This photo taken by a reader is a whimsical foray into the world of the stalkerati, but the reasons for posting it here are flattering, so I believe the subject matter wouldn’t object too strongly.
Slayer tee?
The reader, Manic 5, explains,
So I saw Mystery walking around the other day. Here is a man in his mid 40s clutching hands with a woman a decade plus his junior.
Male SMV definitely ages well if maintained.
The window of male SMV viability is, on average, about a decade longer than the window of female SMV viability. The SMV viability sex difference becomes truly pronounced as we approach the extremes of SMV upkeep — for example, in the form of a Mystery who doesn’t get fat and still cultivates a charming, negging persona — where we find men who can enjoy twenty or even up to forty extra years over and above what women can enjoy of prime romantic experiences.
Game isn’t just for college students or post-college barflies. It’s for all men, at all ages. I bet Mystery, as nerdy and prone to algorithmic reductionism as he is, has enjoyed the company of more hotter younger tighter babes than a roomful of tut-tutting tradcons and sneering tough guys who think themselves naturals.
Mid-40s. That’s when I started learning Ballroom Dance. Became Dance Sensation!
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the main difference between heartsietsz and dalrock is that while heartsietst doesn’t claim that game fits in Jesus’ bunghole, dalrock has faith that he can fit game into Jesus’s bunghole and thus save Christainity, if only he can find the proper brand of butt lube, and teach his flock how to use it.
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[CH: the only thing i’ll say about this is that the new testament is chock full of anecdotes of jesus running tight game.]
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CH, but not inside a modern marriage where the wife holds the keys to no-fault divorce, child theft, and divorce rape at any moment, all while being actively encouraged by those who control the media to despise her (boring, flabby) husband and want out. A wife with NO duties, either by law or social custom (anymore), other than to shop, take, take, take, and bitch.
But really, who cares? Jesus was an Eskimo and Christianity is simply a branch of the Eskimo ancient mythology.
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every other chick I’m with is 2 decades my junior. What would be the point of dating a chick who is old?
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yeah but he worked and thought about it so pedestal
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I’d argue it’s more than a decade extra for the properly maintained male. women have age of consent til thirty. everything after is hawking tires with exposed wear bars.
men can go from their teens until their fifties.
boiling it down, weathered/aged skin can be attractive on men. not on women. young skin is attractive on both. and there is no equivalent of game for women.
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don’t even pretend you wouldn’t love to nibble a little turkey neck now and again
they constantly try to pretend there’s a female sean connery out there but nature’s nature. my girlfriend really furrows her brow when i preach the truth to her teen daughter (yeah i know, but i am doing my best to turn her into something other than standard fare american girl. somebody’s gotta).
stay thin be nice cook — duh wuhhhhh?
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furrows her brow, huh?
sounds like you need to do a little preaching to the girlfriend as well.
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“sounds like you need to do a little preaching to the girlfriend as well.”
yeah or when she furrows her brow like that again just say, oh yeah, and don’t furrow your brow like your mother either. gives you wrinkles…lol.
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American psycho puts it best
Associate: If she doesn’t have a good personality and is not great looking, who fucking cares
Patrick Bateman: just to put it out there, what if they have a good personality?
*high fives all round*
Associate: I know! There are no girls with good personalities
Associate: the only girls with good personalities are ugly chicks, and that’s because they have to make up for how fucking unattractive they actually are (The feminist manifesto?)
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You mean McDermott und Van Patten.
Also, I thought you were gonna quote where they think twice about going out with a chick because she’s 27.
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Damn…I gotta watch this movie again.
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The key being “properly maintained”. The average male is overweight, overworked, and undersexed. Only for those men who have the genetics of aging like George Clooney or his bank roll will the vast majority of men in their 40’s, 50’s, and 60’s be subject to chasing tail in their age bracket.
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Hence the title “the lifelong rewards of game”
You can still be overweight and oversexed – game makes frogs into princes
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Genetic can be compensated for with a stylish wardrobe. At 40+, it’s time to part ways with that Slayer t-shirt. Most dudes dress like they’re going camping – which in and of itself takes 10x the preparation they’ve ever made in maintaining their appearance. Look at any older dude and you can easily determine the decade he gave up trying. If, one the other hand – you look as if you’ve learned something while Mother Nature was kicking your ass – then you’ll get enough admiring glances to apply your game.
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I’d argue it’s more than a decade extra for the properly maintained male. women have age of consent til thirty. everything after is hawking tires with exposed wear bars.
men can go from their teens until their fifties.
Actually, the starting point for men can vary from the teens to the late 20s. Less intelligent men seem to mature substantially earlier, possibly because it takes more time for a more intelligent man’s brain to fully develop.
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Apparently Donald Trump is saying that 1) We are not getting the best people from Mexico. 2) He will build a wall and make Mexico pay for it. 3) Our immigration policy should be centered around importing NORTHERN EUROPEANS. And as for slaying p00ntang? This is one of Trump’s ex-wives and his daughter by her:
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i claimed some time ago that ivanka is that ultra-rare smart career-savvy 10. maybe just me but she hits all the right notes physically. you know, big ones.
