FB (Former Beta) has a nice personal story about his journey to Game (Learned Charisma),
Having started from an Omega level to now being a former Beta (I won’t call myself Alpha yet, but getting there), I completely agree with this Heartiste post.
(This blog is a great blessing to a lot of us. I started reading in 2008 or so…I posted for the first time this year, after having lost 100 lbs and an ugly wife since 2008).
Alpha: awareness with self forgetfulness. Lack of guilt, ease in all situations, fundamentally: lack of fear.
Both women and men respond positively to the Alpha.
The positive male response yields career success for the Alpha.
The positive female response to the Alpha yields romantic/sexual success with the ladies.
Realistically: you can control your approach to life, one moment at a time, one interaction at a time.
At 48: I am living exceedingly well. A lot of gratitude to Heartiste for opening my eyes to female nature and female needs.
Big props to CH!
Props received and converted into bitcoin.
The take-home point is this:
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Both women and men respond positively to the Alpha.
The positive male response yields career success for the Alpha.
The positive female response to the Alpha yields romantic/sexual success with the ladies.
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Tradcon ignoramuses who nurse a prude’s kneejerk resentment of Game and Chateau principles of seduction have never bothered to consider their wider applications. (A few are considering them now, thanks to The Trumpening’s YUGE demolition of cuckservatism, inc. Trump is a walking advertisement for the power of Game over foes and friends alike.)
The fundamental concepts of Game…
- outcome independence
- ZFG
- state control
- amused mastery
- qualification/disqualification
- compliance hoops
- assuming the sale
- reframing
- bustamove
- and more utilitarian tactics like time constraints, negs, kino escalation, and agree&lify
…are as useful to climbing the career ladder as they are to cavorting in the dating market.
EVERYTHING TIES TOGETHER. Just as lies travel with ugliness, and truth with beauty, so too is Game a companion to masculinity, providing endless lifelong benefits to men in all avenues of pursuit.
It could all be so simple…
http://www.veteranstoday.com/2015/08/10/disclosure-why-sabotaging-the-iran-agreement-takes-down-america/
http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2016-01-06/enough-already-its-time-send-despicable-house-saud-dustbin-history
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CH,
I love the summary list of game-charisma skills.
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http://www.veteranstoday.com/2015/08/10/disclosure-why-sabotaging-the-iran-agreement-takes-down-america/
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Never seen a Bond film, an yet my needs for an espionage narrative are properly met. Good for me.
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http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2016-01-06/enough-already-its-time-send-despicable-house-saud-dustbin-history
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If ZeroHedge is reading in re {Mossad}x{House of Saud}, then that’s good. But yesterday [or the day before], Ted “Cuba” Cruz [whose wife works for Goldman Sachs] stole a meme I had posted about Henry The Eskimo Winkler jumping the shark, and that’s bad.
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Go back to Cuba, Rafael “Ted” Cruz, and take your Sephardic cousin, Mark Rubin [nom-de-guerre Marco Rubio] with you. Also your wh0re of a wife who works for Goldman Sachs. We don’t need any more of George Lucas’s White Slave Traders.
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Samsung, that site talks about “our sources”, but it is still speculation. While I approve of their general insight into the Israeli Lobby’s machinations, they should not publish information that can’t be verified.
I recommend reading AntiWar, they have a lot of good insights on this. Which is why the FBI investigated them, trying to find something to use or just to harass them. They expose the ridiculous “Iran will self-inspect!” lie for example, which of course was invented by the Zionists, working together with the paid traitors in congress. They could come up with it because they were spying on American diplomats, installing malware in the computers at the hotel in Switzerland where the diplomats were staying, etc, so they could get info to distort.
Long story short: after the AP had published its B.S. story they published another one, changing the text to: “IAEA staff will monitor Iranian personnel as they inspect the Parchin nuclear site.” That a country’s own personnel take samples at a still-active military installation, while watched by the IAEA, is entirely in line with IAEA procedure.
Unmentioned in this is the little fact that all sixteen U.S. intelligence agencies have twice published reports saying there is zero evidence for the Zionist claim that “Iran is building nuclear weapons!!!” which they have said since the 1980s. Nor is there any mention that even the former heads of the Mossad and Shin Bet, speaking for their colleagues who still have careers to protect, say that the Iran deal is good and Netanyahu is just peddling war.
Nor is there, of course, any questioning of whether this would be Washington’s business at all, Iran being surrounded by nukes in Israel, Russia, Pakistan, China and India, with the U.S. having world-reaching missiles ready to use on behalf of the Israeli Lobby, and with an enormous U.S.-supplied military in Israel-loyal Saudi Arabia.
The Persians were invaded in 1941 by Britain and their communist allies in Moscow, and in the 1950s the CIA helped overthrow democracy through terrorist acts – bombing mosques – blamed on Mohammed Mossadegh, claiming that he was in league with the communist party in the north (which was there because of the UK/USSR invasion). When the Shah took over all gatherings of five people or more were forbidden except in mosques, so the revolution could only be planned there and took on a religious tinge. Then, the U.S. armed and financed Iraq’s invasion of Iran, which cost TWO MILLION lives, one million on each side. It also destroyed Iran’s western cities. Imagine if China financed an invasion of the U.S. that destroyed the East Coast – might people be a bit angry at China still today?
When Iran beat the Iraqis and followed them into Iraq the U.S. shot down Iran Air Flight 655 with a missile, murdering the 290 people on board, as a warning. Officially pretending that it was “a mistake”, of course. After that terrorist act Washington continued with economic warfare, strangling Iran’s economy by targeting the international trade that all nations today have to rely on. Israel, with U.S. approval, has also been murdering Iranian physicists, physics professors and nuclear scientists, by using the MEK terrorist group. Which the U.S. conveniently got off the UN list of terrorist groups even though they have been murdering civilians and setting off car bombs for decades. The U.S. is therefore a terrorist supporter, along with Israel. And this is not the only instance.
While most Iranians today don’t agree with the old religious decrees still in effect, they do agree that the Americans and Brits have been acting as Israel’s servants, seeking to control them. You can see that someone like Ahmadinejad wasn’t particularly religious, but he was nationalist, and since religion is the language the revolution was based on he has to keep it up. Like China having a “communist” party today despite being less socialist than the U.S.
Most Persians love the West, watch Western movies and BBC, and want the West as allies, seeing as how they live in an area with low-IQ Arabs and Afghans as their neighbors. But Israel knows Iran would have been an economic power house, like Germany, without the Jew-created sanctions. They want to destroy Iran because Iran, while Shia, oppose the genocide of the Sunni and Christian Palestinians, and that’s all that matters to the Israeli Lobby in Washington. Also, former president Ahmadinejad hosted a “Holocaust” revisionist forum, for which the Israeli Lobby would like to kill everyone in the country. The Zionists never forget and never forgive – just look at their intense hatred of Germany still today.
Let’s hope Trump is elected since he opposes the neocons and their wars. He will use the tough foreign-affairs language the audience wants, but listening to his speeches at rallies it’s clear that the toughness is in line with Russia, for example. Who are being targeted by Washington because they have given support to Iran and Syria, which oppose the Palestinian genocide – again, the one and only factor that decides the Israeli Lobby’s policy, and therefore Washington’s policy. No wonder the Jews hate Trump. He has done everything to please them for decades, but cross them even a little and they’ll target him. They are the worst possible allies.
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The other day, somebody was talking about Lucius Cornelius Sulla Felix, and this feels very similar to me [cf Julius Caesar off in the hinterlands having to deal with the growing Poz back in Rome?] – TRUMP WARNS BRITAIN: BAN ME AND YOU’LL LOSE $1B IN INVESTMENTS http://freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/3380807/posts
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Shit, all that back and forth, makes it hard to know who’s stabbing whom. While you’ve got the knife in someone’s back, someone has the knife in yours, while you’ve got a shiv to their side.
