A survey of 670 North American white collar workers revealed who is the unhappiest (and happiest) of them all.
According to the survey, the happiest workers are:
- Male
- 39 years old
- Married
- Have a household income between $150,000 and $200,000
- Hold a senior management position
- Have one young child at home
- Have a wife who works part-time
while the unhappiest workers are:
- Female
- 42 years old
- Unmarried
- Have a household income under $100,000
- Work in a professional position (i.e., as a doctor or a lawyer).
What we have here… is failure to assimilate to the feminist utopia. Some women you just can’t reach. So you get what we had here these past 60 years, which is the way ugly bitter feminists want it… well, they get it. Careerist gogrrl spinsters who go to sleep and wake every morning with a shiver of doom running down their necks. Unhappy 130IQ cat ladies as far as the eye can see, staining their graduate degrees with hot tears.
I don’t like it any more than you men, but I will leverage it for my personal gain.
Blame flies in all directions, but the most obvious one. The Bitches of Feastdick whine that their feminist droids are unhappy because men aren’t picking up the slack in the domestic sphere. Androgyne, Inc. stockholders say that women worry more about the home life and we need to help them worry less by mandating various stay-at-office motherhood initiatives, like on-site daycare.
They flail and they flog their plush lush lies that protect them from the stone cold truth… the truth that is incontestable and harmonious and rooted in eons of evolutionary blueprint:
Men and women are happier when they abide traditional sex roles.
Reject biology, feel unhappy. It’s that simple. Work within the contours of your sex’s biology, and you will feel like a finely tuned instrument discarding cacophony and alighting upon melodious serenity.
According to the survey, the happiest workers are:
Male
39 years old
Married
Have a household income between $150,000 and $200,000
Hold a senior management position
Have one young child at home
Have a wife who works part-time
Why did they leave out out WHITE?
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Blacks read Psychology Today?
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Sorry, it’s not Psychology Today, it’s “Captivate.com”. Cannot fathom from the stock photos what they are selling.
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When I was a boy, I read an article in Psychology Today about some primate researchers who gave a copy of Playgirl Magazine to a female chimp which then proceeded to masturbate to it. I guess that was before folks learned that Burt Reynolds was a fag.
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Blacks given rational tasks have always been happiest.
It always did my heart good to hear them happy darkies singin’ in the fields!
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…not on that list..Race Baiters
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Reporter Who Spoke About Black Families Suspended “Won’t return”
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/3180868/posts
“Bergin said in his report that the underlying cause of an anti-police mentality is young black men growing up without fathers. “It’s important to shine a light on this anti-cop mentality that has so contaminated America’s inner cities,” Bergin said after airing the widow’s comments and showing a memorial for her husband. “The underlying cause of all of this, of course, young black men growing up without fathers.”
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Obama’s America: “The United Blood Nation may take retaliatory action against police officers”
http://www.jammiewf.com/2014/obamas-america-the-united-blood-nation-may-take-retaliatory-action-against-police-officers/
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It’s funny how blacks think this is empowering to them. Obama is the whitest president ever and he uses his “blackness” to cull blacks for slaughter better than any black pimp could ever dream.
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BTW, the Obama administration is allowing illegals to have lawyers represent them at their deportation trials. The IS NOT LEGAL. The illegals also are appealing the court dispositions and remaining in America indefinitely . Also there could be a big tuberculosis outbreak among American children coming in contact with the illegals with the disease.
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“From the wild Irish slums of the 19th century Eastern seaboard, to the riot-torn suburbs of Los Angeles, there is one unmistakable lesson in American history; a community that allows a large number of men to grow up in broken families, dominated by women, never acquiring any stable relationship to male authority, never acquiring any set of rational expectations about the future — that community asks for and gets chaos. Crime, violence, unrest, disorder — most particularly the furious, unrestrained lashing out at the whole social structure — that is not only to be expected; it is very near to inevitable. And it is richly deserved.”
–Daniel Patrick Moynihan
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There is a lot of untreated mental illness in the ghetto; in addition to anger, hopelessness…
Usually we take it out on each other; but every once in a while a round falls short.
Nietzsche ain’t got shit on some of the ni66ers I seen:
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Take responsibility. Get off the substances. Get out of the hood. All of a sudden the mental issues fad away. But that would be too “white.”
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’cause yer colorblind. ni99er
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Because the man who most fits that description is probably Asian.
Also, why just one child? I thought the best number in the modern era is 3 kids. Certainly two at a minimum. One kid is just miserable, for the kid, AND the father.
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Also, why just one child? I thought the best number in the modern era is 3 kids. Certainly two at a minimum. One kid is just miserable, for the kid, AND the father.
Perhaps because Mr. Happy got married only a couple of years ago, and his wife is about a decade younger than him.
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Yup. One child in the family too often becomes a rivalry of affection and extra contention between parents.
Best to have a lot of targets for one’s love and affection and resources, both material and emotional… healthier on all sides.
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2 is the bare minimum, and below replacement fertility rate.
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Here ya go.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/07/14/white-privilege-fundraiser_n_5585470.html
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Because any 39-year-old married black man making over $150,000 in senior management with only one kid to support and a wife who doesn’t sit on her ass all day isn’t merely happy, he’s ecstatic!
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Either that or he spends many an hour pinching himself to make sure it’s not all a dream.
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He’s also immortal because you could only find that in a work of fiction.
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Because they knew blacks have access to an unending supply of watermelon and therefore are always happy?
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early morning here!
“Female
42 years old
Unmarried
Have a household income under $100,000
Work in a professional position (i.e., as a doctor or a lawyer).”
you can just see her face, can’t you? hint: there is no smile.
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If I were a doctor or lawyer pulling in less than $100K/yr, I’d be unhappy too.
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I know a lawyer who makes $70,000 a year, spends $12,000 to lease a Porshe (he has never owned a car) and told me, “It doesn’t get any better than this.”
Almost no one makes $150,000-$200,000 a year. Perhaps people should pay attention to that old wisdom, “Enough is a good as a feast.”
Or as Warren Zevon said, “I enjoy every sandwich.”
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Props on the Zevon homage, but here on the East Coast, if you’re a doctor or lawyer and ain’t pulling in six figures within five years of being out of school, you just ain’t tryin’.
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wonder if thats afte the govt steals its cut.
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It would be better if the East Coast fell into the ocean. Too bad the South didn’t win and slaughter all those Yankee thieves up there. You do know that 50% of the wealth in the U.S. is concentrated in the New York/Washington DC area? That’s not free market; it’s the massive theft of the wealth created by the rest of the country. So I don’t give a damn about what some doctor or lawyer on the East Coast makes.
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Bob, next time incorporate terms like “congress critters” and “hucksters” into your posts. That’ll really show ’em you mean business!
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yep, and it looks like we have a whole generation of young ones that will end up the same way…or worse. the future doesn’t look too bright for the guys still out there looking for a young girl to settle down and have babies with.
http://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2014/07/millennials-society-will-be-just-fine-without-marriage/374060/
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I fall mostly in the first category. Wife works on raising the kids, two kids, with another Devil Pup being discussed.
Senior management, pay in line with your example. I am pretty happy with how my life has turned out. I have done some pretty amazing things and been to many different countries.
The next battle about to be joined that I am a part of is the border. Pull your kids out of public schools, they are becoming disease vectors.
I choose the animating contest of freedom rather than the tranquility of slavery.
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> “Pull your kids out of public schools, they are becoming disease vectors.”
Have you had the honor yet of taking a badly dehydrated child to the Emergency Room because it can’t swallow because its throat is swollen shut with extremely painful sores because of HAND FOOT AND MOUTH DISEASE?
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Magic mouthwash saved us from that, fortunately. Mine caught it from in-school vectors. Was very annoying.
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> “Magic mouthwash”
Was yours a Schedule III with some Phenergan or Demerol or Thorazine or whatever? Or was it just Benadryl/Diphenhydramine?
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Lidocane. Not super, but it at least did the job. What is worse is that it was their second time, with a year between. Two completely different sets of symptoms, though.
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Comin’ to a town near you.
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Wouldn’t be a problem if some jackass wanting to make a name for himself hadn’t proclaimed that vaccination causes autism.
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The people who are worried about vaccines causing autism are not third world peasants from central America…
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Hand Foot and Mouth was unknown to Western Medicine until very recently, and any USA Pediatrician who perfomed his residency no later than about 1995 [or 2000?] would never even have crossed paths with it. But don’t believe me – believe the readership at Time Magazine:
http://healthland.time.com/2012/07/09/cambodian-childrens-deaths-linked-to-hand-foot-and-mouth-disease/#comments
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I hate when assholes blame a third party rather then the disease carrying shitskinned subhuman hordes crossing the border…
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I hate when assholes blame a third party rather then the disease carrying shitskinned subhuman hordes crossing the border…
This, this, and THIS.
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> “assholes blame”
Assholes with big hook noses, olive-colored skin, greasy dark curly hair, guttural NYC accents, and circumcisions.
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Not to mention that disease occurrence in vaccinated populations is increasing.
Oh, and Saytr, perhaps you should go read the CDC Pink Book and look for a certain vaccine that is grown in human diploid cells, look at the human blood protein content of that vaccine, and ask yourself “What the fuck is a prion, and how does it fuck with a developing brain?”
That might help counter the msm propaganda…
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@Bluntobj
Kinda already know what a prion is. Same type of cell that is found in spongiform encephalitis.
However, the “doctor” that started the anti-vaccine craze has been proven wrong, that his work was improperly documented, and his sample sizes were way too small.
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For anyone who actually cares, you simply must learn what they really make most of these vaccines from [and also they make the flavoring in Pepsi Cola products]:
http://www.cogforlife.org
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cogforlife is absolutely mandatory reading for anyone who really cares.
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and also HOW they make the flavoring in Pepsi Cola products
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A prion isn’t a cell – it isn’t even a virus – it’s an invasive strand of protein.
But something like a prion certainly could be coming out of the cell line from the poor child who was murdered to make the Rubella vaccine.
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@ZombieShane
Eh, gotta break a few eggs to make an omlet. Or in this case the protein delivery system used for years in vaccination.
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> “Or in this case the protein delivery system used for years in vaccination.”
No, Captain Hooknose, forcing vaccines made from murdered children upon the population at large is an entirely new phenomenon – up until circa the Obama immaculation, we still had clean vaccines for things like Mumps [Mumpsvax] and Measles [Attenuvax] – it was only very recently that Murder Vaccines were forced upon us. And the clean Rubella vaccine from Japan has never been approved by the FDA. Somebody very powerful WANTS our children exposed to the Murder Vaccine. Somebody who probably has a hooknose, just like you.
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Jews are not human.
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@Zombie Shane
Gods you’re stupid. Of all the derogatory things you could call me to try to put me in a bad position you settle on that. You have the entire internet to look up new and entertaining ways of calling someone Jewish, or Black, or Liberal. But you settle on hooknose?
By the way, if you have to put someone down to make a point, you’ve lost your frame. Revise and resubmit.
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By the way, if you have to put someone down to make a point, you’ve lost your frame.
Cathedral folderol… there are times when disingenuousness and outright dimness call for mockery.
Even Jesus derided His foes with scorn when making His points, up to and including His best friend, Peter.
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Not to mention, to your attempted point about putdowns, you yourself begin the reply with “Gods, you’re stupid.”
If you’re going to attempt forum debate, try not to make your opponent’s case for him.
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@Greg Eliot
Be careful when envoking the name of a certain popular Jewish carpenter…
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Jesus Christ, I’m some sort of Honorary High Order of Ancient and Noble Bloodhounds when it comes to the quality & sensitivity of my hooknose-ometer.
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Be careful when envoking the name of a certain popular Jewish carpenter…
Oh, my, how clever!
Never heard THAT one before, from both the atheist know-nothings and, of course, our usual suspects who like to (on one hand) claim Him as their own, in an attempt to snark forum debate points… yet on the other hand, continue to reject Him and show Him no honour as Lord and son of Jehovah… as if THOSE Two are “Jewish”.
You done outed yourself to prove Zombie Shane right, Schlomo.
Avaunt, impious fool.
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And I meant to add: deflection noted.
Geez, WHEN are you cogdissers going to update your playbooks and start actually earning your Sunstein shekels?
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@G.E. It seems he’s downplaying The Christ’s resume a bit.
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They always do.
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Wow, the antisemitism is strong on this one (ZS.)
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You’re new here, ain’t ya?
Follow Cathedral proprieties, please… it’s “Wow. Just… wow.”
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What do you suppose “KP” stands for? Katriel Pollack? Keshet Perlman?
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What I find amusing is all the dumbasses that don’t even understand 101 chemistry talking about the contents of vaccines. If I’d obtain water from sulphuric acid and iron oxide, they’d be like omg, you’re drinking sulphuric acid and rust?!?!?!?!
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@PJ
Nope. We just read what we want and disregard the rest.
For instance if I posted a link about vaccinations like this one:
http://www.immunizationinfo.org/issues/vaccine-components/human-fetal-links-some-vaccines
Most people would only read the first paragraph and proclaim victory. Then other sites would be posted. When a lack of non-scientific sources are pointed out, accusations in the vein of “UR A LIBERTARD” or “U H8 JESUS” are thrown about.
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“The next battle about to be joined that I am a part of is the border. Pull your kids out of public schools, they are becoming disease vectors.”
They were already mental disease factors.
All fathers should read John Holt, starting with How Children Fail.
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another one is “hot zone” by Preston. a good book about Ebola but it applys to pretty much every disease.
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> “They were already mental disease factors.”
factors == factories?
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I can typing.
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There is a reason Vox Day has posts titled “Homeschool or Die”. Frankly, the catering to the “need” to work outside the home for both parents and turning your children over to others to spend a large part of their formative waking hours is idiotic. Many women don’t make enough to cover the day care cost and bump in tax bracket from both incomes. Not to mention the joys of public schools:pedophiles -male and female, drugs, bullying… the list was ridiculous with out the disease angle. Not to mention cementing in the minds of children that laws are ignored regularly by those in authority. OK, maybe the last isn’t bad to learn early, but it is a sign of a society in collapse.
