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Vaj Flags

August 26, 2018 by CH

A vaj flag is a red flag specific to single women in the dating market. One vaj flag all men should watch for is the over-earnest clingy text sent at a strange hour.

“kinda missing you already”

If you hear (or read) this from a girl, don’t get cocky. In my sexperience, girls who “put out” their emotions freely and profligately during the first few weeks of dating (screwing) are either psychostalkers or femme fatales. The former will wear out her welcome quickly; the latter will find the slimmest pretext to end it.

Sweetly romantic words from a girl are great when you already know she’s smitten. If it’s early in the relationship, those romantic entreaties can signal something rotten in Damemark. High-strung insecurity, yes. But just as often it can mean the girl is a man-eater, a playette, who relishes the *trappings* of new love more than the actual developing love. She says these things not for you, but for herself, because she has to manufacture a heady romance that she’s incapable of authentically enjoying.

Girls who “force” romance in this way are typically cock carouselers trying to convince themselves that this time it’s for real. She has to delude herself before she can successfully delude others. Part of that self-delusion is wallowing in cheaply dispensed romantic treacly which has a short shelf life. If you hear this from girls after, say, the second date, initiate Maximum Jerkboy Protocol; expect her to impulsively dump you in the near future, and let this foreknowledge guide the attitude you take with her. You don’t want to be the beta male shell-shocked by her rash departure; you want to be the ZFG jerkboy who saw it coming, does not give a shit, and waves her goodbye.

The femme fatale thermal exhaust port is the Jerkboy. Give her the asshole BF she subconsciously craves, and you’ll be able to squeeze out a few extra months of fucking before her inevitable spiral into hot-cold drama snuffs the spark out of any mutual consideration.

If you’re screening for Trumpgirl material, watch out for premature verbalization of romantic abandon. The best girls will let you know how much they miss you with their lingering touch, limpid gaze, and flowering vagina. If she has to say it (before its time), she might not mean it.

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  1. on August 26, 2018 at 4:20 pm Poptarts

    This is so true. I have known girls who do exactly this. They usually have the “if you can’t be with the one you love, love the one your with” hippy dippy model from the 60’s. Everything will be about how life is really living just spending time with that special someone. Will flake the next minute.

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    • on August 26, 2018 at 4:22 pm Poptarts

      Mentality.

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      • on August 26, 2018 at 6:50 pm trav777

        yup…no girl you actually wanna see is gonna say shit like this

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  2. on August 26, 2018 at 4:29 pm Vaj Flags | @the_arv

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  3. on August 26, 2018 at 4:36 pm Oleaginous Outrager

    “kinda missing you already”

    “kinda?”

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 10:09 am 14sonnenrad88

      I’m kinda done with you already

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  4. on August 26, 2018 at 4:38 pm Jonathan Castle

    It’s also an invitation from you to over-emote.

    Bata-trap.

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  5. on August 26, 2018 at 4:42 pm mendo

    If you’re screening for Trumpgirl material, watch out for premature verbalization of romantic abandon.

    Greatest timeline ever, indeed.

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  6. on August 26, 2018 at 5:53 pm gimoticko

    Doesn’t it happen cause some women tend to love relative of how you make them feel?
    I mean, maybe they are expressing how much they miss your dick, rater than how much they miss you as a person, which is completely fine if you don’t see them as relationship material. Is not the romantic kind of love you might expect, but maybe this is the closest thing to love she might felt in her entire life.

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  7. on August 26, 2018 at 6:02 pm Big20s

    Her: I miss you
    Me: I figured you’d say that
    Her: how’d you figure?
    Me: who wouldn’t miss me

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    • on August 26, 2018 at 6:34 pm Big kev

      another variation. Her: i miss you me: i know. I have that effect on people.

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    • on August 26, 2018 at 8:26 pm Captain Obvious

      Her: I miss you
      Me: which one are you?

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 7:25 am greginaurora

        Who tihs

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 10:10 am 14sonnenrad88

        Who bitch dis is?

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 11:47 am Po

      That is a solid reframe.
      Or, “No worries, soon you’ll get tired of me. 😉 ”
      She wants to feel reassured about strength, not sentiment. That’s her female dilemma in a new situation.

