Somebody, probably a girl buddy, asked this group to look over their shoulders and put their hands on their hips for a snap. It’s hard to make this pose work without looking gay.
One man obeys.
βETA
One man is busy checking another girl out and can’t be bothered to remove his hand from his girl’s ass.
ΑLPHA
Any questions?
Yes, you sir.
You still don’t get it?
Ok, try this. It’s a general guide to the good life. A very simple rule that if you follow it religiously will reward you 99 out of 100 times.
Doing what you’re told: BETA.
Doing whatever the fuck you want: 
.
Stop appeasing girls. They don’t want it, they don’t like it, and they invariably give their sexual favors to men who understand this about them.
Let’s see…yellow fever with girl who can’t even wear sexy gym shit to the bar (bike pants, dafuq). beta. or gay. Slender looking white girl friend who wears tight dress. alpha. Also, wear jeans that fit.
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Asian girl’s hotter.
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The two in the middle kind of look like brother and sister.
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yep, i’m not into asian girls as a general rule but this girl is definitely hotter than the other one.
having white skin does not automatically make you hotter despite what many say on here. that white girl has pasty skin, lumpy legs, and an old lady’s ass. she gets some points for wearing a dress instead of bike shorts but that’s about it.
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Dating Asian girls = playing Game on Easy mode.
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Just saying, if she needs to wear bike pant spandex that thick, she may be a ladyboy.
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She’s definitely Filipina. A.k.a. the go-to women for betas who can’t hack it with anyone else.
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one on right is Eskimo (chosen not frozen). duh.
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“She’s definitely Filipina. A.k.a. the go-to women for betas who can’t hack it with anyone else.”
Now, now there are some good looking Filipinos and if they are easier to game then so be it.
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If you’re white, it’s more like playing with cheat codes than on easy mode. Not that there’s anything wrong with banging Asian girls, but don’t expect others to think you have game if you do, unless you’re twice or more their age.
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Ha ha. Keep ‘doing what you’re told’ then and chase those pedestalized white girls. You all cancelled yourselves out here.
I prefer Asian girls by a landslide and ‘no fux given’ how a bunch of dweebs regard me.
-Far less body fat
-Smaller, lighter
– cough, cough,(tighter) cough
-10 times the femininity
-higher pitched voices.
-They don’t try to compete with me or ‘out-man’ me.
PWN says:
—-” Not that there’s anything wrong with banging Asian girls, but don’t expect others to think you have game if you do,”
Keep picking out your girls to win approval from random, unknown guys.
BETA OF THE CENTURY comment right there.
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@Sean Fielding
I said ‘The girl on the right’ and you call that ‘laughable’. Yeah, ‘laughable’?
You sure it’s ‘laughable’? Really? ‘Laughable,’ he says. Don’t go to good standup then because you’ll likely die.
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What about the opposite
If an Asian guy is dating a white girl does that mean that
The asian guy is a playa with tight game
or
The white girl has low SMV with no options
[CH: we’ll need more information.]
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“Dating Asian girls = playing Game on Easy mode.”
It depends on where said Asian girl grew up.
If she is from China, her soul is a cash register and she knows there are a few hundred million surplus betas waiting for her back home.
The only thing going against her is that in China, 30 is considered old and having hit the wall.
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Are you like those blacks who will fuck a dinosaur if it has white skin.. You really think white girls are automatically hotter even if they’re fat curly pizza faces.. Latinas are the hottest girls anyway
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total agreement with this.
don’t get why people are still idolizing american white women when they are usually ill-mannered, slutty, masculine, pierced, tattooed, fat, etc. how is settling for something like that good for your future or the future of your potential children? i don’t care how white their skin is, kids being raised by women like that will not be winners.
besides, why would any sane man want to settle for a sub-par woman who will make his life miserable until she inevitably divorces him, when he can get a feminine, intelligent, nurturing, beautiful latina or asian?
what’s the goal here? intelligent, capable, successful sons and beautiful feminine daughters? or white-skinned children raised by inadequate women who are most likely horrible wives and mothers? choose the second option and you know what you’ll get? you get weaker lineage because you made a shitty choice of wife and mother for your children. don’t understand how people don’t get that.
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By “Latina” I’m guessing you’re talking about a woman who’s 90% European; or do you actually want to fuck Rigoberta Menchu?
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88’s Post;
Not just a homerun but this;
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The girl on the right is very well put together. Asian girl looks like a cartoon.
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The children you have with the Asian chick will be upwards of a foot shorter than the children you have with the White chick. Your half-gook daughters will be rather hawt, and very compliant, and so YaReally will [ya, really] enjoy s0d0mizing their compliant little @nuses and r3ctums. Whereas your half-gook sons will grow up to look and act like Elliot Rodger. [Most profound apologies to The Derb if he read this far.]
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“Whereas your half-gook sons will grow up to look and act like Elliot Rodger. “
Really bro? You say it like it’s a bad thing playa?
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The girl on the right has the same face as the dude in the red shirt. She has a chin like Mel Gibson and likely has that highest T of everyone in that photo. You all are frogs in the slow boil. You don’t even realize how masculine the white women have become. They’re trannies with gashes (loose at that) and you can’t recognize it because it’s been gradual.
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The High-T White girl will give you High-T sons who are more likely to grow up to be ALPHAS. Whereas the Asian girl will give you daughters who grow up to be Hentai Bukakke p0rn stars, with Special Guest Appearance by YaReally in the role of John “Johnny Wadd” Holmes.
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Get your high-T manjaw, manhands woman and then your son can be an alpha and you’ll win all kinds of approval. Good luck to you.
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And your son can grow up to be Elliot Rodger. I seem to recall that Charles Darwin had a thing or two to say about that disparity.
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“The children you have with the Asian chick will be upwards of a foot shorter than the children you have with the White chick. Your half-gook daughters will be rather hawt, and very compliant, and so YaReally will [ya, really] enjoy s0d0mizing their compliant little @nuses and r3ctums. Whereas your half-gook sons will grow up to look and act like Elliot Rodger. [Most profound apologies to The Derb if he read this far.]”
Hmm, would concur. My son is going out with a 9. Half Euro half Filipino. She is hit on ruthlessly. She is as loyal as a dog. Not sure what to do in terms of recommendations for him. Her brother is a little beta although he somehow has a good looking white blond American girlfriend. Any thoughts….
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Colonel Trautman: “The girl on the right …”
Laughable lesser beta tell. There’s a White girl and an Asian girl in the pic, but this victim of murine yellow fever chooses to identify the White girl on the PC basis of which one is on which side.
Gentlemen, we could be dealing with an Eskimo here.
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there are good looking asian girls, but in my opinion they’re a rookie mistake
yes, compared to a lot of white women they’re smaller and in general they can be expected to be cute, so if you just had to blindly take a woman of one ethnicity, that might be the way to go
but we don’t do it blindly, and we don’t hook up with an amalgamation of an ethnicity, we hook up with an individual and the upside of a good-looking white girl is far superior to an individual asian
in the case of this picture it’s a matter of taste, but the guy on the left is still long-term less prone to have good-looking women in his life because of his beta instincts
IF you just really prefer asian go to laos or northern thailand. the good ones have white skin, big eyes, occasional huge tits. you’re welcome
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Normally Trautman seems like he’s on our side…
But anyone touting Asian women over white women, well… think beyond your dick towards a future for white children.
“Pedestalized” white women, for all their current faults, are still the gold standard of beauty… and the only beings capable of producing white children.
That and that alone is what’s important, in when all is said and done.
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Putin, if your Grandkids are 1/4 Asian, then the 3/4 White MIGHT be enough for them to carry on the Good Fight for the rest of this Century. But in the near future, your son needs to remember that “Chinese Girls have Cash Registers for Souls”, and that she has 50% of that proclivity in her. So your son has to be really careful if, say, he gets an MD and becomes a low-salary Family Practitioner with little or no Residency [$85K per annum?], whereas his 1/2-Cash-Register-for-a-Soul Fiancee/Wife crosses paths with, say, an Invasive Neuro-Radiologist, who did a high-powered Residency/Fellowship [$5M per annum?].
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CO reminded me of this:
High T and high IQ – European
– Men: die Herrenvolk
– Women: inspiring and virtuous
Low T and high IQ – East Asian
Men: passive, industrious
Women: cash register for soul
High T and low IQ – African
Men: virile, destructive
Women: “de mule o de world” – ZNH
Low T and low IQ – SE Asian
Men: amiable layouts
Women: pleasant, sexual
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One quality, and it’s associated subgroups, that this two-axis diagram fails to capture is system-gaming, opportunism. Amy Chua thought those people who have that quality are superior; clannishness and skill in system-gaming is what they all have in common. This quality is associated with South Asian and Semitic groups. Chua also threw in Mormons, Nigerians. And a few others. IQ plays a part here, and testosterone seems uncorrelated.
Honor vs Perfidy is the third axis I’m going after here.
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> “Honor vs Perfidy” ——— That’s getting deeply into Biological Calvinism, and the question of whether the Creator doled out attributes such as Honor, or Freedom of the Will [to do things like FORCE oneself to become a better person, merely as an Act of the Will, and nothing more], on an equal basis, or whether some folks [and/or groups of folks], on average, simply have better genes for Morality and Character than do other folks [and/or groups of folks]. The Romantic in me wants to believe that the HB9 half-gook chick will be a wonderful daughter-in-law and will give you magnificent grandkids, but the Cynic in me keeps thinking “Cash Register for a Soul”. I’m still a fence-sitter on these questions, primarily because I’m such a hopeless Romantic at heart.
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Oops – the subthread is now so long that I’m getting Putin and PA mixed up in my head – sorry.
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“Putin, if your Grandkids are 1/4 Asian, then the 3/4 White MIGHT be enough for them to carry on the Good Fight for the rest of this Century. But in the near future, your son needs to remember that “Chinese Girls have Cash Registers for Souls”, and that she has 50% of that proclivity in her. So your son has to be really careful if, say, he gets an MD and becomes a low-salary Family Practitioner with little or no Residency [$85K per annum?], whereas his 1/2-Cash-Register-for-a-Soul Fiancee/Wife crosses paths with, say, an Invasive Neuro-Radiologist, who did a high-powered Residency/Fellowship [$5M per annum?]”
