can offer something(money) to others while she never talks about what she brings to the table herself. Talking about entitlement. Maybe you are boring, that’s why men aren’t interested in you. If being a feminist activist is who you are, believe me, I’d rather talk about my job. Even that is more interesting than some past her prime, unprepossessing feminist who somehow thinks that a grad degree in philosophy makes her brain abstract. lol
We’re at the point where broke guys in shitty indy bands have more dating market value than doctors, engineers, captains of industry. I see it firsthand. Everytime my mid-20’s female cousins visit, they’re with some new tattooed, pierce-nosed layabout.
Makes me seriously question the value of studying and having a career.
cause your female cousin is on drugs scott
that’s why
get a career in Portugal then you can supply drugs legally and have your career
this is prob what betas really don’t understand but it is life in the us
when they say bored they mean the dude spent money on that fancy dinner and after didn’t provide them with drugs
artist = drugs
that tattooed pierce nosed layabout is signaling that he can get drugs
its not even game at that point just fuckin drugs
You do a career for yourself, not for a mate. Clear up that prioritization and things like girls digging musicians won’t bother you as much. As a not too harsh point I’d venture to point out that “girl falling for musician” is a theme as old as the ages, it’s not something new and shiny.
i used to be that naïve too didn’t realize the dudes were cheating on there exams with bitches or that bitches were dumb enough to get into that shit but they most certainly are
Women would rather do away with the prospect of sex in exchange for a fun time
That is the take-away that all men need to learn if they want to pull women – it’s not what you buy, or what you drive, it’s all about presenting her an opportunity to get excited – that excitement can come from fun, or fear (that is why “dangerous” is sexy), most women have boring little lives and they look to men for their excitement – especially when they are young and in demand. So if you are going to pay for an expensive dinner and such, that is boring, but doing things out of the ordinary and getting them outside of their comfort zone, that is what they are looking for, and what will do you the most good when it comes to getting them where you want them.
Long ago I was out on the Left Coast and had a couple of women pretty convinced that I was kidnapping them. Anyway – it was a wild weekend, and I kept the “kidnapping” theme running throughout, so much so that later when I was chatting with one of the girls she told me that her girl-friend was on the verge of trying to run most of the weekend so it was an adrenaline rush for both of them.
Of course today – I would have probably ended up in handcuffs trying to explain that it was a joke, in our police-state in the forming… These days I satisfy women’s need for excitement by jumping out of perfectly good airplanes, and other ways. That is why “nice guys” don’t get the girls – they are BORING…. Women live boring lives on their own – they don’t need to be with boring men – that’s why the FUN guy, gets the girls… Embrace it…
nice my girl got an obsession with me kidnapping her
gonna do it one day spontaneous after i have her sign a permission slip he he he
Leave your gun in the bathroom, and when she comes out, accuse her of touching it.
Get real pissed and in her face…
drive her into a corner of the room.
Long ago I was out on the Left Coast and had a couple of women pretty convinced that I was kidnapping them. Anyway – it was a wild weekend, and I kept the “kidnapping” theme running throughout, so much so that later when I was chatting with one of the girls she told me that her girl-friend was on the verge of trying to run most of the weekend so it was an adrenaline rush for both of them.
Excellent! Kidnapping game, that has to be a thing. I will definitely use that. Maybe not a whole weekend, not always possible, but work it into a date.
why they get full sleeve tats
to cover up the needle scars
gay scene = can get drugs
the six figure techie beta male nerds moving to Seattle to work for Amazon = no drugs fraid of losing job drug tests
thank you big daddy government?
The author is an entitled cock carousel riding user of men. From her article:
“When I went to Paris, I went on OKCupid dates with several men as a way to see the city and perhaps have a romantic excursion; one worked at a movie production studio, another was a video editor; one guy worked in finance; another was an interior designer. Each one was thoroughly different than the other.”
She has no problem using men as free tour guides who also take her out to dinners while on vacation just because she has a vagina. Yet she screeches if a man who is intelligent with a great job and good career prospects expects a woman to appreciate those attributes.
real talk reason moral men would do better in Asian countries is there are no drugs they kill drug dealers and addicts so beta bucks go further he he he
why is it ya don’t see dudes going to Asian countries not complaining about the drug laws cause they don’t do drugs why are they at a disadvantage in the west cause they don’t do drugs
alpha/beta
Big fan.
No one ever got anything done without thinking that he can own that shit and then proceeded to do own that shit’s ass or die trying.
[…] high energy and probably fucked one of the girls that came in and out of our section. (Must Read: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/06/02/money-wont-save-beta-males/ When i find myself in a section nowadays I don’t use it as a crutch I use it as an easy spot […]
“The problem has become pervasive enough in Seattle that when I went with a few girlfriends to Pony, one of the last true gay bars on Capitol Hill, I was shocked when I found out that the adorable pair of 25-year-old boys talking to us were heterosexual. They were there because—as one of them told us—”It was the only place on the Hill on the weekends where there are no bros.”