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  8. on August 26, 2018 at 6:38 pm Sparks

    Totally agree this type of message is ‘beta bait’ – younger bipolar bitches who want to be treated like shit and post-wall ‘searching for a husband’ types will use this strategy to assess your alpha/betaness.

    The very worst thing you can reply in this situation is ‘Miss you too’. My personal favourite is ‘Get used to it lol’. Will set hamsters in motion.

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    • on August 26, 2018 at 6:52 pm trav777

      I usually respond with “sorry” or “bummer”

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    • on August 26, 2018 at 7:11 pm plumpjack

      a yuge part of gaming your lady (while maintaining your sanity and work schedule) is figuring out what not to respond to (about 90% of what they say it’s fluff that can be ignored). the post lands in that category.

      what should your respond to? anything that involves making plans, and anything that can effortlessly be repurposed/twisted into something that turns them on.

      basic rule, always be turning them on. except during the week before and the week after she starts her period, that’s when turning them on suddenly becomes overgaming. then you have to show some false empathy. but be friggin VIGILANT that you don’t succumb to stockholm syndrome during that time. at the first sign of her PMS passing you’re back in the saddle with whip in hand, riding the ovulation wave.

      any time if you’re not sure, respond with a nonsequiter. or just talk about whatever YOU want to talk about. that’s always a safe bet, talking about what YOU want to talk about. in fact if you should just do that all the time. as a rule. entertain yourself.

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      • on August 26, 2018 at 7:42 pm Doubter

        Pro. Simply pro comment.

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      • on August 26, 2018 at 7:51 pm Captain Obvious

        >>>>> “at the first sign of her PMS passing you’re back in the saddle with whip in hand, riding the ovulation wave”

        And every time you drop your seed in her ab0rtifaciently-shrivelled w0mb, or wear a c0nd0m, or pull out prematurely [for the facial], another chance for welcoming a new White ch!ld to this world is lost forever.

        If you l0ve your Ancestors, if you l0ve the White race, if you l0ve Western Civilization, if you l0ve Chr!stianity, then you will get your woman the he11 off of the ab0rtifacients [chemical, mechanical, and other], you’ll throw away the c0nd0ms, you’ll make her clean & pure & fertile, and you will always dump your glorious White seed in her immediately prior to 0vulation.

        She has 400,000 infinitely beautiful White follicles at age 20.

        But only 30,000 of those infinitely precious White follicles still remain at age 30.

        Meanwhile, your Ancestors weep for Their Race.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 6:37 am plumpjack

        “And every time you drop your seed in her ab0rtifaciently-shrivelled w0mb, or wear a c0nd0m, or pull out prematurely [for the facial], another chance for welcoming a new White ch!ld to this world is lost forever.”

        the degree to which we’ve embraced our own extinction as “normal” is astounding.

        in a previous post I mentioned that the end game of game is to simply to tell your woman that the two of you are creating a couple (or more) white children together in a very short time frame and that if she can’t handle that then she should just GTFO. very simple. you claim her and then challenge her in the only way that matters. then follow through.

        the rest of game (that which is not used for strategically building your tribe) is basically “how can I use this girl for sex and get her to go along with it?” this is simple too, and not necessarily evil incarnate, but it’s important to recognize that it produces the exact outcome that our enemies want: voluntary self-genocide.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 10:21 am 14sonnenrad88

        “the end game of game is to simply to tell your woman that the two of you are creating a couple (or more) white children together in a very short time frame and that if she can’t handle that then she should just GTFO.”

        This. I was being chased by a crazy hippie chick that told me she was in love with me after 2 weeks of dating. I looked her straight in the eye with a sly smirk and responded with a simple “I love you too” and turned around and returned to what I was doing. No mushy sentimental bullshit. Sent her hamster on overdrive.

        A couple months later I told her she would be having 5 children close together with me. Our second son was born last month.

        CH talks of running away before she dumps you. Impossible for a woman to dump a man unless he let’s her. I had her pull that card once, I laughed at her and she hasn’t tried again since.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 9:10 am Mr. Yeti

        Interesting you should say that. I am of the opinion that 90% of what comes out of women’s mouths is null-value noise designed to remind them that they are still alive.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 10:00 am Captain Obvious

        >>>>> “Interesting you should say that. I am of the opinion that 90% of what comes out of women’s mouths is null-value noise designed to remind them that they are still alive.”

