Girls fishing for compliments is some of the stinkiest beta bait a man will encounter. Women will fish for flattery (FFF), usually by assuming a phony pose of insecurity, to assuage their egos and to filter out the betas who eagerly comply with reassurances to the contrary.
CH has discussed various tactics for dealing with coquettish self-effacing girls who try to manipulate you for ego thrills. The gist of it is studied indifference to her mewling, leavened with wry humor. In fact, female manipulation of this sort provides ample opportunity for players to exercise their game acumen. Girls will appreciate the man who metamorphoses their faux female vulnerability into a platform for teases and sexy taunts.
A great example of a man nuking the FFF hamster from orbit is this chat exchange:
“this was not about the cars”
No, it was not. It was about getting her recommended daily allowance of SMV-affirming feels. And let it be known that the RDA of SMV-affirming female feels is infinity+1.
The dude played it pitch perfect. If he had wanted to, he could have segued into a serious charge at her sugar walls. She is in the chaser role, and that makes her seduction a hell of a lot easier. The typical beta male would’ve replied, “nooo, you guys are really pretty!”, and in return he’d have received exactly zero percolating interest for making the mistake of taking a woman at face value.
NOTE: Aging beauties will sometimes drop an FFF bomb out of a sincere desire to be reassured they are still sexy enough for you. If that’s the case (but why are you bothering with cougars?), then a tempered affirmation may be in order. But don’t go overboard. Even women shedding SMV points by the day are still women at heart, and will go to their matronly years nurturing an eternal flame, however dimmed by time and bitter experience, for the charming alpha male.
[…] Game Recognized: Nuking The Hamster From Orbit […]
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lmfao ! Nailed it again!
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He couldve played the “well a 12 week workout program can fix that” card.
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Dudes are all over a fatty that is struggling to hold her gut in.
Much better to tell her how the tyre is going to blow out under so much pressure, needs a retrofit to get into shape
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“didn’t realize how ugly we looked,” she says
I say, “wow, I didn’t realize either…”
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That chick on the left is a hog. Wow
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Are you tired of some people misusing the word curvy? Especially on dating sites like OkCupid.
Just install the Curvy To Fat chrome extension.
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Women doing FFF are usually so blatant and heavy-handed about it, it’s easy to blow it out of the water. This was one of the first lessons I learned about them when starting my Red Pill journey in my youth.
You’ve been on a roll recently. Good show.
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A recent zinger of mine, to a woman 13 years my junior… and hopeful of “us going further”, as she bent over the driver’s seat to start her car and warm it up while we chatted outside:
“I thought you would say something about my ass.”
“At first I thought the air bag went off… but they’re usually white.”
Got the obligatory punch in the arm, but the gleam never left her eyes.
Really, this stuff is too easy, so long as they already like you. 😉
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Too easy
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> “but they’re usually white”
Yellow Fever? Massa in da bunk house wit da slave girlz?
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‘Really, this stuff is too easy, so long as they already like you.’
If they like you…it’s easy,
If they hate you…it’s difficult,
If they meh you…it’s impossible.
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She was wearing dark pants.
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Since were sharig zingers… I’m talking with two cute and much younger women plus a stout mother hen of a certain age. On topic, I mention a trivial accomplishment of mine and the mother hen says with friendly mock-admiration “PA is a very impressive man.”
Without skipping a beat I say “I get that a lot”, and giggles ensue.
(Technically not a zing/neg but same effect)
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“I get that a lot” is a DHV and, in a way, pre qualifying yourself.
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Great line. Pulled my phone out at a business dinner, young female colleague says “wow that thing is huge”… Yep could not believe my good fortune… IGTA with a shrug.
Hilarity from the table. Blushes and arm punch from the girl.
Couple other good ones to keep in mind. Buying a gift two 65 YO grannies helping me. I tease them a bit going back and forth on price. They are giggling and one says “Oh you are bad”.
I say “Yeah I’m a handful” and cackle. I wait a beat, “Actually more like two hands full”. They erupt in laughter. Girls just want to have fun no matter the age.