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Those in the unhappiest demographic are also often the least productive and the hardest to work with – either as a colleague or a customer.
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As Christine LaGrande said we were lucky it was not Lehmann sisters or the crash would have been crashier
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And oy, the nagging!
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I have it on good authority that Rush is Jewish. I’m shocked and disheartened…
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If he is, it would make sense… all opposition in the MSM is ALLOWED opposition, remember that.
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“Z0mbie Shane” is a hooknose.
Paid propagandist for Axelrod & Sunstein & Co.
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No, just trolling you. I feel bad about it now, since you’re obviously mentally ill…
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No, just trolling you. I feel bad about it now, since you’re obviously mentally ill…
There’s a certain mental unsoundness that takes glee in trolling… and that Cathedralesque shaming language (name the Jew = mental illness) was played out long ago.
(((shakin’ mah haid)))
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His cuz, Siggy F., tried to warn his brethren about it – Siggy called it “Projection” [although he really should have called it “Reflection”, and the fact that he called it the wrong thing is very telling in and of itself].
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Sloppy logic dude. I never said “Name the Jew = mental illness”. Just irritated at ZS’s obsession with Jews. Remember the old adage “when all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail”? And of course, right on schedule, when I mock him for this… wait for it… YES! I’m a hooknose!
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Sloppy logic dude. I never said “Name the Jew = mental illness”.
Don’t be coy now, you know that’s what you and your ilk always intimate.
Anyway, speaking of mental illness, Zombie Shane seems to be living rent-free in yo’ haid.
lzozlzozlzozzozlozlzozoz
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Odd that you keep using that expression usually associated with, shall we say, darker skinned folk? Hmmm….
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I look all white but my dad was black.
You fairy.
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obsession with Jews
“Obsession”, “racism”, “sexism” blah blah, that’s all a little socialist shit like you can spew up, since you can’t dispute any of the facts brought up by those who know the truth about Jewish media dominance. Poor little boy.
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All of this was by design – to demoralize the Shkotzim, to overwhelm the Shkotzim, to enslave the Shkotzim, and to eradicate the Shkotzim. No Pollen, No Fruit. No Masculinity, No Revolution. Hopeless? Cat Lady, we got Hope for you in Spades!
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BTW, this is all official Frankfurt School campaign propaganda aimed squarely at the bitter lonely miserable Blue State SWF demographic – not some wild-eyed tinfoil-hat schizophrenic conspiracy-theorist delusion – in fact, that Clinton video was uploaded to jewtube by the Clinton Presidential Library itself!
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> “demoralize the Shkotzim”
Jesus H Christ, Rush Limbaugh was ALL OVER this just now – he took a call from a girl who was so demoralized that she couldn’t even enjoy watching this year’s Fourth of July fireworks with her boyfriend because she didn’t feel that she lived in a great country anymore. I swear to God that Rush is a lurker here at the Chateau.
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I’m pretty sure Greg Gutfeld reads here too. He regularly references “beta males” and recently made a comment about how women get away with more because they are the more important sex, and how one man can repopulate a whole city.
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Bel Ami must have been one of heartiste’s ancestors
youtu.be/TXj2E0HQGms
“all women take to men who have the appearance of wickedness”
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[…] The Unhappy Woman Is A Feminist Archetype […]
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Facts and logic are SEEEEEXIST!!1!
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In the unhappy demographic, it doesn’t matter much if the woman is married or not if she doesn’t have kids.
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Talked to an obese woman through work last week. Early forties, lonely whale. And she actually described herself as a “radical feminist” completely without being prompted. So she stuffs herself like a mentally deranged person, ruins her one life … then blames men for her failure.
The Left loves obesity since it increases their ranks. (With some individual leftist exceptions, yes.) And even if the obese are right-wing their condition neuters them somewhat, since someone who can’t survive hardship won’t entertain thoughts of radical change and will by and large support the status quo.
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the evil of obesity leaches like black goo into every capillary of a society.
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> “And even if the obese are right-wing their condition neuters them somewhat”
I think it might be an actual physical neutering rather than merely a metaphorical neutering – in men, fat increases estrogen levels which decrease both sperm counts AND aggression. So obesity is a huge “WIN-WIN” for the Frankfurt School: Both “No Pollen, No Fruit” AND “No Masculinity, No Revolution”!
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“And even if the obese are right-wing their condition neuters them somewhat, since someone who can’t survive hardship won’t entertain thoughts of radical change and will by and large support the status quo.”
Well, thin women can’t survive hardship either. The “radical change” feminists want is the illusion of total self-reliance with the safety net of big daddy government, funded by taxing men’s resources.
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i see this going one of two ways.
1. a high caste peels off to form an androgynous, hyper K-selected alien gray quasi-species while the masses are district 9ed by supertech surveillance.
2. the same thing, minus the high caste peeling off. they just get subsumed in the event horizon collapse.
i don’t believe there will be any AI singularity in time to save us from either of these outcomes. the gods of the copybook headings are not to be trifled with. they will have, like they always have had, their day.
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Amy, the only thing you tax is mens’ patience.
But we luvs ya anyway.
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heh. too bad you guys don’t get cbc – canada’s ‘national news network’ has a 275lbs fatty doing beat work on scene.
lady was in quebec last summer covering the train explosion from hell – all i could think about was how long fat takes to burn.
“the left loves obesity because it increases their ranks”
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i see this going one of two ways.
1. a high caste peels off to form an androgynous, hyper K-selected alien gray quasi-species while the masses are district 9ed by supertech surveillance.
2. the same thing, minus the high caste peeling off. they just get subsumed in the event horizon collapse.
Or perhaps a combination of the two: the non-androgynes in the high caste following scenario 1 (with leftoid SWPLtardery being mouthed but not actually believed), and the androgynes scenario 2 (by either not breeding at all, or by racemixing with the lower caste).
I actually think the lower masses will be the androgynous ones. Especially with obesity and their increasing acceptance of deviance. High-IQ people are more likely than low-IQ to be able to keep their true beliefs private and out of sight until it’s safe.
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A poem for AmyButtox..
The oceans grandly parted…
Where I precisely farted…
Towards my Buttox, Amy darted..
Her supplies in tow, she carted..
To Detox my Buttox, she started..
A new technique, she charted…
With her $5000 payment, she gladly parted..
From the gina tingles, she smarted…
-GB
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i love a good running *gag*.
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@CH.
No. There will be no hyper K-selected human species akin to the “grey” aliens of popular folklore.
They would probably have normal IQs and so be subjugated by the empire builders in some way. However, I’m sure they will have killer abs, breasts and some annoying personality.
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“Well, thin women can’t survive hardship either. ”
Interestingly, in the third world (spent a half-decade stint there working for an NGO) fatness is actually valued (a) as a sign of conspicuous consumption aka wealth, and (b) as a sign of the ability to survive a famine.
How this applies to modern western urban life is not clear; except I listen to the preppers too, and it’s true that if food deliveries to NYT stopped (or heck, even to Seattle or Austin) most people would be in a world of hurt within 72 hours.
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@CH, as much as you could call an AI singularity ‘saving us’. What would work the best would be some big collapse that culls the gene pool of all the scum that accumulated in the last 200 years. It won’t be pleasant for us, but it’s medicine, much like the AI singularity would be a drug: sure, it would be nice to kick back, but the only way a species strives is under some sort of adversity. And I’m unsure something more intelligent than us wouldn’t simply end up treating us the way we treat chimps – zoos and the like.
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There’s a good chance she IS mentally deranged. I’m not saying that as an insult, there really is a lot of self admitted mental illness among the radical left. And I supposed it’d make sense, as it’s hard to believe anyone who’s happy and well-adjusted can be so bitter as to believe in total equality.
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‘And she actually described herself as a “radical feminist”’
Radish-shaped feminist.
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my ex/fb has a strong mother/beta father. she’s 21.
one of the things the mother taught her was “never rely on the man to (bring home the bacon). you must have a career of your own so you do not rely on (one source of income).”
part of me accepts the theory behind it – though what she did was tell her daughter in code that:
‘you don’t need a man to provide for you – youre the hottest daughter i have – i want you to have the alpha seed of a CEO that can take or leave you – my little princess is independant and you will use your looks to seduce men to snake them of their power.’
mother is a financial planner.
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The thing is, “never rely on the man” is actually good advice for women who are in the bottom third of the looks distribution, or women who are lesbians.
[CH: a disproportionate number of media feminists are dykes. as for the low value women… they should learn to settle. down in their weight class they’ll find a loser omega who would be willing to stick by their sides.]
Obviously, pretty women have options so whether they find a good man and become housewives or get a career and go their own way is their choice. Ugly women and lesbians don’t have this choice, especially ugly women who are not fat. (fatties can always lose weight and become prettier. thin but ugly women are outta luck).
I don’t think feminism causes female unhappiness nearly as much as female unhappiness causes feminism. Those women were going to be unhappy even they lived in Afghanistan and never heard of feminism. Some people, regardless of gender, are going to be naturally unhappy, no matter what happens to them in life. I believe it is at least partly genetic. Everybody knows somebody who is always either unhappy or apathetic.
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“thin but ugly women are outta luck.”
There are plenty of thirsty motherfuckers who will fuck anything. Just because they are ugly as sin to you doesn’t mean she doesn’t fit the bill of some manboobed loser. They’ll eventually get scooped up, but it won’t be by “Prince Charming”. More like the fuckin’ frog, but hey… the alpha’s trash is the beta’s treasure.
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both sides in this eternal debate get cornered into making extreme claims. all you really need to know is yes, on average it’s easier for women to get laid than it is for men and no, that doesn’t mean hideous women have a dance card full of thirsty omegas willing to fuck anything. men have standards as well, and men exercise choice in the sexual market, even if their choices are somewhat less discriminatory for short-term objectives.
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Most male incels are only refraining from dumpster diving. They are involuntarily deprived of sex with beauties or even cute chicks, but most of them can more or less easily pull a landwhale 4.
Porn is a better option if you ask me.
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Some incels dumster dive because because they are told by society that they are worthless if they don’t fornicate. There is more honor in celibacy than dumpster diving. Gangster Bolshevicks are the ultimate Sigma’s because they advocate possessiveness of ones body and reject players and sluts who use promiscuity to fill the void of their low self worth. Gangsta Bolsheviks Niggaz!
http://www.starktruthradio.com/?p=405
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Anon, this is why game is pretty much a way to save money. If you want to get laid, there’s no reason to bother with ugly women: go the porn route or the prostitutes route. The thing is that prostitutes are most likely lame in the sense they just want to get you done and I think that’s the wrong attitude for a fruitful copulation and and it could get expensive fast if you want quality prostitutes. So learn game and don’t dumpster dive, but I’d rather make it rain on the whores than dumpster dive if game wasn’t an option.
I have a question for you guys. Do you have a hard time remembering the names of ugly women? I was thinking back about the classmates I had in university and I can’t remember the names of most ugly girls I went to school with for years, but I can remember both the first and last names of the pretty girls.
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I don’t think feminism causes female unhappiness nearly as much as female unhappiness causes feminism.
I think it does go both ways. Feminism causes female unhappiness by brainwashing women into thinking all bodies are beautiful and thereby encouraging them to get lazy and fat, which causes men to avoid them, and then they become unhappy and more feminist.
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Yes, and also by telling them they have to have a career to be fulfilled, which conflicts with what they really want (but feminism doesn’t let them admit), which is getting married and taking care of their husband and kids.
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Bishes probably love Pride and Prejudice. Cognitive dissonance makes the wheel go round.
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I get a kick out of that book because it still portrays there being a Norman aristocracy in England: Fitzwilliam Darcy… Catherine de Burgh…
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Never caught that before. Ferrars vs Dashwood, too.
Mansfield Park is my favorite Austen. Properly understood, it’s a tragedy where the heroes are the Crawfords. I’d love to see a film adaptation from the point of view of Mrs. Norris.
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What the fuck is happiness though? Take a moment to step outside of this Joo-Bogus happiness vs sadness mode of thought. Do men who aren’t faggots go around worrying about how happy they are? No, that’s what women do, and if you’ve ever spent a significant time around women you know that they’re never truly happy. They will always want more.
This is the sickness of modern culture that even CH falls prey to (and myself). Everything is about our feeeeeeelings. Marriage is about everlasting romantic love (fallacy). Sex is about preserving our precious egos and getting a momentary release of tension. Being “happy” essentially means being content in the context of this article, but contentedness will vary from person to person.
The focus should be on what we can do to transcend the material world and this puerile search for false happiness. In other words, religion. And that is the heart of the matter, most people lack an existential purpose because they lack a higher power. As Machiavelli said, no surer sign of a nation in decline than when the rites of religion are held in contempt.
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Indeed. Happiness is a symptom, not an end in and of itself. The focus on happiness is a cancer.
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cynthiabuttox,
My buttox are blasting out fast, whippy, incendiary projectiles of gas.
Goodness, Gracious, Great Balls of Fire!
After that, it will be the first step in your beatification to….
…..Detox my Buttox.
-GB
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I’ve always said, happiness is overrated.
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I’m not modern-happy, but I’m Aristotle-happy.
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– “Are you happy, General De Gaulle”
– “Do you think I am an imbecile?”
The pursuit of happiness is not a quest for men. The pursuit of confidence is.
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I am agnostic so I prefer philosophy to religion, but otherwise I completely agree. Most people lack an existential purpose though because we don’t have one. It’s good to be able to believe you do though.
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Giggle. I recently wrote an article on my blog about “Traditional Roles” advocating that men and women stick to traditional roles.
As a fair warning, my blog is graphic and deals with Total power exchange relationships between Submissive women and dominant men, so please don’t visit if that offends your sensibilities
http://blog.desidaasi.com/2014/06/whats-wrong-with-women-embracing.html
As a woman, I find it sad that a lot of men have now started believing in the “men and women are equal and interchangeable” theory
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because that is where the cooter is roaming/we rarely think for ourselves anymore.
