The Judge says giving women all the responsibility for initiating and controlling the pace of sex is the answer to false rape accusations.
Women are just dishonest to the bone, 24/7. You can think everything is cool because the dumb bitch doesn’t say anything, next thing you know, she claims you raped her, or she “felt half-raped”.
In such a climate, Game…CHARISMA…is needed, because the only safe sexual encounter is one initiated and controlled by the dumb bitch.
The Judge is well-meaning but his suggestion will actually make the problem of women blaming men for the regret and emptiness women normally feel after impulsive hookups much worse. Ceding the domain of bedroom escalation to women is no guarantee of a safe sexual encounter. As we all know, a woman will back-rationalize any sexual encounter into a distant facsimile of actual events to support whatever her feelings require in the moment, and that includes sexual interactions she initiated and controlled. Even if you signed a consent form with a lawyer present and tied your hands behind your back so that she would have to undress you and guide your penis into her three holes, if she felt bad about it the next day she’ll concoct a load of self-serving sophistry to excuse her actions and relinquish her accountability, which in practice means IT’S ALWAYS THE BOYIM’S FAULT.
Paradoxically, the closest thing men have to a guarantee against a false regret rape accusation is to DOMINATE and LEAD the girl to a sexual encounter in which she CAN’T CONTROL her erupting arousal and EAGERLY SURRENDERS to the man. (Then make sure you give her a peck on the cheek and tell her something nice before bolting in the morning. Leave em wetter than you found em.)
The problem with the physically and personably unattractive amy schumers of the world is that they are fated to date weak men, soyboys, gloryhole faces, male feminists, john scalzis, and simpering omega nerdos. A woman who initiates and controls the sexual encounter from start to finish with one of those kinds of un-males will FEEL LIKE she was raped afterwards, because her contaminated womb will be crying out for a mercy killing. Naturally, this bad feeling of existential darwinian regret will compel her to deny her role in the consensual sex and to seek absolution by shifting a fake blame onto the unwitting loser male who thought she was enjoying his tepid romantic advances.
A woman sexually in control is a woman emotionally in doubt. Give her control over sexual progression and the only guarantee you’ll get is her post-coital spite and resentment. Few women, deep down, want to lead a man. Most women, deep down, want to follow a man. You, as a man, deny this want of women at your peril.
Some dumb mudshark pornstar has the video where she’s claiming she’s raped looking all happy (yes, I watched it after I saw the accusation) and she’s giggling. Porn stars claiming #metoo because they weren’t sufficiently into scenes they were paid to do. Crazy times.
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Her: No! No! No!
GBFM: OK I stop
Her: NO no no don’t stop!
GBFM: OK I go
Her: YES YES YES OH YES!
GBFM: Yes what?
Her: Huh?
GBFM: Yes please–mind your manners!!
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Consent isn’t enough; make ’em beg for it!
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This is why we lose. The only “safe sexual encounter” is one mediated by ancient agreements that define the meaning of the encounter. That’s why civilization itself is built upon, and can only persist through, a clear, prior, and agreed-upon understanding among free men of the parameters governing licit sexuality.
The contradiction at the heart of game liberals is to want the rules that preserve feminine innocence for themselves and a simultaneous prerogative to break those rules, making a cuckold of men who abide by their oath. We thereby exchange our honor for a moment’s dick friction, betraying brothers for a fleeting nut.
If you don’t know that one skeezy dude who puts hos before bros, who sells his birthright for a mess of pussage, I’d say you’ve never had serious friends. Those subhumans are destined for the Ninth Circle, reserved for betrayers. I have a feeling that “game” has been an online organizing principle for just those sorts of priapic losers who want to justify their treachery via the worship of the almighty dick, claiming themselves to be superior men by their “sneaky fuckery” behind the backs of their betters, and preying upon the notorious and immemorial weaknesses of the lass.
It has always been incumbent upon game leaders to transmute this itchy adolescent urge into a sense of loyalty, to form a communion of deliberate men from the impulses of the pack. There is pussy for everybody, but to the dissolute man, there can never be enough in the entire world just for himself. And then, having finally plumbed the depths of the shallow female soul and cervix, he realizes that his pornified schoolboy nerd fantasies were a lie, and all that remains is a legacy of distrust.
Matt
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The sin is Lust and it only gets the higher circles because it is at the top of the sin hierarchy but your admonishments are correct. Game is essentially a how to manual on fornication as young men wish to experience it. That said, most people go to Hell for sins of the flesh because they are so tempting for most of us. Bishop Barron’s lecture on this one is a bit lame frankly. Most people here have never seen a healthy society. Bishop Sheen is generally better on any topic. BTW, Matt, I was confirmed on 24 February this year. Ave Maria.
