It’s time that mama bird CH pushes some of you fledglings from the internest to embark on a confidence building mission.
The men who read this site fall roughly in line with the following ratios: 10% cellar dwelling WOWmegas, 30% undersexed betas, 40% curious betas in relationships (or capable of getting into them with some growing pains), 20% alphas of various stripes.
How do I know this? SCIENCE. Actually, it’s an impression I get from the circadian rhythms of the comments section. No claims or proofs by assertion necessary; enough words will coagulate to convey a picture.
So, given that over half the readership are men who genuinely need help meeting and seducing women, and that a substantial portion of these are men who aren’t doing anything to fulfill their desire besides stare at a flickering screen hoping for PIV through CH osmosis, I have decided to give some of you a ticket out of here, in the form of a manbuilding mission.
Understanding how hard it can be for a lot of men to say hi to girls, this mission is fine-tuned for the hopelessly lovelorn and intractably awkward. Baby steps. You won’t have to say word one to a girl. All you have to do is…
1. Squeeze a twinkle into your eye.
Now naturally there’s no physiological way to do this directly. But if you imagine you have an eye twinkle, like some mischievous imp who pulled off a righteous prank, then your eyes will begin to respond to your mental state and manifest twinkles on their own.
2. Smile, but just a little at the corner of the mouth.
Again, you’ll need mental preparation to do this right. Have you ever sauntered alone in your thoughts, musing on some funny scene from your life, or some joke you pulled on a friend (or enemy)? Have you then noticed, once jolted back to your surroundings, that your mouth had aligned into a badboy smirk all on its own? That’s what you’re aiming for. Not a goofy smile; a self-satisfied smile that tells the public world your private world is a trip.
3. Walk with your crotch leading the way.
Sounds silly, but it’s the secret to many an alpha’s intoxicating swagger. Imagine your baton is a marching band leader, setting the tempo, securing the parade route. Or visualize your iron schlong is being pulled forward by a magnetic force, dragging the rest of you behind it. Shoulders square, chest out, chin up, frank and beans forward and pushing your legs apart to make room. Don’t be comical about it. A little goes a long way.
Your mission is to assume the above three changes to your countenance, and walk around in public. That’s it.
Once you get into a groove, I want you to notice how girls respond to you. I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised. These subtle body language alterations make a bigger difference than you might have thought.
After you’ve accomplished this rudimentary lesson in confidence building, you’ll move on to mission #2: How to say hi to a girl without deucing your diapers.
If, for whatever reason (pathological neuroticism), mission #1 is too high a hurdle for you, there are aids you can enlist to help you acquire that arrogant alpha demeanor women so love and cherish. Jam in ear buds and blast your favorite testicular tunes. Remember, you aren’t talking to girls on mission #1. Your only job is to project an alluring aura. If music doesn’t do the trick, there’s always that old reliable coc[REDACTED].
Undersexed beta.
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What does “Squeeze a twinkle into your eye”/eye twinkle mean? Me no habla ingles.
In my defence I must say that I am slightly but surely becoming part of the 40%. In can sense that I won’t be w/o an adult child, adult female child that is, for too long.
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zlzoozoz it was a typo!
heartiesez meant to write,
“squeeze a twinkle in her eye as u cum in her facez zlzoozolzozlzolzolzoz ozmzh”
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It means something like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pUVVFwl_udU
Right before he does that little tilt of the head and walks away around the 30 second mark.
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> “3. Walk with your crotch leading the way.”
YaREALLY WATCH YOUR ASS ALERT!
This is also the way that homosexuals walk.
Over-sexed Uber-Alpha guys eventually get bored with the thought of pussy, and their thoughts inevitably turn to sliding into their wingman’s nice tight virgin anus.
You have been forewarned.
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ZS: do you have any evidence (studies, etc.) to support this theory? i find it very difficult to believe
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Damn, man… TMI on this topic… it’s getting so I can’t even enjoy a sausage and pepper sandwich at the ball game anymore. 😡
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Man, did you just use a lib-Hollywood gay-agenda movie to make an anti-game point? Never seen the movie, so I don’t know for sure and an just asking cause that’s what it seems like.
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> “ZS: do you have any evidence (studies, etc.) to support this theory? i find it very difficult to believe”
Dude, I have a fucking lifetime of experiences in this shit.
And what I have come to discover over the years is how pervasive this shit is even amongst married ostensibly-Christian GOP family men.
In fact, the more that I think about this shit, the more that memory after memory after memory of it comes flooding back from the deepest recesses of my brain.
Shit that I hadn’t thought about in years.
BOTTOM LINE: If you start running with the Beautiful People, or even with just the local branch office of the Kinky Crowd, then the amount of perversion which will come seeking you out is simply flabbergasting.
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> “Man, did you just use a lib-Hollywood gay-agenda movie to make an anti-game point?”
It actually features two powerhouse actors in Kevin Bacon and Colin Firth.
But it doesn’t have anything to do with “Game” per se.
It has to do with the kinds of aberrant personalities which are attracted to the 24×7 never-ending beautiful people nightlife party scene.
The kinda shit that I am worried that YaReally is getting sucked [no pun intended] into.
Believe you me, those fuckers are out there, and they are just waiting to slip a roofie into your drink.
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Definitely raped as a kid by the gays.
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I perused the article, and shortly thereafter took its reccomendations; I attempted holding my head up higher, to ‘rock out with my cock out,’ forcing a little twinkie in my eye, and overall entertained myself slightly taller than I verily stand. Abdomen taught, pectoral musculature fully abreast, chin tilted heavenward- I even exaggerated my jawline with a slight intentional overbite. The first sign of impending disaster occurred whence my pen fell from my hand to the floor. Upon attempting its recovery I noticed that I was unable to see it; To gaze down to any affect risked a rather certain cellar-dwelling doom, a life certain of perpetual involuntary chastity, according to our wise blog host.
I later ventured down a flight of steps and as my leading foot struck out into the void, my heart raced as my mind wondered where upon the abatement my extremity would fall. My dread persisted only briefly and was replaced by a horrific dream regarding purple colored World of Warcraft gear, whatever that represents, I do not know (I must consult a dream interpreter.) I found myself in a great heap at the bottom of the stairs, suffering a major head trauma, which resulted in my death.
I got better
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What the hell is wrong with this guy? He’s either a troll or a classic closet case. Every post ZS makes is about alphas on the ‘down low’ who are bored with vagina and want some man-love. Zombie Shane is the game equivalent of Ted Haggard. The lady doth protest too much.
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It took a long time, but I have finally concluded ZS is a troll. Every single post, no matter how technical and process-orientated, leads him back to joooooos or gay rape. He very rarely mentions women at all.
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I don’t think ZS is a troll. I think he’s probably sincere when he types out his hyperbolic eccentricities and raving conspiracy theories. But, unfortunately for him, he is also unwell and unable to objectively recognize his mental deficiencies. I say this because ZS completely lacks self-awareness and types out some latent and obvious homo-erotic quasi-fantasies while simulataneously imploring us to impregnate every white female within touching distance. Needless to say, something doesn’t add up; troll or not. He certainly is one the “characters” here
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> “I say this because ZS completely lacks self-awareness and types out some latent and obvious homo-erotic quasi-fantasies…”
I dunno – do you guys like live in fucking trailer parks?
In cardboard boxes under bridges?
Maybe somewhere in Alaska?
Where I live, there are fags EVERYWHERE.
And they are constantly on the prowl.
SRSLY – tell me where this utopia is that doesn’t have fags nowadays, so that I can move there and be free of them.
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Or maybe you guys really are all Aspies?
And you’re such social retards that you’re completely oblivious to the world around you?
So socially retarded that you don’t realize when a fag is eyeing you, much less actually hitting on you?
I’m trying to understand where it is in USA 2014 that you wouldn’t constantly be crossing paths with fags.
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ZS has a point actually. Most of us don’t go to the right clubs. ZS is talking about clubs celebrities are seen in. The real scene is created by the aspirational regulars. There is a whole crowd of people concentrated in one place fueled on cocaine and egotism. They are literally high on how cool they think they are. The narcissism can easily tip over into bisexuality.
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> “while simulataneously imploring us to impregnate every white female within touching distance”
While my sarcastic reply is still in LIFO hell, it dawned on me that maybe I should ditch the sarcasm and be more serious about this.
The honorable use of Game is to seize a good woman for yourself, put lots and lots of buns in her oven, hold your family together over the years, and have lots of fun doing it.
The nihilistic use of Game is to move yourself “up” in life, and to start running with the Beautiful People.
And when you start running with the Beautiful People, you are going to be stunned at the level of depravity which will be served up to you.
I keep warning you guys about staying away from the Darkness in women, but here I am warning you about staying away from the Darkness in MEN.
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Well I see that Carlos Danger beat me to it.
Thanks, CD.
Anyway, you run with that crowd at your own peril.
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And getting back to the question of letting your dick LITERALLY lead you around in your posture.
If you start walking around with that look of a “Playah” in your eye, then you are going to be stunned at how many ostensibly happily-married ostensibly conservative ostensibly “Christian” family men come flocking to you, in search of a little on-the-down-low action.
Once you start having that air of sexuality [or sensuality or sensuousness or WTFE it is] about you, then all sorts of dark Dark DARK shit is going to be revealed to you.
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> “Every single post, no matter how technical and process-orientated, leads him back to joooooos or gay rape.”
This guy is a Frankfurt School troll, but the illuminati jews and the illuminati fags are two sides of the same coin.
The most important aspect of swallowing the Red Pill and entering the Dark Enlightenment is to dispense with all the Pretty Little Lies and to start seeing the world for what it really is.
Actually, it isn’t “the most important aspect” – it’s the single DEFINING EXPERIENCE of entering the Dark Enlightenment:
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“There is a whole crowd of people concentrated in one place fueled on cocaine and egotism. They are literally high on how cool they think they are. The narcissism can easily tip over into bisexuality.”
The only time I’ve been tempted by bisexuality is on ecstasy, never on cocaine or ego trips.
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It took a long time, but I have finally concluded ZS is a troll. Every single post, no matter how technical and process-orientated, leads him back to joooooos or gay rape.
Typical for those of you who are ignorant of media control and want to stay that way: you are even too afraid to spell out “Jews”. You always write it “jooos”, pretending that it’s to ridicule, but it’s actually because you are too afraid to even name the Jews. Just like your school teacher taught you, and the media: Jews must only be named as such when they are presented as victims, otherwise it is forbidden to mention the word, isn’t it? Good little boy, following your media conditioning.
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Wilton Cooper and Bobby Ray Claggett
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Thank you! Mama bird CH! :p
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Slightly off-topic, but this shit that is happening in Iraq right now is fucking Game-Theory Evo-Psych epi-sociology on steroids.
You’ve got a committed core of Alpha sociopaths in “ISIS” who are literally slaughtering their way through an army of betas and omegas which had been given upwards of a TRILLION dollars in state of the art equipment and training to defend their “democracy” against something like this.
It’s as though the betas and the omegas can’t even get up the courage to pull the trigger and kill bad guys in ISIS – as though the betas and the omegas just lay down in the fetal position and ISIS comes along and beheads them.
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You can see here why human females would have a deep-seated ancient primordial desire to procure Alpha seed for their ovulation.
A woman needs a man who will rise up and not just stop a threat to the family, but kill the threat, and thereby put an end to it, once and for all.
And if the betas and gammas won’t even fire their weapons – if they just let the Alpha sociopaths storm right through the town beheading them – then from an evolutionary point of view, what the hell good is a beta or a gamma to a woman and her children by him?
With the added bonus that her boys will – in all likelihood – grow up to be worthless beta/gamma losers just like their beheaded father was.
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You’ve got a committed core of Alpha sociopaths in “ISIS” who are literally slaughtering their way through an army of betas and omegas which had been given upwards of a TRILLION dollars in state of the art equipment and training to defend their “democracy” against something like this.
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But the shiites are putting more buns in the oven.
Game, set, match
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Great post. I’m currently in curious beta, bordering alpha. These actionable steps are excellent for not making excuses. Cheers bud.
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Here’s another actionable step.
Day Game.
And you start your life as a Day Gamer today – this very day – by doing nothing more than walking up to a girl, with a twinkle in your eye, and a smile on your face, and saying “Hello!”
And if you can’t think of anything clever to say after that, then just wink at her and smile and walk away.
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PS: It helps if your voice doesn’t squeak. So before you get too close to her, start warming up your voice by singing some very low-tone basso notes under your breath. You simply cannot overemphasize the importance of a nice deep sonorous voice in your life as a PUA.
PPS: But if your voice squeaks? Well who gives a damn? Because Honey Badger.
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> “And if you can’t think of anything clever to say after that, then just wink at her and smile and walk away.”
And if she comes running after you, and she says, “Hello? That’s all? Nothing else?!?”
Then you immediately switch from aloof Game to vulnerability Game: “Well, I couldn’t think of anything clever to say to you, but I just had to say hi, cause you’re so cute. Here, put your number in my iPhag.”
And then you hand her your iPhag and she puts her number in it.
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BTW, I knew a guy in graduate school who scored his wife this way.
She was a real solid 8/9, and given her smarts, might have been flirting with 9.5 territory, and, as he told the story, the very first time that he saw her, they were down in the laundromat, in the grad dorm, and he immediately knew that she was “The One”, but he couldn’t think of anything to say to her, so he just walked up to her and said something idiotic about her laundry.
Made a complete fool of himself, but he got his foot in the door, and then one thing led to another…
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And I knew another guy in that same circle of friends, who scored a super hot wife by just walking up to her and offering to help her fix her bicycle.
[Because, again, she was so hot that she intimidated the hell out of him, and he couldn’t get up the courage to approach her in a more Game-like fashion].
It almost doesn’t matter what you say – what matters is that you get up the courage to say anything at all.
Then once the conversation gets rolling, you maintain a firm masculine FRAME to it, and consistently resist the temptation to be a nice guy pushover loser.
But you must get the conversation STARTED first.
And that requires getting up the courage to say something.
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True. I saw a not so cute Russian girl getting tea at Dunkin Donuts. She had one of those colorful purses only a Russian girl could have. I decide to say something even though most Russian girls give me the cold shoulder when I approach them even in the friendliest, most non-threatening way. I just said “that’s a nice purse, where’d you get it?” She said she got it in Russia, then I said “Вы понимаете по-Русский?” Wich is “Do you speak Russian?” and one of the few phrases I know in the language. I say some other basic Russian phrases. She’s mildly impressed but curious at the same time as to why I know any Russian at all, I tease her that I’m a CIA spy. I add her on VK and give her a flier of parties I promote with my phone number on it then take off. A couple hours later, I get a message from some hot girl on VK, and a simultaneous text saying it was the friend of the girl I met earlier and she invited me to come hang out and drink beers with them at their house. We end up just having a nice conversation for a couple hours, and then I drove back 3 of the girls to their house. I didn’t talk much with the hot one who invited me since all six girls were taking turns talking and asking me questions. 2 days later I invited the hot one and her girls to a party we promoted and get them on the guest list, pick up 4 of them, not even including the original girl I met at Dunkin Donuts and once we’re in the club it was “on” between me and the hot one. Later on I drop off the 3 other girls and the hot one stays in the car with me. We make out a little bit, then went swimming in the ocean which quickly turned into skinny dipping with her completely naked perfectly shaved tan-lined slender 20 year old Russian body. We walked back to her house, my attempt at shower together failed, but after we both cleaned up and still just in towels, we go into her back yard, I took the towels off both of us and laid them down, then banged as the sun was coming up. One of the most memorable nights in my life, which all started with a “nice purse, where’d you get it” to a not so cute girl at Dunkin Donuts.
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@ l82dagame…Great fukkin story! Wish I had one like that…
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And you start your life as a Day Gamer today – this very day – by doing nothing more than walking up to a girl, with a twinkle in your eye, and a smile on your face, and saying “Hello!”
