Asshole Game Week: Day One is here. Day Two here.
What happens when you totally bail on a woman? She fumes and refuses to ever talk to you again? She waves off the thought of you with a dismissive mental gesture? Or… something else?
Commenter Hosswire writes,
About a year ago, after voraciously clicking through all of the glorious Chateau’s game posts I decided to up my asshole game with a hot 20-something (I’m 41) half-black acrobat (blackrobat) chick I had just won over with my new arrogant & sexually entitled persona.
This reads like the voice-over intro to a Swingers-esque indie flic.
At that time, I had seen enough results to know that CH precepts were effective, though felt like there were levels of assholeness that created counterproductive results. So I was, like, 95% convinced.
There are levels of assholery that can be counterproductive, and this is in large part contextual. More desperate older, uglier or chubbier women will wilt under the kind of sustained asshole attack that would send a younger, hotter, tighter woman into an upward spiral of horny delirium.
Anyway. This chick was part of an aerial acrobatic (Cirque de Soleil shit) school & invited me to her Winter show. Bought me tickets, introduced me to her friends, made a big production out of it.
Halfway through the show, for no other reason than to be a dick, I got up & walked out.
Twenty minutes later, I got a text:
Her: Did you really leave?
I waited a good 10-15 minutes before replying.
Me: Meeting some friends for drinks
Note the lack of apology or excuse. If you’re gonna play the asshole game, you’ve got to appear comfortable with your rule-breaking mystique. Don’t flinch!
Three minutes later, I realized that it was literally impossible to be too big an asshole for women when I got this text:
Her: When are you going to be home? I am going to rock your world tonight.
That night, with the help of some coconut oil from my kitchen I experienced every orifice of that dusky beauty. Color me 100% convinced now. Asshole game works.
Topically administered medium-chain triglyceride sex is the healthy alternative.
I wouldn’t infer too much about the effectiveness of asshole game from the biracial nature of the lead temptress. I’ll have a post related to the race-asshole game nexus soon but, in short, although there is reason to think a Rushtonian “Rule of Three” governs the receptiveness of women from different races to asshole game, I’ve found that there are attenuating variables that work against a broad racial disposition.
For instance, the white men in upscale WM-BW couples are often very beta-ish, or at least not at all like the wiggers you’d expect. I suspect that the higher class black women willing to date outside their race are the sort of women craving a dependable, faithful provider, and are therefore less likely than their sun-baked sistren to require the courtship equivalent of a crotch grab to grab their attention.
A more pertinent factor is the degree of femininity of the biracial beauty. It’s a good bet that a half-black acrobat is out on the far right side of the black woman bell curve for slenderness and femininity, and, if my experience and SCIENCE tell us something, it’s that young, highly feminine women of any race tend to be the most receptive to asshole game. So, if this “blackrobat” loves her assholes, it’s probably less a consequence of her racial pedigree than it is of her femininity.
PS I don’t know Hosswire’s race (his tone suggests non-black), but whatever it is, it wouldn’t much alter my analysis.
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“Higher class black women willing to date outside their race” should be “able to date outside their race.”
Then, of these, most are still not high enough to get white alphas, so naturally they get betas.
I agree that her mulatto status is not the sole determinant of receptivity to this level of asshole game, but it is a factor, especially given her level of accomplishment. My guess is that a Slavic gymnast-turned-acrobat would be less susceptible.
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Young Slavic and Russian women ONLY respond to asshole game, my friend.
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Hie!
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I give up. Health information exchange?
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Post as you like, you still can’t join the club.
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It’s slightly more difficult, in my experience, to exit the scene when the woman in question is right in front of you at dinner.
Nevertheless it can (and has) been done. A couple of years ago I was at dinner with a hot little 20-year old blonde. I’d had enough of her princess act and abruptly got up to leave. Not a word spoken on the way home. After I told her to leave, she spent the next hour or so sitting in her car, texting me and pleading to stay over.
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Well, it sounds like she deserved it and on some level she probably knew it. But seriously, are you going to pull this on a girl who isn’t shit testing, who’s sitting there being pleasant and sweet to you? How I’d react to these scenarios is VERY context dependent.
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We love it when you automatically think like a comment is all about you and how it might or might not work on you. Keep it up.
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you probably think this post is abooooout you, don’t youuuuu….
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On a dinner date a couple of years ago, the conversation turned to tennis (Wimbledon was on) I asked if it was right that the female champion would receive the same prize money as the male champion even though tickets for the men’s final cost 10x that of the women’s final tickets on the black market
As she had said she had a economics degree, I thought she may see the irony but no. She started to parrot a load of fem-shit. So I excused myself as though I was going to the gents but I just up and left. Left her with the bill too.
text..
Her. Where are you.
Me. Got bored.
I recommend every guy try this at least once. It is an extremely uplifting experience and a great male-counter strategy to the chicks who deliberately use dates for a free meals.
http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2013/10/29/erin-wotherspoon-dating-_n_4173996.html
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Ignore black poison soul, whose name is clearly accurate. Anyone with a brain knows context matters. I think the idea behind CH’s post is that underlying abundance mentality can cause a man who is bored by something, even with a girl he likes, to abruptly leave to find something more interesting to do.
This behavior should be attractive to women because the man in question not only has options but is exercising them indiscriminately bad without regard to opinion or value of anyone, even said girl, which is a de facto DHV.
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I takes ‘hem to dinner to f ‘rm. Dinner rape goddammit.
Lazy Hero
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Amy, have you kissed or been fucked by a black guy?
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“This behavior should be attractive to women because the man in question not only has options but is exercising them indiscriminately bad without regard to opinion or value of anyone, even said girl, which is a de facto DHV.”
And it is, I’m just questioning whether there’s a limit. My boyfriend is definitely a DGAF kind of guy but he isn’t going to just walk away and strand me somewhere unless I’m acting like a bitch and deserve it. I treat men with courtesy and respect and so I expect some basic courtesy in return, which I don’t think is unreasonable. And I usually get it, which is why some of the stories on here floor me… unless the men are acting this way to girls who are already behaving badly. That’s what I’m trying to clarify.
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fk all these questions, what are you wearing?
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“Amy, have you kissed or been fucked by a black guy?”
See what I mean about this being a fetish, CH?! What is the deal with this black guy/cuckold thing. NO and NO I have not, but hey, it’s the internet. I guess you can feel free to let your imagination roam.
[CH: it’s not a fetish or a thing. it’s just a dude trying to get under your skin.]
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I was just curious. Good keep it that way Amy
That’s not true of many pretty white girls. I see it every day. White women have been lied to and are the primary victims of Jewish feminism.
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One summer night, I was skinny dipping with a woman that was especially bitchy with her shit testing. So, I called her out – and she swam off to a floating dock to pout. I was fed up – so I split – but, not before burying her clothes in the sand.
About 3 hours later, she’s tapping on my door – hair all wet, wrapped in a garbage bag – with a small cut above her eye. We say nothing. I run her a hot shower, put a band-aid on and she climbs into my bed.
I finally asked her – ‘How’d you get the cut?’ … Turns out: After not finding her clothes, she put on a garbage can liner and hitched a ride. She was picked up by two dudes she knew – and when she told them what happened – the driver laughed so hard he drove into a ditch.
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that’s true asshole dude. if she was naked with you, she could not have been being that bitchy. she’s already naked with you.
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“For instance, the white men in upscale WM-BW couples are often very beta-ish, or at least not at all like the wiggers you’d expect.”
This is true. I think part of the plight of the beta is just how common and replaceable he is to white women. In some scenarios, the concept of scarcity and abundance seem to outrank alphaness. In the black majority city I work in, a man with a “job” and a “car” is much more special than in other cities. The large majority of black women here are very open to interracial dating.
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But they put on a “white act” to get them and proceed to use him like a wallet. Only around ither blacks are they themselves. Too risky. And who wants a half black kid? They dont all look like stacey dash…
And we have read here how difficult it is for men to bond to kids that look nothing like them.
