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¡SCIENCE!: ‘Five Minutes Of Alpha’ Is A Real Thing

June 12, 2015 by CH

Chateau Heartiste, 2009:

Maxim #101: For most women, five minutes of alpha is worth five years of beta.

¡SCIENCE!, 2015:

Resisting Connection Following Social Exclusion: Rejection by an Attractive Suitor Provokes Derogation of an Unattractive Suitor

Social psychologists theorize that individuals seek connection following rejection. However, accepting connection from a low status other may imply that one is of similarly low status, which may call into question one’s prospects for future acceptance. Thus, we hypothesized that rejection would lead individuals to distance themselves from a low status other even when the low status other is accepting. In two studies, single, heterosexual, female participants received simultaneous acceptance/rejection feedback from one physically attractive man and one less attractive man. As predicted, rejected individuals derogated their rejecters as indicated by a decreased desire for affiliation and more negative evaluations. Moreover, participants rejected by the attractive man also derogated the unattractive man even when the unattractive man offered acceptance. These data may shed light on specific circumstances under which rejection leads to antisocial behavior.

It’s a bit circuitous, but the relevance of this study to CH Maxim #101 becomes clear once we accept the premise that “five minutes of alpha (male)” is to women, for all practical purposes, a rejection. “Five minutes of alpha” is an aesthetic interpretation of a one night stand or a short fling that ends without any commitment extracted by the woman from the man. A woman WILL feel the sting of commitment rejection in much the same way a man will feel the sting of sexual rejection; and yet, the fleeting pleasure of an alpha male’s attention can ruin a woman for all promise keeper beta males to come after.

This is what the study uncovers, in its sphere of examination. Women “rejected” by the alpha male were more likely to be a bitch to the lesser/beta male. That sting of rejection the women felt from the alpha, and the ensuing bitterness about it, redounded to the betas a hundredfold.

Conclusion: If you are a beta male… STOP DROP AND MOLD yourself into an alpha male. Also, the more alpha fux a woman has accumulated over her prime fertility years (without commitment from any of them), the worse she’ll behave toward any beta males unfortunate or stupid enough to take on the role of her sloppy sixtieths.

Again, we see the wisdom, first dropped at CH and later confirmed by 😎SCIENCE😎, that men who want admiration, devotion and loyalty from a lover would do well to avoid dating (or god forbid marrying) any woman who could challenge them in the bed post notch department. Virgins aren’t prized the world over for no reason.

But, please, feel free to pump and dump those “dick is abundant and low value” try-hard feminists and add to their future beta husbands’ misery.

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  1. on June 12, 2015 at 7:30 pm ¡SCIENCE!: ‘Five Minutes Of Alpha’ Is A Real Thing | Neoreactive

    […] By CH […]

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  2. on June 12, 2015 at 7:33 pm Hackett To Bits

    This is exactly the way I treated the 23 y.o. (me: 45), several flings ago.

    Desirable women are starved for jerkitude, it’s that simple. They are starving for men who act like they can take them or leave them. You don’t have to be physically abusive, or even emotionally abusive. I did neither to her. Devil-may-care indifference did the trick. The worst thing I ever did to her was send her home when she got upset that I was receiving texts from another woman (that I ended up dating briefly).

    Drama ensued, but I didn’t crumble. I ended up LJBFing her, not that she was happy about it. She tried repeatedly to convince me to commit. And every time, I would say: I’m just dating around. That’s all you have to say, really.

    I moved on to other waxed pussy pastures. She eventually gave up. But for those several months, it was obvious that all she wanted was the one thing she couldn’t keep for herself, and she tried using every enticement she could think of (heh).

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    • on June 12, 2015 at 7:55 pm 88

      “She eventually gave up”

      pay attention boys. this is important. no doubt that the girls love the jerkitude. but if it goes on forever they will eventually give up and move on.

      if you have one you want to keep around, gotta balance it out or you’ll lose her. short term fling game is way different than LTR game. can’t forget that.

      take it from someone whose been there, done that.

      [CH: true, but keep in mind that women will give up on jerkboys a lot later and after a lot more pained introspection than they’ll give up on niceguys.]

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      • on June 12, 2015 at 8:24 pm Anonymous

        “keep in mind that women will give up on jerkboys a lot later and after a lot more pained introspection than they’ll give up on niceguys.”

        It’s also quite impressive how fast they can get through that whole relinquishing process upon finding a bigger alpha. Saw that with a gal at work who traded up from a garden-variety douchebag (over whom she shed many bitter tears) to the (married) CEO.