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Ivana & Ivanka
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She also became a YKW.
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Who became YKW?
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Ivanka Trump. Married a YKW and became one herself.
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Enjoy CO – http://www.algemeiner.com/2015/02/06/donald-trump-on-jewish-daughter-ivanka-this-wasnt-in-the-plan-but-im-very-glad-it-happened-video/
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I refuse to vote for a man who wears a toupee.
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3) Our immigration policy should be centered around importing NORTHERN EUROPEANS.
Smart. Their failed immigration policy can be our successful immigration policy.
Wouldn’t it be an interesting turn of events to have our British “parents” move back in with us? I mean, afterall, kids are supposed to take care of their elderly. It’s part of the deal.
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Smart. Their failed immigration policy can be our successful immigration policy.
Always amusing to see Americans sneer at other countries for mass immigration. The Marxist reasons for which were trumpeted out by American media for decades, and enforced in the West by Americans.
Also amusing to see Americans talk about what Democrats do in the U.S., but when leftists do the same in northern Europe – thanks to the U.S. – then it’s “the Scandinavians”. Not “the Left”. In conclusion, once again, Americans know jack shit about other countries.
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I didn’t mean to sneer, Arbiter. Although I do recall being startled by anti-American graffiti in Greece back in 1999. That’s like having your great-grandfather sneer at you. And it’s not as if it makes me happy that England and northern Europe are changing so. It’s very similar to my actual grandmother’s German neighborhood in an American city turning not German by the time she was in her eighties and moving her into an assisted living facility. I think we need to unify.
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Arbiter, many of us have lived outside the US of A. I lived in Germany for 6 years and Italy for 1, and saw the beginnings of what is now a disaster. Germany imported many Turks because of the labor shortage in the 60s. Most stayed and raised families, and most failed to assimilate to Germany. The disasters of Scandinavia are self inflicted. Liberalism is a sickness, and they are showing it.
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You see Burkhas now in small towns here with several kids in tow. German women have one. I live next door to a day care Center and see about half of the mothers are ME. This is in a lilly white, wealthy city in Germany.
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Wow.
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You see Burkhas now in small towns here with several kids in tow. German women have one.
I don’t understand it about Germans. They seem to have pretty much gone Children of Men back around 1970, even worse than other Europeans.
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Let The Donald eat cake – my kids love fresh strawberries.
Desalination Plant in Brownsville > irrigate the wastes west of San Antonio > you’ll never see a brown face north of the I-10 > fresh strawberries for all.
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South Texas valley is so damn poor and brown. Almost all broke fruit and cotton pickers
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Import the fruit, not the people. You dumb nigger.
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Last night on Fuchs News, Trump was HATED by all the correct people. On The Five, he was HATED by Bush Family Whore Dana Perino, and on Special Report with Bret Baier, he was HATED by Eskimos Krauthammer & Liasson and by Nihilist George Will.
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CHILDLESS Bush Family Whore Dana Perino, who can’t even be bothered to help propagate the d@mned species.
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Exactly! And that is how you know someone is legit.
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That’s Marla Maples, right? Still rockin’ it, though the face does show age.
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True self-made man. All he had was his height, and his personality (learned) which made him successful
When he dies it’ll be like when Michael Jackson died or something, except I’ll actually give a fuck
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“it’ll be like when Michael Jackson died or something, except I’ll actually give a fuck”
my favorite part of jacko’s best album:
eddie van halen’s solo on beat it
most excellent things ever done were done by white men
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Mmm tasty solo always wanted to learn it on guitar..
I think racially labelling music ruins it though? Music is the only thing free from constraints of society and is too balanced, creatively and racially, to be credited
Jimi (black) vs Slash (white) for example
Now, science, definitely a white accomplishment
Name one memorable black scientist before 1900
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Fun fact is that pretty much all musical instrument were invented by White men. As well as musical notes, of course. Expecting the … other creatures to be grateful any moment now.
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Eddie is a halvsie. But he’s our halvsie.
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There is a history board on 8chan. Should I run this by them?
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99.999% of everything you see around you….imagined, designed, built, maintained, improved was done by a man
97% of that…done by a white man
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99.999% of everything you see around you….imagined, designed, built, maintained, improved was done by a man
97% of that…done by a white man
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true; but 97% of all problems are caused by the white man too.
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It’s clear to me that THWACK needs to visit the re-education facility post-haste. And as for Donohoe’s comment, there is actually one memorable black scientist pre-1900; George Washington Carver. But he was also basically white in both attitude and outlook. If you liked PB&J sandwiches as a child, you owe him.
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Name one memorable black scientist before 1900
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if you are a white male and you fail to invent or discover something by the age of 30; you should be killed; or at least sent to Africa.
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And the white man will and is providing the solutions
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If you’re talking about Trump, his dad was super-rich. Not exactly self made. But I’d still take him for prez over most of the other pansy politicians.
