Commenter quixotic, in the middle of a field report about meeting a girl in a phone store, mentioned an interesting aspect of pickup that another reader, Putin, refers to as “the show”.
The weirdest part was feeling every man and women in the store watching me or trying to listen to us. They could see that smirk on me, the way she constantly giggled and flipped her hair, the way she got a little nervous at times, her female co-worker and her did that thing where girls look at each other for a second to say “are you seeing this?” “yes!” when they thought I wasn’t looking and it all went like fucking clockwork. Thank you for all you have taught me CH.
This is an under-appreciated facet of public flirting that a few men feed on, but most men find daunting. Approach anxiety isn’t just fear of how a woman will react to being hit on; it’s also fear of how onlookers will react. Will they laugh? Point and whisper among themselves? The thought of a public shaming can drive many a man to eject from potential love scenarios that he otherwise would have followed through on if the only participants were himself and the girl.
Quixotic sounds like the type of man who is energized by The Show. Many extroverts, naturals, politicians, and salesmen are like this. The approval of the crowd/coworkers motivates almost as much as the approval of the woman/customer who inspires the lustful/avaricious approach.
These men are in the minority. Most (White) men are introverts, who shudder thinking about all the ways The Show can go wrong for them. A select few truly relish the Klieg lights. Most would rather perform their seduction art in a secluded location, away from the heat of audience expectation.
My advice to introverts trying to hurdle the mental stumbling block of The Show on the way to a public romantic flirtation is to continually remind themselves that people are watching not out of judgment, but envy. Envy that they don’t have the balls to do what you’re doing. Think that, and you’ll feel your…heart… stiffen for battle. Even if the pickup goes south, you’ll have the pride of knowing you busted a move while The Show watched immobile from the sidelines.
Two thoughts: George Washington [late 18th Century] felt that PLAYING THE PART of a leader was possibly the single most important aspect of his job as CoC & 1st-Prez. Also, Nietzsche [mid 19th Century] felt that the Eskimos were natural showmen. tldr; == Histrionics are a very powerful [ergo an exceedingly dangerous] tool.
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“But no one was more serious in following them than Washington. It is this purposefulness that gave his behavior such a copybook character. He was obsessed with having things in fashion and was fastidious about his appearance to the world. It was as if he were always on stage, acting a part.” https://books.google.com/books?id=L0qGWo_NGlAC&pg=PA315#v=onepage&f=false
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George Washington == Ronald Reagan == DONALD TRUMP
Bernie Sanders == Groucho Marx == VERY DANGEROUS
Mrs Rotten Cl!tless == El Jebbe == BORING
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Gloria Steinem: Young women back Sanders so they can meet ‘boys’
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“In Iowa, Bernie Sanders crushed Clinton among women under 30 years old by 70 percentage points (84-14). He beat her significantly among 30- to 44-year-old women (53-42). Meanwhile, Clinton trounced Sanders among mature and, uh, very mature women. Women over the age of 65 backed Clinton 76 percent to 22 percent.”
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Bernie Sanders, 1972: “A man goes home and m@sturbates his typical fantasy. A woman on her knees, a woman tied up, a woman abused. A woman enjoys intercourse with her man – as she fantasizes being r@ped by 3 men simultaneously.”
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‘Hillary Rotten Clitless’
That’s golden.
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OT but, (big surprise) there’s a smear campaign underway to discredit the whyte qb who defeated the magical nêgro in the super bowl. don’t want to link the articles but the are plenty
a Malcôlm X-themed half time show followed by trying the hang the râpist albatross around the neck of the aryân winner?
keep moving folks. no concerted whyte genocîde effort to see here…
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I’m surprised they’d bother… the real stars of that show were the negroes on defense… Manning looked flaccid and that other qb was a combination of deer in the headlights and dog shitting a peach pit.
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@plump, yeah I noticed that as well. All of the sudden, all of the sudden these allegations come out at this point in time. Bastards are still butthurt about it. Everyone’s favorite nog, Shaun King, has the whole expose, as it were, but this is beyond pathetic.
I’m so done with football. I might catch a college game here and there for my alma mater, but aside from that, shit’s over. Well, it’s been over, I’m just finally saying effe it!
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Did Sanders actually say or write that?
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BERNIE == VERY DANGEROUS.
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Are you sure that’s the same Bernie Sanders? Could be a relatively common name.
If that was written by the current candidate, I’m going to pass it along to a few young Dems I know who seem to be touted the guy.
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Upon further reading, it seems like just some usual suspect half-assed short story… in tune with the times back then… a bit edgy then, not so much now, since they’ve had most of their Cathedral dreams come to fruition…
… still, it speaks volumes about the Other’s mind.
What exactly was that publication? Seems like some local or college “literary” attempt.
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GE, do not misunderestimate the Eskimo. It is a lifelong student of the psycho-sexual, and it has legions of millenial eBernankifed Bachelorette of Arts in ***-Studies Majors shiksa hamsters flocking to it.
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Don’t worry about me underestimating The Other… but for credibility sake, I’d like to know if that’s the current Bernie Sanders running for president or just one of his tribesmen who happen to have the same name.