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you have zero clue about which you speak. I bag all kinds of negro chicks. I’m not beta, you have to have alpha cred when there are actual jigaboos trying to pick them up in competition with you. Black women go for distilled alpha stuff, hollering, posturing, masculinity. If their test level is higher than yours, forget it.
They don’t get a white man as a wallet because white men are too smart for that BS…unless they are dumbasses, then they get played by all hoez.
Would not want a half-black kid either…
black women can’t find guys their own race who won’t give them herpes or knock them up and split or won’t beat them or who will not steal from them. Black women have jobs and pseudo-careers n’ shit.
All you have to do is holler at them with no fear and they are easy as shit
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I think one of the lesser-covered stories in the MSM is the upwardly-mobile black woman’s very difficult decision to date outside her race. For centuries, they’ve been the fiercest protectors of in-group mating, but with rising incarceration rates of the men and rising college attendance for the women, a lot of them are finally forced to turn their backs on their history and reach for that white man cock.
I met a black girl for drinks last week (attractive, but no sparks) who was exhibit A of this. She’s smart as a whip, MBA from an elite university, super disciplined, super athletic (marathon runner), the daughter of a strict African immigrant father — and she told me that she can’t find *any* black men of her status to date. So, shots of whiskey with a white guy, me, on a Thursday night.
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Give her a go and maybe you’d change your mind. If not: next.
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I was in a situation similar to you. Privileged background, fitness enthusiast. I was attracted to her body, but I didn’t want to kiss her. Like I had a natural, (illogical) instinct that there was something unhygienic about it. It may be beta thinking, but I didn’t feel right leading her on to plant my flag and then kicking her to the curb for no good reason.
Maybe I’m not the norm. I don’t even find Beyonce attractive. I only like skinny black girls with delicate facial features.
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Don’t forget the coconut oil!
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When I was in college, I had several black friends who happened to be athletes. One of them, who eventually married an Asian, confided in me that black girls wouldn’t date the black guys on campus, because they were career gogirls who weren’t gonna mess it up with a man.
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“…fiercest protectors of in group mating.” Say whaaaa?? As I understand (from what I’ve read)sex with black lady-slaves,(or any black woman),was strongly social-shamed. A slave owner who did this,and on the larger plantations there were few secrets as the slaves enjoyed robustly gossiping about their betters,(among themselves and with other slaves on other plantations),was shit in the eyes of his social group. There was very little white blood in Amer blacks til after manumission:Then it jumped rapidly. DNA shows a strong majority of the white blood comes from the male. It seems one aspect of freedom for black women was the freedom to boink white men! (And vice versa). Sure,many black women loathe and despise white men for political reasons,and many have a negative view of white guys as nerds who cant fight. But;they tend to be the less attractive….
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> “attractive, but no sparks”
TJW, as a Yid, you know damned well what the problem was – she was a quota admission whose IQ was at least a SD lower than yours [maybe 2 SDs, or more]. Although if you had Ethiopian Yid children with her, then they could get NCAA Div I basketball scholarships.
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Thus spake The Sunstein Within.
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Fuck her and thats it. Black women need monster cocks.
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@Stationarity: I’ve heard that too, more than once.
@FredMertz: Hate to break it to you, but I was referring to voluntary mating…
@Captain Obvious/Zombie Shane: As a sockpuppet, you should remember to mention the Frankfurt School in all of your comments so that we can keep your various identities straight. As a Catholic, I don’t care what names you call me, because heaven.
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Most droll, watching YidWithin high five his appropriately-named soul brother.
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Black, brown, yellow – They’re pink where it matters.
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Winner.
Culture matters more than color. I don’t buy the racial and ethnic purity shit. Nobody is more white than the elitists that run this country, and culturally, nobody is more sway backed, bad hipped and snaggle toothed than these people. Our culture is worth saving, our particular melanin level, not so much. A hot chick totally buys into your values, she’s maybe LTR material, color doesn’t matter much. That’s a trick though. You’ll find it in girls from African immigrant families – they respect Western values much more because their families have seen savagery recently – then you will in AfAm families.
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“Culture matters more than color.”
No it doesn’t you imbecile.
“Nobody is more white than the elitists that run this country,”
Rothschilds? Bushes? Clintons? Boehner?
“Our culture is worth saving, our particular melanin level, not so much.”
Race isn’t just melanin you fucking retard. There is a reason why 3rd world shitholes are just that.
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“Winner”
Sounds more like Loser.
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Wake up and smell my finger – you cretins of a couch crease culture! I’m living in your 98.7% white community utopia – and if some high achieving melatonin mama wants her pinkness punished pool-side – then I say ‘bring the coconut oil’. I should suffer seminal congestion for your SWPL standards? STFU and fetch me a towel.
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@StinkyPinky +1
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Stinky Pinky can’t gat a white girl in a 98.7% white area so he trawls the Section 8 hood to relieve his seminal congestion. Doesn’t sound like a winner to me.
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Heh, heh… YidWithin could truly identify with Stinky’s “I should suffer?” loxism.
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Whoever said culture matters is an idiot.
Race is not a social construct.
Society is a racial construct.
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I trawl the little pink hood and get my coconuts oiled by high achievers. Get mind blowing head from a Yale PhD – and we’ll talk about color – when you’re seeing things clearer. Better still, pound a Brown Grad until she pussy farts … It sounds like PA!
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You’re on a roll Stinky, don’t stop now. Keep qualifying yourself to us!
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PA-PA-Pussy Fart … Pardon me! I own bragging rights. Those come by achievement – just like my coconuts during a good oiling.
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Captain Obvious,
Interesting chart. If anything, it shows that honesty (as measured by wallet returns) is not really proportional to prosperity, or HBD/white superiority. Switzerland, Lisbon, and Madrid are the lowest.
BUT, they didn’t drop wallets in Africa at all, probably fearing what the results would expose…..
OR, Africa is so shitty that the researchers didn’t even want to go there to run the experiment.
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Genetics doesn’t control everything, fucksticks. Otherwise the totally racially pure white trash chick, who is so white you can see every capillary through her skin, would be a paragon of virtue, instead of a sleazy meth head with 4 kids from between 5 and 7 daddies, who sleeps with everybody in the trailer park. Skin color doesn’t have that much to do with her behavior – genetics probably has something to do with it – but the family she got born into, and the neighborhood has a lot to do with it too. She’s not an outlier. There are entire communities built of pasty white dirtbags much like herself.
Africa has greater genetic diversity than any other continent. To the extent genetics controls behavior, you should have more bad behaving people and more properly behaving people, more brilliant folks and more mouth breathers, with a flatter distribution of ability than you see in European- communities.
But then half my family is southern European so that makes me one a them racial mongrels you guys are always so upset about.
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Hypergamy in action.
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I’m loving the song title references!
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People ask hy I refuse to have a male lead singer in our band. It is because it is rare talent indeed that a male singer doesn’t sing whiny assed songs, or live a pansy assed life, and at the same time doesn’t try to dominate the attention of the crowd, and as a result try to lead the band.
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From one of the posts you linked: “After a leetle prying, it is usually revealed that these howling anti-game termagants are north of the Matron-Vixen line.”
😆 Keep it up brother.
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Yeah, that Matron-Vixen line is classic gold… he’s used it before, and I’ve been using it ever since. 😉
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I can’t give this the GBFM treatment, but:
“That night, with the help of some coconut oil from my kitchen I experienced every orifice of that dusky beauty. Color me 100% convinced now. Asshole game works.”
It takes the Asshole to get the Asshole ….
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BON!
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the good thing about chasing a nigger, if you’re into that sort of thing, is that you don’t have to worry about whether you come across as an asshole. It doesn’t fucking matter.
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Ha ha ha.
Lazy Hero
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Racemixing is ugly.
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This is something I’m starting to understand, but only after my time became valuable to me. Too valuable to waste it on things that don’t give me something return. I’m still learning it, but women having to compete with other things that a man deems just as valuable or more than the woman can work like an aphrodisiac. Or, unintentional application of learned charisma through judicious judgement and execution of opportunity costs. Differently stated, have other things that bring value to your life than a woman. Valuable enough to prevent you from spending too much with a single woman. On the surface no different than asshole game.
