Western Civilization will continue its long-term downward spiral until the sexual market rebalances to a pre-poz norm in which women paid a social and marital price for attention whoring and cock carouseling. As Taleb might put it, women must have “soft skin in the game”, or they won’t accurately assess sexual and marriage market risks and will play with reckless abandon.
Removing all constraints on female sexuality while maximally restricting male sexuality is the exact opposite of soft skin in the game. It strips consequences from female behavior while burdening beta males with higher costs and smaller rewards.
I thought of this while relaying the story about the tennis pro thot who whores for attention on Instawhore and is shocked, shocked she tells you that so many millions of thirsty beta males now follow her to fap to her every bosom-thrust selfie.
Commenter T: if you want to read some seriously disingenuous horseshit, check out this:
sample:
In a culture that worships beauty, Spiranac has hit the genetic lottery: luscious golden hair, sparkling blue eyes, porcelain skin and a figure curvier than 17 Mile Drive. But she has always had a complicated relationship with her appearance, going back to a traumatic childhood beset by physical maladies. From the moment she became an accidental Instagram sensation, she has been objectified on a global scale. Ever since, Spiranac has been fighting to regain control of her sense of self. Her reaction to the first rush of Internet fame, in the summer of 2015, remains instructive: “I’ll never forget the day the craziness began,” says her mother, Annette. “She was getting thousands of new Instagram followers every hour. We were visiting my husband’s relatives and Paige was in her room, laying on the floor in a fetal position, crying. She kept saying, ‘I don’t know why this is happening. I’m so scared.’ You’re talking about a girl who has always been shy and introverted. She simply couldn’t process the attention.”
So Paige is a pathological liar as well as attention whore. Great combo in a wife! /sarcasm. Because as we all must know, taking erotic selfies with a huge shit-eating come hither smirk and deliberately posting them to social media is exactly the expressiveness one would expect from a shy and introverted woman utterly perplexed that she has horny Instagram followers. /Dcupsarcasm. “fetal position” lol that her pr agent/mom expects us to believe this load of spin.
No soft skin in the game means girls are liable to make the same mistakes over and over. Without honest social feedback and costs to pay for making bad decisions, girls will even lose the ability to know when they are diminishing their asset value.
Current Year girls with no soft skin in the game are blissfully unaware of the disgust they inspire in men when they casually mention past bad relationships with assholes, as Paige did when she admitted in print, and thus to her fiance, that before she met him she had had a lot of Netflix and chill fuck sessions in which she demanded no payment in nuptial servitude from her lovers. The Slut Life + the Thirst Life have become so ingrained in US culture — in assertion if not in actual practice — that displeasing men is an autonomic twitch in women.
I know one thot who casually bragged to a man she had been dating for a month that she went through so many men in the past year that her expectations sky-rocketed and he should be proud he made the grade. She said this as if it would open new and exciting conversational avenues to accelerate their bonding process. It ended two weeks later.
Skankitude has consequences, even for hotties like Paige. They may be subtle consequences, but they exist. (For instance, beta hubby will over the years show her increasing disrespect and contempt). I’ve seen it happen. The contempt comes pre-wall, intensifying with the years. Little slights to which women are acutely sensitive coming from men start to add up, like emotional distancing, verbal snapping, and spiteful innuendo. And let’s not forget that hot sloots are also more likely to abandon their marriages to beta chumps, which hurts the sloots as well since women have exponentially more difficulty in the dating market after age 25.
Wives or girlfriends with slutty pasts (and a predilection for present day attention whoring) tend to lose their men’s adoration. The hotter the thot, the slower the adoration erosion, but nevertheless it persists. Whatever system was in place to remind women in so many grandmotherly words of wisdom of these unpleasant realities is gone now, and the Instawhore id is out of her cage, hungry for empty calories. The end game isn’t pretty: the death of romance and the corruption of love.

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“I’ll never forget the day the craziness began,” says her mother, Annette. “She was getting thousands of new Instagram followers every hour. We were visiting my husband’s relatives and Paige was in her room, laying on the floor in a fetal position, crying. She kept saying, ‘I don’t know why this is happening. I’m so scared.’
