“Work on your personality.”
This is the best CH vetted and approved advice a father could give to his homely, beta-ish son. It’s the advice singer Marc Anthony got from his father.
The 45-year-old has been married to former Miss Universe Dayanara Torres and Jennifer Lopez, but is under no illusion about his looks. He understands he isn’t the most handsome guy on the planet, so took his dad’s advice to work on his charm. […]
“My dad would tell me, ‘Son, I’m ugly and you’re ugly – work on your personality.’ I swear to God. I told him a couple of months ago, I said, ‘Dad, you remember telling me that when I was little?’ He’s like, ‘I’ll tell you that sh*t today, too!’ I think it served me well, I think confidence is a powerful thing.”
Confidence is indeed a powerful thing.
Ugly men have options for improving their sexual market value that ugly women don’t have. A man can learn to be more charming, more assertive, more socially dominant… he can amass a small fortune or excel at the arts. He can become famous. All of these things plus more will compensate for his ugly looks.
Women, whatever other dating marketplace advantages they enjoy as a sex, are at a strict disadvantage to men in the options available to them as compensation for born ugliness. A socially savvy, dominant, famous, rich, charming ugly woman is still an ugly woman first and last to the men she desires.
[…] “Work on your personality” […]
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da gbfm has a 15-inch personalitiesz dat i don’t work on very much as der are too many chcikz working on it at any given momemntz lzozolzlllozzollz
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Pretty much, taking on a feminine perspective all penises are essentially identical. This is all very sad for them. 😦
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eminem is a charming young lad according to many fine young ladies
lzolzozoozol
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YaReally, BEWARE OF THE KINKY CROWD:
DPD cops, wives investigated for swingers party brawl
http://www.9news.com/story/news/local/2014/06/04/aurora-police-investigate-dpd-officers-wives/9982027/
THESE FUCKERS ARE EVIL.
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I mean God damn it, that is some pretty horrifying “While Rome Burns” Praetorian Guard nihilism out of those monsters in the Denver Police Department.
Are there any LEOs who are still good guys?
Who are still oath-keepers?
It is simply stunning how quickly our society is falling apart at the seams.
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@Zombie
How in the world do your comments show up but like half of mine these days get stuck in infinite moderation to never see the light of day?
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@YaReally, that happens to me too. WordPress sux.
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@yareally same here I have two really good ones (at least I think they are lol) caught now and another that I gave up on.
@zombie shame what’s this about cops being oath keepers. The question is when did they start keeping oaths? They are weak to the vagaries of power just like everyone else.
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> “How in the world do your comments show up but like half of mine these days get stuck in infinite moderation to never see the light of day?”
Because Jehovah/Yahweh loves you, and He does not want you to be ASS-RAPED BY THE KINKY CROWD.
http://www.bartleby.com/108/43/3.html#S10
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> “@zombie shame what’s this about cops being oath keepers. The question is when did they start keeping oaths?”
We used to be a better people than we are now, that’s for damned sure.
When our LEOs and our Men in Uniform cease to be oath-keepers, then it’s over, and the Frankfurt School finds out why we’ve been stockpiling ammunition all these years.
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On personality and confidence, it doesn’t even have to be based on anything real. Was at a girls birthday party yesterday and met an short and loud Latino who talked non stop bullshit the whole time and the women there lapped it up without question, purely because he was acting dominant.
I made a couple of jokes at his expense to let him know I didn’t buy his story,in front of his girlfriend, and this guy stood up and started shouting at me. He lost his frame big time, I kept cool through out. We were in a classy restaurant and this guy looked an asshole. No one had any questions who was the true alpha male.
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WOMEN ARE HAVING FEWER KIDS, AND DEMOGRAPHERS DON’T KNOW WHY
http://washingtonexaminer.com/women-are-having-fewer-kids-and-demographers-dont-know-why/article/2549445
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As I always tell everyone… Am I glad to be a man!
And of course, not to forget… the window for improving SMV opens at 15, and stays open till 60 for men. For women, 30 is kinda the end of it. Rapid decay follows.
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Ugly doesn’t mean much. I look like the offspring of the unfortunate pairing of a gorilla and a pit bull, but talk to women and everybody else like that’s my job and entitlement to be talking to them. Works in the personal life and at work as well.
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What color are you? BTW with regards to CH,”a dominant…rich..ugly woman is still an ugly woman.” I jst read in Fortune magazine an interview with Melissa Gates and some woman who is the new head of their Gates Foundation. No pics but just reading the interview,i thought.my God these broads have arrogance and entitlement seeping out of their pore,and you can bet this millionaire genius shit-dont-stink-change -the world foundation head lady is a bowser.
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2 of the best examples that come to mind: Steven Tyler and Mick Jagger. I guarantee these mofos had no issues pulling the poon, probably even today.
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Do you think there are women under 30 who know who these guys are?
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Yes
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2284462/Steve-Tyler-64-cosies-stunning-22-year-old-actress-Leven-Rambin.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2423592/Steven-Tyler-65-canoodles-younger-mystery-brunette-Hawaii.html
dude is a spaghetti armed weird face guy…he’s always in the press messing around with sub 25 year olds
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Tyler yes. He was on American Idol as a judge and sang iirc. So yeah, he could pull lots.
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Definitely. The Stones had three generations of fans come out for their last tour. Jagger still has 20 year old women throwing themselves at him.
Bastard.
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Yeah but Jagger was in fact good looking back in the 60s when he started out. He aged horribly though. Steven Tyler may have always been ugly.
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I still say Liv is Todd Rundgren’s daughter.
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I dunno, I think unattractive women can do things too. When I travelled around Chile and Argentina I was surprised by how attractive ordinary or otherwise unattractive women could make themselves. They kept themselves slim, dressed elegantly, wore high heels, seemed a lot shyer and more deferring than western women and just seemed to have more femininity. That seemed to add 2 points on to their SMVs compared to the same woman without the same refinements in the West.
in fact I’d venture to say that a Western 8 who gets herself a pair of square-framed cosmetic glasses, dyes a swathe or her hair pink, stays out the sun or lathes on the spray-on tan, pouts in her pictures, an emits a stream of obscenities from her mouth, while barely restraining herself from offering her shaved, herpetic pussy to any man who has the self-confidence to talk to her, is an ugly fucking piece of divorce-bait any which way you frame it.
All that’s gold does not glitter, as a man said.
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haha this is why I love plowing sloots (specifically my ex).
It’s so much fun knowing the twat who’s giving you a rimjob without asking will be married to some plum who will never be the wiser to the filthy, disgusting, trashy shenanigans that went down when she was with a man who treated her like a 3rd rate pornstar.
..wait, thats like 92% of HB7+ 18-25yr olds
we’re all fooked!
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Strongly agree. +1, sir. Well said.
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An average unremarkable girl with short hair in jeans and sneakers does have at least a potential +2 upside. The issue is the multiplier effect such that a 2 just can’t even warm the engine to get it to start.
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Yeah.. I wasn’t saying 4s were bangable. 4s are still 4s, its just in the West they’d be 2s – basically by adopting feminine behaviour they made themselves more alluring. The main thing that struck me was the way they walked – a woman swaying her hips when she walks is just awesome.
So along the same lines I find that Western women can deduct points from themselves the further they depart from their femininity. I have met ’10s’ I wouldn’t fuck because they were trashy, brainwashed, stupid, uncouth scumbags. In fact, the UK is full of those types of women.
So there’s some room for maneuvering for women too, although there are some killers – post-wall, fatties, v-shaped bodies, lack of curves and a flat chest just flick the off switch no matter what else is going on.
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In the west every fucking girl thinks she’s a 10. Or acts like it to cloak her damaged brain…ala 16 layers of narcissism. That super hot chick posting 6 selfies a day with some lame country lyrics or trope has the full on darkness in her…she will be a nightmare if you try to date her, guaranfuckinteed.
Need 2 ratings…1 for aesthetics and 1 for character. Western women…hot AF in many places, lot of 10s, coincidentally for the most part the two are directly proportional to each other. A 10 is almost certainly a 2 or lower in character but somewhere around 5 or 6 where the bulk of the feminists are in looks department, they are also down low. If you can snag a 7 or 8 in looks and a 8+ in C…buns in ovens cuz they’re an endangered species and only found in red states most likely south of the ohio river.
Below is a good snapshot of modern western woman mentality, particularly the millenials..I see these first few lines on so many fuckin “boost my own self esteem” selfies girls take nowadays. Read it, it’s a carousel girl, beta fagboy text book! Basically she’s nuts but you gotta love her cuz….this sells albums.
She got her daddy’s tongue and temper
Sometimes her mouth could use a filter
God shook his head the day he built her
Oh, but I bet he smiled.
She loves and lives her life unruly
Tears up that dirt road up in a dualy
Dangerous, absolutely.
And in a little while…
She’ll be roundin’ that corner on three wheels
Ain’t slowin down, yellin “Come on, jump in”
Always up to somethin, crazy got nothin’ on her
Chorus:
She ain’t right, she ain’t right
She ain’t right, but she’s just right for me
She says she wants to meet my momma
I said, I don’t think you oughta
Be like mixin’ oil and water
But by midnight she had
momma on the coffee table dancin’
Comin’ unwound
Good God I swear, can’t take her anywhere
What’s the girl gonna do next
Chorus:
She ain’t right, she ain’t right
She ain’t right, but she’s just right for me
Every once in a while she’ll give me that smile and say,
I just don’t see somebody like you lovin’ somebody like me
She ain’t right, naw she ain’t right
She ain’t right
She ain’t right, she ain’t right
She’s just right, she’s just right,
She’s just right for me
Mhhmmm she’s just right, she’s just right.
She ain’t right, she’s just right for me.
Girls can’t even admit or accept fat is ugly now with the recent “stop fat shaming” campaigns and “curvy girl” propaganda.
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Uncouth scumbags with herpetic pussies… you sir, are a poet
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Absolutely agreed. Here in Japan, women dress like women, and keep themselves thin, so the scale really doesn’t go much below 3 or 4. Any woman can jump a point or two just by dressing feminine; my own partner would not turn anyone’s head in the USA if she wore a T-shirt, jeans, and flip-flops like most women there do, but because she wears skirts and stockings every day, and eschews things like tank tops, she comes across as ladylike and sophisticated. Her insistence on speaking properly certainly helps.
Sounds like she’d fit right in in South America.
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> “I dunno, I think unattractive women can do things too.”
Thank you.
I’ll take an HB4/5/6 – with a bright cheerful personality, who can cook, who fucks like an animal, and who has the heart of an angel – over any HB8/9/10 who has the Darkness in her heart.
It’s amazing how far a girl can go just by keeping herself slender and by always having a big warm sincere smile on her face.
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zs, nearly any woman can be tamed. that 9/10 with darkness in her heart can be brought to the light if you’re up the challenge. i’d rather take that challenge than be a 4! (are you serious? a 4???)
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lol WITH a 4
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The problem is that after the 20th Century people assume that plausible Joseph Conrad references mean that you aren’t capable of subtlety. Obviously, OcasoK, one might be able to, but what if they’re fearsome? For example, they might bare their feet, and then one might be best staying away from them during the day. Or what if they’re already under somebody, could you still tame them in the moment or would you have to take more drastic measures?
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the horror! the horror!
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All cats are black in the dark.
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Where is the Joseph Conrad reference? Heart of Darkness? WTF?
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yeahokcool…
“zs, nearly any woman can be tamed. that 9/10 with darkness in her heart can be brought to the light if you’re up the challenge.”
I’m not trying to sound facetious, but I am not sure how much experience you have with women. Borderline personality can’t be tamed, neither can narcissistic personality disorder. The incidence of dark triad personality disorders among women is increasing steadily in the West across every sector of the sexual marketplace.
It would be great if we weren’t living in a time where Western women are being instructed by the media to transform themselves into dark triad vultures on a daily basis, but we are. The hotter a woman is the more likely she is to assimilate cultural values and ‘fit in’.
From an early age she is conditioned to see her self worth in society’s reflection of its approval to her. There are exceptions, but most prefer to be cuddled up safely in the middle of the herd, and if you haven’t noticed the herd’s gone rabid stupid.