And if you can’t think of anything clever to say after that, then just wink at her and smile and walk away.
Fantastic advice, and eminently practical. Just make sure she isn’t gazing into her iPhag with the 1,000 yard undead stare (good luck finding one that isn’t).
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@Jay on some level you have to start believing in your own confidence to do this. That was the pivotal moment for me 3 years ago.
In addition to all the tactics, how to approach and open, you have to change your mindset from one of scarcity to one of abundance—there’s always someone better—then any rejection doesn’t bring you down.
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@walawala this is what I have to work on. Even though I have abundance I still feel that scarcity. I have to get to that point of not feeling that anymore.
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[…] Your Mission […]
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Imagine your baton is a marching band leader, setting the tempo, securing the parade route.
Am I the only one who heard the strains to 76 Trombones after reading this?
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Unfortunately I heard this:
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I can just see the lights going on over the heads of the South Park generation:
“Hey, they’re copying Family Guy!”
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They should consider themselves lucky they weren’t dragged along to innumerable New York City musicals (including the one in the video above) as little boys.
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C’mon, now… don’t be such a philistine.
Me, I find the American Musical a charming and amusing art form, for the most part (give or take a few ax-grinding homo agenda works of recent memory)…
And The Music Man is right up there in the top ten of the genre.
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Greg Eliot
I can just see the lights going on over the heads of the South Park generation:
“Hey, they’re copying Family Guy!”
”””””””
well I realized it was other way around and dam that is pretty riske for being so old yea they should of put the llights out on tv long time ago he he he
and lol at lbf
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“Me, I find the American Musical a charming and amusing art form,”
Would you like a blowjob?
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Now see, that’s the kind of puerile bullshit that makes me keep raggin’ on you “South Park” generation hipsters.
1 Corinthians 13:11
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Save the Christianity for those in your church group.
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And save your snark for your weekly Call It Duty gathering in your parents’ basement.
Don’t try to snow the snowman, kid.
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I thought of it too. I also like the musicals of the golden era. Seen live, they’re simply an amazing show. No one popular these days has that kind of talent anymore.
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I’m not a big fan of musicals but I must say when I was a kid I was a bit impressed by “Oklahoma” (the movie)
I don’t remember anything gay about Oklahoma, The men were manly and the women were feminine ( and pretty) in that one.
Which is how things should be.
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Nice to see that the head Jew-haters here appreciate the work of the YKW who created most of the classic American musicals.
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Undersexed curious married beta, reporting in.
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perfectly-sexed deadbeat here for non fiction reading suggestions, obscure tidbits/topics of interest and of course actionable CH study posts, checking in. keep bringing your best.
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Surly negro postal clerk here to keep whitey in line
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Heh, most of the alleged PUA and muh-dik clowns around here already talk with their crotch leading the way.
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Soul of a beta. Wrinkled sugar-daddy to import bride. Puerile narcissist seeking validation from imaginary internet friends. Fearful of imperious empowered women in hair-buns. Expects and gives no quarter in daily commute to Encorpera, the lifespring of status and prestige.
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“Deucing your diaper?” This must be a Southern phrase or something.
Good post, rock on.
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im trying to get my night game conversation game sharp but im noticing some problems. I think i tend to take the asshole side of game abit too far and end up half insulting girls or behaving like a clown. i shit test them alot in the same way a women would a man by making semi insulting statements about them or what they say. i do notice a twinkle in their eye initially when i do this but then i usually take it too far and end up getting blown out. i actually really enjoy this sort of behavior and it kinda flows out naturally for me when im drinking. it would be nice to meet a girl who could take all my shit and give it back to me.
but anyways for now i need to get rid of it as im not coming off as charismatic to girls on nights out. any tips? should i open with a small bit of negging etc and then change it up to some compliments bout her or wat?
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You like banter.
OK – so, once you’ve parried her shit testing – try self deprecating humor – then say what you just wrote: it would be nice to meet a girl who could take all my shit and give it back to me …
I’ve been teaching my daughter verbal self-defense – Girls really don’t have an innate sense for it … not the way boys do.
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I’ve seen this same scenario played out with a buddy of mine a few times. He has no fear, throws out shit tests, negs and asshole game, breaks the ice like a champ, but ends up becoming obnoxious as the night goes on. Eventually bordering on getting kicked out of bars.
If you’re having fun, try changing nothing but just drink a little bit less/slower…maybe that will temper your asshole “game” just enough to keep the girls from getting turned off.
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I practice this in airports and supermarkets – places where there’s lots of oncoming pedestrian traffic. In such scenarios, a girl has the choice of either making eye contact or looking past you – so, you can gather quick feedback and adjust.
You have to watch girls reaction – and for this, I suggest – holding your twinkly gaze just long enough to clearly make out what color eyes they have – then slowly releasing. Turn just enough to still see their reaction as you pass by.
1 point for a head turn
2 points for returned eye contact
3 points for up-from-under eye contact (she can’t resist)
10 points if she breaks stride / stops
Don’t ‘target’ girls with phones, kids in tow, or other obvious distractions – they’re simply unaware of their surroundings and are just as likely to walk into a wall.
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What does a twinkly gaze look like? I am being serious.
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http://www.popsugar.com/photo-gallery/34411273/His-smirk-slicked-back-hair-really-did-us
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Good finds — they all have the exact same slightly lopsided facial smirk with the twinkly eye.
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Thank God you are doing this CH. And by “God” I’m not referring to the god of biomechanics.
Seriously, you are doing the work of the Lord.
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Tickletik.. I wouldn’t say that blasphemy. What Mr. CH is saying here is good knowledge men need to know but I wouldn’t call it “you ard doing the work of the Lord”.
How so? Mr. CH isn’t preaching the Word of God at the ol’ Heartiste nor is he WITNESSING the GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST to unsaved believers (perhaps you?) to avoid Hellfire.
Instead, teaching men to fornicate, do all kinds of wordly lusts that follow living in the “player lifestyle” and honestly “manipulating” women for lustful purposes is certainly not doing the “Lord’s Work”. It’s abominable HEATHENDOM! Full of all ungodliness and wickedness in endless hedonism that doesn’t bring the salvation of men’s SOULS.
I hope that’s a joke and even if it was; it’s doesn’t “fit” and it’s a blasphemous statement.
I have nothing against Mr. CH here for I have learned quite a few interesting “teachings” of his filtered in by a BIBLICAL STANDPOINT.
But ultimately without the Word of God and the Gospel of Jesus Christ… CH’s “Mission” will be stifled without the Hand of the Lord.
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Mr. CH, do GOD’S Will in your life. Pray on it to Lord Jesus Christ for guidance.
You could do more … with a God’s Help. Come to the LORD.
1. http://www.jesus-is-savior.com
2. http://www.godlovespeople.com
3. http://www.jesusisprecious.org
4. http://www.biblebelievers.com
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Peace.
In God’s Grace,
~ Black
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He’s teaching men how to command respect from and develop the moral authority for keeping their wives in the face of great temptations for those wives to leave. Our world is under constant assault from the enemies of the traditional nuclear family. Make no mistake, this is an all out war. It’s the Lord’s work in action if you ask me.
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..I know a few Christians with massive game who don’t fornicate or cheat on their wife….
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Yes tickletik, this is straight out of your bibble, isn’t it? Name the chapter. I have actually read that piece of fiction, in between The Communist Manifesto and the Bhagavad Gita. Amusing stories. The imagination these foreign peoples have!
Game is applied conservatism, as someone put it. Or rather, game and conservatism alike come from realism – observing human nature as shaped by evolution and adapting to it. No religion does this, it is about science, that pastime built mostly by White men, and then mostly Germanic men. Not Middle Eastern shepherds and hustlers. I read the “White History Today” blog every day, keep it bookmarked, and I see the names of the men honored for their discoveries and inventions. It is very revealing. Also, the world of science these men created is very enlightening. “Game” is right up there with their observations about physics, biology, chemistry, geology, mathematics and evolution. There is a wealth of knowledge here, more scientific than most college classes.
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Agreed.
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I’ve been getting that kinda attention from women for years
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Chris, how do you perceive women as sexual beings? Are you attracted to them? What about them turns you off?
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Do you like breastesses?
Whats your favorite part of the chicken?
Mines the big piece.
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What’s your favorite part of the chicken? Mine’s the big piece.”
Mine’s the next one.
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CH, I have a suggestion.
It would take the cooperation of other major manosphere sites.
IF you want to kick the keyboard jockeys out of their habits. Then have an “Approach Week” where all comments sections on manosphere blogs are DISABLED. Leave everyone the explicit instructions to go forth, and approach.
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Great idea. And it should coincide with a Sphere-wide ‘Mangina Shaming Week’.
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I like it, Jeremy. It would send a clear message.
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“…hoping for PIV through CH osmosis”
Too funny!
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(Earlier comment was eaten)
This post should be included in the CH Best-Of Game Posts dead tree book that I will buy for posterity.
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So you can burn it at the communist book-burning rally, eh, comrade?
PA rape!
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whorefinder, your neoconnism is not amusing. Americans and their lessers die in invasions and you make excuses for the criminals that cause it – without reading the information available. Amazing. Then you call PA a communist for opposing the neocons? You better take a look around. Every conservative website away from the mainstream Pravdas features writers who have seen through the neocon lies. If you didn’t willingly blind yourself and shout “They hate us for our freedom! You’re either with us or against us!” You would have learned something. Alas. The neocon followers are the real socialists. That’s the side of mass immigration and EU expansion.
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lol. Still believing everything PA says, I see. Such a sad little follower; little different from the commies who change their opinion based on what Their Dear Leader says.
PA is a liar by nature. The truth will out.
Liar rape!
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Omega here, but I never liked wow very much, although EVE is more fun to play and I built my own rig to play dayz, you should try it. I am going to leave the north side of the campus I am on and venture to the south side where women are and test this idea today. I will report back.
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Today could be your last day as an Omega. Kick some ass.
Life is a video game; you can be the game’s designer making the rules or it’s dronish player following the rules. You decide.
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The findings:
I put on my coat and I first walked over to the dividing street that having been crossed brings you to where the women tend to be. Right away a not unattractive woman who looked young and had long hair and blue eyes said hi and asked if I would sign a petition for increasing spending on the poor in the city and although I didn’t want to appear insensitive I only said hi back and no thanks because I didn’t know the details. She made eye contact but I looked away because I don’t know what to do in these situations.
Then I began walking. I immediately passed a few more women wearing tiny shorts and sleeveless shirts and they glanced over and I began to feel very uncomfortable because I felt like I had no official reason to be there. My official reason was to do this mission but what did it appear I was doing? I looked down and realized I must look stupid and began to get self conscious. My plan was to walk to the far end of the main campus and back. So I continued and I saw these women with tiny shorts and tight black pants and all sorts of things exposed. They were stretching, maybe to go on a run. There were three of them with one guy who looked relaxed. He seemed to be telling them how to stretch, and they were giggling. I sat on a bench and then I saw this beautiful woman run by, again with the tight fitness clothing, but she had a hat on and just an amazing body shape, she looked very fit. As I sat there I began to realize that there are men who can easily get a woman like that’s attention and they even have sex with women like that. I remember once reading about Milgram’s small world experiment and I wondered what the shortest path of relations were between myself and that woman. I stood up to read a notice on a board and when I turned someone had taken my spot on the bench. I did not know what to say so I left. I tried to focus on the mission but it was hard, I felt so stupid doing this. Then it happened I remembered a man who works as an administrator in the same building as me. We see each other a lot and he always tells me these great puns, jokes, innuendos and once joked with me that the department mailing list just shares pictures of themselves in a homosexual manner. I couldn’t help but find that last one humorous. I thought about that and started laughing while I was walking and felt a lot better. I saw myself in a reflection and looked sort of cool, aloof would be a good description. I kept it up. I have no idea what walking “walking with my crotch leading the way” means. I also don’t really know what the correct way to smile in public is. I got to the halfway point where I started retracing my steps when I noticed a group of three women in a different direction and decided to walk past them to see if these techniques had any effect. As I got closer, one glanced at me and then seemingly instinctively her friend did too and when I got close I looked at the first one’s face and she stared right at me. I quickly looked away because I was not sure what she was thinking but her face did not appear to be filled with disgust or anything bad. Maybe that means the techniques worked? Who knows? I headed back and realized I really disliked the feeling of being at the mercy of other people’s or strangers’ thoughts.
Perhaps the mission was a failure, I can always try again.
[CH: not sure if troll or sincere. nevertheless… bravissimo!]
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Do the same thing tomorrow, and again, and again, and again until doing this shit is like brushing your teeth. You don’t get nervous brushing your teeth do you? Anyway, check out this video that may help you. Start at the 2:15 mark. If you can’t bother to watch the whole thing (watch the whole F#ckin thing though), make sure to go to the 37:28 mark to help you relax.
YaReally can hook you up with better I’m sure, but this video helped me see how relaxed one can be in these types of situations.
http://thejamesmarshall.com/2012/11/the-video-that-changes-lives/
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Other than doing cold opens, find a venue. Go to a dance class, like salsa, that is a great way of getting into contact with women and having a reason to do so. Physical contact and social contact. They usually have more girls than men, so they are happy to have more men joining.
As for cold opens, start with talking to other people, not the girls in tight shorts. Talk to old people. Smile and mention the weather to an old man walking the same way as you. “Finally it has stopped raining!” or something like that. They are happy to hear you say that. This is a good first step in learning to talk to strangers in the street, and it is completely risk-free.
When you work out you don’t start with the heavy lifting right away, right? You warm up with the small dumbbells. Eventually it all loosens up.
There was this Finnish lieutenant I read about, in the war against the Soviets. He froze the first time he was going to lead his men in combat, couldn’t move. After that he was scared of freezing up again, and he had to push himself to run forward every time, filled with fear. Then one day he realized that he had done it over and over again so many times, and he stopped thinking about it. I often think of that lieutenant’s story. He had real problems. Despite our understandable worries, we have no real problems.
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Awesome man! Mission accomplished!
You have put on your big boy pants and left the nursery for the first time.
You never have to worry about explaining your “reason” for being anywhere. Hell, you’re just “going for a little stroll” to “get some fresh air”. You keep doing your thing. Do this once a day. Build confidence, it won’t happen overnight. It will take months. If you end up in a conversation with a girl, just be cool. YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE. **Talking to a cute girl and not getting her number is still miles ahead of fapping to WOW in your dorm room.**
Next time, before you go, do as many push ups as you can – perhaps 40 or so, and then take a quick shower, then put on a decent shirt and try that twinkly eyed smirk in the mirror before you head out. Try a power pose like Arms raised in a V shape. Hold it for 30-60 seconds, then release. Breathe deeply, maybe sing a sentence or two in a very deep (Barry white deep) voice…All this to get your self mentally and physiologically conditioned for confidence and relaxation during your leisurely stroll. Keep us posted.
39 year old married Beta/Alpha mix here.
PS – If ever in doubt on how to prep, you could watch/try this:
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Please next time use spaces and paragraphs, it is hard to read one solid block.
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I started playing eve cause I heard ya could make money at it but yea it was allright when they asked me to pay though after trial I quit
but my star wars account prob worth 3k or so not playing that at moment either
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from what I hear though wow is the place to pick up ho’s
so ya might want to try and rock that again
I used to pick up ho’s in delta force ii and ultima online lol
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It also helps to be just a little bit drunk, but don’t quote me on that.
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“If music doesn’t do the trick, there’s always that old reliable coc[REDACTED].”
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Great stuff. A weekly exercise I do: I sit by myself in the window seat of my favorite restaurant at lunchtime, which is located on the highest pedestrian traffic street of my mid – sized city. My goal is to make prolonged eye contact with every female who is a 6 or above that walks by. I’d say that my ratio is about 60%, but I am admittedly sitting there looking suave and well groomed in my business suit. One woman (about a 7) walked by with her beta boyfriend/husband, did the swivel headed staredown, walked an additional 50 feet, then came back to the restaurant with the guy and requested the table next to me. Some women are just desperate for even the slightest hint of alpha. Anyway, this exercise by itself obviously won’t get you laid, but it is great for keeping yourself in the proper frame.