Any way this can be verified? Because I’d love to stick that first paragraph in the craw of some of the Sanders supporters I know who play the intellectual/moral high road card.
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Well, how about it, Cap’n? Don’t clam up on us now. Is this the actual Bernie Sanders or not?
If not, admit it and let’s move on… and don’t throw out these red herrings in the future, because other folks might take ’em and run with ’em, thereby damaging their credibility.
If it is him, then this is gold, baby… gold. 😉
Of course, right now it’s smelling more like fish. 😡
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Sorry, GE, I was off doing something else. YES, THIS IS THE REAL BERNIE SANDERS TALKING ABOUT 50 SHADES OF R@PE FANTASIES. http://www.snopes.com/bernie-sanders-essay/
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Good job, Cap…
Tough call on whether this Penthouse Letters stuff comes more from the id of the yid or if we should blame it on Vermont. lzozlzozlozlozlzolzolzolzolozl
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Misunderestimating an Eskimo Psychopath like Bernie Sanders would be akin to misunderestimating a Richard Feynman or a Groucho Marx. Bernie Sanders understands the Hamster’s infatuation with The Darkness.
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Reads like no-talent demented yahoody kommie prick to me. Survey sez it’s that yankee yid.
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Women tied up, on their knees or abused may be Mr. Sanders’ fantasy, I doubt that it’s the average guys’ fantasy.
The young women supporting him are probably the modern version of the post-hippie activistas of the late 70’s/early 80’s whose uniform consisted of scraggly hair, Palestinian scarf, Che Guevara t-shirt and Anarchy buttons.
Who also tend to be the only type of woman under 30 to do stuff like attend political rallies, so they are hugely overrepresented in that arena.
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@Captain Obvious
The fact that Washington was CiC after he left office is another testament to his greatness. Can anyone envision a scenario where bho was asked to return to be CiC? Under any circumstance? Washington died earlier than expected because he physically worked himself too hard and put himself away wet. Of the current candidates, only Donald has those traits.
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It would be interesting to learn whether Washington had a personal role model for his part in “The Show”, or whether Washington was making it up as he went along. In Paris, Franklin approached “The Show” by playing a character who paraded around in a coonskin cap and acted the part of a barbarian simpleton [probably in order to lull the frogs into misunderestimating his rather towering intellect].
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“Day and night, I am HARD at it…”
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Lord Fairfax was that man.
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??? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thomas_Fairfax,_6th_Lord_Fairfax_of_Cameron ???
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@Captain Obvious
Being able to project a certain image back then required only some of the same skills as today (nevermind that nearly all political activity involved only White men). Confidence and charisma, though, are ALWAYS the most important things, in life and in ‘game’.
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“some of the same skills as today”
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CO: Lord Fairfax was Washington’s Mentor as a Young man and taught him how to survey and manage an estate and pretty much everything else he knew. Fairfax was a powerful and reputable man in the colonies. He is buried on the grounds of Fort Belvoir,Virginia, which used to be part of his vast estate.
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Off topic – potential punchable shitlib face contestant – https://twitter.com/ZackFord
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Punching would be too merciful… that phiz merits a drop kick.
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Why punch him and run the risk of getting AIDS infested blood on you? You need something with some range.
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Here’s a pic from zack “ford” twtitter page. It’s a joke right? It’s from some new sitcom “The Nerdville Diaries” or something. Right?
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Oh, now I see. They are actors. Obviously selected without prejudice to represent the full spectrum of modern masculinity.
Here’s an alternative hashtag for this guy.
#morejewishgaslighting
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Who wears a green, striped tie with a black shirt? Oh is it irony? Oh, ha ha. Cool 1992 caliber irony there.
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It was as if a million pocket protectors cried out in pain, and then went silent.
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Droll, GE, droll. We are the Wombats! I too remember that poster, one that launched a 1000 cliches, it was so funny.
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God that photo is an embarrassment to the White race. Does not bode well for getting other White boys into STEM fields, either, if they think they will be viewed (or end up) like this. Ugh…look at the creepy bent knees of the boy on the far left, as well as with the creepy dude with Lindsey Graham stare in the blue blazer in the middle of the front row. Are the trying to be shorter out of fear of being a taller than their height-challenged nerdy neighbors? Then we have Mr. Man-boobs McBowtie on the far right. I won’t even bother with the rest. God, my eyes, my eyes! Certainly a total opposite of the post from a few days ago about Trump’s Alpha frame.
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Envious people are very often big talkers, especially if they don’t have to face others in person. The internet is a great “tool” for those folks, but if you manage to look at their life you will find truth.
From: http://freedompowerandwealth.com
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Bruh, stop shilling your site.
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This is why most in my profession, regardless if they are 20 year veterans, loathe role-playing at sales meetings/trainings. You are completely exposed in front of all your peers, management, competitors, etc. When I was a rookie the most horrifying thing I ever had to watch was a videotaped sales role play of myself in ‘action’. It was terrible, but it also was the beginning of my transformation into who I am today. And if sales people loathe the public role-playing show, the general population must be terrified of it. Somewhere I remember hearing that many people fear public speaking over death.