        That’s abundantly true of their FOREBRAINS.

        But their HINDBRAINS know your weaknesses better than you could ever possibly know them yourself*.

        Who knows what Beta-tude lurks in the hearts of men?

        The Hamster knows!

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 10:00 am Captain Obvious

        *Unless you spend some quality time in That Dark Place learning to pwn thyself.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 12:02 pm Po

        Plumpjack brings up an interesting point about claiming a girl. Does it work to just claim a woman and tell her she’s going to have your kids? That would make this game really easy. I would still have to do a background check first, of course.

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  9. on August 26, 2018 at 6:38 pm greginaurora

    Heh. In direct contravention of the 16 Commandments of Poon, I would in the past pull the I Love You trigger way early, then enjoy sloppy sex just before the over-early breakup. Over and over. And over. I wasn’t worried about losing the current as there was always another just behind, but it was definitely a relationship killer. I think I unintentionally spun them up.

    What I was probably doing was something Feminists would call cruel. I DID love them. I just knew there’d be another love following soon behind. Girls can’t do that. Their emotions are FAR shallower than a man’s. When they’re swept up in LOVE with a passionate man, they’re feeling everything he’s feeling. But they don’t have the blessing of unlimited love in their hearts.

    So everything falls apart when that overearly I Love You leads to the inevitable poor female behavior, followed immediately by a total break. “What Just Happened?!?!”

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    • on August 26, 2018 at 6:53 pm trav777

      meanie. lol

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  10. on August 26, 2018 at 7:07 pm elooie

    clearly, any response requires at least a day’s delay.

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  11. on August 26, 2018 at 7:20 pm pelayo1683

    Send her a link to Find a Way to My Heart by Phil Collins. Then comms silence for 10 days, minimum.

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  12. on August 26, 2018 at 7:20 pm Ironsides

    “kinda missing you already”

    Response 30 hours later:

    “o/c”

    Let her hamster spin on whether that means “of course” or “obsessive compulsive.” Or both.

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    • on August 26, 2018 at 7:25 pm pelayo1683

      “off your meds”

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 3:09 pm hcm

      Women don’t think that much.

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  13. on August 26, 2018 at 7:30 pm Amon Ra

    The photos are worth a thousand CH lessons.

    – PAEDO MISS School football coach’s wife, 28, who had sex with player, 14, for six months sued for £1.5m –

    https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/7102059/school-football-coachs-wife-28-who-had-sex-with-player-14-for-six-months-sued-for-1-5m/

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    • on August 26, 2018 at 7:32 pm Ironsides

      Those eyes manage to be crazily staring, and close-set and beady, at the same time.

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      • on August 26, 2018 at 7:41 pm Amon Ra

        Notice her “crinkly ” facial expressions. I never trusted girls who made those faces, something seems very off about it. I cant prove it, but it seems lower intelligence white chicks are the ones doing this the most. Not to mention the early wrinkles that action entails.

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      • on August 26, 2018 at 7:54 pm Captain Obvious

        I’m getting to the point where a mouth full of post-orthodontics perfect teeth disgust me about as much as silicone t!ts.

        Yeesh.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 2:16 am Oleaginous Outrager

        I’m getting to the point where a mouth full of post-orthodontics perfect teeth disgust me about as much as silicone t!ts.

        Yup, it’s yet another fake adornment that they believe everyone else believes looks totally natural and real.

        Of course, this one’s not helped by that enormous overbite.

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      • on August 28, 2018 at 10:35 am Roy

        From the article: “However, he ordered the boy to leave when he suspected his wife was having sex with him – before letting him move back in, say the court papers.”

        She blew the kid while he was outside washing the car, in their house.

        Some men get what they deserve.

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    • on August 26, 2018 at 10:34 pm The Arbitrageur

      > Her husband, who still stands by her

      how fucking stupid do you have to be

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 10:00 am pulsotic

      “The husband, who still stands behind her”

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 1:18 pm Bnon

        “The husband, who still stands behind her”

        That’s because he doesn’t want to look at her face while getting his sloppy seconds.

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 1:23 pm Anonymous

      guaranteed mudshark. Cuck husband is a moron.

