Reader Abc123 has a Game question about girls texting at predictable times of day,
First time posting here. What does it mean if a girl never replies to you, waits a day and texts you at a specific hour. I’m noticing a pattern here. For example:
I text or initiate
she replies 10:12 am I reply later on in the day then 24 hrs later her reply is at 10:22 am or same exact time.I met this girl during the day she opened me and we sparked up a convo, during our convo she got all chipper and asked to exchange numbers
Ive only interacted with her via text twice to say hi etc and to meet up. She texted me saying she couldn’t said she’s free to meet up Thursday and if that good for me. Am I being gamed?
Maybe. Girls have their own text strategies (and courtship strategies in general), so never assume girls are unaware of their machinations. However, girls who date a lot tend to fall into habits of mind, such as texting at a particular time each day (so they can text all their suitors at once)….take that for what it is. My advice? Ignore her games. Don’t breathe life into your suspicions because the last impression you want to leave is one of a butthurt man over-analyzing her actions.
[…] Patter Patterns […]
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“gay”
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I think the “gay” comment is overwrought. Women are going to go their own way until they are firmly but gently led in another way. Until you step forward and do something about her behavior, she will be erratic in ways that irritate you. HBomb Oracle wrote a post on how training a dog is like training a woman. The best way, IMO, of training a woman is operant conditioning: give her a lot of emotional disapproval (not butthurt) over actions you don’t like, and be prepared to be savage at times.
Being savage? Yes. Scream and yell. I mean it, dudes. I’ve done it plenty of times. It’s not butthurt, it’s masculinity times 100. Call it toxic, call it petty, it works. It works like a charm. Girls quail before it and change their ways.
I’ve even manufactured it at a trice for convenience on occasion.
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If the Larper known as QANON can predict Trump’s tweet times, you can predict a plate’s text times.
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For all their fickleness, women are creatures of habit.
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The other possibility is that you’re dealing with Cluster-C here [rather than Cluster-B], i.e. you could be dealing with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.
The very worst is when you get Cluster-C and Non-Specified in the form of Obsessive Compulsive + Passive Aggressive.
Once you meet her & get to know her a little better, if she is both ultra-fastidious and also muttering nasty snarky crap under her breath, then she’s only good for ana1 [and be sure to take high quality audio & video of the encounter, as insurance against any false r@pe allegations].
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Compare Mendo’s poast from earlier today:
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I’d enforce groundrules here: Pure ANALOGUE MEATSPACE. No digital. No iPhags. If she pulls out an iPhag during your little “d@te”, then you walk, and she picks up the bill.
If her iPhag addiction is so severe that she can’t agree to old-fashioned analogue beforehand, then next her ass.
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I do feel old. I’m only 33 but I’m pretty old school when it comes to dating. I couldn’t put up with this crap. Either I leave this country and find greener pastures where women don’t do this, or might as well get a vasectomy, since I’m not willing to plant my seed in a bitch that’s easily distracted by her phone. I’m not putting my prospective offspring in her care. What if one of my kids ends end drowning in a bucket or getting electrocuted or get kidnapped in a park because mommy is too busy texting and posting selfies on social media and telling everyone how great of a mommy she is? Meanwhile, the government will tell me it’s my fault because according to fatherhood.gov, I didn’t take time to be a dad, even though I have to work long hours to support a family.
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It means she’s cheating (or thinking of cheating) on her bf with you. This guy goes to work or bed around 10pm.
[CH: good point]
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It’s AM.
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She’s got a boyfriend
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She is only allowed to use her phone at recess.
[CH: lol]
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or 15 minute break from work when allowed rofl
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I’ve noticed something about “regular women” — they are either professionals or they come from strict families with “there” father-figures.
Fathers often influence their daughters. In my family, my sister went into the civil service because it allowed her to express her ugly domineering side (looks good on men, shitty on chix) in a formal structure. My father, being an immigrant from southeastern Europe, was never able to join the political structure. She was; she took advantage of it.