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Imagine the nightmare of having to give the eulogy at your own funeral.
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Hah!
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Droll
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“Old School Player…
He came, he fucked, he left”.
Easy peasy
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I was told the same Thing in a public speaking course several years back. I suspect most would go for the speech if given the actual choice.
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Hate having people see me gaming a girl where im about to go for the number and guys are staring. It ruins my concentration and destroys my vibe.
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Do like I do. 1. Get half-drunk, 2. Open your phone to New Contact, set it in front of the broad, then walk away. 3. Check back in 5 min.
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That stuff doesn’t worry me these days, aside from the impact it has on a girl. The ‘show’ can be turned into a fun thing, where you demonstrate that you’ve got the balls to do it, and “isn’t it fun” etc etc.
The problem is if she starts feeling social pressure, or others are applying pressure on her through their ‘concern’. In these cases I think it’s best to attack the ambush and call out that people are watching. Sometimes try and get them involved in a small way etc
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> Envy that they don’t have the balls to do what you’re doing
This.
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@Experienced True. But this kind of envy often takes the form of cock blocking. Suddenly a girl or guy will come up and ask directions while i’m in the middle of gaming a girl. I usually try to find a way to isolate so it’s not in the middle of a busy place.
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How often does that happen? I’ve never experienced it during the day. People gawk, but most don’t have the balls to interfere.
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Well done, quixotic.
You have to be unafraid to fail and willing to take risks. That is the essence of masculinity.
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As an INTJ, I didn’t get over approach anxiety until I came to grips with the reality that social interaction can’t be broken down into an algorithm. Getting put down hard by a cold bitch will put hair on your balls unless you’re a manlet at heart.
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@Wrong Side of History
I think you’re on the wrong side of Myers-Briggs credibility. Isn’t that whole thing outmoded? Or do you find it describes you perfectly?
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It was pretty accurate in my case, Maybe ist accuracy is mwhy ist discredited by the usual suspects. It can damage the equalist narrative. How else do you undermine the quest for excellence and quality?
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Instead of envy think that people are bored and watching you for entertainment. Or out of curiosity. Think that and you’ll relax and not be consumed by a death force.
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Whenever I notice someone’s ear’s stretching a bit too far, I turn to them and say:
“Lessons cost extra.”
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Nice – audience Game and DHV rolled into one.
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Thank youi Daniel Plainfield for not hating on Slavs as before.
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“You takin notes, Junior?”
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That one went over my head, carlos. I don’t recall hating on my EE brethren…
… though I may have called Strapon a Pollack every now and then. lzozlozloz
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It was aimed at Daniel’s old handle and not at you at all, so it rightfully went over your head, as I aimed it that way.
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Don’t be afraid to bust a move. You’ll regret it later if you don’t.
Keep flashing them your shit-eating-grin, and keep approaching.
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Once you no longer give a crap there is no fear. I would ask girls out for other guys that were too shy. It’s a no stress way of learning how to pick up girls because there is no shits given if she doesn’t want to go out with your friend.
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The next step is to ask out women on behalf of other women. Then you’re in the big leagues!
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I have always recommended public speaking and acting classes to guys wanting to get better at picking up women. I relish a public courting.
But I don’t recommend doing it in the workplace.
I would love a CH comment on this aspect of ‘The Show’.
It has always fascinated me how other people act during a Show. Other women the target’s age seem to do the covert eye messaging. Women around the wall years will seem to laugh out loud or make peanut gallery comments (they trying to get hit on too?). Over 40 women are the worst… they will bring in reinforcements to c-block you (to ‘protect’ the naive young lady I’m sure).
But men also are interesting. Apparently Gay men will either join in the conversation or make peanut gallery comments. Alpha male types will leave you alone and may actually give you a tip or two to land the lady in your bed. But the betas actively c-block and get personally insulting.
This beta “not on my ranch pardner” type butthurt has always pissed me off. I once ended a long friendship on the spot when a butthurt friend blew me out of a flirtation with a coffee girl I guess he fancied.
And this too, if the beta c-blocks you it seems to make the girl dig you EVEN MORE in my experience… any comment CH???
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It’s why I recommend Ballroom Dancing as a way to overcome this faulty stigma.
Somewhat related is how women and beta men will eavesdrop on your casual conversations. For the life of me can’t understand why they do this but if you are sharing laughs with an old friend you can be sure the office co-workers are soaking up every word for possible later deployment against you.
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Did CH get suspended on Twatter again?
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Could be the same thing that happened to Vox Day:
http://voxday.blogspot.com/2016/02/shadowbanned.html
B& without telling him or anyone else. Way to go twit.
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Back a few years ago, there was some forum that was supposed to be “funny/edgy” and posted news stories, inviting comment. Fark, I think.
Of course, if one’s comments were not Cathedral-approved, you’d get the usual flak from others… and when you gave back as good as you got or better (I’m talking RealTalk, not mere “fuck you” type stuff), the moderators used to pull an especially faggy trick of allowing your posts to go through, but only YOU could see them.
After once or twice of noticing that others just said the same thing I posted, I called them on their underhanded faggotry, and sure enough, turns out the moderators were staunch supporters of “gay rights”, go figger.
