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One Not-So-Weird Trick To Get Past Approach Anxiety

June 20, 2016 by CH

Chateau archives contain limitless wisdom, including the idea that hitting on girls while you’re battling a hangover can do wonders for your pickup success. There’s a related personal observation which I want to share with the assembled. Dressing like a slob and stinking of barn animals is an oddly effective means of hurdling chronic approach anxiety.

Very few men don’t feel at least a little anxiety in the moment between seeing a cute girl and thinking over how he’ll introduce himself. (We call those men lacking any approach anxiety, “psychopaths”. Or, “blacks”.) Obviously, some men will be more anxious than others. For these sufferers, a mental or behavioral short circuit that bypasses their anxiety modules can mean the difference between intractable incel and endless samplings from the poon poon platter.

The based brain trick works like this: Dress slovenly before going out. I’m talking white tube socks and sandals, jorts, and a ratty t-shirt with holes in the pits. Top with greasy hair. Talk to girls with flirtatious intent, making no sincere feint toward excusing your disheveled appearance. As on any day when you approach numerous girls, you’ll likely experience some female skepticism*. But unlike other times, you’ll have a scapegoat to blame for their caution*. The grist of the cognitive gimmick is your psychological instinct to pin the blame for any romantic thwarting on the most obvious culprit: your slovenliness. The benefit of this ego detour is that it grooms you away from listening to that inner voice that loves to blame your strike-outs with women on your personality or looks.

If you have a conspicuous and largely superficial fault to help explain to yourself this or that stillborn pickup attempt, then you won’t feel approach anxiety as strongly as you would if you looked sharp and thus had only the less malleable aspects of your character to blame. Do this enough times, and the quieting of your anxiety will start to stick, becoming something of a permanent fixture of your resting emotional state.

Affected slovenliness makes approaching girls more like a fun game, with little on the line that can’t be answered with a wry smirk and a raised eyebrow… “Oh, it’s my pit-stained t-shirt, isn’t it? I always forget it isn’t a hit with the ladies.”

* It’s good to reframe women’s natural leverage in the sexual market — their sexual prerogative — into a less loaded term. So stop saying a girl “rejected” you. Say instead she was skeptical or cautious or tentative. Word choice matters. You can add sting or remove sting with the words you choose to describe your seduction adventures.

FYI the greatest variable influencing any one man’s success with women is his BOLDNESS.

CH Maxim #21: In the quest for romance, boldness overcomes a lot of personal flaws. Timidity swamps a lot of personal virtues.

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  1. on June 20, 2016 at 2:55 pm Lazy Hero

    With age should come wisdom. So let me lay some wisdom on you, women never reject you, no they f’ed up, its their mistake their loss. Always know and believe this. Thus endeth the lesson.

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 3:29 pm Captain Obvious

      You are The Prize. Not she. YOU.

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      • on June 20, 2016 at 8:46 pm Laguna Beach Fogey

        Exactly.

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 10:37 pm quorasdesignatedasshole

      Being selfish is the best thing you can do to moisten pussies.

      Be selfish. Buy nice fitting tailored suits and shirts.
      Be selfish. Lift weights and eat steaks.
      Be selfish. Read and travel for fun and profits. And poon.
      Be selfish. Get rich.
      Be selfish. Give a girl as little as you can and take it all from her. Unless she proves herself worthy of more.
      Be selfish. Do whatever you want with your time – play video games, or piano…. whatever you want.
      Be selfish. Give her not a moment longer than absolutely minimum. Push your fingers into her pussy as fast as you can and ravage the fuck outta her.
      Be selfish. Move on faster than a speeding bullet if she’s a cunt.

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  2. on June 20, 2016 at 2:55 pm rugby11

    Bold in every and all moves…

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 8:00 pm Old Codger

      Too true! Last two dates (with older women), they insisted they ‘wanted to get to know me better” before any serious dalliances took place.

      I heartily agreed with their sentiments and then went right back to sticking my hands up their blouses and massaging their nipples or rubbing their mons through their slacks.

      In both instances, they replied with “Screw it, let’s go to bed!”

