Teasing — aka foreplay — is to girls what firm D cups and a perfect pert ass are to men. Most men think teasing is something that’s supposed to happen later, after a warming-up period when the man is on his best behavior trying to impress the girl.
Oh no no. You should start teasing girls from the word hello.
My first tease can drop as early as the girl asking my name.
GIRL: “What’s your name?”
BEELZEBUB’S BODY DOUBLE: “Amanda Huggenkiss/Jacques Strap/Seymour Butz”
Then I hold for applause (or an eye twinkle). Sometimes the girl gets the joke, sometimes not. It doesn’t really matter, because most of the time she’ll ask if that’s my real name.
GIRL: “No, really, what’s your name?”
BEELZEBUB’S BODY DOUBLE: “I read somewhere that women love men with an air of mystery. Why would you want to ruin that?”
Notice I don’t answer the girl’s demands with any sort of promptness. Instead, I rib her. Breaking rapport is an attractive trait that signals comfort and ease in the company of women, which in turn signals @#ALPHA. A beta male never breaks rapport because he’s so focused on seeking a girl’s approval that he follows her every word like a dutiful stenographer, and answers her every question like a teacher’s pet.
A good tease will provoke a smile and possibly a tingle from even the bitchiest women. Don’t fear the tease. Deploy it early and often. If a girl isn’t mock angry and faux indignant, you aren’t doing your job as a sexy man.
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“Deploy it early and often.” Does teasing often not qualify as overgaming? I would assume that teasing too often could venture too far into the realm of becoming predictable to her. Thoughts?
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Right – you don’t want to overdo it, but you do want to take care to start out that way at least within the first few couple of comments back and forth. If you start out all business-like and matter-of-fact, and then you segue into teasing after 5 minutes of being Mr. Beta ‘don’t we just relate so well to each other?’ – then it will come off awkward and stilted.
Mix in a few genuinely honest responses, particularly if they’re sharp and politically incorrect, with a generous amount of teasing. But no – don’t solely tease the girl, that’s tryhard.
Hope that helps.
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I wanna say one thing here in defense of women, and their tendency, as they age, to drift towards bitterness and hatefulness and despair.
Over the years, I have seen some really dark, psychologically ugly, utterly nihilistic guys [some really bad characters] who can FAKE this cheerful happy-go-lucky big-shit-eating-grin-on-the-face teasing routine just long enough to completely ruin a poor girl’s life.
Fathers need to teach their daughters Anti-Game techniques for seeing through the evo-psych manipulation and getting to the core of the matter – is he a fundamentally good guy, or is he fundamentally a monster?
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And as a first step along the way towards judging a suitor’s character: Is the teasing fundamentally good-natured, or, every once in a while, does it seem to come with a dark ugly sadistic streak to it?
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With every Left Wing Blue State jackass dude that I ever watched teasing his woman, the teasing eventually turned really dark and ugly and vicious and hateful.
And the poor woman eventually got that forlorn look of sorrow and hopelessness and despair in her eyes.
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Reasons you may be seeing this:
1) too much time spent together
2) too much familiarity
3) nagging by the woman
4) boredom from the man
5) faded/obsolete sexual dynamic between them
6) emasculation of blue state culture
7) feminism encouraging her subtle male shaming of him
8) feminism requiring he vent his grievances via snark, not complaints
9) one/both of them foolishly believed in ‘happily ever after’
10) one/both lost sexual appeal to other men/women
That’s just 10 reasons, there are certainly more, and the men are hardly solely to blame for the bitterness and hate you may be seeing in these women.
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No, this is an older, darker phenomenon.
Not even true psychopathy [in Cleckley’s sense of the term].
More like a real [not “50 Shades of Grey” fake or pretend] psychological sadism.
If you’re a father: Your daughter will be captivated by it at first. But, over time, it will destroy her.
Teach her to recognize it.
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Hey shane, ten bucks says that with a father like you your daughters will end up doing interacial anal porn.
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You mean they didn’t “leave her better than they found her”? 😮
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Hey shane, ten bucks says that with a father like you your daughters will end up doing interacial anal porn.
Twenty bucks says your mother couldn’t tell you who your father was, you snarky bastard.
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> “Hey shane, ten bucks says that with a father like you your daughters will end up doing interacial anal porn.”
I am very firmly of the belief [and hopefully my belief won’t be shattered by reality] that little girls will grow up to behave exactly as their Alpha fathers very explicitly make clear to them that their fathers EXPECT them to behave.
Among other things, you teach your little girl that in no way shape manner or form is she to submit herself to any sort of ridicule, degradation or humiliation on the part of these nihilists.
You teach her what to look for and where to draw the line.
PS: Everything that Heartiste outlined in his essay falls into the category of gentle, heartfelt, good-natured teasing.
None of it was the dark, ugly, nihilistic shit that I’m talking about.
PPS: And obviously I am implicitly agreeing here that these Game techniques – like teasing – are so overwhelmingly effective in seducing and overwhelming and conquering the female id that we have got to warn our little girls when they are being served up some dangerous, poisonous, soul-killing mojo and when to back out and run the hell away.
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what would you guys do in the situation of your friend constantly teasing your girl in front of you? You know as a guy he is flirting with her, and that she cannot help but respond positively, its her nature. But to call it out makes you look insecure.
I have responded by ignoring it, walking away sometimes, or just disengaging from the conservation all to make it obvious to all that they are having a little exchange in my presence. The last thing I want to encourage it and act cool, laughing at his teasing, etc.
In addition, I have responded by slowly withdrawing from the friendship and minimizing interaction with the three of us together. If he was an alpha I would have outright challenged him already, but he has a hard time finding girls. It’s almost as if he doesn’t know, and is taking advantage of the opportunity of having a receptive audience with her.
We all go to school together, and after he asked her to have lunch 1v1 without telling me, I didn’t talk to him for weeks. The friendship is not the same anymore because I want it that way, a real man would not hit on his friends’ girl this way. I dont like associating with little bitches.
He will still always be around sometimes though due to mutual friends. Advice on how to shut this down once and for good?
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1) Give him backhanded compliments. They have to be good, such that he can’t tell if you’re being sincere or not. ‘Hmm, I never cared for that watch/shoes/shirt you got, but hey, you wear it well.’
2) Your girl knows what’s going on. To amplify her awareness or remind her of this, though, subtly draw this out of him. ‘(when you arrive at place x) yeah this is actually a pretty nice restaurant/club/bar. glad we came out. anyone you know stopping by, man?’
3) Ignore, indifferent, carefree response. Don’t laugh at the teasing. Just seem mildly world-weary, i.e. attitude of ‘oh, there you go again…’ and you could explicitly say things like “yeah, there you go”, “nice one”, “oh, ok”.
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> “what would you guys do in the situation of your friend constantly teasing your girl in front of you?”
Get a better quality of “friend”.
Seriously, this dude ain’t your friend, he’s your ENEMY.
Just as swallowing the Red Pill means that you’re now seeing the world for what it truly is, and dispensing with all the pretty little lies, and realizing, among other things, that yes, you too can strive for and achieve a higher quality of poontang, so too does it mean that you too can strive for and achieve a higher quality of homeboy.
Next this motherfucker.
Now.
Or else be good kind gentle honorable noble King Arthur, and let him Lancelot you right up the ass.
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https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/09/06/your-girlfriend-is-flirting-with-your-best-friend-what-now/
That was me writing to CH, under a different name.
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I just wrote a post in reply to Immoralgables.
One way I tease and escalate or test the waters of sexualizing is by tugging on a girl’s pony tail or longer hair.
It’s amazing the reaction this prompts. Even with the most bitchy babes this always elicits a huge smile and usually a shocked laugh “I can’t believe you just did that!” look.
Timing is important and you can’t really hurt them, but if you tug at the back of their head it jerks their head back without causing serious pain.
The reflex is amazingly sexual.