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I love how girls in their POF profiles issue stern warnings about “no assholes or douchebags” whilst, collectively, swooning for these characters in real life. It seems the hotter a girl is, the more of an asshole the boyfriend will be. As a naif adolescent and undergraduate I couldn’t understand this for the life of me, much to my consternation. In high school I worked in a dish room and one of my “colleagues” was a mean, nasty, don’t talk to nobody, tattooed, high school educated dishwasher whose main functions at work were to empty the garbages. His girlfriend was a hot stripper.
So it’s a fact, hot girls love assholes, they just don’t know it.
To men starting out on a game career, hoping to slay righteous pussy, you’d be well-advised to incorporate assholery into your persona.
In fact, when I transitioned from blue pill days, I’d try assholing, but it would backfire. Problem was I was still a recovering niceguy and the assholery was incongruent. It repulsed women; a snivelling beta boy who suddenly deploys asshole tactics is, in my opinion, incongruent and they can see that.
So, my theory is that you basically have to go full asshole or nothin’. Cocky-funny certainly puts you on the path to being an asshole.
Introducing harmless assholery into married life can help you maintain the upper hand with the wife though, and in the long run, preserve the marriage.
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I’m beginning to think that hot girls love emotional pain, which assholes provide in abundance.
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Women love emotional pain IF it is connected to their pussy. There is a bond that forms, similar to the pain of losing her virginity and in childbirth. Pain releases endorphins and other feel good stuff.
Just walking around being an asshole to random women when there is no vibe, tingle or hook up, well that’s not gonna work. Understanding of course that asshole can magnify a very slight vibe of course. But still.
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In fact, when I transitioned from blue pill days, I’d try assholing, but it would backfire. Problem was I was still a recovering niceguy and the assholery was incongruent. It repulsed women; a snivelling beta boy who suddenly deploys asshole tactics is, in my opinion, incongruent and they can see that.
Bitterbeta and asshole aren’t the same.
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“Introducing harmless assholery into married life can help you maintain the upper hand with the wife though, and in the long run, preserve the marriage.”
Yep, there needs to be an article giving detailed advice on preserving a marriage and making your wife horny. The B.S. passed around from counselors about acting more beta and meeting more of your wife’s needs is pathetic. They charge money for that.
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Yep, such counseling put the final nail in the coffin of my marriage. The (feminist YKW female) counselor basically advised us that the problem was that I (who was the sole breadwinner, working 50 hours a week) did not empty the dishwasher or do other household chores enough. I kid you not.
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the POF profiles of former CC riders aged 34-37 are HILARIOUS (or sad, if you care about white civilization)
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Hey I need help advice on how to overcome a situation..
I approached a couger at a Supermarket, who gave me IOIs, looked at me sideways( she gave me the look first) and got near me. I got too nervous, so I didn’t do anything., I’m a newbie getting my social and dating skills honed so I can fuck the girls that obviously want to fuck me 😀
I approached her after looking for her, and I told her she was beautiful, and I asked for her name and we shook hands. I was going to ask for her age, but shes a couger lol. She would’ve taken offense, so I just asked for her number.. she said I’m engaged, showed me her ring finger, but had her phone out and everything. She gave me signs, and was engaged when I spoke to her.
My question is could I have picked her up anyways? an engaged couger, she was interested.. was this a shit test? Do I need to make more small talk? Rapport and comfort despite her IOIs?
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this is what I do if they are married or have BFs (you’d be surprised how many girls wear fake rings to weed out the weak.)
Anyway, the line is simple
Alpha-In-Training:” so, let’s grab a drink sometime.”
Cougar: “Oh! That’s so sweet, but I’m engaged, see my ring?”
AiT: “Hey, it’s just coffee”
::hands her the phone with the ‘New Contact’ screen already open::
C: “I shouldn’t…”
AiT: “How about this, I’ll shoot you a text and you can think it over.”
Works like a charm.
The above does two things. It demonstrates that you are persistent and get what you want. Secondly, she has plausible deniability. You’ve given her jiminy cricket a way to justify her giving out her number.
It sails right past any objections in a smooth manner.
The “it’s just coffee” and “I’ll shoot you a text and you can decide.” win 80% of the time.
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Why Jiminy cricket ?
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Nvm, its another way of saying Jesus Christ.. jiminy cricket. Obvious
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how do you follow up in the text?
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Lol troll
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Will thanks. You broke it down so I could understand and do it better next time.
Anonymous fuck you hehe
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It is pretty amazing to see his success via pure disregard for her feels or expectations. It’s almost enough to overshadow the fact that he’s a higgerfucker.
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For the gallery….
The situation: have been sleeping with a retired porn star over the past several months.
The problem: she resists giving bj’s on the regular, giving em up only when she’s “really feeling the moment” (wtf).
It’s a pretty obvious asd, with her citing the shameful pornographic past as the reason why she often resists (“it’s a personal issue I have, it stems from my past”).
Thoughts?
Ps, it’s probably worth mentioning that she’ll usually cave and chug if I tell her she’s killing the mood and threaten to split.
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Well done @driveallnight you have elevated LTR duty sex to PORN STAR sex! We all thank you.
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Meh. She’s prob an 8.5 and the sex is grade A, but her issues are myriad
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Heh – what i meant was for married guys getting the begrudging “do I have to?” or annual birthday BJ’s, they can now consider this PORN STAR sex. A balm on the soul.
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Ah, gotcha
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I hope you’re putting condoms on your condoms. Otherwise, you’re playing Russian Roulette with a single empty chamber.
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Nah. She did the barely legal thing from age 18 to 19, been retired ten years, tested repeatedly.
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Asshole game!
Women really do behave differently in bed with alphas and betas.
Since adopting a more alpha persona, around 5 years ago. Apart from upping the standard of women I let into my life, I’ve found one other very unexpected bonus…. Sex is a whole lot better and a whole lot wilder.
Once a woman assesses you as alpha, there seems to be almost nothing she won’t do to please you in bed. Two of the current plates have started sticking their tongues into my asshole . Kind of shocked me at first but I guess it’s just a sign of the times.
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this is only the tip of the iceberg. buy some 50 shades equipment. I spank this one bitch’s pussy with a ruler…she fkin loves it. In bed, you have to dominate.
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Chateau scholars, I present a situation that has this pupil wondering. There’s this bitch I attend college with and we have only kissed (I met her last wednesday).. This bish is reluctant to my advances, doesn’t let me go past kissing. I’ve applied some dread and it has worked well, but just to get her back, still not letting me grab those titties.
Then a couple of people told me that she has a boyfriend, but this boyfriend is an asshole. The good type, the type that get people wondering how can someone wants to be with lulz. I’ve been an asshole with her too but I’m afraid I haven’t been applying the accurate dosage, this new information told to me today, has got me wondering.
How do you game a bish with a boyfriend who is the good type of asshole?
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I’m no alpha but, leave her and find someone more willing.
Sounds like she’s just revelling in the attention and keeping you on hold, spesh if she has a bloke already.
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Bed her sister.
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@David Have a similar situation but minus the boyfriend. I meet the girl, cute, 26 at a party, escalate, get her out. Try to kiss her, she keeps turning her head. Stays over night….turns her head. Day before I go away on holiday turns her head. Then asks me “Why did you try to kiss me?”
ME: I’m a man you’re a woman.
I go radio silence. Sent her a photo from my holiday about something she wanted me to buy. Radio silence again.
You have to know when to walk away. Girls will always make it easy.
THis one keeps saying “I want to know you better.”
Contrast this with other girl, this one older 37 but looks great. Met her at party on my holiday. IOI, escalate, spend whole day together, make outs. But she was staying with friend so couldn’t bang her. Now she’s writing me, sending me photos, chit chatting until we meet up again…for the bang.
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David, how “assholeish” is this guy – “assholeish” enough to get four or five of his equally “assholeish” fraternity brothers to corner you in a dark alley and beat the shit out of you after he finds out that you’ve been messing around with girlfriend? Your RKBA is your friend. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=rkba
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That doesn’t really happen. I think you’ve seen School Ties too many times.