Girl recently got glasses. Says yeah her eyesight is shot, “oh I thought that only applied to guys”. Two beats. Sinks in. Hysterical laughter.
They love the contrast of a deadpan delivery and a saucy line.
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So DHV is now at the level of 1960’s “Carry on” films double entendres.
Oh MATRON.
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“Girl recently got glasses. Says yeah her eyesight is shot, “oh I thought that only applied to guys”. Two beats. Sinks in. Hysterical laughter.”
…huh?
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Oh…….
lol, if that.
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I still don’t get it.
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@El capitan “I still don’t get it”
The old bit about you will go blind from masturbating .
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Looking into the background of pictures has become instinct for me. But I now ponder if the fat girl’s rolls will swallow her belly jewelry after the extra, inevitable twenty-five pounds and whether the girl in the sandlot hat flashed her tits more times than she has beads.
Also, I believe that there’s a similar post, with a sailboat in the background.
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That would be a yes for both.
But the foreground also illustrates the ultimate and far too common dilemma – big comfy titties, or a flat little tummy?
I like a skinny girl. Why can’t they sprout nice firm titties? And why can’t more bbws cut back on the sugar treats, and cut back on the gunt? Muffin tops are gross, and as someone else mentioned, do not improve with age.
Is it so hard to skip the sugar goodies and starchy pig outs, and do a little weight training?
Pretty face on her, too. But her fries and pizza with ice cream diet will make her a ghastly sight to behold in a few years.
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“And why can’t more bbws cut back on the sugar treats, and cut back on the gunt? Muffin tops are gross, and as someone else mentioned, do not improve with age.
Is it so hard to skip the sugar goodies and starchy pig outs, and do a little weight training?”
Partly because the level of “thirst” and need in the general male population is so high; it means that a HB6 fattie (with potential to go a point or two higher if she lost the weight) will STILL get male attention until she reaches the point of no return by getting to her late 20’s and really pulling the ripcord on her weight to blow out to elephantine like proportions.
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“Partly because the level of “thirst” and need in the general male population is so high; it means that a HB6 fattie (with potential to go a point or two higher if she lost the weight) will STILL get male attention until she reaches the point of no return by getting to her late 20’s and really pulling the ripcord on her weight to blow out to elephantine like proportions.”
So true. So sad.
Like CH has said before: female hypergamy and female obesity continue to shrink the available pool high SMV women.
Throw in multi-ni66erism and YKW media fat acceptance and it just compounds the problem.
Was browsing around internet and cone across that tween fat nerd girl video “all about that bass” by fat girl Meghan trainior. That video is the best imagery depicting my statements above.
Super-Slo Motion (Creepy) All About That Bass- Me…:
I challenge you readers to click the link and watch for more than 30 seconds…
double barf burger w rotten cheese…
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So, if I’ve understood correctly, a sane man should reply with lots of compliments in a case like this. Because being rejected by such girls is exactly what he wants. Am I getting it wrong?
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If you want a sex life, you are getting it wrong. All young bangable women today are like this. Society has unleashed and actively encouraged their inner-forever-14 year old brains. You either learn game and bang crazy or you have no sex life. (I personally have no game and no sex life. Do as CH says, not as I do.)
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“Society has unleashed and actively encouraged their inner-forever-14 year old brains.”
this is true. here is more proof of how classy these young women are. they define a good healthy relationship as one where they can truly be themselves ie: disgusting, vulgar, and crude.
http://elitedaily.com/dating/gross-ways-know-reached-peak-comfort-level-relationship/864547/
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You’re not complimenting them. They are obviously fishing for a compliment based on theirselves and looks (none). So you ignore them and put the emphasis on something else that will drive their hamster insane. I would’ve put something along the lines of “I have a good workout regime that’ll make that spare tire go away.”
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Exactly wrong. A hard won compliment makes the Man in the Boat happy. Never answer direct or splash cold water on her. There’s no sport in that. Tease and build tension.