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      • on June 12, 2015 at 8:45 pm Captain Obvious

        And so The Darkness grows ever stronger in that poor girl’s heart. When does it stop? When have you slain enough p00ntang? When are you going to settle down and do your part to perpetuate the White Race and Its Civilization?

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      • on June 12, 2015 at 8:58 pm walawala

        @Hackett Good post. Shark on his blog had a great piece on the difference between alphas, betas and jerks.

        A good visual of this is the guy with the ice cream who offers it to his date, then just as she’s about to bite into it pulls it away.

        That playfulness, the way in which you don’t let her bitchiness get to you and the readiness to walk away are all part of this.

        I’ve written at length about the various girls I’ve banged.

        The one who fits this perfectly is the 34 year old teacher I was banging for a while last year.

        I never got upset with her—probably because at THAT time I was building up a rotation and didn’t really care. After banging her for a few months she kept pushing me to take her out more and was just generally annoying. Then she pulled away.

        My response was simply “k”. She would return and text and at one point to my surprise said what attracted her was the fact I always seemed so carefree and in control.

        The reality was quite different. At that time I was quite stressed, confused, angry. But it was a case of holding my frame.

        Finally she reached out and we met up one night again and I banged her. Then left. She got upset. I ignored her. She found some beta bf. Then suddenly out of the blue she started reaching out to me again to take her out.

        I have to explain here….that when I TRULY cared about the girl somehow…and I cannot figure out how…they sensed this and were much more aloof. When I truly was ambivalent….that’s when they chased me.

        I now try to actively adopt the ambivalence mindset..and it’s a mindset…so that I don’t bleed any neediness into my behaviours.

        That doesn’t mean I don’t ask girls out or what they’re up to…I do…it’s just that when they push back or whatever, I just don’t reply or reply with “k”.

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      • on June 12, 2015 at 9:04 pm Sentient

        Great insights wala

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      • on June 12, 2015 at 9:06 pm Sentient

        [CH: true, but keep in mind that women will give up on jerkboys a lot later and after a lot more pained introspection than they’ll give up on niceguys.]

        and hate them less…

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      • on June 12, 2015 at 9:10 pm Ohiomega

        Total indifference is the key.

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      • on June 12, 2015 at 9:14 pm Putin

        Would agree 88. Calibration.

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      • on June 12, 2015 at 9:19 pm walawala

        @Sentient which is why 2 weeks ago when that 21 year old exchange student suddenly had a melt-down blasting me for being too selfish in bed and demanding “equality” and blabbing about how much she “hates” me and how bad my sexual techniques were my first response was “Agree and Amplify” “i hate you more….I hate you x 27”. Then instead of engaging in her “Do you want to talk about this?” I said “I think you better leave”.

        Radio silence for 2 weeks. Once small hiccup. I realized my phone had ghost-dialed her number—along with 20 other random numbers in my contact list. I hated the idea she thought I was calling and hanging up but…regardless…radio silence.

        I’ve moved on, banged two other girls immediately after that.

        I actually do care. She was a cool chick. But…I haven’t acted on that impulse and have just accepted that melt-down and moved on.

        I have no clue what she’s thinking and feeling. My own feeling on this is … myeh….I’ll do better. It’s helped me in preventing an outreach or an over-reaction.

        One trick I’ve tried to calm myself is to send MYSELF the angry texts or the snarky texts or the potential replies. I read them as though I was the real recipient. Then I calm down. It’s a good trick to prevent beta responses.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 1:31 am Eliezer Ben Yehuda

        >>> When are you going to settle down and do your part to perpetuate the White Race and Its Civilization?

        when the “White Race” starts manufacturing civilized women?

        Why does the “White Man’s Burden” alway have to fall on the…. men ?!?

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      • on June 14, 2015 at 11:41 am trav777

        yeah but they come back. Chicks are hitting me up after months or more of silence. Out of the clear blue.

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  3. on June 12, 2015 at 7:38 pm Anonymous

    This also explains why women on dating sites tend to rate most men as ‘below average’

    The alpha rejection they received still stings and can’t be soothed with a flood of beta adoration

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    • on June 12, 2015 at 8:59 pm Ohiomega

      . . . .Or it’s just that women are objectively more attractive than men, to both sexes.

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    • on June 15, 2015 at 8:56 am nathan

      It could also be because most men on dating sites are “below average.”

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  4. on June 12, 2015 at 8:15 pm EvilDictatorGuy

    Wow, so rejection itself is really that bad? I’ll say it again homeys; dictatorship is in order. Pass it on.