If you think you can ‘tame’ a BPD then you’ve never met a BPD. Be prepared to be served your dog for lunch, and then to spend 10 years in jail on false rape charges. And if you have married one, or made one pregnant, its probably just easier for you to kill yourself now.
Does a sunny personality make up for lack of attractiveness on a 4? Not for me. But if there’s any risk of getting married or having children, you’re better off with a 5-7 with a decent personality. When 8s-10s hit the wall they hit that motherfucker hard and spend the rest of their life trying to claw back relevance and interest. There are a couple of ways they can go about that, none of them work out well for you.
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yeahokcool
zs, nearly any woman can be tamed. that 9/10 with darkness in her heart can be brought to the light if you’re up the challenge. i’d rather take that challenge than be a 4! (are you serious? a 4???)
on June 6, 2014 at 4:19 pm yeahokcool
lol WITH a 4
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But 4s would probably rather be 10s with hearts of darkness than 4s with hearts of gold also, so either way your comment works.
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I envy you. I wouldn’t even care how a 4 fucks because I wouldn’t even be interested. Maybe I wouldn’t need game if I could get it up for women I find repulsive. lol
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yeah, someone once said “there are no ugly girls, only lazy girls” they can get in shape, dress nice & learn how to do makeup. those videos of pron stars without makeup is proof.
besides, they all look the same with the lights off.
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But most men like to watch whoever they’re fucking, so that “lights off” comment doesn’t help.
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“But most men like to watch whoever they’re fucking”
yes. early morning light will expose every flaw. the true test of her beauty imho. also my favorite time to get it wet.
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Yeah I love pron. Now porn not so much.
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What do you mean by charming? I’ve never understood the notion of charming. Common definition of it from where I am, London, would equate to beta-ish behaviour of paying compliments to women, which of course goes against game.
Can you please describe or give an example of it? Cheers
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Never heard the saying :”To charm the pants off” someone? A charming personality is nothing more than confidence personified.
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CH has given many examples of how to work on your approach. Just look back at earlier posts.
“I’ve never understood the notion of charming.” Ouch. Ouch.
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links?
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Start with Cary Grant, funny, witty (witty is killer charm if not overdone), breaks rapport with women and gives them a devilish smile, gets away with it. Socially at ease, Riviera, Houseboat or Gentlemen’s club. A predatory ladykiller in real life, all of Grant’s ex’s stayed friends with him after he was done with them. He spoke well of everyone, made it his task to put people at ease and never swore. The very definition of charm.
If Grant is too old for you, look at Tom Ford (documentaries on Youtube). Tom Ford is a gay fashion designer who was (originally) bi-sexual. Superb Texan manners (again, killer), bone-dry humour, lady-teaser. Has the world’s most narcissistic actresses and models eating out of his hand. One of the most sophisticated men in America, he has this innocent little boy routine that allows him to get away with the most outrageous behaviour.
I am originally from London, and England has lots of examples of charming men. Rex Harrison (spiky, provocative charm), David Niven (Rouguish Charm) Clive Owen (deadpan, self-deprecating charm).
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Among all those you cite, only David Niven packed the gear. He was a true badass. The other guys faked alpha very well. Niven was alpha to the bone.
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Bill Nighy!!! 🙂
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And Grant was an incredible box-office draw with the ladies even into his ’60s.
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I know someone who worked at the London hotel David Niven always stayed in. She said he was A) much more handsome in real life than he appears on screen; and B) the most charming person imaginable. All the female hotel staff were in love with him.
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when da gfbmz was a little boyz his daddyz told himz, “always be charmingsz son, like snoop dogg lzlzzolzozooz.”
so dat is da definistioonz of charmingz and should be added to da websteards diction dickionaryz!
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jay, i imagine there is a cross-Atlantic difference in the connotation for the word “charming.” here in the states, it is widely considered a sincere compliment. i think the connotation here would be an engaging and charismatic man who also happens to be sophisticated. it does not usually imply “adequacy” or simply being a boring “perfect gentlemen.” regardless, ch’s main point is to be engaging and charismatic.
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Go to Amazon.com, buy any season of Californication on Amazon Instant Video, and spend the next 6 hours watching that.
I particularly recommend season 3.
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You must be a jewess [or maybe a gay jewish man] if you think that there is anything even remotely “charming” about David Duchovny.
Oleaginous, maybe – on his best days.
But not charming.
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A bunch of girls at my high school (not Jewish) were crazy about him, and Bree Walker apparently cared enough to write a song.
So he had something going for him.
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> “So he had something going for him.”
Non-stop ubiquitous 24×7 Frankfurt School propaganda.
Girls [particularly with single mothers or from barely-intact families with beta dweeb herbling loser fathers] like what they are told to like.
That’s why it’s so fundamentally important that their Alpha daddy be in the home overseeing their moral and spiritual upbringing.
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Are you guys retarded? Would Steven Tyler, Mick Jagger and Mark Anthony get laid if they weren’t rich and famous?
Dating Jennifer Lopez is an achievement? Since when? A woman who’s been passed around and looks like a 5 on a good day?
You guys talk about being “alpha” all the time, yet 90% of your energy goes into getting women. That’s as beta as it gets.
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“90%”? Uh, no. But that’s the main topic of this particular website. What a moron you are. Apparently you think that if you see a website with a topic, people who visit it spend “90%” of the time working on that particular topic. That shows you have very little understanding of the internet, or people.
You’d date Jennifer Lopez if you could. You’d date a landwhale if you could. Poor boy, have to pick apart every little detail since you lack any arguments. Let me guess that you’re either a feminist or come from “PUAHate”, or both.
And like a typical loser you mention celebrities, as your “proof” that a normal guy can’t get high-quality women. That is your excuse for being a loser who can’t get laid. Hilarious, you do exactly that which people hold up as the stereotypical loser move: name celebrities as an excuse.
“Are you guys”? You think the writer is more than one person? Well, I guess you would need help writing a piece with any sort of substance. But keep trying, maybe your brain will churn out something one day.
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gay
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You’re right that STATUS trumps personality for these guys, but celebrities are just easily recognizable schelling points for examples like this, so don’t go nuts here. “Work on your personality” is great advice.
Agree on JLo though. She was a pump and dump at her best 15 years ago.
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Interesting. I always thought she was kind of hot,but seems me fellow caucasians arent all that impressed.
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You clearly missed the part where CH said “Ugly men have options for improving their sexual market value that ugly women don’t have.”
What is more alpha than getting the women you want? Posting derisive comments over misinterpreted blog posts? Effort well spent my man.
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actually, it would be an achievement to fuck any reasonably attractive famous women. it would be a great story to tell. fuckin’ a broad does not mean you love her or want to be with her forever, acqua.
and, clearly, you’ve not spent much time at the CH… only 50% of our energy goes into getting women. the other 50% is spent arguing about who has the coolest pokemon collection. come on, bro!
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25k to get the audition with an a list actress
you can do it!!!!
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I think still about 30 percent somewhere In there about can ya make good money and still fuck bitches or do ya have to be poor he he he
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But you’ve also got to keep in mind that Tyler, Jagger, and Anthony all have rich and famous competition. Jennifer Lopez, in her prime, could have selected just about any rich and famous man to date. So it says something about Anthony that she picked him, even if he did have high status relative to, say, Acqua. However, relative to his competition (a-list movie stars, rock stars), who the hell is Marc Anthony?
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yes. Lopez was with Ben Affleck before Antony.
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Agreed, I’m pretty sure real “alphas” do not spend all their time discussing women and discussing what’s “alpha” and what’s not.
It is quite pathetic to see wannabees jerking off online over the exploits of David Niven. Dude, he put his penis into SO much pussy! Wow, he’s my hero!
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Dating Jennifer Lopez is an achievement? Since when? A woman who’s been passed around and looks like a 5 on a good day?
It depends upon when he dated J.Lo. If it was while she was in her early 20s, then a hat-tip to him.
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> comes to game blog
>> complains it is about getting women
makes sense
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Then there’s the spurious claim that 90% of our energy is channeled into “getting women”. Based on what? The sparse few minutes per day that we spend reading and commenting on this blog?
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Hey, Elliott! Glad to see you’re still online!
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Too soon,too soon. 🙂
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steve tyler no..jagger yes…ma yes…dating jlo an achievement no..
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Mick is packin those big Lavar Burton, bee stung, mahkoomba love inner tube lips
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OT:
Spot the alpha. Obama and Putin at the D-Day ceremony:
http://www.c-span.org/video/?c4500151/president-obama-vladimir-putin-d-day-ceremony
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Good point, CH. This reminds me:
“You are ugly? Then take the sublime about you, the mantle of the ugly!”
–Nietzsche, Thus Spake Zarathustra
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Cultivate your inner asshole.
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You aren’t even good at this. Might be worth reconsidering your life, right?
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To give support to your piece:- an acquaintance of mine is a concert pianist. He’s 5’4″, overweight and has a face that only a Mother could love. However, he is a brilliant pianist who performs concerts to audiences of between 500 and 5000 people and he has an absolutely magnetic personality who it is a pleasure to watch at work. He can enter a room and within 30 seconds he’ll be chatting with 3 or 4 gorgeous women simultaneously and have a dozen other people, both male and female, clustered around him wanting attention. His appearance has never held him back either professionally or with the opposite sex.
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From the title I thought this was going to be a new neg. I once told a girl who was being a little cunty “your ass is good, but work on your personality”…. fucked her the next weekend.
I realize the neg is more about ambiguity in most cases but the dickishness must grow in proportion to her attitude, and this is a good one.
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I thought the same thing. This would work as a good comment to a girl in the right situation.
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You’re confused, which can only mean one thing. But what you really meant to say is, ‘Tell me where the party at.’
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There was a big office clock on the wall where I worked. One day the secretary looked up and said, “Oh look, it’s not working.”
I said, “That proves you have a face that could stop a clock.”
She was my sworn enemy from then on.
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Marc Antony is also a very powerful lesson on male looks. When you see a pic of him you don’t really see an ugly looking guy, you see a healthy skinny guy with experience, character and class. Now if he wasn’t suited up and didn’t groom his hair and face he probably would look hideous. However, the image that he puts out totally nullifies his natural tendency towards ugliness.
http://www.emisorasunidas.net/suave/s/sites/default/files/marc-anthony-y-novia-28-01-2013.jpg?1377710928
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Actually you see an ugly-looking guy.
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To clarify: I haven’t seen him before and don’t know who he is, so that picture is my first impression. In that picture he looks ugly, suit or not.
But it is true that looks can be improved by being healthy and dressing well. And of course by working out. There’s a guy at my gym with impressive muscles, who wouldn’t look good at all without them. But with them, that’s the first thing you see, the result of a great deal of effort.
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Ooh! What a babe – There isn’t a male anywhere on the planet that wouldn’t look comparatively ugly standing next to her. So right, do the best with what you’ve got for looks – and work on internalizing confidence.
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Antony is a classic Latin alpha singer, minus the ostensible cheesiness of the Enrique Inglesias family. Sure, he sings trashy pop, but he always seems like he, like an old rat packer, is ready to go back stage, smack a stage hand around, do a shot of whiskey, and nail three giggling backup singers.
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“like an old rat packer, is ready to go back stage, smack a stage hand around, do a shot of whiskey, and nail three giggling backup singers.”
Exactly. Old school timeless manly class.
Most guys can’t pull off the metrosexual thing but the Sinatra vibe is attainable by many men because it’s more attuned to most men’s innate biology.
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Not Plutarch, apparently.
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By work on your personality, this also means find a way to stop or avoid seeking external validation.
Be focused on something you’re passionate about.
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well said
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Yes, and Wallis Simpson managed to have something on the side with German foreign minister Ribbentrop the same time she was bagging King Edward VIII, and Camilla Parker turned something on the side with the Prince of Wales into a more permanent arrangement. Sometimes it gets more complicated.
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Nah, the lesson there is that King Edward VIII was an uber-beta. He gave up the freaking British throne for a used-up divorcee of middling looks in her late 30s. So the fact she was screwing around with Ribbentrop was unsurprising.
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Agreed. King Edward was a classic “positional alpha” who was not a “personality alpha.” Had it not been for his hereditary title, he would’ve been sweeping floors and working as a rent boy.
Simpson was rumored to have used a strap-on on him. Such a Schwyzer.
