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Does Porn Slake Or Whet Beta Male Thirst?

August 25, 2017 by CH

It’s reasonable to assume porn slakes beta male thirst. The more betas get their rocks off online, the less motivated they’ll be to effortcourt live girls. A spent and sated man should, given this simple formula, behave less needfully in the company of women. His ZFG heartlight will shine, and he’ll never thirst for female attention.

Generally, this is true, but on the condition that the satiety comes in the form of real sex. Porn, as a simulacrum of real sex, may paradoxically have the opposite effect on a man’s thirstiness. Richard James explains,

Video games and porn are part of the problem. Character comes from working or waiting for whatever it is you want and I would say the broadest weakest of western man is a lack of patience. Being instantly gratified causes people to behave more desperately I’ve seen a man lose his rag at a microwaveable meal taking a whole 6 minutes. First world problems.

In addition to that the old workhorse can’t have a decent house, a job for life and a loyal wife with only one string to his bow. The one-dimensional, the aspie and the bland all lose to the multi-faceted modern man with his many irons in the fire.

RJ gets at something profound here. The instant gratification that porn provides is definitely part of the beta thirst equation, but it goes deeper and broader than that. I’d say the relevant variables are:

instant gratification
+
uninspiring real life options (compared to porn stars who can’t say no to betas)
+
diminished admiration for women (the red pill is a bitter swallow)
+
atrophied seduction skills
+
reinforced feelings of sexual worthlessness

Those last two imo are the biggest contributors to beta male thirst. Unzipping, gripping, and jizzing, all in a three minute window, destroys a man’s motivation to learn and practice the art of seduction (a much slower process than porn-facilitated release, even under the exceptionally favorable circumstances of perfectly run Mystery-style Game that takes a girl from meet to meat in seven hours). Over time, the porn-addled beta male’s seduction skills will atrophy, to the point where he’ll blurt out thirsty solicitations such as “god yr so hot, I would treat u like a queen”. Men who have dropped vats of seed to porn will inevitably get sloppy in their real life pick up attempts, because they will have been drained of the vital masculine elixir that drives them to excel at the pursuit of women and to sharpen their bantz to be more alluring to women. (Think of Idiocracy, except as a warning on sexual dysgenics rather than intellectual dysgenics. Porn decreases the average seduction IQ of its male users. Call it Creepocracy.)

The last one — feelings of sexual worthlessness — is the rocket fuel of thirst. Porn tricks the brain into thinking the body has scored a hot willing chick up for anything in the bedroom, and dopamine hits follow in staccato bursts. But the brain is not so thoroughly fooled for long. The Darwinian imperative has inserted mal-aware into the limbic code that activates when the reproductive fitness algorithm senses the reward circuitry is connected to a chafed hand rather than a moist vagina. A subconscious ping of despair accompanies the fap act, and the beta can’t help but over time feel sexually worthless, knowing as he must that his recourse to porn strongly suggests he has failed at acquiring the real deal.

To answer the title of this post, porn exacerbates beta male thirst. Porn whittles a man’s courtship skill, and porn reduces a man’s feeling of sexual worth. The two factors combine with an unregulated sexual market teeming with delusional, entitled fat girls and unfeminine careerist shrikes to create a beta and omega male Thirst Monster that has neither the inclination nor the emotional continence to avoid thirsty displays of low sexual market value.

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  1. on August 25, 2017 at 1:20 pm Does Porn Slake Or Whet Beta Male Thirst? | @the_arv

    […] Does Porn Slake Or Whet Beta Male Thirst? […]

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  2. on August 25, 2017 at 1:41 pm Anonymous

    first

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 3:19 pm E

      First to comment, clearly not first in life.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 8:11 pm Sentient

      We don’t do this gay shit here. Have something to say or be funny. And can that name.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 8:18 pm jjrockmale

        LOL. Like the males discussed above.

        Seduction over the long haul, started early, and fanned like a camp fire all day is an dying art. Also, as you get older, and/or have had a significant ass count, you start to get a certain ZFG attitude either way.

        It is just that the porn addict will cave faster than the disciplined savant who takes his time, and knows what he is doing.

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  3. on August 25, 2017 at 1:43 pm mendo

    Throw VR porn into the mix and that kick everything into overdrive. I wonder how much more potent that dopamine rush would be from just you’re regular 2D screen.

    What’s a harsher feeling of sexual worthlessness: shagging a fatty or jerking it to porn?

    I’m going with the fatty since fat women are just repulsive no matter how you slice it.

    [CH: the fatty is a worse negative male SMV feedback loop than the porn. this is why men who fuck fatties regularly are so defensive about claiming the beauty of their conquests.]