The latest 20’s girl I’m gaming just loves this for some reason. She claims she hates it but she’s always hiding the back of her head, punching my arm, giggling uncontrollably when I do this.
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Just saw your reply to this: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/06/03/confirming-dates-like-a-boss/#comment-573021
Good looks Walawala and good shit
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Cue GBFM saying how his preferred method for teasing is having girls tug on his lotzsas cockazszz looololol
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Word – most guys don’t realize how much girls like having their hair pulled – and doing so right off the bat is a great in.
You can also do this while saying you’re just seeing if her hair is real or extensions….
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Never done so right off the bat, but doing so in a hard kiss when she’s happy to see you or during sex works magic. She may go weak in the knees during the kiss one, so be ready to catch her.
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@Z – try it really early next time – if she “allows” it, it’s a serious IOI….I’ve had good success reaching out – grabbing some hair, tugging a little and saying something like “wow – so nice….how did you get the roots a different color”…or…”man, you have great hair – hardly any split ends”…or simply “you have excellent hair to pull”….and every woman knows exactly what I mean when I say that
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@cheesetrader
Timing is crucial and so is boldness. If she’s teasing, acting up–like most girls who you’re gaming will…stare, slowly move in close and tug at her hair.
if you do it out of context, it’s seen as creepy and hurtful.
If you do it with a kind of boyish boldness, then she starts laughing.
Also, grab at the back not the bottom of the neck where it will hurt.
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@cheesetrader: The first two aren’t my style, but the third one is good, but I’d likely just brush her hair with the back of my finger and a smile then eye contact until she looked away. If she’s squirming at that point, she’s probably ready after her anticipation sets in. I’ve had good results with escalating verbal boldness as you suggest followed behind by escalating physical boldness, meaning over one encounter.
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http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=z5r-U11fslE
YAGADOO
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Youtube gives every stupid baboon his day in the sun… and then you clowns have to give the dancing monkeys further legs by posting the links.
(((shakin’ mah haid)))
Hint, Sambo… going up to strange girls and pulling their hair ain’t game… it’s n166er bullshit.
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Fuck it, might as well go full caveman. Knockout game FTW
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Alternative female response: ‘Excuse me you’re not giving me a blowjob.’
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Hilarious: http://www.nationaljournal.com/politics/putin-on-hillary-it-s-better-not-to-argue-with-women-20140604
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Damn, if I was inclined to vote, I’d hop over the pond just to cast one for him.
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What are those ?… 3 pound weights that Obama is having difficulty lifting?…
Is it any wonder real men prefer Putin over Obama?
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They look like 10s on the standing shoulder stuff and 20s on the seated shoulder.
10s or 15s would be OK on the shoulders if you did side and front lifts alternating and did them slowly. That works it. But 20s on the overhead shoulder press? Wimpy, seriously wimpy, unless it’s a warm up set to ultimately get to two 45s or two 50s.
Of course, barbells and a rack would be better. But it’s a hotel, and fitness facilities can vary wildly. There are hotels I go to where the heaviest weight is a 20, and one I go to outside Boston that has a real gym attached to it, with barbells, racks, and Olympic plates.
Obama doing the lunge press thing is a favorite of the exercise gurus, like Tony Horton and P90X. It’s OK to do em but you need to do them slow, and a lot of them in the midst of doing a lot of other stuff. Then again, it appears Bozo is doing random shit without a real plan. Should we be surprised?
And look at his form too. It sucks. That defines the Dear Leader. Appearing to be competent,appearing to exert himself, but actually being silly, superficial, and ineffective.
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@CF, I laughed my ass off when I saw those. I think of having the picture of him struggling printed on a shirt with ‘the most powerful man in the world’ underneath it to go to the gym with it.
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Have you seen him bowl?
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The little faggot is half chimpanzee – like Deron Williams or Blake Griffin – and yet he still couldn’t earn any playing time on an all-white prep school basketball team at Punahou.
He doesn’t have an athletic bone in his body.
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Ordering food or coffee the girl often asks ” Can I get a name ” ( for the order). I’ve been playing with a few different responses.
Her : Can I get a name ?
No. It’s mine and you can’t have it.
Her: Can I get a name ?
Me : Your parents should’ve given you one.
Her: Can I get a name ?
Me : You already have a name ( reading her nametag ) Kayla , why do you need mine ? Are you a name hoarder ?
Her : Can I get a name ?
Me : If you take my name then we’ll be married and it’s a little early in our relationship for that kinda talk.
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This may come off as bad. But my experience is the best time to have sex with a women is the first second you meet her. When I was “on it” I could see it. Just from that I can say CH is dead on right have no fear and tease away right now. Have fun with out worries
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I like to tease girls with runway flat bellies right away by saying something in the way of “Hey, nice belly, when it´s gonna be born?”. On one of such occasions the girl´s eyes immediately dimmed, her chin started to tremble and tears started to flow. Between broken sobs, she managed to say: “I… just had my abortion yesterday.”
Yeah, sometimes you hit the target, jerkboy.
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She deserved it. Especially if she was one of those “my body, my choice” idiots.
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And she deserves every bit of that for aborting it, unless she was a white girl mudsharking it. In which case, she should be given a steak dinner and hustled off to the nearest convent to spend her life considering the error of her ways.
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Alright.
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“Sucks to be you, baby…or rather baby-to-never-be…”
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Maybe kid had Down’s, like you guys. Or spinal bifida. More heroic “red pill” MEN Kick ’em while they’re down!
The good thing about being stupid is you’re aways sure you’re right, and you never realize how much damage you’re doing, and you can crash along thinking you’re just grand.
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oh boo hoo. Subway feels bad for the supermodel.
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Maybe you feel bad too AKA Junior Masturbator– she doesn’t go for HVAC technician keyboard haters?
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WHATTT! Subway White Knighting Masterbator? master Baiter? ;D
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if I see camel toe
I just saw camel run by
my girl no you didn’t laughing
me yea they racing
girl laughing no I don’t have a camel toe
aww look at the little camel
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Have you ever considered writing a book?
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my counselor offered to write one from the stuff I told her but then she went to new job I tried to facebook her no response before but I havn’t checked it in long time either
when we first talked she had no boyfriend by end of our sessions she was moving in with dude he he he
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He’d be the Dr. Seuss of the South Park generation.
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why does putty keep jumping in my hand quit it he he he
why does titty keep jumping in my hand make her stop he he he
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when she bends over
putty looking at me again
depending on mood no shes not she just trying to get some work done or yea she is
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Just break up.
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yea that’s been my job when its time for the most part
see if I get bored of her although she already offering other bitches unasked so yea maybe not
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That’s unfortunate, you need to get over your inhibitions so far as they are concerned.
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There are the guys who compliment like nothing (nice guys), and there are guys like me who simply have a hard time complimenting girls just like that, without them doing something for you first. I once approached a girl directly and told her she looked nice (nice, not sexy) and she could literally see in my eyes how I uncomfortable I was with that
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Exactly, the body is an illusion and so you need to go beyond the works of the flesh.
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Used a nickname for a sloot before fucking last night that I haven’t ever used, and wished I did before.
Squirt.
sup squirt!
pass me the pistachios, squirt
good lil squirt
fack, I love it!
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That’s a good one. I also like “champ” or “sport” if you want to be a bit more formal.
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“Kid” is good. Works like a charm
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Or “blondie”
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This. One of the best I learned from Pickup 101’s vids. Banter early.
It was Fearless First Impressions, I think.
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A good one in the iPhone era is to have a historically significant password. Mine is 1776. Murica. So when bantering with girls I’ll casually mention I bet they can’t unlock my phone. Be like, “It’s the year America gained independence…” I had a girl respond “1994??” Which just opens a can of endless mocking/teasing/etc. 9 TIMES OUT OF 10 THEY WILL GET IT WRONG. In which case you have carte blanche to playfully tease all night about her being dumb etc. You can also tease and be like “Sorry, now you can’t put your number in there, I need a girl with brains” Gets them a lil mad, but they LOVE it.