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All he had was his height, and his personality (learned)
it also shows that height is not enough. he had to use game to get what he wanted. so many men think “if only i were taller” but mystery was tall & still needed to learn game.
i once teased a girl i was dancing with (taller than me), “look, there’s a guy for you” because he looked like a dork, but her eyes bulged at how tall he was & she approached him. she came back 10 minutes later after talking to him & learning what a dork he was.
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Re Being Tall
Being tall is NOT as problematic as many men believe. In fact, being short but successful with women is one of the biggest validations of game. Height has always been associated with success, and it’s something that a man can’t do much about it, physically that is. However, what a man can do is flip the script as game teaches and, very much in line with what Yareally recently wrote: him being average looking and using that as a surprise element in his game where women get intrigued by the actual contents of the book. In fact that’s really one large element of the woman’s psyche – she needs to be wooed by something unique and different and what more different than a book with a mediocre cover, but full of surprises and unexpected whet.
Dating at least one tall woman (6ft+), is a must for every man, tall or short. It’s an incredible ego and confidence boost. Have you ever felt the lusty looks of other women when you were with a hot babe? Double that, and you will get a glimpse of what it is to be seen with a taller than you woman.
Many men claim that confidence is the key ingredient for success with the ladies. Maybe. But as friend of mine said “try flying an airplane with confidence (and no other skills)”. With that in mind, it’s easy to see that confidence is not the most important part of game… However, when it comes to tall women when you’re short or average, confidence is the only thing that matters. I’ll tell you why, and probably no surprise, but tall women in my experience lack the intelligence and wit most of their shorter counterparts possess. Actually there’s an old European/Russian saying, or more than one, that tall people are often less intelligent. Don’t know how true that is, but it makes sense since Europe has gone through so many wars and usually average height men would survive; besides tall men have more health issues. Here’s the other thing that would help shorter men add to their confidence. Tall women are NOT as desired by men as the media teaches us. In fact, it could be a problem for them, especially in the US where the most desired woman’s type is average height, D cup blond. Now, I need to clarify this – every man dreams of being with a tall woman, but not many would settle for one, hence the “problem” I just described.
I myself am 5’8” which is just below average and before I discovered game, I dated only shorter than me women. I’ve discovered this site about 3 years ago, and I’ll tell you that among the 4 or 5 tall women I dated, one was 6’2”, which is 6 inches taller than me! Imagine her with any heels and you get the picture. She was the perfect woman for me, but approaching 33, she asked the wrong question… you should know what that means if you’ve been hanging around. It’s literally flipping the script – she was the one that was incredibly jealous, and while ignoring the looks from “tall men”, she was focused on who I was (what she considered) checking out. Imagine her thought process – “if he can get a tall beautiful woman like me, he can get any short one”… or so I’d like to indulge myself into thinking… thinking, such that can only help!
The only time I’d feel I don’t have an advantage by being short is the time I’m physically positioned next to another man. (Hence the importance of the presidential debates). But even that can be overcome; there was a post here from CH with a picture of Putin and a gang leader or something. Putin lacking height, was still clearly no lesser man, to say the least. You can also A&A – I was at an event and during the photo time, I ended up standing next to a very tall woman. With people looking at me, I realized that it would be embarrassing and self-degrading if I moved away from her or to the other side of the group. Instead, I tippy toed at first, measuring myself against her, and then moved behind her on a higher step. One thing was on my mind, CH – A&A, one of the greatest concepts ever!
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manlets, listen up. you must take pictures on your tippy toes to agree and amplify
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“and there is no equivalent of game for women.”
he who laughs last laughs best
the world is ours and women know it
all this feminism crap will blow over soon. a failed experiment. be patient and game on
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I’m gonna give a personal testimony for the first and last time ever. I’m a smart guy, got a few quid, lived an interesting life, and dedicated about 15 years to one woman who ended up not deserving it. (For those who like to know these things, a short, pudgy 6.5 Marxist Feminist academic, a few years older than me.)
Didn’t get frivorce-raped the way some have, but took a battering out of the blue due to being too beta, but wised up quickly (quick learner), cut off contact, and went full red pill. Game, game and more game for six months, in lieu of all other things, including earning and career.
Result? HB 9, 13 years younger, in pure adoration, and a roster of potential plates auditioning to replace her. That took about a year from start to finish thanks to game. I’m about Mystery’s age, probably not as good looking or rich but definitely smarter. If I can do it so can you. Get up out of your chair and turn the idiot box off. Do some weights. Be cheeky to women, especially hot ones. Know their nature. Know your own. Win at life. This has been a Skinner public announcement.
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You are the proverbial exception. Now, as proof of your conquest, how about a pic?
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Multiple attempts to respond in mod limbo. Long story short, I’m no exception, just an example of the minority who tried.
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a pic of a ” a short, pudgy 6.5 Marxist Feminist academic, a few years older than me” – you pervert…
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Both women are findable online, and I doubt either would appreciate it if I id’d them just to score points on the internet. Believe or don’t believe, all equal by me, Corvinus. But think on this – who would realistically brag about squandering their best years on a squat bitchy professional feminist who had such a cheese belly people assumed she was permanently pregnant, were it not true?