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I think Kolia gets it. He was joking that since these chicks are busted and/or fat, he’d like to ensure that he won’t have sex with them by ratcheting up the compliments.
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Commenting on something in the background is definitely a clever, unexpected neg. The problem is you can’t really use it more than once.
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I’m sorry, I couldn’t hear you over my music. What were you saying?
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LaraButtox is correct. The correct response to this picture, is, of course :
‘Detox my Buttox’.
That can be used infinitely more than once (well, if uttered by me). Lara herself recently paid $5000 for the privilege and honor.
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I can’t believe you left me for Lara.
[CH: lavender-infused gas quickly disperses.]
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She received many health-enhancing benefits as I recall.
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You can always go the Kramer road.
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Haha, yeah. Button nose over schnoz central, all day.
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Saw “Crazy Lloyd” on a TV commercial last night, with subtitle “Actual Customer”.
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I realize this isn’t the point of the article but the chick on the left wouldn’t have to fish for compliments if she lost 25 pounds. Anyway I gotta remember this exchange, the easiest way to end up being being relegated to beta orbiter duty is probably to compliment women whey they expect you to.
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“sugar walls”
Hodgetwins?
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All kinds of gains!
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Yea, I do this ALL the time. The guys here are making it obvious, but I think it’s more annoying when I can’t tell if the guy is pretending to ignore me or is genuinely not impressed.
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post some nudes and let us have a go at it. It will be good practice for the spergs and gammas and will also be one of the few times a woman has ever made herself useful
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A.my, the Flattery Angler:
Male coyness about his attraction to a woman => woman’s cortical uncertainty => tingles in the amygdala
Or maybe he has better options. You obviously want to find out which is the case in order to ease the annoyance, which will continue to nag at you for an answer.
I often tell women that it is my policy to never tell a woman my opinion about her beauty unless she’s in my bed. That potentially eliminates the FFF step. Of course, she will continue to look for an answer to her question. I will sometimes remark on things about a woman’s appearance (such as that it’s feminine to wear a skirt or dress or some article of jewelry) so that she knows that I’m looking. Or I’ll just look her over appraisingly while we’re dancing.
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Checked out your photo. You got something against redheads? Why no redheads in your photo?
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> “Yea, I do this ALL the time.”
They have websites for chicks like you – websites with names like “xHamster dot com” and “redTube dot com” – where you can FFF from every guy on the planet.
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The tragedy of this post is that if the chick with the D-Cups in the white bikini [to our left] would exercise JUST A LITTLE SELF-DISCIPLINE and stop eating so damned much, for six or eight weeks [maybe 12 weeks?], and lose the extra 15 lbs or 20 lbs around her midsection [and just deal with the fact that her D-Cups might shrink to C-Cups], then she would be really, really cute. Like gorgeous cute. But as things stand right now, she has the figure of a 35-yo woman who has already pushed out three or four babies. [You anti-natalists can have the meth-head xHamster chick with the itty-bitty A-Cups to our right.]
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i probably have more tolerance for overweight, especially when it comes with youth and jugs, but you’re right mostly. _except_ there is no relation between a 30 post-baby skin bag. the connective tissue after a baby is DESTROYED, so while you can still look ok if you work hard, in any dynamic movement the skin, the underlying fat, and the muscle beneath move independently.
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well shoot i guess it thought i was using html there
i meant “there is no relation between a less than 25 year old party belly and an over 30 year old skin bag”
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> “no relation between a less than 25 year old… and an over 30 year old…”
Well, except for the sand in Father Time’s hourglass, which is screaming “TICK-TOCK, TICK-TOCK, TICK-TOCK!!!” If pudgy chick would just lose a little weight, then she could improve her marital prospects from “Solid Beta” to at least “Lesser Alpha” [if not even better than that]. And afterwards, meth-head xHamster chick would have to settle for the sloppy seconds.