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  3. on June 20, 2016 at 3:09 pm One Not-So-Weird Trick To Get Past Approach Anxiety | The Alt-Right View

    […] One Not-So-Weird Trick To Get Past Approach Anxiety […]

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  4. on June 20, 2016 at 3:14 pm mendo

    Ratty gym shirt: cue Rocky

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  5. on June 20, 2016 at 3:48 pm Tenative Comment

    Looking disheveled adds to bad boy ZFG appeal. Notice how most hotties are consistently bedded by the slovenly “rock stars” who look like they haven’t showered in weeks, complete with greasy hair and torn shirt/jeans.

    Being well-dressed nowadays is great—IF YOU WANT TO LOOK LIKE A BETA WAGECUCK (the kind of beta wagecuck that settles for post-wall sluts).

    That being said, being “well-dressed” is appropriate depending on the situation/event. No need to run day game at the mall or grocery store wearing a freshly washed polo shirt, tucked into ironed pleated trousers.

    Slovenly appearance = Looking like you don’t try and are already a high-value male.

    Too well-groomed = metrosexual/gay/low-value male who has to try hard by shopping the prep section at Macy’s.

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 3:59 pm mendo

      I’ve realized this when I’m out and about and just throw on an old pair of pants and a t-shirt and just go out.

      Usually on the weekends in the morning if I’m too lazy to buy coffee and decide to buy some or visit the grocery store. I’m more in a “get the effe outta my way” mood to, so that could add to this.

      Need to test this out more.

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 4:22 pm Peter Jackson

      I think it’s worth noting that certain kinds of “slovenly” will absolutely turn chicks off. It you have long or dirty fingernails, or hair sticking out your ears or nose, forget about it.

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      • on June 20, 2016 at 4:26 pm mendo

        Slovenly groomed!

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 9:03 pm MZ

      No pleated pants

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      • on June 20, 2016 at 9:14 pm midnight toker

        correct

        no matter how old a man is, he should not still be wearing pleated pants or shorts. those have been out of fashion for decades now and they do not flatter a man’s form at all.

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      • on June 20, 2016 at 9:39 pm mendo

        Pleated pants it is!

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    • on June 21, 2016 at 6:48 am wolfie65

      All that stuff you’ve always been told you MUST do to be attractive to women – designer clothes, cologne, pull out chairs, open doors, etc. works well on females of non-dateable age, they do – usually – react well to it.
      So if you’re trying to butter up your mom, your little sister or their friends for some reason, go ahead and be an Armani-clad Gentleman.
      If we’re talking women you might actually want to bang, how you dress will have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with whether or not she rejects you.
      Neither will your cologne (or lack thereof), your behavior (barely) or your words (barely).
      Steven Tyler the plumber would never get laid.
      Steven Tyler the accountant – ditto.
      Steven Tyler the rock star – millions of times.

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  6. on June 20, 2016 at 4:12 pm JB

    Can CH do a post on Lord Byron and his natural game. His notch count was unbelievable in his time, especially in those prudish time.

    [CH: search the CH archives for “byron”. there may be old posts about the legendary ladykiller.]

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 8:54 pm J.B

      There’s some but nothing in depth like Errol Flynn or Porfirio Rubirosa a la CH in depth analysis.

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      • on June 20, 2016 at 9:39 pm Barry

        James Hunt please….

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 12:59 am Ripp

        🔥🔥🔥Barry🔥🔥🔥
        ✡

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    • on June 21, 2016 at 1:17 pm Picumnus Cernunos

      Samuel Pepys

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  7. on June 20, 2016 at 4:19 pm Peter Jackson

    “Word choice matters.”

    But our Mulatto-in-Chief just told everyone word choice doesn’t matter.
    .
    .

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 6:26 pm Publius

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chris_Murphy_(Connecticut_politician)

      cuck cuck cuck

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  8. on June 20, 2016 at 4:37 pm Haven M.

    just don’t look like chester the molester, eh?

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  9. on June 20, 2016 at 4:39 pm Hackett To Bits

    Adopt some of this guy’s cool:

    “Endurance is more important than truth…”

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    • on June 22, 2016 at 8:43 am wolfie65

      Do not, however, adopt his lifestyle choices.
      Mickey Rourke today is not a pretty sight.
      Neither are Val Kilmer or Bret Michaels.