And as for the current squeeze? Beauty’s in the eye of the beholder, sure. For me she’s a 9. Maybe an 8 to you, I dunno. What I do know is that when she’s in public she’s hot enough to be hit on pretty much every ten minutes, in all contexts, at all times of the day.
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You are the proverbial exception.
Looks like we have another Game h8ter.
Now, as proof of your conquest, how about a pic?
A rather dvmb thing to ask for in this day and age. We’ll just have to take his word for it. But it’s believable.
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I would say Skinner is not the exception – he is the norm. Every older guy who posts here is having success… in a variety of ways. But those guys are all trying and doing. That’s the difference. If you don’t try you can’t do… which is cool but don’t take up posts complaining or challenging guys.
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Well said, sir.
I learned game after some relationships that would have been better left untried. It was amazing to see how well game advice actually works. I made an effort to do a lot of cold approaches – the right way – for a year, and had sex with several attractive college girls because of it. Without game I would never have met them.
Looking back now I know that I have had a lot more sex, and more fun with female company, than anyone I know. I have never posted a number here and won’t now either, but it should raise the average in my town by a noticeable degree. Aside from that, a long, rewarding relationship with a very cute girl, and then another relationship that is ongoing. I would never have met either without game.
Whatever you do, don’t listen to feel-good “advice” that amounts to doing nothing: “Just be yourself!” and “You’ll find someone when you stop looking!” Sounds good. No effort, no need for improvement or change in your routines, no need to invest time. By that logic everyone would have hit the jackpot by now. But the low-hanging fruit is picked fast, and to reach the rest you have to learn how. Otherwise you’ll have to make do with the rotting apples on the ground. Hey, pick enough of those and I guess you might call yourself a natural.
Many guys are alone against their will for several years in their prime, and then have to take what they can get. To go without sex and the intimacy that you want for a year, or several years, is a pain. Game saves. And when you learn it you see how it ties in with other truths about the species. This way men like Mystery and CH do a lot more to lay the foundation for change than any number of politicians and their supporters.
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100%. Couldn’t agree more. All the shit women (your mother, your sister, your female ‘friends’) say – horse manure. Like you say, it adds up to ‘do nothing and wait until some wall-slammed carousel rider deigns to trade her rapidly declining SMV for half your hard-earned.’
Game saves lives. I know we’ve said it before, but it does. In the throes of a chronic oneitis, having lost my bitchy deluded feminista, I took a month out to live on a boat and stare at a pile of pills. It was that close. Docs offered more pills, women offered the self-serving pabulum detailed above, and friends could only provide a roof over my head, an arm round the shoulder.
What saved me was game. And what remade me was game. And what put me back on the track to first survive, then live, then thrive, was game.
I changed my own nature, and having literally retrieved my existence thanks to knowledge detailed here and elsewhere, I thought I should offer at least this one testimony to anyone reading this wondering if this counter-intuitive wrongthink might be what its advocates say it is.
Answer: yes, it is. And if you’re smart, you’ll engage, internalise, and leverage it, and reclaim your life.
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Skinner – Concur and you should get COTW… and thanks again to all those who went before…
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@Skinner
“Game saves lives. ”
that’s the most important red pill truth, right there…congrats on pulling through…but i hope you don’t make your testimonial the ‘last time’. sharing your story makes it easier for other men to see the light and know it’s possible to change…if not on here, then in real life…
good luck!
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“Whatever you do, don’t listen to feel-good “advice” that amounts to doing nothing: “Just be yourself!” and “You’ll find someone when you stop looking!” Sounds good. No effort, no need for improvement or change in your routines, no need to invest time.”
Good point, Arb. I still find these remnants of yesteryear creeping in now and then. Not as strong as before…just gotta ignore the noise.
I do not understand the misconception about Game. At it’s heart, it’s about self-improvement first and foremost.
It echoes something Steve Young had stated once…”go see how good you can get.” Like you said, you gotta challenge yourself.
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@Mendo – “I do not understand the misconception about Game. At it’s heart, it’s about self-improvement first and foremost.”
This is part of game, the learning but at its heart I say game is about psychological dominance… and game haters hate game because they fear this truth, and they fear they can never have the winning hand (loser mentality) so they rather it just all went away.
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Skinner – good going dude. The “minority who tried” thing particularly rings true. My path was different from yours but like you, I learnt Game (in the broadest sense – not just negging and top hats) and it has changed my life and continues to do so.
My city has a “PUA lair” with a private online forum. I’ve been on it for 9 years now (right through my LTR) and it’s amazing how few guys actually stick at it consistently enough to improve. I’m no super-PUA but I’ve come a long, long way and so few men do.
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PS – And yes, thanks are due to the guys who went before and the community of guys right here and on TRM etc who continue to help and support each other. Reading The Game, and a number of years later taking the red pill (Krasuer’s blog, then CH, then TRM) fundamentally changed how I looked at the world.
I inherently enjoy thinking about and analyzing this stuff, but I also try to pay it forward and help guys who are starting out just like I was because of that – here, on that private forum and so on.
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What happened to the baby carriage?
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The picture looks like the city of Kelowna
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It’s downtown Toronto, Mystery’s home town (as well as my own).