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@ burke
“there is no relation between a 30 post-baby skin bag”
i’m assuming you don’t want children. hope you’re not anyway. i’d feel sorry for your wife.
it’s good you’re being honest with yourself though. you probably couldn’t get past the superficial damage to the girl’s body enough to recognize that someone who is willing to sacrifice her beauty like that in order to create life is the kind of girl we all should be striving for.
abortions are easy. everyone is doing it. so girls who will sacrifice their own best interests (superficial beauty) in order to create life are precious these days. couldn’t see myself being disgusted by a woman i loved because she had battle wounds from giving birth to new soul.
no offense to you. a lot of guys think this way. they choose superficial beauty over content of character. that’s fine. to each his own. just seems like a very shallow and superficial existence to me. good luck to you.
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@ burke
hate to pick on you here but since 88 mentioned it. i do have to ask. are you planning to have children? seem to remember you mentioning you might. asking because damage to your girl’s body (young or old) is part of the deal. you do know that, right?
i’m not talking about girls who just blimp up and stop caring. there’s no excuse for that and it’s within a girl’s control. but things like lost elasticity and stretch marks from pregnancy are something she can’t control. no different than if you came home from war with scars from battle. you’d hope there would still be a girl who could love you even if the packaging is a little bit damaged.
if there is enough love and passion between you and a girl, you should be able to overlook superficial flaws like that. you would see this kind of damage as part of her story but not necessarily a flaw in her beauty. so if you can’t see past this with a particular girl then you know she isn’t the one for you. you don’t love her enough. there may be someone else you can love enough to have wife goggles for. who knows.
but…
if you think you couldn’t see past a post pregnancy body with any girl…even one you love, you need to do some serious soul searching before you even think about having children. parenting is hard and kids need parents who can get along with each other long enough to raise them. it is possible to raise kids apart. my ex and i get along very well and the kids are well adjusted and successful but ideally most of us hope to find a girl we are passionately in love with, have children and live happily ever after.
love and commitment are a big part of making that happen but physical attraction is even more important. physical attraction and physical contact is what keeps the love alive and the commitment bearable.
without passion and attraction, you have nothing more than a business partnership. so if there’s a risk of you losing attraction as soon as your girl gives birth, you need to think about why that is and deal with it before you have kids. or don’t have children because it’s not right to make babies with a woman who you’ll be repulsed by as soon she loses her youthful skin and perfect body.
you’ll grow to hate her. she’ll know it and hate you too. and one or both of you will cheat or leave. not a great scenario for raising well balanced healthy children.
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@ 88 and Heisenberg
ease up dudes. burke was prolly just talking about old bodies versus young bodies in general. doesn’t mean he’d ditch the mother of his children for having a flabby gut and stretched out vag.
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@ Heisenberg and 88
you guys are blowing this way out of proportion. all burke said was that a young pre-baby belly is more attractive than a flabby post-baby belly. that’s the honest truth. do you disagree with that?
he said nothing about kids or being repulsed by the mother of his children.
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“you guys are blowing this way out of proportion. all burke said was that a young pre-baby belly is more attractive than a flabby post-baby belly.”
point taken. read the post wrong originally. thought he was calling the women bags of skin. not just the bellies. rubbed me the wrong way today.
so many guys on here who do nothing but bash on women and talk crap about relationships, babymaking, etc. all that bitterness gets to me sometimes.
i’m not banging young chicks every day and my own girl is getting old and flabby. so am i. but you know what? life is still pretty damn good. after all these years, she still does it for me and i do it for her. that’s all that matters and i hope all you guys get lucky enough to find a girl who does it like that for you.
my apologies burke.
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I would do her
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Yup. She toned up right, those C-cups would be more impressive, more fully packed as it were. And, with a tighter core, they’d appear bigger.
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Those aren’t even A cups, those are… what comes before A?