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 1:56 pm tteclod

      assuming a man’s shape remains generally “manly,” I’d guess fatties would do more damage – especially to romantic expectations

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 2:39 pm Oleaginous Outrager

      Most of the fatty wranglers I know seem to be incontinent in many other facets of their lives as well.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 5:04 pm Captain Obvious

      Gotta disagree, dudes.

      The most hideous White fattie on the face of the earth is more Wondrous than any mudskin or porn or sexbot could ever be.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 5:07 pm mendo

        Those kids are terrified beyond belief.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 5:11 pm E.

        The hardened gaze of that little girl. Chilling.

        Also… when the rolls under the boobs are bigger than the boobs themselves, what do you grab? Asking for a friend.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 5:20 pm Wrong Side of History

        White Nationalists are fine with this breeding

        It’s white babiezz after all

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 5:27 pm Scanman

        Good gravy!

        Pun intended.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 5:43 pm Captain Obvious

        “White Nationalists are fine with this breeding”

        Yep.

        They’re infinitely moar beautiful than anything you could ever hope to make.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 5:45 pm skorzecin150

        Clearly different fathers too.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 6:58 pm Vagina dominator

        @ Wrong Side of History

        “White Nationalists are fine with this breeding. It’s white babiezz after all”

        I am certainly fine with it Perfectly fine. There is nothing wrong with those ch*ldren and if they were raised by me would do well I think. Actually, they can come stay with me if they want. Call me a cuck but those kids shouldn’t be so sad.

        That woman wasn’t born to be like that. There is nothing natural there. It has taken a huge effort by a very sick society to make her into that crazy Jabba figure.

        So there is nothing wrong with the eggs.Those kids won’t grow up to be natural cannibals or slaves or s*icide b*mbers or parasitic worms in the guts of society.

        They are just two little white k*ds. I am glad they were b*rn.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 7:16 pm Ironsides

        @skorezin

        Not necessarily different fathers. That weird orange isn’t a natural color; she’s probably a blondish color like the boy, who also has a facial resemblance to her.

        All it takes is one taking after her and the other taking after one dark-haired dad, and you’ve got that picture.

        Could be different; could be not. Insufficient information.

        Nevertheless, I heartily second the statements of everyone who’s glad those kids were born. That bloat isn’t genetic, as noted, either.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 8:20 pm mendo

        Wise words as usual, VD. I see where Cappy was coming from now.

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      • on August 26, 2017 at 12:13 pm Stan

        She originally had three kids.
        She ate one last year.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 6:35 pm Captain Obvious

      Neither mudskin nor sh!tskin nor porn nor sexbot can give you what the lowliest of White women can give you: The most miraculous gift of all.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 6:39 pm Wrong Side of History

        lol

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 6:41 pm PA

        Beautiful post, CO.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 7:12 pm Vagina dominator

        @ Wrong Side of History

        Your scorn for these people makes the point of the post. Your views are just the porn talking.

        Low SMV people exist. They should lose some/a lot of weight. They breed They commit to each other without reservation. They have a clear-eyed understanding of their own smv and of what makes people truly happy.

        You don’t have to fuck them, talk to them, or socialize with them. But you do *have to* mock them. Because the porn is telling you to.

        Put down your cock and point it away from the screen. No-fap can set you free.

        And yeh, lol.

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      • on August 26, 2017 at 8:54 am Useyourmouth

        Yep. Beautiful post. Lots of low smv parents with too much fat these days, but these fat nerds remind me of some of my kids’ friends’ parents. Nice people and the kids are great.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 8:12 pm Sentient

      They all have pretty faces though… Must be all that fat.

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  4. on August 25, 2017 at 1:48 pm Ss

    Very slightly off topic.
    In my single days, I noticed a strange pattern. If I indulged in self-release while thinking or fantasizing about some HB that I was pursuing, then I would NEVER actually consummate my lust for her in real life.
    I don’t know if I tricked my brain into thinking I’d already crossed her off my “to goo” list. Or if I stymied the seduction in some other unknown, cosmic, manner.
    I wonder if anyone else has this experience.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 2:51 pm plumpjack

      there’s no “hex” that happens from jerking of to a girl you’re interested in. it has more to do with the fact that a guy’s fantasy of a girl generally doesn’t involve talking to them. whereas her fantasy of a guy pretty much ALWAYS involves at least SOME talking. the talking is where she decides to let you IN.

      nothing wrong with fantasizing about blowing your load all over a chicks tits. just try to remember that there are a few more steps you have to go through to get there IRL.

      once you get the chit chat, aloofness, and push-pull down there’s no way you can hex yourself.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 3:37 pm itsme

        so true, the way into a woman’s pants is through her mouth

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 5:05 pm Captain Obvious

        the way into a woman’s pants is through her mouth EARS.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 5:07 pm Captain Obvious