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I once met a girl who thought Florida was a country.
Also I convinced another girl that I was actually black, even though I’m clearly WASP of Irish descent.
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Along these lines….with Miller beer – it says “the champagne of beers” on the backside of the label – and girls will believe it actually IS champagne – it sez so right on the label!
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“I convinced another girl that I was actually black”
stealing this. so fucking funny.
chicks will believe ANYTHING these days.
maybe i can convince one i’m a robot. that will be a new low.
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Well, there are the black Irish… I believe Nixon was a fair example of the type.
If memory serves, it had something to do with mating with the survivors of the Spanish Armada… at least, that’s the story I remember.
Granted, though, tweren’t nuthin’ negro about it.
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Florida is a country.
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Greg Eliot
Well, there are the black Irish… I believe Nixon was a fair example of the type.
——————————————————————————————
Eddie MURPHY
Shaquille O’NEAL
Some people think Im a nice jooish boy
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> “I’m clearly WASP of Irish descent”
Scots-Irish.
LOL’ed.
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Heh, heh… thwack made a funny… he thinks Eddie Murphy and Shaq have Irish roots.
Hint: The Scots-Irish were big time plantation owners in the antebellum South… so much so that even novelists used them as the go-to archetype.
Can you say Scarlett O’Hara?
Where do you think the burning cross came from? That’s an old Scottish rite wherein a man pledged his honor, indeed, his very life, to defend the land he owned.
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“Scots-Irish”
Nope. English, Irish and French-Canadian. Just the right mix of haughty arrogance and awkward perversion. Bitches love it.
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Scots–Irish is a joke.
It means that you are YKW.
“cryPTo” ykw.
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Thwack made his usual funny, acting as if Shaq and Murphy had Irish in ’em beyond they great granddaddies takin’ Massa’s name.
Many plantation owners of the antebellum South were of Scot-Irish heritage, so much so that even novelists used it as a go-to archetype… can you say Scarlett O’Hara?
And where do you think that burning cross came from? I heard it was an ancient Celtic ritual wherein a man lit a cross on his newly-acquired land, pledging his honor and blood to defend it.
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solid
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Ha, this is pretty neat. Just don’t make it about horoscopes because they seem to know everything about that! 😛
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chick woke up walking to the bathroom i’m like wheres my morning kiss she like I got to go bathroom bad
had to chase her down
get my kiss and the I love you
she comes back up lays down I jump her whats up with the i’m gonna wake up early go grocery shopping she says I didn’t say early laughs
i’m like I feel like facefucking you
she says my mouth is dry
I say oh yea that hot the way I like it
I start suckin her nipple
she like laughing give me some time to wake up
i’m grinin what?
what I do
she like yur crazo big smile
then tell me she had dream we were at concert I had my back to her and she was calling me gregi greg
but I didn’t turn around and a chick came up to her and was like she was waiting on my to go get my mom then come get that chick
then she like my gregi greg
then got in fight with that chick and then she in rv lol with bunch of kids and people she didn’t know and some she did that I know and she like i’m dreaming bout people I don’t even know
kind of cute he he he
anyway time to fuck
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*had to chase her down
get my kiss and the I love you*
Definitely trouble for you, if you keep it up.
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posibly
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but right now she auditioning outfits for me to pick from
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and yea she didn’t kiss me on purpose cause she gaming me and I know it and she knows it
but that’s okay its still fun chasing her ass down sometimes like she a gazelle
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this chick do got game there is no doubt
look at the dream shit lol
she always telling me bout dreams she has about me
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she grinning reading shit I just wrote llke what you put the dream down with me following you
asked her bout what she thought about me chasing her down this morning she said she liksted it
true test is she ain’t picked up a needle in a week
but yea got to make sure she chase me more I wreckin
thing is this though too i’m not afraid of losing her and she knows it
no matter how good it is I know I can find another bitch and so does she
although I do enjoy the fuck out of our time together
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Thursday Update: (part 1)
@yareall and @HABD, So a lot has happened the last couple of days. Let me review and please offer any suggestions or critique.
So let me start with the bad. On the 25YO Latina hottie I contacted in the last weekend and she flaked. She flaked without any notice or response. Not really interested in fighting this uphill battle. So I am nexting her. Then there is the 33YOprude. It did not go well. So if you remember she had been trying to reach out to me and I have been silent. So I contacted her on Monday night she got back to me Tuesday morning. We went back and for a little while then when she started in as I figured she would. I began to do the punishment and boundaries like I have been learning. She immediately fell into line. And we set up a time to meet not pick her up that night. Then at around 5pm I contacted her to give her the location to meet. She immediately started in on the drama again about yet another car accident. And she was in a bad mood. It was obvious to me that she was just being a little bitch and as HABD said she was not done with her rolodex.
At this point I started the punishment about boundaries like in the ebook. I put quite a bit of pressure on her and she basically agreed with me. However she was not changing her behavior and was very passive. Actually I was amazed that when I put pressure on her she never directly confronted me with any energy. I sure she was not used to this. But she had painted herself in a corner and was obviously lying and playing games. I could not get her to meet out. And so it ended badly and I am not really interested in pursuing her anymore. Maybe I am too impatient to continue this crazieness. And she was not coming around. I believe there is a good chance that she would come around eventually. But it was an uphill battle. And I have several cool prospects to keep fighting this one. Why waste time on a dumb cunt that is so self-absorbed and entitled with a newly named disorder from me. Princess complex syndrome. Lol
Now for the good. My little 30YOIndian, she is getting better and better. Communication is good and getting better. She is really into me and ready to meet. I am out of town and she is calling and texting. In fact on our earlier interactions if you remember I was trying to steer more and more towards a sexual conversation a couple of days ago. And she followed. But at one point she backed off and told me that she wasn’t comfortable going any further until she met me. I agreed and cooled it for the time being. My analysis was that I was moving her emotionally and quickly and I believed it scared her and she was trying to relieve the sexual tension. She was probably feeling like she was losing control. She had also sent me a few pics but wanted to hold back on sending more pics until we met. But….(see part 2)
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Good job, man!
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@reco
“She flaked without any notice or response. Not really interested in fighting this uphill battle. So I am nexting her.”
“I could not get her to meet out. And so it ended badly and I am not really interested in pursuing her anymore.”