Mexican standoff!
Hey Arb, in all seriousness, you’re a wealth of information. Do you have a blog of your own?
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Cicero & Julius Caesar had bad blood between them going back decades. And of course Caesar’s deputy, Uber-Alpha Natural Marc Antony, eventually chopped off Cicero’s hands & head. The traditional Narrative which we’re taught is that Cicero was the righteous man and that Caesar was the villain, but what if Cicero was an insidious Poz cancer on Rome, just like the British Upper Crust in their betrayal of their White subjects, or B!tch McConnell & Paul Hipster Ryan in their betrayal of White voters here in the USA?
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I learn more on this blog and in this comments section than I did in for years of college. CO, Arb, PA, GE et al. you guys are great. much gratitude
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*four* years of college. I’m not completely illiterate, just typing everything from my autocorrect phone
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College nowadays would accept “for” as the number four. Wouldn’t want to hurt the feels of the idiots; dumbing shit down to the LCD.
But agreed with your sentiment.
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Goddamn…I’m sick of the Shi’a dick sucking around here. It’s as if you aren’t a neocon, you better suck Khomeni cock. You can say “fuck them both.” It is an option. Would you be happier if it were the Revolutionary Guard raping the German women?
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We’d be happier if the world knew the true nature of the {Mossad} x {House of Saud} alliance, and that Sid Vicious Blumenthal & Huma Abedin maneuvered to create ISIS from within the Clinton State Department, in order to butcher Christians and Shia.
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It sure would be nice to get some Benghazi stories out of Fuch Newz which didn’t involve a bunch of head-scratching stories about “B-b-b-but this doesn’t make any sense, why would they do something so dumb?!?” and instead talked about Sid Vicious Blumenthal smuggling Khaddaffi’s weapons out of Benghazi, up into Sunni Turkey, and down into Syria, in order to create ISIS.
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But of course Sid Vicious Blumenthal was colleagues with Fuchs Newz Uber-Sanhedrin Charles Krauthammer, back when they were youngsters at Martin Peretz’s “The New Republic”, so that’ll never happen.
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Honestly, I agree with most of your “conspiracy” ideas CO. You made me think of something interesting: is the Huma/Weiner State Dept. pro-Sunni/Saud/neocon while the Obama/Jarrett pro-Shi’a Iranian?
It would explain why the U.S. can simultaneously negotiate Iran to have the bomb, while fighting a proxy war to remove Iranian stooge Assad. Anyone hear anything about this idea, or am I way behind the curve here?
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DC, I sense exactly that same contradiction, which is why I feel so strongly that The Donald [or Melania or maybe “Eskimo” Ivanka] needs to be on the phone with Oprah Winfrey telling her that they want to get together [discretely] to chat with Valerie Jarrett about this insanity. Dollars-to-donuts says that The Donald could cut a very good deal with Valerie Jarrett.
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Yes, but I still do not trust the mullahs in Iran. The Persians are good folks, but I do think they’d be better off without the Revolution there. Folks blame the UK and US for putting the Shah in place, but Mossadegh WAS a KGB stooge who nationalized the oil fields. That’s an act of war in my book.
Imagine if we still had the oil fields the U.S. engineered in Saudi Arabia? These ideas are what makes Trump so pissed off at prior negotiations with foreign gov’ts.
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If I may engage in a bit of optimism, the Trumpening is encouraging a lot of people in a lot of ways, from maintaining frame in any conversation to game (his substantially younger wife is uber hot and he also owns a modeling agency) to spotting business opportunities and taking risks. There is a light in the darkness…
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An article at Harpersbazaar.com yesterday highlighted the lovely Mrs. Trump, who is in the top 1/10th of one percent of beauty for women her age:
“In November 1998, Melania met Donald at a Fashion Week party … Melania was 28, and Donald was Donald: a father of four, 24 years her senior, and recently separated from his second wife, Marla Maples. … “He wanted my number, but he was with a date, so of course I didn’t give it to him,” Melania recalls of their first exchange.
[H2B: Alpha behavior to mimic – go for number closes even when you’ve already brought a date with you]
“I said, ‘I am not giving you my number; you give me yours, and I will call you.’ I wanted to see what kind of number he would give me—if it was a business number, what is this? I’m not doing business with you.” Instead, Donald gave her all of his numbers—”the office, Mar-a-Lago, home in New York, everything”—and told her to call [Shit Test countered with Compliance hoops].
Melania then headed to the Caribbean for a photo shoot, but phoned a few days later. “I was struck by his energy,” she says. “He has an amazing sense of vitality.” On their first date, he took her to dinner and then to Moomba, which, in the late ’90s, was the ne plus ultra of celebrity-packed New York nightlife. “Remember Moomba?” she asks. “It was a great place, wasn’t it? I remember that night like it was two months ago.”” [Poon Commandment: Roam / Connect with her emotions].
Perfect illustration of a natural’s Game. Two decades later the HB10 remembers the Alpha experience like it was yesterday…that’s your goal, men: own them, own their hearts and emotions.
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> “in the late ’90s… I remember that night like it was two months ago…” ——— Five minutes of Alpha > five years of Beta > five decades of Beta [ponder that]. Fear for the future of K-Selection, if the Betas don’t man up and grow a pair and become sh!tlords of their own domiciles.
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Trump – apex alpha demonstrating the alpha triad – DPA
Dynamic – “I was struck by his energy,” she says. “He has an amazing sense of vitality.”
Passionate – ““He wanted my number, but he was with a date” [nothing says passion like hitting on a woman with another in the room!]
Authentic – “Donald gave her all of his numbers—”the office, Mar-a-Lago, home in New York, everything” [“call me” takes on a whole new meaning when you have so much…]
DPA
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He took her to dinner and spent a WAD on her.
Spergs say boop boop beta!!! “why would you do that, neg them, don’t be beta, kino, F-close, stacks, mystery” Instead Trump broke all your rules.
Again, when an alpha does it, it’s ok…it’s considered AWESOME. It will always be remembered.
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http://www.wsj.com/articles/hank-greenberg-gives-10-million-to-super-pac-backing-jeb-bush-1452164402
YKW doubling down on jeb… telling isn’t it?
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Trumpening:
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BON!
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Someone tech-savvy needs to photoshop Hillary’s face onto Vince McMahon’s body similar to how Trump’s face was subbed for McMahon’s in the alpha posture/walk post…
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Climbing out of betatude myself, had an interesting little interaction the other day that confirmed several things I’ve learned here.
I went to have a diagnostic procedure done, tech (mid 20’s 8+) is giving me the initial questionnaire and asks me what my pain level is (1-10), I say around 5-6, and she says that most guys like me underrate their pain level and says she’ll put me down for a 7. I say, ” I’ll give you a 7 too”, and I look for her response… she looks at me out of the corner of her eye, and I continue with, “and a half”, with a subtle grin. She finally gets it and smiles. She’s very talkative and playful through the whole procedure, and very hands on.
I didn’t attempt to go anywhere with it except to experiment. The resulting aloof attitude was the most significant factor I believe, noted and underlined.
She voted me best patient of the day and walked me out to the waiting room ( I suspect to check out my old lady)
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AA, this is where Game and the Dark Triad can take you deep into the Darkness. MDs used to have to swear thusly, per Hippocrates: “Whatsoever house I may enter… I will willingly refrain from… acts of an amorous nature, whatever may be the rank of those who it may be my duty to cure, whether mistress or servant, bond or free.”