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  5. on June 12, 2015 at 8:18 pm Laguna Beach Fogey

    OT:

    Chicks dig jerks, murderers, and prison inmates.

    http://www.cbsnews.com/news/prison-instructor-joyce-mitchell-to-be-charged-in-new-york-prison-escape/

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 7:16 pm Bear

      I am very familiar with this situation -considering I now sleep with one eye open and a loaded shotgun near the bed thanks to this stupid cunt . That woman is nothing short of a mentally ill, morbidly obese backwoods hick who thanks to her obviously low self esteem could have easily been seduced by a limp wrested queer if he had given her enough attention. She’s a poor example to use for making your point

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  6. on June 12, 2015 at 8:20 pm Anonymous

    “A woman WILL feel the sting of commitment rejection in much the same way a man will feel the sting of sexual rejection”

    I admit to hoping alpha widows enjoy their post-Wall commitment desert the way betas enjoy their pre-alpha sex desert.

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  7. on June 12, 2015 at 9:06 pm Captain Obvious

    And what’s to become of all these Alpha Widows? The more chicks we ruin, the greater The Darkness spreads amongst our women, and the fewer White Babeez are born in the long run. At some point, you have to stop slaying p00ntang purposelessly, and instead start fulfilling your duty to propagate the White Race and its Civilization. Otherwise you’re a Race Traitor who is doing ever bit as much lasting and irreversible damage to Our Race and Our Civilization as are the eskimos themselves. Moar Alpha Widows == Fewer White Babeez. Plain and simple.

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 8:00 am AnyTime

      @Captain Obvious

      You are voice of clarity among the p00n-chasing masses.

      Don’t get me wrong, I believe wholeheartedly in the theories behind Game. (And I studied psychology and understand the science behind it as well).

      I have read extensively. I actively spread the word amongst my Beta male friends, and forward them CH posts. I hear, and I believe.

      And yes – I’m female. And you can excoriate me for that, and dismiss my comment outright for no other reason. But I’ve had good (enough) relationships with Betas and predictably frustrating and temporary connections with Alphas. And legions of friends of both genders and every mix of good/bad relationship you can imagine.

      You are right, Captain Obvious: Everyone, at some point in their lives, has to stop playing.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 8:06 am AnyTime

        (Let the flames begin).

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 8:34 am Sentient

        By my count CO has what? Zero white babies? Is that correct CO?

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 8:36 am Sentient

        @Anytroll – let’s guess – you are about 30 aren’t you?

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 9:22 am AnyTime

        @Sentient

        Not even remotely close to 30. And to pre-empt what may be your next questions: I’m currently in a very good long term relationship. I read CH and other similar Blogs for fun, and out of personal interest in human psychology. And I use it to try and help my single and poorly-coupled friends (male and female) in their dating/relationship frustrations, to heighten their awareness, if that’s even possible.

        So I’m not lamenting out of personal frustration. I have seen a lot of what I think is needlessly taking Game too far, for too long. I hope the men here understand the (potential) personal repercussions. (The women, too. Don’t even get me *started* on how messed up the women are these days).

        In the comments to this post alone, we see the following:

        @88 wisely cautions that Game can be taken too far;
        @walawala’s comments are tinged with regret over his likely losing a girl that he “actually care[d]” about. (Highly preventable, BTW).

        You can find similar comments to other posts at CH, from a few men here who are willing to let the wall of bravado down, if only briefly. Playing (only) accordingly to Game-approved rules and strictures has its personal and societal costs, though they may be visible to the players only with the benefit of hindsight.

        And to be clear: I don’t happen to share Captain Obvious’ race-oriented focus for his Cautionary Tale. (Far from it). But I applaud the general message.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 9:31 am Philomathean

        Yes, Gamesmanship can become vice. I don’t believe men should make poon hunting the focal point of their existences. Women are subordinate compliments to a man’s higher pursuits.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 9:31 am AnyTime

        @Sentient

        And I’m nobody’s troll. I have lurked here silently for a long time, picking up the worthwhile information and leaving the rest.

        But I was prompted to post by some commenters who, after over-playing the Game card seemed apparently mystified at while the (possibly quality) woman in question gave up and left. Again: very preventable.

        Don’t worry… I will slink back to the silent shadows of this Forum now.

        Carry on.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 9:32 am Sentient

        I missed the more obvious question – what do you look like? x/10

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 9:38 am AnyTime

        @Sentient

        Within the past few years I posted two photos on Hot or Not (i.e. HotorNot.com), and scored 9.6/10 both times.

        I am in excellent shape, work out regularly, play sports, and — at the risk of immodesty — am often told I’m very beautiful. And yes, age-wise I’m considered “over the Wall”, by the standards set here.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 9:38 am Sentient

        Yeah trolls don’t post “(Let the flames begin).” please….