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I know this is from The Onion, but given the smirk on the dude’s face, I’m not entirely sure it’s fake:
http://www.theonion.com/articles/womans-parents-accepting-of-mixedattractiveness-re,37765/?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=SocialMarketing&utm_campaign=LinkPreview:1:Default
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Hoverhand? oink
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Aging beauties will sometimes drop an FFF bomb out of a sincere desire to be reassured they are still sexy enough for you. If that’s the case (but why are you bothering with cougars?), then a tempered affirmation may be in order. But don’t go overboard.
Is this going overboard?
He: I want your body–to dance with–including your skinny little butt.
She: What’s wrong with my butt?
He: Not a dam thing.
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I feel pity for these punks with their juvenile negs. This ain’t the 7th grade dance. What happens next – “You complimented the truck??? Why Dylan, I don’t know what’s come over me- take me, take me now!!!” Seriously. How about being, you know, charming? These girls are prime blossoms begging to be pollinated. Next time you see a bee trash a flower, text me. Jesus.
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You’ve been downgraded to less than 1% amazing… please update your handle accordingly.
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Okay. But more than one “neg” dude has taken my charmed and romanced sloppy seconds.
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You don’t seem to understand. An early neg is essential to later charm.
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“Muh trucks” isn’t the code man, you have to hit up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A, start.
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And then yell…’Finish Her!’
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“SEXUALITY!!”
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I would have told her she had shitty composition framing the shot as she did. No imagination whatsoever.
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The first comment was great, but I had the same feeling about the following conversation. The topic should have been changed, to playing one girl off against the other. Carrying on the joke with a bunch of other dudes killed the vibe.
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…did you just do what some rando on the internet told you to do..?
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The Merchant Minute is epic.
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Lol, that exchange was more or less the topic of a le Chateau Autiste episode.
https://m.soundcloud.com/the-right-stuff-1/le-chateau-autiste-02?in=the-right-stuff-1/sets/le-chateau-autiste
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The fuck is this? Its…magnificent.
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Le Chateau Autiste? It is a segment the good folks at rightstuff.biz do on their weekly “Daily Shoah” podcast, which everyone should listen to.
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Outfuckingstanding!
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I’ve decided to do a little expirment to witness what happens when a average to below average gal does this.
I’ve noticed the majority of affirmation comes from females. Granted their is some male affirmation but I’d ballpark the numbers around 10-20%.
Now if she is one of those beauties who still have the illusion going…the ration is more in the favor of thirsty guys. So from what I’ve seen…it looks like most men still save their praise for the beauties.
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Ok
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Great exchange… If they really pushed it I would have said, one on the left needed to lose 30 lbs, maybe 40, as a first step, is wearing too much make-up, and needs her teeth straightened and the one on the right needs her teeth whitened, a boob job, and a bracelet-ectomy – minimum… I have NEVER found a woman that I can’t find something that needs work – doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t pound one out in her – just means that every woman has room for improvement even it it is to get 5 years younger. That is always a good one… Women over 25 are looking at every line and wrinkle, and if they can’t pass the pencil test – their boobs are sagging…
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Great exchange. I’m always conscious now of the difference between angry insecure girls like the one in the exchange and genuinely insecure girls who do need some type of validation.
There are a few girls I bang and game who don’t totally understand the irony in this exchange and would genuinely be hurt. The crap that comes in explaining the irony only kills the vibe.
The whole tone here is amused mastery.
A girl I know once posted a photo of her in younger days in some ballerina jump that gave the appearance of flying.
A dozen guys and many other girls commented “Wow” and “So sexy”.
I wrote: “I see strings”
Who do you think she replied to in that comment thread?
The tone is important and if I can’t find a way to be ironic or playful I don’t comment so that I don’t look mean-spirited or angry.
The truck comment is perfect in this context but only because it’s a surprise and the girl knows she’s fishing for compliments. Also it’s not an insult it’s a diversion so it surfaces her bitchiness in a playful way.
This is the key.
I had this exchange with a girl I met online who I haven’t yet met in person but am gaming:
Her: Walala !!!
Me: guzi guzi
Her: Ready for your trip to Mars
Me: Don’t miss me too much
Her: I will shed only a few tears
Me: Prefer you shed a few clothes
Her: only a few?
