Sluts are wild women. The wildest, which is impressive considering the basal state of women is sexual wildness when released from cultural supervision. Many an unwitting beta male has thirstily stumbled into a slut’s Venus Thigh-Trap and been liquefied, financially and emotionally, by her muff-shaped machinations. But sluts can be controlled, and their sexual recklessness harnessed for the beta’s exclusive pleasure, no psychological costs or commitment strings attached.
williamk writes that a slut uses her sex like a shackle, binding her quarry into a one-sided relationship that robs him of his dignity and prepares the way for his cuckolding:
Sluts control weak guys with sex.
It’s likely every once in a while he imagines her past and feels disdain rise in his viscera, but then she drains his nuts and dissipates his drive.
He’ll never leave her or cheat because she knows just how much to sate him to own him.
Beta male thirst is more than a tingle-killer; it’s a poisoner of long-term relationships. If you give in to an LTR with a slut solely to prevent your nuts from backing up with unspent sperm, you’ll regret all the times in between nutting that you have to spend with her, and that’s a lot of time, unless you can nut non-stop without turning into a bleached desert skeleton.
A slut who has your cock on a leash will NEVER give you all the sex you want; she will give you THE BARE MINIMUM of sex to get what she wants, which is usually a combination of your money, energy, abject supplication, unreciprocated fidelity, and willingness to excuse any and all bad behavior she wishes to dish out (which sluts will dish out frequently and gleefully).
The experienced man with options knows how to control sluts for the reasons above: his interests as a man will often diverge from the interests of the sluts he bangs for fun. He has no thirst, so sluts can’t play the ol’ dame game of throwing their sex at him in the beginning and then slowly but incrementally drawing their sex away in hopes of reorienting the relationship to one in which the slut has all the hand.
The Slut Whisperer also never commits long-term to a slut unless he is absolutely sure of his ability to control the slut’s sexual manipulations and impulsivity. The number one reason to avoid commitments to sluts that last longer than a three-month fling is because they’re high risks for cheating, divorce, and cucking. As a man, you’d want such a tight grip on your slut’s heartlight that she wouldn’t dare indulge her natural inclinations….and that’s a tall order to suppress what is likely a genetically imprinted predilection.
So, the two most potent slut controlling psy ops a man has at his disposal are:
- dating options, or the ability to collect dating options
- his love
Having options, or the confidence that comes from an ability to collect options on short notice, reduces a man’s sexual thirst, thereby reducing his susceptibility to a slut’s exploitation of men’s higher sex drive.
A tried-and-true technique for projecting a powerful perception of your ability to score new poon post-haste is Dread Game. And nobody falls for Dread Game as thoroughly and predictably as the slut, who senses in it (and for that reason cannot defy it) the mirror manipulation of her Sex Apportioning Game. Driving a slut to heights of jealousy will put the brakes on her sexual power games because she will lose the focus to stick to her Gine Directive.
Dread Game is essentially Love Apportioning Game, and as a slut will open and close her vagina to the rhythm of her desires met and unmet, so will an experienced man open and close his heart to the rhythm of his desire met or unmet for a woman who will behave herself to his liking.
In sum,
SEXUAL CHOICE
CONDITIONAL LOVE
are the ingredients to bring a slut to heel.
In woman-conditioning language, I call this
INTERMITTENT REWARD, CONSISTENT PUNISHMENT, OCCASIONAL MERCY
and now you have tamed the slut.

reminds me of my tweeker ex, twas fun sometimes.
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unless you can nut non-stop without turning into a bleached desert skeleton.””””””””””’
omfg I’m laughing so hard
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Chateau, would I be mistaken to think that you’re a practicing BDSM dom?
[CH: it’s not my scene. i prefer impromptu expressions of uncontrollable devotion.]
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I think the best was when ex ex would see me and run and jump into my arms
pure trust that I would catch her
or off picnic table, bar, hood of truck, top of truck.
he he he
yea I have lived
cut her stockings off and fucked in truck
a bitch hitting wall after she fucked you over sucks
might of been worse if she didn’t then I would of been with when hit wall
she still cute but older
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that would be Dungeon Heartiste
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CH, you seem to have the mental control that a lot of experienced doms have. I think if most men understood some of the mental techniques that experienced BDSM doms have, they would be able to drastically change their relationships. It’s a lot like getting a child to do what you want (after all, women are basically grown children) – punishment, reward, discipline, charging them with tasks. It goes back to what has been said here about getting a woman to rise up to meet your standards. And they love it. Submissives get a thrill in their hearts and minds (trickling its way downward) when they fulfill their dom’s tasks and he tells her that he is pleased. Game helps a man get a woman, but some of these BDSM mental techniques will help him keep her and keep the relationship strong.
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Sorceryqueer.
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Yep.
Turns up out of nowhere and peacocks, whilst simultaneously hoping to be CH’s bestest golf buddy.
Sock puppet.
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Go be keyboard cucks somewhere else soylets.
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[…] How To Control A Slut: The Slut Whisperer […]
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Bleached skeleton?
ROFL
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I think a hefty dose of
raw masculine sexuality
might solve the problem. Fight fire with fire. Rod & sceptre beats muff 9 falls out of 10.