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And every car you pass going the opposite direction you should be staring into everyone’s eyes to get used to doing so. Amazing how much you can tell about another person and what they are thinking/feeling at 30 miles per hour.
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And every car you pass going the opposite direction you should be staring into everyone’s eyes to get used to doing so. Amazing how much you can tell about another person and what they are thinking/feeling at 30 miles per hour.
That’s an excellent exercise actually. When I’m on my motorcycle I look towards whatever car(s) is(are) up at the stop light with me. Usually the woman is in the passenger front seat, so eye contact is easy to initiate. Throw in a wry half smirk/smile and a wink and 6 out of 10 times she’ll reciprocate with a wink or sexually charged smile/lip bite/hair twirling maneuver. He hapless boyo/hubby beside her being, of course, absolutely oblivious. Fuck me but how amazingly shameless women are to do that kind of thing. In a way it rather disgusts me, but not enough to stop the flirting, heh.
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And it that’s too scary, you can practice staring into the eyes of pretty girls (and saying hi) by doing so to each girl on this page (and all the pages of their site like this). Good way to get syked up before happy hour too: http://thechive.com/2014/06/13/there-are-sexy-chivers-among-us-99-photos-8/
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“40% curious betas in relationships (or capable of getting into them with some growing pains)”
I’m definitely in this group, but I read your site because I think PUA in general are really just teaching men how to unfeminize themselves and become better, happier, more satisfied people.
I just don’t change my situation because I’m not interested in going to places where people gather, and hitting on women. I’m not saying its a bad thing to do, it just doesn’t sound fun to me. Maybe I’ve gotten too used to being a loner but seriously it doesn’t sound exciting.
Do you guys think this is because I am scared or because its just not something I’m interested in, the same way I’m not interested in baseball?
I am uncertain. Having sex with different women would be awesome, of course, but the time and effort doesn’t seem worth it to me when I could be doing other stuff I enjoy. But this site makes me feel guilty, like I should want to be going out on Fridays doing stuff instead of having one friend and one girlfriend.
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I think you should do it just as a challenge to yourself. I am an introvert by nature, hate small talk and have poor hearing from years of playing music, so I generally dislike large social gatherings. But I resolved for the calendar year of 2013 that I was going to take every social option that was presented to me, even if I was largely on my own, and hit on every girl there that I found attractive. The results were predictable–my lifetime notch count doubled, and I became much more comfortable rolling by myself into large social gatherings. Now in 2014, I have been backing off the social scene to pursue other challenges because, yes, the effort is often not worth the payoff, and I have things that I want to accomplish in this short lifetime that have nothing to do with getting entitled sluts into bed. BUT, I now know that I am capable of being sociable and hitting on and succeeding with unfamiliar women, and I know that I was able to meet a fairly severe challenge that I had given myself. The value of these two things is incalculable. So my advice to you: Challenge yourself for the next year to attend large social gatherings and to hit on women, not for its own sake, but precisely because you do fear it. Then you can make an informed decision as to whether continuing to do so is worth your while.
PS: I’m still getting laid fairly regularly, but it’s now largely a result of social circle Game through the significantly larger social circle that I built up during 2013. Being sociable is essentially an investment that has large start up costs but then provides continuing returns down the road.
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This site doesn’t make you feel guilty. This site just reminds you of your true self that you are denying and THAT’S the guilt you feel. Don’t hate. Just take the red pill (read the entire archive and YaReally’s) and let it happen.
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That’s a really good observation.
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I know that feel, dude. You’re probably just scared.
If you’re anything like me you eventually just want a quiet relationship with an obedient and sexually and intellectually suitable wife, but it’s not going to happen like that unless you go out and grind out the approaches and frame holding and shit-test passing to improve your game.
It looks like a lot of work, but it’s probably a lot of fun, and it’s fixing a pretty major personality defect.
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Samson, I understand you. It is actually ridiculous, the club scene. Men are supposed to have conversations about things that matter, not compete in women’s attention by gyrating to “music” that only the braindead sheep can like. We were never made for that circus. You don’t have to go that route though, there are other ways. I have worked hard on finding other venues.
Some people say, “So you have to hit on every hot woman and sleep with lots of women to be alpha, huh?” No, it’s not like that. Although many men ENJOY doing that when they learn game, so you hear about it. But if you want just one girl, an intelligent and mature girl that is sweet and warm at the same time, then you are probably like most of us. BUT – we usually have to date a lot of women to find that one. Hence the copious hitting on and dating. And we can enjoy the process while still looking for that end goal.
Well, if you don’t like all the dating, don’t do it. But at least do it once in a while. Keep the ember glowing, you know? So you don’t lose the skill and become nervous about the whole thing. This way the window is open for you in the future when you will, inevitably, want to date more at some time.
And who knows. You could get lucky even with minor dating.
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http://www.wnd.com/2014/06/ex-border-agents-immigrant-flood-orchestrated/
Degenerates 19, New Obama Translation:
1 The 60,000 illegal little angels came to America in the evening as Obama was sitting near the city gate. When he saw them, he got up and went to them and bowed facedown on the
ground. 2 Obama said, “Kids, please come to my detention center and spend the night. There you can wash your feet, and then tomorrow you may continue your journey.”
2 The little angels answered, “No, we will spend the night in the city’s public square.”
3 But Obama begged them to come, so they agreed and went to his detention center. Then Obama prepared a communist
transsexual Obamacare abortion ritual orgy for them. He baked bread without yeast, and they ate it with psychedelic mushrooms.
4 Before bedtime, Obama voters both young and old and from every part of America surrounded Obama’s detention center. 5 They called to Obama, “Where are the little angels who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us so we can have communist transsexual Obamacare abortion ritual sexual relations with them and then offer their unborn lumps of fetal flesh to Molech and put them all on psych meds for Satan and turn them into permanent liberal Obama voters.”
6 Obama went outside to them, closing the door behind him. 7 He said, “No, my voters! Do not do this evil thing yet. 8 Look! I have millions of conservative taxpayers who have never had Satanic ritual homosexual relations. I will give them to you, and you may do anything you want with them through Obamacare’s taxes, penalties, mandates, and death panels.
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oops, meant to use this link as context, not the other
http://www.breitbart.com/Big-Government/2014/06/11/HHS-Grantees-Sheltering-Illegal-Alien-Children-Must-Provide-Family-Planning-Services
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Good stuff, Earl.
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Cool story, bro… jump to the part where the conservative taxpayers fear they’ll have no mates or children, so they get Obama drunk and, well… you know.
(((On a side note to the peanut gallery: the sonic boom you just heard was Earl’s pearl flying over the your head)))
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That was very good. The story of Lot.
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O/T:
Granted, online dating is pretty much a waste, but can somebody please explain the infatuation chicks have with traveling? I really don’t give a flying f*ck if some woman was in France or in Italy for the cliched “look, I’m holding up the Leaning Tower of Pisa!” pose or some third world shithole to get her SWPL bona-fides.
Although I’m sure it is simply women trying to boost their egos and nothing more.
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DOH – should’ve elaborated. Just about every online dating profile seems to have photos of every woman in the aforementioned spots.
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If you have game online dating is another pussy channel rather than a waste. If you’re good, do like me and do it while you’re traveling. You can bang lots of girls when you’re on the road with online dating
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You can count on these women having a high N-count, achieved by banging a succession of swarthy Lotharios in places like France or Italy where no one knows them. The travel-bragging is an implicit admission of this.
In my experience girls who travel a lot are generally flakes, hippy chicks and ‘free spirit–types. The more they travel, the less depth they seem to have.
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My comment is regarding the male as the jet setter. It’s an easy way to cast extra lines while you’re out at bars and such looking for ass in an unfamiliar town
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This is another crossroads where PUAs and neoreactionary tradcons are wholly antagonistic, ideologically.
But since the purpose of this post is to help guys who can’t get their dick wet on the regular, I think we have to consider the PUA meta-view in regard to this.
These free-spirit, hippie chicks who travel a lot are more likely to put out for curious (if undersexed) betas who simply take the initiative to get out of their comfort zone and traverse the international backpacker circuit.
Go out to the corner market in any 2nd/3rd world city, buy a couple cheap bottles of wine, and discreetly fucking in the 4-bed dorm a couple hours later becomes just an afterthought.
Yes they have a high (and multinational) n-count but I don’t think the necessarily have ‘less depth’ than your average swpl office-job chick – if anything, it’s vice versa. Not that depth even matters a whole hell of a lot if you’re just looking to get laid.
So, I say – more power to ’em.
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Rick, why they all write about travel has a purpose: it is a mark of achievement. Especially for women who don’t have an education and are stuck in dead-end jobs. For them showing a long list of visited countries is a stand-in for having a career. That is why so, so many uneducated women write about traveling.
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Alpha emeritus here. Am in my mid 50s, and read mostly for entertainment, rather than “how to” tips. What is amusing is to look back at my younger days and realize that I instinctively had game, even if I didn’t really know it then. I was just doing what came naturally. My frat brothers were continually providing shoulders for the girls to cry on, always being asked “why is Sgt. Joe such an asshole?” Not really having an answer for that, some would suggest “then why don’t you leave him” which would prompt even more blubbering, and sobs of “but I can’t, I love him.”
Ahh, the good old days.
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Back then, all it took was a deadpan “Just the facts, ma’am.” (when the ladies wuz blabbing about how “their day” went) to be considered a lovable asshole.
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that’s all it takes now if I told my bitch that she would cry
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Pro tip…button fly jeans really accent the package and chicks always stare.
Me and my wingman know them simply as cock pants.
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allright i’ll buy some button fly he he he
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“30% undersexed betas, 40% curious betas in relationships (or capable of getting into them with some growing pains)…”
Yep. Undersexed beta, at times curious beta capable of relationships with growing pains.
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I disagree on smile. I know alphas who are readily showing all 32,and this just does not make them look beta/submissive in any way. Hell, look at young Arnold, every second pic is with a massive smile on his face. Arrogant, self absorbed smile.
Another thing,for example I’ve got dimples. It is a weapon of mass destruction. Not smiling when you have dimples, it’s like wearing baggy shirts,when you have D boobs.
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Well one can always experiment and observe the results.
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Another thing,for example I’ve got dimples. It is a weapon of mass destruction. ”””””””””””
yea don’t get so much now outloud but god dam when I was young every woman wanted to touch/comment on my dimples
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That’s funny, I have dimples too. I had forgotten that they are an asset. Good thing I smile a lot anyway, I guess!
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[…] Source: Heartiste […]
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http://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-27809242
Look at his shit: The EU’s top court is considering a test case which could oblige employers to treat obesity as a disability.
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From the article:
Note the past tense.
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Yes, and they’ll be forced to shoot the disabled. It’s sad and a chore, but tough measures are needed. Ka-click.
Hmm, maybe they won’t do that. But I’d love to see such a story on April Fools Day, just to put a fire under some wide asses. At the same time, change the stars on the EU banner to ragged bullet holes. (Someone with photoshop skills, there’s an idea for ya.)
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FYI: a new rejection hotline http://feminist-phone-intervention.tumblr.com/post/88518084309/669-221-6251
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All quotes pulled by PA and PIggy on their breaks from sucking Obama’s two-incher.
Triple rape!
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Give it a rest. How is PA an Obama supporter for opposing the neocon wars? Obama has taken the route you like. He tripled the drone attacks in the Afghan-Pakistan border region, murdering countless civilians as reporters on the ground have documented. “Peacenik,” hardly. He promised to end the illegal occupation of Iraq in six months – he lied and kept the occupation going for years.
“He pulled out of Iraq!” still bleat the dumb neocon followers. Sorry, that was decided by BUSH. Because the neocons’ occupying mercenary army wouldn’t get continued immunity to prosecution in Iraq. Bushie and his neocons were afraid the mercenaries would then be arrested and prosecuted for their rapes, beatings and murders, and that wouldn’t do. So they decided to pull out. Obama executed a decision already made in the Bush era, and the neocon followers are too dumb and lazy to understand that.
These are the same people who couldn’t find Ukraine on a map after four months of daily news reports. Neocon lovers, the group it seems you belong to whorefinder, were the ones who were the worst at placing Ukraine. Some placed it in Spain, Britain, the Middle East, Southeast Asia, Australia … and South America and Canada. And here’s the kicker. The worse they were at placing Ukraine on the map, the more eager they were to support U.S. military intervention in Ukraine. The ones who could place Ukraine correctly – the ones who had actually studied the situation – were the least eager to support a new neocon military aggression.
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lol.it’s hilarious that you’re a squealer to a squealer. so sad.
PA’s a lefty in sheep’s clothing, boy.
Now, remember: 9/11 was not used a justification for Iraq. And 9/11 was not an inside job.
There, there. there’s a cookie.
Squealer Squealer rape!
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While Obama has trouble lifting 5 pounds barbells over his shoulder, Bush – father – at age 90 jumped out of an airplane yesterday.
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Kneegroes—so pathetic, so worshiped by the Tribe.
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You are a generous God. Good advice to your readers.
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Go away, warpig. Piggy will hold you tight.
Piggy rape!
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Seems your every post now is about personal attacks. Sad to see.
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The personal is political. Especially when that person is a liar like PA, Piggy and Obama’s worshiper.
Rape!
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Maybe the men who are going to practice these methods today in public could wear some kind of distinguishing mark on their clothing (a crimson star?), so fellow CH readers can recognize them?
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#3
Like those liquid chest tubes in ‘Donnie Darko’?
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Undersexed (very) lesser beta here. This post is awesome and exactly what I need: the baby steps.
I am 22 years old and have been reading the manosphere for 2.5 years, with Heartiste being the my introduction to the manosphere and I now read many manosphere sites. It has radically altered my world view and I can say I am a full-fledged red-piller. Unfortunately it has provided no results for me in terms of getting laid. I just graduated college about a month ago still a “kissless virgin.” A couple weeks later during memorial day weekend, just feeling fed-up with my sexless state and oddly inspired by the Eliot Rogers situation, got myself an escort and lost my virginity.
Now being a 22 year old sexless kissless virgin is absolutely pathetic and most people would consider that WoW playing omega-level pathetic, and I believe omegas to be hopeless lost causes for the most part. However, I don’t consider myself to be hopeless or an omega. I am now a graduate of a decent school and have lined up a fairly prestigious job in a totally people oriented field. I have a solid group of friends ranging from lesser betas to greater betas and some female friends as well (some of whom are “8” or so attractive). I very rarely every play video games. So I’m not an basement dwelling hopeless WoWmega right? I have had opportunities in the past with girls that I have totally blown. The first one that comes to mind was when I was 18 and graduating high school being faced with a girl (a solid 7) basically throwing herself at me every way she could but I was too stupid to realize it at the time and far too much of a pussy to act on it anyway. Opportunity blown. I think back now wondering how different my life would be right now if I capitalized on that opportunity and lost my virginity at 18 and got onto a normal sexual development curve like the rest of my peers. Now at 22 and not ever having had sex without paying for it my sexual growth is stunted and I have an even harder job to catch up, especially with women getting more difficult and seasoned with higher and higher expectations for me as a man everyday compared to high school and college. There was also 2-3 girls in college I knew that were probably giving me signals to ask them out but I, again, was too much of a pussy to do anything about it. I did finally grow some balls and ask out a girl for the first time in my life about 3 months ago. It was a girl that I worked with and had a MASSIVE case of oneitis over, and she initially agreed to a date and seemed genuinely excited about it but she ended up flaking out at the last minute. I tried one more time to be sure, and again, she enthusiastically agreed, but again flaked out the last minute.
