Cause and Effect: Act like a cloying beta male borefriend, become an ex-cloying beta male borefriend. From everybodylovesscott,
I have a friend where every single picture with his gf hes praising her in the fb caption (I’ve since deleted fb so I don’t see them anymore) with a “My gf is so amazing” or “She’s out of my league” or leaning into her and grinning like an idiot. Recently he complained to me “women are stupid, she takes forever to reply to my messages now” and he told me “yeah, we stopped having sex so often because my penis is too big and she needs recovery time”
When the reframe is way too try-hard.
She’s post 30 so I’m not positive she’s going to rip his heart out before they get married or after she gets her 2 kids and decides she “loves him but isn’t in love with him” but I don’t see the situation ending well. Maybe I’m wrong, but I doubt it.
Ironically, the Wall has saved many beta males from a much-deserved dumping. The anxious woman on Wall approach is the beta male’s best friend. Downside: you get one, maybe two, months, tops, of bangable pussy.
He’s also packed on 40lbs in the last year because “I’m getting laid so I don’t have the motivation to stay fit anymore”
That’s not it. He’s depressed because he senses his aging beauty is already, or is thinking about, cheating on him.
He’s a narcissistic know it all so showing him this website would do nothing except get me a “you don’t know anything” response
Narcissists would make great Game-savvy womanizers, but their very narcissism prevents them from learning a thing or two from their betters.
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Another example of Cause and Effect which eludes White shitlib cognition: Bring more third world peasantry to America, make America more like the peasants’ third world homeland they left behind. From Johnny Redux,
So, 150 or so squatamalans arrived at some shithole on the Mexican border called the Hotel de Migrante. The place looks like America — IF we let them keep coming in. One big shithole.
Anyhow, just like the fake “migrant” crisis in Europe, these so-called asylum seekers are bringing their iPhones. Oh, how rough they have it. Seeking more free handouts, medical care, etc. up North. Clearly they have NO right to seek asylum, when they walked right through a safe nation, Mexico, which offered them sanctuary. Nope, not enough free shit in Meh-hee-ko. Need to go farther north, to the land of the liberal gringos!
I’m convinced a lot of the West’s problems, and interrelatedly a lot of the problems bedeviling beta males, could be solved with a proper and complete understanding of cause and effect.
But no one’s much interested in cause and effect anymore (to economists: externalities), because the logic of it is a huge buzzkill to our gadget-enslaved, lifestyle advertising, virtue sniveling ipod people.
Ehh, maybe half right here. He started putting on the pounds the second he “locked her down” Now, he is depressed, but the weight gain started before the current extremely beta behavior. I’d say the order was Weight gain-> slight loss of attraction -> more beta -> extreme loss of attraction. It’s a snowball effect but I think the original push was the weight gain.
He was fat, lost a lot of weight to the point where he was slightly overweight but looked decent (better than the average american), got in a relationship with her and went right back to fat.
Lately they’ve been “talking it out” a lot more. He’s under the delusion that communication is key. They talk on the phone every day but have sex 1-2 per month.
[CH: ok that clears it up some. fyi men who think “communication is key” are duped by their beta instincts and by the marriage counselor racket. if anything, the opposite is true: when troubles arise, be less “communicative” and more flirty.]
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Communication is a two-edged sword.
Yeah, the ladies want it, but not how we’ve been led to believe (asking her what she thinks, how she feels about X, etc.)
Solid keep-‘er-wet communication follows the same lead-by-example precepts. Talk to her about YOUR day and interests, and make sure it’s entertaining stuff and funny man-about-town dealings.
In my experience, women don’t really want you to listen to them (unless you’re already in the friendzone or beta man emotional tampon material for getting things off her chest).
They want to be enthralled by YOU and feel like YOU find them worthy of talking to, and taking them vicariously out of their humdrum existence.
So be careful, yeggs… talk with her, but communicate on your terms, don’t fall into the trap of thinking she wants an equal partnership on the gab, neither.
Of course, your mileage may vary on any given day, depending upon what went down in each of your respective lives.
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Good stuff, GE.
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mod ate a follow-up point, can’t figger why, but I’m too lazy to try to hunt down the offending words.
tl,dr version is less is more, you don’t and shouldn’t play the constant brass band… just set aside 15 minutes or so each day to hold court with her and her alone, especially youse m-a-r-r-i-e-d yeggs.
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There does come a time, though, when she is concerned about the trajectory you take and doesn’t want you to lose bigly because she sees something you don’t. It can be hard to tell when a woman is legitimately concerned about you and is pulling a kind of “concern troll shit test” to see if you can be infected with woman-like worry. The answer, of course, being to verify in the field, keep her warning in mind and apply and adapt. When dealing with a sensible woman(rare if they even really exist) this is part two of what they mean by “communication.”
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He’s under the delusion that communication is key.