welcome to the abundance mentality…lol…
on the 25yolatina, don’t chase her…but you could ping in a month like nothing happened and you are just getting around to her now…lol…and see what happens=potential in-field experience…lol…girls flake all the time on guys that don’t have solid DHV with them yet…lol…so don’t take her flaking personally…lol…it was a ‘general filter’ type shit test, but you only fail if you bring it up or chase her…
on the 33yoprude…
“At this point I started the punishment about boundaries like in the ebook. [punishment = caring about her/outcome dependent=beta] I put quite a bit of pressure on her and she basically agreed with me. [rolodex…] However she was not changing her behavior and was very passive. [rolodex…] Actually I was amazed that when I put pressure on her she never directly confronted me with any energy. [rolodex…] I sure she was not used to this. [maybe…but her rolodex came from somewhere…lol] But she had painted herself in a corner and was obviously lying and playing games. [rolodex…] I could not get her to meet out. [rolodex…] And so it ended badly and I am not really interested in pursuing her anymore. Maybe I am too impatient to continue this craziness. [that’s true…and it’s good and bad…good=abundance mentality/bad=pass up valuable in field experience…lol] And she was not coming around. [rolodex…] I believe there is a good chance that she would come around eventually. But it was an uphill battle. [lol…i’ll just point out that your initial beta behavior caused this…lol…but you’re right she might not be worth the effort…also, guard dog situ…lol] And I have several cool prospects to keep fighting this one. Why waste time on a dumb cunt that is so self-absorbed and entitled with a newly named disorder from me. Princess complex syndrome. Lol” [one reason is that you get in-field experience in turning around a bad start…so you know that it can work out…it’s just more red pill knowledge…lol…otherwise, no reason not to cut bait…lol]
note – that ‘putting pressure on her’ was probably interpreted by her hamster as a win for her/beta loss for you…since she was GETTING ATTENTION for her bad behavior. it also probably contributed to not being able to get her out…bc it shows that she has value to you (even if you haven’t contacted her for a while…)…as opposed to you fitting her into your fun (with no pressure bc you have so much other stuff going on)…
if i remember right, YaReally’s game plan was ‘offer to meet out’… if she agreed, great, if not, silence for 2 weeks…but don’t reward the drama…lol…
also, you need to try to understand 33yoprude’s position and why she’s reacting like this (at least for academic rigor…lol)…she’s facing the ‘wall’ and it’s RIGHT THERE!!! OMG! WHAT WILL I DO!!!…lol…she had thought she had a provider lined up (and she probably still thinks that on some level…since you rewarded her behavior with attention…lol) and then you ‘spit out the hook’…lol…of course she’s ‘down’ but that’s part of her rolodex too…lol…and now she doesn’t know that you spit the hook, she just thinks it’s part of the interaction pattern…and she doesn’t really have time to make mistakes in securing a provider, so she goes with what she knows will work (bc it has in the past)…she’ll probably contact you in a day or two like nothing happened…you can still turn it around. it’s just going to take longer now…lol…
on the 30yo…
“My analysis was that I was moving her emotionally and quickly and I believed it scared her and she was trying to relieve the sexual tension. ”
and that was bad for you, how?…lol…
“She was probably feeling like she was losing control.” she was…then she got it back when she cut you off… and you agreed…lol…
“But at one point she backed off and told me that she wasn’t comfortable going any further until she met me.” that was a beta bait trap…she lead and you followed…
you had two choices here…1) “I agreed and cooled it for the time being.” this was you slipping into her frame…why is sexual tension bad for YOU?…lol…answer = it’s not…
2) agree and amplify/redirect ‘ya, i’ve found it’s really difficult to go farther until we meet…’ then change the subject to something less sexual…(misconstrue what she said in a sexual ‘we’ll get around to it later’ way…lol) the point being, YOU changed the subject on your terms…not on her terms.
“She had also sent me a few pics but wanted to hold back on sending more pics until we met.”
also, standard beta baiting…notice how the theme is to get the topic OFF sex…lol…bc girls really can’t stop getting revved up, once they start…lol…that’s buying temp…lol…and they need betas to help them out from making terrible genetic mistakes (like having sex with betas…lol). alphas don’t stop the sexual tension so it’s ok for girls to just go with it if the guy doesn’t stop, since he’s alpha= good genetics. see how it’s a ‘good genes’ selection behavior…lol…
…yes, this is an important test to be able to see in real time…lol…
you’re doing great! you’ve made outstanding progress! hard work pays off, eh?
good luck!
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@HABD thanks brother what an awesome analysis. I see what you mean by continuing to game the prude to learn and to turn her around. I also see what you meant about her guard dog behavior. It’s also a shit ton of work. And I have only so much time with work and travel. Lol
Maybe I can learn more patience in addition to everything else. I will say the punishment was a deviation from yareally’s plan and I realized this at the time. It was implementing the punishment of the e book. Probably made me too inconsistent.
And the view from her point was really eye opening. This one will be good for the archives. Thanks.
Can’t wait till you see part 2…it has more on my Indian girl. She is really ripe and ready to fall off the tree. Lol
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@reco @habd
HABD’s analysis is dead-on. Good stuff dude.
Just minor notes to add:
– can’t Next a girl you haven’t fucked. That’s her Next’ing you because your game wasn’t tight enough. You can drop her, but understand that she isn’t a princessy cunt bitch bla bla ego-protection butthurt name lol…she was simply reacting to the frame you set at the start. She’s a ton of work because you dug yourself into a hole that you had to first get out of before you could start going up the mountain. If you had met her for the first time ever say, a few months from now or a year from now when your game is way tighter and your “not a Provider” frame is stronger and more congruent, even so close to the wall she would probably meet up and bang wayyyy easier
– you reacted too much to 33yo. Doesn’t matter if it was disciplining or what, you basically called her out on flaking/princessy shit, which shows that you’re getting frustrated, which shows that she means something to you…and that would be okay if you were all aloof and alpha badass from the start, but because you had a Provider frame that just told her “ahhh, okay, he IS into me that much, just like I thought, I don’t know what all this other weird behavior was, good to see he’s back in line reacting to me”.
Some guys advocate a heavy drama approach to it like bitch her out bla bla and if she doesn’t get with it Next her, but I don’t believe in calling that a Next…that’s just bull in a china shop game to me. It also works better when you have higher value like she’s banged you a few times, not pre-bang. PRE-bang, that’s all reactive desperate shit.
The goal with my more passive approach was to show that you don’t care if she meets up or not…you’re not mad about her misbehaving, you just lose interest in chasing her when she misbehaves. She expects to at least keep your attention (I had a girl bitch me out once saying “Why don’t you want to be friends with me??? lol” when I realized she didn’t want to bang again and just wanted attention and I, honestly, just have too much other shit going on to maintain a relationship like that and basically told her that flat out lol), so when you withdraw THAT, she’s like “o shit he’ll actually fully leave my LIFE, I thought he’d at least stick around and orbit me!!” and shit gets real for her
– with indian chick you just went too far too soon without a face to face meetup. Gotta’ cross the line but then pull it back to show that you aren’t like “omg this is the only conversation about sex i’ve ever had with a girl I have to keep on this topic forever because I’ll never get another chance to have this kind of sexual interaction again!!!” desperate. So ideally you should have pulled it back to normal safe topics just before she said that stuff. It’s fine that you backed off, it won’t sabotage you at all, buuuut IDEALLY if you ARE in that situ again, HABD’s advice about changing topics on your time (VS backing off because she tells you to) is better even if the only difference is literally one txt or literally a few words in your next txt that make it sound like you’re choosing to back off VS her making you
Just meet up with her ASAP and go right for the lay after one drink. You have her along the path I normally have girls where we both know it’s on when we meet up but she still has to meet face to face and just make sure you’re not a freak or serial killer. Lock eye-contact, be cool, be comfortable, joke around about sexual topics, and take her back to your place after a drink or two. Shouldn’t be any LMR once she sees you’re cool in person.
I have a chick I’m meeting up with tomorrow night where it’s the same idea…we were talking about sexual topics all day, bondage and shit, but I backed off now and then to normal topics to remind her I’m a normal cool guy. We have actual plans to meet up established, so now I’m sticking to purely non-sexual topics so I don’t trigger her ASD. In person I’ll use laser eye-contact and just be fun and flirty and then I can go back into sexual topics and just take her home from there. If she actually meets up and doesn’t flake (it’s always possible lol), I don’t see any reason why we won’t have sex, because I’ve laid all the proper groundwork and kept in a Lover frame instead of Provider and haven’t pushed too far/desperate into sexual topic territory, so to her I’m literally just this fun social flirty kind of pervy but in a lovable unapologetic way guy she gets to go have a drink with and can trust to lead things to sex for us.
You’re doing awesome, don’t let this stuff discourage you. Enjoy your indian chick and 40YO will probably come around for another bang in the next couple weeks.
33YO might not be worth the effort, and that’s fine if you cut her loose, if nothing else it’s a lesson in how bad establishing yourself as a Provider can really fuck you over. Even if you go 100% radio silent on her, she’ll probably txt you in a couple months to see how you are and try this whole shitshow over again lol…except you’ll be starting from where you are now, every time you fuck it up and make her think you need her, it takes that much longer to fix it and make her think you don’t need her.
Good stuff dude!