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Any form of Teh Nasty between health care workers and their patients has been forbidden in K-Selected Western Civilization for at least two & a half millennia now, and yet, as you sensed when you ventured into the Darkness, the opportunity was there, if only you had chosen to act upon it. WITH GREAT POWER COMES GREAT RESPONSIBILITY.
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On the other hand, it was only in the last decade or so that groups like the American Bar Association & the American Psychological/Psychiatric Associations have added “ethics” clauses forbidding their members to tap their clients/patients. Of course, those organizations are dominated by R-Selected sem!tic Eskimo cultural termites, so go figure…
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The Hippocratic Oath, being an obstacle to Eskimo situational ethics, has been either watered down, or not even pledged to, in USA medical schools for a while now. See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hippocratic_Oath#Modern_use_and_relevance
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It’s good that you talked to a woman.
this is the first step.
Being witty is fun…enjoy it. My last medical care trip, the PA was a gay dude. When I was leaving I said “damn I need a drink”…and he said “we have water or juice or….” and I said “I was hoping for something a little more stiff.” And he said something like “something stiff would be great,” and I didn’t even bat an eye and said “well, hmmm, I’m not sure we’re talking about the same thing, doc.”
It took him a good couple seconds before he said something like “hah hah hah you asshole”.
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Good game Trav! Sexualized with plausible deniability and humor. “ha ha ha you asshole” good IOI! arm punch?
Get the bang?
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Here another reforming omega using your wisdom, oh Chateau Lords, to climb out of the crab bucket of betatude.
One small benefit: PUA and Game concepts as written about here have made it possible for the first time for me to understand NLP beyond the level of “book smart”.
Bigger benefits: I see women’s behavior for what it is, e.g. IOIs and shittests, have become generally much more socially aware, have left lotsa beta behaviors behind me e.g. validation seeking. Get (and see) lotsa IOIs thrown in my direction 🙂 ; have improved the relationship with my LTR who hates-hates it when I flirt with women in her presence.
Biggest benefit: I laugh through most CH articles and many comments.
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“She’s very talkative and playful through the whole procedure, and very hands on.”
Verbal girls annoy me, but hands on girls get me off.
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So it’s a love/hate relationship with all of them?
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OT: the establishment is scared.
Trump2016
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Trembling.
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This revolutionary technology.
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The Keshe guy is a known scammer. Has had patents rejected for unverifiable claims.
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In addition, Mossad has tried to poison him too. Why?
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VD, I’d be interested in hearing your take on this technology.
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Google Keshe plasma scam and you will get your answer.
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Except there are also tons of independent videos that show how well it works.
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oh let’s see here…someone actually invented a fuckin Mr. Fusion and they are not the next Rockefeller…what are the odds it’s bullshit?
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@ Carlos
Couple of ways to answer this question.
1. On principle, I don’t believe in free lunches.
2. Read the first comment at this site, where a physics guy gives his opinion.
http://physics.stackexchange.com/questions/48335/is-keshes-technology-for-real
3. Later comment on this same site by Keshe supporter.
“The energy created from Low Energy Nuclear Reactions (LENR) and the Keshe reactor, is not “free”…but it would be about one million times cheaper than the chemical burning process used in the current fuels that cars, truck, and generators use!
So, he is saying “We are not saying the Keshe is “free” energy. Everyone knows that would be silly. We’re just saying it is 1,000,000 times cheaper than oil. That’s all.”
I think I will pass on this.
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http://freedompowerandwealth.com
Being an alpha means to have complete control over you mind. You think what you want to think and you feel what you want to feel. The desing your mind the way you want it and don’t allow others to mold you.
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The alpha is the healthy, sane person who is living to their full biomechanic/gender’s potential.
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Incorrect – Alpha = dynamic, passionate and authentic. It has nothing to do with morality, justice, happiness, wealth etc. Plenty of alpha’s are failures on many levels, plenty are terrible people. Prisons are full of alphas for example.
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I think I would tend to agree with Sentient’s basic thesis – G0d doesn’t seem to dole out the natural gifts according to any underlying morality. I’ve known utterly decent men with no natural gifts whatsoever, and utterly ev!l men with staggering natural gifts. tldr; == Life ain’t fair. Deal with it.
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agree – I have an old friend whose free time is devoted to magic the gathering but he’s always been ZFG when it comes to broads – have to admit it he’s alpha given his girlfriends and conquests
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it’s funny you should say this then defend utterly UNdynamic, DISpassionate, and INauthentic spergy crap to try to fool women into believing you’re any of those things.
Scripted interactions are not alpha.
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“to try to fool women into believing you’re any of those things.
Scripted interactions are not alpha.”
Says the liar…. LOL
Of course SAYING your interesting and alpha doesn’t make it so either… Liar.
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“Alpha = dynamic, passionate and authentic.”
Who argued otherwise? A male living to his fullest potential is all of those. So how am I incorrect bruh
“It has nothing to do with morality, justice, happiness, wealth etc.”
Although if a healthy Man is living to his fullest potential he is most definitely the happiest he’ll ever be, you are correct that an alpha male doesn’t have to be “righteous” nor rich in currency.
If you read my post, you do not see that I said he does. Nor do I even insinuate it.
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Donlegaracci – How are you incorrect? Using “The Alpha”… what you describe may be alpha but it is not The Alpha. There are many alphas who are are unhealthy and insane and have squandered their potential. They are still alpha and still exhibiting dynamic passionate and authentic traits…
Got it?
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“Donlegaracci – How are you incorrect? Using “The Alpha”… what you describe may be alpha but it is not The Alpha.”
kek
“There are many alphas who are are unhealthy and insane and have squandered their potential.”
Barring Fame Game, which is universal chick crack, show me one of them. Not that there isn’t any, but give me one example.
I’ll bet you it’s hard to find one Man who isn’t healthy (mentally and physically – hormones at appropriate levels) and is an “alpha”/good at being charming/gaming/bedding hot women.
When I say healthy, I’m not just talking about having a fuckin cold.
I don’t mean having a cold will invalidate you from being “alpha.” I’m talking mental & physical health. Hormones, psyche, etc. Your shit must absolutely be on point if you want to be able to spark intense tingles within HOT women (only what alpha’s do).
Any disease that fucks with your mental health & hormones etc will absolutely dampen any potential you have at being an alpha. You can’t be authentically masculine if you have low T. Low T = low confidence among a whole slew of other serious problems.
And if you’re a healthy Man, both mentally and physically, chances are your natural hormones will allow you to act in a more traditional, Manly way.
“They are still alpha and still exhibiting dynamic passionate and authentic traits…
Got it?”
Erroneous. Elliot Rogers was exhibiting raw authenticity & dynamic passion and was constantly blown the fuck out by women. There’s clearly more to charm/game and supreme alphatude than that.
You clearly need these things, but ONLY if your mind & body where nature intended your Sex to be like. Thus, living to your sex’s full potential.
If I have to spell it out for you people, that means being dominant, ZFG, supremely confident in everything you say/do, approaching hotties for sex unrestrictedly, unfiltered thoughts, dominant frame, being strong, leading, teasing/push-pull, calculated vulnerability, etc.
You won’t exhibit any of this shit AUTHENTICALLY in real life with hot women if your hormones are out of whack.
And if you reply “Elliot and omegas like him were healthy and failed!” – you would fail because they clearly weren’t healthy psychologically/hormonally.
Authenticity is ONLY good if your psyche is aligned to your chromosome’s biological hardwiring.
For example, if some poor chap’s whole game is revolves around ultra-enthusiastically women on a pedestal and making them feel ultra special, he will be expressing himself with raw authenticity and dynamic passion. Yet he will get ZERO quality poon, no matter how he looks.