Thanks Captain. I was thinking the same thing in regards to the 1/4 stuff.
Not sure what you are talking about with Chinese cash registers…
Also want to add that these choices need to be holistic. Meaning it would be great for the son to marry a white women in America but that is just not realistic given it would be like putting him in jail for life. Now if white is important then go to eastern Europe or something. My son’s girlfriend is head and tails above White American women. No entitlement attitude, loyal and worships him. Back in my day yes, it may have been alright to marry a white American women but now you would have to a masochist and an idiot all wrapped up into one.
Regards!
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Post in mod regarding the elephant in the kitchen which is American white women nowadays.
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LOL’ed – they’re definitely elephants, that’s for d@mned sure – no offense to the Grand Old Party. Heck, who I am kidding? To the extent that the GOP now consists of John Boner and Bitch McConnell and Chief Justice John Phagberts, the GOP can go jump off a cliff. ELEPHANT IVORY TUSK MUTILATION RAPE!!!
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My “elephant” reply just got caught in m0d, as well.
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You guys are delving pretty far into the realms of genetic counseling. I wasn’t even talking about kids. I would just rather be with fat-free Asians with long hair and estrogen in their bloodstream. You guys want to find some Hulk Hogan-esque female for their sake of your future ‘alphas’ then go right ahead. But pedestalizing white American women…man. Like Rollo says, “Save who you can. Read the last rites to the dying.” Passports, boys.
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You guys are delving pretty far into the realms of genetic counseling. I wasn’t even talking about kids. I would just rather be with fat-free Asians with long hair and estrogen in their bloodstream. You guys want to find some Hulk Hogan-esque female for their sake of your future ‘alphas’ then go right ahead. But pedestalizing white American women…man. Like Rollo says, “Save who you can. Read the last rites to the dying.” Passports, boys.”
Signor,
1. Agree, American white women nowadays are utter trash.
2. I see feminized white boys all over the freakin place.
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“very well put together”?
Nah. Did you not notice those horrible thighs? Her butt is as wide as her shoulders. And she has a man’s face!
On the evidence, her Asian sister is running rings round her. Her stance, her smile, her eyes — she looks like she might be an awful lot of fun. She looks full of life; the other one just looks flabby.
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@jez
“on the evidence”
There ain’t much evidence, just a crappy photo wherein the subjects are caught in contrived poses. While that seems to be enough for you to claim which one is “full of life” and “an awful lot of fun”, I’ll only appeal to your comment on her hips: They had better be at least as wide as her shoulders if she is to look feminine in my estimation… I can’t get a good dong for a middle linebacker.
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There’s Donald with his Eastern European brood. 30 years ago, a-holes shamed guys who got E European wives, just like how guys with Asians or Latins are currently shamed. Donald didn’t listen because he wasn’t trying to win anyone’s approval, just wanted estrogen and curves. He knew where the superior women were and DNGAF about how it was regarded.
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EE women = white women… DUH!!!
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Col Trautman: On average, half-white half-gook chicks are GORGEOUS. And, on average, half-white half-gook boys are also GORGEOUS. Just like Elliot Rodger. And therein lies the problem – half-white half-gook boys don’t look like boys – they look like GIRLS. And they tend to act like girls, as well. I hope The Derb’s boy doesn’t end up like that – it seems like The Derb did everything he could to try masculinize his boy – getting him into USA Football [not soccer] and USA 12-Gauge shotguns, etc. And I sincerely hope that The Derb succeeded where so many others [like Elliot Rodger’s worthless father] have failed.
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EE women=white women.
Of course. But my point was that 20-30 years ago, there was the same shaming of ‘losers’ going to Russia, E.Eur, to get a woman because they weren’t good enough for Brooke, Madison, and Shawna of the PiPhi house. The same insane pedestalization of white American girls. It’s ludicrous. Now the same shaming lingers over guys pursuing Asian and Latin women.
Donald wrote the book on alpha and he couldn’t have given a fuck less if there were some stigma.
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Cpt Obvious,
I think the thread has split; Are we talking about dating or breeding? For the record, I have lived in Asia off and on for fifteen years. I love their bodies. The pure, milky white skin, the curves (a huge tell about whether someone has been overseas or not is the ‘Asian women are built like ten year old boys’ fallacies) The bodies are a marvel. I love the long, black hair. The cleanliness, the ESTROGEN. Yet I have no children and would NEVER want to have a little Asian boy as my son. That’s what happens too. The Asian genetic coloring overcomes the Anglo and the boys are very Asiatic. Elliot Rogers was actually one of the least Asiatic white/anglo mixes I’ve ever seen. I have a very anglo, blond, blue eyed friend who had an East Asian wife and his son looks as Asian as any full breed.
So if breeding is the issue, I agree mostly. I don’t want any ethnic tinge to my children, mainly because I’m worried they will get swept away from me in a wave of ‘brown and proud’ bullshit. I’m not too worried about the raw genetic caliber. If I have a little half-Mexican kid, will he or she glom onto her ethnic pride nonsense? Will they be taught to dislike me? Will there be a La Raza phase? I’m not taking that risk. And in the United States of Identity, that is a very real risk. A half-brown kid will be under all kinds of pressure/influence to load up on his brown side. Don’t forget that Obama had a white mother. Mind blowing. Now, if you divorce (70% chance, disregard the 50% skewed number) then you really will lose your own child to his/her ethnic side as they will go off with their Latin or Asian mother. Your own son could be a faux-gangster idiot swaggering around—a total stranger to you. The ethnic balkanization will only get more severe as it is the only way to win votes. Every single one of Obama’s decisions has been based on racial identities. A country doesn’t soon recover from that. It’s not just Obama anyway. The whole culture is a monomania for ethnic awareness. If I have children, it will be East. Europe or possibly down in Brazil as they don’t go in with the ‘Arriba, arriba! Ese’ style of Latinhood and are a lot more similar to Americans (huge country, melting pot). They’re proud to be Brazilian but it’s different somehow. Plus there are all kinds of Europeans down there. If I were guaranteed a daughter, I would have a child with an Asian.
So the breeding is tricky but to hold white American girls Brooke, Madison, McKayla, Talyor and Hailey as the superior version of femalehood just really makes me want to vomit.
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“So the breeding is tricky but to hold white American girls Brooke, Madison, McKayla, Talyor and Hailey as the superior version of femalehood just really makes me want to vomit.”
You go to breed with the women you have. Get a McKayla and make it work. Gane is on your side. Then look in the eyes of a child that looks like your great-great-grandfather.
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Game, not “gane”
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I don’t think anyone was pedestalizing American women over other white women, even thirty years ago.
If anyone was making fun of guys going after EE ‘mail order’ brides, it was because a lot of those men were thirty- and forty-something nudniks who would fall for every trick in the book, sending money and such… only to be left in the lurch once a green card or citizenship was achieved.
The shaming had nothing to do with EE girls being less than American girls, especially in the looks department.
Bad analogy, especially since I’m sure Trump didn’t purposely go looking for an EE girl to make his wife, and Ivana certainly wasn’t a mail order bride.
Like I said, if you care about a future for white children, only white women can produce ’em… if all you care about is your dick and your haaaaaapyness, well… go fuck yourself raw then with whatever mythical yellow or brown girl you wish… but don’t bring ’em to America… they turn into spoiled bitches just as fast as any white girl, multiple sources have mentioned.
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You exhibit shaming in the same post in which you refute that it happened.
Donald didn’t ‘go looking’ but he certainly didn’t pay attention to any shaming.
‘Mythical’ yellow and brown women? What’s mythical? VERY tangible in my experience.
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Based on what Col Trautman just said, I think we’re all in agreement here – Asian chicks make outstanding girlfriends, and they know how to [at least] fake the femininity [until that Cash Register for a Soul gets its claws in you] – but you need to think long and hard about what your children by an Asian wife are going to be like – in terms of looks and character and morality and their general outlook on Life.
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@Obviously Cap’N
Good points. A half-Asian son would be troubling enough but after living in Asian cultures it’s out of the question entirely.
The ‘melting pot’ of the USA is pretty much the dead opposite of that. Culturally, politically and financially, people are being encouraged to present themselves as 90% ethnic, 10% human. To witness any form of ethnic swagger in my own child would just be so freaking dark.
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And
“Cash register for a soul”
is so accurate. Marriage with an Asian, especially in Asia, would become an absolute hellscape of ‘Keeping up with Joneses” to a degree unseen even in Calabasas. “Keeping up with the Kims” rather.
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Not Doing What You’re Told
Don’t jump off this cliff
Fuck you buddy I’ll jump off whatever cliff I want
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“Doing what you’re told: BETA.”
Learning by trial error
“Stop appeasing girls. They don’t want it, they don’t like it, and they invariably give their sexual favors to men who understand this about them.”
Well the more social I am the more this plays out. Went out to a bar eat cops and salsa saw a girl alone and their was no more chips at my table dropped off the salsa and left. Wasn’t told to but that brought to mind the beta and the alpha I still have a lot of beta to work around.
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might have seemed nice. might have seemed like the only way to even get close to her. but i assume you didn’t talk to her so it was a pure beta move
girls do not want favors done for them with the expectation to turn it into a conversation. they want their expectations upended by a guy who can take her or leave her. when they see flowers on their desk at work all they think is oh god which loser sent these that i have to thank in such a way that he doesn’t try to ask me out now
make her wonder why you don’t do what all the other beggar betas do. take the salsa to her table, sit down, eat her chips. not creative but 100% more likely to lead to some level of interest on her end
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Agreed. Sit down, offer the salsa, start a conversation. When the conversation is running two ways help yourself to a couple of her chips, casually, while you’re in the middle of a sentence, as if they were communal peanuts.
The audacity will register, but she’ll have a hard time saying no since she doesn’t want to seem like a greedy pig (it’s only a couple of chips), and you’ve given her a gift of salsa, so she feels compelled to reciprocate. If she does shit test you about it you have two points of leverage to work with already.
If you’re too shy to be so bold in the beginning, start out smaller. Reach for the chips, then pause with hand hovering at the point of no return, as if you suddenly realised they were hers, then laser eyes “May I?”. You’ve created tension and put the impetus on her to release it. If she refuses then she’s guilty of making a relaxed conversation awkward.
Work your way up to increasingly audacious acts of alpha, you’ll soon realise that the more you take, the more love you get.