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@reco
“It’s also a shit ton of work. And I have only so much time with work and travel. Lol”
the beauty of it is, the best play is to NOT do anything…it just takes time in the sense that you have to wait/be patient…otherwise, doing nothing…how much time does that take?…lol
“Maybe I can learn more patience in addition to everything else.”
that’s actually an important part of ‘abundance mentality’…having patience with any particular girl is easy if you have five more plates spinning…they’re just feeding the pipeline for next month/year…lol…
“I will say the punishment was a deviation from yareally’s plan and I realized this at the time. It was implementing the punishment of the e book. ”
do you understand what the underlying dynamics of YaReally’s game plan are?….bc it’s important that you do…it’s ALL about attention v. no attention (not punishment v. reward in the sense of the ebook structure…i’m guessing, since i haven’t read it yet…) attention (of ANY type) is a reward…and NO attention is the ‘punishment’. you’re not at the point of managing your ‘relationship’, (with 33yoprude) with ebook punishment methods, since you don’t really have one yet…lol…
“Probably made me too inconsistent.”
maybe not so much inconsistent as beta (scarcity mentality), although that incongruence was probably a factor…punishment is only one tool in the toolbox, it’s great to have a new tool to use, but you need to know when to use it too…
trying to punish someone outside the bounds of your current ‘relationship’ to force them to do a new behavior that you want probably isn’t going to work out too well…lol…bc the person being punished has to first see you as DHV or the punishment is incongruent and the person just balks/walks…
waiting on part 2…lol…
good luck!
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@habd @reco
good follow-up. Got a response in mod as usual lol
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“BEELZEBUB’S BODY DOUBLE” is good all by itself when asked for a name. :p
GIRL: “What’s your name?”
HERB: Beelzebub’S body double.
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The year WW2 started? 1939 or 1941?
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@Director: 1914
There was only 1 world war, with a slight pause in the middle.
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“This is not a peace. It is an armistice for twenty years”.
– Ferdinand Foch
His words proved prophetic: the Second World War started twenty years and 65 days later.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ferdinand_Foch
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i’m so reactive sometimes i immediatelly jump to the answer just because someone asked me something as if i on my head it writes wikipedia.org. a little playful resistance and denial would help me alpha up.
some kids stuff. the simpsons.
Jimbo: Nice prank, Simpson. I dare you to dump that bees’ nest on those second grade babies.
Bart: Why would I want to?
Jimbo: Because I said “I dare you.” Kearney, can you read it back?
Kearney: (reading) “Nice prank, Simpson. I dare you to dump that bees’ nest on those second grade babies. Bart: Why would I want to?
Jimbo: Because I said “I dare you.” Kearney, can you read it back?
Kearney: (reading) “Nice prank, Simpson. I dare you to…”
Jimbo: The point is, Simpson, a dare has been placed on your nards.
Bart: My nards accept.
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Off-topic:
http://elitedaily.com/news/world/fossil-hunter-this-31-year-old-dude-has-a-91-year-old-girlfriend-video/620896/
Booom!
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Fossil Hunter: “I think a natural hang looks great!”
Yeah, ‘cuz it’s obvious you don’t have one between your legs.
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Wow.
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Thursday Update (part 2)
So with my 30YO Indian I continued to push the boundaries with her in our text and talking making it sexy and she followed along. And her communication was getting significantly better. She was initiating topics and interjecting her own sexual talk. Then last night it got really good. We got into some really serious phone sex with her leading the way a couple of times. In fact I had to take the lead from her lol. By the end of the conversation she was sending me really seriously dirty pics. And asking for my approval like a proud 10 year old who brings home a good grade on a test. And of course I rewarded her with praise. Damn those pics were good. So much for no more sexy talk and photos Lol Learned this here, keep plowing through. She was laughing and giggling on the phone, dirty talk and following me like a well-trained lab. It was great, and quite a bit of fun. At this point there is almost no shit testing or attitude just very sweet and fun. So we are set for tomorrow night to meet for happy hour.
On my 40YOLatina she is coming along nicely. I had to apply punishment to her last night. She has always been extremely agreeable very complimentary and sexy and flirty. Her only problem was the last minute flakes and I just lost patience and quit working her. Probably not the right move. She was quite willing, but had two kids. Always a logistics challenge. Below is the text string where I punished her:
Her: Ohhhh Honey, I.am sorry I just saw it , I am fine and you any news.did you find somebody ? 🙂 12:19 PM (i had earlier introduced dread of other women and she keeps asking about it)
Her: Well I am sure you are at.work i sent you hugs and kisses 🙂 12:26 PM (she is extremely flirty with me always has been)
Me: Hey babe in ——– be back thursday…I did not get your hugs and kisses… 3:24 PM (making her work)
Me: …I need lots of those 😉 3:24 PM
Her: Hehe I am glad baby, me to hehe 3:25 PM
Her : 3:26 PM (sends pic)
Me: Well we are just going to have to get you lots of them if you are good. Send me a cute picture of you. 3:26 PM
Her Hehe baby you forgat my face haha just kidding we had fun at —— , wild night Lol 3:28 PM (she is recalling location of last date where we got really wild she’s trying to control the frame)
Me: Yes I want to see your face and everything else. 🙂 3:28 PM
Me: Yes that was wild…but it can be much better 3:29 PM (giving her the future projection of what is to come the reason for being with me)
Her: Hehehe funny but I work I don’t have one here but I will later baby, yes of course can be better I agree with you . 3:30 PM (she is complying)
Me: Great you sexy thing…I will call you tonight. 🙂 3:33 PM (trying to keep it sexual like yareally said)
Her: Ok baby 3:34 PM
Me: Ouch…babe been thinking about me 8:52 PM (opening for call at night)
Me: No (her name)? She doesn’t want me anymore? Lol 9:14 PM (teasing, also she is not being responsive)
Her: Baby I been thinking about you , my brother is here now, I will talk to you tomorrow kissese baby 9:17 PM (not complying, time for some punishment)
Me: That’s not good …men don’t like unreliable women…that is such a turnoff….men like a women that are fun and flirty and communicate well. 9:35 PM (tell her what I don’t like and what I want)
Her: Baby don’t say that , I like you a lot , I am so sorry 9:36 PM (she responds quickly and apologizes)
Her : You are right I will try to talk more and be more communicate, I am sorry 9:37 PM (complying even more hamster is rolling)
Me: I like you too when you are a good girl 9:37 PM (little more pressure plus starting with reward)
Me: That’s a good girl…I will call you in an hour. 9:38 PM (now I reward her)
Her: Hehe 9:38 PM
Her: Ok 9:40 PM
Her: Honey 9:40 PM (she eats it up)
Me: That’s a good girl…you are now making me happy. 9:42 PM(more reward)
Her: I am glad 9:45 PM (see her following the reward and enjoying it)
Haha its like talking to a 10 year old child. She then called me 45 minutes later. We had a great conversation. A lot more of complementing me and trying to lead but I just ignored her and plowed ahead. She asked me about other women again her dread kicking in. I just ignored and talked sexual which she followed. And talked about how much she wanted to meet me and we were so close to the bang and she admitted to it being her fault and apologizing about it. Then we reminisced about how much fun we had on the last sexy date and going over the details. She is ripe and ready to go. She wants to meet next week. I let her believe that we could do that. She also bragged about how good she is looking and how good she is in bed and how she is going to impress me another 10 year old wanting to show me her good grades. So should I meet up with her for a meeting or should I set it up and cancel. And then reschedule for the next week?
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Black Irish are the original, pre-Viking, Celtic people. Fair skin, blue eyes, dark hair. Think the Galicians in Spain. Celts once lived from Vienna to Ireland, also Iberia (Spain). A distinct type. That is all.
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I recently went on a first date/meetup with a girl, and I was a little rusty after seeing someone for a while. I think I made the mistake of being too nice and friendly, instead of teasing her. I never heard back from her after that night. It’s like a lesson that I have to keep re-learning: don’t be afraid to give them a bunch of shit and be full of shit, like you don’t care.