Their demands for an “apology” merited an lzozlzolzolzolzolozl and the dust from my sandals.
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@Greg Eliot
Back a few years ago, there was some forum that was supposed to be “funny/edgy” and posted news stories, inviting comment. Fark, I think.
Of course, if one’s comments were not Cathedral-approved, you’d get the usual flak from others… and when you gave back as good as you got or better (I’m talking RealTalk, not mere “fuck you” type stuff), the moderators used to pull an especially faggy trick of allowing your posts to go through, but only YOU could see them.
I’m subscribed to Fark’s Facebook page. I enjoy the off-beat stories, but the Cathedral shit in the comments section is off the charts. Back when there were riots going on in Baltimore, and the cops were enforcing the curfew down in the ghetto but basically ignoring the decent white areas, some SJW was bitching about it and I said it made perfect sense because, as the old saying goes, “you go hunting where the ducks are.” I was called a “piece of shit,” told to “fuck off” and, permanently banned from commenting for that.
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Yeah… any time someone gives ’em back their snark in a more clever manner, the jackboots come out with the ban hammer… they’re not used to people talking back.
Yet they’re the first to pound their chests about liberty, freedom of speech, etc., etc., etc.
Typical Cathedral… I think the guys who run the site are somewhere near Chicago, land of the Voting Dead.
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Those eyeballs are a wonted snow across which you freely cross-country ski toward the Summit of Snatch
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Whorefinder doesn’t like crowds— too many witnesses.
Whorefinder doesn’t like any witnesses.
Best done in a lonely dark alley rape!
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WF, Director Tamir Pardo has been studying your methods:
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Doncha know, you’re just a conspiracacist with no basis in reality.
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You can’t spell “conspiracist” without “racist”.
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And you can’t spell “faggot” without “the spirit within.”
Faggot within rape!
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The finder of the whore is one devious character.
GET IT WHERE YOU CAN !
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As someone who was painfully introvert and ridiculously shy, with confidence and self-assuredness, I love crowds and I love putting on said show. I know I’m a legend in my own mind and want others to bare witness to this fact as well. Sometimes I’ll need a kickstarter, other times, if the mood’s on point, I’ll be the kickstarter. It’s yearning to come out, I just need an audience. And the more receptive the audience, the stronger I become.
Sure, on the periphery, people will make fun and cajole, but deep down inside, the women are turned on and the guys are “this fucker?” The cowards will dismiss it as showboating, and they’re the ones who will just never get it. Had friends like that. Had
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Reblogged this on MGTOW 2.0.
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NEAT
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htf is this relevant to MGTOW
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Hell, I love having an audience. I remember one night shortly after I’d started w/ the “Cocky and funny” thing. I had a waitress at a family meetup at a restaurant smiling and blushing the whole night. Everyone at the table was shocked and telling me to stop. I didn’t.
If I’m on, it’s way more fun watching her look around in confusion, with a touch of fear.
And if I’m on a date, I do things like using her finger to dip into a sauce and then me licking it off. It shows her I’m interested and unafraid of the reactions from her or our “audience”.
Bashful and anticipating “What’s he going to do next?” is exactly where you want her.
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My girl often says “please stop, people can hear you!” while shitlording in public. Of course that only fuels me.
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wife does the same rape!
it only makes me dial it up. the more embarrassed she gets the more fun it is 😀
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in a public display type situation the artful neg is your best friend. if anyone is going to look awkward it should be her, not you. don’t be Jack Lemmon, desperate to close the deal. Be Al Pacino. zfg. confident. entertained.
a hot girl who bartends at a local restaurant always has 10-12 fanboys at the bar drooling and sending volley after volley of rapid-fire ass-licking compliments her way. one night she was going on and on about her workouts and all the guys were ooh-ing and ahh-ing. i casually said “ooh reeeally? how long have you been working out because you look kinda chubby?” said with a knowing grin. shoulda heard the crickets among the fanboys, followed by low-level whispers “what an asshole”… an audible tingle echoed throughout the valley…
so some light chit chat with her followed then I left abruptly and waved goodbye. came back two weeks later. aloof, barely noticing her. and of course she starts loudly talking to the couple next to me how she’s cleaned up her diet and is doing more cardio. then on her break she sits next to me and you can probably guess the rest of discovery-channel-style ending
long story short, in public don’t leave your drooling tongue out there in the street to get run over. expose HER vulnerabilities, but in a fun way. zfg, no judgment. teasing. then push-pull-push-pull. work the crowd with your unpredictability and surprising indifference to any particular or outcome (other than your own personal entrainment)
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*entertainment, not entrainment lol
taking me awhile to perfect my commenting-while-driving skills
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Entrainment? Woo-wooooo! Chugga-chugga-chugga.
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Yeah, I’ve seen it. When nerds talked…fucking nerds! talked to my female friends, watching the crashing and the burning was good fun. Just as it has been impressive watching naturals just do…whatever it is they do…and then leave with bitches.
I’ve seen it with me where girls look at me like, “ok handsome charming man, charm me and be handsome. Entertain my snooch!” At the same time, there’s a crowd, what do they think? Get over it is what I think.