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Explosive, super-secret Toronto demography report
http://spengler.atimes.net/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=9793&start=0
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Remember when you read the Manosphere and RVF members being whiny-ass crybabies about “Toronto girls are all feminist shallow bitches” and “Toronto is the worst city in the world to get laid it’s impossible unless you have money and power” and wah wah wah…Toronto is where most of the early PUAs cut their teeth learning game. Mystery, Tyler, Style, Cajun, those guys were running sober game in nightclubs figuring out how to get those chicks. RSD still does regular bootcamps in Toronto. And DC, and europe and all those places that guys with weak game cry on forums about being impossible to game in.
If you’re getting rejected by girls in Toronto and you’re getting into discussions about feminism with chicks at the bar and the girls are passing you up for the rich dude beside you, hint: it’s not that the girls are hard to get, it’s that your game needs work. And your game won’t improve as long as you’re clutching to the belief that it’s the women’s fault, not yours, that you can’t pull them. Accept that your game is shit and work on improving it and figuring out and overcoming all your sticking points like the oldschool guys did. Quit this passive “I’m going to go out and hang out at the bar posting up against the bar or a pillar drunk and doing a couple weak approaches where I don’t actually apply any real game because I’m too lazy to put any effort in or risk rejections to sharpen a new aspect of game or leave my comfort zone” Get your elbows in the mud and step up.
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A man’s SMV is actually indefinate. It’s much much longer than a 10 year gap. Remember, looks play a very small part in a man’s overall SMV. Proof is everywhere. Open yours eyes.
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With proper nutrition and supplementation (not what you think), one can maintain his middle aged looks indefinitely.
The official dogma of inexorable aging and inevitable cellular inefficiency is false.
So too is the dogma of a static brain; brain plasticity can be maintained past the age of 25+ with the appropriate protocols.
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When you say not what you think, what do you mean? Growth hormone, HRT?
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So, what is this fountain of youth?
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drugs is the fountain of youth.
I took my shirt off while I was changing to go out with this chick…she says “whatever it is that you’re taking…keep taking it.” We both laughed. This other girl’s mom says I look like a sculpture
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“This other girl’s mom says I look like a sculpture”…
Yeah, your head is made of marble…
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@FSR and Trav care to elaborate a little. At ethe things you are recommending sustainable? Expensive? Difficult compared to working out and nutrition?
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No offense but she looks like she has been through the ringer. I am older than him and if i was relegated to such women it would be game over for me.
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It is game over for you. No one will believe otherwise.
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Although considering his hair style, posture and clothes it was what he had to settle for.
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Because nothing says alpha like debating a girl’s HB number and related assets on the internet after seeing a picture of her …..
…..clothed back.
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Are you a homosexual? who cares about her clothes? It’ what she looks like with no clothes that matters. Consider Mystery is 6’4 or 6’5, i’d say this girl is 5’8 or so, slim arms, broad shoulders, narrow waist, slim legs… the problem here again?
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Queen St W, Toronto
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Some time ago, I met a girl, wasn’t that interested in her because I was banging someone hotter, she knew and said she was okay with it. She wasn’t, even though she was seeing other men too.
I could list all the mean shit I did to her in a 4 months period, but I’ll try to list the ones that had the bigger effects.
-First things first, I made her grow her hair.
-I don’t drink. A “you don’t look good when you’re drunk” was enough for her to stop drinking.
-She introduced me to her friends, didn’t like them. She asked if I wanted her to stop seeing any of them. I’m not that much of a jerk, so I just suggested one girl.
-Talked to her about my ex girlfriend, a younger girl and how she knows how to cook, clean and even was a virgin. “I would marry her”.
-Made her pay everything.
-She gave me a Galaxy V for my birthday. I gave her one of my mom’s old watches.
-Stole her iPod.
-She went to LA with her girl friends, I somehow managed to make her cry via skype and ruined her whole weekend. This is when I started to get worried.. Next time we saw each other, she deepthroated me like there was no tomorrow.
-Next day, I posted a pic on facebook with the girl I was also banging, I asked this girl to be my gf. Crazy girl flooded my voice mail, called her and dumped her, I heard her crying.
She went crazy, her beta and girl friends posted shit on facebook about me, they called my job and told her more shit, etc.
I met with her and she was still crying, asking me to forgive her friends and saying she loves me, she thought otherwise lolz. I finally dumped her ass good and left. Didn’t hear from her for about a month or so when rumors came that she had started drinking again, quitted her job, who knows.
Yesterday, I got a call from her. Yes, her. I thought I would hear her rant and throw diatribes like a pitcher, but no. Called to apologize and asked to see me again, to prove me that she had changed. She learned to cook, let her hair grow even longer and took off her piercings, etc. I was like WHAT THE FUCK.
I kept my cool and promised we’d meet. I won’t.
I’ve been reading this blog for 6 months or so by now, I’ve learned some good shit, I’ve learned some bad shit too. I don’t know how to handle this. Probably because every other girl I’ve fucked before found other guys, had good self steem or because my game wasn’t that good. I find it impossible now not to worry about her.