I help myself to women’s food all the time and never get called out on it. It’s almost as though they were instinctively predisposed to feed men.
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“When the conversation is running two ways help yourself to a couple of her chips, casually, while you’re in the middle of a sentence, as if they were communal peanuts.”
This is a good step, a better one to try is to have her give you a taste “those look good… give me a taste” – a stronger compliance test.
and the best move is to follow the give me a taste with an open mouth so she can feed you one. A much stronger compliance test.
One time I was walking on a crowded city street. Nice looking slim girl dressed up walking next to me. We stop at a light, she is eating candy from a bag. I look at her and say “that your lunch?” she laughs at this. I tell her “looks good” she offers the bag and I just open my mouth and she laughs and pops one in. Instant rapport.
This is also a very good move in bars “what are you drinking” Her:”blah blah” You:”Interesting, here give me a taste” very solid move when done with strong eye contact and you can kino her hand on the glass etc. then make fun of her choice with teasing… then have her taste your drink etc… a good game.
have fun…
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@Sentient, that’s a great story. I’m stealing that. My comment got eaten earlier to 7dark, so I’ll expand on it a bit here. Saw a hot girl at the intersection as I was walking up to it about 30 feet away. Instant blue pill beta pops into my head telling me to take the adjacent cross road at the intersection so I didn’t have to stand next to a hot girl and worry about opening her. My alpha slaps the beta and I decide I’ll go next to her and open at all costs. I see she’s holding a cup of liquid that looked just like beer. When I got up to her, I said, “That looks like beer you’re drinking.” She laughs and qualifies about it being tea.” (She was about 45 instead of the 25 I thought she was, but still quite hot) I say, “Well, as long as these lights take here, you’ll need a beer for the wait.” (they are long as F#ck lights). “She replies, “Yeah they are terrible and with all this construction going on, it’s even worse.” I put up my hands and say, “Whoo, whoo, I’m in construction (I lied but who cares).” She backpeddles, “Oh, I didn’t mean to offend.” I told her I was just messing, then said, “Okay, ready to run this red light? Let’s go.” And she walks with me not waiting for the crosswalk signal to change. I look over to the other side and I see this young hot blonde giving me the grin that made me think she heard the whole interaction and loved it. When we reached the sidewalk I said, “Well it was nice talking to you; I’m going this way.” (I thought she was continuing on straight. She says, “I’m following you that way too.” I said,”Oh, you’re coming to [BAR NAME] with me. Excellent!” She replies, “Oh, I couldn’t. I haven’t been their in ages.” At that point, the beta popped back in and I said, “okay then, nice talking to you.”
Should have asked for her name and told her to call me when she changes her mind.
I had such a good time though. It’s like Neo in the Matrix when he just knew he would succeed in attacking the police station to save Morpheus. I just knew anything I said when I was in that zone would work. If I ever see that woman again, I know it’s on. Game is awesome. Thank you to everyone here!!!
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As I read that, it’s all so simple.
Damn good advice there. Hadn’t considered the bar one though as last week’s happy hour came to mind.
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@Mendo – if you do approach stuff like this with strong posture, a sly but composed look about you (not a goofy grin but you are communicating some fun and interest) and strong laser eye – you are literally separating yourself from 90% of guys she has met right then and there…
On the laser eye YaReally has posted some good breakdowns lately on this over at RM… his archive link is http://yareallyarchive.com/2015/8/#comment-rationalmale-113726
TONIGHT – is Happy Hour!
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“when they see flowers on their desk at work all they think is oh god which loser sent these that i have to thank in such a way that he doesn’t try to ask me out now”
unless they are from a man she wants and values. at a time when she least expects it.
not for every special occasion or after every fight. and definitely not when she has laid out an expectation that she should be getting something from you. the girls who demand or constantly hint around about receiving gifts are usually the ones who deserve it the least.
but every once in awhile, if a girl is doing right by you, giving her flowers, a small gift, or surprising her with something special to eat or drink, etc. is a great way to show how generous you can be when you think someone deserves it. that doesn’t diminish your value in her eyes, it raises it.
and girls do need some positive reinforcement when they are working hard to please you. when they don’t get any, they start to get confused about what is expected of them and feel like no matter what they do, they can never make you happy.
the key is doing it when she doesn’t expect it and only occasionally. you hardly ever do things like that so when you do, she is giddy but at the same time a little suspicious about why you are doing it now.
did you do something you’re feeling guilty about? is there something you’re not telling her? when she asks for the reason keep it simple. just say something like…no reason. just felt like it. you can thank me later with a smirk. perfect combination of reward for good behavior and a little anxiety to keep her on her toes.
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Dude, you got it all wrong.
Let’s examine your action again with an alpha mindset.
You see a girl sitting alone eating chips and salsa. You’re out of chips and about to leave. Grab your salsa, approach and sit down across from her.
You: “Hey, you look kinda sad and lonely.”
Her: “What?”
You: “You’re sitting alone.”
Her: “My friend is in the bathroom, blah blah blah”
You: “Suuuuurre. Well I brought you some salsa to cheer you up.”
Her: “OK, thanks.” (this might still seem a bit odd to her as it is kind of gross to share something like this)
You: “I can’t guarantee you won’t get cooties. But salsa cheers me up and I know you’re suuuper lonely right now.”
Remember, all of this could be spergy if you don’t deliver it with some fun in your voice and face. Smirk a little bit. Lean in a bit to make it seem like her sitting alone for just a few minutes in a restaurant is a big deal and you calling her sad and lonely is a big deal, so you’re doing her a favor by keeping it on the downlow. If she’s not smiling or laughing at this point, she’s probably taking herself way too seriously or her ASD is high. That means you can eject as you’re wasting your time on a chick without a sense of humor, or you have to run some deeper game. Your choice.
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Game too pointy 6 out of ten at best.
You: Approach, sit down. “Hi”
Her: Hi
You; I am all out of chips! (Get one from her plate, wink, eat and smirk).
Her: blablabla
You: I am Mel Gibson, what’s your name?
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Very direct game works too, douchebagdeluxe. Good suggestion.
I like to have fun and tease, so that’s what comes to my mind when I approach.
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“(Get one from her plate, wink, eat and smirk)”<– Yes, this works wonders. It's sort of irreverent and assuming, but also just light-hearted enough to keep her wanting more.
Perfection.
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learn English first. pay attention when 11th grade starts next week.
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Trade your smartphone in for an old disposable flipphone.
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iPhag and Scrotial Media ADDICTION are destroying the female heart and mind and soul. I can tell that lots of you guys are not around young females 24×7 – you’re bachelors, living alone, and you don’t see what happens the other 23 hours a day [when your c0ck isn’t firmly implanted in their r3ctums]. Chicks no longer read books, practice musical instruments, engage in polite gentle thoughtful conversation, write letters on stationery, dress tastefully, garden, cook, iron their clothes, devote themselves to religion, follow politics – NOTHING – the last five or six millenia of human advancement just disappeared and vanished right before our very eyes. The iPhag [especially dePhaceTime] and Scrotial Media are the first great “Black Swan” [Taleb] or “Unknown Unknown” [Rumsfeld] events of our lifetimes. The return of the 1859 Electromagnetic Pulse Event can’t come soon enough. All of this technology is beyond de-humanizing: It’s utterly Satanic.
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Cue YaReally: “Well then I’ll just venture even further into the Dark Triad and out-Satan the Dark Lord Himself.” Okay, and then who’s gonna be making the Moar Whyte Babeez who will grow up to be the Fine Young Thangs whom 50-yo YaReally will wanna s0d0mize in 2035? Or will 50-yo YaReally be satisifed with swallowing the designer methamphetamines, donning his Virtual Reality Helmet, and s0d0mizing the lifelike Japanese Fembot made in the laboratory from stem cells harvested from the Moar Whyte Unborn Babeez via Planned Murderhood?
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The iPhag and Scrotial Media ADDICTION have laid waste to EVERYTHING. And it’s only going to get worse with the introduction of the virtual reality helmets. The only public figure I’ve heard talking about this is Bill O’Reilly:
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I got rid of my smartphone. Carry my old banged up samsung flip phone with no data plan. I allow myself one half hour of internet browsing on a laptop nightly after gym\walking.
It’ll open your eyes again to meat world.
delete Facebook, unplug from your synched cloud backuped NSA approved datamineGoygle account..
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I don’t know who you are, cap’n, but I agree with you 100% on pretty much everything.
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The Turk does a decent job at illustrating some gaps in O’Reilly’s stance, but fails to mention the glaring problems with online information: every hour, phones are lighting up with notifications of the latest trending buzzfeed explanation of vaginas, or #DeezNuts meme, etc, so people’s attention ….eh, and, overall, the internet allows people to inform themselves on things (like the JQ, for example) much more thoroughly, but studies seem to show that information derived from books ‘sticks’ in the head for longer. Long live Steve Gutenberg! Hard to believe Turk’s assertion that millenialz are the ‘best informed evah’..
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Great Example- Trump said he was bringing his helicopter to Iowa and was going to give kids rides on it. Some authority in Iowa said that wouldn’t be allowed and he couldn’t do it. Trump shows up in Iowa and gives kids rides on his helicopter.
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“eat cops” Either you are a f*ggot or a cannibal? Definitely a honky though!
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anything’s better than being a poop skin.
faggot.
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guy on the right got his shoulder slapped and “you’re such an asshole”, guy on left felt like a success, everyone said he’s so fun
right guy’s nuts got drained by his fully aroused girl, left girl imagined right guy while she closed her eyes and waited for left guy to finish going down on her
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[…] Spot The Alpha And The Beta […]
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He understandably went with the nearest ass available, but grabbing the hotter girl’s ass would be even more alpha.
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True in relationships, too.
-Gf texts about, for example, how her kitchen needs repair, or some other trivia. Before the red pill, I would have been as helpful as Bob the Builder. Now I give back replies amounting to ‘whatever’, or change the subject.
With the proper lenses on, I can she isn’t looking for a solution – if she wanted a solution, she would have hired somebody’s labor to get it done already. What she’s looking for is to create a bit of drama ==> will the bf comply?
Don’t comply; extend the drama. It keeps relationship-sex at a high frequency and intensity.