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DesiGassyDaasi,
Detox my Buttox…
-GB
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“My, that’s a lot of heads you have on the wall!”
“Yes, but one can’t help thinking there’s always room for just one more.”
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If that is you spread eagle on the top banner you are about the LEAST Indian looking female outside of perhaps Bollywood actresses. Pale skin, pink nipples? 1 drop rule in reverse maybe?
There has been a great deal of Euro-cream stirred into that coffee for many generations by the looks of it.
Just a curious aside…
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@Jay Not all Indians are dark skinned, A small minority are quite light skinned like me. Since you are aware of Bollywood actresses, for example Kareena Kapoor comes to mind. My husband and I are Brahmins although I am quite light skinned even by Brahmin standards. Many of my Indian friends tell me I am the lightest skinned Indian they have seen. I am often mistaken for other nationalities. People are often surprised when I tell them I am Indian. Must be from my Dad’s side. He has grey eyes and really pale skin. BTW as Brahmins, we rarely marry outside our caste, so whatever genetics caused that was carried along for many generations and that may be another reason. I read somewhere that some South Asians share the Light Skin Allele of SLC24A5 with Europeans and it is found in high proportions amongst certain castes in India.
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I’d like to come work in your office. Mine is so choked with miserable, careerist spinsters that today I coughed up a hairball. Dig your mindset – it’s refreshing.
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@Charlie Don’t Surf: Thank you dear! Maybe it is the way I was brought up. My Mom still worships the ground my father walks on even after all these years and their marriage is a very happy one. I grew up watching their relationship dynamic and learning from it. I think there is a growing recognition in this country that fathers are important for boys, but I would say that watching a strong man lead a home, is equally important for girls.
When I married, there was no doubt in my mind that my husband, my Swami(Lord) would be the head of our household. It also helped that I was a virgin when I married. I bonded very strongly with my husband after we had sex. The best advice my Mom ever gave me with respect to sex was “follow his lead in bed”. Following his lead meant that I did everything he wanted, and satisfied him without any reservations, or hangups about what was “appropriate” and what was “ewww, you want me to do what?, that’s disgusting”
I know this sounds really silly in today’s western culture, but based on my experience, I feel that I enjoy sex so much better, because I knew nothing about it and was introduced to it by Swami. Even today his touch simply melts me and I really enjoy pleasing him in bed. It genuinely makes me happy to satisfy his sexual urges and fantasies.
In our marriage, the power dynamics was established really early within the first few months. It helped that I embraced his dominance and my submissiveness from day one and it has made me really happy in my marriage. I can’t even think of living any other way now.
Please don’t give up dear. I am sure there are many women who are like me. They may not be at your office, but I am sure they are out there. Hope you find a nice traditional woman soon. The best way to combat “radical feminism” is for men to refuse to compromise on what they expect from their women. Radical feminism cannot win unless a large majority of men buy into their propaganda. And I hope for the sake of my 3 year old daughter’s future that it loses.
Hugs and Kisses
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@Charlie Don’t Surf: Thank you dear! A lot of my attitudes and beliefs are from being raised in a family with a strong father and submissive mother. She became my role model for a woman. Then my husband, my Swami(Lord) came along and I could not be happier. Now I hope my to raise my daughter the same way as my Mom raised me. I just hope this culture doesn’t corrupt her!
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We’re very much alike.
Train up that daughter – I’ll send my sexy son over when she’s ready.
Having some fun here mocking careerist spinsters – but I’ll come chat you up on your blog in a little bit.
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@Desi Daasi, I kind of noticed that with girls. I kind of had to deprogram their prior beliefs about sexual things and tease them into the things I liked. It’s rather awkward how prior experience, good or bad, primes one present behavior. Never been with a virgin so I have no idea how virgins bond and all that. I kind of regret on missing out on having a relationship in high-school with some sophomore or whatnot for a few years like everyone else did.
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@Pijama Wearing Ninja
Nature has made men and women very different. The following research from Cornell University published in the Journal of Marriage and Family in 2012 suggests that men can sleep around before marriage and still eventually have a successful marriage, but women who sleep around will rarely have a good marriage later.
Two main conclusions from the study
Speed of entry into sexual relationships is negatively correlated to marital quality but only for women.
Early sexual activity is an indicator of relationship commitment mainly for women
This means that women bind strongly to the men they have sex with (but not the other way around) and if they have sex with too many men, they will eventually have very little happiness in their married life (again not the other way around). All the memories of her previous partners will intrude into their married life in a terrible way.
Feminists will hate this, because it flies in the face of their pet theory that “men and women are equal” and they consider this inherently unfair to women. But facts are facts.
Men already intuitively know this. That is why most men don’t want to marry a woman who has had too many lovers. It is just not worth it. whereas a virgin woman can marry a man who has slept with other women and they can still have a happy married life.
I think one of the reasons I am so happy in my married life is that I was a virgin when I got married. My mind imprinted on my husband and I had no “previous experiences” to weaken that imprinting.
My suggestion to men: Sleep around if you want, but when and if you marry, try really hard to marry a virgin, You will find it easier to mould her whichever way you want. Trust me 🙂
My suggestion to women: If you want to have a happy married life (and which one of us doesn’t want that), let other women sleep around, let them suffer the consequences of modern feminist delusion that “men and women are equal”, but don’t do it yourself. Have sex only within marriage with your husband but become a total slut for him and let him dominate you. It has totally worked for me. There is a really good chance it will work for you 🙂 I know this is so politically incorrect, but you can either be happy or you can hang on to some ideology, which would you rather have?
http://twileshare.com/uploads/The_Tempo_of_Sexual_Activity.pdf
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@Charlie Don’t Surf: Giggle. Make sure he is strong, successful and likes to pull on long hair and knows how to spank a girl if she gives him attitude, and he better get here by the time she is 25. Otherwise, she will be married and gone 🙂 At least that’s my husband’s plan. Who knows what will happen when she goes to college and takes a “gender studies” class! I shudder when I think of that!
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i do think it’s possible for a woman to successfully enjoy a career, in certain fields where feminine traits excel. i think their unhappiness stems from the fact that they are trying to make a career in fields where masculine traits are most valued. i also strongly believe that women are not capable of working with other women in an office setting, but that’s off-topic.
to say something for women though, i think they are most valuable when their role is that of a nurturer, of giving themselves for the benefit and enjoyment of others (their husbands, children, audience – i love the sound of a woman’s beautiful voice singing, or watching a good actress on screen), so i agree with heartiste that rejecting biology leads to destruction.
if a woman wants to forge a strong career and dedicate her life to it, i say let her. she won’t have time to raise a family, so her genetics won’t be passed on to the next generation. i say this with kindness, not hate.
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The head of Pepsi Co, who is a woman, recently said it’s impossible for women to be successful at being a parent AND being a careerist. Admitted that she hired help to raise her kids and that while she was an exceptional businesswoman, she fell short of being a quality mom. “I don’t think women can have it all. We pretend we can have it all…You know, you have to cope. Because you die with guilt. You just die with guilt.”
Careerist women everywhere wept; they can’t have it both ways.
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Show me a career field that’s older and more established than traditional sex roles … We wouldn’t even need clothes if you women had just accepted that you can’t have it all – But Nooo! Now men have to eat by the sweat of our brow – which today means dealing with miserable, careerist spinsters popping up like weeds in our professions – and belaboring us further with obligations to their emotional satisfaction. So sorry YOUR unhappy. FUUUUUUUUUU!
Here’s a radioactive cat, go with God – I want my rib back!
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yep the sex trade is booming
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Law of supply and demand.
3 months after coastal Thailand was wiped out by a tsunami – all the hotels and brothels were rebuilt and busy as ever. How? European sex tourists. Repressed business men with boners and Baht for the same girls who work days bumping out those cheap heels women wear to the office.
It’s different in American though. After squandering your money on shoes – and forging that career at Company XYZ – they RIF your ass three weeks before retirement and off-shore your job to Thailand before you’ve even commuted home to your siamese cat.
Cast your lot with commerce and those are the rules that apply.
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My mother somehow managed to have kids, be a pretty good mother(albeit the grandparents helped with the raising) and have a better career than most feminists. She somehow did the chores at home too. It’s rather funny, but if I will compare the girls of today with my mother, they’d all look silly. It’s good I don’t expect modern day girls to be as awesome.
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And over in England, we have more women-only government positions being lined up. Because previously “Of the 22 full members of Cabinet until Monday, only three were female and none mothers.” Omg!!!11!1 we need more womenz and motherz in government for representation, because that totally matters!
http://news.sky.com/story/1301368/female-line-up-an-attempt-to-win-votes
They’re describing it as a cull on the “pale, male and stale”. Of course this is nothing to do with an election coming up…
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Just drop the politeness bit and make it clear that straight, able-bodied men from the majority racial/ethnic group are the bread and butter backbone of any society, and should be more privileged by default.
Whether or not that’s “hateful” or “inequal” is frankly, irrelevant.
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They’re describing it as a cull on the “pale, male and stale”.
If only there was a synonym for “competent” that rhymed with those words.
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When it comes to gummint, you can add: “for sale”.
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corinus: “hale”.
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I suppose “hale” will have to do then!
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I tried to explain to a rather reasonable female friend that: while men and women have the same average IQ, the variance in male IQ* was much higher — a broader distribution that therefore had larger populations on both extremes.
I pointed out that we don’t pick our CEOs from the big middle, we pick them from the right side of the Bell Curve. So it’s just math that there are lot more male CEOs than female CEOs (because the population from which the selection is drawn is larger), and it’s just math that most of the low-IQ/impulsive (correlated) types who wind up in jail are male.
Her head exploded.
* How do we “fix” that? Well, a lot of it has to do with the fact that women have two X chromosomes that “average each other out” and men have only one, so they get the full force of it — for better or worse. The X chromosome seems to have a much higher (at least twice as much) expression on cognitive function as other chromosomes. So, good luck with “fixing” that.
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it’s not just IQ that causes a sex disparity in CEOs. men are also more ambitious than women, and more interested in building empires and acquiring power. in fact, i’d say that the latter reasons are more relevant than the IQ explanation.
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I believe the second X-chromosome in a woman is switched off completely, see here for example, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barr_body
So your theory about the variance of men’s intelligence may be right, but not the mechanism as stated I don’t think.
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okay. So I guess it is dependent on when a cell gets X-inactivated during development. So maybe in the female brain, the IQ-determining cells may be a mosaic or mixture containing paternal and maternal X’s.
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Men sit, by biology alone, at optimal intersection of brains and balls graph
Women who have (perceived as having) balls are behavioral outliers and come off as bitchy, cutthroat and Lil lady Macbeths because relative to other women THEY ARE
Lest we juice our women up with East German levels of synthetic testosterone biology= glass ceiling
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Ambition is necessary but not sufficient. Of course, the same can be said about IQ. The pool of people with both is very, very male.
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@CH, it’s also the career choices women make, not just them being less ambitious(as in more time taken off, less overtime and less drive in general at work). Let’s all be serious, the marketing broad will rarely make it as CEO, the financial officer will.
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“They’re describing it as a cull on the “pale, male and stale”. Of course this is nothing to do with an election coming up…”
What we need on the mat is someone fat with a cat.
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Fat brats with cats. There. 😉
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White, light, bright und right
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An expert on being stigmatized, and ignored:
http://www.psychologytoday.com/experts/bella-depaulo-phd
Her credentials are impeccable.
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Three books on being single, four books on being the victim of ‘liars’. Phd from Harvard back in the 70s. Those are all the dots you need to join to draw a nice picture of a hag sobbing in a cattery.
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I could write books like that too. What a waste of a Harvard PhD position she has been.
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guaranteed not a single case study was a male who was successful w women.
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I suspect most of the case studies are her.
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Just think how unhappy the wymynz will be when we can print 3-d vaginas
http://reason.com/blog/2014/07/15/if-you-think-3d-printed-guns-freaked-peo
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A Pringles can and some Flubber works just as well.
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Heh, heh… if memory serves, Phillip Roth in Portnoy’s Complaint touts a hunk of liver in a wide-mouth bottle.
Or maybe it was some other YKW’s “novel” around that era.
Still shakin’ mah haid about the stuff they used to palm off on the public as literature.
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It’s this kind of thinking and encouragement that leads women into the very statistic CH posted and the one beyond it (single ladies living many cats):
Read it and laugh as I did:
http://thedailylove.com/you-do-not-have-to-prove-yourself-to-anyone/
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I couldn’t make it pass the first paragraph. Then I got distracted by thinking Ms Jenna needs a pearl necklace.
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She looks like she is about a year or two away from becoming a full fledged chubster, but as cheestrader said, she has a few bangs left in her still.
Anytime someone uses the word “goddess” though, I have an immediate desire to crush their windpipe as it is the only suitable course of action for someone that terminally stupid.
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As a soul sister to many, I often find myself being called upon for a variety of supporting reasons. Today, I got a phone call from a fellow goddess and she was in absolute disarray. She was, well, a hot mess.
A more vapid array of text could only be found in one’s morning toilet after a breakfast of Alpha-Bits.
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“I finally had a HUGE wake-up call, and realized THIS:
When you know your worth, you won’t settle for anything that isn’t in alignment with your heart’s innermost desires. Standing FIRM for what you believe in will allow what you’ve always wanted to flow to you. (Tweet-worthy!) KNOWING that you are irreplaceable, invaluable, unparalleled, and a COMPLETE package on your OWN will illuminate your brightest light and NO ONE worthwhile can resist a bright, shining and magnetic GODDESS (or MAN).
This AHA! moment set me free and I began a brand new relationship with myself. I became committed to loving all that I AM. What are you letting go of today that is no longer serving you? I wanna hear all about it in the comments section below. I love hearing from my readers!”
