Are you wondering how to maintain that “man of poon plenty” attitude (aka fornucopia) when your social circle plays matchmaker for you? Commenter mendozatorres asks,
“Women are repulsed by the man of need.”
So in a case where a man is being introduced to women by friends/acquaintances, does this work against him, since it could come across as him being needy?
It could, but it won’t, if you know the Way of the Charming Jerkboy. It’s a very simple reframe when you want to avoid the stink of neediness that does tend to Pigpen-ishly waft around the clients of eager beaver matchmakers. When you are introduced to the girl, lightheartedly break the ice:
“I apologize for my friends’ insistence on setting me up. They apparently don’t like the women I date without their help.”
This serves two subcommunication goals: One, you don’t need their help to get laid. Two, she’ll wonder what kinds of women you pull. And when women wonder about that, their hamsters can’t resist imagining some sexy, hell-on-wheels badgirl with zero bedroom inhibitions.
And when women wonder about that, their hamsters can’t resist imagining some sexy, hell-on-wheels badgirl with zero bedroom inhibitions.
Hell-on-heels.
It’s also fun to mention old girlfriends to your new one – in the right situation.
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from pornucopia to fornucopia
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this scenario has happened to me a few times actually, friends with the best of intentions can easily make you look bad. this is a very bold thing to say, stepping over your friends words. i like it. if it works, your friends won’t be offended, so it is a win-win.
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Got connected with my college gf thru her sister and her sister’s bf (who was one of my friends).
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I’ve never had this problem in my social circle. It seems like the standard rules apply: if you’re confident and interesting and your friends wing for you appropriately, especially if they’re girls, you’re in.
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Had a great, short exchange with a German girl I’ve been seeing:
“You know… I’m getting ready to leave town, so maybe I’ll actually take you on anise little date before I go.”
“Out of your apartment?!”
It struck me: every date I’ve been on with this girl has been she coming to my apartment to hang out, or me making her take me to get food or groceries. I’ve never spent a penny on her, or taken her anywhere even remotely interesting.
This is the same girl that told me what she liked about me was the fact that I’m an asshole, and all her ex-boyfriends were lost puppies.
The things you can get away with when you have the right attitude…
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yeah…it’s like dial-a-pussy
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Evil, sociopathic, so called White (actually a type of Albino) man kills Negro for absolutely no reason and then tries to cover it up.
all caught on video.
White people are evil and sociopahic: true of false ???
True. Next inquiry. Why ??
1. Genetics
2. Culture
3. Epigenetics
Please Discuss.
[CH: well done al. hey, why was yet another dindu nuffin running away from a cop? simple traffic stop and he had to run? what’s he hiding?]
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Yeah, we should be able to run away from law enforcement and consequence whenever we feel like it… Like a child calling base in a game of tag.
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So the pig dropped the nig?!? Then planted a taser on his body?
Sorry to upset Le Maitre and the regulars, but like Trayvon (and unlike Michael Brown), the non-nigs are the party at major fault in this fiasco.
oink
[CH: trayvon was all trayvon’s fault. recap: Headgoodboy was on top of white hispanic george, pummeling his face, when he got limited.]
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Trayvon did not know how to behave – obviously; but he was not chimping at the outset. The gun armed 30 yo accosted the 17 yo, and the non-trespassing, unarmed 17 yo ended up dead. But it was a two-to-tango fiasco started by a machoing spic.
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He ran because of a warrant for not paying child support.
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I just realized what dindu nuffin means. I kept thinking it was some shitty Hindu name lol
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I find in many situations the old, Yeah, I get that a lot.-thing works really well.
Make a list of the things that went well, refer to it often, act like a movie-star as-if any time you go out it’s the same routine of every woman in view turns sexual predator and throws herself at you.
But context and frame are key. Miss either one and it won’t come off. At which point, you almost have to -Invent- a new context using your attitude alone; ie, ignore the flop & plow on unfazed as if it did.