None of these omegas are acting to the potential of their sex, which is enabled by nature and the hormones ratios you were designed to have.
If you act authentically in accordance to your natural chromosome’s hormone ratios that Biomechanics intended, you will spark intense tingles in hotties without even thinking about it.
There isn’t an alpha trait that having your hormones ratios in check (which is healthy) won’t naturally give you.
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People who use the word gender:
a. faggot
b. shitlib
c. feminist
d. all of the above
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Actually, it is those idiots you mentioned who refuse to use or believe in Genders.
Genders are a real thing. Please apply yourself next time, you’re not as stupid as them.
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@ MZ
Yes. “Gender”. One of my pet peeves.
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@ donlegaracci
I would bet you are a very young man so you don’t remember that the word formerly used for sex differences on forms and general discourse was “sex” and for teh question “sex” you would tick “M” or “F”.
When PC took over, they wanted to reinforce the idea that sex was not natural but a social construct. In their view people were not born into a defining sex but were “gendered” by society. With that in mind, they changed the language.
Your response demonstrates how successful that little water-muddying project was.
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For good and bad, I have been loved by women my whole life. Never been rich but women have always just liked me. Recently I have asked myself why.
1. I was my mum’s favorite (out of seven). So maybe I just expect love.
2. I am arrogant. I have been told it my whole life. Personally, I don’t see it and people who say it can go fuck themselves, but there you are. Another way to look at it is to say I just have faith in myself and my own opinions. The important point about being arrogant, of course, is being able to pull it off. I doubt anyone could successfully fake it.
3. I am verbally facile. Women give high marks to a man who can talk.
4. I am not a tall, ripped superhero like the Split Below, but I am good-looking in a not-average way. Women have always commented on my eyes and smile. But I think this is absolutely the least important point.
5. I am manly. I am not sure what that means really (it certainly does not involve mean-mugging and being angry. Far from it), but I feel it. I like being a man. (I suspect this may be related to T-levels).
Even with all of this good luck however, I have pretty regularly fucked up with women (M*rried three times, first at 18, ha ha ha, I am an idiot!) How did I fuck up? Well, I’ll tell you. I put them at the centre of my life. And every single time I did it, with wife, girlfriend, or just some bitch in the street, that fucked it up.
Don’t make them central. It is absolutely the worst thing you can do.
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“@ donlegaracci
I would bet you are a very young man so you don’t remember that the word formerly used for sex differences on forms and general discourse was “sex” and for teh question “sex” you would tick “M” or “F”.
When PC took over, they wanted to reinforce the idea that sex was not natural but a social construct. In their view people were not born into a defining sex but were “gendered” by society. With that in mind, they changed the language.
Your response demonstrates how successful that little water-muddying project was.”
Gender and sex mean the exact same thing in this context. Stop arguing silly semantics. Everyone posting “oh my god, he used GENDER!!!!” miss the point completely.
Once again, apply yourselves.
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Naturals ARE salesmen.
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RP can you elaborate on that?
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30, single, no debt, not married, no kids, average height, full head
of thick hair, broad shoulders, dress well – haven’t had sex since
2008… and I am more of a romantic and horny type than most who read here.
Whatever I am, it is not an attractive prospect for women, and I have been around them in five different cities in all sorts of establishments.
just lol, pathetic.
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Own yourself. If you’re romantic and horny and on a cold streak, then work that into your Game. ||| “I’m a hopeless romantic, and I don’t need to be watching a party girl like you flirting with other men. So either behave yourself or else I’m outta here.” ||| “I’ve been freezing to death on an oil rig in the North Sea for the past six weeks, with no women at all, and this is my shore leave, so don’t be surprised if I lose my cool and go all cave man on your @ss. BTW, that skirt looks really nice on you. Whatcha wearing underneath it?”
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When you go with Honesty Game [or at least Grain-of-Truth Game], just relax and be yourself – the more relaxed you are, the less likely you will smell of the great Hamster-killing emotions: Nervousness, anxiety, apprehension, butthurtedness and the like. She wants to sense ZFG in you, and if Grain-of-Truth Game can get you there, then own it.
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Also, if you have been on a long cold streak, and if you’re so h0rny that you’re about to explode [so h0rny that you’re literally trembling in her presence], then be Honest with her about that, too. ||| YOU: “Baby, I don’t know if we should do it tonight, I’m wound up so tight. I’m afraid that if we do it now, then I won’t be able to hold back, and I won’t be able to give you what you need.” ||| SHE: “Blah blah blah…” ||| YOU: “Well, okay, but only if you promise to go slow and easy and gentle on me blah blah blah…”
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@Captain Obvious – Any good place to start with ZFG?
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“ims yo black bruv?” – AG
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the things you are describing are not attractive to women, dude.
All the items you just ticked off as what you think you have “going for you” are simply not assets.
You are wondering why, if you supposedly are everything women claim to “want,” that you can’t get any of them.
It’s because you are mistaken. It sucks to hear the truth. Your shoes can’t pick up women. I have fallen into this trap thinking that you can be lazy and have a fucking $20000 watch and women will come because they are materialistic or something. It doesn’t work.
What else do you do and who are you? That is what attracts women. I had some bitch i wrecked the other night who told me before she knew my real age “I will NOT date some guy a decade older than me?!?!!” talking about some 43 year old. Later I said “I’m 44” and she was into it!
This is my POINT about how the SAME fucking facts with women will result in utterly 180’d emotional states depending upon the alignment of the planets. The difference was that I was interesting…the other guy wasn’t. His age/income/clothing/whatever was a LIABILITY whereas the same shit on me was an asset.
What you need to do is figure out who you are and be better than that guy, one day at a time. Do this for you, not for pussy…pussy is a side effect of being a better man.
Or you can do what the spergs recommend and learn tricks. The problem with faking it is eventually the real you is going to come out. The guys who post failure reports “what did I do wrong” posts here don’t understand this- the real them probably emerged and the bitch ran like hell. It’s like stuffing a sausage down your pants to pretend you’re hung. Don’t expect her to appreciate being PLAYED like that.
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+1000 Comment of the week
trav777 can come off kind of gruff but he speaks 100% truth. I was 100 pounds overweight. I have now lost the weight. While in the process of losing the weight, i was learning game and was in the zone hardcore like making out with a chick within a minute of meeting, multiple chicks a night etc. That was when i was still 40 pounds heavier! When i got to where i am now, i was less successful with women. I am now 6’4, look athletic, broad shoulders, full head of hair, single, good job, dress decent have a house and truck and i am handsome. Doesnt matter. Why did i become less successful now that i am “hotter” than when i was heavier? Because exactly what trav said – “The difference was that I was interesting…the other guy wasn’t. His age/income/clothing/whatever was a LIABILITY whereas the same shit on me was an asset.”
I started to rest on my laurels, assuming that just being a 6’4 and handsome was enough. I tried to do “james bond” man of mystery game. Guess what? Waaaay less successful than just being myself, the high-energy fun guy. When i was fat i could always get girls, it was all my personality even in my beta days. Once i assumed that being hot was enough, and girls started to respond negatively, i went through a depression. Things should have been perfect, pussy falling from the sky. Thats when shit Yareally has said (and now trav777) resonated. Build internal value. Externals can and will disappear. Your health, your wealth, your youth, that awesome sports car can all disappear in a blink of an eye. So relying on anything external will always lead to hollow victory. Like sentient says, the keys are being authentic, passionate and dynamic. Have hobbies you love. Enjoy life for yourself, not to impress another person. Dont take her to a fancy restaurant to impress her, take her on an adventure that YOU are going to enjoy whether she was there or not. That is what they ping off of.
as recommended by Yareally, this book should be helpful to Maximus and others.
http://manhood101.com/ebook.pdf
It has helped me see why I am succeeding and where i need to improve. Its all about internals so sort yourself out and see the difference. Women have a dogs nose for weakness so even if you look like a classic alpha then can tell if you are needy/low self esteem/no confidence etc
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And your writing reveals that you are far enough over on the right hand side of the curve that you will be smarter than most women you meet. And if you work and travel and move in society you must be able to talk to people. And you say you want to bang them.
