Reader Carlos decided to take my advice to the field, where he dropped the “How normal are you?” line as a rapport-boosting opener to seal the deal with a girl.
I’ll offer a suggestion here. Avoid dating any woman who use the word “male” in place of “man”, or even “guy”. This is a red flag that the woman you are talking with is a. a bitter cunt or b. a cunty feminist, and the Venn diagram on that is a perfect 100% overlap.
PS Notice all the “lol”s this chick scatters everywhere. She’s nervous, which means she’s experiencing rapid flushing of the genitals.
Qualifying women is a power keg of pussy ‘plosion. Women can’t resist a man who has the BALLS to hold to a tight set of standards and is willing to apply those standards where it counts: in-field, right to a woman’s face. Forget “hey I just noticed you and…” openers; hit ’em hard with “how normal are you?”, spoken matter-of-factly and without obvious affect, and watch as their eyes light up with faux indignation and their hamsters spin with myriad reasons to find out more about you. It’s pleasingly aggressive, intriguingly self-entitled, arousingly impudent, and daringly bold in a world full of timid, suck-up betas who “accept women for who they are”.
Newsflash: Women don’t want to be fully and unconditionally accepted for who they are by men. They want a man who will challenge them and make them work for his acceptance.
Maxim #45: Be less accepting of women, and women will be more accepting of you.
Huh.
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I’m the first one here and this is definitely not normal.
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Someone bested you by 2 minutes, actually
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The Faggot Within would never ask such a loaded, hetero-normative question to people.
S/he/it/xe is beyond normality.
Faggot within doesn’t get this joke rape!
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I finished watching an episode of Cesar Millan’s show. It’s funny to watch shitlibs treat dogs like humans and making both them and the dog miserable. This show highlights so much about the shitlib psyche:
1)its all feels. Just like Millan says, Americans give too much affection to dogs in place of leadership and exercise(lol, probably if you’re a fat fuck, you’d need the exercise yourself)
2)the utter disbelief that you ought to treat dogs like dogs and not humans. We’re all equalzzz.
3)the hatred shitlibs have of Millan and their silly accusations of animal abuse. Since you know, being the master of your pets and all that is abuse, just like withdrawing your support for your wife is spousal abuse.
This is off the top of my head after watching an episode. I’m sure the list could be expanded.
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So true. I have long thought the same thing.
Bonus: The way Caesar teaches you how to walk and stand around your dog—head up, back straight, striding confidently forward, confident clear tones—is the exact same to develop for a more alpha attitude. Caesar does the same walk around people on the show, and at first they’re taken aback by his confidence, but eventually get into it and (meekly) copy him—and sing his praises. He’s a good example of how short, undistinguished-looking dudes can still garner respect and attention by their body language and not by looks.
Dog Whisperer rape!
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WF, he isn’t teaching you how to be “like” an Alpha – he is literally teaching you how to BE the Alpha mammal in the household, and to make d@mned certain that the canine [or canines] understand that they are no better than Betas.
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When I was a kid, we had very large dogs in the household, and my Dad had a book on dog obedience [written by maybe an Old School female ballbusting chick outta the UK?] and either the first chapter or maybe even the first sentence in the book was some shizzle like, “A dog is a dog is a WOLF.” And then the remainder of book was exactly the hindbrain/hamster shiznat that we obsess about in the manosphere: Eye contact, body language, correct -vs- incorrect touching [touch the dog high on the top of his head; never low on his chest], zero tolerance policy for bad behavior, rewarding good behavior, etc etc etc…
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I get in tons of trouble with the local Pit Bulls since they can smell Alpha on me from a mile away, and when I stare them down, eye to eye, they go nuts, because no one in their Sh!tlib households has ever done that. I’m thinking about getting a concealed carry permit on account of the Pit Bull epidemic becoming an existential threat to me & mine. SRSLY. Looking at a S&W Governor -vs- a S&W 500.
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Captain O
Look at the Taurus judge. 45 / 410. Not concealable at all, but they make 410 shells for it. It will put down a bear.
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Captain Obvious, I’m finding it hard to read you. You throw blocks of text out like they’re bricks. Have more paragraphs, take time to develop your ideas, don’t cram everything into one unified space unless you genuinely have a lot to say, and you don’t. You’re failing to persuade. I admire your energy and consistency, but I don’t like your haze of meaning. I’m sure Heartiste gets the same effect from you as well, ‘tho he approves your posts. $orcerygod
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Cuntin’ Knobvirus needs 3 comments to reply. A real man could do it in one! Sad and 0verly Cen#ored comments by fegz rape!
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@CO: “maybe an Old School female ballbusting chick outta the UK?”
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barbara_Woodhouse
This lady knew all there was to know about dog obedience training.