Lolz, she’s hurtling towards cat-lady ville at warpspeed. While taking multiple breaks at Arby’s along the way.
Where are these women’s grandmothers to slap them on the side of the head and tell them to wake up? Oh, I know, grandma is visited maybe twice a year and is quickly being pushed to a senior home.
I will not make the same mistake with my daughters
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If you think about it, doesn’t all of leftism come down to rejecting biological determinism? That’s why it’s a reactionary movement …against reality.
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It comes down to rejecting reality because their dogma says so, yes, but it also comes from an inverted ethical system where the weak, meek and so on are good and the powerful are evil(white, male, Christian etc = powerful so bad; nonwhite, female, religious minority = weak so good). The rest is merely humanism with its universal brotherhood, egalitarianism and with some individualism spliced in.
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i had a college friend who fit this description, except she made more than 100k & she was still miserable. she was also fat & had 2 cats. (how they fail to see they are cliches never ceases to amaze me.)
i de-friended her on FB because she wouldn’t stop blaming men for her problems. she could do what was necessary to make her professional life better but refused to do what was needed to improve her personal life.
one less whining child in my newsfeed.
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@Zodak: I had a reader ask me recently, what my advice would be for her to attract a “good man”. I gave her a candid and “almost certainly politically incorrect” answer
http://blog.desidaasi.com/2014/07/what-can-woman-do-to-attract-strong-man.html
Fifty years ago, this advice would have sounded pretty normal even boring, but today unfortunately, it probably sounds crazy to many women and some men even. So I expected a lot of blow back and included a poll to see how many readers agreed or disagreed with my viewpoint. I was pleasantly surprised that over 80% of the readers agreed or strongly agreed with my advice. Now I know my blog attracts certain kind of readers, but I still found that heartwarming. maybe there is some home after all.
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DesiDaasi,
Wait for it….. I have to fart…
…..Ooooooooooooooooaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh……
Now, it will be your privilege and solemn duty to Detox my Buttox. I would like for you to use a turmeric essence. Also, you will have to pay a $5000 fee for the honor.
-GB
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I would like for you to use a turmeric essence.
I’m glad to see you are being culturally sensitive these days, you are a true progressive GB, feminists everywhere would be proud!
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Jay in DC,
Turmeric has anti-cancer properties, and also creates a lovely yellow tint on the skin. You should try it sometime.
On the other hand, GassyDaasi probably doesn’t know the first thing about cooking (Indian or otherwise), judging by her awful site. She might have to borrow turmeric from her aunt. I’d like some cumin and coriander as well, come to think of it.
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Leftists in general are unable to realize they’re cliches.
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Give me 150k and I’d be happier than a pig in shit . . . even if I was lying right next to him! Never mind anything else!
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you don’t know until ya make that thing no matter what happens in your life you are still you
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Men get a high from earning more money. But unlike men, women aren’t happy with earning their own money, but would rather have a man support her.
Another reason for the so-called “pay gap”.
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The happiest women on earth are those who do not pretend to be men.
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and do not expect men to pretend to be women…
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Naturam expellas furca, tamen usque recurret.
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Katebuttox,
An ambitious lass…
Who aspires to have class…
Knows that my ass…
Makes lotsa gas !!!!!
The hall is rented and the audience is assembling. At 8 PM tonight, you will Detox my Buttox. Make sure Mark Minter’s bank account still has $5000 in it so you can pay the honorarium.
Hurry! The audience is gathering…
-GB
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I’ve told you before,
and I’ll tell you again:
to detox your buttox
is not my yen.
Now stand aside, knave;
you’re not such a puzzle.
A troll I don’t crave;
I suggest a muzzle.
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You guys make my day.
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Ask not what your castle can do for you, ask what you can do for your castle.
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As an objective observer, I say GB is the poet, Kate the poetaster.
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Only J.N.H. would use that word. Twice. In one month.
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And Kate wins the thread. Lol
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😉
Completely off topic: hypothetically, would you date Roosh?
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I’m missing the reference… you mean poetaster?
Hell, that’s a well-worn expression:
More poetaster than poet… if memory serves, the first time I heard it was from WIlmot Robertson back in the seventies.
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And Kate wins the thread. Lol
Sisterhood is powerful… but sorry, toots, those lances were but straws.
Then again, if you can just get littespoon and cynthia on board, the issue’s settled!
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@Kate: Lol are you the manosphere matchmaker?! I’ve only been over there a couple times, I didn’t really like it. As for the guy himself, I couldn’t say without reading more of his stuff and seeing videos of him.
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I’m the manosphere busybody 😉
You’re beautiful, the right age, have similar beliefs, American…you’re both romantics and literary…I couldn’t help but wonder… 🙂
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> “Naturam expellas furca, tamen usque recurret.”
God damn, Kate just gave me a boner. Has that little faggot “fiancee” of hers put any buns in her oven yet? Or is he too busy chasing the choir boys?
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> “littespoon”
Where has FeminaziX been lately, anyway? Did that greasy little wife-cheating WOP put a bun in her oven?
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The first thing I ever remember reading ’bout Roosh is that he washes his hair with conditioner only.No shampoo. Conditioner. His latest post is interesting,he claims he cannot get laid in DC! The great Roosh? I’d like to see Krauser try his luck there.If HE cant sink a boner and has to run back to Ukraine to shoot a load well the average guy must really be suffering. Date Roosh? No.Try Tyler!
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He said two things of interest in his latest article.
1. He worries what women will think if they find his writings. So, he should realistically be working from a pool of women who are already familiar with them.
2. His family wants him to return to the area. So, he should have an online dating profile that lists him as in D.C., and he should search and screen women who are in a two hour radius of the city.
One of the main reasons relationships don’t work out is because people rush through them. Writing from a distance gives people the opportunity to take their time and build something lasting and substantial.
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You’re the one getting turned on by a Latin poet…
If you want something to celebrate, step over to the Spearhead and congratulate Bill Price.
ps: You passed the exit to Creepyville about fifty miles back. They were gonna make you mayor.
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My bad for white-knighting. You don’t deserve it.
Enjoy that limp old faggot cock which spends most of its time in little boys’ mouths.
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Attention Rollo: demonstration in progress. What you perceived in “The Proposal” as a woman’s nastiness was only because you identified with the lovesick man. From a woman’s point of view, the former guard insulted her man- the one SHE chose- and she was demonstrating loyalty to her husband as well as revulsion at the guard’s betrayal of his wife in confessing his feelings to her. If you identified with her husband, you’d praise her for resisting another man’s advances. Could she have done so in a less disgusting way than the writers chose for her? Absolutely. But, no self-respecting woman will ever be swayed from the man she loves by another man’s attack on him. It only makes the attacker look foolish.
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@zombie: “My bad for white-knighting. You don’t deserve it.”
Lol. What, did you expect her to bat her eyes and giggle at you for insulting her fiance?
You seem unusually interested in everyone else’s sex life. Creepville indeed.
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There are basically three types of women.
(1) The Matriarch.
(2) The Tomboy
(3) The Termagant.
Most women are by instinct “matriarchs”. A matriarch conforms outwardly to traditional gender roles. She is prepared to let her husband be head of the family,but she is the neck. She is the power behind the throne.
The ” Tomboy” is the woman who is not content with staying at home and ruling indirectly. This type of woman wants to be active in the world and to rule directly. E.g. Hillary Clinton,Sara Palin,and that FaceBook woman are prime examples of the “Tomboy.”
The last group the Termagant is thankfully the smallest group of the three groups. However the Termagant is a force to be reckoned with. The Termagant loathes men,maleness and masculinity with a raging all consuming passion! Her entire reason for living is to scold,sneer at and generally belittle men at every opportunity. Examples of Termagants would be Germaine Greer,Gloria Steinam and Andrea Dworkin.
Feminism has greatly increased the “Tomboy” and to a lesser extent the Termagant; while decreasing the only group that was prepared outwardly to show a certain faux respect towards men: the “Matriarchs.”
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Heh, heh… Elle Bee just named the YKW and doesn’t even know it.l
P.S. Hillary’s a termagant.
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[…] Source: Heartiste […]
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Feminism = Sisyphus
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Feminism = Sisyphusism
Devoted followers of Sisyphus?
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I wonder what happens when Ebola or SARS mutates into something that can transmit from cat to female humans….
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We have that already, although it’s not a virus. It’s called toxoplasmosis and is said to cause… wait for it …. depression!
Life is a bitch!
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Hjernevask (Brainwash) is a Norwegian popular science documentary series that aired on Norwegian television in 2010. The series was produced by Harald Eia and Ole Martin Ihle, and was completed in seven episodes consisting of interviews with Norwegian and foreign researchers who have different views on the nature versus nurture debate.
“What Eia had done, was to first interview the Norwegian social scientists on issues like sexual orientation, gender roles, violence, education and race, which are heavily politicized in the Norwegian science community. Then he translated the interviews into English and took them to well-known British and American scientists like Robert Plomin, Steven Pinker, Anne Campbell, Simon Baron-Cohen, Richard Lippa, David Buss, and others, and got their comments. To say that the American and British scientists were surprised by what they heard, is an understatement.”
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Worth watching.
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Thank you for this. I especially enjoyed watching the deer in headlights expressions of the so-called researchers asserting that genders’ preferences have no biological basis, and trying to refute the realists by calling their studies weak. They dipped low.
Definitely sharing these.
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Though the data set is absurdly small 670, the points still seem salient. And, anecdotally I’ve found that data to be pretty accurate.
But even the married high earning women are not terribly happy either. I just attended a work function a while back and one of the consultants was a hard charging career chick. Hubby was some military dude who took a 2nd rate IT job once discharged while she was earning mad stacks for her consulting gig.
I had heard through the grapevine she liked to party while on travel and that was confirmed. I had an early morning so had to jam but there is -no- doubt in my mind I could have fucked her that night. She couldn’t have telegraphed it any more unless she went down on me under the table, and others noticed it too.
I’m always thrown into a weird mental place when this happens, which it does with some frequency in the workplace. When you are surrounded by DC careerists and happen to be one of those knuckle dragging alphas the offers come with frequency.
So do you feel sorry for the poor bastard that let his chick off the leash (or likely was never on the leash to begin with), or do you just take what is being offered without hesitation?
As a younger guy option 2 was always the play, with age comes wisdom so I’m always more twisted about this dilemma than I ever was before.
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The “wisdom” being don’t shit where you eat. Makes no difference if she’ll slob your knob under the table. No piece of ass is worth your job.
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I think a wife making more than her husband is a really bad dynamic. I’d rather make less and be poorer overall than be the main breadwinner.
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Hah!
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This is Mrs. Mad Stacks office calling: She’d love to discuss the dynamics of breadwinning and beta husbandry – but she’d booked solid with bukake consultations and travel sex. There may be an opening between penicillin treatments in October. Would that work for you?
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My mother occasionally made more than my father(usually about the same), but he basically cashed in her paychecks anyway. lol. It never was a problem like this.
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Without hesitation!! Always.
Fucking go for it. These chicks are begging for it.
Post details for the neophytes.
When you’re old and decrepit, these memories will sustain you.
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> “some military dude… do you feel sorry for the poor bastard…”
If he’s a good guy, and if he laid his life on the line in defense of Western Civilization, then you owe it to him to give him a heads up, especially if there are children involved. Tell him that you can see a train wreck coming in his life and that he needs to up his Game – hell, if there are kids involved, then TEACH him how to up his Game – tell him that you want him to start hanging out at the Chateau. SRSLY – don’t destroy the life of a righteous dude.
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The only problem with morons that go shed blood for this communist-feminist dystopia called Western civilization is that they’re not all dead.
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The only problem with these men who defend the communist-feminist dystopia known as Western civilization is that they’re not all dead.
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LIFO’ed ||| tl;dr == if military dude is a righteous guy, then teach him about Game.
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Neither.
Husbands of sluts have no dignity – and deserve no pity. He knew what she was all about when he married her. Somewhere during post-coital pillow talk she’d have said “Oh, my husband knows I cheat …”. Which is OK for her – But there’s always a .45 caliber chance that excuse doesn’t extend to you.
Exercise option 2 and you’ll have yourself a stalker – news of which spreads like a prairie fire to every corner of the office. Now you’re getting winks from the fat girl in accounting, she’s blowing up your inter-office IM with invitations for quickies in the lactation room and Pfc. Beta just smashed your windshield. Which is inconvenient during your ride home to a nice plate of boiled bunny.
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This whole thing is why I don’t even talk to girls close to my own age. They’re either miserable career-driven feminist harpies, or they’re happily married. There is so little middle ground, it’s not even worth exploring it.
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Skip a cohort, save a civilization.
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> “Skip a cohort, save a civilization.”
There’s a lot of wisdom to be pondered in that retort. Also in what TRBDR said, as well. Dark Times call for Dark Measures.
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“The Bridewell Generation”
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really I don’t think any bitch is really truly happy unless they get to bask in my presence
he he he
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They take solace in the knowledge that they always have me to fall back on.
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hehehe….
http://news.msn.com/pop-culture/female-firefighter-is-first-to-muscle-into-fdny-beefcake-calendar-1
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I’ve long hoped to see a cigar-store Indian in my gay fireman porn calendar.
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I must say, I found this remark most droll… but when I actually clicked on the link and saw this (ahem) gal…
I hereby declare this thread over, for we truly have a WINNAH!!!
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Looks like the bitch who beat up Anthony Cumia,
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This is a masterpiece, sir. Thank you.
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Paraphrasing Pat Buchanan:
The poor FEMINISTS, they have declared war on nature, and now nature is extracting an awful retribution (childless overcredentialed loneliness).
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Beta male endgame…..
http://www.dallasnews.com/news/metro/20140711-in-dying-act-minister-hoped-to-inspire-social-justice.ece
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Seriously… wtf.
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Damn. That is an insane story.
“He expected that his self-immolation would make national news and hoped his message of social justice would be broadcast along with his funeral.
But his final act drew little notice.”