        Here is the deal Ms. Psychology. Game can never end because the nature of men and women never ends. You’re just to young to realize that. wait until those girls you have so sagely counseled to settle down with a beta freak out in like 10 years or wonder why they despise their husband even though by all accounts he is a really great guy…

        and it is worse for the poor nice guy, because his commitment -the prize – will only get unwound via the great loss of assets he has accumulated and perhaps a lifetime of alimony.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 9:43 am martin

        anytime- you give yourself away. in my experience, women are the least willing or likely to help other people find relationships or improve them.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 9:47 am AnyTime

        @ Martin

        No offence intended, but your personal experience does not establish a rule, nor preclude a few exceptions.

        I happen to be surrounded by unhappily-single / miserably coupled friends of both genders. If I can help them, I try to.

        Admittedly, I don’t think it’s working. Most aren’t really listening, even though they are the ones who ask me for advice in the first place.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 10:19 am J.M.

        You are not mother material then, what a surprise…

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 10:27 am Captain Obvious

        AnyTime, are you still ovulating regularly? You got any fertility left in them thar ov@ries, or are they starting to shrivel up like prunes? Serious questions. [And the next questions would be: Are you an eskimo-ess? Or part eskimo?]

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 10:33 am AnyTime

        @J.M.

        Very presumptuous. I have two fabulous kids. And not only am I “mother material”, I am routinely complimented (by people who’s objective input I value) at how well I am raising them. They are smart, cultured, talented, and well-mannered.

        @Sentient
        1) Yes. 2) No. (Weird question, BTW. Assuming it’s serious).

        I will end by saying: Have your fun, boys. I mean it.
        Just don’t have it for too long. You may regret it.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 10:35 am AnyTime

        *typo: “whose objective input”

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      • on June 14, 2015 at 5:28 pm Mario

        AnyTime , You sound like Hitlary. Conforming every possible group of readers with ambient phrases.

        All I see is that you are hamstering guys to drop the game and commit. Ideally to post-wall carousel dropouts, stripped of their most important assets. If you are 35+, former 9/10, after multiple relationships with alphas and betas, still childless ..you obviously didnt follow what you preach. I understand that time is running up and its convenient to have a safety greater-beta backup, but it’s obvious to see which team are you on 😉

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 9:00 am Canadian Friend

      That got me thinking…and since I usually can see both side of an issue/can usually put myself in the other guy’s shoes…

      well…I’m not going to make friends here by saying this, but here I go anyway,

      In light of the above scientific evidence, Betas are not entirely wrong to hate PUA/Alphas, since what makes women hostile to Betas is in good part having been used or pumped and dumped by PUAs/Alphas.

      Yes women’s brains have an innate defect ( nevermind the scientific terms, bitchiness will do for now ) but being used by PUAs/Alphas feeds the inner bitch and puts it on steroids.

      About that female brain defect…

      It is like spitting on and refusing the $50,000 second place prize because you did not get the first place $100,000.

      That would be insane, sick, f*cked up.

      Yet that is what women do with beta men who for the most part are decent second place prizes,

      It is as if a man would treat a pleasant woman who is a 7/10 or 8/10 in looks like she was a 2/10 because he is not happy a 9/10 just rejected him.

      That would be absurd and counter productive.

      but the more a woman has been used by PUAs/Alphas the more she does it.

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 9:04 am Canadian Friend

      That got me thinking…and since I usually can see both side of an issue/can usually put myself in the other guy’s shoes…

      well…I’m not going to make friends here by saying this, but here I go anyway,

      In light of the above scientific evidence, Betas are not entirely wrong to hate PUA/Alphas, since what makes women hostile to Betas is in good part having been used or pumped and dumped by PUAs/Alphas.

      Yes women’s brains have an innate defect ( nevermind the scientific terms, bitchiness will do for now ) but being used by PUAs/Alphas feeds the inner bitch and puts it on steroids.

      About that female brain defect…

      It is like spitting on and refusing the $50,000 second place prize because you did not get the first place $100,000.

      That would be insane, sick, f*cked up.

      Yet that is what women do with beta men who for the most part are decent second place prizes ( those women being second and third place prizes themselves…),

      It is as if a man would treat a pleasant woman who is a 7/10 or 8/10 in looks like she was a 2/10 because he is not happy a 9/10 just rejected him.

      That would be absurd and counter productive.

      but the more a woman has been used by PUAs/Alphas the more she does it.

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 9:05 am Canadian Friend

      That damn filter! 2 comments stuck in it!!