Now if I could just get over my cold approach anxiety again. I see these hot women in the grocery store that make eye contact, but I’m absolutely frozen with fear to go talk to them. Any suggestions for that?
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It’s mostly about practice, at least in my case. If I started conversations with a lot of people I don’t know lately, I have no problem talking to girls. If I spend a week or two not talking to strangers, I kind of get rusty and due to it not feeling natural, I spend too much time in my head. I’ll order Krauser’s book this month and play with it this summer and see how it goes.
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> “Any suggestions for that?”
YOU MUST NOT CARE.
You’re anxious and apprehensive and intimidated because you still CARE.
So either:
1) Go on CARING and be lonely and miserable and celibate, or
2) Learn to NOT GIVE A FLYING FUCK and start getting laid.
It’s your choice.
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@65, matt, go up to them and ask if they were meaning to say something to you. The answer to their response is almost inevitably, ‘That’s a bit forward.’
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“Now if I could just get over my cold approach anxiety again. I see these hot women in the grocery store that make eye contact, but I’m absolutely frozen with fear to go talk to them. Any suggestions for that?”
There is a mental trick I’ve developed that I like to call “positive dissociation”. It is sort of an abstract concept to explain, but the core of it is removing yourself emotionally from your immediate surroundings. You have to effectively “step out” of your physical presence and observe your own actions clinically from a distance.
Of course, in order to achieve this you must have reached a state of inner peace in which external pressures don’t shake your confidence. It takes a lot of work, experience and pain to reach that point.
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whiskeysplace
Black Irish are the original, pre-Viking, Celtic people. Fair skin, blue eyes, dark hair.
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Do they avoid swingsets at night?
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Only during blackface skits.
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I’m under the impression that all swinging should happen during the daytime in order for all to see and acknowledge with each other without having to smile in order to see.
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Where do you think Notre Dame gets it’s players?
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Whiskey is wrong, as usual… the so-called Black Irish are not known for blue eyes nor fair skin… they look more like Nixon, for example… and are undoubtedly from admixture with Iberian (Mediterranean, not Nordic or Alpine) ethnic types.
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This isn’t so Collin Farrell is black Irish. Pierce Brosnan.
Nixon is Border Reiver. It’s a border Reiver name.
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Whoever is calling Brosnan “black Irish” is stretching truth to the breaking point… he’s a classic Nordic in coloring and build and headshape… (hint: Nordic doesn’t ipso facto mean “blonde”).
And if he himself is saying it, I chalk that up to some of the buxom Swedish babes here in America who boast of their alleged Cherokee ancestry.
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Director… Border Reiver. So you do know something of Eire. Good. And agreed.
And Greg is correct as well – I see a very Nordic visage in the face of Brosnan.
Of course, the blue eyes and black hair could always come from the Selkie influence. Heh.
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The Black Irish are not necessarily Celt. They look Iberian. Closely resembling Basques. That’s a European Aboriginal.
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This is nonsense.
The Bascos are related to no one else in Europe. Their nearest cousins are (probably) the Berbers in Morocco.
Black Irish are a hybrid of Celt and Viking, unless they are slight/small, in which case I would say that they favor the Celt blood.
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And as for “European Aboriginal”, I have no idea of what you speak. This animal does not exist (just like “Native Americans” do not exist).
The Basque language comes from the Ur Language, by way of Sanskrit. So these folks are Gypsies that came over from South of the Himalayas (the Celts came [probably – nobody really knows] from North of the Himalayas).
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Afore anyone gets their panties in a twist, I should also say that I have deep camaraderie with the Bascos, and have met them at every turn in my life and travels.
We are both seafarin’ people.
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The Black Irish are not necessarily Celt. They look Iberian.
Black Irish have jet black hair and flour-white skin. On average, Iberians have olive toned skin. The supposed “Celtic”/Southern Euro descent of Ireland seems to be a myth. It’s more likely the English have more Southern European DNA from when Britain was a Roman colony.
There is genetic evidence Southerners have Spaniard admixture from back when Spain controlled parts of North America.
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Flour-white skin, my eye.
The term is commonly used to describe people of Irish origin who have dark features, black hair, a dark complexion and dark eyes.
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So, yes and no, laddie.
I am “full Black Irish”. No one would say otherwise.
But the men in my family also exhibit “Viking Hand” (aka “Dupuytren’s contracture” – I will assume you can use Google).
And, so. So the reality is that us Darkies can also be Vikings as well.
And, I bear no resemblance to Celts from Wales, France or Spain. I am monstrous compared to them, usually nearly a foot taller.
Land ho. Put your back into it.
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good point. ww2 started in 1914 perhaps…
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> “ww2 started in 1914 perhaps…”
WW2 started circa 1850 when YKW were given their “Emancipation”.
And WW2 still continues to this day.
Folks just don’t realize it yet.
And by the time they do wake up and realize it, it could be too late.
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Interesting observation, also made by other historians… who have termed WWI and WWII as a “second Thirty Years War”.
I suppose, considering that in both cases, Germany wound up destroyed and depopulated.
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I was gonna say 1860 fort Sumpter, but I didn’t expect anyone to get the reference.
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> “I was gonna say 1860 fort Sumpter, but I didn’t expect anyone to get the reference.”
It would be interesting to try to tie Lincoln’s Unitardian/Emancipationist anti-constitutional nihilism with WTFE was transpiring in Europe at the time.
Maybe with one of the John Stuart Millses [pere ou fils]?
Certainly the statecraft parallel would be with Alexander II of Russia, who was murdered by the YKW as thanks for having emancipated them [although to make the analogy perfect, Lincoln would need to have been assassinated by a chimpanzee].
But that whole Unitardian/Emancipationist ethos which created Lincoln always struck me as an essentially American heresy.
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I suppose, considering that in both cases, Germany wound up destroyed and depopulated.
And yet, in both cases, the Phoenix arose from the ashes to become even stronger.
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Yay Zombie Brain back on track! Too scared of who he hates to name them. Sleazy little coward, aren’t you, mustache boy masturbator?
Let us know when you invent something on the level of the Polio Vaccine, you ungrateful, small-minded, slavish follower shithead.
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Interesting observation, also made by other historians… who have termed WWI and WWII as a “second Thirty Years War”.
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The really interesting question about the 30/100 years war was whether the Sephardim [in Holland] were secretly financing the House of Orange as revenge for the Hapsburgs having kicked the Sephardim out of Spain in 1492.
BTW, just the other day, I learned that Spinoza and his family were up to their eyeteeth in the slave trade:
http://kvond.wordpress.com/2008/08/27/spinoza-doubt-the-sephardim-and-the-slave-trade/
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I told the last girl who was getting too serious too fast that I was Mr Lipschitz.
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Thursday Update (part 3)
Part 2 got caught in moderation even though I am breaking them up. Lol
So the next one is a new little redhead she is 36YO cute and a little different and flirty and funny right off the bat. Nice thin body with a good flat stomach I will give her a 7.5. I am going to call her the 36YOsurfergirl. So she responded to my profile and it was on. We texted this morning and it was slow response on both sides me working and her doing whatever these crazy bitches are doing. Lol Anyway the flirting started early with me teasing her. There was not much shit testing at all. It was fun right off the bat. I then got her to a phone conversation quickly.
This is where it really got good. I have been working on my vocal delivery and how I say things and not trying to hold back. Just have fun with it and make sexy and flirty and teasing right away just what this awesome blog post is all about man how timely. I could literally feel her getting more and more excited as her interest was going up. I have been learning about this from the ebook also to give her more of myself. This has been a significant change in my behavior. I always was thinking that I needed to entertain her and giver her something. And this made me nervous and of course too stiff. But telling a story complementing her with descriptive phrases that come from me make all the difference in the world. I was speaking forcefully but with conviction and with fun. She was giggling and laughing out loud. She was lapping up everything I had to say. She was being so responsive and following my lead. She also had almost no shit testing to really speak of. I was ready to punish her but there was nothing really to punish. I am sure that will come. And hopefully I will handle it correctly. I set up a meeting for tomorrow at noon. It was so easy when they are invested and there is strong emotional connection and sexual tension. So I have two dates tomorrow her at noon and my Indian girl at happy hour. I then wrapped up the conversation after about 20 minutes, while she was still into it. And then I told her to send me some cute and sexy photos. Which she happily complied to.
