Male preselection, aka the observable reality that the desirability of men to women increases when men are desired by women, gets a boost from ¡SCIENCE!:
Men are more attractive when desired by other women, study finds
Published in the journal Scientific Reports, researchers from the Universities of St Andrews, Durham and Exeter believe that a man is given an “attractiveness boost” when he is desired by other women.
This is because he is perceived to be more kind, faithful and a better father.
Right observation, wrong interpretation. These cues may play a role in the additional desirability of preselected men, but they aren’t the primary reason for women’s arousal in the company of men who are surrounded by adoring women. The more honest explanation for the “mate copying effect” in women is that preselected men are proven HSMV commodities — the love of other women validates the preselected man’s sexual worth. Women need this validation because it’s a shortcut to determining if a man would be a quality mate. Why do women, but not men, exploit third party opinion to gauge a potential lover’s worth? Because women are HOLISTIC mate value assessors; women judge a lot more about a man than just his looks. Men predominately rely on their eyeballs to tell them which women are worth pursuing and courting.
The women were asked to rate how attractive they found each image before being shown the average rating given by the rest of the group.
Interestingly, when the women were asked to re-rate each image shortly after, their answer changed in favour of the social information.
On average, a participant changed their initial rating by around 13 per cent when rating the attractiveness of men’s faces depending on what other women had said.
In the zero sum sexual market, even a 1% edge can mean the difference between incel and normielove.
“Women appear to copy the mate preferences of other women but this might simply be because humans have a general tendency to be influenced by the opinions of others,” said research leader Dr Kate Cross.
A strong sex difference operates here. Women tend to be more influenced by group opinion.
A trait which is often seen in female birds and fish, the idea behind mate copying or The Wedding Ring Effect, is that by already being in a relationship or desired by other women, a man has already proven that they have some desirable characteristics.
When a woman sees an ugly man with attractive women, she thinks, “what does he have going on? I must find out.”
When a man sees an ugly woman with attractive men, he thinks, “she’s ugly, they’re gay.”
The findings are also supported by an earlier study from Oklahoma State University which found that 90 per cent of single women were interested in a man they believed was taken, while a mere 59 per cent wanted him when told he was single.
The “wedding ring effect” can be spoofed by single men in two ways: wear a wedding ring, or surround himself with female friends who will act as his wingmen completely unawares of their purpose to him if he chooses exploitation over honesty.
If you decide on the female friend strategy to boost your preselection score, don’t ruin the effect by acting like a gay-ass beta orbiter. You aren’t supposed to give women the impression that you’re a gay bestie helping your girls hook up with chads. You’re supposed to be *that guy* who’s socializing with women whom he may or may not be banging, while still keeping an eye out for fresh meat. And when the girl you’ve got your eye on asks about the nature of your relationships with your female company? “Oh them? They’re my caravan of migrants, always following me around.”

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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5575105/Active-shooter-reported-YouTube-HQ-California.html
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Feminism at its best! Woman ‘shoots her boyfriend before killing herself’ after going on gun rampage at YouTube’s California HQ and injuring four people
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5575105/Active-shooter-reported-YouTube-HQ-California.html#ixzz5BeWZKBNH
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She probably had a high digit ratio
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da legendary GBFM
Are you by any chance the Pook?
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Now there is a name not heard in a long time. One of the original and still best manosphere bloggers
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Sheryl Sandberg would be frickin’ proud!
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Some fellow life takers/heart breakers and I tested the “man in uniform” concept on hot or not . omega, back when it was big.
Average change in attractiveness from civilian clothes to fatigues was +3.5 points.
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“Average change in attractiveness from civilian clothes to fatigues was +3.5 points.”
What I simply can’t understand are military men who end up with landwhales. Are they simply hard up and end up going after the Ft. Bragg 10s?
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Wedding Ring Effect.
Just last night at a bar an older heiress was desperately quailifying to me and trying to keep me in conversation. At one point she said “so… Where is your cute wife tonight?” I asked her if she knew my wife. She said “No but I see your ring and assume she is cute.”
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Again with the fuckin mod…
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If you’re invested in the publishment of comments you make on the internet, you already lose.
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That’s absurd. Every person who comments including yourself is invested in the comment being published or they would not bother to post it in the first place.
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and you are a jew.
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What’s your deal, anyway? It’s like you’re constantly trying to be an insufferable cunt for some reason.
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Is publishment a word? You sound like a foreigner.
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Slightly off topic, but wanted to know the take of people here on Ben Shapiro & Jordan Peterson. Some of their ideas sound good (like their views on trannies) but other times they completely sound like a cuck. Do they have any substance or they are just like any other cuck? I heard Jordan Peterson does not have a favorable view of PUAs. What are views bros?