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 4:19 pm Putin

      “And what’s to become of all these Alpha Widows? The more chicks we ruin, the greater The Darkness spreads amongst our women, and the fewer White Babeez are born in the long run. At some point, you have to stop slaying p00ntang purposelessly, and instead start fulfilling your duty to propagate the White Race and its Civilization. Otherwise you’re a Race Traitor who is doing ever bit as much lasting and irreversible damage to Our Race and Our Civilization as are the eskimos themselves. Moar Alpha Widows == Fewer White Babeez. Plain and simple.”

      Valid points

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  8. on June 12, 2015 at 9:28 pm Putin

    I remember a gal I knew for a while who finally went on a date with me my first year out of college. The date ended in a very physical way at my apartment. I drove her home and stated that I just wanted to be friends before dropping her off. She freaked, fell deeply in love with me and eventually became an Alpha widow who ran off with my beta roommate. Did not know game as it all was natural. Gosh I felt guilty about the way I treated her. She hated me and thought I was an awful man. Her sisterhood helped her get away from me.

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  9. on June 12, 2015 at 9:53 pm The Lone Planet

    Women are idiots. End of story.

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 10:30 am Captain Obvious

      Exactly. But then the question becomes: What are you going to do with that knowledge? Grab a high quality chick for yourself, and get lots of wonderful 0ffspring out of her? Or pump-n-dump and leave behind another formerly high quality chick with a heart which is now falling under the shadow of The Darkness? Game is a tool, a tool which can be used for Good, or for Evil. It’s your choice how to use it.

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  10. on June 12, 2015 at 9:56 pm Anonymous

    “So apparently there exists a real mental disorder in some whites which causes them to literally want to renounce their own race.”

    Sure, it’s called liberalism.

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  11. on June 12, 2015 at 10:58 pm Nyk

    Rand Paul Alpha Moment:

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    • on June 12, 2015 at 11:00 pm Nyk

      Go to 3:10, notice the reporter is smiling.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 8:25 am Sentient

        She does have them DSLs… Solid 7

        http://cnbcmediasales.com/Images/Mobile/0x600.aspx

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 9:28 am Putin

      Then this happened. Brought to you by the neocons.

      http://insider.foxnews.com/2015/02/03/sen-rand-paul-shushes-female-cnbc-anchor-kelly-evans-during-heated-interview

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 11:58 am David-093

        Women always say they wouldn’t act “that way” around an alpha, that they’d show him and they won’t be treated that way by no one.

        And they maintain that with that quintessential feminine passion and delusion we all know and condescendingly endure…until they’re actually around one…then they go ahead and act exactly that way.

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 3:47 pm Putin

      It seems like the Alpha’s(Rand Paul, Putin) are just more authentic versus the angry beta neocons who spew B.S.

      I think when you know the truth there is more conviction and thus more room to game the delusional.

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  12. on June 12, 2015 at 11:04 pm ¡SCIENCE!: ‘Five Minutes Of Alpha’ Is A Real Thing | Reaction Times

    […] Source: Heartiste […]

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  13. on June 12, 2015 at 11:29 pm Stationarity

    “Dick is abundant and low value”

    Being a dick is scarce and high value.

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  14. on June 13, 2015 at 1:42 am Mr Meaner

    I had a fling last summer with one of these “dick is abundant and low value” feminists. She admitted to me that she had a notch count around the 50 mark. (She was mid 20s).

    Not long after, she told me she’d realized it was time for her to find a relationship, but that she was finding it very difficult because she was discovering the shocking reality that the alpha types she’d banged weren’t the ones who wanted to have a relationship with her.

    The other day she texted me out of the blue and asked “What’s wrong with me?”

    I’m noticing a lot lately that I’m the “straw that breaks the camel’s back” guy with a lot of these broads. Five minutes of alpha makes them realize just how far away they are from a lifetime of it.

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 7:06 am Philomathean

      50 cocks?

      Fucking wow.

      I was flirting with this 33 year old broad last week who clumsily mouthed a feminists platitude. I’ve never actually banged a girl in her 30s–though I’ve banged girls who’ve aged into that third decade–so reluctantly I gave her the floor.

      I told her that she better be a good kisser, to which she replied: “I am. I’ve had a lot of practice.”

      I was immediately turned off. My vibe toward her completely changed. I texted her in the morning asking what she was currently reading. She replied with exclamation “Divergent Series, I LOVE dystopian literature!”.

      I was done.

      She texted back wanting to know what books had my attention. I replied by requesting an X rated sexy pic. She said she’s not that kind of girl blah blah blah and that I was so interesting but I’m all about the games yadda yadda yadda she wishes me the best of luck.

      Because of her feminist and whore moments I decided to napalm her rodent.