So other men don’t even wanna hang with “bros”.
Are tech professionals “bros”?
What is a bro, exactly?
“In a way they exhibit some of the same qualities of those professions—ego, arrogance, and unlimited amounts of cash.”
Are they egoistic and arrogant? Are they really rich?
I imagined IT employees to be humble, low key introverts. Although it is true that a lot of introverts are arrogant at the same time, is it true that IT employees are arrogant? What are they arrogant about, exactly?
The SMP is a competition. And in any competition there will be winners, and there will be losers.
If a football team goes 2-14 and they want to do better the next year, they’re not going to keep doing everything the same way. They’re going to try to do the things that the 14-2 teams do, so they can win like they do. Because a 2-14 team that just continues ‘being themselves’ will keep losing big, over and over again.
If a man is tired of losing in the SMP and wants to win, he needs to learn what the winners are doing that he is not doing, so that he can do that, so he can win too.
Dear Annie,
I am so sorry! I thought I was supposed to lock down a six figure job at a Fortune 500 company, so that I could buy you a house, that would be a safe nest for our babies, so that later you could divorce me and take both the house and kids. But what I didn’t realized was that job one was actually, keeping you entertained. My bad!
So along the lines of work, and entertainment, I talked to some of your classmates back at FSU. How I could possibly be as entertaining as the time you pulled a train for the football team, I am not sure. But I talked to some of the Alpha-Delts (the frat that puts the alpha in alpha) and they have a gig for you. Its for something called Bukkake Night and, while you’re a little old and hitting-the-wall for the main event, they got you booked as a warm up act, with the JV table tennis team. You don’t need to speak chinese or japanese, but they did ask that you practice the phrase “arigato sensei”. (Japanese for thank you, master). Also that you bring along Tricia and they have a job for her as a fluffer, they feel her masters in philosophy from UCB qualifies her for this job.
Signed,
Amazon Nerd
PS Have a solution for those of you complaining about Amazon and Google. Just stop using Amazon, and Google! Bezos and Brin are concerned though, if enough of you do this it will knock nearly 0.0000000000001 % off their market cap and net worth.
“The phenomenon of programming taking over as one of the top white collar occupations (according to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, computer and mathematical science occupations are “projected to add 967,00 jobs in 2014,” the fastest growing in professional occupations)” – think she follows through on the logic and opposes free trade? this is the city’s comparative advantage.
I’m amazed that Chateau has interpreted the Salon article in this way. The general point being made by Chateau is correct, that money alone is not enough to make a man attractive. But the Salon article is certainly not evidence in this regard.
For a start, Chateau states that “Violet is like many young, prime nubility women..”. The article mentions that Violet is 33 years of age, over a decade past “prime nubility”. The only other woman whose age is mentioned in the article is 31 years old. And check out pictures of the author of the Salon article herself. She is certainly way past “prime nubility” while also being under 4 in the beauty scale.
The reality is that the women of Seattle, like women everywhere, have their noses alert for any decent quality males available. The arrival of many well paid males is actually a huge boon to the women of the city.
However, no matter how many men are available, older and less attractive women will always have a hard time getting a man. It is these women who make up the bulk of the female bloggers and journalists. As some observers have pointed out, women are so bad at taking rejection that they will go to great lengths to prove that they are rejecting the man and not vice-versa. At the root of the Salon article is that kind of rationale. In addition is the bitterness that comes from personal failure and reduced status. These women know that they haven’t made it big and are not going to. All they have left is to quietly fade away, never having even been in the limelight even in their prime. The easiest thing for such losers is to act as if they are too interesting for men who are actually smarter, richer and more successful than them and have more options than them.
It certainly is necessary for a man to have other attributes in order to be attractive to women and also in order to have a fulfilling life. In reality, computer programmers are no more likely to be boring etc than any other white collar professional.
But how many single men who have a well paying job and other interests and options would be interested in a 33 year old mediocre female journalist?
I strongly suspect that for the dates that the women in the article describe, the men were not interested in the women on sight. The men in question will have been disappointed when they actually met the women at the date (probably having organised the date online) but would have hung on through the night out of politeness. This would also have been obvious to the women in question. In their resentment, (and in accordance with the way women have been observed by the likes of Roosh to behave upon rejection), in their own mind they would have quickly twisted this to being about the boringness of the man in question.
The reality is that it is primarily older women who are judgemental and critical about men. A 20 year old 8 will eagerly chase after the kind of man that a 35 year old 5 will insult. The Salon article is yet more evidence that women over 30 are not worth even the most mediocre effort.