Now I know I am not really all that physically attractive a guy, but I am also not hideously ugly . I am 5’6″ which I know hurts real bad and have some mild-moderate acne scarring. I also have blonde hair and blue eyes. One of my female friends at a party a few months ago (she’s a 4 on most days but a 6.5 when she decides to actually try and look nice) got drunk and was basically confessing her love and year’s long crush she has had on me and telling me how attractive she thinks I am and feeling me up a little, if that means anything (again, I was too much of a pussy to escalate the situation). So I don’t think I am the elephant man or completely untouchable. But my looks certainly aren’t going to be getting me any poon on my own. I’m probably a 5/10 or so. Could MAYBE become a 6/10 if I lost 15 pounds and hit the gym regularly.
I need more resources like this post outlining babysteps, as posts about gaming 8+ girls at posh, big-city night clubs are totally lost on a guy like me.
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Be mindful of negative thoughts you write,think, and say about yourself. And watch these videos for some short man confidence boosting: https://www.youtube.com/user/CupidShmupid/videos
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May as well start with this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vaQfs71CS5k Heartiste: link this up as a subhead for short dudes.
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Then watch this one 2nd: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gsRneoX7AkU
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With girls, either Get To Yes or Get To No. Offer them opportunities to hook up with you. You initiate, you lead the way, and you don’t stop until they say ‘No’. You deprived those 3-4 chicks you mentioned of sex with you. Read that carefully. You deprived them of sex that they were aching for with you. At this point those are roads not taken. Don’t beat yourself up over it, just realize you fucked up there and it didn’t just adversely affect you.
Own your sexual desire and offer it freely to women you find attractive. Also, and this is most important, do inner work multiple times, every single day, in a disciplined manner. Write down your goals, write down affirmations, write out your story for how your life is going to be one month, one year, ten years from now. Believe in yourself. Congrats on being proactive and taking the initiative to have lost your virginity. That’s more than a lot of guys have the stones to do. Now, move forward.
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Very Lesser Beta you have started down the right road. Be thankful you have swallowed the red pill at 22 instead of 36 (like me) or even older (like some other commenters here). I did not lose my virginity until 20, looking back I now realise I missed many opportunities at school, college and in my early 20’s. But the good news for you is you have many years ahead of you of getting better at landing poon, The quality of women I get now compared to my early 20’s is like night and day. Keep it up.
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You’ll get there. Doesn’t sound so bad. (It’s “blond” for men though, not “blonde”.) Lose those 15 pounds! Work out!
And read Mark’s Daily Apple for information on diet. Skipping grains is one of the best things you can do for your skin, your weight and your health. There’s a reason why CH and many other manosphere bloggers subscribe to Mark Sisson’s Twitter feed. Go to the website and read the Success Stories (link in the upper right at the site) : I am one of those who could write a success story like that, I can testify that it’s all true. Besides, the “primal blueprint” – eating right and exercising right – is a fun hobby.
The acne scars can be removed by laser at a laser clinic, it doesn’t leave any traces. It doesn’t cost that much. maybe 300 bucks, and then that’s one less thing to worry about.
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@Very Lesser Beta – PBS is 5’4″ & killin it – https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/06/17/unemployed-alcoholic-badboy-game/#comment-449771
&
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/09/24/that-which-doesnt-kill-you-makes-you-more-seductive/#comment-481125
ya herd.
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Damn, missed PimpinBlueStar’s story before. Glad you linked to it. I’ll be watching out for his comments. Awesome journey.
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Stop worrying about your face. Dress edgy or good, not like a child.
Kissless…wow sometimes I am thankful I got that over with later than most but still earlier than many haha.
A lot of it is mindset. Stop freaking out about girls, befriend a few and talk to them. Then start teasing and fucking around. CH had a good post a few days ago about using kid disses (your mom, etc; contrary to wearing childish clothing, this works). Its easier to break the tension you have by stirring up shit. If they start getting angry and threatening, but not annoyed, youre on your way.
And the best advice is just go for it as soon as possible. Especially if you think you see a signal. Just assume you did. She will adore you for picking up on her subtle signal. There was another post about overconfidence scoring more than caution.
And I know its hard to forget the past, but you have to. And some of those lost opportunities may reappear in your life. If they do, let the bodies hit the floor asap.
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In response to the mudsharking thread below:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2329289/Jay-Electronica-Kate-Rothschild-The-dope-smoking-rapper-Rothschild-heiress-make-husband-No-2.html#ixzz2UAJLs3WE
Seems that the YKW of YKW has been consuming some of their own product.
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i suppose it’s theoretically possible that an insurgent minority opposition wielding memetic warfare could achieve such a fantastic level of group success that it turns on them and devours their own. this could be a good thing if it transfers power back to the majority, but by then it’s likely too late.
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COTW… well-said.
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A few of them are caught up in that way, but not enough. And those ones create mischlinge who are loyal to the group, since it benefits them. Even those who are one-quarter or one-eight Tribe are loyal because they profit from it. These are harder to spot.
Though to be fair, there are those who have made a clean break from the whole thing, and kudos to them. Some have even risked everything by warning others. I have seen many quotes from such people.
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look realistically the dad left her 18 million pounds not that much money if you are gonna party like an a list Hollywood actor
but she living In the ex husbands house too
just shows ya money In the west ain’t worth the paper its printed on if ya can’t even kill a bitch who fucked with you and his parents were billionaires
course he prob has that crutch called morals hamstringing him from doing the really right thing
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that altice teacher chick has manhands
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And crazy eyes. Don’t forget about the crazy eyes. A dead giveaway.
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As for number 3:
I noticed a vast improvement in posture and the subsequent looks from the wimminz by adding dead lifts to my intermittent workouts.
The change in the workplace dynamic was noticeable too.
Now, if I can only get in 30 minutes of exercise a week I make sure I do deadlifts instead of working glam muscles like chest or arms.
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I never got why people train isolated muscles like biceps, triceps etc. when you can just do the compound lifts and get added benefits (hormonal etc.).
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Deadlifts hurt my lower back, though. Don’t know why. So do one-arm dumbbell rows.
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Ever have someone look at your form, even better make a video recording?
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video is the best method for fixing body language weakness as well as lifting form. works for golf swings too.
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go just the bar if ya want to do em till it feels better and doing perfect
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Are there any trainers at your gym? I must agree with the posters below. The pain could be due to form and even one session with a trainer could help you ID a problem.
I’ve seen some guys “arch” their lower back while doing one arm dumbbell rows. Keeping the lower back flat and in-line with the upper back might help.
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some of the common bad gym form mistakes i see:
mini squats/bench presses.
rounded back during deadlift.
bouncing bar off chest to hoist heavier weight.
overarching back during any of the big compound movements.
bending forward too far during squats.
swinging arms during curls.
running for hours. (waste of time and effort)
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Fuck that,
just go work with the mexicans for a few weeks; you’ll get in shape real quick.
*Spanish mother fucker, do you speak it?
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Yes, I will have to ask the guy behind the counter at the gym. I talk with him every time I go there, I can ask him to check my deadlifts and dumbbell rows. I have quit doing them but would like to start again. Maybe I can ask him to hold my cellphone and film me.
It could be form, or a combination of that and back problems. I feel a slight ache in my lower back every now and then, the result of always sitting down at work I guess, and not sitting in the right way. That was a big reason why I started lifting weights. (That and the manosphere practically screaming that you have to gain muscle mass.)
We don’t have any professional trainers at the gym; it is what I call medium-sized, so no such things. An okay collection of machines, but then lots of free weights, just the way I like it. Like a friend of mine says, “Seems to be the place you could go and work out in your jeans after a day on the forklift.”
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It is not so much about muscle mass as it is about gaining self confidence.
There was an article in Psychology Today decades ago that said exactly that; lifting weights makes people feel good about themselves and their self confidence improves over time.
The people who had done the study were a bit surprised but could not deny the results.
The goal is not to have arms bigger than other guy, it is to feel good about yourself.
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Your other mission:
Due to unrestricted mass immigration, prepare yourself to be more alpha then these animals that will one day try this in our country (watch the 4th video first) Beta, are you prepared for this?
Alphas, are you prepared for this?
You better be:
http://beforeitsnews.com/eu/2014/06/wtf-just-happened-in-iraq-exactly-2561554.html
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Nice. Those videos are pretty graphic. But our side should watch them, to become comfortable with the violence. Who’s to say we won’t be forced one day to adopt similar tactics against our foes?
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Exactly… I find the pontifications of “psycho death squads” just so much hypocrisy… especially from a nation who has the luxury of killing their enemy (and his wife and children) from 20,000 ft.
Charlie in the brush with nothing but an AK-47 and the will to use it is an enemy to be feared… and learned from… and dare I say, admired?
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Agreed. Ultraviolence against the enemies of civilization is no vice.
If only Elliot Rodgers had been involved in the MRA or PUA movements…
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If only Elliot Rodgers had been involved in the MRA or PUA movements
He would have screwed that up like he screwed up everything. He couldn’t even get the girls to open the door to the sorority where he planned to kill as many White women as possible – he kept banging angrily on the door for a minute before he gave up the plan he had vlogged about. I’m surprised he could drive a car.
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please note how the bullets go right through the cars
man that was raw shit
now think
what would you do
not once did a vehicle go smashing into the one firing at them even like in a movie
nor did someone straight up look them in there eye point blank and run toward them singing his motherfucking death song for all to see and learn what it is to be a mutherfucking man with saliva and foam flying from his mouth aching to bite the throat of his enemy
think what you would do in these situations and do it and live
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when my door had the chain on from the inside I didn’t call the cops I fucking kicked that fucking door down pulled out my knife and went room to room hoping to find some motherfucker in my house
and you know people were watching that shit like this motherfucker crazy
and my fucking stock rose he he he
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or at least die well
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nig with the hammer that came out
I did not ask him not to hit me with hammer I fucking was ready for him to swing so I then had permission to smash his fucking head in with that hammer
and fucking have a nice gory ass fucking stain on the concrete
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wonder why he didn’t swing
remember humans are an animal and can smell
don’t be afraid of death and you won’t die
and if you do it won’t fucking matter
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smell fear
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it reads like how to train an old, beaten dog to prowl like a wolf
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Our mission is a joke since Obama’s ruined the country. Just get drunk and enjoy the decline!
And rape!
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How about the supreme idiot full me once GWB
Did he got any contribution in the demise?
Or can we say that the poor retard was manipulated by neocons and everything should be forgiven and forgotten especially since he has decided to expound the boundaries of painting and contribute immensely to the realm of arts and thus redeem himself
Some goes as far as to suggest that he will cut his ear in the moments of creative distress.Poor thing
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God do we miss George
This video is a tribute to the exceptionalism of America who voted this extraordinary stand up comedian twice in the office
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“1. Squeeze a twinkle into your eye.”
Dude, I’m the master of Eye Game. Twinkles are a _reward_ to chicks. Don’t give them away for free.
[CH: you’re not giving them away. the twinkle was preexisting… i.e. you had it before you even saw her.]
“2. Smile, but just a little at the corner of the mouth.”
Dominant men don’t smile without a reason.
[but they smirk without reason. obvious reason, at any rate.]
When a chick flirts with you or tries to hold eye contact, smile. Otherwise, not so much. If you don’t smile, you’re a mystery and she will work to get you to smile.
“3. Walk with your crotch leading the way.”
Meh, walk casually and walk tall. Walk like you’re a celebrity.
[walk casually? double meh.]
Field report on twinkle, smile, walk
[only one way to find out.]
I was going to get some rum for Mrs. Gamer and me to party. Deadpan expression as I enter the liquor store. I look around as I walk casually, walking tall. Hottie clerk in the liquor store tries to chat me up as I’m walking away from her to get the rum. (She’s working to get me to smile, talking about the nice weather.) I chat with my back to her and come back with the rum. I comment on her shoulder tat (small smile and twinkle) and she comments that I’m the only person to notice it. (Probably not the only one, but she was affirming my comment.) We make small talk about tats and I suggest one for her other shoulder as I raise one eyebrow and she says she’ll google it immediately.
She was wanting me to sexualize as she moved for me to get a better view of her shoulder tat, but I refrained. Didn’t want to lead her on.
Notice that my comment about her tat was a reward to her. I was giving her attention and showing that I was looking at her body.
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HAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!! What a phrase!
I’m sorry, but your application for G.A.M.E. has been denied. We don’t accept any preexisting conditions, I’m afraid, and that twinkle…well, it looks like you’ve had it for a while…
Your honor, my client cannot possibly be guilty! The crime was committed at exactly 9:51 and unless there was a preexisting twinkle- what? The twinkle was already in effect? Nevermind. The defense rests.
🙂 🙂 🙂
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twinkle twinkle little tart
how my cock will make you part
to the hilt between the thighs
preexisting tingles pried
drum solo
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First there was Keats, then Yeats, and now…CHeats?
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Eye rhymes are poetaster rather than poet.
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Kate, was the phrase you objected to “crotch leading the way?”
It was CH’s phrase, not mine. Seemed kind of douche-ey to me. Not smooth at all nor really dangerous in a Dark Triad sort of way.
CH, hotties expect attention and it’s best to make them work for it. Ignoring them is a DHV, especially in Day Game when there’s no competition giving them attention. I didn’t look twice at the hottie when I first saw her. Aloof.
There was no preexisting twinkle. I said my expression was deadpan. Aloof. Not even amused mastery. This intrigued the hottie. Think of Hannibal Lector. Why was he so fascinating to Clarisse? Never smirked, but still fascinating.
CH, you say that walking casually is uninteresting. I’ll double down on walking casually. Walk tall, not sloppy. Walking casually says, “I’m a celebrity.” It’s part of a solid frame. Walking hurriedly says, “Time is money. I’m beta.”
Maybe a man should walk more like a cat–graceful, supple, smooth, powerful. I dance a lot and it shows in my walk. Certainly, my walk sets me apart from most men. Walk like a lion who is looking for prey.
“Only one way to find out?” heh Hottie approached me–I didn’t approach her. My frame was solid, including the walk and deadpan expression. QED
Cocky @$$hole works in clubs, but it’s too try-hard for day game. If you can DHV without working hard, that’s killer. You want the chicks to work and invest.
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No objections, gamer 🙂
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Kate,
I’m mildly autistic and am trying to figure out something that happened to me and maybe you can confirm my guesses about what was going on or correct them. Perhaps you have some experience in couples dancing and doing kino to a stranger after dancing with him. Couples dancing, of course, inherently involves a kind of kino.
I danced a couples dance with a young woman (who was a total stranger) who was new to the dance. At the end of the dance I offered my arm to escort her back to her spot. She took it and leaned on it, but I don’t think that she had balance issues. When she was back to her spot she seemed reluctant to release, then briefly kino’d both my shoulders and my back. This is the first time that I’ve experienced kino from a total stranger.
My guess is that the woman was feeling close/bonded–maybe from an oxytocin rush. I don’t understand why women do kino. Maybe the feelings are sometimes so powerful that kino is done to express them? Maybe a hug and peck on the cheek won’t do, but locking lips is too forward/risky?
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You’re sweet 🙂 I have no experience whatsoever in dancing with strangers, but, yes, a woman touching you is good. It sounds to me like she enjoyed dancing with you and didn’t want to break that physical connection.
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Thanks, Kate. Yeah, women see me as “sweet” sometimes when it’s really autism. ( Autism makes me seem naive which is easily mistaken for “sweet.” I have to think through some social things that most guys just get.) Funny, that doesn’t usually pigeonhole me as beta. Confident frame, enforcing boundaries (non-pedestalization), and breaking rapport easily (aloofness) probably has something to do with it.
I checked the kino incident with a single woman friend of mine I happened to see last night. She thought it likely that there was a sexual message along with the dance message. I forgot to apply my rule of interpretation with respect to the kino. My rule of interpretation is that, barring some contextual clue to the contrary, interpret any communication involving plausible deniability (ambiguous messages) in the more controversial, sexual way. That has never failed me. Another test is, “How would my wife react to that?” How would you react to some random woman doing that to Mark?