      I opened the bomb bay: “I know. Sry. It’s just your age. You’re not old per se, I’m just not their yet. Anyway, luck to you too ; )”

      Almost immediately she sent me a half naked pic of herself with the caption “bye”.

      Lol radio silence from me.

      Rodent Destroyed.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 9:08 am whorefinder

        90% of feminism is a hamsterization for being slutty or ugly.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 9:34 am Putin

        “It’s just your age. You’re not old per se, I’m just not their yet.”

        Nice.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 10:34 am Captain Obvious

        And yet another White Women takes 50 c0cks [cue GBFM: Up her eBernankified Yellenized p00pie hole] and pushes out ZERO White Babeez. In fact, all she pushes out are oversized p00pies on account of having lost all the muscle definition down thar.

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  15. on June 13, 2015 at 2:11 am Acusa

    Gentlemen, the key to harnessing this force of nature is the soft rejection. She must know she is not your best/only choice. See recent friendzone comment as a basis. I have had more than one hard 9 on the roster since high school (currently late 20s) since early fz dq that resulted in permanent harem membership. Once they love you, as long as you do not break alpha frame, they will do so indefinitely. Any claim otherwise is a hard shit test that you must slap down–as per the vernacular–like a pimp. Your reward is a permanent pussy pass. Verified by many experiences. The closer to the wall, the more the effect. Use this knowledge for the benefit of society by alpha fuxing her hard–early & often–then steering her to a good beta bux 30+. Everyone is happy. Remember, keep her happy & reward her good decisions. A good pimp wants his girls to land on their feet.

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 2:24 am Mr Meaner

      Unless they’re feminists. Then I couldn’t give a shit.

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 8:51 am Putin

      “Gentlemen, the key to harnessing this force of nature is the soft rejection. She must know she is not your best/only choice. See recent friendzone comment as a basis. I have had more than one hard 9 on the roster since high school (currently late 20s) since early fz dq that resulted in permanent harem membership. Once they love you, as long as you do not break alpha frame, they will do so indefinitely.”

      At what point did they love you? When they realized your Alpha frame and that they were not your best choice? Or was it when you screwed them? I have had women loyal to me who I did not screw….

      [CH: the ideal long-term relationship dynamic is one in which the woman is (if such an intersex comparison could be made) more physically appealing than the man, and the man has slightly more sexual market options than the woman. but not too much more. because options = instability.]

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 10:37 am Captain Obvious

      > “The closer to the wall, the more the effect. Use this knowledge for the benefit of society” The closer she gets to the wall, the closer she gets to going CH!LDLESS. How about you use this knowledge to the benefit of WHITE SOCIETY and Western Civilization and get her to push out a few WHITE BABEEZ for you?

      [CH: there are 300+ million “americans”. there were 150 million when white americans put white americans on the moon. the solution isn’t MOAR WHYTE BABEEZ. the solution is deportation of invading migrants and sealing the border for at least a generation.]

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 11:03 am J.M.

        @CH
        The population structure was way different both in Europe and the States, it was a young population. No nation with more oldsters than teenagers and children can have a future, barring automation of combat and other duties, its doomed to collapse. And, please be advised that even with automation, the effects of a demographic spiral are almost impossible to avert. Captain Obvious is a dumb WN but you are wrong on this one I am afraid

        [CH: population fluxes are normal over the long haul. my assertion stands: there’s no need for MOAR WHYTE BABEEZ, only MOAR BORDER CONTROL and FEWER DARK BABEEZ. once there’s more and cheaper lebensraum, the white population will rebound. and if it doesn’t, so what? you can still have a nice nation to live in with an economy that provides amply at much smaller population levels than we have now.]

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  16. on June 13, 2015 at 2:23 am Johnycomelately

    Might be the case of self hatred, the accepting beta is a mirror to her real value and it’s a shiv to her soul.

    Five minutes of alpha reminds me of this movie line,

    “You don’t understand. I coulda had class. I coulda been a contender. I coulda been somebody, instead of a bum, which is what I am.”

    The alpha is the temporary mirage of elevated status, the other girls would be so envious. To her all she has to do is show a little more skin, put out a little bit more and maybe just maybe she might have a shot at the title instead of having a one way ticket to Palooka-ville (Beta-ville).

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  17. on June 13, 2015 at 5:12 am George

    Former skank snags her beta bux: http://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-33108148

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 5:20 am PA

      A common sight is a bride with a harder, more sex-wise look than the groom, who looks grateful to be there. Royal weddings seem to be no exception.

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    • on June 14, 2015 at 5:55 am oink

      Very telling the picture where she’s pulling away from him. That’s why my spergily enforced rule that in pictures my lady is always to lean towards me.