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If she’s making out with you semi-reg after just a week of knowing you and has an actual bf, then you’re in good shape, especially if the bf is high-value.
You need to isolate her. Invite her over to hangout and have a beer or something. Seems textbook.
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“RT @Nero: Telegraph: all sex is now illegal http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/law-and-order/11375667/Men-must-prove-a-woman-said-Yes-under-tough-new-rape-rules.html 2 hours ago”
ARHRGGRGH WHY must we follow America’s stupid bullshit EVERY time.
Queue the fucked up teen massacres when they end up lonely and frustrated through following this bullshit.
A noose around all men’s necks. Innocent until proven guilty? Yeah right.
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I saw that shit, too! Get a load of the broad pushing this shit through. What’s funny is that on CH’s twitter feed, it’s right above the VR porn vid. One thing leads to another.
The Fixx is in.
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Take a look at “Mrs.” Saunders, one of the ringleaders.
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As has been mentioned before, ad nauseum, here at the chateau…
… these “tough new rules” are SJW YT’s way of trying to cope with the behavior of the darkies who are inundating the West… without having to mention said darkies.
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No it’s not.
This law is designed specifically to sow distrust between the sexes and to punish evil men (all men) without them having a chance to defend themselves. Ugly fembots need revenge!
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Actually, yes it is…
I’ve seen the progress over the past three decades, society-wide.
Anecdotal, perhaps, but it dawned on me while in the Army… the jigs would act up on base and say shit to the wrong lady, and the next day new rules would come down from on high… because the Colonel’s wife heard something she didn’t like.
The fembots ain’t looking to hurt polite guys… they’re looking to shut down the big mouth assholes, most of whom just “happen” to be of a darker hue… but they can’t say that out loud, because that would upset the race-is-only-skin-deep apple cart.
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And when I say “big mouth assholes”, I don’t mean the type of assholes that women dig…
… I mean douche bag, no class, wouldn’t-know-alpha-if-Genghis-Khan-was-their-personal-trainer assholes.
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I’m living in another country as you, still a western society and what I say is a lot of regret or revenge rape accusations to decent guys. It’s also often used against hubbies alongside with child molestation to gain sole custody and to punish the beta shlub. On the other hand we don’t have that many blacks.
Obviuously it’s the same situation in the UK, because these “asian” dudes almost never get convicted of real rape.
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I meant see not say…
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Note that when I say “darkies”, I don’t mean just negroes.
And divorce laws are a bit of a different war against men than are the hubbubs against rape and male sexual aggression, both real and imagined. Stay on the topic.
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These asian men can rape as many girls as they want and not get accused, because it is not pc to accuse them of rape. And mind you, these cases are real rapes beyond doubt not “I regret doing him”.
On the other hand such “laws” turn our court system upside down with the burden of proof on the accused. That’s ridulous…
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Out with the 19-year old hot girl tonight. Non-stop hair-flipping and running-hands-through-hair.
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Out with the 19-year old hot girl tonight. Non-stop hair-flipping and running-hands-through-hair.
Wow, another reason I prefer 30+ Frankly I am surpirsed you were able to find a good looking 19 year old as all the ones I see are awkward PUFA, GMO grain fed air heads.
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You need to spend more time at the beaches. And smoothie shops next to yoga places.
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HER: “You’re hawt…!” :::shakes her head and presses her size Ds into my chest:::
ME: “Yeah. I get that a lot.”
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Um….. the smell of BS often reeks even from text comments.
There are guys here who can get women that young, but LBF doesn’t strike me as anywhere near one of them.
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why do you think so Freddie?
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Sometimes a phony twit just goes too far with his exaggeration.
We all do a bit of it, but Laguna Bitch Faggy crosses the line where he just provokes revulsion from anyone with a BS and neediness detector.
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It seems that one night stand sex is so much worse than sex in a relationship at least the first month or so of a relationship. Can women even squirt when having a one night stand?
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Yes. You’re doing it wrong.
I presume with sluts though they’re likely not going to be AS excited since they’ll have done it all before, many many times. Whereas a less slutty lass in a relationship will still be learning new things all the time.
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I’m at 2 squirts + 2 solidly juicys out of my last 6 girls on the first night.
Physiologically, as long as you’re hitting the g-spot you’re good. Psychologically, it boils down to a trust thing. In a relationship she can get squirty and know that she’s not going to be judged for it. But even then there are a lot of hangups. That’s why you’re not getting it ONS, she’s not going to let her guard down for some rando. She doesn’t trust you enough.
I used to be more tacit about it, saying shit like “baby cum for me, let it out” beating around the bush that I wanted her to squirt with mixed results. Now I’m getting better. Two components:
1. Physically take away any responsibility she has. Girls will try to push you away when they get close to squirting. Handcuff or tie her to something. Pin her hands above her head with one hand. Tell her to pull on your hair or claw your back. But keep her hands occupied so afterward she feels like she almost couldn’t stop you, so it’s not her fault. lol.
2. Realize it feels like she has to pee. Most girls are not comfortable peeing on a guy they just met, so you need to address the shit out of that.
Grab her hair, make her look straight into your fucking eyes and talk as much filth as you possibly can while you push her over the edge. A bunch of things to throw into your dirty talk, both egging her on and explicitly addressing her concerns: tell her that you want her to squirt for you, that you know it feels like she has to piss but she peed before you fucked so it can’t be piss it’s girlcum, tell her to let go and let it feel good, that good little girls cum for daddy lol, that you put a liner down and that you want her to fucking soak the sheets.
Relentlessly making her hold eye contact is really good too. The emotional intensity distracts her from her hangups and trying to hold back.
Again, this is a trust issue, so I’ve found that it’s easier after the second or third fuck. Beyond the additional juiciness (lol) she’s more comfortable. A good way to prime this is earlier in the date or before the pull make some quick comment about an ex that squirted. It’s become a pretty standard part of my pile of first date questions to ask if she’s ever squirted. Regardless of her answer, “haha yeah I think squirting is super hot. Porn has definitely corrupted my mind. ;)”
The other thing I like to do is debrief girls a bit after they’ve squirted. I make them look at the wet spot/puddle. “You made that.” then launch into a canned story about how when I was younger I liked to jerk off and put my cum pretty much everywhere. Cars, rocks, walls. Like orgasm was good but I was just proud that I’d made that cum lol. “I feel like this is the first time you’ve gotten to feel that. That you actually made that. [look at the spot] I’m really proud of you, are you proud of you?” They always give me the big girly eyes, smile and nod at that point.
If it’s a cute little wet spot and not soaked I often end up sleeping with my face in the wet spot. Pheromones or something. Girls think it’s cute. I do it because I’m a perv and I like it, you don’t have to do it though. lol
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That’s some good shit right there.
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It’s piss.
Sorry to burst your bubble. It’s always just piss.
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Crazy you wrote about that — literally at 2 am last night I was washing my sheets after a squirter let her jets loose. Jesus, I coulda used those lines.
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That’s the best part.
Don’t tell girls. If they know what’s up they get even more shy.
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Lol
Few months ago was banging this blonde slurr reverse cow girl anal (personal fav) and she
Frickin squirted all over the living room like a god damn golf course rain bird sprinkler…
ch ch ch ch ch ch ch chchchchchhchcchhchchc…
hot at the time…honestly tho annoyed having to get carpets cleaned.
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That all boils down to experience. Once you get a system going, you’ll notice less of a difference. You have to find your system, tho. What kind of sex do you want to have with a girl?
Ideally, you should have a few systems. Maybe sometimes you’re feeling rougher s&m stuff and other times you’re feeling more sensual.
In my surprised experience, girls are down for pretty much whatever, provided you do it like a man.
Only way to figure out what you like is to just…..be with a bunch of girls.
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On an unrelated note I noticed that every fourth commercial on T.V. makes the man look beta/fem/idiot.