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O/T
A liberal having a civil disagreement with a nationalistic conservative. I never thought a conservative could out-argue a liberal but this one did.
http://iono.fm/e/153488?utm_content=buffer9538d&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_campaign=buffer
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Act pleasantly surprised and say, “Why, you don’t look at all like a schnauzer!”
h/t: Jim Davis
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Another appropriate response:
*Playful smirk and Eye roll* “Here we go again. Just because I’m the stud of the group, they assume every woman wants me. Isn’t that presumptuous?”
The only way to deliver this is with proper body language, eye contact, and intonation.
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“How many marriage proposals from smitten ladies has Joker Tsarnaev gotten in the pen so far? Will he break a death row groupie record?”
The family of the boy killed in Boston ought to make it their mission to track down and throw acid in the face of every cunt who writes Joker a love letter or publishes a swoony article about him, or even so much as tweets something positive about him.
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Here comes some SCIENCE! Plenty of covert red pill material here, once you parse it (men like feminine blondes who aren’t land whales).
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/science-news/11523291/The-science-of-sexiness-why-some-people-are-just-more-attractive.html
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thaz wayciss
I mean, it is…black people’s faces are highly asymmetrical and they look like apes. Even black babies prefer white dolls. The “beautiful” blacks have significant degrees of white admixture; so do beautiful Asians.
Whites really actually are the master race in a mathematical sense. Knock up as many white broads as you can or else the future will look like the world brown people create.
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Reblogged this on XWorkx.
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the reframing is good, and the attitude is necessary, but i don’t think the initial premise is necessarily true that it makes you look needy. if you’re a flirt, and you are creating attraction in your social circle, some of those attracted are going to be other guy’s girlfriends and/or wives. you don’t have sex with them but that doesn’t mean they don’t think about it a lot.
the girls i am introduced to from social circles are generally from these off-limits girls, and it generally feels like it’s a vicarious thrill for the matchmaker to hear about the guy drilling her friend when she can’t have it herself.
long story short even if you don’t have a clever line, keep the attitude of being the prize. in many cases you have been introduced that way even it you don’t know it, and if you haven’t been, then having the right attitude will fix a bad intro.
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I’d agree with the off limits girls. They always want the dirty details. I cockily tell them I don’t kiss and tell. Then the stud factor increases even more and I bang more of their friends. Strike while the iron’s hot!
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My niggas, I just wanted to send the château a note of thanks.
A little over three years ago, I was in a jail cell, having been put there by my loving wife. Unemployed to boot.
During the ensuing divorce process, I found this beacon of light in the darkness. I believe the post that drew me in was tagged hungry, hungry hippos.
Three years later, due solely to the château’s anonymous encouragement, I have accomplished the following:
1. Jerk boy dating young girls in their prime who buy me gifts
2. A job where I will likely clear seven figures
3. (My favorite) I was recently plating a TV celebrity, a little on the old side, 29, very proper, and had the urge to send her an unsolicited dick pic. She told me to get lost and I didn’t even flinch.
I want to thank the proprietors of this fine establishment for opening my eyes.
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White Evil.
Genetic ?
Cultural ?
Epigentic?
please discuss.
[CH: negro depravity. genetic? cultural? induced by grape soda? discuss.]
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My money says “al” is a pasty white SJW who hasn’t smelled pussy in several years.
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White is evil but unfortunately is least evil of the available.
Or should we discuss cannibalism in XXth century China?
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And the zhyd-rus attempt to a new civilization just also a brutal failure as I can personally attest
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I think it is induced by orange soda per Keenan and Kel
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Big problem with matchmaker (especially female matchmaker) is that they usually choose a match that is low SMV. In case of female, a quasi-absolute rule seems “lower SMV than themselves”.
As they often are quite low SMV to begin with, it means that the choosen match is an insult. So while I stay polite with the choosen girl, nicely making it clear that I am not interested, I have trouble keeping polite with the matchmaker. Matchmaking is dangerous for this reason, don’t do it folks!
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I agree. That’s why I generally turn down these types of offers, especially if it’s going to require a time commitment. An introduction at an event is okay.
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that’s a top-notch line
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