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  14. on August 26, 2018 at 7:38 pm Amon Ra

    And the latest shooter is ((( David Katz ))) . This stuff writes itself.

    – David Katz, 24, has been identified as the shooter who killed himself at scene –

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6100355/Four-dead-10-injured-mass-shooting-Florida-Madden-online-gaming-tournament.html

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    • on August 26, 2018 at 7:55 pm Captain Obvious

      Before Paul Nehlen was un-personed, he was making this point – that going back to at least Columbine, all of the sh00ters were either full blooded or else mischling.

      It’s a shame that Nehlen proved to be such a f@ggy little c*nt, because he had a lot to offer.

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      • on August 26, 2018 at 8:09 pm Scanman

        Cowardly little creeps who can’t reconcile being told that they are ‘one of the chosen’ with the objective facts of their inferiority.

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      • on August 26, 2018 at 8:09 pm Ironsides

        In what way was Nehlen a faggy little cunt? Did I miss something?

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      • on August 26, 2018 at 8:17 pm Captain Obvious

        He doxxed Ricky Vaughn.

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      • on August 26, 2018 at 8:45 pm Ironsides

        Vaughn, so far as I can recall, was a super-divisive troublemaker following Cville, a pro-brown “wogs are the real conservatives, the way to save America is Brown Republicans, and a brown USA is fine as long as they’re conservative!” civic nationalist, and admitted to identifying alt-right supporters using facial recognition software.

        I could be wrong, since I didn’t follow the whole matter too closely, considering what an annoying little pimp he was.

        Since he appeared pretty slimy and possibly an enemy agent, not sure if anything of value was lost.

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      • on August 26, 2018 at 10:43 pm Dread Forman

        Nehlen was lost and some people considered him fairly valuable.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 6:47 am guest

        Some of you think everyone putting in actual work is an enemy agent. Ricky helped get Trump elected. This is why we lose.

        Nehlen wasn’t cut out to lead. He could have stayed clean in public but went full 1488. Then he ratted one of ours. Now he’s just some rat out in Wisconsin.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 7:35 am Ironsides

        I don’t think Vaughn was “one of ours,” unless “ours” are now anti-white, pro-wog immigration people who set up databases capable of doxxing everyone on our side, with the express purpose of doxxing them.

        Also, he seemed to be stirring the flames of infighting to fever pitch as much as he could.

        By all means, support Vaughn if you want to become ordinary cuckservatives, but beyond that, I can’t see any use for him. We’ve got a bajillion cucks already, what’s the use of an additional one who’s using facial recognition software on our people to ID them?

        Again, I couldn’t stand the guy in the slightest and didn’t follow the stuff closely, so I could be in error on some points.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 11:53 am Jaded Jurist

        I remember when Nehlen was such a hoot to watch. So sad to be reviewing his autopsy only months later.

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  15. on August 26, 2018 at 8:06 pm Amon Ra

    Oh the humanity ! Look what these poor delicate creatures have to put up with.

    – MEN SCORNED: Women are sharing the abusive messages they get from men they reject… and they will make your blood boil –

    https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/7077904/women-are-sharing-the-abusive-messages-they-get-from-men-they-reject-and-they-will-make-your-blood-boil/

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    • on August 26, 2018 at 8:24 pm Captain Obvious

      NEVER let a ch!ck know that you’re butthurt.

      Granted, that’s PhD level [arguably Nobel-prize level] Game Theory rot thar – reshifting the flow of events so that her Hamster doesn’t smell even the slightest whiff of butthurt on you.

      Cause the scent of butthurt is meta-death for teh tinglezzzezzezes.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 6:27 am Sentient

        The only acceptAble type of hurt to display is dissapointment with her…

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 7:48 am Greg Eliot

        Or bruised knuckles. lzozlzozlzozlzozlozl

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 11:40 am Mr.Correcto

      Was really hoping for “bobs and vegene” indians to make an appearance.