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I truly feel honored for the mention, thank you CH.
One of my favorite CH quotes seems appropriate:
“Love ferociously what is worth loving, hate with equal passion what is worth hating, and know that in the happy flux between those two poles you can make chaos dance to your tune.”
The people watching “the show” are in awe, wondering how something that truly is simple can look so simple (blue pill conditioning has taught men that picking up a girl is actually very difficult when really it should come natural). Make chaos dance to your tune and everyone around you will follow the pied piper of poon 🙂
I enjoy it when I’m out in public and i see another man making a girl giggle/getting a number/about to steal a kiss. I try not be conspicuous and fade into back but i always smirk knowingly, can’t help it. Reminds me that life is beautiful. The air becomes electric. We are all part of the cosmic dance and the mating rituals remind me that this is natural, not something to be legislated by blue haired cunts. It is funny when you see a butthurt beta getting a twisted face as you make something they think is impossible look easy.
In honor of valentine’s day, I took a book from the page of CH/skittles guy/bring da movies guy and did absolutely nothing for my 3 plates on valentines. Didn’t see any of them for the whole weekend, hung out with the boys. No gifts, no dinners, not even chocolates/flowers/cards
2 of them got the same happy valentines text and were very happy to get it. The third i forgot about until she hit me up “randomly” lol, neither of us mentioned valentines. The gift they get from me is dick and good feelz when they are around me via state transference.
Be the exception to every rule and see what happens
SOCIETAL EXPECTATIONS RAPE!
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valentines day is one of the MOST sacred days for followers of the platinum rule. you can ignore her, but personally i like to be a little more thoughtful…of myself
nothing says “happy valentines day” like a screaming orgasm followed by a pearl necklace, peter-north style. if a guy can pull that off then there’s no need to ever spend a dime on contrivances such as chocolate, dinner or roses. they’re just limp-dick substitutes for the real thing
seriously
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I celebrated Vagina’s Day by telling the bitch to make me a sammich.
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Second year of Skittles. For the wife and the daughter. It’s perfect
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bahaha nice, its always fun to paint her face like a jackson pollock. True, there is a way to make it work for the man and have her shower you in sex, home cooked meal, bathe you, lingerie etc.
I chose to not do valentines day this year because I wanted to see what would happen. Like would they get mad or try to punish me. The answer is they were fine with it because I was fine with it. And if they aren’t, the door is right over there.
I went to the market and it was crazy lol every girl in the world dolled up, war paint, looking for MEN. Yet they swear they don’t need a man, they all got a great job, new car, sex in the city group of girlfriends, discount card at total wine and a cat (or a dog they don’t know how to control properly). The market for skittles guy is huuuuge right now. Just be fun (authentic, dynamic and passionate) and know how to fuck, you can bust jerkboy game and everything else will be taken care of by the current dating climate. She has plenty of friendzoned orbiters to buy and bring her lunch at the drop of a hat, listen to her problems and tell her she looks amazing all day on her social media shit. Be the guy who doesn’t text back, isnt trying to see her every day cuz you are busy following the 16 commandments of poon, fucks her like conan the barbarian and then tells her to go make me a sandwich. Feminists make the best sandwiches 🙂
My buddies hated me lol they had to do the whole dog and pony show for valentines while I relaxed and watched The Departed. One of my buddies did the whole valentines clusterfuck and turns out his girl was on the rag! SMH that is frustrating. Damn though the departed is such a good movie
“I don’t want to be a product of my environment. I want my environment to be a product of me. Years ago we had the church. That was only a way of saying – we had each other. The Knights of Columbus were real head-breakers; true guineas. They took over their piece of the city. Twenty years after an Irishman couldn’t get a fucking job, we had the presidency. May he rest in peace. That’s what the niggers don’t realize. If I got one thing against the black chappies, it’s this – no one gives it to you. You have to take it.”
The end of that monologue by Nicholson – “No one gives it to you, you have to take it” – Advice that applies to women, pickup, sales, basically all masculine pursuits
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Valentine’s Day is followed by St. Penis Day. We celebrated St. Penis Day appropriately following Mrs. Gamer’s supplication for hole-y rites.
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I use Valentine’s day to lay down the law.
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`” Reminds me that life is beautiful. The air becomes electric. We are all part of the cosmic dance and the mating rituals remind me that this is natural,”
Beautiful
I still forget this sometimes – thanks for the reminder
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Roosh had a nice little piece on Travel Game three years ago in ROK:
http://www.returnofkings.com/7698/how-to-approach-girls-on-airplanes
I had some fun awhile back applying it on a short boat trip. I started the game near the end of the boat run when we were lined up to board waiting buses. Had noticed her before on the boat, so stood beside her in the crowded line and started to talk. Of course, everyone nearby in line can hear. By the time she and I got on board, the bus was nearly full. No empty seats in the front, so we walk toward the back. Spot two empty seats on a bench row, but they’re not right together – separated by a warm male body. I look pointedly at him. He moves to let us sit together, says “I didn’t know you were a couple.”
Me, putting my arm around her, “We are now.”
Just own the publicity – it’s part of the fun.