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“Gf texts about, for example, how her kitchen needs repair, or some other trivia. Before the red pill, I would have been as helpful as Bob the Builder. Now I give back replies amounting to ‘whatever’, or change the subject. ”
You sound like a dick. Obviously if she’s stirring up some drama to feed pellets to the hamster it’s one thing, but she’s likely asking for help from her boyfriend on an issue. If she weren’t your main squeeze I would react similarly as you did, but you’ve got to help out your girlfriend once in a while if she does run into a true jam.
If I’ve got to go to some work function where I need to dress up sharply, I know what to wear, but it’s nice to hear feedback from my girl who has more fashion sense than I do.
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Yeah, I fix little shit for girlfriends all the time. Not gonna redo the kitchen, but quick car stuff, toilet running, whatever. I just balance it out with teasing “Don’t try this without me you’ll break a nail” “This is why women will never be equal”, then grab her hand and put it on my dick after I’m done.
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@ Shartiste: exactly. You’re not going to perform a full reno on her kitchen, but you’re going to help her out with a leaky faucet if you care about her. If she’s your girlfriend and has stopped seeing other dudes, then she’ll want some beta-ness from her boyfriend now and again. Otherwise you come across as a player that would eventually break her heart, and she may pre-emptively dump your ass before that happens.
I usually say that I’ll fix the leak, but then there’s the compensatory anal afterwards. She’ll roll her eyes and maybe smirk, but I’ll still get my payment-in-kind afterwards. I won’t be getting anal, but I’ll be getting a “I-appreciate-you-being-a-man-and-helping-me” fuck.
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yeah, nothing wrong with helping a girl out once in awhile. it’s actually a good thing. raises your value in her eyes and makes her feel like she needs you. just can’t do it too much or hop to it every time she asks. gotta make it seem like you’re doing her a favor. like it’s a pain in the ass to help her out and she’ll owe you later.
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agree with a caveat, there is a limit, and i’ve found it repeatedly (a problem of mine). if you think every girl out there can’t become a black hole of favors and requests, you haven’t met many
so yeah, you can do the favors, but stick with manly things, but you need to make sure you do it on your schedule, when your stuff is clear enough to do it, and you need to make sure she knows you’re making time for her and she owes you
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@Hackett this is about calibration. If she’s always got some drama going on you handled it properly.
My crazy ex used to call me all sorts of “trouble” she was facing. This included: 1) allegations one of the kids she was teaching claimed she was rough with him boxing his ears in class. I suspected she had probably done this because of her temperament and the fact kids don’t make up specific things like this to get out of doing stuff.
2) claimed her mom wanted to move into her apartment so could she move in with me “for a few months”. I suspected something was bizarre here. She had been push-pull, hostile, friendly for a few months. I told her she could stay weekends and recommended Airbnb. She broke up a few weeks later. Then begged me to get back with her before running off to be with another guy 6 weeks after that.
Contrast that with other girls. The girls I’m now banging don’t ask for specific things. If they do I know it’s something that they really want my help with. Also, we do things for each other. I’ll cook, they’ll clean up. I get them to bring dessert over, i’ll make coffee or tea. If I go to get myself a drink I offer them one. That is just normal interaction.
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[…] Spot The Alpha And The Beta […]
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Ass looks good, but that face….eesh!
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jenner-esque
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It’s intuitive to anybody who the alpha in this picture is, but the Scalzi-fied will still argue that striking a gay pose on command is to be ‘secure with your masculinity’.
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Assuming the girls standing next to them are their girlfriends, the beta has a much hotter girl. And, it’s equally possible the guy turning around wasn’t told what to do and was just mocking the girls.
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I claim asian make up face
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Yup.
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Gold. Right on the money.
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Yeah, but what about the girls?
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I’m walking out my local supermarket. As I’m leaving the place approaching the main doors, the alarm is going off. The attractive mother stood at the exit looks round and down to her two kids in bemusement.
“It’s definitely you” I blurt as I approach her, stern eyed with purposeful body language.
She looks up…
“Is it?!” she asks, mortified.
“Yep” I say to her as I’m walking past…”It’s that shirt.”
I glance behind, and see a radiant 30 something mother with a blushed face and massive smile, doing that tiny little crouch thing they do. (I think I’ll call it the kegel instigator.)
It felt marvelous, to see a woman transform from the crouched tiger into a blossoming feminine flower, in an instant. Thank you CH.
Me 8 years ago? Walks by looking down. No air. No light. No hope. Never counted, never mattered, never be.
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nice work.
amazing how quickly a woman’s mood can change when you know how to do it. the key is not letting her mood deter you. i’ve fallen into the trap many times with girls i didn’t know and in LTRs where they seemed gloomy, distracted, upset with me, uninterested, etc. i thought it was better if i avoided them but that actually made things worse.
a little joking around or flirting when a girl is in a funk can totally turn things around. and she is super grateful for it because she associates her positive change in mood to you. that’s always a good thing.
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awesome!
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Great work 7. Years ago, I would have been looking for the out too in my blue pill life. The urge to eject upon approach anxiety still pops up on occasion, but life is much more fun busting through that and doing what you describe.
I opened what I thought was a 25-year-old girl the other day. Turned out she was probably 45, but still hot. I felt like bailing prior to talking to her, but forced myself to walk up and open. Within 30 seconds of chatting, I had negged her, had her laughing and qualifying herself, and almost got her to change her plans and go to the bar with me during lunch. I could tell how much I had spiked her tingles. Had I pushed a bit more, I probably could have turned her and gotten her number too, but I was in a mood just to amuse myself more than hook up. And the Matrix analogy is relevant here. Now I just feel like anything I say will work, just like Neo just knew attacking the police headquarters to save Morpheus was a good idea. Even if what you say isn’t the optimal option, your certainty that you will succeed wins the day.
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Reading this reminded me on another gush I extracted. You really can get some great moments at a supermarket.
So I turn up to the cue with the most feminine blonde on the tills. I make sure to ignore her as she’s incredibly beautiful. In front of me is an elderly woman with a trolley full of shopping.
“Do you want to go in front dear?” she asks me as I stand there with 3 items in my basket.
With the warmest of eyes I say “thank you”.
As I move by, I notice out of the corner of my little eye the till girl notice what’s going on. As I put my items on the till, I wait for an appropriate moment for some eye contact. As I catch her eye, I smile warmly and move my eye balls to the left as if to signal to her to have a look see.
I turn to my left and without hesitation and with the straightest face, I say to the old lady “If you could just wait a second my grandmother is coming with the rest of her shopping.”
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Where the hell do you people shop? Cap d’Antibes? Helsinki? All and I mean all the workers at my local stores look like suicidal orangutans. With skin complaints. I’ve not caught any actually knuckle-walking behind the displays, though.
Yet.
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I can’t believe I’m saying this… Whole Foods. It’s overprice swpl crack, but hot chicks shop there.
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Cool story, bro.
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What do you mean tiny little crouch thing ?
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Lady boner. They try to hide the tingle by slightly closing their knees while standing, which causes them to sort of fold in on themselves. It the biggest tell of all. You see it, you’re in like Flynn.
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On second thought, he could just be the gay friend.
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Girl on the right doesn’t look too happy.
OTOH, who gives a shit? Next!
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Thoughts on the Jared from Subway news?: http://thebea.st/1TUrSUJ
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He’ll be on the footlong diet in the state pen
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Started his career like he ended it: trying to get into smaller pants.
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I hope he likes ranch sauce.
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Hehe – that’s some funny shit son
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I don’t think inmates give a shit about a guy going after teenagers.
I think the idea of prisoners primarily targetting child molesters is a myth. They target whoever is young and cute enough to resemble a woman and weak enough to rape. Not sure if it’s true but I also heard that guards try to prevent the inmates from going after the child molesters too much.
So it could be that an 18 yo scrawny, twinky white guy who is sitting for pot smoking gets raped before this guy does.
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That joke is going to make the rounds – except it ain’t the state pen, it will be federal lock-up. Has it been released, where he will be doing his time. It seems like he got off very easily, … five years, for all that?
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I can’t remember the eskimo media piling on a fellow eskimo this bad since Madoff.
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He’s Jewish?
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Of course, anyone who does anything bad is Jewish, doncha know?
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Especially when they are.
Fogle was born in Indianapolis, Indiana, U.S., the son of Norman Fogle, a physician, and Adrienne Fogle, a teacher. He has two siblings. He is Jewish. His bar mitzvah took place in Israel and he was confirmed at his Conservative-Reconstructionist synagogue.
DUH!!!
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That’s because Madoff gave Jews the ultimate insult: he scammed them, his own people, not the goyim.
That’s the real source of the anger: not that he scammed people, but that he did it against the Chosen People.
Moses rape!
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Yeah, it’s kinda weird that they’d go after Fat Boy fast-food sandwich model, but not a really seriously evil villain, like Billionaire Jeffrey Epstein, who owns Underage Sex Slave Island down there in the Caribbean. Maybe Fat Boy embarrassed their Tribe with his fatness and his pudginess?
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“I don’t think inmates give a shit about a guy going after teenagers.”
The reason sex offenders are targeted is because they have no friends. Nobody is going to watch their back. You cannot go it alone in a violent offender lock up. Rapists will sometimes stick together for safety, and often target other inmates.
Jared will pay for protection, or be confined to solitary. Celebrities are targeted just for the lulz. There were even people trying to fuck mike tyson.
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Ever noticed that circle Ks all have those weird lips.
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As far as I can see, guy uses fame and money to have sex with teenagers. I’m SHOCKED, shocked I tell you.
The news only details him pursuing 16 year olds at the youngest. If thats the youngest it goes, I am not morally scandalized at all, he’s very normal, if a bit careless.
If its actual pedophilia, not just at the age of consent margins, then he should be chemically castrated or put to death. Just my opinion.
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He did a lot worse, shartiste.
http://www.foxnews.com/us/2015/08/20/prosecutor-ex-subway-pitchman-paid-kids-for-sex-on-new-york-trips/
Scroll to the final 4-5 paragraphs.
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I skimmed over that, thanks. I guess it does make sense: Jared has a classic pedoface.
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Knew nothing about Fogle but the news said he had sex with 16 yo girls and had pics of 13 yos. Isn’t this the same thing as that billionaire’s pedo-island that Clinton goes to?
all in all, I thought it was the real bad stuff not 16yo sex. Depends on what they look like (although the pics sound awful). sucks for him. Clinton2016!