        This includes not just the content of what you’re saying to her, but also the cadence, depth, sonorousness and resonance of the voice in which you deliver the content to her.

        tl;dr == Listen to old Elvis Presley recordings, both spoken & sung.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 5:20 pm Cracker

        you’re right Captain. there’s a well known quote about that…

        a man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 7:14 pm Vagina dominator

        Porn tells us it is through her anus.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 8:15 pm Sentient

        True story. Former partner of mine has amazing voice. Several secretaries have said they came just listing to him on the phone… Just regular conversation.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 2:51 pm Donger

      I think I did some form of this too
      Generally, if I’d begun thinking about a girl abstractly, then I wasn’t thinking about real possibilities anymore which ruined chances because I’d ccckblcck myself

      I think this also correlates to the necessary speed of seduction – close on D2, D3 at the very latest, otherwise you’re wasting your time (unless of course, you’re a masochist). Speed and action of course prevents thought which is where the mental roadblocks emerge

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 7:16 pm Vagina dominator

        When you talk to her, think about her pussy lips. Gives you focus.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 7:48 pm Lazarus

      Yeah I did actually!

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  5. on August 25, 2017 at 1:52 pm JironGhrad

    Instant gratification is really the true issue of it all. Porn is certainly bad for the soul, but society is so caught up in the instant that there’s no sense of future at all. You have to create an inner calm and establish self-control; once you’ve got that, you’re not going to worry about pacing. As an aside, porn wrecks your stamina, because you get used to short-duration release and the added stimulation of P-i-V just speeds things up.

    As an added bonus to slowing down, once a girl was going down, and after like 45 minutes she was getting pretty tired, so I helped it along and her post-event observations have stuck with me. She said she hadn’t seen that big a load before and from the look in her eyes, I’m pretty sure it was a truthful statement – the longer it takes, the better the load; and any time you mess with a girl’s expectations, you’re gold.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 2:53 pm Hackett To Bits

      Definite No Fap, ever. Even on those occasions when I’m ‘between plates’, I notice that I can keep my edge. Faps produce a negative feedback loop of thirst, I am convinced of it. If you’re cranking one out now and then, stop at once.

      True story: current #1 plate finishes me off orally, every time. And on more than one occasion, she has beamed and announced that she knew I wasn’t ‘sleeping around’ on the side, based on my volume. It’s her way of reassuring herself. Hey, who am I to deny a woman that kind of peace of mind?

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  6. on August 25, 2017 at 1:53 pm tteclod

    “god yr so hot, I would treat u like a queen”

    does any man actually do that? I thought that was a tell that a man’s gay.

    [CH: apparently there are millions of straight men doing exactly this. i was being flip, but peruse a random instawhore or tumblhrea account of a hottie, and there will be a line up of betas in effect calling her a queen.]

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 1:57 pm tteclod

      @CH

      ew

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 2:27 pm jo mama's booty call

        And mudsharks. This is a go-to.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 3:20 pm TLM

        Quit acting coy about this tteclod. By your own admission here, you allowed your white daughter to become a mud shark for 4 months. I’m sure she heard all kinds of that nog banter.

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      • on August 28, 2017 at 12:02 pm tteclod

        How’s your daughter faring?

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 1:58 pm JironGhrad

      Mostly messages from black guys actually from what I’ve seen. I’d met a girl a while back online and she’d showed me some of the stuff she’d gotten… that’s fairly mild in point of fact.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 3:18 pm elmertjones

        Nothing beats being in a sushi restaurant that plays pussy-begging afro music.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 2:12 pm Wrong Side of History

      “does any man actually do that? I thought that was a tell that a man’s gay.”

      I take it you’ve never been on any social media platform ever.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 2:28 pm martin

      it’s become a meme. search ‘send vagine bob’ or ‘bob and vagine’. it’s from indians apparently harassing western women online.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 2:40 pm Oleaginous Outrager

      Gay? I thought it meant he was 12. I would expect the next line to be “I would give up my Xbox for you!”

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    • on August 26, 2017 at 5:11 pm anomy_nous

      Lol.

      An Alpha harridan whom I rejected after a 5-min videochat who needed a toady and not a man ended up marrying one who posted “You’re so amazing, how I’d love you if you gave me the chance.”

      I still feel I want to vomit recalling it.

      Marrying doesn’t mean liking… but how many times a female wants someone she HAS USE FOR and not someone she likes!

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    • on August 26, 2017 at 5:13 pm anomy_nous

      Gammas and omegas do the same with delta females.