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In addition to marrying Sloppy Seconds Simpson, the dude was a nazi sympathizer too. They had to hustle him out of the country and hide him in the U.S., under FBI surveillance, when the war broke out. Total worhtless POS.
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So you mean that he was attractive because he was powerful, was not an alpha, whatever this means here shunted into an independent evolutionary process, and may or may not have made a decent livelihood otherwise. Alright, you’re an alpha. Now a lower beta, see. What does it all mean? That is, subjectively.
Any negative response is incorrect.
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dlpt:
Speak coherent English, please.
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But I’m an innocent foreigner.
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Did they play sexy naughty games where he pretended to be the cruel Nazi–hey wait,he WAS a cruel Nazi. How convenient.
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The media say he gave up the throne for her. It is possible, I would say likely, that he was forced to give up the throne because he didn’t want to go along with the British-French plans to attack Germany.
(Britain told the Polish dictator not to negotiate with Germany about guarantees for the Germans living in occupied provinces. These Germans were treated very badly, many were forced from their homes, they were forced to serve in the Polish army, and they were even attacked by the police. The Polish dictator had dreams about a North-Slavic union (he despised southern Slavs) that would take land from Germany and the USSR, with British backing. Britain falsely claimed that they could quickly come to Poland’s aid if Poland could make Germany start a war. The Polish government told the German ambassador they thought Germany was bluffing; that they had new military divisions but not enough trained men to fill them. Three times Poland formally approached France, asking to form a pact for attacking Germany and dividing up German land between them. The second time, Germany found out about this. And still the Polish government refused to answer Germany’s twelve-point list of discussion points regarding the Germans living under Polish control after the World War.)
As Prime Minister Chamberlain told the American Ambassador Joseph Kennedy, as told in Kennedy’s journal: “I believe the Jews [in finance, media] are pushing us to war with Germany, and there is nothing I can do to stop it.” If even the prime minister was powerless against the ones who financed MPs, aided or destroyed them, then the king wouldn’t be able to do much either. Lord Halifax of the Admiralty also saw what was happening and objected to it, but still he was forced to go to war or have his career ended.
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Did they play sexy naughty games where he pretended to be the cruel Nazi–hey wait,he WAS a cruel Nazi. How convenient.
He was “cruel”? And a rabid dog like Churchill wasn’t, who as DeGaulle described bombed German cities to make the Germans bomb British cities so he could exploit that in the media, and who ordered the production of illegal anthrax bombs to kill as many Germans as possible even when it was clear Germany was losing, and who was only stopped by the Americans moving faster than he could set his plan in motion? As usual the Left’s loyalists, on both sides of the fence, spew up slurs in place of arguments. You learn from your media masters and leftist school teachers.
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“Did they play sexy naughty games where he pretended to be the cruel Nazi–hey wait,he WAS a cruel Nazi. How convenient.”
I thought this site preaches congruence. Ribbentrop was a good CH student then. 😛
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Or work on your rape! If Marc Antony weren’t a famous singer, you’d definitely confuse him for a suspected serial rapist. Just look at him!
But seriously folks…
Ugly women also have their own way to win that men cannot use: they can get into tip-top shape. Also, they can dress hot, smile a lot, suck cock like a porn star, and be feminine–cook, clean, and submissive.
A man in good shape is nice, but won’t improve his chances with women other than marginally. The boosted confidence, however, that he feels from it WILL cause more women to come to him, if he let’s it fly.
But a man’s body is a nice addition for women, not what they look for. Sure, a young chick might value a man’s body more–certainly for young male stars—but a wussy bodybuilder won’t get them wet more than a wispy alpha dog. Note also that most teen heartthrob dudes look very feminine, not matter what the era.
A woman who’s body is a 10 but face is a 1–a butterface–will get loads more male attention than if she lets her body fall to a 5. That gets her man better than she normally would—5s and 6s where she would have gotten 1s and 2s before. A dude with a nice body might go from bagging 5s to bagging 5.5s/6s, if nothing else changes about him.
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But they are working against an accelerated clock.
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I look at it like this…time is your only real resource, how you invest that is entirely up to you. Men, we’re smart, borderline expected to invest in 401K and IRAs, hone our crafts, and we carry that all through our life to benefit our later years, if anything to carry the entire family. Women, they need to hone their domestic abilities, keep their N low, and stay put together…a girl riding the carousel, staying out all night 4x a week, smoking, getting tats…that’s the same as a dude who’s playing video games, drinking gamer fuel mountain dew and eating junk shit every day..not saving a dime. Same fucking thing. TIME SQUANDERED. For a girl, what is 18-30 anyways..12 fucking years? For what? For who? Girls think at strictly the present time they are 100% correct about everything they are doing. To the second. Men, we go “what the ever living fuck is her problem?” when they’re screaming about something 2 days ago and are totally fine with after no resolution…just indignation. That mentality is everywhere in their decisions. Have you ever heard of a girl regretting her dumbass choices? No..it’s hamstered away with “everyone makes mistakes but I wouldn’t change a thing” dumb shit. Their ego is so incredibly fragile they can’t fuckin admit to just being a retard from 19-26 with 2 kids from 2 different guys. Yep, that is exactly how you should invest in your life girls…They’ll explain it away at 40, I’m telling you, they’re false ego is so strong they can’t even blow their brains out for ruining their own lives…maybe that’s the reason for the disparity in suicide rates, dudes do it because they’re rational, they can’t live knowing they’ve completely nuked their 1 and only finite life and sit there dwelling on what they should have done differently day in and day out…chicks think they did the right thing, every time. That’s how completely irrational their brain works, it’s everyone elses’ fault for their own suffering, why should they end it all. Plus they can work the victim card forever and there’s always at least 1 loser who will listen and stroke their ego’s 18″ dong in his own face.
Chicks can’t fathom thinking for a second how they’re choices NOW are going to affect them at the age of 40. Do they not know the VAST majority of them are going to be completely invisible to men at 40….except for the man they were faithful to and supported in her BEST YEARS? He’s all that’s going to be there.
White chicks banging black dudes just for fun, partying constantly, snap chatting nudes to 4 different orbiters, posting half nude selfies on facebook, keeping ex boyfriends pics all over, cussing constantly…then looking for marriage at 30 acting like a fuckin Nun, for real? Bros, if you fall for this shit I have no sympathy for you but you are directly responsible for having a hand in this illusion where they “still got it.”
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True. But they get a head start.
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Putin is Alpha, part 43
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The difference between Putin & Obama in one pic: http://i.imgur.com/fPpNdmD.jpg
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It is meaningless to qualify men as ugly or “good-looking” anyway. There isn’t really a standard of male beauty. The tall, dark and square-jawed type is attractive to some women and invisible to others. The reedy rogue can be alluring to some and repulsive to others. I’ve heard a couple of women declare that “all men are handsome”. Shit, some women even find Joos attractive.
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“the only thing shorter than a ykw dick is a black man’s to do list.”
– the queen of mean
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your mom is on that list
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If you’re that hard-up, go visit a prostitute.
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I’m a girl
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you hafta pay prostitutes.
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Go to Google and search for “ugly people”.
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I found it very odd. I was at a house party the other day and this girl who I’ve known for a while was pretty drunk and came up to me and talked to me. (I was teasing her for her tattoo and this girl is around an 8). She went on this rant “you know you can be a huge asshole and deep down I don’t think that’s who you really are. It’s like when I talk to you I ‘get it’ you are superior but you don’t need to be an asshole” then I was egging her on to explain more and she kept ranting “do you like yourself like that?” And I responded “like what? Me? Yeah I love me why wouldn’t I like me” and there was a long silence of me holding eye contact.
Then her eyes started watering and a year or two fell down her face…in my
Head I was like wtf is going on.
She said “you have me really good advice about my brother once etc etc.” and she just got emotional it was weird then 5 mind later back to normal.
But she wasn’t pissed at me or hitting or yelling we held a normal convo till the end of when it went back to normal.
It was weird and presently I have no idea why that happened. Maybe she had a lot of personal shit and was drunk? Weird
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Maybe she really didn’t like you acting like an asshole? Just guessing though, because we all know that AWALT (every single woman will drag you into bed if you act like a complete tool…)
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Yes, that “all women love jerks” meme is stupid. Women like guys who are exciting and show signs of strength. Some “jerks” do that, while others just show themselves to be idiots. Also, men who are not jerks can also be exciting and prove their strength.
“Women love jerks” comes from guys who can’t get girls, and so they need to rationalize it by saying that it’s women’s criteria that are bad. Because they don’t want to admit that it is they who have flaws.
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@Will
was the teasing about her tattoo mean or fun? maybe she regrets it…does it pull her down a point? would she be a 9 w/o it and it’s a sore spot…?
also, she might really like you but see you as so far out of her league, that teasing her about her tat was like you kicking a puppy…lol…you might see her as an 8 but if her friends are all 9/10s she might think she’s a 4…lol…
also, sounds like you have some ‘non-sexual’ history with her. did you escalate kino? maybe she was frustrated (bc you were ‘all asshole all the time’ and didn’t ‘get’ that she needed comfort) and wanted you to make a move (so she could ‘totally regret it’ the next day bc she was drunk and it ‘didn’t count’…lol)…girls don’t generally just walk up and start kissing a guy…lol…even if they are drunk…the most they do is “came up to me and talked to me.” (at a house party)…lol
with her ‘you’re superior’ comment she might just see you as out of her league, and if you weren’t an ‘asshole’ (i.e. more beta) she might have a shot with you…?
or she needs some comfort building from you and for you to lead her to bed…lol…all attraction with no comfort triggers ASD…mostly, if you listen to girls on their ‘subtext’ communication frequency they tell you what you need to know…
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> “She said “you have me really good advice about my brother once etc etc.” and she just got emotional it was weird then 5 mind later back to normal.”
She thought that you were a Good Guy.
It’s likely that she even had her eye on you as husband material.
But now she senses that you’re turning into just another jerk.
That you’re going Dark.
That the Abyss is becoming strong in you.
And that makes her sad.
Congratulations – you just might have lost your chance at bagging a really decent human being as your wife – a decent human being who also happens to be an HB8.
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But ZS, this is the magic formula for scoring lots of pussy, no? As long as he leaves her beffer than he found her, well…
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> “But ZS, this is the magic formula for scoring lots of pussy, no? As long as he leaves her beffer than he found her, well…”
I keep trying to warn these guys that if they venture into the uglier aspects of Game, then they are dabbling with some deep, Dark voodoo.
Yep, Game works! Flawlessly. Every time’s it’s tried.
But at what cost?
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She has a tattoo. That automatically means she is pump and dump material at best.
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She has a tattoo. That automatically means she is pump and dump material at best.
No it doesn’t. I have known many women who have had tattoos who weren’t what you describe. They get a tattoo because they are lemmings, easily swayed by the media owners.
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Let’s see here….
House party…drunk…tatoo….
Worthless piece of shit.
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I wouldn’t read too much into it. Girls cry for the weirdest of reasons, drunk girls especially. Most of the time it’s better for them to be emotional with you than indifferent.
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yea had mine cryin yesterday
i’m like i’m allowed to make you cry right
she says you can make me cry all day if ya want
I know i’m a crybaby
he he he
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And the best way a genetically ugly chick can raise her smv is by working her body out to be skinny/toned.
Fame for a girl is actually unattractive to me.
Sexy hair can up smv by maybe 0.2 points
That’s about it
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Un-sexy hair can easily pull them down more than one point.
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Re fame being in attractive to men… Might have been here, but so done pointed out a good rhetorical question to ask women/men that proves this: To men…. Would you rather date Scarlet Johannsen or a coffee barista that looked just like her? For women… Would you rather date Marc Anthony or a guy that looks just like him?
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This tweet is probably as much Dalrock as CH, but here goes :
“These two charts from OkCupid founder @christianrudder’s new book will disturb you deeply.”
Only if you don’t think realistically about the world, or don’t read these blogs.
