I’m gonna let youze yeggs in on a leetle secret. You want to experience the profound joy of romancing, bedding, and loving many, many attractive women? Then you’ll get far if you do this one weird trick:
Make your intention known.
Now, I don’t mean walk up to girls and tell them you want to bang them silly. Girls require a veneer of plausible deniability. The art of flirting is revealing a hint of a glimpse of what’s on your mind without spelling it out.
I mean, make eye contact, and keep it a tic past the threshold of discomfort.
That’s all you need to get going on your journey of poon. The simple act of telegraphing seductive intent through the eyes and the body will open the door to endless romantic possibility. So many women are starved for the attention of men who can forcefully command their gaze.
Beta males suffer a case of Attention Diffidence Disorder that prematurely kills so many chances with girls it may as well be called crib death for cocksas. Cold approaches from a blind angle are always fun, but nothing stimulates every sense quite like an unspoken invitation to thigh adventure. Show intention and her blood pounds, chest reddens, pussy tingles. It’s just a beginning, with no guarantee of a fulfilling end, but what a sweet beginning it is, the first dulcet notes of a symphony waiting for your conductor’s baton.
^^ 10 seconds+ = eye f*cking.
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When you get the eye contact back, smile and hold the eye contact a bit longer.
Many women will look startled, but not look away. Go get those ones.
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[…] Attention Diffidence Disorder […]
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I’m new to this and I need some help. Whenever I’m hanging out with a chick they never seem to be able to hold eye contact with me for long. I’m not ugly as fuck so is it just because I ooze beta like nobody’s business?
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because I ooze beta like nobody’s business?
Could be. If they keep looking away it’s not always bad but could be. Or maybe your eye contact isn’t as direct as you think? Or you might be talkingrillyfastlikeachipmunk so they lose interest, maybe mumbbling.
Get your phone, go in a private room set it recording you then just talk to the phone like you talk to girls. Do your eye contact with the phone. Talk for like 3 minutes, then see what you look and sound like. Play it back only to yourself. Posture, hand gestures, tone of voice, all that stuff. You can break stuff down that way, llike change how you sit / stand, then eye contact.
Eye contact is excellent nonverbal game with some deniability built in. Just don’t stare like Clinton at Ivanka, that’s borderline retardation.
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Another factor is that a lot of guys will kill things ironically enough when the girl shows signs of being strongly attracted. For example, they’ll freak out if a girl gets a “deer in the headlights” look and they mistake it for shock or fright, leading them to try to reassure them that they’re safe and boring.
They forget that disinterested or turned-off girls will avoid eye contact at all costs. In fact, in most Slavic languages, the word “to hate” literally means something like “to not look at”.
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Another factor is that a lot of guys will kill things ironically enough when the girl shows signs of being strongly attracted. For example, they’ll freak out if a girl gets a “deer in the headlights” look and they mistake it for shock or fright, leading them to try to reassure them that they’re safe and boring.
“Deer in the headlights” – both eyes locked on you, pupil dilation, neutral facial expression, possibly faster breathing. Plus they stop talking much. That’s intense interest, that’s “game ON!” but too easy for the average beta to assume – because if he looked like that he would probably be all “run or fight?” – that she’s scared.
Big mistake. BTDT. But once you know what it looks like, it’s unmistakeable.
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>In fact, in most Slavic languages, the word “to hate” literally means something like “to not look at”.
“Nienawidzę”, or “(I) do not look at”. And Polish is even my first language. Can’t believe I never made the connection.
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Great stuff!
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K. So wifey and I are on an extended break. No biggy, kids grown, both good looking advancing alpha males. Mission accomplished.
So now, being older and having tended one garden for so many years, I am out play acting. NFG.
My latest lay is a slutty 7.5 mid 30’s prowler. I have been trying different personas, and different game angles. Bagged this one with 50’s game.
out drinking with me, myself and I, when she and a couple of her friends appear at the bar. Short enough skirt you can make out the bands on her nylons, tight cashmere sweater top, and heels like inverted Eiffel towers. Rally the boys and make the approach, laser like only to her, ignoring her “nice” friends. Eventually cut her out of her pack and get some good mojo going. Dancing, drinking, and drunkeness.
Having fun. Whence walks in a natty 5, but dressed like a secretary from Mad Men. Have an illumination, 50’s game, it is on. Make an excuse to prowler lady that I need to piss, but head straight to natty 5. Spend the next 2 hours with natty 5, glimpsing The prowler, getting steamed.
Finally she rounds up her “nice” friends and starts to head to the door. I inexplicably bump into her as she is leaving. She gives the ice stare and seethes a “WTF?” Laughing I give her the line that she just aint feminine enough for me. I like my lady’s to be lady’s, wear dresses and act with some dignity, “you know like natty 5 over there”
Pat her on the ass as she huffs out the exit. And yes I did plow natty 5 that night, why not, she smelled like fine folded linen.
Well if hell didn’t freeze over and next weekend, the prowler is back in the bar, this time wearing a fine dress, hair done modest, make up nice, and heels like inverted Eiffel towers. I almost pissed myself! Fuck, what can’t game a ZFG attitude accomplish? Been snozzing this bitch now for the past month.Keep her in strict adherence to the Code of the 50’s. I’ve never been with a bitch this horny and wet before!
Fun thing is how fucked up our world is, where if you have the balls, don’t give a flying fuck, and just for the shits and gigggles try outrageous plays on these bimbo’s. They may be the most educated whores who have ever walked the earth, but most of them are as dumb as shit on a stick.
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Thats what I’ve always done.
Which is game game confuses me so much – so many techniques, yet the nonverbal work is paying pretty well.
That said…
I’m not one to cold approach. I have seen it work, that’s just not my thing.
When I do lock eyes with a woman however, it is simply a matter of… reading her. That is nothing to do with entering an ocular wrestle. That would just creep her out, send the wrong message (why, that is what you do prior to a fight with a man, of course that is strange as fuck). Instead, I think, its more about indulging your curiosity about her. “I’m open to business and I mean it, how about you?”. It’s also a form of conversation then. Ask and answer.
The fearful man does not do that. For curiosity is somewhat intrusive, and he fears being rebuffed.
And for God’s sake, don’t touch people like they have spikes or are made of crystal. You’ll look wimpy. If you shake hands or give a pat on the back of a fellow, mean it. Likewise if for whatever reason you touch a woman, during flirt or social interaction, do not seek to minimize contact. Its good for you, gets serotonin and oxytocin pumping. We’re made for contact. In the process you’ll make friends and bang women.
A man should be corageous and trustworthy. Let it transpire in the way you carry yourself too. It will make for a better place wherever you are.
(Even foes will be more considerate, which seems kinda odd at first, but isn’t really).
Grettings from Brazil.
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