I have a post about plausible deniability on my blog if anyone cares to check it out.
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I’d beat her with a stick.
Thanks, I’ll take a look at your post. And Mark has a post on signalling you might like. A lot of the info is from Simon Sheppard’s book, The Tyranny of Ambiguity.
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Relevant classic, Tyler’s 25 points list of little fixes you can do right now to improve your alpha/attractive vibe:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/60062
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any new guy trying out pickup should learn how to stack openers..when a female does not follow your frame ..you can get her to react to you by changing the subject or ignoring her reaction by continuing your opener then waiting for her to speak instead of filling the awkward silence with an appologetic explanation…if you fuck up asentence just ignore the fuckup and wait for her reaction then flow into the vibe
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Thanks for your reply in the “Confirming Dates Like a Boss Thread”. Very helpful and I’ll spike the ball on the next HB8+ i pick up and go on a Day 2 with!
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Good reference.
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Twinkles emerge from a natura, genuine full face smile. Notice forced fake smiles where the eyes do not change (a lips only smile). The eyes look dead. But a genuine smile produces the twinkle in eyes.
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Good stuff, CH.
A few additions for those of you on Mission #1:
1. Always nod slightly upward when you make eye or verbal contact with a passerby; NEVER nod downward as it’s submissive
2. As you walk with your crotch leading the way, make sure your strut is slowed. Don’t be like a lazy thug in the middle of the street or a fat bitch in the chips aisle. Just don’t be in a hurry. Bonus: Don’t whip your head around at sudden noises (unless they’re gunshots or some shit) or when someone calls your name. Just relax.
3. Be wide. Sit with your legs spread slightly open. A good rule is to put your fist on the seat in front of your crotch (your wrist should be resting slightly on your balls). If your thighs are touching the fist on either side, then they’re too close together. So spread ’em, cowboy, and let the world see your crotch.
4. Never cross your arms. Not in a meeting, not in the store, not on the sidewalk. You look like a defensive pussy afraid of the world.
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don’t whip your head around especially if there are gunshots
just ask the perp calmly
ok I guess it works let me see that 9 mm
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actually if someone shoots a gun 10 inches away from your head past your face out of the blue you won’t even realize there was a gunshot until you smell it
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which means shot to back of head got to be nice way to go your dead before you know it
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so that is kind of why the biggest thing you don’t have to worry about is gunshots he he he
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yea ya see in that vid on the gunshots but some of the vehicles had opportunity to smash into the other vehicle
so having it in back of brain what you will do will make it comes out when someone is running a drive by on you
i’d say smash breaks if on highway
if possible
but blindside hits your dead don’t matter
think about the situations you could be in yea seems the ones that ran yea can’t ourun bullets can only use your car as weapon if you don’t have your own gun
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and remember to keep your doors locked so nobody can jump in your car that easy
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when the dude was sitting across street with gun In his hand I did go get my 9 and did guard the neighborhood for a while till morning
I guess I can handle guard duty sometimes
didn’t talk just waited for him to make his move
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folks, we live in the age of the NSA godhead. can we chill with the weaponry jive?
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yea k
I see that shit though reflex to respond
but yea will try to not
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5. Develop a slight pimp roll. Rock a swagger as if your balls are bouncing off your thigh.
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This mission is only relevant if you live in an area where lots of beautiful women walk around in public. Otherwise prepare to swagger and strut before an adoring crowd of broken dad jeans wearing proles, overweight housewives in spandex and floral print, and various wandering degenerates of questionable sanity.
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talk to everybody…
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Twinkle in the eye? Amused smile? Walking crotch-first?
Behold…the ULTIMATE alpha male:
Look at the way he’s aloofly ignoring the girls while they’re caught in his jealousy plotline, fighting over who gets him.
It all makes so much sense now!
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and that crotch-leading swagger! #swoon
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I think the bow tie and center part clinch it for him.
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lol I’m just fucking around but when you think about it Archie comics are (or were, I don’t read them anymore but I read the shit out of them as a kid lol) promoting spinning plates, jealousy plotlines, social proof, non-monogamy, MGTOW (Jughead), AMOG battles (Reggie), and showing a lot of Red Pill theory in how Veronica treated Archie (Veronica being turned off by his supplication and using his resources with no remorse when he’d pay for dates and she’d go off with another guy, Betty chasing him when he ignores her, girls chasing Jughead purely because he’s aloof and not interested in girls).
I mean, how much Red Pill Game PUA wisdom is captured in this classic image alone:
Betty’s looking at Archie, chasing the man she can’t have who acts aloof and uninterested in her, while he simultaneously creates a jealously plotline while showing the consequences of having one-itis for the girl he puts on a pedestal who ignores him because he’s wrapped around her little finger.
Shouldn’t Feminists have jumped on this shit and demanded Archie declare Betty & Veronica unattractive and then marry Ethel? How can Feminists allow Archie to teach boys that it’s okay to date more than one woman and not to commit to them and chase hot girls instead of fat ugly ones?? Archie is corrupting men! Misogyny!!!
Fuck Mystery Method and RSD, it’s time to dig out my old Archie comics, the missing key to game!! lol
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Last week I read a Best of Archie Comics for nostalgia’s sake (oddly paired with The History of the Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire on my nightstand). It had Archie stories from the 40s to the present. I thought I was over-analyzing since I was seeing the same Red Pill concepts you mention at play, but it seems like they’ve been there from the start. Jughead is one hell of a character.
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Betty and Veronica are okay, so far as it goes… but that Velma… va-va-voom!
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I think you might be on to something.
Jughead is one hell of a character
I wouldn’t be surprised if Jughead [real name: Forsythe Pendleton Jones III] was the original bad-boy alpha (or sigma) archetype in Game circles. He’s lazy. His overriding mission in life is cooking and consuming burgers and shakes. He attracts girls even though he ignores them. He peacocks with his eccentric beanie hat. Hell, he even plays the drums.
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…the guy with the best walk ever is johnny drama from entourage…
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Poor Wolfowitzfinder. First, the heartbreak about Cantor losing in VA. Then, his master Karl Rove’s Iraq war was finally discredited.
His only solace is jerking off to thoughts of white girls fucking brown Bangladeshis. As we recall, he said that white girls should miscegenate except with blacks.
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Aww, pity poor wolf-in-sheep’s-clothing PA. He’s so upset that Obama’s vision of a one-world-government isn’t coming true fast enough–and that Obama won’t peg him up the ass without Piggy’s permission–that he’s forgetting how to respond to comments against him!
PA rape!
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Wrong again, Wolfowitzfinder. Everybody knows that I’m not a leftie so your neocon lies fall flat.
However, my accusations DO stick to you because you are a one-world immigration shill.
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lol. People are waking up to the fact that you’re an extreme lefty—just trying to sabotage from the other side. Hence your fanatical support for Piggy (an admitted two-face). And you’re terrified of such an awakening–hence your lies about me.
Oh, and note once again how PA was too cowardly to hit “reply”—tried to hide again!
Piggy’s Squealer rape!
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Laaame…. yaaawn…. up your game a little because I keep having to repeat the same shit about you:
Namely, that you are in record supporting mass immigration, wars in the middle east, and white girls mixing with browns.
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Oh, and note once again how PA was too cowardly to hit “reply”—tried to hide again!
That’s one of many limp Wolfowitzfinder’isms. In fact, I purposely reply as a new comment so that my bitch slapping your face does not get buried in an old comment thread.
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— People are waking up to the fact that you’re an extreme lefty—just trying to sabotage from the other side.
Since I’m now amused… LOL. What would Liebnitz say to someone who accused him of being bad at math? That’s also my reply to you. LOL, just LOL
And you’re terrified of such an awakening
Projection, it’s what’s for neocon monkey’s dinner.
In any case, let it be noted that whorefinder is a leftist worm who just happens to hate blacks. Don’t get me wrong, his shit can be funny but his kind is best kept at arm’s length. A telltale sign of a neocon worm is that he saves his sourest bile for right wingers who criticize the GOP from the right. In other words, for people who are onto his masters.
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whorefinder, no one will believe the accusation that PA is a leftist simply for opposing the neocons. If opposing that establishment means you’re a leftie, then I guess CH is a leftie too?
You don’t seriously wish that pro-immigration, neocon-loyal Big Business mouthpiece Cantor would have won, do you? Say it ain’t so.
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Hey, anyone seen whorefinder? If you see her on her way to the immigration rally, tell her she needs to be here and take some more abuse from me.
Whorefinder, you little neocon monkey, don’t hide… come out and play 😀
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I have been trying to figure out the “lead with your cock” thing for awhile, just for fun, and I don’t feel like I’m getting anywhere with that concept. When I try to lead with my cock, I have a strange gait that doesn’t feel or look right, and I’ve decided to drop that idea.
Had a girl comment on the way I walk with swagger the other day though, so I’m not going to over think this. A lot of random girls from my past have commented that I “look so confident” now. A girl you had a thing for and never told about it six years ago seems like somebody you could game today, if you were casual work pals and not really deeply in the friend zone with her.
I have so much trouble with the friend zone with that one girl, because I never got it into the friend zone before, incidentally. If somebody knows enough shit to obliterate your reputation and get you fired, and cheers for your team, that’s a real friend who happens to have a vagina, but this is the friend zone. Yup. Stalemate.
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“I have been trying to figure out the “lead with your cock” thing”
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hahaha Perfect
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Walk like Urkel? Seriously?
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I walk more like this:
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“Lead with your cock” would be better expressed as “walk with the confident gait and swagger of Captain James Tiberius Kirk”. William Shattner at that age owned any set he walked onto with his simple, effective and wetness inducing swagger. Even the “new” guy who plays him in the recent movies has taken up that exact swagger quite well, it’s practically a trademark of that character. I’m no Trekkie (ugh, save us all), but grew up when the series was in re-runs and saw them all, and there’s a lot to be learned from that character. The writers had his shit down cold, and Shattner was the perfect vehicle for that kind of confidence.
Just whatever you do though, don’t talk like him, it’s a bit awkward.
“So….babe…put your………….number….inmyphonenow! Kaaaaaahhhhnnnn!”
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Talking like Kirk is very effective when giving a … speech.There’s … a predictable rhythm to it – just …take a breath before you say the last word of the … sentence.Andthen…move into the next … sentence.Just…make sure to start the next sentence immediately and quickly say a word or two…pause again, and then resume normal … rhythm.Itforces anticipation of the last word of the sentence and doesn’t give the audience a break before you’re into the next sentence, making them hang onto your … every… word.
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For some reason, it helps me to think that my torso is on the conveyor belt of my legs. I keep my mid-section relaxed and stationary while I take long strides. Seems to result in the same cock-first strut.
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Lol. Nice.
I come at this from the perspective of learning weight lifting movements. Reading online everyone has their own favorite proprioceptive cues for how to feel out that a movement is being done correctly. With squats for example, “stick out your booty like j-lo, chest up”, or when coming out of the hole “pretend there’s a rope pulling you up just above your ass” or “hip dhrive!”: http://i.imgur.com/LyVLt.jpg
There’s a billion cues that won’t click with you but eventually you will come across one that clicks perfectly, and *boom* fucking easy after that. I’m gonna try conveyoring home tonight haha!
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Lumpy. Fucking awesome comment man.
Would like to hear your thoughts on how your psychology/body-language evolved after getting into weight-lifting. This is often over-looked but it’s so crucial in helping your mindset adapt.
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*shrug* As YaR has mentioned there are a lot of insecure built dudes. Weightlifting is worth it, but not for pickup benefit alone. More testosterone is always better. It does help with body language a bit, but that still required a lot of conscious work initially, at least for me. Mainly, lifting means that my looks are never an immediate dealbreaker. It’s also a good first item for guys looking to start improving themselves.
Look at the bronies like heartiste posted: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2629225/Meet-bronies-New-documentary-reveals-weird-world-male-middle-aged-fans-My-Little-Pony.html
I could make them all 100x more attractive with basic shit:
– Lose weight if they’re fat, put on 20lbs of muscle
– Ditch the glasses
– Get a nice haircut
– Switch to fitted tshirts or button ups.
– Maybe some better kicks
The other thing I like is that lifting teaches you a healthy mindsets. Wrt progress: you get out exactly as much as you put in. I guarantee all the huge bros in the gym have spent a fuckton of time working at it. Same deal with pickup. Wrt insecurity: there will always be somebody bigger and stronger than you, you will never reach perfection, and that’s ok. Same deal with pickup.
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Interesting. Every guy I know who lifts heavy has that swagger CH described. Weightlifting must help with it.
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some non-lifters have it too. think of old skool unmuscled badboys like steve mcqueen or christian slater.
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Is my sammich ready yet?
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Yep….it kind of forces you to walk slower because you’re not so nimble anymore. And you have a bit of a jaunt in your step too.
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immoralgables
Yep….it kind of forces you to walk slower because you’re not so nimble anymore.
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Mostly that walk is a symptom of being sore.
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Yo Bray thanks for your reply in the “Confirming Dates Like a Boss Thread”
That was some really great outer-game stuff you gave.
Hope all is well with the 30 Day. I’m going to an RSD Hotseat this Sat night and have smashed some limiting beliefs in regards to daygame.
By end of July I hope to post audio of an in-field pick-up here to help others out.
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Agreed, good shit from Scray and Ya on that one.
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uh, aren’t you that short crybaby black guy that cried about how he is too short and beta to get girls? why is a black leprechaun shitposting on a game blog wtf
i’ll take your game tips with a grain of salt. but if you want to talk about the fine art of baking cookies in trees…. fine i’ll give you that one steve urkel.
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What CH is saying in this post is you have to exude sex. When you look at a girl or engage her even by passing by, she must know you’re looking at her with intent to fuck. They love it. It’s not being a leering pervert. It’s a look or nod that says, hi I’m jack and I fuck.
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“It’s a look or nod that says, hi I’m jack and I fuck.”
Punctuate that with a slight smirk, and you’re money.
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that’s the look I get from bitches lol
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like the lesbo chick from next door wants my cock but when I suggested she come over it did send my bitch off the end cause the bitch ugly but see I don’t have to care about her like the other 2 chicks on my block I feel I got to protect or something yea weird right or protect myself from getting preggers
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me too. aint life grand?
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its like I don’t want to fuck with a young chicks heart knowing I will break it
i’m breaking ho’s hearts for christsakes that’s bad enough
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ya its nice vajit I wish I didn’t have this moral bullshit veil over my shit sometimes
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i used to have that. then i realized that most these chicks can be so heartless & then it was gone
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“Iraq vs Japan, gene edition. $$$ welfare over decade: chaos and collapse VS Drop two nukes, leave, 30 yrs later Toyota and Sony.”
Also, there was no “de-Nazification” of Japan, no 70 years of guilt tripping over atrocities like the rape of Nanking, and many of the bureaucrats who cut their teeth on projects like Unit 731 went on to happy postwar government careers.
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http://www.wnd.com/2014/06/ex-border-agents-immigrant-flood-orchestrated/
‘“This is not a humanitarian crisis. It is a predictable, orchestrated and contrived assault on the compassionate side of Americans by her political leaders that knowingly puts minor illegal alien children at risk for purely political purposes,” said the statement released by the National Association of Former Border Patrol Officers.
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A federal judge even concluded the White House “has simply chosen not to enforce … border security laws.”
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The officers argue that the non-enforcement of immigration laws is “the next step in becoming a failed state.”
“Yes, our leaders are guilty. However, we are responsible because it is the American voter [who] has placed untrustworthy people in positions of power and kept them there when they have clearly demonstrated that they have violated that public trust.
“These successful con artists are well dressed, attractive and charming,” the statement said.’
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Good points made.