Chart 1 – “women’s age vs the age of the men who look best to them”. Chart 2 – “men’s age vs the age of the women who look best to them”
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nothing wrong with the 46-47 y/o women wanting ~8 years younger men, other than it defying the laws of human reproductive biology, of course
cc the one nutlicker in the replies: “Men are terrible; well, straight men that is”
remember kids at home, you want something in line with the edicts of nature and you’re a shitty, badthink person
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http://readwrite.com/2010/02/22/old_guys_dig_young_women_other_creepy_facts_from_o#awesm=~oGrLCwhLfE5f5f
please scroll down to observe the “zone of greatness”, AKA cougarlife.com
or: how to make a feast of table scraps
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Based on what I see in real life, women 16-55 want men 16-28.
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around here they want the older heads
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Why should I be disturbed?
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For the men, it looks like there’s a sweet spot there around sophomore/junior year of college.
I guess most dudes must be haunted by some seriously intense memories of sorority mixers at the frat house during those years?
Around sophomore/junior year, when they’ve got a little more experience than [and aren’t quite so terrified as] when they were freshmen?
But they’re still young enough that they feel like they’re going to live forever?
Because they haven’t quite reached the horror of senior year, when they suddenly realize that the fantasy is about to end forever, and the reality of what it’s going to take to pay off all of that student loan debt hits them in the gut?
Man, I’m glad I spent so much time studying in the library.
I guess the memories which haunt me aren’t nearly that intense.
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Or maybe it’s the memory of being a senior, and hitting on the sophomore and junior chicks?
Because, let’s face it, the freshmen chicks seemed just a little too jailbaitish for most senior guys?
And the senior chicks were started to get jaded and cynical and Dark?
But there was that sweet spot with the sophomore and junior chicks, where they looked up to the senior guys with those big innocent saucer eyes and those perky upright tits, because nothing made them wet between the legs like the thought of dating a senior?
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It’s all on the left end of the curve; i.e., the lowest possible number. Probably they didn’t have the option to pick numbers below 20, or felt nervous about admitting to liking teenagers.
Men like young women, that’s obvious…
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So much lol at what those charts reveal and the mind-fuck they’ll do to Blue Pill people. Like you can spout all the propaganda you want but when you look at legit data, there’s the Red Pill SMV in action for everyone to see.
I literally choked on my cereal laughing at the zone of greatness. C’mon 24yo dude, why aren’t you messaging a 40yo woman???? Didn’t you see the CougarLife video??? lol Even on the other end of things, a 34 man in his prime with an established life and everything messaging some 42yo cat lady so they can pop out babies with birth defects and shit that will take second place in her heart next to her cats?? lol
In other news, this whole “men are all feminized pussy manginas” thing is working out GREAT for me. The main area I do my gaming in has an abundance of 18-25yos (university in this city) and they all LOVE hearing that I’m in my early 30s. I can’t even count the number of girls who’ve been like “no I LIKE older men, guys my age are lame and immature”. It’s so entertaining to me that I purposely bring up age in our conversations early on just to see how they’ll react. They don’t even FLINCH, no fucks given about me having a solid 10 years on some of them. Early 30s is the perfect age range to be banging 18-22yo’s, you’re the “older man” fantasy without being so old that you remind them too much of their Dad.
I should note that when people guess my age they usually place me around 26. They’re mindblown when they here I’m 30+. Is it because I have fantastic glowing young skin and a baby face and 6-pack abs? No, hell I have a bit of a beard most of the time these days and a bit of a beer belly. Is it because I jump and dance around like a kid on a sugar-high high-fiving half the bar and yapping with girls about Miley Cyrus and their opinion on twerking? No, I’m pretty low-energy actually and I actively tell them “I don’t have a clue what you’re talking about, I’m too old lol” Is it because I’m all peacocked up with sparkly Affliction shirts and tattoos and shit? No, I literally just wear a plain t-shirt and jeans (that fit good and aren’t from 2005 lol)
The reason they’re blown away by my actual age is because I don’t ACT like some old fuck who’s given up on life and feels “too old to be in this bar with these kids” dressed like a slob ungroomed and just looking like I’m uncomfortable with myself and the environment, like these dudes who are probably around my age:
Jesus, just Googling for those photos depressed me lol
No girl wants to meet those guys. No girl sees that and is like “wow, I want in on that party of 30+ dudes, THEY’LL be exciting and cool mature men to live out my fantasy with” lol
They wanna meet guys like this (both of these dudes are in their 50s in real life):
And when I say I’m “low-energy”, that’s not entirely true. I’m FOCUSED energy. When I engage with someone, I’m fully in the moment with them and I’m either talking about something in an engaged passionate fashion and expressing myself, or I’m listening intently and actually hearing what they’re saying.
So I’ll be having conversations that look like this (Rob Lowe is also 50):
Where it looks like the people I’m with are actually INTERESTING people to me and like we’re having an interesting conversation, whether they’re good buddies, girls, or completely random people.
Girls see that kind of engaged energy and they go “wow, I wonder what they’re talking about?? They haven’t even looked over here…maybe we should go stand near them or order a drink beside them at the bar and hopefully they’ll notice us!”
Especially when the guys beside us look like this:
The thing is, I’m sure the dudes in all these photos are actually cool guys in the right circumstance. Like when they’re comfortable and talking about something they’re really passionate about with good friends, I’m sure they’re probably funny and some alpha body language comes out and shit…and if they’d just ask the chick at the clothing store to help them pick out a solid outfit and such, and then tap into that coolness inside, they could probably do decent with girls.
But they don’t know how to express themselves. They’re feeling out of place at the bar, intimidated by whatever girls are around, completely out of their comfort zones, and the Blue Pill has beaten them over the head with “don’t you dare think you’re good enough to get the hot girl over there, you don’t have what she’d want, just stand on Death Row drinking your beers like good little chodes so these girls don’t accidentally mistake you for a cool alpha guy and fuck you”. It’s almost not even their fault half the time…they just haven’t found the steps to grow that confidence that tells them “it’s okay to take up space and care about your appearance and express opinions that people may or may not agree with and talk to girls you’re attracted to and talk to strangers around you and spread value and good vibes”.
Went off on a tangent there lol Anyway, with the response I’m getting from the young chick age range, I don’t see any reason why I wouldn’t be able to get a 22-25yo when I’m 40. Long as I don’t quit taking care of myself and let it all go downhill, of course. I’m not into the whole settling down thing right now, but if I did end up deciding I want kids and a long-term relationship, I don’t see a reason I wouldn’t be able to have fun till I’m 40, then find some quality 22yo in her prime, pop out some babies and start being a dad before 45…take care of my body and I should make it to at LEAST 65 which is old enough to have raised a couple solid kids.
hmmm, I’d better go exercise after posting this, these Froot Loops probably aren’t going to help me make it past 40 lol
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you will push that 45 back to 50+ when you see how fun 40 is. i am on the same plan generally, just waiting for runway to start running out before locking a young one down
you’re 100% right on comfort. mexico spring break with another 40yo buddy, and our beach house was full of 6 asu girls under 24. other friend, 28(!), flew home because he felt ‘old’. we never really thought about it. he destroyed himself to the point of evacuating the country overthinking it.
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@Burke
you don’t want kids then? 50+ is getting up there for starting a family.
on a side note, what’s the status with the gay day girl if you don’t mind me asking? were you able to turn that around?
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*slow clap*
A red pill man could be a one note minstrel, going around telling betas ‘Watch Californication. Watch Californication. Hey You! Watch Californication!’ – and he would be doing a lot of good.
I’m your age. What the hell are our peers doing wearing these fuckin’ untucked dress shirts out at night? Don’t they understand that this was already a joke, like, 7-8 years ago?
I did the Affliction t-shirt thing in ’09-’10 and it worked (at minimum, it didn’t detract from my results). Today, guys that still are wearing that just look like they are clueless and just awoke from a 5 year slumber. I wore one the other day just to be an ironic smart-ass. My ~10 years younger gf was horrified. ‘Don’t you dare go out wearing that!’ It was during the day, I did anyway, partly just because she told me not to. Heheh. Jesus, I must’ve had 15 of those fuckin’ shirts back in the day. Now I have probably 2, kept for posterity’s sake.
The thing is – you still see a random untucked dress shirt guy or Affliction sparkley t-shirt guy tonguing down a chick in a club every now and then – but they’re ‘having success’ in spite of their, oh…counterproductive wardrobe.
Surely game isn’t all this superficially reductionist but good god it says a lot in establishing a piss-poor first reaction, which may not be everything, but is hugely important all the same.
Great comment, great pictorial examples…great life meta-strategy.
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I’m glad you left those links to the pics. My style is low-energy smirk/wit, but I realize now I was lacking in intensity toward the conversations and the other people in the conversations. It’s all about slight tweets to calibration that make all the difference. Dude, start your own blog, btw, so you know your comments will go through.
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This graph, from the end of the article, puts aging OKCupid women’s arrogance/selfishness/solipsism/thickheadedness on full display. Even the filename is gold:
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So if i get this right … “Nice Guy” (the movie) is not too far from reality. Ugly guy works on himself, gets confident by hanging out with “thugs”, changes his social environment and ends up getting some pussy.
Who would have thought Hollywood could be a source of inspiration for regular guys.
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First off, in our mega-hyper-über-charged media society, ‘ugly’ starts just below the cast of 90210 (recent seasons). And yes, ugly (see above) men do have escape routes ugly women do not have. Money and social status. Personality, charm, ‘game’, skills, etc. etc. etc. are window dressing at best. Girls fuck Mick Jagger (even at 70) because he’s RICH & FAMOUS, not for any other reason.
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Girls fuck Mick Jagger (even at 70) because he’s RICH & FAMOUS, not for any other reason.
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Ah, no.
You want this one Greg?
Im getting worn out with the level of ignorance express by comments like this.
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I sure wouldn’t call Marc Anthony ugly. Maybe now, but not when he was in his prime. Look at his music videos. He was a pretty good looking guy back then.
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Men often wear makeup when they’re making videos or movies.
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Always.
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Couple questions for the crowd and hopefully CH b/c usually his answers make most sense.
Some of you have read my bitching about the blonde hair blue eyed super high smv hb 8.5ish that I was basically on/off fucking for about a year. College girl younger than me by 4 years.
Anyways, a couple weeks into radio silence after I took her out to a game (and basically out of the blue pedastized her) I realized I needed to be buying into the plate theory and spinning plates b/c that his healthy for any man trying to get a girl. So, I set up a date with this not very hot (maybe 6.5) wouldn’t go any lower girl….got drinks and literally said “take me back to your place I want to see it”. She took me back then we fucked after I made a move and the fuck was actually pretty good (she was loud as fuck? Why are the somewhat lower smv girls louder Ive noticed? She didnt squirt or anything…idk weird). Anyways it was SO EASY—hadnt talked to her in months or hungout with her in years.
Then the next day I was at a big house party and isolated a girl who looked crazy (i.e. she had a nipple pierce and weird hair…but good body which I care a lot about ha). Anyways she ATTACKED me when I isolated her and we fucked in some random bathroom.
So now to the questions.
A.) I have been fucking that 8.5 for like a year now. I generally felt like I did most of the initiating of hangouts but she has bought me shit and she has initiated—it was just me always texting first. IF I WAS GETTING SOMEWHAT ATTACHED TO THIS CHICK WOULDN’T SHE? I thought girls were supposed to bond more through sex? Sure it was sex every 1-2 weeks, but if I was getting a little attached how the fuck was she not?! I know she sometimes squirted as well. Just doesn’t make any sense how she is able to radio silence…
My question is do girls get more attached with guys they have sex with moreso than guys? Is that a myth? I think this should be clarified. Girls get more attached on ONE NIGHT STANDS b/c they know if the guy doesnt hit them back then they just got played by an alpha. BUT after a long run of sex it could be that it’s less of a challenge. But is there still that attachment?
And
B.) I’ve fucked two girls since but I still have this soft one-itis that developed for the blonde. Is there a cure to this shit?
Oh and is even possible for young high smv girls to get one-itits….
Based on what I’ve told you, you can see that I am somewhat high smv. I could’ve made this girl my girlfriend if I had just let my guard down a little earlier in the relationship. But now I ask myself was this the right move? She’s in college I would be moving away maybe—it just seems like such a low chance for her to follow me as the man even if we had developed the relationship. It’s just weird b/c I feel like I have played almost every card right—and she still hasn’t initiated as much as Id like etc. and
C). Is it better to be the one initiating hangouts and relationship developing type things? I always get caught up in this b/c I havent really ever had a girl do that and invite me to specific relationship building activities…Initiating could be seen as being the dominant or as the chaser. WHICH IS IT?