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Max – this is something I am starting to worry about too. I’ve not quite done that kind of stuff to a girl, but I’ve certainly hit a point where girls I’ve met even once or twice are starting to get really into me (even though I make it clear I don’t want a relationship etc) and I’m trying to learn how to handle them so that they don’t get hurt (I’m taking some of the advice YaReally posted ages ago about not getting into date mode too much etc but it’s quite difficult)
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For all the manosphere advice on how to snag women there is none on how to get rid of them. Back in the 60s the Playboy Advisor suggested lighting up a cigarette during sex.
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> “I find it impossible now not to worry about her.” Thank God you added that last sentence. YOU BREAK IT, YOU OWN IT. If you f*ck with another person’s mind like you’ve done to this poor girl, then her eventual suicide is ON YOU. The Dark Triad is called DARK for a Reason.
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With great power comes great responsibility. Don’t be an Obama, Clinton or McCain. Be Rand Paul or Putin. God knows the world needs more of these people. As someone stated so well before, be a good pimp and help them land on their feet at least. Jmi.
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Well most men commit suicide because of women who really don’t care at all.
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great.
I went only so far to have girl cut her hair (descending to waist and below), which she maintained at least since 2007 (if not longer). She also orders my favorite food frm the restaurant everytime I drop by, beacuse I told her on the first date – **name of the food*, wine movies or Im not going to no visit
I dont worry about her tho…have you seen any chick honestly worry about a beta supplicant? thats just the biomechanics
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“Wasn’t that interested in her.”
All you need to know.
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“Made her grow her hair”-
That was nice. It is not mean when you help a girl raise her SMV
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His mother has a tattoo that reads, “Son”.
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I don’t always use a suppository, but when I do…
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That’s a good one!
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http://www.newrepublic.com/article/121901/white-protestant-roots-american-racism
By Alana “dick is abundant and low value” Massey
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Her typing is abundant and low value.
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Alana Massey is a writer and organizer in New York City.
For a good time GoogleImages(“writer living in Brooklyn, NY”).
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+1
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This is how I picture Yareally, but shorter. Bland style, blending into the crowd nicely without any notice; black tee, blue pants, black shoes(possible white socks).
I can just imagine a shorter version of mystery(aka YaReally) walking by me without him even pinging on my social radar and not even giving a second thought or glace in his spiritual direction.
Then again, both men know more about life then I ever will and have honed their social skills to the *nth degree. I struggle with things they have written out and I am forever greatful
But don’t take this as criticism of YaReally. I browse his archives daily, habitually, and obsessively. I have on a white board in my room drawn in marker saying “Just do it!!!!” but it really should say “read more Yareally you piece of shit and stop playing video games”
I zoomed in on the shirt and it looks like it says “sinner” — master of the dark artz
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“stop playing video games” — Throw away your video console. Lose the smart phone [you can always TXT on a dumb phone]. I’d go so far as to urge you to get rid of your internet connection altogether – go completely 19th Century in your man cave. Read books [on paper]. Keep your notes/diary on paper. Get out and breath the fresh air. Exercise – both strength and cardio. Lose the carbs and the LBS and gain the muscle mass. Don’t slouch – head held high, shoulders pulled back. Get a spring in your step. 19th Century Lifestyle FTW.
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It really does have its benefits!
I only use the internet for CH and TRM haha
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True that
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@afica
“This is how I picture Yareally, but shorter. Bland style, blending into the crowd nicely without any notice; black tee, blue pants, black shoes(possible white socks).”
lol pretty much. I don’t peacock. People harp on Mystery’s fuzzy hat shit but the guy can run the same game he runs with or without his peacocking.
Right before this clip, he takes off his fuzzy hat and necklaces and shit so he’s going in just dressed like a normal dude. Look at 2:07-2:20 in that clip, who’s the highest value guy in the room as far as anyone looking in that direction is concerned?:
But you get a lot more exposure in terms of marketing if you look like a freakshow. All his fuzzy hat stuff does is put him on the radar of the hotter girls who are confident enough to shit-test him about it because they peacock themselves (and end up in his spider-web of game).
Peacocking is just one method of DHV’ing. When you understand what the PURPOSE of peacocking is (instigating shit-tests that you know passing will raise your value, and building social proof in the room etc.), and why DHV’ing is important and where in an interaction you want to do it (hint: read Mystery Method, focus on A1 (DHV) until you get A2, if you aren’t getting A2, stay in A1 and keep DHV’ing in a milion different ways until you get A2. People forget this and try to steamroll their way into A3 or C1 and end up with massive inconsistency), you understand that you can use other methods to build that same value. You can use other ways to instigate shit-tests, you can use other ways to build social proof, etc. It’s just one of many tools.
Also Mystery figured this shit out by trial and error while SOBER. Fucking amazing brain in that head of his. Tyler, Julien, bunch of other dudes, they’re walking up on hotties and pulling off makeouts and pulls stone cold sober. A lot of the guys talking smack are the same guys downing half a bottle of Jack pre-drinking before heading off to the bar to get shitfaced as they passively wait for whatever 6s approach them every weekend as part of their “sick game”.