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Hate Ben Shapiro. He’s a neocon Jew.
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And a whiny little bitch who got bullied in high school for being a scrawny little faggot.
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However it is not accurate to call Ben Shapiro a cuck. A cuck is a man who betrays his own people. Ben Shapiro to my knowledge has never betrayed HIS own (((people))). Just the misguided and often willfully blind Heritage Americans who insist a nation is made up of laws, constitutions, economic principles and not blood.
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As far as Jordan Peterson, I like him. He kind of picks on low hanging fruit though. Trannies, gender pronouns, sex differences, feminism, and Marxism are easy targets. On the harder topics like race differences in IQ and the JQ he cucks pretty hard.
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I’ve seen it argued that it’s “too early” for Peterson to talk about the JQ. He certainly knows, since he’s spoken at length about Solzhenitsyn’s works and obviously has a keen eye.
Personally I think it’s just his boomerism combined with the low-energy libertarian worldview that “if I am extremely individualistic and agree not to collectively act with others similar to me in a way that’s unfair to other individuals or groups, then nobody else would either”. Which is a noble, but extremely naive viewpoint, and quintessentially White. Non-whites all know that people act in the interests of their groups, and use that to their own advantage over Whites.
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His shit on trannies at that college was great tho…despite his being a sperg, he says good lines you can use later.
Even idiots can be useful, just ask Lenin
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Peterson is a gateway drug. White men that have been indoctrinated by the media-educational complex hear him speak, and then they start to question Cultural Marxism.
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“And a whiny little bitch who got bullied in high school for being a scrawny little faggot.”
I still remember when he torpedoed his rep among the alt-right by white-knighting for his beloved, Michelle Fields.
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Manlet Shapiro is a White Knight faggot
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Shapiro speaks very fast.
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[…] ¡SCIENCE! you dirty whore: Study Proves Women Love Men Who Are Loved By Women […]
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>This is because he is perceived to be more kind, FAITHFUL and a better father.
This is the PC interpretation. What are the chances of him actually being more faithful if he has all these girls after him. Sometimes researchers need to question their conclusions.
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Makes a little sense at least. A man who has opportunity to cheat but does not take it out of faithfulness is a more verifiably honorable man than the one who did not have the opportunity in the first place.
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benefits of not wearing the ring:
1. not marked as labor – majority of husbands are beta providers
2. you decide when to drop that you’re already getting a bj tonight (wife) no matter what happens with the trim in front of you
3. you can conceal your intentions and misdirect the trim in front of you
4. you can frame the situation to suit your immediate purposes (bi wife, separated, open, business, sham, etc.) based on what the trim in front of you wants to hear to justify the close
her: you’re married? lol. and you’re out hitting on girls? pathetic
me: you’re confused. clearly that happens a lot. what you would call a wife, I call a stray puppy. you wish you could be a leashed puppy too, but obviously you can’t be housetrained. squirt is okay, but not puppy piss. your tiny girl bladder is the only pathetic thing here. fetch me a (blank) and I might teach you a new trick. now get out of my sight, you drooling mutt, before I beat you with a rolled up newspaper
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Wedding ring effect is real. Kind of competitive mating contest for women: he is interesting, but married – I have to step up my game and offer something unique if I stand a chance at his attentions.
So they try harder.
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…but nobody every tells how in the damn fuck do you get this to work if you have no god-damn girls to begin with?! Like how does a beginner implement this type of shit to work for him?
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Talk to girls in front of other girls.
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Fake it til you make it.
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2) The second moast important quality which can’t be easily faked is your kissing technique.
1) The first moast important quality which can’t be easily faked is your cl!t massage technique.
1) is actually easier to rectify – whisper in her ear “Take my finger and show me how you like to be touched” – different chicks like their cl!ts rubbed in different places, and at varying degrees of aggressiveness.
2) is moar difficult to rectify – you need to french kiss with a chick who really knows what she’s doing in order to get a sense for how the tongue-swirling works.
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Here are some tips I used to help myself get started in real life when I first came across “game” lit (CH etc). Note that I was already socially comfortable and alpha in a lot of ways but had been conditioned (lied to) by society that being a nice guy was how to attractive to women. So the shift for me was “oh, THIS is how women’s brains work” and using some mental shifts to tap into the power of game.
1. Think of every attractive female as your little sister, and tease her accordingly. Remember that women are silly creatures, that most of them are not fit for politics etc and even professionally successful women are silly in many ways and longing to be led.
