Emailer M has a Game question concerning girls who needle men about their pasts.
Any quick tips for being in a relationship where a female frets about your past? I’m a frequent recipient of shit tests regarding my ‘fuckboy’ past. Example: ‘you’re so good at ____, you must have done this a lot of other girls’.
I’ll start with one I used in the past with wondrous success: “I was thinking about you every time” (for use after an extended break).
Hopefully these can help other readers in similar situations.
Agree&Amplify is your best friend in these situations.
FLARING FURROW: “you’re so good at _____, you must have done this with a lot of other girls.”
TRUMP’S IDOL: “practice makes perfect.”
If she persists (like thecunt didn’t), and Agree&Amplify isn’t leading her out of rummaging through your past, then you move on to DEFCUNT 2: LAY DOWN THE LAW.
PUCKERING PUSSY: “how many girls have you been with, seriously?”
HE WHOM TRUMP CONSULTS: “a normal amount. keep pestering me with this crap and you can join them.”
Generally, girls who are truly worried about your past and what it might mean for the present with you, won’t directly verbalize those worries, especially not in the glib manner that M relays here. So if a girl you’re with is sneaking in coy, quasi-flirtatious jabs about your past relationships with girls, she’s just winding herself up for a big drama fix. Many such cases. A numerically imposing number of women love manufacturing drama, because modern society with all its technocomforts, office cubicle desouling, and forcible betatization sucks the drama, and the essential sexual polarity, out of relationships.
To retrieve a semblance of that missing drama, girls will sometimes dig for juicy nuggets in your romantic past. This serves two purposes: One, it can alleviate her concern that she may have hitched her womb wagon to a beta mule with a thin romantic history, and two, it helps invigorate her flagging libido when she suspects she has to compete with the vagina power of girls cum before her.
A guide for interpreting girls’ fretting about your past:
- If you receive no questions from a girl about your romantic history, she’s not fully invested in you. She still has too much relationship hand.
- If you receive an occasional half-serious question from a girl about your romantic history, she’s worried just the right amount that you might be too good for her. Expect sheet-twisting sex soon.
- If you receive a constant, irritating barrage of leaden questions from a girl about your romantic history, she’s either stalker material or rationalizing her utter lack of interest in you. Deploy A&A and DEFCUNT 2, and if those fail, beat her to the dumping.