      Ah, the market..

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  7. on August 25, 2017 at 1:54 pm Moncon

    This worked for me: go to strip club for an hour or two, then to “normal” club for an hour or two, then back to strip club, then back to “normal” club, rinse, repeat. Illusions about women vaporised very quickly.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 3:16 pm elmertjones

      Even better, learn some basic partner dance moves and skip the damn strip club.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 6:59 pm wolfie65

        Step 2 – find someplace to actually use those partner dance moves that isn’t ‘all ages’ or a senior center.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 7:19 pm Vagina dominator

        Learn to twerk! It’s what the kids are doing!

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  8. on August 25, 2017 at 1:58 pm fakeemail

    Watching porn is voluntary CUCKOLDRY.

    Digital meta-death and mind poison; don’t let them tell you otherwise.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 2:09 pm vfm#7634

      Agreed. You’re watching another man enjoy a hot woman, or at best being cock-teased, rather than enjoying her yourself. Perhaps one reason among many I’ve always avoided it.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 8:18 pm Sentient

        Why i never was into strip clubs… Sure go once in a while for a laugh and move on… But regular? Fuck that.

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      • on August 26, 2017 at 1:35 pm vfm#7634

        @Sentient

        Sometimes you get IOIs from a stripper, so even that isn’t as bad as porn.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 7:20 pm Vagina dominator

      Where is CO with his COTY prize? This is ***EXACTLY*** what the fuck it is.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 7:22 pm Vagina dominator

        Watch a lot of porn and next thing you know you’re mocking people who aren’t seeking out endless fun in other people’s anuses.

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      • on August 26, 2017 at 10:08 am Wrong Side of History

        Ha.

        This is true.

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  9. on August 25, 2017 at 2:01 pm Oleaginous Outrager

    It ain’t just porn: most media representations of modern relationships present a world of beta simps, especially married men, and many cases of almost fatal oneitis. Coupled with the many female-inspired ridiculous “alphas”-that-put-a-woman-on-a-pedestal, it can be pretty easy for a thinking man to despair.

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  10. on August 25, 2017 at 2:15 pm Aaron

    I think the best metaphor for porn is salt water. During the age of sail, it was somewhat common element of the literature of the period to feature the threat of dehydration as a plot element. For example, imagine a boat lost on the ocean running low on supplies, including fresh water. As the men grow increasingly thirsty, they cannot help but take notice that they are surrounded all the way to horizon by what looks and feels like delicious water. They all know that the salt water will accelerate their dehydration and yet temptation grows stronger as they become increasingly thirsty.

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  11. on August 25, 2017 at 2:16 pm vfm#7634

    “I would say the broadest weakest of western man is a lack of patience”

    Lack of patience / instant gratification. Yes.

    This helps explain why K-selected women (slender whites and East Asians) are failing to get bunz in their ovenz, and why r-selected women are getting record-high (for the post-antibiotic era) rates of STDs and single mommery.

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  12. on August 25, 2017 at 2:26 pm CalvinDecline

    And as the thirst grows so too do the public displays of pussy (yoga pants, shorts so short ass cheeks are hanging out) by women who are yearning for… scratch that… DEMANDING alpha male attention.

    “will someone PLEASE tell me not go out dressed like this?!”

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  13. on August 25, 2017 at 2:26 pm jo mama's booty call

    “delusional, entitled fat girls and unfeminine careerist shrikes to create a beta and omega male Thirst Monster”

    The latter at least engender a shred of pity, but both deserve each other.

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  14. on August 25, 2017 at 2:31 pm Wrong Side of History

    RIP Rich 1488 Piana

    You’ll be missed homie

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 7:57 pm Lazarus

      He really dead? Or did the roids make his nads gangrenous?

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  15. on August 25, 2017 at 2:34 pm Wilson

    Beta wants a wife more than a fuck, wife material is as scarce in modern society as in prison: better to jerk your own cock than your cellmate’s

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  16. on August 25, 2017 at 2:44 pm Captain John Charity Spring MA

    Another question. Women tend to detest porn. Or claim to. One circumstance where they are probably seeing Booby St McJuggs as competition.

    Is there a porn game?

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 3:05 pm Days of Broken Arrows

      There is “porn game.” But it comes with a big caveat. She needs to bring porn up to you and ask about it. You can never, ever bring it up first and show it to her. That’s something that George Wallace’s would-be assassin Arthur Bremer did, and it’s beyond creepy.

      Anyway, I’ve had several women inquire to me about “where to find porn” (as if that’s a hard to thing to do), and “what these women do.” So, after making it seem like they couldn’t handle it, I showed them a snippet. In all cases, it send their horniness through the roof and they either broadly hinted or outright said they wanted to go to bed with me NOW.