Another problem with that story is that she did not wake up one morning with that body…that does not happen overnight, it happens over many months or years
she had that body “grow” on her for months or years and everywhere she went men must had been ogling her, or paying her compliments or saying dirty things to her or whistling or whatever, and if she went to a bar there must have been two dozen men who tried to approach her…not only in bars at the 7/11 the gas station, everyfuck’nwhere!!
it is completely impossible no one had ever noticed her body, and that she had never had a lot of attention from hordes of men…ok maybe not thousands as on the internet but still a large enough number for her to be very very aware she was getting 20 times more attention than the other girls.
how could she be so shocked men found her body sexually attractive unless she was living in a convent all that time before she discovered the internet and was wearing a nun habit ( or whatever it is called in English ) every day.
she ad her mother are lying.
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yeah, she knew she was attractive or she wouldn’t have gotten the idea to start slutting it up on instagram in the first place.
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From the moment she became an accidental Instagram sensation, she has been objectified on a global scale
Paige was in her room, laying on the floor in a fetal position, crying.
Well I guess these photos were taken by some evil patriarchy force and publish subsequently on Instagram
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objectified on a global scale
fetal position
lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
not only an epic attention whore but a gigantic liar
And for the record I do not find her that attractive
That plastic perfection with no human touch
But as Kundera said
No matter how we scorn it kitsch is an integral part
of human condition
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I’m with you on that plastic perfection thing, I do not like it.
Sometimes a “girl next door” type has way more charm with her small imperfections.
I said small imperfections… not 50 pounds over weight or a nose big enough for Seinfeld to write an episode about it.
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i agree with you both
she’s hot by general standards. not going to deny that.
but when i first saw the picture of her i was just meh, she looks like all the other instragram whores and wannabe models/actresses. nothing new to see here.
nothing special or memorable about her whatsoever. in a line up of ten other girls i would not be able to identify her. she was that unmemorable to me.
i need a little more than a barbie clone to get me interested anymore. a girl’s gotta have at least a little something interesting or unique about her to catch my interest.
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The other tell is the YEARS of practice it takes to learn how to slather the theatrical pancake makeup all over her face, p0rn-star style. And then, once the years of practice are under her belt, the HOURS of grueling labor it takes each day to slather it on once again. No utterly innocent girl has experiences like that under her belt.
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the 17 year old like that everyone wants her and I imagine it could be overwhelming and scary sometimes
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Anything and everything any woman says must be taken with a commercial oil tanker load of salt.
If a woman says “Hi” , she’s probably ly1ng – or ‘testing’ you.
Or both.
Attractive girls KNOW what effect they have on the males of the species by the time they’re about 4 or 5.
They may not know exactly how or why, but they KNOW.
What may have put her in a f3t@l position – taking the YOOGE leap of faith that any part of herstory is actually true – is not the fact that she was receiving tons of attention from men, but that the vast majority of this attention did not come from the type of men she (read: all women) wants to receive attention from.
In short: too many Danny deVitos, not enough Christian Grays.
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She seems to have gotten over her initial fear quite well. /s
O/T I heard a good label recently for alot of today’s modern women: “DNA Girls.”
Dicks and attention girls… also nicely implies their need to acquire high value sperm prior to living on “no daddy lane”.
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Skin in the game? Sounds like a visit to worldtinderwomen.com is in order http://www.worldtinderwomen.com/
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The mother of my children “auditioned” me in bed the day after we met, bragging that she had had 75 guys before me. So what? I had two genetic-miracle children with her DNA.
This tennis pro sounds like she has the genetics I would be looking for if I were in the marriage market. What are *you* guys looking for?
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gross
do you call them miracles because it was a miracle she could even get pregnant after all the STDs and abortions she had after being with that many men?
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She got you to qualify yourself, faggot. Shit tested right out the box and you fell for it.
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I told the bitch I wasn’t putting in the effort to fuck her lol
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son that will impregnate every bitch in us
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Give her my regards.
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Well, congratulations, Mr. 76.
Do we have a Beta of the Year winner here, gentlemen?
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Well, assuming the ‘field report’ is true, he does have 2 kids with a hottie.
Doesn’t sound ‘Beta’ to me.
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shut up wolfie, your stupid is showing again
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Mission Accomplished Soldier 76! At ease!
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Or Jedi Geek could be a female commenter.
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Good point. Reading it again, you may have hit the nail on the head, sir.