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  16. on August 26, 2018 at 8:12 pm Vaj Flags | Reaction Times

    […] Source: Heartiste […]

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  17. on August 26, 2018 at 9:59 pm Captain Obvious

    Mudshark murd3rs her severely disabled spawn https://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2018/aug/26/tashina-aleine-jordan-hospitalized-after-killing-d/

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    • on August 26, 2018 at 10:00 pm Captain Obvious

      “The woman was the primary caretaker of her son, who suffered brain bleeds as an infant and lapsed into a coma before reawakening. He was unable to feed, bathe or dress himself and used a wheelchair, said Dianna Hansen, a close family friend. Mason’s father left after his diagnosis and Jordan lived with her mother to make ends meet…”

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 2:13 pm markgm28

        Mudsharking: come for the inferior genes, stay for the abandonment

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  18. on August 26, 2018 at 10:23 pm Tom

    any difference between ”kinda missing you” vs ”i miss you”
    because recently i had a girl went out 4 times (my bad, logistic sucked), we made outs but she constantly wouldnt let me hands go ”further”, not sure she’s psycho or narcissistic

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    • on August 26, 2018 at 10:31 pm The Arbitrageur

      “oh yeah? what would you do if you were here?”

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    • on August 26, 2018 at 11:14 pm elooie

      move on. She’s just not that into you.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 10:42 am Tom

        she will be physically affectionate in public but just wouldn’t let my hands go further.. That really sucked, but don’t worry I already friend zoned her

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 10:50 am Cracker

        good work on friendzoning. i don’t think you’ll regret it

        girls like that who will be affectionate, give you lots of attention in public but be a cold fish or cunty in private are hard core status seeker/manipulators.

        they are masters at reeling you in with fake attraction/affection/attention until you’re sucked in, but it’s not genuine, they are manipulating you the whole time and doing it in public so others see them as a great catch

        if she’s more affectionate, flirty, nice, etc in public than in private, that’s a huge red flag. should be the reverse

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  19. on August 26, 2018 at 10:53 pm Major1

    Haha yes.
    The last girl I dated off Tinder.
    After the second date she texted that I had taken her to a “scary place”, that she felt very vulnerable, but that she loved it.
    I won’t go into detail about what she texted after our first date but it was similarly overheated bullshit.
    Needless to say I morphed into Caspar the Unfriendly Ghost and never talked to her again.

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  20. on August 26, 2018 at 11:38 pm dillydude

    Throwing this reply out here because this blog is the closest thing to my own rational/morality that I have. How do you guys do it? I’m so black pilled these days that I don’t even bother entertaining thots that I meet. My mind is constantly thinking about the replacement of my race and what I can do to prevent it. Banging sluts who keep themselves distracted with (((pop-culture))) and the like just seems so far away from my mind. I go out with friends and keep appearances but I feel deep disdain for it all. It’s like watching a bunch of brainwashed people talk about bullshit blissfully ignoring their reality. I don’t think I’m better then any of them, if anything I’m slightly jealous of their ability to just accept/ignore what is happening around them. Any help? I see posts here saying talk about what you want to talk about, but I want to talk about is too “controversial” for tingles. I know we live in upside down clown world, I just have a hard time embracing it and pretending like I give a shit about anything else but the loss of my heritage. I’m not a basement dweller. 6’0 tall, high cheekbones, above average jaw line, slightly skinny, but athletic build enough that I look great shirtless. Girls want to fuck me, they can be pretty direct about it, but I just don’t care enough to pretend to give a shit to get in their pants. I’d like to at least enjoy the decline, but again, its just so far away from my mind. Any guidance on the matter (or even a link to a post that cover this) would be much appreciated.

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 11:47 am guest

      You’re not alone. The last caller on Roosh’s livestream yesterday brought this topic up and one of the responses was that our ancestors dealt with much worse, and here we are.

      But I don’t have much help. There is a shortage of good women, and not all of us will get one. There is also a shortage of allies and it is extremely dangerous to try to connect with them IRL (see Roosh’s meetups, Cville). But don’t give up, and seek out those places where good people are more likely to be.

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 12:03 pm Captain Obvious

      dillydude: “My mind is constantly thinking about the replacement of my race and what I can do to prevent it… Girls want to fuck me, they can be pretty direct about it, but I just don’t care enough to pretend to give a shit to get in their pants.”

      Read 14sonnenrad88’s kkk0mment directly above here [“I was being chased by a crazy hippie chick that told me she was in love with me after 2 weeks of dating”].