Hmm. Bit of a mystery. Have you given yourself *permission* to bang them? I mean, do you feel it is morally okay to just bang some chick out, say “thanks a lot” and leave, or do you feel at some level that you are supposed to make them into a gf or wife?
If so, you should know that isn’t true. Women do want to be banged out. If you feel hesitant about that, and communicate that hesitancy to them, at some level they will feel your reluctance and feel rejected and insulted.
Yeh. That’s just women today.
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Yeah I guess i am semi street and book smart, I came from a hard road, two LTRs in early 20’s which ended in me going all Oneitis. Which coindently ended in 2008 (GFC lost people money, I seem to have lost sex)
I was on the road to wife-ing either of them (both big sluts) which would have lead to child support and god knows what, so optimistically I dodged a bullet or two
I guess really it has taken me a while to grow into my looks also, baby face etc – I’ve never been fat but after weight training eating right and growing a beard I feel much more manly now.
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> “baby face etc” ——— I talked at length about this in the Trump / Beatty / Nicholson “Spot the Alpha” thread a few days ago – even in his early forties, The Donald was still way too cute & good-looking to be taken seriously as a presidential candidate [and similarly with Ronald Reagan] – The Donald [just like Reagan, our oldest president to date] had to wait patiently until he grew into the role. In the meantime, work tirelessly to make yourself a better man [meaning work on your ZFG INTERNALS] and practice Game techniques for your EXTERNALS [so that the chicks won’t be able to smell anything but ZFG in your presentation to them – no nervousness, anxiety, depression, neediness nor butthurtedness – just the sweet sweet smell of ZFG which is like catnip to their pu$$ies].
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the tradcon term irks me somewhat. It refers to a traditional conservative does it not? I really can’t see much wrong with supporting that view point, I think you are referring to an entirely different group of people I am ignorant about. Why would anyone dislike learning how to speak to women? There are all sorts of ways of speaking to people. You learn how to address parents, grandparents, head masters and mistresses and so on, why not also learn how to address (or undress) young women?
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Pretty sure he’s talking about PMan et al. over at MPC. Look at this thread:
http://mpcdot.com/forums/topic/8723-im-20-and-rektbut-can-i-leave/
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martin, here in the USA, I feel like the Donald must secretly be at least temperamentally a Tradcon, because I don’t see how he could confidently go after Bill Clinton [who brutally r@pe-r@ped Juanita Broddrick] or Anthony Wiener [Huma Abedin’s husband who tweeted pictures of his own erect!on] if he himself [Trump] had any history of harming women or engaging in explicitly grotesque vulgarities like that.
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If there’s a Juanita Broddrick or a picture of Trump’s erection out there somewhere, then either the GOP Cuckservatives will learn of it, or for sure Hillary’s flying army of poz monkeys will learn of it, and once they do, that’s all the Eskimo media will feed the American public from now until election day: TRUMP IS AN ABUSER OF TEH WOMYNZ AND TEH MINORITIEZ!!! Which leads me to believe that there is NOT any such incident in Trump’s past.
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The other [exceptionally Tradcon-ish] thing to remember about Trump & his Gaming of the supermodels is that he did all of it WITHOUT alcohol – he’s never touched the stuff, because his brother warned him not to [and his brother drank himself to death]. So Trump was gaming these chicks fully sober, which is both YUGELY impressive [he never had to fall back on the crutch of Chardonnay/Champagne Game], and his sobriety probably helped steer him clear of any really foolish sh!znat which he might have done if he were drunk [cf the career of Mary Jo Kopechne’s final chauffeur].
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Captain Obvious
Trump is going to win a lot of Black folks with “40 acres and a mule” economic argument,
AKA Making room at the bottom of job market by building the wall, implementing E-verify, prosecuting illegal identity theft crimes and deporting illegals.
That will get Trump as many Black votes percentage wise as Nixon, who built the welfare state for them.
And if Hillary cannot get 95% of the black vote, she is toast.
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EF, I’ve been remarking on the very same phenomenon – if you talk to Real Blacks in the Real World [not the EBT Nogs in the projects or the High Yellers at Martha’s Vineyard] – Real Blacks who have to get up every morning and go to Real Jobs in order to pay the Real Rent [not the Section 8 fake rent], and if they trust you, then they will open up and unleash a Holy torrent of anger & fury & rage about the Armadillos & the Mystery Meats stealing their jobs. Granted, they probably aren’t more than about 25% of the USA Black voting population, but I feel like The Donald can get their votes.
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Speaking of EBT nogs, I live out here in Kommifornia and of course there are some fast food joints that accept EBT…which is like WTF?!?!?!
I’m at a El Dreamer Loco and some broad walks in, chubby too, with dindu in tow and asks the lady if they take EBT. Lady says no, sorry and EBT bitch says okay and walks outside, scrambling to find a place.
I wanted to say, “There’s a place that does. It’s called the fucking supermarket. Go to Ralph’s, buy a rotisserie chicken, some tortillas and your done.” Fucking Obuttfuck’s Weimerica!
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Mendo, under White Alpha TRADCON Sam Walton, Walmart was proudly 100% American. But then his worthless Poz children helped get Bill & Hillary installed in 1993, which gave us MFN for China, and Walmart switched to an entirely different bidness model, where now they earn a slim profit on upwards of a trillion dollars in EBT card swipes every year [USA debt for Chinese junk, as practiced by the international mercantilist-kleptocrat Eskimos & White traitors].
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It refers to a traditional conservative does it not? I really can’t see much wrong with supporting that view point
It is not about opposing conservatism as such. It is about opposing puritans. These are old men online who praise the women in a forum in the hope of getting some attention from them, and so they’ll skewer any issue in a way that makes the woman in the story sound good and the man sound bad. They are too old to date, they are often lonely, so they hate the thought of young men being out in the dating scene.
A conversation about confirming evolutionary psychology through dating is a conversation where they are left out, so they want to put a stop to it. They are also often stuck in religion since that’s all they have, so they’ll be reflexively hostile to anything with the word “evolutionary” in it, and they often are incapable of understanding it anyway.
Their constant talk about having more children is a way to stick it to men who date. “So you only slept with her but didn’t marry her? Evil!” Note that you’ll never hear from them how many children they have – typically the answer is none. Talking about Moar Whyte Babies is also simple, so it’s on their level. And it doesn’t require any political involvement, which they are too lazy and cowardly for. These are permanent forum dwellers we’re talking about, not doers. “Tradcons” refers to what they pride themselves on, being Traditional, so that’s what is used, but I could think of a number of less flattering names for them.
I recall reading about nationalist gatherings in Germany after the first World War. Whenever someone got something going you’d have the old stooges show up to exploit the gathering as an audience for their own talk. They’d talk about returning to The Old Ways, typically Teutonic orders with swords as symbols, and they’d talk about religion and the sins of living with newfangled things based on electricity. But any talk about actually doing some work and they’d melt away. Nothing has changed today.
You’ll find similar people among libertarians, leftists or whatever, but they’ll go under different names in those gatherings I’m sure.