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Knew nothing about Fogle but the news said he had sex with 16 yo girls and had pics of 13 yos.
Psshhh… this behavior is considered normal in Me-hee-ko.
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Guess he nevr heard of Thailand?
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Pretty sure every perv has heard of Thailand. But being Eskimo, he was too cheap to go over there.
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“Psshhh… this behavior is considered normal in Me-hee-ko.”
http://fredoneverything.org/ann-coulter-and-the-manufacture-of-pedophilia/
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Okay, fine, I suppose Mexico is a bit more civilized.
Guatemala, El Salvador, and Honduras, then. They are in fact sh!tholes, and 13 y.o. girls get pregnant there all the time.
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Maybe I’m missing something from Fred’s article, but he’s not really showing that Ann Coulter was mistaken…
The laws he’s quoting seem pertaining to those who do not have the capacity to understand, or have been duped by seduction or deception… the penalties listed are within age groups of 15 to 18 and under the age of 15.
This does not, ipso facto, mean that she misquoted the age of consent laws… it says that seduction or deception will be assumed, but only if the plaintiff is pursuing the case as “victim”.
My question would be, if the age of consent laws are 12 to 14, depending upon the state, does that mean a girl that age can be legally married.
I’m sure Lotharios south of the border attempting seduction of girls in those age rages have the actual law as the least of their worries.
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Ann Coulter didn’t lie… in a way, Fred didn’t either, but he’s being more disingenuous than she.
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Subway deserves this bad PR for making every franchisee across this country a freaking hindu. I quit eating there long ago because of that crap. And I was never impressed by that fat bastard’s weight loss, he always had bitch tits for a man.
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Subway is home of the 11 inch footlong. Hey, a measurement is just a name, right?
Subway Claims Foot-Long Sub Is in Name Alone – ABC News
abcnews.go.com/blogs/business/2013/01/subway-claims-foot-long-sub-is-in-name-alone/
And there manifests the business model of 92% of corporate America — screw thy neighbor.
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i always thought he had that child molestor look. this just confirms it.
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The reports are confusing and contradictory. Apparently he paid for and arranged for sex with teen girls. But there’s no indication he sought to break the age of consent laws. Nor is there indication of pedophilia; all the ages given are ages of sexually mature—post-pubescent–teens. So, at worst, he paid for sex with girls who later on turned out to be lower than the age of consent but still were sexually mature teenagers.
So he’s not a pedophile.
Now, the age of consent in NY is 17—pretty high by most standards. A couple of the girls in some reports are alleged to have been 16, but then other reports say that they were 17 when they had sex with him.
It also seems Fogel supposedly got different ages when he went to different places—-he arranged for14-15 year old girls in some places. Given ages of consent swing between 14-17 in this country per state, what seems likely is this is a guy who gets off on “barely legal” young sex and arranged for girls right at the age limit to meet him. Some were below that age limit, according to these accusations. But he was attracted to sexual maturity, and the arbitrary laws got in his way.
Legal rape!
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Imprisoning a guy for having sex with a 17 year old girl is just criminal.
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I won’t argue the banging of 16-17 year olds.
But secretly filming 12-14-16 year-olds as they changed or bathed, and possessing tons of child porn and nudity, including images of children as young as 6, is pedophilia.
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http://www.anncoulter.com/columns/2015-08-05.html
hey guys…
“In some immigrant enclaves, the police have simply given up on pursuing statutory rape cases with Hispanic victims. They say that after being notified by hospital administrators that a 12-year-old has given birth and the father is in his 30s, they’ll show up at the girl’s house — and be greeted by her parents calling the pregnancy a “blessing.”
the world is a sick, terrible place and I want as much of it as possible on the other side of a yuge,classy fence.
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@Mel Gibson:
It’s unclear what he possessed in terms of images. If he had pictures of 14-16 year old girls, it would not be “pedophilia” because those girls are sexually mature. It might be illegal pornography due to ages of consent or laws regarding nude imagery in general, but not pedophilia. It might be an invasion of privacy, but no pedophilia.
The reports are wildly inconsistent—in fact, one reporter notes that the prosecutions’ own papers contradict one another (i.e. sloppy preparation and a weaker case).
Like the Cosby accusations, the media and other rabbits are leaping to extreme accusations based on stories that aren’t supporting that. Cosby has been called a rapist when all the stories support him openly giving drugs to women who accepted them and then willingly had sex—regret is not rape. Here, the media is calling Fogel a “pedophile” while, really, the evidence suggests a man with a normal attraction to post-pubescent women who might have run afoul of age of consent and privacy laws—-attraction to young sexually mature women is not pedophilia.
Evidence may show Fogel had pedophilia, but nothing yet clearly supports that. In fact, it doesn’t make sense here; pedophiles almost exclusively act sexually to children (besides the occasional seduction of a single parent to get close to the children), and here Fogel stands accused of acting sexually to post-pubescent females on many occasions.
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NormallyI would agree with you, but, the quickness of the settlements, the fact that he is doing at least 6 years at a time when famous people walk for major crimes (like the Jenner manslaughter), and the fact that there were 14 victims, and they are only discussing the 17 year old, tells me this is bad, really, really bad.
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Fair enough induction, I wouldn’t rule it out being worse. But he’s might be settling up early because the evidence of the underage-but-not-pedophilic sex is overwhelming, so its really not worth the cost of fighting it—he can save his millions for if and when he gets out of jail. Also, we have to look at the idea of shame—criminals who feel shame for their activities often do this, while the innocent and the sociopathic ones want to fight on. Compare that Duggar kids reaction to being exposed as a molester to Lena Dunham—the Duggar kid, having shame, issued public apologies and hid himself in embarassment, while Lena Dunham, being a psychopath, tried to flaunt it, and kept her show. Fogel might just have shame over his actions.
Anyway, if anything more comes out, I’m interested to know.
Lena Dunham rape!
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Good summary. I haven’t read up on the details, but they seem contradictory and confusing.
As a point of fact thought, and a not un-important one, the lowest age of consent in the United States is 16.
It is an interesting topic, because for instance, in some jurisdictions a 13-year teenager can legally get fucked by the entire junior class of her school, but sex with a grown man is the worst crime in the world.
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“in some jurisdictions a 13-year teenager can legally get fucked by the entire junior class of her school, but sex with a grown man is the worst crime in the world.”
um yeah. because a grown man obviously has an enormous mental and emotional advantage over a child. sex between young people close in age is not the same thing as a fully mature adult having sex with someone the intellectual and emotional development of a child.
having had a young female family member who was entangled in a relationship with a grown man, i can speak from experience. the destruction is real and girls who get into these kinds of imbalanced relationships have issues with real relationships for the rest of their lives. there is a reason for age of consent laws.
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“there is a reason for age of consent laws.”
The age of majority should be the age of consent. Problem solved you’re welcome.
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On this issue, I think modern science can help us. If medical science can accurately determine when a child is post-pubescent after the fact—measuring hormones, for example—then we can do away with age of consent laws.
But majority laws aren’t very helpful. 18 is far too high for lawful sexual relations.
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High AOC laws are a product of an anomalous social arrangement of out times. Biologically, teenagers are fuck machines and in the past they’d marry very young. But now, parents are response for them through the age of 18, marriage is nor in the picture until much later, and so teens are in this no man’s land, where they are tortured by celibacy and tacitly allowed to fuck with proper agemates. For a teenage girl, sex with a same-age boy isn’t gonna make much of an imprint on her psyche. But relations with a high smv adult man will make her an aloha widow, before marriage is ever in the picture.
So, AOC protects teen girls, or rather, their future husbands. It also, as a corollary, protects boys from buggery.
Free love on the kind of scale we have now is an anomaly.
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“For a teenage girl, sex with a same-age boy isn’t gonna make much of an imprint on her psyche. But relations with a high smv adult man will make her an aloha widow, before marriage is ever in the picture.”
exactly.
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“Free love on the kind of scale we have now is an anomaly.”
yes it is. and young girls are beginning puberty at earlier ages than in the past because of hormones in the food, birth control pills in the water supply, etc. but having visible signs of sexual maturation doesn’t mean they are mentally, sexually, or emotionally mature.
showing physical indicators of sexual viability in a girl’s early and mid-teens is an unnatural state. and they are false indicators of a person’s real sexual and maternal viability. that also give a false impression that the girl is an intellectually and emotionally mature human being which she is not.
not too long ago, the average age for a girl to start menstruating was around 17 or 18. that makes sense. at that age most girls could potentially have the mental and emotional capacity to handle a sexual relationship, endure pregnancy, raise a child. and this was when girls were far more mature and responsible than they are now. doubtful most girls these days could actually be decent mothers at 17 or 18 because of their upbringing and society’s influence, but physically it is reasonable. girls in their early and mid-teens? in this day and age? no way.
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I don’t think that’s what they meant by ” Eat Fresh. “
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Subway – Have it your way.
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http://www.yourobserver.com/sites/default/files/styles/sliders_and_planned_story_image_870x580/public/051614%20fogle-fogle.jpg?itok=1OeNjtzb
BETA. Look at that hagfish bitch. Plus Pedo-Smile
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I guarantee aall the girls Subway-lover banged knew what they were doing and they are each $100,000 better off. Their friends are crazy jealous of these bitches with their designer bags and gold iPhone.
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The one thought on Jared that i haven’t seen addressed, is how was it, that he was (for Subway), somehow a sympathetic character?!
Now everyone is saying he has “pedo face” (and i sort of agree), but isn’t it actually sorta true that he was a sympathetic character, and a good spokesman, for awhile? He sure as hell was a popular celebrity.
So square that circle.
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What a mother fuckin’ boss.
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America needs Deez Nuts!
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I cant believe people are still supporting Hillary after all this delete-gate Nixon style bullshit . She’s clearly a fucking criminal, and she’s still in the race? HOW?!
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Deez Nuts will crush Hillary.
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I’m confused. I thought Trump was Deez Nuts.
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His balls are so big they’re running on their own ticket.
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@mendozatorres:
total win.
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That’s right bitches…try and Trump Deez Nuts!
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The rumblings of a black protest vote.
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I caught a few good game scenes from the 1966 movie The Oscar.