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  18. on June 13, 2015 at 5:33 am @CAPSLOCKHUSTLER

    MESHES WITH HOW THE REAL 10’S (WHAT UP, IVANKA?) ARE USUALLY SWEETIE PIES AS LONG AS THEY’RE NOT UNDER THREAT OF BEING CORNERED BY A DROOLING NECKBEARD.

    THEIR SMV IS SO UNASSAILABLY ALPHA-VERIFIED THAT IT’S EFFORTLESS FOR THEM TO SPREAD A LITTLE SUNSHINE.

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 5:56 am In Dick Fuld We Trust

      TRUE THAT

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 8:15 am Putin

      Real 10’s and 9’s can’t handle their SMV. Theirs is a life of disaster and most of the guys, unless they are apex alphas, who get involved with them end up getting burned. I have stories.

      [CH: i wouldn’t say their’s is a life of disaster. revealed preference theory is helpful here. how many women would turn down the opportunity to become an HB10 overnight, if it were free and safe to do so and they could still look close enough to their original face?]

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 3:17 pm Putin

        “how many women would turn down the opportunity to become an HB10 overnight”

        Very few and that is without safe passage.

        My point is that they won’t be able to handle the pressure which comes with it. Think about the attention a 10 gets?

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 3:42 pm Putin

      By the way most of the 9’s and 10’s I knew or saw were NOT models or movie stars.

      Even men can let the fame thing distort their vision.

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  19. on June 13, 2015 at 6:27 am Culum Struan

    YaReally, HABD, Sentient, Wala et al:

    PSA: A lot of longer posts have come out of mod in the last day or so – including from weeks ago – eg, a couple of mine from the Eye Contact post a couple of weeks ago.

    If there are any longer posts, it’s a good idea to direct people to them here so that they don’t get missed.

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 10:47 am no

      Any gunslingggerrrgregoriois in there? I make eye contact in the urinal

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 5:52 pm YaReally

      “If there are any longer posts, it’s a good idea to direct people to them here so that they don’t get missed.”

      Too much work. I’ve lost track of all my posts that are stuck in mod forever. They shouldn’t be in mod that long in the first place.

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    • on June 14, 2015 at 11:41 pm Junior

      CH – heads up, the all-consuming mod monster is likely about to lose you some high quality commenters & thus some traffic => while the CH articles in themselves can be good, it’s the follow up commentary from the YaReally’s, Walawalas, Sentients, HABDs, Struans et al that I & dare say many others come here for as they fill the gap between CH postulations & guys actually taking action. Put the mod monster on a leash.

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      • on June 15, 2015 at 2:30 pm The Chrome Microphone

        Yeah, these days I come here for yareally posts mostly

        Should read through the others’ posts too, they should all be in the same archive

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  20. on June 13, 2015 at 8:08 am SC

    The fundamental reason why I disagree with red-ill PUA is because you think that beta men need to change themselves. They don’t need to change a thing. PUA is just you telling White men that they should act more like Black men.

    [CH: no half sigma, it’s nothing like that at all. do you even read this blog? at all? or do you just read the caricature of this blog that scrolls through your head hamster or that matt king staples to the town kiosk every time he posts here? were the great white european seducers of history all muh dik naggers?]

    If every White man listened to you Western Civilization would collapse, and the remaining sane Whites would have to seek refuge amongst Jews/Asians.

    [or…. more white betas would have choice in women, be happier, and feel more motivated to contribute to family and future.]

    Most men don’t need to change; most women need to change.

    [no one lives in a vacuum. you deal with reality by adapting to it AND by working to change it, if that’s your thing.]

    I support the idea of using genetic engineering to re-mold women.

    [i’d be on board with this idea if you mean remold women into HB10s.]

    Society would be so much better if most women preferred well behaved, law-abiding, smart, educated, economically productive, non-promiscuous, non-violent, and nice men.

    [maybe. but we have growing evidence that societies in which its women reproduced mainly with niceguys have morphed into a societies all too willing to bend over for third world invaders and first world diversity mongers. so, maybe those jerkboys do serve a purpose at times.]

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    • on June 18, 2015 at 9:16 pm SC

      Jerkboys have absolutely no purpose in life. If you want to see what happens when every man behaves like a jerkboy, go live amongst the khoi-san people. Or move to Detroit.

      Also, in East Asia I see societies where women mainly marry and have children with niceguys. I don’t see China/Korea/Japan/Singapore/Taiwan letting in tons of Black/Hispanic men.