      Odds are, these women were into me anyway and the porn just short-circuited their inhibitions. But it did work. Once again, THEY have to bring it up to YOU. You can never bring this up first. Google Arthur Bremer.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 3:14 pm elmertjones

        The problem is most porn is just ghastly. You would have to wade through a lot of creepy disturbing garbage in hopes of finding something she might enjoy, which would probably bore the crap out of you.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 7:27 pm Vagina dominator

        As Elmer points out, who knew that gaping arseholes held open with proctological instruments could be arousing?

        Most of the behavior we see in modern porn is mentally ill. That isn’t to say that it doesn’t open up the gates of suggestion to your subconscious. Horrors and traumas do.

        But isn’t that the point goy, stimulating your endless suggestibiity?

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 8:02 pm Lazarus

        Iv’e had that a lot, girls with corny game tend to escalate like that when i’m working. When they do, I just reach for their ass with one hand and say “I think I found some” without taking my eyes off of my laptop screen.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 5:18 pm MKKBY

      Here is the porn game I’ve used effectively. I would take dates to the video store to rent a movie. After wandering around a while, I’d say “hey, I wonder what’s behind that curtain?” (Of course I already knew.) We would laugh at the funny titles and she would obviously be intrigued. Next, I’d suggest she pick one that looks like a laugh.

      Back at my place, the porn video always got sex started within the first few minutes.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 8:11 pm Lazarus

        Or just act as the commander in chief of ass force one.

        Never failed me before…

        Having died obliterated the sliver of patience I used to have with standing on ceremony.

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  17. on August 25, 2017 at 2:48 pm Benson

    Porn acts as a weight around your neck as you attempt to better yourself. Every three minutes spent fapping in front of a computer could be an approach. Add up all the time the average man spends watching porn, and you get an opportunity cost that most of us can’t afford.

    It also seems pretty clear that porn, given enough exposure, can distort your perception of sex, to the point that your brain actually rewires itself; pursuing women is no longer worthwhile because they are very different from the images you find stimulating.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 6:23 pm Red pill X100

      All you guys on here are funny, thinking that sex with some bimbo is an accomplishment. You keep telling yourself you’re becoming a better man with each disgusting orifice you fill. Better yet, go ahead and impregnate one so you can start the whole futile parade anew.

      [CH: i know this is a run-of-the-mill tradcon/game hater bleat, but it deserves a reply for the newbs ambling into the chateau. 1. game helps men seduce quality women as well as bimbos. it works on all kinds of women. 2. even if it only worked on bimbos (aka sluts), it still wouldn’t assuage beta male bitterness, because bimbos, like chaste girls, prefer to dispense their goods to alpha males.]

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 8:43 pm Dave

        Game is evil because it punctures all our blue-pill illusions about female virtue.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 9:20 pm Benson

        All you guys on here are funny, thinking that sex with some bimbo is an accomplishment.

        It is. Seducing a woman requires persuasion, and that’s a skill you develop with practice. In the process, you’re forced to overcome your insecurities and persist against a lot of rejection. Few other challenges in life will turn you into “a better man” like approaching a hot girl you don’t know.

        For the record, none of your moralizing does a fucking thing to make the world a better place.

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      • on August 26, 2017 at 1:47 am Carlos Danger

        That you GE?

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  18. on August 25, 2017 at 2:53 pm Peak Finance

    Porn = poison

    Just don’t do it.

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  19. on August 25, 2017 at 2:54 pm CalvinDecline

    Off topic:

    Germany just beat Trump to it:

    https://mobile.nytimes.com/2017/08/25/world/europe/germany-bans-far-left-antifa-website.html

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 8:13 pm Lazarus

      God exists, and the rebellious will flay, what else is new.

      Oh wait! Germany recovered one testicle!

      Praise the lord!

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      • on August 26, 2017 at 2:57 am Carlos Danger

        There’s an election going on and the AFD is surging despite cooked polls.

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  20. on August 25, 2017 at 3:01 pm Augustus Tilton

    Betas are acting more thirsty but are they really thirsty? Seems like a lot of men lack the energy to even sex real women, even if available.

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  21. on August 25, 2017 at 3:12 pm elmertjones

    To see porn back in the day you had to go to an “art” theatre and sit with a bunch of winos jerking off into their hats.

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  22. on August 25, 2017 at 3:16 pm Days of Broken Arrows

    I’m not sure I agree with this post.

    Porn has always been around in some form or other. It depends on how you use it. Most anything can be bad if it distracts you to the point that it erodes you social skills. I know guys who are obsessed with watching sports that don’t have any game because all they can talk about is “Yankees…Giants…Yankees” and women turn off to them.