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  10. on June 20, 2016 at 4:51 pm theasdgamer

    When I want an excuse to go out looking unkempt, I just shave my ass and walk backwards, sans trousers.

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 5:06 pm mendo

      And I thought I was the only one that did that.

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    • on June 21, 2016 at 12:24 pm Greg Eliot

      And here I thought that was just an awfully wide-jawed man about to light up his cigar..

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  11. on June 20, 2016 at 4:52 pm theasdgamer

    I always go out in stuff I get from Walmart & Goodwill, lol. “Anticipating CH” Game

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    • on June 21, 2016 at 6:59 am wolfie65

      Thrift shops, flea markets, yard sales, Army/Navy surplus stores ftw.
      Sometimes, I find perfectly usable clothes on the street, like a black bandanna the other day, already slightly worn & torn for added Rambo cool…..

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  12. on June 20, 2016 at 4:55 pm ron

    This might be the greatest CH post of all time.

    Suggestion: keep all political comments out of this one, and put this at the top of the archive links.

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  13. on June 20, 2016 at 4:55 pm Publius

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 4:55 pm Publius

      Trump’s new communication director.

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      • on June 20, 2016 at 4:58 pm Publius

        http://www.erinelmore.com

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 5:40 pm Publius

      “It’s about me me me me me succeeding!!! <3" "LOL some of my friends don't like Trump but they want to see me me me me me have fun!!!!"

      http://www.philly.com/philly/entertainment/celebrities/20160616_Erin_Elmore__From_QVC_to_RNC.html

      God damn it, this is serious. I know he has no choice, but it is fucking bullshit that Ms Tits/Pretty Face gets these gigs while tens of thousands of white men are unemployed.

      Come on Trump — you had better be serious about the real revolution. White girls (children) need their dads to have a career that can support a family.

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      • on June 20, 2016 at 6:35 pm Ironpusher

        It’s all about branding my friend, Glorious Leader is a master showman.

        Donald+Trump=Hot young poon & fuck you money

        Hillary+Clinton=Nasty old bull dikes & saggy man boobs

        MAKE AMERICA GREAT AGAIN!

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      • on June 20, 2016 at 6:57 pm Coldwarvet

        Well, color me impressed. She’s a great choice for this high profile position, with all the right boxes checked, and just imagine the effect this will have on all the lefty hags out there – a good looking, accomplished gal (who first came “on the scene” on Trump’s Celebrity Apprentice – natch!) who’s a wife and a mother. The other guy wasn’t “getting it done.” I call this genius.

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 7:36 am wolfie65

        Down with the fugstablishment !
        Make America Young & Hot Again !!

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  14. on June 20, 2016 at 5:16 pm Sean Fielding

    CH Maxim #21 needs re-wording to: ‘In the quest for romance, boldness TRUMPS a lot of personal flaws. Timidity swamps a lot of personal virtues.’

    And the near-rhyme is literally poetry.

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  15. on June 20, 2016 at 5:48 pm Publius

    Our fears about Ivanka’s (((husband))) are confirmed. Trump is not the answer. We’ve been played. “Straight shooter” 42 year old white men (aka realtalkers) out. (((They))) and 27 year old playboy models are in.

    #freedom

    http://www.cnn.com/2016/06/20/politics/corey-lewandowski-out-as-trump-campaign-manager/index.html

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 7:19 pm mendo

      In one year, Trump’s gone from laughing stock when he announced his bid to the presumptive Republican nominee (RNC shenannigans notwithstanding) and soon-to-be-President.

      To paraphrase what PA said a while back: I’ll stick with him as he’s come this far and rewritten all the political rulebooks.

      Bane: Now’s not the time for fear. That comes later. Fear of how awesome shit’s gonna be!

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      • on June 20, 2016 at 7:32 pm Ironpusher

        That and the fact that he endlessly torments The Monkey King. Evidenced by the fact that he can no longer go a day without putting on his honky voice to tell us all what a big mistake we’re making.

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  16. on June 20, 2016 at 5:53 pm Ponce du Lion

    CH you have to write a book, too much wisdom for being compiled in the form of radom posts.
    Lack of systematic organization rape!!

    Although I have to said that in this post in particular I have a complete opposite experience. Dress attractive puts me in a abundance mindset(and situations).

