You’re on a first date with a girl. During the date, she conspicuously scratches and rubs her nose. Red-faced, she explains that when she’s nervous her nose twitches and itches uncontrollably. You reply:
A. Warm smile: “Aw, don’t worry about it. My nose itches like that when I’m nervous, too.”
B. Sly smirk: “I see that charm school tuition really paid off.”
C. Frown: “Damn, gross.”
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The astute reader will note the given replies are representative of the major dating male archetypes: the beta, the charming jerkboy, the asshole. Two of those three you don’t want to be (and one you definitely never want to be). The lesson here is that newbs often confuse jerkboy charisma and assholery as the same thing, when they are very different, in execution if not in substance.