I’m not surprised. People are too preoccupied with dumb shit like social media and what the latest airhead celeb was wearing.
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I am for organizing mass suicide rallies if they really want to “support” the cause lool.
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So Archie of the comics will die catching a bullet for his gay BFF, says co-CEO Jon Goldwater.
Goldwater…there’s something about that name…Italian?
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Better to die catching something FOR the queer friend, rather than FROM him, n’est-ce pas?
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Took me a second to grasp that. Droll. (“N’est-ce pas?” Sorry I don’t speak Spanish.) I always had suspected that Jughead and Reggie were up to some kind of sexual hijinks. But the problem of white men shooting homosexuals is a horrible nationwide problem that people need to be educated about, I mean– it might happen one of these days. Archie getting his red head split open from the keen fist of a Nubian knockout nigga,now that would be an interesting story. Seeing all those thousands of Archie comics recalled would be amusing. Sort of like Dwight Howard and Rihanna,getting their cages shaken and having the fear of YKW out in ’em!
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Goldwater? Hey, tell that Kraut I don’t roll on shabbos.
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Did you hear that the YKWs at Marvel Comics are having Thor undergo a sex change operation? [Or was that some kind of April Fool’s Joke in July?]
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Thank one Jason Aaron and his enablers for this latest chutzpah… as if a Valkerie wasn’t good enough.
I don’t imagine we’ll be seeing Ruth and Esther transmuted into closet trannies.
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It’s no joke…and it is disgusting. Thor is a face of the Sacred Masculine, and this is the sort of thing “white” people, especially those with Viking ancestry, should be protesting or boycotting Marvel over. It is a kick in your nuts and you shouldn’t stand for it. Let’s see how they fare with no European or descendant buyers.
There are many very strong female Norse Goddesses they could have brought into the mythos. To go and change Thor into a female is to disrespect the Nordic ideals of the Sacred Feminine as well. There is just no excuse for this, whether or not it is fiction because people actually believed in these beings and drew on them for strength and inspiration. It’s just all kinds of wrong.
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God damn, Nicole the Negress has got more White Pride than 1000 assorted femcunt ostensibly-caucasian social “science” majors put together. Strange New Respect right thar.
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Of course there’s no excuse for it… and anyone who still denies there’s an agenda to it all, and THIS is why we “mentally ill paranoid antisemites” rail against YKW dominance of MSM.
The media is just about the worst enemy a man can have, because it’s a nameless and faceless enemy for the majority who don’t have the time to dig… and those that do can’t get the story out.
Props to Nicole… the importance of symbolism to a folk’s psyche can’t be understated, for in the end, it determines the vitality of their culture… indeed, their very survival.
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Feminism didn’t just sell men down the river. It also fucked over middle and lower class women.
I don’t known a single female whose happier being a wage slave then they are with a few kids, running chores, having coffee with other mums etc.
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Feminism was a boon to underclass and working class women. In the old days, they married boring men with blue collar jobs and had to stick by them for life. These days, they have sex with exciting alphas with criminal records and use welfare to raise the resulting bastard spawn.
Feminism helped the following demographics of women:
1. lower class and lower middle class
2. overweight
3. lesbian
4. high testosterone/ambitious/aggressive/lacking in motherly instincts
I have zero empathy for women in the first two categories. Lesbians cannot willingly change into straight women, and women who are hormonally different also cannot change their situation.
The actual demographics of women that feminism screws over:
1. in the top decile of attractiveness
2. high IQ, high social class, but low testosterone and low ambition
3. conservative
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obviously lesbians can be straight since almost every bitch does the lesbian experience now at least once the power of media to shape real life is huge
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Helped? Don’t know about that. Feminism is an organizing force used to control populations. I don’t see it as actually helping anyone. The old hag “alpha” woman man “feel” happier and justified, but she really isn’t
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Yeah, tell De Blasio’s wife that.
Female sexuality is about trading sex for provisioning, and lesbianism is the last stop on that route.
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Women who don’t follow the natural order of things are going against the current. As a result, it will take them a lot of effort to be happy. I completely agree with you. It was just a hunch and now it is backed with research. Now that is science #$$%!
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Study: The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness
“By many objective measures the lives of women in the United States have improved over the past 35 years, yet we show that measures of subjective well-being indicate that women’s happiness has declined both absolutely and relative to men. The paradox of women’s declining relative well-being is found across various datasets, measures of subjective well-being, and is pervasive across demographic groups and industrialized countries. Relative declines in female happiness have eroded a gender gap in happiness in which women in the 1970s typically reported higher subjective well-being than did men. These declines have continued and a new gender gap is emerging — one with higher subjective well-being for men.”
http://www.nber.org/papers/w14969
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This is why they try ever harder to make us miserable, by the way.
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“Jezebel writer @morninggloria sexually objectifies herself by showing boob at biz meeting”
She must have been nervous. She forgot to wear a bra, which is tough to pull off when you only close a single button of your blouse. Also, I don’t think she’s bad looking (which makes one wonder what psychic damage caused her to end up at Jizzabel). No wonder she gets that stare of death from Robin Korth starting at 1:00!
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So my approaches haven’t been going well. They’re generally short and this is similar to how my Night Game is.
This was probably the fourth approach of the day – Foreign chick:
Me: Hey, you’re beautiful.
HB: Thanks (smile).
Me: Let’s get married.
HB: My husband wouldn’t like that.
Me: Tell him I’m gay.
HB: lol
Me: Let’s have coffee.
HB: Hmm, he wouldn’t be happy about that.
Me: You’re not allowed to have friends?
HB: Nope.
Me: … hey so, hm, where are you going, stop for a sec.
HB: Do you not understand what I’m saying?
Me: Alright, bye.
Other approach:
Me: Hey, I thought you were cute, had to say hi.
HB: Thank you.
Me: You’re a model.
HB: No.
Me: An analyst.
HB: No.
Me: Doesn’t matter, let’s get coffee.
HB: I have to go, sorry.
These are really the worst ones. My biggest habits are cold reading straight through, not doing any storytelling, and having deep connections. I honestly think it might be my frame of mind. Other times I say things that are completely fine (hence the dates I’m going to mention – already went on one), but times like these I get flustered and blow myself out.
I’m going out 6 nights a week since last week and I anticipate it’ll stay that way.
I also have a couple of dates lined up. One Mexican girl I’m meeting Thursday, goes back to her country on Friday. Other girl is Russian, left the date early, going for a longer Day 3 (after an hour long Day 2).
These days, I’m committing more to game. I’m writing my interactions down and coming up with solutions to my weaknesses. Before I was super hyper, now I’m more normal during the day.
Night game, I’m still not doing a lot. I’m going into sets but not taking it anywhere. I think the last missions are the storytelling mission, the leading mission, and the vocal tonality mission.
Also, personal question for YaReally, do you think I’m going too slowly on these missions? I feel like I should be much further along by now, but then again, I haven’t been going out as much as I am now. I tend to neglect the missions because I often try to get laid, but somehow I eject or neglect making a move. It’s really discouraging.
Anyway, that’s how things are going as of late. I’ll be out approaching everyday for the rest of the week, and then again on Monday to start it all over again.
I want this handled.
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A little superficial comfort at first might be ok with a mild compliment or a cold read but you have to start testing them to see if they fit into your frame as you are the prize. It’s simple you are the alpha male if she is chasing you. You are the beta is you are chasing her. Google swinggcat and prizing and examine what CH writes about concerning being the prize and having the right kind of attitude.
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@no for sure, thanks for sharing the resources man
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Also for the opener body language is key. Don’t lean in, in fact maybe give the bitch your profile the first 10 seconds or so.
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Me: Hey, you seem interesting …
HB: Thanks (smile).
Me: I’d like to meet you.
HB: My husband wouldn’t like that.
Me: Tell him I’m your gay friend from the hair salon.
HB: lol
Me: Come sit where I can chat you up.
HB: Hmm, he wouldn’t be happy about that.
Me: You’re not allowed to have friends?
HB: Nope.
Me: (Pout) … Just benefits then. (Smirk)
HB: Do you not understand what I’m saying?
Me: It’s your sexy accent … Like I said, interesting.
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My husband wouldn’t like that….
Your husband is it. I just met you and you are telling me your problems already. *Backturn*
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Keep some hot lezbo porn on the hard drive–you’re gonna need it. Your girl was like that nigga Chris Tucker:”Do you understand the words coming out of my mouf??” Ouch, Poor boy.
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@Hunter
“Also, personal question for YaReally, do you think I’m going too slowly on these missions?”
No such thing. It ain’t a race against anyone but yourself.
“My biggest habits are cold reading straight through, not doing any storytelling, and having deep connections.”
You’re good at figuring out what your sticking points are. But that’s only half the battle, the other half is actually purposely attacking those sticking points.
If you look at your interactions and see that your sticking points are “I cold read straight through, with no storytelling or having a deep connection”, then do approaches where you limit yourself to one or two cold reads and have to fill in the rest of the pickup with storytelling and trying to build a deep connection. Sit down and come up with a story to practice telling and plan how how you’ll transition from the Open to the story and then how you’ll transition from the story into Rapport and then how you’ll transition from Rapport into a deep connection (what kind of questions can you ask her about herself that you’re actually curious about?).
The two approaches you wrote out here are basically throwing yourself at the wall in a hail-mary numbers-game. “Hey, you’re cute, go out with me” There’s no connection, no value being offered, nothing to make you more interesting/intriguing than the guy who shouts at them from a construction site or car as they drive by lol
Going out every day will help smooth out your social skills but you still need to have an active map to get to your goals. Only ways to do that are to 1) write FRs and analyze them, 2) write FRs and have other people analyze them, 3) actively try fixing any sticking points you notice, 4) merging that new fixed area of game into your normal game, and then 5) hitting the pavement consciously applying all of it.
I’d like to be able to go up to a girl and just go “hey, you’re cute, gimme your number.” And I can with certain girls. But that’s completely relying on “fool’s mate”. There’s no consistency with it and it’s just a numbers game. To get consistent results I have to actually apply a conscious strategy and adapt to what’s going on in the interaction and if I notice “okay the last 3 sets I haven’t made eye-contact at all and there’s no sexual vibe, fuck”, then on my 4th set I’ll tell myself “ok make eye-contact and build a sexual vibe” and consciously focus on doing that.
Throw up some more FRs, even if they’re not in massive detail, and look for consistent patterns. Drop the missions for now (you’ll come back to those missions for the rest of your life lol, I still do them now and then when there’s an area I need to work on) and try getting yourself an FR where you’re not cold reading straight-through and you’re telling a story and trying to build a connection.
Like the missions are great for ironing out sticking points and getting little overall improvements in specific areas, but you have to combine it all together into normal game at some point. The missions themselves aren’t going to get you laid.
Like how many sets have you legitimately tried applying “open, cold read, tease, screen/disqualify her, lead her a few steps away and turn her back to her friends, tell a story, build comfort/rapport, screen/disqualify yourself, set up a time bridge to a future event, grab her number but then make her qualify herself and insist that she’ll actually answer before you take it, etc.”? If you haven’t made it through most of those steps in a bunch of your interactions then you’re not going to get results. If you’ve made it through all those steps and still aren’t getting any success then post of FRs of interactions where you go through those steps and we can whittle them down to specific consistent sticking points to fix.
Otherwise you’re just beating your head against the wall 6 nights a week instead of 2. 😉
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Deep rapport question I like: If you could wake up anywhere in the world, where would you wake up?
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Thanks man, couldn’t do this without you, seriously 😀
I’ve decided to use the stripper story, still working on the transitioning (some parts embellished for effect).
The Stripper:
“Have you ever been in an awkward sexual situation before?
I was at this bar and it was just me and my friends. We were all hanging out on the dancefloor and in comes in these strippers. We end up dancing with them, but the stripper who’s into me is a tease (of course). So then I just dance with every other girl but her on the dancefloor. Old ladies, badly dressed girls, it doesn’t matter, cuz she thinks she’s hot shit. She tries to move back in to dance with me and then I pretend I’m going to dance with her… but instead turn her down to grind on these two old ladies. Her jaw drops in disbelief.
One thing leads to another and we’re headed back to her hotel. As we get in the cab she bursts into tears. Through sobs she starts saying all this shit “I hate my manager… he’s also my boyfriend! Wah!” And I’m just like, in this cab with this stripper, awkwardly patting her shoulder saying, “There, there…”
(Pause as if the story ends)
Her: And then?
Me: Her friends show up just as she’s about to use me as a revenge fuck Lesson learned. Never dance with strippers 🙂 What’s your story?”
How’s that?
I’ll keep posting FRs for sure. Also funnily enough, I’m on Day 12 of Style’s 30 Day Challenge and it’s storytelling. It’s pretty much a step-by-step guide.
Another thing that I’ve been thinking about…
I feel like somehow I’ve been getting worse. I do fine when I don’t think about “game” but when I do, everything gets fucked up. I did WAY better when I just LET GO, but it’s so inconsistent.
I guess this is the key to getting consistency.
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Post above is for @YaReally
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@YaReally
“The two approaches you wrote out here are basically throwing yourself at the wall in a hail-mary numbers-game. “Hey, you’re cute, go out with me” There’s no connection, no value being offered, nothing to make you more interesting/intriguing than the guy who shouts at them from a construction site or car as they drive by lol”
I suppose I knew that subconsciously, but even then girls would respond well… but my rate of getting a second meet has only been like 1 (with two unconfirmed ones for next week) out of the 10+ approaches I do everyday. I also thought that these problems would fix themselves eventually. Like, I’ll just “pick up on it.”
“Like how many sets have you legitimately tried applying “open, cold read, tease, screen/disqualify her, lead her a few steps away and turn her back to her friends, tell a story, build comfort/rapport, screen/disqualify yourself, set up a time bridge to a future event, grab her number but then make her qualify herself and insist that she’ll actually answer before you take it, etc.”? If you haven’t made it through most of those steps in a bunch of your interactions then you’re not going to get results.”