Here’s the thing: the U.S. is living on borrowed money. This immense mass immigration is financed by money borrowed from China, and to a lesser degree Japan. It is also financed by printing dollars, coldly calculating that other countries will still hold up the dollar’s value because it is the world trade currency. So the U.S. prints new dollars to buy foreign goods, making them more expensive for other people – effectively forcing everyone else to pick up the bill for U.S. spending.
But that only works as long as the dollar is the world trade currency. New computer technology makes it easier for people to trade in other currencies – to jump from one currency to another until you get the amount you want in the currency you want. (Say you want to buy something from Russia but can’t switch from Swedish krona directly to the right amount of rubles. You change to British pounds to euro to yen to renminbi to rubles, in a matter of minutes.)
When the world takes full advantage of these developing computer systems, the dollar can be abandoned as a world currency. If one of the big guys starts tipping it, everyone else will rush to do the same to not be left behind. Walmart prices can easily triple in a short time. Similar situations have happened to Brazil, Argentina, Russia, Greece and many others.
That’s when the chickens come home to roost. Imagine what has happened in South America when currencies have fallen. It will be far, far worse for the U.S., with its Bosnian-like house of cards and with an armed populace. And without a West ready to pick up the bill through IMF and World Bank loans. There won’t be anyone who comes close to being able to bail out the U.S. Hell, the EU can’t even bail out Spain, which is why people have been deadly scared of a Spanish depression. The Greek one was all the EU could muster, Spain would be impossible. America would be a hundred times worse.
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Cop invites his dad over for dinner, then catches him fucking his wife in their son’s bed.
http://f2bbs.com/bbs/show_topic/996327
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There are other kinds of posters you don’t cover. Such as man-loving posters like myself, homos if you will. Some homos also follow you, I like your blog and your take on women and other things.
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Omega who doesn’t dare play the game. You choose the shitty (sometimes literally) subculture where you can get easy sex and acceptance of drugs and alcoholism. No matter how it screws up your brain – it’s no wonder homosexuals fill the shrink waiting rooms. For you your homosexuality is your stand-in for a baby and the normal family life you are incapable of handling, and to make that baby “real” you have to push it in everyone’s face. You are an ally of the feminists and those who push mass immigration. Hopefully you’ll get what you deserve before you die – perhaps the two will be related.
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You are an ignorant, keep your views on homosexuality to yourself, unless is a main topic of the post, please, that way I will read less crap
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It’s me again. There are a lot of gay readers of heartiste. They enjoy it for different reasons. Not sure why you think I “push” it in front of anyone. If I didn’t mention it you’d say I’m being sneaky and hiding it.
A normal family life, sounds really boring. I’m fundamentally disgusted by women’s bodies, especially the vagina and their smells. I can’t stand their mannerisms or being around them. I despise how ugly they are. That’s right women are not a beautiful type physically. That’s why they need all that makeup and shaving and grooming to appeal to men.
I am an aesthetic man and therefore a lover of the perfect male physique. You have things backwards. There may be gays like what you mention but I’ve never had anal sex one way or another and I don’t do drugs. I rarely if ever have sexual contact of any kind because my standards are so high. When I do, it is to pay a hot straight guy. Yes, almost all straight guys are like that. To the extent I would support immigration it’s because Latin guys are a bit more likely to accept money for it, and cheaper lol. But the ones coming here are short indios. I don’t support immigration.
I’m not an ally of the feminists. I want to see women disempowered, their voting rights taken away, I want to see them shut up. The sight of a woman fills me usually with pity, contempt, dread that they might annoy me. Why would I want them empowered?
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You are an ignorant, keep your views on homosexuality to yourself, unless is a main topic of the post, please, that way I will read less crap
Aww, “an ignorant”. LOL Typical leftist propaganda slur. Good little parrot pervert! Filth like you are the ones who shouldn’t post here, you are a disgusting little freak who always, always have to bring up your perversion, since like all mentally insane people you are constantly obsessing on your disease.
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It’s me again. There are a lot of gay readers of heartiste. They enjoy it for different reasons. Not sure why you think I “push” it in front of anyone. If I didn’t mention it you’d say I’m being sneaky and hiding it.
A normal family life, sounds really boring. I’m fundamentally disgusted by women’s bodies, especially the vagina and their smells. I can’t stand their mannerisms or being around them. I despise how ugly they are. That’s right women are not a beautiful type physically. That’s why they need all that makeup and shaving and grooming to appeal to men.
“It’s me again.” Are you so dumb that you don’t realize your NAME is visible right above your post? No need to introduce yourself. Of course, homosexual perverts are completely self-obsessed, so it’s no surprise.
If you didn’t mention it I’d say you were an unusual pervert, since you perverts are always using your sickness to shit all over normal conversation.
“A normal family life, sounds really boring.” Typical leftist freak. It is that “boring” life that CREATES good, healthy societies that build all the things you use as toys to fill your empty, meaningless life.
Your description of women shows your sickness perfectly. No wonder homosexual freaks fill the psychiatry waiting rooms. Disgusting creatures with your hatred of women’s bodies. And you pretend that women would smell worse than men? You are just making up “facts” to justify whatever you want to do – again typical leftism. No reality needed, everything is twisted or ignored to suit your fantasies.
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I just walk around with a hot chick attached to my cock it seems to work
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takin it to the next level hire a hot escort to walk around with you and do same shit
no need to fuck her just use her as validation or whatever tell her to pick up chicks for you
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then get a diferent one the next week
the bitches in your neighborhood or area will be talking about you
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so this hot blond walks out my house with one shoe on limping to her car I go over to talk to my bud decent looking chick from couple houses down drives by tells me I want some of what you are giving away
he he he
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so yea so far yea two hottest bitches on my block I could get
that bitch and the one that the husband offered me lol
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neither one of them did I hit on they both hit on me
yea power of preselection no matter how the fuck you get preselected
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the one husband offered me was 22 one drove by like 25
so semi young both popping out kids at moment but I am not looking to pop out kids not really my goal right now with a semi normal chick lol
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“takin it to the next level hire a hot escort to walk around with you and do same shit”
Now this is how girls can wing. I’ve done this with guy friends. Better with two girls, and have them dress up and hang on you.
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yea that was the day the 8 bitches came by my house one at time
I guess it was too much for the bitch
she got dude and two kids for fucks sake
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Hello I’m the one who posted this comment 2 months ago.
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/04/14/gaming-mediocre-girls/#comment-550402
Sorry for an unsolicited update on that story. I have shared nothing of it with my friends even with those who don’t know her for being afraid that if we eventually start dating they will get to know her in the future, still I can’t figure out for myself what I should do now and I need some advice and third person’s perspective on what is going on. Here is what has happened since then:
After she said that we are friends, I tried to talk to her only as much as it was necessary for the work. It lasted for about 2 weeks and after that she started to pull me herself, approaching me for various reasons and complaining that I had become distant, saying that she misses my company etc. I became softer, we started to become close again, hanged out together several times and after sometime I decided to send her flowers to her home. Her reaction to that was way beyond normal in my opinion, she messaged me instantly asking if it was me and then told me to cut it off and never do that again. After some time she texted me again kind of apologizing for an earlier outburst and telling that she does not want to loose a friend and that I’m very dear to her etc.
The next day we had a very heated discussion where I confronted her on her affair with a married man and said a lot of stupid things like how it hurts me to see her being used like that, she denied everything, told me that her private life is not my business and she does not want to enter into any kind of relationship with anybody right now.
After that I cut-off all contact with her asking other colleagues to do tasks that we were supposed to do together (she did the same thing, whenever she needed anything from me at work she would either ask somebody to ask that from me or get help from somebody else). Another 3 weeks passed and she again tried to re-initiate the contact with me, by that time I was completely fed up with her behaviour and was so resentful towards her that I did not respond to her approaches at all. This triggered a very long text message from her where she told me that she recognizes that we had become something more than friends, she misses me a lot but for some reason she is not ready to date me yet and when I start to push she has this barrier build-up around her that won’t let me further and she does not know herself why is this happening. She asked for time to think until she sorts out her feelings herself. After that she went away on vacations to see her parents and do some travelling alone.
It’s been 1 week now since we last saw each other, we occasionally text each other. I myself have been thinking of this situation all the time trying to figure out if I want this relationship at all. As far as I know she broke with her married lover ( I think this happened after I told her that I think they are seeing each other), and cut-off all contacts with him except for internet where he likes every single photo she posts in instagram. I know that having an affair with a married man is a huge red flag especially if you want a long term relationship with her. Yet I also blame myself for that, I feel that it was me who pushed her into the arms of that married son of a bitch by being aloof and indifferent to her earlier. Now I am also thinking that even if she comes back from this vacation with “yes” I won’t know what to tell her. I will not be happy with her because I am not the guy who she really wants to be with, otherwise she would not need a time to think would she? Yet I keep obsessing with her, I have been on a date with another beautiful girl lately, and I caught myself on trying to find similar traits between them (there were not so many) and thinking about my co-worker most of the time.
Any comments are welcome. Thank you and sorry for off-topic.
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@Amess- you had nothing to do with her getting involved with the married guy. And she is stringing you along. Stop texting her. Don’t respond to texts or any other contact. Your mindset should be that if she doesn’t want you romantically/sexually, then she doesn’t get any piece of you at all. Don’t tell her that, just live it. Ignore her, and put your energy into meeting new girls.
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@amess
I’ve had many instances where I became hung-up on a girl – only to turn a corner and run smack into another that developed into a quality LTR. At the low points, there came a moment when I resolved to preserve my dignity – and turn my attention to improving myself – which always included increasing my strengths and getting fit. I’d motivate myself by saying – I’m going to do this for me and the next girl will be damn lucky to have it. Nowadays, they’d call that internal frame. You need to square yours up – and just about the time you’ve centered yourself in that frame – some lucky girl is going to walk into view.
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the thing is too you cannot fathom how much woman watch the goings on and know about all the shit going on
or at least I can’t
but yea they plan and plot all the fucking time
and see everything and remember everything
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yea don’t walk in jail like that you be like the chick walked into my chicks cellblock talking bout she having bad day and gonna beat any bitch who talks shit
5 bitches ran up in her cell and whooped her ass till they were done
I went in jail just be myself had a good time
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And don’t forget .001% older married guys who recently learned about the red pill after years of wandering in the blue pill wilderness who are mainly reading to learn some delayed wisdom to pass onto their sons.
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One move that can work wonders and circumvent the awkward number exchange – just nonchalantly say the first two or three digits of your phone number when a chick is buried in her phone. She’ll look up, guaranteed, and then you, with a half-smile, say: “What? I just assumed you were putting my number in there!”
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Ha, I gotta try that one. I love little pieces of practical advice like this.
One thing that I did last week: If you are wondering if the time is right to kiss a girl you’re dating, or if she is one of those “I just want to be friends” types who nevertheless keep seeing you…. Well, if you want to find out discreetly, you can try this when you are walking through a crowd or crossing a busy street. Take her hand and put it on your upper arm, so that you are walking hand-in-arm like in the days of yore. Also works if you are walking up a steep hill, as if you are going to help drag her up the hill. If she keeps her hand there, you’ll know you can go for the kiss later in the date. If she just holds her hand there barely touching you, and quickly removes it, then you’ll know you’re out of luck.
Cue standard keyboard-jockey-hope-to-win-the-thread comment: “Thas weak, I just kiss any girl I want and they love it, hur. But kissing is gay. Girl no deserve it. I da man!”
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there’s a PUA term for what you’re talking about — testing for indications of interest — although it escapes me atm. it’s not compliance hoops, though that is related.
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yea I wouldn’t kiss a bitch till I got to know her
let her suck my dick first
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there’s a PUA term for what you’re talking about — testing for indications of interest — although it escapes me atm. it’s not compliance hoops, though that is related.
Now that you mention it: “checking for IOIs”, could the name be that simple? I am bad at remembering terminology, one reason why I don’t use it much. It has its use as short-hand, of course, even though sometimes it gets exaggerated. (It took me ages before I understood what “AMOG” meant.)
I find it necessary to check for interest by body contact. I have a way of initiating first-time sex that I have used over and over again. When sitting next to each other in the couch, I mention that I took a massage class in college, and lament that I rarely get a chance to practice. Then simply tell her, “turn around”, and start massaging her back. After a while I ask if she has ever had face massage. (Only once did a girl say yes.) Then I ask her to lean back against me, and I start massaging her face with my finger tips, the way I have learned through the ‘net. Then turn that into carressing, and kissing her hair. “Nice,” or “This is not massage anymore, is it?” she’ll say. (But if she wants to break it off she’ll sit up before saying that it was nice. Well, face saved for both parties. Pretense upheld that it was only about massage. No awkwardness when we see each other in social gatherings later.)
A piece of advice: don’t stretch out your legs on both sides of her when she leans back for the face massage. One of your legs will get trapped under her when you move away to lay her down in the couch – it gets awkward. You have to keep that leg folded under her back for easy removal later.
Back to first-time kissing: I also sit next to a girl in a café and sigh exaggeratedly, say, “Now let’s relax and enjoy the ambiance,” take her hand and lean back. (I wrote about this earlier, but the post disappeared.) Again I’ll feel in her hand how interested she is. She knows what’s coming next. I did this too last week, same date. Followed it up with an absolute cliché, complimenting her for her perfume, and leaning in to smell her neck. “You really like it?” she asked coyly.
Then on the topic of scent, I asked if I smelled like coffee. I had coffee, she had tea like a lady. She turned to me and said no. “Not now either?” I asked and kissed her. “Maybe,” she said and smiled, so that I would have to check again. I like this girl, she really knows how to follow cues.
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“I just want to be friends” types who nevertheless keep seeing you…
mating strategy along the lines of alpha fux / beta bux. the tradeoff for the guy is maybe eventually getting the poosy.
a buddy of mine hung around for a washout from HS who has recently decided to throw him the ass (who knew she actually loved him all those years she was getting passed around?).
naturally, the ‘mercurial’ nature of their arrangement leads to many nights of him on the couch
my general philosophy is if it aint going down on the first pass, no need to circle around the landing strip.
not bad on the kino and light banter parts of the story though solid game
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Illiciting values.
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Around the time CH posted this I was sitting with a girl at an outdoors café under a wide sunblind, kissing her as a burst of rain was falling from an otherwise sunny sky. I recently closed the deal with her after going on dates about once a week for a while. This after many other attempts with other girls had lead to nothing, which is to be expected.
Even now I find myself recalling game advice sometimes, such as not to make the date an interview, go to different places, not be too eager. And that on the third date it is okay to go for the intimacy even if you are nervous about her reaction, it should be expected by a girl. Sitting next to each other rather than opposite each other at a coffee shop. Many small things and many big things. It comes natural now, like driving a car.
I wasn’t a natural, but I knew how to read and learn from those who I could see knew what they were talking about. And I had the discipline to carry through with both the big things and the small things. It can be done. That’s why I always value highest those who post about real-life attempts and experiences from game; even if they fail they are out there trying. That’s what it’s about.
You can tell who the keyboard jockeys are, their posts are always two-dimensional and formulaic, trying to “win” by being the toughest and most uncompromising in their posts, as if it’s a roleplaying game. When we look past them we see that there are a lot of guys who want to learn and who really are helped here. Guys who might otherwise have been frustrated for months and years, before finally having to settle when they really wanted more. While we call it a game this really is an important part of people’s lives. I am glad to see the manosphere still going strong, and getting stronger.
Judging from a poll a few months back CH has many thousands of readers. Last time I looked that poll had more than eight thousand votes. That’s great. Keep up the good work.
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Sitting next to each other rather than opposite each other at a coffee shop. ”””””””””’
that was me first that said that shit
he he he
but yea glad you doin good
follow up with also feeding each other at table its fucking hot
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my real love is still passed the fuck out In bed I stayed up with her forever yesterday trying to make sure I outlasted her awake self cause she was having a bad with the cravings
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It was you who first said that? Really, back in 2003? And it’s actually way older than that, like all these methods.