    But I’ll always regard dress like the dude in the back for some lolzlzlzozs

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 5:56 pm Ponce du Lion

      Dress and Smell

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  17. on June 20, 2016 at 6:16 pm Nads

    The attitude dictates that you don’t care if she comes, stays, lays or prays. I mean, whatever happens, your toes are tapping. Now when you got that, you got the attitude.

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 7:50 pm uh

      Dig that jive daddyo

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      • on June 20, 2016 at 9:00 pm mendo

        Like sick, man, sick!

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      • on June 20, 2016 at 9:07 pm Lucius Somesuch

        You remember how to tango, (((baby)))?

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  18. on June 20, 2016 at 6:19 pm Publius

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jared_Kushner

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  19. on June 20, 2016 at 6:41 pm Publius

    https://www.nraila.org/articles/20160617/pro-clinton-college-professor-repeal-second-amendment

    (((David Cohen))).

    Every. God. Damned. Mother. Fucking. Single. Time.

    #freedom

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 8:10 pm Captain Obvious

      David S Cohen, Drexel University & Rolling Stone Magazine

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      • on June 20, 2016 at 8:43 pm jr

        http://www.theoccidentalobserver.net/2016/02/jews-and-jewish-organizations-lead-the-gun-control-campaign/

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 6:57 am Anon

        We all know this, but FYI if (((one))) thinks the Second Amendment should be repealed, (((one))) is not qualified to even be a licensed lawyer, let alone a law professor teaching students in law school. Truly unbelievable.

        Either his type is pure evil or (((they))) are truly not able to understand Anglo-based constitutional and civil law. I am starting to think they are naturally communists and it has to do with their biological history as a wandering tribe in the desert. (((They))) (((are))) communism. Even the jew goggles (horn rimmed glasses) they now have all the blonde shiksa women wearing on billboards come from their hero (I won’t type his name) from the 1950s who was a revolutionary communist. The goggles, in 2016, truly are a self-imposed yellow start. Stupid feminists think they are hipster glasses or trendy, but it is literally a sign that you are on Team Communist Tribe, and (((they))) are literally laughing every time they see our pretty white women wearing the goggles. All the pretty Christian pop stars from Taylor Swift to Katie Perry wear them.

        (((They))) named a road after the communist hero (that’s the elected state legislature doing that) in some midwest state to punish a group of white nationalists (and flaunt their power) who had lawfully bought land to try to create a white safe space (in real life). There is a movie about it on Jewflix. Some supposed expose of a “white supremacist” and it’s unintentionally hilarious to any red pill man who gets it — all of the cucked anti-white idiots come off as retarded.

        Second Amendment is about protection from TYRANNY — not that we can do anything anymore unless the majority of the armed forces and local police decide to be oath keepers — and (((he))) is literally on the side of tyranny!!! It’s not even about the right to own an AR-15 style autoloading (but not fully automatic) rifle. It’s true that George Washington, Alexander Hamilton, John Jay, James Madison, et al. could not conceive of such a weapon. But that’s not even the point.

        For a law PROFESSOR to openly call for the repeal of the Second Amendment evidences extreme evil (traitorous behavior) or extreme stupidity and lack of understanding of the very FOUNDATION OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA. Those are the only 2 possibilities.

        It does not take great research or mental skills to understand this. The briefing in Heller and other 2nd Amendment cases is freely available and easy to find with a google search. Anyone can read all about the true meaning of the Second Amendment, the state of “gun control” laws from the 13th through the 19th centuries, and it is easy to understand that the libtards are so wrong that the issue should not even be debatable.

        Jewish lawyers think “every argument is fair play” and the only thing that matters is winning. Whereas Anglo lawyers and actual anglo-based law requires some sense of “right” and “wrong” and there are limits, such as not boldly lying to a court or jury about facts or law. Watch a movie about OJ Simpson and Barry (((Scheck))) to see what I’m talking about. Garbage like Bary Scheck and this law professor are gainfully employed and wealthy, while actually good Anglo lawyers who understand the Constitution are unemployed or underemployed, working as grunts.

        Then I see a jewish woman go on Fox News as a supposed republican (not possible — no Jewish woman can be a republican) and lecture us about “nepotism.”