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Only three years ago? Not sure where Roosh was travelling, but in my recent experience the airlines are doing a much better job of getting the flights up to full capacity…
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And even if you fail…
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For a great example of elevator game in the movies, see The Departed when Matt Damon first meets Vera Farmiga. Nowhere to hide for either.
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‘Who says I want to see you again?’
I love when he drops that on her in the restaurant scene.
Matt Damon is a dark triadic alpha beast.
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Fuck this gay mod
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It’s kinda odd as I’m a hugely introverted INTP, but I too love The Show. Of course, I never used to before CH helped me start to walk down the correct path.
It’s super interesting, because the audience can be of great help. If the target is being kinda cold, yet the audience are seriously struggling to keep a straight face, trying their best to act nonchalantly, this alone can act as a powerful branch of pre selection game.
“Wait, all these people are struggling to contain themselves from this fountain of charisma that’s giving me the eyes, I’d better buck up”
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I think the key is just engage in the performance…again…and again…and again…and again and fear evaporates and then you come to enjoy it.
I work in sales (b2b, financial stuff, very well compensated).
The first time I had to do a major sales presentation…back in 2013…I was freaked out with fear, my boss, God bless him, helped me each step of the way…you build on each presentation…then you come to realize that this is the only path to make a sale, Grab a win…then you come to enjoy each presentation: you are the center of attention, you are the expert, You have done this 100 times, but the words and energy and enthusiasm that you emit sound like the first time…and the people you are presenting to want you there because you are helping them and providing a solution.
Think of women the same way…Women are the same damn thing….same thing…they are there,
They are your sales target. They respond to the same personality traits that people respond to in a sales environment: confidence, energy, excitement, insight, personality, humor openess.
Frankly: you are helping them…they are used to encountering mostly dickheads and you will be a cut above.
Practice that and you will do well, in sales, in life, with women.
One commenter on here says something like:
“Persuasive, dynamic and authentic.”
Absolutely right.
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Should be “Passionate, Dynamic and Authentic…” Which are Excellent traits to keep in mind.
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Here you go FB:
“Behind all of these “what women find attractive in men/masculinity” posts are the same three elements – Dynamic, Passionate and Authentic.
Dynamic + Passionate + Authentic = alpha.
The specifics matter a lot less than men think, and there are underlying reasons for this…
Dynamic – a bias for action, initiation, invention. These are male life giving and sustaining traits. A man siting on his ass ain’t bringing in mastadon meat or discovering how to make fire or exploring and conquering new territories or defending existing ones. Male dynamism is the corollary to female reproduction and nurturing.
Passion – a hunger for increasing knowledge and skill. Passion is the fuel for dynamic endeavor, informing and amplifying. Passion brings life to the male trait of mission, which drives the larger society forward in the same way a female’s biological mission is to bare children – but on a broader basis. Passion reveals the mysteries of the cosmos underpinning navigation and exploration, the relationship of musical notes creating Bach’s fugues and the development of medicine.
Authentic – male truth, the counter to female truth which is emotion. Being who you are by living as you say. This is independent of any moral judgements. Authenticity is the bedrock of leadership. So when you declare to drive your enemies from their land, raze their buildings and salt their fields you mean it AND you do it. Walking the talk even when difficult.
The rest is Frame + Contrast + Game (technique) in how you relay the above… cover that in another post…”
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“she was drawn to Clinton’s energy, his sense of humor and his ‘intensity’…” http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3427366/He-frilly-nightie-danced-playing-sax-Former-Miss-Arkansas-says-Bill-Clinton-bed-confided-Hillary-sex-women-fears-Hillary-vendetta-sleeps-loaded-semi-automatic.html
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Much of the article is actually about how Bubba put on THE SHOW for her, right there in her bedroom, but I can’t seem to get it past the f!lter.
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I’ve done this several times. Approached in a crowded environment, real direct, if it was a dude he’d think I wanted to fight, hit on her, either I get a number quick or the standard I have a boyfriend. To which I reply, bring him along I’ve been to prison and will fuck him too. And I act dead serious. Yes I’ve got numbers doing this, I estimate at 25% clip, not great, but my time is valuable. This always draws mixed results from the crowd, some smile, some can’t help but laugh, and some (usually women) mad dog me. And I don’t give a fuck, the world exists for my amusement and everyone else is just breathing my air.
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Dude. You’re really tough. Can I be your friend?
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Only if you got big titties, DD minimum…
Physical toughness don’t mean shit if you don’t own yourself, and when you achieve this you do to suit yourself. Got it grasshopper.
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> “And I don’t give a fuck, the world exists for my amusement and everyone else is just breathing my air.”
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OT, but I always want to share good news:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/post-nation/wp/2016/02/15/my-demons-won-today-ohio-activists-suicide-spotlights-depression-among-black-lives-matter-leaders/
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last link I posted got lost to mod…but here’s a omega of the year submission:
Ok: your girl’s cheating on you.
Good: You gonna bust her
Better: and put it on YouTube.
But…
Nerd: You only been dating two fucking weeks.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3447692/Man-dumps-cheating-girlfriend-Valentine-s-Day-card-filled-evidence-set-fake-dating-profile-catch-out.html
Just insane.