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> “They’d talk about returning to The Old Ways, typically Teutonic orders with swords as symbols” ——— Arbiter, your strongest argument would be that the Iron Curtain protected them from the Poz in the 1950s & 1960s, thereby promoting TFRs. What the German traitors want now is to get in on France’s TFR explosion via the Muslim invaders.
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This is what Russia has been able to do under the watchful eye of ex-KGB White Alpha TRADCON, Vladimir Putin:
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But the huge news this year is that Germany is now DEAD LAST in making babeez, and no German babeez means NO GERMANY. Germany passes Japan to have world’s lowest birth rate http://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-32929962
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Martin, I wrote an explanation, but it seems WordPress won’t let it through yet. Basically, the word refers to old, lonely forum dwellers who will reject any new ideas they can’t be a part of, and who praise women in the hope of getting some of that sweet cyber contact.
You can also read CH’s post Moar Whyte Baybies as a reply to their most common argument:
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/01/24/the-moar-white-baybies-troll/
For fun, ask them how many babies they themselves have.
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How many do you have brave atheist with so much brilliance? Where are your children. What are you doing for your people except for spying on patriots?
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tradcon implies a guy who has naivete in a world that has moved on from traditionalism.
tradcon mindset is a relic of a time when racial separation was just assumed, and the culture was not dominated by outsider ethnic groups whose purpose is to unleash hypergamy. by failing to acknowledge and adapt to the new environment, the tradcon is complicit in it and ultimately anti-huuwhite, not to mention doomed to never have sex with a prime age women.
Traditional Conservatism is fine, but we’re in a fight to restore it, and its platitudes don’t really help at this stage. After we win, the tradcons and conservadads will be great citizens, but they’re not helping at this stage.
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I would put it more simply: TradCon is the belief that “Marriage 1.0” still exists, or can be obtained in the USA. What we have now is “Marriage 2.0” where divorce rape is the ever-present Sword of Damocles hanging over you.
Many tradcons are to be found in mainstream churches, teaching their toxic mix of wife-worship, “Mary the mother of Jesus was a single mom” and “man up and marry the (cock carousel rider) born-again slut, who wouldn’t give you the time of day when she was young and hot, but now is looking for a beta-bux provider now that she is old and busted”.
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It’s CH’s strawiest of strawmen. They only exist in the hypothetical for purposes of defending the vestigial degeneracy from his pussy uber alles days. I hesitate to bring it up because it usually inspires his pride-fueled, asinine doubling down on the decline.
Okay, hesitation over.
The only thing separating CH from being a “tradcon” himself is ignorance of tradition. He had to learn the hard way that The Soul of Woman was Created Below. He had to find out on the street through experience what any reader of the bible will have encountered on page 2, or alternatively, what any father would have told his son between fishing poles. Entire institutions were built prior to civilization itself — matrimony — because of hard-won wisdom from our ancestors about the nature of women, and only now he understands the consequences and promotes the opposite in all but name.
Which is fine — we have always been pushing for the same ultimate goals despite the necessary diversions one must take to learn the truth of the Copybook Headings first-hand. But no, the man who defends civilization and its institutions does it because he has been taught (or shown) the alternative in microcosm, i.e., what happens when family order, for which he is personally responsible, breaks down. Contrary to CH’s caricature, the “tradcon” is the least naive of all types.
If you want proof, think of which class is more likely to be armed, and therefore more familiar with the truth of life extra-civilizational: The father of five, or the aging metrosexual still indiscriminately cunt-spelunking?
Matt
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Here lack something important, links to each piece of red pill wisdom.
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https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/
That’s about it. Sorta like a Swiss Army knife of Life. You’re good to go. Have a blast.
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check this out CH
http://gizmodo.com/young-people-used-these-absurd-little-cards-to-get-laid-1751387386
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“License to knock and butt-in”
Classy!
Those are great cards. Being facetious, I guess you had to actually walk up to a girl and hand her these and go from there.
Technology just keeps separating us more and more under the guise of uniting us.
OT: CH, that vid you put on twitter of the guy pulling the dress and then the girl getting smacked down boiled my blood to know end. We’ve got a damn muzzie bitch here and I feel like busting a Blazing Saddle and knock her out like a horse.
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This reader’s comment is so very, very true. Sadly the lessons from Heartiste came too late for me (now late sixties). I was always considered alpha but when it came to women was the exact opposite. Treated women like godesses. I now cringe and rage at the opportunities mishandled down the years.
Interestingly game works perfectly with my wife despite our being together for 40 years!! It truly is amazing.
Signed: Appreciative but frustrated customer.
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IS, I don’t know whether you take your R0man C@tholic m@rital vows seriously, but if you pump some iron & lose some weight, then you could score a mistress half your age and have some more White children by her.
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Trump is the greatest example of Game you will ever experience in your life.
This isn’t a guy picking up girls, a CEO in a board room, or with all due respect a shitlord like CH. This is The Apex Alpha working at an elite level.
Watch everything Trump does and says. Even the most Game-aware men will learn from The Donald. It’s beautiful, almost brings a tear to my eye. Perhaps I’ll save a single one for Inauguration Day.
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stop idolizing the dude.
You want alpha you can look at Flavio briattore…his chicks have been hotter than trump’s.
I love how telling the truth sometimes is now alpha…lol…what a fucked world
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Some people wonder how to do ZFG. It’s truthfully not my own strong suit, so I double down on charisma, cocky/funny, etc. But here’s some serious jerkboy ZFG in an old Lou Reed press conference. Textbook and amusing:
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As I’ve been trying to remind everyone since the New Year’s Eve festivities, there is no ZFG on God’s Green Earth which is quite like Hangover Game, and rock stars are very likely either hungover from partying or still kinda high from the night before. When you’re hungover, you stink, you’re dishevelled, your whole body aches, your voice is deep & raspy, you speak slowly, and you just don’t give a d@mn about anything, so you speak your mind. Which, when chicks have the pleasure of crossing paths with you in that state, immediately induces Vag River in them.
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Of course, the obvious danger there is that all the partying will send you straight to your grave, but apparently lots of dudes are willing to take the trade-off.
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Seems WordPress chewed up my post yesterday, I’ll try again:
The *beep boop* impression comes about because some people who encounter Game teachings are uncomfortable with the systematic analysis and breakdown of a human activity — romance — that historically has been thought of as magical, nebulous, and even divine. And, yes, many Game newbs are men who don’t have intuitive social grace, and while they are learning how to be better with women will tend to exhibit the *beep boop* quality until they get more comfortable applying what they’ve learned.
Exactly. Time to understand that this is not magic, Love is not Inscrutable Magic, and it’s time to stop listening to those who want feeble contact with some woman on Twitter by praising women and cursing those who dare improve their chances in the dating market, which only women are allowed to do.
You also encounter this: “It’s easy to get a girlfriend!” Sure – about as easy to get a job. But WHICH job, and WHICH girlfriend? The tradcons want men to settle as fast as possible. Especially the tradcons who are old men for whom the dating market is nothing but a decades-old memory, which is most tradcons.
And these tradcons have no sympathy for men in their twenties who sometimes go for years without a girlfriend and without sex. If they think of such young men at all they scoff at them as weaklings for not being content with their lot.
Underlying all criticism of game are two things:
–One, the speaker has nothing invested in game since the speaker is a woman, or a man who has nothing to gain from dating advice either because he is too old, married, or otherwise incapable of accessing the dating market.