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As in all things feminine, Et Ingenues are the best shit-testers. Eg the gf not long after I met her, seeing a glance so barely perceptible it would go unnoticed by >99% of women: “I saw you looking in the mirror at her ass.”
Me, turning the truck around: “Yeah and now for a better look.”
Three years and a little dread game later, she enjoys setting me up at a bar so she can swoop in and claim me in the end.
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Interesting… after decades of being a zeta male (with dreams of one day even making it to beta), I left America for good and became omega / MGTOW. Further enhancing my apathy was my lifelong suffering from crippling sexual problems (physical only). I lived my life as a sexual failure, a societal failure, a living, breathing, “not good enough”.
I ended up in Thailand just paying for sex with the girls I specifically wanted with the exact body types I wanted. I also had medication that cured my sexual ills. For the first time in my life I had options. I had abundance. And I stopped caring about women. I was completely satisfied, completely happy with never marrying, and growing old and single, having fun with hookers and normal 3rd-world-country girls that are beautiful, don’t know their own beauty, and are easy to date.
Later on, a series of unfortunate events took place, and I had a really shitty year that culminated in meeting a girl who fell in love with me at first sight.
And she was your typical 8.5 – 9.5 on the scale, super slut. I mean, check every box. Her facebook is just thousands of slutty pics, her history is with hundreds of guys (and girls), sex freak, and master expert at manipulation and control.
Except I didn’t care anymore. I went through decades of utter hell and into complete apathy, which I was lucky enough find a solution for by living in places like Thailand and access to the right drugs.
Now I’m the one who makes her cry and beg and plead and go crazy with jealousy. Now I’m the one who’s greatest dream is to be alone, and just have peace and quiet. I don’t even make her jealous of other girls. I make her jealous enough just by being alone. If I talk to another girl she goes into hyperdrive jealousy. I am completely dominant and punishing and merciless, and she only becomes more and more addicted to me.
The basis of her entire attraction to me, however, is a mystery. She’s just attracted to someone who looks like me. (None of this would have ever begun without that fact.)
She’s also much more dominant socially. She talks a mile a minute while I tend to be introverted and quiet. But all her powers are useless on me. She never knew suffering. She never knew what it’s like to be a sexual failure, unable to experience human pleasure. Just the opposite, she can have sex for hours and orgasm continuously. She craves and yearns and craves for more.
On the other hand, I’m completely zen. I lived my life never getting one thing I ever wanted until I stopped wanting things at all, which is like dying before actually dying. An inconceivably shitty, torturous, tortuous Buddhist enlightenment. Basically I feel like Chakan the Forever man (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chakan:_The_Forever_Man)
The last time she disrespected me, I simply said I’m done. I’m leaving, and started packing my bags. She turned into a crying, sobbing puddle of jelly on the floor. I didn’t change my mind for 2 hours.
I stay with her because she’s so hot, all our sexual fantasies are alike, and we both have a lot in common as artists, and we both love to travel without being tied down by a job. I’m also polyamorous, so not only do I not care if she cheats on me, I WANT her to cheat on me, which wouldn’t be cheating anyway because I allow it. All I want is her love and respect. If that disappears, I am happy to walk away at any moment. I have ZERO attachments to the relationship.
My only sadness in life is I wonder if I’m unable to love. I wonder if over two decades of suffering made me go full sociopath. It would suck if I was unable to truly love and experience mad, crazy love in this life.
But I LOVE being all powerful and having zero emotional weakness. Guess you take the good with the bad.
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Excellent comment, Gladiator.
Are you retired in Thailand, or do you have a job of some sort?
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“It would suck if I was unable to truly love and experience mad, crazy love in this life.”
Get her off of her B!rth Control.
It’s time to take the plunge.
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She is suffering from a particular type of cock poisoning that that turns whore Thai women into a special type of batshit crazy.
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Oh.
I thought she was White.
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That’s a heavy story, Gladiator. Much respect for that level of honesty.
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Yes you are capable of loving. You are capable of loving YOURSELF, which is what matters. Congratulations. You have graduated.
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15th century “Dread Game,” after a fashion:
“Returning to the question of being loved or feared, I sum up by saying, that since his being loved depends upon his subjects, while his being feared depends upon himself, a wise Prince should build on what is his own, and not on what rests with others. Only, as I have said, he must do his utmost to escape hatred.”
— Niccolo Machiavelli
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“Many an unwitting beta male has thirstily stumbled into a slut’s Venus Thigh-Trap and been liquefied, financially and emotionally”
see Kipling’s poem The Vampire
https://www.poets.org/poetsorg/poem/vampire-0
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Even the best snake handlers/catchers get bitten from time to time.
Having access to Antivenom and building up some natural resistance means that they can keep doing their jobs without fatal consequences.
Even the best slut handlers risk disaster if and when they underestimate sluts and the options that society and the law grants them.
Sluts are only ever a short term option unless the man is Dark Triad enough to actually have fun with the whole thing.
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These guidelines are for every woman in general
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I’ve found that sluts just aren’t worth the trouble.
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It depends on how you found that out.
The vast majority of men find that out the hard way.
Once bitten, twice shy.
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A quick scan of the instafaceborgtwit should give you a clue.
Do you see this:
or this:
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Reblogged this on parallelplace.
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