I’m pretty damn sure I had high value in this girls’ eyes but these are the questions that arose so far.
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Dude, something is off with the 8.5.
The only reason you get into an LTR like that is if you are sizing her up to be the mother of your children.
And once you decide that she isn’t going to be the mother of your children, then it’s the big “Next!”
Again, either something is fucked up with her, or something is fucked up with you, or both of you are pretty fucked up.
But whatever the case may be, I ain’t seeing this bitch getting up at 3AM to nurse your screaming baby.
So unless you have an abiding desire to knock her up, and unless she has an abiding desire to be knocked up by you, then MOVE ON.
And I sure ain’t seeing any abiding desire in her.
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Dude zombie Shane I know all of that. I’m trying g to learn from the experience.
Would an 8.5 be more initiative of everything? Like ideal situation is she wants to fuck me and pleasure me so that I KEEP HER AROUND. But, I haven’t really seen this to be the case with 8+ girls who get tons of attention.
My point is this. Could it be that I just fucked up the part where I AM SUPPOSED TO LEAD HER TO WHAT I WANT? Like girls love a man who leads and knows what he wants kinda thing.
BUT WHAT I WANT IS BETA. So it’s a vicious circle that doesn’t make sense.
I guess it’s beta in an alpha way.
I’m not entirely disappointed though b/c I’ve learned about plate theory and I think that is absolutely VITAL to have as a mindset for guys younger than 25.
Idk I just have had this mindset that I would mutually date a pretty girl for about 3 years then marry etc etc. which is what my parents did
Haha that’s not the case. Times have partially changed. Buts it’s more so the plates theory mindset that you have to adopt that helps.
The thing is the only way I see a healthy LTR working out is when the girl chases the guy and that means she initiates.
ITS JUST FRUSTRATING B/C I HAVE almost NEVVVERRRR SEEN 8+ Girls under 25-26 do this with guys maybe 1 seriously.
So basically that doesn’t make sense.
I’ve come to a conclusion though. Girls like sleeping around just as much as guys do as long as it’s with alphas (just as as long as it’s with hb 8+S). You can’t rob them of this innate desire. They are just more picky with choosing alphas cause eggs are more expensive than sperm. But that doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy sleeping around with alphas. ONLY WHEN THEY SEE THE HALL OR MEET A SUUUUUPER ALPHA CLOSER TO THE WALL OR WHEN THEY WANT TO GET OUT OF THE PARTY YEARS A LITTLE WILL SHE START CHASING LIKE HOW IM TALKING ABOUT.
Moral of the story treat the highest smv girls like dirt.
I don’t get the whole “the man leads the relationship” thing though. B/c if I were to say “look I’ll let you be my girlfriend” then her tingles decrease and I slip slowly into a beta or more towards it.
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Why the obsession with fathering children with the first suitable candidate you meet?
In my experience, it’s much better to have your mission (i.e. Commandment III) well under control before you do any of that (marriage, children). I had a suitable candidate, let her go, because my mission took priority. Later got married, after that took on mistresses. There’s plenty of time, judging by what appears to be this guy’s age.
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you answered your own question:
“spinning plates b/c that his healthy for any man trying to get a girl.”
stop trying to “get” a girl.
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> “stop trying to “get” a girl.”
This is excellent advice for pump-n-dumps.
But LTRs are for sizing up a chick as to whether she would make a good mother.
Whether you want to “get” her and make her your wife.
The problem here is the LTR and the vascillating on-again off-again indecisiveness of the two ostensible adults who are really just a couple of children abusing their own sex organs.
LTR & Marry or Pump-n-Dump & Next.
Or settle for blow jobs and hand jobs.
Or just be celibate.
But don’t get into a purposeless LTR.
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I realized I needed to be buying into the plate theory and spinning plates b/c that his healthy for any man trying to get a girl.
> Plates shouldn’t be a compulsion. Don’t do it if it doesn’t feel good.
The idea is moreso that you have a certain type/standard and you’re keeping your options open to make room for multiples of that.
Ideally the outcome is you get multiple “8.5 blondes” or whatever is your thing that you can hit up for a good time, not to stick your dick in anything in front of you just because.
Why are the somewhat lower smv girls louder Ive noticed?
> Trying to make the sale.
(There’s also the idea that the noise is related to attracting other nearby mates but thats beyond 101)
IF I WAS GETTING SOMEWHAT ATTACHED TO THIS CHICK WOULDN’T SHE?
> The thirsty paradox. Try to imagine how you’re probably not hitting up the 6.5 after that romp, adjust for SMV differences, then apply to yourself.
Is there a cure to this shit?
> She’s in college I would be moving away maybe—it just seems like such a low chance for her to follow me as the man even if we had developed the relationship.
=> Here is your own answer. Apply logic to the likelihood she’ll be around in even 6 months time, adjust emotions accordingly.
Oh and is even possible for young high smv girls to get one-itits….
> Guy’s one-itis: I’ll love you forever even if you get fat and stop putting out and..
>Girl’s one-itis: I’ll follow you so long as this deal is as good as it is now or better.
Initiating could be seen as being the dominant or as the chaser. WHICH IS IT?
> Between initiate/chase, man/woman the only bad combination is man/chase.
IE nothing wrong with reaching out (after the appropriate cooldown time) to make new plans, but if you get blown off without a damn good reason, go ice cold.
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I think that I was high value in her mind so we would fuck/hang out.
But the reality of it is I am not ‘that’ guy that she will chase after b/c of so many circumstances in her life and mine and probably just b/c I may not be that guy for her.
I’ve literally fucked her so many times that it’s to the point where I get bored/it’s hard to finish even without a condom. (every guy who has consistently fucked a girl knows that point) but I still can ha.
HERE IS ONE OF THE BETTER CONCLUSIONS I CAN DRAW FROM THE SITUATION IVE EXPERIENCED:
Recognize personal ‘one-itis’ signs EARLY. IF you do this then you will start forcing yourself to be aloof and keep yourself from that emotional/physical attachment or whatever. It forces you to spin plates AND it will in turn actually increase the attraction that the girl has for you b/c of your aloofness.
SO you hook up with a girl but no bang….continue 2 more dates then get a bang. Then be super aloof and go from there but notice when you start to get the oneitis signs then back offffff.
MY PROBLEM IS THIS:
I played my cards right. I could’ve let my guard down closer to when our relationship started if I wanted something serious.
BUT how could I have known that had I gotten into a serious relationship everything would’ve worked out for the long-run.
ANS: YOU CANT. b/c you don’t have control over another person.
And this above all else is what confuses me.
IF men are expected and should to be the dominant partner and initiate, then how will you know the girl is fully invested and won’t cheat when ‘the going gets tough’ such as one person travels for a small period.
This is what I am saying. If I was initiating 2/3 times the hangout/fucking plans then I feel like I am the dominant one TELLING her what our interactions will be.
Is this all I have to do? And just keep doing it for the term of the relationship?
Or will she ping off some other interesting guys and “chase” or “plan” the hangouts with the other guys b/c that is the challenge now.
Like I said best case scenario is the girl plans a lot of relationship planning things like: dates or activities.
But I just haven’t seen that happen with 8+ girls
And this is what frustrates me and confuses me most.
Maybe I’m too young and not matured career-wise and man-wise to experience that a lot yet. Idk
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every guy who has consistently fucked a girl knows that point)
haha, you’d be surprised/disgusted to know how much shit some of your boys put up with because the pussy is still novel
then how will you know the girl is fully invested and won’t cheat when ‘the going gets tough’
best prevention is don’t let the going get tough. keep your shit together and her in check
Or will she ping off some other interesting guys and “chase” or “plan” the hangouts with the other guys b/c that is the challenge now.
http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/
Like I said best case scenario is the girl plans a lot of relationship planning things like: dates or activities.
But I just haven’t seen that happen with 8+ girls
counterpoint: tinder
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Read CH’s post on Oneitis.
You HAVE to fuck a bitch that is the same or hotter than her. You have to.
We’re in the same boat – I just happen to still be fucking the ex – if you do not find a broad that is as attractive to your naked eye you will still be pining for her. It’s human nature and understandable.
Also – men work for the sex, women work for the relationship. If she likes you enough, she’ll nail you down.
Like my ex atm – she wants me back, but I shot her down. Her lifestyle is too trashy for me to date – but for me to fuck? No problemo! Cum whores for all!
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A) If you would do cocaine once every 1-2 weeks, would you become addicted? I doubt it, but it’s the same with sex. I think 1-2 weeks is the time frame guys here give as the time needed between sexual rendezvous if you want the girl to not fall in love with you.
B)You will have one-itis and be mindfucked by this until you will make up your mind about what you want to do. You can’t get over a girl if you keep thinking about ways to be with her.
C)Initiating can be either way, depending on your frame. Think of every social interaction like this:
-the real, in this case you calling her to meet up
-the frame, which is the spin you put on reality
Reality is what the frame is based on, but in the end, reality just makes your frame stronger. I suppose you can have a strong enough frame to make people disbelieve the real, but it doesn’t work like that for most of us nor do I think is needed.
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“I think 1-2 weeks is the time frame guys here give as the time needed between sexual rendezvous if you want the girl to not fall in love with you.”
Lol. If she’s going to attach and fall in love with you, reducing frequency will prolong it, not prevent it. Trust me.
I’ve thought from the beginning that Will either puts out needy vibes with her and/or she’s seeing someone else too. Either of those things would prevent her from attaching to him. It isn’t the reduced frequency.
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But Wiki says:
Not sure were you stand on the personality scale? Are you outgoing or shy? Mean or nice? Extrovert or Introvert? This article can help you understand where you stand on your own self concept.
Focus on your personality. •Personality is the sum of all characteristics that make a person, you, unique. Another way of thinking of it is personality is like a puzzle, its made up of many pieces. Its natural to have many different kinds of emotions on different subjects.
Figure out your Personality Traits: Extroverts – people who like to be around people and communicate with them. Introverts – people who like to be alone most often, and are energized from spending time alone. •Influences on personality: At a young age, your personality is already forming by things you see and hear. For the rest of your life, your personality will still be changing. When your older, your an adult, you usually have a base personality, for example, all your friends agree your fun to be around and the life of the party. But when you grow older, you may tend to change your personality and start to enjoy more low-key activities. Here are some examples of things that can influence your personality: -gender -race -beliefs -media -skills -friends/peers -school/work -home-culture
Know your Self concept. Self concept is how you see yourself, your opinion of yourself and the way you see yourself. On the outside AND inside.
Building Self-esteem. Self-esteem is the way you feel about yourself. Building self-esteem: -except yourself -forgive yourself -learn a new skill -reach out to others -be positive -be assertive NOT aggressive
Tips
•No matter what type of personality you have, you should always try to improve your self-esteem, especially for women, who tend to have lower self-esteem then males.
•Really think about these tips and see where you fit into which section, honestly. If you see yourself in categories that you don’t want to be, what can you do to change that personality trait?
http://www.wikihow.com/Define-Your-Personality
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Under an Attribution-Noncommercial-Share Alike 3.0 Creative Commons License, wiki-How’s content is free to modify, republish and share.
How does one discontinue being an Ass-Hat, per se?
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A wiki is hardly a source of authority on any topic. There isn’t even any advice there.
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“No matter what type of personality you have, you should always try to improve your self-esteem, especially for women, who tend to have lower self-esteem then males.”
Women tend to have lower self-esteem than men?
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I do think everyone needs to work on their personality. If you had a hot girl who was a tramp I think it’ll be hard to be with that person for long. Although a rich ugly woman will probably get plastic surgery!
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However there are exceptions, I have seen at least 2 couples in the place I live in, where the guys are considerably more hot than their female peers, and one ugly looking man I know, posted on his Twitter than the looks make you feel attracted but the personality is what makes you fall in love, and he applied it to women since he is hetero, duh 🙂
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You are, without question, the worst commenter here. I know you get some kick out of posting, but you are just awful. Your worst offense isn’t even being a sensitive, degenerate queer with nothing constructive to add to the dialogue… even worse, you’re dull and uninteresting.