        Unbelievable Chutzpuh. They lack the ability to perceive, or don’t care, how they are perceived by the goyim.

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 8:33 am plumpjack

        “I am starting to think they are naturally communists and it has to do with their biological history as a wandering tribe in the desert….”

        Yes. Thousands of years of history and yet (((they))) never managed to build a country? Very telling. It’s genetic.

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    • on June 20, 2016 at 9:04 pm )))WSoH(((

      When does the kikery end

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    • on June 21, 2016 at 1:10 am Ripp

      “Every. God. Damned. Mother. Fucking. Single. Time.”

      There’s a reason the Alt-right has labeled (((them))).

      (((They))) must hate seeing the truth bubble to the top and the masses finding out.

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 11:40 am Barry

        Captain Obvious < Ripp < Marc

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 12:32 pm Marc

        Barry – we are not worthy.
        All – for some tight slovenly dressing game, check this out — t shirt with a spray-painted rune of some sort on it sported by a dude who, never mind skipping leg day, has never had an arm day in his life. And who does he score? Unser Tay-tay:
        (Pic won’t post)
        http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1224117/Taylor-Swift-racism-row-posing-fan-wearing-swastika-shirt.html

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 12:44 pm Marc

        Pro tip: slovenly dressing game is better than scat game, no matter how tight the latter — less mess to clean up after you get the lay lol
        Ask me how I know!

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 9:48 pm Ripp

        (((barry)))
        The whole burnt offering.

        🔥🔥🔥✡🔥🔥🔥

        🐙

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    • on June 21, 2016 at 9:54 am Unacknowledged_Legislator

      Edwin Vieira: The Sword and Sovereignty is available at Amazon.com. It is a study of the actual constitutional “right of the people to keep and bear Arms” in the Second Amendment in its inextricable relation to “the Militia of the several States,” as opposed to the historically inaccurate and legally indefensible so-called “individual right to keep and bear arms” on which almost all contemporary advocates of the Second Amendment fixate. I describe “the individual right to keep and bear arms” as legally indefensible because fundamentally it is a right in name only, inasmuch as it lacks an effective remedy if an highly organized and armed tyranny sets out to suppress it, whereas the true “right of the people to keep and bear Arms” exercised in the context of “well regulated Militia” is the Constitution’s own preferred remedy against usurpation and tyranny in their every aspect. Even though the Second Amendment is very much the subject of contemporary political debate, I seem to be one of the very few commentators saying as much − which, in these days of rampant legal and political confusion, misinformation and disinformation, is probably very convincing evidence that I am correct.

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 12:13 pm Greg Eliot

        You sound like just another bloviator…

        “The right of the people to keep and bear arms”… news for ya, sheister… people are, in fact, individuals.

        And if you want to argue that there has to be a “well-regulated Militia” in order to secure a Free State, then you’re pretty much giving the gummint carte blanche on defining exactly what a “well-regulated Militia” entails.

        Hell, even the term “well-regulated” means you’re giving the State the upper hand, which in turn is currently in thrall to the Federal, so if that were the true intention, the amendment contradicts its own purpose.

        The simplest explanation is often the truest… “right of the people to keep AND BEAR arms” is plain enough… all else is Satanic squid ink of the most lawyerly… hence odious… claptrap verbiage.

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    • on June 21, 2016 at 12:16 pm Greg Eliot

      Of course (((they))) want gun control, if not outright banning… if only the gummint bulldogs have guns, then (((those))) who can unleash said bulldogs have the monopoly on violence.

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 12:43 pm Unacknowledged_Legislator

        Greg: I didn’t write it. I’m just citing a constitutional expert. He (Vieira) is verbose and Ocams razor works for me. I’m more worried about the .Gov though than a lone Islamojackass. DHS et al. been sending out RFPs to capture massive amounts of ammo in effect corning the market.

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 1:45 pm Greg Eliot

        My bad, it sounded to me like you were giving it a personal Seal of Approval.

        I’ve been hearing about the DHS buying up ammo for awhile now. I’ve often said, there’ll be no need to confiscate guns… when the time comes, they’ll just legislate the buying and selling of ammo, and/or create shortages to the general public.