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More to the point, she’s most likely Mr. 76th’s wife… still trolling for attention.
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That was immediately apparrent to me as well. It reeks of feminist rationalization of the female id, fighting their would-that-it-were-so war upon reality. “No really, Mr. Man, the fact that my gates have been battered down hundreds of times means that my standards are getting, like, SUPER high now! The more schlong-impactions I brace myself for, the more precious a diamond I become!”
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Wolfie, come on! If “he’s” telling the truth, that’s beta as shit.
Jedi Geek – Wolfie thinks you married a hottie. Pics or it didn’t happen.
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Wolfie, come on! If “he’s telling the truth, that’s beta as shit.
Jedi Geek – Wolfie thinks you have a hot wife. Pics or it didn’t happen
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Somehow I don’t think a high-SMV man would choose the handle “Jedi Geek”.
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Good point. Pics or Jedi Geek is a beta retard.
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Even if jg is nominally male, it’s obvious who wears the pants in his house.
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Obviously, because he’s a “Jedi” and it’s a “robe” not a dress.
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Were all 75 named Henry?
…..
She’s been “married” 75 times before,
And every one was an ‘enery
‘ENERY!
Wouldn’t take a Willie or a Sam.
My name is ‘enery,
‘Enery the “Eighth” I am.
K Greg alone might “get” this …
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Ol’ Henry Tudor’s got nothin on you baby!
…..
She’s been “married” 75 times before
And every one was an ‘Enery, ‘ENERY!
Wouldn’t take a Willie or a Sam
My name is ‘Enery
Enery the 76th I am!
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And I’ll bet every one was an ‘Enery ‘ENERY!
Wouldn’t take a Willie or a Sam …
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The end game isn’t pretty: the death of romance and the corruption of love.
As a furrowing tradcon, I couldn’t agree more with this. This is the consequence of the wholesale jettisoning of at least normative monogamy in western society, and the associative pairing that it engenders. Now that poly(gamy) is no longer in its cast iron cage, the game theoretic mating strategies that were optimized for monogamy are upended and a new set of strategies are introduced.
Feminists, you demanded a rule change for yourselves while requiring that men act from the old playbook. Guess what: It doesn’t work that way. L’armée des heartistes wrote up new battle plans, and you’re being routed. The next phase for you is regret for what you’ve lost: Love, Family, Children, Homes.
There is a way out: drop the misandrosy and solipsism. Regain a bit of humility and cooperate with the men who would love you. Don’t waste your youth on perverse frivolities and jejune spirituality. It requires a bit of emotional, metaphysical, and sexual self-discipline on your part (and on men’s part) but the rewards are worth it. It certainly beats a life of barren emptiness and perpetually full litter-boxes.
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‘Romance’ is something men invented to blind themselves to the true nature of women.
Love is something you get from a dog.
Or from those creatures who fill up the litter boxes you mentioned.
I do understand that the REAL workings of an open s3xu@l market are extremely threatening to tradcons.
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I do understand that the REAL workings of an open s3xu@l market are extremely threatening to tradcons.
Actually, for a tradcon like me it’s very interesting, not threatening. I’ve been happily married to a very pretty and traditional wife for >20 years, with 4 kids (that’s for you CO), so I’m definitely off the s3xu@l market.
My concern derives from just the misery I’ve seen around me. Decent young men and women in their twenties unhappy with the prospect of finding a mate, forming a family, and having children. Beta chicks thinking the next alpha male will commit. Beta dudes buzzing like bees around the very girls they would have married 40 years ago, desperate for a taste of honey. Pr0n, which was at one time thought to be liberating is now shown to be destructively addictive. And, the no holds barred s3xu@l rights paradigm ends up metastasizing to the point where even young children’s innocence is robbed from them.
On a larger level, it’s pretty much self evident that every polygamous society (either the open polygamy in sub-Sahara Africa which emphasizes female fertility or the closed polygamy in the Islamic world which emphasizes female chastity) is violent and/or dysfunctional with hoards of unmarriageable men who are now taking boats to places, like Europe, where there is more hope of finding a mate (and free stuff) than where they came from. If monogamy is rejected in the West, how long does it take until it devolves into something similar?
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And also threatening to the rule of law, property rights, and what’s known as civilized society. All of which cease to exist with a truly wide open SMP.