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yea I been on this since the beginning
and as far as I know only one who ever talked about sitting side by side with your chick for realllzzzzzzz
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and as far as I know only one who ever talked about sitting side by side with your chick for realllzzzzzzz
And I suppose you claim credit for tying shoelaces.
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if your girl ties em yea I could prob claim credit for saying that first
In the beginning just being able to fuck a woman was a big deal not even talking bout what else a woman can do pretty much
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roosh had the following and he fucked a chick about once every 12 years
might be exaggerating a little he he he
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And that Arbiter, was just a little warning, next time don’t even dare to mother freaking defy me, hope I was clear
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gunslingergregi, I remember your reply to me, you called me Leemin, I am Lee Min Ho 🙂
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If you misspell the name is no biggie, why you deleted the comment ?
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weird that I can’t see the reply but you can
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question are you also zomie shane you posted almost same time nobody else posted and you say you use diferent aliases
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another question how old are you
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GSG proves yet again that he’s an unsung genius. it think that it is entirely possible that 1 individual is multiple of our favorite commenters
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And that Arbiter, was just a little warning, next time don’t even dare to mother freaking defy me, hope I was clear
Look at the little LemmingHo, so full of hatred. Now he is spamming his crap in threads that have nothing to do with whatever conversation he is talking about. Why? Because he learns from his fellow leftists that he should sabotage and shit all over what other people do. What a sick freak he is, really. He can’t post ANYTHING here without it being about his perversion.
“was just a little warning” LOL Who do you think is frightened by you? Seriously? That made me laugh.
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Lee Min Ho?
More like Oh Hui Gey Gai.
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Hah.
His name is indeed weird. Who would call himself that, seriously? Adding a zero to the end of it. Because he wanted a big open hole in the end, or maybe a symbol for how empty his life is. At some point he is going to commit suicide, or ask some of his pervert friends to kill him. No doubt he knows freaks who are turned on by that. There are homosexuals, for example, who willingly get HIV because they want to treat it as their “baby” that they have in common. They even post about it online.
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Re: The tweet from CH;
“So how would CH have responded to 9/11? Fire from above, salt the earth, leave, close the borders. Message accomplished.”
Which country, though?
Israel?
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larry silverstein’s 9/11 response: stack paper
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Yawn. This conspiracy theory that the Jews caused 9/11 has to die.
Point blank: Al Queda hit the WTC towers and brought them down. Israel did not cause it.
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thats right, and good ol building 7 just collapsed on itself because some office supplies caught fire..
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yawn. This has all been answered 10000 times.
This nonsense is beyond Oswald-didn’t-shoot levels; it’s nearing the level of we-didn’t-land-on-the-moon.
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Izzyland sure as h*ll benefited from it.
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stick to the rape jokes, your niche for a reason
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whorefinder’s right
Then again, there’s only so much you can say to a public who still thinks Oswald didn’t kill JFK.
Granted, more than one of the West’s enemy groups benefited from 9/11… and I have no doubt that several security services had inklings about the whole thing.
But turning a blind eye to something isn’t the same level of guilt as actually doing the crime.
Time to put aside childish things, gentlemen.
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Let me rescind my use of the word “crime”… it was, in fact, an act of war, and one of the boldest military operations in the history of the warfare.
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Before anyone posts a definitive opinion on what brought down the three WTC towers, watch “Architects and Engineers for 911 Truth” on YouTube. It’s not a conspiracy theory video and it doesn’t get into any ‘who’ and ‘why’ speculation. It simply looks at the evidence connected to the collapse of three buildings and NIST’s failure to properly investigate these structural failures. And it points in the direction of controlled demolition.
See the video. It’s a solidly made professional production with real industry experts testifying. There are various versions on YouTube, including short trailer-style clips. You want the one that’s 58 minutes long.
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Whorefinder the neocon monkey will throw a tantrum: “how dare you question the government!” And then he’ll cry “leftie!!” When you tell him “no, Wolfowitzfinder, we don’t need more immigration.”
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The trouble with YouTube videos, even those of professional appearance, is the same thing wrong with the internet writ large, when it comes to things like JFK, 9/11, etc., etc., etc.
To the layman, for every competent sounding engineer and detective saying X you can find an equally competent sounding engineer and detective saying not X.
Usually, the less legwork one has done for oneself, and the less direct experience one has in the given field, the more one is apt to merely let whichever side scratches the itch of one’s bias hold sway.
A good dose of common sense and Ockham’s razor are one’s best tools for discerning the truth.
The main guiding precept to unraveling just about any CT is to first take into consideration that people can’t keep their mouths shut… all the moreso these past few generations, when every media whore is looking for his or her 15 minutes of fame.
So, the more people involved in an alleged conspiracy (or at least on the periphery), and the greater the media lights have shined upon it, the more likely said CT is merely a bunch of bushwa, fueled by some ham-and-egger’s attempt to attention whore or make a quick buck.
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Occams razon also goes this way:
WTC7
Built in eighties, to code
Sustained only minor office fires
Collapsed on video at free fall speed, in a manner fully consistent with controlled demolition
No steel frame anywhere, ever collapsed solely from fire, including several fully fire-engulfed skyscrapers that withstood the inferno
All steel from the collapsed WTC7 was shipped to China for recycling; no investigation was performed
This doesn’t even get into the problemswith the twin towers.
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Don’t worry about who, why, or how. Only focus on the facts at hand. And go ahead and see the video, just to humor me if for no other reason.
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I have seen the video… as well as the “media-approved” stuff on the cable channels.
Pertinent facts are conveniently left out when discussing building 7, and the physics of how the twin towers came down are eminently explainable and logical.
Geez, Louise, man… there are dozens of websites and videos that give the rational explanations of issues like building 7.
Stop perpetuating mis- and disinformation.
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Greg, it’s hopeless for many of these guys. They have closed minds on this, much like leftwingers (like PA) have closed minds on anything that isn’t for more government.
When you ask them “Cui Bono?” they respond neocons, israel, bush, saudis, etc. But then you point out that we only invaded afghanistan (not Iraq) as a result of 9/11–a country not threatening to any of those people–and that there is no evidence of gain by the groups they threaten, they merely start yelling “Iraq!” (which was never invaded based on 9/11 reasons).
They truly aren’t connecting the dots on this, but are now invested.
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Well, your response didn’t refute anything I said. Be that as it may, 911 is just a side discussion on this thread.
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Refute anything?
Even if I had the time, let alone the inclination, to go to all those sites one can google for oneself and repeat the debunking information here verbatim, it would not serve to convince you nor anyone else who already made their minds up as to this particular CT.
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I hope you don’t take this as an offense, but just my general observation not meant specifically for you:
For a lot of people, especially older conservative American men, the thought that our government, particularly under a Republican administration, would in some manner be complicit in 911 and subsequest disinformation is a bridge too far. Even fully Red Pill men of that profile don’t want to get too close to risk seeing certain hideous truths. We’re all human and the psychological shock of certain revelations would be too much.
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there is something to the notion that the severe psychological shock of ugly truths is worse than the balm of pretty lies… in the short term at least. but over time, the lies corrode. you see this happening with the right’s adamant refusal to confront basic realities about innate race differences, even when the evidence is incontrovertible both in the lab and in the real world.
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WTC7 free fall collapse: there is no explanation, barring controlled demolition.
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No offense taken, and trust me, you’re talking to one of the original “Don’t Trust Gummint!” guys here.
But thinking that 9/11 was pulled off by anyone except the hijackers and their strategists, motivated by the concept of Jihad, you have to believe in longer odds that Powerball, and the complicity AND COMPETENCE of too many people who have proven themselves time and again to be neither competent to that degree nor able to keep their traps shut.
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Another issue is that this sort of CT gives Big Brother and his henchmen and his puppet masters the air of omnipotence which can only serve to dishearten and take the fight out of those who could still become soldiers in a good cause.
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But then you point out that we only invaded afghanistan (not Iraq) as a result of 9/11
False. Iraq was invaded because of 9/11. The majority of you who supported the invasion believed that Iraq was behind 9/11, as surveys showed. Bush and his neocon handlers over and over again insinuated that Hussein was connected to al-Qaeda, by saying and writing things like “We will show Saddam Hussein that we will never give in to terrorism” in a piece about 9/11. This is a lie by omission if there ever was one.
As a neocon aide revealed, they only attacked Afghanistan first because their “al-Qaeda was behind it!” lie demanded that, since that was where Usama bin Ladin was. Only after that could they move on to the Israeli lobby’s real target, Iraq.
How is PA a leftist? For opposing the neocons? By the same logic Pat Buchanan and many other conservatives are leftist. The opposite is true: the neocons came over from the Left and still push their domestic policies. They “have made peace with the welfare state” as one columnist put it nicely.
How do you explain that Israelis were waiting for the WTC attack with cameras, sitting on top of the roof of their white van? They filmed the attack while laughing and high-fiving each other, and taking pictures of each other with the burning towers in the background. People called the police, and the police stopped their white van as they drove away. Found large amounts of cash rolled up in a sock, strangely. The Izzies, instead of being shocked that the police stopped them, calmly said, “We are not your problem. The Palestinians are your problem.” Then the moving company they belonged to quickly moved back to Israel, leaving behind computers and furniture and other valuables.
Anyone can look up “The Dancing Israelis” in Google and read about this.
When interviewed on Israeli TV, the “dancing Israelis” who had filmed the WTC attack said, “Our mission was to document the event.”
This is a clear admission. Yet Western media have buried it completely. The only reason we know about it is that Israelis with more conscience than their government have reported it.
And WTC 7 falling? Not even the 9/11 commission had an explanation for that. It’s in their report: they couldn’t explain it. All that could be done was to keep it from the public. To this day the majority of Westerners don’t know about WTC 7 “pancaking” in the same way as WTC 1 and 2, at almost the same time.
And where was the plane that supposedly hit the Pentagon? People walked out of that hole, and they didn’t see a plane. The chief of the firefighters said he didn’t see a plane in the hole either. A hole that is far too small for that Boeing. A hole that is, strangely, on ground level, as if caused by a truck or a missile fired from the ground. How could a plane hit on ground level, without smashing into the roof (the roof only fell later), and without smashing into the ground? What an exact hit!
To say that flying crop dusters in school teaches you to do a perfect spiral down from the sky with a Boeing and hit a wall at ground level, is like saying that piloting a small boat a few weeks teaches you how to pilot a cruiser from one archipelago to another, perfectly reaching shore in the right place. It cannot be done.
Oh yeah. And the Washington-New York area is the world’s most secure flight space. Even when a plane goes just a little bit off course, military jets are sent up to force it to land, at great cost for the owners. That all these planes would be able to fly completely off course for hours without any jet planes being sent up is absolutely impossible. What’s next, you can drive a van straight up to the White House and walk up to the Oval Office without the guards noticing?
President Hosni Mubarak, an American ally and the head of one of the two biggest spy networks in the Middle East (the other being run by the U.S.-funded Mossad, of course), said it was impossible for al-Qaeda to carry out the attacks. al-Qaeda was small, and its reach outside its immediate vicinity was thoroughly infiltrated by Egypt, Israel and the U.S. Hosni Mubarak laughed at the suggestion that al-Qaeda in their caves would be able to do something like that.
Indeed, al-Qaeda did not take credit for the attack – when they always took credit for attacks, since that’s how they got more funding. It was only several years later (I think three), when al-Qaeda was on the ropes and desperately needed more funding, that Usama bin Laden said he “got the idea for the attacks” by watching the towers in Beirut hit by Israeli missiles. Note: not even then did he say that al-Qaeda was behind the attack, just that he “got the idea”. And that’s several years later.
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Arbiter, you’re spreading misinformation… I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt and not accuse you of disinformation.
The myths you attempt to site as facts have all been explained logically many times, so I’m not going to go into a blow-by-blow refutation here.
Quick example in re the so-called “Dancing Israelis”:
http://www.911myths.com/index.php/Dancing_Israelis
Back in the day I learned my lesson after wasting innumerable hours trying to reason with JFK CT’ers.
So anyone with any doubts about 9/11 (or any CT, for that matter) I leave to their own devices to do their own research, and use of their own integrity to overcome whatever initial biases they may have.
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Every city such as New York, Paris or London that attracts a lot of tourists will have thousands of people taking photos or making videos any time of the year any time of the day.
And tourists will of course point their camera at the tallest most famous buildings such as the twin towers or the Eiffel tower.
If a plane were to hit the Eiffel tower tomorrow you can bet everything you own that at least one tourist will have videotaped the event.
The fact a few Israeli guys had cameras rolling as the planes hit the towers is not in itself evidence of anything.
Many other people have caught the event on video yet no one is saying those people knew it would happen.
Also the fact the Israeli guys were dancing does not mean much either, had they caught any amazing footage ( examples ; the golden bridge collapsing because of an earthquake, a comet hitting the Statue of Liberty ) they would have danced.
And if they were top notch spies or agents of Mossad or whatever, don’t you think they would have refrained from dancing in public? Why do anything to blow their cover?
They are not called covert operation for nothing.
I am not going to take apart every point but I could if I had hours to waste.
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“Israel?”
Nah. useful idiots. it’s already a barren shithole and we need it to keep the region destabilized and stoke the fires of “religious” discontent. plus perpetual war is very good for business.
the western way of life is due to one thing. cheap energy. while there may be lots of oil on this rock, there is not a lot of light sweet crude pooled near the surface for easy and cheap recovery. 2 of the 5 biggest easy fields are in iraq. china likes that juice and because they hold so much of our paper we will make sure they continue to get it.
yahwey is the god of war. most people on this planet worship him. the fighting will never end. if it does the world economy collapses.
tptb do not worship yahwey.
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I’m inclined to agree with Greg Eliot. Too many people would have had to stay silent for too long now.
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How do you speak when you can’t show any proof, when the media ignore you, and you will be arrested? Have you heard of the many, many experts on flight, explosions and al-Qaeda who have said the official conspiracy theory is ludicrous?
Have you even heard of President Hosni Mubarak saying it was impossible that al-Qaeda would do something like that, since it was a small organization with a few hundred members, whose activities outside its immediate vicinity was thoroughly infiltrated by Egypt, Mossad and the U.S.? (It’s still a small organization. When we hear of “al-Qaeda in Libya” or whatever, that’s local groups who adopt the al-Q name. al-Q was always mostly a group for communicating between other groups and channeling training and funding. Hence the name al-Qaeda, “The Base”.)
Hosni Mubarak wasn’t just anybody. He was the head of one of the two largest spy networks in the Middle East. The network’s main purpose was, of course, to keep track of Islamists, especially al-Qaeda. The media ignoring his opinion is almost on par with burying James Watson’s opinion on how DNA differs between the races.
The fact that the media DID bury Watson’s opinion, working as one, tells you exactly what the media owners are capable of when it comes to their top interests. His name is even erased from the introduction in university textbooks about DNA today, even though he is the “father of the human genome”.
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Arbiter, like many CT proponents, depends heavily on what THIS one said, and what THAT one said… evidence even first year law students are taught to accept only magna cum grano salis.
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I put this song into my head when I’m deep into a set of squats and, to paraphrase Mr. Rippetoe, Jesus starts talking to me. You should do the same before you approach, you pussies.
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thanks a lot lol now my chick want fake tits trying to tell me she was a 38d when I met her
i’m like fuck no
she was heavier though
she like yea their tits look like that cause there fake
only fat bitches got big tits like that
of course after covering my eyes at first he he he
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So on my drivers license I have that smirk look, arched eye brows and twinkle in my eyes. A cute waitress told me how she loved my look and she never even saw it in person, too bad I didn’t know how to build off of that. I looked like a slob in the picture but she still loved it.
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I bet you knock ’em dead going through airport security.
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For me none of this body language/game is really an issue.