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Reminds me of my sis and bro-in-law. They had a beautiful brown lab, but homeboy never disciplined the dog correctly. She was a good pooch, but he would always keep her away whenever we were around. They pampered the snot out of that poor pooch.
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Had a boss once who used to bring his biting mid-sized dog into work. Kept claiming the dog bit people because “it was a terrier” instead of the real reason–he and his wife were SWPL wuss bad parents who never disciplined the dog and inflicted its evil on the public.
The dog would literally prevent people from going to the side of the store it was on, hampering productivity. Finally, the boss’s boss stepped in (after waiting WAY too long) and told the SWPL pussy to keep his dog AT HOME.
A dysfunctional business to the core.
bad business rape!
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I like whorefinder’s post, though with a name like that, I imagine someone unshaven wandering the alleys beating bitches with a two-by-four, and shouting “Fucking feminists!!”
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Caregiver? Unless she is in nursing school and 20 YO.
Run. Away.
We went through several with grandma and now my spinster aunt with MS. Might just be Portland, or it could be they are all pill stealing addicts.
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not just portland.
lots of girls going into caregiving/nursing/hospice care nowadays and i have no doubt that most of these chicks tend towards BPD/personality disorder. and all of them are dykish, pierced, and/or tatted, etc.
not the florence nightingale nurses of days past.
not sure what the connection to them and caregiving professions is. probably a mix of their higher tolerance (enjoyment?) of all things gross with the guilt/shame over past failures in family, relationships, etc.
who knows but them are some messed up people.
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The scariest people I have ever met are the Hospice nurses. They are obsessed with Death and with murd3ring their patients. Hospice Nurse == Pure Unadulterated Evil.
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yep. obsession with death is exactly right.
i’ve known two of them who were supposedly big animal rights advocates too. they volunteered at shelters all the time. they acted so superior and noble for being such saints for the animals.
but really they just got off on the whole god complex/dependency/death thing. putting animals to sleep and telling everyone how sad it was. feeling better than everyone for doing such a ‘noble’ deed.
taking the shelter dogs home for a last meal and an evening in a home before putting them to sleep the next day. these are no saints. they get off on the dependency/death scenarios.
and i am not kidding you. it is a pattern of behavior. two girls i knew like this became hospice nurse/caregivers. and i have no doubt there are many more that follow the same pattern. no different than serial killers who move from small animals in their childhood to humans as they get older.
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huh. never thought of it that way. regular nurses are different i suppose. no guarantees that anyone will die and they pretty much are always hoping that won’t happen.
but with hospice and those animal shelter people, they have a guarantee that death will be the outcome every time. that’s something they choose and WANT to be a part of.
probably need people like that because they serve a purpose but really anyone who enjoys and finds pleasure in death like that must have some emotional damage and they are not the kind of people you want for relationships.
i think the comparison to serial killers is dead on. same with doctors and nurses who perform tons of abortions. scraping babies out with no remorse. putting animals or people to death for a living. all varying degrees of the same person.
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Re “caregivers”.
“In a review of 451 victims of Munchhausen by proxy (MSBP), the majority of perpetrators were biological mothers (76.5%) or fathers (6.7%).”
So a mental disorder that specializes in torture, manipulation and attention-seeking under the guise of loving care is dominated by females.
But of course, NAWALT.
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88-
Of course they were pierced with tats. Wtf happened to girls? I feel lo like a codger when I see the sh!t these girls do to themselves. Such a short trip to total depravity.
Makes me want to move to Utah and become Mormon, if only for my two young sons.
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yeah, you should seriously consider it. or at least find a smallish conservative town in your area.
i can’t imagine being a young man out there trying to find a diamond in the rough. pretty bad out there and it’s going to be at least a generation or two before things change for the better. if we’re lucky.
that’s not gonna happen fast enough for most men now unless they already have a good one.
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to add to this. if you do end up finding a small town girl, make sure she’s the type who loves that kind of life and imagines raising kids there. if you pick a girl who is chomping at the bit to move away or travel or whatever, you’ll end up with problems down the road. speaking from experience here.
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OT: If anyone wants to see how good women can lie, watch this clip of a woman who hired a hitman to kill her husband. Unbeknownst to her, the hitman was an undercover cop. The cops then set-up a fake murder scene and had the woman come to the house. Watch as she immediately bursts into tears, sobbing, with hands shaking.
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Yes. Women are what they are.
Our grandparents’ generation knew that women are exceptional liars and manipulators. They evolved that way. Somehow we’ve forgotten that.
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apropos to this thread, as i was just going to post that ‘how good a liar are you?’ is also a great opener. think of it as a qualifying variant of the ‘who lies more’ opener.