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the beta is jon hamm…..
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think i just her trump doing a good reframe being asked about blacklivesmatter, think he referred to martin omalley as that (rough quote) “guy with less than 1%, the whitelivesdontmatter guy, the guy that was almost in tears, is that they guy?”
anyway it was a quick disemboweling of the guy, and the blacklivesmatter assumptions as well
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White male Democrats are even more nutless than cuckservatives.
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cuckservatives have one partially descended testicle. Democrats are born nut-less.
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this is interesting…I guess. Lara Stone, 32F bewbs?
http://www.skinnyvscurvy.com/kate-moss/8-naked-supermodels-very-different-measurements-love-magazine.html
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In the photo in that link, they don’t look like F’s. A google search shows that she’s got some knockers on her, but F’s—only ever seen a pair of F’s up close and oh so personal….hers are not F’s.
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Clearly a typo… the keyboardist was seeking the “d”
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I concur…they are D’s, not F’s.
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No effen way (heh) those are Fs.
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So, I’m on a date a couple of nights ago. Had seen this girl quite a bit about 6 mos ago, she cut it off then asked if I wanted to grab a drink before she moves to France. She’s super liberal, so we are talking about exciting acts or shows or people we’d like to see or did see.
Me: There’s only one person that I would go crazy to see right now, but I can’t tell you, cause you’d just walk out the door.
Her: Now you have to tell me.
Me: Nope. Can’t do it.
Her: Ok, how about if I tell you one really embarrassing one from when I was a kid? I got super excited to see the Jonas Brothers.
Me: Fair enough, Donald Trump is mine.
She about fell on the floor and was so flustered, she didn’t know what to do. Although it was funny. She started out almost angry and by the end she was kind of rationalizing my choice in politicians to herself.
She had to teach school in the morning so I walk her to her car, give her a kiss.
Me: How does it feel?
Her: How does what feel?
Me: Kissing someone who’s a yuuuuge Donald Trump fan?
Her: *tingle explosion*
Later that night she texts me saying how great it was to see me etc. etc.
I call it Donald Trump game.
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Heartiste, how dare you follow The Spirit Within and get him to pose for you while I saddle up next to one of his two “platonic” friends, grab her ass, and order my drink.
Faggot Within rape!
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So true. Compliance and obediance is simply an attraction killer for women. In matters both large and small.
When my gf texts me something like “What are you doing today?” sure I could give her a synopsis of my schedule. It’s actually the polite thing to do, to answer a question that is asked.
But answering questions dutifully gives the questioner the power. It lets them control and lead the interaction. In seduction, as in sales, letting the other person be in charge is not the way to get what you want.
So instead, I answer something smart-ass like “Living the dream, per usual.” Or “Kicking ass, taking names. Natch.”
Once I have re-established my independence and leadership of the interaction, I can then relay the information that she requested. But on my own terms.
Am I being petty to apply this principle to even minor interactions? A bit of a try-hard? Maybe initially, but not anymore. At this point, it’s pretty much an instinct for me to bristle & counter when someone tries to establish social dominance over me.
In any event, my past experiences in getting ground-down & betafied in relationships started with minor concessions that later escalated. Never again.
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“Kicking ass, taking names. Natch.”
Why do you talk like a teen girl magazine?
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Leave it up to a girl to come on a guy’s game site and belittle a man trying to improve himself. Hypergamy in action. Hosewire, if you don’t have a snotty nose like the Beta of the Week post, Marissa here will punch you in the nose to make up the difference. Leave and don’t come back broad.
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What color are you? If white, are you fat? Tatted-up? Pierced?
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And why are you here, Beeotch?
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@Marissa
Because that’s the only language you chics can comprehend.
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@newlyaloof the only real surprise in @marissa’s response was the shaming technique she chose. These sad shrews have such a limited & predictable palette:
Misogyny
It’s 2015, you dinosaur
You will die old & alone
You’re insecure
Real men don’t need to learn techniques
You can’t get laid
Small penis
Quality women won’t fall for your tricks
That’s why one of the first lessons a man learning how to get what he wants from relationships must absorb is that literally NOTHING a woman, ANY woman says on the topic will help him.
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Those aren’t that similar to what was said surely. Was the capitalisation the problem or do you just have a limited palette of things which sound feminist and like what was said?
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plus “You are a beta if you chase Asian women”.
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plus “You are a beta if you chase Asian women”.
Now, now… crippling your potential future sons with NOWAG syndrome is in fact a powerful argument against going Asian.
Also:
1) Elliot Rodger.
2) Every other half-Asian male I’ve run into seems to be gay.
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@Hosswire Another insightful comment from you, but you fucked up. Marissa just gave you a shit test similar to a shit test you would have received from your gf, but instead of swatting it away you accidentally sunk into her frame..the very thing your comment alludes to avoiding.
GUI Cyberdyne systems model 101 possible responses:
“Why do you talk like a teenage girl magazine?”
1. Its is my favorite subscription.
2. So many are hitting on me lately they must be rubbing off.
3. Cause i just bought you a cheerleader outfit..need to get you in character.
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Elmer, most men with yellow fever are actually loser who can’t get any otherwise. Sure, liking Asian girls in itself doesn’t make you beta, but if you make a venn diagram, most white men who go down the Asian route are weak losers. If you can easily swim in white pussy and just prefer Asian girls, that’s fine, but you’re an exception. I don’t even blame the men who go for Asian girls because they’re beta – I’d do it too if I had to choose between a cute Asian girl and a plain, chubby white girl.
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My rule: bang Asians relentlessly. They’ve got tight little bodies and are submissive. But don’t procreate with them.
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Sour grapes is what I am hearing.
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“Now, now… crippling your potential future sons with NOWAG syndrome is in fact a powerful argument against going Asian.
1) Elliot Rodger.
2) Every other half-Asian male I’ve run into seems to be gay.”
Noted.
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Cocaine and hookers, team building at the local brothel, I’d have to kill you if I tell you etc. I stole one from my dad too, when my gf asked me wherehave i been I sometimes told her that with other women.
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today approached a younger blonde girl, call her a 7. She was moving away from me so I quickly asked if she knew if a certain place round the corner was still open and she said “ya” and then turned back and then I added that they were refinishing and she turned back again and said “they didn’t” and then she turned away again and walked off. I was kind of surprised by her coolness but I figure she may have been mildly stupid based on her accent. another step closer to success.
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“I figure she may have been mildly stupid based on her accent”
Beautiful! I’ve had such sentiments with encounters similar to yours.
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Good on you for trying. I’m wondering if getting someone you know who is actually good with woman to critique your approaches would help you. To see how calibrated you are doing things.
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I do know someone but I found he spent more time bragging about himself and how attractive he was than providing instruction so I stopped talking to him. You can’t count on anyone but yourself. I came across Roosh’s advice about doing 100 approaches and taking notes, so I intend to do that and post about it just so the data is out there.
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exactly Martin – the girls will tell you what you need to know. and follow up questions here will expand on it.
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@Martin, yeah, ultimately you will be the best person to get yourself over the hump. I just mentioned this because I’ve sensed a bit of frustration/confusion in some of your posts. I don’t know you, so I could be wrong. Either way, get out there and good luck.
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Martin,
1. Avoid women walking fast or focused on their phone. Look for women walking in a casual way.
2. Walk up, put your hand out and introduce yourself then ask the appropriate question. The key is appropriate. No beta questions, asking for help on anything as that produces revolution.
3.Show complete confidence.
Don’t take their entitled attitude personally.
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revulsion
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You want some type of physical contact as it makes a big difference.
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Bring your chin in a little and lengthen your neck. It prevents you from weakly “offering” your head, something less confident guys do.
You will feel more in control of the exchange.
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She’s stupid because she didn’t stop to talk to you? How’s that a step closed to success?
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Here is what I wrote, maybe you missed it.
she may have been mildly stupid based on her accent
It’s a step closer because inevitably I will succeed given a large enough number of approaches.
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“I will succeed given a large enough number of approaches.”
You already won half the battle.
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Great idea – definitely go for the 100 and the periodic reports. Even this politico thinks we need more Game commenting. May success crown your efforts.
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Cats don’t GAF, don’t do what they’re told, do whatever they want, and can’t be bothered with you or your needs. They are alpha, and that’s why girls go crazy over them. I think the more cats a woman has is proportional to how much alpha she is desperate for in her life!
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I recall from an interview with a Mercury astronaut how they were coached about their appearance in the media.
And he demonstrated how they told him not to hold his hands on his hips.
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Just look at those gabardines!
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The days when men could wear their belts above their belly buttons.
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Interesting, five of seven in brown shoes brown belts, one in grey shoes and the guy in back has black shoes.
Brown dress shoes are damned near extinct.
Grey dress shoes? They are extinct
Interesting how male fashion has changed.
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Classy getup. Dood on the far left looks like he’s wearing ropers. Or, could be hush puppies.
Looks like how I dress to work. And just as in shape.
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They dress like Mainland Chinese.
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@mendozatorres
Not one of those ass-kicking men was a ‘dude’.
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The man in the gabardine suit is a spy!
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(L to R) Cooper, Schirra (partially obscured), Shepard, Grissom, Glenn, Slayton, and Carpenter.
This is close to how R.Don Steele advises older men to dress in “How to Date Young Women For Men Over 35”. Although he says never to wear brown : “If it’s brown flush it down” is one of his mottos.
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Good point on brown. A buddy of mine is all about brown, but he can pull it off. As for me, not so much.
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Now I feel like watching The Right Stuff.
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Great movie. The book is good too.
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That’s one of those “Oscar Rip-Off” years… 1983, if memory serves… The Right Stuff versus Terms Of Endearment… no contest, in a masculine, pro-white society.
But even then, a pair of yentas with mother/daughter issues… beta husband, stereotype small-time college professor cheating with his students, meh. Nicholson’s over-the-top red-pill was the one bright spot.
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[…] Source: Heartiste […]
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His girls is also hot.Beta’s girl is asian too- and we all know that asian gf is a beta syndrome.
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“Somebody, probably a girl buddy, asked this group to look over their shoulders and put their hands on their hips for a snap. It’s hard to make this pose work without looking gay.
“One man obeys.”
Both men obeyed.
Think about it.