–Two, the speaker thinks that a man’s dating success corresponds directly to his quality. If a man has little success that’s because he sucks and shouldn’t have a woman, the unstated reasoning goes. This is false. These critics know nothing about the modern dating market, which is not like the future-oriented dating of the past. Here, the young man who is hard-working, intelligent and reliable loses out to empty assholes whose advantage is that they can move spasmodically to the mass-produced songs played in night clubs. New times, buddy. It is no longer about presenting who you are and what you do and hold up some symbolic flowers. Young men are no longer paired up with young women of corresponding status. Success in the modern dating market does not reflect general success in life. The modern dating market is counter-intuitive in many ways, and it isn’t wrong to teach men to navigate it.
This is not our doing, we are not the ones who complicate matters. We don’t make the rules in this dating market, we just discover them.
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Sceintific evidence showing the Cologne rapes were predictable. Merkel raped those women.
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-9477.2012.00289.x/abstract
http://esr.oxfordjournals.org/content/21/4/311.short
http://sf.oxfordjournals.org/content/93/3/1211.abstract
http://cos.sagepub.com/content/53/2/120.abstract
http://esr.oxfordjournals.org/content/early/2015/08/20/esr.jcv081.abstract
http://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0095660
http://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-1-4939-1705-1_12
http://ssc.sagepub.com/content/early/2013/12/23/0894439313511585.abstract
http://spq.sagepub.com/content/78/4/324.short
http://www.necsi.edu/research/social/syria/syria.pdf
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1465-7287.2010.00215.x/abstract
http://sf.oxfordjournals.org/content/92/1/249
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/juaf.12015/abstract
http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0049089X14001392
http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0049089X1400074X
In short: diversity gives us violence, conflict, less welfare, less trust, less cohesion. Merkel knew what she was doing. So do other elites. They are responsible. All the negatives of immigration and refugees are predictable and backed up by scientific evidence. Ergo each act of violence can be considered to be done from the hands of the elites themselves.
Merkel raped those women.
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yeah. its clear that Merkel is either the most ethnomasochist leader we’ve ever seen, a true believing anti-white socialist…..or they have some kind of massive, massive blackmail on her. Dealer’s choice.
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A girl I number closed in October invited me out to the bar last night. We were never able to get together, and I’ve started dating someone else since I approached this girl.
I’d like to have her as a back up option, though. Any suggestions for how to keep her on the hook indefinitely?
[CH: use search term “text game” and read all the CH posts on the subject. there are a lot of ways to tackle your question.]
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Thought about a preemptive friend zone angle: “hey id like to grab drinks sometime. but just as friends for now”
Disqualification, ambiguity and an offensive lack of punctuation. Even if it doesn’t keep her on the line, the thought of turning down a hot girl is immensely satisfying.
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Pound her out… LOL
why settle for just one now B? see Blackdragon and Ya Archives…
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Been thinking a lot about it, and I don’t want to fuck around on hot tub girl. She’s refers to herself as “my personal prostitute” and cooks me low-carb dinners.
She knows I have options. I just don’t feel the need to exercise them at the moment.
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well as long as you follow the Platinum Rule [do whatever you want to whenever you want to] all will be well!
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> “Any suggestions for how to keep her on the hook indefinitely?” ——— Knock her up, and then get a live birth out of her nine months later. Only partly joking there, BTW: She looking you up out of the blue is HIGHLY UNUSUAL, so either she needs money, or else the two of you might have shared some natural chemistry. Probably it’s the money & the gold digging, but don’t get so cynical that you can’t see natural chemistry for what it is [and what it is so very rare and precious in this life].
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what it is IS so very rare and precious
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there are some wowjustwow replies to your question.
What are your intentions toward your present girl? That is what matters. If she’s wife material do not fuck around and blow it over some piece of ass.
If she’s not then do whatever you wanna do. As for a backup, tell her you’re taken. She will wait; she already has!
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All true and I will expound on these concepts in an upcoming essay Establish Your Own Zero-Tolerance Policy”.
In other news 80 German women were sexually assaulted during New Year’s celebrations by gangs of “auto-organized” North African men, though no one is really certain. It may have been white frat boys.
The Atlantic and Salon are picking up on this angle and headlining essays about the culture of sexual harassment female scientists are “forced to endure”. Not one word about the Cologne attacks.
“A culture of exclusion and unconscious bias”: Gender inequality is cannibalizing the sciences
Studies indicate the scientific community is more likely to reward its male members. Our sexism is holding us back
Unconscious bias also appears in the form of “microassaults” that women scientists are forced to endure daily. This is the endless barrage of purportedly insignificant sexist jokes, insults and put-downs that accumulate over the years and undermine confidence and ambition. Each time it is assumed that the only woman in the lab group will play the role of recording secretary, each time a research plan becomes finalized in the men’s lavatory between conference sessions, each time a woman is not invited to go out for a beer after the plenary lecture to talk shop, the damage is reinforced.
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The left has destroyed their credibility on this. Whenever they say “OMG rape culture” blah blah blah, just point out their silence on immigrant rape crime, refugee rapes, Cologne, Rotherham.
They don’t believe in their principles. They just use those principles as a pretext to persecute White Men. To attack and attack and attack. Their goal is a world free of rape. Their goal is our subjugation and domination. Our vanquishment. Our destruction. Pure and simple. Their goal is a world free of us. A world where we have no power at all and they rule supreme. A world where we are their slaves and if not their slaves, then a world where we don’t exist.
When these are the people you are debating with. When these are the people you are arguing with. There’s no use in debating them. Nothing they say will be in good faith. It is all in bad faith.
The only approach you should take with these people is Might is Right, or for the Russians, Kto Kogo, “Who, Whom”.
These people aren’t your fellows, your neighbours within the one group you disagree with. It doesn’t even do them justice to call them our enemy, for even enemies can have commonalities.
These people are our utter and total opposites. They are our inverse.
These people are our antithesis. That is the perfect word for them. They are our antithesis.
And there can be no compromise with your antithesis. As for your antithesis to win, you have to cease being. You have to cease existing.
It is dominate or be dominated. Destroy or be destroyed.
Because for your antithesis, such a goal is axiomatic to their being.
It is what they are.
Kto Kogo.
Which of the two will dominate the other.
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The left has destroyed their credibility on this. Whenever they say “OMG rape culture” blah blah blah, just point out their silence on immigrant rape crime, refugee rapes, Cologne, Rotherham.
They don’t believe in their principles. They just use those principles as a pretext to persecute White Men. To attack and attack and attack. Their goal is NOT a world free of rape. Their goal is our subjugation and domination. Our vanquishment. Our destruction. Pure and simple.
Their goal is a world free of us.
A world where we have no power at all and they rule supreme. A world where we are their slaves and if not their slaves, then a world where we don’t exist.
When these are the people you are debating with. When these are the people you are arguing with. There’s no use in debating them. Nothing they say will be in good faith. It is all in bad faith.
The only approach you should take with these people is Might is Right, or for the Russians, Kto Kogo, “Who, Whom”.
These people aren’t your fellows, your neighbours within the group you disagree with. It doesn’t even do them justice to call them our enemy, for even enemies can have commonalities.
They are not intra-group. They are not even inter-group. They are our anti-group.
These people are our utter and total opposites. They are our inverse.
These people are our antithesis. That is the perfect word for them. They are our antithesis.
And there can be no compromise with your antithesis. As for your antithesis to win, you have to cease being. You have to cease existing.
It is dominate or be dominated. Destroy or be destroyed.
Because for your antithesis, such a goal is axiomatic to their being.
It is what they are.
Kto Kogo.
Which of the two will dominate the other.
Which leads to Might is Right.
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Pravda.
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That’s rad! Will have to watch when I get home, take notes. Have some beer.
@5:10 marker: I did catch “alls I’m saying is that we are moving from a mindset of Scarcity to a mindset of Abunance.”