    Before Internet porn, we had things like Playboy and Penthouse. And from what I saw growing up among older men, some of the biggest “womanizers” (a word used back then) were into these mags, along with strip clubs, dance clubs, and getting every women they could into bed. It’s like they lived a Hefner lifestyle.

    True story: In high school, I’ll never forget one of my friends’ divorced moms complaining that this friend didn’t like to stay at her house after the divorce. He preferred living with his dad, which she found “inappropriate.” I asked why.

    “Because his dad has his young girlfriend running around half-naked and there’s Playboy magazines on the coffee table.” I was like “Er, yeah…that’s TERRIBLE! So where is this place, anyway?”

    I’ve also told the story before about how they actually showed a porn movie in my college dorm during the wild “Oktoberfest” week. There is no way today this would ever happen. But not only did it happen then, it was shown on an all-girls hall and most of the people who showed up were girls. Lots of questions asked that night. At least one girl came on to me, who I refused because I had a girlfriend. I had it so rough then!

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 3:20 pm elmertjones

      True story : girl in my high school invited me to her house but I stupidly declined. Couple years later she was a Hustler centerfold, causing a local scandal. It still hurts.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 3:27 pm Days of Broken Arrows

        Great story. But I can top that!

        In the 1990s, I dated a woman who spoke about how she was asked to pose nude but would never do it, etc. A few years later, she appeared in Playboy’s Women of the Ivy League issue. This was one of the best things to ever happen to me. It put “I once went out with someone in Playboy” on my dating resume. Hehe.

        (Funnier still: The Playboy issue she was in featured a super hot Italian-American women. Said women is now a prim and proper Young Adult author who definitely doesn’t include her Playboy shoot on her resume. Because I’m a nice guy, I’m not gonna expose Ms. Author with the Giant Boobs.)

        [CH: that’s a respectable coup to tell the grandkids as they’re seated around you in rapt attention.]

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 3:28 pm Days of Broken Arrows

        Help! I’m in comment moderation!! Moderation is Beta.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 3:39 pm Les Saunders, Protestant

        When I was in high school, a girl in a grade down, who resembled Heather Graham and was kind of a space cadet, wanted to watch “Caught from Behind 4” (which is pretty good as far as pôrnographic films go) with me on a VHS tape. She really wanted to make my acquaintance. I didn’t know what the hell I was doing back then, so it never happened.

        In my mid 20s, I went out with a girl who loved watching it. She’d masturbàté to lesbian scenes. Go figger, eh?

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 3:23 pm elmertjones

      At the local commuter college they showed a Johnny Wadd movie (this was before VHS even). The school newspaper reviewer complained about an “anorexic” John Holmes and that at one point the audience was clapping rhythmically. Different times.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 3:41 pm Les Saunders, Protestant

        The Return of Johnny Wadd was his best work. That guy who lived with my aunt I told you about the other day kept it and many other titles stashed in the closet.

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  23. on August 25, 2017 at 3:18 pm Wrong Side of History

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  24. on August 25, 2017 at 5:09 pm Does Porn Slake Or Whet Beta Male Thirst? | Reaction Times

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  25. on August 25, 2017 at 5:20 pm Rum

    I am in my 60s. My rock star daughter…surgeon..has recently taken up bow hunting. With convincing enthusiasm.
    The old ones in my family’s are finally making sense about who we really were before we anglicized our names. Last century…

    I guess there have always been reasons, at least of the memetic kind, why my reaction against antizemnatizmn was so instinctuall.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 5:39 pm Captain Obvious

      How many grand-hebes have you gotten our of your rock star daughter? Send her my way and I’ll put mischlings in her belly.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 6:25 pm cavoritegroup

        Breitbart is putting globes around names instead of echoes (globes = globalists). I don’t know when this started, but it’s a pretty obvious shout to us.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 5:47 pm Scanman

      Ugh…

      When I first heard of the flap over Richard Spencer’s mother being scammed by that jewess real estate agent in Whitefish MT, I was crestfallen.

      Not because of Spencer or his mom but because I had always been under the impression that there were no Jews in Montana. This destroyed my hope that there really remained a last best place.

      Now you’re telling me that Jews bow hunt?! Another of my favorite things diminished…

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 6:03 pm plumpjack

        Lol. I thought the same thing. in MONTANA?!?

        seems that wherever there’s a gullible nicewhyte there’s inevitably a predatory civilization wrecker nearby trying to sell him his own shadow.

