A reader provides a field pic of a fat man with a skinny girl, adding,
Photo taken at the grocery store (heh).
Didn’t get her face but a 7.5. Slim little thing Well dressed. Boyfriend was a slob. Perfect proof confidence matters.
Yes, confidence matters for men. (Not so much for women. A confident fat girl will still be a romantic loser.) A confident fat man — whether his confidence is an irrational act of willpower or a rational self-appraisal based on his compensating sexy attributes like charisma, money, humor, or outcome independent ZFG jerkboy attitude — will have little trouble scoring a cute lithesome thing.