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Gratia plena!
Aquinas and Dante (Purgatorio) regarded lust as the least deadly of the mortal sins, but you are right in saying that it might still be the number one soul-killer due to its universality. Game’s “how-to manual on fornication” is missing its most crucial chapter on the self-discipline which makes freedom possible, regarding any attempt to control one’s appetites fit only for a betamale.
The quick flameout of the incontinent should be proof enough from the Book of Experience quite apart from the Gospel, which is why it seems to me that the loudest braggarts of conquest are those with the fewest wick-dippings. Or maybe not the fewest — because quantity can always substitute for quality among the desperate — but rather the least significant conquests, those YaRealleans who count campus rats and demi-prostitutes as notches on their worm-eaten bedposts. “I SNL’ed this AZN 9.295” is the equivalent of, “Daddy! I made poopie in the pottie!” And then you see evidence of the women they think are dimes. And your soul dies even more…
The conversion of CH to acknowledging this Law of Social Gravity (again, independent of any spiritual physics based on faith) would beget a thousand conversions. But it’s obvious that he is, like us, enthralled by a sin far more damning than lust, namely pride, the first and in many ways only sin. For a knowledge project devoted to restoring the freedom of alpha males, CH boastfully preserves that final fetter by calling license liberation and pretends it isn’t keeping him and all of his followers chained to the dungeon floor. One gets comfortable by necessity to one’s confines. Humility before Whoever or Whatever created this world is the key within reach, but the mere contemplation of not being the hero in one’s solipsistic story is enough to keep the proud man’s arms folded in preposterous smugness.
Faith, and the courage that allows faith, is indispensable to liberation, and it is a gift nobody merits. So I continue to pray for Ye of Little of it, that the scales fall from your eyes, and that you get one nano-scintilla of the true freedom, which is all even the worst degenerate needs to pursue it into eternity.
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the first (single) thought in her head after you’ve left should be “will he call”.
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>> give her a peck on the cheek and tell her something nice before bolting in the morning
Going back to her place??
I fucked a girl in her hotel room in March… the is the closest I’ve been to “her territory” in years. My place. Always my place.
>> DOMINATE and LEAD the girl to a sexual encounter in which she CAN’T CONTROL
Exactly. At your place.
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In my single days, I didn’t want then to know where I lived. Lesson learned after a few got a little to enthusiastic with the random drop by.
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That first pick in gloryhole faces is surreal. Am almost inclined to believe photo shopped.
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Women are fickle. That’s why power + vagina = bitch. Its not what you do, its what have you done for me lately. Think of it as a business transaction. Clear your mind of stupid and childish romantic fantasies. This ain’t a Disney Movie with a Happy Ending here, pal.
Women are colder than you think. They see you as an asset or a liability. Its not where you’ve been, its where you are going. If they can trade up, then they’ll dump you like yesterday’s trash man. Believe it.
Barbie don’t want a loving guy with a sense of humor. She wants a Millionaire or better. Anything better is always best FOR NOW. Yeah its cold. All that crying and talk of feelings. First thing she’ll ask you is, “What do you do?” Last thing she’ll say is, “I’m leaving. I’ve found someone who know how to “TREAT” a lady.”
Its biological reality. Hardwired to the inner lizard. She wants a provider. You either PROVIDE or watch her DIVIDE. It comes down to Math. You are either considered an Asset or a Liability.
Sure, some women make their own money. Pity the fool that falls into that trap. Women who can PROVIDE for themselves DO NOT NEED YOU AT ALL…
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“She wants a Millionaire or better.”
Look on the bright side: most dudes probably have more natural game than Mark Zuckerberg.
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And most guys are banging a better specimen than Cuckerberg’s sweetie.
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Doesn’t matter if they make their own money. As long as they spend yours. Or if they have a better vehicle than yours, doesn’t matter. They still want to drive yours, because what’s yours is mine and what’s mine is mine. Also, consider how bad most women are with money.
There’s this particular website that sells used brand name clothes for women called Thred Up. Apparently they’ll sell clothes and shoes from brands like Michael Kors for cheap. And is I was watching the ads in TV is was thinking. Instead of spending $71 on a new dress, they’ll spend $23 on a used dress. And then $23 on another dress, and another, and so on. Pretty soon their walk in closet will be full of crap they might wear once because situations like getting fat or yoga pants not being cool and hip anymore. Now they got crap they may not sell or get rid off even if they bought it for cheap. And now they’re in a crapload of debt. Hopefully they can land Mr Big to bail them out. And hopefully he’ll notice those cute Michael Kors pumps she just bought.