Laissez-faire capitalistic economic system = economic growth.
Laissez-faire SMP with completely unrestrained female choice = economic contraction,
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Only the first line above was meant to be in bold font. Sorry about the slip up…
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Don’t be a fool; litter box fillers don’t give a figurative shit about the person who empties the box. That’s why women adore cats so much; cats are the pinnacle of zfg and alpha behaviors.
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T, Welcome to the Chateau.
“a life of barren emptiness and perpetually full litter-boxes”
and TOXOPLASMA GONDII.
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Tipsy, as a well-ensconced tradcon of some 10 years, and as a radically orthodox Catholic Reactionary Monarchist of the past 4 years, allow me to tell you that you are well and truly wasting your breath. Very, very few women have any real initiative or substantive agency. Admonishing them to avoid “perverse frivolities and jejune spirituality,” or encouraging them to develop self-discipline of any kind – let alone “emotional, metaphysical and sexual!” – as though they were autonomous individuals with the power to do so, is folly.
What are the universal refrains of the White Man’s greatest monuments of culture, from ancient and pagan myths through to the latter-day operas written as the whelms of Liberalism began to extinguish our civilizational hearth-fires? “Woman is vain!” “Woman is fickle!” “Woman is deceitful!” The neurotic, manipulative, anxious, self-deceiving quality of the woman was well-known to them. Yes, doubtless these men that built the greatest civilization on the planet were mere misogynists, who had no powers of accurate observation or analysis…
In the best of circumstances, when the whole culture was oriented towards reminding people of the need to suppress their vices and grow in the virtues, and when the West was flooded with supernatural graces from valid Sacraments and true communion in the orthodox and apostolic Faith (which even most of those who call themselves “Catholics” now live without), and when women were subjected to men absolutely as their lords: even then, all the Grace and admonitions and cultural institutions could just barely constrain the average woman to make any effort at humility, self-discipline and self-knowledge. St. Theresa of Avila frequently remarked on this to her nuns, that they would have to cease being womanly and become manly if they wanted to progress in virtue; virtue means “manliness,” after all, and virtue is a participation in deification – i.e., the process of becoming spiritually masculinized, taking upon one’s self the qualities of the Actus Purus (Pure Act, or Supreme Masculinity, God), by participation in the divine Operations/Energies.
So, as woman derives her glory from man, and man from God, we men must understand that it is absolutely backwards to expect women to have agency and to step up of their own accord. It is only very slightly different than expecting the same of small children. We must quite simply seize the culture, exercise our mastery over it and hope that, when we have constrained them to it by means of our domination, and by means of a thousand laws, customs, admonitions and helps which we impose, perhaps as many as half or two-thirds of them might become decent, happy, well-adjusted people again. Of the millions of women in America, I would be surprised if there are even 1000 women who have had the agency to leave the life of Leftism, parasitism, narcissism, etc., behind (without the help of massive, Patriarchal cultural institutions and influences), in order to trod the long path towards becoming kindly human.
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Not a golf fan, never knew she existed till today. Saw the video, beautiful girl, but that voice! Awful! No vag is worth listening to that drone.
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What is it with guys who see a hot girl and immediately have to find something wrong with her ?
I think I know……
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it’s called discernment
can’t be so blinded by ordinary beauty that you don’t take any flaws into account. that’s just stupid. gotta have standards man.
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I think it’s called butthurt.
The girls they (*pretend to) find (physical) flaws with are precisely the type of girls they’ve always wanted, but who never gave them the time of day – not even with their ‘Game’ cranked up to 11.
So they take the low road and try to tear the girl down any way they can, while extolling the virtues of the 4’s and 5s Amish-esque girls who might, every once in a blue moon, smile at their ‘negs’ and ‘Alpha postures’.
The PUAs I meet in real life do exactly the same thing.
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Girls like this want to be judged by their looks. So, so be it. Why are you wine knighting for her?
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It’s incredible how clueless women are with language; especially considering the amount of effort men invest in learning to talk with women.
A recent date spoke at length about her Saudi ex and trips to the ME. She was very proud that the Arab peasants offered livestock and other presents to “buy” her from the boyfriend. She clearly thought this reflected well upon her and would increase my attraction.
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At some point, I was offered various live stock, carpets and whatnot for the Swedish girl I was with in Morocco.