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 2:12 pm Unacknowledged_Legislator

        A buddy of mine is on a case across the bay bridge heading towards the ocean about a dude that’s been gun-running; big enough that its a Federal case. Anyway, maybe patriots will merge :biker gangs, outlaws, oath keepers and alt-right to secure the damn country. Libs are anti-fitness and anti-life.

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  20. on June 20, 2016 at 9:18 pm Omar

    I’ve always subconsciusly felt this. The opposite also happens. When I dress too sharp, too clean, too fancy, with a perfect haircut, I feel on edge. I feel like my flaws are somehow magnifed, I’m never at ease, and my body language feels rigid

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  21. on June 20, 2016 at 11:09 pm carlos danger

    http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2016-06-20/big-guns-are-out-soros-rothschild-warn-brexit-doom-osborne-threatens-suspending-mark

    Satan speaks

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  22. on June 21, 2016 at 3:36 am Musing Alpha

    In one of the follow ups to The Game (I think it was Rules of the Game) in his 30 days plan he recommends not showering for one day and essentially doing the same thing. I did it way back in the day and approached maybe about 20-25 women in one day. It was a great confidence building exercise.

    Another great exercise I learned from a guy who did outside sales. It was essentially his job to call down the phone book (yeah shows you how dated my game learning experience is these days) to get leads that then got forwarded on to his boss. He would make like 300-400 calls a day. One day I tried just making 20-30 cold calls to ask people questions like “what is the weather like you in town” or just to sell them an imaginative product. Worked well too. Really broke down my shyness by a huge degree. Just make sure to use a Burner number or block the caller ID. I remember I got one old guy who yelled at me called me back a few days later and kept leaving nasty voicemails for like three weeks.

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  23. on June 21, 2016 at 4:41 am tspark156

    Self expectation management.

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  24. on June 21, 2016 at 4:44 am Mr Bigglesworth

    This subject reminds me of something called “Uncanny Valley”. When an object is clearly unhuman ( think Toy Story ) then our minds can easily accept it. But when something is bordering on human – but still not quite – we laser focus on the small details that are “off”. No matter how technically impressive and life-like a humanoid robot may be, the small details that give it away as not-quite-perfect, give us the creeps.

    Similarly, the slovenly dressed are clearly not trying to impress anyone. No two ways about it – they are 100% casual. Fine. But the man who’s trying to get every detail right, opens himself up to much greater scrutiny. And ironically, he’s often judged even more harshly.

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uncanny_valley

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    • on June 21, 2016 at 7:08 am Kyo

      No matter how technically impressive and life-like a humanoid robot may be, the small details that give it away as not-quite-perfect, give us the creeps.

      Something similar happens when you’re in a foreign country/culture, have learned the language very well, but still look like you come from somewhere else. People get weirded out by how well you speak the language and start focusing on the tiny mistakes you still make rather than being impressed by the fact that you’re 99% of the way to sounding like a native.

      As a Westerner living in Japan, I am much more popular back “home” for this reason. Here I would have to strategically dumb down my Japanese so that it has the right balance of foreign accent mixed with unambiguous meaning. The men who can manage this in their adopted lands probably make out the best.

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  25. on June 21, 2016 at 6:37 am Jack H

    Love this post and here to back it up with some experience. Here’s a 100% true story that fits exactly in with this.

    In my early twenties (34 now), I was in college and a big party guy. I needed a job and one morning, very hungover, borderline drunk, I just started driving around looking for jobs. Drove up to Chuck E Cheese to get an application but mostly just amuse myself. So the manager comes out and I look like a giant piece of shit, grimy hungover. She’s actually extremely hot, petite blonde. So I’m treating the whole thing like a joke, being flirty and callous as usual, she’s eating it up. Her mind was basically saying, who the hell is this guy just shows up and jokes around does whatever he wants. So she’s smiling and finally she says “ok, why are you even here, this is obviously not a job for you”. I tell her, i’m just having fun but hey let me try on the Chuck E suit. Sure as shit, she brings me into the back room, and lets me change into it. So I’m just screwing around in Chuck E Cheese in the costume, jumping in the ball pit, playing with the kids, etc. Eventually I get bored and am going to leave, she tells me obviously she can’t give a job, but here’s her number, she’s free tonight.