I don’t think I’ve ever done this more than a handful of times the entire year of doing this. Need to get my shit together. My storytelling skills need work, and I’m hesitant to try it, but at least I’d be moving in the right direction rather than this endless limbo of short interactions and superficial attraction.
“plan how how you’ll transition from the Open to the story and then how you’ll transition from the story into Rapport and then how you’ll transition from Rapport into a deep connection (what kind of questions can you ask her about herself that you’re actually curious about?).”
Me: Hey, I have to go in a sec, but I noticed you walking pretty fast. Was there a fight over there?
Her: *Response*
Me: You definitely bartend. You look like you put up with a lot of hectic environments. (Start of transition)
Her: *Response*
Me: Whenever I go out I always get into these awkward situations… do you go out a lot?
(I think this needs work…)
Her: *Response*
Me: Well, it was nice meeting you… I’m kidding 🙂 I’ve been there. OR Yeah, you should go out, you’ll get crazy things happening to you.
(insert story here)
– My guess is she’ll share a similar situation and then I’ll reward her and do one more cold read (you’re from LA aren’t you?) –
She asks why, I say the way you walk (or some arbitrary reason, fashion sense, etc.)
Deep rapport questions:
“If you could wake up anywhere in the world, where would you wake up?” -credit to no
“Do you think people see you as you see yourself?”
“If you could be anything you want with no limits on experience, what would you be?”
“How was it like growing up at your house?”
That’s all. I can jot down more as they come up.
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@Hunter
“I also thought that these problems would fix themselves eventually. Like, I’ll just “pick up on it.””
Negative. 🙂 This is the equivalent of “I figured if I just kept pressing things in a car, I would pick up on how to drive and figure out the rules of the road”. Like theoretically it can work but that’s a hell of a long learning curve full of way more traffic accidents than you need to make when you can read a manual and study and practice your parallel parking in empty parking lots etc. to learn.
“I don’t think I’ve ever done this more than a handful of times the entire year of doing this. Need to get my shit together.”
This has really been the consistent pattern with you since the start, which is why I have trouble helping you (compared to, say, Reco or Scray). Like from Day 1 your pattern has been “I know what I need to do, but then I go out and don’t DO it” lol Or like “I know what I need to practice or make sure I do better on, but then I don’t practice that and don’t get better at it, how do I fix this?” And it’s like man, there isn’t even really anything I can ADD…you’re a smart dude, you’re good at analysing your shit and figuring out where you went wrong or being aware of it in the moment, but the solution to your head hurting when you bang it against the wall is to quit banging it against the wall. I can’t make you do that, that’s on you lol
Thing is, we all DO this. I’ve been working on my sexual eye-contact hardcore for the past few months and I’ll go out with the full intention of focusing on my eye-contact, but then I’ll get into a bunch of sets and then come out of them and at the end of the night be like “ahh fuck, I completely forgot to try that eye-contact shit I wanted to try…I was lookin all over the damn room, fuck!!” Like I KNOW what I need to do, and what my intention was, but I just forgot to do it. No one can really help me with that (except for a wingman who I specifically tell to watch me and walk by and kick me if I’m not making good eye-contact with a girl), but otherwise the only solution is for me to remember in-set “okay make intense sexual eye-contact”. Hell, I even changed my phone wallpaper to be a picture of eyes so that when I glance at my phone I remember “oh ya, eye-contact!” but often when I’m holding a set I don’t even look at my phone so that’s no good lol
So like, don’t beat yourself up about it…but when I go out tonight I’ll be telling myself in the shower “make sexual eye-contact” and I’ll be locking eyes with myself in the mirror and I’ll be watching some YouTube vids with rock solid eye-contact and basically try to flood my brain with enough of that thing so that when I’m actually in-field my brain goes “hey remember all that eye-contact stuff we were obsessing with before we came out? Let’s do that now with this girl!”. And it might take me months and months of forgetting and fucking it up until I finally make it enough of a habit that I’m remembering to consciously do it in every single set. And then it’ll still probably be another few months of THAT before I’m doing it instinctively on auto-pilot like a bunch of the other techniques/skills I’ve worked on in a similar fashion.
Thing is, when I started working on my eye-contact, or talking from my diaphragm to be louder or adding kino to sets or steering the conversation toward sexual topics or leading around the venue etc., like every time I decide “ok I’m going to develop this technique/skill”, I’m going in KNOWING that it’s going to probably take me anywhere from 6 months to a year to really handle it. Like that’s the timeframe in my mind is “I’m going to probably fuck this up and not even remember to do it for the first 3 months, then I’m going to probably do it sporadically for another 3 months, then I’m going to get a solid handle on it finally and for the next 6 months I’ll be more consistent with it, and probably after a year I’ll have this down instinctually as just a part of me (faked it till I made it type deal).”
So I’m not really frustrated or disappointed in myself when I’m not seeing progress, because most of the time it’s my own fault and I’m already going in with a really extended timeframe for success so I fully expect to still suck at it after 3 months, you know? Like ya, of course I still suck at it, it’s only been 3 months, that’s what I expect to happen…BUT I’m working on it, and over time I’ll suck less and less at it…and over time I’ll actually get better at it until I’m good at it and then eventually I’ll be REALLY good at it and a couple years from now I’ll have it mastered.
“My storytelling skills need work, and I’m hesitant to try it”
Can’t learn to drive if you don’t sit down behind the wheel. 🙂
“but at least I’d be moving in the right direction”
This is really all you can do, is head in the right direction. That’s why we have missions and goals and step by step techniques and such, is so guys can have a guide/path to follow that isn’t necessarily going to get them instant results, or maybe it won’t even get them results for 5 YEARS…but it’s going to put them on the right path moving in the right direction instead of aimlessly floundering or heading in the wrong direction.
“rather than this endless limbo of short interactions and superficial attraction.”
Check the latests CH article for my comment where I’m going to link some RSDTodd videos. I was watching them today and he has some rock solid shit on getting to and hitting the Hook Point which is something that would probably help you out. He breaks it down nicely into something you should be able to consciously try to apply.
“That’s all. I can jot down more as they come up.”
You’re on the right track. Things probably won’t go exactly as you’re planning out, but that’s okay because you at least have SOME kind of direction/structure to try to follow and over time you’ll be able to adapt and improvise to going off the plan and get back onto the plan smoothly. But the key is coming up with a plan/structure to even attempt, just to give yourself some goals and direction in set.
For your stripper story, off the top of my head I would tell it like:
“Are you girls crazy? (response) Well you LOOK nice but I’ve had a bad run of meeting crazy chicks so I don’t know. Like a few weeks ago my friends and I were at the bar and we were dancing with some girls. This one girl was super cute and she seemed into me, so I’m like hey this is great, totally gonna’ get laid tonight. Sounds all good, right?
So as the night goes on, I’m dancing with everyone because I’m just fucking around…like I’m dancing with little old ladies and trying to drag shy girls onto the dance floor and dragging guys over to girls to make them ask them to dance etc. I’m kind of retarded when I’m drinking lol but everyone’s having fun.
Then I look over and the girl that was into me is staring daggers at me. I’m like woah wtf, so I go over to her and I’m all “hey you” and she goes “DON’T EVEN TALK TO ME.” and gives me the bitch-face lol I’m like wtf what’s wrong? and she goes “If you aren’t going to pay attention to me then don’t even bother!” and I’ve got wtf stamped on my face and then suddenly she starts CRYING, like in the middle of the bar. Everyone’s looking at us and I’m like wtf do I do??
She RUNS out of the bar crying and her friend chases her and my buddy comes over and is like “dude what did you say to her??” and I’m like “I HAVE NO IDEA!!” (here they’ll probably try to tell you stuff like “oh she probably dated a player before and seeing you dance with other girls made her bla bla”)
The funniest part is that since the whole bar saw it, afterward a couple of the girls I danced with came up and were like “oh we’re so sorry, are you okay?” and I’m like “ya what? why?” and they go “well you and your girlfriend just broke up didn’t you?” lol”
…shit maybe I’ll use this one tonight lol
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The good thing you’re doing is keeping your interactions short. However, you’re still kind of stuck in POO-AH mode.
‘Me: Hey, you’re beautiful.’
Nothing wrong with direct, but this is like….jarring. If you’re going to do this, at least make it into a story — hey, excuse me, I have to go in a second, but I knew I’d be kicking myself all day if I didn’t come over here and tell you that you’re a real beautiful girl.
See, here….you let her know that you’re cognizant of social norms (lol) and that you were just caught up in this sudden feeling. Comes off way better. However, I’d just as soon say drop it altogether at first. Honestly, give ‘hi, how are you?’ a shot.
‘Me: Let’s get married.’
No. Esp if this is during the day. Imagine you were a cool, trickster guy — remember the archetypes we were talking about? Would that guy say something like this? Nah, probably not. Roll back the throttle — RELAX…TAKE THE PRESSURE OFF OF YOURSELF TO GET A REACTION.
Better: So…I’m sure there’s more to you than just your looks (if you went direct) — I mean I wouldn’t mind if there wasn’t — but are you from around here?
Better: Yeah, I noticed you were looking at/doing X (if you went indirect), and I just thought of [make some shit up/or truly relate it to your life]
‘Me: Tell him I’m gay.’
Nooooooooooooooooooooooooo. You need to get more meta with this ‘game’ stuff. Like, these are all lines that work awesome in a certain context (mainly when you have value — or at least her attention).
I mean, and we see how the rest of this interaction goes. My recommendation is to just take the pressure off of yourself — honestly. If you honestly want to go in with the blitzkrieg of jokes, then start with just abstract jokes (not You and I sexy jokes…i.e. tell him i’m gay, etc.). Instead, just make crass, dirty jokes from the get-go.
“You’re drinking orange soda, huh? It’s weird but I can’t drink orange soda now….this one girl I dated would only drink orange soda after she blew me. So she goes out of town for a week and we meet up to resume what I think is our torrid love affair —- this bitch has the audacity to show up drinking an orange soda. Like I don’t know what that means. Needless to say, we’re through. Orange soda is nothing but blow jobs and lies to me now.”
If she bites, then slowly make the jokes about you and her. But that’s if you’re going for happy fun guy time.
Honestly, just focus on talking to people. No pressure. Focus on having fun.
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@Scray
What’s POO-AH Mode?
“Nothing wrong with direct, but this is like….jarring. If you’re going to do this, at least make it into a story — hey, excuse me, I have to go in a second, but I knew I’d be kicking myself all day if I didn’t come over here and tell you that you’re a real beautiful girl.”
Yeah, I said that mostly to make them laugh… roleplaying, sort of.
“See, here….you let her know that you’re cognizant of social norms (lol)”
This might be part of the problem. I don’t really have a social circle.
and that you were just caught up in this sudden feeling. Comes off way better. However, I’d just as soon say drop it altogether at first. Honestly, give ‘hi, how are you?’ a shot.”
I’ll honestly give it a shot dude, tomorrow. I’ll post an FR.
“‘Me: Let’s get married.’
No. Esp if this is during the day. Imagine you were a cool, trickster guy — remember the archetypes we were talking about? Would that guy say something like this? Nah, probably not. Roll back the throttle — RELAX…TAKE THE PRESSURE OFF OF YOURSELF TO GET A REACTION.”
Lol it’s finished. I remember, I just feel like, I, dunno, would be hiding my intentions if I go that route. But yeah, I’ll give it a shot tomorrow. More cool, less direct, but proactive.
I really do need to relax. I’m about to meditate after this.
“Better: So…I’m sure there’s more to you than just your looks (if you went direct) — I mean I wouldn’t mind if there wasn’t — but are you from around here?
Better: Yeah, I noticed you were looking at/doing X (if you went indirect), and I just thought of [make some shit up/or truly relate it to your life]”
Good shit, I’m gonna go in WAY casual.
“Honestly, just focus on talking to people. No pressure. Focus on having fun.”
My energy has improved significantly since going out. And these tips are only going to reinforce it. Thanks bro man, your help really means a lot.
And I’ll put it into action!
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@Scray left a reply for ya, thanks man.
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@YaReally, Immoral and anyone else interested in commenting. Here is an update on a 26 year old actress I’ve been gaming for a year. She has a bf but has been giving me IOI’s. I’ve never physically escalated but when we dance and chat I do eye-fuck her, spike attraction and build rapport. She’s now in another city where I went on a business trip and we met up for dinner.
She was a lot of fun to be with. We went out for a dinner. At venue one I leaned back, teased, negged and then built rapport.
In the second venue, we went for a drink. She kept referring to margaritas as “gay”—kind of teasing me which I reframed by telling her that when she had a proper one, she’d know the difference.
I ran typical game on her: rapport, comfort: The Cube—which she revealed her ideal man is “shiny” and strong–a real man.
Then she mentioned her bf. She said he’s “too perfect” and “takes care of her” and suggested that it may be time she broke away from her roots and branched out on her own. We then played the questions game—as per Krauser.
She was the one who initiated the sex-related questions asking: “What do you consider sexy that other people might think was dumb?” Interesting question.
I said I love dressing up and going for cocktails…some people might think that’s dumb. The idea was high-value and not giving a fuck.
She did ask more questions related to relationships. We then took another walk and played “Marry Fuck Kill”—she also loved this.
The one thing was I didn’t kino enough. I got the idea she was not comfortable with it. When she brought up the bf…I listened, then ran bf destroyer game positioning the “horse” in the cube as a “real man”—more like me than her bf.
We left, I gave her the double cheek kiss. An escalation didn’t seem warranted. We arranged to meet up the next day. The next day she texted early to say she had a previous appointment and couldnt’ make it.
Not sure what to make of this. If this was “Friendzoned” she was really getting into the questions about sex and marry fuck kill.
I found her open but guarded, like she was feeling guilty about hanging out and having such a blast with me.