Also, notice the eyes and tats on some of these specimens. If you want to stick your dick in that, go ahead. But if you end up in jail or with herpes, don’t expect us to bail you out. You have been warned.
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Oops, wrong video.
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The question is, What are you going to do for me now?
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Brokaw can attest to this….
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guys who have spent time in prison and/or the court system seem to always say it’s just not very fun. they also tend say that staying out of it is just a leeeetle more important than getting the same night lay.
if there’s ANY doubt that a girl might fuck up his life good and hard by entangling him with the legal system, what possible harm would it do a guy to make a girl wait a day or ten before giving her what she wants, so that he can screen her character a little better?
missed lay vs. weeks, months or years of getting your life back on track.
hmmm… difficult choice.
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You meet some random woman, have coffee, go back to her place, you have to know straight away that you are in weirdo territory.
My perhaps weirdest ever (of quite a few weird things) was just like that. So we are on the bed making out – met 30 minutes before on the street – and I notice one of her arms is busy elsewhere. I look over her shoulder and she is reaching back for a pair of shears (not scissors, fucking shears!) on the bedside table. (Yes, like Sharon Stone but she didn’t look anywhere near that good).
You never saw a man get off a bed and out a door so quick.
What the fuck was that about? Who knows? I didn’t think there was any value in quizzing her on it. But women who will lay you really fast almost certainly have issues. I didn’t wait to find out what hers were.
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jeesus, VD. what was she going to shear off you?
file under “if it seems too good to be true…”
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even if most women are not predators, the gynocracy that gives them almost unlimited free reign to ruin a man’s life is reason alone to take extra precautions. I could not emphasize this to guys enough.
ask any ex-con whether watching the seasons change from the inside of a 6×9 cell all because of some twat was worth it..
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“What was she going to shear off you?”
I actually thought afterwards that maybe it was going to be some false r@pe claim or something. She was Chinese, if that is relevant.
Anyway, that chjlled my “street love machine” act for a while. “Love hotels” ftw. No one can claim they don’t know what they are for.
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You went to bed with her 30 minutes after you met her? Man you’re stupid!
You are organlegger material. How are your kidneys and heart?
I can make some serious change with a fool like you.
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@ some odd guy “You went to bed with her 30 minutes after you met her? Man you’re stupid! You are organlegger material. How are your kidneys and heart? I can make some serious change with a fool like you.”
Yet here I am, in good health and happy, past the bloom of youth, but a man of wide experience who has quite enjoyed his life.
Of course it would all have been much better if only I had had you along to guide me.
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Taking unnecessary risks doesn’t bespeak of wisdom. There are quite some seedy characters around nowadays. You can stop to pick up a pretty hitchhiker and find she’s just bait for a nasty gang. Nowadays even meeting someone to buy or sell on Craigslist can get you in trouble. Its shocking that you’d follow some poon so quickly.
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At the risk of sounding old fashioned, I adopted the wait and see approach some time ago. I have never had much enjoyment out of ONS and consider them depressing and undignified. You are going to enjoy sex far more with someone who cares for you and you have feelings for and you will get lots of repeat business and avoid the pitfalls that usually come with a ONS. This pressure to have sex now for the sake of personal validation is ultimately destructive and has served to drive the you go girl and me too mentality as it has made men and women adversaries instead of lovers.
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JS, wisdom is usually learned from surviving stupid mistakes. VD is a wise man and maybe a bit foolish in his youth but his other faculties obviously mitigated the threat. There, but for the grace of God, go I.
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Experience is a harsh teacher. It’ll burn it into your memory for sure, but the psychological effects alone make it risky business. I try to learn from OTHER guys mistakes. That way I don’t have to make them myself…
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“A woman sexually in control is a woman emotionally in doubt.”
This.
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And Bill Cosby has been found guilty.
Now here’s my take on this. I’ve never liked the guy. I thought his shows were not funny. Basically, Growing Pains and Full House, but for black people. Plus, the guy always seemed shady to me, like the guy I definitely wouldn’t want my prospective daughter to be around. And I wouldn’t be surprised if he actually raped someone. Maybe it’s just my man instinct weeding out a potential pervert for the day I actually have daughters.