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Unrelated: I’m gaming my boy’s new school principal for the entertainment value. She’s already qualifying herself (long back-story that makes my son virtually untouchable short of brining a hand-gun to school) so I’m going to see how far I can take this before it explodes.
Today, for the fourth time in as many days, she reached out to shake my hand and assure me she was taking care of my boy. I light-heartedly accused her of making excuses to touch me.
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The second guy is more alpha because he has a IDGAF attitude.
He’s looking off in the distance at some other chicks and refuses to accomodate himself to this castrating pic. He does as he pleases and shows disinterest in those around him.
Both girls are moderately pretty, but one girl dominates her man and the other barely has his attention.
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all true
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I think the guy looking away is checking what’s behind the counter or something, or at least looking in its direction? In any case, I think there’s a certain case for covertly characterising the girl next to them as a 10 so that one could uphold that Heidi Klum is a ten or near it and still ironise things enough intentionally to not come off as fawning or weak. Plenty of reasons for possibly looking away while in a relatively standard pose for couples, or something like this as I am told they do. Bit embarrassing for both, to a degree, though.
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I have counseled my sons not to be in the habit of saying “niqqer” or some co-worker will hear it and have a meltdown. So they call me “neighbor” when they argue with me.
This white fellow writes a searing review of T. Coates searing autobiography. I like the stock photo of the black male model touchingly holding someone else’s kid :
https://sojo.net/articles/between-my-son-and-me-father-reads-ta-nehisi-coates
https://sojo.net/sites/default/files/styles/hero/public/blog/shutterstock_103268468.jpg?itok=ATtJxN8o
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I see two women turned towards one man who seems indifferent to their attention and another man mate guarding. My analysis of alpha and beta is the opposite of the CH proprietors.
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now that you mention it, that move does sort of remind me of a jealous beta buddy i know.
he could very well be the opposite of alpha. it’s very likely that he’s just insecure and not confident enough to participate in something that he thinks might make him look bad. and he does appear to be mate guarding. maybe even hoping to keep her from joining in on the fun by making his physical presence known. didn’t work obviously because she’s participating without him.
and someone else said something similar upthread but the goofy guy’s act of participating without fear of embarrassment is most likely a sign of confidence…not compliance.
most guys won’t do that kind of thing unless they are gay or confident enough in themselves that they don’t think it’s possible for their masculinity to be in question. no different from the guys in high school who wore cheerleading uniforms during spirit week and dressed up like girls during halloween. the ultimate in no f*cks given.
if the guy who turned away was really alpha, he’d probably face the photographer head on with a look of annoyance instead of turning away and avoiding the situation like a pussy.
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“he could very well be the opposite of alpha.”
Could. But not in this case because a beta would probably not get an attractive gal. Not saying she is a stunner but….
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Surely given the female’s appearance that kind of thing happens all the time. Relationships aren’t generally determined by approaches/game or whatever in any case, for right or wrong, but in a looser sense such girls and others can end up with whomever all the time, as indeed is even more typical in Asian/Chinesey communities (with other Asians, generally), in any case is quite possible and relatively common – females do value social belonging and that can force people who might otherwise be ‘friends’ onto them as boyfriends or whatever, obviously they needn’t do so but if that’s how they roll then such things can weigh them down.
In addition, not sure why trying to prevent her from ‘joining in on the fun,’ would be opposed to alpha stuff, surely catering to females in such a way by necessity is more of a beta thing, unless you’re bringing in a fairly mild judgement or other factors to dilute what alpha would mean here.
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That’s exactly what I thought, too.
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Spot The King:
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Video showing how hard he worked to get there. I have seen guys pull Elvis game in karaoke joints and getting their women to gush while the audience plays along.
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Great song choice. One of my all time favorites.
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Priscilla was a babe and was one of those rare women who improved with age.
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The King started dating her when she was 14… and her parents essentially forced a marriage with threats of Mann Act prosecution. The King was not an Alpha – he was situationally alpha given his popularity but he was ruled by his momma and the Colonel.
Jared Fogle Rape!
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they’re being posed in a band-camp drama geek way.
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The lesson you provide is a good one Heartiste but this picture probably isn’t the best way to sell your message. The guy who looked back with the girls could easily be a huge d-bag narcissist “look at me!” type of attention seeking male drama queen. Obnoxious as hell? Yes. Beta? No. I’m just saying that this picture could just as easily portray two “technical” alpha males as your opposing assertion.
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Is darth vader an alpha fact dress costume. Discuss
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Yesterday I was walking in the mall for exercise and game purposes. I saw a clerk mopping the floor of her shop and asked her if she enjoyed dancing with her mop. She laughed and said, “No, but I enjoy dancing.” We chatted for about half an hour. She went behind the register and was leaning on the counter towards me. She wrote down the name of the dance studio I was hawking.
Later on I ran into the very chatty 20-something daughter of an old friend and she and I walked around the mall chatting. Waved at the clerk as we passed her store. You know that she was doing some preselection figuring.
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” Waved at the clerk as we passed her store.”
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I also have a date to instruct a broad in dancing next week. It fell into my lap last night. If she wants another lesson, I want her to buy me dinner.
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over-the-shoulder pose = look at my ass and my face to associate them and let me turn around to see if/how you gaze at my ass to both get off on the attention and test your stoicism so I can gauge both our sexual market values by your response.
sloots.
these cunts think theyre coy pulling these moves, not knowing or “caring” that real men laugh at the transparent whoredom of it all. easy meal for those that want it.
faggotry like the guy turning around with the sloots is sickening. not only can he not find a proper, hot white girl to get to come out with him or summon the heft of ball to grab some non-existent asian T or A, hes emulating female sexual presentation in a photo. he either has no fucking idea that the pose is female sexual presentation, or know (not fucking likely) and doesnt care; either way, small testes.
this is the precise contrast to borderline dykery feminists standing contrapposto to attract a man.
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Surely that’s a fairly counterintuitive reason to do such a pose.
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https://instagram.com/project_harpoon/
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Last week, at a dance party hot girl shows up. I dance with her once, game her, tease her about her hair. She’s responsive. I pull her out one more time then notice she’s putting on her shoes ready to take the last train home. “I’m going for a beer….join me.”
She pauses. Me: “Get your shoes on, it’s just down the street…”
We go for beers. She tells me she’s married. She’s 28. She shows me some photos. “You’re smiling too much to be married.” I say.
I notice her leaning into me. Her IOI’s are subtle. I tease her about her hair which is all bundled up. I tell her i’m going to pull one of the pins out like a grenade to watch it explode. She complies….and pulls it out letting it flow down. She looks even hotter.
We had 2 drinks…not drunk at all. I realize that the stuff I was saying was all nonsense: teasing her about how she talks, observations about the city and life, asking her about her experiences. I lean in to kiss her. She laughs and says “I’m married.” I say “I want to kiss you.”
At this point, I realize i’m no longer conscious of my game, it’s more “natural”. We play the Questions Game…but it’s more calibrated. More about her, asking her what she feels about whatever.
Finally I tell her “We live nearby each other, I’m taking you home, we’ll have tea, then i’m kicking you out.”
Husband must have been away or not living here yet. She came over. I banged her all night long. It was primitive. I wondered what her wedding night must have been like because it couldn’t have been like this.
She left in the morning. I texted her later. Then a few days later wished her a happy birthday and sent her a racy photo. She replied in seconds. We set up another meet up for drinks next week. The aspects of hypergamy were clear. She saw me as a lover not a “provider”. The distinction was unspoken but clear. As long as I didn’t venture into needy territory she was keen to continue the interaction. When she found out I had been married but divorced she moved in closer. That was an interesting observation. Seeing other guys falling over themselves trying to get her attention was funny.
The learnings from this are several: my over-gaming has now become better calibrated. I recognized the IOI’s better even though she claimed being married. The follow up was important. I shot her a text about whether she found her phone. There was nothing about meeting up again, she brought that up saying “See you soon!” So I’ve begun tidying up some of the sloppiness I’ve had in my game.
Some of the other guys here have posted about why girls suddenly stop texting back. One girl I number closed and gamed was replying, then not so much. She came out to a party…with another guy. It was clear from the body language she was uncomfortable with him there and it was a new thing. I came by to talk to her and she lit up. Then I otherwise ignored her. Later I noticed that girl had liked a photo on my FB page. This liking is a kind of IOI with girls who I’ve gamed. It’s their way of trying to get attention or send some type of signal they’re checking my stuff out.
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Off topic, Chinese restaurant, bill comes with fortune cookies.
Her: Let’s see what our fortunes are.
Me: Want to know your future? I can tell you what’s in store for you right now.
Huge grin and doe eyes. My fortune said “To a hammer, everything is a nail.” Fortune cookie game.
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Anyone have thoughts on a girl (good looking) who has only guy friends or “gets along only with guys.” Would any of you say that it’s a clear danger sign due to the fact that if girls don’t want to hang with her, the qualities aren’t there — sex isn’t an issue for girls but clearly the guys are only there for the sex potential?
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Common if she is really pretty – i.e. 8+ and introverted or a late bloomer. Her GF’s are insecure around her and she doesn’t know how to be an alpha female to dominate the group. Growing up less pretty or equal in looks girls would be very passive aggressive to her, put her down, exclude, embarrass her to assert dominance in the girl group because they rightly perceived her as a threat to their SMV, and subsequent dominance of the group. You see this playing out from kindergarten on through to office careers. Bullying etc. Female social dynamics are a crab basket, anyone rising up is dragged back down by the others.
Great great target for gaming with PGS or Pretty Girl Syndrome rapport…
You: Oh you have PGS…
Her: what?
You: Pretty Girl Syndrome. Must be exhausting having everyone judge you all the time. Just on your looks and not really get to know the real you inside. It’s so unfair.
Her: I’m not that pretty.
You: You are, but I can tell there is more to you.
She knows she is pretty but doesn’t feel comfortable admitting it, acting on it. Because the beta guys (below) aren’t aggressive with her AND the girls have always been knocking her down. So you have to balance acknowledging the fact she IS pretty (affirming) while being past that and into HER. helps if she sees you as higher value than her, more authoritative in your pronouncement.
The guys – for sure gameless beta orbiters hoping for a chance, and she WILL be oblivious to their motives, because they are so subtle, and lame LOL. Her: They are just nice guys. Good friends. They don’t think like that.