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Poor delusional bastard. It’s been generations since a nerdy provider could reasonably expect that a woman he was dating wouldn’t be involved in deceit. Doesn’t he know the current year? It’s 2016 man.
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He’d known her two fucking weeks…he was a nutcase.
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A MGTOW is born.
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She is just playing the field like all her friends. It is to be expected. POF sucks hind tit anyways.
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LOL, don’t make some chick your GF two weeks before:
Valentine’s Day
Her birthday
Christmas
Unless. . . Bag O’ Skittles. 😀
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There is also the possibility of causing yourself legal trouble by attempting to talk with a woman this way. Someone might come over and ask if she is being harassed. I also think that being rejected in public is not nothing, we must get embarrassed for a reason.
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Lowers a chimp in the hierarchy. Apes can’t say who’s who; they have to demonstrate it. But in an environment that is all strangers, being embarrassed and not trying is maladaptive. Of course, that means trying to the point of desensitization to embarrassment would also be dysfunctional.
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The fruits of appeasement behavior.
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“The Show” is BS. I’m a guy that hits and connects with women. I give two shits what you’re doing. Do what you’re gonna do with women, keep it to yourself and know that no one of value gives a shit what you’re up to because anyone of value that you would like to care about what you’re doing is up to their own shenanigans. Among guys that hit women, they don’t care what I’m doing and sure as shit, I don’t care what you’re doing. Anyone that cares what we’re doing isn’t worth their coin anyway.
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Hit ON women, that is, not actually “HIT” women.
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Dunno about that. I won’t hit on a girl who doesn’t have an ass worth smacking – and it is best to check this out early on. The rest of body part smacking can wait for a session or three
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the butt hurt is strong in this comment section…
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“to continually remind themselves that people are watching not out of judgment, but envy.”
I think this is weak though… the mindset to get to is to not GAF about whatever other people might be thinking… stay out of other people’s frames all together. Too much is made of what other’s think, especially guys comparing themselves to other guys. Realize the root of this is your own validation seeking and neediness.
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Sports Illustrated put a fat chick (“plus size model”) on its cover of the swimsuit issue. Who exactly is that for? The men who buy your magazine don’t want to see that. They want to see lithe young women, not an overweight chick. Even if SI brings in a few new readers, they’re going to lose many more. SI has sacrificed its BOTTOM LINE for feminism. They will literally lose money just to feed the Hivemind. It’s mindblowing.
She looks like a beached whale.
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You wouldn’t boff that?
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Dude…
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I like ’em a bit meaty, but even she’s at the upper, upper limit of my tastes… and more’s the pity, once they lose the glow of youth.
But this one’s just another mystery meat, and an automatic disqualification.
The Cathedral just can’t help themselves but go for the two-fer… fat and mischling.
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Imagine what she looks like without the benefit of digital retouching.
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Says she’s from Lincoln. Looks like bronzing and makeup.
Justine LeGault is very hot. Total moron though, like all French-Canadians.
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> “this one’s just another mystery meat” ——— Same here. I luurvvvv me some amazonian chicks with the DD’s, but is this one a Sophia Loren, with just a trace of eggplant in her? Or is she a high-yeller, with several thousand billable hours of photoshop work required in order to make her “pass”?
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Isn’t there a corollary to the number of hashtags used to the amount of insanity they possess?
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Increases proportionally as the number of bumper stickers on her car increases? [Or maybe her single Mom’s car? I sense that the whole idea of bumper stickers is slowly becoming passe, or at least more of a hassle than it’s worth to the millenials.]
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I guess the 1990s version was “Flair” [which I recall as having originated with Robin Williams as “Mork”]:
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I think I might have hated Robin Williams even more than my Dad’s generation hated Alan Alda:
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Probably also varies as the total number of bottles of pills, in their medicine cabinet, each of which they have to swallow at least once per day. Sh!tlibs are shockingly over-medicated.
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You wouldn’t boff that?
Damn straight I’d pound it.
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And yet there are alleged red-pillers here at the chateau that maintain MSM advertising agitprop is merely a matter of economics… “It’s what sells” they chirp, when feminism, race-mixing, faggotry, etc. are pushed in our faces.
It’s become the Big Tell as to who’s actually a sub rosa yid shill and/or a sheep in wolve’s clothing.
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Contrast this beached whale with smokeshow Hannah Davis on last year’s cover:
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“It’s what sells” they chirp, when feminism, race-mixing, faggotry, etc. are pushed in our faces”
it’s both.
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it’s easy to understand when you realize that capitalism depends on expanding (heh) markets. the optimal, “normal”, lithe athletic market is highly competitive and, for the most part, not lucrative for behemoth multi-national corporations like time warner. they have to go after the tradionally-marginalised: the fat pigs, nogs, mudracês, etc. they’re hoping not to alienate the guys who want the hot girl on the cover, but, truth is, in the internet era most of us savvy whyte consumers have already moved on to other outlets. if anything the fat pigs on the cover show how much market share they’ve lost to smaller corps like lululemon
yes there’s a feedback loop where this fatprop enforces social norms, but the social norms don’t depend (directly) on expanding markets. rather it’s the other way around
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“fatprop”
Excellent! Or, adipropity? HAHA…ah…I’m just bored now.