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thinking of some other terms that might work, not just as openers but as filters:
How [….] are you?:
neurotic
clingy
needy
affectionate
interesting
innocent
open-minded
horny
etc…
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the immediacy of her fake crying in response to the news that her husband was killed is the giveaway. people who are hit with shocking unexpected news don’t respond instantly the way she did – instead it takes a bit of time for it to ‘sink in’ because they can’t understand/accept/believe what they’re hearing at first. her response was immediate because she was expecting it.
plus over the top acting of course.
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yep. that’s what i was thinking too.
in reality she would be stunned and not reacting for a few seconds at least. then she’d be saying stuff like, what? what are you talking about? i don’t understand. is he hurt? what? where is he? blah blah blah. only after they confirmed with her what happened again, would she start to be emotional.
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I accept women for who they are.
In much the same way one accepts a tarantula for being a tarantula or an orca for having hatchets for teeth.
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[…] Source: Heartiste […]
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For the Korean woman I’ve been seeing for a year and a half, who is half my age,, I have taken to saying she is “great 95% of the time.” If she disobeys me or does something I dislike, I tell her she’s slipped to 94%. If she trends to better respond to or anticipate my needs I might tell her she’s up to 96%.
She is madly in love with me and I credit CH’s technique above.
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FR- in Arizona and lots of feminine blonde hotties and alot of them with kids. Slender fit with alpha dudes. Outdoorsy types. Gives me hope and makes me realize the the DC area is shit for women. Even the Hispanic chicks are attractive unlike the DC fatties.
Oh and every chick is wearing those yoga pants….every one of them. Sluttish.
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“in Arizona and lots of feminine blonde hotties and alot of them with kids.”
White women living in republican states are known to have higher birth rate compared to liberal white women in democrat states.
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“lots of feminine blonde hotties”
don’t be fooled. many are bottle blondes and trashy and 1 step away from pumping out brown mystery meat.
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which is it? feminine or outdoorsy-yoga-pants-wearing. they can’t be both.
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Black girls sometimes say ‘male.’ That and ‘caregiver,’ I’m guessing that’s it.
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“I’ll offer a suggestion here. Avoid dating any woman who use the word “male” in place of “man”, or even “guy”. This is a red flag that the woman you are talking with is a. a bitter cunt or b. a cunty feminist, and the Venn diagram on that is a perfect 100% overlap.”
This is good advice, feminists are known to try to replace the word “man” with the word “male”, because they are afraid of the word “man”, as it suggests power.
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I’ll never forget the time I was on a crowded train when a woman fainted. Another lady alerted the train driver through the communication box that Australian trains have and told him, “A female has fainted on the train!” The driver replied, “What?” The lady told him again, “A female has fainted on the train!” The driver, “A female what?” Then the lady said, “A female lady.”
It was after that incident that I began to notice that people often use female and male as nouns way too often. Maybe it was because I was around science and medical types so I kind of rationalised to be a mild form of social retardation. But then I noticed it more and more from the general population and it was a bit unnerving because it’s quite dehumanising and unnatural and really makes no sense to use it like that.
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good tip
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lol’d
http://www.dailystormer.com/sjw-faggotry-ends-trump-surging-with-millennials/
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If a solid case could be made for physiognomy, then homeboy in that first picture is their candidate. Damn. These faggots won’t make it. They’ll be the first wiped out or their own disease will do them in.
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Tinder is now “the field”. phuck this ghey earth
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DAY GAME FTW. Phuck CyberSpace. Meet the beeyotches in the flesh -n- blood.
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I love this opener,it’s an ambiguous neg and the gale’s reply breaks even more the ice and can provide interesting information from the beginning. From now on it’s my default opener.
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Americans are also just eating more: 500 more calories per day than in the 1970s, and 800 calories per day more than in the late 1950s. Most of those calories come from fats, oils, and refined grains
http://www.vox.com/2016/5/18/11704458/american-diet-changes
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yep, and it’s only going to get worse.
witness the current ‘foodie’ epidemic – people stuffing their faces as a hobby, rather than eating out of necessity. with the internet and sites like yelp, everyone’s a fucking food critic.
i’ve never seen a hot fit chick who was a foodie.
i’m also of the belief that the same lack of self control it takes to be a foodie translates into a higher propensity for sluttitude.
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yeah, and along with the foodie thing, a lot of them are into the trendy new homebrews and specialty beers.
we all know girls who prefer beer over other alcohol tend on the slutty side. with homebrew fans, you can add fat and dumpy to that as well.
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” the same lack of self control it takes to be a foodie translates into a higher propensity for sluttitude.”
interesting point. appetites gone wild!
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Most of those calories come from fats, oils, and refined grains
honestly surprised they didn’t throw sugar into that list. because that shit’s in nearly everything.