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Yeah, I might invest a $200 in one of those Keshe devices. But only if I knew it actually worked. This one impressed me. There are several more, including an Aussie Chiropractor who is rigging up his Toyota Yaris to run off of a small Generator that fit in a bamboo box about 8″ across. The videos are in stages too. Another guy used it to collect electricity and then pop it and it left a big amount of residue and made a big pop with a blast flash. He also powered a small turbine with it. So whether or not Keshe is a fraud or not this other stuff is what piqued my interest. I was going to try this one as it doesn’t look too hard. I figure it’s scalable. I just need some help with the chemicals one would need but they can’t be that hard. I read about this today in VT from Gordon Duff, who generally writes straight up stuff. I have learned a shit load about nukes from him and my father was a nuclear ORSA guy. He says a lot of governments are still paying attention to Keshe and he has spoken with Keshe and he thinks he’s straight up. An endorsement from GD says a lot to me.
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Sales 101.
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OT: listen to some classical music. Right now I’m listening to Aaron Copland’s “Billy the Kid”
So, so beautiful. Pure, raw Americana to the core!
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Melania Trump is the first FLOTUS I would bang.
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First MILF
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I don’t know if I gamed it, but at a job interview awhile back, I came in, put my balls on the table, acted ZFG…and didn’t get the job. Which was the best thing ever to happen to me because otherwise I would be stuck in a corporate deballzed, suit and tie lifestyle making ok money in a terrible high tax blue city.
The dried out hags who interviewed me told my recruiter that I was too cocky and shit. Their reaction to my charm showed me that it was not the place for me anyway (I had a visceral panic walking into big corporate in cruddy blue city beforehand).
Instead, I found better job/boss the next month.
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Speaking of job interviews: last year I went to interview for a job that, as usual, I thought would be a good fit for me (now I know better.) When the lady called me, she sounded tired. Not, just-woke-up tired, but tired of having to interview people and basically, tired of work. I didn’t expect much but she scheduled the interview. That was the first warning.
I get to the place and I didn’t have a smartphone at the time, so no GPS. I had to call to find the right road because the street signs were small as fuck. I get there and the place is in mid-reconstruction. She’s not bad looking. Nice body, nice rack, could lose about 10 pounds, so-so face. As we upstairs I notice the office is nothing but women.
She takes me to a lady’s office and I notice that lady has the same last name as the other gal. The other gal leaves and brings in two more women, also with similar last names. They start with the interview and bullshit, so tell me about yourself. I was knocked off my game when I saw lady after lady join up. It was a group interview, the likes of which I had never had and she never made mention of such because of course not; it’s obvious to her.
I crapped out and the interview was short. I called family to let them know and they were like “that was fast.” I figured all those ladies are family or relatives; the whole fucking office is women; they don’t know what the fuck they’re doing. The position was open for a long time after that. The bitch didn’t have the courtesy of replying to my email thanking for the interview, the usual SOP.
I avoided that one!
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Mendo, I might have to disagree. You’ll probably never have another chance at a weird interview like that, but if you do, then go for broke with jerkboy @sshole Dark Triad Game. It sounds like the office consisted of a bunch of kitties in a fight who needed an Alpha Tom Cat to come in and lay down the law for all the pu$$ies to adhere to [plus if you got the job, then you could always manipulate them into fighting over you]. Also, never “thank” them for the interview – I’d urge your final communication to be some clever head-scratcher/Neg [although no butthurtedness]. With a head-scratcher/Neg for parting words, at least you will stick in their minds, and if you ever cross paths with one of them again, then she’ll remember you as “That Jerk!”
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Now fast forward 18 months, and she sees “That Jerk!” at an industry convention, and he comes over to her and starts chatting her up, and fifteen minutes later they’re back upstairs in her hotel room, and she’s getting her brains banged out of her ears by That Jerk’s mighty erect sword, and she’s screaming, “Oh my God, oh my God, don’t stop, oh my God, I’m CUMMING!!!!!”
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I hear ya, Cappy. I was still a nascent red-piller and Chateau guest when that interview took place. Looking back on it, if I had tried such a route (do or do not, there is no try) it would have come across as butthurt and all types of smelly moodiness.
If it took place now, I could better handle it. Thanks for the tips.
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What about other men disliking alpha males because of their cuttingness and disagreeable quality. Women love dark triad psychopaths, other men not so much.
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The Pioneers [Alphas] take the arrows. Inevitably, the Pioneers are followed by the Settlers [Beta Bux]. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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It doesn’t apply to all Alphas, but guys who are successfully with women tend to be enjoyable people to be around. Plus, it is completely possible to be ruthless with women and honorable with men.
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True alpha guys, while they have those qualities, rarely need to display them because they have so much charm, charisma and social savvy… The true alpha is the boss who gets you to work when you don’t want to and you think it was your idea. 90% of the people will love a true alpha and 10% will hate him because they are among the small group he had to cut down (probably were Gammas too).
TRUMP is an example of a true alpha working people.
You don’t see him railing against his opponents in some narcissistic ego fueled rage.. he has command and dispenses his shivs almost from a place of pity… and from that place – they stick.
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Exactly–it is those 10% think/say he is railing against his opponents. Sad people. WEAK!
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Mendo – you might like Krauser’s recent post on Gamma’s
http://krauserpua.com/2015/12/28/gamma-vs-sigma/
The key issue is they harbor “secret king” fantasies, so they have to be smacked down…
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Yesterday I went to the break room at work and Trump was on CNN talking with Wold. I overheard two people, chink and old slut, talking about Trump, bashing him, saying he’s not that smart. Chink said he read Art of The Deal in college and said that Trump’s not smart; old slut agreed, with a tone of disgust (or lust) in her voice Just mega-hating on him. Kept repeating he’s not smart. Shit, it was all canned responses and usual one-note colloquial statements. Said he came from money so big whoop he’s rich. I just stayed silent. In due time, I’ll come out of #TrumpCloset here
HAHA!
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Do you suppose the chink is attempting Beta provider Game on the old slut?
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I caught their convo in media res so it wasn’t enough to know for certain.
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What’s funny is that just now, a lady was introducing her new intern–a young chap, maybe 20, 21–to the group and they already have another young, male intern. This is a dept with only two women. One’s a single-mom Latina–average bod, annoying voice. The other–the one doing the intros–is mid 40’s, suffers from elephantiasis of the ass, and laughs like a man.
I asked my boss–female–if it was wrong for me to find it odd that a dept of two girls hired two young male interns. She said, ’bout time.
That shit make me laugh so hard. Too beautiful.
These guys are in college and are surrounded by young, tight ass all day, so I’m sure there’s nothing more they look forward to than coming to a office full of old, bitter hags.
Not the same when a guy hires a young thing. I love that CH post years ago about the one place that’s all dude executives and everyone else are young women.
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@ mendo
These guys are in college and are surrounded by young, tight ass all day, so I’m sure there’s nothing more they look forward to than coming to a office full of old, bitter hags.
Thing is, though, that there’s a huge disparity in SMV between young bitches and young men, with that of the young men being far beneath the young bitches.
These young guys have virtually no chance of landing any of that fresh young pussy at this stage in their lives without constant, perfect, on-point game that would put even the Donald to shame. An HB5 at your office might be the best they can do right now and is certainly a hell of a lot better than nothing. Here’s what our dad has to say about it:
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Gonna start Contrarian Game. I’m good at naturally going against the grain and it’s also fun to confuse people just to confuse them.
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Being a certifiable asshole makes you more attractive to women, beta, not so much: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/soloish/wp/2016/01/05/my-tinder-date-with-pharma-bro-martin-shkreli/
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Mods plz release comment
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