She is both a professional and a daddy’s girl. She always associated more with my father than with my mother, who was suffering from a kind of female dementia. Curiously, my sister also loved when my mother called her “her little bunny.”
So there’s a tip for you: this girl may be suffering from excessive masculine influence, and will want to overcompensate with her feminine side. She will probably have a clit-on for horses and kittens, and you can win her over, you never know, by appealing to that side. If you so choose.
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Another faggot -assed post from the babbling butt pirate known this week as Xtratard. You and your fellow MPD baloney bandit mutt know as loosh da doosh need to get a room.
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“Am I being gamed?”
jeez. son, if you’re still taking breath, you’re being gamed. you’re never not. being. gamed.
best you can do is learn to win. ie, try to arrange things on YOUR terms.
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Start eating her food. Slyly steal it at first them keep getting more brazen until she notices. Keep playing off like you dindu nuffin. Even when you get caught deny it talking with a mouth full of her food. She’ll get excited from playing that game and forget about the phone. Crucial to maintain playful but not childish frame throughout.
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noticed this too. I always felt a ‘dead’ spot between 1:30->4:30 cause of ‘work.’ that the ‘girls’ have to do.
They always wake up horny so that’s a nice marker, too.
I always called them markers, in my head. cause it gives you a window into her ‘game.’ of it she is aware of it
also, it’s part of frame strength. Is she texting and responding well outside her pattern? then she’s hooked and thinking about you during those ‘outages.’
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texting to set up a Day 2 is the shittest aspect of Game. wtf? I have to make up witty shit, or respond with “k”, just to get some puss. And chicks can’t make up their fucking mind.
More reason to milk everything out of the approach you can otherwise you’re going to be nagging the hoe at dumb times of the day “entertaining” her to get her emotions amped to the same levels they were when you first met, just so you can get her to say “yes” to a Day 2 set up; and EVEN THEN, by the time that Day 2 occurs, her brain will be off to some other shit.
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Scarcity breeds overanalysis.
If OP was spinning plates, would he even notice things like this? Nah. She has more options than him, and that will seep through into their interactions.
Sorry man, I think you’re toast here already. Don’t initiate for 2 weeks and try to meet some other girls.
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Keep working young man…..get to either a yes or no. Maybe girls will waste your time.
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Off topic, but interesting. Some SJW lost “his” marbles (name is Maeve McDermott. Can’t tell if it’s a female or male name. People giving their kids stupid names like that should be castrated) because Grammys weren’t diverse enough.
https://amp.usatoday.com/amp/1074418001
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Maeve is an Irish girl’s name which traces back to both mythological and actual warrior queens of Connacht, who were famous for their beauty..
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Maeve is a female name. Irish.
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Have the phone ready. Ring her as soon as you receive the txt. Phone will be in her hand and it will probably cause her to short circuit. She knows that you know she is on the other end and she will probably answer. If she doesn’t ask her if she is scared lol
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Likely that you’re in a queue. Women get hundreds (sometimes thousands) every day if they have any sort of social media presence. They’ll allocate a time of day to go through (the good ones of) those. That time will be your slot in the queue, before, or after a load of others.
That’s how it is with social media nowadays, a CONSTANT neverending queue to give females attention and validation. That queue is even filled with blokes halfway across the world. They don’t mind if it makes them feel good.
Presume if she thinks better of you, or you’re at the TOP of the queue, she’d be replying immediately or whenever feels like, rather than the set time of your allocated slot.
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This is so retarded. Call her, and speak with her. Texting is an impersonal way of communicating. If you want to show her you are interested, and get her interested in you, then talk, not send little wimpy texts.
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there is a non-zero chance that her actions are guided by astrology
“When Mars is in Leo, avoid talking to men after noon bla bla bla”
Most men have no idea how that stuff matters to girls
as a famous commenter here would say, few are honest enough to admit to that
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It matters even to my supposedly conservative mother, aunts and cousins. And it’s hilarious how even supposedly atheist feminists are hooked on astrology. It’s a chick thing.
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I appreciate you guys giving me your wisdom
Thank you.
I never did get back to her I Ignored her.
No time to waste.
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