      [CH: jesus half sigma, do you ever plan to get off this hobbyhorse? obvi you’ve been trounced by a jerkboy stealing your faire maiden.
      here’s a tip: think of jerkboyitude as a quality which projects sexiness and charisma. these traits are normed for race, so what may be attractive to black women — pimping thug life — is decidedly not attractive to middle and upper class white women. but let there be no misunderstanding, there are equally romantically lethal white jerkboys who make the white ladies swoon, and they aren’t niceguys by any stretch of the imagination.]

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  21. on June 13, 2015 at 9:03 am tspark156

    I remember very well the day I began to understand the situational nature of Alpha. I was working on an art project that needed to be finished for an exam and was given permission to stay working in the art studio while the next class came in. I just got on with my work as the class two years below my age had their lesson. The girls could not keep their eyes off me and the class leading lights all flirted with me. If you are not a natural you can still work yourself into situational alphadom in the right circumstances, and its a good way to start your journey.

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    • on June 15, 2015 at 2:36 pm Sentient

      Lifeguard, bartender, tour guide… all good for younger guys.

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      • on June 16, 2015 at 6:31 am tspark156

        Yeah that’s it, anything that puts you in a position of perceived status can give an advantage. Being in a band is a good one.

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  22. on June 13, 2015 at 9:53 am martin

    Patriarchal cultures appear to discourage competition between men, whereas whatever it is that we have encourages men to compete with each other. I think here, men and women are described as being adversarial whereas if anything it is men competing against other men in what becomes a zero sum game for women whatever the consequences.

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    • on June 13, 2015 at 1:01 pm Old Broad

      Patriarchy discourages competition that leads to bloodshed. Hard monogamy keeps men from killing each other over women. Athletics (the “good sportsmanship” kind) is ritual warfare. Etc., many methods to channel male energy into constructive work.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 1:26 pm martin

        Whilst I agree I think there is more to it than just that. I imagine the pain and existential angst upon discovering that your wife has cuckolded is a bottomless, soul-sucking pit. we notice that our society is very protective of feelings except this particular pain is unimportant in a non-patriarchal culture.

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      • on June 13, 2015 at 7:59 pm Ohiomega

        “OMG, another guy put his dick in my wife’s mouth and pussy. Wahhhh!” Who cares? Just go fuck some younger, hotter bitch.

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    • on June 14, 2015 at 11:20 am Old Broad

      Yes, The Matriarchy doesn’t care. It’s something women can’t understand. Just from observing the results (wisdom! one of the few benefits of age!) nothing wrecks a man like having the love/respect/position of husband taken from him. Except for having his kids taken from him. That’s the one thing that’s worse.

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  23. on June 13, 2015 at 10:45 am no

    good show old boy

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  24. on June 14, 2015 at 1:51 am Dr. Giggles

    As someone who is not a high status male, I have to admit that the women least bitchy towards me have often been the prettiest. Paradoxically, the bitchiest tend to be 6’s and 7’s (and 5’s if they have some wealth or status.) But CH’s theory that said bitchiness towards betas comes from the pain of not getting enough commitment from alphas makes sense. According to the laws of physics, you can’t shit up. But you can shit down upon the nearest beta below you.

    For betas, the remedy is to deal only with beautiful women as they have no need to treat you like shit because they get their fill of alpha attention. Their less negative response will make it easier for you to approach more beautiful women and solidify your inner game.

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  25. on June 14, 2015 at 2:42 am ¡SCIENCE!: ‘Five Minutes Of Alpha&r...

    […] Chateau Heartiste, 2009: Maxim #101: For most women, five minutes of alpha is worth five years of beta. ¡SCIENCE!  […]

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  26. on June 14, 2015 at 2:54 pm Kate Minter

    We watched the movie, love, rosie, last night. It was like fifteen years of beta. Because two teens who were “perfect” for each other weren’t brave enough to move into a relationship, they ended up hurting themselves and everyone else they got involved with for the next fifteen years. It build a pretty good case for young marriage.

    There was this one great scene where Rosie’s friend met someone who was immediately taken with her and said, “Will you marry me?” to which she immediately replied, “Yes,” and from that point on they were together. The Rosie character, frustrated, shouts out: “No! It can’t be that easy.” Well, Rosie, yes, it is that easy.

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  27. on June 14, 2015 at 3:51 pm M. M.

    > … These data may shed light on specific circumstances under
    > which rejection leads to antisocial behavior.

    funny coda. alludes to standard model: black antisocial behavior due to white rejection ie. racism. seems like pc blurb to protect the author from sjw backlash when confirming ugly truths.

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  28. on June 17, 2015 at 10:05 am Carlos

    http://medicalxpress.com/news/2015-06-cocky-guys-girl.html

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