Me: behave…
Girls love banter if it’s clever not mean-spirited.
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Fat shaming also works.
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[…] Source: Heartiste […]
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Is David DeAngelo’s “Man Transformation” a good program?
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Does it look like he applied it to himself?
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Are any of his ideas besides cocky-funny worth bothering with?
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When my ex would fish for compliments I would respond by smirkingly miming a fisherman casting a lure & reeling it back in.
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Not aloof enough, IMO. Maybe that’s why she’s your ex.
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This is a Game gang bang. All three gentlemen get A+
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The one on the left needs to hit the gym ASAP…And the one on the right should too.
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I heard David DeAngelo’s “Man Transformation” is really, really, really awful. So you should probably go spam it somewhere else.
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The Left woman clearly has a lot of swelling due to the air bag that deployed and is stuck to her back.
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OT. More evidence that hipster-high-tech SWPL types are really just filling a rice bowl:
http://www.cbc.ca/news/business/yelp-accused-of-bullying-businesses-into-paying-for-better-reviews-1.2899308
This why the femisphere is so panic-ed about the recent UVA fake-rape meltdown: it threatens the jobs of Gender Studies graduates who were depending on getting a University Rape & Sexual Harrassment Counselor billet. It was one of those (collecting a UVA salary) who introduced Rubin-Erdely to Jacqueline Coakley and got the ball rolling.
PS: Teresa Sullivan has a LOT of personal wealth. A very deep pocket. She should be targeted for civil suits. The feminist-scammers never hesitate to treat men as a Class as in class-action. that script can and should be flipped.
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Listen to CH fellas, this guy knows his stuff. The quicker you can move from a beta to and alpha, the better.
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Let’s start a yelp page for CH…
Lolz
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Managing editor of “Yahoo Travel,” 34-year-old Jo Piazza, writes an article about how she is the last of her girlfriends to remain unmarried. Her article is what you would expect: it is exactly like every other article written by a woman given a free rein to write what she wants. Hint: every other sentence begins with “I”.
The word “child” does not appear even once.
H/t Dalrock, who shivs: “Note to young women: your status won’t come from your career.”
http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/a12893/i-bought-myself-an-engagement-ring/
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http://m.imgur.com/gallery/8fNqNG3
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Tribalism alive and well on the dark continent…
http://www.theguardian.com/world/2015/jan/14/satellite-images-reveal-devastation-boko-haram-massacre-nigeria
coming to a NYC taxi cab in your near future.
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Every guy should think of himself as the high school, college, or a NFL jock when comes to approaching women. Most women are fascinated by men who find women a mere distraction and a obstacle to pursuing their dreams. Most women are quite satisfied to go along for the ride in the Dodge pick-up.
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Dynamic, Passionate & Authentic. Ultimate tri-fecta.
The problem most guys have is they start out like that, like high school, then when they get into LTR’s they follow blue pill programming and well meaning advice of family and friends. social pressure etc. and get on the train to betadom. And they they get ground into meal by life. As CH has noted, children are naturally alpha.
That’s why the clarion call of Heartiste is so important. Older guys, spend some time educating younger guys.
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Or every guy should be hitting a gym and get a physique closer to a high school, college, or NFL jock. Then they won’t have to be delusional about it.
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I guess it depends if you’re interested in boning one or the other. Often, when I hear this in person, my reflexive answer is something like, “yep, time to lay off the sugar and hit the gym”. Tingle killer?
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Off topic but some stats I compiled for readers on my spare time:
An annoying swpl and his gal pals have just organized after work drinks every Thursday night for the younger crowd at the office (white collar workplace, large corporation). 48 people are on the invite email list. Here’s how she breaks down:
Female: 64%
Non-white*: 40%
Muslim: 11%
White males: 30%
Known and suspected homosexuals: 6%**
Girls I’d bang: 29% (of the female population in this group, which is abysmal considering the vast majority are in their 20s and 30s).