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Misgenation. Women are sheep who do what they’re told to do. The aggressive mass push of the supposed sexiness of a black man is working. I am seeing lots and lots of black man- super hot white girl couples out when I am out on dates and this is a new thing. one did not see that five or 10 years ago. Kind of like how every young hot woman wants to have her older man experience; now they all have to have their black experience too. It is total bullshit. YKW are winning or have one because of their complete domination of every movie and everything that these innocent girls see on a TV , Computer, or movie screen.
Yareally preaches not to be jealous of another man’s success but in this type of case it is bullshit I’m talking about a low class African dark level idiot who is simply defiling this beautiful 21-year-old lily white girl. that is her disrespecting her white father. And the macrolevel politics issues that CH discusses matter too. immigration , diversity , proximity. They should not even be here to do this to our women.
If you watch anything on mainstream media–TV shows and commercials whether it’s a commercial for a Toyota car or Bank loan or anything–it is always a black white mixed couple and at these girls do see this and internalize it as cool.
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The Yareally philosophy is tactical: how to best enjoy the poolside. To keep things in hedonistic register, what his vision lacks is the strategic: keeping the pool from going to shit.
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And the other three have no men in them whatsoever.
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Because it’s women who make most household purchases, moron.
Point taken about “dumb guy” beer commercials though. That meme’s been kicked to death.
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The only moron here is you, shillstein… and damn near every one of your inane socio-political posts gets berated by several, including the proprietor of the manor himself… multiple times.
But leave it to you, bitch you is, to insinuate your usual suspect inadequacy into a jest reply of mine.
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There’s a funeral for the word “inane” tomorrow. I heard it was killed by some asshole at the Chateau who jabbers it whenever he gets backed into a corner.
[CH: the famed inane falls mainly in this pane.
(but yeah, in all seriousness people, try to avoid sounding like a broken record for a few days at least. or if unable to do that, grab a thesaurus)]
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Spirit within, why are 90% of all interviewees in documentaries Jews?
[CH: here’s a hopeful note: if you’re concerned about jewish over-representation in all propaganda organs, (and the fact of it is unassailable) a thing you should consider is that historically a dominant group’s crass stranglehold on the levers of power often immediately precedes its decline and radically curtailed influence.]
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Sometimes a word is so fitting, an alternative would only be a poor substitute.
And in the case of StraponWithin, inane is the very word.
The fact that his latest pop-gun arsenal of snark can only come up with a dull barb relating to its continued use… and the usual suspect claim of victory where none has been achieved (“backed into a corner”, indeed… lzlzozlzozlopzlozl)… has caused the good folks at Webster to bestow upon him the following dubious “honor”:
From here on out, when you look up “inane” in the dictionary, you will see his picture.
Congrats, schmuck.
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Greg Eliot, you are one hateful son of a bitch.
New readers, take note.
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After decades of language deconstruction “hateful” doesn’t mean what it used to mean. An empty word from an empty vessel, here.
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Thanks CH. When is this decline of YKW power going to start? They just appointed a transvestite freak who has spent his/her life fucking up the minds of children as Physician General of the great state of Pennsylvania.
:’-/
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LZOZLZOZLZOZLZOZLOZLOZLZOLOZLOL… StaponWithin, the self-appointed hall monitor.
Yes, new readers, take note… shill for the Cathedral in the most douche-chilling of verbiage and YKW attitude, get a good ol’ fashioned Cyberian ass whuppin’… courtesy of Greg Eliot, et. al…. up to and including the chateau’s own proprietor… a singular dishonor, that, since the latter deigns to deliver a smack down only in the most imbecilic of cases.
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I remember once going to the bathroom on a date and thinking to myself…Do I really want to be here? I walked out without telling her. She had no problem seeing me again on another date.
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Is it a good idea to have facebook? girls can see who you are a little more and they May be a little more comfortable hanging out. But also there’s bros with crazy cool traveling pics and other cool shit, thats hard to compete with….
What are some of the pros thoughts on having FB?
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@will – You should just have “crazy cool traveling pics and other cool shit” as part of your life, not as window dressing.
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What is the difference b/w DHV and qualifying yourself?
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I’d boil it down to show, don’t tell. DHVs are typically more ambient, and not something that you typically tell her about yourself.
If you are a guitarist in a rock band, the host of a party, or have a hot girlfriend—and she just happens so see those things, DHV.
If you have to tell her you’re a guitarist in a rock band, tell her that you host crazy parties, or tell her that you have a hot girlfriend—especially with intent to impress, you’re qualifying.
A good way around that I’ve found is to be a halfway “embarrassed” about whatever you’re trying to tell her. “My last girlfriend really liked to be choked and since then I’ve been really into it. Totally a dominance thing but I love doing it… jeeze I can’t believe I’m telling you this. Don’t blab ok.”
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Displaying high value can be be something that doesn’t directly involve your target. For example, you walk into a room with a hot chick on your arm. Your target is on the other side of the room (or you haven’t even identified her yet). That in and of itself Displays High Value. Perhaps you are also wearing a suit, in a club full of under-dressed guys. Another DHV. You can also of course display high value in conversation via humblebrags and how you interact with waitstaff (girls flirting with you and you flirting back, right in front of your target. This works like a charm, had a hot hostess bringing me free beers because i ordered her to in a playful manner and she was digging me; my date kept telling me “you’re bad…” and was naked an hour later).
Qualifying yourself is when you are directly trying to show your target that you are high value. It is basically being a try hard – telling them how much you make, what expensive hobbies you have, inviting them to your beach house on the first date (my buddies cousin actually did this, the chick was repulsed, of course). Your goal is to in no way qualify yourself to your target; instead, focus on making her qualify to you. Qualifying yourself means SHE is the prize – fuck that. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. She is lucky you are taking the time out of your awesome, very busy life to see if she is even worth letting into your life (in a very limited way).
Happy hunting
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The yar archive is now updating again. Yay.
I’m looking at implementing new features. Chateau readers, I want your feedback. Which do you want more?
1. A star/upvote system so particularly amazing posts are obvious, or
2. Pull in some other commenters and make other commenters searchable.
I’m welcome to other suggestions too!
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As a sidenote, I’m in Bogotá, Columbia with a great wingman and absolutely slaying on tinder. It’s delightful. Clubs are great too. As a good looking gringo, I can roll up to 9s and it almost always hooks! Learn some spanish before you go but definitely a good pickup travel destination.
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Bravo sir! I don’t have any suggestions, it’s good as it is in my view. Tengo muchas ganas de conocer a columbia – tienes mucha suerte. Aprovecha!
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More FRs pleaj.
Add immoralgables and walawala
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Colombia.
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I spel gud.
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@Lumpy – what’s there is good as is – it’s simple and fulfils its main function.
If you’re looking to improve, then:
-Adding Having A Bad Day and Sentient’s posts would be great (there are some other v good posters but they don’t post as much)
-Maybe an FR category for comments that are Field Reports and related commentary? NOt sure it is worth it.
Hmm
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Thanks for the feedback!
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Lumpy – Many thanks for doing this.
1) Star/upvote system would be incredible
2) Proposed commenters to pull in
– You (LumpyPUA)
– Hook or Crook
– DarkHorse
– Hunter
– Walawala
– Simon Corso
– Latent Sadist
– Sentient
– Have a Bad Day
– Kant
Enjoy Colombia.
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Lol your list is really similar to mine. Hope you’re still at it man!
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@immoral My last great pick up was at the start of my holidays. I met an Asian girl at a party. IOI, dance, tease. Realize her English isn’t that good. Pull back on the negs and increase kino. We have beers. She likes this. More dancing. I build comfort: “What do you feel when you hear and dance to this?” More “connection”—incepting this idea. Early on I propose meeting up to go to the beach the next day.
This was a gamble because I’d met her only 15 minutes. She agreed to meet up. We danced and chatted all night. I called her tto see she got home. She met me at my hotel. We took a ferry out to the island beach. I start taking photos of us. This is one thing I notice girls love: photos and selfies of us. I make sure the girl is leaning into me and I have a slight smile. I start posing her. We rent bikes, have lunch. I start calling her “solider” because she’s not complaining. She tells me actually I’m very perceptive because she comes from a military family.