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      • on August 26, 2017 at 11:40 am Rum

        Oh, come on. The current speaker of the Texas House of Representatives is named Strsuss. Texas. Here, the speaker ship is chosen by the other members. Texas. Think about this

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 6:10 pm Cracker

      sounds like you raised your daughter how you should raise son. calling her a rockstar because she focuses on a career and manly sports instead of encouraging her be a real woman who focuses on womanly things. either that or she was just naturally masculine all on her own.

      shame

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 6:26 pm skorzecin150

        In other words, just another run of the mill jewess. Sad!

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      • on August 26, 2017 at 12:01 pm Rum

        My son is in the Oil Business. He hunts with high ezpleves.

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      • on August 26, 2017 at 5:19 pm Cracker

        good for your son but what does that have to do with raising your daughter to act like a man?

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  26. on August 25, 2017 at 5:32 pm safespaceplaypen

    LOLLOLOLLOLOL

    Perhaps the funniest fail in CNN history. pic.twitter.com/hTYf9PwpeX

    — The Columbia Bugle (@ColumbiaBugle) August 25, 2017

    LLOLLLOLOOLOL

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 5:41 pm Wrong Side of History

      Bottom right needs a bun in her oven

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 5:51 pm Ripp

      LOL.

      amazing.

      and the cunt hostess tried so hard to redirect with loaded questions and got slammed over and over again.

      that was great.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 6:13 pm skorzecin150

      This is what reasonable people look like (even the negress, to be honest). Amazing they even got through the front doors of the clown news network.

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  27. on August 25, 2017 at 6:21 pm Lichthof

    Stormfront is gone

    [CH: the digital noose is tightening. this won’t end well.]

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 6:31 pm skorzecin150

      Surely there must be servers in Russia who will host these sites, or are .ru domains already banned?

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 7:41 pm Ironsides

        No, they won’t. Any kind of Nazi stuff, Holocaust denial, or whatever is completely illegal in Russia. They’d be taken down faster than you could say “Josef Dzugashvili.”

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 8:26 pm Sentient

        Right. Because Putin is a creation of the Alfa Group jews in their war against the Lukos group jews. Oligarch is mostly jews…

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 6:33 pm skorzecin150

      Wow, put up a question about using r – u domains or have they been banned already, insta-modded. Rarely happens these days, I suppose my questions been answered.

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 6:34 pm skorzecin150

        And…the fastest comment out of mod, eva! Lol!

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 8:26 pm Sentient

        NSA are working double shifts. They cant entrap you if it stays in mod.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 6:59 pm Scanman

      “Those who make peaceful revolution impossible will make violent revolution inevitable.”

      — some dude hip to the JQ who was murdered in front of his wife and 100 million other Americans

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 8:27 pm Sentient

        But did he ever own slaves?

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 8:35 pm Lazarus

      Serves them right for not figuring out H1tl@r was a Z1ooonist assclown who lost the war on both fronts on purpose, and brought the fabled six trillion to Izrahell.

      They didn’t even catch a red flag from the fact Shitlers body was never confirmed to have been found.

      A corpse wouldn’t be hard to procure in Berlin on that hallowed day, hoisting some guy with fillings into his coat and burning it was easy peasy.

      Despite the fact that [[[their]]] population increased by over 400k between 33 and 49, and Shitler collaborated with Z1iooonists from the get-go, that his first name was Jacob for fucks sake, that he brought the supposed 6 trillion to Palestine, had a currency made to kickstart their economy while providing them with all the necessities to cultivate Oranges, and stopped buying those from Brazil, and began buying Oranges from [[[them]]], and that his corpse was never found, and that core samples revealed the mass graves were a lie, and the wallsamples from the alleged gass chambers revealed no traces of Cy@nide at all.

      The 400k bird brains at Stormfront still couldn’t connect the dots, while multitudes of Islamic Arabs in the Jordan desert figured it all out by merely discovering Shitlers first name was Jacob on a scanned copy of his birth certificate.

      For someone alleged to have tried to wipe them all out, that sure is one inexplicable string of epic fails of collosal magnitude if you ask me.

      When the sole definition of who is and who isn’t a true J0000, is based on who does, or does not participate in fulfilling their prophecy, it seems that any half sentient fuckwit could figure out Shitler is the greatest Z1ooonist of all, but alas.

      Those Stormfront mongo’s have only done us all unimaginable harm.

      There isn’t a schred of doubt on my mind the admins on that platform are part of the effort to keep that from coming out.

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  28. on August 25, 2017 at 7:08 pm wolfie65

    3 minutes, eh ?
    That explains a lot.
    Been a while since I’ve seen any actual p0-rn, but as Elmer states above, almost all of it is despicably horrible trash.
    Maybe if they left the guys out and didn’t try to pretend there was a ‘plot’, it might be better.
    Nofap isn’t healthy – clogged pipes are never a good thing – and if a little pressure release k1lls your drive, you might wanna get your t-levels checked, cause somethin’ ain’t right.