After work drinks with coworkers can be stultifying, boring affairs, but I have profited sexually from them in the past as being inserted into a large group of girls drinking alcohol with no cold approaches makes things easy (in other respects harder as they don’t want to be known as the office bicycle seat.)
Unfortunately it’s getting to the point where the preponderance of various undesirables makes it less attractive. The days of having good, reliable, non-liberal lads with which to go out for after work boozing are as dead as a door nail.
What’s your office like?
*includes ykw.
**1 male, 2 lesbians.
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My place is quote the mixed bag, with varying hours since we’re in digital media. About a handful of good looking single broads, 2 tasty MILFs, and a few gay doods. Don’t know if we have any lez’s in the place; one girl I thought was a dyke, is married. Hyphenated last name, theater major. One smoking chick I poorly gamed is all types of tatted up. A shame too, as she’s beautiful and has an ass that won’t quit. I was turned off when I saw she was all inked (no sleeves, thank goodness) and hadn’t yet taken le red pill.
Now, I’m trying to do what I can to bang her brains out even though she’s engaged to a co-worker; knowing what I know now about inked bitches. I see how she’s been looking at me. I lift and most guys there don’t and I know for certain her guy doesn’t either. Helps to stand out in that mix and I know even one of the smoking MILFs likes what she sees. I live close to work and she lives far, might have to convince her to work late.
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What is by far the most common thing girls say to obtain compliments/reassurance/affirmation?
Of course, it is a comment about how they have gained weight, are putting on pounds, need to get back on their diet, etc etc.
95% of men will take the bait and rush in to tell the girl how good she looks, she’s not fat, etc.
Here’s my tried and true tactic:
Her: “I feel fat.”
Me: I do a quick but obvious appraisal of her body, then say, “That’s okay. Some guys like a girl with a little meat on her bones.”
Genius. You have simultaneously agreed with her, reassured her that she may still be attractive to a subset of men, and gently negged her.
Her FFF…..destroyed.
Her hamster….intrigued, slightly amused, slightly irritated, slightly puzzled. In other words, tingling.
Your status as a man who doesn’t dish out cheap compliments for cheaper pussy….assured.
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A friend’s ex was fucking him again after she lost a bunch of weight despite being in a relationship with another dude now. She asked him how does he think she look expecting to be complimented on her firm ass or whatever. My friend said that she looks old despite all of us being in our mid 20s. lol.
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Getting a haircut at hair saloon last week. The broad (and I do mean broad, no tits, ass two axe handles wide, makeup applied with trowel) wielding the scissors was trying waaay too hard. Wants to talk about football, extreme fighting, how short hair on a woman is attractive (demi moore, gi jane). She’s divorced, 40, and 5 years younger.
I play along, insisting that short hair on a woman is undesirable, demi is overhyped, women in extreme fighting will be respected when they fight the men, etc. Didn’t give an inch.
When I paid at the register, she follows me out, and in front of the cashier of similar age, asks me if she looks her age. I paused, looked her in the eye, and said yes. Didn’t weasel, or qualify. Just told the truth.
She was crestfallen, and the other 40 – something fatty defended me for answering honestly.
Me: 45, married, average recovering beta schlub, lurking here and other gaming sites for 3-4 years now. Prior, I would have agreed with her as she cut my hair and lied appropriately when questioned. I know why I did what I did, I had nothing to gain, and thought she could stand some truth. But I think my indifference made her react like this site says they all will.
If only I’d had this 20 years ago.
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Yup, this post has it 110% right.
Used a similar line on a hot, popular cheerleader on my campus. Posted a typical girl selfie (which DID look really good) which elicited the usual response from orbiters and girlfriends, i.e. a bajillion highly forgettable likes and compliments. I gave her a subtle neg by complimenting her backpack, which was absurdly prominent in the pic. That was the one comment that got a good response.
I’m in a happy relationship with her now and she treats me quite well, even by CH standards. Thanks CH, your work has served me well.
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I feel sorry for America if guys are even giving women like this a second look.
Have things really gone this far south?
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