We sit on the rocks. She’s afraid of heights, I pretend to throw her onto the rocks below, she holds onto me. I look into her eyes, kiss her. She responds. I then change subject and we continue.
We have more drinks, cool meal, more make out. I suggest we walk along the beach at night—she loves this.
A lot of this was all about taking charges. I bring her to my room and we’re making out. The friend she’s staying with calls to check on her, sends a taxi for her—can’t bang her.
But since then she’s sent photos, likes my vacation photos. She’s planning to come to my city for a trade show.
I put all this out there because she is older than my usual target—36 but looks and acts much younger. I’ll see how this all goes but throughout the interaction I didn’t over-game. She told me: “You kiss how you dance….soft but strong”. This is the essence of game and being the alpha chicks want to bang. I’ve now started calibrating my game so I don’t overdo the cocky funny unless it’s required. My game is much more tailored to the girl I’m gaming.
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No suggestions as of now- just thanks and well done. Great resource.
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Well, the asshole game might work but if it works just like that, be aware of the quality of the women you get by using such game.
After all, yea, It’s fun to see we have such power and control over other people. This blog is certainly enlightening. Thanks for the work.
Ellen
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“Well, the asshole game might work but if it works just like that, be aware of the quality of the women you get by using such game.”
*yawn*
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Yawn back.
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Sandwichmaker, it is malfunction. Who sandwichmaker this is?
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Anyone else read Sailer’s review of Houellebecq’s latest and all the other things aside, smiled wistfully at the scenes of women’s return to modesty?
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Dear Little Miss Ellen, are you 100% certain that you are not an agent of the Holder Justice Department who was sent over here to entrap us in some sort of an interstate child solicitation setup?
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Put the cuffs on me now lol
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Toots, if you want to fancy yourself of a quality that surpasses others of your gender, you’re going to have to retort with something a bit more stinging that “Yawn back.”
:duckface
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Oops. Someone is defensive.
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Indeed… you.
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Don’t respond to women in the comments section. They’re looking for attention. Any attention you give them — bad or good — rewards them.
Just leave them to chatter into the ether, unheard. They’ll move on.
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I read all this and didn’t reply. Sure I want attention, you know me well, mr women expert lol don’t know who wants whose attention but yea I shouldn’t even write this because there’d probably be more butthurt reponses from a bunch of trying way too hard internet dudes. Oops 😛 Please do me a favour and prove me wrong then 😉
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Say, Ellie, is it true you Oriental quims have sideways-parted labia… and that when you slide down a banister, it makes the sound of a motorboat?
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She’s right. All any troll needs is a semi-attractive female pic and username and the regulars here line up to neg her and engage thirstily with her every inane comment.
[CH: actually i only see a few presumably male readers doing that. most just bat the troll around once and move on.]
Who bitch this is?
[sometimes it’s fun to fuck around with a troll.]
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Stop messing ya’ll.
Niggas: Who this malfunctioning sandwichmaker is?
oink
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Yo, collective wisdom of the ancients. I find myself in need of some guidance here. My LTR – 13 years younger, 3 points higher – has had to leave town to care for a dying relative. This might take longer than a few weeks by the looks of things. It’s a 24/7 job, and she’s three hours away from our town.
Like all well-prepped chaps, I have two occasional plates in the kitty – an endearingly crazy hotbody Latina and a genius level adoring chubster, plus I’m getting green lights from the local mulatto coffee shop barista which I haven’t followed up on yet.
My question relates to an unusual type of shit test my LTR delivered when up in town on a brief visit the other day. She suggested that I bang other women while she’s off caring for her relative. There was no suggestion that she wants out of the LTR, and she was VERY keen to see me, but she twice suggested that I ‘have some fun’ during her absence. My response was a nonplussed “If I feel like it, maybe I will.” Which I think was a bit weak, but I don’t know how to read this shit test.
Any thoughts?
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One thing – and this is for other dudes not you per se – but the reference to 3 points higher implies that she is better looking as a girl than you are as a guy. It’s easy for guys to make the comparison like this all the time because that’s how we asses female smv but it’s not how women asses male smv. You know this most obviously because she IS 3 points higher relative to your rank among males in physical appearance YET she is with you. Looks are a plus to women not determanitive. Will they drool over hard body hip hop guys on interest with their friends YES, but it does not preclude them at all from being smitten by and having crazy sex with short ugly pot bellied dudes (who otherwise display alpha and dynamic passionate and authentic traits). I say this as an above average looking guy. I’ve seen both sides up close.
Second if what she threw you was a shot test you handled it well, basically she was still trying to demonstrate some dominance by giving you her “PERMISSION” to be with other girls. You handled it well. Could have blown up with something like “I don’t need your permission you know” or “thanks mom I’ll remember to wear a rubber” or “ppffft as if I wasn’t” or similar.
But it also could be a loyalty test. In a ltr it is not 100 percent alpha asshole all the time, that’s how you get a str …. You need some balance of alpha and beta. So if she is otherwise a good girl you may through out a little bit of comfort like “well I’m gonna get tired of hamburger all the time I look forward to my main meal when you get back” or something that shows she is still your 1 girl. Then pat her on the head give her a kiss and slap her ass.
You need to feel out where things are. Passing a loyalty test once in a while will go a long way in keeping a ltr happily on Trac with low drama.
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Yeh, I know about the different scales for men and women. Just offering background info.
I agree, this *smells* like a loyalty test (especially since there was a babyhunger convo yesterday – I’m not averse because ‘Moar Whyte Babeez’ etc) but if so it’s the second time she’s pulled it.
When she first moved to look after her relative, she sent a break-up text because she ‘couldn’t do the relationship and care for her relative properly’. I held frame with: “I’m not done with you yet.” And that went away. But now it’s overt invitations to go out banging other women. So I dunno if maybe she has a thing about being cheated on, or it’s a loyalty test, or she’s mate-guarding in her own absence (I constantly DHV by being in the company of my team of plates), or something else again.
Hard to feel things out when she’s out of town most of the time. I am inclined to give the Latina a spin, but suspect she’d want a LTR of her own, which is of no interest.
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As a girl, the ONLY reason I’d suggest that is if I had one foot out of the RL already.
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Stopped reading after the third word.
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“Stopped reading after the third word.”
Lol, that’s why I prefaced it to begin with. I’m not new here.
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‘My response was a nonplussed “If I feel like it, maybe I will.” Which I think was a bit weak, but I don’t know how to read this shit test.
Any thoughts?’
Lol.
It depends on how you delivered the line, as always. These types of shit-tests are so easy: you always jokingly answer.
Like…’oh yeah, I’m meeting up with my other girlfriend tomorrow.’ ‘Yeah, it’s going to be tough arranging all my other girls to fill in for all of these eight or nine days…you owe me.”
Textbook amused mastery.
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I likely came off with unintended amused mastery. Still getting texts today none of which reference the ‘go bang other chicks’ shit. I’m gonna have to watch this shit, though, because I still can’t read whether she’s loyalty-testing or shit-testing.
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IMO it really doesn’t matter. I always prefer playing it optimal. If it’s a loyalty test, then the fact that you’re joking around with her — like the idea is silly — will set her at ease. If it’s a true alpha shit test, then the fact that you’re joking around with her — like what she said doesn’t matter — will set her at ease.
She sees what she wants to see too, you know.
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I bring you your daily black on black “teen” shooting.
http://m.wsvn.com/article.html?hash=/108324/09ece949d698b1808a7286af0947fde9/http://www.wsvn.com/story/27965834/teen-injured-in-s-miami-shooting-hospitalized
#blacklivesmatter
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Dog Bites Man… not news.
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My asshole entry:
I was dating this girl for 6-7 weeks when she started trying to play jealousy games, so I nexted her. She showed up at my house the next day with a starbucks caramel frappuccino as a “peace offering.”
Now, I HATE unannounced visits. I told her I wasn’t going to drink it, she said she didn’t like coffee either. So I grabbed the drink and dumped it out on the ground in front of her. She asked if she could come in and I laughed and shut the door in her face.