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  29. on August 25, 2017 at 7:43 pm Lazarus

    I feel I can do nothing other than mention the rancid MGTOW acronym here… god I hate them with a passion.

    If only raising our male youths in a Sparan fashion was something we could start doing tomorrow without scoring a ticket to the slammer, while your son scores a ticket to a limp wristed adoptive fagily, errr family. Or worse, an institutionalized accommodation, or worse an all feminine approach to shaping manhood.

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  30. on August 25, 2017 at 8:10 pm Sentient

    Give up porn simpley because it enriches the jews. #boycottjewporn

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 8:30 pm mendo

      That’s why I switched to Japanese porn. Not only that, the fact that it’s censored limits the overall impact.

      kekekekek

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  31. on August 25, 2017 at 8:39 pm Azfloyd

    Really the fat whites with kids…

    Ill gladly take those white children for a shitload of reasons. 1, they aren’t nuggets 2, they aren’t sand nuggets, 3) at least there is a chance we can make something out of these kids. A 80 IQ Somali is a ducking waste and there is no chance to teach them civilization, 4) know lots people who’ve been disgusted at those parents and will seek not to make the same mistakes 5) just cuz mom is a pig doesn’t mean her progeny will be so ugly.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 8:40 pm Azfloyd

      I meant niggers, but nuggets will do

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      • on August 25, 2017 at 11:29 pm Carlos Danger

        Nuggets is a good cover name. Reminds one of dried turds in the sand.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 9:20 pm COBLGP

      Better that some white beta get to these fatties than an African, I say. I’d go as far as to saying they’re doing the Lord’s work by intercepting them from a pitiful life of coalburning.

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    • on August 25, 2017 at 9:41 pm Ironsides

      “Sand nuggets.” Not bad.

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  32. on August 25, 2017 at 9:17 pm COBLGP

    I will say that I’ve been the most successful with women whenever I abstained from pornography and masturbation. I went an entire year during my freshman year in college without resorting to these bad habits and I courted and banged the most beautiful girls there — and this was at a technical school where it is a sausage fest.

    Masturbation affects your confidence and your sexual performance and yes, the nofappers are correct in stating that it causes impotence. I’d say that my virility is superior now while in my mid 40s than compared to the internet porn addict spaz that I was in my 20s.

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  33. on August 26, 2017 at 7:33 am vaguely human slav

    I think beta male behavior from porn is exacerbated if it makes some dudes look at sex as a mechanical act. A mechanical act that they can’t possibly compete with. That means they’re self-lowering their own perceived SMV because they aren’t …you know packing porn star heat. You know, there’s never seduction in most porn.

    So, you watch girls who run the gamut of looks and ages get banged out by other guys and you may turn to believe you don’t deserve the love of a girl. If you’re one of the half of guys out there below avg, then you may feel disqualled from the start and never try.

    And on the other hand, since half the guys out there are above avg, they may think that just because they are hung that they can deliver pizzas for a living and get laid just like the pizza delivery guy in the film. They believe there’s no effort required and their results are the same as the guy who never tried…well maybe a bit better.

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    • on August 28, 2017 at 1:59 pm vaguely human slav

      Also, FWIW, since you whitez have the hottest girls on the planet, right? You may feel that when you see an instawhore 8 who photoshopped herself into a 10 that you’re lacking in whatever it is that who be worthy of such a fine, beautiful lovely gem of a person. And you look at what you lack, oh, you’re a bit pudgy. You don’t dress like an idiot. You don’t go to the gym 3 hours a day. You don’t have a ten inch dong. Blah blah blah.

      Whatever, you probably have an IQ greater than 98% of the world. Your looks are more agreeable because you aren’t disfigured by massive doses of testosterone in the womb (what is the CH term for this?). You may personally not commit crimes for a living but your fucking ancestors raped and pillaged the fucking world all for the express result of their children (YOU!) to be able to live in peace with an unlocked door and still sleep at night.

      You look at WWII films and the american and the brit are locked in mortal combat with zee Germans. The Italians and Japs? Basically canon fodder. |Oh good one, Mitsubishi-san, you played us for suckers during peace talks.| “What’s that Antonio? You like-ah da fighting? Uh huh, good job at it”.

      I think that’s why, at the end of the day, this internal confidence stuff must be right.

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  34. on August 26, 2017 at 7:40 am lolyor

    what about banging hookers? I’ve banged about 200 in the last year and noticed my game getting even worse. I’d say it’s similar to porn

    [CH:
    https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/11/03/paying-for-sex/
    ]

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