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@Mel Gibson – I don’t know why they don’t just show us her labia minora and be done with it.
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That’ll be their lowest selling edition to date. Sweet sassafras is that some vile horseshit.
And on geez, I get to see Rhonda Rousey painted TWICE. Egads, even the chicka that knocked her out is better looking than Rousey. (In comparing them together, not to other, more feminine women.) And, they keep shoving Rousey down our throats since they’re all in with that rag.
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The answer is black men.
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you know it’s coming:
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I really didn’t need to see this….where’s my damn trigger warning?
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If they really want to be cutting edge…why don’t they get a HB10 with a goat face, and put her on the cover.
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Hedonism is a pretty good description of much of the degeneracy here, pursuing pleasure regardless of the consequences to others or society at large. Is it not obvious that the increase in STDs which are immune to antibiotics will in the not too distant future remove the whores and manwhores from the gene pool? Go ahead and enjoy your moment in the sun. Nothing except your pleasure matters, right? Nature will take care of the defective genes that are overpopulating the earth. Spread the poison with your ruby tipped love dart. Manwhores are indeed justified in their egotism, they are the agents of the devastation that will renew the world.
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Scientists don’t know how long the Zika virus remains in semen. This is just the beginning. Spread the love Alphas.
http://www.cnn.com/2016/02/16/health/men-zika-virus-sexual-transmission/index.html
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Feminist icon Ronda Rousey says after her loss, the only thing that kept her from committing suicide was motherhood and being a good woman to her man. Career wasn’t fulfilling, only motherhood and domestic life saved her.
http://www.tulsaworld.com/sportsextra/ap/rousey-thought-about-killing-herself-after-losing-to-holm/article_2c7e51c9-a787-5f31-99f6-37aa15d465e8.html
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I didn’t read about her Samurai training. She sounds like she is really committed to honor.
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Just further proof that strong and empowered is a flimsy mask for weak and neurotic.
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USS Cuckservative thinks the water isn’t coming in fast enough
http://www.breitbart.com/big-government/2016/02/16/national-review-editor-paul-ryan-president/
‘“Rep. Paul Ryan (R-WI) for President!” blares the headline on a National Review post from its deputy managing editor, Fred Schwarz.
The editor’s Sunday post came just a few hours after House Speaker Ryan declared that curbing immigration levels would not be part of the GOP agenda. “We’re not going to be talking about visa caps in our agenda,” Paul Ryan told popular Fox Business anchor Maria Bartiromo when she pressed him on whether he would lower green card issuances.
Although Ryan has a two-decade-long history of pushing for open borders, the admission was significant, as 92% of GOP voters would like to see immigration growth reduced, according to Pew polling data.
Schwarz’s post also came just two months after Ryan passed an omnibus spending bill, which not only funded all of President Obama’s immigration agenda, but expanded it–prompting the National Review’s editorial board to write: “What were Republican leaders thinking?”’
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Wonder what dirt they have on him?
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What traitors they are. Worse than Democrat Leftists scum, because at least they are honest about their agenda.
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If Katie Pavlich sees the errors of her ways then Der Trump could let her off with a mild spanking.
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Re fat swimsu7iy models. At a sports bar I saw that show crowning the fattie. I told everyone in earshot.. “This is terrible. Who wants to see a naked fat woman?”
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A certified psychopath, I am charming, funny, fit, intelligent, and (judging by women’s reactions to my antics) somewhat attractive.
Game comes naturally.
My life IS game.
I have no trouble finding, closing, and bedding.
However, I seldom do.
If I want the thrill of the hunt and catch, I go to to the woods with by recurve bow and a dozen broadheads.
If I want a warm glow, I do high intensity weights.
If I want my Corpus spongiosum rubbed to a happy finish, I call one of several women who are not only willing and excellent, but a lot of fun.
If I want the pleasure of that delicious combination of flirting while subduing attractive women, I do it at work.
“I love your hair? Is it your own?”
“Nice dress. Almost covers your butt.”
“Did you just touch my arm? Shall I file a complaint or will you do it some more?”
I enjoy–in fact I look forward to—Heartist’s essays on politics and culture, but I am concerned for my brethren who use game to get women.
Perhaps I misunderstand—I often do. But why does anyone waste time and neurotransmitters giving a moment’s thought to fatties and feminists? One might as well rant against spoiled toddlers.
Why does anyone (perhaps I am too egoistic here.) WANT to screw a skank–no matter how dolled up—with whom one wouldn’t spend 5 minutes outside the bedroom?
To me, it’s self-degradation. Think of the cost in terms of time not spent in the woods or gym or with a few females who are women.
I mean no offense. I have a hard time with empathy—not that I know what the word means.
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Empathy is an abstract level of processing that allows one to imagine and feel what it might be like to be another. Excellent post, that is my single criticism. If you don’t have the cognitive hardware to “put yourself in someone else’s shoes” you might be a subhuman, or you might be a human emulating a subhuman. Are you man or beast?
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