Three minutes after we hung up pictures started rolling into my inbox. I rewarded her with nice compliments and she loved it. Her response to a text before the call was between 30 minutes and 90 minutes. After the phone call it was 1 to 3 minutes really good interaction. Lets see what happens. I don’t really have a lot of questions on this one so far. If there is something that needs tweaking let me know.
Finally I wanted to talk about the ebook and the manhood academy site. The ebook is very good it is well structured and has really strong concepts and valid theories. It is basically applying behavior modification to your interactions to teach other people including women how to treat you. This in turn creates strong attraction in the women you use it on. For the academy he uses behavior mod to train his students via a series of trainings. Those are to say the least chaotic. They are forceful, angry, obstinate, reckless, and at times abusive. I do believe there can be some success with his methods however it will only appeal to the meekest and weakest men/boys out there. A real man could never learn in this type of environment. There is no assembly of trust or credibility that are necessary in a training environment. I would never recommend this to another person. He claims that he has fucked more women than all PUA’s combined. Of course all PUA’s claim this. He shows a couple of videos of him using his techniques. However they are heavily obscured and I cannot really tell what is going on from them.
He loves to debate feminists and even though these debates are entertaining. Come on, debating a feminist is once again like debating a 10YO. In addition he controls the debate with his own moderator and he controls the mute button which he liberally utilizes. So it really is not a debate. But he takes on all comers. So if you like a good debate on an uneven playing field then give it a shot. He purports to hate PUA’s and tries to debunk them all of the time. I just would not spend money with him.
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@reco
the 36yosurfergirl…your actions are solid, can’t argue with success…lol…
i haven’t read the ebook or academy stuff…i haven’t had time, but i bookmarked the ebook…i do have an opinion though…lol…which is…
this stuff isn’t rocket science, but most guys don’t get to learn it bc of feminism…it used to be that guys would just grow into this kind of behavior by watching their dads interact with others…men and women…and soak in the attitude. but that changed in the 60s. now, it’s a ‘skill’ that guys have to specifically ‘learn’…it’s just part of the red pill knowledge base of being a man…
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This in my case was exactly true. Imagine this boy’s perspective in so called ‘fat shaming’ circles.
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(_8(I)<~ Doh! Forgot my hook. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gVXXDtWtHDY
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@herb that is so sad…feminism is such an intensely destructive force in our culture…I also notice how the DI takes that poor exploited child out of that fucking circus freak show they call television.
The producers of this show should be taken around back and shot.
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1) 36 Y.O. Redhead is completely nuts. A lunatic.
2) The sex with her will be off-the-charts intense. Mindblowing.
3) Your children by her will be not bouncing-off-the-walls but rather bouncing-off-the-ceiling hyperactive.
One of you will have to quit work and stay at home full time with the kids.
Better catch up on your sleep now because once that first kid comes bursting out of her birth canal, you won’t sleep again for about 30 years.
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Teasing is also good maintenance for LTRs:
“Teasing can actually bring couples closer. Poking fun is in fact an indispensable social tool, vital to all healthy
relationships.”
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/199911/how-poke-fun
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I can actually see this with my parents. My father is a huge troll and we troll my mother together. It’s kind of funny. Maybe this is why it hasn’t been very difficult for me to handle relationship once in them, but his ability to socialize with random people hasn’t rubbed off on me yet. Still, I do seem to head towards being more open naturally as I’m approaching my mid 20s.
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Gentle, loving, good-natured teasing.
But not the dark, vicious ugly stuff.
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Psychology Today? I thought that was a leftist rag. Why would it even imply that bullying is not bad?
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You know what ELSE you should do to a girl right away?
….
Anybody? Bueller? Bueller
…..
NO, PA, the answer IS NOT “lick piggy’s nutsack”
Anyone else?
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No, thwack the answer is not more welfare
Anyone else?
…..?
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No whorefinder, the answer is not ‘more immigrants.’
Now put Karl roves little weenie back in your mouth
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he makes you so mad sweet pea.
its cute!
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Evidently I’ve made tilicunt mad at some point.
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lol once again, PA the liar comes through with another patented leftist attempt at dissimulation!
lol tell me again PA how you’ve “ruined” my reputation with your lies. And try to speak without Piggy’s(or Obama’s) cock in your mouth.
PA rape!
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The neocon monkey, now HE sure is mad.
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lmao. Projection: a true hallmark of PA’s deep-seeded leftist nature.
Traitor rape!
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No Wolfowitzfinder, the answer in not ‘ more dead Americans in the middle east.’
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All those soldiers with “PTSD”? Most have not even been deployed overseas when they get diagnosed, so what exactly is it causing their PTSD?
Something to think about…
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> “Most have not even been deployed overseas when they get diagnosed, so what exactly is it causing their PTSD?”
1) The fact that PTSD can be faked [successfully].
2) The fact that once PTSD has been faked [successfully], you get a lifetime of free bennies, like SSDI.
Either that, or else young American boys are such worthless wimp wussy losers nowadays that we might as well just throw in the towel and let YKW have the place.
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Most have not even been deployed overseas when they get diagnosed, so what exactly is it causing their PTSD?””””
zombie you smart enough not to throw diarea like that without a reason
so I think to be fair you need to now take your ass oversees
where this most come from again?
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well THAT escalated quickly!
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Yeah. Things really got out of hand!
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lol
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Great post.
Universally, in girls’ minds:
Unpredictability = freshness, fun, excitement, drama (slight), meaningfulness, investment in thoughts towards the person
Predictable = boring, safe, too reliable, dry….can find these guys on any street corner.
If you tease, you are now not one of the 95%. You are in the 5% of guys she sees “differently” where she’s thinking “What’s up with him? Why isn’t he fawning over me like the rest?”
You have successfully treated a “hot/high value commodity” as something that you can take-or-leave. You weren’t being “mean” or cruel or even in any way TRYING to do anything, it was just an expression of WHO YOU ARE and how high value you see yourself. You’re actually a friendly person just having fun.
^^I guess I just described my own subconscious lol but yea, that works.
Also, a related point……new guys, start thinking this way: Break outside your box. The hot girls you have been led to believe all your life were “out of your league” because you have x-attributes and that leaves you to y-options where society will tell you “Ok little man, here’s your little box! You live your life within this realm of choices and you will be happy! This is the type of girl you can expect to get! BECAUSE WE SAID SO! Believe us!”
Actually, don’t. Everything you’ve ever been told is a lie. Everything.
I know I sound all Fight Club and shit, but I’ve had some recent events where I stepped up my own game, got some awesome results and I’m thinking “Wow….so that CAN and DID happen. :)”
I used to watch that movie and think “Ok…I get the premise and they are right! But still, I mean, there IS reality. There ARE limits.”
But now I’m rethinking it. In terms of girls and money, I’m starting to see now that there are none. I really put a lot of work into myself over the years, and I’ve begun to really LET GO of all the shit I was concerned about, and I’m starting to see how things are coming to me instead of me chasing, worrying, etc. It’s like, I’ve fully accepted myself and all of the stuff (like being short) that I, even when I had a little success, I STILL viewed as a bit of an obstacle…I just let it go.
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@PBS
I daygamed an hb9 and got her to meet with me a couple days ago. Would love your feedback as I’m kinda stuck:
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/06/03/confirming-dates-like-a-boss/#comment-573021
-IG
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> “I really put a lot of work into myself over the years, and I’ve begun to really LET GO of all the shit I was concerned about, and I’m starting to see how things are coming to me instead of me chasing, worrying, etc… I just let it go.”