“I can just imagine a shorter version of mystery(aka YaReally) walking by me without him even pinging on my social radar and not even giving a second thought or glace in his spiritual direction.”
You would never notice me or know that I was out drinking with you lol I don’t talk PUA with normal dudes (tho I’ll drop some advice if they seem to be figuring it out themselves and just need a little nudge toward putting the puzzle pieces together). At best if you spent a lot of time out with me you’d think “man, it’s weird that girls like him, I don’t get it he doesn’t seem to have anything going for him and he just acts like an asshole but they love it??” I look like a generic average white dude.
Looking average causes 1) a bigger “ok I have to know who this guy IS, why is he so confident??” value-boost to girls when I talk to them (VS being a tall jacked good-looking dude in a suit where they’d EXPECT me to be confident), and 2) more dudes thinking I’m an easy AMOG target and walking into the ring with their hands down expecting “I’m better looking than that guy” to make the girl switch to them lol Part of why I understand AMOG dynamics is that I had to deal with so goddamn much of it.
“Then again, both men know more about life then I ever will and have honed their social skills to the *nth degree. I struggle with things they have written out and I am forever greatful ”
Glad it’s helped. The only difference between us is that I decided to replace passive hobbies like gaming and went out more to go play a way more fun videogame called cold approach pickup lol Pickup is really just a videogame. You respawn after every set, you get the same adrenaline highs when you pull off a successful play, you level up and upgrade as you master the tools and you approach hotter and hotter bosses.
Think of pickup like this: No one has to CONVINCE you to play a videogame. You might lose at the game. If you play Street Fighter, there’s a good chance you’re gonna lose esp against a tough opponent. But do you just play once and then never play again? No way, you’re always up for playing, because the act of playing ITSELF is the fun part. The winning/losing doesn’t really matter, you know you’ll play again and you’ll play other opponents, and you’ll have an adrenaline rush of excitement and fun as you play and you’ll learn and sharpen your skills even if you get your ass kicked at first.
Pickup is exactly the same. Try to see the parallels and it might not be as scary to get out there and approach some hotties.
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That’s Mystery ? I didn’t recognize him w/o his big, fuzzy hat !
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Game and learning game is high risk high reward. Since learning game 5 years ago I’ve been banging younger, hotter girls. That’s the upside. My life is more interesting, confidence breeds more confidence and the personal development trajectory is always upward.
The risk is that with the hotter girls comes more craziness, more weirdness. I liken it to driving a high performance car, it requires a lot more skill to handle without crashing and when you crash it, there’s a lot more glass and shit everywhere.
The upside…my recovery time from these dust-ups is now faster. My ability to NEXT becomes easier.
It’s not perfect and there are still beta lapses but if the mindset is alpha then the outcomes are more alpha.
At times when I meet girls and they get flakey about changing times…IF it seems they’re genuinely interested in meeting up but start asking stupid questions like “but how can I find that place?” “Is there a bus that goes by there?” I do respond…if it means spending more time detailing logistics or making myself available.
Sometimes girls are genuinely flustered about a first meet up. IF they’re just plain “I’m busy” and don’t offer any alternatives….I drop it—-as an example.
At other times if a girl is flakey about meeting up but I have banged her…I may try proposing a few alternative dates or times just because I figure she’s just being a girl. Yesterday I met up with a 24 year old art student i’d banged a few weeks back. She was all flakey about her schedule, but we found a time. In that case I was more accommodating. But…she came over and banged my brains out and then left taking a taxi home…. I’m developing a better sense of who’s authentic and who’s being a flakey bitch.
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hmmmm
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WW, in the last five years, how many Alpha Widows have you left in your wake? And how many of them will never settle down and have B@BEEZ because they can’t find another Alpha to satisfy the hunger in them? At some point you need to start thinking about what you are doing to the future of the species.
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CO, not sure if WW is leaving Alpha widows in his wake although I will let him speak to that. I guess it depends what an Alpha widow is. Are they the ones who get used and abused in a LTR then end up going to a beta because the pain was so bad? They then abuse the beta into the grave.
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@Captain Thinking about what I’m doing for the future of the species? I’m just having fun buddy….to each his own.
As for Alpha Widows…interesting question. No real clue. I’ve honestly forced myself to stop caring. When these things end, I now focus on moving forward. It’s interesting to share those experiences here as learnings, but I really don’t wonder “Is she still thinking about me?” That’s oneitis and that’s something I’ve taken great effort to get through and move past.
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ww
no.
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Except that that’s not what the research shows. Women oxytocin-bond with Alphas and they never get over it. Ever. Instead of ruining these women, we should be teaching our Beta Brothers how to man up and go Alpha and EARN the right to participate in a 1-Man/1-Woman civilization.
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Where are the kids? You dipshit.
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Where the fuck is that urban wasteland?
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Chicago? LOL
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Judging by the Bank in the photo, it’s somewhere in Canada.
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Toronto time be exact.