2. Remember that even by implementing game imperfectly (showing signs of being alpha/ZFG) you are already light years ahead of 85-90% of guys (betas); even many good-looking &/or rich guys are beta.
3. Genuinely have a mission in life that has nothing to do with women, & strive for excellence. Then you don’t have to fake feeling good about yourself.
4. Walk like you own the world, and your default facial expression is the Bruce Willis smirk (joogle it). If you have to, watch Bond movies (Daniel Craig has it down perfect) over and over to internalize the vibe.
5. Dress as well as you can possibly afford. Not just “I’m wearing a suit” but the fit and cut and style and colors (e.g. none of those horrid flat-tied “dress shoes”, no wide ties, no beige suits, no bright colored “dress shirts”, etc.) have to be right. (Even if not dressed up, your clothes should fit perfectly, ironed, great style, etc.) Sharp, like Bond or John Wick. Get a well-dressed friend or pro stylist to help you if needed. Instant status lift in the eyes of women. And everyone else – most Americans dress like slobs, so it’s easy to stand out. People assume you are higher status. And you feel different.
6. Your goal is to constantly feel like “I’m the freakin man”. Not in a way where you need anybody to validate it, but just that you are totally comfortable with yourself and your ability to handle anything & everything. Nothing fazes you. If you feel yourself dropping from this frame mentally, work yourself back up to it.
7. Lift. Increases testosterone & you look & feel better.
8. You genuinely don’t care if any particular woman falls for you. There are many fish in the sea. You are having fun for your own amusement.
9. Give commands. “Come here.” “Follow me.” Etc.
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.. about a life’s purpose.. I’ve actually been trying to find one for years but can never come up with anything worthwhile. It’s like most of life and what it has to offer is so bland/boring to me. And it seems with every year that passes, it actually feels its getting harder to find a life’s purpose. So at this point, should I just bullshit my way through life, pick some purpose even though it doesn’t excite me and pretend to be happy ?
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Your life’s purpose could be as simple as enjoying yourself on your own terms. Or trolling the hell out of leftard SJWs. Women just want to sense that you skip to the beat of your own drum.
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Met a hippy-type, white ponytail boomer guy a few days ago who spoke of his scheduled ‘OM’ retreat in California. Turns out it stands for Orgasmic Meditation: male pays to attend long workshops of talking about male privilege, sexual consent and clit-stroking, culminating in an ‘opportunity’ to stroke the upper left quadrant of a clit for 13 minutes while she’s lying down in a nest of pillows – a Buddhist ‘mindfulness’ practice. Generally, the woman is a stranger at the beginning of the retreat (and I’d bet, aging, PoC, HB1 or all three).
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Relevant (and amusing) anecdote: I was at the gym with my fiance a couple of months ago. In between my sets, she walked up, wrapped her arms around me, and kissed me, which seemed out of place at the time, especially because she was in the middle of her workout.
Later she told me that three girls were eyeing me, one of whom was getting a little too close for comfort. We had sex five days in a row after that, and she’s mentioned that night multiple times since.
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I like it, the better play (and story), would have been in addition to that poon you slayed– you went BACK to the gym and scored the digits of all 3 of the other girls and made it a hat trick of side action. *rim shot*
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I wouldn’t cheat on her, but the fact that she knows I have options means our marriage will get off to a healthy start.
It’s arguably a more powerful example of pre-selection because I was too wrapped up in my workout to even notice the prying eyes.
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What are flat-tied dress shoes?
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Typo. Flat-toed. Or perhaps a better description would be square-toed.
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Yeah, I’ve noticed this too.
Say an attractive girl gets a serious crush on a certain man. The man also happens to be passing her sh!t tests. Sometimes this happens because the man isn’t interested in her — but if she detects he is, then all the better, because it indicates he has strength of character, patience, confidence in himself and her, and so forth.
OF COURSE she talks about him all the time to her girlfriends… and they get “sympathetic crushes” on him.
Usually, however, the girlfriends won’t allow him to make moves on them while the girl in question is still crushing on him. In fact, they’ll often tell other girls they know about her and him, essentially shutting down his prospects with other girls within a couple of degrees of separation from THE girl.
Of course, fencing him off like this is one of the more effective ways girls have of getting a high-value man to commit to her.
But if he does something to turn her off, quite frequently the girlfriends will make themselves available to him. The old trope about a dude breaking up with a girl and fvcking her friends or sister or whatever occurs exactly because of this — the girl lost interest, her friends still have their sympathetic crushes on him, and they take over.
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There’s sure a lot of crazy packed into that small package.
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