    She comes over that same night, and I f*ck her brains out within 15 minutes of her coming over. She must’ve been thinking about me all damn day.

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    • on June 21, 2016 at 7:52 am Captain Obvious

      The only way this story could be more perfect is if she pushed out your ch!ld nine months later.

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 8:25 am Jack H

        No baby. But she did have a clit ring. First time I’d ever seen one in person. Also first time I realized how big of whores girls with clit rings are.

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 8:28 am Nads

        I don’t know. If they ended up back at CeC, she wanted him to put the Mouse suit back on and he tapped her in the ball pit it would be pretty good.

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  26. on June 21, 2016 at 9:03 am Subway Masturbator

    Fantastic positive advice. I used to be a (mediocre) programmer, and when all else failed in debugging, I would deliberately introduce a mistake to gain information about how and why the program didn’t work. Sort of like this advice.

    That kept the moolah flowing until I acquired my more sensible gubmint job.
    I want to thank all of you for subsidizing my pension so I can ride the subway, making your hot wives nauseous; then at night, rousting you Mustache Boy Masturbators from their falsely assumed lair of safety here.

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    • on June 21, 2016 at 12:02 pm Greg Eliot

      Sounds like your skillset in unwarranted, yet self-congratulatory bloviation… or, as you kikes put it, chutzpah… far exceeds your software engineering acumen.

      Then again, you (ahem) frontrunners of nepotism always did show more blow than go.

      Avaunt, pismire… men are talking here.

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  27. on June 21, 2016 at 9:27 am anon

    The Jewish mind on due process: if he HAD thrown a rock, executing him on the street without trial would have been okay. http://www.cnn.com/2016/06/21/middleeast/israel-palestinians-west-bank-shooting/index.html

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    • on June 21, 2016 at 9:28 am anon

      The Jew is the reason for Arabic terrorism and the fact that foreign nations hate us for (((our))) interventionism. It’s all because of Israel. When foreigners think of “America”, they think of actions taken because of (((their))) control.

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 11:46 am Barry

        True data bit no one asked white Europeans to sell out and especially fight for (((communism))) in WW2 and against their own interests.
        (((They))) control the purse strings and white Europeans sold their souls, nations etc.

        (((Barry)))

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      • on June 21, 2016 at 2:09 pm Enfant Terrible

        Exactly. The Muslim can live in peace with the west, as long as the west stays out of its lands, and the Muslim stays out of Christian lands.

        This is logic, and it is the way it should be. Muslims have cultural expectations that are different from ours, and living among the infidels cannot be a happy experience for them, and therefore they should not be allowed to live in the west.

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  28. on June 21, 2016 at 10:53 am whorefinder

    OT: on Mangan’s “stop eating all the time” tweet/link:

    Tom Naughton (of the Fathead documentary) and Mark Sisson (of Mark’s Daily Apple) have talked about this before. I’ve done the intermittent fasting (IF) for the last few months and it’s been a lot easier to keep weight down or drop it when need be than paleo with no IF.

    Here’s a tip: IF doesn’t just mean fasting for a full day. It can also mean only eating during an 8-hour period every day (10 hour period for women, because WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT).

    In other words, if you eat on a regular schedule and then never eat outside that schedule, that’s IF. So only eat between 10am-4pm, or 12pm-8pm, or some other 8 hour period that works for you, but make sure you never break that routine day in, day out.

    It’s a great addition to a paleo diet and really helps.

    Diet rape!

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    • on June 21, 2016 at 11:08 am mendo

      Good reminder on the eating window. I think at times people tend to complicate things and question when the fast should begin, but by focusing on the eating window, it should help clarify.

      Mark’s Daily Apple is a good website.

      Great minds rape!

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  29. on June 21, 2016 at 11:35 am Anonymous

    “Who dares, wins.” The motto of the SAS.

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    • on June 21, 2016 at 12:18 pm oink

      what’s the TFR of those manginas?

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    • on June 21, 2016 at 2:33 pm whorefinder

      “Fortune favors the bold.”
      –Anonymous

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  30. on June 21, 2016 at 4:24 pm Survivorman

    Dressing like a slob; CHECK
    Smelling like a barn animal; Working on it..

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