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Went to HP today. Got settled in when a healthy 70 year man asked if he could sit at my table. Being sociable I said of course. Listened to his life story while I saw a soft 9 with big torpedo tits, slinky body, nice ass, pretty good face and dressed to kill. She showed io going in. She had a business meeting with a unique guy. Could not make a move as her and the guy were working together at a small table. After about 1 1/2 hours she is leaving with him and looks at me with interest. They walk out as I am trying to look at her while the guy I am sitting with is filibustering in my face. She gives the guy she is with a friend hug and I just about bust a nut as I can’t get up and talk to her because of the rudeness factor. Seeing her walk away was the most painful thing I have had to go through in a week or so. The guy I was sitting with gave me his card and may end up doing some business with me which is some consolation.
Can’t stop thinking about her. I like big game hunting as the ioi’s seem to be easier.
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HP == ???
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[…] Source: Heartiste […]
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Should be put on “Good bye Western Civ”. Nothing to aspire to.
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He got his. Fuck the world let it burn. Get yours.
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You are absolutely correct.
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what is this “yours”?
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So the woman’s in her mid-30’s?
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Age is to women what melt is to snow. It doesn’t matter how unique the snowflake it becomes a muddy puddle.
Had a middle aged real estate agent woo me as a client. She had kept herself in shape, still had nice curves. Didn’t use her. Saw her out at an event, didn’t remember her name, she did mine and tried more wooing. Told her I was happy with my realtor she tried to tell me she was better. Just thought she was greedy. Saw her again at a bar several months later. Buddy told me some woman was staring at me. Said hello to her on the way out. She pulled me in and kissed me. Told her it was good to see her and I had to go. I was f’ing a Ukrainian young enough to be her daughter, and mine. Had no real interest.
So 2-3 days later got an email from her with an attached virus. Deleted it and sent her email telling her about the virus. She emailed back sorry. Made me angry and I looked her up online. Impressive photos of her 20 years ago. Definitely would have but from her pics she was busy with the Miami Dolphins backup QB then. My how the mighty fall.
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So, why haven’t you married that curvy trans lesbian tumblr feminist single mom yet guys?
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[…] The Lifelong Rewards Of Game | Chateau Heartiste […]
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Can someone please explain me what exactly is sexist according to what the author in the article below was trying to convey? I’ve read it all the way through more than once and still can’t come up with a coherent concept to understand the real intent behind the story?
https://uk.lifestyle.yahoo.com/blogs/fashion-blog/this-one-picture-captures-everything-wrong-with-hollywood-s-sexist-standards-084529131.html
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Woah, CH , I remember you wrote mystery off when he was singing serenade on the beach with his daughter. But even if it is his wife in the picture, still could be considered as benefit of game
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A well built and maintained man can easily score hot 20 and 30-somethings well into his 50’s. Confidence and charisma, combined with a tacit understanding of various daddy issues and how to play them means never having to settle for a woman over 30.
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Young men, it just gets easier with wisdom and experience – and putting in the effort and the will to self-improvement.
I will admit that I am blessed with good genes but at 64, I can wear out my 31 y/o girlfriend in bed. Our relationship is explicitly “I’m The Captain” and she can audition to be First Mate ( actually she might get to be wife #4). I let her tag along with me in my life of travel and adventure in a support role. Taking her to a “honeymoon island” this weekend and told her she can come along on my hike to the volcano’s crater, then come to the shooting range with me and I’ll teach her to fire a gun. We might take her horseback riding too.
Yes, Game has been a big help. She told me early on that she loved the way I teased her and I make a point of regularly physically dominating her (picking her up, or spanking her.) But my attitude is the foundation of our relationship.
This beautiful young woman is my reward for becoming a better man and I’m her reward for being a good, feminine, well-bred woman.
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Broadsman – something for all of us younger guys to aspire to. Both the attitude and the results of it. The trick is in truly believing it not just saying it.
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Broadsman Livin’ da Life. Now just cap it all off with MOAR WHYTE B@BEEZ FTW.
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It’s just so true. I’m a very well preserved 51. I’m 6’1″ and 185. I benched 205 5 times yesterday. I got back my six pack abs. I divorced my annoying B**** wife, survived the divorce process, got half time with my kids, and now I’m dating a hot as fuck 35 year old babe. She’s on her way to my house right now to get her ass slapped and to do whatever I want, because I’m in charge and that’s just how she want’s it. Take care of yourself young men: mentally, physically, spiritually, financially. The rewards can last you well into your old gray buck years. And yes, the pool of women when you are a high SMV MAN is simply astounding.
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“Take care of yourself young men: mentally, physically, spiritually, financially.”
Yup and yup. Nicely summed.
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Not to dismiss Erik’s mastery of game and bringing it to the masses, but the dude was always very good looking and tall. Not saying that’s enough for the guaranteed hot-tight, but it’s a lot.
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There is something to be said about making the best of what you have… Neil Strauss for example…
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which Neil has a stronger frame and a better attitude?
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I never see women under 28 (the only women that matter) with guys more than 5 years older than themselves. Any man who fails to transition to foreign game will likely find himself cut off at the knees in his early 30’s.
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Your meatloaf is coming…
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