It’s the fact that when you work 40-50 hours a week it’s hard to meet high smv girls and get their number (expressing sexual interest) all the while trying to build some sort of rapport without coming off as “creepy” or to pushy for sex etc. that’s also taking into consideration the fact that most high smv girls have a perfectly fine boyfriend. (Mainly referring to say game)
You can say “that’s what online dating and tinder is for” but in reality I don’t like the vibes and foundation that those sources have in regards to developing something with a girl.
I kinda think this advice is more for the guys who literally don’t know how to be extroverted and interact with girls. If you are that then all the best bros, work at it.
Maybe a high smv girl will naturally come into your “independent-on-a-mission life”. I haven’t experienced it yet but who knows. I think that’s the best foundation for having relationships with high quality girls.
Honestly by nature girls should have the mindset of finding that man with an independent mission to fly under his wing with him.
But girls today seem to have a different mindset. Kind of like an independent male mindset. They’re concerned about “what’s the next step in building MY career”.
That’s more of what I have come across especially with the super high smv girls under age 26.
So, for me, it becomes a game of how do you keep this girl interested and chasing you with Gina tingles all the while.
I think it’s also important to consider under age 25 girls as “plates” regardless of if you are defined in an LTR. As in if a hot girl expresses interest in your time of employing CH’s tactics, then pursue her as well.
But I will always wonder this same thing old keeping a girl chasing b/c in my history of about 6 high smv consistent fucking of girls (not at at once just thus far in my sexual market experience) I’ve had instances where I became wayyy too beta and dumped or I become too aloof and confuse myself AND the girl.
I’ve done the whole Balancing the alpha/beta but even that didn’t make sense or work much.
This has been my frustration since I joined the manosphere and CH.
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but at 40 to 50 should be plenty of time for ho’s but your not gonna get a woman to be obsessed with you Is the word I think unless you can spend mad time with her
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you were asking if I was black apparently I was 2 percent according to my girl
but then 1 percent of that was stolen when I lost my one garbage can that was taken that had a crack down the side and then 1 percent for the grill that we have that is ghetto as fuck
but yea apparently I speak white dress white listen to white music I act white I smell white I talk white
she said I shit white but then she would be lying cause I shit brown lol
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wtf lol she said I spit like a white person wtf she said when black people spit they let it drop out there mouth on the ground
great now I got to explain to her how the government moved all the nigs to my area and how white men are weak pussies in some ways for letting it happen and why she been fucked with by nigs her whole life and had to deal with there bullshit
she like why would they move form the big cities where they were drug dealing to our small towns
i’m like they were paid to move here just like that chick I dated from dc who was moved down from the dc ghetto to predominatly white area although maybe poor but it was white low crime
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course I did tell her it is also why we can buy a house for 7k and fix it up and rent for 600 so I guess some benefits he he he
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“It’s the fact that when you work 40-50 hours a week it’s hard to meet high smv girls and get their number (expressing sexual interest) all the while trying to build some sort of rapport without coming off as “creepy” or to pushy for sex etc. that’s also taking into consideration the fact that most high smv girls have a perfectly fine boyfriend. (Mainly referring to say game)”
Exactly. You can have the best Game in the land but without the logistics it is all for naught.
That’s why I think PUA/Manosphere advice is harmful to a lot of men, indirectly. It automatically assumes that the subject has access to hot young women, but most working men do not. So instead of adopting an abundance mentality, men will instead remain in an agitated state over all the poosy they’re missing out on. These PUA gurus are posting videos of their leisurely lives macking HB10s in Beverly Hills for some guy still stuck in traffic on his way home from the 9 to 5 to his shitty one bedroom in a depressing neighborhood.
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The amount of time that a guy like YaReally invests in this shit is simply stunning.
If his posts are to be believed, then I don’t see how the guy gets much more than three or four hours of sleep at night.
If you’re a cubicle monkey who gets “written up” when you arrive at 7:15AM instead of your scheduled start time of 7:00AM, then lotsa luck chasing pussy on work nights.
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And if you are that cubicle monkey, then do EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER to get out and start your own business and be your own boss and make your own hours.
Also, “sales” is a great line of work where you’re given a ton of leeway as to how you spend your time [as long as you keep delivering the big contracts to enhance the bottom line].
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I’m having this issue too since I graduated from university. I went to my university this week because I needed some papers from them and it made me reminisce past times fondly because it’s still filled with cuties.
A side note here. I was talking to a female friend of mine(and ex-girlfriend) and she was peeved by this guy she was attracted to from where she goes to work out. Eventually the guy mustered up some courage and asked her out and what followed was the biggest rapport breaking ‘date’ I ever heard of. I didn’t even know men can reach the level of incompetence required to actively fuck up a girl’s attraction towards them in 15 minutes or less.
My friend kept trying to figure out what the guy is about by asking about his interests and why he finds those things interesting and he gave the most elusive and uninspired answers ever. He followed up with questions about her studies and job because when one wants to have fun, they apparently talk about work and their degrees. My friend actively tried to steer the conversation away from this, at first subtly and then not so subtly. She kept dropping subtle hints of disinterest, then she made a tongue in cheek comment about how much rapport he’s building between them and eventually she asked him if it’s a job interview. He followed up with rambling about his job(programmer, I could have guessed, and we all know how code makes girls soak their panties) and then returned to asking silly questions about her work.
I have to thank this man though because not only did his ineptitude make me feel special, but I also relieved some of the frustration of my ex-girlfriend. I have to admit that I’m not the best person at coming up with topics to talk to girls I don’t know, but even when I was virgin I wasn’t this retarded.
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no maybe not true either I was working 84 hours a week and my wife got obsessed
”””””But I will always wonder this same thing old keeping a girl chasing b/c in my history of about 6 high smv consistent fucking of girls (not at at once just thus far in my sexual market experience)”””””””
that’s not a lot to find the one for you though don’t get depressed about that shit
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Gunslinger my notch count is higher but 6 is the consistent ones for more than a one night stand or whatever
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anyone got some get happily married sites for this dude to go to?
he wants the wife and kids but then when gets career gonna chose to cheat on her or not
find a woman who will let you do that now be honest with her about your intentions maybe devlope a more meaningful relationship for the BOTH of you based on honesty then she never can say ya didn’t tell her so
and not find out about your cheating pussy self by any of a million ways a woman can know.
try slowing it down get career then wife then easier to find one accomadating to your tastes maybe
trying to rush the shit dude and you are not a chick with a biological clock
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yea looking back at 2008 and 300 comments about the hotness of dead Hollywood actresses and who looks better its come a long way
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CH, you have the soul of a poet.
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The talmud is the basis for modern western laws, and promotes ursury from gentiles only.
Of course, the gentiles have to be distracted for this to work.
Good goyim – we are the real ‘alphas’ and PUAs.
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any thought on below and why in the gold fields in Africa they so scared of the Chinese?
come on we need you guys to get your shit together here
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Yeah, you frontrunners are gonna have the best seats at the Apocalypse.
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“we are the real ‘alphas’ and PUAs.”
hilarious. i grew up surrounded by your tribe. i knew them very well and was privy to many private moments.
all secret circle jerk fags, wolfman betas and semi-retarted mama’s boys. high IQ inbreeding my ass. nasty sinky hairy girls too. oh, and they all paid interest on the money they borrowed to live beyond their means.
if you think that tptb are your people then i have a bridge to sell you.
go suck a yarmulke.
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amount of concrete used in 100 years us 1901 to 2000 4.5 gigatons
china used in 3 years 6.6 gigatons
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holy
shit
anyone else just shit their pants
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It would behoove us to cement relations with the Far East.
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http://qz.com/220220/the-bill-gates-book-review-have-you-hugged-a-concrete-pillar-today/
pretty wild shanghai in 1987 and then today pics
who predicted what a while ago he he he
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hope all these minorities are gonna be able to fight as a team when the time comes lol
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Only if some sort of ball is involved.
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Actually, that is our greatest strength. The white mans forte is pattern recognition; but non linear thought is the seat of creativity:
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@Bolo411 @tuthmos ya know, i wasn’t gonna say anything, but it’s getting annoying. The original slut-sign post: heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/12/29/its… 15 hours ago ””””””’
almost Xerox copied
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I think this was genuinely one of those “lost cause/bad luck” moments but I’d be interested to see if YaReally or anyone else thinks I could have done anything to salvage it from this FR.
Met a 24 yr HB8 from online dating – Genuinely attractive, great figure, good sense of humour.
But also a single mother, with a really messed up childhood – as in, parental abuse, lived homeless on the streets for a couple of years in early teens etc. Also claimed to have acted in the “adult industry” but no proof. She’s cleaned up and is pretty stable now though.
Anyway, the date went really well – the vibe was just “on” right from the start. Kissed her within 1 hour, full on makeout in the bar and groping her tits and ass in the bar within 2 hours.
She had logistical issues (the kid), or I’d have been trying to get her home and was anyway about to try for a blowjob in the toilet.
Then I made a casual comment about how when I was in college I’d briefly worked in the state social services/child protection department. She *absolutely* flipped out and went mental and was almost shouting about how those were the people who’d failed her and where were they when she was on the streets etc.
It really was like Jekyll & Hyde. I stayed calm and held my frame and told her that I was sorry that she’d been failed as a child but I hadn’t been responsible for that and I knew lots of people who worked very hard to improve the lives of kids, and I was proud of the work I’d done in my brief time there. No use – she was off and ranting – long past the point of rational thought. She started sobbing and accusing me of lying to her (because I hadn’t disclosed up front that I briefly worked there 10+ years ago!)
We went back and forth for 3-4 min with me holding my frame and repeating. Then I just said that if she felt so strongly about this, maybe she should leave and she agreed and waited a couple of mins to calm down from the crying and she left. And I finished my drink, chatted a bit to the waitress and left too..I figured there was no point contacting her again.
Anything I could have tried? Somehow tried to get off the topic and changed the vibe or something?
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Career talk = bad idea. There are few things more dis interesting than asking or answering “So, what do you do?”. Take a cue from Fletch, answer “shepherd” and then drop the topic. if she insists, start going on about the amazing and fun hobbies you do in your off time. If she continues to persist, she’s uninteresting and has nothing else in her mind that she can use to relate to you, and you leave or you make up something so outrageous that she knows that you’re mocking her unoriginality.
Fuck me but if I don’t hate that question. My only answer is when I’m near my bike and she asks it, and I point to it and say “that”. It’s covered in leather bags, tank cover, bar wraps etc. that I made myself by hand, and it’s artsy fartsy (I’m a pencil and paper artist type, kinda), so it gets the juices flowing from several angles (artist! motorcycle! bad boy! leather!). Anything further and I change the topic. Who gives a rat’s ass what you “do”? meh.
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“What’s your profession?”
Sex therapist.
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> “Anything I could have tried? Somehow tried to get off the topic and changed the vibe or something?”
This chick is very, very badly fucked up in the head.
Also, the fact that you were stupid enough and gullible enough to “volunteer” for any of that Left wing lunacy in the first place paints as you as very strong Beta/Gamma.
And most males in those professions are child molesters anyways.
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Your best bet now: Total Radio Silence.
Let her be free to re-initiate if she wants.
If not, then just let it go.
PS: NEVER APOLOGIZE!
Another huge mistake.
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To summarize the three huge mistakes:
1) Gullible idiotic Left-wing volunteerism nonsense.
2) Possible child molester.
3) Apologizer.
Those are three huge, huge strikes against you.
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@Culum
Crazy bitch. Run. No contact ever again, don’t even bother. You just stepped on a land-mine, total luck of the draw thing to hit a trigger like that. Everyone has that happen a few times. Nothing you can do and it’s way too much baggage on her end for you to work through it. Move on to the next girl so you don’t get your dick chopped off lol
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Thanks YaReally – that’s roughly what I thought. Pity..she was pretty cool otherwise..
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It likely would have been the best sex you’ve ever had in your life.
Crazy in bed seems to require crazy in the head as a prerequisite.
And God knows that that poor crazy girl and her child could use a firm steady no-nonsense masculine presence in their lives.
Oh well, the Frankfurt School will just move in via their Uncle Sam Sugar Daddy subsidiary, with all their sparkly glittery free gibsmedats, and play the role that a real man should have played in their lives.
Sigh.
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Just make sure to avoid women like this….
http://www.alternet.org/economy/trader-joes-nyc-store-defends-racist-sexist-and-misogynistic-songs-playlist
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Typical media-approved yenta, squawking about misogyny in a 50-year old song from an established white group, like she’s some kind of rights advocate…
But conveniently gives a pass to the thousands of current rap songs which are orders of magnitude more disrespectful.
The inanity and hypocrisy stinks to the skies.
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WTC7 free fall collapse: there is no explanation, barring controlled demo.
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Meant that for the upstream thread
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Look, you’re wrong… there are explanations, easily found through google.
Just… stop already.
(((shakin’ mah haid)))
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Steve Sailer burns Joe Biden:
http://www.unz.com/isteve/biden-amnesty-skepticism-is-the-enlarged-prostate-blocking-the-constant-unrelenting-streams-and-significant-flows-of-prosperity/
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I’ve been practicing 2 and some semblance of 3 (though I hadn’t thought of it as leading with my junk) on my downtown rounds and I have noticed a difference in women smiling at me, people clearing my way, etc. Today I read this post, immediately went down to the street, and incorporated all three parts. The *very first* person I met on the sidewalk was an attractive woman who gave me a big smile and said “Hellooo!” A little old and tall for me so I merely returned the greeting and walked on. But this works. Try it. I look forward to the next mission, thanks.
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Mission Report:
I’m in a relationship with a beautiful, rich, genuinely kind and decent girl (no buns in the oven, ZS – more than doubled my genetic replacement value with five kids. I’m in the stage of life to reap my filial rewards.)
And I’ve got an abundance mentality because, guess what? I’ve got lots of options.
Still, I have terrible approach anxiety around random hotties. Never know what to say, so I usually say nothing. My local status – professionally and poon-slayingly – is high, so I’ve come to rely on that, to my discredit.
But today — with full Staying Alive-Travolta-esque strut, an ineffably smug smile on my face, that CH-approved eye-twinkle and in full awareness of how many hot women I’ve bagged — I made my rounds around town.
This super-fine, and I mean genuinely sparkling little Asian gem was fumbling around in the parking lot with her phone. “Hey,” said cocky I, “We have an ordinance against texting and walking in this town!” She gave a polite bow and smiled. Then approached me to ask for directions. She spoke almost no English, and my Korean is entirely nonexistent. Still, there was SPARK!
I don’t generally go for the oriental vaginalists, but for some reason, something clicked. Tall, slender, she was wrapped in this sexy sea-green tight dress that showed three assets many of her sistern lack – a pert, round bottom and two glorious C-cup breasts barely hidden beneath the lacy edges of her decolletage.
We exchanged numbers. She showed me photos of her art, and her dog. She then wrote down her email address and website. I felt like the attraction threads pulling us together were thrumming so tight I could have just reached in for a kiss on those blowjob-ready ruby reds. Damn.
She gave me the rare and prized “Proximity Boner” when a girl is so hot that she gets you hard just being close to her. It does not happen to me a lot. Wives one and three could (still can) but that’s about it.
I may call her for a followup – she lives an entire hemisphere away, but made sure to let me know that she was here through the next week, and would be coming back in the fall for six weeks.
It’s interesting how much information can be conveyed with almost no words – just body language, gesturing and eye-twinkle.
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bestofmanosphere.tumblr.com
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Regarding 911, for many people, finding out it was an “inside job” is like finding out their father raped them when they were a baby.
In other words, even if its true, they would rather not know.
I aint mad at em.
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I’ve had depression and social anxiety as long as I can remember.
I can’t even walk in public without coming off as a self conscious piece of shit. I’ve heard so many random girls and couples talk shit about me (he’s so weird, he’s so creepy, ha ha ha he’s so awkward) while I sat near them minding my own business on the subway or in other public places.
Some of you fuckers don’t know how lucky you have it.
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fix it.
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