However, even if I don’t like the guy because, quite frankly, he creeps the Bejeexus out of me, I’m not going to condemn him unless there’s evidence. I suspect that crazy bitch decided to get drunk and high with the Coz and woke up the next morning with his Jello pudding pop smeared all over her tits, felt gross and now she thinks she got raped. Never mind Cosby scandals have stretched all the way back to the 70s. And yet dumb bitches still tempt fate, and men can’t tell them not to because Misogyny and Mansplaining. Now I see why Saudis and fundie Mormons don’t let their women out.
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Cosby guilty.
OJ innocent.
Weird.
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The Cos was a big detractor of Gangsta Rappers. He said they were like old time minstrels acting like fools. Gangsta Rap serves a purpose. Those Private Prisons make many a shekel. Pimpin’ ain’t easy. But fooling blacks into serving time in Private Penitentiary Sure IS!
Easy Money. Never get in between Easy Money and the Owner Class.
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Men love women, women love children, children love dogs
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The difference between a great fuck and a sexual assault case?
Salesmanship.
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“…The difference between a great fuck and a sexual assault case?…..”
Insurance.
All for less than $50.
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No model, playmate bunny, or big-titted porno actress ever accused President Donald Trump of rape.
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Stormy even said he rocked her world.
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Rape accusation, much like rape, is all about control.
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His penis in her orifice is always rape. Unless or until she reports it, it is unreported rape, which is the most common form of rape. There is no statute of limitations for unreported rape conceptually, although there may be legally. Whether verbally suggesting that you would enjoy a romantic encounter with her (by asking her to dinner, for example), looking at her in a way that, at the time or later, she finds uncomfortable, or brushing against her in a crowd, are rape is still to be determined. Many women claim that they are, but they have not yet been incorporated into the common or legal definitions of rape. Stay tuned.
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The false rape claim is payback. Payback is a bitch. The best way to not get on the wrong side of this, is to make it too much of a risk for HER. Women almost never slam the door for sure unless they have decided its really over. If you have to string her along, do it. If she’s doing it for payback, she still won’t if she believes she can get something from you.
Emotional blackmail is tricky, but useful. If she’s seeking revenge, she might not if she can get something better.
The Keyword is BETTER…
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bumper sticker: IT’S ALWAYS THE BOYIM’S FAULT
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giving women all the responsibility for initiating and controlling the pace of sex
Was this Judge a woman? I cannot believe that a man would be so stupid as to say such non-sense. Women want to be able to tell themselves that they aren’t responsible for the sex that they craved and wanted. It really is that simple. That absolves them of guilt so that they can just enjoy and tell themselves afterwards that they were “caught up in the moment”. That is why I enjoy women on vacation so much – they are away from the boyfriend or husband and kids, and want to have fun. Many times it’s the only time they can cut loose, since they won’t have a husband or boyfriend to expect those things from her later. It is because they can lie to themselves that they don’t have to admit that they went on vacation to have sex.
Now, everything I do is because I understand women and the fact that they lie to themselves so well. But you have to give them an excuse so that they can lie to themselves and go back to being the good little wife or girl-friend. I’m not going to tell – unless they accuse me of something than it will be known just what they are – that is why there are signs about being under surveillance. So as long as they lie to themselves, I’m more than happy to keep my mouth shut and enjoy them. Then they can go back to hubby or the effeminate boy-friend after getting plowed and tell themselves they aren’t guilty…
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Salami tactics and moving the goal posts…
I remember when I was in high school, not that long ago, at the turn of the century, there was a big push in high school, who knows from where, about the importance of “NO” from a girl in sexual situations.
I found it odd that us, in our suburban high school, had to listen through this, but my Anglo White Knight proclivities concurred, as in a healthy Anglo society, they should have.
I was a virgin then, as the dating environment was very broken as well, almost as much it is now, so my knowing about the odd LMR and sin-through-sex that was, and is, rife in our society, and how that affected the dating environment, was a complete unknown to me.
But that was the goal post then, reasonable if not a little creepy and fanciful about the ‘dangers’ Western women are submitted to in Western culture, but not something to argue against. Now we know that a couple slices of salami have been cut-off, and that the people behind these knife attacks on the salami have an alterior motive. Why no Victorian discernment against the non-Western hordes and true rape culture, both official and unofficial?
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First thing first…
Cease from referring to every variant of female as “woman.”
Women are, in fact, the rarest variant of female and thus the most difficult to bed consistently. White woman even more rare.
The cuckditioning of granting what isn’t ultimately warranted, ie., womanhood to a merely degenerating female, must be self-exorcised.
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