Shit damn.
That is almost word-for-word the advice that I am giving “65matt”, up-thread from here, about cold openers in Day Game.
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I got chills
yea most of time the only limit is what you yourself limit
cause it can get out of fucking control
yea everything Is pretty much a lie like everything you think you know about the justice system
but yea cograts
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if I told my bitch to kill someone she would do it
there is no limit
only what I limit
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told my chick what I wrote she said I would I already told you I would
see what I mean
life is off the chain
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I told her your so fucking hot
she said I love you
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Well God damn it, GSGI, don’t actually tell her to murder somebody.
Yeesh.
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i’m not I care about her but just showing there won’t be a limit so yea ya got to have some sort of stop on your own will or something cause a chick has no limit on what she will do for love
chicks do have some good points
go down the rabbit hole all the way and there is no bottom
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> “go down the rabbit hole all the way and there is no bottom”
That’s a very dark, nihilistic place you’re where heading, my man.
The Abyss.
Turn around and come back into the Light.
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I am the light
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real talk right there. keep us updated PBS, ur journey & progress inspires many to put the inch by inch work in towards a better life.
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lolololol: http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/may/30/bored-relationships-look-for-sex-no-guilt
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SIGHHH
Alright.
I’ve been avoiding doing YaReally’s missions for a shitload of a time cuz I was more focused on getting laid than, actually improving myself…
What I would do is start out doing the missions, but then I’d see some success and be like “See? I don’t need to spend all night doing this” and then I’d chase the success… that came from the skill that I never fully practiced. So not a lot of the skills ever became a part of me.
After a crapload of failures and tiny lights of success (nothing major) I’m going actually do what YaReally says (lol sorry man, I wasn’t in the right headspace).
The positivity challenge has been AWESOME and I’ve realized that I used to be super negative before, but I literally CHOSE to feel like that. I’m way more positive of a person now, even if I sometimes fall back into the negative thought loops. (Speaking of which, I have to restart the challenge cuz I got into a disagreement with a guy I know… but whatever).
From today, I swear to follow YaReally’s advice to the word.
I realize now that building individual skills are WAY more important than getting sex/validation from wings. I’ve never been happier, and I know that coming to this realization has helped.
I predict once I start taking this game more seriously (not in a desperate way lol, but in a consistent way) I’ll start seeing more results.
Later bros.
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It’s almost impossible to tease a woman too much.
Women are DNA wired to deal with contrary toddlers and pre-teens.
So they reflexibly engage with any ‘disorder in their universe’ — trying to straighten you out/ buy into her rules set. This invariably means that she has to start talking — usually quite a lot.
ALL women love to hear themselves talk — especially when they’re obeying an ego need to create/ rectify the immediate social space.
And the more they talk the more they open up.
Opinions? They’ve got a million of them.
The further a woman is teased, the more that she is compelled to react. No woman can let a tease just drop. They have to have the last word.
Most teasing consists of an attack on convention/ mockery, in a light and silly way.
Marking yourself unconventional (in thought and conversation) is pure catnip.
Steve McQueen in “The Thomas Crown Affair” brutally teased Faye Dunaway with electric effect. By the end he had her flying across the Atlantic, chasing him. (sexually)
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When gaming hipsters:
Q: What’s your name?
A: You wouldn’t have heard of it.
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Teasing is a key part of the arsenal. Maybe the best ratio of effort to reward.
You can throw out some off-the-cuff mock insult when you first meet a chick and she will remember it and still be talking about it months later. “OMG I can’t believe you made fun of my _____ ! You’re soooo mean!” Translation: “OMG I can’t believe you make me tingle so much! Do it again!”
Meanwhile she has entirely forgotten about the legions of uninteresting beta dudes who dutifully asked about her job and education and complimented the things that she baited them into complimenting.
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Do you think you could do an article about the queef? I was reading this one and the word made me think of my gorgeous HB 8.5 girlfriend.( 1 point off for the varts) She has this killer body long blonde hair and a beautiful face. The sex is amazing until she starts queefing and I lose my erection. The first time it happened it scared me so bad I leapt up off the bed. Is this normal?
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Not during sex, but after Ive pulled out. Makes sense, air replaces your dick and then gets forced out.
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“Queefs” during sex means you’re making it air tight, queefs while sitting on the couch means there were caverns you didn’t reach. :p (just kidding)
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However, the more you study the “queef” the more you understand that it as natural lazy body response from the …queefer.
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When you study the queef, the queef studies you right back.
Consider yourselves warned.
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No caverns on this babe. She’s 19 juicy with a scent and taste of sweet cream and honey. Sex with her is quite vigorous and we change positions frequently. That’s when the poosy starts talking back. This is her only problem. A 9.5 otherwise. .5 off for a minute freckle on her pinky finger. She is flawless in every other way that counts.
As a 48 year old bachelor for life it worries me that I’m actually beggining to feel the queef is turning me on, now when at first it scared the crap outta me. Is this a symtom of oneitis? Maybe I should dump her?
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you are forcing some air in each time you put your dick in and she hasn’t learned to release that air herself without a sound which is prob a good thing she not that experienced
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I just spent a few minutes of sober, well-intentioned effort in trying to post a reasonable and moderate comment on S. Walches blog.: “Hooking up smart”
Of course, it was all blocked by brute, insensable hatred..
She hates all men with an unquenchable fiery intensity.
Her idea of heaven is mass rape of women by the exact opposite of the sort of man she verbally claims
women want…
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> ” trying to post a reasonable and moderate comment on S. Walches blog”
URL?
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“Dr Seuss” Massa Eliot?
Really? Really?
That’s … Wow … just wow …
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I figured world renowned what the hell although too stupid for me to actually want to look at as a child
I read the encyclopedia my dad bought me instead
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… of the South Park generation.
That qualifier makes all the difference… quote in full or not at all… you fairy.
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that does kind of make it better I thought it might be some sort of hidden complement in way shape or form
he he he
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Actually it was a compliment… such as they are, for these times. 😉
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thanks lol
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Agreed!
The other day, solid 8 passing by..
Me: whispering: “hey..psst Angela”
She: “Hey..what’s up..how are you? And what’s your name?”
At this point any beta guy would be eager to introduce himsellf
Me: “Huh..you really think I would tell you? Gonna stalk me or something? ”
She: “tsssssss….”.and she left lightly upset..
She’ll come to me next time 🙂 I made a cool impression on some other people (girls) around LOL.. didn’t give a shit and it was really fun!!
Once you have the attitude it all comes out naturally!
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She: hey..where are your friends?
Me relaxed: Oh..well..i don’t have many
She. Ohh…really..poor you
Me: No I feel great.. I have tight criteria..the friends I have are really good friends! What about you?
She: oh..well..I can get along with everybody
Me: Ahh….ok.. that kind! No challenge for me..
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She texting: hey..did you work out?
Me: yeah I did, Satisfied now!
Me: Of the workout!
She: Yeah. what else….
Me: You can only think of one thing right?
She: yeah…it’s been a while…..
Me: Goodnight! X
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[…] Teasing — aka foreplay — is to girls what firm D cups and a perfect pert ass are to men. Most men think teasing is something that’s supposed to happen later, after a warming-up period when the man is on his best behavior trying to impress the girl. […]
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This kind of stuff doesn’t really go over spoiled feminist-types from Toronto. They get offended too easily. Then again they’re often nothing to write home about to begin with.
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Which is why Montreal is, has been, and always will be the better city.
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First of all you’re lying and full of shit when you fraudulently claim that the Manhood Academy debates are rigged. I’ve attended at least 4 of them and there’s no such thing as the academy side controlling the mute button. Get your facts straight before you tell lies about that group.
Also you don’t even have to spend money because they’re the only group I know of that let’s you join for free if you don’t want to pay. So again you’re full of shit.
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