Pretended to go along with it for a while – she got mad – we had to run when they realized I was having them on and the kn1v3s came out.
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Wtf were you doing in Morocco?
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Traveling – my thumb and various train passes took me many, many places in the 80s and 90s.
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omg *that voice*.. I despise *that voice*…. combination of whiny, arrogance, and general stupidity.
http://www.golf.com/knockdown/2017/02/01/paige-spiranac-unfiltered-how-power-social-media-set-controversial-golf-star-soaring
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Egad. Just listened to about 5 seconds, and you’re right. That brassy, nasal, smug, half-bored drawling sets one’s teeth on edge almost immediately. Do they actually train these wenches to make that monotonous cicada voice, or does it come naturally to them?
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Sounds like a normal female voice to me.
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Clearly, the women of your acquaintance leave much to be desired.
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Clearly, you spend too much time in the basement.
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Wolfowitz is female
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Haha wolfie, the joke’s on you. My room is on the main floor.
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Not to mention that beta males are working less hard in general thereby will be providing a less financially successful life.
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There is no such thing as an “accidental Instagram Star”…
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She’s no that pretty
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There is an error in this blog post, but it’s a telling one. “I thought of this while relaying the story about the tennis pro thot who…”
She’s a golf player, not a tennis player. However…sports really isn’t the point here, so I consider it a sort of Freudian slip.
My big question here is why did the sports reporter for the Golf web site just take her word about the “accidental” Instagram success? This is the age where people buy Twitter followers. It’s bad reporting not to do some digging. My guess is there is a PR company (and rich parents) behind her success.
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Test
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>> “After so many bad relationships I finally met a good one.”
To say something like this, publicly… so “American White Girl.” So filthy.
With her filthy American GFs, sitting around at bunch eating french fries and drinking mimosas, saying, “Ahhh, like, totally.”
>> since women have exponentially more difficulty in the dating market after age 25.
It’s not 25… 26 yr old girls have no problem dating.
It’s 30. Maybe 32. Then… good luck. It all changes.
But “26”, or “28.” Great ages for women. Some of my favorite ages to date.
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“… She said this as if it would open new and exciting conversational avenues to accelerate their bonding process. It ended two weeks later.”
A very similar situation happened to me. It brings me solace to know this is ubiquitous and not just terrible luck.
The girl in question told me about a threesome she had with a previous boyfriend and I could never wrap my head around why she told me that.
If love is a river then every time she brought it or anything similar, up she was damming a tributary.
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Sometimes that’s an invitation. Or she just wants to tell you about the other special people in her life.
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Later I did realize it seemed to be an opportunity to get another girl in on the action. If I could go back I would without a doubt make that attempt.
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fat slore (single mom, naturally) at my old job used to constantly brag about all the dick she was getting (see! guys want me!) and perverse sex acts she had performed as she threw herself at every male 7-and-up coworker. she miraculously found a chump to wife her up. i don’t think we’re going to get anywhere shaming women into proper behavior. No, we have to target the betas and omegas who encourage. And target them HARD.
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I bet you’re right. Women only own up to consequences when there’s nowhere (beta) to run and they already tried crying.
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Hi Heartiste,
I found this jewel, it is and old paper from 1987 that demonstrated that Psycho Social Dominance (a.k.a Game) increases sexual attractivness in males. Another kick in the ass to White Knigths and Game denialist !!!
http://land-of-angels.com/py1/sadalla-etal-1987.pdf
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Circa 1993 or there about, I went with my then girlfriend and a group of our combined friends to WV for white water rafting. After our day of rafting everyone on the river that day met up at the riverfront bar. They were having a wet t shirt contest. My GF was egged on to enter by and with her best friend. Bikers started showing up, the scene was getting rough. She told me she won money doing it at spring break. I told her no. She really pleaded her case. I told her have a good time. You’re not coming. No, because they are going to want more than your wet nipples and I’m not getting beaten and stabbed so you can get attention. Neither my GF or her friend participated. Her friend ended up marrying one of my friends. Like to think I imparted some wisdom. But who knows. I haven’t seen any of these people in twenty years. Attention whoring is ingrained in women, fuck the cost.
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Nailed it CH. It’s undeniable, and has negative repercussions the “likes” of which will be felt for a long time to come I fear.
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