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 12:04 pm Captain Obvious

        SHE: Let’s go back to my place…

        YOU: Not until you get off your b!rth contr0l and make your body clean & pure for me.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 12:05 pm Captain Obvious

        SHE [a few weeks later]: Okay, I went to my Ob/Gyn and got my IUD removed blah blah blah…

        YOU: This is how it’s gonna be [pr0-l!fe, home-sch00ling, home-churching, 2nd Am3ndment, etc etc etc].

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  21. on August 27, 2018 at 12:16 am Bill Ferrell

    This is a red vag flag warning the buyer the new chick is Borderline Personality Disordered.

    Check out the JewTube Channel “An Ear For Men” with Paul Elam. GREAT stuff. There are more than a few on BPD chicks. Hint: Our culture raises little princesses to all suffer some degree of BPD. You will recognize some symptoms in every Western chick.

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 6:25 am Sentient

      Red flag indeed.

      One college ONS went like this. At a club, near the end of the night. This girl comes over and asks me to dance. I decline, was hot already. She comes back can I buy you a drink. I raise my glass. Thanks I got one. She persists. Well how about I buy you some breakfast. Hmmmmm. OK then. We go to a diner, eat. Then to my place. Bang her twice. After the second time she’s looking at me and I’m like “what?”.

      She says “I love you”…

      Holy shit I swear the hair on the back of my neck stood up. I was like WTF are you talking about! We just met. I’m sure we didn’t even know each other’s names. She says it again “I love you”… I said you need to go and got her the he’ll out of there.

      Freaked me out.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 10:27 am 14sonnenrad88

        Pussy

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 6:59 am plumpjack

      it’s also a red flag that a guy needs to get better at sizing up women.

      if a girl folds that quickly she’s weak, and probably not a good investment. but then, weren’t the signs there? wasn’t there something off in her voice, her body language, her choice of (or lack of) friends? why did the guy go after HER, and spend 2+ hours chatting up this frail psych ward chick, while thinking the confident HB9 standing over in the corner’s elbows were too pointy?

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 10:04 am Tipsy

      Exactly. Also: Tara Palmatier is also very good at describing the BPD/NPD. Her “13 Signs Your Wife or Girlfriend is a Borderline or a Narcissist” is dead on.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 10:13 am Cracker

        here’s that article with a link to the site. dead on is right

        https://shrink4men.wordpress.com/2009/01/21/relationships-with-borderline-narcissistic-personality-women/

        13 Signs Your Wife or Girlfriend is a Borderline or a Narcissist

        “My girlfriend / wife doesn’t have a personality disorder. She’s just emotional. Maybe, maybe not. Borderline Personality Disorder isn’t as mainstream in public awareness as other psychiatric diagnoses, but it’s a very real problem that affects many individuals and the people who are in ongoing relationships with them or trying to end relationships with them.”

        Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a kissing cousin of BPD. There is usually some overlap between the two. Most people think being a narcissist means that you’re conceited or vain–there’s a lot more to it.

        Men are typically accused of being insensitive and out of touch with their feelings. We rarely talk about women who emotionally abuse the men they claim to love. There are different reasons why this is a silent epidemic:

        a) Society and psychology hold a reverse sexist attitude regarding the perpetrators and recipients of emotional abuse.

        b) Men have been brainwashed into believing that “she’s just expressing her feelings” when she’s being abusive and that “he’s insensitive and doesn’t understand.” Unfortunately, many mental health professionals perpetuate this phenomenon through their own gender biases. Should these men enter into couples treatment, they often get tag teamed by their girlfriend/wife and the therapist into believing they’re the problem. Should this couple actually find a shrink worth his/her salt that tries to hold the Borderline/Narcissist accountable, said shrink is duly fired and vilified by the BPD/NPD.

        c) Men are too embarrassed to talk about the hurt, pain and confusion they experience as a result of the way these women mistreat them.

        Warning: Being involved with an abusive Borderline or Narcissist May Be Hazardous to Your Mental Health

        Here are some common side effects of being in an abusive relationship, whether the abusive individual has a personality disorder or not:

        1) Censoring your thoughts and feelings. You edit it yourself because you’re afraid of her reactions. Swallowing the lump in your throat and your hurt and anger is easier than dealing with another fight or hurt feelings. In fact, you may have stuffed your own emotions for so long that you no longer know what you think or feel.