We did play another talking game where we would give each other a scenario and the other would have to respond appropriately using the word: “Plum”. It’s an improvisational game: “Imaging your cupid and you’ve just realized you have no more arrows” ….”Plum”—with the right inflective.
You guys should try this game, it’s a great rapport builder and you can create any scenario you want—sexual or otherwise.
When she texted to say she had to meet with a friend to attend a play, I replied with “plum”. she replied “plum”.
All the pieces were there…somehow I just didn’t get the IOI’s for a k-close.
Am I friendzoned? I wouldn’t ask if I didn’t genuinely believe I was getting IOI’s but not strong enough for an escalation.
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From what I’ve seen she dropped a big IOI with mentioning breaking away from her roots. I took it as her saying “I want different, I want surprise.” Kino might have been appropriate here, combined with a push/pull. A pause, lean in as if for a kiss, another pause, then tuck hair behind an ear. Something like that. You did go different, but I don’t think you went far enough. At the end of the evening the double cheek kiss killed your chances. I would have faked going in for the kiss and pulled away without another word. With her being used to attention because of her job being ambivilant about her presence might have gotten farther with her.
I stay away from games like Marry/Fuck/Kill. It seems good at first, but you end up giving too much with your answers. It goes along with not discussing long term plans and giving her a chance to see how she fits into them.
This seemed like a situation that had you at a disadvantage from the outset. You gamed her for a year and she flaked on the second meeting. If you want to reattempt my advice is to go silent until she gets back to you or three months have passed. In any case give her no more of your undivided attention and tend to your other plates.
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@SatyrWolf Thanks. I sent her a ping text. She replied in two seconds: “When did you leave? Can we meet again?”
I replied: Back xxx to xxx
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I don’t know why the canned routines never work for me. The only routine that ever worked was the Love Test CH has way back in his archives. Maybe my style is just too fluid or something.
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@ walawala:
1. In LA, it seems many men agree that actresses are usually self-absorbed flakes, gluttons for attention, have Daddy issues, but can be lots of fun, if you can honestly sustain an attitude of shrugging & smirking (abundance mentality); being a man with so many options, a man who doesn’t tolerate bad behavior from her (not getting mad at her, more like “Really? Ick. Bye.”).
2. Pretty, charming actresses get tons of male attention/worship, so probably your only chance with her is to get her to see you as the rare exceptional man who will never want anything more from her than just ‘fun in the moment’.
And you’re busy having lots of ‘fun in the moment’ with many women…
An illustration of this type might be Pierce Brosnan in The Thomas Crown Affair or in After the Sunset.
3. I don’t think she friendzoned you. I think you’re right about her wanting you but feeling guilty and undecided about maybe cheating on her bf or dumping him. It sounds like she’ll dump him (bored) sooner or later.
4. If you can sustain the attitude/stance I described, then you can just go on enjoying more fun with her like what you had that night — as long as she sees you as a man who’s fucking other women on the regular; a man who is not counting the days until you finally get to fuck her — until eventually she is READY and wants you NOW. Then she creates the opportunity and makes it obvious to you (maybe even jumps you).
I hope this is helpful. Sounds like you’re doing well with her.
Thanks for the tips on fun word games to play on a date. Good luck!
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@lazy guy I think this is the assessment. “Guilt” was the driving idea. Also because we know each other, there is a sort of “should we?” idea. She knows the girls I used to go out with including crazy ex—though she hasn’t mentioned them.
I’ll see how this goes longer term. But I won’t see her for at least 2 weeks unless she’s free next time in through that city. Then we’re both traveling.
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@ walawala: I wrote you a long reply; it’s stuck in moderation for now.
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@wala
“Then she mentioned her bf. She said he’s “too perfect” and “takes care of her” and suggested that it may be time she broke away from her roots and branched out on her own. We then played the questions game—as per Krauser.
She was the one who initiated the sex-related questions…”
this was her telling you to start escalation which you should have done…lol…she just didn’t want to have to make the first move. She wanted it to ‘just happen’ so your escalation should have started very slowly (with just physical space violations and eye contact, not necessarily actual touching to start…and not just ‘eye fucking’ either…lol)
“She did ask more questions related to relationships. ”
she’s torn between wanting to grab that next branch and just being used by an alpha stud…it makes her nervous…which was good bc she probably hasn’t done that before…lol…which is bad, too, bc she probably won’t be doing that again…lol…
“The one thing was I didn’t kino enough. I got the idea she was not comfortable with it. ”
true…did she tell you ‘no, don’t touch me’?… that lack of comfort was probably more about her wanting it to ‘just happen’ as opposed to her not wanting to do it at all…she told you about her bf, so it wouldn’t be her fault if you arranged logistics so you two had sex…lol…(that’s classic hamster…lol) if she was throwing IOIs at you and you didn’t escalate, at some point she would get to the decision point of ‘it’s not going to ‘just happen’ so we can do it without it being my ‘fault’ so i’ll just shut down physically’…that point probably happened pretty early in the exchange (best guess is before the relationship questioning…)
“I found her open but guarded, like she was feeling guilty about hanging out and having such a blast with me.”
see above…lol…
“The next day she texted early to say she had a previous appointment and couldnt’ make it.”
her window of ‘just happen’ opportunity closed…now she is looking at ASD if she sees you again…
just a question on your intent…what did you want with this girl? gf/ons/snl/fb?…i know you ‘long game’ your social circle, so that might have some influence on this exchange but did you have a clear goal for this date?…
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@habd thanks. I know when I can escalate. I felt like she enjoyed spending time and she was also up for initiating the talk about sex, sexy and my ideas of girls. She kept pointing to girls in our “Marry Fuck Kill” and didn’t flinch when I said “Fuck”.
But something was off. I’m not sure it was my game….or her giving off mixed IOI’s.
My intent? I think this is a girl who would be cool to hang out with, not a “pump and dump”, decent girl, fun, nice, social, intelligent and hot.
I will have other chances to meet up. I know from her instant text reply she’s keen.
Normally I’m 100% certain if it’s on or off. Here there is a grey area.
I didn’t feel like I was LJBF’d….because of all the sex talk. But…it may be my fear of escalation.
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My long reply is stuck in moderation, which is funny because I used no racial slurs or political soapboxing. Maybe that was the problem.
Anyhoo, Even if it doesn’t post, Bad Day pretty much summed it up. She wanted to branch out, meaning different. you just were not different enough
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@wala
you need to decide your intent bc your approach needs to get cleaned up…right now you seem kind of all over the place with your goal…and your approach shows it…lol…your options are ‘friend’ (no sex, but you can use her for social proof…lol)/ons/fb/fwb/gf…that’s about it…lol
it sounds like you want a fwb situ (add her to a soft harem?), but that conflicts with her having a bf (bc you see her life as being ‘less’ if she doesn’t have this bf for provisioning v. just your sexy time w/o any provisioning from you)…and you’re stuck in the feminine imperative with the related ‘shaming’ thoughts (…Rational Male for more…)…fear of escalation is usually a beta trait bc the alpha would come in and try to kill you for having sex with the girl…lol…it’s wired in…lol…
why is kissing her bad for you if it gets out to her friends? i know you have social circle issues, but mostly if you own your desires, you can just wave off the ‘shaming’ (which is what that voice in your head is telling you is going to happen…) do you have reservations regarding ‘cheating’ with her?…being perceived as a ‘real dick’ is also ‘social proof’…lol…so it would up your alpha score…lol…but if she doesn’t tell anyone…and you don’t tell anyone…how will they find out?…but some guys don’t cheat with girls…but he’s just her bf, not her husband so the commitment level is pretty low…lol…(not that i’m encouraging anything except your male self-development…lol…)
if you want it to happen, you need to arrange logistics so it can ‘just happen’…lol…you’re never going to get her to ask you for it…lol…you’ll have to do the thinking for both of you…lol…
good luck!
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Do you know any games like the Cube but that are shorter? I found doing the Cube with people fun, but it does take some time so it doesn’t work if you or the girl is on the go.
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I think you’re reading her accurately and that she’s guilty about enjoying her time with you despite having a boyfriend. I think her guilt, which took control after the good feelings went away, prevented her from meeting you again. You should have either tried to escalate then despite not getting IOIs(which would have allowed her to project her guilt onto you – you know, you the evil seducer and her being the innocent, almost virginal, lady lol).
From her description of her boyfriend, you seem to be more alpha than him so she is most likely more attracted to you than to him, which makes her feel like a slut.
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@Pijama For The Cube to be interesting, you have to establish some attraction and want to build rapport. Without some rapport, The Cube is “boring”…also you have to know the routine, the colours, the various symbols or be able to improvise.
I usually set it up by building rapport and then saying “If you could have a superpower what would it be?” she answers, asks you…you say “Read minds..in fact I can…” blah blah blah…Wanna try?
If you want something easier….less kind of packaged, try Krauser’s “Questions Game.” I did this with this girl too. She loved it.
You start by asking a question, then invite her, then you….anything…gradually escalate.
She was the one who started asking me: “What do you think is sexy that other people might think is dumb?” That was my cue to sexualize it: “Besides your lips,…what part of your body do you most like kissed?”
her: My back.
I think no guy had EVER asked these questions and she’s never had this conversation. She loved it. But the flake to do some gay shit with her colleagues could easily have been blown off….so yah, there was something going on—guilt.
I didn’t escalate because I didn’t get the clear invite…or perhaps I was hesitant because the bf thing could easily be positioned to her friends as a way of covering up her guilt. “He tried to kiss me…”
in this kind of feminist-centric world a girl telling her friends this when they know she has a bf makes me seem like a real dick.
So I held back. I figured if this is what I think it is….when I see her next she’ll be even more keen.
I’m gaming different girls using different ideas and themes.
Single, open girls are the easiest. These other girls have too many complications. Still worth pursuing but not as a priority.
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@walawala, I know that you can’t just say hi and do the cube(lol). I used to do it a lot when I read Strauss’ book when I was in my freshman year of university and it was pretty neat.
I’m waiting for Krauser’s book to be shipped. I hate international shipping with a passion because of how long they take and I didn’t feel like paying $30 for faster shipping. 😛
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I meet a lot of very elderly ladies in my work (80’s, 90’s). All have been married, now widowed, have kids grand kids etcetera. They are all as happy as they could realistically be expected to be now their husbands have died. None of them would have gained anything from Feminist ideas, they obviously weren’t “oppressed” by their husbands, who were just normal working men. They would laugh at the idea of “oppression”.
I doubt that any average human being can realistically wish to have a better life than they have enjoyed.
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> “kids grand kids etcetera… happy as they could realistically be expected to be…”
THIS TIMES POSITIVE INFINITY!
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Love the “Cool Hand Luke” reference.
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What is the male sex role according to CH? Is it going to a soulless office 12 hours a day five days a week for 50+ years? I saw what that did to my father and vowed that I’d never live as a corporate drone!
I’ve completely rejected gender roles. The society that fostered and strongly encouraged those roles no longer exists and we can no more go back to those times,thanks to feminism,than we could go back to the Middle Ages.
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Back in the Middle Ages, men used to work 12 hours a day, six and seven days a week, just to feed the mouths of their families and their lords… and then kick off after about 30 years of that sort of labor.
What was your point again?
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Back in the Middle Ages, men used to work 12 hours a day, six and seven days a week, just to feed the mouths of their families and their lords… and then kick off after about 30 years of that sort of labor.
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its still like that if you’re mexican
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Awfully white of you to show such concern for our South-O’-The-Border brethren.
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I gotta agree with her about the “soulless” part. NO TRUE ALPHA WORKS AS A WAGE SLAVE!!!!! Get busy starting your own S-Corp/LLC/C-Corp, or get busy dying.
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Being alpha is bullshit and overated . Its all about sigmas and to a lesser degree gammas(Hitler was allegedly a gamma) Sigmas undermine the system and don’t give a fuck what society women or alphas do.
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> “alpha… sigmas… gammas…”
We don’t have that level of granularity here at The Chateau. Our alphabet only goes to two letters – Alpha [leader/winner] and Beta [follower/loser]. DO NOT BE A WAGE SLAVE!!!!! BE YOUR OWN MAN!!!!!
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The irony is, your father was probably only too happy to make the sacrifices he made for his family, and at the end all you can do is kvetch.
So what’s your solution? More women in the workplace to become likewise drones, and totally unhappy households, the fewer of which have children in them because BOTH parents are in the rat race?
Geez, you girls are dumb.
(((shakin’ mah haid)))
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.and driving salaries down so men have to work even harder and plutocrats can rake even more profits?!??
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A fair point to mention, ‘though by now I assume it goes without saying.
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Yeah the West is oh so lucky that that society doesn’t exist anymore!
And that’s precisely why it’s going down. Declining birth rates, rise of clinical depression single mothers. What a wonderful world without this stupid biology.
I wonder why women like you even bother to invade such a blog to spread their nonsense.
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Ach my little YKW, when you plop down the bacon and yer kiddos are gulping it up, and you don’t stress over the end of the month.
And yer beloved give ye a nice satisfying after the kiddos have fallen asleep. 12 hours ain’t bad.
Greg, I think it was slightly better than that. For peasant work spurts of heavy work naturally alternate with slowdowns.
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Yes, that’s true… I admit to a bit of hyperbole.
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yea the peasants had more time to fuck and enjoy than present day folk I would think and know
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Gregi is right; back when religion was taken seriously, there were *many* more feast days and other designated days of rest than there are now, and in a time before electricity, it wasn’t possible to work outdoors late into the evening, particularly in winter. Some of the tales of the hard lives of our predecessors were exaggerated so that 19th-century factory workers would keep a stiff upper lip about how they were being exploited.
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Some of the tales of the hard lives of our predecessors were exaggerated so that 19th-century factory workers would keep a stiff upper lip about how they were being exploited.