She texted me for days and days afterwards. When I was feeling horny, I told her to come over. She sat there while I played videogames for a few hours and ignored her, then I grabbed her and fucked her as hard as I felt like. She curled up after like she was going to sleep in my bed, and I said, “What are you doing? Go home.” She meekly complied.
Now the joke’s on me, because we’re still together now some 8 months later. I did keep dating other women and only seeing her as a FWB for months, but she stuck around. I guess I established the boundaries and she figured out my limits.
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I love the pouring out of the drink.
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m88, can you see how this all works from the EvoPsych point of view? Her ovaries and her hindbrain don’t yearn for an effete metrosexual panty-waist pajama boy dweeb as the father of her chiildren – her ovaries and her hindbrain yearn for a REAL MAN. Keep it up with the masculinity and the testosterone [and give her lots and lots of orgasms whenever you consent to fucking her] and all will be well.
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Thanks. I find it funny sometimes when people accuse me of “mistreating” her, which usually means me just refusing her in some way. Like when she invites me out on lame dates with her friends, and I say no. This always comes from men. They’ll say I’m either “screwing up big time” by potentially pissing her off, or I am missing out on a chance to “score points” with her. They tell me she will withhold sex if I refuse, or reward me with sex if I comply. This is so dumb. I already get all the sex and blowjobs I want from her. If she withholds, I go elsewhere. She has no leverage.
It bothers me that everyone automatically assumes women are the boss and control men via sex. This view is so pervasive people don’t even think about it, it’s just considered self-evident.
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“Thanks. I find it funny sometimes when people accuse me of “mistreating” her, which usually means me just refusing her in some way.”
You can also point out that you’re not holding a gun to her head. If she doesn’t like the way you treat her, she can always leave.
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I think the key here is “Bi-racial”. Probably, statistically, a white mother/black father thing.
So I have been hanging out quite a bit on HBDChick’s twitter feed, Jayman, and then also on Scott Alexander’s feed. And everything is “heritable”. Practically nothing is from “Nurture” or the “Culture”. Food preferences are heritable, depression is heritable, math is heritable, politics are heritable, you name it. It’s a regular Gattica in terms of “determinism”, Calvin writ large in a genetic sense.
I have this rule with women, “Once you go black, don’t bother coming back.”
Conscientiousness, future sense, self moderation are all part and part of positive life stories. And, yes, those particular qualities have been bexplicitly pointed out as heritable qualities, often selected for as a product of Manorialism.
So a white girl that would risk even any possible situation, that would even go on a date, much less fuck a black, even one time, is a woman that could give two shits about reality and the future of her children.
And for me, she is certainly one to be avoided if a man gives any shit about the future of his offspring. She is beyond just a hypergamistic risk. She is a genetic liability. Not even as a pump and dump unless you have had a vasectomy. I would even trick a girl asking something like, “You have no problem with interracial relationships? You’re not a racist are you? You would sleep with a black man if you were attracted to him wouldn’t you?” And if I got some “Of course I would” response, I would slip out the back, jack. Literally get up a leave her sitting there.
She is one that lets Gina Tingles and some primal need to be dominated overwhelm her “better angels”. And one that probably certainly responds to extreme Jerk Boy manners. And given the availability of abortion for the past 50 years, being of the libtard inclination to actually fuck a black, she certainly would have little problem is getting one. Yet, she had it anyway knowing it would be cursed with the misfortune of it’s racial reality. All because she was susceptible to jerk boy sperm.
And that shit is certainly heritable. Like mother like daughter.
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Um….. if that were the case, then why didn’t black women in America, starting from 1865 itself, aggressively reproduce only with white men, even if only as mistresses on the side?
There should be no black people left in America, only light mulattos, if black women were at all driven to aim higher on the genetic ladder, thus cutting off black men and eventually making blacks vanish from America altogether.
Even if they started from 1865, that is enough time for 5-6 generations. They could have started even earlier given that some blacks were free before 1865…
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While some of this is true, it is funny to see it from Mark Minter, given how he was once friends with Roosh, even talking to him on the phone.
Roosh is a Muslim Middle-Easterner who has fucked 50-100 white chicks across all sorts of countries.
And don’t claim Roosh is white. That doesn’t fly here.
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“given how he was once friends with Roosh, even talking to him on the phone.”
correction: Roosh was once a fan of Mark’s writing.
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correction: Roosh was once a fan of Mark’s writing.
That’s a stretch, toots. Roosh produces content…..Mark…does not.
At least you convinced the old sod that you never mudsharked before. I’ll give you that. There is a sucker born every minute.
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Dude… if you have a problem with Minter, take it up with him, not with his woman.
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PA,
Perhaps you hadn’t noticed that she butted in first, and I was merely responding. So your whiteknighting is misplaced.
I suppose I could be more CH-themed and asked :
“Who bitch this is?”,
……but we already know who is her betrothed, so the question would not be useful.
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Exceptional comment.
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Since it’s asshole week, I could use the opinion of the Chateau’s denizens. Coming up for the third summer, I’ll be working with a much younger college SJW, who thinks I’m a low grade asshole. Recently she acquired a boyfriend, and will no doubt drone on about it at work. I’d like to bang this girl, and my first instinct is to tell her up front that if she wants to talk about it, find a girlfriend, cause I ain’t that. However, I’m tempted to let her talk about the relationship, all along pointing out his beta traits. At the same time, up my jerkitude. Thoughts?
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You’ve known her for going on three years? Forget it. You are penis non grata to her. Your only possible hope would be to start dating someone else and to tell her all about it.
Also, no I wouldn’t listen to her dumb humblebragging, but work is tricky. You don’t want to get a complaint because everyone will take her side. Just ignore her and keep things strictly business. She’ll get the hint and gossip somewhere else.
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I agree with you to an extent about the time thing…but my SMV has went way up recently due to massive weight loss….she doesn’t know. Unlike most people new to RP…I don’t need advice to “lift”, since my LBM is 230 pounds. I just had to get bf% down.
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Too many red flags – three years pre-exposure with no IOI. The SJW nonsense. Plus she has a bloke. I say nip this oneitis in the bud (if it isn’t already fully blown) and seek other options.
In fact, the best way to bang this chick is if she sees you banging other options. You are not a sexual option to her, and the quickest (likely only) way you will be is if she sees you as a sexual option for others (pre-selection.)
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Actually, there we’re IOI last summer..but I don’t think my SMV was high enough to overcome her societal programming, and my confidence was shit. The first summer, we were pretty oblivious to each other. I fully intend to bring other women into the store where we work this summer, judge her reaction to it. I’m mostly trying to decide whether to ignore her relationship stuff(aloof) etc, or undermine him as a “nice guy”.
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Skinner’s right, go find other girls. No chance with this one until you’ve bagged a half dozen other kitties in front of her.
If you actually insist on trying something, ignore her relationship for the next 3-4 months. If you make a negative comment about her guy, her new relationship energy will turn on you and viciously defend him. Then it’s even less likely you fuck her. The dynamic is explained here: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2014/10/12/important-ignore-breakup/
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you only can sabotage the boyfriend by playing UP his nice guy properties. Never, never, never play them down.
and, do you really want to stick it into a Social Justice Whore? most of them are ugly, and the ones who aren’t, are always head cases.
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Yeah, don’t talk about the new BF at all. You have nothing to gain there; you’re not going to undermine him. If she mentions him, act like she is talking about her new drapes or her cat or other boring crap you normally tune out.
When a woman talks about her man at work she is status whoring. She’s bragging to the other women to establish herself within the female hierarchy. She doesn’t actually give two shits what you or other men think.
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More of a pull-push technique than asshole game, but here goes anyway.
Couple times used this line on waitresses/girls in line to good effect.
Me: “excuse me (insert name of waitress if you know it). Has anybody bothered to compliment you on your (insert pants/hair/legs/eyes/boots) today?
Girl: “ah, um, blah blah, etc” blush.
Me: “Well, I’m sure someone will at some point today.” (insert devilish grin).OR IF YOU’RE WITH YOUR BUDDY SAY. “Hey, (insert name of buddy!) help her out!”