        2) Everything is your fault. You’re blamed for everything that goes wrong in the relationship and in general, even if it has no basis in reality.

        3) Constant criticism. She criticizes nearly everything you do and nothing is ever good enough. No matter how hard you try, there’s no pleasing her or, if you do, it’s few and far between.

        4) Control freak. She engages in manipulative behaviors, even lying, in an effort to control you.

        3186177287_1423ed4f22_o5) Dr Jekyll and Ms Hyde. One moment she’s kind and loving; the next she’s flipping out on you. She becomes so vicious, you wonder if she’s the same person. The first time it happens, you write it off. Now, it’s a regular pattern of behavior that induces feelings of depression, anxiety, helplessness and/or despair within you.

        6) Your feelings don’t count. Your needs and feelings, if you’re brave enough to express them, are ignored, ridiculed, minimized and/or dismissed. You’re told that you’re too demanding, that there’s something wrong with you and that you need to be in therapy. You’re denied the right to your feelings.

        7) Questioning your own sanity. You’ve begun to wonder if you’re crazy because she puts down your point of view and/or denies things she says or does. If you actually confide these things to a friend or family member, they don’t believe you because she usually behaves herself around other people.

        8) Say what? “But I didn’t say that. I didn’t do that.” Sure you did. Well, you did in her highly distorted version of reality. Her accusations run the gamut from infidelity to cruelty to being un-supportive (even when you’re the one paying all the bills) to repressing her and holding her back. It’s usually baseless, which leaves you feeling defensive and misunderstood.

        9) Isolating yourself from friends and family. You distance yourself from your loved ones and colleagues because of her erratic behavior, moodiness and instability. You make excuses for her inexcusable behaviors to others in an effort to convince yourself that it’s normal.

        10) Walking on landmines. One misstep and you could set her off. Some people refer to this as “walking on eggshells,” but eggs emit only a dull crunch when you step on them. Setting off a landmine is a far more descriptive simile.

        11) What goes up, must come down. She places you on a pedestal only to knock it out from under your feet. You’re the greatest thing since sliced bread one minute and the next minute, you’re the devil incarnate.

        12) Un-level playing field. Borderlines and Narcissists make the rules; they break the rules and they change the rules at will. Just when you think you’ve figured out how to give her what she wants, she changes her expectations and demands without warning. This sets you up for failure in no-win situations, leaving you feeling helpless and trapped.

        13) You’re a loser, but don’t leave me. “You’re a jerk. You’re a creep. You’re a bastard. I love you. Don’t leave me.” When you finally reach the point where you just can’t take it anymore, the tears, bargaining and threats begin. She insists she really does love you. She can’t live without you. She promises to change. She promises it will get better, but things never change and they never get better.

        When that doesn’t work, she blames you and anything and anyone else she can think of, never once taking responsibility for her own behaviors. She may even resort to threats. She threatens that you’ll never see the kids again. Or she threatens to bad mouth you to your friends and family.

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  22. on August 27, 2018 at 12:49 am Gunslingergregi

    After clamydia last year and ghonorea just recently think I’ll take a pass on woman here don’t want the third year to be the aids he he he

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 6:51 am meistergedanken

      Nah, more likely you’ll get syphilis. Man, you clearly like garbage women as well as garbage dogs he he he

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      • on August 28, 2018 at 7:34 am Gunslingergregi

        U might be right on syph
        Caught both off the half black chick who looks white one in million all though her hands are deformed somewhat the ex
        And the hair ain’t right
        Might of came straight from. Ghana we got some real Africans here now Nigeria so maybe know 5 years before that didn’t get either

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 7:01 am guest

      We’ve missed you.

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      • on August 28, 2018 at 7:34 am Gunslingergregi

        Thank you

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 10:07 am Captain Obvious

      GUNSLINGER!!!!!!!

      Back from the gr@ve once again.

      How many times you gonna cheat D3ath muh brutha?!?!?!?!?!?