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Nah ,I am on this blog since March 2013 and have made tons of comments and likewise have received tons of replies ,it has been more than 1 year, or do you think each one of your comments are kick ass xD xD xD
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Grim once said I was the craziest commenter lol
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Hi its me, the same person, just reopened my older blog 🙂 remember, faggots are like women, their strength is looks, see a hot face and body and you will melt, don’t need to be super charming, Lesbians are more like men, they have worse looks but increased charm (Ellen DeGeneres 😉 ) so I don’t need to be that insightful if I am handsome
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Hi I just read the entire comment. Firstly, I am straight. I like guys. I made that comment based on what my brothers have told me also because I have seen more good looking men marry not so good looking counterparts. Most of my friends who are good looking are dating guys who are look better than them.
Do you think its a trend that guys who are better looking have partners who are not a stood looking as them?
[CH: first mistake you’re making is projecting your self-conscious realization that men adore women’s looks onto other women. but the fact is that women are not as impressed by looks in a partner, particularly a long-term partner. women desire many other male characteristics.
this explains why you can see a good-looking man with a plain jane. beyond his superficial impression, he may very well be a behavioral beta male, and thus couldn’t attract for the long haul any woman better looking than what he settled for.]
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You’re batshit insane, that’s certainly one quality you need for being a top feminist. Now would you kindly piss off?
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leeminh0
Grim once said I was the craziest commenter lol
on June 6, 2014 at 10:46 pm proudfeministgirl
Hi its me, the same person, just reopened my older blog 🙂 remember, faggots are like women, their strength is looks, see a hot face and body and you will melt, don’t need to be super charming, Lesbians are more like men, they have worse looks but increased charm (Ellen DeGeneres 😉 ) so I don’t need to be that insightful if I am handsome
Little freak, little freak, self-obsessed and always making everything to be about you. “I, I, me, me”. Disturbed little mind damaged since childhood. What’s the matter, the White children didn’t want to play with you? Bullied in school because your weak parents made you weak like them? I think that’s it.
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what’s the point of your questions? sir, feeding your bullying? I won’t answer any of it. At least I am the newest victim of bullying and I did learn from the past that is best to ignore it, I remember all the former victims of bullying (Embracing our Feminity, Little Spoon, Amy, gay Dublin and now me) =p
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You can’t turn an old brewery horse into a Ferrari, no matter what you spend on surgery.
Just look at some older rich women and their grotesque faces.
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The truth of this post is the reason why people like S. Welsh (of HUS) are in constant danger of losing their minds altogether.
Guys of their general age can up their game by trimming away the beta.
Women her age have only one option: Become an absolutely certain lay, – at any time, into any orifice.
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My buddy the guy who ran a whorehouse in Mexico is like this. Ugly as fuck, but massively charming. Even when you’re pissed at him, you just can’t stay pissed, because he’s so fucking charming.
I don’t do so bad myself. I talked to a girl on the phone on business a couple nights ago, flirted with her a little in a very businesslike way, and tonight she sent me a PM to my truck through the corporate satellite network. Out of like 400 drivers.
I’ve been fucking this up for years, but I’m starting to fly y’all. I have a 22 year old 6-7 talking ME into using her as a mistress and paying her with validation instead of money. Not a gold digger, an alpha approval digger.
FUCK YEAH! It’s about goddamn time all of this hard work started to get me somewhere!
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well your wife’s attitude and such has been improving the whole time it would seem
so its been paying off it looks like
could be the attitude you are displaying from that is putting you in the right frame
and its all coming out friend who ran whore house in mexico hahaaaahaha
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It’s all just so deliciously ironic, isn’t it?
It’s also social proof I never even considered as such until just now. That litany of girls I can recite is real, and these stories about my crazy friends and all their adventures are real. My adventures are real.
You could sit down at a computer and make this entire thing up to where you can recite it convincingly, but why bother when you’ve lived it for real?
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the biggest social proof you can tell another chick is how much your wife loves you and how much she does for you
and how much you love her and she knows that you are talking to that chick
he he he
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cause then that chick know you won’t cheat behind her back and will have the balls to tell her to face
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Wow, that was a Oneitis desperation trip from hell. It’s hard not to get too eager when you get that young pussy smell in your nose. That shit I wrote this morning. Yeeeeesh.
What trips me out is the control I have over this dumb slut’s self-esteem. She flaked, so I told her to fuck off. She will come crawling back for more sooner or later, I can almost guarantee it. I am literally the most interesting, put-together, powerful, and charming man this fucked up wreck is ever likely to meet in her miserable dead end life, and she could remember me for years and look me up. I could get a random shot of ass when she hits that critical point at 27.
I’m still fucking up, but I’m figuring this shit out for real, and it’s not actually THAT hard when you start to see it working and start to calibrate it. That’s not fantasy bullshit, but me thinking I was in love with this dumb cum bucket’s whore sac and would actually plant babies in there was. Jesus Christ save me from that!
I really am a family man who could do the family thing again, but if I can just take amusement from dallying with totally useless self-destructive trash, isn’t that a lot more fun than playing golf in my retirement?
It is when I get all the rose tint out of my glasses and
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flakes happen
sorry I had to bring up the wife so hard but I think you love her
and yea she could get in shape step aerobics get her that shit
or yea let her stay where she at maybe easier to control
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> “and tonight she sent me a PM to my truck through the corporate satellite network”
The thought of that shit – some flirtatious raunchy naughty talk bouncing up into outer space and then back down to li’l ol’ you – the thought of it is uber titillating, but beware: SOMEWHERE THERE IS A DIGITAL RECORDING OF ALL OF IT.
If you value your job, then you’ve gotta put an end to it now.
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But take that opportunity to make lemons out of lemonade – start joking [but at the same time pushing the envelope] about how the two of you need to keep it on the down low and how you need to keep other folks from overhearing our naughty talk and [EVENTUALLY] how you guys need to get “burn” phones to talk with each other clandestinely and how anything that goes up and back down over the corporate net needs to be “encrypted” in y’all’s very own special super-secret lovers’ code.
Also, now is the time to start escalating in terms of the sexy stuff – start making the tasetfully raunchy double-entendres and pushing hard for naked pictures [“Oh yeah, they’re really D-Cups?” Prove it. Naked Pics now! LOL”] and then quickly thereafter pushing for an actual physical encounter in a hotel bar or wherever.
BUT NONE OF THAT SHIT TRAVELS OVER THE CORPORATE NET OR TO OR FROM A CORPORATE PHONE OR CORPORATE WALKIE-TALKIE.
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“make lemons out of lemonade” = make lemonade out of lemons.
Sorry, I am very, very, very tired.
All my shit is riddle with typos today.
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It’s cool of you to worry about me, but this is the kind of job where nobody working here would ever want to fuck this up. This little flirt dance was colored within the lines, but it’s still cool that it happened.
I’m starting to realize I have that effect on more women than I ever appreciated. I have left a trail of frustrated girls behind me.
I’ve been looking at this as lost opportunities, regrets, roads not traveled, but this is nuclear level social proof when you frame it right:
“Those girls just didn’t meet my standards, so I wouldn’t fuck them, even though I could have. I tried hooking up once, and I am worth more to myself than being some girl’s dick in a jar. You can fuck me when you are ready to put me first in your life, ahead of all other men, and give me the respect I demand.”
This is a game for men, not boys. Please do not play this game if you intend to use a girl like this as a masturbation sleeve. This game is how you play for keeps with a fine breeding specimen who is worthy of your seed, but you have to be willing to honor your end of the bargain, or you are a parasite on the face of humanity ruining things for the few real men left out here.
When you find a worthy girl, go all in, or go home.
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> “This game is how you play for keeps with a fine breeding specimen who is worthy of your seed, but you have to be willing to honor your end of the bargain, or you are a parasite on the face of humanity ruining things for the few real men left out here.”
Shit damn.
Check out my man, “T”, gettin wit da program to save Western Civilization from extinction.
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God damn, cocaine helps with the ladies. Granted its only a certain type of lady…but I ain’t complaining. Only downside is im still awake and the birds are chirping
On another note – anyone got experience/advice for hitting on a friends mom? Ive flirted w/ her (the mom) in the past, even going so far as to get a lil physical during a hug, which she just laughed off. My friend (a girl) says her mom thinks I’m cute. I just “poked” her on facebook (I know, I know…) and she poked me back immediately, so I poked her again and she poked back again immediately lol. Should I message her?
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just cause I have a sick fetish with fucking with my chicks moms doesn’t mean you should you sick fuck lolzozlozlzolzolzolz
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my chicks mom said I sexually harassing her before hahahahaaah
my chick was like I know he told me bout what he wants but I trust you mom
not to do anything
lifetime movie shit
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that was yesterday but she trusting her mom too far cause she did do something with me a while back when my girl wasn’t here but the funniest shit of all is that I wasn’t sexually harassing her when she been here this time
prob mad cause I wasn’t hahahahahahahah
my bitch had her mom and the formerly preggers blond chick working on cleaning house
I was telling the chicks dude let my chick be queen of the mannor and shit since she off the shit
my chick told me later she wanted to walk in and say I got two bitches i’m telling what to do
I knew my chick was loving that shit and was reading her mind which is what I iike a bitch who llikes managing people to get the best out of em like my wife
so I guess she does like managing people
had the blond bitch working her ass off in cellar scrubbing the concrete and shit getting cobwebs down
her mom was usin rug scrubber
its funny to me to that all the couples renowned throughout the land for fighting like they paid to do it in my house are like little lambs and shit
I bring the calm
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and its these types of chicks too that can enjoy telling another bitch to lick her mans balls
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on working personality
do I got conversation skills with my bitch or what she tells me everything
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course I tell her shit too so she can’t get blindsided by shit either
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like in my house the preggers and chick and dude actually had some cute little moments of intimacy
course my girl bragging bout shit she does for me and like proud of being my woman
I talked to my chick later about the phenomena she said yea I should go to there house one time and I would see the insanity quick
but yea same with another couple that came over before
talkin bout fighting all the time and then here in my house lovy dovy land shit
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or even my chick and her mom would fight like cats and dogs way back when but around me calm as hindu cows
one man can make a diference
like I didn’t show up to pick up her kids my girl and my sis went to the house, while I was at appointment, with the husbands mom and the mom was yelling at my girl and she yelled at the mom
but no one has ever yelled when I have been there all very civil and friendly
I ate dinner there more than once
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even my chick from high school buddy they hanging at my crib her dude my buddy now hadn’t told her he loved her in two years recently did tell her
he loved her
they all fucking cuddly and shit in my house
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more like 6th grade when I started hanging with her
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yea its funny that my chick buddy is kind of feminazi in a way in beginning like acting like getting her dude a drink was a big deal
then ya got my chick acting like she can’t do enough for her man and loves taking care of me
my chicks philosophy is winning he he he
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You’re playing with fire here.
And obviously you aren’t your friend’s friend, but rather you are his ENEMY.
[Given that you’re about to fuck the poor guy’s Mom.]
Having said that, the same rules apply here as anywhere else.
Escalate the tastefully raunchy double entendres, start pushing hard for the naked pics, then move even more aggressively for the physical encounter in somewhere like a hotel bar where you can quickly move to a hotel room with a bed once the chemistry takes off.
And since you’re a cheater anyway, you can go ahead and cheat on the pharmaceuticals and break the law and get her narked up on coke.
Then afterwards, just hope and pray that you friend’s Dad isn’t an NRA member because eventually he will discover this shit on his wife’s phone.
PS: Better do all this shit one or two towns away from where y’all live, so that neither Son nor Dad will happen to stroll through the hotel lobby and see the two of y’all french kissing right there in the bar.
PPS: And make sure that Dad doesn’t already have a P.I. tailing his good-for-nothing worthless whore of a wife.
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read it
it is his chick friends mom
im betting on she divorced
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So does he wanna fuck the chick or fuck the chick’s Mom or try to fuck em both?
Also, it just dawned on me that if the Mom still hawt enough to be fuckable, then there is a very strong possibility that this dude is underage.
Something like 17 y.o. Boy + 22 years = 39 y.o. Mom.
Which is not good – that could get us in trouble with the F.B.I.
SRSLY.