I’ve gotten instant blushes/arm slaps/giggles. Just something fun to do.
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A few notes on asshole game from the confines of a marriage/LTR. Now while these may not have the the same storytelling value of asking a single girl to hold your drink while fucking another girl in front of her, they do render the desired nuclear effect on a fully pampered princess bride, who has grown accustomed to her beta lackey hubby:
1. She asks you to fill her water glass with a whiney “i’m thirsty… and a wiggle of a raised glass” and you say “No thanks”.
2. She asks you to run downstairs and get her xxxx from yyyy and you say “I think you can manage that, it’s good for your glutes too”.
3. She informs you that her BFF has arranged a play date for the kids and you and her an hour away from home at some place you have zero desire to go to, and she expects you to be the driver, as always and you say “Have a good time, not interested”.
4. You make a move for sex at 10 PM on a Wednesday night, she gives you the cold shoulder and something like “we just had sex [fill in the blank] days ago”, and you say “Ok, have a good night”, kiss her on the head and leave the house “not sleepy, going out for a bit” your departing words… a furious litany of hamsterese lighting up your phone for the next hour, which you ignore.
5. and the coup de grace, when she wants to have a BIG TALK ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP and she says “I don’t like how you have been acting the last [fill in the blank]…” and you look her square in the eye and shrug “you don’t have to”.
BOOOOM goes the dynamite. Relationship reset activated. #winning #welcomebacktestes #tingles
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@Sentient: I busted out laughing at #4 and #5. I’ll add a few of my own dread-drivers:
#6 Dress/eat differently (adding variety to your life). When wife notices the switch and comments about it, say, “Yeah, I’ve moved on.”
#7 Mention the young, cute girl at the office whenever possible (commute with her if possible too). Instant wife motivator.
#8 Can’t remember who stated this, but if your wife questions anything that you mention, say “Because the words left my mouth, that’s why.”
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Gold!
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Reblogged this on Philosophies of a Disenchanted Scholar and commented:
I think I might know this girl. If so, she is very hot, yes.
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CH gets a shout out: http://www.breitbart.com/big-hollywood/2015/01/28/girls-season-4-female-author-review-is-lena-dunham-a-secret-mens-rights-propagandist/
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White Knight of the decade: http://wehuntedthemammoth.com/david-futrelle-faq/
Pursuing the “I’m a different type of man” strategy to get in women’s pants. lzozlozoz
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What a faggot.
I guess that when he talks of a Mammoth, he is referring to himself, in size and shagginess (and probably body odor).
But even that is not as bad as ‘Manboobz’ which he went by for five years. Yeah, his social awareness is high.
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i see fatrelle has finally caught onto the idea of branding.
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And OF COURSE he has the mandatory YKW-approved feminism horned rims: https://www.facebook.com/david.futrelle
lzozlozlzozz
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http://www.cnn.com/2015/01/29/politics/mccain-boots-low-life-scum-from-hearing/index.html
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White women can have the white alphas.
High caliber BW will happily take the betas.
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Neecy,
It is high time you profusely thanked white men for inventing hair-straightening technology that famous black women never dare to be seen without.
Black women (and black men who date them) have benefited greatly from the hair-straightening technology white men invented.
Q : How do you guess how much money a black woman has?
A : Look at her hair.
White men also invented plastic surgery (to narrow the nose) and other de-Negrofication technologies that black women are quite desperate to use. Compare any famous black woman to her pre-fame pictures to see how high the demand is.
But the full technical challenge of making black women look whitish/light mulatto still has a long way to go (it is a much harder challenge than merely landing a man on the moon or splitting the atom, otherwise it would be done already).
Anyway, it would be appropriate for you to extend thanks for what white men have invented. .
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😴😴😴😴Why the fk are you so obsessed with what BW do with their hair? I don’t know any straight male who gives a shit about that.
I think the true measure of whether BW are “desperate” to be white lies in what they prefer and who they overall prefer to mate with. And it’s not White men by a long shot.
Granted there are a growing MINORITY of BW who date IR, but still many prefer to make black looking kids with Black men.
And for every small 1% of BW who straighten their noses there is 100 times more non black women injecting their lips (to have and get what most BW have naturally full juicy lips) and not to mention the scores of White women who rather tan and darken their naturally pale skin to look LESS WHITISH.
Most all plastic surgery is ironically done by WHITE WOMWN to alter what they have naturally.
And what famous BW have had nose jobs? RIHANNA still has her African round nose as do most other black female artists.
You are just a hater because most likely no BW would spit on you if you were on fire. Only a certain caliber and type of WM is able to get with a BW of any substance and beauty.
So Exit stage left —————> BITCH
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You know what’s sad?
White men who like you who are so defeated and don’t have the cajOnes to fuck with black men or the White women you PEDESTALIZE, so you take out your anger and start lashing out on black women over stupid shit no heterosexual male would care about.
I’m sorry you can’t stop WWs attraction to Black men. I’m sorry that with all things equal you probably couldn’t get the hot young White girl if an attractive alpha black man was in the place. I’m sorry WW love mating and pro creating with Black men. Your misdirected bitch like rants about the 1% of Black women who get nose jobs or BW straightening their hair isn’t going to make you any more attractive to a hot young white girl who loves the chocolate.
S I forgot to add: on the contrary however, there seems to be more WHITE WOMEN who have zero problems mating and pro creating with Black men than BW wanting to pro create with
You can’t really take your aggravation a out in Black men because you know many of them would probably beat you out for hot young White women today with all things being equal.
You are a just another pathetic WM with misdirected anger because you can’t stop White womens willingness and OBVIOUS voluntary mating with Black men, yet would be hard pressed to find nearly as many BW doing the same.
I get this whole bitch out against BLack women losers white dudes like you have. Oh well maybe your bitch like ways is what makes WW so willing to screw, date and pro create with Black men.
Gotta live that karma! Plus it keeps WM like you in check. Unfortunately, that also leaves losers like you to pick on BW because deep down you don’t have the balls to stand up to BLACK MEN or WHITE WOMEN.
Worrying about how BW do their hair and the 1% who get nose jobs isn’t going to get you any closer to getting laid by young hot White women who will step over you to get to the next hot alpha Black dude.
SOWWY!!!
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While Anon2 is acting like a bitch worrying about Black womens hair and noses, Black men are snatching up young pretty White girls like the one in this link. Lol it’s just the universe balancing things out and making you feel like the defeated punk you are. Don’t hate on Black women, hate yourself for simply not being good enough to attract your own women!
😂😂😂😂😆😆😆😆😆😆😏😏😏😏😏
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Even with their women, the negro comeback always seems to boil down to…
Muh Dik.
(((shakin’ mah haid)))
Apparently, NeNe misses the irony of how her NeoOthello jibe at YT stings triply the distaff side of her race… in fact, herself.
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@ Greg
It doesn’t bother me none! It used to then I realized it’s just the universe dishing out its karma to the haters.
White men like Anon2 lash out at Black women because they don’t have the guts to step to Black men and White women they’re really angry with. It not Black womens fault white women like Black men!
For everytime a punk like Anon2 disses Black women for no apparent reason than them being mad b/c Black men are stealing their women, another black man somewhere is snatching up a young white hottie like the above.
BALANCUNG THE HATER SCALES BABE! 😝😝😝
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Ohhhh I covet those eyelashes. Do men notice beautiful eyelashes?
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neecy I addressed this yesterday. women are sheep who do what they are told and YKW media has told them aggressively the past 5 years to get their black experience with a guy like that.
this pic is disgusting. she is dishonoring her white father.
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good lord that girl is a 10 if such a thing exists.
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Nar Nar needy binks won’t understand logic and facts in writing.
Perhaps we should rap it to her with simple ryhmes and chants whilst making rhythmic percussion sounds with our hands and feet.
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The more I come to this site, the more it seems to be a brilliant ruse to influence white men into becoming hedonistic and ultimately childless men.
What a way to help along the rise of disgusting swamp creature illegals.
Oh and there’s a long running joke in both gay and asian groups.
Men who date either black or asian chicks are an inch away from from coming out as gay.
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