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      • on August 28, 2018 at 12:42 am Gunslingergregi

        I don’t think I’m cheating death I think death wants me to live

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      • on August 28, 2018 at 1:09 am Gunslingergregi

        Chur h should be looking into the multiple miracles in Iraq over 400 incoming rounds of mortar rocket artillery and snipe fire only 3 soldiers dead

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  23. on August 27, 2018 at 1:09 am Gunslingergregi

    After I told this. Hick I know got ghanorea I swear she wanted to suck my dick more maybe the pussy tastes good wtf

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 1:10 am Gunslingergregi

      Puss

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 1:13 am Gunslingergregi

      Maybe how cured in old days just suck all the puss out

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      • on August 28, 2018 at 1:30 am Gunslingergregi

        Thank sentient
        Ch took me minute to get that
        In institution ROFL
        Do u really think k they would let me on here he he he
        I feel the love
        Funnily enough the jdf had my back in the institution amongst others

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 8:01 am justwanttocommentblog

      Why use just one comment when 6 gorillion will do

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 10:21 am Sentient

        Gunny does what he wants. You deal with it.

        [CH: gunny is both an institution and in an institution. he’s the best]

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 10:36 am justwanttocommentblog

        I’m just surprised that the author and readers of CH’s fantastic prose can be bothered wading through his pages of drivel after every article. But I can see I’m in the minority so I’ll leave it there.

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  24. on August 27, 2018 at 2:56 am Dan

    Words of a man who knows women.

    Earlier this year I fucked a girl at a house party after finger banging her in the main room hidden from view. There was no romantic undertones, in fact we fucked on my friends couch

    In the morning she asked me to walk her to the station, I said no. Within an hour of her leaving I was getting exceptionally cloying messages and within two days messages like ‘i have to see you, we can’t let this spark run out’

    Like a true fucking idiot I overlooked the red flags to secure some more of what was a particular pleasant vagina and invited her to my city for what can only be described as a weekend of hell

    After we fucked on the first night she started accusing me of lying about completely irrelevant stuff. In the end I had to invite all my friends round to party so I could avoid having alone time with a girl who seemed to be deep in the clutches of a borderline variety psychosis.

    Anyway yeah if they’re too keen too early it’s invariable resultant from their damaged psyche and not your elevated girl. High value beautiful young girls tend to act remarkably similar early in the love cycle. They have hard wired responses to this shit, not the fake signalling that 1000 cock stare cum dusters emulate to try and feel some semblance of emotion after years of self inflicted trauma

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  25. on August 27, 2018 at 3:12 am Gunslingergregi

    https://www.fastcompany.com/90219751/pentagons-artificial-intelligence-programs-get-huge-boost-in-defense-budget
    Well they getting there
    Even Google people resigned over ai to read drone surveillance terminator coming true cept unlike movie war over in days

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 8:04 am justwanttocommentblog

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 10:14 am Captain Obvious

        ✡✡✡ justwanttocommentblog ✡✡✡

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 10:23 am justwanttocommentblog

        Whatever you say, Quixote.

        He he he.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 10:24 am justwanttocommentblog

        I think Captain doth protest too much

        He he he

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 9:52 pm Gunslingergregi

      Ya probably shouldn’t ifs the real end times not the nastrodamous bullshit

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  26. on August 27, 2018 at 3:23 am Gunslingergregi

    https://www.fastcompany.com/40578996/the-threat-of-weaponized-a-i-is-tearing-google-apart
    Like they just understood the implications of where it’s going
    Like it’s gonna be like star wars and people can be faster then robots rofl

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  27. on August 27, 2018 at 11:05 am Greg Eliot

    On the subject of vag, anyone notice the ads in yahoo mail the last few days for Ashley Madison? A sultry vixen appears, looking right at you, with the by-line

    “Life is short. Have an affair.”

    Damn Puritans, trying to inflict their values upon us yet again!

    (((shakin’ mah haid)))

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 11:07 am Greg Eliot

      It was founded in 2002 by Darren Morgenstern, go figger.

      I wonder if HIS rabbi gave it the (K) seal of approval? Odd, though… the gals in the ads don’t LOOK jewish.

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      • on August 27, 2018 at 12:52 pm justwanttocommentblog

        Pure cohen-cidence.

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    • on August 27, 2018 at 4:10 pm markgm28

      Yeah I’ve seen a resurgence of Ashley Madison ads recently. I was surprised because I assumed it died after the hacker/ leaker scandal where their customers got doxxed. The worst part was the revelation that most of the customers were men and of the few female profiles, many were fake.

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