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16 legal In my state zombie
and whats on mtv anything goes lol
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here is the psychology of it
if you say you want to fuck a chicks mom what you are really saying is that you would fuck the chick you are with many years from now
so that is the psychology behind bringing it up it actually makes your chick feel more comfortable around you that you have that much fucking future together
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If he’s underage, then we shouldn’t even be joking around with him.
You think the Holder Justice Department wouldn’t jump at the chance to subpoena all of our IP addresses from our ISPs [or from the Mossad’s “NSA” subsidiary] and shut down this board once and for all and frog march us off to Federal Pound Me In The Ass Prison?
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zombie seriously if you are a pedophile or something happened to you get help
don’t include me in your we
you are off the chart
dude talked about using cocaine
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GSGI, if he’s underage, it would fall under the category of something like “conspiracy to contribute to the delinquency of a minor”.
And since we’re on the internet, and [no doubt] crossing state lines, then there would be a bunch of shit like “wire fraud” thrown in for good measure.
There’s even that ancient federal law about moving prostitutes across state lines, which Eliot Spitzer had violated, and would have gone to jail for, if he weren’t YKW and therefore above the law.
SRSLY, if we sense that there are underage boys [or, God forbid, underage girls] on this board, then we need to tell them in no uncertain terms to get lost.
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ubiquitous 25-30 year old BPD.
What induces barren pretty women to go psychotic from 25-30? IMHO, promiscuity without relationships… particularly alpha cock carousel, leaves women utterly batshit. Combine that with feminist nihilism?
http://www.argusleader.com/story/news/crime/2014/06/05/woman-arrested-rape-charges-involving-three-young-boys/10010871/
You talk about “game” in LTR, but managing a woman’s BPD is a whole issue unto itself that is never addressed. The ignored/bored housewife (when around scheming peers) is a potentially treacherous monster. How to keep your LTR out of substance abuse and other self-destructive behavior? Inquiring minds want to know.
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my chick wakes up goes bathroom comes back cuddles with me my dick starts poking her side she gets up runs to bed lol laughing no its too early i’m not ready got to take shower
im laying back arms behind head on couch ahh we got a situation here
dick standing straight up
she hides under blanket
then like I hear an ice cream truck
i’m like I want a nutty buddy
she throws clothes on runs out door chases down ice cream truck down a block away
I go out look notice she ain’t got shoes on
so I go in and get her pink cute little slippers lol and walk out then towards her
there are ten chicks sitting around next door woman and there kids
all aww he’s bringing her shoes that’s so cute aww
then I get close to my girl and she runs and jumps up into my arms with the leg wrap
burst of ooo’s awws clapping and shit
you guys cutest couple beautiful couple
i’m putting this on facebook from the chicks
they were awing us all the way into house
he he he
ask my girl why I always got the perfect relationships
she says cause we make it that way
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my girl gets done shower sitting on bed putting makeup on getting ready
says even got the cage on (G-string) pullin on her undies
me oh so I got a cage to remove then
I get up she get up
I tell her bend over grab the couch and go to work
yea no loob just tearing putty skin till I get in and its wet
its all a game
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I know ch posted bout the electronic ruining stuff
but maybe its good in case memories fade or have selective memory of what really happened
just got my hair styled by my chick and she so cute when she puts he little hand over my eyes when spraying shit
she says come over mirror check it out
do you like it
I said yea looks good
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she puts deodorant on me \
she jokes with me bout laying on my hair
i’m like you can fix it before we leave smirkin
I say get my cologne
that’s one of my jobs to put on
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she gave me a play panking for the hair she is a playfull little fucker
but very entertaining
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I would appreciate if CH threw a post up on judging girls by the music she listens to – similar in vein to the post “judging a girl by the friends she keeps.”
It’s been on my mind a lot lately.
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I walk in kitchen there is a lemon pepper bottle of spice on floor by stove
last night she made fish had me tried some she tried something diferent with
I didn’t like it
she said she tried lemon pepper
I was like did you put the lemon pepper on time out last night
she said I sure did
allright this getting ridiculous im out of here he he he
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Read on a tech blog of all places: Rich bitch sorority girls actually more likely to put out than low-class ‘sluts’: Study
http://www.theregister.co.uk/2014/05/29/rich_bitch_sorority_girls_actually_more_likely_to_put_out_than_lowclass_sluts_study/
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Asking questions are really fastidious thing if you are not understanding something entirely, but
this post presents pleasant understanding even.
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““My dad would tell me, ‘Son, I’m ugly and you’re ugly – work on your personality.’…Ugly men have options for improving their sexual market”
How in the world is this man “ugly”?
http://www.totalisimo.com/en/artists/marcanthony.html
If that’s what constitutes “ugly” today then the entire population of the US must be absolutely “hideous”!
Anthony may be short, but sure as shit ain’t ugly.
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FR For Friday(part 1)
So Friday was a very good day. There has been some significant successes and some more lessons learned.
So on my last update I told you about a new 36YOsurfergirl a cute redhead thin and fun and sexy a 7. She was very receptive and we set up a time to meet the following day which would be Friday for lunch. I soon found out she had a problem with reading a clock and put me back at least an hour with delays that she texted me with and then being even later after that. In fact I almost left. But there was a very strong indication that she was ready for the bang right away. So I wanted to at least grudge fuck her. Lol
Lunch went great there was a ton of chemistry she wore nice skirt and heels like I told her, and she looked better in person than her photos, and we had good conversation and tons of IOIs and almost no shit tests except for the late thing. And even that is just part of her personality. She is a bit scattered and just flakey in general. Get back to her place after lunch and she is good to go. The sex was great. She took to my dick in her mouth several times without any prompting and was a great fuck. I actually like her but she is scattered and has quite a few boyfriend/ex/kid issues that were just too much for me. Add to it the flakiness and I am not really interested in seeing her again. Maybe for a booty call later. But I have several others I am working lots of plates going on now. Game really works, this was one that I applied game to from the very beginning. No beta/alpha/beta/alpha transitioning to confuse her. So I got her from first contact to the bang the next day. That’s a new high water mark for me.
Then I had a date scheduled for drinks with my little 30YO Indian. I had met her online last week and we have been talking chatting and even phone sexing for a week. And the attraction, rapport and comfort was extremely high. Interesting thing about this one is she was very standoffish and hard to open up like the 33YOprude had been. But she was not playing all the games just very careful to expose herself. So I had to build a lot of comfort with her and sure enough she did get out of her shell. Man by the end of this date there was no fucking shell left. Lol Holy shit! So anyway she gets to the bar and I had told her to wear heels and a skirt, and she did and she was gorgeous. Much better than her pictures I am officially upgrading her to an 8.
So we proceeded to drink and laugh and have fun and flirt and talk sexy and then dirty. A lot of push pull, a lot of touching then some kissing. And more flirting it was fun. And she was as into it as I was if not more. In fact the look in her eyes when we were flirting and taking was awesome. I held very strong eye contact and so did she for very extended periods of time. It was electric. But she still keeps up her coyness. After about an hour, I even did the thing that Amy talked about whispering in her ear that “we both know how this is going to end up”. And she said. “Oh really, you must be very good, because that does not happen with me on the first date.” Lol but then there were other times that she would just look at me and tell me that you know you are getting it like she had long ago made up her mind that I was going to fuck her. It was a lot of fun. She also told me that she was so happy to be there. Because she had been there for over two hours and had not focused her attention on anyone or anything else since she got there. This was a huge IOI. More drinks some snacks and then we went walking around the plaza we were in lots of bars restaurants and stores to look at.
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FR Friday Part 2a.
There was quite a bit of her trying to take charge, like wanting to lead where we went, when I held her hand she wanted to change it to arm in arm. And her grabbing me and wanting to makeout on the side of a building. I had to keep correcting her and taking the lead from her. These to me were obvious shit tests but not that hard to deal with. It was almost like she just knew I would change it back to my way. Never a dull moment, never a negative moment, very strong chemistry by this time she was getting a little drunk and you could tell in her five inch heels. She is a tiny little spinner 5’1” and 105lbs. So we stop into this latin bar, and it is hot, and the music is going and the dancing is going and she is really into it. And she is a really good dancer and I am not. But I try to dance with her and keep up and I don’t give a fuck and she tells me she likes that. So that was me holding my frame. By this time she is getting even more drunk and really getting wild. Really wild. If you have not seen the old move “Blind Date” with Bruce Willis and Kim Bassinger it was kind of like that without all of the disasters.
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(part 2b)I mean she is grabbing my cock, she is taking my hand and putting it down her dress on her little titties, I am grabbing her ass, and she even shoves her hand down my pants and massages my dick. I am amazed. But I stay cool. Cool with a hardon of course. Lol I try to book a room but it is just getting too late and she is getting too drunk. At this rate something bad is going to happen. It kind of reminded me of that video Tyler did about hot chicks and drinking all of the time. So we head back to the car to take her home she cannot walk so I literally carry her most of the way and she is licking and kissing my neck and it is a long walk. She is so happy and excited that I am carrying her. I honestly believe that this whole drunk escapade was a test for me. She had told me that she gets wild when she is drunk and that she is looking for a man that can handle her. And she is super horny and sexual and needs someone who can handle this also. We get to the car and in less than two minutes she is crawling over the console in her cute little strapless mini dress trying to get into my pants. She had previously also bragged about how she really likes to give head and she likes to give it in the car even more. Ding ding dine…I think we have a winner here fellas. lol So I am half drunk with this beautiful little thing really drunk sucking my cock and exhibiting great skill. Is this really happening? Am I going to make it home alive? Will I get caught? Frankly I did not really give a fuck. It was amazing.
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(part 2c)Then she decides very forcefully that she is going to sit on my cock cowboy style while I am driving down the freeway with her obstructing my view and her left foot periodically bumping the shifter from drive to neutral. Now I was getting worried. And she was not able to do a good job of the fucking because she was so drunk and uncoordinated. She got off my lap but she would not stop fucking around with me. So she had gone from not so sure you are going to fuck me to you better fuck me and getting petulant and angry that she was not getting fucked. She is now back in her seat, playing with her pussy and rolling around in the seat with her dress up and her beautiful little ass in the air. It would have actually been funny if I did not have my hands so full. So I figured fuck it I am going to pull the car over on a deserted part of the highway and fuck her. So I did and pulled her in the back seat and finished the job. She later told me that she was impressed that I did that. Another test?lol Finally I get her home. And I get the fuck out of there very late to my house. What an amazing night.
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sounds like a wild fuckin ride
just don’t ever let her drive your car it will prob get totaled
likin the dress and heals
and sounds like you might be about to have a stalker congratulations
he he he
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@gregi why do you say that?
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sounds like a good time
so just saying she may want to continue to have that
a night like that is how I lost my truck when the chick drove lol
lost my license for 6 months permitting dui
next time go with gut get hotel so it don’t have potential to fuck up your game
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or get taxi and fuck her in back taxi drivers don’t care lol
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(part 2d)Bit of analysis. This chick has a lot going for her. She is really hot and really sexual and can get any guy she wants. She also acts like a hot chick does without the nasty attitude. She even told me that her and her friends used to laugh at online dating and this is the first time she has ever done it. Like the guys on here said online dating is for the average girls and the fat girls. I think may have hit the jackpot with this one. Now just have to stay out of oneitis territory. Both of these girls were gamed from the beginning from an Alpha frame, both of them I also used some principles from the ebook that were very helpful in setting the tone properly and getting their interest early on. Don’t be afraid to tease and correct bad behavior early on. By the way 30YO Indian called me Saturday and asked me out for Monday her birthday. So we are going to celebrate properly with lots of fucking. Finally I have to thank the brothers on her CH, and Yareally, and HABD, and Walawala for your help. You have really helped me see the light and how this shit works. For you lurkers out there. Bring your stories. It is one of the keys to getting better. also i was not trying to turn this into a penthouse forum, just wanted to illustrate the behaviors and dynamics that was going on. lol
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(part 2D) Bit of analysis. This chick has a lot going for her. She is really hot and really sexual and can get any guy she wants. She also acts like a hot chick does without the nasty attitude. She even told me that her and her friends used to laugh at online dating and this is the first time she has ever done it. Like the guys on here said online dating is for the average girls and the fat girls. I think may have hit the jackpot with this one. Now just have to stay out of oneitis territory. Both of these girls were gamed from the beginning from an Alpha frame, both of them I also used some principles from the ebook that were very helpful in setting the tone properly and getting their interest early on. Don’t be afraid to tease and correct bad behavior early on. By the way 30YO Indian called me Saturday and asked me out for Monday her birthday. So we are going to celebrate properly with lots of fucking. Finally I have to thank the brothers on her CH, and Yareally, and HABD, and Walawala for your help. You have really helped me see the light and how this shit works. For you lurkers out there. Bring your stories. It is one of the keys to getting better.