LOL I endorse this totally. In fact, I’ll be stealing it.
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Any guy with a big dick can snap his fingers and get another girl way tf hotter than the bitch he’s with. A new ho is a dick pic away.
Story is bs
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Deliberately muddying the waters between cause and effect is what keeps some of (((us))) swimming in shekels.
But yeah, in an oversocialized world, cause and effect is the first thing to go.
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Re: Charlie Gard, Alfie Evans
homoSaxonhominiSaxones lupus est.but I am sure i’s were dotted, t’s were crossed to herreticucks’ satisfaction
sharia?!? they are not worthy of sharia!
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It would be better for AngloSaxon to be thrown into the sea with a millstone tied around their neck
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and where’s Massa O with his jocular gifs?
what great followers of King Herod hail from the Albion!
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Or perhaps for AngloSaxon to take the redpill on sex and take the regimen from there.
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Funny how precious life gets to the (((MSM))) when there’s a goyishe axe to be ground, amirite?
Sorry, I couldn’t quite make out either of these two behind that mountain of aborted healthy fetuses that never got mentioned.
(((shakin’ mah haid)))
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Hey, Greggie, don’t knock abortion, I don’t anymore. Look who murders their spawn: Liberal Democrat Feminists. What, 80 or 90 million in the past 50 years or so? That sort of demographic twist is what wins elections and is the root (along with birth control and the refusal of women to breed in favor of work) of the Democrats’ sheer desperation to import more tens of millions of votes, errr, refugees. You cannot get around demographics. Strong tribe wins, all that. I’m afraid Trump was a happy aberration, though. They’re still coming in, even my formerly home-state Virginia is hard-core Blue now. They did it with the importation of a couple million Hispanics and employees to all the aviation that moved from California. Virginia is wrecked.
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going beyond herreticucks (by now expected) disingenuous non sequitur, two wrongs don’t make a right used to be a Law of this Country in more blessed times; but then Da gods of da Marketplace took over and old fashion morality fell by the wayside.
if opposing euthanasia of babies makes one a Sanhedrin stooge,
so be it.
JUST THAT WE’RE CLEAR WHERE WE STAND ON ISSUES:
when you oppose baby-killing, you ride with the Sanhedrin
Peace
oink,
baby-euthanasia opposing Sanhedrin stooge
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oink is the last person who should be talking about disingenuousness.
Get more likes from the socks, Mal.
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The Marco Rubio picture of him leaning in on that wife with the ((((stars)))) woven into the fabric of the dress is a mandatory look for those reading this stuff for the first time. It shows a Rubio screwing up this way in such PERFECT tempo and detail that if YOU ever do it, you’ll remember Marco Rubio and stop. Any article on ‘cloying’ should lead off with that photo. CH must have taken the damned picture of Marco. It was perfect. In any case, I saw it here first. Credit due, all that.
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And another thing. All these dopey sitcoms from Alan Alda’s MASH to Friends, to Big Bang, they taught men to be sensitive. They also taught that scrawny, faggy man-boys get Perfect Tens. Complete lie. The 98-pound weakling gets NOTHING. From ((((TV)))) we learn that to spawn the full span of human depravity, from Divorce (All in the Family), to single motherhood (Murphy Brown), rampant promiscuity and weed use (Risky Business) to heroin and opiate glorification (Pulp Fiction and others), if you want more of it, show the depravity on (((TV))) and watch folks copy it society-wide. T-fucking-V. Really, the ruination, especially of our women, but they wanted it this way in any case.
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Everything we were told was a lie. Once you get into it, the list of the lies is astonishing.
The food pyramid is a great example. Exactly the opposite of how we should eat. And once you flip it upside down, the difference to your health is incredible.
And for those who don’t believe in “CTs”, the food pyramid is an example of a flat-out, deliberate, conscious, fully-orchestrated and complex conspiracy executed with complete knowledge and for profit by a small group working hand-in-hand with government agencies against the health of the nation’s citizens.
Put butter on your bacon and eggs. It’s good for you!
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> I’m convinced a lot of the West’s problems, and interrelatedly a lot of the problems bedeviling beta males, could be solved with a proper and complete understanding of cause and effect.
Everything I’ve seen points to the fact that abundance is dysgenic and scarcity is eugenic. You can’t ‘solve’ mother nature with arguments.
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Even if this is true, it is self indulgent in and of itself. Want to keep the population strong? I don’t gib a shit what you call the governance or how to dance around it definition so long as the best are in charge, they best are an example to the rest, and the true dregs do not breed. This keeps Modren in check.
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Mr Lector. You win the internet with that comment.
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There would be one way, at least as a band-aid: repeal the notion of unversal suffrage. Once the target audience of “The View” is no longer able to turn our country into an infantilized kindergarten for the world, so many problems would be solved.