Because she can’t tell the guys are into her overtly, it screws up her perception that she is that good looking. So you can play on that.
Give it a try.
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in mod
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Slut
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Some helpful commentary here:
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/09/08/judging-a-girl-by-the-friends-she-keeps/
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Means she’s maladjusted and socially inept.
Womyns’ male “friends” will put up with all manner of shit that female friend, i.e., real friends, won’t because they hang around hoping against hope for the faintest possibility of perhaps one Sunday afternoon her giving him sex.
Stay away.
And stay away with girls with millions of friends, female or male.
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The only one of those I knew turned out to be a total psycho>>>off-the-scale steal/stab/drink/drug/hallucinate/lie/stoolpigeon/personality-disorder monkey. Probably dead by now, and not necessarily unintentionally, either. Bye-bye broken dolly, boohoo.
Of course no gurlfran’. Because evil. Pure, pure evil.
Of course you might be lucky, and she’s just a relatively normal rug-muncher and tomboy. Therefore no gurlfran because annoyingly persistent predatory dyke.
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in mod – total opposite experience btw.
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Mods check stack plz.
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“Anyone have thoughts on a girl (good looking) who has only guy friends or “gets along only with guys.” Would any of you say that it’s a clear danger sign due to the fact that if girls don’t want to hang with her, the qualities aren’t there — sex isn’t an issue for girls but clearly the guys are only there for the sex potential?”
Most of my girlfriends did not hang around other women. Women hate attractive, feminine women.
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Probably has awful friends, deus vult? Still, poor thing, but apart from abusing it as has been done it’s also worth pointing out that females can also hang around other females for similar reasons, so one needn’t assume that females don’t hang around others for reasons unrelated to ‘the qualities,’ whatever they might be (a vagina?), or that guys would only be around for sex, which as an assumption might put her on a sort of pedestal socially speaking and it’s quite possible that some guys are there as part of the overall social circle or to bring down her social standing. in brief that as in many things they are guided. It might just be that they end up in certain contexts and such rather than others, or can’t really do otherwise.
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What’s her age, HBD#, and figure (hourglass, pear, banana or apple)?
Physiognomy dictates that hourglass 8’s and 9’s are hyperfeminine women whose genetic imperative is to find men worthy of pleasing. This is then conditioned by an adolescence that leads to so much attention from men that they don’t get along with women, who are sometimes nasty to them, and always jealous.
Between their innate drive to pleasure alphas, all that male attention and all that female jealousy, these women don’t like the company of women much.
Heterosexual tomboys are another group who don’t like women’s company overmuch. They are typically HBD 7.5 or less, and banana-figured, at least while young. Guess some of them are apples, but an apple is 6 or less by definition.
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interesting stuff. no matter the reason why she ends up this way, a girl who can’t get along with other women is a problem.
you end up with family conflicts because she can’t get along with your sisters, mother, wives of friends, etc. she’s also going to be weird with potential daughters. things like that do matter in the long run. best to try aiming for a girl who gets along with pretty much everyone.
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Mac – WTF? No women get along with other women the way men do. It’s always brutal primal competition. It’s just done on a subcom level that is oblivious to most guys. You only ever see ONE girl with ONE BFF For EVA that get along. That’s it – one on one with a specific girl.
Once the group is 3 it’s always down hill and any time there is a hierarchical thing like MIL vs W it’s on… Or VP vs Director etc….
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never said women got along with each other like men do. not even saying they need to like each other. but if a girl can’t get along with any women…ever. she has poor social skills and that’s a problem.
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“if a girl can’t get along with any women…ever. she has poor social skills and that’s a problem”
Yep, I’d agree with that. Those hourglass ingenues I had in mind can certainly get along with women: precisely because they are hyperfeminine, the behavioral counterpart to their physical attraction is typically a very high degree of social skill, and they use it to put other women in their place in seconds.
So I’d say those women do get along with other women per se. But they prefer the company of a man, and are unlikely to have the deep BFF bonds of less attractive, less feminine women.
Meet Me will have to decide where this girl fits the picture.
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Your wife will manage your and your children’s social life, so it’s important that women in her peer group like her.
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“Those hourglass ingenues I had in mind can certainly get along with women: precisely because they are hyperfeminine, the behavioral counterpart to their physical attraction is typically a very high degree of social skill, and they use it to put other women in their place in seconds.
So I’d say those women do get along with other women per se. But they prefer the company of a man, and are unlikely to have the deep BFF bonds of less attractive, less feminine women.”
sounds right to me. i’ve know women like this who didn’t have super close bonds with other women but they weren’t disliked by any women either.
if a beautiful woman is disliked by a lot of women. it’s not usually about her beauty. it’s most likely because she doesn’t have good interpersonal skills.
i have met plenty of beautiful women who were well liked by just about everyone they met. other women included. their beauty didn’t inspire hatred from other women because they were just too damn sweet, friendly, and non-threatening where everyone’s men were concerned.
women who claim to be hated by other women just for their beauty are usually just bishes who have no grasp of reality.
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I’ve noticed that tomboys tend to age better than girlie-girls, generally. (Mrs. Gamer is a girlie-girl and is an exception to that observation.) Tomboys stay trim and they tend to be more handsome than pretty, which isn’t hit as hard by aging.
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@ch this is a picture that the rainbow male on the left wanted taken. if the guy on the right had any self trump-respect he would have offered to take the picture and then zoomed in on a girl in the background. Then he would have shown girl the picture and game on
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Beta Guy is definitely gay (or pretending not to be).
White girl is cute.
Asian girl probably isn’t actually Asian, looks like mixed black to me and only looks cute because she’s tanned.
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The white girl’s ass is way better than the asian’s.. The asian ass disqualifies her from my interest regardless of her face–I don’t want to bang bony hips–chateau should focus more on big asses.. Black guys do have the “cushion for the pushin'” correct.. and if you don’t agree with me.. You either have a small dick or you choose girl bodies based on how gay guys choose fashion models.
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It’s about ratios, ‘guy’. 35 inch hips with 22 inch waist and 36 inch bust = yes. When the hips are bigger than the bust…nevermind, enjoy your fatass chics.
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You guys have extremely low standards. The White woman is both fat AND ugly. Makes the zipperhead look good, that’s how ugly she is.
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I dunno… she looks like a yenta to me, and thus that weaselly-looking phiz is a deal-breaker… moreso than the extra inch or two on the derriere.
But to say she’s “fat”, well…
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yeah, i agree with GE. that’s not a pretty face. and she’s not exactly fat but she does have a misshapen derriere, lumpy legs and no real waist to speak of. she isn’t a prize just because she’s white.
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agree about the schnoz.
i don’t mind a little bit bigger than average nose but those ultra pointy witch beaks just get uglier and uglier as each day passes. imagine what that chick is gonna look like 10, 20, 30 years from now. it won’t be pretty.
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“You either have a small dick or you choose girl bodies based on how gay guys choose fashion models.”
That’s a bit extreme.
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What do you think l of this: https://afterdivorce101.wordpress.com/2015/08/20/losing-my-religion/
All from thee woman’s side…I’d love to hear the husband’s side. Don’t forget to click the link midway through the post where she describes what happens after she apparently leaves him.
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Nobody cares, really.
Blogger EatPrayLove scenarios are like foam on the ocean these days.
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Agree
The article eerily enough is like reading a description of what I experienced in my marriage with my ex wife. When it ended, my anger dissipated and I was glad to just be rid of her. My brother says to me” mark my word – within 5 years she (my ex) will come out as a a lesbian” I haven’t had any desire to find out – but Im sure he’s correct.
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Haha that chick sounds like a basket case
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OT but for laughs. First responder. Who you want(amplified)?
http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/cairns-police-officers-create-stir-with-huge-height-difference/story-fnq2oad4-1227492818259
Had a job where sometimes police were called. Sometimes 2 female police officers would arrive. Before any confrontation we’d hope the fireMEN and ambulanceMEN would arrive to lend a hand if the punches started.
There’s crazy out there.
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Spot the alpha here. Band meeting, Aerosmith is planning a surprise encore with Jimmy Page on stage for a solo during “Train Kept a Rollin'” which he recorded originally with the Yardbirds. He walks in to ask when his solo comes up in the song….watch the interaction:
Did you catch that? Jimmy’s solo is the third one and Joe Perry will cue him….they get to that eventually. Watch how Tyler can’t figure it out, Perry is incoherent and Jimmy finally says “Just give me the cue”. Then watch them onstage. Big contrast.
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none of them walked on the moon.
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Not a bad article:
http://thefederalist.com/2015/08/21/are-republicans-for-freedom-or-white-identity-politics/
[CH: there is no such thing, nor can there be such a thing, as “limited constitutional government” where white people, and particularly white people with a genetic heritage from NW europe, are a shrinking majority heading to minority status in a Diversitopia. It’s as simple as that, so “classical liberal conservatism” is inextricable from race and tribal considerations.]
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The alleged “Christian Fundamentalist”… one Ben Domenech… says white identity politics is bad.
Continues on “blah, blah, blah… freedom… yada, yada, yada, coalition… meh, meh, meh.
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Well-said, CH… as usual.
The race-deniers always seem to forget that little gotcha…
Namely, that it takes a white society to be that “classical liberal conservative” utopia about which all the cuckservatives wax poetic.
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Are Republican concern trolls for freedom or pats on the head from higher status liberal journalists?
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I agree. I originally thought – before reading it – that it would be a hit piece. Was pleasantly surprised.
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But it was sorta/kinda a hit piece. 😡
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http://www.ajc.com/news/entertainment/man-buns-disneyland-ups-cute-factor-hipster-dads-a/nnN6p/
Man Buns of Disney Land.
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The only guys with this hairstyle had better be wearing robes and carrying swords… otherwise, well… FEY!.
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Man Buns?!?
Grrrrrrr… You cocksucker. I HATE clickbait…
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top kek:
http://www.wwtdd.com/2015/08/nfl-cheerleader-molly-shattuck-jailed-for-blowing-15-year-old-boy/
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The guy probably has his hand on his girlfriend’s ass. The yellow girl there is a potential landmine – why risk mixing one’s genes with someone outside one’s people.
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You can see the level of a man by the appearance of his girls, the dude on the left is dating a brown ugly midget, while the other is dating a sexy and tall white chick.
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