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FR Friday Part 2.
There was quite a bit of her trying to take charge, like wanting to lead where we went, when I held her hand she wanted to change it to arm in arm. And her grabbing me and wanting to makeout on the side of a building. I had to keep correcting her and taking the lead from her. These to me were obvious shit tests but not that hard to deal with. It was almost like she just knew I would change it back to my way. Never a dull moment, never a negative moment, very strong chemistry by this time she was getting a little drunk and you could tell in her five inch heels. She is a tiny little spinner 5’1” and 105lbs. So we stop into this latin bar, and it is hot, and the music is going and the dancing is going and she is really into it. And she is a really good dancer and I am not. But I try to dance with her and keep up and I don’t give a fuck and she tells me she likes that. So that was me holding my frame. By this time she is getting even more drunk and really getting wild. Really wild. If you have not seen the old move “Blind Date” with Bruce Willis and Kim Bassinger it was kind of like that without all of the disasters.
I mean she is grabbing my cock, she is taking my hand and putting it down her dress on her little titties, I am grabbing her ass, and she even shoves her hand down my pants and massages my dick. I am amazed. But I stay cool. Cool with a hardon of course. Lol I try to book a room but it is just getting too late and she is getting too drunk. At this rate something bad is going to happen. It kind of reminded me of that video Tyler did about hot chicks and drinking all of the time. So we head back to the car to take her home she cannot walk so I literally carry her most of the way and she is licking and kissing my neck and it is a long walk. She is so happy and excited that I am carrying her. I honestly believe that this whole drunk escapade was a test for me. She had told me that she gets wild when she is drunk and that she is looking for a man that can handle her. And she is super horny and sexual and needs someone who can handle this also. We get to the car and in less than two minutes she is crawling over the console in her cute little strapless mini dress trying to get into my pants. She had previously also bragged about how she really likes to give head and she likes to give it in the car even more. Ding ding dine…I think we have a winner here fellas. lol So I am half drunk with this beautiful little thing really drunk sucking my cock and exhibiting great skill. Is this really happening? Am I going to make it home alive? Will I get caught? Frankly I did not really give a fuck. It was amazing.
Then she decides very forcefully that she is going to sit on my cock cowboy style while I am driving down the freeway with her obstructing my view and her left foot periodically bumping the shifter from drive to neutral. Now I was getting worried. And she was not able to do a good job of the fucking because she was so drunk and uncoordinated. She got off my lap but she would not stop fucking around with me. So she had gone from not so sure you are going to fuck me to you better fuck me and getting petulant and angry that she was not getting fucked. She is now back in her seat, playing with her pussy and rolling around in the seat with her dress up and her beautiful little ass in the air. It would have actually been funny if I did not have my hands so full. So I figured fuck it I am going to pull the car over on a deserted part of the highway and fuck her. So I did and pulled her in the back seat and finished the job. She later told me that she was impressed that I did that. Another test?lol Finally I get her home. And I get the fuck out of there very late to my house. What an amazing night.
Bit of analysis. This chick has a lot going for her. She is really hot and really sexual and can get any guy she wants. She also acts like a hot chick does without the nasty attitude. She even told me that her and her friends used to laugh at online dating and this is the first time she has ever done it. Like the guys on here said online dating is for the average girls and the fat girls. I think may have hit the jackpot with this one. Now just have to stay out of oneitis territory. Both of these girls were gamed from the beginning from an Alpha frame, both of them I also used some principles from the ebook that were very helpful in setting the tone properly and getting their interest early on. Don’t be afraid to tease and correct bad behavior early on. By the way 30YO Indian called me Saturday and asked me out for Monday her birthday. So we are going to celebrate properly with lots of fucking. Finally I have to thank the brothers on her CH, and Yareally, and HABD, and Walawala for your help. You have really helped me see the light and how this shit works. For you lurkers out there. Bring your stories. It is one of the keys to getting better.
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so I go up to the husbands moms house of my chick so she can see her kids
everyone respectfull and had a good time cooking out there
boyfriend of the motherinlaw of my chick took the grillin duty even he is younger than the motherinlaw bout my age
my girl went up herself yesterday was shouting match
but yea
my girl like yea I guess their respect for you tranfers to me when your here
That Is some hardcore shit
she said before we left wasen’t gonna be no problemsn if I was there
but yea even I guess ex husband there although not on paper but his tat with his name erased and he didn’t talk no shit
I joke with him a bit though he he he
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@YaReally and anyone else who’s faced similar situations…
It’s been 9 months since my surprising and crushing break up with what has become clear is a girl with Cluster B and BPD traits.
I’m mostly out of the fog. I’m gaming new girls, my targets are younger than 35 and have a big event coming up.
My ex gf broke up 2 days before my last one which she helped plan, didn’t come out to anything, then sent an angry note about removing her name from the FB outreach group..complete cunt.
Cut to this week. She had the beta orbiter “friend” who I had accused her of cheating with…to buy her ticket to this event. The guy then invited me to a group dinner with her—I don’t think she ever told him about going out with me and I think he is just an orbiter. Needless to say we’ve blanked each other for 4 months apart from one time when I danced with her, she gave major IOI’s then we went back to No Contact for the month. Whenever I’ve made announcements about this event, I’ve scanned the room and everyone is listening but she seems to be deliberately talking to whoever is sitting next to her. She stops talking when the next person gets up to make an announcement—all cunty and passive aggressive. I want to go over and say something…but have restrained myself.
All this context is for my question…How do I treat her during this event? It’s hugely important to me. But I don’t want any drama and if she’s parading a bloke in front of me or whatever I just need some ideas of what NOT to do and how to make sure that I continue to have a blast.
There are a ton of hot girls going. There is at least one I’ve been gaming and many others who are friends/orbiters of my own who helped me put the thing together and volunteered to help run it…it’s me and around 8 girls all hot…helping.
Any do’s/don’ts would be helpful.
Do I greet her like I would all the other guests? What should I say? Hi, thanks for coming…? The orbiter bought her ticket and that pisses me off. I also don’t want to do anything that would be deliberately or overtly provocative because she’s nuts enough to make things difficult.
I’m just afraid of having a few drinks and losing my shit—-which is major beta.
I’m going to be giving major DHVs by hosting the musicians and a variety of out of town guests who are very cool.
I want to be the cool chill host I always was before this crap all took place.
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comment mod but
my girl like yea I guess their respect for you tranfers to me when your here
That Is some hardcore shit
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“especially for women, who tend to have lower self-esteem then males”
Since when? In my experience they have much higher self-esteem than men, generally independent of factors that merit self-esteem.
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I agree, women more than men have a disconnect between self esteem and factors that effect self esteem. That’s why we see so many unattractive over weight women who are loud and confident.
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[…] “Work on your personality.” This is the best CH vetted and approved advice a father could give to his homely, beta-ish son. It’s the advice singer Marc Anthony got from his father. […]
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Wish someone would write an algo which would delete all the beta whining and BS from people like Gunslingeregi and just leave the pertinent responses. I couldn’t care less about the ins and outs of your lavender-scented diaries, ffs.
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The moderators are killing me. I have part two of this FR stuck and part two of Wednesdays stuff stuck in a previous post. S much for breaking my stuff up I to chunks. Lol
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what color are you?
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Ha…what gender are you?
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lol I heart the chateau but what’s the deal with the moderation lately? I can’t get anything but little one liner posts like this to show up these days. Is there just a flood of troll to deal with after the Elliot shooting or what?
It’s frustrating to write a big in-depth quality response and have it sit in moderation for days (sometimes to never actually be approved) when posts like “you know the answer: RAAAAAAAPE” seem to get thru with no problems.
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@yareally I agree with this. Some folks put a hell of a lot of work into creating quality responses and even more work taking the proper actions in the field to create these responses and then it does not show up.
This only encourages poor quality short responses and penalizes ling quality responses. guess what you will end up with?
I am going to break up part two into even smaller chunks to see if I can get it through.
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@reco
I’ve got a big long response to you in moderation here so keep checkin back on it: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/06/05/tease-girls-right-away/#comment-573922
CH, can you approve it? It goes into depth about punishment/reward etc. I can’t even really remember now lol
M’s hamster has exploded all over the new article with 40 one-liners…there’s gotta be a way in wordpress to filter that shit out and approve the quality posts when they’re posted.
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@YaReally Yah, I had a question for you. But I’ll shorten it.
How do I handle my event this weekend? Seems my crazy ex is there with her orbiter. Pisses me off. How do I navigate this without getting angry, saying anything spitefull or suddenly getting sucked into drama?
Do I talk to her at all?
Bullet points.
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“Pisses me off.”
Why?
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@walawala are you saying the ex pisses you off or are you saying that you still reacting to her pisses you off? I believe there is a big difference. Need to find out why she triggers you still.
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@YaReally/Reco Pisses me off because it seems she’s using this guy to do her bidding: buy her ticket, try to reserve a table—stuff none of the other 100 guests have done—only this guy is reaching out and I only sort of know him.
Secondly she knows that her “date” with this guy pissed me off–even though she insisted he was just a “friend”.
Also, she deliberately talked during all my announcements but was quiet when anyone else got up to pitch whatever they were doing.
I feel she’s trying to manipulate me into blowing up or calling her out so she can play the victim. In this situation–I am the host. Beta orbiter guy doesn’t seem to know we had a history. How do I act if I see her? Ignore, say hi…just treat her like I would the other 100+ people? I know she will provoke me somehow. I don’t want to take the bait.
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@YaReally/Reco pisses me off because I feel she’s manipulating this beta to contact me about tickets for her, reserve a table…all the things he normally wouldn’t do unless someone (her?) was suggesting it. He’s the only guest of 100 who’s contacted me about these things. Coincidence? What would you do if you were me? How do I greet her? Do I blank her? I’m the host. Can’t blow up and create drama.
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@walwala In my humble opinion. I think this is all about you and not about her. She should have no more consequence to you than any other average 5 that wanders in off the street. That will have more effect on your own peace of mind and on her ego than anything else.
One of the things that I am learning the painful way is that. A lot of this shit is not about what you do but sometimes about doing a lot less. Your actions will say so much more.
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How’s “You look nice, almost good as me” for opener? I’m trying direct approaches right now (just for the sake of it)
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almost as good as me* for an opener*
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How about…Ask a quick question about her something simple like how are you doing today, or what are you shopping for? Doesn’t matter, then you say “enough about you…lets talk about me” have a little smirk on your face.
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rofl dyke
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This sound more like a neg.
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Sexual Biomechanics Theorem # 3321
A woman is shameless to objectify herself in the presence of high status men if there is an inkling of plausible deniability.
Miss Manners weeps bitterly in her tea.
http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2014/06/08/sir-mix-a-lot-raps-iconic-baby-got-back-in-a-way-you-may-have-never-heard-before/
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LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That was great!
Take notice of the lady in black glasses and black dress next to him in the beginning really rockin’ out!
Then there’s that long haired Asian gal in the back really enjoying herself and plotting how to love Sir Mixed(race)-A-Lot (heh) long time.
Chocolate sushi anyone?
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Women aren’t big on aesthetics. To the point of preferring (with their limbic system if not their neocortex) scars and tattoos, or even a few missing pieces, if they seem to be a result of violence and not advanced diabetes.
Men are as simple but more superficial. A woman with hair down to her waist will get a third look (think HUD in a fighter jet locking onto the target). An ample milk supply also helps. Beyond that, general fitness. And play dumb so as not to distract the male lizard brain.
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Well this sucks for me. I just took the evaluation test for women and I fail on the looks part. I already knew I wasn’t conventionally attractive so I figured some personality would help. I just don’t know what to do. The problem is my face not body. I have typical black features and my smile is crooked. I know I could get a boyfriend but I bet it would be someone who was with me because he felt like he had no choice.
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