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“Recovery time” for a girl who can’t handle your meat hammer is a few hours. Fuck her once in the morning and once at night if she can’t go two rounds at once. Anything longer is an excuse
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Not necessarily true. After multiple births, it is possible to be chronically sore.
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If she has rheumatoid arthritis or some other medical problem, sure.
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The vagina is the most blessedly elastic hole I know. Too bad at some point, every vag winds up looking like if Hubert the pedo and a tarantula got into a teleportation accident.
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I’m not seeing it
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VFM not necessarily. There can be small lacerations with chronic lingering effects, especially when giving birth to big honkin babies. Trust me on this one 🙂
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It’s because of women’s vote. Women don’t fully grasp cause and effect on every level. They are too emotional to understand numerical implications of mass embathobesity (termed coined by you CH), they see a cute dirty child and that’s all the info they need. I say that as a woman. Somebody rescind female suffrage please. Start with my MIL
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The ’cause’ in cause-and-effect, of course, is hidden from a great many members of the electorate, who are too lazy and/or stupid to do their own research, too 2-dimensional in their lifestyles (entertainment uber alles), too gullible, and/or too socially/politically disengaged from important matters that face our People and Nation. How so? By the alien controlled MSM, with their intentional slight-of-hand shell games.
People think they know the cause of many of society’s ills (e.g., black crime, third world immigration, feminism, Islamification, greed, etc.) just to have the media lift up a coconut shell to show you that their is no cause actually there, and to remind you how stupid you are for thinking that the cause was _________ [something obvious to those living in reality and using common sense] at all! Of course, all the while they are hiding that cause under another thick coconut shell that you will not be allowed to look under – through a total blackout of real news. Hence, we have such fake news outlets as CNN (US), the BBC (Britain), and the ARD (Germany), to name a few.
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So, in effect, the West is being led around by Communist street magicians, who are constantly moving and hiding the ball (i.e., the true causes of our ills), until we find ourselves stripped of our money, our culture, and our nations.
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Race is NOT a social construct.
Society is a Racial Construct.
They love their Nation. Its who they are…
Ants are damn hard workers. You still don’t want them living in Your House.
It’ll rot away.
They is lookin for a betta life. That betta life is about 70 cents a day.
You get what you pay for.
The Rich get all the profits and YOU bear all the costs.
We can live better without da rich. THEY STUPID.
The gubmint Cares So Much about these itinerant invaders.
They get paid So Much to Pretend to Care.
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The red pill on sex solves everything. Once this is internalized, every other red pill tumbles like jelloshots. Each one sweeter than the last. Beta males are just plain beta and they don’t want to face a cruel world, they don’t want to be mean, they don’t want to inadvertently support standards that could bite them in the ass and they don’t believe in anything bigger than themselves. Whenever they say that they do, it is platitudes. Their development is arrested and so is everything they inherit if they aren’t thunder-chadded by watching the dicks get the holes in one.
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Not understanding cause and effect is the understatement of the year. They cling even more desperately to their poisonous ideology when personally victimized by its effects.
Example: I have an ole college buddy who is true believer libtard. Always gave him a pass because he’s not a hypocrite (admits he’s shit with the wahmen, hates competition, blahblah.) But he’s a great guy and loyal friend.
Of course he became a Math teacher to blackies in a poor school district. They run around like animals calling each other nagger all the live day long. He corrects them because he really wants them to learn adult, professional language and succeed in life.
Sure enough a mini-nagger ratted him out. Superintendent (old White broad- surprise!) told him he has no right to tell them how to use that word. That it is his White Privilege talking. He sincerely asked what he was supposed to do when they say ‘fuck you’ to his face. She told him he could accept it or resign. That he has no right to correct their behavior.
We all got together at a beach condo last weekend. Hadn’t seen him in a while.
He’s now a pizza delivery driver.
I asked him if he’s learned anything from the cancer that is leftoidism now that he has been professionally victimized by it.
He defends it more vigorously than ever.
Glad you’re all my brothers.
FE
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“That’s your White Privelege talking.”
“Damn straight.”
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Powerful story. People who look at reality but won’t accept it – that is just about the definition of dysgenic.
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He’s now a pizza delivery driver.
It’s never too late
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On this note. I noticed that the Central American countries that send the most people up north (Guatemala, El Salvador, Honduras) are the ones the U.S. have dipped their hands in at some point. However, the one country you don’t hear much from is, coincidentally the one that the U.S tried to have its regime overthrown, which of course I’m referring to Nicaragua. And as far as I understand, if any Nicaraguans do emigrate, they go to Costa Rica or Panama. That can’t just be a coincidence.
And for the record, Mexicans can’t stand Central Americans. And neither do I. They’re basically Pinoys, except definitely more annoying and more prone to violence, especially in groups. Cue MS-13. And their women are nothing to look at. Exceptions are Costa Rican women, which are to me average, but knockout beauties compared to mestiza Salvadorans.
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