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I think we have a winner
and then the farm movies of my youth where they show the farmers lives as being so tough and they always are owned by the bank
well shit don’t take out a loan lol
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Soft 10 Karen Gillan just dropped two full points on the bang-o-meter by cutting her hair. Great skin, smile, fantastic legs all still in situ, yet one trip to the homo hairtender later and she’s down to at best an 8 for the foreseeable. Not much the grannies can do about the march of Father Time over their wrinkly faces (though staying healthy, eating well, avoiding the carousel and the booze does help). What gets me is when hot young thangs like Karen cut their hair, get piercings and tats, slob out and grow bellies. FFS, why sabotage yourself like that?
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2694019/Karen-Gillan-looks-eerily-similar-Sharon-Stone-Basic-Instinct-speaks-panel-upcoming-TV-show.html
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Meanwhile Instagram goes guntbutler for a particularly munty landwhale. http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/gadgets-and-tech/instagram-faces-claims-of-size-discrimination-after-suspending-account-of-us-teenager-who-didnt-fit-their-idea-of-normal-9608839.html
Civilisation, as Bill the Butcher predicted, is crumbling…
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And anudder thing (on a roll today): chicks not depillating is now a ‘You Go, Girl’ craze. Basic grooming laziness facilitated by groupthink circlejerk hamsterisation. Warning, eyebleach required. And yes, these are apparently not a dude’s legs: http://hairylegsclub.tumblr.com/post/82402855989/these-are-my-hairy-legs-been-around-for-a-good
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> “Soft 10 Karen Gillan”
Huh? Did you mean to type “Soft 5”? Maybe a 7 in heavy makeup with photoshopping.
https://www.google.com/search?safe=off&tbm=isch&q=Karen+Gillan
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Well, let’s throw this one over to the audience. I reckon if Celtic redheads are your thing, she was as close as it gets about two years ago. Only a blind man would rate her below an 8, even when she had to shave her head for a role. But hey, chacun a son gout, as they say.
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Checking Google Images, I’d say a 7, maybe an 8, maybe, and I love redheads.
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I am fond of Kelly MacDonald, but she’s more auburn/brunette than redhead, and the big nose and slight manjaw drop her down a little for me. But that’s being picky, I admit.
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Tilda Swinton? WTF? She’s practically a dude!
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My redheads must have high cheekbones and alabaster white skin. Then the deep sultry voice is just icing on the cake.
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$150-4200k salary? That’s about what most cops and school administrators make around here. And they’re all fully indoctrinated and PC-checked.
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Funny. I just saw a profile on another online dating site. 18 perfect 10 she wants a man ages 30 to 50.
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Let me define my idea of a 9 (there is no ’10’ on my scale): extraordinary body — that means tall and thin with a pert butt and mid-sized breasts; long, lustrous hair; regular symmetrical face with pronounced neotenous features; straight teeth and a good bite; striking hair/eye/skin coloration.
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…please go away..and play with your toys…
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You don’t get it. Almost no women are really ‘9’ on scale of 1 to 10, and if you think different you’re not seeing modern women as they really are… you’re pedestalizing.
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it’s relative value…nobody is perfect…
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no…..relative value is a chick thing. ultimate value for guys.
sorry 😦
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ok on a scale from 1 to 9 she’s a 8.99999373889999
I knew somebody stupid might say yeah but beauty is objective. Yeah I know that, but no female has perfect beauty so it’s still a relative scale.
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I think confusion arises because some people interpret 10 as ‘perfect 10’ (and there’s no such thing as perfection), whereas others interpret 10 as the top decile of the market.
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Any time I look at 9 or above I become too subjectivist, stalling my contemplative abilities in regard to idealism..So in my case I can never be sure.
We are still talking about chicks, right?
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I don’t do the “asymptotic 10” like Brian does; if a girl is above 9.5 she can be rounded up to a 10.
Now, as for a 10.0 — yeah, that probably doesn’t exist in nature.
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If she is asymptomatic , even better.
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I don’t see why women should be graded on a curve though.
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Women _should_ be graded on a curve, a bell curve. That’s because a 9 isn’t 20% more attractive than an 7. She’s 10x more attractive: She is 10x more indimidating. And, as a result, she’s approached 1/10th as often.
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Exactly Sexual Market Value of 10 out of 10. Not a difficult concept.
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In reality I think it’s a 19 point scale for example 8 8.5 9 9.5 10
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Oh for crap’s sake why is the scale 1-10?
Who would bone less than a 5 or even admit it?
The scale should be 1-5.
2.5 is the cutoff.
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Sometimes it can be useful to describe the left side of the bell curve. If you want to call a fat fug a -3 on your scale, then by all means do so, but other men might think you’re exaggerating when you describe her.
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Because we have 10 fingers and not 7 or 43. In reality, though, the female scale is binary, not decimal. You either would or you wouldn’t.
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http://themattwalshblog.com/2014/02/22/your-husband-doesnt-have-to-earn-your-respect/
More and more articles of this nature are appearing.
Memes are ‘going there.’
http://9gag.com/gag/a44DNVZ?ref=fb.s
We’re all gonna make it, brahs.
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Ha, here’s an article tailor-made for this thread:
http://www.returnofkings.com/16258/debating-the-mighty-1-to-10-scale
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(I meant for the thread just above this one)
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wait no post is the chatteu going where I am going tomorrow
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I forget the exact quote but GK Chesterton said something like feminism liberated women from husbands who cared about them so they could be beholden to corporations that didn’t.
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BTW and I forgot to mention this in my other comment -superb- Cool Hand Luke play on words / reference in this post.
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And the reason my show is sucessful is because I mostly interview and promote Sigmas.
http://robertlindsay.wordpress.com/2014/03/04/the-sigma-male/
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Is this a shit test?
Back story – I’m 21, girl 20. HB8. Very chased, went to school with her admitted month ago she had massive crush on me all through school, stop talking for bit. Saturday night saw her, she was hugging me and shit and said to text her that night. I fucked up here cause I drunkingly did what she said.
Text convo went as follows –
Me: I’m leaving. COme with.
Her: I’m home. Already left
Me: lol
Her: why is that lol haha
Me: you are there then gone. Ninja
No reply about 3am Sunday morning
10:30 Sunday morning
Her: haha I was leaving when I saw you 🙂
Me: Gayy. How was your night?
No reply. This is when the shit test comes in, or what I believe to be one.
Today:
Her: I just scrolled through my messages and I must have opened this message and got distracted. I am so bad with doing that haha!
Should I stick to my gut and not reply or reply late tonight saying something?
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I don’t see a reason for you to reply to that one
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Agree 100%
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If she got “distracted” by something or someone else, then you aren’t the main attraction in her life. She shouldn’t be yours, either. Instead, focus on finding multiple replacements and demote her when she reaches out with a double text.
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Yeah that’s what I figured.
What do you mean exactly by “demote her”
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@NilFaith
You’re the boss, so you call the shots. Here’s the corporate model:
Your most attractive and feminine girl will be your “star employee”, because the two of you share great chemistry and she’s always down for whatever. However, she can be easily swapped out with another employee if she acts up, so she has to continuously work hard to please you. This is the girl who constantly lavishes you with gifts and works hard to please you, in and out of the bedroom. She will tap into her social and work connections to help you achieve your goals and stick with you every step of the way. Be aware that your star employee can and will constantly change. This is because girls often push for exclusivity if you’ve been a great boss, but will often quit later on when they realize that your corporation always employs more than one girl at a time.
Next, you have your second-string, or run-of-the-mill girls. If you’re seeing your star employee once or a maximum of twice a week (usually on weekdays), then your second-string should be seen once or twice a month. These girls are typically less attractive and feminine than your star employee and as such, are relegated to the average position on your totem pole. They could also live further away from you, making it logistically difficult to see them on a weekly basis or have beta boyfriends/husbands that don’t “take care of their needs”. Nonetheless, they feel ecstatic when you’re with them, and will often go out of their way to see you. The most promising second-string girls are eying the role of “star employee”, so a shrewd boss will always be motivating his employees to excel.
Finally, you have the girls on a probationary period. Every new girl begins here, and only by demonstrating good behavior and investing her time and energy into you will she have the chance to rise up into the second tier. However, former second-string girls who displayed bad behavior will be promptly demoted to the probationary period. That means you ignore most, if not all of their texts, keep conversations short and to the point, while drastically cutting the time you’re with them. Depending on what they did to get to the bottom, you can choose to see probationary employees once a month, if at all. If they pull out all the stops to see you, they *may* get a meeting with you, but only if you’re not already scheduled to see your star employee or one of your second-string girls.
Girls will always come and go. Ideally, you should have a total of 3 or more employees at your beck and call and always be on the lookout for replacements. That way, your rotation stays fresh and your mind will always be free of oneitis.
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Hair slicked back and CH
COMMENT OF THE YEAR
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Update from yesterday’s text enquiry. I did what my guy/you niggas said and didn’t reply.
She messaged me this morning asking if I am going to her cousins 21st, good mate of mine and I am going. Best to not reply and just let her chase me at the party or reply?
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Dude you haven’t even had sex with her…. Get a meet up or stop
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My idea is that she’s trying to “bait and wait” on you. She tells you how she has a crush on you then she disappears and wait for you to hook and chase her.
Don’t initiate!
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> “Me: Gayy. How was your night? No reply.”
BETAS AX QUESTIONS. ALPHAS ISSUE COMMANDS. NEVER AX QUESTIONS. ALWAYS ISSUE COMMANDS.
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Classic overtexting with faux wise guy-isms.
Wait until you see her for real, talk normally and create comfort. Matter-of-factly say, “Let’s go.”
If she doesn’t leave with you, move on, because she would be revealed as a high-maintenance tease.
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Just go to the damn party and ignore her txt. She’ll be there. Escalate.
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This provided a much-needed chortle.
http://www.buzzfeed.com/laraparker/we-asked-women-why-they-take-birth-control-and-these-are?bffb
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Apologies (not too sorry) for this off-topic. Not sure if CH or anyone else has read this (probably). But it’s *science* that shows that guys are biologically wired to be *motivated* (read: boner) for visual ques (read tits and an ass) moreso than girls. This is an MRI being done on the brain that shows the amygdala is fired moreso in guys than girls when sexyness is visually seen.
This can be interpreted as how guys don’t care so much about status because the blood is rushed to our amygdala based on visual…. Not comparative social relations (such as power). Girls thus have more blood focusing on other parts of there brain such as which guy will give me higher status in terms of my social context.
Had to put this on here cause @rollos blog is blowing up
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2004/03/040316072953.htm
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Daddy’s little princess?
The lengths to which Beta-boys and Gammas will go…
http://www.bbc.co.uk/newsbeat/28308329
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My wife has a Facebook friend who is a hardcore modern Christian. She’s always putting up stuff, “Pray for my (missionary)son in Africa who is in hospital with malaria”. A few days later, “Pray for my daughter in Africa who has dysentery”. I see photos of her very good looking Scando-Australian kids and I scratch my head. Sacrificing your own kids to ‘save’ the others. How is that sane? How is that moral? It helps me to understand how we are losing our countries. Madness. A mental sickness of some sort. A death cult.
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> “Sacrificing your own kids to ‘save’ the others. How is that sane? How is that moral?”
TIME TO ALPHA UP: Tell her precisely that. Tell her that Christianity is NOT a suicide pact. SUICIDE == SATANISM.
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Christianity is evil
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have you read the tenants of Satanism it actually just sounds like freedom
There are seven fundamental tenets.
•One should strive to act with compassion and empathy towards all creatures in accordance with reason.
•The struggle for justice is an ongoing and necessary pursuit that should prevail over laws and institutions.
•One’s body is inviolable, subject to one’s own will alone.
•The freedoms of others should be respected, including the freedom to offend. To willfully and unjustly encroach upon the freedoms of another is to forego your own.
•Beliefs should conform to our best scientific understanding of the world. We should take care never to distort scientific facts to fit our beliefs.
•People are fallible. If we make a mistake, we should do our best to rectify it and resolve any harm that may have been caused.
•Every tenet is a guiding principle designed to inspire nobility in action and thought. The spirit of compassion, wisdom, and justice should always prevail over the written or spoken word.
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“Evil”?!? What is this “evil” you speak of, pistoleer G?
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C’mon, GSGI, did you wake up on the wrong side of the bed this morning? You’re gonna become a father soon – straighten up and fly right, man.
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Only problem with that list is…they worth SATAN HELLLO!!
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And were do these Satan worthshipers get their moral authority? Where does any standard of morality come from. It can’t be man because man is not perfect. Only God can be a moral authority.
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http://www.radixjournal.com/blog/2014/7/17/an-insane-death-for-an-insane-leftist
Ok I keep forgetting the term pathological altruism and also promiscuous altruism…something that gives Christians peak tingles.
Modern Christians are becoming an enemy of Western people. Their infrastructure used by governments to hasten our replacement. Mix it up, create disunity, throw a snake or two on our backs. Meanwhile, the elites(and churches)fill their pockets with the cash.
http://refugeeresettlementwatch.wordpress.com/2014/07/17/wnd-religious-charities-profit-from-open-borders/
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i just figured out why lazy black guys like a big ass…..them girls are no work
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/10783961/Women-with-wide-hips-more-likely-to-have-one-night-stand.html
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Lol that it has anything to do with childbirth.
Wider hips—> bigger girl—-> fewer options—>more open to casual sex
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lol@Jezebel
http://jezebel.com/vegas-club-to-bachelorette-party-no-whales-or-hippos-a-1606201143/+morninggloria
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Comment of the day (on Vox’s blog):
“I hope there weren’t any Archdukes on that Malaysian Airlines jet.”
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Very well said. And some women that were previously duped into the feminist schemes and acted either unattractively or in a highly promiscuous way, are able to actually admit that later in their life, and find happiness in behaviour more true to their real nature. Some women are just stronger than propaganda. Other are not…
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CH-Proprietor of this blog
You are ruthless and brilliant aka excellent!
Do you have a compendium of game tactics (chit chat to overcome hamster and shit tests) and close rapidly?
I would pay money for a written system that was basically the right phrases, attitudes, concepts, and beliefs to say and do to close and smash her gash fast.
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