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i was surprised out that too. i’m thinking they didn’t mention it because there wasn’t such a problem with it then. they may have eaten sweets in moderation but sugar wasn’t added to every damn food imaginable like it is now.
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I engineered this 19 turned 20 year old chick into a stunner. She was a fattie when I met her and by negging her and telling her she was fat, jfc, she lost like 30 lbs. Now she sends me nude pics and I’m like holy shit, too bad ur the product of a nigger loving mom and some crazy black dude. lol
The stern, firm hand of a father figure can work wonders. Right before she moved away, she wanted to see me and fuck one last time I saw her walking toward me and I was like holy crap this chick got HAWT. She always looked gd white with a bare tan, but with an ass that flat wouldn’t quit and baby making hips with big tits. Oh well.
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There’s nothing wrong with “defensive posture” assaults, but they lack subtlety. Some would argue that females are so dense that they need a swift blockrap across the forehead, but I believe a coordinated system of attitude pushing works better.
What I mean is, rather than being like a bulldozer, dropping defensive crouch grenades on her head, press forward consistently in small to medium size ways that are congruent with your personality. The problem with the defensive crouch qualifier is that it loses some of its potency after one or two administrations, making the female think she “knows you.” On the contrary, being aggressive and certain and knocking down the woman’s self-confidence and ego, while boosting your own selfhood/image, works like a strong whitewater eroding rock. It doesn’t take long to create a patina effect, whereby you look better and better, and she looks worse and worse.
One last thing. Much of a successful interaction with a girl revolves around being entertaining. Although there is drama in the defensive crouch/qualifying maneuver, and we KNOW how girls love drama, to clock your assault on a slightly lower, but more consistent, plane fiilled with entertainment — such as being witty and amusing — is more effective. She doesn’t realize she is losing ground until she is pouring you a glass of water and smiling at you to please you.
(Please do not compare controlling a woman to domesticating a dog. A dog is a stupid, ugly beast that is genetically bred by man to obey. A woman always has in mind her own control over YOU, even after you’ve mastered her. This never goes away in her. THAT is the difference.)
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http://freenorthcarolina.blogspot.com/2016/05/the-defenestration-of-prague-coming-to.html?m=1
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off topic but great example of…eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap. only a dozen or so of the drones will actually get to mate with her. poor schmucks.
http://www.thefrisky.com/2016-05-24/nightmares-are-real-20000-bees-chased-this-car-for-two-days/
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I’ve had ridiculous amounts of success on Tinder, so I’ll throw my two cents in here.
This *is* a good all purpose opener although it could backfire if the girl thinks you’re significantly more attractive than her.
Tinder text game is slightly different from regular text game for two reasons – 1, the obvious reason being you’ve never met her, and 2)she’s already pre-selected you based almost entirely on your looks.
I reckon 90% of the girls on Tinder swipe yes to no more than about 10-15% of the men. It’s a real magnified, hardcore unforgiving version of the old 80/20 theory. Watch how even an average looking girl swipes on Tinder. It’ll really open your eyes to the mindset of the modern western woman. Hypergamy is only a swipe away…
With this in mind, girls are often matching with men they think are better looking than they are. Therefore you run a huge risk of over gaming on Tinder if you turn up the asshole too high.
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yeah. I’ve gotten to a run rate of 3-4 chicks per month on tinder, this is having a business where I’m doing shit 3 hours at night most nights, a day job, and two teenagers. I have had to recalibrate sometimes bc i get lazy…u just have to be funny with them and make some clever jokes and u can get into pants galore. Some actual decent chicks. One i banged and next night she is inviting me over to make me dinner and she’s actually a good cook.
Another made me brunch, first time I have done a 3rd date with a girl in eons, and I made sure to ask “is this clothing optional?” She’s a real decent chick, amish country blonde with DDs. The other one is from France.
Flake factor VERY high on tinder and a lot of times if you push to ensure DTFness early, they bail. Chicks actually looking for relationships. I need a better profile tho to reel in more of the really young hotties.
I keep a photo of dick tracy and I say “I’m sending a dick pic.” That always gets a laugh. I have Dick Van Dyke as a backup.
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The pro-Moslem madness continues. Where are the Feminists now ?
http://www.express.co.uk/news/world/660477/Germany-bans-sexy-women-adverts-Cologne-sex-assaults
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Photos of his daughter with her name. THE JEW has no shame.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/sf/national/2016/05/21/armed-with-guns-and-constitutions-the-patriot-movement-sees-america-under-threat/
Hi “southern poverty law center”. Fuck you. You are disgusting reptiles.
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http://www.theoccidentalobserver.net/2016/05/the-donald-trump-candidacy-a-matter-of-representation/#more-36270
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Well, avoid anybody who says “male”, except they are so strong-minded they call themselves “females” too.
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